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101: Gotta Catch Em All (Part I) · Wine & Audacity

• 0:08
  Speaker 1: M hmm, that's what happened.
• 0:28
  Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, you feeling like the Wood and Ship
• 0:31
  Speaker 2: like you probably you probably want probably wonder why I
• 0:34
  Speaker 2: got choked.
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  Speaker 3: Like I saw the movie the other day on I
• 0:36
  Speaker 3: think it was on T T.
• 0:38
  Speaker 4: The Wood been on every fucking day for weeks. It
• 0:43
  Speaker 4: was on the other day. I woke up and The
• 0:44
  Speaker 4: Wood was on.
• 0:45
  Speaker 5: I was like, oh, okay, Honestly, I like, I think
• 0:50
  Speaker 5: the World. I think The World was one of them.
• 0:52
  Speaker 5: It's like one of them.
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  Speaker 3: I saw it, thank you.
• 0:56
  Speaker 2: It's like already on my account when I was like
• 0:59
  Speaker 2: one of real good classic movies. You feel me that
• 1:02
  Speaker 2: that you like, it's like you watch the Growth, like
• 1:06
  Speaker 2: when I watched The Wood. I see us like, you know,
• 1:11
  Speaker 2: matter of fact, Rodney T. Diggs and Men Brandon like nigga.
• 1:16
  Speaker 3: No, nigga, you Digs, we're talking about the Best Man
• 1:19
  Speaker 3: and we're talking about The Wood.
• 1:21
  Speaker 1: We're talking about parents Tate Digs either was we had
• 1:25
  Speaker 1: to busting down bad?
• 1:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: What's your what'sh you off? Your favorite late nineties early
• 1:31
  Speaker 3: two thousands black movies? Let's start there, starting like let's
• 1:35
  Speaker 3: say starting let's say nineties into two thousands.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, So play.
• 1:45
  Speaker 3: Nigga.
• 1:46
  Speaker 6: That's so I'm I'm gonna go with New Jack City.
• 1:49
  Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, minus juice.
• 1:54
  Speaker 2: It's definitely because hey, you got juice, like you're looking
• 2:01
  Speaker 2: at this nigga like you just committed murdered.
• 2:07
  Speaker 4: Nigga. I want to jail. Then you should talk about
• 2:10
  Speaker 4: ain't no self defense and this motherfucker.
• 2:15
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I did it, and I hope they don't.
• 2:21
  Speaker 4: Like I said, uh, minus the Wood, I can watch
• 2:24
  Speaker 4: that over and over again. I can watch that over
• 2:26
  Speaker 4: and over again. Like I ain't never seen this ship before.
• 2:28
  Speaker 4: I can quote it from word for word. I watched
• 2:30
  Speaker 4: this ship entirely too many times.
• 2:32
  Speaker 5: I like that one. I like the world.
• 2:35
  Speaker 2: I mean I still like you know, for all those
• 2:36
  Speaker 2: I still think that the Wood is better than the
• 2:38
  Speaker 2: Best Man.
• 2:39
  Speaker 3: I love the Best Mann basketball.
• 2:45
  Speaker 4: Let's talk about that.
• 2:45
  Speaker 8: Since you brought it up.
• 2:46
  Speaker 3: Let's talk about basketball.
• 2:48
  Speaker 4: Was toxic as fuck that I.
• 2:50
  Speaker 6: Wasn't to It wasn't one of my favorite movies.
• 2:56
  Speaker 1: Is gonna be Brown Sugar?
• 3:00
  Speaker 2: It wasn't your favorite, but the bitches loved it.
• 3:03
  Speaker 3: It's time.
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  Speaker 9: At I didn't like how I didn't like how you
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  Speaker 9: it made everybody Okay, I'm now I want to learn
• 3:13
  Speaker 9: how to play basketball, and I'm gonna find a female
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  Speaker 9: who also plays basketball.
• 3:17
  Speaker 6: Like it's the nineties, all the.
• 3:19
  Speaker 9: Females are playing basketball about like seven ft to.
• 3:24
  Speaker 8: Play street ball, playing street ball.
• 3:27
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you.
• 3:29
  Speaker 3: Can I tell you my favorite nineties man is I
• 3:31
  Speaker 3: think it's a time. I'm gonna go left field.
• 3:33
  Speaker 1: Have plenty in Trippmann, I start sprunging it and.
• 3:43
  Speaker 8: That was not.
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  Speaker 10: The gather.
• 3:53
  Speaker 4: When he got caught that thing, I ain't know what
• 3:54
  Speaker 4: to do, damnself. No, but he's just like dry, you said, bitch,
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  Speaker 4: I said.
• 4:01
  Speaker 6: Another one of my favorite boomerang. Boomerang.
• 4:04
  Speaker 9: Yeah you can watch because I want enough to be
• 4:07
  Speaker 9: watching enough to watch half the ship watch.
• 4:09
  Speaker 3: We were still watching real sex.
• 4:11
  Speaker 4: We had that episode with with with Nickelodeon on last now.
• 4:16
  Speaker 2: But you're talking about something watching something like a toxic
• 4:19
  Speaker 2: movie as an adult the fete Nah too can play
• 4:23
  Speaker 2: that game, stupid, that was count he spoiled it, bitch.
• 4:33
  Speaker 4: Can we talk about the fact that Gary ol Union
• 4:35
  Speaker 4: plays the same person in every movie? You know she
• 4:37
  Speaker 4: doesn't plays in every movie and the sugar mom come
• 4:41
  Speaker 4: here with your motherfucking nails painted.
• 4:43
  Speaker 1: We got to have a conversation.
• 4:45
  Speaker 3: If it ain't clear, maybe I went the signs on
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  Speaker 3: my neck.
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  Speaker 4: It's different for you.
• 4:55
  Speaker 3: That's right. I don't get I don't do that fruity ship.
• 5:00
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 5:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah, as the resident home of the Parka Brandes said,
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  Speaker 4: he don't do this.
• 5:07
  Speaker 3: Get bullshit. I get my nails buffed. I'm about to
• 5:10
  Speaker 3: give mine because I'm about to cast somebody.
• 5:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody, somebody gets great.
• 5:33
  Speaker 5: Happy Yeah.
• 5:36
  Speaker 3: And on that note, Welcome to this week's episode of
• 5:38
  Speaker 3: Wine and the Audacity of the podcast. I'm your very
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  Speaker 3: sick host, Brandon's going and I'm joined by two of
• 5:43
  Speaker 3: my favorite people in the world. How you're feeling this week?
• 5:45
  Speaker 5: I'm right calling them, chilling them straight.
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  Speaker 3: I had to hear it. Hey, bron and we got
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  Speaker 3: two special guests, first time on the showing season three.
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  Speaker 3: Give him a shout out to row and she and
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  Speaker 3: how you're doing?
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  Speaker 5: What up?
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  Speaker 11: What up?
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  Speaker 3: What up?
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  Speaker 8: Hello?
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  Speaker 3: How are you feeling happy to be here?
• 6:07
  Speaker 8: I'm proud of you. Your hundred episodes.
• 6:13
  Speaker 4: Episode is one hundred.
• 6:16
  Speaker 3: This is actually we can take this out. This is
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  Speaker 3: one on one we be but thank you for the.
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  Speaker 8: Y'all know that's right.
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  Speaker 6: That's what's look forward to coming back evening doing some
• 6:31
  Speaker 6: more with you.
• 6:31
  Speaker 3: Said that there, Wait till you get to the questions
• 6:42
  Speaker 3: we're talking about.
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  Speaker 9: Sean and Seanna had a little drink up in and
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  Speaker 9: had a little cigarette.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
• 6:49
  Speaker 3: Shout out careful what you wish for, sir.
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  Speaker 2: Shout out to the clap back call. We've seen that
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  Speaker 2: one on the little on the tiktoks.
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  Speaker 4: Let's clack. Wine will hand me back and listen.
• 7:02
  Speaker 3: I have a question for y'all need if a pussy
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  Speaker 3: wears a bonnet, is it a fish net? You know what?
• 7:11
  Speaker 4: And that has been this week's episode of Wine and
• 7:14
  Speaker 4: Answer the past. Thank y'all for listening.
• 7:17
  Speaker 5: Wait, wait, wait, I won't for you. What's the difference
• 7:22
  Speaker 5: between a gay guy and a refrigerator?
• 7:29
  Speaker 3: I know this one.
• 7:31
  Speaker 5: The refrigerator doesn't fart when you're boiling to meet out.
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  Speaker 4: And again this has before the Wine and all day
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  Speaker 4: the podcast Rodney and thank you.
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  Speaker 10: All for your head.
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  Speaker 9: I'm trying to figure out what the hell type of
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  Speaker 9: podcast I listened to.
• 7:48
  Speaker 6: Y'all ain't nothing like.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm saying that ain't swuitter gatting. This is like
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  Speaker 3: like putting it up the butt to and it's far
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  Speaker 3: evil way and.
• 8:00
  Speaker 5: Mh that ship.
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  Speaker 9: Like and we said, my nigga, min I know you're listening.
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  Speaker 3: I had no parks giving all thanks in honor to guy.
• 8:16
  Speaker 3: Amen to the same.
• 8:17
  Speaker 4: Heard in my household.
• 8:19
  Speaker 3: Don't worry that was That was a special selection from
• 8:22
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• 8:26
  Speaker 1: That's what we all.
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  Speaker 3: Call the Bible verse.
• 8:30
  Speaker 4: We cush your hands out, That's all I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: The guy she listened to the podcast.
• 8:36
  Speaker 1: You know we got damn saying she's known us and
• 8:38
  Speaker 1: sweep skis.
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  Speaker 4: No, we ain't got.
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying, but these hands ain't. Okay, I'm gonna work
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  Speaker 2: in progress.
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  Speaker 3: What you're talking about.
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  Speaker 6: We got, we got no real ship. Tell you.
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  Speaker 8: Let me here's somebody else.
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  Speaker 6: I am like.
• 9:07
  Speaker 3: Mister, mister, I'm a white man in a black nigh
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  Speaker 3: who got it?
• 9:12
  Speaker 4: Takes us three to five business?
• 9:17
  Speaker 5: She said, three to five bitter days to hell.
• 9:18
  Speaker 1: Listen, nigga, I'm hurting, sad, aking up.
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  Speaker 3: Man, I'm working the morning. It's seven o'clock.
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  Speaker 4: I gotta clean.
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  Speaker 1: He's greens and greens.
• 9:31
  Speaker 3: So what are we talking about this week? Y'all?
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  Speaker 4: Merch Merch, merch, merge.
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  Speaker 5: So I'm like, what I'm like, almost fourteen years God damn.
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  Speaker 2: And then my uh and then and then my U.
