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The One About Dorit Filing For Divorce, Day Parties in Palm Springs, and the Ca-Choilet · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? Your spaghetti legs, dancers legs?
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  Speaker 1: Hi my love it is Lala can't welcome back to
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  Speaker 1: give them l LA podcast. We were at home again.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not mad about it when when people ask like,
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  Speaker 1: are you out of the studio, I'm like, we'll be
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  Speaker 1: back in it at some point in time. But I'm just.
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  Speaker 2: I'm excited to be I am excited to be in
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  Speaker 2: the studio if you were to ask me my honest opinion.
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  Speaker 2: And I can't wait to get the looks from our producers.
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  Speaker 3: I rather do this, you ask for them, And I understand.
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  Speaker 1: Asking Easton to like leave his four walls is wild.
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  Speaker 1: And I told him like, once we have the studio,
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  Speaker 1: we're not going to be behind like a desk, so
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to like actually put something on other
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  Speaker 1: than sweatpants. I do love the crocs.
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  Speaker 2: We both have guys to no I have. I'm taking
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  Speaker 2: mine off because they need a moment.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, they're so good.
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  Speaker 3: I got a bag on it.
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  Speaker 1: So I posted a photo of your crocs and oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, and so many people were like, what is
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  Speaker 1: that bag? And I was like, I want, I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to say what you wanted to do Easton wants to do.
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  Speaker 1: Put no, well, that's off of that's out of a movie.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, most people don't know this, but you can
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  Speaker 1: put your weed in there. But now that Eastern sober.
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  Speaker 1: He's now putting the money that he's going to give
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  Speaker 1: for the seventh tradition in his age.
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  Speaker 3: Now it's time for the seventh tradition. I'll just lean over.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if you heard that, Zipper, but I'm
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  Speaker 2: packing dollars in here.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I can't wait to give them out.
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  Speaker 1: I love the giblets that you chose. So yes, we
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  Speaker 1: will be back in the studio. We love being home.
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  Speaker 1: I just went this morning. So Ocean's in Miami, uh
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  Speaker 1: visiting her dad, and I went to the school this
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  Speaker 1: morning to listen to two people who are like professionals
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  Speaker 1: when it comes to putting your child into school and
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  Speaker 1: the accepting process you've been accepted. It's so wild to
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  Speaker 1: talk about it like it's college when we're talking about kindergarten.
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  Speaker 1: You guys, we're talking about when they enter kindergarten. You
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  Speaker 1: have to go through an interview process, you have to
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  Speaker 1: be teed up for donations, you have to go to events,
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  Speaker 1: you basically have to create like.
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  Speaker 3: This.
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  Speaker 1: I don't I hope no one listens to the podcast
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  Speaker 1: who I'm going to go in and interview with, but you, like,
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  Speaker 1: the entire family is basically being interviewed. And I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a bit nervous.
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  Speaker 3: Well that's it was easy for you. You're the only one there, right,
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  Speaker 3: I was.
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  Speaker 1: The only one there. But this is this was there
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  Speaker 1: was one woman who raised her hand because again, this
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  Speaker 1: was just for us to kind of understand the admissions
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  Speaker 1: process and if you're going to choose public school or
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  Speaker 1: private school, which by the way, I learned that private
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  Speaker 1: school is going to be a minimum of fifty thousand
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  Speaker 1: dollars a year, which is so cooker. Kindergarten, Yeah, if
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  Speaker 1: you choose to do kindergarten, you can also there are sure,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure there are going to be parents who are like,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, We'll do public school, kindergarten through the
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  Speaker 1: fifth grade, and then we'll start the process of junior high.
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  Speaker 1: Being more in a private school setting, it is very different.
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  Speaker 1: I mean in Utah literally, the people who were in
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  Speaker 1: private school, you'd be like, oh, they're in private school.
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  Speaker 1: That means they got many not only that, but it's like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: there's a lot of drugs happening. Oh yeah, that was
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  Speaker 1: you know, just right. They had because because they were rich,
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  Speaker 1: they had to act access to a lot of things.
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  Speaker 1: But public school, it wasn't even a conversation whether you
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  Speaker 1: were super wealthy or not. It was like, you go
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  Speaker 1: to public school because all the public schools are great.
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  Speaker 1: It's very different in LA and Los Angeles County. So
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  Speaker 1: I left, and I'm feeling a bit of pressure, especially
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  Speaker 1: when they talk about the family aspect. There was a
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  Speaker 1: woman who raised her hand and she was like, when
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  Speaker 1: I go into these interviews as a single mom, do
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  Speaker 1: I go by myself or do I bring my tribe?
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  Speaker 1: And they said, no, you definitely want to go by yourself,
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  Speaker 1: and she goes, okay, I just I would want to
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  Speaker 1: know what my mom thinks. And I'm like, are you me?
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  Speaker 3: I'm on FaceTime with mine.
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  Speaker 1: So there were like a lot of questions and then
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  Speaker 1: I I wanted to ask, but I didn't, so I
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  Speaker 1: asked one of the people at the school. I just said, like,
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  Speaker 1: do they google us? Apparently, like, if you're googleable, they do.
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  Speaker 1: That's bullshit, And well, whether it's bullshit or not. They do,
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  Speaker 1: and they also for people who are not googleable, they
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  Speaker 1: do background checks, they find out where you live. They
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  Speaker 1: do all of these things because also if you're choosing
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  Speaker 1: a private school, they're looking at you for donations, and
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  Speaker 1: you know, a lot of those donations go to events.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure new technology and books and all the things
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  Speaker 1: so that the kids like.
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  Speaker 2: Your donations went to the snow day, Right.
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  Speaker 3: I can't give it.
