Latest / HAUTE HUSTLE MORNING MYSTICS / Lucid Dreaming, Sleep Rituals and The Magic Carpet Ride IN BED ft Cynthia Zak
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- 0:00So when we do yoga, when we move, when
- 0:02we walk, when we go to the gym, when we
- 0:04dance, the lymphatic system is working.
- 0:07So what happened in the brain? It's a
- 0:09new discovery and it's about 10 years
- 0:12ago. They start seeing that the brain
- 0:14has their own system called glimpmphatic
- 0:19system. And I put it on my book because
- 0:22they said that when you sleep well and
- 0:24you have a good night of rest, this
- 0:27glimpmphatic system is like a bunch of
- 0:30cleaners. Getting rid of toxins inside
- 0:34of your brain. That doesn't go with
- 0:37movement, does go with sleep and when we
- 0:40rest and when the cycles are happening.
- 0:49Hello everyone and welcome. I'm Jenna
- 0:52Blackert and today we are talking with
- 0:56Cynthia Zack and we are going to talk
- 0:59about the joy of sleeping alone and I
- 1:03called this the magic carpet ride in
- 1:06bed.
- 1:08I went through her book and has a bunch
- 1:11of rituals inside. It's like one of
- 1:13those books that you can ask the
- 1:14universe, "What do I need?" and open it
- 1:17up and it's magic. So, I hope that you
- 1:22enjoy this conversation.
- 1:25Cynthia will talk to us about lucid
- 1:27dreaming. She's going to talk to us
- 1:29about rituals around bed. She's going to
- 1:32talk to us all about sleep. And I'm
- 1:34super excited. I hope you are, too.
- 1:38Today, before we get started, I'm going
- 1:40to start you off with a little morning
- 1:42brew with Woo because I found something
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- 1:49I realized, wow, this is exactly what we
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- 2:20also works for people who have like
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- 3:14but I will also link it up for you all
- 3:17over the place so that you have it.
- 3:19Cynthia, welcome.
- 3:22>> Thank you. Thank you for the invitation.
- 3:24It's very, very exciting and fun. It's
- 3:26fun.
- 3:27>> I'm so glad you're here. I've been told
- 3:29that you just have this vast range of
- 3:32knowledge from my partner and I am just
- 3:35excited to really dive into it.
- 3:38>> Yes.
- 3:39>> So, let's talk a little bit about sleep.
- 3:42Let's talk about sleeping alone. Why did
- 3:45you write this book in the first place?
- 3:48It's interesting because I for
- 3:51circumstances I start sleeping alone
- 3:54more and more and while I was
- 3:57experiencing that I'm also experiencing
- 4:00a deep bliss happiness.
- 4:05So I start wondering and asking myself
- 4:08what is this happening and this hap
- 4:10happiness that I'm feeling is not only
- 4:13because I sleep better, I rest better, I
- 4:16dream better, there's something else
- 4:19more subtle, more into the body. So I
- 4:22start asking myself that questions and I
- 4:26start doing research about that. So what
- 4:29happen when you sleep alone versus sleep
- 4:32with a partner? what happened with your
- 4:35body, your emotions, your subtle bodies,
- 4:39even your fluids, your hormones,
- 4:42everything. And I started discovering
- 4:46immense
- 4:48array of research about that,
- 4:52>> okay?
- 4:52>> And about the benefits and why I was
- 4:55feeling so much better,
- 4:59>> so much happy.
- 5:01>> And then I started writing the book. I
- 5:03say, "Wait a minute. If I feel that
- 5:06there's something in the joy of sleeping
- 5:09alone that we should experience
- 5:13and it's very cultural, like how do I
- 5:15say this to my partner? He's going to be
- 5:17mad or she's going to be mad." And this
- 5:20is a whole new conversation about your
- 5:23needs, your desire.
- 5:26And the nighttime that is not only a
- 5:29space to sleep, it's much more.
- 5:33>> Absolutely. I can only imagine. I
- 5:36actually do sleep alone because and we
- 5:40tried everything. Look, we've got a cute
- 5:42great relationship and the intimacy is
- 5:46beyond, but we've actually found that
- 5:49it's so important just getting sleep for
- 5:51real reasons like dementia as you get
- 5:54older. So, we decided, let's try it for
- 5:57a month and I think we both like it
- 6:00better. We had quiet on so we didn't
- 6:02hear each other snoring. We tried mouth
- 6:04tape, like all the things. And then
- 6:07we're like, now that we're not waking up
- 6:09four times in the middle of the night,
- 6:11wow, we actually do feel better, too.
- 6:14And I know that it's a lot deeper than
- 6:16that. And I know that with these rituals
- 6:18that that I can't wait to get into, I
- 6:21know it's got to take you on a more
- 6:23expansive journey so that you can do
- 6:26things like connect to the morphic field
- 6:30and and develop your intuition and
- 6:33really make it a practice. Absolutely.
- 6:36>> I think you saying very interesting
- 6:39things. You nailed it because
- 6:41>> people when I start opening the
- 6:43conversation with friends and family
- 6:45members and women around me about
- 6:48sleeping alone versus sleeping with a
- 6:50partner, one of the thing is but I don't
- 6:52know how to say it. I'm afraid to say
- 6:54it. I'm afraid about my intimacy, my sex
- 6:57life, my and I said no, it's much better
- 7:03>> because you choose each other.
- 7:05>> Yes.
- 7:06>> In the moment. This is a conversation
- 7:09and then
- 7:11you go and rest alone.
- 7:14>> Yes.
