Latest / Motivation Mindset Podcast / Get Up & Save Yourself: Take Action and Change Your Life
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Ain't no elevator to the top. You got to take
- 0:04Speaker 1: the stains elevated. Don't go to the top man, not
- 0:09Speaker 1: in the world of success.
- 0:11Speaker 2: The people in the world become weaker people.
- 0:14Speaker 1: It's by capping your brain.
- 0:16Speaker 3: It's by putting this kind of garbage in about not
- 0:19Speaker 3: attacking what you're not good at. Take ownership for your life.
- 0:24Speaker 3: Nobody can live your dream for you, but you nobody's
- 0:27Speaker 3: going to take.
- 0:27Speaker 4: Care of your business. Like you.
- 0:30Speaker 2: Stop coming up with excuses.
- 0:32Speaker 5: Don't give yourself permission to continue.
- 0:34Speaker 4: To live a small life.
- 0:36Speaker 6: You can't fit a big dream into a small life.
- 0:39Speaker 2: So if you don't put the work in today, if
- 0:43Speaker 2: you don't do the unending, back breaking work of developing
- 0:48Speaker 2: yourself into something greater, the world is going to pass
- 0:51Speaker 2: you by. The people that are going to own it
- 0:53Speaker 2: are going to be the ones that did that work.
- 0:56Speaker 2: And the one promise that I can make you right
- 0:58Speaker 2: now is that somebody, somebody out there is outworking. Somebody
- 1:03Speaker 2: right now is doing the things that I'm saying.
- 1:06Speaker 5: Don't avoid small problems that you know are there.
- 1:10Speaker 2: Face them, because they'll grow into big problems all by themselves.
- 1:14Speaker 1: But it's also like learning that learning that and having
- 1:17Speaker 1: that as a part of your daily life.
- 1:20Speaker 6: You can handle this.
- 1:21Speaker 3: You just haven't figured it out yet.
- 1:23Speaker 7: It's all right.
- 1:23Speaker 6: This is your training period.
- 1:25Speaker 1: This is the tuition you have to pay for what
- 1:27Speaker 1: you don't know.
- 1:30Speaker 6: You can do this.
- 1:30Speaker 4: Other people have done.
- 1:31Speaker 2: It doesn't take an Einstein.
- 1:33Speaker 5: All successful people of my experience are people who are
- 1:37Speaker 5: living fully engaged. They are fully involved in their lives
- 1:41Speaker 5: and in their goals. They don't do things by half measures.
- 1:45Speaker 5: They may have no guarantees, but they're not afraid to
- 1:48Speaker 5: put their whole heart into their activities.
- 1:51Speaker 4: See, in the real world, nothing comes easy. You have
- 1:55Speaker 4: to put in effort. You have to put into blood, sweat, tears.
- 2:00Speaker 4: It doesn't hurt a little bit, it doesn't sting a
- 2:03Speaker 4: little bit. If it doesn't make you a little uncomfortable,
- 2:07Speaker 4: you probably won't get very much out of it.
- 2:09Speaker 3: Develop yourself, Weaponize yourself. Teach yourself to be so good
- 2:14Speaker 3: at something that is necessary to serve.
- 2:16Speaker 2: In the area of your dream that now you're never
- 2:19Speaker 2: even thinking about your comfort zone.
- 2:21Speaker 1: The minute you start thinking I don't want to do this,
- 2:26Speaker 1: the minute that feeling creeps in, that's the time you're
- 2:29Speaker 1: having a test. The minute you feel the ache of
- 2:33Speaker 1: I'd rather do something else, I'd rather do anything else
- 2:36Speaker 1: than this. That's the test. The minute you train yourself
- 2:41Speaker 1: to say this is my opportunity is the minute you
- 2:45Speaker 1: go from loser to fucking winner. And this is a skill,
- 2:50Speaker 1: This is something you practice.
- 2:53Speaker 6: Und a way in and understanding that this thing that
- 2:56Speaker 6: we are dealing with right now in our lives, it's
- 3:00Speaker 6: only temporary. It's temporary, and it will not last forever.