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  Speaker 1: I can't comment on what that goes to. I have
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  Speaker 1: no problem with donations to a school, especially because that
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  Speaker 1: money is also used for people who don't want financial
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  Speaker 1: aid but need financial aid. So if all of us
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  Speaker 1: kind of coming together to give a donation can help
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  Speaker 1: a family put their child in the school, and it's
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  Speaker 1: a grant, you do not owe it back, then by
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  Speaker 1: all means, whatever I can give, I'll give. But it
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  Speaker 1: was an intimidating process. Left, I called one of my
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  Speaker 1: friends who does not go to school with Ocean. Obviously
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  Speaker 1: she wouldn't, but her child. She's a bit back, and
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  Speaker 1: she she's kind of like me, like overly, she gets
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  Speaker 1: overly sensitive, she gets overwhelmed easily.
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  Speaker 3: I'm waving at the Queen. She looks magnificent oh, she
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  Speaker 3: gave me a bath.
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  Speaker 1: Is that my bathrobe?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, I get yours.
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  Speaker 1: I think the boundaries are getting a little unboundaried, but
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  Speaker 1: that's fine. Anyway, I called her. She made me feel better.
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  Speaker 1: We looked up the public school that was near me
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  Speaker 1: to see if it was a good school, just in
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  Speaker 1: case I do want to go that route until private
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  Speaker 1: school is like absolutely necessary. Who knows what we're gonna do.
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  Speaker 1: I just for anyone who's out there kind of going
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  Speaker 1: through the same process. I see you, I feel you,
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  Speaker 1: and let's just look at it as a hurdle race. Right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I can see how that I am taking
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  Speaker 2: offense to them, saying, don't bring your.
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  Speaker 3: Tribe different day and age guys. It isn't just a
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  Speaker 3: mom and pa anymore. There's Orca pods coming now.
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  Speaker 1: Well then they said at meetings mom and dad, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting here and I'm gonna I'm like, wow, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna throw up. I'm going to throw up right here.
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  Speaker 1: And now I'm so overwhelmed.
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  Speaker 2: Right for how much you're paying, I feel like they
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  Speaker 2: should level up and not discriminate our family.
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  Speaker 1: I know, I fully agree, but you know what, whoever
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  Speaker 1: accepts Ocean. We're so grateful. We're so grateful, and you
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  Speaker 1: have full family participation because that's what I do know
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  Speaker 1: that they want. Anyway, moving on, like I said, Ocean
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  Speaker 1: will be in Miami until tomorrow. Oh, very excited to
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  Speaker 1: have her back. I'm not going to allow you. Guys,
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  Speaker 1: it's been absolutely awesome having some free time. Like I
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  Speaker 1: love and adore.
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  Speaker 3: My children, but you also, let me put it this way.
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  Speaker 2: You you do a lot for them, and you like
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  Speaker 2: to make them happy so that you know when she
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  Speaker 2: wants to do things, you do things y So it
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  Speaker 2: was nice.
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  Speaker 3: For you to do things that you wanted to do.
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  Speaker 1: Finally, let me tell you what was the nice pace?
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  Speaker 1: Your brid as goes down at six fifteen, and then
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  Speaker 1: I had that time until I got in bed to
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  Speaker 1: not be mom. Yeah, and like I get it, you're
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  Speaker 1: always mom, but Ocean wakes up with me, goes to
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  Speaker 1: bed with me, like I have no time to just
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  Speaker 1: kind of be alone. Yes, like even when we're recording
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  Speaker 1: the podcast, she's popping in love it. But to say
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  Speaker 1: that I didn't enjoy this weekend in Palm Springs to.
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  Speaker 3: Every other mother, you got to enjoy your time because.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta be the best you and that comes from
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  Speaker 2: doing things you enjoy. Yeah, so you're doing that, and
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  Speaker 2: I like that's the thing you were saying. You were like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm excited to have a couple of days to just
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  Speaker 2: relax without ocean and do you know the bounty houses
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  Speaker 2: and this and that that you always take her to
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  Speaker 2: because you're an amazing mother.
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  Speaker 1: Well thank you.
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  Speaker 3: Of course. I don't even know where I was going
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  Speaker 3: with this because I was.
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  Speaker 1: The downtime and being able to like be the best
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  Speaker 1: mom you can be with that downtime.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Like that's the thing.
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  Speaker 2: It's like you need to get away from your kids
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  Speaker 2: to enjoy because you were so excited in a sense
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  Speaker 2: that you had your downtime.
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  Speaker 3: I remember what I was saying.
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  Speaker 2: As the days went on, you would start to get
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  Speaker 2: a little slouch heer, and you're like, I just miss
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  Speaker 2: her exactly.
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  Speaker 1: You need the day makes the heart girl fonder.
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  Speaker 2: One day you were like, oh, this is the greatest night.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so glad I have an ocean free night. The
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  Speaker 2: next morning you were like, I kind of missed waking
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  Speaker 2: up to her, But the next night.
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  Speaker 3: Was I kind of miss my bug in the back.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, you are falling apart at the scene.
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  Speaker 1: And it was also nice because Ocean is such such
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  Speaker 1: a presence, Like at the very beginning when I was
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  Speaker 1: expecting Sosa, I'm like, Ocean is I need to make
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  Speaker 1: sure that she knows I am still her mom, I'm
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  Speaker 1: still here with her. I'm not going to neglect her.
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  Speaker 1: She's not being replaced. She did not feel that way
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  Speaker 1: at all. On top of she's such a presence that
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  Speaker 1: like I kind of feel like I sometimes neglect so sad.
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  Speaker 1: So it was like very nice to have one on
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  Speaker 1: one time with Sos and just like swim with her
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  Speaker 1: and not have someone hanging on me to the point
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  Speaker 1: where like Sosa made drown with Ocean hanging on my arms,
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  Speaker 1: Like it was just awesome. Back to you saying that
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  Speaker 1: I was falling a part of the scene. So you guys,
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  Speaker 1: we went to Balm Springs, not for coach or for stagecoach.
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  Speaker 1: We just went because we wanted to go to the desert.
