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Time, Wondrous Time · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everyone,
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  Speaker 1: we are scrubbing it.
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  Speaker 2: Yep, all right.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes she sometimes she wants to say something. Sometimes she
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  Speaker 3: doesn't know.
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  Speaker 1: I decided I saw more scuttle button in the Facebook group,
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  Speaker 1: and I decided I can't anymore more scuttle butt, more
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  Speaker 1: scuttle About the intro, I was like, I just can't
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  Speaker 1: know what I've realized.
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  Speaker 3: But you don't know, doesn't hurt you?
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  Speaker 2: Just a group I like going into.
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  Speaker 3: But if I I mean just social media in general,
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  Speaker 3: when it's something I read brings me down, I go
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  Speaker 3: why I didn't need to know that.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, you know, this isn't just this is
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  Speaker 1: this is something I just I don't need. So if
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  Speaker 1: everybody prefers it this way, fine by me.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, great. It hasn't been long since our last podcast,
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  Speaker 3: but Mark is back.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, Mark is back, Welcome.
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  Speaker 4: Back to the podcast. Thank you so much is gone.
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  Speaker 3: But one thing about us, we keep trucking.
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  Speaker 2: That we do.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have a podcast for eight years if you
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  Speaker 1: don't keep trucking.
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  Speaker 2: I'll say it again, say it again.
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  Speaker 3: You say it again. You don't have a podcast.
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  Speaker 2: If you don't keep trucking right yours?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, speaking of Lady World, happened this weekend?
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  Speaker 4: It did?
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  Speaker 2: Did you text them?
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  Speaker 3: I don't have that relationship with them. I mean I
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  Speaker 3: did comment on their stuff. I did comment on the
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  Speaker 3: Lady Gang. The Lady Gang put on what I can't
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  Speaker 3: even imagine how stressful and overwhelming and how.
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  Speaker 2: Much work that took.
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  Speaker 3: I was blown away. It was literally like a festival.
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  Speaker 2: It was. It was a festival for podcasts.
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  Speaker 3: It was incredible. We didn't get invited to be a part,
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  Speaker 3: but you know what, sometimes you support. Sometimes it's nice
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  Speaker 3: to support from afar.
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  Speaker 2: I was sad we were not invited.
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  Speaker 1: However, it did not deter my support and enthusiasm for them.
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  Speaker 1: I was like liking everything. I sent them all a
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  Speaker 1: text saying good luck this weekend.
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  Speaker 3: You know what it made? It made me go like it.
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  Speaker 3: I just feel like they've been such an og podcast
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  Speaker 3: for so long, and I felt this sense of pride
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  Speaker 3: that these incredible women that were friends with do that
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  Speaker 3: on this like full on weekend long festival.
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  Speaker 1: I know, And like, I don't know if you saw
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  Speaker 1: Mark probably didn't say this.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna guess.
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  Speaker 1: Kelty ran a portion where they basically like wrote down
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  Speaker 1: things that they wanted to get rid of, and then
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  Speaker 1: they all walked into the water while she was playing
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  Speaker 1: All too Well the ten minute Taylor's version and like
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  Speaker 1: and like release them into the ocean, and she was
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  Speaker 1: ps it was biodegradable water or about credible paper, so like,
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  Speaker 1: don't get on me, I didn't litter or whatever. And
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  Speaker 1: I was like, that is so Tanya coated, like I
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  Speaker 1: would love that, just seeing like a sea of women
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  Speaker 1: walking into the ocean releasing the things that do not
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  Speaker 1: serve them.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I thought the manifestation portion was
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  Speaker 3: very you. Yeah, but they had podcast guests, they had
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  Speaker 3: musical guests like Otown performs, Yeah, who else? Kaitlin performed,
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  Speaker 3: Kaylin Bristow performed like live for the first time. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I think at least in a crowd, a huge crowd.
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  Speaker 2: Huge crowd.
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  Speaker 1: So we just want to give it up for our girls,
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  Speaker 1: our girls, Kalti, Becca and Jack.
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  Speaker 2: We love you, keep on going girls.
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  Speaker 3: It was. It looked incredible and I would love to
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  Speaker 3: have them on to talk about it because I can't
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  Speaker 3: even imagine what went into that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure they need to put their feet up for
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  Speaker 1: a minute, but we'll give them some time. We give
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  Speaker 1: them some time and not too much time, no, because.
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  Speaker 3: We need we need the the nitty gritty. Yeah, what'd
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  Speaker 3: you do this weekend? Speaking of.
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  Speaker 2: Tended this little wedding.
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  Speaker 3: That was wedding that happened.
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  Speaker 1: Uh No, but I went to Selena Gomez and Benny
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  Speaker 1: Blanco's wedding.
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  Speaker 3: Can I ask a questions? Yes, so you get invited
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  Speaker 3: to that?
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  Speaker 2: Yes?
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  Speaker 3: Was it casual? Did you get an invitation?
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  Speaker 5: Like?
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  Speaker 3: What was the process? And did you think you were
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  Speaker 3: going to get invited?
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  Speaker 1: I did not think that I was going to get invited,
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  Speaker 1: but I think it was a different type of invites
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  Speaker 1: because they were everything was kind of kept. So I
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  Speaker 1: honestly have I don't even know where I went so
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  Speaker 1: like that location.
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  Speaker 2: No, I have no idea. I just knew when to
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  Speaker 2: get on the shuttle and where do you know what
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  Speaker 2: I mean?
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  Speaker 5: So did they put over your head like I could have.
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  Speaker 1: I could have known where I was, But at that point,
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  Speaker 1: it's just like I don't care, do you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean? Like I'm yeah, like I just show up,
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  Speaker 1: get on this shuttle. And it's going to take me
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  Speaker 1: where I need to go. That's all I need to know.
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  Speaker 1: But I think the thing that we can all appreciate,
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  Speaker 1: especially about Selena Gomez, is how vulnerable and open she's
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  Speaker 1: been her entire life, and so getting to see just
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  Speaker 1: how happy and joyful and love filled she and Benny are,
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  Speaker 1: it's like it just feels so nice, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Like it's just I feel.
