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- 0:03Speaker 1: My favorite part of the show.
- 0:04Speaker 2: I love some dirty little secrets and confessions on Mixed
- 0:06Speaker 2: one or two point nine, it's be Able the kid Canda,
- 0:08Speaker 2: Slow Petz producer Poo bring it on, if you got one.
- 0:11Speaker 2: I don't care what time it is, if we're even
- 0:13Speaker 2: just in the middle of some else and you're like,
- 0:15Speaker 2: I just need to get it off my chest. Now,
- 0:17Speaker 2: you drop what you're doing to call us and we'll
- 0:19Speaker 2: make it happen. Okay, I promise dirty little secret, you
- 0:21Speaker 2: got one?
- 0:23Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I have like a little confession, and obviously,
- 0:26Speaker 3: like depending on how you apps, it's going to be
- 0:28Speaker 3: like really sweeter, kind of weird.
- 0:30Speaker 1: Okay, sweet or weird. I like this. It's a little
- 0:33Speaker 1: game we can decide.
- 0:34Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 0:35Speaker 3: So I've been dating my boyfriend just for like a
- 0:38Speaker 3: couple of months now, but like things are getting like
- 0:40Speaker 3: super serious pretty fast. He's like an incredible guy. We're
- 0:44Speaker 3: kind of at that stage like we're kind of meeting
- 0:46Speaker 3: each other's families and we're talking about what the future
- 0:50Speaker 3: might look like. And so anyway, this weekend we're going
- 0:53Speaker 3: to take our first little road trip together. We're going
- 0:56Speaker 3: to Austin, and yeah, I'm excited, but like What he
- 1:02Speaker 3: doesn't know is that I have a surprise stop planned
- 1:06Speaker 3: like along the way, and we're gonna meet my dad.
- 1:11Speaker 1: Oh that's cool.
- 1:13Speaker 2: So you're so he hasn't met your family yet, So
- 1:15Speaker 2: you're gonna you're gonna meet your dad. That's cool. Well
- 1:19Speaker 2: are you sure you want to? So I'm thinking about this,
- 1:21Speaker 2: I'm like, do I really want to? If I'm the guy,
- 1:22Speaker 2: do I really want to surprise intro to dad?
- 1:26Speaker 1: Heads up?
- 1:27Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's definitely gonna be surprised for my
- 1:30Speaker 3: boyfriend for sure. Like I mean, not so much my dad,
- 1:33Speaker 3: because my dad, like he.
- 1:35Speaker 1: Is dead, Yeah, DA's dead.
- 1:42Speaker 3: Yeah yeah. And so like this is kind of like
- 1:44Speaker 3: where people might.
- 1:45Speaker 1: Think, hold on, hold on, your dad is dead.
- 1:49Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he passed away a few years ago.
- 1:52Speaker 1: How are we meeting? Explain this?
- 1:54Speaker 3: Well, we're gonna stop at the cemetery.
- 1:57Speaker 2: Oh like okay, oh okay, it can't astact like that's
- 2:01Speaker 2: so normal.
- 2:02Speaker 4: Oh okay, no, it makes a bit more sense.
- 2:06Speaker 1: A little graveyard brunch. What are we doing? Are you okay?
- 2:11Speaker 1: You're being serious right now?
- 2:14Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 2:15Speaker 3: I mean, like okay, some people obviously like you guys,
- 2:18Speaker 3: are thinking like I've lost my mind. But like hear
- 2:20Speaker 3: me out like my dad, Like he's one of the
- 2:22Speaker 3: most important people in my life and we were like
- 2:26Speaker 3: so incredibly close. And then even though he's been gone
- 2:29Speaker 3: for a couple of years, like I still talk to
- 2:31Speaker 3: him sometimes, I still visit him, and I still still
- 2:33Speaker 3: connect to do him.
- 2:34Speaker 1: That's cool.
- 2:35Speaker 2: No, I'm glad, and it don't get me wrong, my
- 2:38Speaker 2: heart breaks for you. I hate that you had to
- 2:40Speaker 2: you know, your dad passed away. But and I get
- 2:42Speaker 2: that you want to feel and stay connected. But this
- 2:46Speaker 2: is just a lot I didn't maybe I'm just caught
- 2:48Speaker 2: off guard.
- 2:48Speaker 4: So definitely wasn't surprising with that. It's a bit more intense.
- 2:53Speaker 2: So what is your what is your plan? Like you're
- 2:56Speaker 2: going to Austin and.
- 2:58Speaker 3: Just say for you guys to know, like my boyfriend
- 3:00Speaker 3: knows that my dad passed away, like Leaves talked about it.
- 3:02Speaker 3: This isn't going to be like you know, like he
- 3:04Speaker 3: at least knows. That's so, but like, yeah, the cemetery
- 3:08Speaker 3: is like on the way to Austin. So like I
- 3:10Speaker 3: was thinking some point during the drive, like I'm going
- 3:13Speaker 3: to tell him I want h to hey, I want
- 3:15Speaker 3: to make a quick stop. And then I'm going to
- 3:18Speaker 3: like go and introduce him to my dad, at least
- 3:20Speaker 3: in my own way. And yeah, I mean, obviously I
- 3:23Speaker 3: know my dad can't actually meet him, but it just
- 3:25Speaker 3: feels like kind of important, Like if this relationship is
- 3:28Speaker 3: going to move forward, I want, like the two most
- 3:31Speaker 3: people men, most important men like in my life to
- 3:34Speaker 3: be in the same place for just a few minutes,
- 3:36Speaker 3: you know, and I can just like here my dad
- 3:38Speaker 3: like cracking a joke. I don't know, like the truth is,
- 3:41Speaker 3: like I think that's what he would want to he
- 3:44Speaker 3: would have wanted. And if my boyfriend is the right guy,
- 3:47Speaker 3: that he should understand that this isn't coming from like
- 3:50Speaker 3: a creepy place. It's coming from I don't like a
- 3:53Speaker 3: loving place.