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  Speaker 1: We end up one night or night day, Lord knows,
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  Speaker 1: I don't come alive in the nighttime. Anyone who's like
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  Speaker 1: I come alive in the nighttime, I'm like, we will
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  Speaker 1: not connect.
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  Speaker 3: Alive in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: Came yes, So there was one of the day Saturday.
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  Speaker 1: Landon came with us to Palm Springs and he was like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: my friends, your friend Easton is hosting a party. Jesse
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  Speaker 1: Murph is performing, who I love. I became familiar with
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  Speaker 1: her when she came out with this song what's it
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  Speaker 1: called with jelly Roll wild Ones, Yeah, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: this girl, her voice is amazing. Then I looked her up.
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  Speaker 1: She has such a cool vibe. So we go out
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  Speaker 1: because Jesse Murph is performing at this event. It's sponsored
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  Speaker 1: by Sparkling Ice, and I have nothing in my closet
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  Speaker 1: in Palm Springs besides cozy's like there's pajamas and then
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  Speaker 1: like pajamas you can wear out and that's how I like.
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  Speaker 1: I have zero makeup there, only skincare. Usually when I'm there,
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  Speaker 1: I cake my hair with like castor oil and rosemary
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  Speaker 1: oil to like get it growing. It's just my time
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  Speaker 1: to like even more of a bum than I am
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  Speaker 1: right now. So we get invited and I'm like, all right,
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  Speaker 1: I have nothing to wear, and I'm funny about borrowing
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  Speaker 1: clothing because Erica Sheena's mom was like, you you went
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  Speaker 1: to that event and you're saying you had nothing to wear,
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  Speaker 1: you could you can always borrow from Shena And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I know that, and I never do. And I think
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  Speaker 1: it's because I'm just weird like taking other people.
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  Speaker 3: Do you like when people borrow from you? No?
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  Speaker 1: I hate it. That's why don't even ask me.
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  Speaker 2: I am in the same boat. I will never ask
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  Speaker 2: people to borrow something because I do not want people
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  Speaker 2: asking me to borrow something.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, for there was one friend of mine who
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  Speaker 1: like continue to ask if she could borrow jeans, and
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  Speaker 1: I kept putting it off, and finally I was like,
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  Speaker 1: the reason I'm putting it off is because I have
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  Speaker 1: to be honest. I do not share clothing.
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  Speaker 2: If anything, I just go out and buy like another
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  Speaker 2: pair of jeans and be like, yeah, you can borrow.
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  Speaker 1: Well, it's an album and by all means share if
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  Speaker 1: you want to. But it's like, I'm thirty five fucking
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  Speaker 1: years old, Like, please don't ask me to borrow my clothes.
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  Speaker 1: Please don't ask if you can come over and get
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  Speaker 1: ready with me, like I am a grown woman. We
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  Speaker 1: get ready separately. I will meet you at the place
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  Speaker 1: you wear your clothes. I will wear mine and if
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  Speaker 1: I need something, I will go out and buy it.
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  Speaker 3: But that's me and you.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, there's a lot of people that I do know
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  Speaker 2: that would be more than ecstatic to pack the bag
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  Speaker 2: that they're going to get ready in, throw everything in it,
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  Speaker 2: and then go and get ready with their friends. Thirty
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  Speaker 2: two thirty four, I'm in your boat. I like to
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  Speaker 2: watch my little TV show. I like to get ready alone.
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  Speaker 2: I like to do the things that I do just.
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  Speaker 3: Alone while I'm getting ready, and once I'm ready, I'm
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  Speaker 3: good to be out. By the way, I want to
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  Speaker 3: get ready with anybody.
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  Speaker 1: No. When we're on VAK, though, let's just say we're
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  Speaker 1: in a hotel room that's a siege. You have your
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  Speaker 1: room and I have mine. By all means, pop in
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: energy is different, so different. But when we are all
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  Speaker 1: at home in Los Angeles, stay at your own house
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  Speaker 1: to get ready, stay there right, Sorry, So we go
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  Speaker 1: to this party, I am literally you guys, in gene
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  Speaker 1: shorts a bikini top. It was so windy and a
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  Speaker 1: little cold, so I wore like this Russian looking fur hat,
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  Speaker 1: and to be quite honest, I looked like one of
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  Speaker 1: the girls in the mauriceo Umanski photo where he's an
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  Speaker 1: Aspen and they're all in bikini tops oh boots. The
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  Speaker 1: only difference was I wasn't in the snow. I was
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  Speaker 1: in the desert. But either way awkward, like I'm in
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  Speaker 1: the desert with the snow bunny hat. That photo of
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  Speaker 1: Mo they were in bikinis, so like we both it
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  Speaker 1: was like the same photos.
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  Speaker 3: In the middle.
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  Speaker 1: I felt like, wow, I look like one of those
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  Speaker 1: girls right now, I will say, though no one else
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  Speaker 1: had one of my hats on.
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  Speaker 3: No, yeah, they all had a cowboy hats. Cool.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because the heat as well, how you weren't sweating
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  Speaker 2: down your back and down your forehead.
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  Speaker 1: My head was fine. It was mostly the leather jacket
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  Speaker 1: that I was like, I have to get it, like
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  Speaker 1: I'm baking to death. I had the best time from there.
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  Speaker 1: Keep in mind, we left the house at one thirty,
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  Speaker 1: y'all we probably stay.
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  Speaker 3: For so keep that in mind.
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  Speaker 1: Right. So we got there like two two fifteen. We
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: watch Jesse Murph kill It, hang out, drink some sparkling ice.
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  Speaker 1: There's one guy who I think is like pretty cute.
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  Speaker 1: I talk to him. He has this like little bottle
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  Speaker 1: in his hand. It almost like bottle, but no label
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  Speaker 1: on it, and I was me being like a nine
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: year old woman. I was like, so tell me about this.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: You do you have allergies? So I was like, no,
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: it's coke. Do you want some? And I was like, no, thanks,
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  Speaker 1: I'm fucking good and he was like, are you judging me?
