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If They Don't Post You... Are You Even Dating? · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
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  Speaker 2: On air with a Ryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 1: Oh it is kiss FM. So by definition a situationship
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  Speaker 1: is what? What is a situationship? Because got some situationships
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  Speaker 1: circulating here around the show. What is it?
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  Speaker 2: I would say, it's kind of the situation that Sophia
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  Speaker 2: is in a little bit. You're in a situationship.
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  Speaker 1: You're hanging out with somebody, but you put rules on it.
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  Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, exactly, it's a what what is it?
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  Speaker 1: It's what? What is it? What are we? It's also
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  Speaker 1: it's like, hey, nobody's asking any questions, so let's just
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  Speaker 1: keep situation shipping.
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  Speaker 4: Now.
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  Speaker 1: Jordan in the back room, who comes to us from
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  Speaker 1: Burbank High, Jordan, what's the issue with your friend?
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  Speaker 5: My friend's in the situationship and she is wondering about
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  Speaker 5: location sharing and whether she should share her location with
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  Speaker 5: the guy that she's been talking to.
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  Speaker 1: For a few months and then would both share each
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  Speaker 1: other's locations in theory, yes, and yeah, bad news.
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  Speaker 5: The It's confusing because as for me personally, I'm okay
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  Speaker 5: with dropping my location for any friend if they're asking
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  Speaker 5: for it. But when you're in a situationship. Is it
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  Speaker 5: weird to ask for that person's location because now you
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  Speaker 5: guys have a thing going on, even though you're just
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  Speaker 5: asking for their safety.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but are you asking for their safety or you're
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  Speaker 1: also asking to know where they are? Because the situationship
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  Speaker 1: can be anxiety ridden. I think that is dangerous to
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  Speaker 1: have locations in a situationship because technically that person can
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  Speaker 1: be at someone else's place, but if you see them there,
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  Speaker 1: that's gonna make you crazy. It's gonna make you crazy.
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  Speaker 1: And this is the problem with situationships. They're as good
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  Speaker 1: as they are bad. It's you're actually in a situationship.
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  Speaker 1: Did you ask for a location?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I kind of was in the same situation as
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  Speaker 3: Jordan's friend where the night that skeletor came to pick
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  Speaker 3: me and my friends up from that party when my
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  Speaker 3: friend threw up in his car, I sent him my
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  Speaker 3: location and I kind of did it indefinitely as like
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  Speaker 3: an insinuation, like hey, like send me years back, like
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  Speaker 3: this is us, Like you're not saying it and he
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  Speaker 3: never sent it to me.
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  Speaker 2: He never sent it to me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the this is the gray area. Gray
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  Speaker 1: is not good. So I think it look the safety
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  Speaker 1: component is a great thing, but when you're in a situationship,
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  Speaker 1: all of these can be very, very confusing and frustrating.
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  Speaker 5: But now, do we just not care about their safety
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  Speaker 5: even though we have everyone else's location.
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  Speaker 1: No, you care, But they need to step up and
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  Speaker 1: make a decision about their relationship. I think, say, with
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  Speaker 1: you and skeletor so. I don't mean to dovetail this
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  Speaker 1: back into your situation, but I'm going to keep hearing
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  Speaker 1: about this drama in your life if you don't make it,
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  Speaker 1: I think you've got to be decisive to say, dude,
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  Speaker 1: it's been a long time, either we in or out,
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  Speaker 1: and happy birthday. She's not going out with him tonight
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  Speaker 1: on her birthday? FYI?
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  Speaker 2: She did last night into the midnight hour.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but that that was exactly exactly my point. Because
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  Speaker 1: he's in a situation. He doesn't get the prime time show.
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  Speaker 1: No he doesn't. He gets he gets prime access. He
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  Speaker 1: gets like this seven o'clock version, you get prime time tonight.
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  Speaker 1: All right, So Ruby, let's take it to the streets
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  Speaker 1: right now, Let's go to the back room. Let's go
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  Speaker 1: there is what is the issue? You saw a post
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  Speaker 1: I put up on Instagram you know my chuldery chip idea.
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  Speaker 1: It's not my idea to trend. He cut open a
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  Speaker 1: bag of chips. I wanted plain kettle chips so that
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  Speaker 1: you consult them sort of unsulted, and plane not all
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  Speaker 1: the seasoning on them, right, so you can add things,
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  Speaker 1: add me things to the top of your bed of chips.
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  Speaker 1: What's the controversial issue, Ruby.
