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Need Some Things "Clare-ified" · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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Speaker 1: with i R Radio. We're back, Yes we are, Ashley. Well,
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Speaker 1: what's good girl? Hey guys. Um, So, last week, you know,
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Speaker 1: we talked all about Claire and Tasia and what the
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Speaker 1: heck is going on in Palm Springs. I mean, you
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Speaker 1: guys obviously know that Ben and I are kind of
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Speaker 1: we kind of know what's going on because there are
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Speaker 1: some pictures of me that leaked, Okay, so I mean
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Speaker 1: I can't hide it from you guys. But I also
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Speaker 1: have to say that I don't think it's my place
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Speaker 1: to speak on what's going on down there until the
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Speaker 1: Bachelor ABC Warner discusses for themselves, because there has been
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Speaker 1: no confirmation from the Bachelor camp. Well, and I mean Ashley,
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Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, but we don't want to just
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Speaker 1: like spoil the whole season on this podcast, Like there
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Speaker 1: are some things that we we have to hold back
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Speaker 1: and less um, you know, they're going to be made public,
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Speaker 1: which obviously, this whole thing going on in Palm Springs
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Speaker 1: has been pretty public. It's been it's been pretty talked about.
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Speaker 1: What are you exactly talking about, Like, did you feel
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Speaker 1: like you didn't share enough or you shouldn't. Okay, So
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Speaker 1: there there is Obviously now people are like, oh, actual
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Speaker 1: was lying. She like it knows what's going on, right,
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Speaker 1: So I don't want people think that I'm lying, but
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Speaker 1: like I'm also I'm not at a will to be
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Speaker 1: able to like, I'm not going to spoil it right. Well,
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Speaker 1: and in your in your defense, um, you didn't lie
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Speaker 1: because when we did the podcast last week, a lot
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Speaker 1: of this was still unknown to you. That's very true.
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Speaker 1: That is very true because I had not seen the
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Speaker 1: Bachelorette or been on any sort of set at that point,
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Speaker 1: so that was something I wanted to say. But there
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Speaker 1: was also some stuff that I felt like I was
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Speaker 1: maybe hypocritical about last week because I was like, I'm
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Speaker 1: the girl who says you can fall in love, like
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Speaker 1: I fell in love with Jared at first sight, And
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Speaker 1: then I was saying that Claire leaving after twelve days
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Speaker 1: with a guy seemed a risky. So I have like
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Speaker 1: a whole bunch that I wanted to say about that. Um,
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Speaker 1: let's say it actually okay, Okay, So last week I
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Speaker 1: seemed a little hypocrite critical when I was talking about
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Speaker 1: and Claire, we talked, we named him right last week
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Speaker 1: was the guy that she's rumored to leave with. That's right, yes, okay, Um,
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Speaker 1: after after all, you know, you guys did see me
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Speaker 1: fall head over heels in love with Jared immediately. Um,
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Speaker 1: the second I saw him, you know, he was like
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Speaker 1: the center of my whole world. And then I believe
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Speaker 1: that for love at first sight, Like when I saw Jared,
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Speaker 1: I thought like, oh, this is love at first sight
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Speaker 1: because I never felt anything like that before. Um, But
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Speaker 1: I also think that love at first sight needs time
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Speaker 1: to prove itself true. And last week I was speaking
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Speaker 1: with the assumption that Clarien Dale have never spoken before
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Speaker 1: the show before like actually filming the show, and that
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Speaker 1: she quit the show twelve days into being with him. Um, Like,
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Speaker 1: even in my vows with my anniversary tomorrow happy that
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Speaker 1: crazy things. But even my vows, I was like, every
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Speaker 1: day proves to me that little at first sight does exist.
