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COUPLES THERAPY: Johnjay and Blake's BIG reveal · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Okay, so welcome to our podcast. This is a little
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  Speaker 1: bit different today because this podcast is a spin off
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  Speaker 1: of our radio check. So it's my turn to do
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  Speaker 1: the couple's podcast. We rotate it with everybody on the show.
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  Speaker 1: And what's cool about our couple's podcasts is that ours
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  Speaker 1: is on video too. And I have a bunch of
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  Speaker 1: questions people ask. But first, I was your day.
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  Speaker 2: My day was great.
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  Speaker 1: Tell me about your day.
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  Speaker 2: I spent time with our son, we walked dogs, we
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  Speaker 2: went to the vet, came home, zero Rez was cleaning
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  Speaker 2: up our house, and then Love Pup Plus meeting, and
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  Speaker 2: then I ran off to get my face done.
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  Speaker 1: And then here when you say you got your face,
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  Speaker 1: then do you want to talk about that? What is?
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  Speaker 2: I just go and get a micro ge, get a
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  Speaker 2: Derma plane and then they do like a little facial
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  Speaker 2: and clean up.
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  Speaker 1: Looks fresh. You like your hair too?
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  Speaker 2: Stay my age so I look young hopefully.
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  Speaker 1: Then you look great. I went to the radio station
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  Speaker 1: today before the podcast because there are always people at
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  Speaker 1: our house, yes, right, And if I would have been
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  Speaker 1: home today at twelve forty five till now, they would
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  Speaker 1: have been people at our house. Right.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, I think they may've been wrapping it up about that, right,
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  Speaker 2: But I would have been home as they were there
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  Speaker 2: early today because Zaro Ras was coming.
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  Speaker 1: So you think they're gone, well I can look at
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  Speaker 1: the camera. You think they're gone right now?
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  Speaker 2: At this time, I think they should be gone.
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  Speaker 1: See, that's one of the reason I went to the
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  Speaker 1: radio station. It's funny is I went to the radio
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  Speaker 1: station to get shit done. Yeah, and I go interrupted
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  Speaker 1: at the radio stick.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that picture of you and Pretzel is the cutest
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  Speaker 2: thing in the whole world. Why is that dog not adopted?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. He was doing great.
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  Speaker 2: So, yeah, she's a Doberman. She doesn't have her ears docked.
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  Speaker 2: They're floppy.
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  Speaker 1: She's real friend everyone. I mean, there was a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people in the radio station came in through her
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  Speaker 1: making as a video for a Love Pup family fest,
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  Speaker 1: and everyone was playing with her and she was just great.
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  Speaker 1: She was great. We put her, We made a video
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  Speaker 1: of her in the studio with headphones on and stuff.
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  Speaker 1: Hopefully that'll be pretty funny. But yeah, that's her.
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  Speaker 2: Family's so sweet. I mean, I know she doesn't like
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  Speaker 2: other dogs, so she needs to be an only dog.
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  Speaker 2: But that's okay.
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  Speaker 1: She doesn't like other dogs. She seems so nice.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she's darling.
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  Speaker 1: Should I go over some of these questions from our audience, Blake.
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  Speaker 2: Pannette, and then tell me about your day, How is
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  Speaker 2: your show? How is your mourning?
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  Speaker 1: You know, you know what's funny? Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: So we had a couple of technical difficulties studys, so
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  Speaker 1: we're giving away Disney tickets and and I'll give some.
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  Speaker 1: I'll give some behind the scenes, but it's really not
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  Speaker 1: behind the scenes because it happened all on the radio.
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  Speaker 1: We got this new studio built, right, we're still ironing
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  Speaker 1: out things. Things work someday, some days they don't work.
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  Speaker 1: And today we're giving away this trip to Disneyland. At
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  Speaker 1: seven twenty we take Collor one oh four. We come
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  Speaker 1: in the morning, we do the show. It's time to
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  Speaker 1: take Color one oh four. And we picked the winner
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  Speaker 1: up and she can't hear us, so she doesn't hear
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  Speaker 1: me say John Jay Rich can help you. And also
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  Speaker 1: here hello Hello. I'm like, hey, Hello, what's your name?
