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Lonely Men Just Hate Women Part 2 Plus An Article! | Rantzerker 183 · Honey Badger Radio

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  Coming to you live from an alarmingly warm but also windy and full of dead
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  leaves, radioactive wasteland. We're the survivors of the all right apocalypse once more.
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  The few of the brave the bitchy keep forgetting that one. The few,
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  the brave, the bitchy, once more wading into battle against the lonely,
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  froggy lobstery zombie zombie hordes with rant Zerker. Number one eighty three has
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  one eighty seven. Allison, it was seven eighty seven. What part of
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  one eighty seven? Didn't you hear? It's one of the three. I'm
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  just yeah, she's trying, she's trying to be the fly in the ointment,
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  is interrupting the intro. It has to be all right. It is
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  one eighty three Lonely Men, just eight women, Part two plus an article.
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  I figured I figured we could frame the discourse of these lovely ladies with
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  something that actually comes from men, So a article. It's a little bit
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  sympathetic, actually talking to men about what they're experiencing and what they feel,
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  rather than just listening to these incredibly there's these sweethearts tell us all what men
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  are and do and be, you know, and uh, project a lot,
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  so I figured, you know, to give it a bit of context.
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  Let's listen to men's side before we go back into the well what we've
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  been doing so far, and before we do that, which is which is
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  listened to a bunch of women on TikTok talk about lonely men. Yeah,
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  it's it's been, it's been, it's been real. I think I love
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  that growing. We need we need some, we need some. We need
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  some German shepherd groaning because they can they can tell a whole a whole novel
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  and one single groan that goes on for about fifteen seconds. Okay, all
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  goals. So I probably should do some thank you thank you to machine for
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  five hundred bucks. Whoa thank you? Kay? Okay, okay, I'm
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  I'm I'm trying attempting to thank the next person, but I have no freaking
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  clue how to pronounce their name. Uh run it through Mono Denny grin,
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  Mono deny grin, Okay, manod e grin m o n o d y
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  grin. We're one hundred bucks? That is that is it? That is
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  definitely something that is baffling a bit. M hm how much it is?
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  Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, let me see if it goes
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  through the Uh let me see that is oh Iggy Thunders yea hopefully yeah yeah
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  that was that was from Eggy Thunders. One hundred bucks from Indie Thunders.
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  Thank you come again? Yeah all right, And I think there's another one
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  fifty dollars from out m M mashpoon is too big, and uh, fifteen
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  dollars from No, no, that's a that's a that's a super chow.
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  Okay, okay, all right, and then of course the thousand dollars from
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  Richard Beer. So thank you to Richard, who also apparently wants me to
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  dress up like a red lufta. Richard likes the John Cena sounds, so
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  I'll play that for him. Yeah. Do you remember that that woman with
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  the crystal on her head during the jubilie the anti feminist women versus the one
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  who was basically in like some kind of I don't know, she looked like
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  she slipped into a gigantic red lufta. Yeah, she was does She looked
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  like she would be in the poverty wing of the met Gala? What's a
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  lufta? What's the poverty wing of the meta? I made it up.
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  It's like, basically, she was wearing some like pretentious plastic outfit and looked
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  like she could have gone to like out to the gala. But but it's
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  not as crazy and wild as what the people at the met gala actually wear,
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  so she would probably work there. Oh, low rent met Gala.
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  Yeah, okay, red met Gala, right, Okay, I got you,
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  okay, bar, but but what is a lufta? A lufta is
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  like this sort of like frilly object that you put your body wash on and
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  you squish it. No, that's a lufa lufa okay, lufa, okay,
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  okay, all right, I put a tea in there when I shouldn't
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  have. What the hell is wrong with you, Alison? I don't know.
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  I like tea. You're you're like my husband. He mispronounced his words
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  all the time. The crux of the issue. No, it's the crux.
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  It's the crux of the issue. What if you like crush? What
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  if you like crust? No, he doesn't say crust of the issue.
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  He says cruxt of the issue. Yeah, but she liked cruxt and crust,
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  so you put Oh he doesn't like crust. Crust would kill him.
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  Okay, at least bread crust. Okay, let's do the Let's do the
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  article. So this is the article actually talking to men about what they're feeling
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  that first, the article. Yeah, let's do that first. Let's get
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  it over with, otherwise we might never get to it. You know,
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  Kay, I'm going into the screen, gotcha. Well, you don't have
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  to look at it. I mean, you can just read it from the
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  article and I can leave it on the photo if you guys want right,
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  Yeah, okay, Now, I will say one thing this author insists,
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  like that she has another article in which she don't want to blame. She's
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  protect she's caping for feminism. Like, why you do that? Why you
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  got to do that? That's always the case, right, Well, you
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  know, I mean, I did a lot of bad stuff. But let's
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  not throw the baby out with the bathwater people. I mean, it's baby.
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  It's gotta be useful somewhere like society. No, I don't know,
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  I mean yeah, basically, but yeah, no, how about we throw
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  the abortion out with the bath water? Yew? About that? Okay,
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  all right, let's let's go. Let's do this. Yep. Oh you
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  want me to read it? Oh I can't read it? Okayad No,
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  no, I'll read it. I'll read it. The dating pool dropouts young
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  men today field They must be six feet tall, make six figures, and
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  have six inches downstairs to get a girlfriend, so many have given up trying
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  by Olivia Ringold skip this bit. Okay, are you religious? The question
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  made Jamal squirm. The answer was no, but he could tell his day
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  wanted it to be yes, and after the hour long drive to get here
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  to a Caribbean restaurant in Orlando floor he could tell it wasn't working. I
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  think we should just be friends. A thirty six year old security guard remember
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  telling the girl he had dinner with last month after they met on Facebook.
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  That was his first date in three years. He says he once went six
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  months without getting a single match on a dating app, even though he pays
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  thirty dollars in monthly fees between Okay, Cupid, Bumble, and Hinge if
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  you count high school when he went to the movies with a classmate. Jamal
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  says he's been on a total of three dates his entire life. Oh yeah,
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  yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what y'all. At a dry spell
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  and now, driving home from his date, it hit him like a ton
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  of bricks. Why do I even do this at all? He walked into
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  his apartment in your Cape Canaveral greeted the cats and slumped down on his couch.
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  I'm so far out of the loop, he told me. He realized
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  at the time, compared to my peers who have gone out with women and
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  know how to interact with them, I'm too far gone. I can't learn
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  that stuff. Oh stop, stop, you right there, Jamal, Actually
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  you have a very distorted opinion of your peers, because I believe that most
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  men are now in your in your most situation, Most men your age are
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  in your situation. And honestly, I like, I think it is something.
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  I don't know what the frick happened to women, but it's almost like
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  in around two thousand and seven they stopped enjoying sex, because I'm pretty sure
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  before then, you know, you you you when you went to high school,
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  you couldn't you couldn't stop them, you know what I mean. And
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  I'm looking at this from like the point of view of a of an adult.
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  When I was a kid, I was just the weird kid that never
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  really got into anything. But but you know, like all around you like
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  they were, they were they're horny teenagers. Then something happened sooy soy,
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  I'm talking about the women. No, you think sooy doesn't affect women?
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  I see what you're saying. Yeah, yeah, like and and petrochemicals like
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  this, phenal a and thalates. You think that the endocrine disruptors don't also
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  affect women. Oh yeah, you're right. There's probably a heck of a
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  lot of estrogen dominance going on, which explains a lot. Yeah, in
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  every all the women now have lesbian bed death, not just the lesbians.
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  M Yeah, but it's like it's like, honestly, that's it's And I'm
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  not surprised because I've talked about this a lot for how many ever how many
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  years now, But it's like women today just do not like men, period.
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  I think that's really what it is. That they just don't like men,
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  like in general, they don't like men. And it's bizarre because you
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  know, I grew up in a time where you know, you didn't like
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  maybe specific men or types of behavior that men engaged in, but it seemed
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  like women still liked men to a degree. What. What what I find
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  interesting is because I am seeing more of this. My my own daughter is
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  in this category of just like, you know, well, if she could
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  have babies, but like just bypass that whole sex they you know, she
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  she would be like totally content, right, loves babies, really like the
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  sex thing is just like it's vaguely gross. Right, And let me let
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  me just give you a story of two pills. Okay, so I went
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  on this high, uh, prostagland and pill right, Okay, so it
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  was a high male hormone pill or not no progesterone, sorry, progesterone pill.
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  Okay, yeah, progesterone I've taken before, And yeah, yeah,
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  I was on a high progesterone birth control pill and it gave me such chronic,
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  flaming, fucking yeast infections, right that I couldn't have sex. So
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  it worked, it worked, it was an effective contraceptive, right. So
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  then I went on a low progesterone pill that was just estrogen, right,
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  And the idea of even swapping spit, even kissing with tongues grossed me out
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  right, like it just the whole idea of sex grossed me out to the
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  point where I was just like, no, no, nope, not going
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  to do it. Right, So this idea that all of these environmental estrogens
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  aren't causing some kind of effect on women too, and including the estrogens that
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  they take in order to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancies that they'll never have because
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  they don't want to have sex, you know, Like I'm sorry I wanted
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  when I was on that high progesterone pill, I wanted sex all the time.
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  I just couldn't have it. I was just like, oh, fuck
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  yeah, sign me up. And then it was like ow wow wow no,
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  right, yeah yeah, And so it's just like you the more environmental
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  estrogens you put in the water, right and in the food that are leaching
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  out of plastic packaging into your food and all of that, right, the
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  more you have a situation where women don't have a sex drive, men don't
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  have testosterone, women don't have progesterone, right, They all of their progesterone
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  and testosterone receptors are are occupied by male hormone receptor squatters, right, these
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  endocrine disruptors that basically are like, yeah, now you have no sex drive.
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  Now you have low testosterone levels. You're the try guys, right,
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  you know, like the one of you, of the five of you test
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  sized for testosterone levels is uh is the equivalent of an eighty year old man
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  in today's society, right Yeah. Like yeah, so, I mean,
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  like there's there's some other shit going on here. It's not just about women
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  hating men. That doesn't help, but oh yeah, no, there's there's
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  definitely like there's definitely environmental factors. I would also say that and maybe maybe
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  that's contributing to the whole narrative of disliking masculinity, which well we've never had
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  because because masculinity, it's like, oh masculinity, they're trying to push me
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  to have sex and it just grosses me out Right, that's weird attitude.
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  Okay, But anyway, I guess weird attitude for you, and it's a
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  weird attitude for me. But I know, I know from my experience with
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  those two birth control formulations that one of them killed my libido, just absolutely
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  killed it. And it was the one that had no progesterone. It was
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  just all estrogen. Hmm. Yeah. And like I said, that could
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  be a contributing factor, This whole narrative could be a contributing factor. But
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  I love our society's response to it. You know, human beings have ceased
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  to reproduce, and reproduction is more than it's not just making babies. The
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  whole gamut of social behaviors around reproduction makes societies. Okay, that's where our
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  future lies. Our society is decided to stop doing that, and we're all
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  like yeah, yeah, we all are, like, well, if we
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  talk about it, we might end up blaming women, or not even blaming,
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  but just saying, hey, maybe women have this responsibility that they could
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  take this, these changes that they could evince, like why would you want
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  to exist your whole life not having any influence over the world around you,
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  but apparently we're there. That's misogyny. Yeah, well and if if you
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  don't have kids, right, why would you care about the future because you
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  can be a humanist who cares about other people? Well yeah, but then
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  they twist that into like climate alarmism and yeah, I don't have kids.
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  I care about the future extinction, rebellion and stuff like that, right,
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  Like it's it's like they'll take that, they'll take that, and they'll twist
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  it into you know, well, you don't want to have kids anyway,
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  because they're going to destroy the planet. If you mean kids, they just
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  destroy the planet. It's just I don't have kids, Brian doesn't have kids.
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  I think that we are two people who care very much about the future
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  of the human race. You know, it's it's well, but they twist
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  that care into into like, well, you shouldn't have kids. Yeah,
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  but I don't think that's what happened with either of us started No, No,
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  but I don't think I think that Karen's got a point. I mean,
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  for me. It's it wasn't a choice. I'm talking about cancer and
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  I can't so I'm talking about I'm talking about gen zers here were being essentially
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  the way from it. I do have a I do have to thank you,
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  but I don't know if you if you're done with this particularly No,
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  I'm I'm I think I've I think I've said my piece. But I do
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  think I do think that like looking at hormone levels is you know, I
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  agree, I agree. I also think that nobody wants heritage. Yeah,
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  nobody does. And I think that the narrative that we exist, the society,
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  it seems to be pushing out into the ether like some horrendous misinterest.
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  Freaking smog is also contributing. Yeah, because it contribute what it does,
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  is it? It's every problem that's coming out of this that our society fundamentally
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  is not doing the one thing, you know, Like society has one job,
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  one job, and that is getting people pair bonding and reproducing and capturing
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  all of the instincts around that to perpetuate its systems, and the is not
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  doing it. Yeah. No, the thing is too right. You can
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  have two people with very low sex drive, right, who still want to
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  have kids, and who will still do the work that, you know,
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  even if it feels like a chore sometimes, right, or they'll still feel
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  the urge on occasion, even if they only have sex like six eight times
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  a year, Right, They'll they'll still do it because they want to have
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  kids. They'll they'll they'll see it as a job. You people who really
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  want to get pregnant, and they they look at it as a job.
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  She's like timing her ovulation, she's like keeping track on the calendar. She's
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  she's doing all those things, right, and then she's doing the do you
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  want to? Does she lie? How? Does she? How do you
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  have sex? Like? In what position do you have sex to encourage a
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  lawyer? A girl? How? And then you have to lie on your
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  back with your legs up in the air to make sure that all of this
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  semen Lebowski, it doesn't drain out, right, Yeah, And so you
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  can have all of these things right with people who just see sex as a
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  necessary chore. Right, But we have actually tainted the whole idea of sex
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  under this patriarchal narrative of of you know, it's it's all about the man's
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  gratification and any sexual gratification on the part of the man is like some kind
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  of way that he's cheated or exploited a woman out of something. And it's
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  it's like it is. It is a combination of of narratives and I think
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  environmental fact like chemical environmental factors that that just absolutely and indoctrination storm. It's
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  a perfect it's a perfect nobody like multiple multifaceted, and nobody wants to look
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  at the Nobody wants to look at it. Just want to blame men.
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  And the thing is that this, this guy, he's internalizing it this instead
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  of this being something external, and it is external. I don't care how
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  many traditionalists or Jordan Peterson wants to say, oh, you know, men
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  need to step up. I don't know if he says it like that,
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  but no, but he has he has said that if if you are unsuccessful
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  with all men right as a woman, then that's not men, that's you.
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  And okay's fol with If you're unsuccessful with all women as a man,
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  that's also you. That's not women, that's you. Right, No,
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  I think I think that there is a situation here and I got after him
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  for it. And now there's the hormones. And then there's the whole like
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  women are under narrative that they are whore, like that they are that that
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  when you get into a relationship, Like, think about all of the messaging
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  that our society has about being in relationships with men, right, and how
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  negative it is towards women being in relationships with men. You're gonna be exploited,
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  you're gonna be turned into investing labor, Your sex is going to be
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  awful, You're gonna be abused, you're gonna be raped, you're gonna be
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  murdered. You know, there's constant drum breat of condemnation and pointing to men
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  as like the least the worst investment when it comes to relationships. So there's
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  the same at the same time. At the same time, if he isn't
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  gorgeous and willing to lay down his life for you, right, then he's
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  not worth having. And it's just like I'm I'm sorry, but there are
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  plenty of men out there who are worth having, right, most of them?