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  Speaker 2: It's not controversial. It's a little bit of like a proposal.
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  Speaker 1: I would say, I run from proposals.
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  Speaker 6: I saw a lot of people were like, no, don't
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  Speaker 6: do the fish, like, don't do sardines, like they're grossed out.
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  Speaker 6: So I have a tip for people who are not
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  Speaker 6: into tin fish. I feel like you could do potato
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  Speaker 6: chips and preshudo and pepper chips.
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  Speaker 1: Of course, anything with salt. Look, I just decided to
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  Speaker 1: put canned fish on my potato chips because you needed
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  Speaker 1: a salty item. The idea is that you take the
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  Speaker 1: canvas of potato chips, you slice open the bag.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that was intense. I slice like that.
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  Speaker 1: You open it up like a cadaver. If you're dissecting
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  Speaker 1: a frog right out of my mouth. Look, and you
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  Speaker 1: dissect it and you put all whatever you want on
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  Speaker 1: the top, and I think photo would work great. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I am a If there were a convention or a
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  Speaker 1: summit for enthusiasts of canned fish, I would go. I
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  Speaker 1: loved canned oysters, I liked canned sardines, I liked can
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  Speaker 1: I like canfish, So that's what I put on there.
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  Speaker 1: And pimentos pimentos for some color. I grew up in
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  Speaker 1: the South where we had pimento cheese, but pimentos, you know,
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  Speaker 1: from inside the olive. But thank you for me for
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  Speaker 1: following me on Instagram. So nice would you put on
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  Speaker 1: your chip?
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  Speaker 2: Siciny, I wouldn't be that creative.
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  Speaker 1: You get cool ranch already ranched and cool.
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  Speaker 2: No, yeah, you know what I mean. Like maybe I
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  Speaker 2: would try to purshiot a thing. So I'm not a
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  Speaker 2: sardine girl. I don't even know if I would try
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  Speaker 2: it at it like being like polite.
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  Speaker 1: Now coming up here these scams. This is scam alert.
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  Speaker 1: When you put your phone down in a restaurant, be careful.
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  Speaker 1: I always usually I have one eye on the phone
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  Speaker 1: or I'm thinking about the phone when I put it down.
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  Speaker 1: But this is a scam that's going around. Don't get
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  Speaker 1: caught up in it. I'll tell you what it is
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  Speaker 1: in just a secondary It's kiss if em ron kiss
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  Speaker 1: good morning. I forgot to tell you guys that last night,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what I was thinking. I last I
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  Speaker 1: had a man I was hungry before I went to sleep.
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  Speaker 1: I made a sillium husk a cow chocolate protein shake,
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  Speaker 1: and then I took my magnesium on top of it. Oh, yes,
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  Speaker 1: exactly what you mean. Exactly that was the only thing
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  Speaker 1: worse than having sardines on your breath is silium husk
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  Speaker 1: and magnesium inside of you. Now, when we get to
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  Speaker 1: this scam alert, You've brought these up before a syste
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  Speaker 1: Every now and then you see something and I feel
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  Speaker 1: guilty not telling you because yeah, I saw this.
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  Speaker 2: I saw this one too.
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  Speaker 1: If you at a restaurant, here's the scam. People who
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  Speaker 1: are eating alone or not eating alone. That's cont happen
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  Speaker 1: to you. It could happen at a coffee shop, at
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  Speaker 1: a restaurant outdoors, especially so someone basically walks by your
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  Speaker 1: table and drops some money on the ground. Think about this.
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  Speaker 1: Your phone's on the table, They drop some money on
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  Speaker 1: the ground as if it were an accident. You are
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  Speaker 1: a good person, You're a good human. You do good
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  Speaker 1: things for people and you pay it forward. So you
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  Speaker 1: reach over and you pick up the money, and someone
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  Speaker 1: else in the restaurant it's organized crime to other person
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  Speaker 1: in the restaurant while you're picking up the money for
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  Speaker 1: what you think is you know, Tubbs's girlfriend is running
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  Speaker 1: off with your phone.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, you pick up the money and you're like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: excuse me, you drop this, And as you're doing and
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  Speaker 2: their phone's gone, someone else behind you comes and grabs
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  Speaker 2: the phone.
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  Speaker 1: It's the art of distress. I'm always weary, weary or weary?
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  Speaker 1: Am I weird? Here wary? Where? Am I very weary? Weary?
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  Speaker 7: Weary?
