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- 0:00Speaker 1: I was going on this romeo and we're back for
- 0:02Speaker 1: the weekend. Talked a little bit about cosmetic surgery. A
- 0:05Speaker 1: woman was saying that she doesn't know why men like
- 0:07Speaker 1: it and for those who can't afford it. I guess
- 0:10Speaker 1: her husband likes it but she can't afford it. And
- 0:12Speaker 1: she was talking about how it gives she's insecure. Bout
- 0:15Speaker 1: it all right, somebody said, Dad, a dilemma, What up, roam?
- 0:19Speaker 1: So check out. I have an dilemma. The other night,
- 0:20Speaker 1: I took my wife out to a rap party. Okay,
- 0:23Speaker 1: what a rat party is when a show is done
- 0:24Speaker 1: with production and throws a party to celebrate at the end. Now,
- 0:28Speaker 1: my wife's sister, who's younger, watched our child while we
- 0:31Speaker 1: were gone, So the night's going. My wife is getting hammered.
- 0:34Speaker 1: We come home, A child's asleep. I guess put my
- 0:37Speaker 1: wife to bed. I guess the sister's still up. I
- 0:41Speaker 1: was d and D so I didn't drink. It was hungry.
- 0:44Speaker 1: Me and her sister went to go get food, and
- 0:47Speaker 1: on our way back, the sister is telling me her
- 0:50Speaker 1: and her man have an open relationship. Anything goes. So
- 0:53Speaker 1: we get back to the house. She starts taking off
- 0:56Speaker 1: her clothes in a living room in front of me.
- 0:59Speaker 1: I didn't see naked, just a bra and she left
- 1:02Speaker 1: her pants off, bent over and started swaying back and forth,
- 1:06Speaker 1: looking at me like, come get it me. I take
- 1:09Speaker 1: my marriage seriously and didn't do it. But now it's
- 1:12Speaker 1: gonna be awkward when I see her again. And part
- 1:16Speaker 1: of me wonders if I should tell my wife what
- 1:18Speaker 1: happened or just leave it because I don't want to
- 1:21Speaker 1: mess up their relationship. What should I do? Well, first
- 1:26Speaker 1: of all, you should have told your wife the next
- 1:29Speaker 1: day when your wife was awake. That's what you should
- 1:31Speaker 1: have done ideally. So I don't know how many days
- 1:34Speaker 1: have passed since you went and this is yeah, I
- 1:41Speaker 1: don't know how many days have passed since you're telling
- 1:43Speaker 1: me this. But the problem is you need to be
- 1:47Speaker 1: more worried about your marriage than you do about the
- 1:49Speaker 1: relationship with the sisters, because the sister already messed up
- 1:53Speaker 1: the relationship by getting naked in front of you and
- 1:55Speaker 1: trying to get you to hit That's I mean, that's
- 1:57Speaker 1: that already, that was already the problem. The relationship's already
- 2:01Speaker 1: done unless them, you know, unless your wife understands it
- 2:04Speaker 1: already knows. But the longer you don't tell her about it,
- 2:09Speaker 1: and if it comes up again, there's nowhere there's no
- 2:13Speaker 1: way you win, because the sister will manipulate and the
- 2:17Speaker 1: wife will believe the sister unless the I mean unless
- 2:19Speaker 1: the wife already knows the sister's a whore. You know,
- 2:22Speaker 1: the wife may already know that and then understand. So,
- 2:25Speaker 1: but you should have told her the next day. That
- 2:29Speaker 1: would have been your best option at this point. And
- 2:33Speaker 1: the longer away from this situation that it gets, the
- 2:36Speaker 1: more distance between when it happened and when you tell
- 2:38Speaker 1: your wife or when your wife finds out, because she
- 2:41Speaker 1: will find out. Yeah, you're gonna be screwed. So yeah,
- 2:47Speaker 1: I would tell her, but I don't know how you
- 2:49Speaker 1: tell her now. It's uh probably if by the way,
- 2:53Speaker 1: it sounds too many days that passed, So yeah, good
- 2:56Speaker 1: luck with that one already four to two, five, four
- 2:59Speaker 1: or seven. This evan and so this guy texts me
- 3:02Speaker 1: he had a dilemma, he said, is why. I guess
- 3:04Speaker 1: him and his wife went out to a party and
- 3:08Speaker 1: they the wife got drunk. He was the designated driver,
- 3:13Speaker 1: so he didn't drink, and I guess the younger sister
- 3:15Speaker 1: of the wife. His sister in law watched their baby.
- 3:18Speaker 1: When he gets home, he puts the wife to bed.
- 3:21Speaker 1: He goes to get something to eat, and the sister
- 3:23Speaker 1: in law still up. His sister in law wants to
- 3:25Speaker 1: go get somebody with him. All on the way back,
- 3:26Speaker 1: I guess the sister in law said her and her
- 3:29Speaker 1: man have an open relationship, and the sister in law
- 3:31Speaker 1: proceeds to hit on him, take off her clothes, brawn panties,
- 3:34Speaker 1: I guess, bent over in front of him, talking about,
- 3:38Speaker 1: you know, come get it. He said he didn't know,
- 3:40Speaker 1: He didn't know what to do. He said he takes
- 3:41Speaker 1: his marriage seriously, doesn't know what to do, doesn't want
- 3:46Speaker 1: to cause a problem between the sisters. Yeah, you should
- 3:50Speaker 1: be more worried about the issue with your wife, not
- 3:53Speaker 1: the issue with the with the sisters. You got to
- 3:55Speaker 1: be more worried with the issue you and your wife
- 3:57Speaker 1: are going to have when it comes out. You should
- 3:59Speaker 1: have told your wife immediately, by the way, party four
- 4:03Speaker 1: two five four seven seven yo. Rome, Hey, tell that
- 4:07Speaker 1: guy not to say anything if he hasn't told her already,
- 4:12Speaker 1: like you said, If he didn't tell her the next day,
- 4:15Speaker 1: he needs to just keep his mouth shut and hope
- 4:17Speaker 1: that it never comes up again. I'm pretty sure the
- 4:21Speaker 1: sister doesn't want to have problems with his wife or
- 4:25Speaker 1: with her sister, so I'm sure she's not gonna tell him.
- 4:29Speaker 1: But at this point, Rome, you tell him just to
- 4:32Speaker 1: keep his mouth shut and don't say anything. Well, yeah,
- 4:37Speaker 1: but here's the problem. What happens if the sister the sister.
- 4:40Speaker 1: What if it slips one night, or what if the
- 4:42Speaker 1: sister gets mad at the husband, or what if the
- 4:44Speaker 1: sister gets mad at her sister. You know, women will
- 4:49Speaker 1: bring up stuff to cause problems with each other if
- 4:51Speaker 1: they're mad at them. She'll even what if the sister's
- 4:54Speaker 1: getting an argument? She goes, well, you should talk to
- 4:56Speaker 1: your husband about what I did, what we did the
- 4:57Speaker 1: other night, or what we did after that rap party.
- 5:00Speaker 1: You guys win too. You know, women are Women are dirty, sisty.
- 5:07Speaker 1: They are some of the most ruthless human beings on
- 5:11Speaker 1: the planet. Women do not care what they say. They
- 5:13Speaker 1: have no filter when they're upset. Women do not regret.
- 5:19Speaker 1: You know, you know you guys have a Guys have
- 5:21Speaker 1: a filter. They'll say, you know what, I better not
- 5:23Speaker 1: say this because I might regret it later. Women don't
- 5:25Speaker 1: have that, so I don't know. Maybe right A guy
- 5:30Speaker 1: hit me up. He was talking about I guess him
- 5:31Speaker 1: and his wife went out the other night and they
- 5:33Speaker 1: went to some sort of party. Well, the wife got drunk.
- 5:36Speaker 1: The younger sister of the wife with babysitting. So when
- 5:39Speaker 1: he gets back, he puts the wife, you know, the
- 5:40Speaker 1: wife goes to bed. He goes to get something to eat,
- 5:42Speaker 1: apparently with the younger sister. Now, when they get back,
- 5:48Speaker 1: the younger sister or during this time, the younger sister
- 5:51Speaker 1: tells the husband that herner man have an open relationship,
- 5:58Speaker 1: and then I guess, proceeds to take off her clothes. Now,
- 6:01Speaker 1: he never saw her naked, but she did have her
- 6:03Speaker 1: underwear on and bent over in front of him and
- 6:05Speaker 1: kind of like come get me. You know, he says,
- 6:08Speaker 1: I take my marriage seriously, didn't do it, but now
- 6:10Speaker 1: it's gonna be awkward when I see her again. And
- 6:13Speaker 1: a part of me wonders if I should tell my
- 6:15Speaker 1: wife what happens, or just what happens, or just have
- 6:19Speaker 1: it have to be because I don't want to mess
- 6:21Speaker 1: up their relationship. What do you think it's gonna mess
- 6:23Speaker 1: I think it's gonna mess up your relationship to be
- 6:26Speaker 1: honest with you. I think that's the relationship you need
- 6:28Speaker 1: to worry about. Is you and your wife, not her
- 6:30Speaker 1: and her sister to be perfectly honest with you, but
- 6:32Speaker 1: to reach his own already four to five, four seven
- 6:36Speaker 1: to seven yr Rome, Hey, you better tell that dude
- 6:39Speaker 1: to not say anything to his wife. He's gonna lose
- 6:42Speaker 1: his babysitter. You know how hard it is to get
- 6:49Speaker 1: a babysitter, Rome, how much it costs. Wow, that's what
- 6:56Speaker 1: you're going with. This guy's gonna lose his whole family
- 6:59Speaker 1: because his sister in law's a whore, and you're over
- 7:04Speaker 1: here worried about losing a babysitter. Yeah. I would like
- 7:10Speaker 1: to know, though, how long ago this happened? How many
- 7:13Speaker 1: days ago did this happen to you? Because you should
- 7:17Speaker 1: have told your wife the next morning to be perfectly
- 7:19Speaker 1: honest with you and just said, hey, yeah, I don't know,
- 7:24Speaker 1: you're in a bad spot. I'm just gonna tell you
- 7:25Speaker 1: right now. You're in a bad spot, unfortunately. And I
- 7:29Speaker 1: have a feeling knowing these women today you are You're
- 7:35Speaker 1: gonna be the one that gets screwed over this deal,
- 7:37Speaker 1: even if you did nothing wrong. But that's why I
- 7:42Speaker 1: always tell you, guys, never you should never be around
- 7:45Speaker 1: another woman. If you're married, you should never be around
- 7:48Speaker 1: another woman alone. I have friends since you know I
- 7:51Speaker 1: don't work. I get off at ten am, so I
- 7:54Speaker 1: will have friends that will go, hey, can you go
- 7:56Speaker 1: buy the house and help my wife do this and that?
- 7:57Speaker 1: And I'm like, nope, I can't do it. Even though
- 8:00Speaker 1: I know none of my friend's wives find me attractive,
- 8:02Speaker 1: none of my friends that my friends are so much
- 8:04Speaker 1: richer and better than every way than me, you still
- 8:07Speaker 1: don't want to put yourself in that position in any
- 8:09Speaker 1: former fashion. But you guys don't listen. So check this out.
- 8:13Speaker 1: This guy texts me and let me read you the
- 8:16Speaker 1: text real quick. I'll pull it up and just read
- 8:17Speaker 1: it all to you. Says Hey, rom I check this out.