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Speaker 1: And if Clarien Dale were having like hours long face
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Speaker 1: times for months, then I'd have a completely different feeling
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Speaker 1: on her wanting to leave and just be with him
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Speaker 1: after twelve days. That being said, I do also, um
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Speaker 1: believe that if I were in her position, I wouldn't
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Speaker 1: be able to fake being interested in other men. I
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Speaker 1: remember trying. UM. I remember people in Paradise telling me like,
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Speaker 1: just try to be open with that guy, or like
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Speaker 1: maybe you'll want to go on a day with that person,
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Speaker 1: or like maybe there's gonna be somebody that comes down
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Speaker 1: and you're gonna be really intimate. I'm like, no, no,
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Speaker 1: you guys, UM, I'm not going to be open with
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Speaker 1: anybody else right now. I was very adamantly like, no,
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Speaker 1: my eyes will not be open to somebody else in
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Speaker 1: this environment or in the state of mind that I'm in. Um,
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Speaker 1: I just get like very zoned in and I completely
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Speaker 1: relate with Claire in that way that like tunnel vision
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Speaker 1: when it comes to the romance department. I think what
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Speaker 1: I was trying to say, and maybe I'm over explaining myself.
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Speaker 1: Maybe it came across completely non hypocritical last week, but
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Speaker 1: I think that it would just be safer and less risky.
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Speaker 1: It's a less risky bet if you end up with
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Speaker 1: somebody after spending the entire alloweded time on the bachelorte
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Speaker 1: with them instead of twelve days, um, and then like
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Speaker 1: at least going on and finishing the entire season, you
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Speaker 1: like eliminate the what ifs um you know that I
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Speaker 1: am like the big the big like eliminate all what
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Speaker 1: if scenarios in your life if possible. But you know,
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Speaker 1: I also know that love is not a safe game.
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Speaker 1: So those are all of my thoughts. Then, well, how
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Speaker 1: do you feel about my thoughts? I feel like something
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Speaker 1: has hurt you and it's personally offended you because you
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Speaker 1: do feel like you found love at first sight and
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Speaker 1: that you won't. I mean, here's the thing. Since the
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Speaker 1: very beginning, even when I questioned it, Uh, you've been
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Speaker 1: the biggest supporter of Claire. You've been a huge fan
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Speaker 1: of her being the bachelorette, and as we talked about
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Speaker 1: last week, like ultimately, as fans of the show, we
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Speaker 1: want people to find love, however and whenever it works.
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Speaker 1: The concern though, is it just happen so freaking quick
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Speaker 1: on a show that already happens really quick, And so
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Speaker 1: I think everybody was like, what in the world's going on?
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Speaker 1: And that's a fair response is to then have the
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Speaker 1: follow up questions on how did you know he was
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Speaker 1: the one? Did you guys get to talk off camera?
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Speaker 1: And we'll find that out as we go, but I don't.
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Speaker 1: I don't think it's wrong to have the questions of
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Speaker 1: tell me more about how in twelve days you knew
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Speaker 1: this was worth leaving for and if and if they
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Speaker 1: both come and say yeah, because I just love at
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Speaker 1: first sight, then I know you, Ash, and I know
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Speaker 1: your response to then will be you'll probably cry, like
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Speaker 1: you'll get super emotional about it. So you're finding I
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Speaker 1: think I just the risk is stresses me out because
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Speaker 1: he cares because I care a lot about her finding
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Speaker 1: her person through this. Well here's the thing I care
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Speaker 1: more than any other season. Well here's the thing, Ash,
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Speaker 1: I bet you that you won't be the only Bachelor
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Speaker 1: fan that has a similar action to this, And as
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Speaker 1: a similar and a similar hope for Claire going into
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Speaker 1: it is I really want you to find your person.
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Speaker 1: This is stressing me out. Tell me more. Which is
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Speaker 1: why this season is going to be so interesting and
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Speaker 1: in a sense enjoyable to watch because your your questions
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Speaker 1: will be answered and they're legitimate questions for you, like
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Speaker 1: these are you are personally invested into this season? Yes,
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Speaker 1: at this point these are my questions. You're right, And
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Speaker 1: then when I watch it, I'll be able to determine
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Speaker 1: whether or not I like really off base. I think
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Speaker 1: that I just I felt like I ended the podcast
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Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, I didn't really mention that.