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  Really? Yeah, who most women are worth having, the most men
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  are worth having to a degree, yeah, yeah no, And it's like
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  yeah, okay, but it really is kind of that whole uh, you
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  you have you have people who are not men's rights activists now right, Like
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  they're not men's rights activists, they're they're not part of the menisphere, but
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  they are literally saying the eighty twenty rule is in effect. Yeah, but
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  you know, and what's also really interesting about this is because this eighty twenty
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  rule is a result of the lack of individuation of women. And what I
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  mean by that is because we have since like the forties, since we've been
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  recording this, we know that people see women is having less agency. So
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  they see women essentially is having less self in a way, that aspect of
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  self, which is a recognition of the effect of your actions in the greater
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  world. So women aren't becoming individuals, they aren't developing their own interests.
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  Well, if if I look at if every bad decision and mistake you make
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  can be late at somebody else's doors, yeah, you're not developing, even
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  if you were warned, Even if you were warned, Like take the Russell
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  Brand thing, right, she says, Oh, the cab the driver told
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  me, right, you know, oh you're only sixteen. Don't go in
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  there, you know, don't go in there because he's got a bad reputation
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  as sexually and I have a sixteen year old daughter and blah blah blah,
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  and he warned her and she went in any way, and then she complains
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  about it now sixteen years later, right about how she was raped. And
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  it's just like, okay, well that's on you, right, I mean,
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  regardless of whether that cab driver was telling you the truth, regardless of
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  whether you were raped or not. Right. And I think it was Robert
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  Barnes right on Viva Barnes Law dot locals dot com, who said, who
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  said, you know, like this is the issue when you have the eighty
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  twenty ruling effect, right, you have you have a situation where eighty percent
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  elaborate. Can you elaborate a bit more on the on the the circumstances you're
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  referring to, because there's a lot of read Noyes's Oh oh right, yes,
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  okay, I'm gonna do the Watson what what what are you speaking of
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  there? Okay? But okay, but okay, you have you have this
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  a v twenty rule that feminists put into place through the sexual revolution and freeing
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  up women and to pair up and you know, telling women that they can
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  be just like men, and and and all of that, and and they
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  can behave just like men, and they'll be perfectly happy and all of those
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  things. Right, So you have eighty percent of the women chasing twenty percent
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  of the men. Right. And then the morning that they wake up and
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  realize that they're part of a harem, they're not happy about it, right,
• 26:14
  And and it's like, well, no shit, Sherlock, right,
• 26:19
  and and it's it's like and then the accusations start. Yeah, and then
• 26:23
  the accusations start, and it's like sixteen twenty year old accusations, and and
• 26:30
  you know, these are things that Russell Brand is freely admitted. You know,
• 26:33
  I treated women callously. I was a bit of a cad, right,
• 26:36
  you know I I you know, but he never did anything illegal that
• 26:40
  I can see. None of the accusations that have come out against him involve
• 26:45
  anything that I would qualify or categorize as illegal as a criminal. And how
• 26:49
  much time had passed between when it supposedly happens accusations sixteen twenty years, sixteen
• 26:56
  twenty years, Okay, you know, like I'm looking at day Masterson,
• 27:00
  you know, yeah, And I'm not I'm not saying that the allegations against
• 27:07
  Russell brand In and of themselves. Like, I'm not saying necessarily that these
• 27:11
  four women are making stuff up, right, I'm just saying that the things
• 27:17
  that they're saying that he did are not criminal. Yeah. Right, It's
• 27:22
  so difficult to go forward with that. It's not a crime to be a
• 27:26
  cad. It's not a crime. She used to be to have sex with
• 27:32
  women who throw themselves at you. It used to be a crime, breach
• 27:37
  of promise. Frank sinatrac my hit with that one. But I'm just to
• 27:41
  pull this back. The eighty twenty rule is something that is not on men.
• 27:47
  Okay, this, but where I wanted to build it's feminism what I
• 27:51
  wanted to point out. But notice how she's framing this. He thinks this
• 27:56
  is a personal failing. And I can tell that from the way that he's
• 27:57
  framing it. And I want to I want to bring you back to like
• 28:02
  the depression and something interesting about the depression. I don't know if I've brought
• 28:04
  this up here, but there was an offhand comment that someone that a child
• 28:11
  of a depression era father mentioned. He talked about, how you know,
• 28:18
  the entire economic situation was not a result of the working classmen. No failure
• 28:25
  on their part. It was just a breakdown in maybe regulations or maybe I
• 28:33
  don't know the precise thing, but anyway it was. It was a market
• 28:36
  collapse. It had absolutely nothing to do with the individual man or the individual
• 28:38
  man's choices. And you would have thought, considering the desperation and the fact
• 28:44
  that there were so many men in the same situation, that they might have
• 28:48
  unionized or come together or rebelled against the system. But they didn't because every
• 28:52
  single man saw it as a personal failing. So this is this is how
• 28:57
  systems maintain them selves. They make men think that that this situation is a
• 29:04
  personal failing. This man thinks that the situation is a personal failing. It's
• 29:08
  not a personal failing. This guy had Jamal hasn't failed. He's probably just
• 29:17
  a normal guy in a society where women have better, uh, expectations.
• 29:25
  I'm not going to say like expectations, not even okay, in our society,
• 29:30
  unrealistic expectations. They want a man in the top one percent of income,
• 29:36
  you know, top ten percent of height, et cetera, et cetera,
• 29:38
  et cetera, And they're very shallow expectations. What they don't want is
• 29:45
  what we had before, which is women who said, you know, I
• 29:48
  just want somebody, could I aim, please don't The movement of the cursor
• 29:52
  is like really bugging me. I'm sorry, it's so distracting, So it's
• 30:00
  I apologize. Okay. You know, in the past, you wanted a
• 30:04
  man to build a life with, and the process of building that life.
• 30:07
  We understood that the process of building that life was the process of falling in
• 30:11
  love and developing somebody who you wanted to have a permanent attachment to. You
• 30:17
  didn't just look at mister big and just fall instantly in love. It was
• 30:21
  a process of give and take, of developing each other as people, developing
• 30:26
  a life together. That's what love was. And we understood that. And
• 30:30
  now these women want men to come to them already perfect and yet also change
• 30:37
  them somehow. And there's no, there's no, and that's never gonna work
• 30:41
  because there I think there's an element in every person that they want to feel
• 30:45
  like the person that they love is has a bit of them, has changed
• 30:51
  for them, you know, has become and evolved with them. You see
• 30:56
  what I'm saying. It's not necessarily that you're forcing another person to change,
• 30:59
  but that you've come together and become something greater together. My parents are like
• 31:04
  that, right, you know, like when my dad, when my dad
• 31:07
  met my mom, he was living in a in a bad bachelor suite with
• 31:12
  four other men. Okay, there was one bed and one sofa, one
• 31:19
  hot plate, lots of floor and no bathroom. The bad there was a
• 31:26
  bathroom for the whole floor of the apartment building. Right. And he was
• 31:30
  cleaning windows. He was washing windows on multi story buildings, you know where
• 31:37
  you go up in the in the the rig right. And oh wait,
• 31:44
  no, wasn't when he was washing windows. It was when he was working
• 31:48
  as a lot boy at a car dealership. So he was detailing cars,
• 31:52
  and and he he used to actually he did this thing when the because they
• 32:00
  he and his buddies would always go out and drink every night and spend their
• 32:05
  money, and then the money would there was too much month left at the
• 32:14
  end of the money. Right, So my dad would buy an onion and
• 32:17
  a loaf of bread and a pound of lard, and for a few days,
• 32:23
  what he would do is he would he would cook the onion on the
• 32:28
  hot plate in a skillet in the pound of lard until the onion was nicely
• 32:34
  black, because he really likes his onions black, and then he would let
• 32:42
  it harden and he would make sandwiches out of that. He would spread it
• 32:45
  on the bread and make sandwiches out of them. That's what he would eat
• 32:47
  for like the three days at the end of the month. That's how he
• 32:51
  was living. And then he met my mom, and then he totally turned
• 32:59
  around. He met her. The first time he saw her, he said
• 33:02
  she was like Audrey Hepburn and Elizabeth Taylor in one woman. She was,
• 33:10
  she was gorgeous. She was sitting on an older man's lap, one of
• 33:15
  her quote uncles flirting with him when he picked her up. And he only
• 33:23
  went on this date with her because his friend Lutz, had a date with
• 33:31
  someone that she knew. Right, he was dating someone she knew, but
• 33:37
  they were way out of town. They were like, you know, like
• 33:42
  fifteen kilometers out of town. So he was like, Lutz wanted somebody to
• 33:46
  share the gas money. So he's like, you want to go on a
• 33:50
  blind date with some chick, And my dad was like okay, And he
• 33:54
  walked in to pick her up and he was like that was it. I
• 33:58
  was done. It was all over for me. I knew that was the
• 34:01
  woman I was going to marry. And he became one of the most responsible
• 34:07
  people on the face of the planet. He went and he got his mechanics
• 34:14
  certificate. He worked like he was a workaholic, supporting the family, right,
• 34:22
  and they worked together as a team the entire time, right when he
• 34:28
  was in when he was in school, My mom was working right, even
• 34:32
  when my oldest sister was small. Right. They lived with my grandparents for
• 34:37
  quite some time, right before they could afford to buy a house. They
• 34:40
  built up their credit, they did all of that. They were they went
• 34:45
  into it, and my mom said to me one time. First thing she
• 34:50
  said to me was I regret that your dad was not the first man that
• 34:55
  I had sex with. And she said that when because she had plenty of
• 35:06
  men who were chasing her, She said, when I thought about it,
• 35:10
  when I thought about what I wanted out of life, which was a home,
• 35:15
  a family, children, right, a life, I thought, what
• 35:22
  does it matter that Mo isn't a good dancer? What does it matter that
• 35:27
  he's not particularly you know, flamboyant about he doesn't bring me When he brings
• 35:34
  me flowers, he picked them from the garden outside the front door, right,
• 35:38
  you know, like or dandelions from the lawn. Right, what does
• 35:44
  what does any of that matter? He's proved to me that he's going to
• 35:49
  be a rock that I can attach myself too and my kids. And it
• 35:57
  doesn't matter that he can't dance, and it doesn't matter that he doesn't sweep
• 36:00
  me off my feet. Matters that he can tether me to the ground and
• 36:07
  any kids we have. Right, That's what she told me. That's why
• 36:12
  she chose him. And the day that they were no longer together was the
• 36:19
  day he died at eighty seven mm. That's how people used to build relationships.
• 36:30
  Yeah, and that that requires and all that sounds maybe maybe this might
• 36:35
  be controversial, and and really that's something that you see in romance, this
• 36:39
  idea that not all romance is terrible. I'll be the first to say that,
• 36:45
  you know, a lot of it is. Some of it like modern
• 36:49
  romance. I don't know what the hell they think they're doing. But the
• 36:52
  way that romance is supposed to be structured is that the two protagonists are simultaneously
• 36:55
  protagonists and each other's greatest antagonist, and the process of the story is the
• 37:00
  two people learning that their relationship is more important than certain aspects of their expectations
• 37:10
  and certain things that they've held onto as individuals. That's why yeah, no,
• 37:15
  it's why I loved Last of the Moviecans. Yeah, and uh,
• 37:20
  and that used to be like it used to be more about that. And
• 37:25
  in order to have that back, women would have to get themselves back in
• 37:31
  a lot of ways, because it requires a woman who says, you know,
• 37:36
  my effect on this man is more important to me than the expectations of
• 37:43
  the people around me, or the ex my expectations of a grand romance.
• 37:47
  You know that I have, Yeah, the sweeping off my feet of those
• 37:53
  things, right, you know. And like when when my dad went to
• 38:00
  he had to he didn't have to ask, and he didn't ask my mom's
• 38:06
  dad for her hand in marriage. He went to my grandfather's mother, the
• 38:15
  matriarch of the family. Yeah, I saw the progression there. Kevin Sire
• 38:21
  was a there was a there was an ambulance, and then Kevin had to
• 38:24
  join in. Oh yeah, yeah she yeah, no, she's uh,
• 38:28
  she thinks they're chasing cariboo or something, but but yeah, she u.
• 38:35
  He went to mayor, the matriarch of family, and and he said,
• 38:39
  I you know, I'm I'm I want to marry your daughter. And she
• 38:43
  like put him to the She stuck that freaking stuck the pins to him right
• 38:50
  and pulled off his thumbnails and you know, like tortured him for an hour.
• 38:55
  And then when my mom went to her, La Mayor said, he
• 39:02
  refuses to join the church, marry him anyway. Yeah, but it used
• 39:12
  to be about that, like it used to be about I think women understood
• 39:15
  that part of love was seeing how someone developed in a relationship with you,
• 39:24
  and not that you did nothing, not that you didn't change, but you
• 39:28
  also changed, and there was a virtue in that and an understanding. And
• 39:31
  I think it was you know, there was a lot of religious framing.
• 39:35
  Maybe that's what made that that whole kind of thing more accessible to people and
• 39:39
  connected it to something more romantic and huge a story, a vast, sweeping
• 39:45
  epic about good and evil and battles and in a supernatural realm. And maybe
• 39:51
  that was something that people needed to take that kind of very intimate, domestic
• 39:57
  understanding that people developed with each other and cast in more romantic, epic terms.
• 40:01
  I don't know, I don't know if I'm making any sense. But
• 40:04
  my overall point is that this is not Jamal's fault, and he is he
• 40:12
  is one of legion. He's one of many, many, many, many
• 40:16
  lonely men. And they're lonely because fundamentally, women's standards have changed, and
• 40:22
  they haven't changed for the better. They haven't changed for the more independent.
• 40:27
  They've changed for the more superficial, the more homogenized, the more undeveloped,
• 40:35
  and the more childish and immature. Childish is really the thing. And this
• 40:40
  is this is one of the things you know, whenever feminists brag about how,
• 40:46
  you know, girls mature more quickly or at a younger age than boys,
• 40:52
  and it's like, yeah, no, well, yes they do.
• 40:57
  They reach their ceiling at a younger age than boys do. It doesn't mean
• 41:01
  that they're more mature. Yeah no, that doesn't mean that as adults of
• 41:06
  twenty five or older, that they're more mature. Just when they're they're they're
• 41:10
  the most mature teenager in the room. This is what I've seen. For
• 41:15
  the most part. Men still one would give the time of day to a
• 41:21
  woman who's the equivalent of looks money whatever as themselves. Women won't. Yeah.
• 41:29
  Two, men still go into a relationship with a desire to want to
• 41:34
  be a partner. Okay, And if you tend to a man, wow,
• 41:38
  women, you know your potential woman is going to get so much from
• 41:42
  a relationship with you, So okay. Men want to go into a relationship,
• 41:46
  this is what I've seen, and they want a partner, They want
• 41:50
  to build a life with someone, they want to make their life easier.
• 41:53
  I don't see this with women. It seems like it's a it's it's a
• 41:58
  it's a fight to the death over who gets the most. And it's really
• 42:01
  disturbing to see. And then two, yeah, two if you, if
• 42:08
  you, if you said to a man, your future wife will get so
• 42:13
  much out of relationship with you, she'll be so much better off than a
• 42:16
  single woman. He probably would be thrilled. If you said to a woman
• 42:22
  today, the average woman. And this is what I judge from what these
• 42:25
  and maybe maybe this is just women with lots of free time. They're the
• 42:30
  ones who are speaking out the most. If you say to them, your
• 42:32
  husband is going to get so much from you, He's going to be so
• 42:37
  much better off than a single than a single man. He is going to
• 42:39
  be you know, he's going to be helped by you. He's gonna get
• 42:44
  so much emotionally from you. She'd be like, well, what's in it
• 42:46
  for me? Yeah, I don't want to, Like I can't believe what
• 42:50
  he's stealing from me, Like you're they're basically saying that you are of value
• 42:55
  to your potential romantic partner, and you consider that a source of resentment.
