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Y'all Feel That Too? · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.
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  Speaker 1: What's up, y'alls? Your girl, AJ Holiday.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, Tam Bam? That's how I feel. Did that
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  Speaker 2: sounds sexual because it wasn't. It was exhaustion. Is that
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  Speaker 2: how you sound when you're fucking? Ah?
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  Speaker 1: Why do you want to know?
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  Speaker 2: Are you okay? No? I'm not okay. I'm not okay, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: I love y'all. Thank y'all for tuning again this week,
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  Speaker 2: coming back to sit with us and talk with us.
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  Speaker 2: I appreciate you so so very much. AJ. What did
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  Speaker 2: you do this weekend?
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  Speaker 1: I didn't do.
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  Speaker 2: She did.
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  Speaker 1: I took myself out to dinner Saturday night, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: Mother's Day was on Sunday, so Saturday earlier Saturday, I'm like, man,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't get my mom and nothing girlse So I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: let me I go on Amazon to see what she
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  Speaker 1: got in the cart. I just grab everything in there.
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  Speaker 1: So she had like I sit under hair dryer. So
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  Speaker 1: I went and picked that shit up from Sally's. She
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  Speaker 1: had like tailgate chairs for you know, to go watch
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  Speaker 1: my nephew play football. Now he's at State. So like
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  Speaker 1: the little beacher chairs, but the cup holders and all
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  Speaker 1: this shit and some flowers.
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  Speaker 2: That's about it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I just got her the stuff that she had
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  Speaker 1: in her in the Amazon cart because I use her
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  Speaker 1: fucking Amazon. I didn't understand why multiple households have Amazon
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  Speaker 1: Parme accounts.
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  Speaker 2: You know what, You're right? Everybody anything?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I use my mama shit so I can see
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  Speaker 1: what you know, what she wants. I can't a vibrators
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  Speaker 1: and ship like that in the cart, see it. That's
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  Speaker 1: about it. Man. I ate at a really good nice
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  Speaker 1: uh lot uh I guess is it four star, five
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  Speaker 1: star or whatever? Little Italian restaurant this weekend. It's really nice.
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  Speaker 1: So that's what I've been doing, trying to find places
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  Speaker 1: I ain't ate at new weekends, fat ship and then
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  Speaker 1: drink water for seven save I can find some millionaires
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  Speaker 1: at the goddamn bar.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I needed to do. I need to broaden
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  Speaker 2: my horizons. I what did I do? My sister got
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  Speaker 2: her NBA from University of South Carolina. Hey, yeah, so
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  Speaker 2: we celebrated her her achievement and then I worked because
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  Speaker 2: that seems like all I fucking do now is just working,
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  Speaker 2: work and working. You know, you just gotta be careful
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  Speaker 2: what you pray for because I asked I said this before,
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  Speaker 2: I think, but I asked God for more money, but
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  Speaker 2: I should have specified how I wanted it.
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  Speaker 1: More free money that I don't have to exert any
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  Speaker 1: energy for, you know, y.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if I told you. I got
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  Speaker 2: my chin done, but it's starting to look like it's
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  Speaker 2: been swollen for a long time. I got to see
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  Speaker 2: you this picture of aj that the doctor sent me
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  Speaker 2: from before, like before this MoMA's house bitch okay, But
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  Speaker 2: then Mother's Day, I was. I was low key sad
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  Speaker 2: on Mother's Day and I had cried a couple of times,
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  Speaker 2: and I kept on acting like it was. I was
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  Speaker 2: telling people like pet Dander, like is that why you
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  Speaker 2: text me? Yeah, Tammy text me y'all.
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  Speaker 1: She was like, Happy Mother's Day, Ashley, like my whole
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  Speaker 1: name and the shit. I'm like, Happy Mama Day, Tammy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: People was hitting me up telling me Happy Mother's Day.
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  Speaker 1: And I appreciate that because I don't have any kids,
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  Speaker 1: but I am a mother at heart, so I don't
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  Speaker 1: take it like I don't feel like down about it
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  Speaker 1: because I don't know. I've already accepted if I might
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  Speaker 1: not have a kid on this realm and it's falling
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  Speaker 1: because this shit is fucking get on.
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  Speaker 2: I just thought about all the women that I know
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  Speaker 2: that like I have lost babies or have you know,
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  Speaker 2: fertility issues, and I just messaged them and I put
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  Speaker 2: their name in it on purpose to let them know,
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  Speaker 2: even specific to them. That's why. Yeah, that's what it was. Okay, Yeah, because.
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  Speaker 1: You like Hi. I laughed like out loud too, like
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  Speaker 1: I just thought it. Post on Instagram to day and
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  Speaker 1: this girl was saying how she has real life. Like
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  Speaker 1: she was like, I like kids, but I don't. I'm
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  Speaker 1: afraid to have a kid because I can't imagine having
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  Speaker 1: a kid and not having like and end up by
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  Speaker 1: myself with this kids was a lot of anxiety. It's
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  Speaker 1: a grown ass woman too. She would look like she
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  Speaker 1: about our age, but you know she's talking about motherhood
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  Speaker 1: and having children and just the fear of because of
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  Speaker 1: her experiences and relationships and other people experiences. That's why
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  Speaker 1: I said, you get me pregnant and you think you're
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  Speaker 1: going somewhere, you better take that baby with you. I
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  Speaker 1: am leaving how I came, and I did not come
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  Speaker 1: with a fucking kid.
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  Speaker 2: It's really not feel.
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  Speaker 1: That Nigga. Wasn't your body first, Like you spit up
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  Speaker 1: and produced that thing, and I just like cultivated it
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  Speaker 1: a little bit, but really it's yours. It's like it's
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  Speaker 1: both of ours, but it's really yours. Yeah, but I
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  Speaker 1: felt that shit like deep down, and you know, nobody
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  Speaker 1: says that loud thing, that silent, that that loud thing
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  Speaker 1: out loud, like it's very like scared.
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  Speaker 2: That is a fit.
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  Speaker 1: That's that's the fear of mine for sure. For sure,
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  Speaker 1: like just picking wrong choosing wrong things is all good,
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  Speaker 1: and then it's just not.
