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I Choose … Family Time in the Bahamas with Luca, Lola and Fiona · I Choose Me with Jennie Garth

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  Speaker 1: You're listening to I Choose Me with Jenny.
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  Speaker 2: Girls.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to I Choose Me, the podcast about making choices
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  Speaker 1: that fill our cups and give us room to breathe. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we talk about that a lot, filling our cups. So
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  Speaker 1: I decided to practice what I preach. Uh huh, And
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  Speaker 1: I called my girls. I said, let's go away, let's
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  Speaker 1: get away. So we all, Luca, Lola and Fiona, we're
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  Speaker 1: all here. We jetted away to Nasa, Bahamas. We are
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  Speaker 1: here at the gorgeous Baja Mar Ocean Front Resort. It
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  Speaker 1: is gorge We are having the best time and we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna record this mother daughter chat straight from the studio
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  Speaker 1: at Baja Mar. So cool that they have a podcast
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  Speaker 1: studio here. We're bringing you with us. So close your eyes,
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  Speaker 1: you guys, imagine the ocean breeze and escape for a
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  Speaker 1: little bit with me and my girls. Hi, ladies, is
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  Speaker 1: so fun to have you all in one room with me.
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  Speaker 1: Your the door shut, you can't get out him. They're
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  Speaker 1: all smiling at me. There's a lot of teeth in
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  Speaker 1: this room between the four of us and Easton. We're here.
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  Speaker 1: How are you how you like in the Bahamas?
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  Speaker 2: It's amazing, so nice.
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  Speaker 1: You just flew in, Luca and Lola. Luca and Fiona
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  Speaker 1: just flew in this morning the Red Eye, and we
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  Speaker 1: flew in at night, so we had no idea where
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  Speaker 1: we were to let the sun came up. But it's
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  Speaker 1: so pretty here. What do you guys? What do you
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  Speaker 1: what have you been up to while have been in
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  Speaker 1: here working?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I think the most beautiful.
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  Speaker 3: Part was flying in over that crystal ocean, blue water.
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  Speaker 3: It's so stunning.
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  Speaker 4: You could really see all the way to the bottom.
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  Speaker 1: Did you guys see any sharks in there? Because I
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  Speaker 1: bet there's.
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  Speaker 2: Looking saw a sea turtle on the.
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  Speaker 1: Beach, Yeah, you see the turtles.
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  Speaker 2: There was one on the apparently there was one on
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  Speaker 2: the beach.
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean apparently apparently.
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  Speaker 2: Some people saying that there's sea turtles And then I
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  Speaker 2: looked up and then I laid back down. She didn't
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  Speaker 2: get look for.
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  Speaker 4: The enclosure though, right with like turtles, Yeah, they.
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  Speaker 2: Have tortoises and flamingos. You've touched a flamingo.
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  Speaker 1: Basically cuddled a flamingo just like an hour ago. And
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  Speaker 1: it was really quiet. It was very it's a very
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  Speaker 1: quiet experience. A flamingo. If you were ever wondering on
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  Speaker 1: one leg? Yes, it was. Yeah, why did it do that?
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  Speaker 1: Why does a flamingo stand on one leg? I think, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she was awake. I'm pretty sure, is it? Do you
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  Speaker 1: think it's I think it's pretty common that family's vacation together.
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  Speaker 1: Like even though Luca you live in New York, Fiona
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  Speaker 1: you're away at college, Lola you are busy living with
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  Speaker 1: me and running a business, but we always come together
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  Speaker 1: for our basically definitely one summer get away and try
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  Speaker 1: to do a winter getaway too. Yeah, isn't that's pretty common?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it is common. But every now
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  Speaker 2: and then you'll meet someone who's like, you go on
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  Speaker 2: vacation with your family, Like they don't get it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: But a lot of my personal friends, like they all
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  Speaker 2: vacation with their family. Still.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's about prioritizing each other and we just
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  Speaker 3: all really like hanging out with each other. So it's like,
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  Speaker 3: we want to go on vacation together, and that's such
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  Speaker 3: a beautiful thing. That's something we look forward to and
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  Speaker 3: enjoy doing together and sharing experiences and memories.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god, we have so many great memories from
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  Speaker 1: our escapades. Wait, Fiona, you actually thinking about priorities. You
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  Speaker 1: could be on spring break right now with all your
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  Speaker 1: college friends. Instead, you chose to come on a trip
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  Speaker 1: with your family.
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  Speaker 4: No, I'd rather be here. I feel like what.
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  Speaker 1: Says no college kid? Ever? I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I don't know. It's more relaxing, and
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  Speaker 4: I like being about my family.
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  Speaker 2: I know, and you have pretty colol sisters, and I
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  Speaker 2: love my sisters.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, I'm here. Yeah, cool, Mom?
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  Speaker 2: How about that? Is that a vacation with your family
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  Speaker 2: when you're younger?
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  Speaker 1: No, we never went on vacations.
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  Speaker 3: We went in a camper, not on RV, a camper
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  Speaker 3: on my dad's pickup truck.
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  Speaker 1: We drove it to the the Pike's Peak you ever
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  Speaker 1: heard of that?
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  Speaker 2: It's not the Bahamas, not the worst, not the Bahamas.
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  Speaker 2: It feels like Grand Canyon.
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  Speaker 1: It's like in the middle of the country, somewhere the
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  Speaker 1: Pike's Peak is there the because you know I like
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  Speaker 1: to put the front of the is the Pike's Peak.
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  Speaker 1: It's in Colorado. Okay, Yeah, so apparently I don't remember it.
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  Speaker 1: I was literally a baby in a sling. They my
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  Speaker 1: mom and dad put like a sling in the between
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  Speaker 1: them in the front of the pickup trunk. So there
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  Speaker 1: was my dad driving and my mom as a passenger,
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  Speaker 1: and there was a sling made out of like fabric,
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  Speaker 1: and that's where I was so key.
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  Speaker 4: It's really cute.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do have pictures and it makes me
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  Speaker 1: happy when I see them. My dad carried me in
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  Speaker 1: his little backpack hiking and stuff. So that's the kind
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  Speaker 1: of vacations we did. We've never got to fly anywhere
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  Speaker 1: or go anywhere. We're so blessed to have had the
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  Speaker 1: ability and the opportunity to travel so much, even when
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  Speaker 1: you girls were younger. Wait, can we just talk about
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  Speaker 1: now that I have all of your tension weddings, because
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I think you're what. No, you
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  Speaker 1: tell me what your ideal wedding place, environment, situation would be,
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  Speaker 1: and I'll and then I'll tell you what I've always
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  Speaker 1: thought for you. Okay, Luca, when you go first, since
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  Speaker 1: you thought for I don't want to like sway you. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I will, Luca. You're on a beach, undoubtedly.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, very cash. Nobody's wearing shoes.
