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Tell us how your parents OVERSTEPPED! · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: OK, did you guys see the story that this business owner,
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  Speaker 1: he fired his employee for missing work. And then when
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  Speaker 1: the employee went to go tell his mom, his mom
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  Speaker 1: called his boss to argue his case on why he
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  Speaker 1: should have never been fired.
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  Speaker 2: That's amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but no, the son was kind of like, no,
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  Speaker 1: like this is a complete lack of boundaries, like completely overstepped.
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  Speaker 1: And it kind of reminded me of the new Carrie
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  Speaker 1: series that's out on Prime. Because one of the big
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  Speaker 1: storylines is how her mom continuously goes to her school
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  Speaker 1: to try to handle her problems.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, real quick.
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  Speaker 4: Do we know what the actual reason was that he
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  Speaker 4: got or he wasn't at work?
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  Speaker 1: He just kept missing. He kept calling out.
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  Speaker 3: Is he a child? Yeah, he's a loser, but still.
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  Speaker 3: Is he like 16, 17, 18?
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  Speaker 1: He's an adult, he's like 25 years old.
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  Speaker 3: At that point, mom should probably let go a little bit.
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  Speaker 5: Exactly.
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  Speaker 2: You need to make him pay for an apartment. He's
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  Speaker 2: probably living at home.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly.
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  Speaker 2: So he doesn't need to work to pay for rent.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly. And they're not friends. Mom's not friends with.
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  Speaker 1: The other one. conference with the owner literally just was
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  Speaker 1: in her feelings that her son got let off from
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  Speaker 1: her job and it just made me think like sometimes
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  Speaker 1: pairs they do too much they they overstep and they
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  Speaker 1: probably do something a little bit out of pocket that
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  Speaker 1: was not necessary like they.
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  Speaker 6: Cross over boundaries yes or have none all right okay
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  Speaker 6: so what did your parents do for you and they
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  Speaker 6: meant well right they meant well but they were you
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  Speaker 6: were way too old you're an adult you can handle
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  Speaker 6: it yeah yeah okay kind of like my wife going
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  Speaker 6: all the way taking my son to the emergency room
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  Speaker 6: when he's 20 years old I think that's okay I.
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  Speaker 4: Think that's I don't think that's a cross boundary I'm
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  Speaker 4: just trying to understand I'm just trying to understand it
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  Speaker 4: would kind of be like.
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  Speaker 2: It would be like your mom doing your paper route
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  Speaker 2: for you hey I was 16 okay yeah that's a
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  Speaker 2: little different I was 16 what were you doing when
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  Speaker 2: she was doing the paper route.
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  Speaker 3: I was sitting in the car Madeline good morning Good morning.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 3: What happened to you? What'd your parents do?
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  Speaker 5: It's my mom.
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  Speaker 7: I am 33 years old. I am married. And my
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  Speaker 7: mom currently hired some woman off of Facebook to flirt
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  Speaker 7: with my husband to see if he would cheat.
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  Speaker 2: Whoa. And did he?
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  Speaker 7: No, he did not. I do not need that protection.
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  Speaker 7: She showed up at his gym. This lady shows up
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  Speaker 7: at his gym. She starts hitting on him. He rejects her.
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  Speaker 7: And so she told my mother that my husband was
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  Speaker 7: probably gay. My mother freaks out. She has a total meltdown.
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  Speaker 7: She called me and she's crying because she thinks my
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  Speaker 7: husband is secretly gay.
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  Speaker 4: Does she not like your husband or she's just like,
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  Speaker 4: like why is she so worried about.
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  Speaker 3: You with him?
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  Speaker 7: I don't even know.
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  Speaker 1: Not only did she go and hire someone to hit
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  Speaker 1: on your husband, but when he didn't bite, it wasn't like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: he's being loyal to my daughter.
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  Speaker 3: It was, oh, he's gay. I'm surprised she didn't go
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  Speaker 3: hire a dude then.
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  Speaker 2: It gets worse, though.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, it does? Okay.
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  Speaker 7: The woman she hired sent me the invoice because my
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  Speaker 7: mom ghosted her on Facebook and didn't pay her.
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  Speaker 3: How much did she charge her?
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  Speaker 7: It was 250.
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  Speaker 3: You know what? You know what?
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  Speaker 6: There's a show I'm watching right now. It's called War
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  Speaker 6: on HBO. There's two episodes out. And this exact scenario
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  Speaker 6: is being played out on this show. But the guy
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  Speaker 6: slept with the girl. A woman thought her husband would
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  Speaker 6: be cheating, so she hired her friend. And if she's
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  Speaker 6: paid and she sleeps with him, your mom could have
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  Speaker 6: been charged with prostitution because your mom paid this woman
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  Speaker 6: to sleep with him. If he would have slept with her,
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  Speaker 6: your mom could be go to jail.
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  Speaker 5: But she didn't actually pay her.
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  Speaker 3: No, I know.