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  Speaker 2: I just can't. I'm like, sometimes I really want to
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  Speaker 2: be a mom. And then today I worked all day
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  Speaker 2: doing them space And then my best friend is mom
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  Speaker 2: and on Mother's Day, she was just not having the
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  Speaker 2: best Mother's day. She was like, no, you gotta take
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  Speaker 2: her hair and they don'tly do her hair and I
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  Speaker 2: just don't feel like it. And I was like, just rest,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna make her hair appointment to get her hair braided,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm gonna take her. And today I actually had
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  Speaker 2: to do that. Shit, I was my god, I couldn't
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  Speaker 2: imagine being nobody. I just want to go lay down.
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  Speaker 2: I got cramps.
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  Speaker 1: That overextended yourself.
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  Speaker 2: Child actually, but you know what mom used.
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  Speaker 1: To do, so yeah, and the mamas be doing it
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  Speaker 1: man like and they do be like tired. That's why
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  Speaker 1: I always when I see stuff like with men saying
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  Speaker 1: things like the niggas that's on child support or even
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  Speaker 1: the men who like fit the whole bill of a
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  Speaker 1: woman's life, but she's at home with kids, like say,
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  Speaker 1: that's an eighteen to twenty hour job daily, you never off.
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  Speaker 1: And I just don't think they don't consider that shit.
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  Speaker 2: All right or reflect it. They think it's easy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that shit is not easy.
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  Speaker 2: And then I, you know, I got my mom my
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  Speaker 2: outfit of purse and gave her some money for Mother's Day.
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  Speaker 2: She needed some looks mm hmm. But she said the
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  Speaker 2: shirt too little in the past to be but that
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  Speaker 2: was it. Let's get in the sands, we'd.
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  Speaker 1: Get into it. So I saw, uh this post on
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  Speaker 1: Instagram and it's allegedly you know right now with AI,
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  Speaker 1: I just don't know what's what?
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  Speaker 2: Right?
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  Speaker 1: Are people creating things for likes, clicks and and uh,
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  Speaker 1: you know, sharing and you know, to give people comment.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what's what, but anyway, this says it's
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  Speaker 1: in the illustration. We don't know if the I believe
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  Speaker 1: these are real people, right, but are these people in
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  Speaker 1: the situation. We don't know. So it says leaked messages
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  Speaker 1: show women teaching younger sister how to get an NFL
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  Speaker 1: or NBA level athlete while in college. So it's a
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  Speaker 1: text thread. So little sister messages and said, I want
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  Speaker 1: a football player NFL preferably. She put like the little evil,
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  Speaker 1: little evil emojis, crying emojis, a tall chocolate one, is
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  Speaker 1: what she said. And she said I she said, like
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  Speaker 1: you did. I want I want your life, is what
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  Speaker 1: she said. So the sister text back and said, that's easy.
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  Speaker 1: What a thumbs up, A white thumbs up.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm trying to read it.
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  Speaker 1: That's my ship, bitch. Yeah, you know, I haven't listened
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  Speaker 1: to the whole song yet. I just hear it on Instagram.
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  Speaker 1: I literally have not like went to Apple and typed
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  Speaker 1: it and listen. I'm kind of like a JT fan, uh,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like Karsha. I like Karesha, but like I'm
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  Speaker 1: kind of like more of a JT fan. But that
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  Speaker 1: song sounds really lit I like, and I haven't listened
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  Speaker 1: to it yet. But anyway, so big sist thumbs up
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  Speaker 1: and says, but you have to play your cards right.
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  Speaker 1: You can't be an emotional little girl. And this is said,
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  Speaker 1: teach me. And here goes what the big sister you
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  Speaker 1: know says she needs to do to get her NFL player,
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  Speaker 1: you know, preferably a chocolate one number one. He's the prize. Remember,
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  Speaker 1: he can change your life, you can't change his. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: humble yourself, right, okay? Uh? Dealing with cheating, don't look
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  Speaker 1: for it. Girls will throw themselves at him, and some
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  Speaker 1: will succeed if it's just a fling, let it go,
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  Speaker 1: but don't let him get emotionally attached to one of them. Ps.
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  Speaker 1: He'll always be attracted to black girls. Activate that shian
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  Speaker 1: nine in your in in in her by picking at
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  Speaker 1: what willing activate that shianne in her by picking at
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  Speaker 1: her and let him see it. He'll ditch her quick.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, So basically, trigger the other bitch and she'll
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  Speaker 1: get ratchet. And then so these aren't black women, these
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  Speaker 1: are or other mm hmm. So basically you remember what
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  Speaker 1: the guy that Taylor Swift is with right now? I
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  Speaker 1: remember his ex girlfriend was black?
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  Speaker 2: M hm.
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  Speaker 1: And it wasn't Taylor Swift directly picking at her but
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  Speaker 1: everybody else's. So were they trying to like activate the
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  Speaker 1: to get spit on?
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  Speaker 2: Because she should have.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm pretty sure Taylor Swift probably was doing some
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  Speaker 1: little underhanded, little discreete ship we don't know about because
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  Speaker 1: those bitches is sharks.
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  Speaker 2: Her name was like Crystal or something like that. You
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  Speaker 2: remember Travis Travis Kelsey's.
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  Speaker 1: The podcast and stuff. Now, yeah, I forgot her name though, Fine, girl,
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  Speaker 1: isn't isn't she the girl who was dancing Tony Braxon? Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and she put her leg up for us. No
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  Speaker 2: m hmm.
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  Speaker 1: It says if she's like us, it'll be harder because
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  Speaker 1: this is really racist. Yeah, if she's like us, it'll
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  Speaker 1: be harder because more than likely she's playing to win him,
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  Speaker 1: to make him choose number three be an asset. So
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  Speaker 1: wait a minute, then leave back up a quick, real quick.