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  Speaker 1: But I weary about being wary?
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes you worry about weary?
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  Speaker 1: Am I leary or larry? I'm leary about weary and wary?
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, and I'm wearing a tank top tomorrow because
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be hot. But be aware when someone takes
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  Speaker 1: your attention and distracts you. I hate to be cynical,
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  Speaker 1: but it could be the art of distraction. Somebody's doing
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  Speaker 1: something behind your back, grabbing your watch, grabbing your phone,
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  Speaker 1: grabbing your purse. I don't want to think like that,
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  Speaker 1: but you gotta have to. Yeah, two point seven Kiss FM.
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, let's go you into it? Are you
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  Speaker 1: into today? How can we help, like Thursday, get into
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  Speaker 1: today into it? Kiss FM. We're here to try to
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  Speaker 1: help motivate you to get going and get I don't
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  Speaker 1: say get through it, but Conna, yeah, I get through it.
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  Speaker 1: So here's the thing. People say to me, what's your hobby?
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  Speaker 1: And I gotta be honest. I make stuff up sometimes
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  Speaker 1: because I don't know that I really have hobbies. Did
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  Speaker 1: That's the point I try something that I it's like
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  Speaker 1: I watched two episodes and then I move on. It's
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  Speaker 1: like I try stuff, I'm not good at it. I'm
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  Speaker 1: done with it. So this thing here, I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I tried this with an X of mine some dance
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  Speaker 1: classes or something. So here's the thing. They say that
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  Speaker 1: this hobby.
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  Speaker 8: Here, it was more dancy.
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  Speaker 2: You were more dancy when you were with.
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  Speaker 1: Her, because she said, no, it wasn't even the dancer.
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  Speaker 1: That's not who it was. Yeah, anyway, can I please
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  Speaker 1: get to sure hobbies can be good for your brain.
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  Speaker 1: This one is great for your brain to stay younger
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  Speaker 1: than your actual age. And that is doing the tango
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  Speaker 1: is anybody here know how to do the tank?
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  Speaker 2: I do not. I feel like I could fake it. Well,
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  Speaker 2: I could try.
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  Speaker 1: People who took tango as a hobby have brains that
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  Speaker 1: are seven years younger than their biological age.
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  Speaker 2: Right up, my alley, do that good for you?
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  Speaker 1: And would you please dancing with the stars cast this
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  Speaker 1: need some point. I'm so ready, She's been ready for
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  Speaker 1: ten years. All right, Now here's the quote today. We
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  Speaker 1: do quote every day. This is the point where we
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  Speaker 1: do it. Do not wait for the perfect time in
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  Speaker 1: place to enter. You are already on stage. Do you
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  Speaker 1: even know what it means?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, tell me there's no perfect time. You just
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  Speaker 2: have to do it now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, all right, thank you. Kiss FM gets to
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  Speaker 1: the headline sicany Thursday morning here on Kiss FM. What's happening?
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  Speaker 1: Kiss FM headlines with Sissy Well.
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  Speaker 2: An old pedestrian tunnel in Boyle Heights has become a
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  Speaker 2: hotspot for trespassing, trash, and illegal activity, and neighbors are
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  Speaker 2: just asking the city to clean it up. Dangerous high
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  Speaker 2: surface creating hazard each conditions across southern California and coving
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  Speaker 2: train delays through San Clemente as officials urge people to
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  Speaker 2: stay out of the water it has met. Incident at
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  Speaker 2: a Huntington Beach business led to brief evacuations after a
• 10:10
  Speaker 2: chemical reaction inside a fifty five gallon drum, but no
• 10:14
  Speaker 2: injuries were reported, and Long Beach is launching its first
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  Speaker 2: independent Film Festival this August, featuring movies, filmmakers, and special
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  Speaker 2: industry events.
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  Speaker 1: Vin imagine going to get your bagel, Imagine going to
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  Speaker 1: get your pastry. Imagine going to the farmer's market. Why
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  Speaker 1: can't the DJ be playing there to make it festive
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  Speaker 1: and fun? I mean, honestly, I almost always associate DJs
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  Speaker 1: and a DJ with nighttime club party, like after hours.
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  Speaker 2: Right, that's changing.