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  Speaker 1: Like every wedding you feel that you feel the love
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  Speaker 1: in the room and you feel this energy, but I
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  Speaker 1: feel like with her, it just hits different. And so
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  Speaker 1: it was just really beautiful to see. I mean, like
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  Speaker 1: they were just smiling the whole time, like it was
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  Speaker 1: just it.
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  Speaker 2: Was a real life fairy tale.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like people have been saying like it was
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  Speaker 1: a fairy tale, and it really just felt like that.
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  Speaker 3: I really feel like people have been rooting for her
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  Speaker 3: so much, like not only in her love life, but
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  Speaker 3: just in general, her career, her personal life, her wellness, everything,
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  Speaker 3: And so I think people are so excited to see
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  Speaker 3: her with someone who like adores her.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's the thing, Like he adores her, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean, and she adores him, yeah, And
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  Speaker 1: it's that's just that's that's the goal, do you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, that's that's what you want. And
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  Speaker 1: so anyways, I didn't talk about obviously, I didn't talk
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  Speaker 1: about being invited before the wedding because I didn't want to.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, they were trying to keep it under wraps.
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  Speaker 1: Although it was not under wraps, I feel like I
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  Speaker 1: was just seeing it everywhere, and out of like respect
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  Speaker 1: for them as a couple, I also don't want to
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  Speaker 1: like share intimate details because I feel like, when it's
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  Speaker 1: your wedding, you want to be able to share that
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  Speaker 1: when you want, how you want, you know what.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, Come on, we don't want to take the
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  Speaker 3: stage away from her. But it's well anytime, yeah, anytime.
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  Speaker 1: So that's why it's like, I don't, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to share the intimate details because I feel
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  Speaker 1: like that's on that's on them as a couple. But
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  Speaker 1: it was really really fun, like just so much fun
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  Speaker 1: and uh, just so much love in the room, Like
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  Speaker 1: everybody was just happy. And I love weddings and this
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  Speaker 1: wedding was epic.
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  Speaker 3: Were you on the shuttle with anyone, Like, were you like,
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  Speaker 3: oh my gosh, they're so and so in the shuttle.
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  Speaker 2: No, oh really? Uhuh the shuttles were smaller, like smaller shuttles.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, so the shuttles. But you were with Paulina
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  Speaker 3: and Sophia. Yes, correct, So you weren't just like a
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  Speaker 3: lone ranger going into this correct. Correct.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, Robbie wasn't there.
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  Speaker 2: No, I was like a girl's weekend. Oh I know that, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you were.
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  Speaker 3: It was in southern California. Correct, They announced that, so
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  Speaker 3: knew you knew where you were in that regard.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, And like that's the thing.
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  Speaker 1: I if I wanted to, I could have watched the
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  Speaker 1: road and known where I.
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  Speaker 3: Was going, But I just I don't think I would know.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what.
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  Speaker 1: You do when you go to a wedding and there's shuttles.
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  Speaker 1: You just get on the shuttle trust that you're going.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, so you get into the wedding. Did you see
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  Speaker 3: Was it like celebrities everywhere? Was it like people? Was
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  Speaker 3: it just like friends and family that people that you
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  Speaker 3: didn't recognize.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, there was definitely a lot of people I recognized,
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  Speaker 1: but then there's a lot of people that I didn't recognize.
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  Speaker 3: It was big yeah, yeah, Okay, yeah, that's really cool.
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  Speaker 3: I know, who are the big ones?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Back up, I don't know some of them. And you
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  Speaker 3: just see, let me know if you can we.
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  Speaker 5: Talk about what we talked about this morning or no.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean there was one big one that I
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  Speaker 1: spoke to.
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  Speaker 5: You've had a moment with this person, and now Tanya
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  Speaker 5: has had a moment with this person.
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  Speaker 2: But I'll tell you about it when we come back.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, an early break.
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  Speaker 4: It works though, all right, we're back.
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  Speaker 3: So it's it's kind of hard to imagine there being
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  Speaker 3: celebrities bigger. I mean, you think about Selena Gomez is like,
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  Speaker 3: isn't she the most followed person on Instagram or something
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  Speaker 3: that doesn't refer at a certain point.
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  Speaker 2: She's up there. I don't know, but.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, she herself is massive. So obviously the people
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  Speaker 3: invited to such an event are the heavy hitters.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, just so you know, it's all soccer players right now.
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  Speaker 5: Number one Ronaldo.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I was saying. I don't think she's number one.
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  Speaker 5: But then Lionel Messi then Selena.
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  Speaker 3: Go see, I knew she was up there. Three's pretty impressive. Okay.
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  Speaker 3: Some of the people included Steve Martin just apot him
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  Speaker 3: in the crowd.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, these are all reported to be there.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm asking if you saw them.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I definitely there was somebody there. I saw them.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't like oh that big Oh yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Did you have a moment with Steve Martin or no?
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  Speaker 2: No cheering?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, what about Paul Did you have a moment with
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  Speaker 5: Paul rud No moment with that cheering?
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  Speaker 3: Uh?
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  Speaker 2: No, Camilla?
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  Speaker 3: You know Camilla? Did you say did you say hello
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  Speaker 3: to her? Okay? Yes, cfs.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: It's always funny when you go to events with Tanya
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  Speaker 3: and the people that run up to her and say hey,
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  Speaker 3: and it's just casual and you're just standing there like okay.
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  Speaker 1: Huh, well like a Camilla I've known forever.
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  Speaker 2: I've literally known her since she was like fifteen or something.
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  Speaker 3: It's just like a young teen so crazy Taylor Swift.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, in fact I did.
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  Speaker 1: And so again in these settings, I feel as though
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  Speaker 1: I just want to, like you just want to respect everybody,
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  Speaker 1: their their space, their space, do your own thing. She's
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  Speaker 1: a guest, She's a very.
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  Speaker 2: Prominent guest, like letter, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Somehow Paulina becomes friends with her in this brief window
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  Speaker 1: of time and we're just like casually walking by her.
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  Speaker 1: And so Paulina was the one that was like, oh, Taylor,
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  Speaker 1: you have to meet my best friend.
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  Speaker 2: Tanya's only walking by.
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  Speaker 3: You're not casually walking by Taylor Swift talking to Paulina.
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  Speaker 1: No no, no no, I'm with Paulina and we will
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  Speaker 1: walk by Taylor.