• 43:01
  It's unbelievable. And this, these are these attitudes I've seen so much and
• 43:06
  you know, honestly, if I and again, this is something that's going
• 43:10
  to take a while to lay out properly. But the demands there, there
• 43:15
  are psychological demands placed on women in our society to perform a particular role of
• 43:22
  victim, and it really has destroyed them. Then and there there's a reason
• 43:30
  for this, for women having to put this role of victim, and it
• 43:32
  is a role that is applied to them, and there's pressures to adopt it,
• 43:37
  incredible pressures to adopt that role. I mean, it's so much pressure
• 43:43
  that you don't even know you're in it until you step out of it and
• 43:46
  realize. Like I had my moment walking across a parking lot and I realized,
• 43:52
  well, you know, I could I was. I was actually scared,
• 43:55
  you know, I'm gonna get raped or something, you know, I'm
• 43:58
  gonna get assaulted. And then I realized, because I had been internalizing all
• 44:01
  of the statistics and men's issues, well, one men are equally likely to
• 44:07
  be abused in this manner, and two men who do actually engage in sexual
• 44:14
  assault have been sexually assaulted themselves. And I remember just standing there in that
• 44:19
  parking lot. It was like you know, at twilight, so there's lots
• 44:22
  of shaded places, and it wasn't a little slightly sketchy part of town.
• 44:27
  I wasn't really standing, I was just walking through it. And I realized
• 44:30
  that and I really internalized those that men's issues, men's rights statistics for the
• 44:37
  first time in my life. And it was like a weight lifted off my
• 44:39
  shoulders. Yeah. And I did not feel any fear at that point,
• 44:44
  because you're not a special victim. No, I'm not a special victim,
• 44:47
  as we're not. You're not especially a victim. Yes, And it's like
• 44:52
  that weight, that pressure lifted off me. And it was such an intense
• 44:57
  feeling of freedom. I can't even freaking describe it. And I realize that
• 45:01
  all of the women that have internalized feminism are living under that level of pressure
• 45:08
  and being squeezed and diminished and made small. And there's a reason for it.
• 45:13
  That's beyond just being you know, women being assholes. There's a there's
• 45:16
  an actual psychological pressure going on, and that diminishment means that they turn around
• 45:24
  and take all of those attitudes and put them into their relationships. And I'm
• 45:30
  not going to say that it's totally it's their fault entirely, and may feel
• 45:35
  like it, but I have actually fought against that pressure, and I think
• 45:39
  people have seen from my experiences that it is. It does. It is
• 45:45
  a bit difficult to deny it and to fight against the pressure to be a
• 45:49
  victim in our society as a woman, you know, it's not easy.
• 45:53
  So you can understand why the average woman who isn't as pigheaded as I am
• 46:00
  well might have a great deal of difficulty with it. And I can understand
• 46:05
  that and I can appreciate that. But at the same time, they're the
• 46:07
  only ones who can change it. Women are the only ones who can choose
• 46:12
  to be more than what they are now and what they are chosen to be.
• 46:16
  It's it is. It is kind of like that what I said when
• 46:22
  you know, when the Australian guys Rowan Dean and oh god, I can
• 46:29
  never remember his name, but the outsider right on Sky News Australia right when
• 46:37
  they asked me, you know, like, is it just miserable women attracted
• 46:42
  to feminism or is it feminism making women miserable? And I was like,
• 46:45
  well, it's a little of column A, a little of Colum b right,
• 46:50
  you know, like miserable women would want to find an excuse as to
• 46:53
  why they're miserable that lifts the blame off of them, right. But also
• 47:00
  when you're bombarded with this message that like the entire the entirety of society is
• 47:07
  plotting against you, that can't be a very happy message to go out and
• 47:10
  face your day with. No, it's an awful message, and I know
• 47:15
  it's awful, and I know how unbelievably destructive it is because I had that
• 47:21
  moment that that it was such a clear moment of oh any. The funny
• 47:25
  thing was, as I'd been dealing with these statistics for at least like I
• 47:30
  think seven years at that time, it took that long me really beating my
• 47:35
  head against the truth of sexual assault the truth of domestic violence to finally have
• 47:40
  all that weight of victimhood lift off me, say, and I and I
• 47:46
  always knew it was bullshitty. So yeah, even as a teenager, Yeah,
• 47:52
  you're some sort of special category of I don't know. I was just.
• 47:58
  I was just. I think maybe partially because my parents were so beautiful
• 48:02
  together. M right, Yeah, that was what inured me to all of
• 48:08
  the propaganda. So yeah, I think in my case, I just had
• 48:15
  to contend with the message a lot. But interesting it was I was a
• 48:17
  little older than you too, so I grew up my formative years, my
• 48:22
  most formative years were a little bit before all of this became kind of like
• 48:29
  mainstreamed and all of that. So but also also my mom used to call
• 48:35
  me her Philadelphia lawyer. So because I could, I could argue any point
• 48:40
  from any angle from the time I was like, you know, seven or
• 48:45
  eight, Yeah, have her, have her to the point where she was
• 48:49
  just like I was almost about like where she was saying, Okay, the
• 48:53
  reason you're wrong is because I am the mother and you are the daughter.
• 48:58
  Now shut up and go away. Right. I actually wonder if if I
• 49:02
  would have ever gone down this road, because it was my mother that put
• 49:06
  me on this route by bringing up this first first bit of men's issues stuff.
• 49:13
  Yeah, and she was the one who started off the whole questioning of
• 49:16
  feminism because of the appalling treatment of my father by feminists. So yeah,
• 49:23
  but I mean it's like I was always just like because I had such a
• 49:29
  stable My parents were so stable and so steady right in their expectations and such
• 49:37
  an amazing team, right, Like you could never play one against the other,
• 49:44
  it was like impossible. But they didn't always agree on everything, but
• 49:51
  you could never play both ends against the middle with them. But it was
• 49:59
  also I think I was I was just ornery. I was ornery and contrary
• 50:04
  and everybody hated it. And it's why I, like, yeah, came
• 50:07
  close to like failing every single course from the time I was ten years old
• 50:15
  onward because I was just like, yeah, no, I'm not going to
• 50:20
  do this. This is busy on doing it my way. I'm not going
• 50:22
  to do it, and you can't make me. And yeah, I think
• 50:27
  to go ahead and fail me. I think that's probably something that we both
• 50:30
  share. And it literally takes women on the complete outlierness of disagreeableness. Yea,
• 50:37
  But also combined probably with compassion, to actually fight against the tide here.
• 50:44
  So it's honestly, I feel sorry for women who've ingested this message because
• 50:50
  it is it's toxic, it's damaging, and it's making them miserable and for
• 50:54
  what, well, I know what for, but I won't get into that
• 50:59
  anyway. The ultimate conclusion of all this, I know Brian's gotten really quiet,
• 51:02
  so maybe we should is that this is not Jamal's fault. This is
• 51:07
  something well beyond him. And honestly, right now, of the two men
• 51:14
  or women, women are the only ones who can change this. They have
• 51:16
  to They have to seek to be more, they have to seek to want
• 51:21
  to get themselves back, and once they get themselves back, they will understand
• 51:25
  the worth of a relationship that you build so that you see the effect of
• 51:30
  yourself on the other person and on the life that you've built together, and
• 51:36
  you are drawn to seeing the effect of yourself in the world that you find
• 51:40
  satisfaction in seeing the effect of your decisions and what you have done. You
• 51:47
  see the effect of that, and you get satisfaction from it. Until that
• 51:52
  happens, this will continue to be a problem. So it's not even that
• 51:58
  women are necessarily to blame for having been basically molded into what they are.
• 52:05
  Now, it's that they're the only ones who can take the foot binding off.
• 52:10
  Yeah, and as painful as it is, start to reverse the damage.
• 52:15
  Okay, all right, let's be going. Yes, yeah, I
• 52:21
  know, Hi, I'm here. I got some super super chows that I
• 52:25
  think we should read through because they are building up. So I'm gonna read
• 52:30
  through those and then I'll go back to the article. Okay, So we
• 52:34
  got one from raw checks No for ten dollars, thank you, Rachas No,
• 52:37
  and he says, hey, Badgers, how much wood could a wood
• 52:42
  chuck Norris? Chuck? If a wood chuck Norris could chuck wood, Well,
• 52:45
  it's Chuck Norris, so all of it, yeah, all of it,
• 52:50
  all of it obviously. Then I got a one hundred dollar donation from
• 52:54
  Iggy Thunders. Thank you, Iggy Thunders. Is that the same as the
• 53:00
  as the support, Yes, it's okay, it's just here too as a
• 53:04
  supercharge. No no, no, no, no, it's not the same
• 53:06
  as the support, Like this was also something this is separate. Okay,
• 53:08
  yeah, all right. I read this in Midwick's Midwich Cuckoos about two months
• 53:14
  back, and every cellipsistic woman I've seen since Laura Bates, Sarkassians and Casparians
• 53:20
  of the world just keep it pulsing. In my mental periphery. Men's arrogance
• 53:27
  is boastful Zella be observed. Women's is something in the fiber. Men do
• 53:31
  occasionally contemplate the once lordly dinosaurs, but and wonder when and how our little
• 53:37
  day will reach its end. But not she Her eternity. Eternity is an
• 53:43
  article of her faith. Great wars and disasters can ebb and flow, races
• 53:49
  rise and fall, empires wither with suffering and death. But these are the
• 53:53
  superficialities. She Woman is perpetual, essential. She will go on forever.
• 54:00
  She doesn't believe in the dinosaurs. She doesn't really believe Earth ever existed until
• 54:06
  she was upon it. Men may build and destroy and play with all their
• 54:09
  toys. They are uncomfortable nuisances ephemarill conveniences, mere scampers about. While woman,
• 54:19
  in mystical umbilical connection with the great tree of life itself knows that she
• 54:23
  is indispensable. One wonders whether the female dinosaur in her day was blessed with
• 54:29
  the same certainty and quote. Wyndham wrote this in nineteen fifty seven. So,
• 54:35
  guys, how often do you think of the Roman Empire? I think
• 54:37
  of the Roman Empire a lot. I really think about the guy who,
• 54:42
  oh, I forget his name, but he actually destroyed Carthage, and as
• 54:47
  he was watching Carthage burn, he contemplated the end of his own empire.
• 54:52
  I always thought that was interesting. Oh yeah, nothing lasts. Nothing lasts.
• 54:58
  And I'll let you guys respond to this, but yeah, that there
• 55:05
  is a problem, I think. And you know what's really funny is if
• 55:07
  a feminist wrote this, no one would have any problem with it, because
• 55:12
  this is this is basically just saying, yeah, men are expendable, but
• 55:15
  but women are eternal. Yeah, and uh, and I can understand what
• 55:23
  heat when he's coming from. And I think I think that maybe that's sort
• 55:30
  of the resonance of menopause, is that's when women need to reflect upon their
• 55:37
  mortality and that they're no longer a part of that process of perpetuating the human
• 55:42
  species, you know. Well yeah, yeah, and that's sometimes increasingly these
• 55:51
  days, that's when they go to a fertility specialist to see if they can't
• 55:54
  still yeah, bang something out, Yeah, yeah, because they want to
• 56:01
  continue to be part of that. I mean, it must be. It's
• 56:05
  a like a it's a it's a not an easy transition. I imagine it
• 56:08
  made much worse when you haven't spent the time to contemplate your own mortality.
• 56:14
  Yeah, no, I didn't. I didn't enjoy it, but I was
• 56:19
  like, because it's it's a really uncomfortable physically transition. But but at least
• 56:27
  I had my three stamps right on the wall of existence, right, you
• 56:34
  know, Jack, Rachel, Sam, and and I'm hoping that one of
• 56:44
  them might give me. I'm almost envying my sister because her idiot son knocked
• 56:50
  up his girlfriend very early by accident. And uh, and they have like
• 56:58
  an adorable little baby. He's like absolutely gorgeous, this this little baby.
• 57:04
  He's name is Vaughan and like Stevie Rayvon and he's uh, he's he's just
• 57:13
  like a intuitive, inquisitive exploration, a little bundle of exploration. He's just
• 57:22
  like a good tempered and he doesn't really cry, and he like wants to
• 57:30
  try things all the time. And and you watch him and it's like it's
• 57:36
  it's like I kind of want that for myself, you know, I kind
• 57:45
  of want to be a grandmother. M h, well hopefully that will happen
• 57:50
  for it, Well, yeah, no, hopefully someone will touch one of
• 57:54
  my kids penises at some point. So yeah, well that's what we're trying
• 58:00
  to or Rachel will like basically say, get knocked up. I want a
• 58:07
  baby. So I guess I could submit to this for you know, a
• 58:09
  couple of times, you know, it grows on you, sex grows like
• 58:15
  does she not know that? Like it's a little bit weird at first,
• 58:19
  but then it's like, yeah, this this is something, and then you
• 58:21
  start to get it's like oysters eating oysters for the first time. Oh oh,
• 58:25
  don't little weird. Compare it to that? Oh oh oh No.
• 58:30
  Sometimes it doesn't just grow on you. Sometimes it grows in you. Don't
• 58:37
  okay, okay, okay, okay with Rachel, I'll have to compare it
• 58:40
  to garlic toast. You remember, Rachel, all those times, all those
• 58:45
  times we made garlic toast and you were like, no, I don't want
• 58:51
  any No, I don't want anything. I don't like it. I don't
• 58:54
  like it, and then you tried it, and then you were like a
• 58:57
  huge fan of garlic toast. Maybe you should try having sex outside of wedlock,
• 59:01
  get yourself knocked up by accident. You don't need birth control. Just
• 59:07
  use the rhythm method, you know, or withdrawal, and and just hope
• 59:13
  that he has all just crossed my fingers, and hope he has a sperm
• 59:15
  count that means one of his swimmers makes it to the freaking finish line.
• 59:21
  Yeah okay, And then then then you guys are gonna have to get together,
• 59:25
  and you know, you can just like live near me like you do.
• 59:30
  Now. She has a long term boyfriend, doesn't she She does,
• 59:34
  but I don't know that they're intimate. Uh, you know, like I
• 59:40
  wonder how he's taken. He's a little bit autistic like her. So,
• 59:46
  oh goodness, so you got two of them. I don't know, I
• 59:50
  don't know. I don't know. I don't know if I like garlic toast.
• 59:53
  Yeah, no, it's it's literally it's the worst crossible situation. I
• 1:00:00
  mean, like I I'm thinking to myself, you know, like, why
• 1:00:04
  couldn't you have like taken that dude up on his offer to take you to
• 1:00:07
  a party when you were walking out of Buster's Pizza at midnight? That one
• 1:00:12
  well, you know, you know, the Louis the sixteenth sort of had
• 1:00:17
  a similar issue him and Marie Antoinette. Apparently they, for the first I
• 1:00:23
  don't know how I was a certain fairly large amount of time, might have
• 1:00:27
  been even ten years of their relationship, they never actually were capable of having
• 1:00:31
  sex. And then they figured it out and they popped out like I don't
• 1:00:36
  know six or seven children, So you never know, Karen, Well,
• 1:00:39
  well I don't even then they all got their heads chopped off. But you
• 1:00:43
  know, yeah, I don't want to know six or seven. I just
• 1:00:45
  settle for one, one each, one each, Okay, all right there
• 1:00:51
  you got, Well, let's that would that would be good enough for me?
• 1:00:55
  Yeah it is, okay, Well, all even babysit, all even
• 1:01:00
  smoke on the porch when I'm babysitting. Of course I'd sacrifice. I'd be
• 1:01:06
  leaving them unattended inside the house. Right but you know, like, uh,
• 1:01:12
  that's raised my wolves kind of parenting. Okay, we have some more
• 1:01:15
  super childs to read. Yeah, I get to it. But I know
• 1:01:19
  you've been trying that. I didn't mean to imply that you haven't been trying.