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  Speaker 1: So laundromats, bakeries, coffee shops are going Why do we
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  Speaker 1: have to have such a hard, rigid rule. Let's start
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  Speaker 1: spinning and playing music and creating this atmosphere. And that's
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  Speaker 1: what's going on. This is they're called what bakery raves?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, bakery raise the one that's at the bakery instead
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  Speaker 2: of cocktails. Everyone's just kind of like holding a pastry juice,
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  Speaker 2: Like you're not drinking, you're sober, you just enjoying a
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  Speaker 2: cool DJ vibes all of that. There's one in Sherman Oaks,
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  Speaker 2: the Red Window. They do this all the time, amazing
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  Speaker 2: coffee and they have a full DJ setup and just
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  Speaker 2: it'll be a random Tuesday afternoon and they'll just be
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  Speaker 2: bumping music. I'm like driving down in term Pool hard.
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  Speaker 2: It's amazing.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know that I've ever had coffee to a
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  Speaker 1: DJ never.
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  Speaker 2: It's really fun.
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  Speaker 1: I've never done laundry to blasting DJ music either, but
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  Speaker 1: how much more fun would that be? They'd go to
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  Speaker 1: the laundry mat and then be entertained the entire time.
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  Speaker 1: But it's like this unwritten rule that you never would
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  Speaker 1: have somebody spinning in the daylight or not I mean
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  Speaker 1: pool party, but like, yeah, while you're getting your chores
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  Speaker 1: done exactly, or why are you having your breakfast and your.
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  Speaker 2: Coffee exactly exactly?
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  Speaker 1: All for a bakery rave, let's go, let's go, all right,
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  Speaker 1: I could be DJ, could be guys, I could tide
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  Speaker 1: hustle this.
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  Speaker 2: I have not learned your DJ sets collected.
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  Speaker 1: I mean it could be for a bakery rave. It
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  Speaker 1: could be where I start. I'm not going to start
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  Speaker 1: at tow Noma. Should we just talk about what you
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  Speaker 1: want to get rid of in your life now before
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  Speaker 1: you go to bed. I mean, it's not the mass tape,
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  Speaker 1: it's not the duct tape. It's not all the tapes.
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  Speaker 1: You think you're watching too much TV before bedtime.
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  Speaker 8: No, it's not even then watching too much. I'm addicted
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  Speaker 8: to television. I think I I like went to the
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  Speaker 8: end of television in the last month.
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  Speaker 1: What's the problem with being addicted is a big word,
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  Speaker 1: But what's the problem with being an enthusiast of TV?
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  Speaker 8: I don't like the control it has over me, Like
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  Speaker 8: I'm constantly I need to have shows in the queue,
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  Speaker 8: Like I'm watching three shows currently, and I have shows
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  Speaker 8: in the queue that I'm like waiting to get to.
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  Speaker 2: And this is normal. It's like everyone watches TV like
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  Speaker 2: this exactly. This is not normal for me.
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  Speaker 8: I used to just watch something a little bit light
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  Speaker 8: to get myself sleep, but now it's like all I
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  Speaker 8: want to do when I get home, I just want
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  Speaker 8: to like I want to get in bed. I want
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  Speaker 8: to like get dinner in bed.
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  Speaker 2: Problem.
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  Speaker 1: Problem. Actually, after a long day of work, I can't
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  Speaker 1: wait to eat in my living room. Whatever going to
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  Speaker 1: eat out of a container, put my feet on the
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  Speaker 1: coffee table and watch what Now my problem, Tanya is
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  Speaker 1: not care if I'm watching a bunch of stuff. I
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  Speaker 1: just have a real hard time when I look at
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  Speaker 1: the clock and know I've gotta stop the I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what it is. I cannot stop an episode to
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  Speaker 1: shut it down, to start my procedure to get ready
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  Speaker 1: for bed so hard. So I have that.
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  Speaker 2: Down like I can.
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  Speaker 8: I can lights out, clock it out like I can
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  Speaker 8: put it down.
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  Speaker 2: What's the problem.
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  Speaker 1: It's a pro If you have the ability to lights out,
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  Speaker 1: you certainly have the ability certainly stop watching.
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  Speaker 2: You need some sort of hobby.
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  Speaker 1: I need something. Oh my gosh, kind have a hobby
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  Speaker 1: at eight thirty at night. Nobody has hobbies at that
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  Speaker 1: time on a Tuesday.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's what I organize your medicine cabinet and call
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  Speaker 2: her a night.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think this is not an issue. I think
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  Speaker 1: it's a blessing. There's so much good programming.
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  Speaker 8: Really, I'm so happy to hear this because I really
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  Speaker 8: felt like I.
