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Dating Ins & Outs + Would You Dump Him? · Billy & Lisa in the Morning

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  Speaker 1: Now this morning show in Boston, Nellie and Lisa in
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  Speaker 1: the morning.
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  Speaker 2: It's just a great start to my day on kids. Well,
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  Speaker 2: would you look at that, Billy and Lisa. It is
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  Speaker 2: March seventeenth, which is Saint Patrick's Day. So if we
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  Speaker 2: want to say Happy Saint Patrick' Day to everybody, we're
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  Speaker 2: all Irish today. Now myself justin not a big drinker,
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  Speaker 2: so my whole life, Saint Patrick's Day mostly meant it
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  Speaker 2: was my grandfather's birthday rest in peace. Also my best
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  Speaker 2: friend Bobby his birthday. And then once I came to
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  Speaker 2: kiss one oh eight, I learned it was Mikey V's birthday,
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  Speaker 2: So happy birthday to Mikey V as well. Okay, what's
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  Speaker 2: coming up on the show today. One thing you need
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  Speaker 2: to know, Lady God Got tickets. That's happening eight ten
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  Speaker 2: this morning. We're gonna play the Lady Guy Got Monster mashup.
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  Speaker 2: We started this yesterday. We're gonna play a mashup of
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  Speaker 2: Lady God Got songs. This is gonna be tough. You
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  Speaker 2: have to listen very closely. But if you call it
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  Speaker 2: twenty five and can name all the songs in order,
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  Speaker 2: you will see Lady Gaga at the garden in just
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  Speaker 2: a couple of weeks, so eight ten for that now, Billy,
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  Speaker 2: I just said all that, I'm looking at your face.
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  Speaker 2: I know you want to say something. What's on your mind, dude,
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  Speaker 2: I've got story time, you know.
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  Speaker 3: I think the Billy and Lisa Morning Show audience loves
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  Speaker 3: a good story.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you very much for that intro.
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  Speaker 3: Justin so a lot of the listeners know that my wife, Michelle,
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  Speaker 3: and I have spent a considerable amount of time in Africa,
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  Speaker 3: and I guess we're going back again. And my wife,
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  Speaker 3: you may not know, is a biomagnetic practitioner and she
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  Speaker 3: treats humans, but she also treats animals and what she
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  Speaker 3: does brought us to Africa and we went on the
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  Speaker 3: last trip we went on. Our first job was at
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  Speaker 3: a sanctuary called wild is Life, and this is an
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  Speaker 3: incredible place. A lot of listeners might remember that at
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  Speaker 3: the wildest Life facility, they had a big fire within
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  Speaker 3: the past year and it burned down the the barn
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  Speaker 3: that was holding all of the food.
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  Speaker 2: Three months were at the food.
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  Speaker 3: For all of the animals at this sanctuary, and our
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  Speaker 3: listeners were generous enough to join with us and believe
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  Speaker 3: it or not. We raised between thirty and forty thousand
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  Speaker 3: dollars which was enough to buy the food that the
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  Speaker 3: animals needed to get them through the drought. Otherwise they
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  Speaker 3: could have starved to death. Amazing, So thank you to
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  Speaker 3: all of our listeners.
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  Speaker 2: Power Billy, the power of radio and the power of
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  Speaker 2: this show in this radio station. So wild His Life
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  Speaker 2: is an animal refuge.
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  Speaker 3: It's in zimbab We, actually in the capital of zimbab We,
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  Speaker 3: at the town called Haraure. It's elephant nursery, but it
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  Speaker 3: also rescues, rehabs rewild's orphans or injured elephants or other animals,
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  Speaker 3: even giraffe and or alliance.
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  Speaker 2: And I mentioned giraffe.
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  Speaker 3: Because a couple of weeks ago I had to keep
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  Speaker 3: it a secret for a while. But a couple of
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  Speaker 3: weeks ago I was contacted by Roxy, an incredible woman
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  Speaker 3: who operates Wilders Life. We're talking about eighty five thousand
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  Speaker 3: eight is dedicated to these animals who have been saved
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  Speaker 3: and are being given a second chance in life. They've
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  Speaker 3: been attacked by poachers, but her goal is to get
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  Speaker 3: them back in the wild. And she keeps them and
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  Speaker 3: feeds them and takes care of them for as long
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  Speaker 3: as it takes to get them.
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  Speaker 2: Back in the wild. Following me following.
