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INTERVIEW: Porsha Williams Opens Up About New Girlfriend, Standing on Business, New RHOA Cast + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Every day.
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  Speaker 2: Up the Breakfast Club. You don't finish for y'all dumb. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: it's the world's most thing.
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  Speaker 3: This morning to show the Breakfast Club, the God dj
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  Speaker 3: NV just hilarious or out but lay and Lorossa's head.
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  Speaker 3: We got a special guest, capital p Portia Williams.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning.
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  Speaker 4: My favorite people to interview? You said, what, what are
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  Speaker 4: my favorite.
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  Speaker 1: People to talk to?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, she's messy and she like.
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  Speaker 4: Mess you know, because she she feels like I'm talking
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  Speaker 4: to my homegirl. It's always like we having joints and
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  Speaker 4: just talking.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it's like a homegirl who knows how your business.
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  Speaker 4: I love that. No, I do you see you a lot?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 1: And I love that. Like it's nothing like when you're
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  Speaker 1: interviewing and someone knows like the backstory. I don't have
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  Speaker 1: to explain the whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: So, so, what's the research today, Lauren? What have you
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  Speaker 2: dug up today?
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  Speaker 1: Doc dug up?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, well, I just finished episode two last night,
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  Speaker 4: me too.
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh. So when you're watching these.
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  Speaker 4: Real Housewives Atlanta episodes in real time, right, m hm?
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  Speaker 4: Does your emotion flare up after the episode, like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: because it lit of little things said and we'll get
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  Speaker 4: into the things I would say. You would think after
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  Speaker 4: this amount of time it wouldn't, But I think I'm
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  Speaker 4: still trying to get used to the fact that I
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  Speaker 4: took a break for so long, so being in I
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  Speaker 4: was gone for three years. It literally kind of feels
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  Speaker 4: like this is my second year doing the show because
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  Speaker 4: I just wasn't thinking about it and I tapped in.
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  Speaker 4: So like, yes, watching the show, like last night, even
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  Speaker 4: first episode, I get emotional, like why you say that
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  Speaker 4: or why was this said? I definitely do do that
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  Speaker 4: now more than I used to. So you and should
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  Speaker 4: me do y'all talk after these episodes air, because after
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  Speaker 4: last night's episode, I'm like, I like, y'all are.
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  Speaker 1: Like trying to happen with us?
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  Speaker 4: Well, I guess just the invite was so the first
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  Speaker 4: episode when she was invited to your house and she
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  Speaker 4: was trying to figure out whether the invite was real
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  Speaker 4: or not or whatever the case may be.
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  Speaker 1: And then in the second it was weird. I dropped
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  Speaker 1: it in a chat for everybody. Everybody came from a
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  Speaker 1: group chat invite invite to what? So I had a
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  Speaker 1: party at my house. I had like a couple's dinner
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  Speaker 1: like you know, just a girl over fresh dinner, and
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  Speaker 1: I dropped the invite in the group chat. So it
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  Speaker 1: was that's how everybody came. Nobody had a separate text.
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  Speaker 4: But she felt like she wasn't for sure she she'd
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  Speaker 4: even come because of where your relationship is right now
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  Speaker 4: or whatever.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what that has to do
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  Speaker 1: with me. I just know this.
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  Speaker 4: I just wonder, like after the like that first episode airs,
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  Speaker 4: or even in fact, I don't know, in the second episode.
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  Speaker 4: It just like not seeing y'all as like Batman Robbin
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  Speaker 4: is just like so new for me, even though I.
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  Speaker 1: Want to know, well, I don't know why you would
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  Speaker 1: expect us to see us like Batman and Robin because
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  Speaker 1: from the ending of Yeah, I mean honestly, the ending
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  Speaker 1: of last year's reunion, it didn't look like it was
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  Speaker 1: going to lead to us coming in and holding hands
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  Speaker 1: and you know, fits bumping and chest bumping and all that.
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  Speaker 1: We're not buzzom buddies. But I you know, at that time,
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  Speaker 1: I wished her, well, I was cool.
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  Speaker 3: I am.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I've been doing this show for ten years
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  Speaker 1: and I am still not to the point of where
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  Speaker 1: I want to just exclude somebody you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: So I felt like, you know, it's a party, all
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  Speaker 1: the girls come. I wanted to like refresh, start the
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  Speaker 1: season with a good vibe with everybody, and so that's
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  Speaker 1: why I did.
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  Speaker 4: And at the time in this episode in the season,
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  Speaker 4: you were dating the guy that was the Africa. His
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  Speaker 4: name Mike, Mike okay, And they had a lot to
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  Speaker 4: say about the fact that you had the party and
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  Speaker 4: what was before assignment in your house and then Mike
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  Speaker 4: is there now and a ghosts sigmon pops up. The
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  Speaker 4: production got.
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  Speaker 1: You, no, they got him okay okay, because they had
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  Speaker 1: like that man is dead. He's just not in the
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  Speaker 1: United States. He's not dead.
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  Speaker 4: So Charlane's a little lost. So they were at a
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  Speaker 4: table having dinner and she's there with her boot at
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  Speaker 4: the time, well.
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  Speaker 1: He has we all, don't.
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  Speaker 4: I got African, but production had because the girls kept
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  Speaker 4: talking about how they thought it was so crazy that
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  Speaker 4: she was having a party in the house with a
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  Speaker 4: new person she was dating, but that used to be
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  Speaker 4: her and Simon's house, which is weird too, right because
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  Speaker 4: it's yeah, you know like.