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  Speaker 1: Had Oh yeah, I mean, and you know, I'm in
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  Speaker 1: the not torture you, not torture me mode, don't torture
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  Speaker 1: yourself mode. You don't try to say like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like be nicer to you one or two point seven
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  Speaker 1: Kiss FM, It's time for Ryan's roses. Now, Samantha is
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  Speaker 1: on the line in Pasadena and she's reached out for
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  Speaker 1: some help from us. She found some flirty emails between
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  Speaker 1: her husband and one of his coworkers, and she addressed these. Samantha,
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  Speaker 1: what happened when you addressed these flirty emails?
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  Speaker 4: So I never go through my husband's phone or email,
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  Speaker 4: but I needed our Southwest confirmation number. So while I
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  Speaker 4: was in there, I noticed this long email chain with
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  Speaker 4: a woman that he works with named Taylor, and the
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  Speaker 4: tone just immediately felt off. It was super flirty, super personal,
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  Speaker 4: and that was the big red flag. At one point
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  Speaker 4: she mentioned getting a Brazilian wax, and he had a
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  Speaker 4: million disgusting questions about her Brazilian wax.
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  Speaker 1: It's inappropriate, I do no matter what right.
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  Speaker 4: That was super super personal details. And then what really
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  Speaker 4: bugged me is though about the whole chain, was when
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  Speaker 4: she referenced last weekend quote unquote, and he replied, remember
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  Speaker 4: we're not talking about last weekend. That was the exact weekend.
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  Speaker 4: He told me he had to work NonStop because of
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  Speaker 4: a crisis at the office, so very well.
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  Speaker 1: Could not have been a crisis, isn't it still? If
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  Speaker 1: possible it was a crisis.
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  Speaker 4: I guess possible, but paired with this Brazilian wax information.
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  Speaker 1: On it and this is all in email.
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  Speaker 4: All in an email.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, And when you addressed it, he downplayed it, and
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  Speaker 1: then he deleted the emails.
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  Speaker 4: He deleted the emails. Yeah. So later that night, I
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  Speaker 4: just brought it up casually, and I asked I brought
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  Speaker 4: Taylor up casually. I asked if she was married, and
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  Speaker 4: he said yes, and then he asked me why, and
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  Speaker 4: I said, no reason, and then I walked away. So
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  Speaker 4: I'll admit I wanted to see. I wanted to see
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  Speaker 4: if it rattled him, and it did. So the next day,
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  Speaker 4: every single email was deleted between them.
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  Speaker 1: Got it. There's a there's a lot going wrong already.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, how deep has it gone to call her
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  Speaker 1: husband next? We're in the middle of Ryan's roses right now, Samantha.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: I mean, look, her husband is involved in a way
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: that's inappropriate with his coworker named Taylor, and she found
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: these thirty emails. He was asking or talking about a
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Brazilian bikini wax and then there was a reference to
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: last weekend and him saying, don't talk about we don't
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: talk about last weekend. This was all via email. Taylor
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: is her name? It is a coworker. I mean, Samantha.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: You already know he's acting inappropriately with another woman and
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: at work. The question is how far did it go?
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: What's he referring to about last weekend? Is Taylor? The
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: other woman is coworker married.
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: She is married and if this goes the way I
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: expect her husband will be my next call.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: That's what you'll do. All right, We are going to
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: make the call right now. I need you to say, Ryan,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: you have my permission to call, and then whatever his
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: name is on Kiss FM.
• 18:00
  Speaker 4: Brian, you have my permission to call.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: On m all right, We're going to do that right
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: now and be very quiet. Let's see what we can
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: find out. Good luck to you, Samantha.
• 18:12
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 18:24
  Speaker 7: Hello.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Hi? Is this Brian, yeah speaking Hi.
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: My name is Yvonne. I'm calling from Pedals of Pasadena.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: How are you doing this morning?
• 18:36
  Speaker 7: Oh? I mean I was really hoping you're someone else.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry. We are new to the area. We're
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: on Colorado and deliver locally and surrounding areas. And the
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: reason I am calling is because we're doing a free promotion.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: It's a dozen red roses that you can send anybody
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: that you like.
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: So, what is this like a free book kid for
• 18:56
  Speaker 7: like a month or two and then like the fees
• 18:58
  Speaker 7: kick in.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: No, it is a one time free arrangement that you
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: can send to anybody that you'd like. I would just
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: need the name and we can write a note have
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: those out by lunchtime today if that's convenient for you,
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: or we can pick a different day after that. That's it.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: If you want to come back and become a customer,
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: that would be amazing. We're just doing this to get
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: the word out. There's no credit card fee, there's no
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: like sign up membership or anything like that. It's just
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: a promotion that we do about once a month, all.