- 3:06Speaker 6: You must realize that you must grow enough tenacity within
- 3:11Speaker 6: yourself to press off.
- 3:18Speaker 1: You are amazing and you have limitless potential, So start
- 3:22Speaker 1: tapping into it by not sitting on the fence.
- 3:24Speaker 5: Let your work get your opportunity.
- 3:27Speaker 4: Let your work get your please, Let your work open
- 3:29Speaker 4: up doors, Let your work get people paying attention.
- 3:32Speaker 7: Let your work get the whole world to notice.
- 3:34Speaker 5: Stop thinking, stop procrastinating, and you got work.
- 3:42Speaker 3: So you got to make sure that you constantly are
- 3:44Speaker 3: rewriting your book. You have to constantly rewrite your book every.
- 3:48Speaker 7: Day of your life. You know.
- 3:50Speaker 3: And these aren't just words I say, this is how
- 3:52Speaker 3: I have to live like. These are conversations I have
- 3:54Speaker 3: with myself, and I say, everywhere I go, the most
- 3:57Speaker 3: important conversation when.
- 3:58Speaker 7: You have it yourself.
- 4:00Speaker 3: Yes, you live with it every single day. But most
- 4:04Speaker 3: of our conversations are not the right ones. They're not
- 4:07Speaker 3: the ones that are gonna push us to the place
- 4:09Speaker 3: we need to go. They're the ones that are gonna
- 4:11Speaker 3: keep us sitting in that toxic environment that you've helped
- 4:15Speaker 3: create and everybody else helped create, and.
- 4:17Speaker 4: You just live in it.
- 4:18Speaker 3: You live in that muck and that conversation that plays
- 4:21Speaker 3: in your head and that becomes you. So my first
- 4:23Speaker 3: conversation when I was absolutely nobody, and that's one thing
- 4:27Speaker 3: you have to say. We live in the world now
- 4:29Speaker 3: that's so kind. We find a kind way around everything.
- 4:35Speaker 3: Like if you don't look good, I have to find
- 4:38Speaker 3: a kind way of saying I don't like your shirt.
- 4:41Speaker 3: That's not the approach, the approach you have to take,
- 4:45Speaker 3: at least I care you take it the approach you want.
- 4:48Speaker 3: The conversation had to be a real honest conversation in
- 4:51Speaker 3: the accountability mirror of guess what, I was fat? Don't
- 4:55Speaker 3: find a kind world to say that, you know what,
- 4:58Speaker 3: I've gained some weight, No, you're fat when I couldn't read,
- 5:03Speaker 3: not like hey, you know even learned this agit. No,
- 5:05Speaker 3: I cannot read the fourth grade reading level. I'm struggling,
- 5:09Speaker 3: and sometimes I call myself stupid, not in a way
- 5:12Speaker 3: to put myself down. So don't take it like my god,
- 5:15Speaker 3: those are so hurtful. Yeah, a hurtful, dishonest. The conversation
- 5:20Speaker 3: has to become an honest conversation with where you're at mentally,
- 5:24Speaker 3: where am I at?
- 5:24Speaker 4: Mentally?
- 5:25Speaker 3: I look like I feel like I'm not this. I
- 5:28Speaker 3: am falling behind in school, I'm lazy. My house is
- 5:32Speaker 3: a mess. You have to look at what it is
- 5:35Speaker 3: and call it what it is. Don't find words to
- 5:38Speaker 3: make yourself feel better, because that's what So we hang
- 5:41Speaker 3: around people that make us feel better, that tell us
- 5:45Speaker 3: what we want to hear, not what we need to hear,
- 5:49Speaker 3: And so we stay away from those people. And we
- 5:51Speaker 3: stay away from those people like our internal dialogue becomes
- 5:55Speaker 3: that kind it's okay, it's not okay. So that's where
- 5:59Speaker 3: it's stars. It starts with that accountability of it's not
- 6:02Speaker 3: okay anymore, this can no longer be okay, and calling
- 6:08Speaker 3: yourself out for exactly what you are and exactly how
- 6:12Speaker 3: you need to fix it. That's where it's.