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  Speaker 1: At the end of the day, you know, you go
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  Speaker 1: to court, you know, and they make a judgment and
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  Speaker 1: I was awarded the home. I pay every single bill,
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  Speaker 1: the water bill, the sanitation bill, the yard, everything, so
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  Speaker 1: it's my home. I think that is a way to
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  Speaker 1: show jealousy, to continuously bring up like my ex husband
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  Speaker 1: in a new world that I have, Like, I think
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  Speaker 1: that's just the way to just take shots and really
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  Speaker 1: kind of belittle me as the boss that I am,
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  Speaker 1: a woman who actually stood her ground, a woman who
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  Speaker 1: actually you know, did her due diligence with my pre
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  Speaker 1: nup and got something out of it. You know, Kelly
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  Speaker 1: didn't get anything. So I think unfortunately there's a little
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  Speaker 1: bit of jealousy there.
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  Speaker 3: And once you saved the house, you good, you saved
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  Speaker 3: the old stuff out.
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  Speaker 4: You said it was a little though what you had
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  Speaker 4: mentioned that one of the confessionals they had, and you
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  Speaker 4: was like, I mean it was a little awkward. I
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  Speaker 4: don't remember what you were calling awkward. It was something
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  Speaker 4: about the house and being in the house, you know,
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  Speaker 4: with the.
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  Speaker 1: Never that I would have been probably talking about with
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  Speaker 1: Mike because we were still new, Like that was really
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  Speaker 1: our first date after have seen each other in like
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  Speaker 1: a very long time, so like.
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  Speaker 4: Your first day after seeing each other a long time.
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  Speaker 4: It's on real house.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so he and I used to be a situationship,
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  Speaker 1: like we were cool, okay and yeah. And so then
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  Speaker 1: my sister was like, look, if you're gonna start dating,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you should just be honest and say you
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  Speaker 1: know you're gonna date this person and date that person.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like looking back, I was like, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: Mike is a really good guy. Let me see if
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  Speaker 1: maybe there's something there. So that's how they ended up happening.
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  Speaker 1: So I had the dinner and you know, we gave
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  Speaker 1: him all that.
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  Speaker 4: Because they asked him, how did y'all meet? He said
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  Speaker 4: through God.
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  Speaker 1: That's nice that man, say God sent me to him.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, say to all your male fans who are upset
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  Speaker 3: that you are out with a woman.
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  Speaker 4: Who are my male fans that are mad on you?
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  Speaker 1: Them guys weren't gonna get me no way, like.
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  Speaker 3: The young right here, hide out, but they trust me.
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  Speaker 3: When you walk through this hallway.
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  Speaker 1: What you can still admire me. I'm still admirable and desirable,
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  Speaker 1: but I do belong to someone else right now.
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  Speaker 4: At what point in the season does it change and
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  Speaker 4: we get to see that, Like what episode end? Do
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  Speaker 4: we see you get away from dating and being serious
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  Speaker 4: in a relationship you're in right now.
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  Speaker 1: Oh it took some time, Like the whole point of
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  Speaker 1: dating for me is traditional dating. Like I'm very slow paced,
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  Speaker 1: very much shaking my time. I mean, y'all know, I
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  Speaker 1: come up in here. I think I've come parent twice
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  Speaker 1: announcing two husbands to y'all. So at this point, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's like, remember, yeah, yeah, she'd be collecting rings. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm slowing down. I'm slowing down the pace. And so
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  Speaker 1: what you're seeing, especially the bachelorette on Housewives, like, I
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  Speaker 1: am just dating. It's real surface. I'm being admired, you know,
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  Speaker 1: after going through a really really rough divorce y'all all
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  Speaker 1: know about for like a year and a half. It
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  Speaker 1: was a lot. So you know, for me, when I
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  Speaker 1: decided to step out, I don't think there's anything wrong
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  Speaker 1: with that. I think that a lot of people are,
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  Speaker 1: of course dating, but they're not on a reality show
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  Speaker 1: and showing it. I actually am.
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  Speaker 3: Do you even care about labels like lesbian or bisexual
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  Speaker 3: or do you feel like people are just too obsessed
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  Speaker 3: with putting you in a box.
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  Speaker 1: So I so when I first I don't know, announced
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  Speaker 1: that I was dating her or that she was you know,
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  Speaker 1: one of the options. Yeah. At first, I was kind
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  Speaker 1: of like, okay, you know, are you a lesbian? Are
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  Speaker 1: you by sexual? Are you? And I was just like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't have a label, Like, I'm just porstious sexual.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just exploring I am. I am porstious sexual. You know.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm squoseexual, you know I am. I'm just very
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  Speaker 1: free with myself and exploring different parts of myself at
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  Speaker 1: this moment. No, I don't mind if you want to
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  Speaker 1: call me a lesbion. I don't mind if you know,
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  Speaker 1: bisexual is a phrase, but I don't know what comes
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  Speaker 1: with that. You know, kind of new with all that,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm not offended by it at all.
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  Speaker 3: Do you feel pressure to define your sexuality out of the
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  Speaker 3: public might be watching, so we've seen it on social media,
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  Speaker 3: but it's the difference when it hits the TV.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. I think that a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: probably feel pressure to label me. I don't feel pressure
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  Speaker 1: to label myself. I know who I am and I'm
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  Speaker 1: just living my life. And I think that if more
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  Speaker 1: people just decided to live their life and not trying
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  Speaker 1: to find a group or define themselves in a certain way.
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  Speaker 1: You know, then you know that's probably best. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to be out here putting myself in a box.
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  Speaker 1: And then you know I don't need to be in
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  Speaker 1: that box.
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  Speaker 2: That you're in the box.
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  Speaker 1: There are boxes around.
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  Speaker 4: Well, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: In the box, just come out the box that was
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  Speaker 1: done to here for me to walk in, right on
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  Speaker 1: into it. The cat is out the box.
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  Speaker 4: Can I ask you a question if you don't ask no,
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  Speaker 4: because it's really personal about like, you know, dating, because
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  Speaker 4: I heard you say to Angie Martinez that this is
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  Speaker 4: your first time actually dating a woman. You've just been
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  Speaker 4: kind of like curious before, right, what is the is
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  Speaker 4: there an actual difference in like the like what is
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  Speaker 4: the difference between dating a woman and dating a man?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 4: What's different?
