Latest / Reality with The King / Heated & Tweeted: RHOC Recap with Alexis Bellino
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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:07Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
- 0:13Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
- 0:17Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from the
- 0:23Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
- 0:27Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
- 0:31Speaker 1: scripted as well.
- 0:36Speaker 2: Oh, rain drops, listen.
- 0:38Speaker 1: I know a lot of you listen to the audio
- 0:41Speaker 1: podcast recaps between Alexis and I, but I think you
- 0:44Speaker 1: guys should also watch our YouTube because listen on my
- 0:47Speaker 1: YouTube channel, I upload the video.
- 0:49Speaker 2: My girl Alexis is in full aluminum foil.
- 0:52Speaker 3: And Carlos Carlos. It's called Reality with the King for
- 1:00Speaker 3: one reason. It's Reality with the King, Okay, because if
- 1:04Speaker 3: we can only recap the finale in my foils, then
- 1:07Speaker 3: we gotta do it because we're not missing the finale.
- 1:09Speaker 3: Holy crap. Let's just say. But like people, you know,
- 1:13Speaker 3: you gotta like me with foils or without, okay, or
- 1:16Speaker 3: you can hate me. It's fine either way.
- 1:19Speaker 2: Listen. I like you, I love you. Oil or no foil.
- 1:22Speaker 1: We have to get into this episode, and alexis one
- 1:25Speaker 1: thing by you and I we absolutely reefed the us
- 1:29Speaker 1: honey to just run the gamut of trying to like
- 1:32Speaker 1: go step by step.
- 1:34Speaker 2: We just have to get right into it. This episode.
- 1:38Speaker 1: Left me emotionally drained, dazed, and confused.
- 1:46Speaker 2: And I don't even smoke marijuana.
- 1:49Speaker 1: I mean, let's just like tap right into it. So Gretchen, listen,
- 1:57Speaker 1: tear my Gretchen aside to make up chat GP gave
- 2:00Speaker 1: them a friendship contract, right, they try to have a
- 2:04Speaker 1: memorandum for slave like we're gonna move forward. And then
- 2:08Speaker 1: Gina decides at the group dinner to bring up the
- 2:13Speaker 1: fact that Gretchen has allegedly been liking all of these
- 2:18Speaker 1: polls in regards to the hatred towards the lgpt Q
- 2:22Speaker 1: plus community. And rightfully so Heather, who look, I know
- 2:26Speaker 1: I giving Heather a hard time being a bad friend,
- 2:29Speaker 1: but one thing's for certain, Heather is a great mom,
- 2:32Speaker 1: and that's one thing that we would.
- 2:34Speaker 2: Not take away from her. She's a great mother.
- 2:36Speaker 1: So these allegations of Gretchen liking these hateful tweets became
- 2:45Speaker 1: the topic of conversation and the moment Gretchen was faced
- 2:50Speaker 1: with it. Listen, you don't have to be producer. You
- 2:54Speaker 1: don't have to be a body language expert.
- 2:58Speaker 2: Bath on human nature.
- 3:00Speaker 1: Sure, gret Chance reaction made me feel like she's guilty.
- 3:07Speaker 1: Alexis talking through your feelings about that. You know these
- 3:11Speaker 1: these these tweets Gretchen's response to it, and what do
- 3:15Speaker 1: you believe?
- 3:19Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I was so drained from it too,
- 3:21Speaker 3: And I think it's a good thing I wasn't filming
- 3:24Speaker 3: that scene with those ladies because if that had been
- 3:26Speaker 3: information that had been dropped on me, I think Heather
- 3:29Speaker 3: handled it with more poise than I would have handled
- 3:31Speaker 3: it because of my child being LGBTQ plus so I
- 3:38Speaker 3: I mean, I had so many gamuts of emotions running
- 3:40Speaker 3: through me, just like what you just described about this
- 3:42Speaker 3: whole episode. But first of all, I agree with you
- 3:47Speaker 3: on Gretchen's response, like I think people shut down like
- 3:51Speaker 3: that when they don't know how to get out of
- 3:53Speaker 3: the hole, like like she she didn't act like like
- 3:55Speaker 3: for I mean, I put myself in those shoes, and
- 3:58Speaker 3: it's like if some information was being that detrimental was
- 4:02Speaker 3: being mentioned about me or said about my character and
- 4:05Speaker 3: about who I am. I would have leapt up really
- 4:08Speaker 3: fast and been like, you guys, this is such bull cry.
- 4:11Speaker 3: I would have been on the phone with you know,
- 4:13Speaker 3: I don't know, my attorney trying to figure out how
- 4:15Speaker 3: why is this happening. I would ask all the people
- 4:17Speaker 3: I would know, like, how did this happen? If I
- 4:18Speaker 3: didn't do it? If I didn't do it. So her
- 4:22Speaker 3: non responsiveness or just calmness to it was almost like
- 4:25Speaker 3: a show for the camera, like, Okay, I'm not going
- 4:27Speaker 3: to get all riled, I'm going to be calm, col
- 4:29Speaker 3: and collected. So yeah, it was off. It was off
- 4:33Speaker 3: to me. But here's the thing, Spencer, and you know,
- 4:35Speaker 3: I'm Datelight MBC right and on dateline shows. This is
- 4:38Speaker 3: the only reason I kind of tell myself, maybe there's
- 4:40Speaker 3: more to this story. On Datelight EMBAC NBC, they always
- 4:43Speaker 3: have the they always talk about how people handle death differently,
- 4:49Speaker 3: like someone might cry and rant and rave when they
- 4:53Speaker 3: find out someone just died, someone might pass out, and
- 4:55Speaker 3: someone might just kind of go into shock or none.