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  Speaker 3: So, Roxy in Harari and Zimbabwe contacted me just recently
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  Speaker 3: and said, we are so grateful for what you and
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  Speaker 3: Lisa and the morning show in Boston did for us
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  Speaker 3: in our crazy time with the fire and losing all
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  Speaker 3: the food and everything else.
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  Speaker 2: And she said, a giraffe.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to get a notion emotional, Okay, a giraffe
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  Speaker 3: was born to a mother giraffe who otherwise, here's the connection,
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  Speaker 3: may have starved to death and this giraffe may never
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  Speaker 3: have been given life. So she sent me a picture
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  Speaker 3: a couple of weeks ago of this giraffe telling me
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  Speaker 3: as a thank you, they named the giraffe after me.
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  Speaker 2: Billy.
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  Speaker 3: You can call him William or Billy either or but
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  Speaker 3: it's my fourth son wandering around Zimbabwe.
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  Speaker 2: Billy the giraffe in Africa. Oh my god, yes, Billy,
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  Speaker 2: Billy the giraffe is tall and thin, as tall as
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  Speaker 2: a house there is from Toes to gin.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god. I love giraffes.
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  Speaker 2: Oh they are true incredible to hang around. Well, do
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  Speaker 2: you have pictures? Yes?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for asking. And now that I've been given
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  Speaker 3: permission by Roxy and Wilders Life. I will be posting
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  Speaker 3: the pictures and the latest video that I just got
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  Speaker 3: yesterday of my son healthy and walking around. He was
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  Speaker 3: born with some conditions. They took care of everything, and
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  Speaker 3: they didn't want to release the video or have me
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  Speaker 3: talk about it until they know or knew my son
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  Speaker 3: was going to be Okay, he's in the clear and
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  Speaker 3: he's wandering around the eighty five thousand acre property in
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  Speaker 3: rr Wow.
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  Speaker 1: So what are you going to go visit him?
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  Speaker 3: Well, it's funny you ask. We were planning on going
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  Speaker 3: on our August vacation. We're still trying to put that together.
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  Speaker 3: But if not, Michelle may go without me, or we'll
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  Speaker 3: definitely go back early next year to see my son.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, So a couple of questions here that Lisa
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  Speaker 2: and I have Yes, go One is is Titus gonna
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  Speaker 2: be jealous at all? There's another member of the family.
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  Speaker 2: It's a very good question. I haven't told them yet.
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  Speaker 2: Why are you waiting to break the news.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I'm telling our beloved audience first, the Billy and
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  Speaker 3: Lisa Show audience, and then I'm sure Michelle and I will.
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  Speaker 2: Break it to Titus, he's such a good boy. And
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  Speaker 2: now Titus today, and now Billy that youiraff, he's a
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  Speaker 2: good boy too, good boy. I can't bring him here though,
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  Speaker 2: you can't bring him here.
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  Speaker 3: I don't think, you know, I've got pretty high ceilings,
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  Speaker 3: but I don't think I don't think that's yeah, I
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  Speaker 3: don't think that's implement a growing giraffe, the long neck.
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  Speaker 2: But he's very handsome, he's a good boy.
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  Speaker 4: That is.
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  Speaker 2: Make sure he stays warm.
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  Speaker 3: Following morning ak Billy awoke cold and shaking.
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  Speaker 2: He wished he had a nice warm coat. Where now
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  Speaker 2: he'd caught.
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  Speaker 1: A very throat.
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  Speaker 2: Well, well think about you get a source road. It's
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  Speaker 2: a giraffe. That's a lot of soreness. Yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 2: it's like a long.
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  Speaker 1: A long tongue and a long neck.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you. Yeah, okay, I'm trying to tell a story.
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  Speaker 2: You know what Michelle is going to say next. You
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  Speaker 2: can probably guess right. Oh, we got to get a
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  Speaker 2: place in Africa. Oh yeah, yeah, your son is there.
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  Speaker 3: He would list him to the wild, and again, that's
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  Speaker 3: the goal all animals. The goal is to rehab them,
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  Speaker 3: fix them up, and get them back out to join
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  Speaker 3: their herds, their families and in.
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  Speaker 2: The wild again.
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  Speaker 3: So it's a very cool story. I'm excited about it
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  Speaker 3: and thank you for sharing.
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  Speaker 1: It's a beautiful story.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's amazing, Billy. I can't wait for the pictures
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  Speaker 2: to get posted. I haven't seen them. Sure you post
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  Speaker 2: them on the Kiss and Billion Lisa in the Morning Instagram. Bo,
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  Speaker 2: it's funny you say that because you're the one who's
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  Speaker 2: going to be posting. No, it's producer. Riley can help
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  Speaker 2: you with that. I can too. But okay, so how.