- 7:15>> There's no interruptions,
- 7:17noises, fluids, other people dreams,
- 7:21movements. Yes. other people's schedule,
- 7:24especially if you sleep with a male
- 7:26partner because our rhythm, our like
- 7:31biological clock, everything is so
- 7:34different and we are like you have to do
- 7:39it with a partner because this is a
- 7:41cultural thing and there's a story
- 7:44behind that. It's a story of the bed
- 7:46that in the book is it was so much fun
- 7:48to do the research about what is it this
- 7:51bed this four legs with a mattress what
- 7:54is the story behind how people sleep
- 7:57before us how other cultures sleep and
- 8:01and partner during the night time. So
- 8:05it's enhancing intimacy
- 8:08enhancing
- 8:10connection instead of dividing. is the
- 8:13best arrangement.
- 8:16>> Yeah. Let's talk about some of the
- 8:17rituals. Let's talk about some of the
- 8:19stories and let's talk about some of the
- 8:21research. Where do you want to start?
- 8:24>> The rituals, it's an invitation for the
- 8:26readers to open the book as an oracle.
- 8:29>> Uhhuh.
- 8:30>> And this is a book. It's a fun book to
- 8:33read. It's a deep book to practice. It's
- 8:35simple. You don't need anything. So I
- 8:39invite my readers to just make a
- 8:42question, formulate a question. It could
- 8:45be a very dramatic
- 8:47existential question or it could be
- 8:51simple a decision. You have to make
- 8:54something daily life decisions and then
- 8:58you open the book and you have a ritual
- 9:01that is
- 9:03leading you towards what you need to
- 9:07practice. So, this is the book, The Joy
- 9:09of Sleeping Alone.
- 9:11>> Yeah.
- 9:12>> Yes. Super cool.
- 9:13>> It's $10 on Amazon. I I ordered it
- 9:17yesterday because I was starting I
- 9:20listen to some of your podcasts and I'm
- 9:21like, "Oh my gosh." And nobody talks
- 9:24about this. No. And nobody talks about
- 9:27how the I mean if you think about it
- 9:31whenever somebody is clo well in to be
- 9:34honest they don't even have to be close
- 9:36to you to be in your field but when
- 9:38they're close to you they're like more
- 9:39in your
- 9:41>> aura. Yes. Yes.
- 9:43>> Yeah. And also doing the research about
- 9:46what happened when you understand and in
- 9:48the book you have all these answers
- 9:51how your brain and body works during the
- 9:56night. How the sleep cycles goes during
- 10:00the night. You understand much more why
- 10:04is so cool to sleep alone at least once
- 10:08a week. So I'm not proposing a sleep
- 10:10divorce. I'm not proposing a breakup
- 10:13with your partner. I'm just saying look,
- 10:16>> just try.
- 10:16>> Give it a day.
- 10:18>> Give it a try.
- 10:19>> And mostly make it so that your partner
- 10:22doesn't feel rejected by you. But I feel
- 10:25like if you've got a good relationship,
- 10:27you should be good.
- 10:28>> Not only that, you can invite your
- 10:33partner to practice too. I say, "Okay,
- 10:35look, let's formulate our question. I'm
- 10:38going to open the book like random
- 10:42supposedly random. Okay, this is my
- 10:45ritual lucid meditator re ritual number
- 10:4933 and I explain how to do it step by
- 10:53step and I explain why you have to do
- 10:56it. So let's say we got this ritual
- 10:58number 33.
- 11:00>> Okay,
- 11:01>> my partner and I. So I said, "Okay,
- 11:04let's go to sleep in separate places or
- 11:08beds or spaces and let's practice
- 11:12>> and we meet in the morning and we can
- 11:16share the experience and it's so much
- 11:21rich and profound and fun and there's a
- 11:26big connector during the dream time
- 11:30than during the day." And And also when
- 11:33you sleep you are in the most vulnerable
- 11:35state.
- 11:37And so I lead a lot of meditations like
- 11:40yoga nidra and I lead pujas night pujas
- 11:44with gongs and sometimes I have 20 30
- 11:47people sleeping while I play the whole
- 11:49night and I see that and these people
- 11:53are so vulnerable. We are we're really
- 11:57in another space and time and a
- 12:01different reality
- 12:04in this vulnerable state. If I am alone
- 12:06but I have my practice I know what to do
- 12:10even if I sleep alone for a long time. A
- 12:13lot of women said well I'm sleeping
- 12:14alone anyway. I don't have a partner or
- 12:17I said yeah but the rituals will give
- 12:21you a complete different understanding
- 12:23and meaning of your night
- 12:26>> you you just not just fall into the
- 12:29night and you don't remember anything
- 12:31and you're exhausted is this is a really
- 12:33good time to work
- 12:35>> I think it's so important I pe beyond
- 12:37sleep it's just so important for people
- 12:40to have rhythms and routine and rituals
- 12:43around things and people are just like,
- 12:47"Oh, I got to go to sleep now." Okay.
- 12:49And there's not because I do everything
- 12:51around mine to have a good night's sleep
- 12:54because I know when I have a good
- 12:55night's sleep, then I don't need as much
- 12:57ashwagandha
- 12:59because I'm feeling good. I'm feeling
- 13:01alive.
- 13:02I I do the candles for a little while.
- 13:06I'll meditate for a little while. And I
- 13:09have my own things that I love doing
- 13:12right before bed. And I also love the
- 13:15space when I wake up too.
- 13:18>> Yes.
- 13:18>> Yeah.
- 13:19>> Yeah. I talk a lot about the space in
- 13:22the bed and what happen when you share
- 13:25the space. It's a completely different
- 13:29vibe than when you can and I one of the
- 13:31rituals is an invitation to just
- 13:36put your body in the middle of the bed
- 13:39and spread up your arms and legs like a
- 13:42starfish.
- 13:45and you start like connecting with the
- 13:46cardinal points and the directions and
- 13:50where you are in
- 13:51>> the shamanic practice. Is that what
- 13:52you're saying?
- 13:53>> Absolutely.