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  Speaker 3: Nope, it's giving my fifth birthday on the beach.
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  Speaker 2: When my dad was wearing like a lou Oscart.
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  Speaker 1: We can hire who dancers yeah yeah yeah, shell yeah,
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  Speaker 1: bring a dish. So we're we're in alignment as far
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  Speaker 1: as what I always thought for you.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Lola, I know Lola's too well. I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: tell you what I want to do, because you both
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  Speaker 2: have super overrojecting. I want to have a ranch wedding
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  Speaker 2: with kind of like how you got married to Dave,
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  Speaker 2: where it was very like d I y, only your
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  Speaker 2: close family and friends and a helicopter. Yeah, minus the helicopter,
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  Speaker 2: and it's just like on a ranch, very sweet outside
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  Speaker 2: in the grass.
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  Speaker 1: I love that for you. Not what I pictured, not
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  Speaker 1: at all what I pictured. It may change. I told
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  Speaker 1: you before, I always thought you would have a winter
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  Speaker 1: wedding and you would be in snow, nature beautiful, just
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  Speaker 1: pristine snow, and you would be wearing a garnet red dress.
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  Speaker 1: That's always what I thought.
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  Speaker 2: You told me.
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  Speaker 1: You garnet anything anymore, you can wear whatever you want.
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  Speaker 2: That's I love that for you.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe next wedding when they hear about.
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  Speaker 1: I want to do that, I need to do that, Fiona,
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  Speaker 1: all right, I think mine would be in like Italy.
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  Speaker 4: What no, I'm saying, like lake Como with somewhere the
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  Speaker 4: lake underneath. But then like, really, I have a bunch
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  Speaker 4: of finer sports about this.
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  Speaker 1: Actually, oh my god, you have Fiona and Lola have
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  Speaker 1: pinters sports about their wedding.
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  Speaker 2: I don't have a pincher's account.
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  Speaker 1: I love. Wait, okay, so you'd be in lake Como.
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  Speaker 1: I see that. Wait do you see me getting Can
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  Speaker 1: you come in the wedding?
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  Speaker 2: Will be your bridesmaid? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Obviously, But we were just talking about this.
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  Speaker 2: My friends and I about how maid of honor.
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  Speaker 4: The maid of honor is the issue because I can
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  Speaker 4: have multiple bride days, but you have to pick one
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  Speaker 4: made of honors. So I'm honestly just gonna make like
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  Speaker 4: all my made of honor.
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  Speaker 2: That's cute, isn't that fun? You actually have to pick one?
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  Speaker 1: Wait, no, I can't do that because one of you
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  Speaker 1: you can give honors.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like you can kind of be whatever you want.
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  Speaker 2: Now we are planning in detail right now.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get real for a second. Okay, I mean not
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  Speaker 1: that you know, wedding talk isn't real, but nobody's getting
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  Speaker 1: married right now. Okay, just saying that. Wait, no, it's
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  Speaker 1: you know whatever you guys want, of course, but you know,
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  Speaker 1: take your time because I didn't. Right, Okay, good with
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  Speaker 1: some hindsight, now that you guys are almost all in
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  Speaker 1: your twenties, you're almost there, You're about to be no
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  Speaker 1: longer a teenager ever again, since you guys are all
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  Speaker 1: in your twenties, ish, what are some things that when
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  Speaker 1: you look back, that you think I've taught you or
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  Speaker 1: maybe even by my mistakes in life, things that I've
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  Speaker 1: taught you Because you guys, I've always been really open
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  Speaker 1: with all of you. You've been with me every step
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  Speaker 1: of my journey. I've kind of grown up right along
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  Speaker 1: with you girls, but also tried to be a mom figure.
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  Speaker 1: I think I've done that pretty well. But at the
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  Speaker 1: same time, I always did feel like I was like
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  Speaker 1: winging it. I had no idea what I was doing
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  Speaker 1: because I was such a young mom. But what would
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  Speaker 1: you say, like has stuck with you that you've learned
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  Speaker 1: from having a young mom or from having a mom
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  Speaker 1: who's me.
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  Speaker 2: I think that we kind of got to grow up together,
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  Speaker 2: which was really special. Like I look back at we
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  Speaker 2: love watching family videos and looking back at our photo albums.
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  Speaker 2: And you were a baby when you had Luca. So
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  Speaker 2: it's so interesting to watch you go from somebody who's
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  Speaker 2: like almost me and Fiona's age to who you are
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  Speaker 2: now and see you raising people the same age that
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  Speaker 2: you had your babies. We really did grow up together.
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  Speaker 1: It's wild. I was so young when Luca was born,
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  Speaker 1: twenty three ish, I think, wow.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I think from what I witnessed because I was the first,
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  Speaker 3: is how it shifts your priorities. And I feel like
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  Speaker 3: I feel so grateful because your whole focus with me
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  Speaker 3: when you had me, and like that was a blessing
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  Speaker 3: that you were able to give me so much energy
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  Speaker 3: even though you were working full time and like working
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  Speaker 3: late night shoots and all that. But it really just
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  Speaker 3: I think, and we've talked about this, like gave you
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  Speaker 3: a lot of like inherent purpose and you are such
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  Speaker 3: an amazing mom. I think you always wanted to be
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  Speaker 3: a mom, like when you were playing with your teddy
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  Speaker 3: bear and like taking care of You were always a caretaker.
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  Speaker 3: So I think sometimes people's purpose and passion can also
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  Speaker 3: be like a family. That's not like it doesn't have
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  Speaker 3: to always be career, even though you're so amazing and
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  Speaker 3: successful and driven, but it can also be your family.
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  Speaker 1: It can be both things at once. Yeah, That's one
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  Speaker 1: of the things that I've been so like happy to
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  Speaker 1: be able to like sort of show you that you
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  Speaker 1: can have all the things at once, and you have
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  Speaker 1: everything within you to be able to juggle all of
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  Speaker 1: that and handle all of that. You don't have to
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  Speaker 1: pick oh I'm just a mom or oh I'm just
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  Speaker 1: a career woman. You can do it all. And we're
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  Speaker 1: so so lucky as women to live in a time
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  Speaker 1: when that's those We have all the options.
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  Speaker 4: I will say, growing up, something I really admired about
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  Speaker 4: you was your strength of character and like watching you,
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  Speaker 4: you know, always be your true strong self. Really, I
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  Speaker 4: feel like had a big impact on all of us.