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  Speaker 3: Like?
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  Speaker 1: Why does Yeah, it's a it's a good question. She
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  Speaker 1: has an experience. Have you ever experienced that a woman
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  Speaker 1: or a woman experiences I've never been with a woman. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: not one of y'all, just both of us.
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  Speaker 4: It's the same person in that chair, that's one of y'all.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, that's not a bad question because of course
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  Speaker 1: at this point I'm now have dated both.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 1: What I find with Sway is I feel very comfort
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  Speaker 1: I feel very comforter, I feel very seen, very patient.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have to do too much explaining. We communicate
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  Speaker 1: a lot, like we talk about our past and who
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  Speaker 1: we are a lot, and so I just feel like
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  Speaker 1: I'm really, really, truly getting a chance to get to
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  Speaker 1: know her now. That may also be because we're going
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: very slow. And of course, in the past, you guys
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  Speaker 1: know in the three months I'm ready, three month rule,
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  Speaker 1: where is my you know? But in this case, I
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  Speaker 1: am definitely taking my time with her, and it's just
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  Speaker 1: very soft. And of course I have always been attracted
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  Speaker 1: to women, so I get both of those. I get,
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  Speaker 1: you know, the feelinine side of her, and I enjoyed
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  Speaker 1: the masculine side of her. The duality is amazing.
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  Speaker 2: You said you had a three month rule that you
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  Speaker 2: want to.
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  Speaker 1: No, not a three month rule.
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  Speaker 4: Let me not here.
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  Speaker 1: We are no no. But usually usually both of my
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  Speaker 1: marriages they took off pretty quickly. Even my engagement took
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  Speaker 1: off pretty quickly. But you know, you got to learn
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  Speaker 1: from some of those mistakes. And I mean, I'm forty four,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be forty five this year, so I you know,
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  Speaker 1: I definitely have come to a place I know exactly
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  Speaker 1: who I am, and I think that it's probably what
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  Speaker 1: has everybody so curious about this lesbian impossible, you know,
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  Speaker 1: by by sexual et cetera, because I know who I
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  Speaker 1: am and maybe they want to put a definition on me.
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  Speaker 1: But as long as I know, I'm confident and I
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  Speaker 1: feel comfortable. We only have one life experience. I am
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  Speaker 1: living mine to the absolute fullest.
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  Speaker 2: You know, looking back at your past relationships.
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  Speaker 3: With men, right, do you see patterns that made you
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  Speaker 3: open to something different?
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  Speaker 1: You mean that led me towards where I am now? No,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 1: I would never say that a man pushed me to
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  Speaker 1: go be gay. I actually think that is takes away
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  Speaker 1: from my experience completely because I did date both the
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  Speaker 1: man and her at the same time. It's just that's
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  Speaker 1: who I'm attracted to. That's just where I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: put my focus into. And that's what you're doing dating, right,
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna date and then you're gonna see exactly where
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  Speaker 1: you can see growth. And I saw more growth in
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  Speaker 1: a relationship with her than I did with him.
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  Speaker 3: It was it was never like a small penis that
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  Speaker 3: was so small it was a clique.
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  Speaker 1: So you was like, I mean a lot of men
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  Speaker 1: just don't have a lot of situations things going on
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  Speaker 1: for themselves over forty anyway, people got to start taking
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  Speaker 1: care of themselves.
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  Speaker 4: They do.
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  Speaker 1: You know, people have to women too well. Our MoMA
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  Speaker 1: walking around here, periment aposal man walking around and you know,
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  Speaker 1: having issues with their penises and things. Yeah, they're having
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  Speaker 1: a situation. So but I'm not that type of person.
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  Speaker 1: I'm very much into how you make me feel, how
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  Speaker 1: to make you feel, how our energies connect. So it's
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  Speaker 1: not all based off of the pen I don't miss it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm okay.
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  Speaker 4: And it's all your family all on a quarter about
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  Speaker 4: it now. You mentioned before it's people. Some people were
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  Speaker 4: like side eyed in a situation a little bit me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I thought you said that on with Angie Wenttina.
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  Speaker 1: Is that No, No, not with my family. Not with
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  Speaker 1: my family. We have actually done every single we were
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: talking about that there that we've done almost all the
• 12:38
  Speaker 1: holidays together and with our family. We just got back
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: just now from going taking my family, my grandmother, grandmother, Auntie, everybody,
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  Speaker 1: her family, her mom, her sits, everybody to Miami, so
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: we spent a lot of time with our families combined.
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  Speaker 1: So sid, Yeah, we were just enjoying life. It's kind
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  Speaker 1: of like you, I'm with someone now, I can do
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  Speaker 1: all the things I got a place, all that love
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  Speaker 1: I have in me, I feel safe giving it to her.
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  Speaker 1: I do. I feel safe.
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  Speaker 2: So it's the healthiest relationship you've ever been in.
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  Speaker 1: I think that I am probably the healthiest because I
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  Speaker 1: am very accountable. I mean, if I do something, I
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  Speaker 1: think I also played a part. I can't say that
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  Speaker 1: those other relationships weren't healthy or toxic just because of them.
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  Speaker 1: I played a freaking part. But in this one, I
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  Speaker 1: do check myself a lot, and she checks herself, and
• 13:25
  Speaker 1: we check each other, you know what I mean. But
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  Speaker 1: we come back around in a very loving way. So
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  Speaker 1: we're we're still in the very beginning phases of the relationship,
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  Speaker 1: but I do think that I am acting more healthy
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  Speaker 1: in this relationship.
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  Speaker 2: It's the safest you felt in the relationship.