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  Speaker 2: Then my brothers are laughing me. He he just joined
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  Speaker 2: this train. He bought like about five months and no.
• 9:55
  Speaker 4: They almost eight months and in Gym Niggas January oh ship.
• 10:07
  Speaker 3: So we wanted to have I guess trying to get
• 10:10
  Speaker 3: into more topics for the for you know as town
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  Speaker 3: goes on, and we wanted to talk about marriage and
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  Speaker 3: what it looks like for for for niggas black millennials
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  Speaker 3: to be married and not be married, and how it feels. Keita,
• 10:23
  Speaker 3: Aaron's wife wasn'tbody, but she wasn't feeling about today. So
• 10:26
  Speaker 3: we got to deal with this nigga byself. But we
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  Speaker 3: wanted to first of all, first of all, if.
• 10:31
  Speaker 1: You say anything wrong, I'm gonna suck them up.
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  Speaker 4: I got you.
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  Speaker 5: First of all. First of all, yeah fuck it.
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  Speaker 3: So like I was saying again. So it was good
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  Speaker 3: that I thought it would be a good idea to
• 10:49
  Speaker 3: invite the niggas on the podcast to get the perspective
• 10:52
  Speaker 3: of you know you hear me Sean and Aaron talking
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  Speaker 3: foolishness all the time. But to get the perspective of
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  Speaker 3: a man who's been married for almost fourteen years, and
• 11:01
  Speaker 3: then a couple was married for less than a year.
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  Speaker 3: But you'all been together for what like eight nine years
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  Speaker 3: at this point, God damn damn.
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  Speaker 8: Seven years now we've been to.
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  Speaker 6: I had to get my ship together.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 6: I was doing some boardship put on.
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  Speaker 2: It was like, you know, locked, we'll get into that,
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  Speaker 2: We'll get into this nigga way till I go to
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  Speaker 2: God damn Georgia wanna be wanta be all monogamous and
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  Speaker 2: ship this nigga disappeared from the book.
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, oh I did.
• 11:31
  Speaker 6: I was like, yes, I told some people thought I was.
• 11:38
  Speaker 6: I'm like, nigga, you got you're killing off.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, not the way I would have been acting
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  Speaker 4: a fool on Facebook.
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  Speaker 5: No because I'm saying no.
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  Speaker 2: But then I'm saying here, like there's somebody else sent me.
• 11:49
  Speaker 2: I got there in front request and this is nigga five.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, the funny.
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  Speaker 4: I said, what in the fuck is going on?
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  Speaker 1: You know, not to jail.
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  Speaker 9: But that, And I'm like, no, I just took I
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  Speaker 9: just took a time off from social media because I.
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  Speaker 6: Had to get I had to get a lot of
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  Speaker 6: ship together.
• 12:18
  Speaker 5: It's okay, locked in understand that we understand the clans.
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  Speaker 3: So before we get it, to keep more more random conversation,
• 12:26
  Speaker 3: let's start with the at the at the beginning, at
• 12:29
  Speaker 3: the beginning beginning. Since you hear all the time, resident husband,
• 12:32
  Speaker 3: let's let's go with the guests. How did y'all meet?
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna hear this story, all right.
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  Speaker 7: That's okay, we met actually going at his reading class.
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  Speaker 7: I graduated, well, I started going to Wolan at eleven,
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  Speaker 7: I mean in eleventh.
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  Speaker 3: Grade eleven.
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  Speaker 5: Call me to It was like it was.
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  Speaker 8: Like made like miss small. Now I got I had
• 13:02
  Speaker 8: got kicked out like two schools and then I moved.
• 13:09
  Speaker 5: I got kicked out earlier.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, my child changed my life.
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  Speaker 7: But yeah, so after what I was, I was into
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  Speaker 7: the high school boys because everybody dated everybody, So you
• 13:21
  Speaker 7: weren't at another hospital over.
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  Speaker 8: I wasn't. I wasn't dating you.
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  Speaker 7: But at the time when I met Rodney, I was
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  Speaker 7: already in a relationship with her money.
• 13:30
  Speaker 8: Right, So you know how after graduation.
• 13:38
  Speaker 4: But not too much on my brother.
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  Speaker 7: Now years past, you get after graduation. So I ended
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  Speaker 7: up getting an interview at Safeway. He was the hier manager,
• 14:01
  Speaker 7: so he looked at me like, I know you.
• 14:02
  Speaker 8: I know you too, like so he ended up hiring me.
• 14:08
  Speaker 8: And then.
• 14:11
  Speaker 7: So that's how it's like kind of again, we started
• 14:13
  Speaker 7: out as friends.
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  Speaker 8: We both was in relationships at.
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  Speaker 5: The time, so yeah, so.
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  Speaker 7: Without each other sneaky links right now, So so when
• 14:25
  Speaker 7: did the role player come in?
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  Speaker 12: Like, look, you really want this job? No grade.
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  Speaker 3: Us.
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  Speaker 7: But yeah, but we started out as friends only because,
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  Speaker 7: like I said, we was in relationships at the time,
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  Speaker 7: unhappy relationship. And again I wasn't looking for nothing, he
• 15:04
  Speaker 7: wasn't looking for nothing, So I'm like cool.
• 15:06
  Speaker 8: Like, and then those are you start getting.
• 15:10
  Speaker 7: Into conversations about like the others and then you all
• 15:14
  Speaker 7: start talking about each other.
• 15:16
  Speaker 8: Yeah I like this, yeah at this hotel.
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: And that whole time the like so yeah, so I mean,
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: all that's what you said. I don't need to know
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: is it true?
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  Speaker 8: But go ahead, let you pick.
• 15:35
  Speaker 6: Up No, but.
• 15:40
  Speaker 9: We so, as she was saying, we was each other's
• 15:44
  Speaker 9: little sneaky links for real. And I don't like at
• 15:47
  Speaker 9: the time, like I was in a situation me and
• 15:49
  Speaker 9: my son we was already towards like.
• 15:51
  Speaker 6: At the end, well I was at the end. We know,
• 15:53
  Speaker 6: I'm guessing she I.
• 15:54
  Speaker 4: Don't know, joy but about but we was we was
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: more so each other's.
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  Speaker 9: Like like, yeah, we supported each other through that, through
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  Speaker 9: it a lot. And what what made me, what made
• 16:10
  Speaker 9: me like like her even more was the fact of, like,
• 16:14
  Speaker 9: for one, how she was with her when it came
• 16:16
  Speaker 9: to our son, the type of mother she was, to
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  Speaker 9: the fact that we both was going through like similar
• 16:24
  Speaker 9: similar issues without significant others or whatever. And it was
• 16:29
  Speaker 9: like it was just it was, like I said, at
• 16:31
  Speaker 9: that time, at those times, we was like in toxic
• 16:34
  Speaker 9: two separate toxic relationships. So the only difference was it
• 16:39
  Speaker 9: came to a point where shea was like out, but
• 16:44
  Speaker 9: I still wanted. I was still dipping and that and
• 16:47
  Speaker 9: that's what started the whole That was the reason for
• 16:50
  Speaker 9: the whole back.
• 16:50
  Speaker 6: And forth, back and forth for a minute. So but
• 16:53
  Speaker 6: like I said, it took me a while to get
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  Speaker 6: my shit together.
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  Speaker 9: And.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you the truth, and like that.
• 17:02
  Speaker 9: And she and and also you know, she had some
• 17:08
  Speaker 9: some some some good.
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  Speaker 6: Was the nigga fell I'm going some about the you know,
• 17:24
  Speaker 6: I was going that type of time, you know.
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  Speaker 9: But but no, we like I said, we and then
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  Speaker 9: it was like from that point on, it was like
• 17:34
  Speaker 9: she always stayed on me about being a better person.
• 17:38
  Speaker 6: You see what I'm saying, Like she.
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  Speaker 9: Always because of her like she always made sure like
• 17:43
  Speaker 9: look if she saw me doing something, she was like,
• 17:46
  Speaker 9: she was like, I like what you're doing, but I
• 17:49
  Speaker 9: feel like you could do something better.
• 17:51
  Speaker 6: I feel like you could do this. If you do this,
• 17:53
  Speaker 6: you could do it better, you know.
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  Speaker 9: And that's what And that was another thing I've respected
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  Speaker 9: most about. It was the fact that she how much
• 18:01
  Speaker 9: she cared and invested in to me and being a
• 18:05
  Speaker 9: better man, being a better person, you see what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 9: But yeah, but but man like it was like and
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  Speaker 9: then before you know it fast forward, you know, we
• 18:16
  Speaker 9: we living together, were talking marriage and.
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: I'm over here, like, you better marry that girl because
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: I don't like no fucking body and I love her.
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: They broke up one time.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I said, nigga, I'm on her side.
• 18:28
  Speaker 6: What you did?
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  Speaker 9: Like she said at the wedding, she shout that I
• 18:34
  Speaker 9: ain't like none of them couldn't.
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  Speaker 2: Stand yo, that's crazy ship because I got the same
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: fucking m the same fucking threat.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: Boy, I mean yours and one of yours and seing
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: that came into blows once.
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  Speaker 5: But it's not but it's not that man. A couple
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  Speaker 5: of Rodneys.
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  Speaker 4: I snatched one of them, I dad because she put
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  Speaker 4: her hands on Rodney. I snatched it.
• 18:53
  Speaker 5: Bitch, I was biting him.
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: She was trying to fight on him, and Rodney was
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: trying to keep her from fighting on him, and she
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: tried to his hand and I snatched her as by
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: the back of her neck and slammed up against the wall.
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: Bitch on some puch hands with my brother because he
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: ain't gonna hit you back. Bitch, I'm a body slamming.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: Don't put your hands on him. Don't, don't, don't, don't,
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  Speaker 4: don't don't.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: You were stuck into apparently little bit.
• 19:15
  Speaker 9: You know y'all bugging Ive seen Sean to chase a
• 19:19
  Speaker 9: group of niggas I was trying to get today, was
• 19:22
  Speaker 9: trying to get to me. Shawna chased a group of
• 19:24
  Speaker 9: niggas with frying pants.
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: He was trying to jump in. No, bitch, we're gonna
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: go today. They were like, we ain't gonna put our
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: hands on you Sean after fu.
• 19:36
  Speaker 5: Yo Rusting and my boy Craig.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: But yo, I remember that Nigga came to school the
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: next day talking about yo yo, your sister hit me
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: in my head with with an umbrella.
• 19:45
  Speaker 5: I was like, and I'm sitting here like so.
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: I told him not to put his hands over and
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: he thought I was play penping what happened?
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: And he was like, man, I was going through something, y'all.
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: What I like this what you want me?
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: I told her I knew.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: I knew she was the one because.