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  Speaker 1: So y'all are assuming that all black women have a
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  Speaker 1: shene in them, and then if they don't, they're like, y'all, girl,
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  Speaker 1: these motherfuckers is nuts just better be ai, it says,
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  Speaker 1: be an asset to him, fold his clothes, buy and
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  Speaker 1: bring him his food, do his homework. Completely, integrate it. Completely,
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  Speaker 1: integrate yourself in his life to where he can't function
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  Speaker 1: without you and before. Don't embarrass him, don't cheat, don't
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  Speaker 1: text other men. His cue friends and teammates will try you.
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  Speaker 1: Ignore it just in case the relationship goes south. Another
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  Speaker 1: athlete will see you as gold. Go completely wild on
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  Speaker 1: him in bed, use throat spray, do any and everything
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  Speaker 1: be spontaneous, make it go down anytime, anywhere. Number six
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  Speaker 1: his mom, I don't know what is this. Do not
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  Speaker 1: tell his mom any.
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  Speaker 2: Screen.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, his mom, this is LEXI.
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  Speaker 2: Oh that's your problem.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah his mom LEXI. Don't tell his mom any personal information,
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  Speaker 1: especially something negative. She will tell his entire family and
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  Speaker 1: he'll blame you. Just smile, wave and be quiet. Number seven.
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  Speaker 1: Always look good and appealing. Hair and face always has
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  Speaker 1: to be done. Uh. Push for marriage or at least
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  Speaker 1: to have multiple kids. And you got him in two years.
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  Speaker 1: On draft day, you'll be a millionaire and all your
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  Speaker 1: friends will work hard in school to literally never live
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  Speaker 1: the life you live. It's so sweet and rewarding lex
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  Speaker 1: I'm in can kun right now, and Little Sister sends
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  Speaker 1: like a little commercial, I mean a cartoon like laughing
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  Speaker 1: on the bed. Very very interesting, you know. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I I get the tactics right, be a dumb to
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  Speaker 1: my whole life. My problem is, I just I can't
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  Speaker 1: pretend like I like you if I don't for money,
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  Speaker 1: I just can't. You have to be aesthetically pleasing to me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a fun girl in that way. That just
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  Speaker 1: sounds like a fun girl. I'm too serious for that
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  Speaker 1: type of shit.
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  Speaker 2: I can't not activate my shame. So you're there because
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  Speaker 2: they can play with me triggered all.
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  Speaker 1: Day, right, this is this is very interesting. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: black women get labeled as the gold diggers or I
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  Speaker 1: guess maybe men don't think we can be the gold diggers,
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  Speaker 1: Like I don't know, maybe we don't have the right
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  Speaker 1: to be the gold diggers. Is like they just always
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  Speaker 1: want to humble bag when these are others talking about
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  Speaker 1: y'all niggas like this, okay, because it is y'all niggas
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  Speaker 1: mostly football players that they are coming at knowing you
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  Speaker 1: stupid and you would not have had access to them
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  Speaker 1: if you ain't have the money, and y'all fall right
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  Speaker 1: for it, right because giving a bitch at your check.
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  Speaker 2: These guys would never you know, if they work at
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  Speaker 2: the Jiffy Lube. That's why I always go to shout
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  Speaker 2: out the Jiffy Lube. But y'all will not be attracted
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  Speaker 2: to these men. It's just about the money. It's strictly
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  Speaker 2: about the money. M h m hm.
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  Speaker 1: And Dick, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, that in
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  Speaker 1: there too, But very interesting, very very very interesting.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm yalling into the mind. Wow, I don't
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  Speaker 2: even know what to say. I mean, I hope do
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  Speaker 2: you even think that's real?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean it's a text thread, so
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you can generate Apple textrad on
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  Speaker 1: chat GPT, or you can sit there and text between
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  Speaker 1: two cell phones and your fucking self and put it
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  Speaker 1: on the internet. I don't know, but I can imagine
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  Speaker 1: that being a conversation for sure, right, but it would
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  Speaker 1: be a phone conversation. I'm not texting all that ship
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  Speaker 1: for somebody to possibly put on the Internet. I'll be
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  Speaker 1: telling my loss is a bitch, this is what you do.
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  Speaker 2: That was a lot of things.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, one and why you.
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  Speaker 2: And kN kun But I guess everybody in the sister
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  Speaker 2: don't talk all the time. I know where I can
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  Speaker 2: look at my phone and know where my sister at
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  Speaker 2: right now.
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  Speaker 1: Right, I don't know. I don't know if it's it's
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  Speaker 1: if it's legitimate or not. But the s shit, it
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  Speaker 1: just it sounds like Russia, Russia, Russia. It sounds like
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  Speaker 1: they are putting out like some propaganda. Yeah, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying again, So.
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  Speaker 2: We talked back. Scott what's his name? Todd set this
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  Speaker 2: whole ship up.
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  Speaker 1: To come to us with the bullshit for sure, because
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about it all right.
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  Speaker 2: This one was interesting to me because I thought this
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  Speaker 2: is me, all right. Study says adults that think their
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  Speaker 2: dating market is bad aren't as desirable as they think
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  Speaker 2: they are, and maybe aiming to hie, tis match with tens, fives,
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  Speaker 2: match with fives, so.
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  Speaker 1: We always be like, know your hauler level.
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  Speaker 2: Research on a sort of assorted assortative? Is that how
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  Speaker 2: you pronounced that assortive? No assort take?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I think they missed spell go ahead, okay.
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  Speaker 2: Mating shows that an individual success in the dating market
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  Speaker 2: is fundamentally limited. By their own desirability. People who are
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  Speaker 2: physically attractive, financially successful, and have higher overall make value
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  Speaker 2: are better able to win overly highly desirable partners. The
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  Speaker 2: principle is straightforward, tens matched with tens and fives match
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  Speaker 2: with fives. Blah blah blah. It's a lot up here.
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  Speaker 2: But this made me think, like, do I think I'm
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  Speaker 2: a better busion than I am?
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  Speaker 1: No, but this is what Kevin Samuels used to be
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  Speaker 1: talking about, like your your hollow level, the essentially your
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  Speaker 1: hollow level, but he called it your uh is it
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  Speaker 1: sexual marketplace? Something marketplace something like they? I mean and
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  Speaker 1: and I understand, right, This is why I always say
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  Speaker 1: I think men are way more shallow than women, Like
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  Speaker 1: I think a nigga that's a two still wants this
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  Speaker 1: woman to be a ten. He wants to have access
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  Speaker 1: to tens. I think women are kind of more inclined
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  Speaker 1: to like settle for somebody at their level or less.