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  Speaker 1: Who's this Hello? Hello? Hello? And we're live on the radio,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like hello, and then she just hangs up, like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my god, did she hang up. Was that a
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  Speaker 1: problem with us? We've had so many problems. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if it's with us or with them. So then
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  Speaker 1: Nick's like, well, you got to take the next caller,
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  Speaker 1: car one oh five, Right, it's got to be the
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  Speaker 1: next one. We take call one five? Hi John, Jay
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  Speaker 1: and Rich who's this? Hello? Hello?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god?
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  Speaker 1: Hello? And I go, I grab the phone and I
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  Speaker 1: pick it up manually. So now, no matter what, you
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  Speaker 1: can't hear, I go, I pick up my hello, go hey,
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  Speaker 1: well what's your name? And I go to to hit
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  Speaker 1: a button and I disconnect her. So now that's my fault,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh no, and this is all live
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  Speaker 1: on air. So I go to the next caller and
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, John J. Ridge, Hello, And so
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  Speaker 1: now I know our phones aren't working. They can't hear us.
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  Speaker 1: So I pick up the next caller and I talked
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  Speaker 1: to Her name is Loose and she was the winner,
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  Speaker 1: and she was great, she had a good personality, and
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  Speaker 1: I just did the whole Hey, do you know three
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  Speaker 1: of the magic words? Only only I could hear it,
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  Speaker 1: so you could hear me. And then we got into
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  Speaker 1: this necklace on the air after she won the trip,
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  Speaker 1: and I started telling everybody this necklace because we were
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  Speaker 1: things were working, so I just kept improvising, telling the
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  Speaker 1: story and telling the story of this necklace. You're with
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  Speaker 1: me when I got this necklace, and it just it
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  Speaker 1: didn't go the way I wanted to go. We were
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  Speaker 1: all making fun of each other. And I went to
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  Speaker 1: go work out after the show, and I was driving
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  Speaker 1: to the back to the radio station, and I didn't
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  Speaker 1: want to go home because there's people at our house
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  Speaker 1: and I wanted to get this thing done that I'm
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  Speaker 1: working on, this app that I'll tell you about in
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  Speaker 1: a second, and I wanted to have peace so I
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  Speaker 1: could work on this app. And I'm listening to that
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  Speaker 1: break on the iHeart app. So I'm driving going back
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  Speaker 1: to work, and I got so I enjoyed that break
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  Speaker 1: so much. It was so funny. I was laughing out
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  Speaker 1: loud at everybody on the show, Richard Lawyer's Kyle. They
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  Speaker 1: were just making fun of me. It was so funny.
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  Speaker 1: And I missed the exit and all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know where I was. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: where am I? Oh my god, I'm way past the
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  Speaker 1: radio station. I had to turn around to get the
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  Speaker 1: radio station, and I was like, Wow, that's that's good radio.
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  Speaker 1: I think, you know. So I don't know if that's
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  Speaker 1: pulling back the curtain too much or if that's is
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  Speaker 1: Was it good radio? Was it entertaining to other people?
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  Speaker 1: Which I think it was, because there's some good talks,
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  Speaker 1: some good text messages about it. So so anyway, so
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  Speaker 1: then I go to the radio station and I'm working
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  Speaker 1: on this app which I'll tell you about. And the
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  Speaker 1: app is I was showing you yesterday. So I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be able to post a clip of war the roses
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  Speaker 1: and then say on Instagram comment roses and I'll send
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  Speaker 1: you the link direct, right, yes, right, But this app,
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  Speaker 1: there's an app, but there's things you can do on
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  Speaker 1: the app, and there's things you can't do in the
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  Speaker 1: app you have to do on a computer like you have.
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  Speaker 1: You have to pay the bill on the computer.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, you can't pay on the phone.
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  Speaker 1: No, you can't pay the phone. So I went no,
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  Speaker 1: so no, And then I go to the radio station
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  Speaker 1: to get on my computer and I'm doing it there
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  Speaker 1: and even says on there only works on a on
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  Speaker 1: a personal through the app store. It's through the app store.