• 1:01:22
  No, I know I know what I've been doing. Okay, So
• 1:01:24
  I got another super child from I think women need more testosterone too, because
• 1:01:30
  there's five dollars and says I have a semi humorous, semi serious theory that
• 1:01:36
  modern women's sestostro levels are way too low. As well, asostone helps regulate
• 1:01:40
  women's emotions and improves their cooperation, physical labor also increases cestostro. Way back
• 1:01:45
  in the day, women did a lot more physical labor as well, so
• 1:01:49
  I suspect their testosterone levels were higher than modern women's. My solution, we
• 1:01:53
  must send the women out into the wild and work on the physically demanding jobs.
• 1:02:00
  Or we could just give them a testosterone patch. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:02:05
  like that would be that would be the thing. And they've they've actually found
• 1:02:07
  they do right. They've actually found that if if with both men and women,
• 1:02:16
  a little testosterone patch, low dose testosterone patch increases their fairness and bargaining,
• 1:02:22
  it increases decreases the telling of self serving lies. It ups their body
• 1:02:29
  confidence, especially right, so they don't feel vulnerable physically. They don't.
• 1:02:37
  They don't. Yeah, and they also feel attractive even though they're growing a
• 1:02:42
  mustache, so and it ups their libido. So I'm just like, yeah,
• 1:02:49
  no, give them a little, but it's but it's it's like,
• 1:02:53
  you literally have a situation where they gave women testosterone maybe the works. You're
• 1:03:00
  onto something though, you know, to deal with to deal with low libido,
• 1:03:05
  right, and they found that not only did it up their libido,
• 1:03:08
  but it upped their sense of their own physical attractiveness. It reduced their insecurity
• 1:03:15
  about their physical flaws. Hm hmm. Yeah. So it's like yeah,
• 1:03:22
  no, so you're literally getting a little bit of a mustache on your upper
• 1:03:27
  lip, but but you don't care. M you don't care, Okay,
• 1:03:32
  all right, But it's it's like I'm like, well, just bring on
• 1:03:37
  the testosterols doesn't give you like a flaming yeast infection. It should be great.
• 1:03:44
  Just just send some cop dusters out and do it in like gigantic plums.
• 1:03:49
  Oh the cities, due over the cities, and then all maybe you'll,
• 1:03:52
  you'll, you'll, they'll vote Republican. Right. The issue, the
• 1:04:01
  issue is, the issue is right now, is that all the chemicals in
• 1:04:05
  the water are estrogenizing people. All the chemicals, all the endocrine disruptors are
• 1:04:14
  estrogenizing people. There are no endocrine disruptors in the environment that I have heard
• 1:04:19
  of bet are testosteronizing people or androgenizing people? Ah yeah, okay, So
• 1:04:29
  not only are do women control all of education, all of early learning,
• 1:04:34
  also their hormones are dominant. I don't know what, what why we are
• 1:04:39
  constantly scapegoating masculinity. It seems like this age is a pathological lack of it,
• 1:04:45
  a lack of testosterone. All right, let's let's keep going on the
• 1:04:47
  super challenge. So I got Yeah, I got super ch I'm trying.
• 1:04:53
  I got one from Sleepy Aussie for five dollars and he says, it's five
• 1:04:57
  thirty am and I have had no sleep. I can finally catch your show
• 1:05:00
  live. Hooray for Karen's fifteen minute tangents. You're welcome and thank you,
• 1:05:05
  Sleepy Ozzie. Sorry that you are sleepy yet unable to get sleep. I'll
• 1:05:12
  play play I know playing. Dane gives us twelve dollars and says, I
• 1:05:20
  remember years ago when Barbar, Star Dusk and Sandman were at their peak.
• 1:05:25
  I saw a video of a woman talking about nice guys in the videos.
• 1:05:28
  She essentially says, once women have had their fill of bad boy chads,
• 1:05:32
  they want to settle down with the nice guys. That either a friend zoned
• 1:05:36
  or turned down the comments section tore her a new one. She took down
• 1:05:41
  the video and then her channel. But the Internet, being the Internet,
• 1:05:44
  it never forgets. I can't remember her name, so I guess you forget.
• 1:05:48
  The internet doesn't. But you can find a clip of the video on
• 1:05:50
  YouTube. Is titled women Love Nice Guys and that's you. It's it's uploaded
• 1:05:57
  by RP Solutions. Thank you, playing Dane. I will look it up.
• 1:06:00
  I'm not joking about the forgetting thing, but yeah, no, I'll
• 1:06:03
  look it up too, but yeah, thank you, yeah whatever, Okay,
• 1:06:11
  ye look up, look it up and uh but let me do my
• 1:06:14
  thank yous. So Tobin gives us one hundred and twenty five dollars for Badger
• 1:06:18
  Mediarory Blitz. So thank you, Tobin, and uh we we got five
• 1:06:25
  hundred. As the show started from Los Angeles. I'll just say that Los
• 1:06:31
  Angeles. I haven't seen that name before, So thank you to Los Angeles
• 1:06:34
  for five dollars and that I really appreciate that. Okay, So that's those
• 1:06:45
  are my thank yous? Do you? Shall we get onto this article and
• 1:06:49
  try to finish it off. It's not that long, like we could probably,
• 1:06:54
  I mean ultimately, what I wanted to say just simply was that Jamal
• 1:06:57
  is taking personal responsibility, which is its very admirable. But and I could
• 1:07:02
  see working with Jamal and saying, you know, these are the these are
• 1:07:05
  the this is the external realities you're dealing with. It's admirable you're taking personal
• 1:07:10
  responsibility because if you are given even the least amount of something to work with,
• 1:07:15
  you'll most likely build, you know, a mountain. I know this
• 1:07:19
  is the wrong kind of metaphor, but if a guy like Jamal who takes
• 1:07:24
  personal responsibilities is just given a bit of like, you know, relax that
• 1:07:29
  taking of personal responsibility and given something to work with, they usually do incredible
• 1:07:33
  with it, you know what I mean. Like a guy who takes personal
• 1:07:38
  responsibility says, Okay, what can I do? What what am I doing
• 1:07:41
  wrong? And you tell that guy, you know, sometimes things are out
• 1:07:45
  of your control, but here's the things that are in your control. You
• 1:07:46
  sort of sort that out for him. They usually can do some incredible stuff
• 1:07:50
  with their lives. It's more difficult to do anything with the guys who are
• 1:07:55
  like, yeah, everything everybody is a is a pain, everybody's out to
• 1:08:00
  get me. The world is a monster and level. It's really difficult to
• 1:08:04
  do anything with guys like that, unfortunately, until they themselves hit rock bottom
• 1:08:12
  with their that kind of attitude and realize that they have to start to care
• 1:08:16
  about somebody else besides themselves. I know that's a horrible thing to say,
• 1:08:19
  but it's it's what I've seen. People who don't take responsibility for their lives
• 1:08:27
  get the life that they haven't taken responsibility for. Essentially. All right,
• 1:08:31
  let's let's keep going. All right, So that's the super Chow's where was
• 1:08:36
  I? I'm so far? Oh I already read that, He trails off
• 1:08:41
  and then adds, I'm just not going to try anymore. It's not worth
• 1:08:44
  it. Jamal, who asked me to conceal his last name to protect his
• 1:08:46
  reputation at work, is one of a growing number of young men who are
• 1:08:50
  withdrawing from the dating pool. Or than six and ten men eighteen and twenty
• 1:08:55
  nine are now single, up from about five and ten and twenty nineteen,
• 1:09:00
  according to data from Pew Research Center. Respondents gave a range of reasons for
• 1:09:03
  their single hood, including having quote more important priorities and the fact that they
• 1:09:10
  quote just like being single or that they've gotten too old to keep trying.
• 1:09:16
  Yeah, this is something. This is something that the statistics aren't talking about.
• 1:09:19
  Like sixty percent of young men are single, but ten percent in the
• 1:09:25
  last couple of years are less are looking though. The number of men who
• 1:09:29
  are looking for partnership is going down. Okay, let's keep going all right,
• 1:09:33
  But part of it also boils down to this, it's hard for men
• 1:09:36
  to find partners at a moment when women are outpacing them both at school and
• 1:09:42
  work. Young women now hold one point six million more college degrees than men,
• 1:09:45
  and in a growing number of cities, including Los Angeles, Washington,
• 1:09:49
  DC, and New York, they make as much as or more than their
• 1:09:53
  male counterparts. And even if they become mothers odds are four and ten,
• 1:09:57
  will become the breadwinners of their household. What discourages me so much is that
• 1:10:02
  most of the women that I've seen on dating sites, they want a man
• 1:10:04
  making as much as them, and they're making upwards of like a hundred thousand
• 1:10:09
  dollars, said Jamal, who tells me he makes fifty five thousand dollars a
• 1:10:13
  year, which isn't bad. Actually, no, it's not bad at all.
• 1:10:17
  Live a decent life on fifty five grand. You find the right place,
• 1:10:21
  you could. You could probably have a stay at home at fifty five.
• 1:10:25
  Yep, a lot of men are checking out. He adds, we're
• 1:10:29
  just tired. We're just tired of being told that we don't measure up,
• 1:10:31
  either physically or financially. I found Jamal on the online reddit community Our True
• 1:10:38
  Unpopular Opinion, where men often vent about the dating scene. On another subreddit
• 1:10:43
  are Purple Pill Debate mail commenters bemoaned that they're held to the six six six
• 1:10:47
  rule, which mandates that they be six feet tall, make six figures,
• 1:10:51
  and have six inches or more downstairs. Jamal describes himself as straight laced guy
• 1:10:57
  who is five foot five inches tall. Yeah. Yeah, short king,
• 1:11:03
  it's a short king. Yeah yeah, that's that. That that no,
• 1:11:11
  that that's literally like that's death on dating sites. Not you have to you
• 1:11:17
  have to go a different route. You have to actually like romance a woman.
• 1:11:24
  Yeah. But he's also like he's also saying that he doesn't have the
• 1:11:29
  social skills, which is another aspect of this kind of romantic Oh sweep me
• 1:11:31
  off the feet, have the ability to say that, you know, whisper
• 1:11:34
  the sweet nothings and sound like I don't know a French courtier. That's Jamal
• 1:11:42
  sounds like a really good guy. Like he sounds like your father. Yea,
• 1:11:46
  he sounds like a rock. So when you could tether yourself too,
• 1:11:50
  So when you could build a life with somebody who's going to be there every
• 1:11:55
  day helping with the patients to help slowly constru dropped something out of nothing.
• 1:12:00
  Yeah, you know, so he has in every sense to a woman who
• 1:12:05
  knows herself and wants to live a life that will be an expression of herself
• 1:12:12
  rather than an expression of of the of the current trends or fashions, this
• 1:12:16
  would be a good choice. Jamal would be a good choice. Ye and
• 1:12:19
  he's short. Well, you know what, there's plenty of women under five
• 1:12:23
  foot yeah, oh yeah, it's like, yeah, you can find a
• 1:12:27
  small woman. Yeah, like, yeah, the small woman want to really
• 1:12:31
  tall guys too. I don't think it's realistic, but yeah no, but
• 1:12:35
  really, like, if you're all of it a woman, why do you
• 1:12:38
  need a six footman? Like I say that having a six foot husband,
• 1:12:42
  but I have I have a friend who uh married a very tall, large
• 1:12:50
  guy, not just tall but broad right lineback or bill, and when she
• 1:12:58
  was given birth she really regretted it. Yeah, there you go. Yeah,
• 1:13:03
  six six six rule. Well she had the six sixth rule, sixty
• 1:13:09
  six stitches from there you go. Think about her from from the bottom of
• 1:13:15
  her vagina all the way up her anus because that kid split her. Oh
• 1:13:24
  my goodness. Yeah, let's think of that. Jamal's babies will be travel
• 1:13:28
  sized. Yeah again, there you go. I well, let's keep going
• 1:13:33
  because we have a lot to get through when it's already been. Yeah.
• 1:13:38
  Probably, I think I was a bit. I'm just gonna say, I'm
• 1:13:42
  not doing the video, so yeah, they're this is This is actually a
• 1:13:45
  lot more I think productive than that stupid video. Anyway, keep going.
• 1:13:49
  I mean, if you and me, Brian, we can we can do
• 1:13:53
  a chaser, like a reverse chaser with a couple of those TikTok women,
• 1:13:57
  just to compare. Let's keep going, Okay, to see if things were
• 1:14:01
  as bad as they claimed. Oh wait. The men I spoke with,
• 1:14:08
  ranging from ages seventeen to thirty three and living in rural New York, New
• 1:14:11
  Jersey to Austin, Texas, said they felt overlooked in a competitive dating market
• 1:14:15
  where women often list salary requirements and height preferences on their profiles to see if
• 1:14:20
  things were as bad as they claimed. I joined two major dating platforms,
• 1:14:25
  Tinder and Hinge, and posted as a hip, thirty year old business owner
• 1:14:29
  with a head full head of hair and a degree from NYU. A few
• 1:14:32
  swipes in, I spotted a bussy blonde leaning over in a halter dress with
• 1:14:36
  a caption together, we could find out if you're lying about your height.
• 1:14:42
  When a twenty two year old captured in a selfie at her work cubicle with
• 1:14:46
  her cleavage resting on her desk rope, don't superli me if you're ugly,
• 1:14:50
  I already have a lot going on. Another woman five foot two inch bombshell
• 1:14:56
  named Ashley warned men if you're one of those the check or not wealthy next,
• 1:15:02
  that financial pressure is what screwsmen overmost and Jess Carbino, the former in
• 1:15:08
  house sociologists for Tinder and Bumble Bumble by the Way, Oh shit, what's
• 1:15:13
  this? Leave me alone? Maybe later. Bubble by the Way is a
• 1:15:17
  feminist dating site. It is because the idea is is that women make the
• 1:15:24
  first move on Bumble. Oh yeah, he's no. Yeah, exactly.
• 1:15:30
  Nobody's I take it takes away their power because it's the person who makes the
• 1:15:36
  first move who's taking the risk. Okay, let's keep going. The traditional
• 1:15:43
  markets of adult markers markers of adulthood, like buying a home, completing college,
• 1:15:48
  and getting married, are all becoming far harder to achieve. Carbino said.
• 1:15:51
  Many men perceive themselves to be far less marriageable, and in turn,
• 1:15:56
  many women perceive them to be less marriageable too. Also, men are causing
• 1:16:00
  women to see them that way. Yeah yeah, no, no, no,
• 1:16:04
  no, women's literally when it's literally like if you're under six feet,
• 1:16:10
  then go fuck yourself, right, Yeah, yeah, no, it's it's
• 1:16:15
  not it's not the man, She says. It's never been easy to be
• 1:16:18
  Joe average on the dating market, but things are rougher now that the average
• 1:16:23
  man's salary, which hovers just above sixty one thousand in the US, which
• 1:16:27
  is probably plenty for a man who's single to live on, by the way,
• 1:16:30
  is hardly enough to afford rent in most major American cities. Yet still
• 1:16:34
  many women hold out for men who make not just as much, who make
• 1:16:39
  not just as much or more than they do, but are also wildly attractive.
• 1:16:44
  Yeah, the top ten. Nah, it's like like the top five,
• 1:16:49
  top ten. I think. Yeah, it's getting worse. Yeah,
• 1:16:51
  I think it's relative. Not just the midwomen are asking this, like the
• 1:16:57
  straight up hand beasts are right expecting this too. Oh yeah, the lizzos
• 1:17:02
  exactly. The body positive eligible bachelorettes are these demands. While the sexual revolution
• 1:17:13
  freed women from depending on men for income or stability, it also means that
• 1:17:16
  they can privilege more frivolous qualities in a mate, says Rob Henderson, a
• 1:17:21
  psychology PhD with a substack on social mores. Okay, Sexually, the sexual
• 1:17:26
  revolution didn't free women from depending on men for income or stability. That was
• 1:17:33
  the welfare state that did that. Well. Yeah, and also they aren't
• 1:17:39
  freed from men because everything that matters is still produced by men. Yeah,
• 1:17:43
  it's just that we have this system that doesn't reflect that anymore, That doesn't
• 1:17:46
  reflect the importance of men's work anymore. But the other thing is that I
• 1:17:50
  wanted to say, what the hell of women have been liberated from? They
• 1:17:54
  still want a man who makes more than them. It's just that almost no
• 1:17:57
  men fit the bill. Now. Yeah, you know, in the fifties,
• 1:18:02
  almost every man made more than women. Yeah, Now, and women
• 1:18:08
  wanted men who made more than them. But still almost every man made more
• 1:18:12
  than women. Now that women still want men to make more than them,
• 1:18:15
  it's just they're far fewer of them to do who do so? Yeah?
