Latest / Johnjay & Rich On Demand / WAR of the ROSES: Lilliana & Aiden
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- 0:00Speaker 1: He dummy. If you get free roses, it's a trap.
- 0:05Speaker 1: War of the Roses starts.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Right now on John Jay and Ridge.
- 0:08Speaker 1: One four to seven Kiss FM.
- 0:10Speaker 3: It's John Jay and Rich's time for War of the
- 0:12Speaker 3: Roses the Lealana thinks someone's.
- 0:14Speaker 1: Cheating on it.
- 0:14Speaker 3: Ready to hear her story and then we're going to
- 0:16Speaker 3: find out who he sends roses to.
- 0:18Speaker 1: Leana. Good morning, you're on the air.
- 0:21Speaker 4: Hi, Good morning.
- 0:22Speaker 1: What's your story?
- 0:23Speaker 4: Well, I'm calling because I need help figuring out if
- 0:26Speaker 4: I should start this year single or not. I have
- 0:30Speaker 4: been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and I'm
- 0:33Speaker 4: usually not the jealous type, but something about like New
- 0:36Speaker 4: Year's just didn't sit right with me at all. So
- 0:40Speaker 4: we were at his house earlier that night, and from
- 0:42Speaker 4: the jump he was just acting weird, like he was
- 0:45Speaker 4: like on a phone NonStop and just like barely present,
- 0:50Speaker 4: just like off. And he told me he was going
- 0:52Speaker 4: out with friends and that he'd be home around one fifteen,
- 0:56Speaker 4: which I didn't love. But whatever, it's New Year's like
- 0:59Speaker 4: fast board and I'm still at his place. He comes
- 1:03Speaker 4: home and something still felt wrong. At what point he
- 1:08Speaker 4: went downstairs to do laundry and he left his phone
- 1:12Speaker 4: on the couch. It was unlocked, and I'm not proud
- 1:15Speaker 4: of it, but I looked and what I found is
- 1:19Speaker 4: why I'm calling. Would His uber receipt said he got
- 1:23Speaker 4: dropped off at three am, not one fifteen, like he
- 1:27Speaker 4: told me.
- 1:28Speaker 2: So were you asleep by the time he got home?
- 1:30Speaker 2: So you didn't know what time?
- 1:31Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I didn't know when you got home, like
- 1:34Speaker 4: I was asleep, and so like all of the like
- 1:37Speaker 4: weirdness was like the next morning.
- 1:39Speaker 5: How come you guys work together on New Year's Like,
- 1:42Speaker 5: why wouldn't you go out with him?
- 1:46Speaker 4: He he wanted to be out with his friends, and
- 1:48Speaker 4: I was content. I kind of like a quiet new
- 1:51Speaker 4: Year to sort of just reflect and manifest what I
- 1:55Speaker 4: want for the coming year.
- 1:56Speaker 5: Okay, So I mean I see why you would need
- 1:58Speaker 5: to just you would at the tentacles of like, oh,
- 2:01Speaker 5: you lied to me about the time. Why did you
- 2:03Speaker 5: confront him?
- 2:07Speaker 4: Not exactly like I didn't confront him about like the
- 2:10Speaker 4: three am versus the like the one fifteen. He just
- 2:14Speaker 4: like he's in my opinion, he just like straight up lied.
- 2:17Speaker 4: I was like, oh, when'd you get home? And he
- 2:18Speaker 4: was like, I got home at one fifteen, because that's
- 2:21Speaker 4: like the time we kind of agreed on. Ah.
- 2:24Speaker 6: Okay, I said, it's kind of oddly specific to be
- 2:26Speaker 6: so far off, unless it's like a lot of people
- 2:29Speaker 6: after New Year's you feel like you're you're out and
- 2:31Speaker 6: then your hope. But on a New Year's Eve, one
- 2:35Speaker 6: o'clock's not that late because it was just New Year's
- 2:37Speaker 6: an hour ago, you know, it's that's not super late
- 2:40Speaker 6: to be three am.
- 2:41Speaker 1: Three am is when he really got home.