- 4:59Speaker 3: So when I put my into those three categories, okay,
- 5:01Speaker 3: Gretchen kind of acted like she was just like a
- 5:03Speaker 3: little shocked. I think it was the more that went
- 5:06Speaker 3: on with the scene that made me feel like no,
- 5:08Speaker 3: because it should have set in by some point of that,
- 5:10Speaker 3: and it never set in with her, and she never
- 5:12Speaker 3: really had a reaction until the end when they're in
- 5:15Speaker 3: the van and she's screaming and acting like she's crying.
- 5:18Speaker 3: But Carlos, did you know, not one tear fell? She
- 5:21Speaker 3: was acting like, make this make sense, it's not me,
- 5:24Speaker 3: and it's like she was acting, well, there's not one tier.
- 5:26Speaker 3: So that also kind of took me for a loop
- 5:30Speaker 3: a little.
- 5:31Speaker 1: No, it took me for a loop a lot because
- 5:36Speaker 1: for me, it was sort of like if I'm being
- 5:39Speaker 1: accused of something Alexis Jansen that inherently I just do
- 5:46Speaker 1: not believe.
- 5:47Speaker 2: Right if someone said, Carlos.
- 5:52Speaker 1: You you know you're racist against you know, non black people,
- 5:57Speaker 1: blah blah blah, I'm would be like, that's a I
- 6:00Speaker 1: would literally say like, that's a motherfucking lie, Like I
- 6:03Speaker 1: would go crazy, like right, like the.
- 6:07Speaker 3: Word just came into my mouth for you. I knew
- 6:10Speaker 3: you were gonna say MF. I was like, Carlos King
- 6:12Speaker 3: would say, that's an any fing lie, because you know,
- 6:15Speaker 3: I cussed last episode. I'm not going to cuss this
- 6:17Speaker 3: episode because I promise. I mean, I knew those words
- 6:21Speaker 3: were going to be your words. I knew that.
- 6:25Speaker 1: There's no way I'm not listen if I'm being accused
- 6:31Speaker 1: at a setting.
- 6:32Speaker 2: Let let's have a real conversation.
- 6:34Speaker 1: I'm not only in front of these of people who
- 6:37Speaker 1: I consider to be friends, not all of them, but
- 6:40Speaker 1: let's say five out of the six, right on top
- 6:43Speaker 1: of my reputation being on the line, because there's actual
- 6:47Speaker 1: there's actually cameras present. I saw Gretchen have more anger
- 6:56Speaker 1: towards Katie Janella than being accused of liking hateful tweets
- 7:02Speaker 1: towards my community. It doesn't make any sense she had
- 7:08Speaker 1: this horrific reaction about and.
- 7:12Speaker 2: Crying with tears. I might add with tears her okay, thank.
- 7:18Speaker 1: You with Lexus Jansen when Tamara confronted her in New
- 7:22Speaker 1: Orleans about saying that she was drugged by Tamra, I
- 7:28Speaker 1: never said it. I never said it. Katie's a liar.
- 7:31Speaker 1: I never said it. These women are saying you like
- 7:33Speaker 1: these tweets, Well, I just don't know. I will never
- 7:37Speaker 1: do such a thing.
- 7:39Speaker 2: It's not like it's not me, it's not me.
- 7:42Speaker 3: I mean, I would be screaming like I wanted to scream.
- 7:44Speaker 3: I was like, I was kind of putting myself in
- 7:46Speaker 3: Grutchen's shoes, and I'm like, if somebody was accusing me
- 7:49Speaker 3: of something that was so un just damaging and every
- 7:53Speaker 3: aspect of your life and your character and show it,
- 7:56Speaker 3: like I would be screaming and pleading and going, you guys,
- 8:00Speaker 3: to the bottom of it. I will, I promise you,
- 8:01Speaker 3: Like I don't know, I don't I got to figure
- 8:03Speaker 3: it out. I would be crying. I would be standing
- 8:06Speaker 3: on the table trying to get through to my girlfriends
- 8:07Speaker 3: like and and you know what's funny, Carlos is not
- 8:11Speaker 3: one of them believed her either. Not one of the
- 8:15Speaker 3: girls said, you know, guys, we should listen at the moment.
- 8:18Speaker 3: I mean, I know they did the next day in
- 8:20Speaker 3: the van leaving for the airport, but nobody said, okay, guys,
- 8:24Speaker 3: let's just we should give grutch On the benefit of
- 8:26Speaker 3: the doubt. They all were like, what the heck, and
- 8:28Speaker 3: why aren't you reacting? Like why aren't you frozen? And
- 8:31Speaker 3: then she has to go and coll Slade.
- 8:34Speaker 2: Which which which look look for me. I'm I'm I'm
- 8:39Speaker 2: sick of it. I'm sick of it.
- 8:42Speaker 1: I have never in my years of producing reality television
- 8:46Speaker 1: had a female cast member rely solely on their partner, husband, boyfriend,
- 8:55Speaker 1: benefactor telling them what to do in the situations amongst women.
- 9:02Speaker 2: I have never seen it. It's scary to.
- 9:05Speaker 1: Watch, and I'm gonna go out on a limb and
- 9:09Speaker 1: say that she well, let me let me let me
- 9:13Speaker 1: get to your Before I get to that, let me
- 9:15Speaker 1: let me remind a little bit what you said too
- 9:18Speaker 1: about these women.
- 9:18Speaker 2: On having her back.
- 9:19Speaker 1: Even when Jen was like, look, you are this Christian
- 9:25Speaker 1: woman that you know bysically do you and have.
- 9:29Speaker 2: The cut her off?
- 9:30Speaker 1: And look, I felt that I would love to get
- 9:33Speaker 1: your pob because obviously you're a Christian and obviously you've
- 9:37Speaker 1: been very open about your faith.
- 9:39Speaker 2: I felt that Jin was trying to help Gretchen maybe.
- 9:48Speaker 3: Explain own that, own it.