- 8:20Speaker 1: I have a dilemma and took my wife to a
- 8:22Speaker 1: rap party. That's where a show ends production and they
- 8:26Speaker 1: throw a party to celebrate the end of it. My
- 8:28Speaker 1: wife got drunk. We had my sister in law, my
- 8:31Speaker 1: wife's younger sister watch our child. My wife got drunk.
- 8:35Speaker 1: I was the D and D so I didn't drink.
- 8:38Speaker 1: We took my We got home, took my wife to bed,
- 8:42Speaker 1: and I guess the little sister was still up and
- 8:44Speaker 1: I was going to get some food, so she wanted
- 8:46Speaker 1: to go with me. Well, on the way back, she
- 8:48Speaker 1: tells me that herner man of an open relationship. We
- 8:50Speaker 1: get back to the house, she starts taking off her
- 8:52Speaker 1: clothes in the living room in front of me. I
- 8:54Speaker 1: didn't see her naked, just braw and thong, and she
- 8:57Speaker 1: left her pants off and bent over and started swaying
- 9:00Speaker 1: back and forth, like come get it me at take him.
- 9:04Speaker 1: I take my marriage very seriously, So I'm just curious, Rome,
- 9:07Speaker 1: should I tell my wife or not. I don't know
- 9:09Speaker 1: what to do. I don't want to cause a problem
- 9:10Speaker 1: between them. Well, you shouldn't worry about the problem between
- 9:14Speaker 1: your wife and her sister, because your sister's the one
- 9:15Speaker 1: who caused that problem. You should worry about the problem
- 9:17Speaker 1: between you and your wife when your wife founds out
- 9:19Speaker 1: and you weren't the one to tell him already. Fourteen
- 9:22Speaker 1: five four seven to seven. Hey, Rome, I just heard
- 9:26Speaker 1: what you were talking about, and it's funny that you
- 9:28Speaker 1: say about your friend's wives. I got to call one time.
- 9:34Speaker 1: I'm a plumber and my buddy's My buddy had a
- 9:38Speaker 1: prumbing problem, so he calls me and says, hey, can
- 9:41Speaker 1: you go fix this problem at my house? And I
- 9:44Speaker 1: didn't think nothing of it, Rome, but his wife was home,
- 9:47Speaker 1: so I went over to fix the plumbing problem. The
- 9:51Speaker 1: wife opened the door with her top off and then
- 9:55Speaker 1: proceeded to show me the problem and stand over me
- 9:58Speaker 1: the whole time. It was very awkward and and comfortable room.
- 10:02Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do, and then she starts
- 10:05Speaker 1: flirting with me. I had no idea what my friend
- 10:11Speaker 1: and his wife's home life was like. Apparently they had
- 10:15Speaker 1: been going through some problems, Rome, and they ended up
- 10:18Speaker 1: divorcing about six months later. So you're right, Rome, you
- 10:23Speaker 1: gotta be careful what you do when you go to
- 10:25Speaker 1: your friend's house or when you're around your friend's wives.
- 10:28Speaker 1: Oh oh, I guess we're going to find out what
- 10:30Speaker 1: happened right now. The guy who started this whole thing,
- 10:36Speaker 1: The guy who started this whole thing this morning about
- 10:38Speaker 1: his sister in law hitting on him, getting naked into
- 10:40Speaker 1: a bond, Penny's shaking her butt in front of him
- 10:42Speaker 1: while the wife was passed out. I guess we're going
- 10:45Speaker 1: to find out, he says. Okay, Rome, So I went
- 10:48Speaker 1: on a whim and I just told my wife what happened.
- 10:51Speaker 1: And here's the kicker, which makes me mad. She said
- 10:55Speaker 1: she knew that it was a She knew that it
- 10:58Speaker 1: was a plan plot to see if I would cheat
- 10:59Speaker 1: on her. Wow, And she didn't say anything to me
- 11:08Speaker 1: about it because I didn't sleep with her sister. Now
- 11:11Speaker 1: I'm mad. I asked her, why why would you test me?
- 11:14Speaker 1: She said, because I guess I had her sister's name.
- 11:19Speaker 1: I guess I had her sister's name and a dream,
- 11:21Speaker 1: so she was wondering if I had a thing for her.
- 11:23Speaker 1: But still I'm mad because I feel kind of violated,
- 11:27Speaker 1: non trustworthy when I've been nothing but faithful. I'm mad, Rome.
- 11:35Speaker 1: I can't believe her sister would go that far to
- 11:37Speaker 1: her brown panties in front of you to help her.
- 11:40Speaker 1: That's dedication between sisters, by the way, that's loyalty. I'm
- 11:45Speaker 1: going to tell you this in all seriousness, and I
- 11:48Speaker 1: know that I shouldn't be saying this to you. Once again.
- 11:56Speaker 1: Why I say women are the dirtiest people on the planet.
- 12:00Speaker 1: You should never I wouldn't one hundred percent trust any
- 12:04Speaker 1: woman because of that right there, first of all. And
- 12:07Speaker 1: that's why I just said when men cheat, at least
- 12:09Speaker 1: they feel guilty about it. Women don't. Women blame somebody
- 12:11Speaker 1: else for them being a cheater, or for them sleeping
- 12:15Speaker 1: with your husband or whatever. What's even funnier is would
- 12:20Speaker 1: the sister slept with you? She probably would have. But
- 12:25Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this, and I know it's real
- 12:28Speaker 1: easy for me to throw this out there, but you
- 12:31Speaker 1: should divorce her to do something that deceitful and that dirty,
- 12:37Speaker 1: you should divorce her. And I know that's nothing. Me
- 12:42Speaker 1: saying that is is just you know, I don't know
- 12:48Speaker 1: what you're going through. I know you're mad, But if
- 12:51Speaker 1: it was me that happened to me, I would divorce
- 12:55Speaker 1: her today. But that's just me because how can you
- 12:58Speaker 1: be with how can you deal with the woman that
- 13:00Speaker 1: would do that to you? You know what I'm saying.
- 13:03Speaker 1: That's why I say women are really the dirtiest people
- 13:06Speaker 1: on the planet. They will do anything and justified in
- 13:09Speaker 1: any manner to get what they want. Even when they're
- 13:13Speaker 1: in the wrong, they'll still make some stupid, idiotic justification
- 13:18Speaker 1: to make you the bad guy, and she did so, Yeah,
- 13:23Speaker 1: I would. I'm just saying if it was me, I
- 13:26Speaker 1: would divorce her today. I'd kick her out of the house.
- 13:29Speaker 1: She'd be out. Okay, what else did I miss with
- 13:33Speaker 1: text messaging?
- 13:33Speaker 2: Hey?
- 13:34Speaker 1: Rome, bring up the topic of expectations? Okay, for me,
- 13:39Speaker 1: I cannot afford to have cosmetic work done, But these men,
- 13:44Speaker 1: including my husband, want women who do that to themselves.
- 13:48Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, They're beautiful, but they are creating
- 13:51Speaker 1: an unrealistic standard of beauty for those of us who
- 13:54Speaker 1: don't have that work done. Makes at least me feel
- 13:58Speaker 1: less then, and I'll never be good enough. Well, what
- 14:04Speaker 1: are you talking about when it comes to cosmetic surgery?
- 14:08Speaker 1: I mean, are you talking about bigger boobs? Are you
- 14:11Speaker 1: talking about a bigger butt? Are you talking about lposuction?
- 14:15Speaker 1: Are you talking about a facelift? I mean, what cosmetic surgery?
- 14:19Speaker 1: There's a lot going on there. What is it that
- 14:22Speaker 1: your husband is looking at or men are looking at
- 14:27Speaker 1: that you can't You can't have because you can't afford it.
- 14:33Speaker 1: Because you know, I'm gonna tell you this, I don't
- 14:36Speaker 1: know what your body type looks like. Are you overweight?
- 14:40Speaker 1: Are you because you can always work out and get
- 14:42Speaker 1: thinner and tighter and look great. Is it your boobs
- 14:48Speaker 1: are too small and he likes bigger boobs? Is it?
- 14:51Speaker 1: I mean, if that was the case, why do you
- 14:52Speaker 1: get with you in the first place? I mean, I
- 14:55Speaker 1: don't you'd have to explain a little more about what
- 15:00Speaker 1: you're saying. Is way too big expectations that men have
- 15:06Speaker 1: are I get it, you know some are unrealistic, but
- 15:09Speaker 1: also some are on. You can't just blame men for
- 15:11Speaker 1: these unrealistic expectations. Do you think all women are getting
- 15:14Speaker 1: this work done for men? I've told you this before
- 15:18Speaker 1: that you know women are not. Most women are not
- 15:20Speaker 1: getting anything done for their husbands. They could literally care
- 15:24Speaker 1: less about how you think, how you look at them. So,
- 15:30Speaker 1: but that's just how women are. Once they lock you down,
- 15:34Speaker 1: you know, you become second best already four two five,
- 15:37Speaker 1: four seven to seven. So I guess you have to
- 15:40Speaker 1: be a little bit more. You have to explain a
- 15:43Speaker 1: little bit more to me about what you're talking about.
- 15:45Speaker 1: I guess, because you can always just get fitter, get
- 15:48Speaker 1: in great shape, and look great, and that's free for
- 15:52Speaker 1: the most part, you know. So, but what are you
- 15:57Speaker 1: talking about? What do you need what the what is
- 16:00Speaker 1: the expectation you were talking about that you can't afford
- 16:03Speaker 1: cosmetically already four two five fours seven to seven, and
- 16:06Speaker 1: it's brought me a hey, roam, bring up the topic
- 16:08Speaker 1: of expectations. This is what somebody just sent me for me.
- 16:12Speaker 1: I cannot afford to have a cosmetic work done. But
- 16:16Speaker 1: these men, including my husband, want women who do that
- 16:19Speaker 1: to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful, but they're
- 16:22Speaker 1: creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those of us
- 16:25Speaker 1: who don't have that work done. Makes at least me
- 16:28Speaker 1: feel less than it. I'll never be good enough. I
- 16:32Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. You know, I don't
- 16:35Speaker 1: know what kind of cosmetic surgery that men want. There
- 16:37Speaker 1: are a lot of men out there that don't like
- 16:40Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery. For all the men out there, including your husband,
- 16:44Speaker 1: that say they want somebody who's enhanced cosmetically, there's just
- 16:49Speaker 1: as many men out there who don't. That's what somebody
- 16:53Speaker 1: just texted me already four two five four seven to seven.
- 16:57Speaker 1: A Rome. Not all men want that. My husband doesn't
- 17:00Speaker 1: like cosmetic surgery, at least that's what he tells me.
- 17:03Speaker 1: He likes all natural women. So yeah, so you it
- 17:07Speaker 1: depends on what you're talking about specifically, Okay, and I
- 17:11Speaker 1: would say this, maybe your husband's not for you. The
- 17:15Speaker 1: problem here's the thing. You know, they always that old
- 17:17Speaker 1: saying there's somebody for everybody, and there really is. If
- 17:20Speaker 1: you're one of these women that wants to or can't
- 17:24Speaker 1: afford to be cosmetically enhanced, there's a man out there
- 17:26Speaker 1: who wants you and it's still a good man. You
- 17:29Speaker 1: don't have to settle. That's the problem. Is a lot
- 17:31Speaker 1: of you women think you have to settle, you know,
- 17:34Speaker 1: because of I can't get bigger boobs, I don't have
- 17:37Speaker 1: a bigger butt. Well, you don't have to settle. There's
- 17:39Speaker 1: a man out there who's going to be just as
- 17:41Speaker 1: good as any man who wants that cosmetic surgery done
- 17:45Speaker 1: to a woman or his woman. There's going to be
- 17:47Speaker 1: just as many men out there that want that as don't.
