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- 0:00Speaker 1: Okay, after show on a Tuesday, Sinko de Mayo May
- 0:03Speaker 1: fifth Taco Tuesday. Let's go, well, I have tacos tonight.
- 0:08Speaker 1: Maybe maybe not. I don't think I will. I'm focused.
- 0:11Speaker 1: I'm trying to do the diet thing I'm trying to
- 0:13Speaker 1: cut for summer. I'm doing pretty good so far, so
- 0:16Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna stay on. I know, I know,
- 0:18Speaker 1: I know people are like, you know, can you can
- 0:20Speaker 1: celebrate these things? You can have a taco. But I've
- 0:23Speaker 1: explained before, I have a different kind of brain and
- 0:26Speaker 1: once I put it into my body, it sets off
- 0:30Speaker 1: this thing, this alarm that I want more. It's hard
- 0:34Speaker 1: to understand. I know, it's hard to like wrap your
- 0:37Speaker 1: head around, especially if you don't have that kind of
- 0:40Speaker 1: obsessive brain like I do. But trust me, trust me,
- 0:43Speaker 1: trust me. So if you're gonna have a taco, that's awesome.
- 0:47Speaker 1: I want you to celebrate and have two tacos or
- 0:49Speaker 1: three or four for me because I can put down tacos.
- 0:53Speaker 1: I love them so much. You know what I love?
- 0:56Speaker 1: I love I love soft tacos, I love hard tacos,
- 0:59Speaker 1: but I also love to put them together. What are
- 1:01Speaker 1: those called the taco bells a taco bell. That's a
- 1:05Speaker 1: name for them. Shoot, you can correct me, but yeah,
- 1:09Speaker 1: it's the hard taco inside of a soft taco shell.
- 1:14Speaker 1: So you get the soft and you get the hard.
- 1:16Speaker 1: And what we do when we make tacos at home
- 1:18Speaker 1: is we get both the hard and the soft. And
- 1:20Speaker 1: so I'll make the hard taco and then I'll put
- 1:23Speaker 1: sour cream all over the tortilla and then wrap it
- 1:27Speaker 1: on the hard taco. Then you get the soft, the
- 1:29Speaker 1: heart and the sour cream. It is fantastic. God, I
- 1:33Speaker 1: love food so much, I really do. It's all I
- 1:35Speaker 1: think about. You know, the steak and cheese drama with
- 1:38Speaker 1: my wife from last week. I probably shared this, but
- 1:41Speaker 1: you know it's been brought up several times since then
- 1:43Speaker 1: by my wife. Really it was this is what she
- 1:46Speaker 1: said to me. It was really the fact that I
- 1:48Speaker 1: wanted the steak and cheese and I knew I couldn't
- 1:50Speaker 1: have it and did not want to watch her MIU
- 1:53Speaker 1: down on a steak and cheese. And you know what,
- 1:54Speaker 1: she's not wrong. See, I was masking it as I
- 1:58Speaker 1: was trying to hold her account of well, which it
- 2:00Speaker 1: was partly true a little bit, but more so it
- 2:03Speaker 1: was that I didn't want to watch or eat it
- 2:06Speaker 1: because then maybe first of all I would suck to
- 2:08Speaker 1: watch or eat it, but then also that I might
- 2:10Speaker 1: give in and say, hey, let me get a bite.
- 2:12Speaker 1: So yeah, I always say, man, the food. You know,
- 2:16Speaker 1: my friend Bobby, he used to always say, you know,
- 2:19Speaker 1: heroin ain't get shit on the dollar menu, And God
- 2:21Speaker 1: do I feel that in my soul. You know, it
- 2:24Speaker 1: was so hard for me to eat clean and to
- 2:26Speaker 1: diet when you know with my weight loss journey, it
- 2:29Speaker 1: took years to get the food and the nutrition part
- 2:31Speaker 1: down because you took everything else away.
- 2:35Speaker 2: Right.
- 2:35Speaker 1: I can't drink alcohol, I can't do drugs. I don't
- 2:38Speaker 1: smoke cigarettes anymore. All I have left is food, and
- 2:41Speaker 1: now you're trying to take that from me. I need
- 2:43Speaker 1: some kind of comfort, that's in my mind. I'm like,
- 2:47Speaker 1: what am I gonna do? I love food? Anyway. I
- 2:51Speaker 1: had a guest for today, but I forgot to ask
- 2:53Speaker 1: her to stay. So there's a girl. Her name is Eva.