• 20:02
  Speaker 7: I was like, I'm from like, I'm from the city.
• 20:05
  Speaker 7: I grew up in the city, so I had friends
• 20:08
  Speaker 7: like Shawna, like the rid of Eyes, like look if
• 20:13
  Speaker 7: I call girl, what we mean up?
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: And so.
• 20:17
  Speaker 7: I was like, I had a lot of brothers to
• 20:20
  Speaker 7: I heard a lot of boys growing up. So yeah,
• 20:24
  Speaker 7: so that was my mentality that they had girlfriends or
• 20:26
  Speaker 7: they would assume that I was with them because.
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: It was always an issue with the girl, said Rodney.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: That was because people usually have issues with males having
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: female best friends.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: And VI one of my chad to be one.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: Of his up to you, Yeah, I almost.
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: Dugging that ass. And yeah, so just before you know.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: He finally told us like, yeah, I don't even want
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: that bitch.
• 20:51
  Speaker 13: Listen, hey, girl was like, I mean, I can leave it.
• 21:05
  Speaker 13: But but what made me love Shena is.
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: That I've always that was her fault.
• 21:17
  Speaker 5: pH was off or something bro like.
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: That's your sense, Like she said, you need to try
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: to gain.
• 21:24
  Speaker 11: There's been a couple of days on seventeen eighteen years.
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: Just do some research.
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: But what I loved about Sena is that when I
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: like I said, I've always had issues with these girlfriends,
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: it was always oh, Shawna spent too much time, right,
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: you always high, and like that's my fucking sister, yo,
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: like she wanted then she wanted the boys like that's
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: my sister. You actually might want to get on her
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: good side because if I fuck up. She put her
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: foot on my neck. So when I met Sena, Roddy
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: introduced us, and I was like, listen, let's get me.
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: I said, let's get this out the way right now.
• 21:54
  Speaker 4: I said, I walk this nigga. I never wanted this.
• 21:56
  Speaker 8: Nigga, and I ain't going no way.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: You got an issue?
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: You figured out what she said?
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: Well, I ain't going no where, But I said.
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: And I said, lock it down, and like I said,
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: they had an issue. They broke up and I found
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: out I talked to she in the first I said,
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: so she was like your fucking brother and something. I
• 22:22
  Speaker 4: was like, I call you right back called him.
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: I said, what the funk that you do?
• 22:25
  Speaker 8: Sis ship?
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: Because you bring somebody else a roight, I'm gonnaive him hell,
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: I swear I am.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: He fixed it on.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: The One thing I can improve I can't appreciate about
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: about y'all is that you do whole niggas accountable.
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: You hold niggas, you hold niggas accountable.
• 22:45
  Speaker 8: How much y'all want a niggas?
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: How would yall want a nigga to treat me? Because
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: y'all be ready to go to hell and back?
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: So, Ron, how did you meet the missus back in
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: the day? If you can ruinber that far back? Because
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: you my man said, fourteen years brother.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: Anyway, we was basically we were mutual front through mutual
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: friends and then honestly we was like connected since like
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: we was kids. Because she lived on she lived on
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: hallm Avenue wearing my great grandmother at that time lived
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: on Brantley, so they was like right behind each other.
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: Then her her grandmother and my great grandmother was best friends.
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: Oh wow.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: Then on top of that, my great grandmother was her
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: teacher when she went to Utah Mashburn. So yeah, yeah,
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: So we've been kind of like we've been kind of
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: connected like our whole lives without even knowing it.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: That's crazy when you realize you have some type of
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: connections with people.
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: Like you, my grandmother, me, and and finding out we
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: related some kind of fucking way.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: An we had a mutual cousin.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: We was like.
• 23:54
  Speaker 5: Nah, but oh, I mean yeah, just not you mm
• 23:59
  Speaker 5: hmm what I'm saying, Oh here he got no no, no, no, no,
• 24:02
  Speaker 5: got your ship. No, got your ship together? Like no
• 24:04
  Speaker 5: because it ca you got.
• 24:05
  Speaker 9: Your because you know, like I was, I forgot.
• 24:11
  Speaker 5: About but I told you.
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: I told you the I told you the wed and
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: I was like, yo, you got like, Yo, you gotta
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: stop hanging out with these single niggas because the niggas
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: just gonna get you in trouble.
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: No not don't no, no, no, no, no, I don't know.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: If I should be happy.
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: You don't know you're gonna put him on.
• 24:30
  Speaker 5: Wait no no, no single niggas and his single niggas.
• 24:38
  Speaker 6: Two different things one.
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: Particular single, nigga and and and in particular. But we
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: ain't gonna say no one particular single, Yeah, one particular single, protective,
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: let's no.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: But societyal It's like and I told him, I like
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: in the verse, the one thing I told him, I
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: was like, yeah, you gotta.
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: It's it's hard.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: It's hard turning off, like turning off the person that
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: you that you were. Like my first, my first my
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: first five years was a little rough to the point
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: whereas it's like I was still you know, like I was,
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: I was still me, like I like and then at
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: the time I didn't think about it.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: Like you talking post marriage and post like relationship post marriage.
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: Oh wow, So like.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: It was, I mean, it was like it was a
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: hard like it was a hard it was like it
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: was like a hard switch. And it's still like, you know,
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: me acting away, you know, acting the way that was
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: being flirtatious and saying, you know, just saying ship, playing
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: with a lot like playing with a lot of people.
• 25:34
  Speaker 5: But at that time, like I just you know, it
• 25:36
  Speaker 5: was just me talking ship.
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: But until you know, as you know, as I got older,
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: realizing like yo, I'm playing like I'm sitting here playing
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: with people, gotting, got people thinking like.
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: Open open that door, thinking ship that it ain't gonna happen.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: And you know, but once we you know, I mean
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: like I kind of like locked in to realize it
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: was some ship and it was some ship inside myself.
• 25:56
  Speaker 5: But we was just like shit.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: We was just talking to Day about the hardest thing,
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: the hardest thing for her was to realize that everything
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: that I was doing.
• 26:05
  Speaker 5: Didn't have nothing to do with her. Yeah, man, And.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: She was like, that'st believe me. And Key told her
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: they no bit.
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: She just stupid and she was like and what she
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: said was is that you know, like she did, she
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: did everything like she was good, She did all that
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: she cooked. She you know, she was trying to be
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: like the best wife's best girlfriend that she was. And
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: then it was like I was still you know, I
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: was still doing whatever. And I was like, yeah, that
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: was that was a that was an insecurity thing, that
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: was a depression thing.
• 26:30
  Speaker 5: That was ma, that's just me, Like that was me.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: And she was like the hardest thing, the hardest thing
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: that she had to realize was it wasn't shit. You know,
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: it wasn't It wasn't her and I was like the
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: hardest thing to make you understand everything that I was
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: doing had nothing to.
• 26:44
  Speaker 5: Do with you.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: So you actually went into My next question was hurfectly
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: thank you for that. What what was the moment for
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: you when you realized that you needed to make a
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: change or else things weren't going to go the way
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: that you wanted them to ultimately go?
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Honestly, when we moved, when we moved to California, because
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: you know, at that time, my mother was like my
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: mom was only s assistance. So they were gone, like
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: they would leave like she would have she would have
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: a show on on Thursday. I mean, they'll leave Thursday
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: and be gone, be gone like till until till Monday,
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: like till Monday, and then she and you know, she
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: home for like three days and then gone on Thursday again.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: So while we're in there, it's just me and her
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: in the house, we in the whole were in totally
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: different area. We don't know ship we It's just it's
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: just us and in this apartment, in this apartment on
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: the places we knew, the house, launde the house, the
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: gym and then the inside gym and the pool.
• 27:38
  Speaker 5: That was it.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: I mean occasionally we would walk we would walk up
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: the Calabasas and hang out that Barnes and Noble, but
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: it was just.
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: Me and her and whatever.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: And then that's when we realized, like we really had problems,
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: like we we had problems, we had issues, but because
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: we were here, like we were here, we were so
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: consumed with everybody else, right, so it wasn't nobody. It
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: wasn't nobody to lean like. It wasn't nobody to lean.
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: On to distract you.
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: So yeah, so yeah, we like we we we had
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: it out.
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: I'm talking like, you know, bringing up everything that I done,
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: did everything or said with them like the last like
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: the years leading up, because you know, we was we
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: was together. Six months later, six months later, I'm like,
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: let's get married.
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: Like like I was. I mean at the first date.
• 28:27
  Speaker 5: I mean, we'll talk. At that first date, I was
• 28:29
  Speaker 5: all in And I'm.
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: Gonna tell you how I thought he was joking when
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: I got the phone call time, I ain't getting married,
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: I said to who.
• 28:37
  Speaker 6: Now.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: We never thought he would be the first one out the.
• 28:39
  Speaker 10: Crew we did.
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, check this out. I'm gonna
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: tell you. I'm gonna tell you we almost an't make
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: it thought it was a joke because you're black ass.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: What I did?
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: You were still mad at me?
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: Cause that so Rodney, same question, when did you realize
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: this when you machine with Dayton that you make a
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: change for yourself in order to you know, for things
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: to improve.
• 29:06
  Speaker 6: It was like it was it was actually more than once.
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: One time.
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: It was one time when.
• 29:13
  Speaker 9: I was still you know, sticking and moving doing you know,
• 29:17
  Speaker 9: the player, trying to be the players.
• 29:20
  Speaker 6: And my son a Mari was like.
• 29:24
  Speaker 9: He was probably like maybe like ten eleven something around that,
• 29:29
  Speaker 9: and he, my Kamari actually came to me and told
• 29:32
  Speaker 9: me one time that you need to.
• 29:34
  Speaker 5: Get it together.
• 29:36
  Speaker 9: And sitting here in that from an eleven year old,
• 29:40
  Speaker 9: I was like, wow, like you know, it.
• 29:45
  Speaker 6: Was like my son kind of shipping on me right now.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you stepped out of that go eat your.
• 29:55
  Speaker 9: Right right like damn, but but it may but it
• 29:59
  Speaker 9: made it made a lot of sense, and that you
• 30:02
  Speaker 9: know that right there told me that, yeah, I'm getting
• 30:04
  Speaker 9: at this.
• 30:04
  Speaker 6: Age where I need to get it together.
• 30:07
  Speaker 9: But it was also it was also another time. It
• 30:11
  Speaker 9: was a time after that when man Shane was going
• 30:15
  Speaker 9: through something and we was breaking up we was on
• 30:18
  Speaker 9: the verge of breaking up and Shana started crying.
• 30:22
  Speaker 6: And I've seen I've broke I've.
• 30:25
  Speaker 9: You know, broken a few hearts in my in my time,
• 30:27
  Speaker 9: and I've seen women cry and heard.