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  Speaker 2: Does that make sense? So they had already met, they
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  Speaker 2: had already messed.
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  Speaker 5: Was what was Taylor doing?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. She was just like walking somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting to the dance lord, because that's where we
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  Speaker 1: were going, and she goes, this is my best friend, Tonna.
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  Speaker 1: She walked down the aisle to one of your songs
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, well, actually it was my first
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  Speaker 1: dance and.
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  Speaker 2: I walked down the aisle to it.
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  Speaker 1: And again I'm so calm, Like I'm just like trying
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  Speaker 1: to be calm because I love her, but also I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to be respectful.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: She was so kind, She like loved it. She asked
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  Speaker 1: me what song and she was like that means so much.
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  Speaker 1: I cannot explain to you how magical, regal, genuine, present,
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  Speaker 1: locked in, I know, invested and normal I was like,
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  Speaker 1: this is the craziest thing, like the craziest experience, Like
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  Speaker 1: I had to let her think in I did see it,
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  Speaker 1: and I audibly gasped like.
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  Speaker 5: Can we hear what that sounded?
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  Speaker 3: Like that's pretty mild for you.
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  Speaker 1: And Sophia were like, I'm so proud of like how
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  Speaker 1: cool and calm you were. And I was like, at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the day, like you're a business woman,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a business woman, and I because I was like
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  Speaker 1: I could go on and on and tell her how
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  Speaker 1: much her songs have meant to me in the past,
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  Speaker 1: how many hours I've spent crying to her music, how
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  Speaker 1: many songs got me through breakups.
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  Speaker 2: Like I could have gone down a deep.
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  Speaker 1: Deep lore for her, and I chose not to, because
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  Speaker 1: again she just here and enjoying her friend's wedding. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I will say she's a magical unicorn of a
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  Speaker 1: human being and I'll never forget it.
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  Speaker 5: It's so interesting because she's got to be the most
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  Speaker 5: famous famous person in the world. It has to be
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  Speaker 5: King Charles, like, I'm trying to think of anyone who
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  Speaker 5: would be at her level of known I guess, but
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  Speaker 5: I'm even thinking beyond pop culture is there anyone in
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  Speaker 5: the world more known than Taylor Swift?
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  Speaker 3: I guess.
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  Speaker 5: Saidel lionel Messi. And she's a billionaire, and so it's
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  Speaker 5: so interesting to have that combination and just be like, hey,
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  Speaker 5: how's going, Like I don't know, I don't know what
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  Speaker 5: that would do to a person, but I guess it
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  Speaker 5: hasn't done it to her.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess yeah, because she was just so
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  Speaker 1: a present is like the best way to describe it.
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  Speaker 3: Because I said that I described that way too, because
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  Speaker 3: you don't you would expect her to kind of be
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  Speaker 3: like head on a swivel, where's my security?
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  Speaker 2: Especially when I was like but no, like at all,
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  Speaker 2: just and just genuine.
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  Speaker 1: There's not a there is not one bone of inauthenticity
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  Speaker 1: in her.
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  Speaker 3: It's what it's what separates her into her own category.
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  Speaker 2: She makes me want to be a better person. Like
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  Speaker 2: I'm not even joking. I left that conversation.
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  Speaker 1: I left that conversation being like wow, like I want
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  Speaker 1: to make people feel like that, do you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean?
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  Speaker 2: You like when I'm talking to.
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  Speaker 1: Them, like really engage and talk like I think sometimes
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  Speaker 1: I can look at my phone or.
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  Speaker 3: Like, yeah, that's what you were at the bar. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: my first impression of you was not who I know
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  Speaker 3: you to be, because you were just like who else
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  Speaker 3: is coming? Don't care about her?
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  Speaker 2: No, she would not, she would not like.
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  Speaker 3: I genuinely feel like you make people feel that way.
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  Speaker 1: She made me want to be a better person in
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  Speaker 1: that brief encounters. So moving forward, you will see a
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  Speaker 1: more locked in present Tanya.
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  Speaker 5: Was she taller or shorter than you expected?
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  Speaker 2: She was exactly what I expected, but taller than you?
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  Speaker 5: Yes, yes, okay substantially.
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  Speaker 2: Well, my heels were quite I would imagine would.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, but she was exactly what
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  Speaker 3: I remember feeling like she was smaller than I like,
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  Speaker 3: I felt like she was taller in my head. She's tall,
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  Speaker 3: but she wasn't as tall as she was in my head.
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  Speaker 2: Oh really yeah? Yeah, she was exactly how I exactly
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  Speaker 2: how I pictured her.
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  Speaker 3: How was her hair down or up?
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  Speaker 4: I don't know?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I know.
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  Speaker 2: If people keep asking me, like what did everybody wear?
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  Speaker 2: I literally have no.
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  Speaker 1: I literally couldn't tell you. Well, I know what she
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  Speaker 1: was wearing, but I don't want to share her because
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  Speaker 1: it's like.
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  Speaker 3: That's like we'll see pictures if they yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: did did y'all dance together?
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  Speaker 2: I would say no, I don't wouldn't say it was like,
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  Speaker 2: could you imagine? I'm just trying to be respectful of people.
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  Speaker 3: I really appreciate you sharing and also being respectful to
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  Speaker 3: the to the people's privacy.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, and that's the thing, Like Taylor is super
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  Speaker 1: private and I respect that. It's like, I mean, I'm
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  Speaker 1: just like a changed human being from that experience.
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  Speaker 3: I need a yes or no question. It's reported people
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  Speaker 3: reported that Taylor and Ed both gave speeches. Did you
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  Speaker 3: hear the speeches?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I cannot confirm her.
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  Speaker 5: Sounds like she would have just hypothetically, if it's a
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  Speaker 5: smaller wedding, she would have heard.
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  Speaker 3: That you were there for that part. Let's go with that. Well,
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  Speaker 3: her new album does come out this weekend.
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  Speaker 2: It's just so serendipitous.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, any details coming out a couple of days.