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  Speaker 1: You can buy the app, you can't pay for the service.
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  Speaker 1: It's really weird.
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  Speaker 2: That is weird.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So I'm at the radio and I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: a good thing. I came to the radio station. I
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  Speaker 1: was just going there for peace. So I started working
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  Speaker 1: on the app, and then I had to take this
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  Speaker 1: phone call from sales, right Rachel, one of the managers.
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  Speaker 1: She was can I talk to you? I said, sure,
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  Speaker 1: she wants to talk to me about this new Love
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  Speaker 1: pupp promotion going on with Ihy Pokey Bowl. So of
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  Speaker 1: this conversation with her for fifteen minutes. Now I know
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  Speaker 1: I got to be here at a certain time, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm stressed about this app. So I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to make the War of the Roses post and I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing and it's not working, and it's not working. It's
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  Speaker 1: not working, and I go to my computer and I
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  Speaker 1: hit a button and everything goes away and I had
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  Speaker 1: to log in with the new password and I don't
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  Speaker 1: know my password. I don't know my pen After we said,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's like, I have to leave. It's a
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  Speaker 1: ten minute drive to the studio from the radio station,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm trying to do all this and then finally
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  Speaker 1: out a red light. I think I've then just sent
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  Speaker 1: me this very verification code. So now I think I'm okay.
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  Speaker 1: So sin as we've done with this podcast, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be able to post this video, I think anyway. So
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  Speaker 1: that's my day. Han nice, you look so pretty. I
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  Speaker 1: love your hair like that.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you?
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  Speaker 1: What else is going on? You talk to our kids?
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  Speaker 2: Just to Jake? I mean, Jake and I did the
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  Speaker 2: that round and stuff together. I haven't talked to kempergot
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  Speaker 2: you yet?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I will. So it looks like people have left
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  Speaker 1: our house, but I mean I would have been there
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  Speaker 1: two hours ago, so I know they were there two
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  Speaker 1: hours ago. I know they've never not been there. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I posted on Instagram that you and I were
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  Speaker 1: doing the Couple's podcast. Ouch, you and I were doing
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  Speaker 1: the Couple's podcast, and I said, if you have any questions,
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  Speaker 1: ask us questions, right, So let me go to the
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  Speaker 1: questions real quick. This is interesting. What's harder training each other?
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  Speaker 1: What's harder training each other or trainings? What does that mean?
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  Speaker 1: Does that mean training training each other?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's from Adele, and I don't know what that means,
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  Speaker 1: are you talking about training like exercise about dog training?
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  Speaker 1: Either way, they're both very hard.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I agree.
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  Speaker 1: What's something you don't agree on but choose to laugh
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  Speaker 1: about instead of argue?
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  Speaker 2: That's a good question. I don't know what do we
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  Speaker 2: not agree on? We agree on a lot of things.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, here's another one.
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  Speaker 2: Then do you know the answer to that that.
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  Speaker 1: We don't agree on about? Well, you gotta you don't
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  Speaker 1: answer what Tyler knows.
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  Speaker 2: The answer for us?
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  Speaker 1: What's something you don't know? Grid? Yeah, you think I'm
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  Speaker 1: a little horn dog, don't you?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? Estosterone is very high in your world?
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  Speaker 1: Or can I just be attracted to my wife? Can
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  Speaker 1: I just love intimacy?
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  Speaker 2: Sure?
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  Speaker 1: Is it a need? I mean both my parents are
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  Speaker 1: dead and I feel like I need to be hugged
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  Speaker 1: and to equated to that I have no one to like.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes it's not about sex, just about being held. Sometimes
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  Speaker 1: I want to be held. Yeah, and you know, caress
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  Speaker 1: your breasts?
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  Speaker 2: What's wrong with you? Thanks? Tyler, you're not invited anymore.
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  Speaker 1: What were Blake's first Oh, oh my god, what were
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  Speaker 1: Blake's friends' first impressions of you?
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  Speaker 2: Well? Do you want me to paint the whole picture,
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  Speaker 2: the picture. You worked for a radio station in San
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  Speaker 2: Diego called ninety one X, and you just came up
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  Speaker 2: from Mexico Rosarita Beach because you had a huge was
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  Speaker 2: it a volleyball tournament?