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  Speaker 1: I will say in what I know I want and
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  Speaker 1: what I'm willing to pursue. Yes, because there's no pressure.
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  Speaker 1: I think I had always from the very very beginning,
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  Speaker 1: put pressure on myself to be a wife. I grew
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  Speaker 1: very religious, and you know, I just saw myself as
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  Speaker 1: the wife's wife is the pinnacle role. You know. I
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  Speaker 1: was a business on I you know, have my own penthouse.
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  Speaker 1: I was a boss and had my businesses. But to
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: be married, I let all that go just to be
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  Speaker 1: a wife, and that labeled meant more to me than anything.
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  Speaker 1: But now being Portia, the most honest and truthful stance
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  Speaker 1: that I can be in as a person is where
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  Speaker 1: I feel most comfortable. So I don't feel the need
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  Speaker 1: to be labeled and or anything. I want to be
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  Speaker 1: the best meet and present that to her and to
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  Speaker 1: my daughter and to the world. Like so, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know it's feeling safe. I feel safe. Safety starts here
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  Speaker 1: with me. I think a lot of where I thought
• 14:32
  Speaker 1: I wasn't safe had to be me making wrong decisions
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  Speaker 1: because I didn't trust myself. I was trusting what someone
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  Speaker 1: else wanted for me. But I know me, I know
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  Speaker 1: what I want, and anything that doesn't feel right, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna say it or I'm going to be out of
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  Speaker 1: that position.
• 14:45
  Speaker 4: Are you guys having marriage conversations or you're not even
• 14:48
  Speaker 4: introducing that yet because you want to do this differently.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Very slow. Girl. You cannot be out here, you know.
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: And I can say this now you know, it's almost
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: do as I say, not as I have done that. Yes,
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: you talk about and you love someone, you automatically you
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: know where girls? What did they say? Everybody says, oh
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: the gay girls, they move real fast. Yes, I'm telling you.
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: When you feel this kind of love, it's like, oh
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: my god, let's get a house of these cards. But
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: you gotta come back down to reality and you know,
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: just take it at a healthier pace. So so that's.
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: What I'm doing. A phase. Do your diet might change?
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well my day had changed on men too, and
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: then I divorced them when they were not good for
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: me as well. So your day can change with anything,
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And hers could change from
• 15:35
  Speaker 1: me too. You never know the future. It's so funny.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: People be under my post like we'll see how long
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: this lasts. Well, we'll see how long anybody's relationships last.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: A lot of people are getting divorces, a lot of
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: people are whatever. I don't know why. It seems like
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: I'm like the first person to be gay now and
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not the first, it's twenty twenty six.
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: But I think because people have known me so long
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: on television, I think when they did see me with
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: a woman, they thought, oh, she's just being freaky. It's
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: something small. And I think now they're saying, oh, this
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: is really who she is and she's exploring it. So
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: maybe people will learn that these girls who are on
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: the down low and men who are probably want to download,
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: go ahead and live your life. Child, don't worry about
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: anybody judging you. You this is your one life experience.
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: I think it's like when you know, back in the day,
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: they used to tell R and B singers not to
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: get into relationships because they throw off the illusion. Yeah,
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: that's how I think a lot of men feel. Because,
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: for example, right they're a young boy in this room
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: right now who never sits over there.
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: He always sits over there. I heard the little laugh,
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, what the hell.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: Do I do? See you black brother, and you look
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: very Handso thank you for joining.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: In your life.
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: He's he that made his twenty Okay.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: No, no, I get what you're saying. But I mean
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: I've always contrary to what people the narrative people try
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: to build around me I've always been a relationship girly.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: I'm either married or engaged.
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: Like, I don't know, you think people don't give you that,
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: they give that to you. I feel like people just
• 17:10
  Speaker 4: always try to have conversations about like timelines and like
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: things like that. But it's always been p because they're.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Always trying to find a way to slut shame someone
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: or shame someone in some way. And some of that
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: does happen on Housewives. Like I kind of felt like, oh,
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: they're like shaming you know, me being you know, dating
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: a woman in a way like over sexualizing it. So
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I think that I think we got
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: to kind of stop that, Like I think it's those
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: days are done doing that?
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Like worth it?
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it has. You know, I enjoyed Housewives. It was
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: for me, it just got really toxic. I mean it
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: has its ups and downs. But I was turning forty.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: I knew I wanted to spend more time with my
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: daughter Pilar, So you know, when I left Housewives, it
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: was very much planned. It was very much planned. But
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: coming back it has been good. I'm a different version
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: of who I'm, a different version of the orld people
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: have experience so it's a little shocking to the system
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: for some of the girls. Yeah, because I'm really really upfront,
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: like I'm gonna tell you, like you know, I you
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: talked open to you know the interview talking about friends.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I now am verry are open and honest, like, look,
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: this is how I friend, This is what I need
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: from you in this relationship as a friend. And you
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: can tell me the same thing. Because I don't want
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: any hidden anything. I want us to be upfront. If
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: you don't really like me, you ain't got to be
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: around me. I always say, I don't wear the love resides. Okay,
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: so if we're gonna be cool, we're gonna be cool.
• 18:31
  Speaker 4: Is that the type of conversation you and Shmia had
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: that she means in the confessional what she was trying
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: to describe the way that y'all text conversation.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: Was going, Yeah, you know, yeah, yeah, you know. What's
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: so crazy to me about this season and how it's
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: even starting off. It's just so much talk about Samiah
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: to me, But I'm not talking about Samiah, and so unfortunately,
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: you know, when I do interviews, I'm always going to
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: be asked about things she said about me, which is okay.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: But it's very one sided. I once I'm no longer
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: invested in the relationship, the friendship, whatever it is. I'm
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: kind of indifferent, like you know. So if she has
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: any feelings, it's best for her to express Them's best
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: for her to continue whatever her narrative is. But for me,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: I've moved on. Like I had a great season. I
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: enjoyed the girls. I had ups and downs with them. Okay,
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: it got a little crazy, but it didn't color my experience.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: So you know, it's I guess it's a part of
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: the show.