- 6:14Speaker 7: Starting take action. When you start to walk, talk, dress,
- 6:22Speaker 7: and behave like the top people, you soon begin to
- 6:25Speaker 7: feel like the top people. You will treat other people
- 6:28Speaker 7: like the top people do. You will work the way
- 6:31Speaker 7: the top people work. You will start to get the
- 6:33Speaker 7: results that the top people get. In no time at all,
- 6:37Speaker 7: you will be one of the top people yourself. It
- 6:40Speaker 7: may be tried to say fake it until you make it,
- 6:44Speaker 7: but there is a lot of truth to it. Your
- 6:47Speaker 7: main job in life is to create the mental equivalent
- 6:51Speaker 7: within yourself of what you want to realize and enjoy
- 6:55Speaker 7: in your outer world. Your focus must be on creating
- 7:00Speaker 7: beliefs within yourself that are consistent with the great success
- 7:04Speaker 7: you want to be in your outer world. You achieve
- 7:08Speaker 7: this by challenging your self limiting beliefs, rejecting them, and
- 7:13Speaker 7: then acting as if they did not exist. You reinforce
- 7:16Speaker 7: the development of new, life enhancing beliefs by increasing your
- 7:20Speaker 7: knowledge and skills in your field to the point where
- 7:23Speaker 7: you feel equal to any demand or challenge. You accelerate
- 7:28Speaker 7: the development of new positive beliefs by setting bigger and
- 7:33Speaker 7: more exciting goals in every area. Finally, you act continually
- 7:40Speaker 7: as if you were already the person that you desire
- 7:42Speaker 7: to be. Your aim is to reprogram your subconscious mind
- 7:46Speaker 7: for success by creating the mental equivalent in everything you
- 7:50Speaker 7: do or say. Make a decision this very day to
- 7:54Speaker 7: challenge and reject any self limiting beliefs you might have
- 7:59Speaker 7: that could be holding you back. Look into yourself and
- 8:01Speaker 7: question the areas of your life where you have doubts
- 8:04Speaker 7: about your abilities or talents. You might ask your friends
- 8:07Speaker 7: and family members if they see any negative beliefs that
- 8:09Speaker 7: you might have. Often they will be aware of negative
- 8:15Speaker 7: self limiting beliefs you have that you are not aware
- 8:20Speaker 7: of yourself. In every case, once you have identified these
- 8:24Speaker 7: negative beliefs, ask yourself, what if the opposite were true.
- 8:28Speaker 7: What if you had the ability to be extraordinarily successful
- 8:32Speaker 7: in an area where you currently doubt yourself. What if
- 8:35Speaker 7: you had been programmed from infancy with genius ability in
- 8:40Speaker 7: a particular area. What if you had within you right
- 8:44Speaker 7: now the ability to earn and keep all the money
- 8:46Speaker 7: you could ever want throughout your life. What if you
- 8:49Speaker 7: had a golden touch with regard to money. If you
- 8:53Speaker 7: absolutely believe these things to be true, what would you
- 8:57Speaker 7: do differently from what you were doing? Today, your beliefs
- 9:01Speaker 7: are always manifested in your words and actions. Make sure
- 9:05Speaker 7: that everything you say and do from now on is
- 9:09Speaker 7: consistent with the beliefs that you want to have and
- 9:13Speaker 7: the person that you want to become. In time, you
- 9:17Speaker 7: will replace more and more of your self limiting beliefs
- 9:21Speaker 7: with life enhancing beliefs. Over time, you will completely reprogram
- 9:25Speaker 7: yourself for success. When this occurs, the transformation that takes
- 9:30Speaker 7: place in your outer life will amaze you and all
- 9:33Speaker 7: the people around you.
- 9:35Speaker 3: Persistence is self discipline in action.
- 9:39Speaker 6: Your ability to persist in the face of all setbacks
- 9:42Speaker 6: and temporary failures is essential to success in life. Napoleon
- 9:47Speaker 6: Hill said, persistence is to the character of man as
- 9:50Speaker 6: carbon is to steal.
- 9:51Speaker 2: The primary reason for success is persistence, and likewise, the
- 9:57Speaker 2: primary reason for failure is lack.