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  Speaker 1: Actually you already got I was. I was at the
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  Speaker 1: I was at the jazz station.
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  Speaker 2: No no, you were no no no no no no
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  Speaker 2: no no no no you were jamand ninety oh no,
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  Speaker 2: no no.
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  Speaker 1: I was at the sunny one oh three point seven station.
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  Speaker 1: And it was the trip with the huge advertising agency
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  Speaker 1: and they took their favorite people on the trip to
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  Speaker 1: rost lobster get drunk on a bus, a party bus,
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  Speaker 1: and I didn't call on them. They were the huge
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  Speaker 1: western Oh Chris, yes, and they found them. But they
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  Speaker 1: really liked me, so they invited me. And I was
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  Speaker 1: the youngest guy on the bus.
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  Speaker 2: That's because you were so much fun. But anyways, so
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  Speaker 2: you arrived back into San Diego in terrible shape, and
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  Speaker 2: you showed up at a Mexican food restaurant called Fonsos,
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  Speaker 2: which I'm so sad, isn't there anymore? The best nachos ever?
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  Speaker 2: And I was with all my girlfriends I'm excited to
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  Speaker 2: introduce you. And you pulled in backwards, which you hate.
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  Speaker 2: You hate when people park backwards on the street. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: you did, and you had you had a six pack
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  Speaker 2: and the little plastic round thing was over the top
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  Speaker 2: of the six shift in your.
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  Speaker 1: Jeep, my dad's jeep.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't have a car, and you were hammered and
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  Speaker 2: you came in and I introduced you, and they're like, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: he's a real winner. This is good blake, nice job.
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  Speaker 1: I actually have a there's a picture I have of
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  Speaker 1: that that night.
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  Speaker 2: I think you have it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know I have it. I have it on
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  Speaker 1: my phone. I know that you have it on your phone. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I whenever pictures take of it on your phone. Whenever
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  Speaker 1: certain pictures come up, I'll save them my favorites, and
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  Speaker 1: that's one of them. I see you quite a bit.
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  Speaker 1: And every morning, every morning, I go through my favorites
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  Speaker 1: and I look at a certain picture of my mom
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  Speaker 1: and a picture of my dad, and I say, and
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  Speaker 1: then that picture no, no, but it pops up when
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  Speaker 1: I look for it. When I pops up when I
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  Speaker 1: look for the picture of my mom and dad.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. So that was my friend's meeting. You, but then
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  Speaker 2: they liked.
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  Speaker 1: You afterwards, way, way afterwards. Now I remember I.
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  Speaker 2: Was there was no intervention and you asked me to
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  Speaker 2: marry you. There was no interventions when you asked me.
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  Speaker 1: To marry Is that a common thing for interventions?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, I would think so. On selling Sunset,
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  Speaker 2: it is.
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? What happened on selling Sunset?
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  Speaker 2: One of the girls had a had a boyfriend that
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  Speaker 2: she wanted to marry Emma, and Krishelle was not happy
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  Speaker 2: about it, so she did like an intervention and made
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  Speaker 2: it clear that she didn't like her.
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe you watched that show show.
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  Speaker 2: I don't understand why I'm so addicted to it, but
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  Speaker 2: it's my guilty pleasure.
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  Speaker 1: Did you see your friend g Flip performed?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? I love g Flip. I hope to see her
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  Speaker 2: in Phoenix sometime.
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  Speaker 1: Oh here it is here, it is right here. This
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  Speaker 1: is the picture.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, it is that's terrible. Oh my god, no.
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  Speaker 1: The picture. That night when I met her friends for
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  Speaker 1: the first time, I was out of my mind. Oh
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  Speaker 1: you put it in this. That's good. That's good. That's
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  Speaker 1: even better. That's good.
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  Speaker 2: That is terrible.
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  Speaker 1: I mean it is undone.
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  Speaker 2: It's terrible.
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  Speaker 1: You're sitting in my lab. You're in love with me.