- 9:51Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Alexis, I felt like she
- 9:53Speaker 1: was trying to but have a cut that her ass
- 9:56Speaker 1: off and said, no, bitch, we're not doing that.
- 9:58Speaker 2: Did you think Jen was trying to help her but
- 10:02Speaker 2: in the end and hurt her eventually?
- 10:06Speaker 3: Well, I think that I think Jen made a very
- 10:08Speaker 3: valid point because you know faith does it is your
- 10:14Speaker 3: it should be ever your whole, like like that is
- 10:16Speaker 3: the basis of who you are. Your faith right, something
- 10:19Speaker 3: bigger than you, that's what you believe. I know, there's
- 10:21Speaker 3: tons of religions out there. Yes, I am Christian. I
- 10:24Speaker 3: think Jen was trying to help her. I think she
- 10:27Speaker 3: was also saying, look, just own it. If this is
- 10:29Speaker 3: if this is what you thought, just own it because
- 10:31Speaker 3: you can. You can explain it to us and try
- 10:32Speaker 3: to make it make sense for us, but own it first.
- 10:35Speaker 3: And if it was your faith that puts you to
- 10:38Speaker 3: where you're saying, you know, hate or liking hate rhetoric,
- 10:42Speaker 3: then own it and let's let's move past it. Because
- 10:44Speaker 3: this is what the women don't want is to move
- 10:46Speaker 3: forward and lies because of like what just happened with
- 10:49Speaker 3: the whole beginning of the season with Katie. They don't
- 10:51Speaker 3: want to move forward with lies. They want the truth
- 10:52Speaker 3: to be told and then let's move on with the
- 10:55Speaker 3: truth and sit in the truth and figure it out
- 10:56Speaker 3: from there. So I think that Gretchen definitely could have
- 11:01Speaker 3: owned it at that moment. I think it was a
- 11:03Speaker 3: very valid point that maybe her faith is what you know,
- 11:09Speaker 3: I don't know what that word is. I'm trying to
- 11:10Speaker 3: think of right now. But helped her decides or made
- 11:13Speaker 3: her decide she wanted to like these Instagram accounts or
- 11:16Speaker 3: even follow them. That's the other point of this, Carlosa.
- 11:19Speaker 3: She was following them, not just liking something. It was
- 11:21Speaker 3: like she was following these accounts, which is brought up later,
- 11:24Speaker 3: you know, a little bit further down the scene. So yeah,
- 11:27Speaker 3: it's I wish that, you know, she would have just
- 11:33Speaker 3: owned it. I don't think she should have called her
- 11:35Speaker 3: fiance at the moment. I think that she should have
- 11:38Speaker 3: had a bigger reaction. So all of that, But at
- 11:41Speaker 3: the same time, I still felt really icky, didn't you like,
- 11:44Speaker 3: I still felt I kind of felt lot for her
- 11:45Speaker 3: almost because of it, but I and I felt it
- 11:47Speaker 3: felt icky.
- 11:49Speaker 2: No, No, it doesn't fault Ikey.
- 11:50Speaker 1: Listen, I'm gonna be completely honest. I didn't feel bad
- 11:56Speaker 1: for Gretchen at all, because I do believe she liked
- 11:58Speaker 1: those tweets. And we'll get we'll get to we'll get
- 12:03Speaker 1: to what happened afterwards. But before we get to that,
- 12:07Speaker 1: I know the audience is somewhat confused because we weren't
- 12:12Speaker 1: able to really and fully see exactly what the the tweets.
- 12:18Speaker 2: Were that she liked.
- 12:19Speaker 1: So what I want to do as a journalist, Hey Portia,
- 12:22Speaker 1: is to at least allow my audience to understand what
- 12:30Speaker 1: she was being accused of, because there is a thread
- 12:34Speaker 1: that is on Twitter that Tama reposted that says, this
- 12:42Speaker 1: is a thread exposing Gretchen Rossi's problematic use racism, homophobia, transphobia,
- 12:49Speaker 1: COVID miss or COVID misinformation, anti abortion.
- 12:54Speaker 2: Stances and more so, these.
- 12:57Speaker 1: Are some of the things that Gretchen is a cues
- 13:00Speaker 1: of liking, whether it's abortion, homophobic post suggesting what we
- 13:06Speaker 1: talked about last week ho homosexuality is linked to pedophilia.
- 13:10Speaker 1: She allegedly liked that. She allegedly liked posts dating back
- 13:15Speaker 1: to sorts of things.
- 13:17Speaker 2: Now, what we.
- 13:19Speaker 1: Did learn when Gretchen called Slade once again, I thought
- 13:26Speaker 1: it was produced because in my opinion, I think Gretchen
- 13:30Speaker 1: gab s Lada heads up, texting how I'm going to
- 13:32Speaker 1: call you? This is what's going on. He was able
- 13:36Speaker 1: to sort of like defend her right. You don't have
- 13:38Speaker 1: to defend your stance. You know who you are. And
- 13:42Speaker 1: at the end of the day, Tamra set of Gates Lur.
- 13:46Speaker 1: When you type in Tamra Gatesler, there's something comes up.
- 13:49Speaker 1: When you type in your name in Gates Blert, nothing
- 13:51Speaker 1: comes up. So look, that was Slade's way of defending
- 13:55Speaker 1: her sort of blase reaction to this.
- 14:01Speaker 3: By the way, by the way, how did Slade have
- 14:04Speaker 3: if if Gretchen really hadn't prepared him, how did producer
- 14:08Speaker 3: Slade have all of that information just ready to go.