• 30:30
  Speaker 6: Him cry over the phone, want you want, you know
• 30:33
  Speaker 6: type shit like that. And at that time.
• 30:37
  Speaker 9: You know, of course, I was like, you know, she'll
• 30:39
  Speaker 9: get over it. I'll over We'll move on with Shana.
• 30:42
  Speaker 9: It was like seeing her cry did something to me,
• 30:46
  Speaker 9: like it hurt. It hurt me to the point where
• 30:50
  Speaker 9: I was like, like, I'm like the.
• 30:52
  Speaker 6: The worst man in the world right now, you feel
• 30:55
  Speaker 6: me like I felt.
• 30:57
  Speaker 9: I felt like I was like you ever seen like
• 31:00
  Speaker 9: a move you never met seen an actor or actress
• 31:03
  Speaker 9: that played a villain and you just hate, like the
• 31:05
  Speaker 9: nigga that threw his kids out the window.
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: Oh baby, I was made at Mike whey fore, I
• 31:11
  Speaker 4: felt like I just got over the ship a little bit.
• 31:14
  Speaker 9: I felt like that, and it was like I was,
• 31:18
  Speaker 9: so that's what that that's right there is when I
• 31:20
  Speaker 9: knew that, Okay, I gotta figure ship out. I gotta
• 31:23
  Speaker 9: stop living the way I'm living. You know, that's how
• 31:26
  Speaker 9: you stop the you know, stop the you know stop
• 31:30
  Speaker 9: the bullship.
• 31:31
  Speaker 6: And she didn't make it.
• 31:32
  Speaker 9: She made it easy too because her hits hurt.
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: But let me his mouse for real.
• 31:42
  Speaker 8: No.
• 31:42
  Speaker 7: But the thing after that, he did take time out.
• 31:46
  Speaker 7: So we did break up though, Like he was like myself.
• 31:51
  Speaker 4: And that's what he got the phone call and I
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: was and I was like, you.
• 31:54
  Speaker 7: Know what, I think you're right, but I was on
• 31:56
  Speaker 7: the verge of like just letting them go. It was
• 31:59
  Speaker 7: like I was just at that point, and he also
• 32:01
  Speaker 7: felt that, you know, and I think that's what kind
• 32:03
  Speaker 7: of made him. So when he came back and he
• 32:06
  Speaker 7: was like, I think we really should try. That's when
• 32:09
  Speaker 7: we started really having the hard conversations with like how
• 32:12
  Speaker 7: y'all was doing. Like we were like okay, because we
• 32:15
  Speaker 7: was kind of like we both had egos and we
• 32:17
  Speaker 7: both was you know, running from the inevitable because we
• 32:21
  Speaker 7: felt it. It was just we didn't know how to
• 32:23
  Speaker 7: navigate it. It's like we had other outside stuff people,
• 32:28
  Speaker 7: you know, friends, like you know what I'm saying. So
• 32:32
  Speaker 7: we was like we need to be locked in to
• 32:34
  Speaker 7: see if this is going to be what is what
• 32:37
  Speaker 7: we wanted to be. Because he did he would always
• 32:40
  Speaker 7: tell me he did want to but he didn't think
• 32:42
  Speaker 7: he was deservant of love.
• 32:51
  Speaker 8: He really.
• 32:54
  Speaker 7: Every time and like the thing I did respect about him.
• 32:57
  Speaker 7: He told me in the beginning he wasn't ship. And
• 33:00
  Speaker 7: I was like for a nigga to tell you hange
• 33:02
  Speaker 7: ship cause she was like, look, you look like you
• 33:05
  Speaker 7: a good one.
• 33:06
  Speaker 8: I don't think I'm ready for that.
• 33:08
  Speaker 7: And I was like, I'm not ready either, But I
• 33:11
  Speaker 7: like all friendship, that's our friendship, was our foundation.
• 33:15
  Speaker 5: Honestly, that's the thing that keep you. I mean, that's
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: that's really the thing that keep y'all.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: That keep a lot of people together, like me and Kitty,
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: Like me and Keitty was like best friends before, like
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: you know, before we got like before we got married.
• 33:28
  Speaker 5: But like to Rodney point though, like when Yo, when.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: She was like whenever, like she was mad at me
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: and we like, I mean like like she's going like
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: she's going in on me, Yo, I immediately get sick,
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: Like I'm talking like Yo, we were arguing.
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: I'm in the bathroom, like trying to talk, like trying
• 33:45
  Speaker 5: to talk to her. I'm in the bathroom, trying to
• 33:47
  Speaker 5: talk to her through the through the bathroom. Ships not guilty.
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: I want like I want to.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: Like, yeah, yo, I mean like I literally get sick
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: in my stomach when she like when she's like she's
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: up at that time, when she's mad, when she mad
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: at me, bro, I'm like, and then she she already
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: she already know where I'm going, Like, so I.
• 34:12
  Speaker 5: Got like I take a minute.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: Like I'm like, it's like we take a minute, but
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: then like we taking a minute, then we then then
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: I try to talk like then I try to talk
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: to her.
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: I think one day she.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: We was in Georgia, like on one day, she she
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: packed up, I mean she packed up everything like she
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: packed up everything, she threw away, she threw away everything
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: out and brought her like everything out and brought her
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: she was ready to come home.
• 34:36
  Speaker 5: And I'm sitting here like.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: Damn, so what you're about to do?
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: Right yo? We know I'm like I'm crying. She crying
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: Like it's like yo, I'm crying. She crying, and it's
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: like you know, but but we like we got like
• 34:51
  Speaker 5: we got through it.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: And I think I thought, I also think that you
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: know that the quarantine helped as well, because we we
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: we still I mean it's like, yo, it reminded us
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: that we like granted it's still some ship that was unresolved,
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: like it was still some stuff that's unresolved from years ago,
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: and we like we started, like you know, we just
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: started talking about it, and for me, I'd be the
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: like I'm the type that like, all right, look, we
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: already talked about it, so I don't want to talk
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: about it again. However, I do know that if I
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: fucked up in the past, like I have no right
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: to be like I don't want to talk about it
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: or I don't want to hear it, like I gotta like,
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna listen to you as long as you like,
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: listen to you, as long as you want to talk
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: about it.
• 35:29
  Speaker 5: My answer is still gonna be.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: The same, right, But I'm like, yeah, you gotta, and
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: I mean even to like even now like she and
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: like she she's in therapy and you know, she's still
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: she she said to me that she still has she
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: still has trouble talking to me because something it's like, yo,
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: she might see something one way.
• 35:49
  Speaker 5: And it's like I don't say it, like I don't
• 35:51
  Speaker 5: like I don't see it.
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: So you feel like there's like a disconnect with the
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: way y'all communicate with each other way. Stuff is getting
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: lost in translation.
• 35:58
  Speaker 5: Nah, it's not it's not that, it's not it's not
• 36:00
  Speaker 5: a disconnect.
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: It's just that, Yeah, because I don't think this like
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: the ways though, Like if she feels like it's such
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: a like she felt like it's like I feel like
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: it's like a big deal and it's like something that
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: we really got to talk about, I'd be like, all right,
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, we'll talk about it.
• 36:14
  Speaker 5: But I don't.
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: I don't feel the same yet.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: I don't share the same emotion that she's done, that
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: she's that she's expressing in the moment. And it's like,
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: but I tell her, like, yo, I hear everything that
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: she's like, I hear everything that she's saying, Like, I
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: hear everything that she's saying, and just the way I'm
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: just the way that I you know, just the way
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: I respond to it, it come off like you know,
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: sometimes it comes off like yeah, yeah, I'm working on it.
• 36:35
  Speaker 3: So is there an expectation that she wants you to
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: maybe feel the same way or like she thinks that
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: you feeling the same will help.
• 36:42
  Speaker 8: You understand that empathizing empathy.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so she no, I mean, because because the
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: way that I react. Sometimes she feels though the conversation
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: may go nowhere, but I still fight, like I still
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: fight with her, like you know, still tell me, like
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: you know, still tell me even if you even if
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: you feel like I'm not going to see it the
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: way that you know, see the way that you see it,
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: like I like, I still like I still need to
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: know how you feel, like how you feel in that moment,
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: like you know, Cause she.
• 37:12
  Speaker 7: Now it's one thing to allow her to evince, but
• 37:16
  Speaker 7: she's more so looking for a result. If y'all don't
• 37:19
  Speaker 7: have like a result at the end, it is like
• 37:21
  Speaker 7: falling on death is.
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah I know, Yeah I know.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: And it's like like when she won't talk about like
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: the future, like like you know, and she talks about
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: like cause right now we're looking at it like we're
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: looking for apartments and shit, and she'll ask me, you know,
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: she'll ask me like for a solution, and I tell
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: her like, yo, when we talk, when you talk about it, yo,
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: I don't have like I don't have the answer right there,
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: Like I don't have the answer right now, and like, yeah,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: you tell me like what you're trying to do, and
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: I'm looking like all right, cool, we can do that.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: But just because I'm saying that, like I don't have
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: the answer right now, doesn't mean that I'm not thinking
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: about like I'm not thinking about it.
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: So do you give it like a time and say, hey,
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: I don't know right now, but hey, maybe six months
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: we could re visit, or I'm working towards some then
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: I'll have an answer for like in four to five months,
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: a few weeks we could retouch because I'm working on
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: something more sign of papers that were looking at things,
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: and let's follow up at an X amount of time
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: from now so we can.
• 38:11
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I explained, I explained to it.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: I explained to it that while you thinking about this,
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking about something like I'm thinking about something like
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: I'm focused on other things too, I mean, other things
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: to coming back around to that at night. So at
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: that point, like I may not, like I said, I
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: may not have an answer right now, but that's on like,
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: that's on the.
• 38:30
  Speaker 5: List, and when you when we revisited, I'll probably have
• 38:33
  Speaker 5: an answer. And if I do. If I do, I'll
• 38:35
  Speaker 5: give you answer. I'll give you I'll give you what
• 38:37
  Speaker 5: I have.
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: If I don't, I'm gonna look like I'm Leave'm gonna
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: leave right there and be like, look, I'm still like
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: I'm still thinking about I ain't got nothing, or I'm
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: gonna go with what. I'm gonna go with what you got,
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: like what what your plan is, what you like whatever
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: it is that you're thinking. I'm gonna go with that
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: until you know, until I can like until I can
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: give you know, I can give you something. But I
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: also feel like it's a little I mean, especially with
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: me when it comes to like decision making and.
• 39:02
  Speaker 5: Stuff like that. Uh.