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  Speaker 1: Big is he right now?
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  Speaker 5: Like?
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  Speaker 1: What is it?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: He's already probably fifteen twenty feet tall.
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  Speaker 2: That was the most amazing thing.
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  Speaker 3: The very first picture I saw an hour after he
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  Speaker 3: was born.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, who and what did he come out of?
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  Speaker 2: Very tall?
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  Speaker 6: Son?
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  Speaker 2: Have you ever seen have you ever seen the video
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  Speaker 2: of a giraffe being born? I have? Yes? What?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: On YouTube? You can see it's really intense because they're
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  Speaker 2: very long legged. You've been at birth, yes, and then
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  Speaker 2: long neck. I mean, how does all that come out? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: It folds up and then it unfolds. Thank you Lisa
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  Speaker 1: for these from the Planet Fitness Kiss one O. Wait studios,
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  Speaker 1: we're back with a Billy and Lisa in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: So on the Billion Leads Show, we'd love to keep
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  Speaker 2: you update and all the things going on that's an entertainment, news,
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  Speaker 2: pop culture and also dating. So we're in a brand
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  Speaker 2: new year now, twenty twenty six. A lot of people
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  Speaker 2: still looking for love dating on the app. So mind
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  Speaker 2: ask yourself what's in and what's out for dating in
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  Speaker 2: twenty twenty six. Well, I'll let this girl sell it.
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  Speaker 7: Weekend dates are out only be accepting dates on Tuesday
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  Speaker 7: to Thursday. Here, I'm going to do more bits on
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  Speaker 7: first dates and less oversharing.
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  Speaker 1: Oversharing is literally the number one.
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  Speaker 7: Mistake that I've made in twenty twenty five, and I
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  Speaker 7: know I can do better anothery're out staying too long
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  Speaker 7: on a first date. We find myself in the position
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  Speaker 7: on a first date where like I can't find my
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  Speaker 7: way out and going into every single date in twenty
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  Speaker 7: twenty six with a hard out in our drink states
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  Speaker 7: and out or walking slash coffee dates. It's with a
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  Speaker 7: drink state, like you're sitting at a table, the waiter
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  Speaker 7: comes and they say, oh, do you want a second drink?
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  Speaker 6: You can always say no, I have to go home. Also,
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  Speaker 6: you go on a coffee date, the caffe busy, you
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  Speaker 6: don't have a place to say, you're standing outside like
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  Speaker 6: it's it's so much easier to just do a drink.
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  Speaker 6: State In is making out or having sex on the
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  Speaker 6: first date only twenty six Out is unfortunately ugly boys
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  Speaker 6: on so many dates with ugly boys In twenty twenty
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  Speaker 6: five things is that boys are always going to screw
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  Speaker 6: you over something you might as.
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  Speaker 7: Well be hot twenty twenty six. In is ghosting people
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  Speaker 7: after the first date. Don't need a paragraph explanation of
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  Speaker 7: like why you don't want to go out with me.
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  Speaker 1: I've been burned by this in the past.
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  Speaker 2: The first date you.
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  Speaker 7: Literally don't know the person. There's no first kiss or makeouts.
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  Speaker 7: You can ghost them.
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  Speaker 2: I'm confused. So sex on the first date is yes,
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  Speaker 2: So no, that was an inn. Yeah, that was an inn.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that was definitely an in.
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  Speaker 2: Definitely sex on the first day. So at least you
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  Speaker 2: can run through these again maybe and that can we
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  Speaker 2: can tackle one of this.
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying, Okay, she's saying out are coffee dates. Basically
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  Speaker 1: she's saying in or like meeting someone for drinks.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, the coffee kind of confused me. I thought coffee
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  Speaker 3: dates were good.
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  Speaker 2: Well, not really sure they were. We talked about that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they were kind of popular for a while, coffee dates
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  Speaker 2: because it's not that much of a commitment. It's a
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  Speaker 2: lunch thing. Yeah, you know midday that are going on.
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  Speaker 1: In Okay, also out as oversharing according to this woman,
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  Speaker 1: which I kind of agree with.
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  Speaker 2: And you never talk about like a nex or something. Yeah, no, just.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, keep it close say. She's also said that a
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  Speaker 1: heart out is sorry, an in is ghosting. After the
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  Speaker 1: first date if you don't like the person, you don't
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  Speaker 1: and you don't have to send like a whole like
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  Speaker 1: paragraph on why you don't want to see them again.