- 2:43Speaker 2: That yeah, and at least you would think if that, say,
- 2:46Speaker 2: you are having a great time with your friends and
- 2:48Speaker 2: you do want to push the time back, at least
- 2:49Speaker 2: text your girlfriend, Like that's what would be shady to
- 2:53Speaker 2: me too. It's like, I understand sometimes time slips away
- 2:55Speaker 2: from you, but to not send a text or a
- 2:58Speaker 2: follow up I'm gonna be home later and then lie
- 2:59Speaker 2: on top but it isn't okay.
- 3:01Speaker 3: Well, also, you guys, you guys live together, or you're
- 3:04Speaker 3: just staying at his house.
- 3:05Speaker 4: I was just staying at his house.
- 3:07Speaker 3: Okay, so you're at his house, he comes home, doesn't
- 3:10Speaker 3: wake you up, doesn't try to do New Year's Eve action,
- 3:12Speaker 3: kissing New Year's Eve something, you know what I mean.
- 3:15Speaker 4: Nope, nope, and then it was just like weirdness in
- 3:18Speaker 4: the morning.
- 3:18Speaker 3: There's like a lot of interesting things about your whole relationship,
- 3:22Speaker 3: the fact that you weren't together, the fact that you
- 3:24Speaker 3: caught him lying about that, you know, the fact that
- 3:26Speaker 3: you guys whatever.
- 3:28Speaker 1: It's okay, So no New Year's hook up. We'll call
- 3:31Speaker 1: him and we're gonna see who he sends flowers to.
- 3:33Speaker 1: All right, So what is his name?
- 3:35Speaker 4: His name is Aiden.
- 3:35Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna call it Aiden Kyler. You ready for this?
- 3:38Speaker 1: I'm ready, okay, all right.
- 3:41Speaker 3: War of the Roses continues next with John Jaye Rich Rich.
- 3:45Speaker 3: John Jane Rich you got little Yana and Aiden New
- 3:47Speaker 3: Year's Eve. She thinks he's cheating on her because she
- 3:51Speaker 3: he's been acting weird. First of all, he went out
- 3:53Speaker 3: without her on New Year's Eve, wish she was fine
- 3:55Speaker 3: with that. But then he said he got home at one,
- 3:56Speaker 3: fifteen year old. But then she saw that you were
- 3:59Speaker 3: received on his phone because he left his phone and
- 4:01Speaker 3: they said he got home at three.
- 4:02Speaker 1: Why would he lie about that?
- 4:04Speaker 3: I know, silly. Why would he lie about what time
- 4:07Speaker 3: he got home? Except for he was flowing around with somebody,
- 4:11Speaker 3: right something going on.
- 4:12Speaker 5: Or he didn't want to explain why he was out
- 4:14Speaker 5: so late and maybe hanging out.
- 4:16Speaker 2: In the section with a bunch of batties everywhere.
- 4:19Speaker 3: Because also for me, when I go think about New
- 4:21Speaker 3: Year's Eve, when I would stay up that late after
- 4:24Speaker 3: the countdown, parties pretty much dissipated.
- 4:26Speaker 1: Yeah, you roar for a little bit, but that winds
- 4:28Speaker 1: up fast.
- 4:29Speaker 3: Yeah, by one, I mean still coming home at one
- 4:31Speaker 3: fifteen to me makes sense.
- 4:32Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's midnight three to one. Happy years here.
- 4:37Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna call it Aid and see who
- 4:38Speaker 3: sends the flowers too. Are you ready, Lilyana? Yeah, okay,
- 4:43Speaker 3: here we go.
- 4:55Speaker 5: Hello, Hi, there is Aiden available. Yeah, this is perfect,
- 5:01Speaker 5: So Aiden, it's kind of your lucky day.
- 5:02Speaker 7: Hi.
- 5:03Speaker 5: My name is Wesley and with a new company we're
- 5:05Speaker 5: called J and R Flowers. We have this really cool
- 5:07Speaker 5: campaign we're doing. It's a social media campaign that you've
- 5:09Speaker 5: been chosen for. So here's why it's really cool for you, Aiden.
- 5:12Speaker 5: You get to send our most romantic bouquet of flowers.
- 5:14Speaker 5: It's a dozen long stem red roses and you get
- 5:17Speaker 5: to send it totally free, and all we kind of
- 5:18Speaker 5: ask in return is that you post about Jay and
- 5:21Speaker 5: our flowers on whichever social media platform you use the most.
- 5:26Speaker 4: Okay, sure, why not?
- 5:29Speaker 8: Yeah?