- 2:55Speaker 1: She is a high school senior in Rhode Island. Her
- 2:59Speaker 1: mom is friend with Lisa, and she's going to be
- 3:01Speaker 1: going to school Emerson from Media. So she's been sitting
- 3:05Speaker 1: in this week, just shadowing, just watching. She's not we
- 3:08Speaker 1: don't have interns anymore, but you know, she just kind
- 3:10Speaker 1: of wants to get an idea of what we do.
- 3:13Speaker 1: So she was sitting in with me today and I
- 3:15Speaker 1: was showing her all the things that I do during
- 3:16Speaker 1: the show, and she was, you know, watching, and I
- 3:19Speaker 1: meant to ask her to stay to kind of talk
- 3:21Speaker 1: to her on the after show and get her story,
- 3:23Speaker 1: but I forgot to ask her, and then she left,
- 3:25Speaker 1: and when she was gone, I was like, shit, what
- 3:27Speaker 1: am I doing? Anyway, let's get to some talkbacks.
- 3:31Speaker 2: Hey, just to listen to the after show and here
- 3:32Speaker 2: you talk about your wife. I'm a similar age and
- 3:35Speaker 2: I also work at a therapist, and it's not the
- 3:37Speaker 2: same talking to a therapist is talking to a friend.
- 3:40Speaker 2: But I find that for a lot of that, like
- 3:42Speaker 2: middle aged women, they're just looking for somebody to like
- 3:44Speaker 2: hear them out and go over stuff with. And sometimes
- 3:47Speaker 2: that can be achieved in a good therapy relationship. I
- 3:50Speaker 2: do therapy on the phone. I also meet people in
- 3:53Speaker 2: a Himalayan celt cave or at the beach for a walk,
- 3:56Speaker 2: and so sometimes I can film the gap between visits
- 3:58Speaker 2: two friends.
- 3:59Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, Oh my god, she would love that. Yeah,
- 4:01Speaker 1: my wife, she's doing much better. She booked the trip
- 4:04Speaker 1: to go see her friend in July, and she said yesterday,
- 4:08Speaker 1: ever since she booked the flight, she feels so much better,
- 4:12Speaker 1: like it's it's a weight lifted off of her. And
- 4:15Speaker 1: then also she started last night doing the FaceTime with
- 4:18Speaker 1: her two best friends, one in North Carolina and her
- 4:20Speaker 1: other friend who lives up here but is super busy
- 4:23Speaker 1: and she doesn't get to see so last night from
- 4:26Speaker 1: six thirty to seven thirty, she was in the room,
- 4:28Speaker 1: locked away. I had the kids and she was on
- 4:30Speaker 1: FaceTime with her girls. And let me tell you, she
- 4:32Speaker 1: was so much happier. She's been so moody lately. And
- 4:36Speaker 1: I get it. I get it. I mean I talked
- 4:38Speaker 1: about it on this podcast. That's why she left the
- 4:39Speaker 1: talk back. You know, she has feels like she has
- 4:41Speaker 1: no friends, no one to talk to, and hopefully the
- 4:45Speaker 1: FaceTime thing will help. And I don't know, I'll suggest
- 4:47Speaker 1: that to her. You know, I'm a big fan of therapy.
- 4:50Speaker 1: I think it can be super beneficial. And you know,
- 4:54Speaker 1: i'm her husband, I'm there, we talk, but I know
- 4:57Speaker 1: I'm not a female, you know, I don't know what
- 4:59Speaker 1: it's like to be a forty old female and going
- 5:01Speaker 1: through what she's going through as a mom. You know,
- 5:03Speaker 1: I'm a guy, I'm a husband, I'm a dad, so
- 5:06Speaker 1: we can talk, but it's just not it's not the same.
- 5:09Speaker 1: And I don't think it fills the whole that she
- 5:13Speaker 1: has right that, the whole inside of her that she's
- 5:16Speaker 1: trying to wants to get filled. I don't think I
- 5:18Speaker 1: can fill that. I'd like to make a dirty joke there,
- 5:22Speaker 1: but I'm not going to because I'm trying to be
- 5:24Speaker 1: very serious. There was I wasn't trying to make a
- 5:27Speaker 1: joke there. There was one. We'll just leave it at that.