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: I go yeah, heavily, heavily. I look at Land and
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: I was like, that guy was hot until I found
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  Speaker 1: out that he's on cocaine. And he goes, yeah, well
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: that's life. I go, it ain't my life. I'm out
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: in these streets doing the same thing this person is doing.
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  Speaker 1: Sober as it gets I literally I literally provide everything
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  Speaker 1: except cook and and this. These are my options. Like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a fucking great.
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  Speaker 2: A catch, to be honest, You're not gonna find your your.
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  Speaker 1: Man at a pre event to two pm?
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  Speaker 3: No, what are they all getting ready to go? Do?
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: Well? I was there.
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  Speaker 3: I was there.
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  Speaker 2: I know all of the people there, though, are going
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  Speaker 2: to now go to stagecoach A lot of those people.
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  Speaker 1: I did all of that last year. I've done that
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  Speaker 1: multiple times, and I'm it's fun. Certainly not doing.
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  Speaker 3: Drugs, well, they are, and most people are. I saw
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  Speaker 3: girls doing ecstasy at the fucking party.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: Can I get your phone number? The jaw thing. I
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: think it's very important to I am sober from alcohol
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: because I never did drugs unless it was from the
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: earth the mushrooms once and I smoked a little bit
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: of weed, but like, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: What is that one?
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  Speaker 1: I think that's I think it's ecstasy or mall where you.
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  Speaker 3: Thought that was like heroin or something?
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  Speaker 1: Oh god, alright, let's get on this topic. Anyway, it
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: was a buzzkill. And if you tell me that that's
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: not where where does one meet someone? Then like, I'm
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: not out here like trying to meet someone. When I
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: go out, there's no intention of maybe I'll meet someone.
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: But if it were to happen, it's like, truly, I
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: just should get it out of my mind because if
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: you go to.
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: A bar, well that's what I'm about to say.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: Coachella and stage Coach is meeting a guy at a
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: bar on steroids.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, I don't entirely get that.
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: Like I've never met anybody who was like.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we met at stage Coach, we met at Coachella.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: Name one one couple that you have ever.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: Met brock at Shina met at a music festival.
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: Not Coachella.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: They're all the same. I think they met at like
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: EDC or something.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: That's even crazier. Yeah, that's twenty times Coachella.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: That is drug infested and who the fact that they
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: even knew each other after they left hats off?
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and literally six months later had a baby. Hats
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: off and they're out in these streets still.
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: They were at Stage Coach this week, you guys.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: She Erica came over and they were all three days.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: Last night or no, sorry, not on Saturday night or
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: Sunday night.
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: No Saturday night.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: No, well, yeah, Saturday night, she went to a party
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: that started at eleven. She probably got there around midnight.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: She rolled in at four thirty am on Sunday, woke
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: up with still a mom. Summer Moon goes with Erica
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: back home. Shina goes to Backstreet Boys that starts at
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: eleven Sunday night. They drove back at five am and
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: still made it to that thing that I went to
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: today to learn about applying for.
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: Public and I need a nap just hearing the story.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: I go, are you exhausted? She goes yeah.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: I was like, God, what is she going to go?
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: Is she going to just go to sleep?
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: I said, I really hope that you guys didn't plan
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: anything today so that you can like tomorrow, because by
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: the way, that one thirty pickup for these kids, that
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: comes real quick. So that's what they're gonna do. From
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: the event that we went to, we went to the
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: Crocs set up. We got ourselves crocs. I have never
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: owned a pair. We got gig some te t got
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: a new pair. These things are great a footwear. I'm addicted.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I was getting judged for my black crocs and you
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: guys were like, you can't wear the crocs and it's like, you.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Know, because then you wear them everywhere. You try to
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: wear them to like pull a lounge, and I'm like, you,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: the crocs gotta come off all right.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: Who doesn't want to have them breathing at the lounge?
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Which is so funny that you say that because you
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: have socks on.
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but the wind still gets through the color.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: That's true. But I like rolled up to the parent
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: thing in my crocs and they're so chic and cue
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: and I love the fact that they're going to be
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: easy to wash. So that's what we did and we
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: were home by five point thirty to make trusted salmon,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: rice and asparagus. Home in time to put my baby down,
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: home in time to watch not one, but two twenty twenties.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: It was like the most perfect trip. The next day Sunday,
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: we laid by the pool all day and it was
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: like a fantastic trip. That's my type of vibe. I
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: would have liked to get to the text of all.
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: I like a day club, Like it's a day event.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: I come alive in the daytime. Even when I was
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: a drinker, I enjoyed the.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Day drinking, but I liked getting home and then eating
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: and passing out.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty much excellent. And while I was watching twenty
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: twenty getting home at five point thirty, this thing pops
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: up on my phone and I don't do you know
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: who Jack Doherty is?
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I know he's.
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: The biggest Yeah, some of the videos I've seen I
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: not made me the biggest fan of him.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: He is such a little tool.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: And what's sad is like the girl. I don't know
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: if it's his girl very rich though.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but his girlfriend or whomever she is, she's beautiful.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: It's Megan Fox's cousin that Wow, she's got like the
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: blonde streaks right here. She's always in Jack Dorty's like videos.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: I don't know if they're dating.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: Or if it's like, but she's hot.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: She's a battie.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Yes, hit me up, but.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: She's not gonna hit you up. She's with a short
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: stack who's worth a lot of money. And sometimes they're like,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: you know what, I want him to be able to
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: buy one hundred thousand dollars of jewelry for me, because
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: he was robbed of three hundred k okay so in
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: jewelry on Rodeo drive.
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: I get it, I see it. I don't believe it.
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: I think it was staged. Yeah, look at his so.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's not a mark on him.