• 19:27
  Speaker 7: Right, So it's kind of like a word am mouthing.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't need any cash from you. I don't
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: like I said, they are absolutely free. And whoever you
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: send these flowers to, hopefully they like the arrangements. Hopefully
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: you like the arrangements and you all come back as
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: customers one day.
• 19:42
  Speaker 7: And you could just send them in my office. That'd
• 19:44
  Speaker 7: be fine.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: Okay, we can start with the note. What's the name
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: of the person?
• 19:53
  Speaker 7: I might not be there, so maybe just send it
• 19:55
  Speaker 7: to the brokeraage because I'm going to be in and
• 19:57
  Speaker 7: out all day. But Chelsea should be at the desk
• 19:59
  Speaker 7: and shall take delivery.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, do you want to put anything on the card
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: for Chelsea?
• 20:05
  Speaker 7: No, it's not going to Chelsea. Chelsea's just the receptionist,
• 20:09
  Speaker 7: you know. Just leave it blank. It's good to have
• 20:11
  Speaker 7: flexibility in these situations.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: Brian, your voice is being broadcast on the radio, and
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: I want to just jump in on that for a second.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Why do you need flexibility on where to send romantic roses?
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: My name is Ryan. Your voice is being broadcast in
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: the radio. I have sistanin Tanya, and I have your
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: wife on the line.
• 20:29
  Speaker 7: Wait, wait, wait, what's going on?
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: You tell us what's going on? Your wife informed us
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: that you've been flirting with a coworker named Taylor talking
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: about a Brazilian wax, and that you referred to something
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: that you're not going to quote talk about anymore last weekend.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: So clearly there's something going on with you and Taylor.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Clearly you did not want to send the roses to
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: your wife and clearly you've been sketchy about getting them
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: to your office to be flexible with the cards. So
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: I think at this point the question is what's happening
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: with you and Taylor at work.
• 21:06
  Speaker 7: I don't even know how you know about Taylor, but like,
• 21:08
  Speaker 7: I'm a real estate broker and sometimes clients need a
• 21:11
  Speaker 7: little extra push. Like when I first got the call,
• 21:14
  Speaker 7: I said, I was hoping to someone else. I was
• 21:15
  Speaker 7: hoping it was my client that I'm showing today, and
• 21:18
  Speaker 7: I thought, like, you know, if my client needs extra push,
• 21:20
  Speaker 7: I'm going to give them the flowers. Otherwise I'm going
• 21:22
  Speaker 7: to get it to my wife.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: Samantha, Look what's going on with you and Taylor? Forget
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: about the flowers for a second. Why are you flirting
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: with Taylor through email?
• 21:34
  Speaker 7: There's nothing going on between me and Taylor. Yeah, I
• 21:37
  Speaker 7: know the emails got a little it looks not good,
• 21:40
  Speaker 7: but like nothing going on there.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: It doesn't ever cheating on my wad. It doesn't look
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: not good. It's clearly inappropriate. So, Samantha, what would you
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: like to know from your husband, Brian.
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: I read those emails, Brian, and I saw you deleted them.
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: Seems very guilty to me. What's going on.
• 22:03
  Speaker 7: I don't know. Like we just had like a conversation.
• 22:06
  Speaker 7: It was a little bit fun, but like it was
• 22:08
  Speaker 7: too much.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Don't talk about in an email, Brian.
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: No, you're that's just so inappropriate. Why would you ever
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: talk about a Brazilian wax.
• 22:21
  Speaker 7: I don't know. It was a long day. I just
• 22:24
  Speaker 7: had something. I kind of just see you out as
• 22:26
  Speaker 7: a moment, Samantha.
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: Is just in the interest of time and people's lives
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: listening right now, Brian, are you cheating on Samantha?
• 22:35
  Speaker 7: No, I've never cheated on you, and I have no
• 22:37
  Speaker 7: intention of cheating anything. Do you talk about this in Brivant?
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: You a woman about our shaped private is cheating?
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: There you go? It is.