- 14:11Speaker 3: Not like if my husband had just called me and said, Alexis,
- 14:14Speaker 3: you're not gonna believe that they just accused me of
- 14:15Speaker 3: on camera. I'm gonna be like, oh my gosh, I'm
- 14:18Speaker 3: not gonna have this like a whole thing ready to
- 14:21Speaker 3: go for something you just found out about, your dumb
- 14:23Speaker 3: out of You're like, well them, like, don't even listen
- 14:25Speaker 3: to them. You know better than that. That's not who
- 14:27Speaker 3: we are. I'm not gonna have a laundry list of
- 14:30Speaker 3: Oh but do this and then you can google tamer
- 14:32Speaker 3: and see her name and do It's just it all
- 14:34Speaker 3: was very produced and very already there, you know what
- 14:39Speaker 3: I mean, Like the information was already there in Slade's pocket.
- 14:42Speaker 3: It wasn't He's not that fast on his feet. Okay,
- 14:44Speaker 3: he's not gonna think about the Gosler all of a
- 14:46Speaker 3: sudden when this all just came up and it's just
- 14:49Speaker 3: like thrown at him at like the our time zone different,
- 14:52Speaker 3: Like how who even knows what time of the day
- 14:53Speaker 3: it was for Slade that she just called him wakes
- 14:55Speaker 3: him up and it's like she's an Amsterdam. He's in
- 14:57Speaker 3: the United States. It's like, oh, honey, I just got
- 14:59Speaker 3: to to this. Oh well, let me go down my
- 15:02Speaker 3: let me know my rolodexive information I have about what
- 15:04Speaker 3: camer has done to me, and here go back to
- 15:05Speaker 3: the gay Sler. Okay, no, it doesn't happen that fast.
- 15:14Speaker 2: Laughing at my hair?
- 15:15Speaker 3: Are you laughing at this?
- 15:16Speaker 2: Okay, look now, the hairs everything, I'm laughing. I'm laughing
- 15:20Speaker 2: at the fact that you are so right. It's funny.
- 15:23Speaker 2: I've been thinking about the time.
- 15:24Speaker 1: Then, friends, like, I'm not prepared with the fucking time
- 15:28Speaker 1: difference of you calling me a boustle on a crisis
- 15:30Speaker 1: you're at and I have.
- 15:33Speaker 3: And I'm watching our kid, yes.
- 15:36Speaker 2: And I'm calm. He's calm too, and he's.
- 15:40Speaker 1: Ready to go with information, and so I'm like, this
- 15:42Speaker 1: shit is weird. To me, so after the ladies are
- 15:47Speaker 1: really trying to tell which you know what's so funny
- 15:50Speaker 1: to me? I felt that the rest of the girls,
- 15:54Speaker 1: and this is where bias is on a whole other
- 15:57Speaker 1: level when it comes to these women, they they were
- 16:00Speaker 1: pretty much trying to tell Gretchen how she should respond
- 16:05Speaker 1: and give her the benefit of a doubt. So even
- 16:09Speaker 1: when she tried to produce in a visceral reaction after
- 16:13Speaker 1: being iced out and not going to the band, which look,
- 16:16Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this, I'm gonna say this, and this
- 16:19Speaker 1: may not be popular, and I'm five with that because
- 16:21Speaker 1: I speak the truth. I did feel like, okay, the
- 16:27Speaker 1: same way I felt when Emily told Katie to get
- 16:31Speaker 1: the fuck out, and I'm like, who the fuck are you,
- 16:33Speaker 1: Emily Simpson. I did not like the fact that Gretchen
- 16:38Speaker 1: was not allowed on the car. I did feel like,
- 16:41Speaker 1: I don't like to see anyone being ice out. I
- 16:48Speaker 1: think at the end of the day, if if you
- 16:51Speaker 1: feel like, okay, you could have said.
- 16:53Speaker 2: This, then she's on the show and that's.
- 16:59Speaker 1: Not her fucking sprints van As Productions and Gauls is
- 17:04Speaker 1: showing you now when company's women, they do have this
- 17:08Speaker 1: weird sense of being empowered by icing out someone that
- 17:13Speaker 1: they feel like in the moment deserves it.
- 17:14Speaker 2: And I will give Gretchen that.
- 17:16Speaker 1: I did not like that, And I felt that Gretcha's
- 17:20Speaker 1: anger was only produced by herself because she was being
- 17:26Speaker 1: iced down.
- 17:27Speaker 3: And that's where she tried to produce tears even then,
- 17:30Speaker 3: And that was the moment the creative of her to
- 17:32Speaker 3: want to is because she was getting iced out and
- 17:34Speaker 3: she still couldn't get a tear to come out, so
- 17:36Speaker 3: she was It's just like she was really lost and
- 17:39Speaker 3: she needed more production from Slade. She needed Slade to
- 17:41Speaker 3: help her figure out what am I supposed to do
- 17:43Speaker 3: in this situation. But I agree with you, and that's
- 17:45Speaker 3: why when I said a few minutes ago, I do
- 17:48Speaker 3: feel bad for Gretchen. I don't think it's right. Doing
- 17:51Speaker 3: two wrongs don't make it right. So just because she
- 17:54Speaker 3: messed up and is liking hate rhetoric doesn't mean that
- 17:58Speaker 3: the other women need to stoop down and then just
- 18:00Speaker 3: bully her or ice her out. I mean, I get
- 18:02Speaker 3: it that you're disgusted by it. I get it that
- 18:04Speaker 3: you need to have long conversations with her about this
- 18:06Speaker 3: and figure it out. You can just give her the
- 18:07Speaker 3: silent treatment in the car. You don't need to do
- 18:10Speaker 3: two wrongs to make a right. So that's where my
- 18:12Speaker 3: compassion does and empathy does come in for it, because
- 18:15Speaker 3: almost every single one of those women have been iced
- 18:18Speaker 3: out at some point, including me season seven, okay, so
- 18:21Speaker 3: and last season. I mean at the reunion, I was
- 18:23Speaker 3: iced out. They obviously did not have my back. I
- 18:25Speaker 3: was completely on an island by myself. Doesn't feel good,
- 18:28Speaker 3: and so I don't. I don't condone that, no matter
- 18:30Speaker 3: what you know, like, but you know, moving forward with it,
- 18:35Speaker 3: it's it's I even didn't like Gretchen's replies in her
- 18:38Speaker 3: interview the confessionals, like, I still didn't even I didn't
- 18:41Speaker 3: even feel like she did herself justice. If she really
- 18:45Speaker 3: didn't do it, she didn't do herself any justice.