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: You guys got a mark on him. And look at
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: his wrists.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: He has a five hundred thousand dollars watch and you're
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: not gonna fucking take that piece.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: Get out of here.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: No, they said, they that they did take his watch.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: He had only his chains, and he even while he's
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: talking to like the police, it's baby, it's all he said.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: They tried to take his watch and luckily he was
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: able to fight them up. Not a mark on.
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: Your chains, Get the fuck off of me.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: He said that he didn't know that they had them.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: How I fully agree with you.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: Now they know when somebody like touches my dreadlock that
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: has no nerves, get the fuck out of here.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: No scratch the forward.
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: Sorry no, Like that's the thing. That's why he's been
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: kicked off of so many streaming things.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: He just that's why he started his own with another
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: brand to also put out. And this is what they
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: called it, very hateful content. Yeah, so these two started
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: doing stuff called party or something, let's not even give
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: it a fucking name. Wow, he's really upset. I think
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: he's upset at Jack Dorty for banging a hot bitch right.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: No, No, I'm upset the way he just like treats people.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: His videos are always just like disrespectful, Like this is
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: like another stunt he's trying to pull to get people
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: to follow him. Look at us talking about him getting
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: robbed for three hundred K when he probably had fake
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: chains on, had people do it because he has security
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: at all.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: Shirt off.
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: They roped that too, probably.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Because the first clips he had his shirt on and
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: then his T shirt has suddenly gone. He's like walking around.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: With his five hundred thousand dollars watch on that they
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: wouldn't have taken it all.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: Looking all petite but wanting to be look at all
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: five six.
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: What did they call it? Clip farming? Yeah, like it'd
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: have been one of those instances.
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I know that's what you're saying. But his security
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: guard I saw because he put a video up with
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: security guard kind of explaining what happened. And he goes,
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: we get out of the car. I see the guys
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: walk up, you know, I go, security guard goes up
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: to him or so the guys trying to rob Jack,
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: but then he sees him pull out the gun and
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: then that's when he backs off and then they go
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: and I guess did their thing and they should have
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: been like they would have taken every would they would.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: Have taken everything they You would have lost.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: You lose, you lose, and I promise you that you Yeah.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: They is. And by the way, if someone yanks something
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: off of your neck, they're going to be marks you're
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: not getting.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Well, a three hundred thousand dollars chain doesn't just rip
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: those things clamp then have the pieces that do it.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: Like it doesn't make any sense.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: No, you can't just yank that off. And if you did,
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: like you said he would have red marks. I think
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: it was clickbait. He's trying to have people like we
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: are right now speaking about him.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: Well, I thoroughly enjoy talking about the small douche. It's
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: like literally my most.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: You know, he almost could sell himself at Walmart as
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: a small douche.
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: Every woman could use him.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: Get down there and do your job, little door, get
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: down there. You He had like a and he has
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: like that hair that you see in like small and
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: this is nothing against small towns, but I lived in Utah,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: not a small town, but a smaller city, and they
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: all have that haircut. Like the little jock who's like
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: a running back on the football team. He like plays
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: varsity and he's like so small, but he's got like
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: big dick, big dick energy because his shoulder or he's
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: in because he's in high school and like runs fast.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: But they all have that haircut where it's like, oh no,
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: when you leave this school, reality is gonna smack you
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: so hard. Thank god he got rich. Anyway, I don't
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: believe it either.
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah he's only twenty one. Yeah, no, good for him, babe. Yeah,
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: I just couldn't. Like that's the thing.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: If you were to say, you could be Jack Doherty
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: or Easton Birmingham. Yeah, I would pick me every day
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: because I couldn't be hated like that. Man. The money
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: is not worth going outside and people looking at you
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: and going you're a fucking douche. Yeah, I get it,
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: and even people like That's the other thing why he
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: gets in so much trouble is because he's such a douche.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Other people will see him out recording and they'll walk
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: up on him and be like, hey, douchebag, and he's like, yeah,
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: your attention, you give me some views, give my little
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: f fi.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: Oh my god. Yeah, he's a douche.
• 25:52
  Speaker 4: I will say though on this, if he really did
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: get robbed, and if it was out in public, whoever
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: has that security camp video.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: It's gonna make some money is you don't get robbed
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: on Rodeo drive and it?
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: No, are you joking?
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: Not at all? Not only that, think of every other
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: person recording cars down it.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, there's something they're gonna be like, oh my god,
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: oh it should have been on videos.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Are we talking about the the uh? This could be
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: the cancelation of Doherty. Actually probably not, because it sounds
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: like he was he crashed like the whole thing of him.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: The biggest thing that people were talking about was he
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: crashed a McLaren on a live stream because he was distracted.
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, what an idiot.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: He just sounds like a nightmare. I'm almost positive his
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: hot girlfriend has to be absolutely obliterated that.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: The one video that I will say that I truly
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: hated him off of was he was at dinner with
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: his mom and dad and I think like his sister
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: or something, and somebody's filming him and they're like donating,
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: and he goes, so I'm paying again.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Uh yeah, you got three hundred thousand dollars. Watch on
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: your wrist.
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: Of course you're like, how's great to pay for your
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: family who've done so much for you.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: EW hate him. Moving on, I read this, I chuckled.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: Young student gets suspended because he told the teacher her
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: breath smells like shit. It's like a little kid, tiny,
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: How do you have been like six?
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: I mean, I can't. You can't expel for honesty.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: He was fully suspended. But this is where I go back. No,
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: but this is where I got go back to. It's
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: not what you say, it's how you say it. Like
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: you're doing that teacher, like that is a productive thing
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: to tell somebody that, like your breath does not smell good,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: you need to do something about this. I was thinking
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: about this the other day, So, Ocean, all kids are
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: like they have no filter. Right. For example, we were
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: in uh, we were in Las Vegas and there was
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: a larger man and Ocean said, look at how big
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: that man is. That man is so big? Mom, and
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: she like really sees men, let alone like big men.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: And I had to tell her, like, that's not okay to.
