Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / Carly is on a weight loss journey
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Carly, good morning.
- 0:01Speaker 2: How are you Hey, I'm good, how are you?
- 0:04Speaker 3: God?
- 0:04Speaker 1: Thanks for holding Yeah.
- 0:06Speaker 2: So the other night I was hanging out with my
- 0:08Speaker 2: boyfriend and we came across an old picture of myself
- 0:12Speaker 2: from a few years ago, and I was like one
- 0:16Speaker 2: hundred and twenty pounds heavier back then. So I just
- 0:20Speaker 2: like jokingly asked him, like, be honest, if I still
- 0:24Speaker 2: look like this, would you have swipe right?
- 0:27Speaker 4: And I thought he'd laugh or say something really sweet,
- 0:31Speaker 4: but instead, without even hesitating, he looked.
- 0:34Speaker 2: Me dead in the eyes and said, probably not all.
- 0:39Speaker 5: Wrong answer, but such a risky question to ask, right right,
- 0:44Speaker 5: that's well what.
- 0:46Speaker 2: I just kind of sat there in shock because thank
- 0:50Speaker 2: you for the honesty, I guess.
- 0:53Speaker 4: And the more I thought of it, the more it
- 0:56Speaker 4: bothered me, like was he in love with me or
- 1:01Speaker 4: just the version of me he found attractive?
- 1:04Speaker 2: So I ended the relationship.
- 1:10Speaker 5: He made a huge mistake. He could have come back
- 1:12Speaker 5: from it. I think if he said something like no, honestly,
- 1:16Speaker 5: I wouldn't have honestly because I was shell then and
- 1:19Speaker 5: now I know your care and know what a beautiful
- 1:20Speaker 5: person you are inside and out, and then he could
- 1:22Speaker 5: have come back from it.
- 1:24Speaker 6: I probably not, but that would have been a huge mistake,
- 1:27Speaker 6: right something. I'm so glad I'm not that man any
- 1:30Speaker 6: Just like, nah, that's right. So now what, like, let's
- 1:37Speaker 6: say you've moved on to your next guy, are you
- 1:40Speaker 6: going to ask the same question.
- 1:42Speaker 2: Honestly to it? Sure? Like all my friends think I'm
- 1:46Speaker 2: totally crazy because other than that, it was a perfect relationship.
- 1:52Speaker 4: But I don't know, Like.
- 1:53Speaker 2: I'm thinking, like, was I asking a question that I
- 1:56Speaker 2: wasn't prepared to hear the answer to or.
- 2:00Speaker 4: Or did he accidentally tell me everything I needed to
- 2:02Speaker 4: know about him?
- 2:03Speaker 6: It's both of those things.
- 2:06Speaker 1: So shame on him for being honest.
- 2:09Speaker 3: I mean kinda like I honestly about it.
- 2:11Speaker 5: You guys, honestly, when you swipe, it is based on
- 2:15Speaker 5: shallow things. You know nothing about that person's depths, You
- 2:18Speaker 5: know nothing about that person's morals.
- 2:19Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with what he said, as
- 2:21Speaker 1: a matter of fact.
- 2:21Speaker 7: What I'm trying to understand is did he know that
- 2:25Speaker 7: you weighed one hundred and twenty pounds before?
- 2:28Speaker 6: No?
- 2:28Speaker 2: He didn't.
- 2:29Speaker 1: Okay, so you lost one hundred and twenty pounds.
- 2:32Speaker 7: I lost one hundred pounds, and I've got like loose
- 2:34Speaker 7: skin around me?
- 2:36Speaker 1: Do you have lots?
- 2:37Speaker 7: If you lost one hundred and twenty pounds, you probably
- 2:39Speaker 7: have a lot of loose skin.
- 2:41Speaker 2: Yeah, I get a bit.
- 2:43Speaker 7: Okay, So did he not? Ever, if you're intimate with him,
- 2:46Speaker 7: he's like, you know, I feel like he would have known.
- 2:49Speaker 7: He knows that you were a larger person at one point.
- 2:53Speaker 7: So I feel like you breaking up with him like
- 2:55Speaker 7: that if I was a psychiatrist, I feel like there's
- 2:57Speaker 7: other levels here because it doesn't make sense like he knew,
- 3:01Speaker 7: he knew you were you were a bigger person, and
- 3:03Speaker 7: he loved you for who you were right now, and
- 3:05Speaker 7: then you got rid of him. He got rid of
- 3:06Speaker 7: him for answering you.
- 3:07Speaker 6: Honestly, in the context of the moment, he really messed
- 3:11Speaker 6: that up.
- 3:12Speaker 7: It just but also sounds like there's issues, Like Carli,
- 3:15Speaker 7: you probably have some body dysmorphine. You probably have some
- 3:17Speaker 7: issues inside, you know what I mean that because that
- 3:20Speaker 7: doesn't he seems it seems like you let go of
- 3:22Speaker 7: a good guy.
- 3:23Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, like I just wish he
- 3:26Speaker 2: responded differently, you know.
- 3:29Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 3:29Speaker 3: Yeah, and John Jay, like to your the point that
- 3:32Speaker 3: you made about how like he would know you know
- 3:35Speaker 3: what I mean, because like maybe loose skin or something
- 3:37Speaker 3: like that. There is a girl, Melanie on Love Island
- 3:40Speaker 3: and she made it into like the Final four, and
- 3:42Speaker 3: when she came into the villa, it came up that
- 3:44Speaker 3: she actually was a plus size model, and nobody everyone
- 3:47Speaker 3: thought that the video, that these pictures and videos were
- 3:50Speaker 3: AI because we're like, there's no way, because she looked
- 3:53Speaker 3: like she didn't have any of that loose skin or
- 3:55Speaker 3: anything like that.