- 5:30Speaker 3: Oh, justin, I was just listening to your comment about
- 5:33Speaker 3: Jen and you know, she's not alone. I feel like
- 5:37Speaker 3: so many women these days, we need more connection with
- 5:40Speaker 3: each other, and communities are starting to build what's called
- 5:44Speaker 3: like sisterhood circles, women's circles where you just could meet
- 5:48Speaker 3: once a month. So maybe she could check that out
- 5:51Speaker 3: in your local community if it's starting to kind of bloom,
- 5:56Speaker 3: I think it would be great.
- 5:57Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm encouraging her to do that, to do those
- 6:01Speaker 1: things to branch out. But you know, she's also very busy.
- 6:05Speaker 1: You know, she works all day and the kids. You know,
- 6:08Speaker 1: the kids are the priority. The kids take up so
- 6:10Speaker 1: much time and so much effort. You know, we're in
- 6:12Speaker 1: bed at seven o'clock. I go to bed at seven
- 6:14Speaker 1: seven thirty. She goes to bed shortly after with the kids,
- 6:18Speaker 1: putting the kids to bed. So you know, there's not
- 6:20Speaker 1: a whole lot of time. But like I said before,
- 6:25Speaker 1: I think after yesterday things have kind of turned around.
- 6:27Speaker 1: She was much much happier yesterday. This morning she was
- 6:29Speaker 1: texting me. She seems to be in a much better mood.
- 6:32Speaker 1: I think now that she knows she is going to
- 6:33Speaker 1: go see her bestie, she's gonna spend some time away
- 6:36Speaker 1: from us. You know, I know she loves us, but time,
- 6:39Speaker 1: you know, by herself with her best friend is really
- 6:42Speaker 1: going to help. And don't forget Mother's Day coming up
- 6:44Speaker 1: this Sunday.
- 6:45Speaker 4: Hey, justin, it's Lynn listening to the podcast in month
- 6:48Speaker 4: to put my two cents in about Mother's Day gifts.
- 6:52Speaker 4: Now that Jen's got it covered for her trip, I
- 6:55Speaker 4: think you should get her wedding band that matters. Her
- 6:58Speaker 4: Ring talked about waiting until going back to Aruba. But
- 7:03Speaker 4: you know, her ring that she has now looks like
- 7:05Speaker 4: an engagement ring. She doesn't have a wedding band, so
- 7:07Speaker 4: I think you should kind of get something like that
- 7:09Speaker 4: for her. I think that would be a great idea.
- 7:12Speaker 2: Okay, have a good day.
- 7:13Speaker 1: Bye, Okay, Lynn, she dm me too. I don't, Lynn,
- 7:16Speaker 1: I don't have Linn back money. I don't you know
- 7:19Speaker 1: how much her ring cost A lot of money. I know,
- 7:22Speaker 1: I'm the radio guy, and people think, like, you know,
- 7:25Speaker 1: I'm rich. I'm not, you know what I mean. So
- 7:29Speaker 1: the band is coming, It's definitely coming, maybe not just yet.
- 7:32Speaker 1: I gotta save a few pesos if you get what
- 7:34Speaker 1: I mean, because that Aruba ring cost me a pretty
- 7:38Speaker 1: pretty penny. And yeah, she's right. The plan was that
- 7:41Speaker 1: maybe every time we go to Aruba, I get her
- 7:43Speaker 1: a new piece of jewelry or I mean, i'm sorry,
- 7:45Speaker 1: a new band. But right now she does have the ring,
- 7:48Speaker 1: so it does look like an engagement ring. So if Lynn,
- 7:52Speaker 1: you want to lend me some money or something, you know,
- 7:54Speaker 1: so I can get the band, that.
- 7:55Speaker 2: Would be good.