- 13:54>> But listen, you don't need anything. You
- 13:57don't need to buy any. It's yourself and
- 14:00the awareness and the practice. That's
- 14:03why the rituals are so cool and so
- 14:06powerful and so easy to do.
- 14:09>> Yeah. like you prepare yourself, you
- 14:11practice and also that takes you away
- 14:15from electronics
- 14:17>> and the platforms and the movies and the
- 14:19phones. That's basically is what's
- 14:22happening now. This is the last thing we
- 14:24do before falling asleep.
- 14:28>> And my proposal is don't fall asleep.
- 14:31just really conscious awareness of okay
- 14:34I'm going into
- 14:36magical space
- 14:39as I said my bed is my magic carpet
- 14:44>> so I reignify the objects and when I go
- 14:47to my bed I say oh this is not a bed
- 14:51this is my spaceship
- 14:52>> I love that
- 14:53>> where we going
- 14:55>> audience can go anywhere so let's go
- 14:57into developing intuition let's go into
- 15:00the whole thing here because I know that
- 15:03they would they're like, "Yes, I'm
- 15:05ready."
- 15:06>> Yeah. So, first of all, just practice.
- 15:09Second, ask a question.
- 15:11>> Would it be okay, Cynthia, if we took
- 15:13them through a practice in a little bit?
- 15:15>> Yes.
- 15:16>> Yes. So, maybe the starfish practice or
- 15:18whichever one you pull up in the book.
- 15:20>> Yeah. Okay. Let's open one and we're
- 15:22going to and we're going to create a
- 15:24collective question.
- 15:26>> Okay,
- 15:26>> for all the audience now and the people
- 15:28that are seeing this after believe me
- 15:33my question is related with your
- 15:35question and the whole people that are
- 15:37watching the show
- 15:39>> because we are one. This is the morphic
- 15:41this field
- 15:44where we are and the thoughts create the
- 15:48connection. So, let's ask a question.
- 15:52Just take one second, feel your
- 15:54heartbeat, and take a deep breath in.
- 15:58Ask your question. You don't need to say
- 16:00it out loud.
- 16:02Just ask your question. You can ask for
- 16:04guidance. You can ask for showing
- 16:06something that are occult and you need
- 16:09to see better like whatever. Heal and
- 16:11exhale. Ground yourself. Feel your
- 16:14heartbeat. And we're going to work with
- 16:16the heart intelligence. We're going to
- 16:19really focus on the heart brain, not the
- 16:24mind or head brain. The heart brain.
- 16:29So, you have your question.
- 16:31>> Yes.
- 16:33>> I do like this
- 16:35>> like a tarot like a tarot card.
- 16:37>> Yeah.
- 16:38>> And
- 16:40this is ritual 43. Look what we have
- 16:43people. lymphatic cleanse. Our lymphatic
- 16:48system works during the day and it's
- 16:52working mostly and mainly when we move
- 16:56and it's a incredible system that we
- 16:59have inside to get rid of toxins.
- 17:02>> That's why the lymphatic massage are so
- 17:05powerful
- 17:06>> to get rid of toxins. So when we do
- 17:09yoga, when we move, when we walk, when
- 17:11we go to the gym, when we dance, the
- 17:14lymphatic system is working. So what
- 17:16happened in the brain? It's a new
- 17:18discovery and it's about 10 years ago,
- 17:22they start seeing that the brain has
- 17:25their own system called glymphatic
- 17:28system.
- 17:30And I put it on my book because they
- 17:33said that when you sleep well and you
- 17:35have a good night of rest, this
- 17:38glimpmphatic system is like a bunch of
- 17:41cleaners
- 17:43getting rid of toxins inside of your
- 17:46brain that doesn't go with movement,
- 17:50does go with sleep and when we rest and
- 17:53when the cycles are happening. So
- 17:57clearly your question, my question, the
- 18:00audience question is regarding how can I
- 18:03have a better like clarity
- 18:07of mind? How can I be more efficient?
- 18:12How can I be more more sure about my
- 18:14desires?
- 18:16And that's starting at night with the
- 18:18glimpmphatic system. I'm going to read a
- 18:21little bit and maybe we can after I can
- 18:24send you some pictures or you can put
- 18:26the pictures of this ritual.
- 18:28>> Great.
- 18:29>> You sit down, you breathing next to your
- 18:32bed or on your bed. You can move a
- 18:35little bit your body and start moving
- 18:38your neck, your eyes. Move gently left
- 18:42and right. Wrap your hands. Cover your
- 18:45eyes with your palms. So you begin to
- 18:48feel the play of lights, shadows, sounds
- 18:53and sensation.
- 18:55So I said keep your eyes covered and
- 18:58visualize,
- 18:59listen to that, using your imagination
- 19:02the fluid,
- 19:04>> the liquid inside your brain moving in
- 19:09the form of lymph which cleanses and
- 19:12carries away waste products.
- 19:15kind of the thoughts that you don't need
- 19:19are going away during the night. Making
- 19:22space for new ideas, making space for
- 19:26new connections, making space for your
- 19:29truth,
- 19:30>> getting rid of this type of thoughts
- 19:34that are doesn't serve me or serve you.
- 19:39and then said, "End the ritual by
- 19:41surrender to sleep with the certainty
- 19:44that your brain center is detoxified,
- 19:48open to receiving messages from the
- 19:50universe in the form of lucid dreams and
- 19:53that and then I explain what is it for,
- 19:56why it's good." But this is the ritual
- 19:59that we have people, the glimpmphatic
- 20:01cleanse.
- 20:02>> Yes.
- 20:03>> So that's one practice. So if I do this
- 20:06practice and I just lay down on my bed,
- 20:10I find the center, I open arms and legs,
- 20:14that's all I need.
- 20:15>> Yeah.
- 20:17But it's so interesting how most people
- 20:19don't even practice these simple mindful
- 20:23practices.