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  Speaker 1: Look at you, red figure nail Paul. Anyway, the bangs,
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  Speaker 1: we have more questions. Okay, yeah, your Friendston, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think they like me. They do now, okay, so what's
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  Speaker 1: your real age? I've been listening to you guys forever,
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  Speaker 1: and there's no way you can be younger than me.
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  Speaker 1: Oh oh, give five people you would get a hall
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  Speaker 1: pass four laminated? Five five people you get a hall
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  Speaker 1: pass four laminated. What does that mean laminated?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Well, if people get a help, I remember you were
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  Speaker 1: a hall pass.
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  Speaker 2: But the back in the day was John Michael Montgomery
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  Speaker 2: and he kissed me the CMA.
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  Speaker 1: H Can I purchase a few custom feed pictures of Blake?
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  Speaker 1: I'll donate two hundred dollars to the Love Pup Foundation. Hilarious, Well,
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  Speaker 1: what was your answer?
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  Speaker 2: Of course, it's going to the foundation helping dogs.
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  Speaker 1: Of course, Ali says, what was your wedding song?
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  Speaker 2: Our wedding our you mean our first dance?
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  Speaker 1: I know this is what was your wedding song? I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what that means.
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  Speaker 2: Had to be you.
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  Speaker 1: Who wasn't it had to be you as what I
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  Speaker 1: proposed to you with. Then we said, wait, no, it
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  Speaker 1: was the way you look tonight. That's right. It had
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  Speaker 1: to be you, is what I played when I know
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  Speaker 1: it had to be using the video, the wedding video.
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  Speaker 1: Oh what is the current dog roster at your house?
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  Speaker 2: Six?
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  Speaker 1: Six? And they are?
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  Speaker 2: And they are Taco who's sixteen, Lego who's fifteen, Bella
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  Speaker 2: who is eleven, Charlie who's seven, Maggie who's five, and
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  Speaker 2: Pablo who's almost two.
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  Speaker 1: What is the most off the wall health hack you
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  Speaker 1: both do?
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  Speaker 2: I think there's a couple of them.
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  Speaker 1: The sauna, right, we both do sauna.
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  Speaker 2: We both try to get ten thousand steps every day.
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  Speaker 1: We both take a lot of vitamins to do the
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  Speaker 1: olive oil, apple cider vinegar.
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  Speaker 2: No, I don't do that.
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  Speaker 1: Will Blake share her chocolate chip cookie recipe? Yes you will.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's on the back of the toll House.
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  Speaker 1: Milk Choco you No, I'm not. Why is you're so different?
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  Speaker 1: Why does everyone go nuts for yours?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe it's our oven, Blake, I use
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  Speaker 2: a convection oven. Maybe that's it.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: What's that?
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: It means? It's a different way of cooking for baking. Yeah,
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: but it does convection, so the timing is a little
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: bit less convection convection.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, never heard of it. Plus, thank you, Tyler Blake.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: How do you handle all of John Jay's quirky rituals,
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: all ways of doing or not doing things?
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: I'm used to it?
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: How do you handle it? It was like, you know
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: what's funny is my new ritual which I went over
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: with you yesterday and then you text me the ritual
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: today and you got it wrong.
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: I got it wrong, so wonderful. I thought that was
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: cute that I remembered it. But why can't something wonderful
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: happen to you and I just say it to you
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: instead of me put a name to it.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: My new ritual is I say out loud, something wonderful
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: is going to happen to me today. Something wonderful is
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: going to happen to me today. I feel if I
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: say that over and over again, something wonderful is going
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: to happen to me today. What happened was a couple
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: of weeks agoor when I first started it, maybe a
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: couple of months ago, I said, something wonderful is going
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: to happen today, something wonderful is going to happen today.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: And I realized a lot of wonderful things happened today,
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: but they didn't happen to me for me, so I
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: made it specific something wonderful is gonna happen to me today.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: Now at the same time, I'm a a what do
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: you call it, I'm a people pleaser, and I feel right,
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: and I give oh I do it is think about
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: other people. And I thought, if I said something wonderful
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: is going to happen to me today and it happened
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: to somebody in our family that qualifies as me, that's
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: under the umbrella of me. Because if something happens to Dutch, Kemp,
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: Jake or you that makes me happy, that's wonderful, right,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: And so then I felt, but let's see, I really
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: need something specific to happen to somebody in our family.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: So what I do then is I say, specifically, something
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: wonderful is gonna happen to Jake today. I actually started
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: the night before and I say, something wonderful is gonna
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: happen to Jake tomorrow, and I write it down, and
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: I write it down three times, and then I say
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: it three times and in the morning I say it
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: three times. So the night before, something wonderful is going
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: to happen to Jake tomorrow, and then that morning in
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: the colpla and something wonderful is gonna hapen to Jake today,
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: something wonerful' is gonna have a Jake today, and I'll
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: do that. I was doing that for everybody in the family.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: I thought that had I mean, it ended up being
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: a really long ass ritual because I got to get
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: everybody in. I got say it. I figure three times works.