• 1:18:18
  No, And you look at you look at the statistics in terms of income
• 1:18:24
  brackets, and you find that the higher up in the socioeconomic hierarchy that you
• 1:18:29
  go, like, the higher the more money a woman earns, the more
• 1:18:35
  she insists she will insist on a man who learns more than her, because
• 1:18:41
  she's not looking to support a man. She's looking for a man to support
• 1:18:45
  her in the in the situation that she's become accustomed to, right, and
• 1:18:53
  in the style that she's become accustomed to, and so like, because and
• 1:18:58
  this is not a bad thing, This is not an evil thing. This
• 1:19:02
  is just the equation of man plus woman equals three mouths to feed and one
• 1:19:10
  less mouth to feed them. Right, That's literally what it is. But
• 1:19:15
  at this point, considering how much women make and how much more they want
• 1:19:19
  men to make, that you could have a life on significantly less than what
• 1:19:24
  they're asking for. Oh, of course they're not asking for They're not asking
• 1:19:28
  for this money to have to raise children as a homestyle. They're asking for
• 1:19:31
  this money to buy another fleet of shoes. Yes, I know, because
• 1:19:38
  that's the lifestyle they've become accustomed to, right, is the one that they
• 1:19:43
  could afford on their six figure salary. And so they're definitely not going to
• 1:19:50
  transition into a six figure salary that is that has to be split between three
• 1:19:59
  individuals, me, him, and the baby. Right. I think there's
• 1:20:04
  something we said. They want to maintain their life stuff. That's what this
• 1:20:09
  is, right, and that is perfectly that's perfectly reasonable in terms of evolutionary
• 1:20:15
  psychology. There's a reason that exists. Yeah, but not at this level.
• 1:20:18
  Like there's a reason that exists. If a woman is like sixty one
• 1:20:25
  hundred a thousand, you could easily that guy could easily take care of a
• 1:20:30
  family in the right place in North America. But most women not in the
• 1:20:35
  style she's become accustomed to. Yeah, then why why is it that this
• 1:20:40
  style is evolutionarily acceptable? What's evolutionary acceptable is a contributing partner who helps you
• 1:20:46
  get through the birth, the gestation not complete, a man who takes care
• 1:20:51
  of everything, plus a pair from from the Philippines plus a gardener plus that's
• 1:20:59
  not evolutionary. Okay, that's the selfishness. Okay, yes, what the
• 1:21:04
  selfishness? Okay, the selfishness itself. Right this, if you think about
• 1:21:12
  it, right, that impulse, that impulse exists for a reason. Someone
• 1:21:17
  who earns more than I do. That exists for a reason because throughout all
• 1:21:25
  of history, eighty five to ninety percent of women were not in the position
• 1:21:30
  of marrying a man who was better off than they were financially and being able
• 1:21:35
  to like be supported with not just be a stay at home mom, but
• 1:21:42
  have a no pair and or have a governess and have have maids and servants
• 1:21:48
  and all of that stuff. Right, That was not the majority of women.
• 1:21:53
  This evolved in women because most people, most people were living at subsistence
• 1:22:00
  levels, right. And so that impulse to seek someone who can give you
• 1:22:08
  more, who brings in more than you, right, that is that's just
• 1:22:14
  written. That's just written on women's brains, right, And it doesn't matter
• 1:22:17
  how much they earn. And the issue too, is that the higher of
• 1:22:25
  an earner they are, the more they can do without that man, the
• 1:22:29
  more they can have the maid and the o pair right, and the child
• 1:22:34
  from a sperm bank and all of those things right, all on their own
• 1:22:40
  and manage themselves and not have to pick up any man's dirty socks or put
• 1:22:44
  up with him one and have sex. But she's not in the mood or
• 1:22:46
  like having a deal with his hearing him complain about work. Right, she
• 1:22:51
  doesn't have to put up with any of that, Right, she can just
• 1:22:55
  focus on her and her baby with the income coming in, right, And
• 1:23:00
  so it's just like, yeah, no, you look at this, and
• 1:23:03
  it's it makes perfect sense in evolutionary terms that the richer a woman is,
• 1:23:12
  the higher, the more like the less likely she is to marry a man
• 1:23:15
  who earns less. The poorer a woman is, the more likely she is
• 1:23:20
  to marry a man who earns less or to partner with him. Right,
• 1:23:26
  Because she's just looking at it in terms of what you're talking about. Right,
• 1:23:30
  Well, it's just like I just need to keep a roof over my
• 1:23:32
  head and keep my kids fed, right, and any extra income will help
• 1:23:39
  with that, Any extra pair of hands around the house will help with that.
• 1:23:43
  Right. But that woman who's like a millionaire, she's not gonna she's
• 1:23:47
  not gonna fucking marry a plumber. Are you fucking kidding me? Right,
• 1:23:51
  No, she's not because she doesn't have to, because because her circumstances aren't
• 1:23:58
  forcing her to make that call. Compromise right, and the impulse the base
• 1:24:04
  impulse as much or more as much or more as much or more as much
• 1:24:12
  or more right, that is written in stone on her freaking brain. Well,
• 1:24:16
  then we're just gonna end up fucking ourselves. Well if there can be
• 1:24:23
  Nope, because there are there are women, There are women out there.
• 1:24:27
  There was like some woman she was like too embarrassed to publish have their names
• 1:24:31
  published, right, but she was. She was an attorney and he was
• 1:24:36
  a plumber. And they got married and they were profiled in a news article.
• 1:24:43
  This was years ago, right about this new phenomenon of women marrying down,
• 1:24:48
  right, But she did not want her name out because people get shipped
• 1:24:54
  for that. Yeah, they get actual like women. Actually, I will,
• 1:24:58
  I will go out and say that when and get shipped for that.
• 1:25:00
  Well, it's get ship for denying, for denying victimhood. But my my
• 1:25:04
  well point is, like this is also the idea that the big thing that
• 1:25:10
  that you judge men buy is providership, is not actually that that that universal
• 1:25:17
  in the past. The thing that made that the hierarchy was established through violence.
• 1:25:27
  You know, the man who could protect was the one who women.
• 1:25:31
  Yeah, but money, money equals protection. Yeah, well, I mean
• 1:25:34
  they could they could seize resources through violence. So I mean this is this
• 1:25:40
  is of itself or of an evolution way or if or if your husband has
• 1:25:45
  enough money, it doesn't matter whether he can protect you. He can hire
• 1:25:48
  people to protect you. No, I guess it's the Carthaginians. But but
• 1:25:53
  regardless, like if we if there is no way to get a handle on
• 1:25:58
  this run up out of the like one of the big problems is that there
• 1:26:02
  is this severe disvaluing of the work that actually keeps people alive in our culture.
• 1:26:12
  Yeah, they honestly the millionaires, linemen and the Yeah, the mill
• 1:26:17
  they should be the millionaires. And yeah, they should be the millionaires,
• 1:26:20
  not the courtiers who up on top who basically just they hover around the sources
• 1:26:29
  of monopoly money. I think that's not going to happen. Ellison, Well,
• 1:26:35
  it will eventually either either those either the people who are are the men
• 1:26:40
  who are primarily responsible for constructing society will get recognition. Well, they'll get
• 1:26:45
  recognition they just they just won't they They're you're never going to get rid of
• 1:26:50
  the courtiers. You're you're never going to get rid of those, And you're
• 1:26:55
  never going to get rid of the difference in status between a courtier and and
• 1:27:01
  someone like my husband, who's you know, in he's in charge of shit.
• 1:27:08
  Well, here's the here's the issue. Like the men that need to
• 1:27:13
  be incentivized are the ones who are in charge of ship. Yeah, well
• 1:27:15
  and were fos who are in charge of shit used to be incentivized. And
• 1:27:18
  my husband is incentivized by uh, he's incentivized by his Like he he literally
• 1:27:29
  tells me all the time, right, Like what fulfills him as at his
• 1:27:31
  job is that he's actually doing something that is meaningful for people. Right that
• 1:27:43
  you have you have an entire city that needs a sewer system that works,
• 1:27:47
  right, otherwise their homes are flooded. It's you know, like, yes,
• 1:27:53
  he's conscientious, and he cares about others. He cares about others,
• 1:27:58
  and that he feels like he needs to build our future together, right and
• 1:28:06
  you know, like and and I don't work outside the home anymore. I
• 1:28:14
  would if I had to, but I don't have to anymore because he makes
• 1:28:17
  good money. Yeah, But ultimately you have you have this situation where you
• 1:28:26
  have a man who's incentivized by a sense of responsibility or a sense of importance
• 1:28:30
  in society, even if he's just a lowly, lowly guy who does programming
• 1:28:40
  and scripts and stuff and automated systems and all of that. Right, but
• 1:28:45
  he's he's really propelling society forward or maintaining society, maintaining things for people.
• 1:28:54
  Right. And then you also have the situation where he has somebody who's depending
• 1:28:59
  on him, and I think that, you know, if he didn't have
• 1:29:02
  me depending on him, maybe he'd go off and write snaps or something like
• 1:29:06
  that, or do something ridiculous like that, right I suppose. But but
• 1:29:14
  you he does not get recognition for like, he does not get outside.
• 1:29:23
  That's all an internalized recognition, right, Yeah, But he also gets my
• 1:29:28
  wife. My wife appreciates me, and I do and I tell him that
• 1:29:32
  and then but the recognition in terms of his his work is all internal.
• 1:29:40
  It's all like, well, if I wasn't here doing this, right,
• 1:29:45
  people would end up in a bad place, right he. But when you
• 1:29:54
  have a situation where it's like okay, so say, he's he's an oil
• 1:29:58
  worker, right, and and he's being told that what he does is killing
• 1:30:05
  the planet. It's it's killing the planet and destroying the climate, and it's
• 1:30:12
  going to cause mass extinction in like ten years according to AOC what you do,
• 1:30:18
  right, even though what that oil worker does keeps people alive. Yeah,
• 1:30:25
  I know, you know, like so you know, like you're you're
• 1:30:29
  looking at a situation where it's like you can't It's not just that we're not
• 1:30:33
  appreciating, because I think men have a certain amount of self appreciation for the
• 1:30:38
  importance of their jobs when they when they're pruning trees or or they're you know,
• 1:30:45
  to keep them from falling on people's houses, and when they're they're doing
• 1:30:48
  the kind of work my husband does and all of those things, right,
• 1:30:51
  they have an internal sense of appreciation for the importance of their jobs because nobody's
• 1:30:57
  pitching them out. Nobody's saying, my husband is ruining the environment by man,
• 1:31:03
  you know, like by dealing with people's poo, right, dealing with
• 1:31:11
  sewage. What I have an issue with is that a lot of the people,
• 1:31:16
  a lot of the men, who are doing jobs that are equally or
• 1:31:20
  even more vital to society's functioning right, they're actually being vilified. They're part
• 1:31:29
  of like a deadly industry that's that's killing everything. It's it's destructive and all
• 1:31:36
  of this stuff. And it's like and then they can't find the motivation from
• 1:31:42
  having a wife, and they can't find any motivation from having good pay,
• 1:31:46
  and it's just like, I'm I'm just looking at it, and I'm thinking,
• 1:31:49
  like, you can't cut off a man from every aspect of his self
• 1:31:57
  worth or his sense of self worth. You have to keep at least one
• 1:32:00
  thing alive. Oh yeah, and that's what our society is doing. It's
• 1:32:05
  the women's hypergamy is cutting off men from relationships, massive hypergamy, not just
• 1:32:14
  hypergamy, but also hypergamy. Plus the man has to look like, I
• 1:32:17
  don't know, Harry cavill And that's mid for women now, and it's absolutely
• 1:32:24
  ridiculous. And it's ridiculous not just because there's not a lot of Harry Cavill's
• 1:32:28
  to go around. It's also ridiculous because alpha men who are high performing often
• 1:32:33
  have issues with their weight because of just just their mentality, and so that
• 1:32:42
  you're not going to find that, you're not going to find high performing man
• 1:32:45
  and an ideal specimen, especially since you know the big box usually come.
• 1:32:50
  You're gonna find a Donald Trump. Yeah, the big bucks usually come,
• 1:32:55
  you know later in life when you start to experience the spread. But here,
• 1:33:00
  so the hypergamy is depriving men of a partner and somebody who's who they're
• 1:33:05
  going to build a life with, which is not a sicker entitled desire,
• 1:33:10
  that is a normal desire. And even the UN says that loneliness in not
• 1:33:14
  being able to find a partner is a human rights issue. Okay, So
• 1:33:17
  that you deprive men of that, then you deprive men of recognition of their
• 1:33:21
  overall sacrifice in society, which is what I was, what the whole Memorial
• 1:33:27
  Day tweet was for me, which we didn't recognize that men, that the
• 1:33:31
  sacrifice of men in war is a man sacrifice. Women volunteer, men are
• 1:33:38
  obligated, and they don't just they know, not volunteer. They obligate other
• 1:33:42
  men. They're willing to force other men to sacrifice in war for their society.
• 1:33:47
  This is a male sacrifice and it needs to be recognized as such.
• 1:33:50
  The sacrifice in men in doing all of the jobs that they do that women
• 1:33:56
  just do not want to do because they're not prestigious. They're disgusting, their
• 1:34:00
  filthy, they're dangerous there, they're uncomfortable, tedious. Men are doing these
• 1:34:05
  jobs, they're sacrificing to make sure that we have a comfortable society. We
• 1:34:09
  don't recognize that sacrifice. So that's another avenue of self worth that's cut off.
• 1:34:15
  And then they're told on top of all of that, they're they're told
• 1:34:19
  that their participation in society is a net negative for women, which is hideous
• 1:34:25
  negative for society. Yeah, a net negative for society. The people who
• 1:34:29
  keep society maintained and running are a net negative for society. This is the
• 1:34:32
  overwhelming message that men receive. What a bunch of bullshit. So all of
• 1:34:38
  this contributes to not just the loneliness, but the feeling of lack of worth,
• 1:34:42
  which contributes the loneliness. So you know, and like, if we
• 1:34:47
  don't fix this, we're going to lose our society. Period. Agree,
• 1:34:54
  that's what I'm getting at. All right, let's read some more. Forget
• 1:34:58
  the super child, let's just read all right. So while the sexual revolution
• 1:35:04
  freedwomen from depending on men for incomer stability, it also means they can privilege
• 1:35:09
  more frivolous qualities in a mate, says Rob Henderson. People used to care
• 1:35:14
  a bit more deeply about moral character and hard work and whether the person was
• 1:35:17
  an ethical and upstanding citizen, he tells me, And now you don't have
• 1:35:21
  to worry about that quite as much or at all, and you can sort
• 1:35:26
  of focus on things that are just like more immediate attraction. A result,
• 1:35:31
  men at the tip top of the dating pool get everything, and the men
• 1:35:34
  who don't have it all get nothing. But even the alphas are feeling the
• 1:35:39
  squeeze. Well, yeah, of course. One New York City based psychologist,
• 1:35:43
  David Gordon says, many of the high powered men he treats, including
• 1:35:46
  doctors, lawyers, and financiers, bret over their ability to attract a woman,
• 1:35:50
  despite their enviable salaries or careers. It's kind of sad or tragic,
• 1:35:56
  but some guys will look at their bank accounts, stocks, or credit score
• 1:35:59
  every day as if it's some sort of measure of their value. He says.