- 17:51Speaker 1: So the topic is a I don't know, I'm not
- 17:55Speaker 1: really sure what you're what you're trying.
- 17:57Speaker 3: To get at.
- 17:57Speaker 1: And on top of that, if you her husband likes that,
- 18:02Speaker 1: what you said, your your husband, why isn't he paying
- 18:04Speaker 1: for it? If you're willing to do it and he
- 18:08Speaker 1: likes that. Why isn't he figuring out a way to
- 18:11Speaker 1: pay for that for you? Why do you when you
- 18:14Speaker 1: say you you can't afford it? What does that mean
- 18:16Speaker 1: you you can't afford it? I mean your husband doesn't
- 18:19Speaker 1: pay for anything like that? Or can he afford it?
- 18:22Speaker 1: A lot of questions here already four two five, four
- 18:25Speaker 1: seven to seven. But I would say that that woman
- 18:30Speaker 1: who just called, she said her husband doesn't likes all
- 18:32Speaker 1: natural there's just as many men out there who don't
- 18:35Speaker 1: like women who are cosmetically enhanced. Well, so somebody sent
- 18:38Speaker 1: me this, he says, Hey, brow mean bring up the
- 18:40Speaker 1: topic of expectations for me. I can't afford to have
- 18:42Speaker 1: cosmetic work done, but the's been, including my husband want
- 18:46Speaker 1: Women who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong,
- 18:49Speaker 1: they're beautiful, but they are creating an unrealistic standard of
- 18:53Speaker 1: beauty for those of us who don't have that work done.
- 18:57Speaker 1: Makes at least me feel less than and I'll never
- 19:00Speaker 1: be good enough. Well let me tell you that, and now,
- 19:05Speaker 1: well let me read this text matches A four two
- 19:06Speaker 1: five four seven to seven yo. Rome. The girl just
- 19:10Speaker 1: said that she feels she doesn't feel good about herself
- 19:14Speaker 1: because of cosmetic surgery that's on her. She needs to
- 19:18Speaker 1: build her self esteem, not try to get her self
- 19:22Speaker 1: esteem from her husband. I mean, that's a great point.
- 19:28Speaker 1: Why would you let some other woman's looks you know? Well?
- 19:34Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, maybe you need to be more have
- 19:37Speaker 1: a little more self esteem, a little more confidence in
- 19:39Speaker 1: yourself if you're gonna let somebody else's looks, you know,
- 19:43Speaker 1: determine how you feel about yourself. And then on top
- 19:46Speaker 1: of that, your husband must play a part in your
- 19:50Speaker 1: self esteem. Does he not tell you look good enough
- 19:54Speaker 1: or look good? I mean, how does that work? You
- 19:57Speaker 1: know what's funny? I was listening to this is this
- 19:59Speaker 1: is really gonna sound. I was in Vegas and I
- 20:02Speaker 1: was standing in this hallway and it was me and
- 20:04Speaker 1: another guy who was on a phone. I was just
- 20:06Speaker 1: standing there, having a drink, just in a hallway, and
- 20:09Speaker 1: this guy was walking by. He was on his phone,
- 20:11Speaker 1: kind of pacing back forse I heard him talking to
- 20:13Speaker 1: this woman and he goes and when he ended his
- 20:17Speaker 1: phone call, I guess she might have been meeting him.
- 20:20Speaker 1: Is what it sounded like. When he ended the phone call,
- 20:23Speaker 1: I heard him say this. He said, okay, be careful.
- 20:27Speaker 1: I'll see you in a minute, or i'll see you
- 20:29Speaker 1: in a little bit, and you look beautiful and then
- 20:34Speaker 1: he hung up. How many times did your husband tell
- 20:38Speaker 1: you you look beautiful? Alrighty? Four, two, five, four or
- 20:43Speaker 1: seven to seven? Hey, room, you're right on the money
- 20:46Speaker 1: with this, with this, so one we as men actually
- 20:50Speaker 1: don't like it when money, when money turns into plastic.
- 20:55Speaker 1: A lot of women think they need surgery because that's
- 20:58Speaker 1: all they see in the mainstream meet. Yeah, okay, I
- 21:03Speaker 1: get it, but let me ask you a question. Okay,
- 21:09Speaker 1: and I agree with what you're saying. And this is
- 21:11Speaker 1: more for the woman who said the expectations of men?
- 21:15Speaker 1: What did your man expect when you met? How long
- 21:17Speaker 1: have you been together? How old they're new? Is your relationship?
- 21:22Speaker 1: You know, because society has gone through different phases of
- 21:26Speaker 1: fake boobs were the thing, big butts were the thing,
- 21:29Speaker 1: Skinny waists were the thing, Thicker was the thing. So
- 21:32Speaker 1: depending on the on men and the era that they
- 21:37Speaker 1: grew up in will depend on the woman and what
- 21:41Speaker 1: features they find attractive. So maybe your husband doesn't find
- 21:49Speaker 1: you attractive, and why would you stay with him? Or
- 21:53Speaker 1: why would you accept that? But like I always said,
- 21:59Speaker 1: a woman in great shape, regardless of big boobs or
- 22:02Speaker 1: big butt or whatever, can compete with a woman who
- 22:05Speaker 1: has cosmetic surgery. Already four two to five four or
- 22:10Speaker 1: is seven seven? A lot of balls in the air
- 22:13Speaker 1: right now, A lot of stuff going on to this conversation.
- 22:16Speaker 1: I got this text mess just hey, Rome, let's see
- 22:18Speaker 1: here what you send me? Oh man, hold on, I
- 22:20Speaker 1: gotta pull it up, hey, room, bring up the topic
- 22:22Speaker 1: of expectations for me. I can afford to have cosmetic
- 22:25Speaker 1: work done, but these men, including my husband, want women
- 22:27Speaker 1: who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, They're beautiful,
- 22:31Speaker 1: but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those
- 22:34Speaker 1: of us who don't have that work done. Makes at
- 22:36Speaker 1: least me feel less than and I'll never be good enough.
- 22:40Speaker 1: Already four two five four or is seven to seven?
- 22:42Speaker 1: Good morning to hot what's going on? What's upa hey?
- 22:47Speaker 4: Hey, hey, so about this topic this morning, about this
- 22:51Speaker 4: cosmetic surgery. First of all, I am very grateful. I've
- 22:54Speaker 4: been with my husband for ten years, and on a
- 22:58Speaker 4: regular basis, I hear that I'm beautiful, I mean probably
- 23:02Speaker 4: three four times a day, Okay, and I'm very appreciable. Okay,
- 23:05Speaker 4: I would say thank you or you know sometimes Yeah, anyway,
- 23:10Speaker 4: if your man asked you to get some work done
- 23:13Speaker 4: on your body.
- 23:14Speaker 5: He really don't like you.
- 23:18Speaker 3: Real what did you fall in love with?
- 23:21Speaker 5: Bruh? Yeah?
- 23:23Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. Yeah, I mean, you're right, you're right.
- 23:27Speaker 4: Can we can? She ask him to get a bazillion ballment?
- 23:30Speaker 2: Uh?
- 23:33Speaker 1: My boy, I don't. I don't disagree with you. I
- 23:41Speaker 1: That's why I I do think that where is he
- 23:44Speaker 1: coming from? Because there are men out there that want
- 23:47Speaker 1: what you look like? There are men out there that
- 23:49Speaker 1: want plastic cosmetic, There are men out there that want
- 23:52Speaker 1: all natural. There have men out there want a girl
- 23:54Speaker 1: with small butts, big boobs or big butts small, But
- 23:57Speaker 1: I mean there's just us.
- 23:59Speaker 6: Women need to realize.
- 24:00Speaker 4: Listen, A natural woman listens a lot of time.
- 24:03Speaker 5: Just think about God is not gonna give them.
- 24:05Speaker 2: Sure, sure, most pretty pretty girls have no boobs in
- 24:09Speaker 2: no books.
- 24:10Speaker 5: Okay, you find a Holly Berry.
- 24:12Speaker 6: She wasn't working with nothing.
- 24:15Speaker 1: That you're true? That's right? Okay, Okay, oh.
- 24:18Speaker 6: Girl got big lips.
- 24:19Speaker 5: The girl got big. But some girls have to get
- 24:22Speaker 5: what you get.
- 24:27Speaker 1: Well, I would, I would argue. I would make the argument,
- 24:30Speaker 1: and this is where I'm gonna I would make the
- 24:32Speaker 1: argument that a woman in great shape who may not
- 24:35Speaker 1: have big boobs or a big butt, looks just as
- 24:38Speaker 1: good as some woman who's got cosmetic surgery done for
- 24:41Speaker 1: bigger boobs or I don't like cosmetic on butts, but
- 24:44Speaker 1: you know, for bigger boobs. I think that's where she's going.
- 24:47Speaker 1: But I think they look both both look attractive. It just,
- 24:51Speaker 1: you know, depends on what you're into.
- 24:53Speaker 7: Yeah.
- 24:53Speaker 4: Well, me and my husband had that conversation.
- 24:55Speaker 8: He was like, no, I don't want anything fake on
- 24:57Speaker 8: you because I'm not.
- 24:58Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not looking for no fake look.
- 25:00Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, I think there's a little bit. I
- 25:13Speaker 1: think the issue there's a bigger issue of her self esteem,
- 25:16Speaker 1: which is uh, I think falling. I think she needs
- 25:19Speaker 1: to really look at more so than not being able
- 25:21Speaker 1: to afford cosmetic surgery. Alright, you too, bit.
- 25:27Speaker 2: Oh.
- 25:27Speaker 1: I love the way she talks. She's got great opinions.
- 25:29Speaker 1: I got this text mess just hey Rome, let's see
- 25:32Speaker 1: here what she sent me. Hold on, I gotta pull
- 25:34Speaker 1: it up, hey room, bring up the topic of expectations
- 25:37Speaker 1: for me. I can afford to have cosmetic work done.
- 25:39Speaker 1: But these men, including my husband, want women who do
- 25:42Speaker 1: that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful, but
- 25:45Speaker 1: they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those of
- 25:48Speaker 1: us who don't have that work done. Makes at least
- 25:50Speaker 1: me feel less than and I'll never be good enough
- 25:53Speaker 1: already four to seven to seven. Hey, Rome, seem that
- 25:59Speaker 1: woman on this topic is wrong. These people with cosmetic
- 26:02Speaker 1: surgery don't look good. Well, that's where you're totally wrong,
- 26:06Speaker 1: and it's worse than drugs. They all end up looking
- 26:08Speaker 1: like Keith Richards when it's all said and that, No,
- 26:10Speaker 1: they don't. First of all, you're completely wrong about that. Okay,
- 26:14Speaker 1: there are a lot of women who get cosmetic surgery
- 26:18Speaker 1: and look amazing, and there's nothing wrong with cosmetic surgery.