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: But then what happens is I thought, if I add
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: another family member, then am I deluding the power of
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: the one thing that I need? Does that make sense?
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Like if I'm saying something wonderful is gonna have a
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: Jake today, something wonderful is gonna have the Dutch day,
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: but I really need the Jake thing to happen. I
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm deluding the power of the Jake thing
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: because I also threw some Dutch's way. So that's the
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: kind of stuff that goes on in my brain all day.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: If that makes sense to you.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: It's more nasty.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: This morning you texted me, you said good morning, I
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: love you, and then you said, something wonderful is going
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: to happen today.
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: No, I said something wonderful is going to happen to you.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't know you didn't. That's why I
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: corrected you.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: Whatever, something wonderful is going to happen today, and it is.
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: You said, there's still so good morning. I'm grateful for you.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: Love my John Jay time yesterday and my heart is happy.
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: I hope your day's off to an amazing start. Something
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: wonderful is going to happen today. And I said, something
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: wonderful is going to happen to blank today. You need
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: to be specific.
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: You couldn't dishearten and be grateful that I wrote you
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: a nice note. You had to correct me.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: You just don't start spreading good will to roundom people.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: I wanted you to be specific. A targeted our family.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: I mean that's my most recent ritual. I'm still working
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: it out.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, clearly.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: When here's a Lacey says, when did each of you
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: realize you were in love with each other?
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: You go, well, I mean I liked you when you
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: came over to my house in del mar and I
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: touched your hair. That's what I liked you. I mean,
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: I mean Yeah. That's when I figured out that I
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: really wanted to be with you.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: Right, That's when you touched my hair and I was like, WHOA,
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: what's up where We're watching TV and you're on the couch. Yeah,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: I was on the floor.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: And then we went and both broke up with our
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: people started dating.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: You want to know when I knew I was in
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: love with you, in love with you?
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: And I remember being I showed up in the cast pursuit.
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: That was all and the banks.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: No, God, no, no, it was when I remember I
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: remember telling my mom something about you, and I know
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: exactly what it is, and I'll tell what it is.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: And my mom said, oh my god, you're in love
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: with her. And it was we were I could take
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: exactly the dinner. You were making fun of my hairline.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, good at the Sam's Cafe.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: It was at the Billmore. Yeah, the Billmore. You're making
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: fun of my hairline. But you were also eating jelly bellies.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: Yes, And I remember you because they gave them at
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: the end.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I remember I was just watching You're eating
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: the jelly bellies and you were sampling them and you
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: were telling me the flavors and you were like m
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: you were like, like a little chimung this is lemon.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: Do you remember that guy?
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: No, I'm talking about I'm talking about the guy with
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: the hairline. I'm talking I do remember that guy. I'm
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: talking about the moment I knew that I was in
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: love with you, and I was telling my mom the
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: story of the jelly bellies, and my mom said, and
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: I said, it was so cute the way she was
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: eating these jelly bellies. And I was telling my mom
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: and then she goes, oh my god, you're in love
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: with her. That's what she said to me. So I
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, maybe you're right. Yeah, I
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: do remember the guy had a hairline which is now
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: lower than mine now. And you laughed at the guy's hairline.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: No, that's so funny.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: I'm being a lot more emotional in this podcast than
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: you are. What can John Jay do to make your
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: life easier?