• 22:47
  Speaker 7: I don't think so. I think it was just a conversation.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: But it's all right. Look, the two of you were
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: gonna let you resolve it from this point. I wish
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: you the best of luck. But Brian, you have plot
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: here like you were not seeing clearly, Samantha. Good luck
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: with this. It's Ryan's Roses Kiss FM on air with
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. Lets you point seven Kiss FM. All right,
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: listen to this. You're in a relationship. Some people are
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: it's great, toubs, you're in one. You might want to
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: chime in on this.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: Maybe you're in one too, but you're just not sharing.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Maybe wouldn't that be nice what I makes surprise reveal
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: coming up?
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: It would be your style.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: It would be you're right, I'd be so weird, be lope.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: And then in January say, oh, you know what I
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: did over the holidays.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: So weird, like Sparkle Meghan over here.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I don't know who that is. No, I don't know
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: who Sparkle Meghan is.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: From Love is Blind.
• 23:48
  Speaker 8: And then she was on the and then on the
• 23:51
  Speaker 8: reunion she had a baby.
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I did see that.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: All right, Well, listen any relationship, listen to these things.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: That's kind of interesting. Rules and are these things toxic?
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: Are they healthy? So what about having a new female
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: friend you're in a relationship, systeny, Yeah, if he has
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: a new female friend, is that a healthy thing?
• 24:11
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: I hate it?
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, I understand I would.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: Fake it though, I'd be like, all right, cool, so nice.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Then you know, anytime a wife or a husband or
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: anybody fakes, you know when you're faking.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I don't think it would like laugh
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: thrilled because.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: In the transcript you were cool with it, but in
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: real life you were saying no, no, uh, okay, checking
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: in if you go out solo. Now, Tony, let me
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: take this to you. Okay, Robbie goes out solo, you
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: check in? Does he have to check in? Is he
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: check in with you?
• 24:42
  Speaker 7: No?
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: Is that true?
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: That's true?
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Or do you reach out to him to check on him?
• 24:47
  Speaker 8: I don't hold back, Like if if I want to
• 24:50
  Speaker 8: text him about something, I'm not like, oh, I'm not
• 24:51
  Speaker 8: going to text him because you're with his friends. But
• 24:53
  Speaker 8: I'm not like checking in on him.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: But you don't hold back. Correct correct, So it's toxic
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: to do that. What that's what psychiatrist saying? Well, independence
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: to be encouraged.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we go away for a weekend or something.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Fine, right, Well you guys, you guys are very
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: they're new at this. You've been doing this for a minute.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess you're right. Like before, I like when
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: I would land, I would text him like I landed,
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: But now it's like two days. No, by just check
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: my location.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: I've seen it in the news when I check the
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: news every night. She's away. The headlines all right, sharing
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: locations that good toxic tubs. Let me take us to you.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: You share locations with your jiu jitsu partner? Uh No,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I don't even know how to turn that on. You
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: the engineer here, you want to turn that on.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: He's just claiming that because he doesn't want to share
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: his location July.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: But you guys all share locations, right, Yes, I share
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: applications with Mark. I don't know why, you yourself? Why everybody?
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I share with everybody, all right.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: I think that that's not necessary. I mean maybe in
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: a relationship, I don't care. But with you guys, for sure,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: it's a.
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: No why anything for us would be so easy then
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: we would know, like if you were getting to an
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: event with us at the same time, or like, oh
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: he's just.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: On the freeway, not at any event.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: Well, the concerts that we go to. Agry about it,
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: I'm not angry about it.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: I'm just talking.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: Up at arms over there.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: Point seven. It's kiss FM love coming together and hanging
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: out and doing our thing here. It's not even really work,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: you know, it's worked before we go to work. And
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I appreciate you checking in on your way to work.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: So have you ever had a deconstructed taco or a
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: deconstructed burger?
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I do with my Britos.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I like a deconstructed meal.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: So they're taking that concept to weddings and deconstructing weddings.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: This is the reason that I might consider marriage.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, apparently we've been doing weddings all wrong.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even need a person. This sounds much
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: like so much.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: Fun, good time, you need a person?
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Well, I get you know, you know, traditionally the blah
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: blah blah. You know now they're saying, you start right,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: isn't it. You start with the cocktail hour, you have
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: a nice meal, then the main event, then this, then
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: the show starts.
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: So when you win the ceremony, you're already full, you're
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: already kind of buzzed, and then after the ceremony is done,
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: it boom straight to dancing.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Yes, and I have a question, where do you people
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: that get married go for three hours to take pictures
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: while we have to walk around and talk to people.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: Usually it's that one hour because it's called the til.