- 26:23Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with doing that to improve yourself. The
- 26:26Speaker 1: problem that comes with this woman is she talks about
- 26:29Speaker 1: her self esteem, comparing herself to someone who has cosmetic surgery,
- 26:33Speaker 1: and she can't afford it, and her husband is not
- 26:36Speaker 1: helping her with that. Her husband's the same, you know.
- 26:40Speaker 1: It's just like, as she puts it, all these men,
- 26:44Speaker 1: these unrealistic expectations of what women should look like, and
- 26:47Speaker 1: her husband's one of them who likes it. But to
- 26:50Speaker 1: say that all women who get cosmetic surgery look horrible
- 26:54Speaker 1: is just playing out false. Okay, there's a lot of
- 26:58Speaker 1: women who get boob jobs and they great. There's a
- 27:00Speaker 1: lot of women who get you know, whatever they're doing
- 27:04Speaker 1: at you know, facelifts, tummy tucks, bit, you know, boob
- 27:09Speaker 1: list things like that, and they look amazing. I think
- 27:11Speaker 1: the butt is the hardest one. I think the only
- 27:13Speaker 1: one that really is the toughest surgery is the butt lift.
- 27:16Speaker 1: But the butt thing. Okay, so you're wrong about that.
- 27:22Speaker 1: But the bigger issue here is why is your husband
- 27:24Speaker 1: letting you feel making you feel less then or affecting
- 27:28Speaker 1: your self esteem because of cosmetic surgery. You know, somebody
- 27:33Speaker 1: will like you the way you are. You know, some
- 27:37Speaker 1: men like it both. You know, some men just like
- 27:41Speaker 1: beautiful women. Whether it's fake or real, it doesn't matter.
- 27:45Speaker 1: Some men have a preference, some men don't. You know,
- 27:48Speaker 1: your husband sounds like he has a preference and he's
- 27:52Speaker 1: you know, affecting your self esteem, which you're blaming the
- 27:56Speaker 1: women for setting an unrealistic version of you through cosmetic surgery.
- 28:02Speaker 1: I'm blaming your husband for not being there to build
- 28:05Speaker 1: your self esteem? Got this text mess? Just hey Rome,
- 28:08Speaker 1: let's see here what you send me? Oh man, hold on,
- 28:11Speaker 1: I gotta pull it up, hey room. Bring up the
- 28:13Speaker 1: topic of expectations for me. I can afford to have
- 28:15Speaker 1: cosmetic work done, but these men, including my husband, want
- 28:18Speaker 1: women who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong,
- 28:21Speaker 1: they're beautiful, but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty
- 28:24Speaker 1: for those of us who don't have that work done.
- 28:27Speaker 1: Makes at least me feel less than and I'll never
- 28:29Speaker 1: be good enough already four two five four? Or is
- 28:32Speaker 1: seven to seven? Good morning to hot? What's going on?
- 28:35Speaker 9: Hey Rome?
- 28:35Speaker 8: Who's to say the women that get this cosmetic surgery
- 28:38Speaker 8: weren't insecure and we're trying to please their men to
- 28:41Speaker 8: begin with? It just seems like a cycle to me.
- 28:44Speaker 8: Some women because they want to feel good and it's
- 28:47Speaker 8: about them, and some do it for like this woman
- 28:51Speaker 8: right here, for instance, she gets it to please to
- 28:54Speaker 8: die her husband or whomever she's with. Some of them
- 28:58Speaker 8: paid for it.
- 28:59Speaker 10: So the expectation on realistic expectations. Maybe the sometimes the
- 29:06Speaker 10: men themselves.
- 29:07Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't disagree with you. I
- 29:12Speaker 1: don't discribe you at all.
- 29:15Speaker 8: I don't know.
- 29:17Speaker 5: I think.
- 29:18Speaker 1: I just think, if we're going to really look at it,
- 29:20Speaker 1: who's thinking her feel insecure about herself, her or her husband,
- 29:25Speaker 1: or this unrealistic idea of beauty through cosmetic surgery? Who
- 29:29Speaker 1: would you put the who would you put the most
- 29:31Speaker 1: blame on?
- 29:32Speaker 9: Her husband?
- 29:33Speaker 1: Absolutely? Absolutely, you married.
- 29:36Speaker 8: He married you because there was something about you that
- 29:39Speaker 8: you liked.
- 29:42Speaker 11: Of a sudden, he wants to change.
- 29:46Speaker 8: Somebody else have. Maybe he has attracted me their change.
- 29:50Speaker 10: But this is where it goes back to Who's to
- 29:53Speaker 10: say the women that he is comparing her to didn't
- 29:58Speaker 10: have a husband or a man.
- 30:00Speaker 8: I was right, cam and they did.
- 30:01Speaker 10: It because of that?
- 30:03Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, So let me ask you this question.
- 30:06Speaker 1: Why I got you online? Somebody said, I can say
- 30:08Speaker 1: that eighty five percent of men think women with cosmetic
- 30:11Speaker 1: surgery they see them as a recreational use. Only most
- 30:15Speaker 1: men like the real thing. You believe that, No, I
- 30:19Speaker 1: think it's probably fifty to fifty men, you know.
- 30:22Speaker 3: All right?
- 30:24Speaker 1: All right, all right, thanks for calling. I appreciate it. Yeah,
- 30:27Speaker 1: I would say you're wrong. I would say you're completely wrong.
- 30:30Speaker 1: There's most men, you know like beauty. I mean, I
- 30:34Speaker 1: would say most men don't. I would say most men
- 30:38Speaker 1: they like either either or is what I would say.
- 30:41Speaker 1: So your percentage of eighty five percent think women who
- 30:44Speaker 1: have cosmetic surgery are only early recreational use and most
- 30:50Speaker 1: men like the real thing. I would say you're one
- 30:52Speaker 1: hundred percent wrong, because I think most men can go
- 30:57Speaker 1: either way. Hot's hot. They just like what's hot. Okay, Now,
- 31:01Speaker 1: maybe they prefer bigger boobs or bigger butts or whatever,
- 31:05Speaker 1: thinner wastes or whatever. But I think I think between
- 31:10Speaker 1: plastic surgery and real most men don't care. They just
- 31:14Speaker 1: like what they like, whether it's real or not. They
- 31:16Speaker 1: could care less already. Four two five, four, seven to seven.
- 31:20Speaker 1: I got this text mess just hey Rome, let's see
- 31:22Speaker 1: here what you send me? Oh man, hold on, I
- 31:24Speaker 1: gotta pull it up. Hey, room, bring up the topic
- 31:26Speaker 1: of expectations for me. I can afford to have cosmetic
- 31:29Speaker 1: work done, but these men, including my husband, want women
- 31:32Speaker 1: who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful,
- 31:35Speaker 1: but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those
- 31:38Speaker 1: of us who don't have that work done makes at
- 31:40Speaker 1: least me feel less than and I'll never be good
- 31:43Speaker 1: enough already four two five four seven to seven yo Rome.
- 31:47Speaker 1: Most women that get cosmetic procedures done are in some
- 31:51Speaker 1: way insecure of themselves, so that ladies shouldn't feel less.
- 31:55Speaker 1: I love fake boobs, but every other procedure should look
- 31:58Speaker 1: should look as natural possible, not like most women in
- 32:02Speaker 1: Beggersfield that have big droopy butts with chicken legs. Well,
- 32:08Speaker 1: I believe if we talk about cosmetic surgery right, that
- 32:13Speaker 1: the butt is the worst one to get. It's the
- 32:15Speaker 1: one that you don't have much control over, and it
- 32:18Speaker 1: could and it never works. So but to say that
- 32:24Speaker 1: most women who get cosmetic surgery are insecure in themselves
- 32:28Speaker 1: anyways or feel less, maybe maybe that's why they get
- 32:33Speaker 1: it done, or maybe they want to look better. First,
- 32:37Speaker 1: do you think every woman that wants to look better
- 32:39Speaker 1: is insecure? Maybe a room? If her husband wants her
- 32:43Speaker 1: to have that work done, then he needs to pay
- 32:45Speaker 1: for it. If he can't, then he needs to shut
- 32:48Speaker 1: the hell up and make her feel beautiful. Well, but
- 32:54Speaker 1: does she want the cosmetic surgery be it sounds to
- 32:58Speaker 1: me in the text message she wants to cosmetic surgery
- 33:01Speaker 1: to please her husband. So maybe you're right, maybe he
- 33:05Speaker 1: does need to pay for it. Why isn't he That
- 33:09Speaker 1: is a good point, all right, eight four two five
- 33:12Speaker 1: four seven seven. But you know, I'm gonna go back
- 33:16Speaker 1: to what I saw the other day. This guy on
- 33:18Speaker 1: the phone told his I don't know if his wife
- 33:20Speaker 1: girlfriend told her she was beautiful before he got off
- 33:25Speaker 1: the phone, which is kind of how often do you
- 33:28Speaker 1: hear that? How often do you hear somebody? You hear?
- 33:31Speaker 1: Guys are all the time say I love you, you know,
- 33:34Speaker 1: but you never hear I never. But I will say this,
- 33:39Speaker 1: It did seem like when he said that, there was
- 33:42Speaker 1: an awkward pause in the conversation, like it seemed awkward
- 33:48Speaker 1: for him to say that to her. It didn't seem
- 33:51Speaker 1: like she it didn't seem like she appreciated what he said.
- 33:55Speaker 1: It seemed awkward for some reason. Now, maybe that was
- 33:57Speaker 1: just me because I don't hear that a lot in conversations,
- 34:01Speaker 1: But yeah, it's something. It's something already four four seven
- 34:06Speaker 1: to seven. We got this text mess just Hey, Rome,
- 34:09Speaker 1: let's see here what you send me? Hold on, I
- 34:12Speaker 1: gotta pull it up, hey, room, bring up the topic
- 34:14Speaker 1: of expectations for me. I can afford to have cosmetic
- 34:16Speaker 1: work done, but these men, including my husband, want women
- 34:19Speaker 1: who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful,
- 34:22Speaker 1: but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those
- 34:25Speaker 1: of us who don't have that work done. Makes at
- 34:28Speaker 1: least me feel less than and I'll never be good enough.
- 34:31Speaker 1: Already four? Two to five four? Or is seven to seven?
- 34:33Speaker 1: Good morning? Hot? What's going on?
- 34:35Speaker 8: Okay?
- 34:36Speaker 11: No one's looking at the picture by the way this morning.
- 34:38Speaker 1: That's well, sorry, good morning.
- 34:41Speaker 9: No one's looking at the whole picture here, Romeo.
- 34:43Speaker 1: Okay, what's up?
- 34:44Speaker 11: There's a million men out in this world and a
- 34:48Speaker 11: billion women.
- 34:48Speaker 5: I mean, there's just so many.
- 34:50Speaker 11: People you can be with.
- 34:51Speaker 10: Why would you sit there and hear yourself being tortured every.
- 34:56Speaker 9: Day about how a man feels about someone that had
- 34:59Speaker 9: work on them. I mean, good for them, but if.
- 35:02Speaker 11: He isn't doing his job where you feel insecure and
- 35:06Speaker 11: now you're you know, texting Romeo and.
- 35:08Speaker 5: Getting people depend.