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: Help around the house? I do help around dishes.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I clean dishes when I can. Yeah, I help a
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: lot more to.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: Feed the dogs. But now I found out that you
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: feed the dogs way too much food, and there are
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: three of them have have weight issues, and you the
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: culprit of that.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: Why are you wearing a vest.
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: Why are you, oh the vest?
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: I was wearing a vest yesterday.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: Oh, because you're doing the weight thing.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: What about your marriage makes you most proud and it
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: can't be your children?
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Then we stay together this long, I've been through ups
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: and downs and all arounds and still stayed together.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I was actually thinking about that the other day,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: Like Jake, our oldest son is home with us right now,
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: and we get it. It's great having him home, but
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: at some point he's going to get a job, he's
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: gonna leave. And I realized the other day that I
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: really enjoy spending time with you, like it's not.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: Well, that's why I said yesterday when we went and
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: did that podcast, and then we went and got blood
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: and got blood. You gave blood.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: How did you guys meet Christy Pileman. Yeah, it's Christy.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: It's all her fault.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Christie is a girl I grew up with, and
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: then you guys became friends at some point in college
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: and then I hurt. I broke my foot and she
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: was taking me to a party at her house and
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: she picked me up and we had to stop at
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: your house to get jello shots. And that's how we
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: met you seem pretty mellow today.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: Why? And then we used to hang out at work
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: to other because we work for the same company, different
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: radio stations. And then we would go have lunch together
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: and I would carry your crutches for you, and yeah,
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: go to missus Rice and go have yogurt.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: And yeah, what else? Is anything missing? Anything I want
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: to get into? Or no, you want to get into
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: any of the personal stuff you got going on? You
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: want to wait till later?
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: What's that?
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: Where are you going after this? Oh, that's a longer conversation.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: Probably, that's probably a longer conversation. But yeah, I'm having
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: my female parts removed.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Oh jeez, it like that.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Well that's what I'm saying.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: I know. But I thought maybe you'd be like, I'm
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: going to go give my blood today for whatever whatever,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: and then we'll get into that. I want to get
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: a doctor a doctor and maybe do a whole podcast
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: on that because you're having that surgery in a week. Yep, yeah, okay,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: all right, what else? Anything else you want to say
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: about the podcast?
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: No, are you happy? Do you have joy?
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: I have joy? Do you have joy?
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: I do?
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: Is there anything I can help you with now?
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Look at this. My radio just came out in Portland.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Another amazing ratings that I'm starting to not be surprised.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: This show's crushing it, keep crushing it. Wow Portland number one,
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: number one. Wow, holy smokes, thank you Portland. Wow. Wow,
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: that's a good way to end the podcast.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: Number one in Portland.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: But yeah, we got to get those foot pictures for
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: all the foot people that are watching this. My wife
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: has spectacular feed, just spectacular. Some money makers, make some
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: money makers, all those little piggies. You want to be
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: on camera?
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: Do you want to talk about about our our foster
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: kids and our almost dogs on this one?
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: Sure? Whatever you want to talk about. I was kind
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: of wrapping it up on a note because you gotta
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: be some Is it going to run? This is probably
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: gonna well, this is gonna run on Sunday on our
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: Couple's podcast Sunday. Yeah.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: Okay. So we have this gigantic event which we're super
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: excited out. Can I promote it?
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Han, I want to start calling you hand promote it.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: On November fifteenth at Vertuccio Farms from four pm to
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: eight pm, sponsored by McCarthy Lerner and Row Valley Toyota
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: Dealers Discover. We're super excited to host the Gym Class Heroes,
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: Fits in the Tantrums, the Rich Bearra Band, and a
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: couple of bands from School of Rock. And we're having
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: a big adoption center with lots and lots of dogs.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: We have twenty five rescues and sponsorship activations. It's free
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: with a donation Alicia bag of dog food, potty pads,
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: whatever you want to bring, and it'll be a great day.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Okay, we'll see November fifteenth. That's a couple's podcasts. Okay,
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: so welcome to our podcast. This is a little bit
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: different today because this podcast is a spin off of
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: our radio show