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: Hour, hour of disappearing from your own event, because.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: It's usually the golden hour and it's overrest lighting.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: And excuse me, take the pictures of the night before
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: in the golden now and I love this idea.
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm kind of here for it.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: H So everybody gets together, have the cocktails, have the
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: dinner boom. The main event happens right into the DJ
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: and the dancing. You're there by nine to twenty.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: You don't have to leave early?
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Why not? Why not?
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: I I'm the last one at the party, so don't
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: look at me.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: On my wedding night. On my wedding night, I'm doing
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: all this. I'm going straight to the honeymoon. So I'm
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: actually gonna leave early. You guys can stay.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: I can't wait.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: I'm booking a flight at eight thirty. Y'all can have
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: the detail ten Yeah, brother, play now they're ninety minutes
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: for those guys, we are out. He got this non
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: stop flight to the island.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: You literally have done that in real life, I know.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: But without a wife.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: But yeah, I.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Didn't do it tanyas. I didn't book a flight out
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: that night. But you tell it with.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: Us out and like Houdini's still lay, you see it
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: a lot later than I thought.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: You are, A friend of mine said the other night,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: I did Houdini at a party, a birthday party, and
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: I told my friend Michelle, I go hey, hey, guys,
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: can I I'm gonna Houdini And Michelle goes hey, fun fact,
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: Houdini didn't tell everybody he was leading four point seven
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: kiss FM. Let me grab Lexi in San Pedro one
• 29:01
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• 29:05
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• 29:07
  Speaker 1: How can we help you?
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: So this guy dating refuses to post me, but he
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: posted like everything else, and I'm wondering if that's like
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: a red flag.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: He he posts everything else about his life, but he
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: won't put you up there. Are you guys officially together?
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: How long?
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we've been dating for like almost three months.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Maybe he wants to protect the relationship.
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: Oh he can't have a meal, he can't watch a show,
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: he can't make like a move without him posting on Instagram.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: But no no appearances by you. Do you think that
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: maybe he's trying to hide you?
• 29:49
  Speaker 4: I mean, I I don't know. It's like that's like
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: how we met, Like he popped up on my feet.
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: Who's there? So long? So like I DMed him? But
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: like I mean, I get it that like being with
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: somebody who's kind of like a hard launch on her Instagram, right,
• 30:04
  Speaker 4: but we're exclusive, Like we had the talk.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Okay, you're talking to the wrong dude, because I'd be
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: happy for you not to post me in your feed. However,
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: I'm looking at Sophia, what do you think you're in
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: one of these situations just like this? Would you be upset?
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Should she say this is not right? Is there something
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: going on here?
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: I think this is a huge red flag.
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: Like if you guys have been together, especially for three months,
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: why is he posting everything besides you?
• 30:34
  Speaker 7: Right?
• 30:34
  Speaker 4: And we've like had the conversation, like we're exclusive, so
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: we have that talk. So like my fear is that
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: he wants people to think he's single.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: And why would he want people to think he's single
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: so he can do something about.
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: It because he's so popular on Instagram, Like I don't
• 30:50
  Speaker 4: think maybe he wants to lose followers if people think
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: he's like with somebody. Maybe he has so many girls
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: like fawning over him, so he doesn't want people.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: To know he's Are you in love with this dude?
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: I do?
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: I like him a lot three months. Some feel it's
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: kind of fresh. How much do you post on about him?
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: I mean, I'd like that one or two pictures of him,
• 31:11
  Speaker 4: But I'm not like blown like. I'm not a person
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: that's like on Instagram all the time. I don't blow
• 31:15
  Speaker 4: it up, you know what I mean.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: I think you can tell him everything that you're saying
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: to us, and if you feel you'll be able to
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: get a sense with his body language if he's covering
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: something up or if he just wants to play the
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: field on Instagram, play single on Instagram so he attracts followers,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: you'll be able to tell what's up. Uh, good luck.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Call us back in six months and let us know
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: what the story is. Just keep keep yeah, three from
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: now So three plus three is six?
• 31:39
  Speaker 7: Right?
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Yes, got it? Okay, Kiss FM, Thank you mix It's
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: only two point seven Kiss FM. That's it for us, guys.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: Thank you for listening. Great so everybody, thank you for
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: being here this morning. Have a good one but bye
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: and bye time.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: Thank you Ryan, thank you, Yes.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Thank you, gratitude, Yes, thank our cowork.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Love you guys.
• 31:57
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