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  Speaker 2: This is just after a first date.
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  Speaker 1: You meet them one time, like right, She's like, you
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  Speaker 1: don't have to like get into why just it didn't
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  Speaker 1: work out. And then she said out are ugly boys.
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  Speaker 1: That was her.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she said those on the first date.
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  Speaker 2: It's fine unless they're ugly. Well our ugly boy, we're
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  Speaker 2: ugly boys. And well, let's producer Riley is single, she's
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  Speaker 2: on the dating apps. Do you agree with this list.
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  Speaker 5: Or what I actually agree with a lot of it.
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  Speaker 5: I think that I understood what she was saying about
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  Speaker 5: the coffee dates, like especially when she was like, if
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  Speaker 5: there's no if you're going to a busy coffee shop
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  Speaker 5: and there's nowhere to sit, that's so awk word, Like
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  Speaker 5: if you're going to a bar, there's most of the
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  Speaker 5: time of place to sit. And then she was saying like,
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  Speaker 5: then you have a heart out. If a waiter comes
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  Speaker 5: over and they're like, you want another drink and you're
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  Speaker 5: like not feeling it, you can be like, oh no,
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  Speaker 5: I'm good, I gotta go. It's like easier than being like,
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  Speaker 5: at a coffee shop, you finish your drink. Should we
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  Speaker 5: still be sitting here?
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  Speaker 1: What are we doing? But the ugly boys thing?
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  Speaker 5: I agree, Why would you waste your time on an
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  Speaker 5: ugly guy?
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's a drink thing.
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  Speaker 3: A second drink, though, could make the opponent a little
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  Speaker 3: more attractive.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, it could.
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  Speaker 3: At least attractive enough just for that.
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  Speaker 1: I also agree with her on out weekend dates. I
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  Speaker 1: think that meeting somewhere for the first time during the
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  Speaker 1: week is actually a much better strategy because then if
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  Speaker 1: you like them, then you can make a weekend date
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  Speaker 1: for the second date.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly Okay, but what if you like work during the
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  Speaker 2: week and weekends are your time where you can date.
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  Speaker 2: That would make a weekend date more more sensible and
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  Speaker 2: more sensible. Right, Yeah, I work week I go out
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  Speaker 2: on the weekends. You know.
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  Speaker 5: I think what she's saying is that you don't want
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  Speaker 5: to waste your weekend, Like if the date is bad,
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  Speaker 5: you're wasting your weekend. Like Chapelerone said, never waste a
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  Speaker 5: Friday night on a bad date.
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  Speaker 2: Right, Oh, and you don't know, you don't know if
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  Speaker 2: it's gonna.
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  Speaker 1: Be a bad date exactly, So you go on a
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  Speaker 1: on a Tuesday and then then you roll into Friday
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  Speaker 1: with some hope.
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  Speaker 2: Chapel Roone said that.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, she has a song of red Wine super Nova.
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  Speaker 5: She has a lyric in that about it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I agree with anything Chapel Roone says. So I
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  Speaker 2: also have this list here of the ten mistakes that
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  Speaker 2: people make with their dating profile. So I was kind
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  Speaker 2: of going over these with producer Riley on what she
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  Speaker 2: thought about them. Number one is using humor as a shield,
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  Speaker 2: so trying to be funny.
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  Speaker 1: You know, people like funny.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I'm That's what I think. But maybe if
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  Speaker 2: you are not funny, but you're trying to be funny
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  Speaker 2: maybe yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Like if you're not funny in person, then it's like,
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  Speaker 5: well who is that guy?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you might think you're funnier than you really are.
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  Speaker 1: That's the thing, and then you bomb most people do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, this one's interesting, this one. I think a bill
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  Speaker 2: with this one. Mentioning your pets or kids in a
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  Speaker 2: way that dominates your personality, like talking about your dogs.
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  Speaker 2: Are you're talking about t as you?
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  Speaker 4: I love?
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  Speaker 2: But you know, if you're on a first date, villain,
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  Speaker 2: you're like, he's a good boy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no dog baby talk on a first date, I think,
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  Speaker 3: because you never know how they're going to receive it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So Riley, what if a guy has a picture
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  Speaker 2: their profile picture as them and their pet.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, so we were talking about this. If you're with
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  Speaker 5: your pet, that's fine, but I hate when men have
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  Speaker 5: just a picture of their pet, Like you're only you
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  Speaker 5: only have six options for a picture, and you're wasting
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  Speaker 5: one on your dog. Yeah, your dog is cute, but
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  Speaker 5: I don't care what your dog looks like. I care
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  Speaker 5: what you look like exactly.