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: I think my mother kind of scarred me a little
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: bit because before I bring it, before I bring something
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: to her, like I'll be sitting here trying to do research,
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: make sure I got to answer on top of an answer,
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: on the top of an answer, because my mother, because
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: my mother questioned me about like you know, she question
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: like when I was younger, she questioned me about everything.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: Even when I talk to y'all and I'd be like,
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: you know, and I'd be like yo again, like I
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: need this.
• 39:25
  Speaker 5: Can y'all do this for me?
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: Because blah blah blah blah blah, And I'm not like
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: letting y'all know everything that's going on or everything that
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: I'm doing, and y'all looking at me.
• 39:33
  Speaker 5: Like, especially especially if especially if I ask you all.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: For like ask you all for like something for something
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: like money or something for agent, I'm like, I get
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: it back. It was like I'm sitting there, but it's
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: because like I come, I come from you.
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: I'm like, Nigga, that's my guy saying what.
• 39:51
  Speaker 11: You need a.
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: Back to you said, I said, we'll go to him.
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: But because Nigga ain't have my kids yet, you're gonna
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: have plenty of years make this ship.
• 40:00
  Speaker 5: I check this out. I snuck Shawna though I ain't
• 40:04
  Speaker 5: gonna lie to you. I snuck.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: I snuck out of Shauna. She gave me like she
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: gave it to me. That's not no money right back.
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: And I responded, but.
• 40:14
  Speaker 5: How many you know? But how many?
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: How many key the operators like if we if we
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: asked for it, like we try to make sure we
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: give it back.
• 40:20
  Speaker 5: Just so you know, just so well, just so we
• 40:22
  Speaker 5: stay in good favor. Yeah, just so we stay.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: In good favor, because I mean, yeah, you can get it, y'all.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: Niggas might not you know, y'all might need something or whatever.
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: We might need another favor.
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: But I say, pay that forward in terms of stuff
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: like that, like you don't have to give it back
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: because if I an't have it to give, I wouldn't
• 40:35
  Speaker 3: have gave you.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't volunteered for a god damn thing.
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: I'm like, wow, that's crazy.
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: I'm sure we don't have family members that. It's like,
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: damn you, well keep your head up, pray for you.
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: I was gonna ask you you ain't got it. I
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: ain't got it even man, you know, but.
• 40:55
  Speaker 5: No, but it's I will say, I mean, I will
• 40:58
  Speaker 5: say over the over the over.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Like the last maybe eight years, we like we've gotten
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: better with communication.
• 41:08
  Speaker 5: We got better with expressing.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: I got better with you know, if I'm not feeling
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: like if I'm not feeling like some kind of way,
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: if I'm not feeling myself to at least try to
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: express like try to express that I'm not because I mean,
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: the way I look at it is like yo, if
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: I if I if I you know, if I'm if
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: I'm down, then you know she not like you know,
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: she can't like if I if I don't have that,
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: you know, if I don't got that that you know
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: that face that mold like the Reashuran, it's like, yo,
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: then you know she might worry. And the last thing,
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: trust me, the last thing I need. It's for Keta
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: to be worrying about anything.
• 41:50
  Speaker 14: Bro.
• 41:50
  Speaker 5: She overthinks, and I'm be sitting here.
• 41:54
  Speaker 6: Like it's worried. If it's worrying, sleep and I'll be
• 42:00
  Speaker 6: I'll be laying right next to.
• 42:02
  Speaker 5: Go.
• 42:03
  Speaker 6: I gotta work in the morning and wake.
• 42:05
  Speaker 9: She's looking at me with her eyes about And then
• 42:08
  Speaker 9: that's when she started talking to three o'clock in the morning.
• 42:11
  Speaker 5: Or you get that, or you get that later on,
• 42:13
  Speaker 5: like you know, you know, I was up all I
• 42:15
  Speaker 5: was up all night. He was up all night.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: And then think about whatever, whatever, whatever, whatever, And it's like,
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: for real.
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: I think to go back to a point, and I
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: think Searanot we talked about this off off the show,
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: but I think the pandemic was to turn the point
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: for a lot of couples.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: I've said that.
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: I said that if you don't realize, brother, they like
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: they they're about saying like their spouses, the children, the
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: fucking dog, the house, the mice in the fucking house.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: They realized they like that.
• 42:43
  Speaker 9: Damn.
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: A lot of my cousins, a lot of my cousins
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: are either divorced or or are separated at this point
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: because it's like, I've been with your ass through this
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: these past four years and this lockdowns.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: Have you always walked that hard?
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: Why do you like that?
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: What do you have?
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: The food is going to escape from your mom is
• 43:01
  Speaker 4: ro We.
• 43:03
  Speaker 7: Had fun during the pandemic. That's one thing I would say,
• 43:06
  Speaker 7: Me and Rotney like to be together. We be silent
• 43:09
  Speaker 7: in the same room doing two different.
• 43:12
  Speaker 8: Like we are fine. We don't like we can be
• 43:16
  Speaker 8: in silence and be comfortable.
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: You know that you know what did.
• 43:22
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: You know what? You know what like you know what
• 43:26
  Speaker 5: did us? Like did us? Did us good?
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: But then at the same time kind of like fucked
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: us up a little bit. We was on we was
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: on I m b U the little virtual like the
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: little virtual ship where we was dating on. We was
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: dating on that like going like going different places, like
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: going going on some swinging states, some swingers dates.
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: Jeezs.
• 43:46
  Speaker 5: But but.
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: Gotta keep it spicy stupid now. But yo, we like
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: you know, like our avatars, like you know our avatars
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: like did went to different things like I went to
• 44:05
  Speaker 2: different things different like different con chat rooms, and everything,
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: and you know, we were like were dating like that.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: And then like me and Keeter the type of we
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: the type well we'll have We'll be on We'll be
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: talking to each other. We'll be talking to each other Facebook, Messenger,
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: talking to each other text messages, talking to each other
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: with with on Instagram and ship like sending each other
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: videos on Instagram, having like three different conversations just you know,
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: but just just.
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: Between different apps.
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: On three different apps, have different conversations or and or.
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: And then we just also just started playing the game together.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: Like she sat down started playing, like, well, we'll play.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: The sims don't.
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: Play the games.
• 44:44
  Speaker 7: They don't like to play, so I'll just be watching them.
• 44:48
  Speaker 9: So I mean, I mean, like she she likes playing,
• 44:52
  Speaker 9: like she will play like Mortal Kombat and stuff like that,
• 44:54
  Speaker 9: and I woul play. But see the only thing is
• 44:57
  Speaker 9: I'm I'm more I'm more of a two K NBA
• 45:00
  Speaker 9: two K guy.
• 45:02
  Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, so we don't really do that, but
• 45:04
  Speaker 6: we we do.
• 45:06
  Speaker 9: Other things that have Like if it's like if we're
• 45:08
  Speaker 9: sitting in the house and just board or whatever, he.
• 45:10
  Speaker 6: May let's go to the movies, a man, let's go
• 45:12
  Speaker 6: get something to eat. Yeah, we'll sit saying, well, we'll
• 45:15
  Speaker 6: do that. We'll do think, we'll do things, do things
• 45:17
  Speaker 6: with the boys.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: You used to go to our favorite how guilty pleasure
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: was going to Walmart when it was twenty four hours
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: just waking up, y'all, just waking up, like niggas, just
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: be up.
• 45:28
  Speaker 5: You want to go to Walmart? Heyay, let's go to Walmart.
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: Just I don't need let's just walk away.
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, no real ship. Well, you know, we'll get
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: a soda. We'll get a soda. We're just like, we'll
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: get like some food and some ship. But if you
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: just walking around Walmart three o'clock in the morning, just
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: just watching.
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: It should be happening in Walmart after a certain.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: Now, yo, especially especially that one right there on a pleasant,
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: pleasant hill.
• 45:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 45:52
  Speaker 9: Man.
• 45:54
  Speaker 3: So, next question, what's one of the highlights of your
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: marriage is respecting marriages now that you're seeing at your
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: respective stages. We'll start with rotten sheen. That's one of
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: the things that you've noticed that's changed since y'all have
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: got married, because y'all are what eight like six seven
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: months in.
• 46:10
  Speaker 8: This book, and as far as changes.
• 46:14
  Speaker 3: There can be good, good things, I.
• 46:18
  Speaker 7: Guess now it's like we really protective each other. Yeah,
• 46:22
  Speaker 7: and then we created like new boundaries now and that
• 46:26
  Speaker 7: don't sent you well with like family.
• 46:28
  Speaker 3: Members really.
• 46:30
  Speaker 5: Suck up.
• 46:32
  Speaker 7: Yeah right, we say that, but that's kind of like new.
• 46:38
  Speaker 7: It's like we're still in the beginning stages. So this
• 46:40
  Speaker 7: is new, uncharged territory for us. So it's like kind
• 46:44
  Speaker 7: of like a whole like new thing for us. It's exciting,
• 46:49
  Speaker 7: but it's like, Okay, nigga, we're here, so what what
• 46:52
  Speaker 7: what else?
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: Y'all my husband and my wife people to death because
• 46:55
  Speaker 4: that's all I know.
• 46:59
  Speaker 5: Let me.
• 47:01
  Speaker 8: Well, I'll be like my habbie.
• 47:04
  Speaker 7: Like the first couple of months, man, I'm like, you
• 47:06
  Speaker 7: know what, that's my husband because we've been together for
• 47:09
  Speaker 7: so long, so it's already that comfortability there. It was
• 47:12
  Speaker 7: like we was gonna get here to this point, but
• 47:15
  Speaker 7: it is going on for dinner, I'm gonna kick we
• 47:22
  Speaker 7: got a lot in the house.
• 47:23
  Speaker 8: Yeah, we do do that. And I was but.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: No, it's funny.
• 47:28
  Speaker 4: I got asked because you know, birthday just pays row
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: birthday was New Year's Eve and I text him was like, brother,
• 47:34
  Speaker 4: what you're doing for your birthday? His birthday was doing
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: taco tuesdays. I'm like, what you doing for your birthday?
• 47:39
  Speaker 4: And he was like, I get off here for cis.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: He was like.
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: I was like, y'all should come up, meet me up,
• 47:44
  Speaker 4: you know, the restaurant or whatever. He was like, all right,
• 47:45
  Speaker 4: He's like, oh, text she and to make sure she
• 47:47
  Speaker 4: ain't got dumb playing. I was like, all right, I
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: got it, like sid y'all got something playing. She was like, no,
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: we ain't gonta ll get off here for I was like.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: All right, I see we broke it off.
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: She was like okay.
• 47:58
  Speaker 4: He was like like, I respect this. Checking my wife
• 48:01
  Speaker 4: first and I want to say yeah. Then I get home.
• 48:03
  Speaker 8: She's like, nigga, I told.