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  Speaker 4: I remember you remember when I used to get mad
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  Speaker 4: at you for like.
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  Speaker 1: Do I remember it's good yesterday?
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  Speaker 4: There's like an era where you would get some like
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  Speaker 4: pretty bad road rage. Do you remember that?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know, or pressed anger, but you were always.
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  Speaker 4: Like, no, if you don't ever let someone like not
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  Speaker 4: let you use your voice, and like, you know, even
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  Speaker 4: when somebody was like yelling at you in the corn
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  Speaker 4: next you and you would yell back and then I'd
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  Speaker 4: be like, Mom, just don't do that, don't do that,
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  Speaker 4: and you're like, no, no, no, Like you got to
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  Speaker 4: be strong. And I think that was something I really
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  Speaker 4: stuck onto.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but let's reimagine that nowadays, in this day and age,
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  Speaker 1: in this current climate of our country, let's rage back
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  Speaker 1: at people.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like, for the greater picture.
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  Speaker 1: No, yes, you have. Absolutely. I always taught you don't
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  Speaker 1: take things that don't feel right, Like if if you
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  Speaker 1: see something, say something and that goes for like if
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  Speaker 1: you see something being you know, said to you or
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  Speaker 1: for you or because of you that doesn't feel authentic
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  Speaker 1: to your story and your truth, and stand up for yourself. Absolutely,
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  Speaker 1: that's good. I'm glad that you guys learned some things
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  Speaker 1: from me. I've learned a lot from both all three
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  Speaker 1: of you, honestly. I mean, you know, we have the
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  Speaker 1: tradition what I started. I think it was when all
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  Speaker 1: three of you were born and I started kissing all
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  Speaker 1: three of you on the on the head three times
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  Speaker 1: every night before I put you in bed, and I
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  Speaker 1: kiss you and I would say, strength, courage, and wisdom,
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  Speaker 1: these things I get to. Yes, So tell us who
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  Speaker 1: each of you were in that threesome.
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  Speaker 3: I think we went in order, and I think the
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  Speaker 3: qualities do kind of relate to us. But we did
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  Speaker 3: go in order, so I was strength.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, you're wrong.
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  Speaker 2: It's interesting when you were wisdom and Mola's courage, you're wisdom,
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  Speaker 2: you're strength. I guess at least with the words on.
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  Speaker 1: It for multiple you guys have lost your necklace.
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  Speaker 2: It's interesting because regardless of what Luca just said, I
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  Speaker 2: really feel like we do like resonate with the qualities
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  Speaker 2: qualities Like I feel like I am always like searching
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  Speaker 2: for courage, and you're always searching for strength, and when
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  Speaker 2: we remember that, we just like I'm searching for wisdom.
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  Speaker 1: Those are all You're very wise, right you because you
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  Speaker 1: have always had such a wise spirit.
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  Speaker 4: But also like you have courage too. It's like about unlocking,
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  Speaker 4: it's about like.
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  Speaker 1: Within you. Yeah, each of those things. And it's so
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  Speaker 1: weird how you know, you were kids when we started
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  Speaker 1: doing that tradition, but now as women those words still
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  Speaker 1: really kind of resonate and represent each of you in
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  Speaker 1: your journeys.
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  Speaker 4: I think, which is you had one word, what would
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  Speaker 4: it be?
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  Speaker 1: Th good question? One word? You tell me what would
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  Speaker 1: my necklace. Say what would my kiss, my fourth kiss
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  Speaker 1: say on the forehead to say resilience?
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  Speaker 4: Is that the same thing as different?
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  Speaker 3: I'd like to say love or love because I think
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  Speaker 3: you're very loving and you're very open hearted.
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  Speaker 1: And I work and work at love too, which is
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  Speaker 1: kind of what we were just talking about, how you
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  Speaker 1: possess it, but you also still are challenged by it.
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  Speaker 4: I said resilience because I feel like you've grown a
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  Speaker 4: lot as a person, like throughout your life, and you
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  Speaker 4: just keep becoming better and better. I feel like, and
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  Speaker 4: I feel like that's a lot of that's what life's about,
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  Speaker 4: just like growing into the best possible version of yourself.
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  Speaker 4: I think it's really cool to see you kind of
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  Speaker 4: unlock a lot of things recently and step into your
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  Speaker 4: highest power. And I feel like watching you do that
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  Speaker 4: is very you know, I admire that a lot and
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  Speaker 4: inspirational for all of us.
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  Speaker 3: I feel, Yeah, I think a lot of people think
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  Speaker 3: that their parents have to be perfect and get really
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  Speaker 3: frustrated and disappointed. But we got to watch you learn,
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  Speaker 3: and we learned altogether, so we all became are becoming
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  Speaker 3: together and there's no destination, like you are always growing
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  Speaker 3: and learning.
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  Speaker 4: It's your first time living too. Have you ever seen
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  Speaker 4: that quote? Yeah, yeah, it's everyone's first time living. Like,
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  Speaker 4: even if you're thinking like that, persons so annoying, it's
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  Speaker 4: their first time living.
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  Speaker 1: Right, You don't think about that of your parents though,
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  Speaker 1: you don't. You think they're just a parent and they
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  Speaker 1: know everything. And m M. But you guys definitely saw
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  Speaker 1: me trip up a few times here and there, learn
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  Speaker 1: from my mistakes.
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  Speaker 3: Well, even having Memi Anna in the helm, which is
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  Speaker 3: such a great experience, but we're learning a lot about
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  Speaker 3: like she's never been her age either, and like being
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  Speaker 3: older and just all the different generations of women is
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  Speaker 3: really cool.
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  Speaker 1: M Yeah. So if you're listening, Mimi, my mom, the
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  Speaker 1: girl's grandma moved into our house. She's eighty three and she's,
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  Speaker 1: you know, suffering from some cognitive challenges as she's gotten older.
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  Speaker 1: How's that been for each of you? As you now
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  Speaker 1: see three generations in our home? How has it been
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  Speaker 1: seeing my mom me and ultimately you as you grow
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  Speaker 1: and some day you'll be me. Someday you'll be me me, Like,
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  Speaker 1: how has that affected you? Because I'm sure being in
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  Speaker 1: the presence of that many generations, like it has some
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  Speaker 1: effect on you, because I know it has an effect
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  Speaker 1: on me, and I look at you know how I
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  Speaker 1: can do better and take better care of myself so
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  Speaker 1: that you know I can avoid certain things not just
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  Speaker 1: for my benefit, but for y'all's benefit too, because you know,
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: I know you. I don't want you to ever take
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: care of me or have to have I don't want
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: to be a burden. And every I think every mom
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: says that, but I that has been, has it been
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: in that house, in that in our house.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: Our throughmate. It's definitely there's a lot of feelings. There's
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: a lot of like happiness that we get to spend
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: time with her and help her. I feel like since
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: she's moved in, she's I don't know if like gotten
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: better is the right term, but she's definitely had a
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: bit more positivity, which is a really sweet thing to watch.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: And it's sad, it's scary, it's it's a lot of things,
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: but I first and foremost feel very grateful that I
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: get to like spend this chapter of her life with
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: her and make her feel as safe as we possibly can.