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  Speaker 1: But some of these dating websites use that as a
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  Speaker 1: way for people to connect. So if you're a dog
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  Speaker 1: person and this person is a dog person, then that's
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  Speaker 1: like a check in the right box.
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  Speaker 2: Now, because a dog person can't be with a non
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  Speaker 2: dog person, right.
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  Speaker 5: But put a picture of the two of you, you
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  Speaker 5: and your dog, yeah, just your dog, yeah, or.
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  Speaker 2: Just leave your dog out of it. It's a first date.
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  Speaker 2: They have no right meeting your dog.
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  Speaker 1: That's true too.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so the picture with you and your pet, you
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  Speaker 2: and your dog is not just the dog. That's what
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  Speaker 2: we think, right, okay. Also on this list using group images,
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  Speaker 2: so meaning your picture is you and like six people. Yeah, oh,
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  Speaker 2: like a wedding picture, any picture of you and your
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  Speaker 2: friends instead of just you.
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  Speaker 5: Well, we were saying, me and Katie were actually talking
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  Speaker 5: about this because half the time it's a group picture
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  Speaker 5: and you're like, that's the hot one, and it's never
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  Speaker 5: that guy, it's always his friend. It's the ugliest guy
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  Speaker 5: in the picture. That's who you're looking at.
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  Speaker 2: That was the first thing I thought. If somebody in
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  Speaker 2: the picture to say, who's that.
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  Speaker 1: Right, and you don't know if it's him or not exactly,
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  Speaker 1: You're like, your friend is hot?
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  Speaker 8: Is he single?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? It's yeah, I know, this was the first day.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think it's working out. Who's the guy? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: well he's married, you know what I mean? I do
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  Speaker 2: like that one. That one's interesting, all right, last one?
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  Speaker 2: Long check lists, Oh, those are a definite no no.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: So when you have checklists in your bio, you know
• 15:06
  Speaker 2: what I mean? So about you, Yeah, it's very long
• 15:09
  Speaker 2: with things you're looking for. I'm looking for this and that.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: That is such a red flag because you're never going
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: to be all those check marks.
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
• 15:18
  Speaker 5: Well, can we go back real quick to the kissing
• 15:20
  Speaker 5: and sex on the first date, because I mean sex
• 15:23
  Speaker 5: is obviously like in the moment, if you want to
• 15:25
  Speaker 5: have sex with.
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: Them, go ahead.
• 15:26
  Speaker 5: I fully agree with the kissing thing because I want
• 15:28
  Speaker 5: on a date semi recently with a guy and he
• 15:31
  Speaker 5: was a bad kisser, so I didn't go out with
• 15:32
  Speaker 5: him again.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I have to say, I think kissing
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: on a first date is totally fine. It's important to me.
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: What was that.
• 15:42
  Speaker 5: About the Yeah, like we were just there was it
• 15:47
  Speaker 5: was a right, like we kissed it differently and it
• 15:50
  Speaker 5: was like, I'm not going to spend the time to
• 15:52
  Speaker 5: make you a good kisser to me like, you might
• 15:54
  Speaker 5: be a good kisser to somebody else, but you're not
• 15:55
  Speaker 5: for me, So I'm not going to Maybe that's and
• 15:59
  Speaker 5: that's fine. That's why we didn't go out again.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: You weren't compatible in that ex What was he like?
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: Too aggressive? Was he an aggressive kiss a lot of tongue.
• 16:06
  Speaker 5: And that's not to say that that's not always good.
• 16:10
  Speaker 5: It just wasn't working for me, and I was like,
• 16:12
  Speaker 5: I'm not going out with you again.
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: Sorry, Well you want.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: To ease into it it. There's your little tongue before
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: you just you even kiss without tongue, Well you can
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: Depends on how much this was like, depends on a
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: lot of facts.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: There's a lot.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: And Lisa in the morning.
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: This morning over coffee off the air, we were talking
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: about how difficult it can be right now, dating right
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: the dating scene is terrifying, especially if you're dating someone
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: and and you find out something that you never realized
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: out of left fields, almost by accident.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: How about this girl in Austin who I have been
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: dating in Austin.