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  Speaker 1: Black men in particular are highly high pergamists too. They
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  Speaker 1: wan't bitches with money.
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  Speaker 2: They didn't.
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  Speaker 1: You know, the average man wants a woman with some
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  Speaker 1: type of resource, may it be your network or actual money? Okay? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: as A dating app study found that people who perceive
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  Speaker 1: themselves as having higher higher mate value, or being more
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  Speaker 1: sexually attractive were significantly more likely to match with individuals
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  Speaker 1: that found they found attractive. People with higher self perceived
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  Speaker 1: desirability had better success because they had more options available
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  Speaker 1: to him available to them. The verse is also true.
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  Speaker 1: If you think the dating market is bad, it might
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  Speaker 1: be a signal about your own position in the market
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  Speaker 1: rather than a statement about the market itself. Research specifically
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  Speaker 1: examine rather high mat value men and women had different
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  Speaker 1: preferences when choosing partners. The findings show that particilicularly high
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  Speaker 1: mate value individuals could attract partners across multiple dimensions because
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  Speaker 1: they have more choice. High value partners can be more
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  Speaker 1: selective about finding someone who checks multiple boxes. Meanwhile, someone
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  Speaker 1: more on the desirability spectrum has to make a trade
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: off and accept more limited options. I do think some
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: women have an inflated sense of like, sexy, smart, likability,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Like I do think so like we because we have
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: a vagina. Right when a man turns down a vagina,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: women lose a fucking minds because damn you at least
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: a man at least wants to fuck you. But when
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: he what happens when he doesn't? They just lose a mind.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: I would not know.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: I rather man not fuck me than have sex with me.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: And yes, oh yeah.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: Do you think niggas is passing out a pity dick?
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: No, I think niggas want the pussy. They just don't
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: want you after it. Not you, I mean you plural,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: not you you you. I think we talked about this before,
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: how women will friends on a man. They're not gonna
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: have sex with him and friends on him. Right, we
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: could be friends, but I'm not trying to fuck. But
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: men will fuck you and then try to friend zone
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: you or ghost you.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: So they integrity is out the fucking window for real.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: They just what if you were like trying to have
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: sex with siblings and they was like, I don't think
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: we should.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I think the older men get the less they like
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: just be wanting to just be fucking frivolously. Also, just
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: like women, what are we doing? Right?
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: I don't think they do anymore. I don't know.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: I think men get to a place where they don't
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: want a bunch of different kouchi juice in the pubes,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: you know, because when I think about sex, I'd be like,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: do I want this nigga sweating on me? That's how
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I like when I let that nigga sweat on me.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: That's really how I think about it. So men like
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: they probably don't want like some bitch. They really don't
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: like like juices on them, and they probably come and
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: be disgusted surely thereafter.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: I need to know. I need to hear it from men.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: I mean, I talked to men.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: I talked to me in so.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, I know, I know they'll fuck somebody they're
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: not attractive to attractive too. They will definitely do that
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: shit like it's nothing. They don't want you to trip
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: after they play with you too, like just yeah, I
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: got your pussy and go ahead about your business. I mean,
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: but that's what happens when you don't establish nothing else
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: and you're giving somebody some cucci. What do they do
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: for the kucci?
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Nothing?
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Tex? You what you're doing wyd wyd You ass for
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: three weeks and you gave him the kucci? Like are
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: you supposed to get played a little bit?
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: So the girl? Yeah, go ahead, all right? So this
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: one is kind of sad, y'all, all right, It says,
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: this woman found out her dead husband had a twenty
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: five year affair with his best man after discovering secret
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: polaroids and love letters between the two of them. So
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: It says, a woman discovered her husband had been secretly
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: involved with his best friend for their entire twenty five
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: year marriage after he died in a car accident. According
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: to the viral Facebook post, she found old polaroids, love letters,
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: and text messages hitting among his belongings while going through
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: his things after the funeral. The friend, who was also
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: the best man at their wedding, has reportedly stopped answering
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: her calls since the discovery. What are you calling for? Closures?
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Still you got the pictures? You want him to apologize
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: or something? He go on to the next dick.
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: I don't even that's a movie.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: You just don't know people.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: For real, nobody. And then I mean they die or
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: they go to jail, and now you literally get to
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: clean out they closet and see all the.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Things, see all the things.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: I've seen it happen in real time once not on
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: no gay shit. But my cousin, she's a older cousin too.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: She might have been in her mid fifties at this time,
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: and this is probably like ten years ago. I'm at
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: my dad's house and she lived on the street over
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: and paramedics running down, you know, zooming down the street
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: or whatever. And my little cousin called me and was
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: like her, mind you, this was somebody else's husband that
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: she had been with for a deck aiden, right, but
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: he was still married to his ex wife. But he
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: died in the house, in her house, and I, yeah,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: they lived together. So he passed away. And I watched
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: her fucking face go from crying to fucking furious because
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: she's going through this nigga cell phone and they haven't
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: even taken his body at the house yet, and his
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: wife gets all the money and all that shit. She
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: did bury him, at least the wife. Imagine you had
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: to bury a nigga who'd been with another bitch for
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: ten years and y'allso married. Well, I saw that wasn't
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: your nigga in the first place.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: So why are you mad about the farm where this man?
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: He was on his death bed, good man, family man.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Everybody loved him. He was dying, all the family was
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: around him, and he had an eighteen year old son
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: walk in that nobody knew about and the son was like,
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: he's been a part of my life, my whole life.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: That's my Thennity and the brothers and sisters didn't know
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: about him. The wife didn't know about him.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so why you wait till he died and make
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: yourself known? And how did he find out his dad died?