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: Say you keep it to yourself.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: You keep that to yourself. Then there are situations where
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: I feel like in the school dynamic, when kids are
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: interacting with each other and they're not being nice, are
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: we kind of perpetuating this whole learning how to talk
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: behind someone's back type thing because we're telling our kids like,
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: you cannot say that, but if they want to get
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: it off their chest, they're just going to say it
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: to someone else. So I'm trying to teach Ocean that
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: it's all if you feel a certain way, you should
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: say it to someone's face, but we have to learn
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: how to say it in a productive way.
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: Wow, you really just opened a huge door that's so true.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: I never even thought about it.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: If if you don't have something nice to say, don't
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: say anything at all. And it's like, I get that,
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: but sometimes there's some mean things that I need to
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: tell you. That it's honesty, right, And if it's honesty,
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: why is that looked at or frowned upon?
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: Why do I look bad being honest and telling you something.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: It's like honesty has been put on a back burner
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: and we don't care.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: About it, no, because usually honesty is very hurtful. And
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm not too proud to say I talk
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: behind people's backs all the time. I'm a gossiper.
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: We all do.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: We all are.
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: If you and if you say you don't.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: By the way, I do know people who don't, though,
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: who literally keep their mouth shut their facial expressions has everything.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: But those aren't worth That's enough, No, And I'm like, wow,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: what an incredible characteristic to have of like not gossiping
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: or talking behind someone's back. But as a mother, you
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: always hope that your child does better than you will do.
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: So I'm trying to figure out a way to implement
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: that with Ocean. If so and so bugged you at
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: school today, instead of like going to a friend and
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: talking behind their back. I haven't had these conversations with her.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: She's four.
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but reach out to them and tell them why, like, hey, I.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: Don't really want to play right now because I'm doing this,
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: but maybe we can figure something else out later. Because
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: Ocean is a truth teller. Yeah, I told you. The
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: school called me, or actually I called the school and
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: inquired about something I was concerned about, and they were like,
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: Ocean is good. Like she's logical. There's a kid in
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: school who thinks he's Batman and she lets him know
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: you're not Batman. Your name is blank. And he's like, no,
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: I'm Batman and she goes, no, you're pretending to be Batman,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: but you're not Batman.
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: Very logical.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm like, oh, bursting bubbles at the ripe
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: old age of four. Love it.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: She's going to be a tornado of just putting you
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: in your place.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: I would have said, thank you so much for telling me,
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: but this is how you would say that in the future.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: A teacher, wow, eye opening, teach them whoa speaking of shit.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Southwest Airlines passenger allegedly stripped naked and pooped on a
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: seat as the plane landed.
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: But why the plane landed, It doesn't matter.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: Who didn't get out of his seat to poop.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: I think it was a woman. She listen, she got
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: naked before doing it, and she didn't poop her pants.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: She pooped on the seat trigger warning.
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: To be next to her.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: Now, you know what, All the airlines are taking a
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: beating right now, like every other day. It's like plane
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: burst into flames, plane crashes, passenger poops on plane, it's
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: like the plane. The amount of anxiety that I had
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: putting Ocean on a plane, I called my ex. I
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: was like, you must let me know the moment you
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: are on the plane, if you have Wi Fi in
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: the air, send me messages there letting me know everything's
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: fine and when you land, because I need to know
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: this because I'm terrified. But Southwest that our teams are
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: reaching out to those on board to apologize for the
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: situation and any delay to their travel plans. Nothing is
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: more important to Southwest than the safety of our customers
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: and employees, and we appreciate the professionalism of our flight crew.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. If I were sitting next
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: to the person who stripped down and pooped next to me.
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: I'm not kidding. You assaulted the seat, I'm assaulting you.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: Well, she kind of assaulted everybody, Yeah, I mean did
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: she get charged with anything?
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: I mean, the public nudity is going to be one
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: and then that public urination or.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: Well they're probably going to have to register as a
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: sex offender. You can't expose yourself.
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: Like literally probably kids on that plane.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I know that in some states, if you were to
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: like pull off the side of the road and because
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: you have to use the bathroom and a cop.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: Rolls up on you, you can give you a ticket.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: You will get a ticket, and there is a chance that,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: like it turns out that you now have to register
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: a Saints when you were simply just like I have
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: to wait. I wonder if that's the case, if anyone
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: got caught doing that during Coachella, sitting outside in that line,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: or if they were like, we gotta let it slide.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: This is taking way too long, you know. Yeah, you
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: know what you guys, recommendation the next time anyone goes
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: to Coachella and is camping, maybe bring depends the amount
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: of times the ocean has had to go to the
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: bathroom on a flight, and she just chooses the most
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: horrendous time to be Like, I got it to the
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: bathroom and I have to put one of Sosa's diapers
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: on her, Like you guys should do that as adults.
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out, well, Sonia Morgan recommend.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: Or how we can create a traveling toilet. Yeah, I
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: think like literally, it just opens you just like on
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: the side of the road, pooping it, bagging it gone.
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: It's like a little I gotta look at it. You
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: should have.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Sounds like a million dollar idea. You can call it
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: the toilet, the Coachella toilet. In uh sadder news, Dreet
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: filed for divorce. How freakin' wildt about it? I know
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: if you guys can hear her, they're making bubs and
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: And it came one day after p K was seen
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: kissing an amazing race contestant, her name Shanna Wall So
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: they were in BH. To me, looking at the photo,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: it looked a little bit staged. I just think if
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: you're trying to hide something you were not kissing in public, especially.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: For so long that they're like at this point, we
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: don't care.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: The positioning seemed like they weren't. Yeah, to me, it
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: seemed like something that was set up.
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: A little Jack Doherty.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: It didn't seem like Mauricio at the airport in another country.
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: It seemed to me like it was orchestrated and designed
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: to possibly hurt and maybe get the ball moving again.