- 3:54Speaker 2: So all right, I'm not saying it's not coming from
- 3:57Speaker 2: a loving place, but I'm gonna be honest with you.
- 4:00Speaker 1: Is to me is a lot.
- 4:02Speaker 2: And maybe it's because I'm not invested in this relationship
- 4:05Speaker 2: like he is. And and you know what he might
- 4:08Speaker 2: and you're gonna have no option to handle it with
- 4:10Speaker 2: some kind of grace if you're the guy, like if
- 4:12Speaker 2: if if a woman did this to me, I don't know,
- 4:15Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie and tell you that.
- 4:17Speaker 1: I think it would. It's normal. I would be like, whoa,
- 4:20Speaker 1: we're stopping.
- 4:21Speaker 2: This is a surprise stop graveyard visit right, the which
- 4:26Speaker 2: is very special and I don't want to take that
- 4:28Speaker 2: away from you, but it's a lot for somebody.
- 4:31Speaker 1: New in your life.
- 4:32Speaker 4: Wouldn't you maybe just want to tell him, hey, we're
- 4:34Speaker 4: passing through here. It'd be nice if we could stop.
- 4:36Speaker 2: For a second, say hi real quick, because a surprise
- 4:39Speaker 2: would be like, let's stop it, BUCkies, this is on
- 4:42Speaker 2: the way. Oh that's a given, right. Let me ask
- 4:49Speaker 2: you this if you've done this with any other guys
- 4:51Speaker 2: in your life.
- 4:51Speaker 3: Or no, no not. It kind of feels like almost
- 4:55Speaker 3: like a test, like not like a big one, but
- 4:58Speaker 3: like a little like like a little and like how
- 5:01Speaker 3: is he going to react? Is he gonna like, well
- 5:03Speaker 3: his eyes? Does he think it's super weird? Maybe he's
- 5:07Speaker 3: gonna hold my hand and like listen to some stories
- 5:09Speaker 3: about my dad and understand why that it matters, you know,
- 5:13Speaker 3: because if he can do that, then maybe I know
- 5:16Speaker 3: you know what kind of person he is. But yeah,
- 5:19Speaker 3: but all he knows is that we're taking a road trip.
- 5:22Speaker 1: So that's interesting.
- 5:24Speaker 2: Even more interesting to me that you're kind of looking
- 5:25Speaker 2: at this is like a little test which people do
- 5:27Speaker 2: these things, whether they admit to.
- 5:29Speaker 1: It or not.
- 5:30Speaker 4: That's hard though, because you're going on your road trip together,
- 5:32Speaker 4: like it's exciting and you're having a good time. I mean,
- 5:35Speaker 4: road trips are fun, and then all of a sudden
- 5:36Speaker 4: it's like or like so serious and serious town.
- 5:40Speaker 2: I mean, what I would think, and maybe what I
- 5:42Speaker 2: would suggest is if like maybe obviously, if he knows
- 5:46Speaker 2: your dad has passed, you're driving by and you're like, hey,
- 5:49Speaker 2: you know what on the way down. I don't know
- 5:51Speaker 2: if this is weird or not, but my dad's gravesite
- 5:53Speaker 2: is there. Would it be a little too much if
- 5:55Speaker 2: we stop.
- 5:55Speaker 3: By, right?
- 5:57Speaker 2: And then maybe that's a smaller test because then he's like, no,
- 6:02Speaker 2: I would love that. Then you're like, what a great guy,
- 6:04Speaker 2: he's open to it instead of just surprise, we're here,
- 6:08Speaker 2: let's go right, here's a board.
- 6:10Speaker 1: Let's do it.
- 6:11Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 6:14Speaker 4: I just fee uncomfortable with the surprise party.
- 6:17Speaker 1: So that's what your issue is. Yeah, all right, good luck.
- 6:20Speaker 2: Though I'm excited to hear what happens. Can you maybe
- 6:22Speaker 2: give us an update.
- 6:24Speaker 1: Or whatever, because I'm curious, all right.
- 6:26Speaker 3: Yeah, totally.
- 6:27Speaker 1: I wish I could talk to him. Yeah, no, no problem.
- 6:32Speaker 2: I'm not sounding like I don't want to make it
- 6:33Speaker 2: sound like I think you're crazy, because I don't know.
- 6:36Speaker 2: It's just one of those things that could be very polarizing.
- 6:40Speaker 1: Yeah, that's tricky. He might love it, he might go,
- 6:42Speaker 1: what is going on? So let us know what happens?
- 6:45Speaker 1: Good luck?
- 6:46Speaker 3: Okay, ok love.
- 6:48Speaker 2: I would think it was sweet though, that she thought
- 6:50Speaker 2: that much of me to kind of do that.
- 6:52Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe a couple of months from now.
- 6:57Speaker 1: Yeah, and our next trip down just doesn't have to
- 6:59Speaker 1: be a surprise. No, just give me before I ever
- 7:03Speaker 1: have to go to a graveyard. I want to heads up. Yeah,
- 7:06Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Is that too much to ask? Right? Good?
- 7:09Speaker 1: Thank you,