- 7:56Speaker 1: But I got a lot of bills to pay. Yeah,
- 7:58Speaker 1: I don't. It's it's it's hard out here. Man, how
- 8:01Speaker 1: it's okay. When I was making thirty thousand dollars a year,
- 8:08Speaker 1: I just thought to myself, if I could make one
- 8:11Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars, I would have no problems, right, there
- 8:15Speaker 1: would be no issues if I could just make one
- 8:18Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars. And then I made one hundred
- 8:22Speaker 1: thousand dollars and I still had problems. It's like Biggie says,
- 8:26Speaker 1: more money, more problems. The problems just changed and I
- 8:29Speaker 1: didn't even want to call them problems. It's just you know,
- 8:32Speaker 1: when you start making more money, you have more expenses,
- 8:35Speaker 1: You live a kind of more of a lifestyle, a
- 8:40Speaker 1: better lifestyle, and that costs money. You know, being a
- 8:43Speaker 1: homeowner is not it's not easy. Things break all the
- 8:46Speaker 1: time and things are always coming up, you know, And
- 8:50Speaker 1: I try to have money saved, right, The smart thing
- 8:53Speaker 1: is to always have money saved in a bank, so
- 8:55Speaker 1: like if if an emergency happens and then go for
- 8:58Speaker 1: butd I lose my job, right, I need to have
- 9:00Speaker 1: what is it, three months six months saved in the
- 9:03Speaker 1: bank for my mortgage. So that stuff's always weighing on me.
- 9:08Speaker 1: And you know, I don't know if I ever shared
- 9:10Speaker 1: this on the podcast. But I had no money for
- 9:13Speaker 1: so long. I never knew what it was like to
- 9:15Speaker 1: have money. Right I grew up, we didn't have money
- 9:18Speaker 1: like that. I didn't have fancy things or anything. And
- 9:21Speaker 1: then obviously I went the path I went down, had
- 9:24Speaker 1: no money, negative money. Okay, So when I started to
- 9:28Speaker 1: really learn how to save money finally, which wasn't that
- 9:31Speaker 1: long ago, it was maybe I think in twenty thirteen,
- 9:35Speaker 1: I was in credit card debt so bad and all
- 9:38Speaker 1: I was paying was a minimum payment. I couldn't even
- 9:40Speaker 1: keep up with it. I couldn't even pay my rent.
- 9:43Speaker 1: And my friend Zeb, who I love, one of my
- 9:45Speaker 1: best friends, swooped in, saved me, brought me to a
- 9:48Speaker 1: bank co signed a loan to pay off my credit
- 9:50Speaker 1: card debt. He took my credit cards from me, he
- 9:53Speaker 1: didn't rip them up, he took them, never gave them back,
- 9:57Speaker 1: and he kind of taught me how to improve my
- 10:00Speaker 1: life financially, how to save money and do all that stuff.
- 10:03Speaker 1: Plus damn rate Dave Ramsey, who wrote a money book.
- 10:06Speaker 1: I read that as well, But between Zeb and Dave,
- 10:09Speaker 1: I learned how to save money. Now, since that's happened,
- 10:14Speaker 1: I've always had a fear of getting being broke. It
- 10:18Speaker 1: plays in my head NonStop. So even if I have
- 10:21Speaker 1: a good amount of money saved, I still in my
- 10:23Speaker 1: head have this fear of losing all my money. And
- 10:26Speaker 1: I don't think that'll ever go away because I remember
- 10:29Speaker 1: what it was like to live paycheck to paycheck. And
- 10:32Speaker 1: but trust me, I don't have a ton of money.
- 10:34Speaker 1: But you know, I do have savings. I do have savings,
- 10:36Speaker 1: and I do okay. But every time I have to
- 10:39Speaker 1: spend money for something, So say I have to spend
- 10:42Speaker 1: one thousand dollars on something that's not gonna crush me,
- 10:45Speaker 1: I'll still have money saved. But I spend that thousand,
- 10:48Speaker 1: and immediately I get an anxiety that I'm gonna go broke,
- 10:51Speaker 1: like it's over, Like what am I gonna do? I
- 10:53Speaker 1: don't know how am I gonna live? So I don't know.
- 10:56Speaker 1: I'm curious toe if anybody else has that same kind
- 10:59Speaker 1: of xiety as I do. And I think that's just
- 11:02Speaker 1: from living so long not having any money, not making money.
- 11:08Speaker 1: But I'm happy to report that, you know, I do better.