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: We didn't want a file, so he put the ball
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: in her court to make her file.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Well. In the bonus episode, I've come up with like
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: a few questions for you guys that I hope you
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: all participated in because I want to hear your thoughts
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: and will kind of deep dive into like that category
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: of I mean again, they we don't know the conversations
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: that they were having behind closed doors. But I and
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: I've never been in a relationship for ten plus years.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: I've never signed on the dotted line that you and
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: I are now partners and were married and the stakes
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: are much higher. I don't know that I if things
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: got rocky, and again I'm coming from a place of hypothetics.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: I feel if we're to the point where we both
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: want to move out and entertain the idea of dating
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: and seeing other people, even if we haven't, even if
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: we haven't actually gone out and met other people. But
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: someone asked, like Andy Cohen. Are you dating? No, but
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: I'm open to it. Marriage is over, there needs to
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: be no separation period. You've moved out of the house.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: We're clearly done. Like I'm gonna pull the trigger kind
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: of girl. Yeah, I don't need to sit on anything.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: I know what I want, which has actually gotten me
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: in a lot of hot water in the past where
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I should not have done that. But what
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I think I would do if I were in a
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: relationship for that many years and we had decided to
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: kind of move on and there was just an open
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: an openness to dating. We're done. You file all file.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: I don't really care, just like, let's move on with
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: our lives. Let's make this quick. Yeah yeah, and I
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: mean divorces. And this is for people who are just normal.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Maybe they have the same amount of money. There's like
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: nothing to be disputed, chopped up, divided. It takes a
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: minimum of six months for someone for a judge to
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: sign off and relieve you from the marriage. So let's
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: get it going, don't you agree?
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, she should have listened to what's her name? Who?
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: She Erica? She probably did. I'm sure she did. I'm
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: sure that she was.
• 37:32
  Speaker 3: When they were at she had it, she goes lawyer up.
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: I wonder after that done.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I wonder if after that she did retain counsel. Because
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: what's wild is custody. Strictly custody is always protected. You
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: cannot deep dive into it. However, when you go in
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: and there's disillusion of a marriage but there's kids involved,
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: all of that kind of gets clumb into one and
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: it's now public record, Like what they're asking for is
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: far it like you have to be very, very particular,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: So that has not been spoken about. We do know
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: that she put in reconcilable differences, which is just like
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: we can't make it work. We can't figure it out.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Nothing happened, but it is sad. I think at the
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: beginning I thought Kyle and Mo would work it out.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: For some reason, I didn't feel like DEII and PK
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: could work. No.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: I feel like just watching p K, at least with Mauricio,
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: there's like energy and still somewhat of a personality between
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: him and Kyle, and with PK and Deured, I feel
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: like PK.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: Is just like very He was a matter of fact,
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: he was like, we're not going to talk as much
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: as we normally do, and then it seemed like they
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: just couldn't, for the life of them, get on the
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: same page. Whereas Moe and Kyle, it felt like there's
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: still so much love here, at least on her end,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: and he at least was giving her the time of
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: day to release what she was feeling. But again, I
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: don't feel like he gave much either. I feel like
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: it was more done on his end.
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: Than Yeah, I'm just saying from the looks of it,
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: Mauricio gave a least a creak.
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: Of a door open that something in her mind could.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Happen right until he was seen with others.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's the thing. But with PK, he's pretty
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: much just it's kind of an asshole.
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: Now, PK, Yeah, he was really nice when I saw
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: him that.
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: At I'm just saying on the on the on the show,
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: but how.
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: You know, how done is he with it?
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: You know you're not really getting that person on the
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: show outside of the show, no, you know.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: I want to give a positive update. Teddy Mellencamp, there's
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: an update on her stage four cancer. She said the
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: cancer has shrunk or disape so I have sixsh more
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: weeks of immunotherapy and doctors believe I will be healed
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: if everything stays on course. Thank you to everyone who
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: has sent their love, prayers and positivity. Honestly, the crying
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: is already done. But I just finished with all of
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: my scans and my tumors have significantly shrunk, which doctors
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: believe means that this is this all will work and
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: that I will be back to myself and feeling good.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: I'm thrilled I hear this.
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: I mean for anybody. I mean, we all know somebody
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: who has battled cancer. Everybody knows somebody, and for the
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: stage she was at for her to come out of it,
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: and I do believe it's the Bravo community and everybody.
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: Else her feeling so supportive.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like that, It's crazy what your mental can do. Yeah,
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: when you're feeling the support and love. And I do
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: believe she got six more weeks and we're going to
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: be behind her for sixty more years.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: I love that team.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: I'm very happy, amazing woman. And you know, I even said.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and people trolled her so hard, and I just
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: always remember thinking, like it's so just crazy what the
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: outside world takes in and decides not to like about
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: someone that they literally don't even know at all, because
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: she's always been like such an amazing She's always been
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: so kind to me. She's always extended like when I
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: had Ocean and you know, her little friend community was
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: very small, she always extended invites to go places. And
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: the way she tuned her very warm.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: The way she treated like everyone at Bravocon was enough
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: for me, treated me like I was somebody, which you know,
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: I'm just a brother, but like she made.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: Me ever say, I'm just the brother, hold down the
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: second fort every single day, thank you.
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: But no, like she made me feel very like comfortable.
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: And not only me, there were like the people in
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: security and she was asking them how.
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: They are, how the event? Has there been problems?
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: And just like that just says a lot about you
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: because you're already dealing with I gotta go to this
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: and talk. I gotta go to this, and you're thinking
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: about everyone else. And I'm sorry to say, not anyone
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: else that I really did see and brought like the
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: Bravo did that. Yeah, she was very a couple, but
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: like she really took the cake with me. And then also, uh,
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: what's her name's mom?
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: Uh, Margaret's March Senior.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she was the best as well.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: March Senior Tis Tis.
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: In the car with her and she was a blast.