- 5:29Speaker 1: Why not? Right?
- 5:31Speaker 5: Okay, So I don't need any credit card information or
- 5:34Speaker 5: anything really personal from you, just as personal as you
- 5:37Speaker 5: want to get with whoever you're surprising with these And
- 5:39Speaker 5: like I said, they're pretty romantic on their own, but
- 5:41Speaker 5: we will send them out with a nice little card.
- 5:43Speaker 5: And I always say, you know, this is your chance
- 5:45Speaker 5: to just really surprise them and the nature of your relationship.
- 5:49Speaker 5: Can you know shift whatever you're going to say? So
- 5:52Speaker 5: some people get like fun and flirty and some people
- 5:54Speaker 5: get crazy. I've really kind of heard it all, So
- 5:56Speaker 5: don't be shy. Let me know what you want on
- 5:58Speaker 5: the card, and I'll actually give you an actual time
- 6:00Speaker 5: and we'll get them sent out.
- 6:01Speaker 4: Okay, sounds good.
- 6:04Speaker 7: Yeah, why don't we say I love you and thanks
- 6:10Speaker 7: for everything you do for me, and then some.
- 6:13Speaker 5: Very cute everything you do for me, and then some okay,
- 6:19Speaker 5: and then obviously probably like a love aiden if there
- 6:22Speaker 5: is a love in there, yeah, love aiden, and then yeah,
- 6:26Speaker 5: that sounds great, And then who am I gonna address
- 6:28Speaker 5: this to?
- 6:30Speaker 7: Her name is Lily?
- 6:33Speaker 5: I think Lily's gonna love this great.
- 6:37Speaker 4: Hi, Aiden, it's me Lily. It's it's Lily, It's Lily.
- 6:43Speaker 4: I need to explain something here, maybe, y'all. Really, why
- 6:48Speaker 4: are you?
- 6:48Speaker 8: Why are you even on the phone?
- 6:49Speaker 7: What is going on?
- 6:51Speaker 4: Okay? I like orchestrated this and called for them to
- 6:57Speaker 4: help me out because I'm still over the fact that
- 7:01Speaker 4: you told me you were home at one fifteen on
- 7:04Speaker 4: New Year's Eve and your uber says three am. So yeah,
- 7:08Speaker 4: I just you need to start explaining what actually happened.
- 7:14Speaker 8: No, I didn't, But why are you looking at my uber?
- 7:19Speaker 5: Okay?
- 7:19Speaker 4: Because you left your phone unlocked when you went downstairs
- 7:22Speaker 4: and just something fell off.
- 7:24Speaker 7: Okay, so you're are you like, are you implying that
- 7:27Speaker 7: I cheated on New Year's Like I did not? I
- 7:31Speaker 7: did not cheat.
- 7:32Speaker 4: Okay, Well, then just like explain the lie because I
- 7:35Speaker 4: don't care about the time. I care that you weren't honest,
- 7:39Speaker 4: Like who cares? Three am, one fifteen, But like, why
- 7:41Speaker 4: lie about it?
- 7:43Speaker 7: Okay? All right, Yeah I did lie, but it's it's
- 7:49Speaker 7: not what you think. It's not because I was with somebody.
- 7:52Speaker 7: I lied because I felt guilty because I blacked out.
- 7:58Speaker 8: You blacked out yeah, I I blacked out, and then
- 8:01Speaker 8: the only thing.
- 8:02Speaker 7: I remember was waking up at Jason's. And I knew
- 8:05Speaker 7: that if I told you that, you'd be upset with me,
- 8:08Speaker 7: so I just you know, I just said that I
- 8:10Speaker 7: got home earlier.
- 8:12Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because you do drink too much sometimes. Yeah,
- 8:16Speaker 4: well I know.
- 8:17Speaker 7: And I didn't want to start the year with an argument,
- 8:20Speaker 7: and so I wasn't trying to hear it, so I
- 8:22Speaker 7: avoided it. And yeah, that's okay, that's on me.
- 8:25Speaker 6: But obviously.
- 8:28Speaker 7: No, I didn't.
- 8:29Speaker 8: I thought it would blow over.
- 8:30Speaker 7: And clearly obviously it did not. Because you're on the
- 8:34Speaker 7: phone with me right now.
- 8:35Speaker 4: You're also on the radio, because I don't want to
- 8:37Speaker 4: babysit a grown man.