- 18:50Speaker 1: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
- 18:53Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show. I want to ask
- 18:57Speaker 1: you this too, So the next day this listen, I'm
- 19:05Speaker 1: trying so hard to really find the silver lighting in
- 19:09Speaker 1: some of these women's biased but I can't because it's biased.
- 19:13Speaker 2: I got angry. I'm just being honest with you, Alexis
- 19:17Speaker 2: I got angry.
- 19:18Speaker 1: You've been iceed out before, Tam has been iceed out, before,
- 19:22Speaker 1: Noel has been iced out, before, Katie Janella has been
- 19:25Speaker 1: iced out. So all of a sudden, the ladies go
- 19:31Speaker 1: to sleep, they wake up and now they feel super
- 19:36Speaker 1: bad about what happened to Gretchen. And now they have
- 19:39Speaker 1: a moral compass, not the compass that's taken up back
- 19:42Speaker 1: to the airport, but a compass of morality because they
- 19:45Speaker 1: feel like, well, you know, look when Gina said, I
- 19:49Speaker 1: just feel bad because you can't destroy someone's life, are
- 19:53Speaker 1: you fucking kidding me? You destroyed Katie Janella's life. She
- 19:59Speaker 1: is not been allowed to film with you, ladies.
- 20:03Speaker 2: You that's that's what.
- 20:04Speaker 1: So all of a sudden you feel that way. And
- 20:08Speaker 1: then to say I would hate Heather. I wouldn't hate
- 20:11Speaker 1: to accuse someone of something that isn't true. Excuse me
- 20:18Speaker 1: because Alexis walked it too. If you followed these accounts
- 20:23Speaker 1: and you don't see that someone didn't like them a
- 20:25Speaker 1: year ago, I believe, in my opinion.
- 20:29Speaker 2: Allegedly that Regretchen was back on the show.
- 20:33Speaker 1: You can unlike some things because things come, things are
- 20:36Speaker 1: on earth. But it was the fact that these women
- 20:40Speaker 1: are so fucking filled with contradictions that it makes it
- 20:47Speaker 1: hard to enjoy these ladies as much as I.
- 20:51Speaker 2: Want to.
- 20:52Speaker 1: I I was ready to throw my my laptop down
- 20:56Speaker 1: the ground and just and just numb all over it
- 20:58Speaker 1: because I can't take the bab I just can't take it.
- 21:01Speaker 2: Katie didn't never deserve the same grace, y, I go ahead.
- 21:05Speaker 3: Yes, and and and by the way, Carlos, what Katie
- 21:08Speaker 3: Jella is being accused of is one, I mean, a
- 21:13Speaker 3: speck of grant a sand compared to what Gretchen just
- 21:16Speaker 3: got accused of. Okay, but they all of a sudden
- 21:19Speaker 3: had a change of heart, like you said when they
- 21:20Speaker 3: went to bed that night, like like what sparked this sudden? Oh,
- 21:24Speaker 3: let's give her some compassion because she sure didn't do
- 21:26Speaker 3: it herself any justice and trying to explain to them
- 21:29Speaker 3: why or how or what or that she would, you know,
- 21:32Speaker 3: defend herself and by any spread of the word, I mean,
- 21:35Speaker 3: it's just like I I was very baffled by that.
- 21:40Speaker 3: The women seem very fickle, I think is the words
- 21:42Speaker 3: you're looking for. They were very fickle with the situation
- 21:44Speaker 3: because they were flip flopping back and forth, and everyone
- 21:47Speaker 3: just needs to have a stance and take that stance.
- 21:49Speaker 3: I mean, that's what the bottom line is. Just take
- 21:51Speaker 3: have a stance and and make Gretchen prove otherwise, like
- 21:56Speaker 3: if she didn't do it, make her prove it. Okay,
- 22:00Speaker 3: which we're going to get to that phone call that
- 22:02Speaker 3: we heard the girl. I don't know if you want
- 22:04Speaker 3: to speed up to there, but any girl that's a
- 22:09Speaker 3: whole go oh oh, you're gonna let me. You're gonna
- 22:13Speaker 3: let me go first, because I don't know if you're
- 22:17Speaker 3: gonna agree with me or not, Carlos, But you know,
- 22:19Speaker 3: I don't really give a care if anyone agrees, if
- 22:21Speaker 3: you or not. My opinion and guess what and Tamera's words,
- 22:24Speaker 3: it's my opinion yet Okay, it's my opinion. Okay that
- 22:28Speaker 3: phone call. First of all, it was a muffled voice.
- 22:33Speaker 3: How do you why if someone's coming forth with valuable
- 22:37Speaker 3: information that is one hundred percent true, are you muffling
- 22:41Speaker 3: a voice? Secondly, I rewound it probably five times. The
- 22:46Speaker 3: way some of the words came out, it sounded to
- 22:48Speaker 3: me like Slade, please forgive me everyone if you just
- 22:51Speaker 3: think I'm jumping to that, But it did to me, okay,
- 22:55Speaker 3: And the other part that really caught my attention, I'm like,
- 22:59Speaker 3: what the hell this is? So it's so scripted, and
- 23:02Speaker 3: it's so like, none of it makes sense. It doesn't
- 23:05Speaker 3: make sense. Why did Gina say at that one point
- 23:07Speaker 3: there was some point where she goes, oh wait, does
- 23:09Speaker 3: the couse back up? Why is this person who's got
- 23:13Speaker 3: all this knowledge that any housewife, husband, boyfriend, fiance, sister, mother, daughter,
- 23:19Speaker 3: kid could know. Because they're filming a reality show and
- 23:22Speaker 3: there's seven or eight women, and all of those women
- 23:24Speaker 3: have an entire family that know everything that go on
- 23:26Speaker 3: during the field trips and the places that these women go.