- 35:13Speaker 6: Like saying it in a bad way. I'm saying it
- 35:15Speaker 6: like in a mental way, like if.
- 35:18Speaker 5: You're just you just don't really know how to answer
- 35:20Speaker 5: your own question.
- 35:22Speaker 11: I feel like you shouldn't get classic surgery be mentally
- 35:27Speaker 11: ye're doing it for other reasons.
- 35:30Speaker 1: The real, the real problem in this conversation is why
- 35:34Speaker 1: is she blaming women who get cosmetic surgery on her
- 35:39Speaker 1: insecurities as opposed to blaming her husband for her insecurities exactly?
- 35:45Speaker 11: And she should flip the script and have him have
- 35:47Speaker 11: seenis surgery and then they'll all be happy.
- 35:51Speaker 1: Well, what if he's already got a good one?
- 35:53Speaker 5: Well, you know, I don't know.
- 35:56Speaker 3: I mean there's always better.
- 36:03Speaker 8: You might find up tearing me out in paper.
- 36:10Speaker 1: Oh you wait, lie, you are not lie?
- 36:14Speaker 8: Well I speak the truth?
- 36:16Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you too. Right, there's always a better,
- 36:21Speaker 1: you know what out there? Always somebody's got a better.
- 36:24Speaker 3: What I got?
- 36:26Speaker 1: This text? Mess? Just hey Rome, let's see here what
- 36:29Speaker 1: you send me? Oh, hold on, I gotta pull it up,
- 36:31Speaker 1: Hey Rome, bring up the topic of expectations for me.
- 36:34Speaker 1: I can afford to have cosmetic work done, but these men,
- 36:36Speaker 1: including my husband, want women who do that to themselves.
- 36:39Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful, but they're creating an
- 36:42Speaker 1: unrealistic standard of beauty for those of us who don't
- 36:45Speaker 1: have that work done makes at least me feel less
- 36:48Speaker 1: than and I'll never be good enough already four two
- 36:51Speaker 1: four seven to seven. Fake boobs rome, Okay, there's nothing
- 36:54Speaker 1: wrong with fake boobs, nothing wrong with real boobs, nothing
- 36:56Speaker 1: wrong with fake boobs. Okay, Hey, you know Roman regards
- 37:00Speaker 1: yards to the diminishment of the beauty standard. I absolutely
- 37:05Speaker 1: love my girlfriend's fake boobs. Her mom gifted the boobs
- 37:09Speaker 1: enhancement to her, and what should I.
- 37:13Speaker 3: To her?
- 37:14Speaker 1: And what I should be doing is thinking her mom. Okay, Look,
- 37:18Speaker 1: the bottom line is with this conversation is enhancements. All right,
- 37:22Speaker 1: If you want to enhance something, there's nothing wrong with that. Enhancements,
- 37:26Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery. There are a lot of people that look
- 37:28Speaker 1: amazing when they get it done. Okay. Maybe somebody doesn't
- 37:32Speaker 1: like having small booves, they want bigger boobs. Maybe somebody
- 37:35Speaker 1: wants has big boobs and they want smaller boobs. I mean,
- 37:37Speaker 1: it is, whatever it is, whatever makes you feel good
- 37:40Speaker 1: is what you're going to do. The problem with this conversation,
- 37:45Speaker 1: where you're missing is this woman's self esteem is based
- 37:51Speaker 1: on her husband's disregard for her feelings. It's not cosmetic
- 37:58Speaker 1: surgery's fault. It's out these women who can afford to
- 38:01Speaker 1: get a dune's fault that your standard of beauty is
- 38:05Speaker 1: being diminished. It's your husband's fault. He's the one that's
- 38:09Speaker 1: making you feel bad. He's the one that's making you
- 38:11Speaker 1: feel insecure, like you're not good enough already four two
- 38:15Speaker 1: four seven to seven. So once you start putting blame
- 38:20Speaker 1: in the right place, maybe you will feel better about yourself.
- 38:23Speaker 1: Good morning to know what's going on the broom day about.
- 38:27Speaker 8: This hold back trying to do your stuff.
- 38:29Speaker 11: Man, Like, I feel like some girls that some girls
- 38:32Speaker 11: that do get it, I feel like theyture you secure, but.
- 38:35Speaker 5: At the same time.
- 38:36Speaker 3: They want that attention.
- 38:38Speaker 2: You know.
- 38:39Speaker 1: Maybe maybe that's what it is. Maybe they want to
- 38:42Speaker 1: look better in their clothes. Maybe they want to Maybe
- 38:44Speaker 1: you're right, I I uh, maybe that's it.
- 38:49Speaker 6: And and the fact that my girl, she tells me
- 38:51Speaker 6: she wants together, but you do, wanted to get it
- 38:53Speaker 6: way before she got with me, and I was telling her, dude,
- 38:56Speaker 6: you don't want me to find you're already good you know.
- 38:58Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it's trying hold on, hold on, Okay, Well,
- 39:05Speaker 1: maybe she wants to look better in some ways, you know,
- 39:08Speaker 1: why not.
- 39:09Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's just how reality.
- 39:13Speaker 3: Now, girls didna bel just to look good, you know,
- 39:17Speaker 3: just to show.
- 39:18Speaker 5: If they want that attention.
- 39:19Speaker 1: Maybe maybe maybe you're right, I mean there's and yeah,
- 39:27Speaker 1: I guess I could see you know, I guess I
- 39:30Speaker 1: could see it. It's a it's a it's a simple
- 39:35Speaker 1: topic for her for what she's saying, because she's saying
- 39:39Speaker 1: that she feels insecure and she's blaming these women who
- 39:42Speaker 1: get plastic surgery, and the reality is her husband is
- 39:44Speaker 1: the one making her feel insecure. So that's very simple.
- 39:48Speaker 1: The conversation as a whole of plastic surgery and cosmetic
- 39:52Speaker 1: surgery is a little more complicated. So you know, all right,
- 40:00Speaker 1: thanks for calling.
- 40:01Speaker 3: You do so.
- 40:03Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard to argue with any woman who
- 40:08Speaker 1: gets plastic surgery to say she didn't do it because
- 40:12Speaker 1: she was insecure or she wasn't she had to be
- 40:14Speaker 1: insecure about something to get cosmetic surgery, right, maybe all right,
- 40:23Speaker 1: Good morning, Romeo. Oh it's Paulina. Hey, Paulina. I'm just
- 40:27Speaker 1: gonna say this this men that men objectify women only
- 40:32Speaker 1: because they ejectify themselves. First, no one has a gun
- 40:36Speaker 1: to these women's head, forcing them to get plastic surgery
- 40:39Speaker 1: to get their boobs and ask done. They do it
- 40:42Speaker 1: on their own, whether a man pays for it or not.
- 40:46Speaker 1: Just like women compare men to their men and don't
- 40:51Speaker 1: say anything to anyone but friends and family. Men do
- 40:54Speaker 1: the same thing. They compare women to other women. However
- 40:57Speaker 1: they say it to their women's face. Uh, they say
- 41:00Speaker 1: it to their women's face. It's up to the woman
- 41:03Speaker 1: to work on herself and her insecurities. Okay, all right, Paulina, worry?
- 41:11Speaker 1: How what's going on?
- 41:13Speaker 5: Ronald An?
- 41:14Speaker 3: What's up?
- 41:14Speaker 2: What man?
- 41:16Speaker 3: Hey about the shop to stay?
- 41:17Speaker 5: There's nothing wrong with enhancements, you know.
- 41:21Speaker 11: Whatever, whatever makes.
- 41:23Speaker 4: Them happy, their body, their choice.
- 41:25Speaker 3: Okay, both ways.
- 41:26Speaker 5: You got guys out there knowing stuff to their body as.
- 41:29Speaker 3: Well, so it works both ways.
- 41:31Speaker 1: Whatever makes you feel good, whatever helps them feel a
- 41:34Speaker 1: certain way, or you know.
- 41:36Speaker 3: Whatever the case may be.
- 41:37Speaker 8: Everyone can't afford it, so everyone has to do something different.
- 41:40Speaker 3: But you know, at the end of the day, happing it.
- 41:42Speaker 1: Is what matters, right, Sure, Yeah, I aren't to scare you.
- 41:47Speaker 5: I mean, it's it's I don't I don't I don't
- 41:50Speaker 5: know what else.
- 41:50Speaker 8: I mean, I don't see what the issue is well.
- 41:52Speaker 1: The issue is her insecurities about it. The issue is
- 41:55Speaker 1: the issue has nothing to do with plastic surgery or
- 41:57Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery. It has to do with her husband making
- 42:00Speaker 1: her feel insecure by talking about how much better women
- 42:04Speaker 1: look with plastic surgery. That's the issue. It's not this
- 42:09Speaker 1: is not it. This is not a real conversation about
- 42:12Speaker 1: plastic surgery or cosmetic surgery. Because you're right, you want
- 42:16Speaker 1: you want to get it, makes you feel good, makes
- 42:18Speaker 1: you look better, that's nothing wrong with it. So that's
- 42:20Speaker 1: what it comes down to.
- 42:24Speaker 5: It's his fault for making her feel that way, exactly.
- 42:26Speaker 1: It's his fault for making her feel like she's not
- 42:29Speaker 1: good enough, not plastic surgery's.
- 42:32Speaker 3: Fault, exactly.
- 42:35Speaker 1: That's down talk to you. I mean, that's really what
- 42:39Speaker 1: this conversation comes down to. Cosmetic surgery is great. A
- 42:43Speaker 1: lot of women get it. They look amazing. A lot
- 42:46Speaker 1: of women don't get it. They look amazing, Okay, But
- 42:49Speaker 1: the conversation has to do with her husband making her
- 42:52Speaker 1: feel less than I got this text, Messa. Just hey room,
- 42:55Speaker 1: let's see here what you send me. Oh hold on,
- 42:57Speaker 1: I gotta pull it up, hey room, bring up the
- 42:59Speaker 1: topic expectations for me. I can afford to have cosmetic
- 43:02Speaker 1: work done, but these men, including my husband, want women
- 43:05Speaker 1: who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong, they're beautiful,
- 43:08Speaker 1: but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty for those
- 43:11Speaker 1: of us who don't have that work done. Makes at
- 43:13Speaker 1: least me feel less than and I'll never be good enough.
- 43:17Speaker 1: Already four two five four, or is seven to seven?
- 43:19Speaker 1: Good morning?
- 43:20Speaker 10: Hot?
- 43:20Speaker 1: What's going on?
- 43:22Speaker 5: Hey, romo? I'm gonna go through a couple of things.
- 43:24Speaker 8: About me personally really quick.
- 43:26Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead.
- 43:27Speaker 2: So I was at two hundred and forty pounds right
- 43:30Speaker 2: now I'm at a solid one seventy five.
- 43:32Speaker 5: Right, I've lost some weight. I have blue skin like
- 43:34Speaker 5: my tummy, right, Hey, got whatever?
- 43:37Speaker 10: So I want to get you know, skin remove.
- 43:40Speaker 5: A surgery just to feel better about myself. I feel
- 43:42Speaker 5: great right now, Don't get me wrong. I'm confident. I
- 43:45Speaker 5: feel so good. Okay, but it's gonna make it better,
- 43:48Speaker 5: right yep.
- 43:48Speaker 6: Well, I have been with my dude for about a
- 43:52Speaker 6: little over you're.