• 16:52
  Speaker 5: You could have said to her, knowing that I'm a
• 16:54
  Speaker 5: massive invisible string fan, what is my favorite song going
• 16:57
  Speaker 5: to be off the album? That would have been a
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: good question.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: I know, I know in hindsight, there was many things
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: I wish I would have shared, But I think it
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: was better.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: That I collected myself.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Was when you told Robbie about meeting her, was he like,
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: did he care that he missed that opportunity? No, he was.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: So happy for me. Oh my gosh. She was so
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: cute about it. Oh yeah, really really cute.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: I mean it's so iconic. Yeah, it's amazing. Can see
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: her ring kept close.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: I just can't like, it's just.
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm so happy for Selene. Selena looked like an angel.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Yes, not even angel.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: It was like a theory out of this world, like
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: she really she looked so so good.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she looked amazing.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: Happiness and love. Uh look good on people, you know.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: Hmm, that's good.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: Makes you blow from the inside out, that's it. That's
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: a that's a that's a look. That's priceless, you know.
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah, I can't put it. Can't put a
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: price on that. No, Wow, so pretty epic. We can.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm gonna retire.
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: Okay, So her album is coming out this week. I
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: feel like it would be. I've really been revisiting the
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: Midnights album Interesting.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: I've been going back to Red.
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: Interesting. That's a nice fall intro. Red is a fall
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: intro album for some reason. I feel like Midnights we
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: kind of just moved on too fast because we got
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: it in the w Is that because we got it
• 18:27
  Speaker 3: in the fall of twenty twenty two and then twenty
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: twenty three she released Tortured Poets Apartment.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so it just felt like rushed.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: I'm really excited about this album. I would like to
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: predict what we think our favorite song is gonna because
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: I think we did that for Tortured Poets Department, and
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: How accurate we were, Okay, but I'm just.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: Gonna simply off of if I like the title or not.
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: Oh wow, Okay, I think Oldest Daughter is gonna be
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: It's track number five, So something tells me I'm gonna
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: like that one interesting and weirdly, I feel like Honey
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: Honey is gonna be one that I love.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: M So I think The Life of a show Girl
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: is gonna be my favorite first of all featuring Sabrina,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: and second of all, my favorite song on the Tortured
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: Poets Department was the Tortured Poets Department.
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: There's no way, Yeah, that's your favorite song on the
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: Torture Poets Department.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. Don't Sleep On It. No, I
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: love that album Don't Sleep on It? Okay, So I tend.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: To like the title.
• 19:42
  Speaker 5: Oh sorry.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Read is also my favorite song on off Red Wow, yes,
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: not all too well no Red?
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, So.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: I think that it's a strong contender for my favorite.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: Okay, it's gonna be poppy or yeah, poppy okay.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: And I also think I'm gonna like ruin the friendship.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: Hmmmm, it sounds like a revenge type of song. Or
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: do you think it's gonna be a sad song?
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a like a like a
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Oh I like someone that's my friend, but I don't
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: want to ruin the friendship. Oh, you're thinking it's that
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: and not the Blake Lively distract, Like, Yeah, I don't
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: think it's gonna be that.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: I think everybody's just saying that. I think it's gonna
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: be like.
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: Oh, I haven't even thought of another way of looking.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be like I like you, but
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: I don't like you, but I don't want to ruin our friendship.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: Should I ruin our friendship? Or should I like not?
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: I love that thing. I like that better than a
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: ruined friendship. Yeah, it's more like not so revengeful. Yeah,
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: I also think is it opal lte? Is that how
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: you say that?
• 20:50
  Speaker 5: True?
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna like that one. It's feeling cool.
• 20:55
  Speaker 5: I'm concerned about canceled with the exclamation usually a red flag.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: It's giving me or Florida or Florida Florida.
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: I mean it's fine because they needed the explanation point
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: in the title. I think that's a sign.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: I'm concerned about wishless with the dollar signs.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Oh, it's giving reputation.
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: It does have a feeling. Yeah, I'm excited. I'm excited
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: for it.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: I'm so excited for it.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: I actually you know they announced who's doing the super
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Bowl halftime show?
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, bad Bunny. Yeah huh.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: I was so convinced it was going to be Taylor.
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: I know you did a full thing on the podcast.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: I was so convinced.
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: But you know what it may have been because there
• 21:39
  Speaker 5: was a report last week and I don't know who
• 21:41
  Speaker 5: this blogger is, but every legit news organization kind of
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: picked it up, so he must be somebody decent. He
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: says that that was almost a done deal, but she
• 21:49
  Speaker 5: made demands where she wanted commercial time before and after it,
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: and the NFL said, we're not going to do that
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: because Taylor knows that they need her a lot more
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: than she needs them. So I think she asked for
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: the movie and they said they put a stop to it,
• 22:02
  Speaker 5: and they're going with Bad Bunny. I think he's second choice.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: Well, Bad Bunny posted a photo. Was that his official
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: account that he posted a photo with Taylor Swift?
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna probably not, because everything is AI. Hold on,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: everything is I saw photos that like Adele was going
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: to be the Super Bowl halftime performed, like everything's AI, Like,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: how do you know what to believe?
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: These days? It's too it's too unfortunate, and not him
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: that posted that.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: Okay, I got dupe scammed, Boomered got boommered. Yeah, they're
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: saying I don't follow I don't follow Bad Bunny. So
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: as a suggested account, it had like over a thousand
• 22:45
  Speaker 3: comments and normally, you know, that feels like a legit account.
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: So there's an.
• 22:50
  Speaker 5: AI actress, now do you see that? Tilly nor would Yeah, yeah,
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: oh yeah, there's a new AI actress. So you know,
• 22:58
  Speaker 5: is that the first time you're gonna get dupe, not
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: the last, and there she is. That's Tilly Norwood, the
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: new AI actress.
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: It's freaky, it's like weird.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: It's just like so freaky, because then why why be
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: an actor anymore?
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: Why do anything?
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Literally, there's a computer in AI me.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: Soon we'll bring her in for the pod with my
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: AI actor.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: No, I don't want them to take over.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: No, we don't. But it's like all we saw these
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: movies that were predicting all this stuff and we were like, oh,
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: that feels crazy. Not in our generation. We have fully
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: signed AI actor.
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's kind of getting weird, getting little nutty.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: You're about to say something about bad Buddy and Taylor
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: and then we sidetracked.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: Well, it wasn't a thing because it's not a real account.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: Because I was thinking, isn't that weird? He posted a
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: photo with her, and then I was like, wait, was
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: that real? Let me look, and it certainly was not. Yeah,
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: but okay. So I asked Taylor Banks this question this morning.