- 20:24They don't take the time to just go
- 20:28body,
- 20:30we're gonna let's move some limp.
- 20:34>> Yes. And that's and that's I usually go
- 20:37into vision. I'm a hypnotherapist and I
- 20:40want to
- 20:41>> take myself on a journey
- 20:44and and often then I'll put some
- 20:46suggestions in there and sometimes I'll
- 20:48listen to my own work. But this is
- 20:51actually
- 20:52nice to bring in some of these things
- 20:55that support the body. when you said
- 20:58that that I would love a brighter brain
- 21:01and faster brain and the whole thing
- 21:05>> and I think that helps literally
- 21:07everything. And it's funny, I recently
- 21:09started a detox and they the guy that he
- 21:12analyzes through the eyes and he told me
- 21:15that I had lymphatic stuff that I needed
- 21:18to move through. So this was exactly
- 21:20what I needed to hear. Now I'm gonna so
- 21:23do this on a regular basis.
- 21:25>> Yeah. Yeah. And it's oh this is magic.
- 21:28No this is connection
- 21:31>> through these things that we don't see
- 21:34but we feel at the end all the questions
- 21:38are related.
- 21:39>> Yeah.
- 21:40>> And we need the practice and as you said
- 21:43especially now with the with technology
- 21:48and the screens
- 21:50it's more and more disconnection. Can I
- 21:53feel sometimes I fell asleep watching a
- 21:55movie and in the middle of the thing I'm
- 21:58like completely confused
- 22:02no and the night it happens to me I said
- 22:05wait a minute go back to your practice.
- 22:07>> Yeah. Yeah. I had done that in the past
- 22:10and it's fun to just fall asleep but
- 22:12then I'll wake up and been like how long
- 22:15have I been sleeping here? And then I
- 22:17noticed that I get actually three hours
- 22:19less sleep because I fell asleep during
- 22:21a movie instead of falling asleep the
- 22:23way that my brain actually wanted me to
- 22:25fall asleep.
- 22:27>> Yeah. And we need the times. We need the
- 22:29hours of sleep. We need the rest.
- 22:32>> Yeah. Because as I said you in the
- 22:34beginning of the book I explain them
- 22:39cycles how it works and what happened to
- 22:42my body when I allow this to happen in
- 22:46the right way how much need there is for
- 22:50that and also the lucid dreams that in
- 22:53this in the ritual that we pick
- 22:55together.
- 22:56>> Yeah
- 22:57>> I mentioned that
- 22:58>> let's talk about that. Yeah, it's it's
- 23:01another
- 23:03reality.
- 23:04>> Yes, we many people on the line are
- 23:07aware of this. We work a lot with heart
- 23:09coherence
- 23:11>> and a lot about manifesting through the
- 23:14field. So, let's talk a little bit about
- 23:16lucid dreaming, how we get into a lucid
- 23:20state easier. I think a lot of people
- 23:23would love to know the steps to get into
- 23:25more of a lucid dreaming state. Let's
- 23:29talk about it. Yeah.
- 23:30>> Yeah. There's a whole chapter about
- 23:32that, but basically is that you catch a
- 23:36dream sign.
- 23:39So, you have to work with your alarm.
- 23:40>> So, hold on. You catch a dream sign. Is
- 23:43that what you said? Okay. What do you
- 23:45mean by that?
- 23:46>> Okay. So the prop the best way to do it
- 23:49the most simple to start practicing is
- 23:53put your alarm clock usually 2 hours
- 23:57before your waking time. So if you wake
- 24:00up at 7:00 a.m. put your alarm at 5 and
- 24:03you wake up. You sit down and you try to
- 24:08catch a dream sign.
- 24:10Dream signs are things that only happen
- 24:13in dreams. Like you're flying or you
- 24:16talk to your dead grandma or you see
- 24:19somebody that is like exhibition or a
- 24:23teacher that is not here any longer. A
- 24:26dream sign. That's what you you catch.
- 24:28>> Now, is that something that you would
- 24:30put in your head as you fall back to
- 24:32sleep? No. Okay.
- 24:33>> No. You're gonna you
- 24:35>> You're just asking it. You're just
- 24:37putting out an intention.
- 24:38>> Yeah. Because you were dreaming. I was
- 24:41dreaming. So if I sit down and I
- 24:44remember a little dream sign. Oh, I
- 24:47dream about my mom that is not here any
- 24:50longer. Okay, that's a dream sign. This
- 24:52is somebody that is not longer here. Oh,
- 24:56or I see myself flying.
- 24:58>> So that's a dream sign. things that only
- 25:01happen in dreams or a special location
- 25:04that is not real supposedly. It's only a
- 25:08dream space.
- 25:10>> Uhhuh.
- 25:10>> So I sit down.
- 25:12Oh, I remember I was flying. That's my
- 25:16dream sign.
- 25:17>> Yeah. Okay.
- 25:19>> So I sit down. I take few deep breath. I
- 25:24stay with the image that I'm I was
- 25:27flying and I go back to sleep.
- 25:30until 7 a.m. In this window, what
- 25:34happened with the practice is that at
- 25:36one point I'm going to be able to wake
- 25:39up be awake during my dream.
- 25:45>> I've got questions on the chat, too.
- 25:46>> Uh if I don't have my glasses, I can't
- 25:48read anything.
- 25:49>> That's okay. Actually, guys, if you have
- 25:52other questions, please jump on in into
- 25:54the chat. We'd love to answer some of
- 25:56your questions. That'd be great.
- 25:58>> Yeah. So with this dream sign is my
- 26:01connection to go back to sleep.
- 26:04>> And usually what happened with the
- 26:06subconscious mind is that I got this
- 26:08image and I go back dreaming with that.
- 26:12>> Yeah.
- 26:12>> I'm I'm manipulating my own dreams and
- 26:17then at one point I want to be aware
- 26:21that I am awake and I am sleeping and
- 26:25dreaming.