- 23:29Speaker 3: That is information that is not so oh my goodness,
- 23:33Speaker 3: it's just facts from if you're a friend of a fan,
- 23:35Speaker 3: Like if I was feeling, Johnny knew everything I was
- 23:38Speaker 3: doing all day long? So did my kids? I come home,
- 23:40Speaker 3: I'd vent to my kids. And I have adult kids, obviously,
- 23:43Speaker 3: you know every single one of those women have people
- 23:45Speaker 3: in their circle that know where they are, what transpired,
- 23:49Speaker 3: and and you know so and if Tampa had done this,
- 23:54Speaker 3: This is the other point that really got me. And
- 23:56Speaker 3: I know Tammer's my friend, and I don't I don't
- 23:58Speaker 3: want to sound like, oh, it's Tammer's all this and
- 24:00Speaker 3: all that. She's not. Okay, she's a human and she
- 24:02Speaker 3: could f up to But the other part is why,
- 24:05Speaker 3: if tamer really did do all this that this phony
- 24:09Speaker 3: caller said she did, why wasn't information leaked earlier? Why
- 24:13Speaker 3: is it all of a sudden now there's just so
- 24:16Speaker 3: much that didn't make sense. Carlos, you know, it's the
- 24:19Speaker 3: phoniest thing I've ever heard. I hope America feels that
- 24:21Speaker 3: and they're not sitting there buying it, because I give
- 24:23Speaker 3: America credit and I think they are smarter, you know, smart,
- 24:28Speaker 3: So I just hope they don't buy it. But I
- 24:30Speaker 3: wanted to hear your opinion, and I thought you might
- 24:31Speaker 3: argue with me or disagree. I don't know, So.
- 24:33Speaker 2: You go now, yeah, yeah, okay, going, I agree with you.
- 24:40Speaker 1: Look, I said it once, I said it twice, I
- 24:44Speaker 1: said it three times. Here's the fourth Tamra, Judge. These
- 24:49Speaker 1: ladies are not your friends. They don't like you. They
- 24:52Speaker 1: actually woke up the next morning feeling bad, Regretchen and
- 24:55Speaker 1: turns around on you saying, well, we thought about it.
- 24:58Speaker 2: If you have this information for over a year or two.
- 25:00Speaker 2: Why bring it.
- 25:01Speaker 1: Up unless these ladies have never been on reality TV
- 25:06Speaker 1: for the past couple of seasons.
- 25:08Speaker 2: They all know that.
- 25:10Speaker 1: Listen, I'm gonna say two things that are true. Ninety
- 25:16Speaker 1: of reality stars talk to bloggers, and it is what
- 25:18Speaker 1: it is.
- 25:19Speaker 2: And listen. But but be clear what I'm saying. I'm
- 25:22Speaker 2: just saying they give bloggers information. That's a very different thing.
- 25:26Speaker 1: They do talk to bloggers, right, it is what it is,
- 25:29Speaker 1: news flash.
- 25:30Speaker 2: They all do.
- 25:31Speaker 3: Now, well I don't. I don't, so I don't. I
- 25:34Speaker 3: don't agree with the nine nine. Maybe it's I don't
- 25:39Speaker 3: think I will say hi to the bloggers on the
- 25:42Speaker 3: red carpet or when we're out or when I see somebody.
- 25:44Speaker 3: And then they're like, oh, we have a lot of
- 25:45Speaker 3: bloggers don't admit, by the way, what their blogs are
- 25:47Speaker 3: because they know they bullshit talk. Oh gosh, they talk
- 25:50Speaker 3: bad about you behind your back on some episodes, and
- 25:53Speaker 3: then they they don't really want you to know that
- 25:55Speaker 3: I'm Eric and I run the Real Housewives, you know,
- 25:58Speaker 3: two to two blogside or whatever, you know what I mean.
- 26:00Speaker 3: They don't want to be told. They don't want anyone
- 26:02Speaker 3: to know. But when you do meet one or two
- 26:04Speaker 3: of them. I do say hi to them, but I
- 26:05Speaker 3: don't talk to bloggers, so I don't know. I'm confused
- 26:08Speaker 3: and perplexed by all that.
- 26:10Speaker 1: Well, no, and the thing is this, I said ninety
- 26:12Speaker 1: nine percent, you're part of the one percent tile out
- 26:15Speaker 1: of because the thing is this selecxis there are I
- 26:19Speaker 1: believe the number is four hundred housewives, whether past present
- 26:24Speaker 1: like so okay, which is which is crazy because a lot,
- 26:28Speaker 1: it's a lot.
- 26:29Speaker 2: So that's number one.
- 26:32Speaker 4: Now flip this on camera, and let's be clear, is
- 26:37Speaker 4: not in a sense, in the sense of not doing things.
- 26:42Speaker 2: That I disagreed with. I keep saying over over again,
- 26:45Speaker 2: rain drops the way she.
- 26:47Speaker 1: Was talking to Shannon last season or the season before
- 26:51Speaker 1: I got what it was the last season.
- 26:55Speaker 2: On this podcast that I hated her, calling her drunk.