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: If you had to convince someone who wasn't a Taylor
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: Swift fan to become a Taylor swif f, what are
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: the three songs you would show them?
• 24:03
  Speaker 5: All?
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: Too? Well? Ten minute version.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: Okay, really make them sit there.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna give me your time, and you're gonna
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: give me a lot of it.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: You're gonna give her a chance. Yeah, ten minutes worth.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Shoot, this is the hard question. Do you have your
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: three mind ups?
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: So my pop was I wanted to give them a
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: pop song, which was Cruel Summer. And then see, this
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: isn't necessarily one of my favorites, but I think it
• 24:28
  Speaker 3: would be a reason to get someone emotionally invested. Would
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: be Marjorie Oh yeah, because the lyrics are like really emotional.
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: And then Champagne Problems.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, three unexpected tracks.
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: I know.
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: But I'm like, just you, you're not going in with
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: your favorites. You're you're trying to show them the genius
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: lyricists that she is.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I feel like, all too well, you can't.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: You cannot not appreciate that.
• 24:56
  Speaker 5: I'm with you on that.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, So that feels solid. I go, is it over?
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: That wasn't that was? That was my top five.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: Because it just sends you on a journey, and that's
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: a good journey to go on. And then I know
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: this is going to be very controversial because whatever, but
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: New Romantics.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: It's fun. Yeah, i'd give it to you for the pop.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: My other one was Out of the Woods piano version
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: at the Grammy Museum, but you can only find it
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: through a deep detailed search on YouTube.
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: Wow.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: And I didn't want to get there like hopes up
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: and not be able to find it. Yeah, so I
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: didn't try that to them later on, what are yours?
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Well?
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: I like a cruel summer is great. I like that,
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: So go with yours and I'm gonna going with your
• 25:38
  Speaker 5: all too well. Thank you, And you know I'm a
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: big fan. I could have should have because there's three
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: separate solid hooks in that song and a killer bridge.
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: How that didn't get more love or at least placement
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: on a legitimate album is shocking to me.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: And also just the lyrics are so powerful, especially when
• 25:56
  Speaker 5: you give that this new person the backstory of John
• 25:59
  Speaker 5: Mayer or whatever it is, it's so much more powerful.
• 26:03
  Speaker 5: Give me back my girlhood it was mine first. Yeah,
• 26:07
  Speaker 5: those are my three.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I thought about. Is it over?
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: Now?
• 26:10
  Speaker 5: Like?
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: How I how did that not make that album?
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 26:13
  Speaker 5: I know.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: And there's a couple on Red too, like Babe and
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: Message in a Bottle like I love those.
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I love messaging, but babe doesn't really like get
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: me going love? And how does this not make the
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: actual Oh you're losing me?
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: That's why, you know.
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: If you've gone through a breakup?
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: What's still track from nineteen?
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 26:35
  Speaker 5: I know?
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: But is it from nineteen nine?
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: I actually think it's for mid uh Lover? No, it's
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: some it's a I want to say it's a.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Is it over Now Deluxe? No, we're a vault.
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: It's a deluxe or vault track. I want to say
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: it's Midnight's DeLux.
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: No, Mark, I'm on it.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Anyways, that one's really good too.
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: It was released as part of the nineteen eighty nine
• 26:57
  Speaker 5: re recording.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: All Yeah, what did you do this weekend?
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: What did I do this week?
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: Whatever we did is gonna pale compared to your.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: With that we did. We did throw Haley's mom a
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: surprise party, and it was our like we literally what
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: he died? Ever?
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: Mind I have a story about your party?
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: My party? Yeah, Okay, So we we're still like rented,
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: like doing all of our construction stuff, so nothing's actually
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: fully done, but we were like, yeah, it's good enough
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: to throw the party. So the night before I'm getting
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: like landscaping done. Haley's had someone come hanging string lights.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: We're like renting tables and chairs all the things, and
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: it turned out beautiful. She was so surprised. It was, uh,
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: Haley's niece. We got she got to use our like
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: jacuzzie all the things. It was really fun. What are
• 27:53
  Speaker 3: you gonna say?
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: So I we decided that we were hosting Thanksgiving this year,
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: and so we have a friend who helps us. She
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: like does event planning, and we don't have like the
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: tables and the chairs, so she helps kind of like
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: organize when we have events. And so I reached out
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: to her this weekend, I think it was this weekend
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: and just said like, hey, heads up, we're planning Thanksgiving
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: this year.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: Can you help us?
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: Da? Da da?
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: And she responds and she's like, yeah, I'm loading in
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Becca's event and I'll text you like later tonight. And
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: I was like, Becca's event? What event is having that
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: I'm not invited to? Turns out it was something for
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: Haley's mom, and which.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: Is the same thing. I was like, yeah for setting
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: up for the party. And I just assumed like maybe
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: Haley had told her, and she was like what party.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, oh god, Becca's event a question mark,
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: question mark question mark. I was like, yeah, yeah, don't worry,
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: don't worry. You would be worry for like ten minutes.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: You had other plans, I was, I was previously engaged.
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you would have been imagined I had thrown a
• 29:06
  Speaker 3: party and you said yes to me before you said
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: yes to that, what would you have done?
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, if you were throwing a party and I said
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: yes to your party before I got invited to their wedding,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: I would have gone to your party.
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: No, yeah, no way.
• 29:22
  Speaker 3: And then Paulina and Sofia are like, by the way,
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: we like just hung out with Taylor st at the
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: What would you do.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: My friendship is I'm more loyal?
• 29:32
  Speaker 5: You're not telling the truth.
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: By the way, let's.
• 29:38
  Speaker 5: A friend of yours wedding is going to outweigh a
• 29:41
  Speaker 5: birthday party? Right, don't you think on the hierarchy of things, Well,
• 29:45
  Speaker 5: we have to just find what Becca's party was.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: What I would do is I would approach Becca and say,
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: my friend is getting married on this day, depending if
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: it was local, I would try to make it to both.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: If I was already committed to you, but I think
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: I would be able to predict Becca and she would say, like, I.