- 26:26>> Uhhuh. So I start asking questions. I
- 26:31start
- 26:32making connections. I start creating the
- 26:36reality that I want to be happening
- 26:40during the day.
- 26:42I use my subconscious mind that is
- 26:47my 90% of my intelligence is there.
- 26:50>> Wow.
- 26:51>> And the nervous system in my
- 26:52subconscious mind. I don't know. We're
- 26:56talking up. I'm not aware of my
- 26:59heartbeating. I'm not aware of my
- 27:01circulation.
- 27:02I'm not aware of my digestive system
- 27:05doing their job. This is a subconscious
- 27:08mind, my breathing. I'm not aware of my
- 27:10temperature. Just
- 27:12>> so we are living in a 10%.
- 27:15>> Yeah. We are living in a 10%.
- 27:18So the dreams and the night allowed us
- 27:21to go on this 90%.
- 27:25>> Yeah. connection. Yeah.
- 27:27>> So that's the beginning of the lucid
- 27:28dream. There's a whole chapter in my
- 27:31book about deep practices.
- 27:34>> I know a lot of your a lot of your work
- 27:37you had it started with yoga
- 27:40>> and music and and gosh this community is
- 27:44so into I use the word frequency all the
- 27:48time, right? Frequency. You talked a
- 27:51little bit about it a frequency matching
- 27:53various organs at the beginning of your
- 27:56book. Can you talk a little bit about
- 27:59music, frequency, yoga, like how it all
- 28:03goes together in in your reality maybe
- 28:08and then we can see how it goes in how
- 28:10we expand on that.
- 28:11>> Yeah. Before answering your question,
- 28:13there's a question say what is the
- 28:14benefiting of lucid dreams? And I like
- 28:16when I teach, I love to question again.
- 28:23What do you think is the benefit of a
- 28:26lucid dream?
- 28:27>> Yeah.
- 28:28>> And I want you, whoever asked the
- 28:31question, to to keep the open mind on
- 28:35the answers. You're going to start
- 28:36receiving
- 28:38a lot of information.
- 28:40And I want you to go to sleep tonight.
- 28:42And I'm going to do it, too. This is a
- 28:44really good question. What is the
- 28:46benefiting of this? I'm just going to go
- 28:48to sleep with that open question.
- 28:50>> Yeah.
- 28:52>> Because in our educational system
- 28:54western, we want answers. We want the
- 28:56teacher to tell us everything.
- 28:58>> Yeah.
- 28:59>> And my approach is okay. That's a really
- 29:02good question.
- 29:03>> Yeah. Inquire. I love it. Ask yourself
- 29:07and get the book because in the book
- 29:09there's a lot of research and data
- 29:13>> about the benefits and what you can do
- 29:17because you get if you master that you
- 29:20have superpowers. We all have it.
- 29:23>> Yeah. It's it's funny. She's in our
- 29:25inner circle and she's recently started
- 29:27channeling. I feel like this is probably
- 29:30she probably already knows the answer,
- 29:32but now she can ask through
- 29:36>> the energy instead of just asking the
- 29:39teacher.
- 29:40>> Yeah. And Yes. And also, this is also
- 29:45important. Super important. It's
- 29:47practice. Like I go to the gym every day
- 29:49and I after two, three days, I want to
- 29:52have muscles. No,
- 29:55no. I need to keep going. times. It just
- 29:57depends on the person.
- 29:59>> Yeah, but I need to keep going.
- 30:01>> I like to think possibilities happen
- 30:03fast.
- 30:04>> No, it can happen. It's genetics.
- 30:07It can happen.
- 30:07>> I'm just I'm literally just playing. So,
- 30:10sorry. The humor comes out depending on
- 30:12the speaker. We just don't
- 30:14>> No, I know. I know. Yeah. But I wish I
- 30:16go once and I have my muscles, but I
- 30:18need to keep going because when I stop
- 30:21going for two, three days,
- 30:23>> I feel that I'm starting all over. So
- 30:26that's that's all these
- 30:28>> that's a good that's actually just such
- 30:30a beautiful metaphor too. I know when my
- 30:34Archerian channel first came online it
- 30:37was very cool but it was also very
- 30:39vague. Is this really happening and I'm
- 30:42making this up? there's a lot of space
- 30:45between it and it's keeps tuning itself
- 30:48to become a clearer communication the
- 30:52more I practice it to the point that I
- 30:55am now just saying okay let's connect
- 30:59and and what you have for me and I think
- 31:02that's
- 31:03>> the practice for everything that's why
- 31:07people have a yoga practice that's why
- 31:09people have a nighttime ritual practice
- 31:13that's why people have morning routines.
- 31:15It's practice. And every time you
- 31:17practice something, there's these subtle
- 31:20nuances that come out that can really
- 31:23change your world and guide you as your
- 31:27north star every day for the last. Yeah,
- 31:30there's my there's my soap box.
- 31:34>> Yeah, that's true. That's true. That's
- 31:36why and also because the this way we are
- 31:41in the western world like we want quick
- 31:44answers, we want quick solutions, we
- 31:46want the things right now immediately.
- 31:49So this takes practice but it's
- 31:52fascinating to see
- 31:54>> and this is related with your question
- 31:56about the frequencies, the yoga, the
- 31:59sounds and so this is going into other
- 32:03bodies. It's not like this
- 32:06bones and flesh body
- 32:09>> is going into other subtle bodies. For
- 32:11kundalini there's 10 bodies. For the
- 32:14sufism there's 10,000 bodies.
- 32:18>> We can talk about seven chakras or 67
- 32:21chakras or 67,000
- 32:24nadis
- 32:26>> all over my blood stream. So there's so
- 32:30much that we don't see. so much we again
- 32:35we see very little.
- 32:37>> Yeah.