- 26:58Speaker 1: I told Sherb personally, I think this does look good
- 27:02Speaker 1: for you. I can't defend this in the worst of
- 27:05Speaker 1: Kyle Richards, this is indefensible. I can't defend this, and
- 27:10Speaker 1: she understood, but she had a reason that that's fine.
- 27:13Speaker 1: I don't think at all that Tamar Judge orchestrated this,
- 27:20Speaker 1: this smear campaign against Gretchen, I thank you guys. I
- 27:24Speaker 1: hope you guys are smart enough to understand. Why is
- 27:28Speaker 1: it be convenience that a week after okay, a week
- 27:38Speaker 1: after they filmed, all of a sudden, Gina gets DMS
- 27:45Speaker 1: from people, Emily gets DMS from somebody, and they're alleging
- 27:51Speaker 1: that this person has DM them before. If that's the case,
- 27:54Speaker 1: show me the receipts, show me the receipts. Let me
- 27:57Speaker 1: let me see data back in twenty twenty three, twenty
- 28:00Speaker 1: twenty four, that this person allegedly DMG.
- 28:04Speaker 2: But you mean to tell me you want Carlos King
- 28:06Speaker 2: and Alexis Janssen.
- 28:08Speaker 1: To believe that a week after filming, this random person.
- 28:15Speaker 2: Decided to have a moral compass and spill all the
- 28:17Speaker 2: tamer's tea.
- 28:18Speaker 1: Why would he wait until she was quote unquote exposed.
- 28:22Speaker 1: Why not do it throughout the whole season? Why not
- 28:25Speaker 1: do it after the episode airs? It was fake, It
- 28:28Speaker 1: was phony. It's sounded like Slade. I'm not saying it
- 28:32Speaker 1: was Slade, it did sound like him. It was muffled.
- 28:35Speaker 1: I don't know why I was muffoled, Because when you
- 28:37Speaker 1: are recording a conversation, that person has to sign an
- 28:40Speaker 1: appearance release so.
- 28:42Speaker 2: You can use their likeness and do with the what
- 28:44Speaker 2: you may.
- 28:46Speaker 1: It goes to show you that I believe this was
- 28:49Speaker 1: orchestrated by Grishna, Slade and Tamer to me, is innocent
- 28:53Speaker 1: in this in this.
- 28:54Speaker 3: Wait a second, you just confused. Man. I am a
- 28:58Speaker 3: smart person. Okay, I know, I don't know it sounds
- 29:00Speaker 3: smart on national television, but I have a brain. Wait
- 29:04Speaker 3: you're okay, so are you? Wait? This was This is
- 29:09Speaker 3: a light bulb moment for me. So you're right. Because
- 29:12Speaker 3: for them to be able to use that recording of
- 29:14Speaker 3: a muffled voice as a producer, I'm asking you this
- 29:18Speaker 3: that the show had to have that person sign off
- 29:22Speaker 3: to be on national television.
- 29:25Speaker 1: Correct.
- 29:26Speaker 2: Yes, the girls couldn't.
- 29:27Speaker 3: What I'm saying is what I'm asking is Gina could
- 29:29Speaker 3: not have just played that unless that person that is
- 29:34Speaker 3: the muffled fake voice signed off something for Bravo to
- 29:37Speaker 3: use it. Correct.
- 29:38Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, that's that's.
- 29:41Speaker 3: Brilliant, Carlos, Because there you go, so so so production
- 29:45Speaker 3: does know who is behind this voice, so we get
- 29:49Speaker 3: at the bottom of it if she really wanted to.
- 29:52Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing.
- 29:53Speaker 1: The person when you when you're using someone's likeness. Right,
- 29:59Speaker 1: And I'm gonna take you back to Potomac episode last
- 30:03Speaker 1: week when the First Lady of Maryland was at the event.
- 30:10Speaker 1: They said she was there and she actually hugged the
- 30:13Speaker 1: other housewives Alexis, but they couldn't show her.
- 30:17Speaker 2: And and what what the producers did?
- 30:20Speaker 1: They wrote on the screen the First Lady did not
- 30:24Speaker 1: want to be filmed because she did not sign a relief,
- 30:26Speaker 1: so they could not use.
- 30:27Speaker 2: Her like this as her her voice or anything.
- 30:31Speaker 1: When you're using someone's voice rain drops at the producer,
- 30:35Speaker 1: they have to sile off on it.
- 30:37Speaker 3: So then Tameron Judge, I'm going to talk to you
- 30:40Speaker 3: through this podcast because I hope she'll listen to it.
- 30:42Speaker 3: She's my friend. But anyway, you need to get from
- 30:44Speaker 3: production who that phony voice is and get to the
- 30:47Speaker 3: bottom of that, because if they signed it, then they
- 30:50Speaker 3: can't be so phony and keep miss you know, canceling
- 30:53Speaker 3: their account, bring their account back using a phony voice,
- 30:56Speaker 3: dming and then erasing and like all the things that
- 30:59Speaker 3: don't make sense. Because if you're if you're an authentic person,
- 31:02Speaker 3: you're not gonna care what your voice sounds like, right,
- 31:05Speaker 3: You're not gonna care if you you're gonna have to
- 31:06Speaker 3: delete your account and open it back up again. That's
- 31:09Speaker 3: all shady things that people do that don't want to
- 31:12Speaker 3: be known because it's not authentic. So there you go, Tamra,
- 31:17Speaker 3: we just helped you, Carlos and I you pay us later.
- 31:20Speaker 3: We just helped figure.
- 31:23Speaker 1: Right.
- 31:23Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I don't buy it for one second.
- 31:28Speaker 1: Even when Gretchen and Sleigh were talking in the kitchen
- 31:31Speaker 1: about what just happened, she still did not seem like
- 31:34Speaker 1: a person that was accused of something she didn't do.