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: Really want you to be here.
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: No, the wedding, Yeah, the wedding, yeah, I would have four.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: Henceforth I would.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Have gone to the wait is that true?
• 30:16
  Speaker 5: I don't am I wrong in that? I feel like
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: a wedding like in poker, you know, a full house
• 30:21
  Speaker 5: beats two pair. I feel like a wedding beats a
• 30:22
  Speaker 5: birthday party. I think there's a hierarchy of social events.
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: I agree, because the wedding is once in a lifetime.
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: Exactly right.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: But what if it's like a fortieth or thirty, Like,
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: what if it's a big birthday or you're having like
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: a like a full party, which is essentially a wedding,
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: is like.
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: A big party right now, right right right?
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, don't worry.
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: I don't think I'll put you in that position. But
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: you can invite it to Taylor's wedding.
• 30:53
  Speaker 5: But oh yeah, we've heard. By the way, there's rumors
• 30:55
  Speaker 5: of the date of that. I know.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: I saw it on TikTok, and I feel like it's
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: this big rumor going around I think is legit, though
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: you do, I do, I don't know.
• 31:03
  Speaker 5: I also know someone with firsthand knowledge, the same as that.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: Heres get started.
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: But it's all the same thing. A friend of a
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: friend whose friend works at the venue, A.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Friend of a friend whose friend works.
• 31:16
  Speaker 5: With his friend I know is from that state and
• 31:18
  Speaker 5: so she knows.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: People like, do we know everything that happens in California?
• 31:22
  Speaker 5: I do? No, you do not?
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: I do?
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: I do not. Well, whenever the date is, I'm sure
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: it'll be stunning, a stunning venue, lots of security. You
• 31:35
  Speaker 3: won't be able to get into that one without a
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: secure invite. You might need to wear like certain contacts
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: to get in. They scan your eyes or something.
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, that'd be cool.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: That would be really that's listen, we have an AI actress.
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: It's not that far fetched. Okay, wait, have you ever
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: watched The Golden Bachelor any of the seasons?
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: I tried.
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: It was just, oh yeah, you got sad, because there's
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: like it was like just sad. The first season was
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: like tear jerk or something. Yeah. Well, the new season
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: started and he had like a controversy leading up to it.
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: And it's regardless of you if you watched the first episode.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: It's something I want to talk about. But we're gonna
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: take a break, all right. So the new Golden Bachelor,
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: he's like a former NFL football player or something, and yeah,
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: for like the rant, like, yeah.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: I wonder if probably knows him, well, he's older, he's like,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: he knows him, knows of him, he knows all these
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: like people who are in like the Rock of Fame and.
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: Stuff, Rock of Fame, Fame, Hall of Fame, into sports,
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: Like you know a lot about these?
• 33:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I don't know.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: Like how he was trying to tell me the story
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: this weekend about some Hall of Famer whose son plays
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: now and just did something.
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: This is ringing a.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: Bell for anybody, which also brings me to what's the
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: other show where they're trying to like live like our
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: Marine people Special Forces.
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: It's back.
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a new season. It's Jesse Decker, Sean Johnson, Jesse,
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: James Decker, Jesse j Decker, Teresa from House lives in
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: New Jersey and her daughter jud Uh huh no, I'm
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: trying to think who uh, Brittany Cartwright from.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: Lander p that's a good cast.
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: It's pretty good. Yeah, I just love the show.
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: I like the show too.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: Anyways, So the Golden bachelor on the podcast, like back
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: in June, he said his ideal age of the woman
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: he'd want to date would be forty five to sixty.
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, he's sixty six.
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: I think some.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: People are like forty five.
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: It's like crazy, like why you know? But in my
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: mind I'm like, of course, like he's a man, of
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: course he's gonna go like as low as he sorry, But.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: Also, like he said, forty five to sixty, like they
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: can't be his age.
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: Right, He's like, forty five to sixty would be his
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: ideal age for a woman that.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: He is so annoying.
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: So of course they've cast these women who are forty
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: five to sixty. No, they're older. They're in that his
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: age range, which is what I think. They're like sixty
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: to seventy Oh is like.
• 34:38
  Speaker 5: There the current season fifty eight to seventy seven.
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, fifty seventy seven and he's sixty six?
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: Is that right?
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: He is sixty six?
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: Okay. So there's this element now of all these women
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: who heard the podcast and they like they're like, so
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: what was that about? And now there's this element of
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: them like almost feeling like they have to prove that
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: they're good enough for him. I hate that that, no,
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: but the women are amazing and I'm hoping he like
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: warms up a little bit. He's a little like stiff
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: so far. But the women are like beautiful and successful
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: and just like you can tell they're all like girl.
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: You know, there's that like girls girl vibe. But it's
• 35:22
  Speaker 3: a good I would say, try it. It's not as
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: sad yet. I'm sure the stories are talking about that.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: I'm very busy because the new season of this of
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: Survivor forty nine just started, so just ended.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: I thought you just watched a finale.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: I'm glad you ask.
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: I just watched Australia Versus the World, which was an
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: Australian Survivor with World players.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: I'm in deep. You know you're in deep when you're
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: watching other show. Yes, So I just finished that.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: But this is the USA Jeff Probes season Official Survivor USA.
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: So this is forty nine, and the next season is fifty,
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: which is the one they're bringing everybody back for, which
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: is going to.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Be like epic.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: So I'm really excited for a season fifty, but I'm
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: obviously gonna watch forty nine.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: It's forty nine just new people, like people you haven't
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: met yet.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: Correct, Okay, yeah, Normy's Normy.
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: And then fifty they'll bring back like poverty like Rob. Oh,
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: it's parverty.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's coming back up.
• 36:24
  Speaker 5: For fifty yours Rob. But they haven't been an All
• 36:26
  Speaker 5: Star season.
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: At all since forty.
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: I think forty was the last one, so it's been
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: ten seasons. Wow, not that I'm counting.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: No.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: I love when they bring back the oji's, but I
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: think like Ozzie's coming back, Mike White.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: Who did White Lotus.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: They're bringing back a lot of iconic players, and I
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: cannot wait.
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, you know who.
• 36:45
  Speaker 5: I'm excited. Sorry, I can't make fun of my guess.