• 16:52
  Speaker 9: It's terrible, but I honestly I didn't see this one coming.
• 16:56
  Speaker 9: You all, So the first time I go to this
• 16:59
  Speaker 9: guy's apartment. We've gone on a few dates and I
• 17:02
  Speaker 9: notice that he doesn't have soap in his shower. Maybe
• 17:06
  Speaker 9: he's out, I don't know, don't say anything about it.
• 17:09
  Speaker 9: A month goes by, we've been going on other dates.
• 17:12
  Speaker 9: We go to his apartment. I look in the shower.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: Still no soap. This is weird.
• 17:17
  Speaker 6: This is really weird.
• 17:19
  Speaker 9: So I asked him and I say, hey, do you
• 17:22
  Speaker 9: have any soap? And he says, oh, I ran out,
• 17:26
  Speaker 9: I don't have any soap right now. And I said, well,
• 17:29
  Speaker 9: how long have you been out of soap? He's like, oh,
• 17:32
  Speaker 9: a few days. And I said, well, what have you
• 17:33
  Speaker 9: been doing? He said, I've been using hot water. And
• 17:36
  Speaker 9: I told him that I actually noticed about a month
• 17:38
  Speaker 9: before that he didn't have any soap. And he eventually
• 17:44
  Speaker 9: admits that just using hot water is fine to wash
• 17:50
  Speaker 9: your body in his mind. So I told him that
• 17:56
  Speaker 9: I did not agree with that and that he needed
• 17:58
  Speaker 9: to get some soap. So he got some soap, and
• 18:02
  Speaker 9: then I went back to his apartment. He had soap.
• 18:07
  Speaker 9: The soap was completely full. I asked him if he
• 18:11
  Speaker 9: used the soap. He said he did. I unscrewed the cap.
• 18:16
  Speaker 9: The little foil thingy is still on the soup. He
• 18:19
  Speaker 9: had not used the soap, So that's how my dating
• 18:23
  Speaker 9: life is going.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Right, So he's not washing his hair, right, Yeah, shampoo
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: because some people would argue, well, if I'm washing my
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: hair and the shampoo will like run down.
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: Over that theory about watching my legs. I don't wash
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: my legs every single time, you know, unless I'm like
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: after working out, because yeah, the soap runs down. Well
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: how about your feet sometimes? Oh yeah, that's a separate issue.
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: But I would want to ask her does the guy smell?
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Right? That's that's the big thing. Does he smell?
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: And the other thing that strikes me is the line, right,
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: that's the concern of mine.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: He stuck with it, lying to her about something insignificant. Now,
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: you gotta if you don't want to use the soap,
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: but she you feel forced to. You got to open
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: it up, dump a little bit out, put it back
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: in the tub.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: But you're right, Billy, it's it's a bigger issue with
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: the lying.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what else is he lying about?
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: I mean some people, I guess, I don't know.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: There's no reason to lie about the soap. I mean, yeah,
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: you don't want to got to be honest. I'm okay,
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: I'm okay.
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: We not water. I mean, Billy always says he thinks
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: his body's a temple. That's what he always said. My
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: body's a temple, So maybe he thinks that.
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: Okay, you know, but if your body's a temple which
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: still needs to be washed.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: One would argue.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: And I really don't think hot water is cutting it.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: But the big question besides the lying is, like you
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: guys said, does he smell?
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: I would That's the question I would want to know.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know, Lisa, if this is you, what are
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: you doing? What are you doing? If this is you?
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, don't I mean, I think it would be.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: I think it's peculiar. I think that somebody that's not
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: using soap at least once a week, like, let's just
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: give the guy benefit of the doubt. There's something going
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: on at least the pits and slits, right, right?
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: Who said that? That was famous.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Emila Kunas right? I think, well, she.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: Only watches her. I can't even say it.
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: It's yeah, yeah, the slits and yeah, thank you, thank
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: you for saying yeah.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think when you when you go into
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: the dating, you know, atmosphere. There's just basic things like
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: just basic wash yourself, right, like, yeah, don't if you're
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: gonna have clone, don't wear too much colone, clean your nails,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: brush your teeth like I would. I would want to
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: ask this girl, like, is this guy brushing his teeth?
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Oh? That's key, right.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: If he doesn't like to use soap on his body,
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: then why would you want to use, you know, toothpaste?
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: I mean, hot water is only going to do so much, right,
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta wash, Yeah, you gotta scrub, you gotta.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Is there anything about you justin the gen doesn't know?