- 32:37>> It's all very narrow
- 32:39>> and it's related with our perception of
- 32:42the world.
- 32:43>> Absolutely. And it's usually filtered
- 32:46with all those constructs too
- 32:49>> completely. So
- 32:51>> there's this subconscious world,
- 32:54>> this subconscious mind that we want to
- 32:57touch,
- 32:59>> and feel. And this is related with the
- 33:02frequencies.
- 33:04And I have the I have to choose
- 33:08what I'm going to hear, what type of
- 33:12music, what type of sounds, what type of
- 33:15messages.
- 33:16>> Yeah. Because again we are bombarded
- 33:20that mainstream
- 33:22really bad quality message and we can
- 33:26see it every time everywhere. We can see
- 33:30it in like the Super Bowl. We can see it
- 33:34when I go and buy shoes. It's in the
- 33:36supermarket.
- 33:38I'm very aware of the music everywhere.
- 33:40So, I go into the supermarket and
- 33:42there's always something playing,
- 33:45>> right?
- 33:46>> You see,
- 33:47>> and you always know if it's upping your
- 33:50cortisol or it's lowering it
- 33:53>> correctly.
- 33:54>> And in the aure we call rajasic rajas.
- 33:58>> Okay.
- 33:59>> It's the same as the food.
- 34:01>> How do you spell that?
- 34:03>> R A js.
- 34:06Rajas. Okay. It's like what irritates
- 34:10you.
- 34:11>> Uhhuh.
- 34:12>> So what
- 34:13>> I've heard that before now it's been a
- 34:16long time.
- 34:17>> No, we are surround surrendered by this
- 34:21rajastic
- 34:23field.
- 34:24>> Yeah.
- 34:25>> That
- 34:26>> it could be politics.
- 34:28>> Yes.
- 34:29>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean that's a good way to
- 34:32look at it. Is it like heavy metal
- 34:34music?
- 34:36>> Yes.
- 34:36>> Is it
- 34:38politics or could it be a zen type
- 34:42music?
- 34:42>> At the end, it's all politics and we are
- 34:45like very much into this field without
- 34:49any awareness because the message is
- 34:52very subtle.
- 34:54>> Yeah. So when I start like understanding
- 34:57this and being more like conscious and
- 35:01aware of what am I listening, what am I
- 35:03seeing, what am I hearing, what am I
- 35:06eating,
- 35:08even the clothes I'm wearing,
- 35:10everything.
- 35:12So that's all frequency and that's is
- 35:14related with the
- 35:16brain waves.
- 35:17>> Yeah. and the electromagnetic field of
- 35:20your heart that has a huge
- 35:23electromagnetic field and a brain
- 35:26there's a brain.
- 35:27>> Yeah.
- 35:28>> You know the heart brain coherence first
- 35:31in the brain then to the mind is it's
- 35:33called bottom up bottom up. We okay
- 35:37>> the first thought
- 35:40is on the brain
- 35:42hard brain we have more than 40,000
- 35:46neurons and connections memory it's a
- 35:49brain
- 35:50>> sure
- 35:50>> it's a complete full developed brain our
- 35:53heart and then goes to the headbrain I
- 35:57don't want to call my
- 35:58>> and then the gut brain
- 36:00>> and the gut brain
- 36:02>> that is also the second brain they call
- 36:04the gut brain the entic system The
- 36:07serotonin is there and it's all related
- 36:10at the end with hormones
- 36:13>> and at the end is related with
- 36:15epigenetics.
- 36:17>> It's not nature is nurture. Remember
- 36:21that
- 36:22>> it's not all our genetic things
- 36:27and situations is all
- 36:32it's all nurture. It's not nature. We
- 36:35can reverse every genetic code of
- 36:40diseases that coming from my family.
- 36:43>> Yeah. You're speaking to our choir, man.
- 36:46You're speaking to our choir.
- 36:48>> Yeah. It's like what I am eating, what
- 36:51am I listening to, what am I hearing,
- 36:54what am I reading, what is my practices?
- 36:57And always don't be like, and this is
- 37:00something I remind myself all the time,
- 37:03be gentle with yourself,
- 37:06>> you know, this is not to get obsessive
- 37:08with this. It's to play around.
- 37:11>> Yeah. Yeah. I I feel I find that we'll
- 37:16have these conversations and and we will
- 37:19get all flowy and chilled and zeny and
- 37:23then one conversation that I have
- 37:26outside that has to do with
- 37:29>> news or a job or something like that is
- 37:32all of a sudden my entire nervous system
- 37:34goes
- 37:36>> Yes. And then as soon as it does, it's
- 37:39lately it seems like my whole body is
- 37:41like, "Ouch."
- 37:43>> And it makes it like it's almost like
- 37:46making it so clear to me these days that
- 37:49the contraction is exactly
- 37:52the human condition.
- 37:54>> Yeah.
- 37:55>> The contraction is literally what's
- 37:58causing us to have this these illnesses,
- 38:02these diseases. It's It's just because
- 38:05we're contracting down on this little
- 38:08noise that in the entire universe is
- 38:11nothing.
- 38:13Yeah.
- 38:13>> Yes. Absolutely. I love where you're
- 38:15going with this.
- 38:17>> Yeah. And so we can talk about that
- 38:19forever and it's
- 38:22>> Yeah. And it's so cool. But okay, what
- 38:25to do? What's next? What can I do?
- 38:27>> Yeah.
- 38:28>> Just get this book and open one ritual.
- 38:31What is it that I open?
- 38:32>> Actually, let me put the link for the
- 38:34book in the chat, you guys, right now.
- 38:37It's at amazon.hustle.com.
- 38:41Yes,
- 38:42>> that is our link to her book.
- 38:45>> Um, it's like
- 38:46>> not expensive.
- 38:48>> No. And listen, there's the audio book,
- 38:51too. You can get on Audible
- 38:53>> and get the audio book, too.