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: Do we ever learn who the man was with Kelly
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: that you mentioned?
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: So, no, I never say his name. Okay, No, I
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: know him and I'm familiar with his wife, so I
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: will never say his name.
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: Got it? For the people who didn't see the episode
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: or who don't watch it, Yeah, you want to tell
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: him Mary, like what tell him what his what the
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: conversation was like because I just mentioned.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, so I'm not going to say his name.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do that. My point, my point, and
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: in my mind it was very clear, just your lickback girl.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: You doing a whole lot. You did a whole lot
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: last year and you know, you said something about me
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: that wasn't true. I think we all know at this
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: point that my ex husband's ex wife you know, had
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: moved on from him. They were done. It was whatever,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: that is news from three four years ago, okay, but
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: she continued to bash me about it, and so once
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: something dropped in my lap that was true about her,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: I just simply gave her her look back. So I
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: felt like we should have been even after that.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: What are you protect in real life?
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: For you? I protect my daughter. I protect my peace fiercely,
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: when I tell you, fiercely like and I protected to
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: the point where I still have friends who are close
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: to me. I still let people in, but when they
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: do something that I don't like, I'm very much that
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: person that will call you and let you know. Yeah.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: And if I say something to someone, you know how
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: you say something to somebody and it just doesn't see
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: rights like, ooh, I probably did too much. I'm knowing
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: I will actually call you back and say, you know what,
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: the other day I said so and so, And I
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: just want you to know this is what I mean,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: because a lot of times it's not what you say
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: to people, is how you say it. Your intentions can
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: be one thing, your words can be a whole something different.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: So for me, I like to match my intention with
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: my words. If I don't do it correctly right, then
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: I will come back. So I protect me and my
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: mental health like nothing else. Like I know, I make money,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: you know, on shows and working or whatever, but if
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: my mental health is not there that day, I will
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: shut my whole day down.
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: Has there been days filming, you know, this new season
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: where you're like, I can't today or we can't go
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: there storyline wise today because you're so much more protective
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: of your mental health.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: So my storyline wasn't driven by the production at all,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: like my life, I guess, even when I wasn't on
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: the show for three years, I said, damn, I'm just
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: meant to be on reality tea because you can't make
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: this shit up, you know what I'm saying. Like in
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: my everyday life, I'm like, you can't make the shit up.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: So it just so happened when I'm filming, all the
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: things that happen that make me have this big storyline,
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: they're just my life, you know what I mean. And
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: so for me, I didn't have any days where I
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: needed to tell production that I couldn't film or anything
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: like that. I was in a better emotional place. Okay, Yeah,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: I was in a better emotional place last year going
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: through that divorce and you know, being bashed and you
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: know as much with my eggs, you know, wishing well
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: by the way, all that, I just it just it
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: took a lot on me.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: What you really wishing well?
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Of course, Yah, of course I don't. I don't care. Listen,
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: when you are your own person, it does not matter
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: what somebody is coming at you with or was coming
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: at you. It was what you putting out. I put
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: out positivity, I put out good vibe. I put out
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: goodness into the universe. So I don't care if you
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: don't like me. If I like you, I'm still like you.
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: I think that what you went through with your divorce
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: and kind of how you had to figure it out,
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: and you said that you felt really lonely, it set
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: you up to be like a really good friend to
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: Kim Michelle, and she's coming into the season because she's
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: going through things where she's you know, announcing a marriage
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: and like different things, and that even the first conversation
• 22:51
  Speaker 4: I see you guys have throughout the episodes, I'm like, okay,
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: like I see why Portia probably went through what she
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: went through, because there's women that need kind of that,
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: Like I'm lonely right now, but I don't know how
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: to tell somebody.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah that's how well, yes, Ca Mischelle, but probablem more
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: so even Drew, you know, do a similar situation and
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: kind of what I was trying to be to Kelly,
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: but she didn't, you know, want me to be that
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: for her. With Kami Shaw, I was really glad she'd
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: do on the show because ky Michelle and I have
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: been cool, like on each other's Instagram pages for years.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: We finally got a chance to do a movie together.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: We did Single Black Female together and I was able
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: to see on set, you know, finally met her for
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: the first time. I spoke to it, took a picture.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: But the first time I actually talked to her was
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: on Housewives, as one of the producers were like, hey
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: here call Michelle da da da, And I was just
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: excited because this show, I know, people think that I
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: want to be the head bitch or head peach in charge.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: I do, but I kind of don't. I'm kind of
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: and that's cool and I'll take that I'll take it
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: as the OG, but as an OG. I love having
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: a strong cast. I love when a woman comes on
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: the SHO show and she got her own, like, her
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: own life, her own like came to Shechelle, She's a star,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: she's been a star, she's doing dumb reality TV. Do
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: you know what that meant to me for her to
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: go on the show? Like I was rooting for her
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: the whole time, and you know, and we have a
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: little hiccup here and there on the show, but I'm
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: still glad she's there. I love strong players. I was
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: just texting Angela the other night and I was like, girl,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: you're a damn breakout star. I was like, we don't
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: even talk that much, but I was like, girl, you
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: doing your damn thing. And I just want you to know,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: as your cast, may I really appreciate you with just
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: who you are and how you stand on you know,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: stand on what you say.
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: I love that And in a lot of ways, you know,
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: you help them become stars because I don't think any
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: of them shows can exist with new people.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: I think you always got.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta have a OG on any cast. You
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: gotta have somebody who knows how to do the show.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Keep keep what y'all talking about, flowing, Yes, set the
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: tone you do have to have. That's it's an important
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: role and I get paid well for it. But I
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: enjoy having a bad bitch cast like I love. I
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: think the cast is great. I think we've got some
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: good players. Pinky on the show. It's amazing. She's just
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: getting started. So yeah, and like I said in Angela,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: his stepped up to be like, I don't know, y'all,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: that girl.