• 48:04
  Speaker 9: You yesterday he was going to the d and you know,
• 48:08
  Speaker 9: and that's that's that's That's one thing that I had
• 48:11
  Speaker 9: to like get used to because because I'm like, Dad.
• 48:16
  Speaker 6: Were plans and not even thinking about what she got playing,
• 48:19
  Speaker 6: what we got going on, and.
• 48:22
  Speaker 4: Right you put them on your right ship. Damn my man.
• 48:31
  Speaker 9: But no, back to the birthday thing. I don't like
• 48:34
  Speaker 9: the forties. I've been I've been forty four a couple of.
• 48:38
  Speaker 6: Days and I don't like it. I get cool gotta pee.
• 48:41
  Speaker 6: I was just staying.
• 48:42
  Speaker 9: I don't know if y'all noticed, but I was moving
• 48:44
  Speaker 9: a lot because I caught a Charlie who was sitting down.
• 48:46
  Speaker 6: How the hell up was sitting down?
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: Out of no way?
• 48:50
  Speaker 5: You stretched wrong my ship? No, No, ain't nothing like that.
• 48:56
  Speaker 5: That's one. That one when you you move and it's
• 48:58
  Speaker 5: like stuck and get back.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: Yes, God, I get those. Namn get worse than your forties.
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: One in your foot when your foot fall asleep, No.
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: One in my foot. That when I stretched wrong, and
• 49:11
  Speaker 4: it's like the worst foot was throwing up gang time
• 49:15
  Speaker 4: for you.
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: Feels like TV static on your feetall asleep. It's like
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: I can't.
• 49:19
  Speaker 9: Feel my feet her like he was trying to get
• 49:21
  Speaker 9: away from the toes.
• 49:22
  Speaker 5: Like what you got going on down there?
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: Y'all argue, but question on as far as a highlight,
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: I I enjoy being the bad guy.
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: What do you mean you enjoyed?
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: I told kid to like, hey, listen, if you don't
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: want to blame it on me, like I look, I
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: don't care, like yo, I like I don't give.
• 49:48
  Speaker 5: A fuck one thing, robbing to say I don't give a.
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: Fuck, like he says, nigga, you do have the empathy
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: of a turn.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: It's not no, but it's not that if like she
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: really don't want to know, she really don't want to
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: do something, and she worried. She worried about what with
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: somebody else gonna say, not blame me, you know I'm
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: blaming on me. They got listen, not look how big
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: your bulletproof vest, how big a shield? They ain't nobody
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: say ship like I don't, I don't. I don't got
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: a problem telling the motherfucking no. And I'm with that nag,
• 50:16
  Speaker 2: you know, And just like they said, like, yeah, I
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: when we were I was working, we was working at
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: we was working at chilias together and it's like and
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: I sit here and I watched I watched the other
• 50:27
  Speaker 2: I watched the single guys. It's like me and one
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: of the bartender he was married, so we were watching him.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: Were watching the young guy talking about with his girl.
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: He about to go out, and he be like, yo,
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: you don't want to check with your girl first. He's like,
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: a why would I do that? I was like, cousin, see,
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: you don't check with him, you make a plan. She
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: already and cooked dinner. She waiting on. She waiting on
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: you to come home. But you out here with your homeboys.
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: Now you're gonna be sleeping on the couch or sleeping
• 50:52
  Speaker 2: on your homeboy couch. You ain't even gonna be allowed
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: back in the house.
• 50:55
  Speaker 6: And them couches ain't always comfortable.
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: So all that for just missing the dinner, y'all.
• 51:00
  Speaker 5: But what you learned? I mean, but what you you know?
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: What you learn?
• 51:03
  Speaker 6: Some duds get a bulling rabbit.
• 51:09
  Speaker 5: I'm just what I learned now. But like I talked now,
• 51:12
  Speaker 5: like I told y'all, y'all, this is like how I know,
• 51:15
  Speaker 5: keep the mad?
• 51:16
  Speaker 7: Is it?
• 51:16
  Speaker 5: She fixed herself something to eat and don't even fix
• 51:19
  Speaker 5: me nothing to eat, Like, don't even fix me a plate,
• 51:21
  Speaker 5: and she just go sit down like a ship.
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: I have fucked up, like we were.
• 51:27
  Speaker 5: Good, like what's like, what's wrong?
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: But I enjoy that though, like I like, I enjoy
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: having a like having to call her and be like, hey,
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: what we'll like what we y'all going on? Even when
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: y'all say, even when y'all be like you know what
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: y'all doing, it's like hold on, let me, let me,
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: let me let me text her and see what you
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: see what it is like what well going on or
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: what time, if we got anything, if we got anything happening,
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: and I mean, hell, y'all go to her, y'all, y'all
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: for a while, y'all went to her first, Like hey.
• 51:55
  Speaker 8: But we loved that because it just shows appreciation.
• 51:58
  Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, You respect time exactly, or
• 52:02
  Speaker 7: like even taking us into consideration playing.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: Because once you said I do, it's like ship that
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: me become weak and we're like, hey, look I don't
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: like that.
• 52:12
  Speaker 7: I don't like with the food part though, I don't
• 52:14
  Speaker 7: like sharing my god, damn, every time we go out,
• 52:20
  Speaker 7: I picked.
• 52:20
  Speaker 9: I picked, like the basic ship cheeseburger with bacon and
• 52:23
  Speaker 9: some ship like that.
• 52:24
  Speaker 6: She picks some pastave seafood and all that ship. I'd
• 52:28
  Speaker 6: be like, damn, that ship comes in sizzling, just a
• 52:31
  Speaker 6: basic ass cheeseburger.
• 52:38
  Speaker 5: Let me find out, Let me find the woman and
• 52:42
  Speaker 5: that ship.
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: But like some parmesane, like damn, you.
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: Got that's something. I hate that to ship, don't don't
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: take it.
• 52:59
  Speaker 6: Get gets some.
• 53:05
  Speaker 5: Know, for a while, I used to hate no. But
• 53:07
  Speaker 5: I used to hate no.
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: I used to hate like okay, it will fix me something,
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: and then just like fix me something and then fix
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: her something.
• 53:13
  Speaker 5: So I'm like, why you know you what I'm eating?
• 53:15
  Speaker 5: What the is that? Like?
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: What?
• 53:16
  Speaker 5: Like, what the din't you ask for? Like no, I
• 53:19
  Speaker 5: didn't that.
• 53:21
  Speaker 7: She don't want you to eat what she got, So
• 53:22
  Speaker 7: she's giving you something, you.
• 53:27
  Speaker 5: Know, I don't need to ask for watch some ship
• 53:31
  Speaker 5: and then be like I'm gonna fix you. I'm a
• 53:33
  Speaker 5: fix you.
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: Like she'll do something like I'm gonna fix you some
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: rhymen and I'm like, al right, cool, Like she's you know,
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: she fixed a little steak and fix the steak and
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: ship put it on that and then she then she's
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: trying to rhyme she fixed her something.
• 53:43
  Speaker 5: I'm like, so you're not gonna eat.
• 53:45
  Speaker 6: This for you?
• 53:49
  Speaker 5: No, that's for you.
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: Oh so did you put something?
• 53:56
  Speaker 5: It's not it don't even be that. It will be like.
• 54:00
  Speaker 6: You looking like that what I do?
• 54:02
  Speaker 9: What?
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: That's what I did that I'm making all kinds of ship.
• 54:05
  Speaker 4: I wasn't making out with bitch. I made to make
• 54:09
  Speaker 4: rib from scratch down. I'm sorry what I made to
• 54:13
  Speaker 4: make rid You.
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: Couldn't put me one on the porch Nigga out of
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: the game and picked Nigga.
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: I ate the whole slam to myself, what you using that?
• 54:22
  Speaker 11: Because it was it was, it was, but I made
• 54:27
  Speaker 11: I made the barbecue sauce and thes to go with
• 54:29
  Speaker 11: it and get get that the friend that was that
• 54:33
  Speaker 11: was that was that was shake.
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: That's that shake me shake.
• 54:39
  Speaker 4: That's them they used to give us at school.
• 54:45
  Speaker 5: Wait wait wait wait wait.
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: Time piece that was crashed.
• 54:52
  Speaker 5: Let's not.
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: Let's not act like the Lord chich no, Lord chariochy
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: no little nuggets and the little red nuggets wasn't good though, nigga,
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: that was good because we he.
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: Was hungry pizza fries and chocolate milk stomach.
• 55:06
  Speaker 4: It wasn't to give us sucking pizza with chocolate milk.
• 55:10
  Speaker 4: That's fine. While Wes and tolerant. Now even they served
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: like be sounding like timberlands and there drying like.
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: My kids be like and my kids be like, can
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: I like what's for lunch that they had? Like yesterday
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: was like it was pizza with some with I'm sorry,
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: it was tacos with pears and some broccoli.
• 55:34
  Speaker 5: And then they was like, what was the drink tacos?
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: Then the drink was Then the drink was the vegan tacos.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: It's turkey, turkey tacos, turkey tacos, but broccoli was the
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: vegetable and they.
• 55:47
  Speaker 5: Served and they was milk. Ain't no damn milk. Here,
• 55:51
  Speaker 5: drinks some water because.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: Kids was gonna be there playing butt trumpets.
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: Don't go to do. Sure, something new it's called micos
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: goes good, but tacos.
• 56:04
  Speaker 5: Mm hmm, like you bullsh it, straight up, taste this
• 56:09
  Speaker 5: little bit. Taste this.
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: On twenty fifth, they got some great they got some
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: great on casso migo wings.
• 56:15
  Speaker 5: Yo, dumb bitches, I'm.
• 56:16
  Speaker 3: Sorry, no, thank you, thank you. Liquor. Liquor and food
• 56:22
  Speaker 3: don't mix. I don't need to have.
• 56:24
  Speaker 4: Wings handy s barbecue wings or something like you just
• 56:29
  Speaker 4: getting the flavoring.
• 56:30
  Speaker 5: But you know, yeah, taste this.
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: Do they do some Hennessy barbecue res They serve it
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: over them, going to serve it over rice.
• 56:36
  Speaker 5: I always get, I always get it.
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: I always get them, always get the Hennessy reds. What's
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: all with the dirty rice ribs?
• 56:43
  Speaker 5: The magazine trying to tell you.
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: That sounds like some dairyus on twenty fifth.
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: On twenty fifth, and that bitch Charles the twenty fifth, Nah,
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: Saint Paul, Saint Paul and twenty five yo.
• 56:57
  Speaker 5: They yo, dead fool is like that.
• 57:01
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna introduce the kids to They're gonna be saying,
• 57:04
  Speaker 4: Lil pick them up.
• 57:08
  Speaker 5: You do that ship they're going with you.