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  Speaker 6: That's what's actually happening right now in episode two of
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  Speaker 6: war right now.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm not.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So anyway, your husband didn't take the pain. Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 3: You got a good guy there, Madeline. Thanks for sharing
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  Speaker 3: that story with us.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you very much.
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  Speaker 1: 877-937-1047.
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  Speaker 6: We want to get to, what did your parents do
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  Speaker 6: for you? But they were way too old, way too old.
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  Speaker 6: And they cross all kinds of boundaries.
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  Speaker 3: We'll get into it next. It's John Jean Rich.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 2: Squabble up. Squabble up. Squabble up.
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  Speaker 6: Peyton was talking about the TV show Carrie. And on
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  Speaker 6: this show, Carrie, the mom oversteps her boundary, goes to
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  Speaker 6: the school.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And basically, I mean, it's never good when your mom
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  Speaker 1: pulls up to school because now even more eyes were
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  Speaker 1: on Carrie. And you know the story of Carrie.
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  Speaker 2: Things went bad.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 6: And then you said there's a story about a guy
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  Speaker 6: who got fired at work for not showing up.
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  Speaker 3: Just calling out. An adult.
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  Speaker 6: And the mom was calling the boss and trying to say,
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  Speaker 6: why did you fire my son?
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  Speaker 3: Basically pleaded to.
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  Speaker 1: Him like, no, you shouldn't have fired him. This is
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  Speaker 1: why he's so great.
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  Speaker 6: So we want to know, what did your parents do
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  Speaker 6: for you that you were way too old for? You're
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  Speaker 6: a grown-ass person, but your parents still stepped in.
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  Speaker 3: Sammy, what happened to you?
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  Speaker 5: My mom has never gotten over the fact that I
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  Speaker 5: didn't go to prom. I also just didn't care. I
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  Speaker 5: didn't care that I didn't go to prom. But so
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  Speaker 5: it's my 30th birthday party, and she told me she
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  Speaker 5: was throwing me a surprise birthday. And she's rented out
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  Speaker 5: an entire ballroom. Um, she's like hired a DJ. She
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  Speaker 5: bought me or corsage and she invited people that I
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  Speaker 5: haven't seen since high school. Um, she's like a Facebook fiend.
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  Speaker 5: So she like stalked and like found the guy I
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  Speaker 5: had a crush on in 2014, who like, by the way,
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  Speaker 5: didn't know that I had a crush on him and
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  Speaker 5: asked him to be my prom date.
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  Speaker 2: Shut up.
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  Speaker 5: And he brought his wife. And so I was like,
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  Speaker 5: it was, I mean, my mom made like made us
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  Speaker 5: take pictures together. I was just like, I have two children.
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  Speaker 5: I am too old for this.
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  Speaker 4: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: Do you regret not going to prom yourself?
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  Speaker 5: No, I've never thought about it.
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  Speaker 6: Cause I've heard that. I've heard that, that if you
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  Speaker 6: don't go to your prom, you regret it. But I
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  Speaker 6: kind of don't agree with it, even though I went
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  Speaker 6: to my prom.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't know. So you don't regret it at all.
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  Speaker 5: Not at all. I was like, Mom, it sounds like
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  Speaker 5: you have some prom trauma.
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  Speaker 4: That you have.
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  Speaker 3: Prom trauma?
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  Speaker 7: Probably.
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  Speaker 2: How was your 30-year-old birthday prom? Was that fun, other
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  Speaker 2: than your married date?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, it was like, it was like, it was
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  Speaker 5: like a throwback vibe that I think people were having fun.
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  Speaker 5: So I was like starting to settle in, but I
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  Speaker 5: was just like at the, I was like, oh my God,
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  Speaker 5: this is like a step and repeat. I was like,
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  Speaker 5: I can't believe this is happening.
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  Speaker 3: You know, let me ask you this. Let me shift
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  Speaker 3: gears for a second. Is there anything in here?
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  Speaker 6: Anybody regrets? Cause I currently regret something. I don't, it's
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  Speaker 6: not the prom thing, but something very similar that I regret.
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  Speaker 6: And I'll tell you what it is. My high school
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  Speaker 6: reunion was three weeks ago and I didn't go and
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  Speaker 6: I didn't think I'd care because, And then I saw
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  Speaker 6: pictures and I saw like five of my friends that
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  Speaker 6: I always hung out with. And they sent me the
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  Speaker 6: pictures and I was so bummed I wasn't there.
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  Speaker 2: Really?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really weird. You had FOMO? Is that FOMO?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: FOMO is like fear of missing out when it's happening, right?
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  Speaker 3: But it can also be post FOMO. Yeah, it can
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  Speaker 3: also be afterwards.
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  Speaker 6: It's kind of weird because I grew up here, but
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  Speaker 6: I graduated from high school in San Diego, right? Now,
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  Speaker 6: my high school reunion here is in two weeks, and
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  Speaker 6: I'm going to go to that. But it's not the
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  Speaker 6: same as the high school I actually graduated from. Does
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  Speaker 6: that make sense to you guys?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. union that you go to is the
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  Speaker 1: school that you graduate from.