- 3:56Speaker 7: Well, you could be a plus size model and be
- 3:57Speaker 7: thirty pounds heavy, but yeah, one hundred and twenty pounds.
- 4:00Speaker 7: One hundred and twenty pounds is pretty uh noticeable on
- 4:03Speaker 7: a person, you know what I mean. And when you
- 4:05Speaker 7: lose one hundred pounds, it's and you have just this
- 4:07Speaker 7: skin like if you have even if you have the
- 4:10Speaker 7: surgery to remove the skin, you can still tell.
- 4:12Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 4:12Speaker 7: I've been researching all this, by the way, because I
- 4:14Speaker 7: was gonna get we get some skin removed.
- 4:16Speaker 1: I literally was gonna. I'm at the board right it.
- 4:18Speaker 7: Looks at my loose skin is like, eh, Like if
- 4:21Speaker 7: I was a single dude, I'd probably get the loose
- 4:23Speaker 7: skin removed. But I'm not always with my shirt off
- 4:25Speaker 7: all the time anyway, although I would if I have
- 4:27Speaker 7: my if I had my skin removed, I'd be in
- 4:28Speaker 7: the studio with my shirt off all the time.
- 4:30Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.
- 4:32Speaker 7: Okay, But anyway, Carly, I feel like, uh, you know,
- 4:34Speaker 7: I'm glad you shared that story with us. Well, I'm
- 4:37Speaker 7: sure lots of this is gonna hit a hot button
- 4:38Speaker 7: for a lot of people at any rate.
- 4:40Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you guy it.
- 4:42Speaker 1: Well, thanks for listening. So now you're single.
- 4:45Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm hoping to find a better guy.
- 4:48Speaker 3: Yeah, ready to mingle because like, your feelings are valid, Carly,
- 4:52Speaker 3: And honestly, I would probably dump the guy too, because
- 4:54Speaker 3: I want someone that's going to respect me and think
- 4:56Speaker 3: twice before they say something.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Yeah, how'd you lose Carly? What did you do to
- 5:01Speaker 1: lose one hundred twenty pounds?
- 5:02Speaker 2: You know, I didn't use like any.
- 5:04Speaker 4: Medications or anything like that. I lost it naturally just
- 5:08Speaker 4: by changing my diet and how much I exercise.
- 5:11Speaker 6: That's hard work. Congratulations.
- 5:13Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thank you, thank you.
- 5:16Speaker 1: Ye have a great day, and thanks for calling in.
- 5:19Speaker 2: Thanks you too.
- 5:21Speaker 7: And my wife said the other day, just yesterday she
- 5:23Speaker 7: saw her dad. It was her dad's birthday. He turned
- 5:25Speaker 7: eighty nine. Oh wow, And she hadn't seen him in
- 5:28Speaker 7: a you know, in a month or so. And you know,
- 5:30Speaker 7: she started the Transeeppetide right, which is the GLP two,
- 5:33Speaker 7: and she's down twelve pounds and it's pretty noticeable.
- 5:35Speaker 1: It's interesting. And her dad hugged her and said someone
- 5:39Speaker 1: I wasn't there.
- 5:40Speaker 7: She just told me because my dad told me that
- 5:41Speaker 7: I had lost weight and I felt different, that I
- 5:43Speaker 7: felt skinny to him.
- 5:44Speaker 1: And this is, you know, he's an old school guy.
- 5:46Speaker 1: Like when I see him, people be like, whoa jaw
- 5:48Speaker 1: jay putting on some pounds. Huh.
- 5:50Speaker 7: Like he's one of those guys, you know, which is
- 5:52Speaker 7: really so to hear him say something positive about losing weight,
- 5:56Speaker 7: it was really obvious.
- 5:57Speaker 1: So she's rocketed on that. My sister. My sister's the
- 6:00Speaker 1: Trizeppatite too.
- 6:00Speaker 7: I don't know how much she's lost, but she's she's
- 6:03Speaker 7: doing it all wrong because.
- 6:05Speaker 5: Wow, well I remember she was doing like the accidental
- 6:09Speaker 5: ten thousand times what should be?
- 6:11Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 6:11Speaker 7: So this morning she texted me, she goes, Okay, I
- 6:13Speaker 7: did my shot yesterday. She goes, I just noticed that
- 6:16Speaker 7: there's a lot of it's red. The fluid's red. And
- 6:19Speaker 7: I said, yeah, it is red. She goes, so I
- 6:21Speaker 7: must have filled the last one with too much air, Like,
- 6:23Speaker 7: what the hell, that's how they kill people. Yeah, you
- 6:28Speaker 7: got to push us the reds out so when you
- 6:30Speaker 7: see the fluid come out on the top of the needle,
- 6:31Speaker 7: then you know it's ready to go on.
- 6:34Speaker 3: Is making me not want to do it, And I've
- 6:36Speaker 3: been considering it, but I'm scared now because I don't
- 6:39Speaker 3: want to accidentally.
- 6:40Speaker 1: I'm scared for her.
- 6:41Speaker 6: Yeah that's what I'm saying.
- 6:42Speaker 1: Oh, that's her being frantic, whether it be doing a
- 6:44Speaker 1: hundred thousand things. This stuff is legit. I'm telling you,
- 6:47Speaker 1: this stuff is legit.
- 6:48Speaker 5: Man.
- 6:48Speaker 7: Like, we had the dinner last night and my wife
- 6:50Speaker 7: could barely finish half of salmon, half a little thing
- 6:52Speaker 7: of salmon, so I got to.
- 6:53Speaker 1: Eat it all.
- 6:53Speaker 7: It was great anyway, that's it. Viral Wellness Viral Wellness
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