- 43:53Speaker 5: Already well him, Okay, I have I'm upstairs, but I
- 44:01Speaker 5: have a lot in my trunk, right, so that's just me. Well,
- 44:05Speaker 5: I get with him and whatever a long time ago.
- 44:07Speaker 5: We're looking at his exes whatever, and I'm like, okay,
- 44:10Speaker 5: well what I've noticed is that they all have huge boobs, right,
- 44:15Speaker 5: no booty. And I'm like, okay, so he's a boob guy.
- 44:18Speaker 5: She never brings it up. Whatever. So once I brought up, okay,
- 44:21Speaker 5: I'm going to get my you know, my skinny l
- 44:23Speaker 5: with surgery, He's like, yeah, go for it. Are you
- 44:25Speaker 5: going to get your boob done too?
- 44:27Speaker 2: Immediately made me feel like oh okay, and so I
- 44:31Speaker 2: was like, okay, so I brought it up.
- 44:33Speaker 5: So you're a boob guy, right. He was like, oh no, no, no,
- 44:35Speaker 5: I like booty. Booty is my thing. And I said not.
- 44:38Speaker 2: Really look at your axes, I said, because all your
- 44:41Speaker 2: exes have big old boobs, you know.
- 44:44Speaker 5: And he was like yeah, but I don't like booty.
- 44:46Speaker 2: I mean, I don't like, I.
- 44:47Speaker 5: Don't like boob. Might see his booty. I've just I've
- 44:50Speaker 5: never been able to be with the girl with a
- 44:52Speaker 5: big butt. And I'm like, boom, okay, but now you're
- 44:55Speaker 5: telling me that I need to go up inside when
- 44:57Speaker 5: I go get my surgery.
- 44:59Speaker 1: This question, let me ask you. This question is there
- 45:02Speaker 1: anything wrong with him asking me that.
- 45:05Speaker 8: Asking me to get a bigger sign up serious?
- 45:07Speaker 2: Yeah, no, because that's what he prefers, I guess, even
- 45:13Speaker 2: though he denies it, but it did in that moment
- 45:16Speaker 2: make me feel like like that he doesn't like it.
- 45:19Speaker 1: The reason the reason I say that is because somebody
- 45:22Speaker 1: texted me and said, Romeo, what's wrong with a woman
- 45:25Speaker 1: doing something for their man to make them more attractive?
- 45:30Speaker 1: And that why I would say, is that an option
- 45:33Speaker 1: for you cosmetically because your man will find you more
- 45:37Speaker 1: attractive now because of that?
- 45:41Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I can see myself doing it, not
- 45:44Speaker 2: like crazy like his ex girlfriends, but yes, to get
- 45:48Speaker 2: a little like maybe like a tough size a couple
- 45:51Speaker 2: and a half more.
- 45:52Speaker 6: Yes, I'll do it.
- 45:53Speaker 10: But I mean I'm I'm comfortable with how I am
- 45:56Speaker 10: right now.
- 45:56Speaker 7: But I mean, if that's what he likes, and well,
- 45:59Speaker 7: the reason I say the reason I say that is
- 46:01Speaker 7: because there are a lot of women listening right now
- 46:04Speaker 7: that would say you should never have to get cosmetic
- 46:07Speaker 7: surgery for your man.
- 46:08Speaker 1: He didn't he liked you before cosmetic surgery, so you
- 46:11Speaker 1: should never go In the same way that we would say, well,
- 46:15Speaker 1: what if your man comes and says, you need to
- 46:16Speaker 1: lose some weight to be more attractive. Should you do that?
- 46:19Speaker 1: You know a lot of people believe you're just supposed
- 46:22Speaker 1: to love somebody or be attracted to somebody the way
- 46:25Speaker 1: they are because you love them.
- 46:27Speaker 5: But right, But that's the thing though. What if they
- 46:29Speaker 5: got together and she was smaller? You know, he blew up? Okay,
- 46:33Speaker 5: well she didn't. He didn't.
- 46:34Speaker 8: He wasn't attracted to you, big girl, like he was
- 46:36Speaker 8: attracted to you.
- 46:37Speaker 1: So he got to you.
- 46:38Speaker 5: You want me to get back to Yeah, how you
- 46:41Speaker 5: used to be. There's nothing wrong with that because that's
- 46:43Speaker 5: what he.
- 46:43Speaker 1: Fell so he got he got with you with small
- 46:46Speaker 1: big Okay, yeah.
- 46:48Speaker 5: But if he fell off with too big, then yeah.
- 46:50Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know.
- 46:51Speaker 6: But for me, the booth thing, I'll do it.
- 46:55Speaker 5: I don't get so when you're gonna get you just
- 46:57Speaker 5: made me feel some type of way when he asked
- 46:59Speaker 5: me the first time.
- 46:59Speaker 1: So when are you going to get a boob job?
- 47:02Speaker 3: Hopefully tomorrow?
- 47:03Speaker 1: No, So I got this text bass just hey, Rome,
- 47:08Speaker 1: let's see here what you send me? Oh, hold on,
- 47:10Speaker 1: I gotta pull it up. Hey, room. Bring up the
- 47:12Speaker 1: topic of expectations for me. I can afford to have
- 47:15Speaker 1: cosmetic work done, but these men, including my husband, want
- 47:17Speaker 1: women who do that to themselves. Don't get me wrong,
- 47:20Speaker 1: they're beautiful, but they're creating an unrealistic standard of beauty
- 47:23Speaker 1: for those of us who don't have that work done.
- 47:26Speaker 1: Makes at least me feel less than and I'll never
- 47:29Speaker 1: be good enough. Already four two five four, or is
- 47:31Speaker 1: seven to seven? Good morning? Hot? What's going on?
- 47:34Speaker 11: I think it's really crazy when the woman has done
- 47:37Speaker 11: plastic surgery or whatever, but then they end up having
- 47:41Speaker 11: kids and the kids are wondering when their foods are
- 47:45Speaker 11: going to come in. The mom is like, uh, that's
- 47:48Speaker 11: like never gonna happen, or the daughter's like wondering why
- 47:52Speaker 11: her knows are different than her mom, And that's what happens.
- 47:55Speaker 11: I have no friends who's gotten lots of plastic surgery
- 47:59Speaker 11: and their kids are like, why.
- 48:00Speaker 5: Don't I look like mommy?
- 48:02Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's hilarious.
- 48:04Speaker 8: They're so true, you know.
- 48:06Speaker 11: I think it really starts from the very beginning, and
- 48:08Speaker 11: that's why they end up using men to make them
- 48:11Speaker 11: feel uncomfortable, because they're already uncomfortable because they don't look
- 48:14Speaker 11: like their moms become evolved, where restroom times have been around.
- 48:18Speaker 8: For you know, since the eighties.
- 48:20Speaker 1: Yeah, so most people have well, I don't want.
- 48:23Speaker 11: To say like most, but a lot of people have them.
- 48:26Speaker 11: So a lot of people are growing up with parents
- 48:29Speaker 11: who have classic surgery and they have no idea that
- 48:31Speaker 11: they're never going to look like they're on That's great.
- 48:35Speaker 1: That's a great point. I can't believe you came up
- 48:38Speaker 1: with that.
- 48:39Speaker 5: It's true.
- 48:41Speaker 11: This little girl looking at her mom and looking at
- 48:43Speaker 11: herself in the mirror, she's like three, looking at her like,
- 48:46Speaker 11: you really mess up your kids.
- 48:47Speaker 1: Yeah, I would. I'm not disagree with that. There's a
- 48:49Speaker 1: great points. I know I never thought about that.
- 48:54Speaker 11: Kardashians their kids to come look completely.
- 48:58Speaker 1: Well, they look completely than when they're young. Hey, that's
- 49:02Speaker 1: a great point. I appreciate the phone call. That's hilarious.
- 49:10Speaker 1: Seven it's seven. Let me get to some of these
- 49:13Speaker 1: text messages. Hey, Rome, good morning. I have a saying
- 49:16Speaker 1: about fake boobs. If you can touch them, they're real.
- 49:20Speaker 1: That's pretty buddy. Hey, Roan, what's the problem with fixing
- 49:23Speaker 1: something you're insecure about? No one questions when someone decides
- 49:26Speaker 1: to get braces or fix their teeth, or get a
- 49:28Speaker 1: better job or yeah yeah, I can't argue with that comment.
- 49:34Speaker 1: Hey room, it's Paulina again. This just goes to show
- 49:37Speaker 1: men can't have standards. Paulina, you always do this. You're right,
- 49:47Speaker 1: She's kind of right. All right, Hey Rome, I'm just
- 49:50Speaker 1: tuning in.
- 49:50Speaker 3: What a jerk.
- 49:51Speaker 1: It's his fault for making her feel like that's that. Now.
- 49:55Speaker 1: I'm a booty loving kind of guy, and my fiance
- 49:58Speaker 1: knows that she feel that she needs a b b
- 50:01Speaker 1: L and I wouldn't want that for her. I think
- 50:04Speaker 1: she is beautiful the way she is. I love her
- 50:06Speaker 1: little booty.
- 50:09Speaker 3: Well.
- 50:09Speaker 1: I don't know, but BBL is the best cosmetic surgery.
- 50:12Speaker 1: I don't think those go I don't think those go well.
- 50:14Speaker 1: Overall already four two four, seven to seven, what's going on?
- 50:19Speaker 5: I don't know. I'm gonna get my boobs done. It's
- 50:21Speaker 5: gonna be for me.
- 50:28Speaker 6: It's gonna be for me because I hate We're gonna fral.
- 50:34Speaker 5: True girls who have their booths done.
- 50:36Speaker 6: They don't even wear frall.
- 50:38Speaker 1: You gotta do what you gotta do, whatever makes you
- 50:40Speaker 1: feel better.
- 50:42Speaker 8: How does my husband's faulty look like this?
- 50:44Speaker 1: I mean, I rest my.
- 50:45Speaker 2: Three kids plus him.
- 50:54Speaker 1: That's where's already four two five, four seven to seven.
- 51:00Speaker 1: Sounds like she needs a new man who makes her
- 51:03Speaker 1: feel loved, as she should only get plastic surgery for herself,
- 51:07Speaker 1: not for him. Ain't nothing wrong with plastic surgery, but
- 51:10Speaker 1: get it because you want it, not someone else. She'll
- 51:13Speaker 1: regret it. Also, there's nothing wrong with your man asking
- 51:16Speaker 1: you to get plastic surgery, but their approach needs to
- 51:19Speaker 1: be nice and loving. Men can be so straightforward that
- 51:23Speaker 1: it comes off rude and mean. You just kind of
- 51:27Speaker 1: contradicted yourself, though, that was the same person that said
- 51:29Speaker 1: the same text two different text messages. You said that
- 51:32Speaker 1: women should get plastic surgery for themselves, not for a man,
- 51:34Speaker 1: but there's nothing wrong with it as long as they're
- 51:36Speaker 1: nice when they ask you.
- 51:39Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 51:39Speaker 1: That's a whole nother conversation of how much should you
- 51:42Speaker 1: do for your partner? Why is it wrong for your
- 51:47Speaker 1: husband to ask you to get bigger boobs? But it's
- 51:50Speaker 1: not wrong for you to ask him to dress a
- 51:53Speaker 1: certain way? Or you know, no, one's a surgery one's not. Hey, room,
- 51:58Speaker 1: I got a question, so girl, uhh, we'll get to
- 52:01Speaker 1: this in a minute. That's something we've got to talk
- 52:03Speaker 1: about later come morning. How it's going on.
