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- 0:00Speaker 1: I think it was hard because my dad passed away
- 0:03Speaker 1: during COVID.
- 0:05Speaker 2: And so we had to.
- 0:05Speaker 3: Have like a virtual... No one can be around.
- 0:07Speaker 2: No one can be around.
- 0:08Speaker 1: I went to the funeral home and my aunts wouldn't
- 0:10Speaker 1: even hug me.
- 0:11Speaker 2: They all had masks on. So that was weird.
- 0:14Speaker 1: I mean, my mom was there. You know, I think
- 0:15Speaker 1: she was the biggest line of support. Chris was for
- 0:18Speaker 1: sure too. My dad's two good friends, Chris and Ruby,
- 0:22Speaker 1: we would all hang out. They were like, they were
- 0:25Speaker 1: really close friends. And so they were the ones... who
- 0:28Speaker 1: are really that we were all kind of there for
- 0:30Speaker 1: each other during that time. And it was nice because
- 0:33Speaker 1: they knew my dad most recently and, and we all
- 0:36Speaker 1: had experiences together hanging out. And so I made, I
- 0:40Speaker 1: was able to keep the memory alive and like talk
- 0:41Speaker 1: about him more with them. And that was a really
- 0:43Speaker 1: good support system.
- 0:44Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 0:46Speaker 1: So I think Chris and Ruby were the two, two
- 0:49Speaker 1: main people that I were just kind of able to
- 0:51Speaker 1: relate in a different way.
- 0:53Speaker 2: Cause again, they were just close to him also.
- 0:55Speaker 1: And, Ruby thought of my dad like her second dad
- 0:58Speaker 1: in a way. So, um, yeah, it was good to
- 1:01Speaker 1: have that little support system for sure.
- 1:04Speaker 3: How did the, how is storytelling look for you now?
- 1:08Speaker 3: Cause I know he was like the big catalyst for
- 1:10Speaker 3: the storytelling aspect of life. Did you, do you feel
- 1:15Speaker 3: like you still really enjoy storytelling or creativity in the
- 1:20Speaker 3: sense of the art world or is it more, um,
- 1:25Speaker 3: maybe a little bit more sad because he's not there
- 1:28Speaker 3: to kind of spearhead it?
- 1:30Speaker 1: I mean, I'm always going to miss how like he
- 1:34Speaker 1: was just full of stories. Every time he talked to him,
- 1:36Speaker 1: different story. He was writing a script before he passed away.
- 1:39Speaker 1: He had a little children's book. He wrote out that
- 1:41Speaker 1: I still want to like kind of publish, even if
- 1:43Speaker 1: it's just for myself one day. But I've always liked,
- 1:46Speaker 1: I always loved creative writing growing up. I kind of
- 1:49Speaker 1: fell out of it a little, not it was before
- 1:51Speaker 1: he passed away. But writing is something I want to
- 1:54Speaker 1: get back into. Kind of in his honor in a way.
- 1:57Speaker 1: I was doing video editing for a while. So I
- 2:02Speaker 1: was like filming and editing videos for like different events
- 2:06Speaker 1: and things of that nature. And I would use things
- 2:09Speaker 1: he told me for a storyline to not just create
- 2:11Speaker 1: a video and like a recap of the event, but
- 2:14Speaker 1: really try to like capture a story and think of like,
- 2:17Speaker 1: you know, the buildup and the climax and like a
- 2:19Speaker 1: big ending.
- 2:20Speaker 2: So yeah.
- 2:21Speaker 1: Little things that he taught me, especially when I was
- 2:23Speaker 1: doing video editing and stuff, would be influenced by just
- 2:27Speaker 1: what I've learned through him. More recently, I've been thinking
- 2:32Speaker 1: about just trying to get back into writing. I loved
- 2:37Speaker 1: ceramics and music, but he was like the artist of
- 2:41Speaker 1: the family, for sure. And I did art in different ways.
- 2:44Speaker 1: Storytelling in general will always be.
- 2:50Speaker 2: These special hold special place in my heart.
- 2:52Speaker 1: Even when I watch movies now, I'm like, my dad
- 2:54Speaker 1: would love watching movies and like doing commentary the whole time.
- 2:57Speaker 2: And I'm like, how did my dad see this? Or like,
- 2:59Speaker 2: you know, he's always talking about.
- 3:00Speaker 1: The camera angles and why they did this. And it
- 3:03Speaker 1: kind of brings a whole new perspective to, to stories
- 3:06Speaker 1: in general, which is nice.
- 3:09Speaker 3: What do you think makes a good story? Do you
- 3:11Speaker 3: think there has to be a certain thing? And what
- 3:13Speaker 3: I mean by that is not like, Oh, a certain
- 3:16Speaker 3: subject or whatever, but a certain, um, arc so to
- 3:20Speaker 3: say that makes a good story.
- 3:23Speaker 1: I mean the standard you know I'm sure you heard
- 3:26Speaker 1: of the bell curve uh you know and I mean
- 3:29Speaker 1: that's just standard I don't but I think like a
- 3:33Speaker 1: good movie is gonna have like originality that maybe doesn't
- 3:36Speaker 1: follow the typical bell curve and thinks outside the box
- 3:39Speaker 1: uh I always love movies where you have to like
- 3:41Speaker 1: watch a couple times and you're like trying to figure
- 3:43Speaker 1: out like Donnie Darko is one of my favorites where
- 3:46Speaker 1: you watch it once and you're like what?
- 3:48Speaker 2: And then you like watch it again. So like movies
- 3:50Speaker 2: that kind of make you think about it. Um, I
- 3:53Speaker 2: think those make good movies.
- 3:55Speaker 3: Uh, yeah.
- 3:57Speaker 1: And just really like, you know, creativity, like putting, you
- 4:00Speaker 1: could tell when someone like puts their heart into something
- 4:02Speaker 1: and not just like pumping something out, but like actually
- 4:06Speaker 1: takes the time.
- 4:06Speaker 2: So that makes it special.
- 4:10Speaker 3: Yeah, no, for sure. Is there like a recent film
- 4:14Speaker 3: you've really enjoyed? But you were like, this is good storytelling.
- 4:17Speaker 3: I like this.
- 4:20Speaker 1: I just watched two good movies that my same friend recommended.
- 4:27Speaker 2: One is called...