- 8:39Speaker 1: On the Rich radio show. You're on the radio.
- 8:42Speaker 4: I'm on a radio show.
- 8:44Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 8:44Speaker 3: When she said when she said, when she said, that's
- 8:46Speaker 3: why I went to them, that's where them they them.
- 8:49Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, I don't even know what to say right now,
- 8:56Speaker 8: because like, I, why why are you calling a radio
- 8:59Speaker 8: station and like cheating me?
- 9:03Speaker 4: Well, because when I asked you what time you got home,
- 9:05Speaker 4: you doubled down. You're like, I got home at one fifteen.
- 9:08Speaker 4: So it was like you clearly weren't telling me, so
- 9:11Speaker 4: I figured, yeah, you know what true the truth that
- 9:16Speaker 4: you were blacked out drunk and didn't want to own
- 9:21Speaker 4: up to your mistakes and be a man about it, like, yeah,
- 9:26Speaker 4: he's not cheating.
- 9:28Speaker 2: But it's like the rest of the relationship.
- 9:32Speaker 7: Look, okay, I'm sorry, truly, Okay, I'm sorry, Lily, And
- 9:38Speaker 7: I should have.
- 9:38Speaker 4: Just told you the truth and.
- 9:39Speaker 8: Dealt with it instead of lying and making it worse.
- 9:42Speaker 1: But you know, I don't know.
- 9:44Speaker 8: It's just this is really embarrassing.
- 9:49Speaker 1: So let me tell you something. Let me tell you
- 9:50Speaker 1: my opinion.
- 9:51Speaker 3: I don't think he's cheating, but I think he might
- 9:53Speaker 3: have a drinking problem. Yeah right, that's the fact that
- 9:55Speaker 3: you've blacked out and and it's happened before, and yeah,
- 10:00Speaker 3: so that's that's kind of where I stand.
- 10:02Speaker 1: Little honest, you got to figure out.
- 10:03Speaker 3: How long you want to be in this relationship or
- 10:04Speaker 3: do you help them get help you help him out?
- 10:06Speaker 1: I mean, a do you also have to admit do
- 10:08Speaker 1: you have a drinking problem? Do you not have a
- 10:10Speaker 1: drinking problem? Aiden?
- 10:13Speaker 7: I mean, obviously obviously it's like a bit of an issue.
- 10:19Speaker 1: Yeah, are you addicted to porn?
- 10:21Speaker 5: At all, Oh my gosh, Well if you guys jumped
- 10:23Speaker 5: right there.
- 10:24Speaker 3: Oh no, this documentary I'm watching right now, the one
- 10:26Speaker 3: I was talking about, Evil Influencer, Yeah, she this woman
- 10:28Speaker 3: is a is a psychologist for like a lot of
- 10:31Speaker 3: the LDS people, and she says, if you watch porn
- 10:33Speaker 3: once in a year, you're an addict. Really, Oh yeah,
- 10:37Speaker 3: I would be kicked out a long time ago, but
- 10:40Speaker 3: it's very top of mind.
- 10:41Speaker 1: For me right now. Yes, I mean I don't know
- 10:42Speaker 1: about that has to do with this, because we're.
- 10:45Speaker 7: Not going to get into it here if you're we're
- 10:47Speaker 7: just being asked like if I'm addicted to porn.
- 10:49Speaker 5: So I.
- 10:53Speaker 4: Honestly I don't want to start this year fighting. But
- 10:57Speaker 4: I also I just don't want this to keep half.
- 11:00Speaker 4: Like I'm your partner and I want you to be
- 11:03Speaker 4: able to talk to me and if you want to
- 11:05Speaker 4: work through it, and if you want to like address
- 11:08Speaker 4: the drinking, let's address it.
- 11:10Speaker 8: You know, Okay, I mean that's that's fair. I we
- 11:15Speaker 8: can talk about it, and you know.
- 11:19Speaker 7: I'll I'm gonna do something about it. But I just don't, like,
- 11:24Speaker 7: I don't want to keep talking about this live right
- 11:27Speaker 7: now on a radio show okay, okay.
- 11:32Speaker 3: All right, so thanks for jumpling on the air with us,
- 11:34Speaker 3: both of you. Yeah, all right, that's War of the
- 11:38Speaker 3: Roses John and Rich