• 57:15
  Speaker 3: I'm off that cast it's called it's called House of Friends.
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: A new fruit juice. It's clear it tastes like sprite
• 57:21
  Speaker 3: and a guy the.
• 57:24
  Speaker 4: One hundred percent guy that ship.
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: From the plant from Mexico. Sean, do you have any
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: questions for the marry funk?
• 57:37
  Speaker 4: I guess I kind of did. It kind of goes
• 57:41
  Speaker 4: along with another question, but how did you We're gonna
• 57:45
  Speaker 4: stop the guest, of course, how did you know that
• 57:49
  Speaker 4: she was the one or that he was the one?
• 57:51
  Speaker 4: How did y'all know that I think I'm married this nigga?
• 57:58
  Speaker 9: For me, it was sh it was I mean, it
• 58:01
  Speaker 9: was a lot of signs for real, to be honest
• 58:03
  Speaker 9: with you, I just it was just at a point
• 58:06
  Speaker 9: in time, I wasn't trying to see I wasn't paying
• 58:08
  Speaker 9: attention to.
• 58:11
  Speaker 6: Yeah you know, but I mean.
• 58:19
  Speaker 5: She's standing there like the person at the person at
• 58:21
  Speaker 5: the airport.
• 58:21
  Speaker 9: Like right, holding up the sign right right for controlling
• 58:25
  Speaker 9: like nigga, like just saying, like seeing how much Shana
• 58:34
  Speaker 9: always One thing I can say about my wife is
• 58:37
  Speaker 9: that she never changed the way she felt about me,
• 58:42
  Speaker 9: even when I was breaking her heart, even when I
• 58:45
  Speaker 9: was hurting her, upsetting her, she never changed how she felt.
• 58:50
  Speaker 9: Like I was like last past relationships I was in,
• 58:55
  Speaker 9: I would you know, I would cheat on a female.
• 58:58
  Speaker 6: Or whatever whatever. We would break up and.
• 59:00
  Speaker 9: They would go ahead and I'm gonna get my get
• 59:02
  Speaker 9: back and they would do the same. Sheena never did that.
• 59:06
  Speaker 9: She never she never worried about revenge. She was like, Okay,
• 59:10
  Speaker 9: you hurt me, I'm gonna hurt you this. I'm gonna
• 59:12
  Speaker 9: hurt you in a way. Whereas though I'm not put
• 59:15
  Speaker 9: I'm not I'm not giving, I'm not like you know,
• 59:21
  Speaker 9: in a way whereas she was.
• 59:23
  Speaker 4: Singing trade songs with this girl did tell me trade
• 59:27
  Speaker 4: songs boys and me and Chris Brown.
• 59:29
  Speaker 14: Cut me off from real good.
• 59:39
  Speaker 5: Trust me like this and me cry the next day revenge.
• 59:45
  Speaker 8: No, I'm going saying.
• 59:51
  Speaker 9: Ship like she like like I was like after hurting
• 59:55
  Speaker 9: her and we like done, like went throughout went on
• 59:57
  Speaker 9: separate ways.
• 59:59
  Speaker 6: I would go on so I would like try so
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 6: hard on social.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 9: Media and I would going there and I would see
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 9: her friends posting video because we had like mutual friends
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 9: because we work together. So I would see them posting
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 9: her having her having the time of her life.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 6: I'm in the house, like the comments.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: Like what you said, you are having fun at that
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: And I'm not.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: Drinking tangle, but like I mean, like I ain't making
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 4: no better because that's what your stupid as.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 6: It's just it's and it's just like how I was trying.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 9: Like I was just telling my little my little brother,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 9: shout out to DiAngelo, my little brother the other day
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 9: because he, you know, he's like I'm starting to notice
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 9: that he's like doing the same ship that I was
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 9: doing in the same way I was moving.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 6: And I was telling him, I was like, bro.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 9: That ship is funny games when you're out there doing it,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 9: But when you see her doing it, I'm telling you
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 9: that's sick.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 5: You damn my school.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 6: When you doing it's a problem.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 7: What I do.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 6: Damn let me call you to get back.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 8: Times.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 6: You ain't had to do me like that.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 9: But she but Sheena never compromised her dignity or anything.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 9: She was like, I'm not gonna I'm not you hurt me,
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 9: but I'm not gonna sit there and just go out
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 9: with the next nigga or sleep with the next nigga
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 9: just to just to hurt you.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 6: Nigga.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 3: I wasn't that, but you're you know.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 8: How I was raised.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 4: Watch this nigga.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 5: I was.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 7: But my thing was, it's like, I'm a relationship girl,
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 7: but I don't know how to just happened.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 8: I don't player with nobody. I got friends whose to you.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 8: I'll beat the wing man. You know, break that girl.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 8: I'm watch your back. I'm watching your person.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 7: But like I never like was like even though he
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 7: did what he did, I didn't feel the neat that
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 7: I had to validated with somebody else. He's like, okay,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 7: that's why you want to do you but it ain't
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 7: gonna stop nothing. Don't stop no party over here. I'm
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 7: gonna still live. Like you know what I'm saying. The
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 7: next man, whoever that was going to be other than him,
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 7: I was gonna give him a chance. But you know,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 7: he kept he would never the time I was trying,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 7: and he would.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 3: Be like.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 8: Right back, and I'm like, damn it, I.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 3: Was just leave me alone. Ship.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 8: I was just about.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 4: Girl, Like I heard from me, I was sitting here
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 4: watching I thought about you exactly, I thought.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: And they said, when did you fall in love with Hippo?
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: And the remember what.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 8: I right there shoes like a song.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 7: I was just tray songs and it made me think
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 7: about that time.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 4: The house is not a home, baby, my home.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 3: Girl, you still like one.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 7: But he would pop up like I was what parts?
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 8: So he used to pop up in the job with Lloyd.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 4: Know you got in with the great bro.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 7: To see what time I've been working and pop up
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 7: on him like, because I would not I'm.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 5: Not checking the sun made.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 3: Work.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 4: They called the job and everything.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 10: I know.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: She didn't like, I just made a scorsday.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 3: What youre doing. I was just in the neighbor I
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: just wanted to stop buying.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 4: I need, I need, I need to smile.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 8: Wanted me to pick up.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 5: I'm like, you know I was in the neighborhood.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 8: From your house.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 3: I mean you know we was.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 6: Having a sailing.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: You know, I get my point this kind of this story.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: So I came up just.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 5: Like I was in the neighborhood and.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 8: Make sure now, but what made me fall in love
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 8: with Rodney?
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 3: Though?
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 7: It was like I'm a study of who I'm with
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 7: so getting to know his family like dynamic, and I
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 7: can kind of see why he was the way he was,
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 7: and then the way that he respected his grandmother and
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 7: his mother, and I was like, there's something more to
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 7: you than what you kind of let on. And so
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 7: as I more got to know him as a as
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 7: his self as a man, I was like, I see
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 7: why we do certain things.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 2: I read a lot of the times we don't really have.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: We don't really have, Like I really didn't have the
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: best example of ship, Like, no, the man should be
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: in a relationship I didn't have. I did not have
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: the bad I ain't had the best.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 7: But it was the way that he respects even when
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 7: it came down the show, and it was just the
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 7: effect that he was.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 2: Oh no, hey, I love my mama and I love
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: my sister, had so respect.
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 5: But I love my mother.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: And I love I love my mother, and I love
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: my sisters. I love my sisters. Dam The thing is,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 2: I would never let them see me like I would
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 2: never let them see me.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 5: How I was out like how I was out here.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 4: It just mean nigga thinking.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 2: It's just so happy, it's just so happened.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: My sister all the time, she.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 4: Call me like, let me tell you what damn but
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 4: right he just but like he is min let me call.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: His like I didn't have like I ain't had the best,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: Like I ain't had the best example like you. For
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 2: a while, my grandmother, my grandfather, they've been married, Uh,
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 2: they've been together. I'm thirty eight, they've been other almost
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: forty years, right.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 5: For a while, my grandmother, my grandmother was like she
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 5: left that nigga at her house and she went and
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 5: got an apartment and stayed. They they stayed.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: Separated for probably like five like five years, and then
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 2: they got she wasn't playing with your Then they got
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: then they got back together.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 5: My stepfather, I watched this nigga flirt, that nigga.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: I watched this nigga flirt with other women, and at
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: that time, like I'm young, so I'm thinking, like it is,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 2: like it is what it is because as long as
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: as long as you ain't cheating, like I mean, at
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: that time, I didn't like.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 6: I didn't look I didn't.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: Look at it like that until I got until I
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: got with Kita, and Keita explained that like you know,
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: that's still you know, emotionally like emotional cheating.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 4: Still, any conversation that you got behind your spouse's back, right, and.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 8: They don't know.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 7: Because she didn't start with the conversation. It don't just
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 7: start you in the bed with mine, like you you
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 7: having outside conversations, conversation that you're not exactly or you're
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 7: keeping that away from that's cheating.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, tell me some ship, and I'm surprised because I'm
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 4: gon knock your head between the washing and dry nigga.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 2: So so for me, it was like, yeah, I didn't
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: have like I didn't have the best on I ain't
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 2: had the best examples of what it was. So I
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 2: was kind of like learning this ship on the fly.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: And like as I said, like as I said earlier,
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: it took you know, it took a while for me
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 2: to turn that off.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 5: Now.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 7: It's just like told you a lot of that from
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 7: that perspective, because I feel like with him, I had
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 7: to teach him how to actually love me, you know,
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 7: because it was like, you're not doing it the way
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 7: I presume. But I didn't want to be that girl neither.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 7: It's like, you know how some females I had an
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 7: idea of what a man should be and then they
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 7: don't even fit that mold.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 8: So you try to fight with the guy.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 5: No, whenever we argue.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 2: Whenever we argue, I told her like I told her, y'all,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: fuck your whole life up, like I like, and I
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: apologize for that, like I apologize went Keto before me.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 2: Kety wasn't thinking about marriage. Keaty wasn't thinking about kids.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: Keta wanted to leave Baltimore, but she went to She
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: went to Eastern Shore even like she had she had
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 2: an opportunity to go to college out of state. Her
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 2: mother and the uncle talked in the stand. Her uncle
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: talked in the standing here. Then she ended up going
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: to Eastern Shore. She was sucking up over there. They
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: pulled her back, they pulled out, and you know, they
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 2: pulled out because she wasn't doing what she was supposed to.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 5: And then she got back here.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 2: We meet and then it's like, you know, like I'm
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: at our first date, like I knew, like I knew,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 2: I was like, damn, like I like, I like I
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: fell in love.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 4: Remind me a lot of right. Yeah, Rodney was Rodney
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 4: was at the wedding that Mimy because Mom and Pounce
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 4: was there.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 2: We we we had a fucking ball, like.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 4: I slided Mike across the floor. For it was an
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 4: accident at y'all wedding, it was on purpose.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 10: It was his way, you need you need to go
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 10: ahead and try out for the Baltimore Ravens at.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 5: Three.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 4: And it was legitimate accident at your wedding. But Aaron wedding,
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 4: that ship was on purpose because the bi shopn'd have
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 4: been out there. She was married, Why are you here?