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: I mean I might have any toenails live on the air,
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah that you might. Yeah, I mean that was one
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: of the top moments of twenty twenty five.
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: I didn't pick it, but and she didn't know about it,
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: that you were eating your toenails.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: I actually should give an update. You know what. One
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: of the gifts she got me in my stocking, he's
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: really nice toenail clippers. Ah, I love toil. These ones
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: are great. They have a nice grip on them.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Since she's embracing this weird habit of yours.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: You know what, she loves me no matter what, Yeah,
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: I guess.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: And you know what, the rubber grip is critical on
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: the toenail clippers because it can slip right out of
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: your hand.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: Because yes, and I have used them. They're fantastic. I'm
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: a big fan of the toenail. You got to have
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: both the finger and the toe. Yeah. But I think
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: I think that, you know, you can always find something
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: about somebody that maybe you don't like, you don't agree with,
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: you wish you did better. Yeah, but this one, again, there.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: Are layers now of a problem with this.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: So my question is this, if he doesn't smell and
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: you find it he doesn't use soap, doesn't really matter, oh,
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: Producer Riley, I.
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: Just feel like the bigger issue here is that she
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: It bothered her enough that she checked multiple times. So
• 21:56
  Speaker 5: whether or not he smells or not, I feel like
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: isn't the issue. It's the fact that she kept bringing
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: it up and he didn't change, so that means it's an.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Issue for her.
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: They're not going to last.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: But he also kind of lied.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: He's a stage five.
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: Line, right, I mean, that's that's the problem.
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the smallest thing he's lying about. Yeah, I
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: would start worrying about the other.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: Things he's lying.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're starting off the relationship not in a good way.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: A couple of months.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't seem compatible. Obviously washing is important to
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: her and it's not to him.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: That's right. Watching off, Well, you got to I think
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: that the relationship's over.
• 22:31
  Speaker 8: I'm sorry, but if you want me to tickle my chancels,
• 22:35
  Speaker 8: what's something you have? You better be using soap on
• 22:39
  Speaker 8: every area, including the airy area.
• 22:43
  Speaker 9: Yes.
• 22:44
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• 23:03
  Speaker 3: and we're talking about weird things you find out about
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: someone you're dating you never realized existed. We had a
• 23:10
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• 23:12
  Speaker 3: a boyfriend of two or three months that never uses
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: soap and lies about.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: It and basically refused he U is it?
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, let's go to the phones. Hailey's on the phone
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: from Hudson, New Hampshire. Haley, what have we got? Hi?
• 23:24
  Speaker 10: Good morning. My name's well Hailey. I'm calling because I've
• 23:27
  Speaker 10: been married for twenty five years and my husband he
• 23:30
  Speaker 10: could be dripping wet with sweat, but he doesn't smell.
• 23:34
  Speaker 10: Apparently has his gene, but he has, but it's not active.
• 23:38
  Speaker 10: That's why he doesn't sweat. Well, he sweat, but it
• 23:41
  Speaker 10: just smells like nothing. So and yes, he does shower,
• 23:45
  Speaker 10: but I think that's just part of his routine. But
• 23:47
  Speaker 10: he wouldn't have to if he really needed to.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: So when he showers, though, is he using soap of
• 23:53
  Speaker 3: any kind?
• 23:55
  Speaker 10: Yes?
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, but you probably didn't know he was a
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: big sweater.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: What she's saying is that that he doesn't smell when
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: you're sweat. So there are some people out there that
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: it just doesn't affect them.
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: The dirt he doesn't smell.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: Doesn't smell. She said, it's a genetic thing. I mean
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: it could be.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: Wow, I don't know if I believe that. I don't know,
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: like go through a hard.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: Workout, Like do you smell, billy when you sweat?
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: See, I'm going to be honest and I'm going to
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: say no, I don't. Okay, but I don't think we smell.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: Ourselves the way others do. That's that's a good point.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: You know. I used to think I didn't smell either,
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: But you know there's been times where I worked out
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: and I'm super sweaty. I go home and there's a stench.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: I also, I also think it's what you wear. There's
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: certain materials that make you smell, like when you're working out, so.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: The sweat doesn't gets into the material.
• 24:44
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: Like I noticed with my boys, like if they wear
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: a certain like athletic shirt, it like makes them smell,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: and then if they're wearing just a cotton T shirt,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: they don't.