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: It's also interesting because we're pretty spaced out, so like
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: Leona is ten years younger than me, give her take,
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: and Lola is five years younger than me, so like
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: it's almost like gaps of womanhood too. Like Leona's experience
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: is so different than my adult and like I feel
• 18:51
  Speaker 3: like we're learning from each other too, because I'm like
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: the first one to like have to pay rent and
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: have to like get it, you know, Like we're learning
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: about being growing up through each other, which is really cool.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: So multiple generations and experiences to kind of like snapshot
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: and be like, huh, I like how they're doing that,
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: but maybe I'll do you always like grow and learn
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: from your family, like what you want to do, so
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: maybe like inspired sometimes or like finding things that you'll
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: do differently.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, how's it been for you? Well, I was just
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: going to say, it's been really interesting just to see
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: your perspectives on just basically life in big picture, because
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: when I was I can say without a doubt, when
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: I was any of your ages, I did not think
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: look at my grandmother's generation and what's going on with
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: her as a woman, what she's dealt with or come
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: through or learned. And I never you know, I never
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: thought about my mom as I didn't have Well maybe
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: it was because of the industry that I found myself
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: in and all the other mental things that was going
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: on with me. But like I never really had that
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: sort of ability to step back and look at my
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: female you know, predecessors, my ancestry and kind of like
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: learn from them or just even appreciate or you know,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: just take account of all the different things that we
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: go through as women, as we go through the different eras,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: you know, the aras tour, airs tour. We're all swifties,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: you guys, can't help it till the day we die.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: But it's been Yeah, having Mimi move in has been
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: so many things. I don't want to get emotional, but
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: it's been really scary and eye opening and wonderful and
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: deeply saddening. You know, there's so many things that go
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: with caring for your mother when they get older. You know,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: my mom doesn't have, you know, another option, So we
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: took her in and as a family and of course
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: want to take care of her and make her later
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: life as beautiful she made my life and as beautiful
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: she made you girls' lives. Like she was such a
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: great grandma. She still is in her in her own
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: way now, you know, in her capacity now. But it's
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: just really fascinating to sit with different aged women who've
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: all grown up in the same world. Yeah, same house.
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: Well, it actually reminds me because you're kind of caretaking
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: for Mimi, but like, how are you caretaking because we're
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: all older now, Like, how does it feel to be
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: a mom of adult children.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: It's definitely different. I remember when you sort of like
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: left the nest, Luca as the oldest. I still had
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: two birds in the nest, so I wasn't looking at
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: it like, oh no, I'm losing a bird. It didn't
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: feel that way. It felt like you were just kind
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: of flying, you know, and doing your thing.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: And you were always very independent, Like I feel like
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: when you're sixteen, you did your summer camps and you
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: were excited to enter that independence.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: Definitely a streak of independence in this girl. Strength really, yeah,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: wisdom and courage all wrapped up in one and everything.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: But it's been, you know, it's been, it's been. It's
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: taken me, you know, stepping back and having the ability
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: now later in my life to look at things a
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: big picture and sort of assess the bigger moment, not
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: just so tunnel vision of where I am and how
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: I'm surviving this moment. But to be able to like
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: look at you as individual women now, I just I'm
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: full of pride. It's not pride of like an ego,
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: but it's just pride that like, look what I look
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: what you did as a mom, Like first when you
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: were here, I kept you alive, like I'll barely not
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: to keep myself.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: Alike for me because I feel like you're both super
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: young and figuring it out.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: Figuring out. I was figuring out every step of the way,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: even with Fiona's age. I was figuring out how to
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: parent Fiona because she's different than Luca, and she's different
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: than Lola, you know. So I think being able to
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: give myself that grace and to sort of accept that, yes,
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: I am a mother of three girls, but I'm a
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: mother of each of you individually, and like going about
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: it that way because it's much easier to just be like, oh, yeah,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: I have three kids, but I have three humans that
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: you know, when you when you really break it down,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: I don't want to just lump you together as a
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: bunch of my kids, you know, like you're so much
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: more than that to me.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: What resources do you feel like you had, because I
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: remember you used to like read books about go to
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: classes and class I don't know, did you go to
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: any like mommy classes matter.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Like no, no, you.
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: Know, even Dad didn't go to any like classes.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: No.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: I never I never even talked to other moms about
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: what it was like to be a mom. I just
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: was like making it up as I went the whole time,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: winging it, pretending fake it till you make it.
• 24:25
  Speaker 4: And you did a really good job. Just look at
• 24:27
  Speaker 4: all of us. I feel like we're all really smart.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: And you're all very smart, smart girls.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: That's actually really interesting because you were the youngest, so
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: I feel like, as the middle I have a lot
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: of practice taking care of Fiona, and like I had
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: a lot of my maternal instincts come from being a
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: big sister Fiona. So the fact that you were the
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: youngest sibling and that you were, honestly from the jump
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: like such an attentive mom to Luca is really it
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: must have been passed down from MEMI yeah, all the
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: animals that you had, I'm sure.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: No, I think it's just kind of in my genes,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Like in my upbringing from the Midwest, like family was
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: always so important to me, it was the only thing
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: I knew because, like I said, we didn't travel places.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: We didn't you know, we didn't go off our farm
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: very much, to be honest. Yeah, So it just like
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: inside me that thank God, just sort of naturally takes over,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: whether it's with my doggies, you know, I'm obselves with
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: them or with my children. Like it's just like and
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: also what you said earlier, like that ability to step
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: out of this world of like self scrutiny and self
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: drive and the constant you know, attention that one pays
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: to themselves when they're young, or one pays to themselves
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: when they're in the industry that I'm in. I was
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: so happy to have the like safe space where I
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: felt really confident as a mom, Like just I knew
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: that this was what I was supposed to do, be
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: your mommy, and like it knew it was. I was
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: good at it, Like there was there have been times
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: when I've definitely questioned, like, oh no, how am I
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: messing them up today? Or who's going to be in
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: therapy over me when? But all those things, but like
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: mostly I've always felt like this was my calling, was
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: to be the mother of all of you more than anything.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: And I think having that, the ability to have the
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: opportunity to be a mom, has helped me not be
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: so self focused, so selfish, so wrapped up in everything
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: as an individual, but more about like our family and
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: each of you individually. Like the fact that I have
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: within me the capacity to mother each of you individually
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: per your specific needs and just where you are in
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: your lives blows my mind.