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: A lot of people feel like she feels like an
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: OG cast.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: She does. I'm gonna be honest with you.
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: She does.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: It feels like when you're in when you're at a
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: group events and you have another person who is there
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: who can see what's going on and call it out.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: They don't care whose friends with who or who's what
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: They're like, wait, why are you trying to do so
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: and so or Then that way, I don't have to
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: always be the bad guy or phrase ain't got to
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: be the bad guy. Like she is just another strong player.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: And she can read. For philm she can read, and
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: so we need that. That's what's old school a bout
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: her too. She can read you down well.
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: A lot of people felt like Marlowe did that. And
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: marlow she's saying that you didn't want her back on
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: the show, and that's that her exit. Yeah, she did
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: Friday yea, and she said he was asking her how
• 25:58
  Speaker 4: she fucks about a lot of the different girls. Now
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: she's said that you were a hater.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: I don't like her.
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: You stopped her from you stopped her bag from her
• 26:05
  Speaker 4: coming back on the show. And she would never have
• 26:06
  Speaker 4: done that to you.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I mean she loves talking about me, so
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I'm glad she got the opportunity to talk about me.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: She loves it, she loves it. She gets a thrill
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: out of talking about me. So I'm glad she did that.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: It's good when people like that.
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: When they ask you to do scenes with people like her,
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: do you do you choose doing me?
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: You say, nah, I don't want to because you know,
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: did you protect your piece? You know where that's gonna go.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, but I'm a part of a cast,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So you still have to
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: do some scenes with people you mad, I want to
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: do a scene with I don't have to overly engage, no, yeah,
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: I don't have to overly be engaged. But you know,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: I guess she's doing the thing. She's being interviewed. She's
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: not on my show, so I heard my show in't
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: on there, So like, I don't you know. Again, she
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: loves my name, she loves how it feels coming out
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: of her mouth, and so I'm glad she had that experience.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: That day you mentioned Drew literally like yesterday day before that,
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: the news came out that, you know, she had to
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: leave her marri atal home and her ex or a
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: strange husband whatever the title would be, now has full
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: primary custody of their kids.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: How is she, like, you know, have you talked to her?
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: I'm not really sure. I'm not really sure. I intend
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: on finding out though, how she's doing. It's just very unfortunate,
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: the whole situation is. I mean, you don't know the
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: details of it. I don't know. Even if I did,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't sit here and like give them out. But
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: I feel for Drew. I feel for Drew. She is,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: she's a fighter, she's an excellent mother, she was an
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: excellent wife, and I know she's gonna be okay. It's
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: just hard when you're in the middle of these really
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: really battle riddle divorces to really see the end, you
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. So I think that's the only
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: thing that I am going to try to bring to
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: her as a friend of like girl, I know this
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: seems difficult right now, but there is hope at the
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: end of the tunnel. Hopefully all of this is temper
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: and you know, it'll balance out to where the mother
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: is actually with her kids in the end. But I
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: do wish the best for her for real. I'm like that.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: I was on vacation with my family and we were like,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: oh my god, like we it's that's the worst news.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: But again, I'm just here as her friend who has
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: been through something hard like that and show her that
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: you're gonna come out on top on the end.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: Whatever happened to that show that y'all did with Ninnie
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: Handbag on which one, oh, yeah.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: It's coming out, Yeah, it's coming out. Do we know
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: when is it to be? I don't know if it's
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: annwn hit, but yeah, Ultimate girl Ship was coming out.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Ninnie came on. It was the twentieth year anniversary of
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: the Whole Housewife franchise, and Nini comes and make a
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: surprise appearance in Atlanta, and it is crazy, like they
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: actually acted up. The old school og had the real ogs.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: Now I've been there a long time. What you call him, Well,
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: I'm the og. There is a vat I'm vat og.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: So no, the o G showed out at this party
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: we had. But yeah, it's a lot.
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: This was Kim there, took everybody was there. Okay, yes,
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: everybody was there.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: So what show wasn't with a lesbian? Lesbian with the
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: psychic told you that you was gonna have a problem
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: with that.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Was also that was awesome. That was also Ultimate Girl's Trip.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: That was Ultimate Girls Trip Thailand, which is actually the
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: show that gave me the itch to come back to
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: Atlanta Housewives because you know, I wasn't on any show
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: at the time, and I did Ultimate Girls Trip and
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: I told when I was talking to brother, I was like,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: I would love to come back if it's like this
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: vibe where you know it's completely driven by the cast.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: Y'all are just really like documenting us more so and
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: they say yes, But yes, that was Pepsi in Thailand.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: He said I was gonna have a problem with lesbian.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: What made him say that, Well, I guess he knew
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: that I had lesbian and me, honey, okay, but he said.
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: Problem, that's a broad statement though, like that, that's not
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: like a psychic spy'd like give me.
• 29:59
  Speaker 4: Twenty more dollars.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: And that wasn't from him. So we were at a
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: temple and so you do this number, you do this
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: whole chart and then when you put it in it
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: fits like a fortune or whatever out and he read it.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: It wasn't from pepsi. But anyway, that's a it's a
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: funny thing. And then I said I received it. I
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: don't know why I said that's what I received it.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: I think I was just in shock, like here we
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: are at this temple, why are we talking about my sexuality?
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: But no, I don't know. I hope I don't have
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: no problem.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: I'm sure you've had problems with lean.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: You think I had a problem. I mean she has
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: a problem. Aggressive, I'm the drama. They be aggressive aggressive,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: I'm aggressive. Yeah, see that's what you think. That's funny videos.