- 11:10Speaker 1: I don't waste money. I don't buy sneakers anymore. If
- 11:13Speaker 1: there's a pair of sneakers that I like, I buy them,
- 11:15Speaker 1: I don't buy them that much. I did buy the
- 11:18Speaker 1: Jordan Off white ones that came out. I couldn't get them,
- 11:21Speaker 1: you know, retail. I had to pay resell. That was
- 11:23Speaker 1: like the only pair of sneakers I bought in probably
- 11:26Speaker 1: a year and a half. So retail they were two fifty.
- 11:30Speaker 1: And then right before they came out, they the price
- 11:32Speaker 1: dropped on stock X from like eight hundred to six hundred.
- 11:36Speaker 1: And I did spend six hundred on the sneakers, but
- 11:38Speaker 1: I justified it because I really wanted them, and I
- 11:41Speaker 1: hadn't been spending buying sneakers. I mean I was buying
- 11:43Speaker 1: several pairs a year. So yeah, Anyway, tomorrow they will
- 11:50Speaker 1: not be a podcast because I have to speak at
- 11:53Speaker 1: Andover High School for a good friend of mine who
- 11:57Speaker 1: used to work here. He worked out of this building,
- 12:00Speaker 1: but now he is He still works but not out
- 12:02Speaker 1: of the building, but he also teaches part time at
- 12:04Speaker 1: Andover High School. He reached out He asked me if
- 12:07Speaker 1: I if I would come to share my story with
- 12:09Speaker 1: the high school, and I said yes. So I have
- 12:11Speaker 1: to do that at ten am tomorrow. So I have
- 12:13Speaker 1: to have to leave the show early. I have to
- 12:14Speaker 1: leave the show around nine fifteen AM. So DJ pup
- 12:19Speaker 1: Dog is coming on at nine to ten to talk
- 12:21Speaker 1: about his big event at Big Night Live with Shaggy
- 12:23Speaker 1: this Thursday. That's gonna be a cool event. And I
- 12:26Speaker 1: have to leave right after that. So if I can
- 12:28Speaker 1: find maybe time in the morning, but very unlikely. So
- 12:32Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm gonna have to miss one day of
- 12:33Speaker 1: the after show podcast. But it should be really cool
- 12:37Speaker 1: and check this out. So my friend Mike, one of
- 12:40Speaker 1: my best friends, his son Liam is a wrestler, very
- 12:43Speaker 1: good wrestler. He's Able's best friend. He's nine years old
- 12:46Speaker 1: or he's about to be nine, really really really like
- 12:49Speaker 1: natural talent. He travels around the country with Mike wrestling,
- 12:54Speaker 1: and a while ago Mike was telling me randomly, he goes,
- 12:57Speaker 1: you want to hear a crazy story. There's a wrestler,
- 13:00Speaker 1: a high school wrestler who lives in New York. He's
- 13:03Speaker 1: number one ranked in the whole country. Maybe not the world,
- 13:07Speaker 1: but definitely the whole country. And he's got an insane story.
- 13:11Speaker 1: When he was a little kid, he grew up in
- 13:13Speaker 1: the Congo and him and his family were walking in
- 13:16Speaker 1: a village and they got attacked by monkeys and the
- 13:19Speaker 1: monkeys killed his family and they chewed his face off essentially,
- 13:25Speaker 1: but he survived as a kid, and now he's deformed
- 13:29Speaker 1: in his face. He ended up coming to America and
- 13:31Speaker 1: he's like a prodigy wrestler and now he's a senior,
- 13:35Speaker 1: top number one in the country. He's going to go
- 13:37Speaker 1: to college, like crazy future ahead of him, but he's
- 13:39Speaker 1: got that crazy story. So Mike told me that. And
- 13:43Speaker 1: so when my friend asked me to speak at Andover
- 13:45Speaker 1: High last week, we were kind of confirming the details.