- 52:05Speaker 6: Ye, I'm in the same boat with that lady. Bro
- 52:08Speaker 6: what's up except for the boot drop stuff? But you know,
- 52:13Speaker 6: I'm my wife.
- 52:14Speaker 5: You know she loves me.
- 52:16Speaker 6: I know she loves me.
- 52:18Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure she would love.
- 52:19Speaker 6: Me if I was six feet you know what I mean, Oh,
- 52:21Speaker 6: taller and unfortunately connects his old thirdery on me or
- 52:29Speaker 6: ladies like that, you know what I mean. So you're
- 52:32Speaker 6: gonna have to deal with it.
- 52:34Speaker 9: I mean, I'm not sure.
- 52:36Speaker 6: I'm fine. I'm five six, but.
- 52:39Speaker 1: Oh you're short. Hey, you're short? Okay, five six?
- 52:42Speaker 6: Never mind, man, I got damn sure.
- 52:43Speaker 1: Hey, but she married you short, so she should love you.
- 52:45Speaker 5: Sure?
- 52:50Speaker 1: Now, what's going on talking about that?
- 52:53Speaker 10: Yeah?
- 52:53Speaker 1: Whatever?
- 52:55Speaker 3: Oh, I'm right here with my buddy. Well work, okay
- 52:57Speaker 3: to the radio, right, Okay, have one opinion. I have
- 53:01Speaker 3: one opinion. Okay, mine is I really don't. I don't
- 53:05Speaker 3: function with it, you know, I don't know. Just something
- 53:09Speaker 3: about like when you play with the little toy it
- 53:12Speaker 3: feels so fake. If it was like you're gonna grab
- 53:15Speaker 3: something that's gonna pop.
- 53:17Speaker 1: Well, when's the last time you actually felt plastic surgery.
- 53:20Speaker 1: Things have changed. It's a lot better now than it
- 53:23Speaker 1: was thirty years ago.
- 53:25Speaker 3: But like, let's say you're you're, you're in the moment, right,
- 53:27Speaker 3: you know, you go to grab a handful or something
- 53:30Speaker 3: made a few things shifting around. But my buddy, my
- 53:34Speaker 3: buddy said he don't care. No, he take it from
- 53:39Speaker 3: a full time up.
- 53:40Speaker 2: You know.
- 53:42Speaker 3: I told him, you know, I was like, if I
- 53:43Speaker 3: have a choice, Okay, if I have a choice, I'm
- 53:46Speaker 3: a I'm a you know, I'm a stick to a
- 53:48Speaker 3: little natural one.
- 53:49Speaker 1: Okay, I mean there's nothing wrong with that. You can
- 53:51Speaker 1: find natural, you can find plastic either one not just
- 53:54Speaker 1: yeah okay, all right, man, thanks already for you or
- 54:01Speaker 1: seven to seven everyone Rome, everyone for somebody. All these
- 54:07Speaker 1: females are for the internet. Uh, I don't know. The
- 54:15Speaker 1: internet has brong brought out the whore, I mean the
- 54:19Speaker 1: inner hore in. Yeah, the Internet will bring out the
- 54:22Speaker 1: inner hore in anybody, I guess, because it really is.
- 54:25Speaker 1: That's why we say hose are always gonna win. They
- 54:28Speaker 1: always they say that, Uh what do they say something
- 54:33Speaker 1: about something when there's a big whatever, When the end,
- 54:37Speaker 1: when the incomes, the hose will still still be there.
- 54:41Speaker 1: Uh yeah, so I guess just look at the internet,
- 54:45Speaker 1: all right, yeah, uh yeah, Hey Rome, my wife got
- 54:51Speaker 1: a boob job because she wanted to because after having
- 54:54Speaker 1: our kids, they were a bit saggy. But it's a
- 54:57Speaker 1: win win because now I enjoy them the most, that's funny.
- 55:05Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 55:05Speaker 1: So I don't know.
- 55:06Speaker 9: I think.
- 55:08Speaker 1: When it comes to cosmetic surgery, I think the people
- 55:11Speaker 1: that hate the most are the ones that can't afford it,
- 55:13Speaker 1: you know, kind of like the woman was saying, not
- 55:15Speaker 1: everybody can afford it, and it kind of you know,
- 55:18Speaker 1: upsets her a room. The husband is expressing what he wants.
- 55:22Speaker 1: Why is that bad? If they get divorce, she should
- 55:27Speaker 1: be losing weight and getting her lips done tomorrow. A
- 55:31Speaker 1: woman can say her husband needs to lose weight and wait.
- 55:35Speaker 1: A woman can say her husband needs to lose weight
- 55:38Speaker 1: or needs to make more money, and that's fine. But
- 55:40Speaker 1: as soon as a man says something about the appearance
- 55:44Speaker 1: he prefers he's a dirt bag. That is one hundred
- 55:47Speaker 1: percent true. And that's why, you guys, within reason, don't
- 55:52Speaker 1: be it. Don't be you know, don't say that in
- 55:54Speaker 1: in a mean aggressive way. But if you want your wife,
- 55:58Speaker 1: or you know your girlfriend a certain way, then you
- 56:05Speaker 1: should be able to say that, right, especially if they
- 56:08Speaker 1: were that way to begin with. But hey, women could
- 56:11Speaker 1: do it all day long. But that but that's only
- 56:15Speaker 1: because you guys accept it. He's trying to stay in
- 56:17Speaker 1: a relationship. He's trying not to cheat. These ladies need
- 56:20Speaker 1: to put their feelings to the side and give the
- 56:23Speaker 1: man that proble that provides for them what they want.
- 56:26Speaker 1: No questions asked, well, I understand what you're saying. I
- 56:32Speaker 1: wouldn't necessarily say it is those words, But yeah, why
- 56:36Speaker 1: wouldn't you want to? You know, a woman has no
- 56:41Speaker 1: problem telling her husband to cut his hair a certain way,
- 56:44Speaker 1: wear these clothes look like this for me?
- 56:47Speaker 3: You know why?
- 56:48Speaker 1: Why don't you look better for me? But the minute
- 56:50Speaker 1: you tell a woman that, or your wife that, you're
- 56:53Speaker 1: absolutely right, you're being a jackass, you're a dirt bag.
- 56:58Speaker 1: You're absolutely right. But here's what I'm gonna say to
- 57:02Speaker 1: that is this, You guys don't need to accept it. Okay,
- 57:07Speaker 1: you guys believe for some reason that you have to
- 57:11Speaker 1: accept however a woman treats you and you don't. Because
- 57:16Speaker 1: there's a woman out there who won't treat you that
- 57:18Speaker 1: way and will have everything that you want. You know,
- 57:23Speaker 1: it works both ways. So there's no reason for you
- 57:27Speaker 1: to stay in a relationship where you're not getting what
- 57:30Speaker 1: you want to the extent that she just says no,
- 57:33Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it, and you're wrong for asking
- 57:36Speaker 1: me to. Okay, all right, I mean, but you should
- 57:42Speaker 1: have a reasonable conversation about it. You shouldn't just start
- 57:45Speaker 1: throwing out ultimatums. You should have a reasonable conversation. And
- 57:49Speaker 1: if it's not gonna work, it's not gonna work. Do
- 57:51Speaker 1: you send me a rom Imperfections make a woman hot? Well,
- 57:58Speaker 1: I mean okay, I mean everybody likes what they want,
- 58:03Speaker 1: so I get it. Sure that's what you like. Hey,
- 58:07Speaker 1: good morning Rome or good morning Rome. Yeah, right to
- 58:09Speaker 1: Rob here. The guys that like that need to remember
- 58:13Speaker 1: that they have to maintain all that because I know
- 58:16Speaker 1: ladies who had cosmetic surgery at once. Uh, at once
- 58:19Speaker 1: it looked good, but now it's uh, it's not uh
- 58:25Speaker 1: it first looked uh, it first looks saggy, but maybe
- 58:28Speaker 1: it's who does it. Yeah, I don't know what the
- 58:32Speaker 1: uptake or what the upkeep is on plastic surgery. So
- 58:35Speaker 1: some people like it. Some women want it, some women don't.
- 58:39Speaker 1: Some women think that they're better because they're all natural
- 58:43Speaker 1: and even though they don't look as good as some
- 58:45Speaker 1: women who have gotten plastic surgery, plastic and cosmetic surgery
- 58:49Speaker 1: does not is not bad, okay. People who do it.
- 58:54Speaker 1: A lot of women who do it look amazing. Okay.
- 58:58Speaker 1: And just because you can't get it doesn't mean that
- 59:04Speaker 1: you know it's wrong. Maybe you can't. You shouldn't be
- 59:08Speaker 1: a hater because you can't afford something. If that's the case, Okay,
- 59:12Speaker 1: don't be a hater because of that, because I'll tell
- 59:15Speaker 1: you right now, you can take You can take a
- 59:18Speaker 1: woman who's got cosmetic surgery and put him next to
- 59:21Speaker 1: a woman who looks great naturally, and they can both
- 59:25Speaker 1: look great. Okay, So it's one's not better than the other.
- 59:30Speaker 1: You just you guys have formed your opinions on it
- 59:33Speaker 1: and for your own whatever reason, maybe because you can't
- 59:36Speaker 1: afford it, or maybe because you I don't know, I'm
- 59:39Speaker 1: not really sure what your justification is for it. But
- 59:44Speaker 1: you know, for the woman that started this whole thing about,
- 59:47Speaker 1: you know, feeling insecure because she can't get it and
- 59:50Speaker 1: her husband likes it, is is an issue? You know,
- 59:55Speaker 1: it's an issue in your marriage that they need to
- 59:57Speaker 1: work out. So yeah, already four two, five, four, seven
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: to seven? You n Rome? Would you send me here?
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: Good morning Rome, bro. If her husband making her feel bad,
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: divorce him, get the cash, go TJ, get them surgery
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: she needs, and get another one. Uh case closed, next topic.
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: All right, good morning. What's going on?
- 1:00:23Speaker 5: Which is a whitey?
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: What's going on?
- 1:00:29Speaker 9: I'm just say it like this, like he knew what
- 1:00:33Speaker 9: he was getting into, Like my husband beforehand, I already
- 1:00:36Speaker 9: had my mommy pooch from having a kid. I had
- 1:00:39Speaker 9: a second year with him, and he already doing the
- 1:00:43Speaker 9: games here.
- 1:00:43Speaker 6: Don't get me wrong.
- 1:00:44Speaker 10: He stills a woman who I have buy the surgery, And.
- 1:00:47Speaker 9: I'm like, dang, they looks great. The turnover time when
- 1:00:50Speaker 9: you have buy securgery.
- 1:00:52Speaker 10: No, M I can't do that. I could barely handle
- 1:00:55Speaker 10: it in my opendon removed.
- 1:00:57Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, let me ask you this question.
- 1:01:00Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you a serious question.
- 1:01:01Speaker 5: Okay, okay.