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 3: Move?
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I sure did slide her squartch the floor and
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: didn't set on him.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 5: I did, but I knew, But yeah, I knew.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 2: I was in love, like I was like I was
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: in love. Then three months later, I'm like when we're getting.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 5: Married, and.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: I said, I'm sorry, I'm over the crib like were
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 2: watching like like we was watching we was watching Family Guy.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 2: At first, it was just me and her, and I
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: didn't tell like it didn't become real to me until
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 2: I called my mother and was like, I axecuted me
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 2: and my mother was on like I think I think
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 2: my mother. My mother was crying like, oh my god,
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 2: like you know, she was like she was happy call her.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 2: I called these niggas and was like, yo, so I'm
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 2: getting married.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 4: I was the last one to find out.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah case Shawn, Yeah yeah, shawnas mad Yeah yeah.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: I called.
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 4: I was like, you leave this ship.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 9: But what also shot me was when she when I
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 9: found out you had a kid.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 5: I was no, no, no, no, but see that's the crate now.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 3: Nigga, I'm still shocking here almost a year. No, we
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 3: and you gonna be somebody daddy.
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you know how he told us, he said that's
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 4: the pregnancy test in the group check and we always
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 4: wanted to say, nigga, huh. We were like, here, am
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 4: I dummy? I said, we have no baby?
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 5: No, because listen, that's the first.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 4: Baby we had in a while.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 3: Ship.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 5: Baby, you've been together. We've been together since twenty ten.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 9: Y'all know like growing being born in the ages, growing
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 9: up in the nineties, y'all know how the how the
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 9: uncles used to be, hell, even our aunts used to be.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 9: Write something when I was matter of fact, when I
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 9: was listening to y'all Partcat, I think it was the
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 9: last episode when y'all was talking about how y'all parents.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 9: When your parents had y'all, they weren't teenage, you know,
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 9: Mom and me at fifteen. Yeah, my mom had mom
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 9: had two kids before she was twenty.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 5: One, did too, So my mother had two at eighteen, right.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 6: And that's what I said.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 9: So we didn't So of course we didn't have And
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 9: then my father was in and out.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 6: Our father was in and out, our lives or whatever whatever,
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 6: but we didn't have great the best, the greatest male
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 6: role model.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 9: The robots that I looked the man that I looked
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 9: up to, the temps, the players, the drug dealers, I
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 9: mean branded I ain't got you know, I ain't never
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 9: saw drugs, but you know I picked up the other ship.
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 5: You know, it was a time where we came close.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 3: Money they was they was the women and even the
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 3: women the women was was cheating on them in too,
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 3: you know, like.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 4: We I remember it like it's a lot experience. Like
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 4: I didn't know, like the most example a marriage.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 5: I remember uncle Lord.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 3: I had a couple of uncles watch.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 5: Like that's my home.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 4: I didn't witness I about to go, you know, go
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 4: through some ship relationship wise, so I never really knew
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 4: what a healthy relationship looked like. And then my daddy
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 4: was hope, So like I I didn't I didn't know
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 4: exactly what a healthy relationship was, but I knew I
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 4: wanted the family like we used to watch on TV.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 4: I wanted to call Winslow and the uncle Phil and
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 4: I wanted like I didn't have that, and that's what
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 4: I wanted to give my son. But of course it
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 4: didn't work out that way because.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 5: I still thank you.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 2: Wrong, Shauna, it's not your fault, it's not I know.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: That's when missus, how it wasn't It wasn't your fault,
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: my fault.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 3: I chose wrong.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 5: It wasn't your fault.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 4: But my God, like you know, that's the dynamic. And
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 4: I went and it didn't work out that way. But
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 4: my son, my son healthy, happy.
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: A good kid.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 4: So I'm grateful for her.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: But you know, but like.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 4: Even to this day, you know, being where we are,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 4: I'm not married, but I just and remember, like my
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 4: mother was damned in fifty before she got married. You know,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 4: my mo another sni my aunt just got married in
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 4: her seventies. Jesus got married, but last year I think
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 4: it was in her seventies. So like I don't want
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 4: to wait that guy, damn.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 6: This one.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm staying at my house.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 2: That used to be, that used to be my line
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 2: right there, I ain't getting married and I'm eighty, but I.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 4: Like, did you get married when your dick don't work?
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 4: No more than.
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 3: Nobody was like.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 2: You At that point, I got one in the grady,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 2: like I ain't gonna be.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 5: Married a long. I didn't even wasn't even really.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 6: So also not even not even having kids. I didn't
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 6: want kids. I didn't want to get married.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 4: I was like that, I didn't know. I didn't kids
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 4: wasn't in my plan because I grew up with younger siblings.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 4: I grew up with all brothers, and then I had
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 4: Roddy and all his goddamn brothers, and then the closest
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 4: thing I had to a sister was like my cousins,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 4: and then you know, Key and her sisters and stuff.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 4: I didn't have any sisters. I had the sisters.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: I was, in my damn twenties a blood sister.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 5: But that's crazy in themself.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 4: So I didn't want children at first. And then when
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 4: I found out I was pregnant with Trey, and I
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 4: looked at that like he was crazy. I had already
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 4: took like three pregnancies, and I was like, these ships
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 4: all the fact that all.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 3: These and said.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 4: The doctor came in to say congratulations, I said, on what.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 8: Or have the best thing that.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 4: I'm happening now?
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 7: Kids, I was like no, but I was like for happened.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 7: But I always knew that I always wanted to be married,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 7: but not at the time at that time that I
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 7: had my son in a good time because I had
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 7: lost my mom.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 8: So I was like lost for purpose. So my son
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 8: gave me purpose.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 7: So I mean, like you, I didn't pick well, I
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 7: would say I did pick the because he's a good
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 7: he's a good father, like he ain't on Charles before.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 8: He do exactly what he.
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 7: Needs to do as a father. But in relationship wise, I.
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 4: Wouldn't put the man in my business playing my face,
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 4: so you know, I mean he could get it.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 7: Yeah, he was not for real so but but my son,
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 7: like was my main purpose of everything.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 8: He was my anchor.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: I always told you that he saved my life.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 6: I don't know I.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 5: Respectively their little letters and ship. I'm sitting here like
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 5: he's my side and.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 4: Oh good, like I said, lo, let me go up
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 4: here and say my god child, because he bro when
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 4: I heard that boy starts all ship and then I
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 4: was like he.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 8: Was gonna because Comar. I didn't think he was going.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, And so you know I heard that boys start cranking.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 4: I was like, hell, let me go, say my god.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 5: But it's hard, like you, it's hard.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: It's hard to like express to somebody like expressed, express
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 2: how you feel about somebody that meant the world to you.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 5: I mean, you've seen me at ship.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 2: You seen me buhoorn and tore memorial like like that
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 2: was my nigga.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 5: Yo, you feel what I'm saying.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 2: And them them two together like Rodney and Kamar, and
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 2: it's like.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 5: Yo, that's his man.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 4: No boy love his daddy. I'm giving anybody trying to
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 4: turn him against him. You can't tell that boy nothing
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 4: about his father. And he loved him from Sina like
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 4: he loved him.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 6: Man.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 4: They didn't really surprise me when he, you know, broke
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 4: down the way that he did. But I was sitting
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 4: here like Amara, didn't try to keep myself together this
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 4: whole God damned. When Sheena came to I had, of course,
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 4: we had already seen Sena, so we already had.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 3: Our moment in the damn hotel.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 4: We had already had all makeup and ship that and
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 4: I was holding it together. I kept looking like, oh
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 4: my god, like this really happened, like look at my sister.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 6: And then her.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 4: Sister broke and then I was like, god, damn it, y'all.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: I said, the makeup on the star and get that
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 2: was That's when we was taking pictures in Madison.
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 3: Problem when he got there, he was in the audience,
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 3: he was a man, I'm a gm older to get
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 3: myself right.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 4: No, that's what broke me at his wedding. And then
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 4: I tried not to look at Rodney.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 6: No.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 4: First I said, I wasn't gonna look at mine because
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 4: my crowd at the rehearsal the week before, and I said,
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 4: is Min gonna be sitting on the side where I'm
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 4: be able to see her, like straight on look side
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 4: of his mind sitting on So Min was on the
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 4: side of the brides meads, so I didn't have to
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 4: look directly at her. And so I said, I'm not
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 4: looking at mine. I'm not gonna do I'm not looking
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 4: at mine. I'm not gonna look at grandma because I
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 4: felt like there was gonna be the t But when
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 4: she as soon as that door opened and she came in,
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 4: I looked at Royd and that nigga lips started quivering.
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 2: I said, ship even though, but I had the foresight
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 2: day like even to this day, when I hear when
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 2: I hear India, I re I'm sitting there like.
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 4: I had to make everybody put tissue in their bouquet.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 3: See, y'all beautiful.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 4: Look, I had the full sight to make everybody put
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 4: a tissue in their damn bouquets because I knew it.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 4: And I looked up and everybody was in their bouquet,
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 4: like because I should see y'all.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: I'm sitting there with the eyes closed. I said, I'm
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 2: not gonna do it's mind you, I just seen her.
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 3: All right, Well, we are back from that commercial break
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 3: that I did not announce.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 2: Sorry y'all, niggas say can pause causes without even let y'all.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 5: Know what I mean.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 3: You know, I feel like I.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 5: Felt like he legit said.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 3: We're trying to work on not We're switching up some
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 3: some stuff for season three. We have some some prizes
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 3: that we're working on that we're not going to announceh it,
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 3: because it ain't nothing's ready. Yeah, but we have to,
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 3: you know, refine some things. So we're gonna let the
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 3: the commercial breaks come in where they what they do.
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 3: But with that being said, we're actually gonna wrap up
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 3: part one of this episode here. This episode where Rodes
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 3: Sheena is is really good conversation and we.
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 5: Talked a lot of shit and it went a little
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 5: too deep.
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 3: Not too deep, but it went on real long. But
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 3: the beauty of having these long episodes is we can
• 1:19:35
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• 1:19:45
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• 1:20:17
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• 1:20:29
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• 1:20:31
  Speaker 2: Good lord, but please but please please please share this,
• 1:20:37
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• 1:20:40
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• 1:20:41
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• 1:20:47
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• 1:20:51
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• 1:20:52
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• 1:20:55
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