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: He was on his death bed, so he wasn't day all.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: He was coming to like say goodbye to his father.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: But I don't think they lived in the same I
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: don't think you know these people.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how the shit used to go down back
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: in the day when when they talk about they want
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: a traditional woman, this is what traditional women used to
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: have to deal with your husband having a whole other
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: family and you don't find on about it until the funeral.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: And now these different people who look like that nigga
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: pulling up m h family is very important. Men don't
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: realize like doing shit like that, Like what if you
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: need bone marrow for the kid you actually take care
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: of and you got a whole kid over here, you
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: ain't fucking with it like that daily basis, And that
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: kid can save this kid's life if it was a
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: match that is why family is very important. If you
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: fuck up, just own up to it. Don't be jump
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: kicking pregnant bitches in the street and getting twenty five
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: years in prison, right, you know, just tell your bitch
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: you fucked, don't you. Women, that girl just got murdered
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: in Atlanta, got pregnant and the guy shot her.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: Was it a guy? They find? Oh, I thought they
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: knew you think it was a girl. Sometimes I feel
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: like it might have been a woman because they shot
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: her in her face on anything.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: Mmmm, it might have been a woman, bitch, dunk dunc
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: town exactly.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, just own up to your ship and listen,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: men run men can really run relationships that they just
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: be men, right, So yeah, your wife ain't signed up
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: for that, and be like, baby, I love you and
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: I love her. I'm gonna get two more jobs and
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: we're gonna all be good. Said the fuck. Dumb bitch
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: just need to hear, like, we just don't know. You're
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: gonna keep paying Bill's bitch, and you're not gonna miss
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: a beat over here. I'm talking about back then.
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: But yeah, I about to say she.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Back then, don't try that ship now, a nigga, But
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: just got their own money.
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: Get But imagine you can find it out that your
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: husband has been fucking his best man for twenty five years.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: That's just scary, man. I be using my pendulum on niggas.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: I will literally put my pendulum out and asks if
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: a niggas gay, and see what it says.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: I will put on some gay shit on TV. Grab
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: a nigga. Dig you like that that or not?
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: But that's fucked up, man, cause you know, like I
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: don't know, I'm not. That's gonna get dark. That is
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: kind of fucked up though, because I mean it is
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: a sexual act, right, So just because the penis gets
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: hard doesn't necessarily mean he's gay.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: You think so if he watched if it's two men
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: having a sexual experience on TV and you reached down
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: and your nigga dick hard, that on me, he likes,
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: I'm not.
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: A lesbian and never fucked with a bitch. But if
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: I'm watching porn, it's two bitches and a man like
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: I might.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: It's just two bitches. He it's two girls on there.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: In a nigga. No, because I like a little orgy
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: situation real life. All right, you're putting on straight out
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: gay shit, just like two men. Okay, yeah, if you
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: don't punch you in the face, he might be listen.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: I won't put on I won't put on porn. I
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: put on like Brokeback Mountain or he Valley. It's good girl.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: When I was living in Atlanta in the early twenty eleven, hundreds, girl,
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: this dude paid me to to beat it while he
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: watched bisexual corn girls big time. But give me that.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Give me that motherfucking money, though, so I have to
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: go to work today.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: That was my whole life, y'all.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: But I was living in Atlanta and my fucking twenties, bitch,
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: gas was I was spending six gas was high like
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: it is right now, and I was living forty five
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: minutes for my fucking house. Bitch, I was paying six
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month for gas. Okay, give me that money. Yeah, come.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: So that was my one whole moment. I guess I
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: don't know. I didn't smack one. I I just beat
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: it for him right quick to the game. I could
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: not believe when he put it in. And you know,
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: I don't know why I am off experience and some
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: ship like I think I just make people feel that
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: comfortable that they can do some ship like that because
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: you didn't even pre warn me. You didn't say, hey,
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: I like bisexual ship. You just put it in and
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: I'm seeing a bitches strapping niggas up, uh niggas second
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: dick like it was. I'm like, okay, this is you
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: into put the money on the counter and your secret
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: is say for me because I would never tell anybody
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: until we.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: Talk back podcasts. A shame.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I remember that nigga name too.
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: What is it? It's like, don't do that, I tell
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: you and people people I respect, everybody's king. What are
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: we talking about today? Yeah, girl, exhaustion. I listen every woman.
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: I asked like, how are you doing? Everybody answers, Girl,
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: I'm so tired. Girl, I'm exhausted. I need a break.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: Every single woman. I have not talked to one person,
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: one bitch. And she was like, I'm well rested and
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: full of life. Not one.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: That's sad.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: Man. So we're gonna talk about it right after the spreak.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: All right, So we're back y'all. And I just have
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: a question, why is everybody so fucking tired?
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: And I know, man, life just be feeling like one
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: big ass unfinished fucking task nowadays.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: Like seriously, it's like do you ever feel like everything
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: is done? Never?
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, and that's why, Like when you ask me
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: how was your weekend, it's like the jahn't do a shit,
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: cause why why do I have to have a thing
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: that I have done every single week? Like I like
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: to fucking laid out. I make it very known because
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: during the week I am stretched very very fucking then
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: very and it's like those the weekend is just it's
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: not long enough, you know what I'm saying, Like I
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: need a two week vacation right now, and that's not enough.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I need a vacation after the vacation. I need to
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: just be rich, Like what the fuck?