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: If he knew what he was getting himself into, like
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: you said, Okay, what if it's the other way, what
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: if what if he married some some hot you know
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: toned you know piecea you know what, and she changed
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: into something different. Can he say the same thing. Can
- 1:01:22Speaker 1: we have the same argument? Well, hey, I married you
- 1:01:25Speaker 1: like this and you got like that.
- 1:01:28Speaker 9: I would say, yeah, I mean okay, that happens sometimes
- 1:01:36Speaker 9: to some women. It happened to me.
- 1:01:37Speaker 10: But I mean, you already knew I was it.
- 1:01:40Speaker 4: Let's just say b.
- 1:01:41Speaker 9: Because like I was, like, you already knew what. He
- 1:01:47Speaker 9: was getting self into itout I cannot.
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: I'm not going to argue with you. I won't argue
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: with that. If he knew if if he got with
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: you one way, he already knew it. But she's gotta
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: go the other way too, then.
- 1:02:01Speaker 9: Right, if he got with you as a time I
- 1:02:03Speaker 9: was getting myself into his him, I'm like, okay, when.
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, okay, okay, all right, thanks for calling later.
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: I mean, it's gotta work both ways, right, Well, for
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: some reason they pop well for her, I guess it does.
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: But the hypocrisy and women, it doesn't work both ways, hey, roam.
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: Her insecurities come from her own internal dialogue, her wanting
- 1:02:34Speaker 1: to look men who get work done or look better,
- 1:02:38Speaker 1: and feeling bad because she doesn't look like that. How
- 1:02:42Speaker 1: is that her husband's fault? She can always hit the gym,
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: take care of herself and better herself. But that takes
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: hard work, and that's something women don't like to do.
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: It's easier to just get in debt ten k for
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: a BBL than to be disciplined, work out and eat.
- 1:03:01Speaker 3: Right.
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you're right, I just working out doesn't
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: I don't really know what the situation is, to be
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: honest with you, you know, I mean different people have
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: different reasons for plastic surgery or cosmetic surgery.
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: Right.
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: You can't work out and get bigger boobs. Right, You
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: can't really work out and get a bigger butt. You
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: can get toned, but it just depends on what you're
- 1:03:27Speaker 1: trying to accomplish. Right, But I agree with you. I mean,
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: it's just you're always going to have that argument, right.
- 1:03:36Speaker 1: I would venture to say, though, how would I put this?
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: I don't know without actually knowing, you know, I don't
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: know that's I mean, you're absolutely right. It doesn't cost
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: much to exercise. You can run around the block, do
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: some squats, do some burpies. I mean, it doesn't cost
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: ask any fool that's been locked up. You know what
- 1:04:03Speaker 1: it cost to get in shape. You know what I'm saying. So, yeah,
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: I agree with you. But people are lazy in general.
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: They just don't want to do the work. Why do
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: you think these everybody's on the shot and seven oaks? Yeah, brouh,
- 1:04:18Speaker 1: Let's see, I was if we uh, let's see if
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: we was feeling bad about if we was feeling bad
- 1:04:26Speaker 1: about herself or has low self esteem. At least she
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: started a conversation on Romeo in the morning uh Kurrent
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: County to Talk uh Kurrent County Talk show that brings
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: common sense to all these dumbasses out there. Now, let's
- 1:04:41Speaker 1: help the dude, because we don't know how she is.
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: Propose they start working out together. Oh that's one, two
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: a threesome first birthday or three if he's still in
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: love with her, paying for them damn surgeries, he's already
- 1:04:58Speaker 1: married to her. Sure, I'm okay. I don't know where
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: the threesome comes. And I always think it's funny when
- 1:05:04Speaker 1: people bring up a threesome because ninety nine percent of you,
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: if you have one, you're gonna lose your relationship. It's
- 1:05:10Speaker 1: not gonna work out for you. So there's only a
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: small percentage of people that can handle that in their
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: lives work out. But honestly, I don't know what the
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: problem is. That's the I don't know what her what
- 1:05:25Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery is making her feel insecure, because there's a
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: lot of things that can be done, I mean, boobs, butts, liposuction.
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what her problem is. If
- 1:05:40Speaker 1: it's weight, then that's something that can be fixed without surgery.
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: If it's boobs or butts, then I don't We got
- 1:05:47Speaker 1: to have a different conversation. So I don't know what
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: her problem is to give her an answer on what
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: why she feels insecure. And she's saying all men like
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: past all men like cosmetic surgery. That is not totally true.
- 1:06:03Speaker 1: Her husband likes it. But the problem is this, and
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: I think you have to have a real conversation about this.
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: When you've been in a marriage for over ten years,
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: people change, things happen, and you know it's not all
- 1:06:23Speaker 1: just going to be communication. I mean that's what everybody
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: wants to say. Well, as long as we communicate it
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: as long that's not real. When you've been with somebody
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: for a long time, you cannot be expected on either side.
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: Husband or wife, whichever partner you are. You cannot just
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: say to yourself, well, you're just you just need to
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: accept me the way I am. That's an idiotic idea.
- 1:06:53Speaker 1: You want to be attracted to the person you're with. Unfortunately,
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: when you're not, that's when cheating occurs. And it's and
- 1:07:07Speaker 1: I don't think you should cheat, that's not at all
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But what I'm saying is point do
- 1:07:12Speaker 1: you have to look at your spouse and go, not
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: only do I want to be attractive to him or her,
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: but I want him or her to be attracted to me.
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: And with all the things that change over the years,
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: you know, life takes a toll on you, kids, marriage bills,
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: it takes a toll on you. At what point, if
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: you really want to be with somebody and be happy
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: for the rest of your life, at what point do
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: you get to look look at your partner and go, look,
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: we need to make some changes to where we're both
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: attracted to each other again like we were when we met.
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: Nobody wants to have that conversation. But why would you
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: want to be unhappy? Why would you want to be
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: with somebody you're not attracted to? Hey, Rome, my best
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: friend got her boobs done and her body done, and
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: her husband was pissed. I don't want to uh, didn't
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: want to help her recover, didn't want to have anything
- 1:08:14Speaker 1: to do with it. But now he sees how much
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: more confident she is, and now he loves it. Well
- 1:08:24Speaker 1: fair enough, I mean, yeah, I get it, I get it,
- 1:08:27Speaker 1: I get it, I get it. Why didn't he help
- 1:08:29Speaker 1: her though? Why she letting her? Why she allowing him
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: to benefit after him not helping her recover? That's what
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: I want to know. Hey, Rome, it ain't her man's fault.
- 1:08:38Speaker 1: Blame her mom, Oh man's fault. And if you're insecure,
- 1:08:45Speaker 1: I don't Here's the thing about this about when it
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: comes to what I believe, when a woman's insecure about
- 1:08:55Speaker 1: other women, I don't think her man can do anything
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: about it. If you're insecure, because you because all these
- 1:09:03Speaker 1: women in your world or in wherever you think, or
- 1:09:08Speaker 1: wherever you're seeing at the plastic surgery, and it's making
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: you feel insecure. Even though your husband likes it, he's
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: still your husband. He cannot make you feel better about it.
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: I don't think any man when a woman's insecure about herself,
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: I don't think a man can do anything to fix
- 1:09:26Speaker 1: that or to help her not feel insecure about it,
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: because I don't believe he's the one making her insecure. Now,
- 1:09:33Speaker 1: you feel insecure about your relationship because your husband's not
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: paying enough attention to you, or he's working too much,
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: or that is something he can do about or he
- 1:09:42Speaker 1: can fix within him. But when women are insecure of
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: other women, there's nothing a man can do. Hey, Rom,
- 1:09:50Speaker 1: those girls getting bbl's boob jobs don't change the mileage
- 1:09:55Speaker 1: on the car. Still a salvage title. Yeah, but you
- 1:09:59Speaker 1: put a new pain job on a car. They look bomb.
- 1:10:01Speaker 1: They look good, So what why are you worried about
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: mileage if they look good?
- 1:10:05Speaker 3: All right?
- 1:10:06Speaker 1: Eight fourteen five four seven to seven year Rom? How
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: can you sit there and say that a man cannot
- 1:10:13Speaker 1: help his wife feel more secure about herself easy because
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: she's she doesn't. It's not him who's making her feel insecure.
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: It's other women who have plastic surgery or other women
- 1:10:28Speaker 1: who are looking better than her. And so what do
- 1:10:34Speaker 1: you I don't understand what you're missing in that. I mean,
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: I guess you could say because he likes it, but
- 1:10:39Speaker 1: you can't like something and I mean, is he supposed
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: to not like it? What's your point? So we were
- 1:10:47Speaker 1: talking about a few different things, and this woman was
- 1:10:50Speaker 1: upset because she says men like plastic surgery, which, well,
- 1:10:54Speaker 1: who doesn't, I mean, who doesn't like attractiveness?
- 1:10:57Speaker 3: You know?
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: And she said that even her husband does, but she
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: can't afford to get it. So she's mad at her husband,
- 1:11:03Speaker 1: I guess. But without knowing, we never found out what
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: she was, what she thought she needed cosmetically that her
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: husband liked or thought, you know, we never found out
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: if it was wade, if it was boobs. What if
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: we never found out what it was. So to have
- 1:11:23Speaker 1: a conversation about it is a little crazy because maybe
- 1:11:26Speaker 1: it's something she could do without surgery. Maybe it's not.
- 1:11:31Speaker 1: I don't know. But there's a few things that you
- 1:11:35Speaker 1: guys don't seem to understand, and that is one. How's
- 1:11:41Speaker 1: he supposed to make her feel more confident if he
- 1:11:44Speaker 1: tells her he loves her, if he tells her he
- 1:11:46Speaker 1: likes it. Can both not be true? Can you not, like,
- 1:11:51Speaker 1: let's say, fake boobs and be in love and like
- 1:11:54Speaker 1: the way your wife looks? Can both not be true?
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: Or does one? As at one or the other. The
- 1:12:00Speaker 1: other thing is she's upset, she's insecure about other people.
- 1:12:05Speaker 1: He's not the one, I don't believe, and maybe he
- 1:12:07Speaker 1: is making her feel insecure. Women do not get insecure
- 1:12:12Speaker 1: over their looks based on a man. They get insecure
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: over their looks based on other women. And nine times
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: out of the ten, any woman that's insecure about the
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: way she feel it looks it's because other women are
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: making her feel insecure, you know, And normally they're not
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: even making her feel insecure. She just looks at him
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: and feels insecure. It's like that old thing. It's like
- 1:12:36Speaker 1: that whole old adage with the you know, remember the
- 1:12:38Speaker 1: magazines of the models in the magazines, women don't really
- 1:12:42Speaker 1: look like that, So women were insecure. I mean, you
- 1:12:47Speaker 1: can't blame insecurity on well you can, but I don't know, really,
- 1:12:55Speaker 1: you gotta get over that on your own. You gotta
- 1:12:59Speaker 1: do what you gotta do to feel more comfortable with yourself.
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: I mean, you can't blame other women who like to
- 1:13:06Speaker 1: work out, who like to stay in shape, who like
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: to eat right, who like to get plastic surgery, and look,
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: you can't blame them for your insecurities. They didn't do
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: anything to you. They're not doing it to hurt you.
- 1:13:22Speaker 1: I don't know, at least I don't think so. Thirty
- 1:13:25Speaker 1: four two, five, four, seven to seven. It's not eighty
- 1:13:28Speaker 1: four point one in the morning every morning, more ninety
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: four point one