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: On Instagram. You don't see them like there.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Not the real video. But you can imagine how.
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: I don't to hear you say that you're not the Yeah,
• 31:05
  Speaker 4: definitely reverse sometimes Yeah, she is sure she's maculine presenting.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: I'm definitely all film, but I'm a tomboy too. I
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: used to be a tomboy like I. You know, I'm
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: just cool like that. I don't know. It's just this
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: whole lituit beautiful situation that we have. I don't I
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: don't even know if you can say who's more aggressive
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: me or her? You so happy right now? I am?
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: Are you in love?
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: I am?
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: What's the difference between Porsche the person in love and
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: Porsche I guess the brand that's navigating these headlines in
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: this reality TV world.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Well, I tell you what, I'm definitely having to try
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: to Porsia and love used to be mainly just focusing
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: on that person and centering them in my world across
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: the board right discounting me. It's all about I'm now
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: in a relationship. This is me, Porsia. Now I'm very
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: much in love with me, like I love me like
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but coming up on
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: forty five, it's like, damn, like like I just love me,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: like I love my mind, I love where I'm as period.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I love me.
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I'm like I do, and I think that you know,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: this new appreciation for myself and you know I used
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: to celebrate myself a lot. I really didn't. My manager
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: actually had to stop me and say, Poorie, you never
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: ever celebrate yourself, Like did you hear what I just say?
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: You'll calm me with good news, And I'm like, okay,
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: what you say was next? I Now I celebrate every
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: little thing. I don't care if it's just like I
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: got up and got PJ to school on time and
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: got to the gym that day. I'm celebrating that. When
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: you do that and start to talk really positive to
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: yourself on a daily basis, you do fall in love
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: with the person you're speaking about. But I used to
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: speak so negatively about myself. I didn't really like myself,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: so I will only see myself through someone else's eeys
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: and if they liked me. But now I know when
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: she tells me she loves me, I know you likee me.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: I know you're like me. I'm lovable. I know you
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: appreciate me because I appreciate me. And what's beautiful by
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: this relationship too, And any relationship that I think is
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: healthy is if she if that other person also loves themselves. Listen,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I mean her family would probably describe her the same
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: way as me. We are very wrapped up in us.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: We love us, we take care of us, and we
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: invest in ourselves. And so that's just a power that's
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: coming together. So me as a brand now being in love,
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: I truly spread that through everything, Like I am exploring
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: more with Gold Naked Hair, you know, yes, yes, we
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: did just surpass ten million dollars in sales with Go Naked.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: We also just launched a line with Drusi Door. She
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: has a wigline with me as well. Cynthia Bailey has
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: a wigline with me as well. I'm working on doing
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: some more with some of the other housewives on Go Naked.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: You just put more into everything else, right, you know,
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: And so even with Pampa by Porsia, like I just
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm able. Once my cup is full, I
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: can just pour a little bit here, pour a little
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: bit kind of everywhere.
• 34:13
  Speaker 4: So you're getting a lot of money though, well you
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: happy for you though, because I feel like reality TV
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: in twenty twenty six, like it gets diluted sometimes, but
• 34:23
  Speaker 4: like you your genre and your like your generation of
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: reality TV, Like then y'all did it, yeah, like y'all
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: did it the right way, where like your brain will
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: always sustain Like like, no matter who's watching, how old
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: or whatever.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: But when you're you, you're walking.
• 34:37
  Speaker 4: When your daughter looks back at this like era of
• 34:39
  Speaker 4: your life, right, what do you want her to be
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: able to take away as a woman?
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: I want my daughter. And I think about that a lot,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: you know, because even when I left the show and
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: I came back, I knew, Okay, now I'm presenting myself again,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: and she's getting bigger, et cetera. She just turns seven
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: years old and I can already see her personality. She's
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: a very wrong person, strong minded, she knows what she wants,
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: and she's gonna be very powerful. I just want her
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: to embody that all through her life. Just know, you
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: are powerful, you are worthy. You can do anything you
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: want to do. It doesn't matter what you go through.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: She's gonna grow up and see mommy has been through
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: a lot, you know, But most of all, she's gonna
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: see that Mommy has fought for who she is. I
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: have fought for my place in this industry. I've fought
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: for my place in my mental health as a beautiful,
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: strong person. I fought for that. I've just fought for
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: so many different things and I feel like resilience is
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: most important. But if she could just learn this one thing,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: if she could just have joy, if she could just
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: really truly be happy in her life and do what
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: she is what makes her happy, then I'll be good
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: because I think even though you did say I make
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: a lot of money and I do a lot of things,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: none of them take from my happiness. Once they start
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: taking it from my happiness, they will drop off. So
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: if she can live that life of just being happy
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: and being able to be positive and give that out
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: in her world, and I'm being good, I'm be happy.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: That's so simple.
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: Have you detached from needing like constant positive feedback?
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: No, because I really, but I know I you know,
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: I'm humans, So I like, if I post me a
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: little picture, I'm gonna need a little love on that picture.
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: That's actually what they say is the negative trade of us.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: That we want to be in. But you know why
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: we want constant you know why, as a cancer we
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: want constant positive. We're pessimistic, but we give it out
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: so we often treat everyone else how we want to
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: be treated. We treat our friends, our friends super well,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: you know, fans or people whoever. We come in contact with.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: We want you to feel us and we're always just
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: hoping to feel that back, and we often mistake it
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: as if someone gives us a compliment, that's feeling it back,
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: you know, But so no, I do. I do enjoy
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: being admired like that's great, but I do put out
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: a lot so I deserve it. Like now, for instance,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: when when somebody said, oh you're looking good girl, you
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: been working out or whatever your body look at it
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: like thank you. I don't putting up too much. Oh
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: I ain't been to the GM, but oh I ain't.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Oh well, I just know i'd like thank you, so
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: I said my skinless good thank you. I really be
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: using my meaningful beauty like you. When you can stand
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: in that and be like, yeah, I have worked to
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: look good and feel good and be a positive person,
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: then you can be confident you don't have to have
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: that hourly like you know, admiration from other people.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: And also cancers.