- 38:54>> Yeah. No, I was listening to the prefix
- 38:57of the audio book.
- 38:59>> Yeah.
- 38:59>> It's Amazon. And this is where all our
- 39:02Amazon recommendations are, you guys.
- 39:05And look, I'm a researcher. I only bring
- 39:08you the best stuff.
- 39:10>> Yes.
- 39:10>> Or at least I try.
- 39:12>> In my opinion, the best stuff.
- 39:14>> Yes.
- 39:16>> I open one that is really cool. I invite
- 39:19all the females in your audience.
- 39:22>> Okay.
- 39:23>> Sit on the throne, queen. Sit on the
- 39:27throne. And it's really fun to do.
- 39:30>> Get an old chair,
- 39:32>> whatever chair of your house, and just
- 39:34>> Oh, I thought we did this on the toilet.
- 39:37>> No.
- 39:39>> Okay.
- 39:39>> Any chair.
- 39:40>> Okay.
- 39:41>> And just create art. You can put
- 39:45crystals, you can add flowers, you can
- 39:48paint it. Any chair that they can be
- 39:51used for your creativity.
- 39:54>> Create your throne.
- 39:56>> Ah, nice. And when you're creating the
- 39:58throne, really do it with intention
- 40:01>> like a vision board or something.
- 40:03>> Exactly.
- 40:05And you can you can you can do collage.
- 40:07You can pick what you can write. Any
- 40:10chair that you want to you can buy a
- 40:12chair just for that. If they have arm
- 40:14chair like arms is better more of a
- 40:17feeling of a throne. And what I do this
- 40:20is ritual number six.
- 40:22>> Uhhuh.
- 40:23What I invite with this ritual is okay,
- 40:27you create your throne, put it next to
- 40:30your bed
- 40:32and sit down there every night before
- 40:35going to the bed for 3 minutes, five
- 40:38minutes.
- 40:40Just sit there, breathe and connect with
- 40:46your regal existence,
- 40:49your unique existence.
- 40:52Yeah,
- 40:54>> you're like the Buddhist says, your
- 40:58precious human rebirth.
- 41:01Connect with your precious human
- 41:04rebirth. And then I said,
- 41:09the throne is your transitional
- 41:13territory between the dream world and
- 41:15wakefulness,
- 41:17between the unconscious and the
- 41:19conscious. Make it yours. Own it, enjoy
- 41:22it. And then I talk about the
- 41:26transformation of everyday
- 41:29objects into sacred spaces
- 41:33>> into sacred very magical things and I
- 41:38explain how you see it, etc., etc. And
- 41:42then I share
- 41:45uh Jewish prayer
- 41:47for when you wake up because for the
- 41:49Jewish people
- 41:51you really die when you go to sleep and
- 41:54you thank God in the morning because you
- 41:58awake. Yeah. You're alive.
- 42:00>> Wow.
- 42:00>> God gives your soul back
- 42:04>> because I didn't know that's how they
- 42:06practice. Wow.
- 42:09This this sleep is a gateway to another
- 42:12realm. In Judaism is the prayer modi. I
- 42:16give thanks expresses gratitude to God
- 42:18for bringing us back from the other
- 42:21world.
- 42:22>> Yeah.
- 42:23>> Acknowledge that our souls entrusted to
- 42:26God during sleep are renewed and brought
- 42:30back upon waking.
- 42:34>> Neat.
- 42:35It's so funny because
- 42:37>> it's good. I've been looking back at the
- 42:39Bible and looking for specific verses on
- 42:43manifesting and vision and even their
- 42:46beliefs back then and it's just so lined
- 42:49up. We talk about this is like the new
- 42:52age woo woo, but this is really like the
- 42:56ancient real how it actually is stuff.
- 42:59>> Yeah.
- 43:00>> And I I really think people sometimes
- 43:02don't fully acknowledge it. I'm really
- 43:05trying to work on people to like
- 43:08this is the way and you create your
- 43:11reality. Your point of view creates
- 43:14everything that you believe that you
- 43:16trust. And I I it took me 50ome years to
- 43:21get on board with this idea
- 43:24>> that you know what we say inside
- 43:30we
- 43:31really do manifest. So if we feel crappy
- 43:35all day and we say, "I feel tired. I
- 43:37feel
- 43:39remind me I laughed at the Super Bowl
- 43:41Super Bowl commercial when like they did
- 43:44a me commercial."
- 43:48Yeah. And I just think so many people
- 43:51just live in this meth state and there
- 43:55and they don't actually go, "Wow, what
- 43:58if I actually was truly really alive in
- 44:02this moment could choose infinite
- 44:05possibilities and change anything
- 44:08and they won't choose from that place
- 44:10because they actually don't think that
- 44:12they can."
- 44:14>> Yeah.
- 44:15>> Yeah. Yeah. That's all what happened to
- 44:18us. And it's a it's a game. It's it's a
- 44:21play between these two realities and
- 44:25opposite things that like apparently are
- 44:28opposite
- 44:29>> but at the end
- 44:31>> we have the tools and my intention is
- 44:35give you tools.
- 44:36>> Yep. That's what
- 44:37>> and the practices tools and practices. I
- 44:41know that you got there from using
- 44:43tools. the woowoo that you mentioned
- 44:47>> uh is something that I'm very aware and
- 44:49I say okay I'm going to just go
- 44:52scientific research there so when people
- 44:55read it's not about my own imagination
- 44:59or ideas there's a scientific
- 45:01data research very profound in the book
- 45:05about what happen when you sleep alone
- 45:08what happen when you sleep with somebody
- 45:12about lucid dreams about the body, the
- 45:15sleep cycles
- 45:17>> and also like we we pick the first
- 45:20ritual, the glimpmphatic system. It's
- 45:22all scientific.