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Speaker 1: I seemed very hypocritical. I even knew it when I
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Speaker 1: was saying it. I was like, because I am miss
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Speaker 1: fall in love hard and fast, but not very often.
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Speaker 1: And then um, but then at the same time, I
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Speaker 1: really do feel like Claire was very much there for
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Speaker 1: the right reason. Ends. I just want her to walk
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Speaker 1: away with somebody life, a lifelong partner. It's the hope.
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Speaker 1: It's really the hope. Out of I mean, I'll be honest, uh,
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Speaker 1: out of this like for her to leave in twelve days,
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Speaker 1: I'm I mean, I'm so confortation. We love Tasha. Um,
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Speaker 1: she's gonna be fantastic. I'm a little sad because I
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Speaker 1: was really excited to see clear story play out throughout
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Speaker 1: the season, the ups and the downs and the twists
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Speaker 1: and the turns and the heartbreaks and the celebrations, and
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Speaker 1: we from what it sounds like now, which nothing is confirmed,
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Speaker 1: we won't really get that. And as for as great
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Speaker 1: as Tassia will be, and for as great as that
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Speaker 1: season will be to watch, I was really invested into
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Speaker 1: claire story and now and now it's not gonna happen.
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Speaker 1: And and I think for all of us, like you know,
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Speaker 1: for Claire had the announcement obviously that some things changed,
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Speaker 1: seasons got pushed back. Um, and I think everybody was
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Speaker 1: still really involved in seeing her love story playoffs. So Hey,
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Speaker 1: all we gotta do now is Ashley. You've mentioned it,
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Speaker 1: you you have clarified. Now let's sit back, Let's watch
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Speaker 1: this season, let's talk about it, let's discuss it. We
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Speaker 1: want to hear from you, so please email us at
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Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley at our heart media dot com or
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Speaker 1: just the hashtag the Almost Famous podcast. What are your thoughts?
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Speaker 1: What are your feelings? Are you excited about this season? Uh?
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Speaker 1: Does this you know rumor that has yet to be
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Speaker 1: confirmed by the Bachelor world? Does it make you intrigued?
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Speaker 1: And uh? Or maybe you're a little disappointed and that's
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Speaker 1: okay too, like the way you said clarified, Ben clarified.
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Speaker 1: Actually that would be a terrific tagline for this season. Hey, Ashley,
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Speaker 1: how about this. We've got some huge Bachelor headlines to
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Speaker 1: talk about, um, some really uh hard ones to discuss
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Speaker 1: then some also someones that we want to celebrate. But
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Speaker 1: before we do, let's take a break. We come back,
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Speaker 1: we'll talk Bachelor headline. As promised, we'll come back with
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Speaker 1: the Bachelor hot topics of this week. We're gonna start
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Speaker 1: with one, Ashley. I know this will probably hit home
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Speaker 1: for you based on what you were just discussing before
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Speaker 1: the break. But the headline reads, the bachelorettes Becka Koufern
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Speaker 1: and Garrett break up after two years together. Yeah, like
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Speaker 1: I was saying before, the whole bachelorette thing has not
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Speaker 1: been confirmed by the Bachelor itself, just like this story
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Speaker 1: which was everywhere this week that Becca and Garrett broke
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Speaker 1: up has not come directly from the source. Neither Becca
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Speaker 1: or Garrett has announced this. Becca even said underneath the
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Speaker 1: E News article in the comments interesting source quote. I mean,
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Speaker 1: if nothing else, you could at least spell the names
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Speaker 1: correctly in your article because apparently their names either, so
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Speaker 1: I would and take this as confirmation that they're over.