- 31:38Speaker 1: You know, I go back to when you watch these
- 31:42Speaker 1: shows and how these women have big reactions, like, for example,
- 31:47Speaker 1: the Cocomnissant multiple partners, you felt like it's so true.
- 31:57Speaker 2: Though yees. Bickie was like, Laura, you fucking bitch. I
- 32:01Speaker 2: never slept my MultiMate partners.
- 32:03Speaker 3: That's not me. I filmed that season, I was there
- 32:08Speaker 3: at that exact same I missed me some Vicky Gumble said, Okay, Carlos,
- 32:12Speaker 3: I just I'm just having to take a moment away
- 32:13Speaker 3: from all this heavy, heavy crap.
- 32:15Speaker 2: But but she.
- 32:16Speaker 3: Would have been like like like, oh my gosh, it's
- 32:23Speaker 3: so true. It's so true.
- 32:27Speaker 1: It's no, it is it is and listen, I think
- 32:31Speaker 1: what and and.
- 32:32Speaker 2: So look, that's that's that's my theory.
- 32:35Speaker 1: I I I don't think Tamra had anything to do
- 32:37Speaker 1: with it.
- 32:37Speaker 2: I don't think that.
- 32:38Speaker 1: I mean, I know a lot of you guys just
- 32:40Speaker 1: don't like her. That's fine, She's a polar rifing figure. Yeah,
- 32:44Speaker 1: but if you guys look at the fact, it doesn't
- 32:47Speaker 1: make sense that a week after they take that dinner
- 32:50Speaker 1: scene in a private room, right that this guy had information.
- 32:55Speaker 1: He had information because there's somebody in that private room
- 32:59Speaker 1: that leaps to him in order for him to coist
- 33:03Speaker 1: a dentally DM everybody to say, Hey, guys, guess what
- 33:09Speaker 1: Tama was telling me?
- 33:09Speaker 2: These things I don't buy. I don't buy. I don't
- 33:13Speaker 2: buy for a second.
- 33:16Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm curious to see what we're going to get
- 33:18Speaker 3: in the comment section on the feedback and what I
- 33:20Speaker 3: really am curious what viewers are feeling at this moment,
- 33:25Speaker 3: because this one is so this one is so well,
- 33:28Speaker 3: it's super deep to me, unto you. Also because I
- 33:30Speaker 3: know we're in the LGBTQ plus community.
- 33:33Speaker 1: So I I.
- 33:36Speaker 3: It really hits home for me and I have this
- 33:38Speaker 3: I mean, actually, I'm usually pretty opinionated him. I was
- 33:40Speaker 3: gonna say, I have a really big opinion about this one,
- 33:42Speaker 3: but I can't really say that because I'm opinionated about everything,
- 33:46Speaker 3: so scratch that. But it hits home and I don't.
- 33:50Speaker 3: I cannot wait, honestly, Carlos for the reunion, Like this
- 33:54Speaker 3: is one of them where I'm like, I already have
- 33:56Speaker 3: my high blood pressure because I'm just like, the reunion's
- 33:59Speaker 3: a whole other week away. We have to wait six
- 34:01Speaker 3: more days. Oh yeah, I need more information. I do
- 34:06Speaker 3: need more information on it. They left us the big cliffhanger, Carlos,
- 34:10Speaker 3: the big cliffhanger.
- 34:13Speaker 2: Now, and look that's the job of the producers.
- 34:16Speaker 1: And listen, fantastic work because you got Alexis and I
- 34:20Speaker 1: activated in anticipating the three part re union. And look,
- 34:24Speaker 1: we can't wait, so rain jobs. Let Alexis and I know.
- 34:28Speaker 1: In the comments, do you guys agree with our theory
- 34:33Speaker 1: that this was a scheme that Slagh set.
- 34:36Speaker 2: Up and it's not?
- 34:38Speaker 3: Yes, okay, okay, love that, and let's take it one
- 34:41Speaker 3: step further. Please comment and let us know. If you
- 34:44Speaker 3: don't think it's a scheme, please give us why, because
- 34:47Speaker 3: I do want to I want to I like valid points.
- 34:50Speaker 3: I like validity and the truth. I want to hear
- 34:53Speaker 3: if they don't agree, and they feel confident that this
- 34:55Speaker 3: is real, please tell us why I agree. I will
- 35:02Speaker 3: look this information for your So, Katie and Tamara are
- 35:05Speaker 3: throwing a watch party next week for the read first reunion,
- 35:09Speaker 3: and guess who's going little Bitty Booby Group. Yeah, I'm going.
- 35:17Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm.
- 35:21Speaker 1: Not gonna fly to the Orange County ship.
- 35:27Speaker 3: Well will you? Will you come?
- 35:29Speaker 2: Let me look at my calendar? Girl, I don't know, Lizzy,
- 35:32Speaker 2: let's talk about it. Look, it ain't.
- 35:34Speaker 3: Easy to get here. I know where you're at. But
- 35:36Speaker 3: but if you can come.
- 35:40Speaker 1: If I'm unable to make it, please report back and
- 35:42Speaker 1: let us know all about this shin dig. But god,
- 35:44Speaker 1: you heard it here first Katie at Tamor, I'm having
- 35:48Speaker 1: a watch party. Alexis would be there reporting live for
- 35:52Speaker 1: Reality with the King podcast and I can't wait to
- 35:54Speaker 1: hear it back. Thank you, Alexis. Get your hair dune, girl,
- 35:59Speaker 1: and I will see you. I gotta go to.
- 36:01Speaker 3: The sink right now, get these fools out people. Gotta
- 36:04Speaker 3: have my blonde hair come back without frying it. So
- 36:06Speaker 3: love you all. See you next week.
- 36:08Speaker 1: Love you baby, thank you, Love you. Reality with the
- 36:14Speaker 1: King is executive produced by me Carlos King, produced by
- 36:19Speaker 1: Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership with.
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