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: Honestly, it's not exhausting. Yeah, I'm very impressed.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was a lot more exhausting when I was younger,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: because it was like just throwing everything up in the
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: air and hoping everything landed right. But I'm most proud,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: obviously of being your mom, and most proud of how
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: you girls have turned out and are turning out and
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: will continue to grow, you know, y.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: And I actually have a question for you because you've
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: just started your first semester at college and it's your
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: first time being out of the house and I'm curious.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: Mom just called it kind of like our space, safe space,
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: and we called our bird's nest, Like, how are you
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: feeling being out in the world without Mommy?
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: It's definitely weird. Even though I go to college kind
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: of close comparatively to all my friends who moved, you know, farther.
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: I feel like it still feels weird when I go home,
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: Like my room doesn't feel like my room anyway.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: You kind of like, really, but it's okay.
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: I just kind of feel like on my own, but
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: I can do It's really weird. That sense of independence
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: you get, like creating your own schedule and doing what
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: you want for the first time is so fun, and
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: I feel like, I don't know, first semester, I was
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: kind of in between, like I was going home a
• 28:08
  Speaker 4: lot more because I feel like it was kind of
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: hard for me to adjust since I love being home
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: with you guys. But after that, I kind of feel
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: like the independence and like the fact that I could
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: do my own things and like make my own schedule
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: really kind of motivated me to, yeah, start my life.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: I was wondering because I am such an independent woman
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: and always have been since I was a young person.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: You are each very independent. I was wondering, like, how
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: have I have I given you your independence? As you've
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: left the nest. I know, I feel like I really
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: have for you, Luca, because I mean, you moved across
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: the country, so you kind of made it hard for
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: me to be too involved.
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: Yes, and I feel like I don't know.
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: There's just moments where like I remember you were like
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: you have to, you know, find your own apartment, and
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: then like when I found it, you were like crying.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: It's like a little give and take. Here's the story
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: with that easy to want someone to help somebody be independent.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I didn't want you to find your own apartment. First
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: of all, it was a group effort being told to
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: me that that was what you needed to do development right,
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: But then you found an apartment on a busy street
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: in North Hollywood, which is not safe. There was no security,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: no underground parking. There was a key that opened the
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: actual like metal key.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: You had loved it, and that was such an experience,
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: Like that was such a chapter for me because like
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: I needed that.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: The girl, you know, terrified was terrifying.
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: I remember I came over one time and I was
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: really scared of like, oh my god, you're building. Also,
• 29:48
  Speaker 4: the living room wall had the.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: Refrigerator. Oh yeah, what was in your refrigerator?
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: Well, I didn't have a lot of storage and I
• 29:58
  Speaker 3: didn't cook, so I just kept my shoes and my refrigerator.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: But then my shoes would be cold. That was not
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: very that's really weird.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: But I've lived in a lot of weird places, Like
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: I feel like I've like lived with random movements, like
• 30:10
  Speaker 3: that's just part of being young, and like you got away.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: With a lot.
• 30:14
  Speaker 3: You got to backpack, yeah, across Europe and stay in
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: hostels like I'm just that's my expression of independence. It
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: looks differently on each of you, which is awesome doing this,
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: but I like like that kind of stuff.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: You think. You guys probably think that Fiona gets away
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: with a lot because she's the baby and I've gotten
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: more relax which is true and it's a different time
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: and world. But I feel like you got away with
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: a lot because I was busy with them and still
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: treading water, and then you were gone and I was like, okay,
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: well when worried about her, she was gone. Yeah, she
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: was just gone.
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and they've always come back comes back.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: Wait. I was always just like so uneasy with you
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: out on your own, but knowing that I had to
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: let you do you well that way.
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: Like yeah, I do feel like you've kind of really really.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: Too much too much, Like you're like you always are,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Like why are you all of a sudden, what do
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: you wait?
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: No, I've really it's fun.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: Then I noticed what.
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: I'm like, we haven't talked to her in like two days,
• 31:23
  Speaker 4: and then I'm like, wait, I have to call her
• 31:25
  Speaker 4: right now. But I think you've done a really good
• 31:28
  Speaker 4: job with letting me kind of feel like, I like
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: not pressured. I know a lot of kids when they
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: get to college, their parents are like, you know, sending
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: them gift bags every single day, and they're like freaking
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: out when they go do whatever. So I don't know,
• 31:39
  Speaker 4: I appreciate it.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Actually, Yeah, I set up your room and then I
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: was out.
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and I really appreciate you helping me do that.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: No love what about you? Because we live together, I feel.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: Like it's a little different and we work together, are
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: with each other pretty much twenty four seven, and we
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: choose to be. Yeah, but it feels like a choice.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: I think that I I did have the going to
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: college experience, and we got to Luca and that was
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: very special and I'm really glad that I got to
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: experience that. But I just feel like now I'm trying
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: to balance so much more than just my own independence,
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Like I have so much more on my plate. The
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: business and everything. So I feel like, yeah, that's a
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: little more. Yeah, I need the nets a little bit more.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: Do you feel that you have the independence things?
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yes, I need my alone time. I
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: like I need to My social battery is very small,
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: and when I go and spend it all, I need
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: to have my alone time. So I do feel like
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: I enjoy being alone. I love my independence, but I
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: do love being around my family.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: It's so weird because I always struggled with like, because
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: my mom loved me in my mind young woman mind,
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: too much, and I was always afraid that I was
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: being given more love than my sisters. And so I've
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: always been very like, I've always been cognizant of giving
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: you each individual amounts of love and sometimes like my
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: instinct is to pull back enough to like see what
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: you need instead of me just smothering you and with it,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: especially as you've gotten older. Yeah, you used to know
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: you had no choice. I was likes seeing you everywhere
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: all the time. But now it's it's it's like it's
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: shifted gears. It's really interesting.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: Well, this era for you.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: Is a little different than full on coat like parenting.
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: Like parenting, it's more career focus, which for me is
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: super inspiring because I feel like you never had that
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: in my lifetime, like fully diving in and following your passions.
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: I don't know, you were obviously working full time when
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: I was younger, but you were your priority was still home,
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: and it's been really empowering to watch you like take
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: more career risks and like jump.
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, Yeah, I really do.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: I love that you guys recognize that. And it's yeah,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: the first time in my life where I've been yet
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: even though you were, you know, independent and doing your thing,
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: I was still consumed with are they okay? And what?