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Speaker 1: I've not heard from either of them, um, but yeah,
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Speaker 1: we just don't know. And this is obviously a very
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Speaker 1: sensitive topic and one that you know, we've been following
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Speaker 1: for a while. But let's uh, let's be slow to
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Speaker 1: say it's for sure until they confirm and it and
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Speaker 1: quite honestly, like, let them confirm, even if they have
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Speaker 1: to stretch it out for another six months. This is
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Speaker 1: their story to share. Let them have their store. Yeah. Uh.
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Speaker 1: Next article reads, there's a theory that ABC is secretly
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Speaker 1: filming Bachelor in Paradise or Bachelor Pad down in Palm
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Speaker 1: Springs alongside the Bachelor at I'm gonna go ahead and
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Speaker 1: confirm to the best of my ability, even though this
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Speaker 1: might be hypocritical because I'm just saying you can't. You
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Speaker 1: need to confirm with the source. But I think I
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Speaker 1: have a close enough source to say that this is
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Speaker 1: not happening. Um, these these are truly just rumors. Do
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Speaker 1: is just the Bachelorette filming down there? And a lot
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Speaker 1: of people are saying that, like COVID's happening. Why are
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Speaker 1: there's so many people down there in Palm Springs? You guys,
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Speaker 1: the bachelor bubble down there is the safest place you
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Speaker 1: can be right now. There's so many tests going on
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Speaker 1: down there and so much quarantine and going on. Just
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Speaker 1: want to put that out there. They have definitely taken
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Speaker 1: their measures. Um, Sarah Highland, it's talking about COVID, which
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Speaker 1: feels like it has interfered with everything. But Sarah Highland
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Speaker 1: and Wells Adams celebrated there would be wedding day this
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Speaker 1: last week, wearing white, drinking wine and having a great
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Speaker 1: time together. They're supposed to be getting married. Obviously it
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Speaker 1: was postponed due to COVID, but they still celebrated, which
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Speaker 1: is awesome to see. UH and UH and we wish
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Speaker 1: the best, especially as the wedding will probably happen next year. Uh.
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Speaker 1: Final article reads, Rachel Lindsay says she's and I quote
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Speaker 1: thrilled about Tasia Adams becoming the next bachelorette. So we
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Speaker 1: know that earlier in this summer, Rachel was just wanting
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Speaker 1: to you know, she she was liking the changes that
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Speaker 1: the franchise was making, but she also wanted to make
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Speaker 1: sure that it was a long term thing and it
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Speaker 1: wasn't just like a an immediate reaction to the Black
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Speaker 1: Lives Matter movement. And um, I feel like Rachel is
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Speaker 1: feeling like it's not just like a reaction. But now
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Speaker 1: that we have Tassia as the bachelorette, she says that
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Speaker 1: she's been fighting for inclusion and she said before that
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Speaker 1: Tassia would be an excellent bachelorette, so she's more than
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Speaker 1: happy to pass the torch to her. She said, I'm
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Speaker 1: excited to see what she's going to do and how
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Speaker 1: she will represent herself and her journey to find love.
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Speaker 1: Now she's in the driver's seat. I'm excited to see
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Speaker 1: her get this opportunity. Awesome, super great. We're all excited
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Speaker 1: we are going to talk to Rudy from the Bachelor.
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Speaker 1: Listen to your Heart. She has a new single out,
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Speaker 1: uh So, Rudy, Welcome to the podcast. Hey guys, what's up?
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Speaker 1: Not much? So we hear that you have a new
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Speaker 1: single out called Stupid Boy. Is it about that? It's ah, yeah, obviously,
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Speaker 1: I feel like it's definitely about him. I also wrote
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Speaker 1: it about every other stupid guy in my life that
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Speaker 1: it was just like him, so um, yeah, it was
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Speaker 1: definitely inspired it for sure. Okay, She's so honest and
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Speaker 1: I love it. So if you guys don't remember, Matt
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Speaker 1: was her love interest and listen to Your Heart, which
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Speaker 1: aired back in April, we love the two of you together.