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: I just.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm giving seventeen percent of me
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: to everything and nothing is getting even twenty five Nothing,
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: not my fitness, not my health, not this show, not
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: the new job, not my home, not nothing.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm. It's a trade off, you know what I'm saying.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: It's like a trade off or if you if you,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: if you're working a lot making more money, you can't
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: get to the gym as much, okay, can't eat the
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: well balanced meals like you would use when I wasn't working.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: I won't say that I was just because I've been
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: on here saying how I want to be skinny for
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: five years now it hasn't happened, and I listen, I
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: have plenty of time to do the things. So now
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: I'm just do liquid lightfol I've been thinking about doing
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: that shit just I don't know. Well, I have more
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: energy if my back.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Wasn't as big, That's what I want to know.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: Shit, And I feel like I'm supplementing time and life.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: And I'm literally like supplementing like I had. I take
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: so many supplements daily to stay going.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: You need something to wake up. It's something to go
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: to fucking sleep. That's not Yes, yes, it's so bad.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, Okay, my house is clean, but now
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: my car looks like shit, like if bird shit on it.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: There's a bunch of stuff in the car. I clean
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: the car out. Now I need a fold clothes like
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: it's just always something that's not done. My hair, I
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: need a panic here, my kuchi wax, but my my
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: you know, like my edge is something you know, it's
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: just nicker.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all, I was using my fucking class Pass,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: and I needed to use my credits because I paid
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: sixty dollars a month for class Pass for twenty eight
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: credits a month, and I can't ever use all my
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: credits like I do to yoga on the weekend. But
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: I'm always rolling over at least twenty eight credits. You
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: can't roll over no more than that, right, So every
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: month I gotta least Like now, I gotta. When they
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: start doubling up, I gotta figure out something to do.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: So I went and got a fucking wax on Friday
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: week before last. I haven't had my Kuci wax since
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: I lived in Charlotte. When I tell y'all, that was
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: some excruciating fucking pain now, just even moisturizing. Yeah, I
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: be moisturizing and shit out my pussy now because what
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: I read was that it helps it. You know, not
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: hurt is bad when they using like the hard wax.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: When it's when the follicule is more moisturized strapper olive
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: oil and coconut oil and shit on my couchie. But
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: that shit fucking hurts. The should we go through to
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: give a nigga a smooth landing?
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: You know it wasn't even I just try no more.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: I will narrative pussy if I'm about to give it
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: away real quick, and then the rest of the time
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: and just do whatever it's gonna do.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: Like you're a real ho. If your pussy always ready,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: like I gotta, I gotta shit, got a marinade, I
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: gotta I need two weeks advance notice, Like, yeah, my
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: pussy is not always ready, like if you could take
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: it out it comes though, Yeah, you cool with that.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: I never had suffocation, But what's what's up this ball
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: that now feels like weirdly exhausted to you?
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't be feeling like you're responding to
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: text messages. I remember when I used to be looking
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: at your phone and you'd have like you would show me,
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: like how many Like my phone looks like that now
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: and it's between like real people and fashion over right
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: and all these other shit out I signed up for.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: My fucking email is a mess. Instagram inbox is a
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: fucking mess, Like I can't get to people, like to
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: respond to people or engage with people.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Yes, it's too much. Let me tell you the thing
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: that'll be fucking up my life. Returning packages. Oh my god,
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: your returns is taking me out. Like it's so much
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: shit sitting in the corner right now that need to
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: go back that I just haven't had the bandwidth to.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: I should have like my own fashion Over sale in
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: the yard.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: Do it. Do it on Instagram story.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: I got for real, Like seriously, I got so much
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: shit that I haven't returned. I got some of this
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: like I done bought the same thing two or three
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: times forgetting that I bought it already and none of
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: it's been worn because it don't fit when it comes stupid.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: For the damn Black Effect podcast festival, I order so
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: much shit off of Fashion Over. Y'all know they do
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: not do cash refunds. I got like six hundred dollars
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: in store credit right now, and I had to send
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: all that shit back. And I don't really want nothing
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: else from y'all because it's like it's so much it's
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: too hit a miss sometimes, Like imagine ordering all that
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: shit and one thing fit, bitch, the one thing I wore,
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: and now I got store credit.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: For a thousand dollars that.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: Forever the motherfuckers is running as a real scout. Yeah,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: then you gotta package this ship up. You gotta get
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: to ups store before six o'clock or wherever you were
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: turning your shit at. You gotta tape it up, gotta
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: scan the fucking barcode like I, and you gotta see
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: make sure they actually give your money back, because I
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: don't even know if they were fund me yet. I
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: haven't looked to see if I got my gift cards yet.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: So it's a whole I agree with you, it's a
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: whole thing.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: But were we always running on e like this or
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: is it something like going on in our culture, in
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: American culture that's turning us into these monsters that are
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: constantly going, going, going, going, going going.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: I think the millennials in particular, like it's a very
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: special case with us, right because they really fucked us over,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: Like we have experienced everything and we still surviving. Right. Okay,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: we can start with nine to eleven. Okay, I remember
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: my last year at high school. I was planning to
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: going to the military until nine to eleven. I had
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: an early out and the fucking twin tiers towers was
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: coming down. Okay, like that that shit. I watched gas
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: go from you know, two dollars to five dollars that day, right,
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: So we experienced that bullshit, the housing crisis. Then they
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: tell us to go to fucking college. Now we got
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: all these student loans. Now we can't even get the
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: job to pay the student loans off, to even be
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: able to afford a fucking house. Now, like we have
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: been scamms. So now we're all in. Like I don't
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: want to say survival more because I do not subscribe
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: to that. But and then I don't like hustle mode
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: because I don't like if I feel like I'm hustling,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: I'm doing nothing. I'm not gonna do nothing. I'm just
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: gonna leave it.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm doing all day long.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to hustle. I'm not a hustler
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: in that way because I feel like most hustlers are
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: running around in circles. I want to ask and focus
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: on that and execute that.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: Y'all. This is how my days are been going, all right,
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: all right, It just depends on what job I'm doing
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: that day. For that day, I'll get up and do
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: these housing inspections. Then on my lunch break, I'll try
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: to find something to eat, and I'll sit in the
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: car and connect my computer to my phone so I
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: can see emails for the other job during their lunch break.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: So I'm trying to eat something and I'm sending emails
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: for these webinars during the lunch break. And then if
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: I got a minute, Oh, I still got to record
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: a motherfucking podcast. So let me think about what the
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: fuck talk about it on there.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about our weekends that we non existent
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: weekend we don't get.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: To do ship. Then after that I'll get off from
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: doing that. And then oh, guess what you blew two
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: hair pointed, So now you gotta go to that other job.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: It didn't it do to someone's? And then oh, you're
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: also trying to be a good friend. Oh you want
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: to be a good daughter too. Oh your sisters had
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: gone through a crisis, like it's just so much. Oh
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: you're a god mommy, show up, show up, show up,
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: show up, show up. And then I got the nerve
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: to agree to be on the reality show. So now
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: we haven't filmed with you, Tammy. We need you to come,
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: We need you to like, you need to be there.