• 1:36:02
  We can look at the numbers and I'm like, dude, looks pretty
• 1:36:04
  good to me. Still, he says, there's this anxiety around is this
• 1:36:09
  enough? Or like, is this all that they're interested in. I think
• 1:36:13
  that's another you know, I mean, like guys that have a lot are
• 1:36:17
  probably at most at risk of getting screwed over when they are easily. I
• 1:36:21
  mean, we just talked about Russell Brand, Johnny Depp, you know,
• 1:36:27
  exactly. So that's the insecurity that keeps Santiago, a twenty five year old
• 1:36:32
  from Albuquerque, New Mexico, up at night. The last time he dated
• 1:36:36
  anyone was in twenty twenty one, but that ended when he's suspected she was
• 1:36:42
  cheating on him. Now, with the wounds still raw, he fears he's
• 1:36:45
  not worthy of a girlfriend anymore. What can men be any more? Adorable?
• 1:36:50
  Like Jamal's like, yeah, this is all my fault. This dude,
• 1:36:54
  Santiago is like, I'm not worthy. You were cheated on, dude,
• 1:36:58
  maybe you should consider that women are worthy of you from Yeah, I
• 1:37:03
  mean That's what I've been saying, is that, like, what the thing
• 1:37:06
  is we have we have torn down men and masculinity as as an idea so
• 1:37:13
  much that I'm not surprised by any of this. That there are men who
• 1:37:15
  are working really hard and they're still not sure that they're good enough. And
• 1:37:18
  the truth is there are women who will look at them and find that even
• 1:37:24
  if they have all of their you know, us crossed and there and their
• 1:37:29
  ducks and row and their eyes dotted and all of that, that there are
• 1:37:32
  women who are like, I don't know, you know, I think it's
• 1:37:36
  it's There was two things I wanted to mention before you guys were talking a
• 1:37:40
  lot. But one was I've been talking to like Lindsay about this, and
• 1:37:45
  I was we so, I don't know, I'm not saying that I'm right,
• 1:37:48
  and you know, Lindsay has a different, slightly different perspective on it,
• 1:37:51
  but I was like, why is it? I was thinking about this
• 1:37:55
  queer theory stuff, and bear with me for a moment. Okay, it
• 1:37:58
  seems like women are more drawn to, you know, like identifying as as
• 1:38:04
  like some other gender, like getting involved with the queer theory stuff. Yes,
• 1:38:09
  there are men that are in a part of it. Yes there are
• 1:38:11
  boys that get dragged into it, but it seems like a lot of women,
• 1:38:14
  like maybe most of them are women. We don't know the numbers because
• 1:38:15
  no one looks at it. And besides, you can't define a woman anyway,
• 1:38:19
  so it's like an impossible conversation to even have, especially in this particular
• 1:38:25
  area. And but I do Before all this queer theory stuff came out,
• 1:38:29
  I remember years and years ago this there was this idea or notion that women
• 1:38:35
  tend towards bisexuality more than men tends towards being like more you know, like
• 1:38:43
  homo flexible, I guess, or hetero flexible. You know, like if
• 1:38:46
  you get a girl a few drinks in her and she'll make out with another
• 1:38:49
  girl on the dance floor, for example. And I was wondering, like
• 1:38:54
  why might that be? Like what? And then it got to thinking about
• 1:38:57
  something completely different that I related to this, which is it's it's part hypergamy,
• 1:39:02
  but it's also I think women are more likely to experience fomo because they're
• 1:39:08
  super indecisive. And I mean, like I'm you know, they're missing out
• 1:39:12
  take yeah, the fear of missing out, but also because they're super indecisive,
• 1:39:15
  like they have such a hard time making a decision. This is where
• 1:39:18
  the joke you know, what do you want to have for dinner? Comes
• 1:39:21
  from? And the woman's like, well, I don't know, whatever you
• 1:39:25
  want, and then the man picks something, She's like, I don't want
• 1:39:27
  that. Like, I mean, that's it. They're they're super indecisive,
• 1:39:29
  right, So if you're really indecisive, and I know that one of the
• 1:39:32
  reasons, because there's always this feeling that if they make a decision, that
• 1:39:36
  they're making the wrong decision or that they could have gotten something better, and
• 1:39:40
  there's always this this regret after, you know, this feeling that, oh,
• 1:39:44
  I don't think I made the right choice. And I think that it
• 1:39:46
  extends to the men that they are with, and it extends to their there
• 1:39:50
  there in many cases their own identity as women, like oh well, I
• 1:39:55
  don't know, am I a woman? I mean, I like baseball,
• 1:39:57
  Maybe I'm a man, and I think you put all that together and you
• 1:40:00
  get like this like leaderless, schizophrenic mess that's just doesn't know what she wants.
• 1:40:11
  No one's ever told her she had to decide anything. No one's ever
• 1:40:14
  said that she has to like take some kind of responsibility over decisions, and
• 1:40:17
  therefore she has to make decisions and most of all live with the consequences,
• 1:40:21
  good or bad of those decisions. And so they never make any choices.
• 1:40:26
  And I think that's I think that or you know, very rarely, I'm
• 1:40:30
  very I'm speaking with very very broad brush, so you know, don't get
• 1:40:33
  upset if you're a woman that's like, well, I know what I want.
• 1:40:35
  Look, I get it, I get it. But I'm not talking
• 1:40:38
  about you. I'm just thinking about that because you know, in my experience
• 1:40:44
  men in general that we're very easy. Like if I'm like, oh I'm
• 1:40:47
  hungry, I'm just gonna eat whatever is available and I'll just make the most
• 1:40:51
  of it and even if it's not great, it doesn't matter because I'm not
• 1:40:55
  hungry anymore and the problem is solved. It doesn't have to be like a
• 1:40:58
  big old thing, right. And I think that was the first thing I
• 1:41:01
  wanted to say, is that I think that that women have they really struggle
• 1:41:06
  with fomo. And I think the more that there isn't someone there that's acting
• 1:41:12
  as a kind of like compass to show them where to go, whether it's
• 1:41:15
  a parent or a friend or a husband or a boyfriend or whatever, the
• 1:41:21
  harder it is from to make these decisions, so they don't they don't commit
• 1:41:25
  to anything, or they always leave room for some thing so they can get
• 1:41:29
  out if they're starting to feel regret. The other thing, too, is
• 1:41:31
  thinking about this meme that was going around how often do men think of the
• 1:41:36
  Roman Empire? And I got me thinking, what do because the women in
• 1:41:42
  these videos I've seen are very shocked that there are men thinking about the Roman
• 1:41:45
  Empire, And it got me thinking, I wonder how many women think of
• 1:41:48
  the Mongol Horde. Oh. I mean, I'm just I'm just saying,
• 1:41:57
  like or something like that, like a like I don't know, like a
• 1:42:01
  like some kind of a hard leader that is going to essentially tell them what
• 1:42:06
  to do and and you know, put them in line. Like how many
• 1:42:10
  women think of being a member of a harem, of of a of a
• 1:42:15
  conquered nation by you know, like some powerful khan thousand a thousand children or
• 1:42:25
  more. Yeah, yeah, I don't. I'm not saying I had the
• 1:42:28
  answer to that, but I would like to see how that goes. If
• 1:42:31
  we're gonna ask men about the Roman Empire, perhaps women think about whatever the
• 1:42:35
  opposite of that might be. Yeah, Well, the the Genghis Khan thing
• 1:42:42
  really is is the reproductive differential writ large Yep, because I think the Oh
• 1:42:51
  I suppose I could ask Alexa, but I think the most babies a woman
• 1:43:00
  ever gave birth to was like sixties something and that included several sets of twins
• 1:43:08
  and triplets. I mean, is it men or women that support borders and
• 1:43:14
  a migrant crisis for example? Yeah? No, And it's you. You
• 1:43:18
  look at You look at like the differential and the reproductive payoff, the potential
• 1:43:24
  reproductive payoff, right, and you you can see why men get on ships
• 1:43:30
  and embark for parts unknown, right, Uh, you know, like to
• 1:43:35
  go discover uh India basically right, the Indies, right, and oops,
• 1:43:43
  we bumped into a whole different continent we didn't know existed. So and and
• 1:43:50
  plenty of ships were sunk along the way. So you you because the gamble,
• 1:43:59
  it really is, you know, like women prefer an index fund it's
• 1:44:08
  or a mutual fund. It's it's ensured. You know, it's stable.
• 1:44:13
  It's like steady growth, all of that, because that's all they're capable of,
• 1:44:17
  at least in terms of reproduction, slow, stable, steady growth.
• 1:44:23
  Right. Men are more willing to do the high stakes gambling thing right where
• 1:44:28
  you're betting your entire million dollars on one freaking hand of cards, and and
• 1:44:38
  so you have you just have more reproductive losers. Men who die before they
• 1:44:43
  can even produce children die in their acting and then you you have it's so
• 1:44:54
  like women are just that's why women are just they cluster so much more around
• 1:44:59
  the a average, yeah, than men do. And and it's like,
• 1:45:03
  okay, well this is a reality. And when you when you look at
• 1:45:11
  this issue with you know, women thinking about Genghis Khan, right, you
• 1:45:16
  know, there are a lot of women who would be happier being the one
• 1:45:23
  hundred and thirty second concubine to Genghis Khan yep than being the first wife of
• 1:45:29
  a peasant yep. I think because because because not only is Genghas Khan going
• 1:45:36
  to be able to feed and clothe and shelter her at a higher standard than
• 1:45:43
  that peasant, but you know he's got some pretty good genetic stock going on
• 1:45:47
  it. Yeah, and her kids are gonna like be strong and they're gonna
• 1:45:53
  survive and they're gonna go on. I mean, like that's the logic,
• 1:45:56
  right. Yeah. Well, and she's she's probably happier to be one hundred
• 1:46:00
  and thirty second concubine then the second wife because the second wife's kids are probably
• 1:46:05
  going to get murdered. But but yeah, no, it's it's like you
• 1:46:12
  when you when you take into that. You know, it's it's like the
• 1:46:15
  war brides thing, you know, the the women's basically it's basically welfare,
• 1:46:21
  honestly, well yeah, but the women, the women who in France who
• 1:46:26
  slept with the Nazis and and all of that, right, you know,
• 1:46:29
  like it's it's it really is kind of this even the uh Yano mommy,
• 1:46:40
  right, tribe that was like the raid was described by this Brazilian girl who
• 1:46:46
  was kidnapped by them and raised by them, and and you know when she
• 1:46:51
  was rescued later, was this a little white girl she was rescued later,
• 1:46:57
  and I think she's white, not one hundred percent sure, but she was
• 1:47:00
  like, you know, like she was not a tribes person. She was
• 1:47:05
  kidnapped and raised as a tribes person in this tribe, very warlike tribe.
• 1:47:14
  And she described a raid. And the raid was that, you know,
• 1:47:21
  the women and the girls over eight or so were all taken prisoner and all
• 1:47:34
  of the boys and the younger kids, the kids who were not old enough
• 1:47:39
  were big enough to do any work, right, were killed, and the
• 1:47:44
  men were killed. And and when you when you're looking at that kind of
• 1:47:50
  situation, right, you you are kind of in a situation where this is
• 1:48:00
  my new life now, and I have to figure out some way to make
• 1:48:03
  it work for me and my and any of my future children or the children
• 1:48:10
  that I have now. Right, I have to figure out a way to
• 1:48:13
  live in this new situation that is not of my choosing. And so I
• 1:48:23
  mean, I'm I'm looking at it, and I'm looking at the your Genghis
• 1:48:27
  Khan comment, which is basically what you were getting at. I'm sure,
• 1:48:30
  yeah, yeah, and and and it's just like, well, of course,
• 1:48:35
  of course you would be willing to let the past go, right as
• 1:48:43
  a woman, because because as as as a man or an older boy,
• 1:48:48
  you would not be allowed to live because you might take revenge at some point,
• 1:48:57
  you might be non cooperative and take revenge. And the women are thinking
• 1:49:00
  that that's a it's a totally different calculation because they can do physical work,
• 1:49:06
  but they can also breed the babies of the rival tribe, right, they
• 1:49:12
  can also produce those babies, right, They have value in and of themselves
• 1:49:16
  and as a commodity, and so you would be that would be the calculation.
• 1:49:24
  That's how things happened for years and years and years and years and hundreds
• 1:49:29
  of them and then there was the Cambria, the Cambria that went up against
• 1:49:32
  Rome, and uh, there was a gigantic well. First of all,
• 1:49:40
  they gave Rome a few black eyes before the final battle. And then finally
• 1:49:45
  Rome, the Romans, you know, because they usually come back from behind,
• 1:49:48
  they finally started to get to gain a foothold against This was like a
• 1:49:56
  northern barbarian tribe like going into and what happened was in the final battle,
• 1:50:02
  I think it was the Cambria, they broke ranks, the men broke ranks,
• 1:50:08
  the women slit their throats as they ran back from the battlefield, and
• 1:50:12
  then slit their own throats and bash the brains their children's brains out. So
• 1:50:15
  they basically the entire tribe and that was like a few I think hundred thousand
• 1:50:20
  people self committed suicide, self immolated as soon as they lost the battle to
• 1:50:27
  the Romans. Yeah, you know, but that that doesn't that doesn't perpetuate
• 1:50:33
  your genes, that doesn't. Nope, they just sellimblated. And for the
• 1:50:39
  question is which which tribal approach do we base our assumption about human nature on?
• 1:50:48
  Like do we base it on the Cambria, which was probably like honestly,
• 1:50:54
  that tribe was probably many many times larger than the one that you're talking
• 1:51:00
  out. And then of course, of course, and but the the issue
• 1:51:04
  is the issue is right, what when you when you look at evolutionary pressures,
• 1:51:12
  evolutionary psychology, evolutionary anything, right, you have to look at what
• 1:51:16
  survives and what doesn't. Right, and well, none of the people who
• 1:51:20
  had that impulse right to commit suicide rather than the conquered, they didn't survive.
• 1:51:30
  Then how did it come about? That's the question, like how did
• 1:51:33
  such a much larger society end up with that athos? But you know,
• 1:51:38
  this is like we're really in the weeds and we should probably get back to
• 1:51:42
  the actual because this is I mean, we're not going to finish it if
• 1:51:45
  if it's at this length, Okay, let's get ban get Brian said it
• 1:51:49
  was a short article. That it is a short article, but not it's
• 1:51:56
  not with the multiple Let's look at wait as much as you can on ransom,
• 1:52:00
  everybody shut up after being depressed for so long, I feel like it's
• 1:52:04
  a handicap, says Santiago works at a department store and has been on one
• 1:52:11
  date only since his breakup. It makes me feel like, Oh, she's
• 1:52:15
  damaged goods, and then there's the problem of me she probably is yeah,
• 1:52:19
  and then there's the problem, Oh he's damaged good Oh okay, okay,
• 1:52:26
  And then there's the problem of not knowing how to approach a woman. He
• 1:52:29
  suspects his co worker might have a crush on him, and yet he worries
• 1:52:31
  that one wrong move and he'll be labeled creepy. I wonder where he gets
• 1:52:35
  that idea. Yeah, it's a common worry for men in the post hashtag
• 1:52:42
  meto era, and in twenty sixteen study, over ninety five percent of respondents
• 1:52:45
  replied that men were much more likely to be creepy people than women. If
• 1:52:53
  this applied to women, we would consider it a feminist issue. It would
• 1:52:57
  be misogyny, and we would have to make it illegal. One twenty something
• 1:53:00
  on Reddit, who wanted to ask out an employee at his local pet store,
• 1:53:04
  grown that men are quote expected to be the hunters, but are shunned
• 1:53:09
  for doing so in public unless it's on a stupid app end quote. Actually
• 1:53:13
  that's not necessarily true. I think you can be considered creepy on an app
• 1:53:16
  as well. Yes, it just comes down to what she thinks. I
• 1:53:19
  mean, it's completely what she thinks. So so Santiago does nothing. I'm
• 1:53:26
  a very insecure person. I don't want to burst anyone's bubble or break their
• 1:53:30
  boundaries, said the third generation Mexican American, pointless detail. We didn't need
• 1:53:34
  to know. And then there's the cost of romance. The average date in
• 1:53:38
  the US comes with one hundred and fifty nine dollars price tag, which costs
• 1:53:43
  more than ten hours of work for those making a fifteen dollars hourly wage.