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Speaker 1: I feel like you may have had more fans support
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Speaker 1: than anyone else because you just like had You were
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Speaker 1: so relatable and your relationship was relatable. You guys are
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Speaker 1: just so cute, so talented together amazing. Thank you. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: it was fun. Where's your relationship with him at today? Um?
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Speaker 1: We're good friends now. I feel like, um, it kind
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Speaker 1: of took a minute to step away from that for
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Speaker 1: me because I really did like him, and um, you know,
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Speaker 1: my feelings still have not gone away if I'd be
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Speaker 1: lying at this so they did. But yeah, absolutely whatever, scum,
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Speaker 1: but we're friends. I actually met us all his family
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Speaker 1: yesterday and FaceTime he's in Connecticut right now, so um,
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Speaker 1: and they're all great. So I love him. We're just
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Speaker 1: you know, trying to figure it out. I haven't seen
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Speaker 1: him though, so that's the thing too. It's like I
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Speaker 1: literally got home, um March, and I haven't. I haven't
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Speaker 1: seen him since. Well. I was gonna say, if you
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Speaker 1: guys were gonna like kind of relight the flame, it
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Speaker 1: wasn't the best time because you both live in l A,
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Speaker 1: which I thought was amazing. I was like, oh, these two,
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Speaker 1: like they could be the next meeting. I can really
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Speaker 1: see this go in her way. Um, but but then like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: COVID happened, So it wasn't like you could hang out.
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Speaker 1: But maybe like the time apart is good make the
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Speaker 1: heart grow fonder. Yeah, we'll see. I don't know. He's
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Speaker 1: so wishy washy. I never know of that guy, but
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Speaker 1: um yeah, well yeah, become really good friends and then
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Speaker 1: get a boyfriend. Yeah. I literally the amount of times
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Speaker 1: that I get like, oh got years, just like Ashley
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Speaker 1: and Jared, I just have hopefull you. I'm like okay, yeah, literally,
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Speaker 1: like a daily thing of mine is that's in my
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Speaker 1: d M all the time. So we'll see if that
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Speaker 1: actually happens. But yeah, the how does he feel about
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Speaker 1: a single written about him called Stupid Boy? Is that
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Speaker 1: good or bad for the relationship. I was honestly more
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Speaker 1: worried about his parents because they like love me so
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Speaker 1: much and we like had a good conversation. I was like, Yo,
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Speaker 1: what's up, I'm releasing a song called Stupid Boy. And
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Speaker 1: I was like, the mom is probably like I don't
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Speaker 1: like her as much anymore. Um, But I mean I
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Speaker 1: was super open when I started writing it. I was
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Speaker 1: I like called him because we were still like on
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Speaker 1: decent times when I first started writing it, and um,
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Speaker 1: I was like, just by the way, I have a
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Speaker 1: song you inspired it. I think it's gonna be called
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Speaker 1: stupid Boy. He was like, are you kidding me? I
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Speaker 1: was like, you know, He's like, did everyone's gonna know
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Speaker 1: what's about me and they're gonna hate me? And I
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Speaker 1: was like, no, that's fine. Oh that's so amazing. We
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Speaker 1: know that you guys will both end up on Bachelor
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Speaker 1: in Paradise together if you don't get together in real life.
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Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, that's like that's so scary to me
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Speaker 1: because I'm such a jealous person, Like the thought of
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Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise and him and like that sounds terrifying
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Speaker 1: And you're really selling it to the producers right now
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Speaker 1: if they're listening. Yeah, you're doing a great job. Rudy.
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Speaker 1: Where can we hear your single? Yeah? Um, it's all
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Speaker 1: on streaming on all music platforms, Spotify, iTunes. I have
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Speaker 1: like a little link on my Instagram, UM that has
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Speaker 1: literally everywhere that you can stream it and listen all
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Speaker 1: my stuff. So so awesome. Hey, you're the best. Thanks
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Speaker 1: for coming on. Make sure you go check out. Rudy's
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Speaker 1: new single is called Stupid Boy. It is out now,
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Speaker 1: go listen. Hey, Rudy thinks a lot. Thank you guys.