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: You know? You just still and until you went to college,
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: like I had something to focus on so imminent, and
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: then when you left, it was like, okay, what's next?
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think that's what a lot of parents
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: struggle with, is that empty nest syndrome, And like, I
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: feel like you didn't really have time to do that
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: because you just jumped right into a really big project
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: and undertaking in the business of I Choose Me with Lola,
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: and that's been really.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: Cool to watch. Yeah, you said the word empty nesters,
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: and that's kind of triggering for me because we don't
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: have an empty nest. I know, you guys, this was
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: the thing when Dave and I got married and he
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: took on the role of stepfather to three girls who
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: had a father. And you know he loves you, guys.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: He would do anything for you, Dave, step Dave. But
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: he's been waiting, he's been waiting for that empty nest,
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: which I've always like, you know, someday you'll get all
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: of my attention. I promised it's coming. They'll all, they all,
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: they won't need me, and they'll be on their own
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: and we'll just kind of check in and out with them.
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: We can travel, we can do whatever. The minute Fiona
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: left for college in came meet me and Dottie and
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: the baby Doggie. So I feel really bad for Dave. Actually,
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: he doesn't have an empty nest, and he really really
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: wanted it. He wants it. I don't know how that's
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: gonna work out for him, though. Monday time, Monday at
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: a time. My mom's grandfather, my great grandfather, lived to
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: be one hundred and one.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: Oh great gems, that's good, great.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's good, but that means I will never
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: have an empty nest. But I don't know when you.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: And they find the time you shay on weekend. Yeah,
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: you have to make the choice.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Choose me. We have to choose, we choose we Yep.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I think that it's really been interesting to like
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: with you, especially Luca as the oldest, the adult, the
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: big one is the oldest one. It's been really interesting.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: It's been harder for me to step back, I think
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: in the momming department, because you're the first one that
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: I've had to really let go of and not you
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like I'm learning from our relationship
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: how to be that for your sisters when they're at
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: that point. Has there been a point when it's been
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: when you've been like you need a step.
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: Back, mom, Not in those words, Obviously, I love and
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: appreciate all of your advice and wanting to participate in
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: all my life. And I feel like career was always
• 37:13
  Speaker 3: something where I was trying out different things and you
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: were like, I wish I could help you. But I
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: kind of got lucky. I didn't really have this moment
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: of like what's it called early twenties where you're like.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: Trying things out, Like I feel like, you know, there's
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: like a word for it. Not that. No, it's like
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: a type of roughing it chapter in your life.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: I feel like it's like being in your twenties and
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: not having like any really responsibility other than figuring it out,
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: which I feel like there's a lot of shows that
• 37:43
  Speaker 3: are about that now, which like girls like where you're
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: like figuring out what you're going to become. So I
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: definitely feel like I had that, and.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah I wasn't.
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: I wasn't maybe as like inclusive of it with you
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: because being together was more of like family time.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: You're so so independent and then you just let me know,
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: like what was happening in your personal life and let
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: me know what is happening in your career life. I
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: think that's mentor in normal because it's crazy because being
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: from my background, I didn't ever have the experiences that
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: you're all having having. I've never had any of the
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: experiences that any of you have had because of just
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: the like growing up in show business and being famous
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: at such a young age, which brings me to a
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: question of, like I know that people probably wonder what
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: is it like for you each to have a famous
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: mom and a famous dad, like parents that are in
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: the industry, like that's probably a really loaded question.
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: I kind of we've talked about it.
• 38:51
  Speaker 5: I feel like we hate this question because you hate
• 38:53
  Speaker 5: this question because like it's you or you, like we
• 38:58
  Speaker 5: don't see you as a famous person.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: You're just like our mom. I feel like I agree with.
• 39:05
  Speaker 4: That one hundred. But I do remember like the kind
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: of age or around where I've figured out kind of
• 39:12
  Speaker 4: what your job was.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: Because how old were you?
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: I don't know I was. I don't remember the exact
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: age was like seven or eight or something, so when
• 39:19
  Speaker 4: you were stretting out the catwalk, Yeah, but no, I
• 39:23
  Speaker 4: kind of just like thought it was super cool. And
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: I remember like the paparazzi I used to post for them, and.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: I think it was oh my god. Yeah, wait, that
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: reminds me of it. Used to get so excited when
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: the pop It was like a.
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: Fun like where's that? What's that game? Where's Waldo? Felt
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: like where's Waldo? They'd be like in the bush, Dad,
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: they're over there, Mom, they're over there. Wait, this is true.
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: I had a nightmare about pop parazzi chasing all of us,
• 39:45
  Speaker 3: but we were younger. But I had a nightmare recently,
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: maybe like three weeks ago, So as an adultalment kind
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: of traumatizing in a way where it's just like random following.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: You and your mom family.
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: But my like sweet, vulnerable young mom picked me up
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: from school and there's like six men descending upon her
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: like it was not.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: So it's weird, you guys, I think I see it
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: more like reflected in you, probably the most, because you
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: were in like weaver, I was inn that was back
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: in those days when it was bananas, and I feel
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: like it put a certain like maybe like a guard
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: up for you, or maybe just a fear inside of you,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: a little bit of like I don't know what, I
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: don't really know how to define it. I know for Lola,
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: I've always felt like she was always very like who
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: are you and what do you want from my mother?
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Very protective.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: You are very protective mom. Specifically, I feel like in
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: a weird way, it's made me work harder to always
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: present myself in the best way and be kind to
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: everyone around me, just because we were watched when we
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: were younger. So I feel like now I'm able to
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: be more cognizant of how I can lead with kindness
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: and like shed light onto people. That's so sweet, You're
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: so cute.
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: Did you ever have that like that pressure though? Do
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: you think you carry that around the pressure of representing,
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: you know, whatever, our family, the brands, the whatever, our business,
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: you know, our business. Luca is avoiding this question.
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking honest, I don't really feel out.
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, always as a family, I want to
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: represent the best I can and you and you know.
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: But I feel like growing up in La a lot
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: of my friends also had families that, you know, we're
• 41:50
  Speaker 4: in the public eye, so I feel like it was
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: kind of it was a weird thing that was like
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: normalized for I feel like me in high school. But
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: I do feel like I've always tried to be my
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: best self so that.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: I don't think it's exclusive to like famous families or
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: families in the Hollywood industry. I think it's like all families,
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: like Mulan wants to bring honor to her family, Like
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: I think you always want to represent your loved ones
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: and like to carry the torch, and you have a
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: very bright torch to carry.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: I feel like the weirdest part isn't even the famous aspect.