- 10:00Speaker 6: Of persistence quitting too soon. There is a direct link
- 10:05Speaker 6: between self discipline and self esteem. Each time you discipline
- 10:10Speaker 6: yourself to do what you should do when you should
- 10:12Speaker 6: do it, whether you feel like it or not, your
- 10:15Speaker 6: self esteem increases.
- 10:17Speaker 7: This why there is direct relationship between self esteem and persistence.
- 10:23Speaker 6: Each time you persist and force yourself to continue on
- 10:27Speaker 6: even when you feel like quitting. Your self esteem goes up.
- 10:30Speaker 6: Each act of self discipline strengthens every other act of
- 10:34Speaker 6: self discipline.
- 10:35Speaker 7: Every act of persistence strengthens every other act of persistence.
- 10:40Speaker 6: When you discipline yourself to persist over and over, you
- 10:44Speaker 6: like and respect yourself more and more.
- 10:47Speaker 2: You become stronger and more confident.
- 10:50Speaker 7: Eventually you become unstoppable.
- 10:53Speaker 3: Persistence is its own reward.
- 10:56Speaker 7: Every time you force yourself to persist on a task,
- 10:59Speaker 7: whether it is large or small, you feel happier and
- 11:02Speaker 7: better about yourself.
- 11:04Speaker 6: When you go the extra mile and do more than
- 11:06Speaker 6: you are paid for or more than is expected, your
- 11:09Speaker 6: self esteem goes up.
- 11:11Speaker 3: You feel more powerful and in greater control of your life.
- 11:17Speaker 6: In your career.
- 11:18Speaker 3: When you go the extra mile, you put yourself on
- 11:21Speaker 3: the side of the angels.
- 11:23Speaker 7: The primary difference between winners and losers in life is simple.
- 11:27Speaker 6: Winners never quit and quitters never win. You can increase
- 11:31Speaker 6: your ability to persist by talking to yourself positively, say
- 11:35Speaker 6: these words, I am unstoppable before you begin any major undertaking.
- 11:42Speaker 6: Pre program yourself by telling yourself, I never give up.
- 11:46Speaker 2: Before you can achieve anything worth.
- 11:48Speaker 6: While in life, you have to pass the persistence test.
- 11:52Speaker 6: This is usually a snap quiz sprung on you unexpectedly
- 11:56Speaker 6: with no warning. You suddenly face a major setback, problem,
- 12:00Speaker 6: temporary failure, or even a complete disaster. When this happens,
- 12:05Speaker 6: remind yourself that this is the testing time. This is
- 12:09Speaker 6: when you demonstrate what you are really made of. This
- 12:13Speaker 6: is when you show yourself and others the strength of
- 12:15Speaker 6: your character and your true determination to succeed. Your ability
- 12:20Speaker 6: to respond effectively to setbacks. Your level of response ability
- 12:26Speaker 6: is the measure of your readiness to succeed. When you
- 12:30Speaker 6: experience a major setback or problem, you will feel temporarily stunned.
- 12:35Speaker 7: This feeling is very much like a punch in the
- 12:37Speaker 7: emotional solar plexus.
- 12:40Speaker 6: You will be stopped for a few seconds or a
- 12:42Speaker 6: few minutes. During this period, you will often feel discourage
- 12:46Speaker 6: or experience self pity.
- 12:48Speaker 3: You will say why me. However, it is not how
- 12:51Speaker 3: far you fall that counts, but rather how high you bounce.
- 12:56Speaker 7: Your aim is to bounce back as quickly as possible.
- 12:59Speaker 6: Resilience in the face of unexpected reversals is vital to
- 13:03Speaker 6: long term success.
- 13:04Speaker 3: Remember the warrior's creed, I will lay me down to
- 13:08Speaker 3: bleed awhile and then rise and fight again.
- 13:12Speaker 7: Don't be surprised, shocked, or set back when things go wrong.
- 13:17Speaker 6: Your best laid plans will.
- 13:19Speaker 7: Often fall apart. Instead, expect disappointments and setbacks as a
- 13:24Speaker 7: part of life. Take a deep breath, pick up the pieces,
- 13:28Speaker 7: and continue onward.