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah. A lot of.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: People don't smell themselves, right, you know, or they like
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: the smell of themselves, right, so it's not an issue
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: to them, Like the guy without the soap that we
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: heard from.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: The woman or the guy without the bo Yeah, I
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: don't wear be don't wear deodorant most of the time.
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: I don't. I'm just being honest with you. Really, have
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: you ever smelled me? Am? I offensive? I mean, I
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: don't sniff you, but I've never You've never smelled bad.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: Sat next to you for twenty five years and you've
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: never smelled.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't use deodorance very rarely like some for
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: some strange reason, occasionally alone.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: So maybe there's something too with that collar.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: Was saying, Yeah, I use women's deodorant.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: What kind?
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: Dove? Yeah?
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: Oh okay?
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: Or Secret? Okay, it makes me break out. It's I
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: don't understand why.
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: Okay, there's a difference between Dove and secret. I prefer secret,
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: like never.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Be seen as a man in pubably using secret deodorant. Well,
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: I had to. I mean I get I get these
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: like welts underneath my arm. Yeah, if I use male deodorant,
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: you I'm gonna say, I'm weird. What do you want
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: me to say? Bill?
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: Apologies? But the first thing that popped into my head
• 26:01
  Speaker 4: when Justin said he doesn't possibly watch it to be
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: every time was the fact that you have that habit
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: possibly chewing your toenails. That's all I'm thinking of. I can't,
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: I can't get into the hole, not wash your legs.
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: I washed everything head to toe. But my son doesn't
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: you shampoo, and he hasn't used it an a year
• 26:24
  Speaker 4: and his head doesn't smell.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: It's crazy.
• 26:27
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, And and we have to be upfront with
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: our listeners because as a show we get a lot
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: of new listeners every single day, every hour. So just
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: to update you with Justin and the toe thing. He
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: admitted live on the air not too long ago that
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: he clips his toenails and saves them so he can
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: chew on them.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Now, I don't save them. I put them. Oh no,
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: you said you ketch them in a jar. It grosses people.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: I don't want to go too much to know. I
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: don't put them in a jar. You made that up.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: This guy's got liabetes. It's like just making stuff off. Guys.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: Come on, No, when I when I kill my toenails,
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: sometimes I chew my fingernails, so sometimes I'll put them
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: in Sure, I can't believe we're doing this again.
• 27:11
  Speaker 11: We got to move on the girl and she found
• 27:13
  Speaker 11: out the guy she's dating doesn't use soap, And yes,
• 27:19
  Speaker 11: the line is terrible, but all I keep thinking about
• 27:22
  Speaker 11: is the fact that he probably had sex with somebody
• 27:24
  Speaker 11: else and maybe like didn't use protection or something, and
• 27:32
  Speaker 11: like he's not washed that off ever with soap.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: Ever with soap.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: All for the tickling the tonsils thing, yeah, well no,
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: think about it.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: If he's intimate with somebody, right, he doesn't wash it off.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: With soap and then he's intimate with somebody else. That's
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: that's a really good partly.
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Well I was dating a guy.
• 27:51
  Speaker 11: We were traveling somewhere. I was booking the flights, and
• 27:56
  Speaker 11: he wouldn't give me his license, like you wouldn't tell.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: Me his say, so I just like gave up.
• 28:03
  Speaker 11: He ended up booking it on his own and turns
• 28:06
  Speaker 11: out that he was like five years older than what
• 28:10
  Speaker 11: he put on his dating profile and just never told me.
• 28:13
  Speaker 9: I ended it after the trip was over.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to end it stuff like that.
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well they're lying in the beginning, he can't. That's
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: a flag. Yeah.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: I want to say, if you discover something, do the
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: trip and then address it.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: Get the trip in, especially if somebody else is paying. Yeah,
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: get the vacation and enjoy it, and then do what
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: she did. Hi, I was.
• 28:34
  Speaker 9: Calling about the guy not taking a shower. Well, I
• 28:39
  Speaker 9: dated a guy and after a month of seeing a
• 28:42
  Speaker 9: spider in his shower, I asked him if he took
• 28:44
  Speaker 9: a shower and he said, no, I use my jacuzzie.
• 28:49
  Speaker 9: So basically he bathed himself in the jacuzzie.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: I had to break up with him.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not a way to clean yourself at all.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: Definitely weird. It's weird like you don't bring soap in
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: the jacuzzi. This chlorine, but I don't think that's good enough.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Oh my god. All right, Well, further to.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: The jacuzzi guy, I just had to add.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: I asked him if he drained it like a tub,
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: and he said, no, I shock it like a pool.