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  Speaker 6: Right but i grew up here i grew up here
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  Speaker 6: and then i left before i graduated high school but
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  Speaker 6: all my friends so i still get included so i'm
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  Speaker 6: gonna go to this graduation everybody at this graduation i'm
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  Speaker 6: going to i know them all they're great whatever i
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  Speaker 6: see them all the time the people that i the
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  Speaker 6: actual graduation what i missed and i can't i can't
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  Speaker 6: i have a regret that i missed it and i
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  Speaker 6: don't i think i have very few regrets yeah right
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  Speaker 6: so do you guys have any I have.
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  Speaker 3: A lot of regrets in life. I just saw this article.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to try to find it of the people's
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  Speaker 3: biggest regrets.
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  Speaker 4: Is it just specifically from school days?
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  Speaker 3: No, from anything. Oh, anything.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: Probably, Peyton, it was that outfit you wore the other day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 1: No, actually- Uh, I shop ugly and make a cute,
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  Speaker 1: so stop hating.
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  Speaker 3: You too.
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  Speaker 1: For me, it would probably be like, I regret a
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  Speaker 1: lot of my dating history when I was living in Portland, Oregon,
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  Speaker 1: because my now husband knows a lot of the people
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  Speaker 1: that I was kind of like hanging out with.
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  Speaker 2: And I hate that he knows that about me. You know,
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  Speaker 2: like it keeps me up at night sometimes.
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  Speaker 3: That's hilarious.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes I regret dating girls because y'all are toxic. Whoa.
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  Speaker 4: Whoa.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry.
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  Speaker 3: That's good. These are good. Those are good.
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  Speaker 2: It's true. I have a big one that you probably remember.
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  Speaker 2: It was my kids were acting up and I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: you guys got to straighten up or we're not going
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  Speaker 2: to Disneyland.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, that was brutal, dude.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't let him go? I was like, you can't
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  Speaker 2: just not make.
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  Speaker 3: Empty threats. You can't make empty threats as a parent.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, keep it up. We're not going to Disneyland.
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  Speaker 2: And they kept it up. And I'm like, not going
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  Speaker 2: to Disneyland. And we did not go to Disneyland. I
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  Speaker 2: followed through. How did you follow through on that?
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  Speaker 1: But honestly, though, but valid, though, because I bet you
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  Speaker 1: they never acted.
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  Speaker 2: Up again when it was time to go to Disney. No,
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  Speaker 2: you know, they never had any timeouts or anything after that, actually.
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  Speaker 3: They don't even talk to him anymore.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, come on. That would have been a fun weekend, actually.
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  Speaker 2: That would have been a really fun weekend, and we
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  Speaker 2: didn't do it.
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  Speaker 6: I found the article. It says, a poll asked, what
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  Speaker 6: is your biggest regret in life? And people said health, friendships. children,
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  Speaker 6: whether that means having or not having, education, money, family relationships,
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  Speaker 6: career or work. 15% of people said their biggest regret
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  Speaker 6: is related to romantic relationships. 22% of people said, I
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  Speaker 6: don't have any big regrets, which is a good thing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say more or less, yes, that one.
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  Speaker 2: Because for the most part, the things that you would regret,
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  Speaker 2: they led to something better.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I regretted?
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  Speaker 4: And it has affected how I am is in middle school,
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  Speaker 4: there was like the fair was in town and my siblings,
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  Speaker 4: everyone was going on the Gravitron. The Gravitron, it looks
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  Speaker 4: like spaceship and it spins you around and you.
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  Speaker 3: Stick to the wall. Oh, I hate that.
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  Speaker 4: I got on the ride and I chickened out before
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  Speaker 4: the ride even started. I literally made them stop. I
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  Speaker 4: unbuckled myself. I got off and I waited for my
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  Speaker 4: siblings to get off. When they got off, they were like,
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  Speaker 4: that was the most fun ride in the planet.
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  Speaker 5: We want to go get it.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 4: And then we didn't get to go on it again.
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  Speaker 4: And so ever since then, I'm like, I got to
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  Speaker 4: try every ride. I got to do the ride because
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  Speaker 4: I'll regret not trying it because everyone said it was
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  Speaker 4: so fun.
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  Speaker 1: That ride was trippy because how did it... Stick us
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  Speaker 1: to the wall.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you'll be funny now. Now your mom's listening and
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  Speaker 3: your mom sets it up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: We can probably make that happen for you at the
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  Speaker 3: state fair. We can get the Gravitron. We can get
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  Speaker 3: all your siblings together.
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  Speaker 4: I've ridden the Gravitron since.
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  Speaker 6: We can wear tuxedos and get corsages like Sammy's thing.
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  Speaker 2: Let's have your mom set it up. Let's go.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, Sammy, thanks for calling in. Thank you very much.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks, guys.