• 36:48
  Speaker 5: Think there's always to mock Tanya when I can. But
• 36:50
  Speaker 5: I'm as into Survivor. I'm just not as caught up.
• 36:53
  Speaker 5: We're still on forty eight. But Stephanie's coming back. Stephanie
• 36:57
  Speaker 5: le Grosser. Remember she was her own tribe. Every other
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: person on her tribe was eliminated. She was the last
• 37:03
  Speaker 5: person standing.
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: Nope, Okay, we don't care them.
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: She's not that.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: Survivor is actually one of those I saw her face.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: The names the names go in and out. If I
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: saw the face, I would know.
• 37:13
  Speaker 5: Then I'll bring up her face. The face that's Stephanie.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: Oh oh yes, forever ago.
• 37:19
  Speaker 5: She's coming, sheers, Oh yeah she was. Yeah, No, she's probably.
• 37:23
  Speaker 5: If my wife and I had to name a favorite
• 37:25
  Speaker 5: survivor contestant is probably.
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: Robbie loves her as well.
• 37:28
  Speaker 5: She's great.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: Robbie loves her as well.
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: This is great news for everybody's Anatomy is coming back.
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: I think this week.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, this week we're going to the cake cutting.
• 37:41
  Speaker 5: Yeah it is not this week.
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, what.
• 37:46
  Speaker 5: It's October ninth, So it's a week from thirteen.
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: Why do I feel like we've been waiting for this
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: premiere forever? Okay, So Brittany Escoto are from Brittany. Yeah,
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: she's watching Grayce and and Me the very beginning for
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: the very first time. Oh wo And she's just had
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: a baby about a month ago, and so she like
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: watches What at night while she's up and she's in deep.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: So today I get a text and don't give any
• 38:14
  Speaker 3: spoilers when I tell you this, that she goes she
• 38:16
  Speaker 3: was on the House of Candles episode you know.
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: Oh, he asked her to marry him.
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: You remember when he's like with Rope, No, he didn't
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: ask her to marry Come on, It's like I think
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: tis in four finale.
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: Freedom.
• 38:31
  Speaker 5: It's not called House of Candles.
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: I know, but references the House of Candles. She's like,
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: oh my gosh, she has to go break up with Rose.
• 38:38
  Speaker 3: Please tell me he doesn't get in a car accident.
• 38:41
  Speaker 3: I need you to prepare me. And I'm like, man,
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: getting to watch that show in some of those episodes
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: with fresh eyes is a gift.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: So I have been telling I want Robbie. Robbi's never
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: seen an episode of Grey's Anatomy, and I'm like, I
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: think he would really enjoy it watching it from yes,
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: from the beginning, right like season at least season one
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: through nine.
• 39:01
  Speaker 5: It's just such a commitment, like, Hey, you want to
• 39:03
  Speaker 5: watch Breaking Back.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: Australia, sixty episodes of Love Island UK, USA Australia.
• 39:12
  Speaker 5: But if you asked me to start a full length,
• 39:15
  Speaker 5: twenty two episode a season show from the start, I'd
• 39:17
  Speaker 5: be like, I gotta I gotta live my life.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: I want him to just commit the first eight seasons.
• 39:22
  Speaker 5: I would he's not going to finish that before he's
• 39:23
  Speaker 5: fifty years old.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: No way, we could finish that, they watched. We can
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: finish that, like ice cream on a Sunday.
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: We could like ice cream Sunday or ice cream.
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: Ice cream on a Sunday, just finish it.
• 39:37
  Speaker 3: I had ice cream on a Sunday yesterday.
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: I know, And I saw your ice cream and it
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: made me want ice cream, and I love ice cream.
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: I'm so sick.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: Okay, I see Beca sends me this picture of her
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: like dairy queen.
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh my god, yeah on a Sunday.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: Then I jump on.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: Robbie and I'm like, so, I'm kind of craving something,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: but I don't know what it is. Can you help me?
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: Because I wanted him to say, like, let's go get
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: you ice cream. He goes, He goes, We have parmesan chunks,
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: we have olives, like he was just naming off all
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: the stuff in our fridge and I was like, no,
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: I don't really want that. I don't really want that.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: We have peanut butter and jelly. Do you want peanut
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: butter and je No, I don't really want that.
• 40:21
  Speaker 5: Why are you playing this game?
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: I don't know? And he never got to where I
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: wanted him to why you.
• 40:26
  Speaker 5: To say, Robbie, I am grabbing ice cream. Let's go
• 40:27
  Speaker 5: get some ice cream.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Because we were like in bed and like ready to
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: go to sleep.
• 40:32
  Speaker 3: It was at seven o'clock at night.
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: We were in bed and ready to sleep. At six thirty,
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: I looked at.
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: Haley and I go, I really want dary. I want
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: a dipped cone. That's what I really wanted. But like
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: I didn't want to leave the house because dairy Queen's
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: in a mall and it was like Park.
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: I was just like, uh yeah, and She's like, well
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: they have blizzards.
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: I was like, all right, it'll do.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: So I walked down downstairs the kitchen eate my set
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: step son's ice cream.
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: Oh good, Yeah, okay, you got some ice cream? I
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: did What kind was it?
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: Cookies and cream?
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 41:04
  Speaker 5: Great?
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: What brand?
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: Not sure?
• 41:12
  Speaker 5: Let me ask you this ice cream frozen yogurt, gelato, custard,
• 41:17
  Speaker 5: which is the best?
• 41:19
  Speaker 2: So good? I think Gelatto.
• 41:24
  Speaker 5: I think you might be right.
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: I think I love gelotto too.
• 41:26
  Speaker 5: I went for gelato last night with my daughter and
• 41:29
  Speaker 5: it was phenomenal.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Something just about ice cream is hit.
• 41:34
  Speaker 5: Yes, I love like.
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: A soft serve, like Dairy Queen's song that could.
• 41:38
  Speaker 5: Be another category.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that really hits. Just like a vanilla cone.
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: Sometimes all you need dipped in chocolate. If it's dipped
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: in chocolate.
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: Bonus Play, they have one.