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: It's more about like watching you work, like when you
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: have to do something or do yeah, you just turn
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: it on, and I feel like that is like some
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: sort of superpower or something. And I love watching that,
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: Like that feels empowering. That is like then I'm like,
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: oh my gosh, this is like a famous powerful person
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: because of how you're able to just like carry yourself
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: and do panels and your inspiring and I love watching.
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: I love watching how loved you are.
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: I feel like you hold from nine or two on
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: specifically such a place in people's memory and childhood. They
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: grew up with you, they feel such a like love
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: for you, and I get to like experience that love too,
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: like it extends onto everyone around you, and that's such
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: a beautiful, warm feeling. And I feel like we really
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: got to experience that at the live event last year,
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: and that was such a celebration of like fandom meets
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: like respect.
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I have some really just like loyal, beautiful fans.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: You guys have like an army of people probably out
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: there that would protect you whenever you need it. I
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: can name a few, but I won't. But you know, I.
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: Feel like we have personal relationships with some people too
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: that like got to know you through your work and
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: just follow and support you and That's what it really is.
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: Is like being a fan is like loving something and
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: supporting it.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: It's in a weird way. It's like the people I
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: went to school with, Like if I went to high
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: regular high school and went to you know, had friends
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: from high school. That's kind of what my fan base
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: is now because we grew up together. Yeah, and we
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: you know, we're just in that we've been in it together.
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: That's an interesting the correlation. I never thought about that
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: because you never had like a high school. I mean
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: maybe high.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: School, but like, no, no, really, I left when I
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: was a sophomore.
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: She tested out.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And obviously we're so grateful for all the amazing
• 44:20
  Speaker 3: experiences your work has gotten to give us, Like being
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: here such a fun experience. Getting to like record and
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: sit in bomb right now is so fun. Like it
• 44:30
  Speaker 3: definitely brings a lot of amazing opportunities and experiences.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: Oh, I have a question, then, have you ever felt guilty?
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: Have you ever felt any guilt from growing up obviously
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: in a position of privilege or in a position of
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: you know, just being born into a very you know,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: unique situation. Have you ever felt guilty or embarrassed by it?
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: Or I wouldn't say guilty.
• 45:01
  Speaker 4: I feel like we're very I feel like we're all
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: very grateful, so like I feel like the guilt kind
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: of just transfers into like gratitude for us. And I
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: feel like as long as we're thinking of it with
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: like a grateful and open mindset like that, it doesn't
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: really feel like I don't know, you know, I feel
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: like everyone kind of puts gets put into like life
• 45:22
  Speaker 4: that they're meant to live. I don't know I'm getting
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: into like the universe.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: Who yeah, I like no, But I don't know.
• 45:27
  Speaker 4: I feel like everyone has their own experiences, and I
• 45:29
  Speaker 4: don't think that being guilty is like benefits anyone. I
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: don't know.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: I feel like that goes back to how you raised us,
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: like we're you raised us very humble. You never took
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: us to the fanciest of restaurants. You We were watching
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: a home video the other day and we were playing
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: on the water slide in our front, ye front lawne.
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: That was funny.
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: It was funny. We were like we were the famous man,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: like the family with the picket fence, like the big
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: house on the corner, and your parents were both really
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: at the height of they think their fame at that moment.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: But and we had a slip inside up in the
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: front yard for the world to see.
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: And didn't Dad used to do like snow machines on
• 46:11
  Speaker 4: the block too, He did, he did.
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: He put up spiders, light shows, machine loves know the
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: neighbors had a snow machine for Christmas. Yeah they know.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: Actually they brought in fake snow from somewhere snow was
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: And you guys.
• 46:27
  Speaker 4: Played Jonas brothers that lived next door.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: It wasn't Joe Bros. It was. It was It was
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: Jennifer of Hewitt's house, but brought it into snow.
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely like weird elements to childhood, like brothers next time.
• 46:41
  Speaker 4: What I mean, I don't know.
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: But again, like a little said, it was just so
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: safe and sweet and normal and you really protected, like
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: our little bubble.
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: I remember the Joe Bros. Being next to next door
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: because they all three lived in the house. Even though
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I think some of them were.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: Adults, they were teenager.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: We would sit in the top bedroom, the playroom, whatever
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: that room was. I was with you. We were all
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: standing in the wind like, Oh, they're coming out of
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: their house. Where are they going?
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: What are they doing?
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: Like we were like, oh, they're playing basketball, but we had.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: Some pretty good lemonade stance with a very star sudded.
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And Hillary Duff was next door the other way.
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, it was fun.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: It was fun. But you're you're right, not it's not normal,
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: very unusual. I don't.
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: I feel like I agree with that they're saying, though
• 47:34
  Speaker 4: I didn't really realize it wasn't normal because it felt
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: so like normal to.
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: Us, and you made it normal. Like we had the
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: ranch that we grew up on and we would go
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: there during the weekends and be completely private from any
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: nonsense of la. We really tried hard to make it private.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean when I look at you all and
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: I think of where I was born in the different
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: upbringing that I had in the Midwest, on a farm
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: out in the middle of nowhere, no nothing, no magazines,
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: no internet, no nothing, and now here you are, all
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: three of you, born and raised in Los Angeles, the
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: biggest craziest aside from New York where you live, Luka,
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: but the biggest craziest city, full of really great people
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: and really whackado people. Like I'm just like amazed because
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I know that for me, I didn't really ever like
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: think about it, Oh my god, I'm raising these girls
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: in LA and Hollywood, and how do I keep them grounded?
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: I just kind of was, I like sunk my teeth
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: in and dug my feet in and did what I
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: knew how to do, which was like, let's grow a
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: garden together, let's you know, the play with the animals,
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: like try to keep you as normal as I was
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: and as I still feel like I am. And I
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: can't wait for you to all have grandkids. But I
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: was just like marveling the other day at like, yeah,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: you were born in Los Angeles. That comes with its
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: own stigma. You're LA girls, but you don't feel like it.
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah I don't think so. I don't think you really
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: act like it. And I've never ever seen any of
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: you act entitled like I went like this in my flinched.
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: I felt sorry. I couldn't.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: I can't lie, I know that. But yeah, it's okay.
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: You've worked your way through a lot of we've all
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: done a great job working your ways through figuring out
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: who you are aside from your parents, aside from being
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: l A born and bred from this like world that
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: you've grown up in. But it's just so so wild.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: How it's so different than I mm hmm experience, like
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: pre Hollywood.