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: Bitch win, how y'all just gonna have to follow me
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: that summing sarrogate?
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: This said another bitch, You look like me a little somewhere.
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: I'm at to sit another bitch somewhere so we'll be doing. Yeah, man, like,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: did you look at every day you think about what
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: you're gonna eat? Bitch?
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: Dr Nash get all my money. Lately I've been doing
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: and it'd always be wrong. I got so much door
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: dash credit, like you gotta fashion of a credit because
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: I never did the right meal. There's always something wrong.
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: So lately I've been trying to cook and eat, but
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: then it be bullshit. I be cooking because I don't
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: want to spend the whole time like taco salad. See,
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: I don't have every salad y'all can fucking motherfucking thinker,
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: chicken thinger salad, taco salad, uh, black and blue sap,
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: everything you can think of. Then I ain't said nothing
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: about no nigga because what do I have time to date?
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm in the drought right now. Jahn shit, my
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: nigga busy, My nigga busy, and me in a long
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: distance relationship. So I'm like, hello, right, can I get
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: you on a Sunday? You know what I'm saying?
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: This guy, really nice guy asked me to go on
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: a nice day, and I said yes, And then when
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: it was time to go on a date, I had
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: to cancel on him because I just did not have
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: the bandwidth or the energy to put on clothes.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's one of those small tasks that feels impossible,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: planning getting dressed.
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: How you tired of planning? Like?
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: I don't like feeling like committed to anything, So that's
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: a problem like in life, right, I don't like commitment
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: for real. So when I plan to do something, it
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: gotta be something like that super spectacular I really really
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: really want to do because I can't even find myself
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: like to do. I can't make myself do shit I
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: want to do. Sometimes I want to do that and
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: I just can't do it.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: I wanted to go on that date, but I could
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: not be boyd and he FaceTime so he could see
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: what it was really giving. He was like, damn, you
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: look beat down, bro. It is yeah, man. And then
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: I was looking through my phone at the pictures that
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: I had been taking over the last couple of weeks.
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: I look tired as fuck in all the pictures.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: That's how I feel. Girl. I'd be in here still
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: doing my shadow work, looking like girl, you like your grandmamas.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: I mean pushing my cheeks to make sure I still
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: got a less stacy, elasticity and shit like that because
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: I got rings around my eyes. I'm trying to be natural,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: like it's showing. It's distress is showing, man, it is.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: It really is showing for me.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: And but one thing I will say is that the
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: doom strolling, I really gotta stop it because I do
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: have time, okay, kind of right. If I could spend
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: two hours scrolling on fucking Instagram laying in the bed,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: I could have done something else right, you know. And
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes you have it over. You haven't
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: sleep too much to where you're tired.
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: I think you can. I think lay it out too
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: much to where you like tired, tired laying down.
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: No, I would love to try it.
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I felt I have felt tired
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: from sleeping.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: I last two Wednesdays ago, I was able to not
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: sit in an alarm clock. That was nice.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And then social media, like everybody be looking so
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: vibrant on there, they gotta be tired too. Am I
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: not doing enough? You know? Sometimes I feel like I might.
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: Am I not doing enough? And I'm I'm feeling like
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: I'm doing enough a lot of shit, But am I
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: not doing enough? Because it's like other people would look
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: like they could do more or they're doing more.
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: I want to, like, I really want to create content
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: for like social media, for our show. I really want
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: to do that. Somebody helped. We just need help with that.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: You know, it's just everybody's tired. It's not just us.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: Everybody's fucking tired. But the mama's the mama's is next
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: level tired. I'm sorry. Then the mamas who are working,
• 45:15
  Speaker 2: to the mamas who ain't working, it's motherfucking tied. Mm hmm.
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: I guess it's this. I was talking to my mama
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: one day and the same thing I said to you,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: just now, it's like I don't like the hustler and
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: hustle she was like when I was young, I could
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: just do anything. I just I never had that type
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: of stamina as a as an adult, I never like
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: I have been tired for a long time. Maybe it's
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: a parasite I mean, I do do parasite cleansers. I
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: go get the kolonic and all that shit, but I
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: still be fucking tired all the time, Like I just
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: really be having to push through, like really really really
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: pushed through. And y'all for a while, like I had
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: adderall right, that was helping a lot. And what I
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: realized in February when I like, you know, stop taking
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: the adderall. That shit is a real fucking narcotic. That
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: is a real drug. I found myself in here going
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: through withdrawal a little bit, like I was super slow
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: and lethargic, like I really had to like fight and
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: I want something. I want to I want to have
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: more energy, but naturally, yeah, like adderall gives you energy,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: but it also makes you like hone in on the task,
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: like you don't feel exhausted doing the thing, and you
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: just you just it's like a puzzle is.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: Like the limitless crack to me because and I was
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: only taking a fourth of it.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: So imagine like the people who take a pill and
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: a half are sixty milligrams at anaho, like y'all are
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: really drug seekers.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: How come if you're thinking as much adderall, you need
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: to fix the economy, bitch, because I think you're not rich, right,
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: mental that you're not rich, but that shit is a
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: real fucking drug, Like your body becomes dependent on it.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: And I really was feeling like ill and I'm walking
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: around like what bitch girl. I went to the doctor
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: and I thought I had some shit going on for real,
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: but I had to think like that as that fucking
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: methan fetter meine mm hmm. It's a real drug. So yeah,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: so without the adderall, it's even more of a struggle,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: but I'm getting there. I did buy some over encountershit
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: it's it's a nor tropic. Also, gorilla mind is supposedly
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: like more natural. So they gave me like a little
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: pick me up a little bit, girl, hold on me
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: back up a little bit. And I know y'all tell
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: me to be looking at me because she'd be like
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: forty five minutes. She only want to give y'all forty
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: five minutes. But one of the listeners, sweet girl, damn,
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: what is this girl name? Hey girl, if you listen.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: But oh, I'm sorry to interrupt, but we were supposed
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: to have people calling us this week. I just thought
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: about that. I promise y'all.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: For my babe, my bay next time. So, oh, what's
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: the day? Oh shit, Dolly birthday to day.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: Happy birthday, Dolly, Happy birthday, Dolly.