- 13:48Speaker 1: He said, you're gona come out at ten o'clock. You're
- 13:50Speaker 1: gonna be the first speaker, and then we have another
- 13:52Speaker 1: speaker after you. And I said who is that and
- 13:55Speaker 1: he said, well, it's going to be over Zoom because
- 13:58Speaker 1: he's in Egypt right now. He's actually the top wrestler
- 14:01Speaker 1: in the country. And I said, oh, that's cool, and
- 14:05Speaker 1: he said, yeah, it's actually a crazy story. And he
- 14:07Speaker 1: started to tell me that it's that kid. Oh my god,
- 14:11Speaker 1: I said to him, Miche Jeff, why you haven't me
- 14:13Speaker 1: for like that's it? Then just have him. But I'm
- 14:16Speaker 1: happy to share it with him and you know, I'll
- 14:19Speaker 1: share my story and then he'll share his. It really
- 14:22Speaker 1: is an amazing story. You can look it up online
- 14:24Speaker 1: and read it. I think he was six years old
- 14:25Speaker 1: when it happened. And yeah, his face is kind of
- 14:28Speaker 1: messed up, but he's a really really good wrestler. And
- 14:31Speaker 1: what a tragic story, but kind of has a happy ending.
- 14:35Speaker 1: I guess that he survives and now he's doing really
- 14:37Speaker 1: really big things and wrestling, so very very cool. Yeah,
- 14:41Speaker 1: So tomorrow on the show, I'll be leaving early Pop
- 14:43Speaker 1: Dog we'll be in. We're working on Shaggy for Thursday
- 14:46Speaker 1: because he'll be a big night Live on Thursday nights.
- 14:48Speaker 1: We're working on that. So a lot's happening. Send talkbacks in,
- 14:52Speaker 1: ask questions, make comments. I love hearing from you guys.
- 14:55Speaker 1: It makes me so happy to come in in the
- 14:56Speaker 1: morning and I check the talkbacks for the regular show
- 14:59Speaker 1: and then the after sh and when they are after
- 15:01Speaker 1: show talkbacks, they get all excited. They like talking to
- 15:03Speaker 1: you guys, because I like having people in, Like I
- 15:05Speaker 1: was gonna have Eva, the high school student in to
- 15:07Speaker 1: kind of get to know her and her story and
- 15:09Speaker 1: like get her thoughts on what it was like to
- 15:10Speaker 1: sit in on the show and watch what I do,
- 15:13Speaker 1: and Riley does, and Billy and Lisa. But some days
- 15:17Speaker 1: it's just me. You know, Oh, one more thing I
- 15:19Speaker 1: want to add. This is funny. So on Jammin Santi
- 15:23Speaker 1: left right, he basically retired from radio. He just he
- 15:26Speaker 1: is a company that he's you know, his own company.
- 15:29Speaker 1: So she does not have a co host. So she's
- 15:32Speaker 1: been doing a thing where she has influencers come in
- 15:35Speaker 1: for a couple of days and join her as a
- 15:38Speaker 1: co host. So she had asked me, who do I recommend?
- 15:41Speaker 1: Who do I think? And so I started recommending a
- 15:45Speaker 1: couple of influencers and she ended up booking them to
- 15:48Speaker 1: come on the show. And now I'm recommending more. So basically,
- 15:53Speaker 1: I'm recommending influences that I follow on Instagram who I
- 15:56Speaker 1: want to meet, and then they're coming in. I also,
- 15:59Speaker 1: I think it'll be good for the show. But it's
- 16:01Speaker 1: kind of funny. I was joking with her. I'm like, Wow,
- 16:04Speaker 1: how selfish am I I'm just booking these pop I'm
- 16:06Speaker 1: just telling you to book these people so I can
- 16:08Speaker 1: meet them. So we had a good laugh about that.
- 16:10Speaker 1: But I think she has I don't know if I
- 16:13Speaker 1: can say who. I'm not even gonna say who they are,
- 16:14Speaker 1: but once they come in I will. But that want
- 16:18Speaker 1: to be stayed, want to be a stay at home dad.
- 16:20Speaker 1: His name is Key. He's a food influencer. I love him.
- 16:22Speaker 1: I follow him. He was on last week. She had
- 16:25Speaker 1: another guy this week I wasn't familiar with. I'd seen
- 16:27Speaker 1: his Instagram before, but I wasn't familiar. I don't think
- 16:29Speaker 1: I follow him, but the ones coming up next week
- 16:32Speaker 1: I recommend it to her, so when they come on,
- 16:35Speaker 1: maybe I'll try to get him on the after show.
- 16:36Speaker 1: That would be cool. So anyways, send the top packsan
- 16:39Speaker 1: and have a great day. I'm out.