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: One of my favorite things is when when do you
• 49:52
  Speaker 2: nanty say, your sisters come over and they're like, are
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: embracing the la, Like we say that we're not LA,
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: but compare to other people are very LA. That's true,
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: and so it's my favorite thing to be around non
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: LA people that are your family. Does this kind of
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: shock them in a funny way of like how but.
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: Also it feels grounding right, like very much. This is
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: these are the people that I come from, these are
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: the people that my mom comes from. Like we're it's
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: alto the earthy kind of people. Like I feel like
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: I'm so happy that there's there's that element. And then
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: you guys have the wild, crazy Italian side, which is
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: also a gift. Yeah, and like a whole different energy,
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: but but having the best those both worlds come together
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: to make you who you are. But I feel like
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: that's why you're all so diverse, really truly like accepting
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: of all kinds of people, really self aware. I'm really
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: proud of all of you. We're proud of me. You
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: the best mom, Thanks fons I love you, guys, before
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: where I let you go, before I let you out
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: of this room and beautiful Baha Mar Studios, And we're
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: gonna just go. We're gonna go ham on this place
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: and straight to the beach, straight to the beach, getting
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: in the command that you guys do what you do.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna read. Okay, So let's start with Luca, Luca Bella, Fachinelle.
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: I like to say, Luca Bella, Garth Fachionelle, what was
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: your last I choose me moment? Ooh, last night, this
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: is your favorite thing to do, like play games like this.
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: Like yeah, last night, I flew out with Fiona a
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: little bit later than Mommy and Lola and David. But
• 51:37
  Speaker 3: so I had a couple hours by myself, basically because
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, my family's already in Pahamar, and
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: I was like waiting to have our adventure together. But
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: I had a little meat night and I just walked
• 51:47
  Speaker 3: on the beach before going to the airport and just
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: enjoyed the sunset by myself, which was so cute.
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: And there was other I was looking around.
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: There's just other people doing the same, like a woman
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: with her dog, a man running down the side. So
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: I was like, this is so nice that you can
• 52:01
  Speaker 3: just as an as a human take time for yourself
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: and just like b it was really cool.
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: Soak it all in low Lowrey Garth for Chanelli, what
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: was your last I Choose me moment?
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: Okay, So I have been working really hard to try
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: to work out every morning you have And normally when
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: I wake up, I like open my computer and I'm
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: just like in work mode. But recently I've been working
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: out and have like a slower me time focused morning
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: where I get to work out and like it's a
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: little bit more relaxed, and so I've been working out
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: a lot more. And I actually worked out this morning
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: at the gym Dave bahmar is changing Dave, I swear
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: it was awesome.
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: I love that, and I've noticed that by the way,
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: I've noticed you because you are a fierce you have
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: a fierce work ethic.
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: Yes, and I'm not a workout type of girl. I
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: don't like that kind of stuff, but I'm really trying.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: You're taking good care of yourself, prioritizing yourself. I love
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: seeing it. I'm also jealous because I can't work out
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: with you right now because my but but we'll get there,
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: We'll get there. Fiona eve Garth Pinelli, what was your
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: last I Choose me moment?
• 53:20
  Speaker 4: Well, okay, every morning for the past I think it's
• 53:23
  Speaker 4: thirty six days because I have this book called The
• 53:26
  Speaker 4: Pivot Year.
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: By my favorite author. Yes, shout out Brihanna Weiss. Yes,
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: you love her so much. We all love you.
• 53:34
  Speaker 4: So every morning there's kind of just like one page
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: that you read and you kind of reflect on. I
• 53:39
  Speaker 4: haven't missed today since the beginning of the year, which
• 53:41
  Speaker 4: I think is wow.
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: I've wanted to, like I've been.
• 53:44
  Speaker 4: Like I'm too tired to get out of bed and
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: like just read it, like go and annotate it. But like,
• 53:48
  Speaker 4: whenever I do it, it's exactly what I need to hear.
• 53:51
  Speaker 4: And I feel like that's why I haven't stopped, because
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: I feel like it's like aligned day by day. I
• 53:55
  Speaker 4: feel like taking that time has really helped me just
• 53:57
  Speaker 4: like figure out what I need to for the dice.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: So I love that.
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: What about you, Jennifer eve Garth Abrams, what was your
• 54:06
  Speaker 2: last I Choose me moment? Hm?
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: This is really hard for me because when the questions
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: turned back onto myself, I love I like to ask it.
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: I like to help people discover their own I choose
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: me moments. But when I think about my stuff, to
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: think about, when was my last I choose me moment?
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: Help me? Who do you guys know?
• 54:27
  Speaker 4: Well, I saw you all this morning on the bath.
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah sometime I woke.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: Up this but yeah, yeah, I woke this morning. I
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: was on my phone. I was just checking in with
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: the world. But I took a bath last night. Yes,
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: that was more out of need though. That wasn't like
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: a lounge in this bathtime.
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: I choose me moments usually, yeah, yeah.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: You love taking it. You know what was my last
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: I choose me moment? Honestly? I came home from our
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: photo shoot on Wednesday. It was really tired. We'd worked
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: a long day, and I came in the door. I
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: didn't help me me. I didn't go dress Mimi's knees.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: I didn't go clean up the kitchen, look at dinner plans.
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: I laid down on the couch, like I collapsed on
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: the couch and I took Dottie, the puppy, and I
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: laid her on my chest and I just enjoyed our heartbeats,
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: like beating together. It was really soothing and comforting like
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: only a doggie can do. Oh, that was it? Cute?
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: I love you girls?
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: Have one thing?
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: What is it?
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: Because we have two more days here in beautiful Baha, Mark,
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: can we go rapid fire?
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: What we're most excited about?
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: What are you going to do? What's your We have
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: two days? Yes, don't tell anyone because then we won't
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: have two days to ourselves.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: But I saw a convertible or a car jetski outside
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: on the beach.
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: It looks like a car is driving on the ocean.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: I saw that out the balcony.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: That okay, okay, I'm stoked for the go ball courts.
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: Those look so fun and we're literally going to play.
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: Do you think they can play pickle ball in my
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: current situation?
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: She could. I don't know what the word is.
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: I'm not a pickleball connoisseur, but I just love being
• 56:16
  Speaker 3: out in the courts.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: I love any activity, let's be.
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: Honest, Okay, Fianna the jet ski comment, Yeah, the banana boats.
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: We love a banana boat.
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: I saw like one of those jumpy little yes, so like.
• 56:33
  Speaker 4: What about you.
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: I'm excited to just lay and watch you guys have
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: fun in the sun while I read a book. Yeah.
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: I love you girls, us On, thank you, thank you,
• 56:48
  Speaker 3: I heart, thank you.