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, so what is her instagram? Hold on for that?
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: Want to shout her out?
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: Hold on, finish your thought before you do it.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, her name is Jakiah. She always sends me voicemails too,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: and I'll listen to him, but I'm like, it takes
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: me a couple of days and I'll be like, hey,
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: I saw the voicemail, but I gotta be still to listen.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: But anyway, she was like, y'all need to talk about
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: this on the show because so why did one of
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: my I think we might have mentioned this before, because
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: I know my mom told me that your pussy no
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: longer looks like a pussy. Okay, the older you get,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: so you need to start using estrogen around thirty five.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: Like the estrogen, I guess it's like me suppository. I
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: don't know exactly if it's a cream or whatever. But
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: my mom would always be like, listen, the kuchi don't
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: be kouchi no more. And you'd be like, when you
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: use the bathroom, that should be just springing all over
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: the place. So it's like your lips disappear apparently, what.
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: I don't have the time I do that like.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: They just like shrivel up it and no longer looks like, uh,
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: you know, a nice plump vagina anymore? Like I mean,
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: have you I don't do you look at your kucci.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: I've noticed that my lips aren't as firm as they
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: were when I was younger.
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: Well, I always thought it was ugly.
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: I never thought my kuchi was ugly, per se. Now
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: I know I always I'm always working on all chi ugly. Oh,
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: all kuchi's ugly. It was like the as oyster clam.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: That's how I know we're aliens. It is because of
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: our genitals, all of us.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know certain seafoods you eat. You turn
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: this up merbid pussy stink right, asparagus eat ye right,
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: you are what you eat all the time. So yeah,
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: you gotta get the estrogen. And that's another thing you
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: gotta add to your list y'all to worry about.
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: Okay, we're already stressful enough. Now my vagina is gonna
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: get uglier. It's going to disappear. I don't get a
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: vaginal rejuvenation and get new lips.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: I don't have get from They do botox down there.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: That's how they do it.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that's a good idea story.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: They do filler. Why you be walking out a big
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: fat pussy like some Asians? The Asians got that little
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: fake pussy they be putting knowing in the leggings. You're
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: having an alo outpha with this big fat pussy.
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: That is so nasty.
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: Why the fuck would y'all create a fat pussy like
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: who like y'all created a camel toe. It's the fucking weird. Yeah.
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not putting them botox in my koochie mills
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: that ship. It would look crazy. What was the neighborhood
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: last movie? One Day at a Time?
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: Alright, come on, let's go. Yeah, man, it's just it's
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: just a bit much. It's just a bit much. Okay. So,
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: I mean I guess we should have probably like come
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: with some advice, possibly.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: Know what I've just I just don't want to even
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: pretend to be a self help. This ain't no self
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: help episode. We're just acknowledging that all of us are
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: tired together.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah, man, one small inconvenience gonna be a fight. Man,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: I can't take nothing else. I don't know. I think
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: we need less work days. For most middle class people. Uh,
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I don't know. Like you're
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: you're working a full time job and you're also trying
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: to create, right, so then you can get away from
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: this thing. But working for yourself is more work. But
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: I guess it might be a little bit more fulfilling
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: because it's you know, for you, for yourself. So I
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: don't know. I wish, I just I do. Just want
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: to be a professional millionaire, that is goals.
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to. They ask me what was
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: my dream job today? While we were inspecting these homes.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: That was like, we're really busy because with them, I
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: don't dream.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: Of labor buyer to layer to labor, don't to do that. Yeah,
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I think also, you know, social media
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: made a lot of people feel behind in life, you
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like most millionaires, you might you
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: might get that million dollar idea in your forties, and
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: you might not be a millionaire until you're fifty. Like
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: we look at people like Oprah Reenfree in particular, like
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: she didn't get rich in her early twenties and thirties
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: and shit like that. That shit takes time to build wealth, right, right,
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: So I think everybody is just in the rat race
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: trying to trying to buy back time. We are all
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: trying to buy back in time real and I think
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: you just got to work smarter rather than harder. So
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: even if you like, if you work in a nine
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: to five job, you got to get into investments, right.
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be working at fifty me neither.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: Like I had most of my thirties off. From thirty
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: three to forty, I was off, bitch. So now I
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: gotta fucking hustle because I'm thinking about if I do
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: have a kid, what am I leaving them.
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: I I just don't know, Like I ain't never been on.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: When I say off, I mean like off from a
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: traditional yeah, because I mean yeah, like working for someone else.
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: Off.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know, man, I don't really got no
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: advice to because I'm start working. I'm still working through
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: the thing. Do we always say, journal, write some shit down, bitch,
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: and maybe you'll you'll sort them out and list the
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: things from the most important to the least important and
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: do your best.
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: First of all, it's just like we're gonna offer bitch
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: of shit they already heard.
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: But it don't work.
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: Oh, put your phone down at night. You're fuck you,
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: you know. So I just want to acknowledge that we
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: understand that we're all tired, and we're all out here
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: trying to do the best we can with what we got.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: We were not designed to be working like this all
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: day long. Like we're supposed to be able to live
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: off the land, and.
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: She's supposed to be free.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: They say, AI is supposed to offer everybody universal income
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: and nobody's gonna have to be working a job because
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: AI gonna do it. But what's going to happen is
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: you'll be poor m hm. And the people that's currently rich,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: they'll they'll just continue being uber rich at that point.
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: So I don't know, you got to make better decisions
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: today so that you are not in this constant like
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: cycle for the rest of your fucking life. Better financial decisions,
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: Marry rich, bitch. That's my last last one of.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: The marry rich. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's an option.
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: Take the white Girl's advice from the beginning of the show,
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: figure help.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because men are built for this, like we we
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: are not, like we cannot be in our creative energy
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: working a fucking job all day long, Like it's just
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: just doesn't work that way. Yeah, so men are meant
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: for this type of stress, like we are stressed because
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: women sleep more to men. We need more time to
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: do all the things. But anyway, y'all meditate, Okay, tell
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: me telling me to wrap it up. Yep, all right, y'all.
• 56:07
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