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: We uh, we we hate when our love isn't reciprocated.
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: Yes, you know what I mean?
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Yes, And often that is when our relationships fail.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Damn yes, every time you want a scissors what you're saying,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: that's not it.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: That's talk about love and it's not always just scissor
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: excuse me. But no, what I'm saying, okay, I'm not
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: answering your question. What I'm saying is is that, yes,
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: what we put out, we want it back like we
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: really do. And if I feel like it, you know,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: my last partner, and even in this relationship, I go
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: ahead and stay up front like what I want. You
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: know what I expect in the relationship, and I allowed
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: you to tell me the same, and I try to
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: uphold that on each day.
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Capital p yall, Porschy Williams. Go get you
• 38:23
  Speaker 3: some gold naked hair with the website.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: Go Naked hair dot com and pamper by Porsche dot com.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: That's the bed sheets and all of that good stuff.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: Have a TikTok live coming up August fifth, not August, Lord,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: have mercy. I have a TikTok live coming up, TikTok
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Shop Live that's coming up. It's on the fifteenth of
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: this month, April, and Cynthia is gonna be on there
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: with me. A lot of surprises and we're gonna be
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: doing some crazy sales. So my TikTok name is PJ mama,
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: And yeah, and.
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: What wig did Lauren? You said, Lauren need I got.
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: A wavy one.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: But it was right before I got my hair, so
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: you cut your hair for real?
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, this is my real hair. It was breaking off,
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: so I just and you're stressed out so pretty.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: I did not even think that was your hair because
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: I like, I will do a pixy little wig.
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: Well, no, I cut it. I was like, I just
• 39:10
  Speaker 4: want to start fresh. And I was supposed to grow
• 39:12
  Speaker 4: it out, and I.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: Was like I like the short. No, I like it,
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: like it gives it a little you know, and you
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: can do a little one two wig like on the
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: weekend or bak.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: But already I did have it.
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: It's so it's not I don't know. One time, no,
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: I literally went once. I once he finally gave it
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: to me, wig, I put it on myself in here,
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: and then I think, like that weekend I got my
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: hair cut. Okay, yeah, so I never got a chances,
• 39:36
  Speaker 4: but I still have it though. Okay, Well, when you
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: get out with yeah lace fire to well, if you
• 39:41
  Speaker 4: want some more, just let me know. I got you.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: I got Yeah, you know, I appreciate you know, he does.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: He dressed up That's why I said, you're playing your wig.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I dress up.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: You put on wigs and stuff.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: I put on the wigs. Her boyfriend got hit.
• 39:56
  Speaker 4: Actually, but you gotta work, love of my life.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: Because you're in a relationship.
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: She used to be two nigga loos, so she cut
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: one of the dudes off. Now she got one dude.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: Ain't not wrong with that, but wrong.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: She's been out the country a few times already.
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: You're going to come to the podcast I'm talking to.
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: Boy. She's got the country a few times already with
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: the guy. First time she went out the country, the
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: guy just asked her to be his girlfriend. There wasn't
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: even girlfriend, and so he put up. You know, he
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: beat my girlfriend.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: He did the whole thing.
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: It was the whole thing. It was so it was
• 40:27
  Speaker 4: my birthday too.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: Oh, I love that.
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: I've been out the country a couple more times. He
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: ain't proposed yet.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: We ain't asked him for the proposed when in Russian day,
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: Oh my rus.
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: She told me this morning she'd been out the country
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: with a mad different dude. And I didn't not say
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: it like it was a flex. But I'm like, you
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: ain't get no ring.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: I'm grown day.
• 40:43
  Speaker 4: And it's been about a year, like a year that
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: we've been dooding time.
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, how long was y'all do before y'all was actually official?
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: When you had two guys?
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: I combined it because November was my birthday. That's been
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: the whole you be my you know that.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: No, Yeah, so now we're here, this is April. Okay,
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: it's coming. So we got a holiday coming out. We
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: got November. Maybe it's November. We've been very clear. I've
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: been very clear about what I expect. That's romantic.
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: It was his birthday. He went for his birthday.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: But he's spoiling her, and look at her.
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: She's smiling a good time with someone who actually knows
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: what to do.
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be don't rushing, don't don't.
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: I mean, I know, I didn't mean to come back
• 41:28
  Speaker 4: to it from Italy with a ring and a baby
• 41:30
  Speaker 4: apparently be hanging on here.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: Oh I would love that for you, though, it's gonna happen.
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: Thirty four, Oh my god, she's a baby girls now?
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 41:40
  Speaker 4: Thirty four, thirty four, Yeah, I love say that. This
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: is the thing I feel like in this relationship.
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: Thirty Champion that was.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: Taking one in the Yeah, I said, don't do that.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: What I saying?
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: Okay, the rings were all great, you know, it was
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: great to watch you. But I don't even care what
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: the ring looked like.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: I remember, well, that's because you've had a lot of
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: good ones. Yeah, I don't care. I want a nice one.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you need to have a banger. Oh yeah,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: well all that you deserve it. It is coming.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: I do it.
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: But yeah, it's coming, not past.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: Thirty five, because you know, we women, you know, we
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: gotta start having kids and all that. So yeah, yeah,
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: but yeah, maybe within this year, at the end of
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: this year or next year, he should do it. It'll
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: happen this year.
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: I do it.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you want.
• 42:30
  Speaker 4: You want to Matt, you want to put something on it?
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: No, I don't. But William, thank you for capital P.
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: It's the Breakfast Club. Every day, click up the Breakfast Club.
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: Finish for y'all. Done,