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: They're all Marge also, they were those Yeah they're in
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: the same boat.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: But yeah, we're going to stick to the Bravo community.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: Craig Conivore has a new girlfriend and I just learned this,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: and is Craig on Southern Craig's on Southern Charm. He
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: was dating Page Disorbo, who's like a fashionista as she's
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: a part of a podcast. She hosted the Red Carpet
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: with her friend Vanity Fair. Very pretty. She's on Summer House.
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: But I just wanted to take this opportunity to express
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: my just jaw to the floor. It is so crazy
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: to me, you guys, that the people who sit there
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: and talk about how blindsided they were about their breakup
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: and they're devastated and we were gonna get married and
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: spend our life together, they move on so quickly. I'm like,
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: how can anyone believe that you were devastated or had
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: your heart involved when you moved on so fast?
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: Well, then you also kind of fuck up the person
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: that you broke up with or were just in a relationship.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: Because now if I was dating a girl, and she
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: was in that boat, and then she was in a relationship.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: I would be thinking was she talking to people that
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: whole time, because there's no way you could find this
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: connection this quick without talking for this long.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: So were you cheating on me? And now I'm thinking
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: what did I do? And now I'm fucked up on
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: my next relationship.
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: She doesn't seem to be that concerned. She said she's
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: very happy for him. I think it is totally fair
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: for her to say, I'm a different person than I
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: was when I started dating him. Things that I thought
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: I wanted I don't necessarily want right now. Like I
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: talked about wanting X, Y and Z by the time
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: I was this age. I'm now this age, and I've
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: decided that I would rather focus on my career. And
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: I'm having a really nice time, and you know, I'm
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: going to cut you loose and go do the things
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: you want. She's also said in the past that he's
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: a liar, but no one, neither of them, have come
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: out and said like this person cheated. There was always
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: speculation of it. Again, she said she's happy that's friend.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: She may have not cheated on him, but like you're
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: giving attention to other guys, and to me.
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: That's cheating.
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: But we don't know that she was giving attention to
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: other guys.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: No, I'm saying for him, he was the one who
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: broke up, right or oh, she's in a relationship.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: She broke up with him.
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: He's in a relationship.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: He had bought a ring for her, he was ready
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: to move to New York.
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: So that's where I'm saying.
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: And he has moved on and in.
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: A relationship, so she all of that. That's where I'm saying.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: She sorry, she could be in the boat of like,
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: was he talking to other women? Because the connection that
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: they have is too it's too strong for the time
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: that they've had. So you must have been talking to
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: this girl. I don't even kiss her, cheat or.
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: Do anything, but the attention that you gave you.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: Guys built a relationship that has now been strong enough
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: that you guys are now dating this soon.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: I don't think she's even going there. I think she's
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: so disconnected from it and okay that it's over that
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: I think if she was thinking and putting herself into
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: the situation at all, you know, maybe he was, wasn't
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: I But that's what I'm saying get cheated on or
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: have a breakup. It's the people most of the part
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: who I see are like so angry about it and
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: like I thought we were all good, like I bought
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: a ring, or like I can't believe that they cheated.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: And then it's like you get a boyfriend, you know,
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: a month later, or a girlfriend a month later. How
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: can anyone sit here and be like, good for them,
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: I'm glad they've moved on. From all I go into
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: like how unhealthy is this person that you could be
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: planning your life with someone and move on?
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: So funny?
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: Who are these people that are taking on somebody who
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: just got out of a relationship. You'd be surprised if
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: somebody was like I was just in a relationship four
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: months ago. I'd be like, oh wait, yes, Like so
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: I'm waiting. I'd be like, oh so you're waiting. No,
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: I'm looking out. I'd be like, no, you should wait.
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: I'm just I disconnect.
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: Myself from her so quick because it's only going downhill.
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, or I mean vice versa, you know, yeah,
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: him or her, whatever boat you're in. Just I could
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: never date somebody that is under a year of a
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: relationship because you haven't even figured out who you are.
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: And I know that.
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: Because I hadn't figured out who I was.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I just think society chooses to celebrate the strangest things
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: on the planet.
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, clickbait. We all love clickbait.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: It's not even about it's not even about the clickbait.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: It's like the number one question when someone breaks up is, well,
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: are you dating? I hope you're getting some and it's
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: like and then when you say, like, no, I'm not
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: dating or and it's not just with me. I've personally
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: dealt with it, but I've seen it so much even
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: before I was in the situation that I'm in where
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: and now I just I have a little bit of
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: a magnifying glass on it and take it a little
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: bit personally because it's my experience now. But they almost
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: look at you like they're bored, or they feel sad
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: for you, like they're so pity.
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: There's also everything that I've seen on so are you dating?
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: They all answering you too.
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: I'm not dating. You gotta go. Well, let me tell
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: you this.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: I can't tell you how great it is to finally
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: be alone and find myself For the next person I
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: get to meet.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: You know what, that's actually really good.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: Everybody is getting set up and they're going, no, I'm
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: not dating, and now right then you're kind of pushed
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: against a wall, like if you can control that and
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: say no instead of the note, let me tell you
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: I'm alone, working on myself and I couldn't be happier
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: and I can't wait to meet the next person I
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: get to share this with.
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: Boom done, you're not dating, You're still looking.
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: You're so right.
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: I'm going to approach it to.
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: Because everybody, even on the watch What Happens Live everything
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: that I always watch, are you dating?
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: Everybody goes not dating?
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: And now you're up against the ropes oh the conversation
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: and say I'm not I don't want to date, right,
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: That's why I'm.
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: Not okay, So rephrase it and still get like, give
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: a good answer while still getting for you dating.
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: Let me tell you.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: I love that. Take Easton definitely look into pr It's
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: like here, call me, We'll get you your flowers on
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: top of getting you a good clickbait moment. I love
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: leaving it on this because this is the perfect segue
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: into what our bonus is focusing on. You guys, Thank
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: you so much for listening to another episode of the
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: Give Them Lama podcast. We will catch you on Monday
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: for the bonus and again next week. Bye bye,