• 41:46
  Speaker 5: This is not for everybody, but they have the Mister
• 41:48
  Speaker 5: Misty Kiss at Dairy Queen. It's like a red It's
• 41:50
  Speaker 5: like a cherry slushy and then they put a vanilla
• 41:53
  Speaker 5: soft serve right through the middle of it. Man, that
• 41:56
  Speaker 5: is heaven to me.
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: I don't think I need that.
• 41:58
  Speaker 5: I know you don't, but I I do.
• 42:01
  Speaker 3: Love anything cherry though, and the cherry mixes with the
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: vanilla so well.
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: I do love like a creamsicle, like an orange grecle
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: where it's like orange and vanilla.
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I do enjoy that.
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: I can't imagine wanting ice cream and someone suggesting pan
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: and all this. Yeah, I would just walk on that.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: K No, I'm out, I'm out of here.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: I was just like wanting that camaraderie, you know, like
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: my partner being like.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go get ice cream, and he just like.
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: It to me that type.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I'm just gonna walk myself down
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: the stairs.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah, your dessert love is somewhere where you and Robbie
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: are not quiet, you're not alive, Yeah at all. I
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: understand sometimes you just miss miss each other on those things. Yeah,
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: you know. Should we end with some sentences that change
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: people's lives just so they can leave this podcast feeling
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: and encourage and inspired love it? This is according to Busfeed.
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: Is Busfeed still likes to read bus Feed all the time.
• 43:04
  Speaker 5: I don't think it is what it was, but it's
• 43:06
  Speaker 5: still there.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: Quizes I loved a BuzzFeed Yeah.
• 43:08
  Speaker 5: Agreed, all right. Well, BuzzFeed rounded up some readers life
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: changing sentences from friends or therapists or strangers, and here
• 43:17
  Speaker 5: are some of them. Everyone you meet knows something that
• 43:19
  Speaker 5: you don't facts this person says. A coworker once told me.
• 43:25
  Speaker 5: Nobody on their deathbed says, I wish I had worked more.
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: I think people need to hear that because we live
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: in a society that's like grind, hustle, work until you're dead.
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: And you go to other places in the world and
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: they don't live like that, and you're like, wow, this
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: is when you go on vacation to places that don't
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: live like that, you can feel your body shift, not
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: only because you're on vacation, but you can feel like
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: no one's in a rush. Everyone's just like they they sleep.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: They's a vacation to places where everything shuts down. Every
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: store is shut down on a Sunday. You need a
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: little medicine on a Sunday, you ain't going anywhere. You
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: better stock up on Saturday because it is a bad example.
• 44:06
  Speaker 5: Medicine in it.
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: Now, I know, but you can't get it.
• 44:09
  Speaker 5: You stuck up for every medicine.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying you can't get it. Like it was
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: like everything we're shut down on Sunday.
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: I was like, wow, that is so crazy.
• 44:16
  Speaker 5: My parents used to ask me will this matter in
• 44:18
  Speaker 5: ten years when I was upset. It was annoying at
• 44:21
  Speaker 5: the time, but it put things into perspective. I do
• 44:22
  Speaker 5: that with my daughters. A year from now.
• 44:24
  Speaker 3: This is meaningless to you, Yeah, not even a year.
• 44:27
  Speaker 5: Depends on what it is. Just because you spent years
• 44:31
  Speaker 5: making the same mistake doesn't mean you have to keep
• 44:33
  Speaker 5: making it. Cycles regarding exercise, you can treat it as
• 44:38
  Speaker 5: something you have to get through, or you can treat
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: it as an opportunity to do something hard. In terms
• 44:45
  Speaker 5: of relationships, stop watering dead and fake plants. My best
• 44:52
  Speaker 5: boss said, I don't care what you screw up, learn
• 44:54
  Speaker 5: from it and don't do it again.
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: Tough.
• 44:58
  Speaker 5: But here's one you're going to be fifty anyway from
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: a friend of mine because I was hesitant about going
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: back to college to get a degree because by the
• 45:06
  Speaker 5: time I graduated, I would be fifty. And they said,
• 45:09
  Speaker 5: but you're going to be fifty anyway. Oh So I
• 45:12
  Speaker 5: did it, and I started an amazing second chapter of
• 45:14
  Speaker 5: my life.
• 45:15
  Speaker 3: That's so inter that is, that's impactful. That is because
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: you like, don't do things because you're scared of like, well,
• 45:22
  Speaker 3: I'm going to be this old, but you're going to
• 45:24
  Speaker 3: get that old anyway.
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: Right, it's socially acceptable to have an unexpressed thought. Tania
• 45:29
  Speaker 5: is not aware of this, but it is.
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: Excuse me, Tanya did it this weekend. I'm sure she
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: had a lot of unexpressed thoughts.
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: I had a lot of things going through my head
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: that I did not express. Thank you very much, more
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: so because I was just in shock.
• 45:42
  Speaker 5: H I remember my dad saying, if you're going to
• 45:45
  Speaker 5: give me roses, do it while I'm alive, because I
• 45:47
  Speaker 5: can't smell them when I'm dead, meaning don't waste chances
• 45:50
  Speaker 5: to show people you love them.
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 45:53
  Speaker 5: And uh, as someone who was often guilty of catastrophizing,
• 45:58
  Speaker 5: one thing that helps. If I'm worried about something, What
• 46:00
  Speaker 5: if it goes wrong with the switch it instead too?
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: What if it goes right?
• 46:03
  Speaker 5: Well? And the last one, which you've said before, the
• 46:07
  Speaker 5: things you're not changing you are jues.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: That's my favorite.
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm reading a book right now and believe it
• 46:17
  Speaker 3: or not, and they were one of my favorite quotes
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: is like the difference of bravery and courage. And we've
• 46:26
  Speaker 3: talked about this before. When I remember it specifically of
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: when I came out publicly with Hailey and it was
• 46:32
  Speaker 3: like feeling like scared and it's like courage is being
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: scared and doing it anyway changed my perspective on like
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: that feeling of being scared to try something new, you know,
• 46:44
  Speaker 3: something challenging. So there you go. I hope that was
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: inspirational for the rest of your week till Thursday when
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: we'll be back. We will be back with a Dear
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: Bonia episode. I know you've missed our advice column, so
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: we'll be back on Thursday to give the people what
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: they want.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: We love you so much.
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: We love you so much. Have a wonderful day. Love you,
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: continued B