- 45:25>> Yeah. And doesn't have to be scientific
- 45:28to be honest because it comes from what
- 45:31we know is actually true from the field.
- 45:34>> Yes.
- 45:35>> I love it.
- 45:35>> It feels so aligned and so light. I and
- 45:39I'm excited to to practice it for myself
- 45:42because I need different practices than
- 45:45what I'm doing. I've gotten in this
- 45:47habit and it works for me, but I feel
- 45:49like
- 45:50>> I need to It's interesting because the
- 45:53word that I want to say is flirt. like
- 45:56that's the frequency of the word, but I
- 45:59feel that my bed and the way that I am
- 46:03and my husband's always said I'm sleep
- 46:06OCD because I have to have the best
- 46:08sheets and the best pillows and it just
- 46:11has to be aligned in the certain way.
- 46:14And he's always called me, you know,
- 46:16that I have sleep OCD. But now I'm
- 46:18thinking that I'm just a flirt with my
- 46:20bed.
- 46:21>> Yes. Yes. AND NOW YOU SEE,
- 46:23>> OH, LET'S JUST love on each other.
- 46:28>> Yeah. You change your perspective in one
- 46:30second. So
- 46:31>> I don't see my bed as the same or
- 46:34anything.
- 46:35>> Yeah.
- 46:36>> Or my car or my clothes
- 46:38>> or the table where you are.
- 46:41>> And you start really thankful. Be
- 46:44grateful
- 46:46>> for the microphone, for your glasses,
- 46:48for the table that are holding you. this
- 46:51phone. I'm in Miami. Look at my
- 46:54beautiful clouds. And it's like we are
- 46:57connected. I have to be super grateful
- 47:01for this phone, for technology, for the
- 47:03for everything.
- 47:05>> Yes. Yes. And that it's in my world. I
- 47:09I've chosen this to be in my world.
- 47:13>> Yes. So, that's very cool. Get the book.
- 47:15>> Yes. Again, the link you guys is at
- 47:19amazon.hustle.com.
- 47:23Cynthia, any last words?
- 47:26>> Just enjoy it. Play
- 47:29>> Yeah, the book is written also in a way
- 47:32that nonconventional
- 47:34because we read from page one to page
- 47:37200. Just open it up.
- 47:40>> Yeah.
- 47:40>> And give yourself permission.
- 47:43>> It's okay. Nothing. It's not the end of
- 47:45the world. Talk to your partner. Say,
- 47:47"Listen, and if you sleep alone, open
- 47:50the book and you're gonna see a lot of
- 47:54magical things happening during the day
- 47:56when you practice the rituals."
- 47:59>> Yeah, it could be just take on vacation,
- 48:02too. I love it. Thank you, Cynthia.
- 48:05>> Thank you. Thank you.
- 48:06>> Thank you for having me.
- 48:08>> Oh my goodness. That was the great
- 48:10conversation. It's just
- 48:11>> Thank you, Joe. Say thank you, Cynthia.
- 48:14different and juicy topic. Katie fits.
- 48:17Thanks, Cynthia. So many golden nuggets.
- 48:21>> Joe says, "Thank you, Cynthia." Yes,
- 48:25thank you. It was just such a fun fun
- 48:28conversation
- 48:30and I am really excited to talk to you
- 48:34hopefully again and see if we can even
- 48:36go deeper. Beautiful.
- 48:38>> Yeah. And this is only the beginning. We
- 48:39can
- 48:40>> Yeah. Yeah. I I know that you've got so
- 48:43many things.
- 48:44>> We can create a lot of things.
- 48:45>> Yeah, absolutely. I love it.
- 48:47>> Thank you for the invitation, Janet.
- 48:49>> Thank you.
- 48:49>> And to all your audience, thank you.
- 48:52Thank you very much.
- 48:54>> Thank you. You have a great day.
- 48:56>> Everybody,
- 48:56>> thank you.
- 48:57>> Stick around just for a second. Just
- 48:59tiny itty bitty announcements.
- 49:02Tomorrow is Mystique Sate,
- 49:06our inner circle. And during it, we are
- 49:09going to talk about vision energetics.
- 49:14And we're going to go through all the
- 49:17constructs of this reality that is
- 49:19keeping you from truly allowing your
- 49:24dreams in. This isn't a vision workshop.
- 49:27This is literally a place to come and
- 49:31say, I'm creating that I am having this.
- 49:35My desires are my northstar.
- 49:38I am doing this and we will work with
- 49:43you to get the stops out of the way so
- 49:46that you actually can. If you're looking
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- 49:55That's howustle.comvision.
- 49:58We also are inviting all our Mystique
- 50:01members to be a part of this. So, if
- 50:04you're not a Mystique member, but you
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- 50:40There's huge discounts that we're just
- 50:42leaving up because we just really want
- 50:44to in we want the money not to be the
- 50:47thing and not to be the stopper here. We
- 50:51really want this to be about you're
- 50:53saying yes to yourself. This is you
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- 51:03that you can just truly choose for you.
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- 51:12Oh my goodness. The other thing that
- 51:14we've got going on, we are planning a
- 51:17challenge. Yes. Not a summit exactly,
- 51:21but a challenge. And it's going to be
- 51:23all around money and your mindset around
- 51:28money. So, if you are interested in
- 51:31that, look for that coming the second
- 51:33week of March. And we don't know exactly
- 51:37what it's called yet, but we can feel
- 51:39the energy starting to bubble up inside
- 51:41of ourselves for it. So, that's
- 51:44happening soon.
- 51:46And I guess that's all the announcements
- 51:49I've got for you. I'm Jenna. Leiana will
- 51:52be back on Thursday. She just had a
- 51:54conflict at this time.
- 51:57And I will see you on Thursday. Until
- 52:00then, take a little time to enjoy the
- 52:02woo. Bye everyone. Have a great day.