• 1:53:47
  It started getting so expensive for one bachelor, a twenty six year old banker,
• 1:53:51
  that he moved from Los Angeles, where rent averages around three thousand dollars
• 1:53:56
  through an apartment in Appalachia, where he and a friend. Now I'll pay
• 1:54:00
  five hundred dollars each a month. That's fucking awesome. And it is pronounced
• 1:54:03
  Appalachia. This is what the Appalachians say, and this is where I am.
• 1:54:08
  Now. I just found It's a lot of time and frankly money,
• 1:54:14
  he says about dating back West. We're risking so much for so little.
• 1:54:19
  But the dating scene in Appalachia, he says, is not good either,
• 1:54:23
  partly because he's working remotely. Everyone is double my age, lives in like
• 1:54:28
  the Midwest. There's just none of that cohesion or fun. The world has
• 1:54:31
  changed, there's more. Some men insist they haven't checked out of dating.
• 1:54:38
  Rather, they have virtual girlfriends who satisfy all their needs. Over the past
• 1:54:43
  few years, startups like Replica Character AI and Infection AI or Inflection AI have
• 1:54:48
  rolled out a universe of virtual companions that users can customize to meet their every
• 1:54:53
  desire. One alluring chat bought Eva AI whose customers whose customers with promise quote
• 1:55:00
  build relationship and intimacy on your terms. And one influencer, Karen Majori Majorie
• 1:55:06
  Majorie whatever, says she Marjorie says she created an AI version of herself so
• 1:55:13
  far with more than eighteen thousand boyfriends to quote cure loneliness. Yeah, that's
• 1:55:19
  that's that sounds like. That sounds like if it was something that helped men
• 1:55:24
  to socialize so they can like go meet real people, I think that would
• 1:55:28
  be okay, sort of like a training mode, you know, yeah,
• 1:55:33
  like a dating coach, right right, or like a virtual like girlfriend you
• 1:55:39
  can practice talking to, you know, But I don't, Yeah, I
• 1:55:43
  wouldn't. It's not a substitute it's not a substitute. And then there are
• 1:55:48
  the real life sirens of Only Fans, where it's two hundred and forty million
• 1:55:53
  users can purchase the girlfriend experience. That's what I talked about on the show.
• 1:55:57
  Belle Delphine used to provide the girlfriend experience and get a constant stream of
• 1:56:01
  sex and loving messages in return for cold hard cash. Ayella, a top
• 1:56:09
  Only Fans performer who makes a hundred thousand dollars on a good month, says
• 1:56:13
  a large part of her job is doting upon her admirers like a lover would,
• 1:56:16
  listening to them moan about their tough days or absent girlfriends. It turns
• 1:56:21
  out the thing that men just want, or when men want, is not
• 1:56:25
  just sex, she told the Free Press. Woman that likes them, Yeah,
• 1:56:30
  I know, what a wild idea. It's so funny that she's surprised
• 1:56:33
  by this. It just tells you what what we tell the world, what
• 1:56:38
  we tell people about what men want. So it's so funny because we as
• 1:56:44
  a society, we've decided to delude ourselves about men's nature, look at it
• 1:56:48
  in terms of the worst, worst way possible, and then we wonder,
• 1:56:53
  well, why aren't men able to find partners. Wally, jeez, you
• 1:56:57
  really made you really You've really undercut men's ability to solve themselves. Guys,
• 1:57:04
  Okay, all right. Only a minority of her customers are interested in just
• 1:57:11
  physical pleasure, she says. An overwhelming majority reach out to her for a
• 1:57:15
  companionship or simply to feel desired by a woman. A big part of her
• 1:57:18
  job, she says, is tending to men who are lonely. An important
• 1:57:23
  component to a sexual dynamic is to feel valued. She told me, Yes,
• 1:57:28
  it's very simple. Ethan King, a therapist who treats ninety percent men
• 1:57:33
  in Austin, Texas, says he often has to convince clients to look beyond
• 1:57:38
  the girls they see in porn. People say they're totally happy with their poorn
• 1:57:43
  girlfriend, he says, they're like, it's too risky, I'd just rather
• 1:57:45
  be online. But Ian Soultez, a thirty three year old overnight gas station
• 1:57:50
  attendant in Bridgeport, Connecticut, basically a guy that women don't want because he's
• 1:57:56
  not making six figures, doesn't want to look past his online friend with benefits.
• 1:58:01
  He says he first met his online girlfriend on game fa Q's, a
• 1:58:05
  video gaming website, that hosts message boards when he was thirteen or fourteen.
• 1:58:10
  They play video games together and message each other all day long. He told
• 1:58:13
  me he sent her a hug emoji. During our interview. She had been
• 1:58:17
  more than willing to be very close and intimate with me online, she said,
• 1:58:21
  so any sexual urge I've had has been handled by that. There's just
• 1:58:27
  one problem. They've never met in person or spoken on the phone. Sultas
• 1:58:30
  said she can't because she's mute. But I'm pretty convinced it's a lie,
• 1:58:36
  he admitted. But at the same time, if I challenge her on it,
• 1:58:40
  what's going to happen. I'm going to find out the one person I've
• 1:58:43
  been close with for decades now is a guy. I don't want to say
• 1:58:46
  I already know that. Because I don't, he stumbles to find the right
• 1:58:50
  words. I'd just be losing a close friend, and I don't want to
• 1:58:55
  risk that. Okay, you guys, yeah, yeah, they go,
• 1:59:00
  okay, okay, okay, we'll finish the article in your absence, in
• 1:59:03
  your honor. Oh my god, Kevin, you're not going anywhere. She's
• 1:59:10
  got such a cute bark though, No, it's not cute. It's really
• 1:59:15
  annoying, and that's just her her like oh oh, I'm excited bark,
• 1:59:20
  that's not her, like zombies coming because I'm just comparing it to my dog's
• 1:59:28
  bark like that her. But he could, he could that those sonic waves
• 1:59:33
  could sit take oh yeah, no, no, take slain out of orbit.
• 1:59:38
  She's awful. She's she's terrible. She's the most ear piercing barks.
• 1:59:44
  Yeah, anyway, all right, I'm gonna go. Let's finish this,
• 1:59:47
  all right, right, all right, bye Karen, Bye, Okay,
• 1:59:51
  let's quit. So yeah, I'm just gonna remove Karen from the characters here.
• 1:59:57
  Okay, should I finish the article? I do have a super I'll
• 2:00:00
  read the super chats and chows afterwards. Okay, yes, so let's finish
• 2:00:04
  it. Okay. The US marriage rate is the lowest it's been in over
• 2:00:10
  a century, with a quarter of forty year olds having never married. In
• 2:00:13
  nineteen eighty, only six percent of adults fell into this camp. Wow,
• 2:00:17
  it's a trend that continues even though even though research shows married people are happier.
• 2:00:24
  Married women are twice as happy as unmarried women, and one half is
• 2:00:30
  unhappy. So there's there's you know, there's being happy. There's being sort
• 2:00:34
  of in the middle mid and then there's being unhappy and extremely unhappy. Married
• 2:00:41
  women are more as twice as likely to be extremely happy, they're half is
• 2:00:45
  likely to be extremely unhappy as single women. So obviously men are a benefit
• 2:00:53
  to women when they're in women's lives. But nobody wants to be the one
• 2:00:57
  to say that, yeah, except us. We're willing to stay. We're
• 2:01:01
  a bunch of suburn people, yep, willing to say that's right. Americans
• 2:01:05
  today discourage commitment now, says Stephen Mosher, the lead demographer at the Population
• 2:01:12
  Research Institute. The expectation fifty years ago was that everyone would eventually get married
• 2:01:17
  and have children. Now that expectation is gone already an increasing number of women
• 2:01:23
  are going it alone as mothers, freezing their eggs and using sperm donors to
• 2:01:28
  procreate. At some point in the future, Mosher says, the family,
• 2:01:30
  the fundamental unit of society, could completely break down. We're going to have
• 2:01:35
  children born from sperm donors with no fathers, eggs and embryos frozen, suspended
• 2:01:41
  indefinitely until someone wants to add a child to her life. This is not
• 2:01:45
  a happy future for most of humanity. John Berger worries about the future too,
• 2:01:50
  not just for men. Oh I'm sorry, go ahead. Yeah.
• 2:01:54
  Actually, interesting thing in the UK they had to shut down a sperm donation
• 2:02:01
  clinic because of a lack of donors. Yeah, guys, don't. Don't
• 2:02:05
  donate your sperm. Why are you doing such a stupid thing? Yeah,
• 2:02:11
  Like, seriously, just don't. I mean, if if you're in a
• 2:02:15
  if you're in a place where this sperm is going to go to an infertile
• 2:02:17
  couple, maybe, but you're it's not. It's going to irresponsible women.
• 2:02:24
  So why would you do this? Like, of all the things that men
• 2:02:29
  can do, why would you fuck over a child? M hm, why
• 2:02:34
  would you do that? Like, seriously, don't. If you're thinking of
• 2:02:39
  giving your sperm to a sperm bank, don't. Yep, Jesus, don't
• 2:02:44
  be a fucking asshole, all right. And like I said, I mean,
• 2:02:47
  if it's it's for like an infertile couple, that's one thing, But
• 2:02:49
  you know it's not, it's not it's going to ye Okay, let's keep
• 2:02:56
  going. John Burger worries about the future too, not just for men,
• 2:02:59
  but for women, who he says aren't being served by the current dating dynamic
• 2:03:02
  or dating apps, which which about half of American never married adults say they've
• 2:03:08
  used at some point. Their business goal is to retain users, says Burger,
• 2:03:12
  of apps like Tinder that want datas to keep searching for love. The
• 2:03:15
  day you settle down as a day their prophets die. Yeah, but the
• 2:03:19
  apps, if you're a man, just get off them. Why are you?
• 2:03:23
  But like that doesn't that's not necessarily because you're trying to make the case
• 2:03:27
  that this is like bad for women in particular. I mean, women don't
• 2:03:30
  have to be on Tinder. They could just go meet people in their community
• 2:03:34
  instead of trying to, like again, you know, try to get the
• 2:03:38
  best man by using the world. Why I have access to the planet,
• 2:03:41
  so I can definitely find a better man. That's what that's doing. And
• 2:03:45
  I think that in many cases, women get on to these dating apps for
• 2:03:47
  free or for really cheap because the men are the ones looking. Yeah,
• 2:03:53
  why are you on it? Okay? Why men don't donate your sperm and
• 2:03:57
  don't go on apps period? Just forget at it. Like apps are just
• 2:04:01
  they're they're a nightmare for men. Yep, Okay, all right. Their
• 2:04:09
  business goal is to retain users, says, okay, I read that bit.
• 2:04:13
  His advice to America's young women is to get off the apps and try
• 2:04:15
  mix collar dating, mix collar dating. When college educated women restrict their dating
• 2:04:21
  pool to college educated men, they are effectively limiting themselves to a two small
• 2:04:27
  dating pool. Said Berger, the author of Data Nomics, how dating became
• 2:04:30
  a lopsided numbers game, and if you exclude firemen, electricians, plumbers,
• 2:04:34
  and other folks that don't have a college degree, you may be excluding people
• 2:04:39
  that you would actually really click with romantically. Jamal, the security guard in
• 2:04:43
  Florida, says he is open to dating someone more educated and successful than he
• 2:04:48
  is, and he believes he could bring a lot to the table. Sure,
• 2:04:54
  he doesn't have a million dollars, but he wants to do the little
• 2:04:56
  things like cook dinner for his partner and leave love notes around the house.
• 2:05:00
  I'm a trustworthy, loyal and very direct. I'm also very protective and I'm
• 2:05:03
  not afraid to try new things. I mean, that's fine, but I'm
• 2:05:08
  I worry that that most women just wouldn't be able to do it because they
• 2:05:13
  don't want to. They don't want to take care of men. They want
• 2:05:15
  to be taken care of by men in most cases, and the problem is
• 2:05:18
  that they've also been told they can have it all, and now they can't.
• 2:05:21
  They can't make both of those things work. And I know men want
• 2:05:25
  to take care of women, but I don't know. I mean, I
• 2:05:29
  hope it works out. I know that you can't get in a situation where
• 2:05:31
  the woman is the breadwinner and it works. But I think that it's it's
• 2:05:36
  it's not it's not common, and I think that it's risky. I mean,
• 2:05:40
  I think women will look at the men in there that they're providing for
• 2:05:45
  as a burden on them at some point, and the fact that they are
• 2:05:47
  men as part of the reason why we've seen lots of stories of women who
• 2:05:53
  make more than their partners and then asking for a divorce. So I'm just
• 2:05:58
  saying, And also yet then consider that, like maybe the woman's lifestyle expectations
• 2:06:03
  should be adjusted, because what if she, like if he dates a woman
• 2:06:08
  who makes six figures. Let's say she's like a white collar executive somewhere,
• 2:06:12
  college educated, and she marries this guy the security guard. Okay, what
• 2:06:15
  happens when she decides she wants to have kids. He can't carry them,
• 2:06:20
  So what is what is going to happen? They're gonna have to adjust their
• 2:06:25
  lifestyle, and I don't I think it's something that women don't get asked to
• 2:06:30
  do, if that makes sense, you know what I mean, like adapt
• 2:06:32
  to your new expectations, Like you're gonna have to maybe you're gonna have to
• 2:06:35
  have a smaller house, maybe you're gonna have to, you know, only
• 2:06:40
  have one car or something. And you know, I just don't understand most
• 2:06:45
  women because I'm sitting here and I'm happy with my like central heating and plumbing
• 2:06:49
  and uh, and I don't have a dirt floor. You know, I
• 2:06:54
  don't know what it is about me, but my expectations are pretty pretty low.
• 2:06:58
  I don't need a fuck to I don't understand. Why do you guys
• 2:07:00
  need to destroy the fucking earth for the latest goddamn fashions and flooring? Why
• 2:07:09
  what has out a need for women? Explain that to me. Explain why
• 2:07:14
  you want to destroy the world for your vanity? Yes, Explain to me
• 2:07:19
  why this this man who makes sixty one sixty one thousand dollars American Like,
• 2:07:28
  holy shit, sixty one thousand, Why that's not good enough for you?
• 2:07:33
  Explain that to me. What the fuck did do you do? You think
• 2:07:38
  you are queens of the goddamn universe. God, I just like, I'm
• 2:07:45
  this, I'm just gonna run up against this like a brick wall. I
• 2:07:46
  don't like. I know Karen says, Oh, this, this makes sense
• 2:07:50
  evolutionarily. I don't get it. I don't get the never ending greed.
• 2:07:57
  Yeah, I know. I think that you'll have to lose everything before you
• 2:08:01
  realize it. Okay, I'd have to lose everything, not you. I'm
• 2:08:07
  saying they like a woman would have to lose everything or be in danger of
• 2:08:13
  losing everything before she takes a step back. I don't understand the focus,
• 2:08:18
  like counts her blessings, you know, that's the that's all, count your
• 2:08:22
  blessings, like look at how good? Yeah? Yeah, Like your fear
• 2:08:26
  of losing out, Yeah, I don't like. For me, I've never
• 2:08:31
  really had a fear of losing out. Materially. What terrifies me is the
• 2:08:37
  fact that I'm going to have to say goodbye one day to the things that
• 2:08:39
  I love. That freaking terrifies me. And I have absolutely no sympathy for
• 2:08:45
  women who are constantly like, oh, he has to make six figures,
• 2:08:48
  Like what the are you actually living a life? Were you attached to anyone?
• 2:08:54
  Or do you just exist in this perpetual state of childish fear of commitment?
• 2:09:00
  Like seriously, that's what you're worried about. You're worried about all of
• 2:09:05
  this, or even just things that are done to you or things do you
• 2:09:07
  might miss out on materially? You don't have a terror, Like my terror
• 2:09:13
  is saying goodbye to the people that I love. That fucking scares the crap
• 2:09:18
  out of me. I don't even know how I'm going to live through that,
• 2:09:20
  and I know I will have to, and that bugs me, That
• 2:09:24
  truly bugs me. I don't I don't give a fuck that I you know,
• 2:09:28
  the flooring is linoleum. I don't care that I don't have the latest
• 2:09:31
  drapes. And you're telling me we need to feel sympathy for these women that
• 2:09:37
  they're not getting what they want out of life. Who gives a fuck what
• 2:09:39
  they want? Who gives a fuck that what they want is a guy who's
• 2:09:43
  six foot you know, and all of this other superficial list and makes uh
• 2:09:48
  six figures. You don't have a right to want that. I know that
• 2:09:52
  Karen would say, oh, it's evolutionary, but yeah, so is dying
• 2:09:56
  of dying of so dying of smallpox. Not everything that we've were evolutionarily designed
• 2:10:03
  to do we do anymore. So is women dying in childbirth, so it's
• 2:10:07
  like one out of every two child dying before the age of three. This
• 2:10:11
  is all stuff that, you know, something that a science has stopped.
• 2:10:18
  All right, So it may be evolutionary the case that men women have to
• 2:10:22
  have hypergamy, but maybe we need to get over it for the sake of
• 2:10:26
  everyone. And like I said, I don't really have sympathy for this.
• 2:10:31
  This one thing for expecting your partner to be a financial rock while you're giving
• 2:10:35
  birth and taking care of young children. It's entirely another thing to expect your
• 2:10:39
  financial partner to buy a mic mention, an O pair, a maid,
• 2:10:43
  a gardener, a chef, and every other you're tarted thing in your life.
• 2:10:48
  And why they hell did women even want women like that? Why do
• 2:10:54
  you want a woman whose great fear in life is that she's not going to
• 2:10:58
  get the most the most fashionable furniture for her house or the most fashionable pleather
• 2:11:05
  fucking miniskirt for her ass? Why why would you want somebody. These are
• 2:11:11
  her fears. I don't know. Okay, I'm done with my rents,
• 2:11:18
  listen, all right. But still he knows that many women toggle their apps
• 2:11:24
  so that men like him, those without a bachelor's degree, without a six
• 2:11:28
  figure salary, never appear on their feet, and he says, they're missing
• 2:11:33
  out on a lot of good guys. Yeah, because you can like set
• 2:11:37
  your you know, like some filter settings. I think where you can say,
• 2:11:41
  you know, they should have a job, they should be religious,
• 2:11:45
  they should be between this age and this age whatever, you know. And
• 2:11:48
  I think one of them is the money, how much they make. So
• 2:11:52
  if women are setting that high, then it's not even showing them. A
• 2:11:56
  lot of men, you know, if they're not going up in their feed
• 2:12:00
  because they're they're they're below average or whatever, they're probably below the peak,
• 2:12:05
  you know, because they figure, well, if it's like playing the lottery,
• 2:12:09
  if I always like go for the highest, then maybe I'll just get
• 2:12:11
  like the almost the highest, and that'll be good instead of like ending up
• 2:12:16
  with somebody that's mid. The problem is, isn't The problem isn't that I
• 2:12:22
  don't have anything to offer someone. I do, he says, But I
• 2:12:24
  can't even get my foot in the door. And if they don't talk to
• 2:12:28
  me, what can I do? Then it says correction, So I guess
• 2:12:31
  this is the end of the article. An earlier version this article stated that
• 2:12:35
  a quarter of adults over forty have never been married. At present, a
• 2:12:37
  quarter of forty year olds have never been married, compared to six percent in
• 2:12:41
  nineteen eighty. We regret the error thanks to reader David Ross, PhD or
• 2:12:46
  bringing it to our attention. So yeah, that's the article and the first
• 2:12:52
  comment hopefulation. This is a woman, This is Kathleen. Yeah, these
• 2:13:01
  bees think they deserve Prince Charming, but haven't done anything feminine to prove it.
• 2:13:05
  My brother is one of those top guys. Guess what he wants a
• 2:13:07
  young, healthy, fit, sweet, beautiful woman who wants to love him
• 2:13:09
  and their many children. Well, he wants someone who has what he doesn't
• 2:13:15
  have, namely feminine nurturing qualities. Feminism sold the lies, and we are
• 2:13:18
  paying the debts. So yeah, this is This is pretty much sums it
• 2:13:24
  up. And it's not just feminism sold the lies. It's we in a
• 2:13:31
  lot of ways. There are something that feminism does for our society. You
• 2:13:37
  know, it keeps men on the treadmill, It keeps men guilty, It
• 2:13:41
  keeps men, keeps men working in a lot of ways because I've I actually
• 2:13:45
  had a tweet where I asked, men, what is it? How often
• 2:13:48
  do you hear negative messages versus positive messages? And I think that the negative
• 2:13:56
  messaging towards men keeps them in a state of guilt that keeps some focused on
• 2:14:01
  service as a means to ameliate that guilt. And it's kind of like an
• 2:14:07
  almost reflexive service as opposed to, hey, I have the right to decide
• 2:14:11
  who I serve. Becomes like anytime there's there's need, they want to fulfill
• 2:14:16
  that need as a way of relieving the guilt, because guilt does that,
• 2:14:20
  It keeps you invested in a culture. Now, the problem is that the
• 2:14:24
  guilt is becoming shame because we no longer recognize the service of men. So
• 2:14:31
  now we're just shaming them and that's it, and men are checking out and
• 2:14:37
  they're shutting down, and there's the workplace participation of men now is at the
• 2:14:41
  lowest it's ever been, even during the pandemic. So it recovered a bit
• 2:14:46
  after the pandemic. Now it's back down to where it was at the bottom
• 2:14:48
  of the pandemic. Think about that, and it's going down, as going
• 2:14:54
  down and down. Men are no longer participating in this society. And the
• 2:14:58
  problem with that is that we masculinity to do the things that are difficult or
• 2:15:03
  impossible for women to do. And once men are no longer doing those things,
• 2:15:09
  we have no future. We have broken bridges, we have collapsing bridges,
• 2:15:15
  we have collapsing infrastructure, we have broken pipelines. We have a world
• 2:15:20
  that no longer works. And that's what we're doing. That's what we're doing
• 2:15:24
  now. We are now embracing something that is leading to a world that no
• 2:15:28
  longer works. And all because we will not hold women to account, we
• 2:15:33
  will not talk about these things. Honestly, we won't make the connection between
• 2:15:39
  the loss men's loss of motivation and the loss of their work. We somehow
• 2:15:46
  think that men owe us endlessly everything they know, they owe us their service
• 2:15:56
  by virtue of what because they were born in our culture. Well, no,
• 2:16:01
  they don't owe us a damn thing. You know, nobody owes anybody
• 2:16:07
  anything, but because they're forcibly born Canadian. At birth, they were forcibly
• 2:16:11
  assigned Canadian at birth or American at birth. No, you're not owed.
• 2:16:16
  And that's the funny thing is that we we we still want to have this
• 2:16:22
  expectation that men who are born to a culture, to a nationality are owed
• 2:16:28
  that nationality their death and their service. And yet we don't want to recognize
• 2:16:35
  the value of nationality. You see what I'm saying. Yeah, like that,
• 2:16:41
  that's and it's a it's a it's a situation that's that's not not feasible
• 2:16:46
  long term, right, And so I we gotta fix this. We gotta
• 2:16:54
  and we gotta recognize how bad it will be if this isn't fixed. We
• 2:17:00
  can't just be like, oh, yeah, poor Jamal, Yeah he fucked
• 2:17:03
  himself over. How did he fuck himself over? The answer is he didn't.
• 2:17:07
  He didn't fuck himself over. Our society is failing at a fundamental task
• 2:17:13
  that all societies have, which is to make sure that men and women can
• 2:17:16
  come together make families or alternatively capture their instincts to reproduce and to construct a
• 2:17:26
  colony to reproduce in capture those instincts to the furtherance of the society. And
• 2:17:31
  if we don't do that, our society is dead. Like it's it's a
• 2:17:35
  dead society. It's a it's an undead society shambling forward based on the fact
• 2:17:41
  that other emerging economies need our money in order to function. That's it.
• 2:17:48
  It's like, this is the thing that we hang our hat on. Now
• 2:17:50
  we're basically a zombie culture. Welcome to the zombie her hordes. All right,
• 2:17:58
  it all comes together after like seven years, Brian, doesn't it.
• 2:18:03
  Yeah, we got that. We finally made it. It's a loop.
• 2:18:09
  It's a loop. Okay, all right, So once again, I want
• 2:18:11
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• 2:18:24
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• 2:18:30
  been talking about this stuff for ten years. Yep. Yeah, we've been
• 2:18:33
  talking about a lot of stuff, a lot of the intricate issues that related
• 2:18:37
  to the alienation of men that you know, other people are starting to actually
• 2:18:43
  recognize now. And it's it's only going to get worse, friends, until
• 2:18:48
  we address these problems and ask or at least demand maybe is a better word,
• 2:18:54
  women to take responsibility for their part in all of this. Yeah,
• 2:18:56
  okay, and it's just going to get worse until we do. And that's
• 2:19:03
  this is the eye of the needle. You gotta be prepared to hold women
• 2:19:05
  accountable. And the honest to God truth is, I don't know why that
• 2:19:11
  is such a horrible thing. Like half the human race has responsibility to society.
• 2:19:16
  Oh my god, good, good gravy. That's misogyny. No,
• 2:19:20
  it's not. Because our responsibilities are a huge part of ourselves and without them,
• 2:19:28
  we don't have a self. And there is something that women have sacrificed
• 2:19:33
  to maintain the guilt necessary to keep women keep men on the grindstone, and
• 2:19:37
  that is a recognition of self. We got to get back to that.
• 2:19:41
  Women need to get back to that. Women need to get stop being selfish
• 2:19:45
  about how they're served and start getting selfish about how they see themselves in the
• 2:19:50
  greater world and how people reflect their actions and their choices, and the recognition
• 2:19:56
  of the negatives of women's actions and choices. That's what you build a sense
• 2:19:58
  of self from. What is an RPG without the negative choice, you know,
• 2:20:05
  storyline or moral relativity. Yeah, it's not fun. You gotta have
• 2:20:13
  You gotta have the negative consequences, or the positive consequences are meaningless. You
• 2:20:18
  gotta have the stakes. So there's no climax. And that's basically where women
• 2:20:22
  are. They have no stakes to their life, they have no stakes to
• 2:20:24
  their choices. Therefore their selves are underdeveloped and they seem to be I was
• 2:20:30
  about to say they seem to be fine with that, but they're not,
• 2:20:33
  because they've never been more miserable. And what they keep doing is keep embracing
• 2:20:39
  minimizing the stakes more and more and more. Well, maybe what you need
• 2:20:43
  to do is embrace the stakes to understand the meaning of your life. Okay,
• 2:20:48
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• 2:21:20
  gotta read the super chats and super chows, so I can start with the
• 2:21:24
  super chows because I always give the super chow's priority. So I got a
• 2:21:28
  super chow from Plane Dane for ten dollars. Thank you. Playing days and
• 2:21:33
  he says there's no free ride when it comes to androcrine manipulation. I don't
• 2:21:37
  think giving women a testosterone patch is a good idea. It can affect their
• 2:21:39
  reproductive system, and from the research I've seen, it can also affect sexual
• 2:21:45
  orientation in preborn children or exposed to too much of the opposite gendered hormone.
• 2:21:50
  Male sperm cells exposed to too much estrogen are more likely to be gay or
• 2:21:54
  bisexual, and female sperm cells exposed to too much testosterone are more likely to
• 2:21:58
  be lesbians or bisexual. I don't think we need any more lesbians. Women
• 2:22:03
  need to stop eating aggro chem laced food, seed oils and reduce plastic intakes,
• 2:22:09
  stop taking birth control drugs for so long, and they need to exercise
• 2:22:15
  more. Diet and lifestyle needs to change. I say as a guy that
• 2:22:18
  experiments with various performance enhancing compounds. All right, thank you for that.
• 2:22:24
  Yeah, say, I think a little bit of progesterone is good for women.
• 2:22:28
  This is what is Karen was talking about. But I think a lifestyle
• 2:22:33
  change is gonna have like a bigger and more long lasting effect. So yeah,
• 2:22:37
  avoid seed oils, ARBs, process foods, et C. Lane Dane
• 2:22:41
  then gives us five dollars and says, hot take, but I think women
• 2:22:45
  generally aren't as loyal to the tribe as men due to the fact that they
• 2:22:48
  have to adapt to their new environment after being raided and conquered. This explains
• 2:22:52
  why women are better at learning languages and why they're more interested in learning new
• 2:22:56
  languages. There's a YouTuber called Shaoming yc oh Shaoman New York c an NYC
• 2:23:05
  that's a polyglot can learn a language very quickly and easily. He had his
• 2:23:09
  brain scanned and the doctor said that he had more of a feminine brain structure.
• 2:23:13
  This reminded me of that guy that gay autistic polyglot that can learn an
• 2:23:18
  entire language in a month. He learned Icelandic in like a month. Icelandic
• 2:23:22
  is an extremely difficult language to learn. I mean, I've I've heard b
• 2:23:26
  York speak English and I don't know what she's saying. I've read I've read
• 2:23:31
  a New Yorker article that covers polyglots and sexuality, and apparently gays are more
• 2:23:35
  likely to be polyglots and linguists. I wonder if this is where some hatred
• 2:23:39
  for gay men comes from. I'd like to hear Allison's, Karen's, and
• 2:23:43
  Hannah's take on this. Well, Hannah and Karen, I'm not here,
• 2:23:46
  but Alison, do you want to say anything about that? Uh? Well,
• 2:23:54
  I think that they found that there's there are some more feminine gay and
• 2:24:00
  then more and then more more masculine case. So I'm not sure it's it's
• 2:24:05
  quite as simple as that. I think that. And also they did find
• 2:24:13
  that bisexuality and men is corresponds with hyper masculinity for whatever reason, as in
• 2:24:18
  all and bisexuality and women corresponds with masculinity, not lesbianism. But then I
• 2:24:24
  imagine that the lesbian separatists are probably throwing that off. Okay, and then
• 2:24:28
  we got one more from the same thing. Yeah, plain Dane again,
• 2:24:33
  so thank you, and he says five five dollars auson you clearly have a
• 2:24:39
  more masculine brain structure. That's why you think the way you do. That's
• 2:24:43
  why you're also actually attracted to women, and probably why you're autistic. You
• 2:24:48
  were more most likely exposed to a lot more male hormones when you were in
• 2:24:52
  utero or something like that. Yeah, I don't disagree with that. It's
• 2:25:00
  sort of unfortunate because it feels like this is sort of in really well,
• 2:25:07
  well, I honestly I don't. I think I do. It's just that
• 2:25:16
  I don't know it's it. I guess it's unfortunate that it takes this kind
• 2:25:24
  of a mentality to sort of understand what's going on. Yeah, maybe,
• 2:25:28
  or maybe it's not unfortunate. Maybe that's that's my niche all right, uh,
• 2:25:33
  well that's yeah. For the super childs and I got a super chat
• 2:25:35
  from Albert nadd retro for two dollars Canadian and he says, Karen, it
• 2:25:41
  kind of sounds like the film The Searchers. Well, Karen is gone.
• 2:25:45
  I'm sorry she didn't see that, but she she might see it after.
• 2:25:48
  Maybe she'll go to the video and see it come up. So thank you
• 2:25:52
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• 2:25:56
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