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Speaker 1: You'll take care by. We do have the Ferguson Twins
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20:28
Speaker 1: please do. We're really excited about it. And we've had
20:31
Speaker 1: a lot of feedback and our d m s and
20:33
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20:36
Speaker 1: been absolutely loving it. So we really appreciate the feedback
20:40
Speaker 1: and the comments, and we're really glad you guys thought
20:42
Speaker 1: it was funny and helpful and women empowerment and then
20:46
Speaker 1: also just kind of we're whacked. So yeah, I don't know.
20:50
Speaker 1: It was a lot of fun to record it though,
20:53
Speaker 1: So we would really appreciate if you guys could take
20:55
Speaker 1: the time to go listen to it if you already haven't.
20:58
Speaker 1: So it's interest sing all the hosts of Help I
21:02
Speaker 1: Suck at Dating have significant others. You guys can't suck
21:07
Speaker 1: that bad. So yeah, you guys are kind of doing
21:10
Speaker 1: a female spinoff episode so that like, you know, the
21:15
Speaker 1: guys talk about girls and you girls are going to
21:17
Speaker 1: talk about guys. What do you talk about in this
21:20
Speaker 1: first episode? That, um, that's relatable, that like I'll be
21:24
Speaker 1: able to be like, oh my god, Darren does that
21:25
Speaker 1: too well? I mean I feel like the most relatable
21:29
Speaker 1: part was when in the beginning of our podcast we
21:31
Speaker 1: talk about our ex boyfriends and like how we let
21:34
Speaker 1: them treat us so poorly for like five and three years.
21:37
Speaker 1: So that part is like how we sucked at dating,
21:39
Speaker 1: but like relatable stuff like when we're in our relationships now.
21:42
Speaker 1: I don't know if Jared plays a lot of video games,
21:43
Speaker 1: but like our boyfriends played so many video games. But
21:48
Speaker 1: we talked about how that saved our relationship during quarantine
21:51
Speaker 1: because we needed some alone time. Actually, I don't why
21:53
Speaker 1: what he plays video games at all. I'm like, okay,
21:56
Speaker 1: this is when I'll watch Investigate Discovery and watch files
21:59
Speaker 1: because exactly, exactly exactly, it was like annoying to have them,
22:04
Speaker 1: like not annoying, but it was kind of annoying to
22:06
Speaker 1: have them around all the time. So the video games
22:08
Speaker 1: were kind of nice that they could have like boy
22:10
Speaker 1: time and we could just you know, do what girls
22:12
Speaker 1: needed to do. UM. We talked to our mom, so
22:17
Speaker 1: she talks about dating in your fifties. UM, so she
22:20
Speaker 1: has some good insight about UM dating apps and what
22:24
Speaker 1: it's like to go on dates with guys who are
22:27
Speaker 1: in their fifties or have been married before and have
22:30
Speaker 1: kids and ex wives and stuff. And then we interview
22:34
Speaker 1: one of our girlfriends about dating professional athletes and how
22:38
Speaker 1: like it's hard to like trust professional athletes especially in
22:41
Speaker 1: the beginning of the relationship when you don't really like
22:44
Speaker 1: know them, so you have to like build the trust
22:46
Speaker 1: and they're gone all the time, so you have to
22:48
Speaker 1: be able to communicate, so all those important things on.
22:51
Speaker 1: Like a lot of girls are interested in dating athletes,
22:54
Speaker 1: but it's honestly really hard all at the same time,
22:57
Speaker 1: but also if you meet a good one, it's like
23:00
Speaker 1: the best thing. Ever, how often will this be happening? Like,
23:03
Speaker 1: how often will you be doing this spin off show?
23:06
Speaker 1: So they have a new host every week? I think
23:08
Speaker 1: like next week gets trist up, But I think, you know, hope.
23:11
Speaker 1: My sister and I would love to podcasts, like we
23:13
Speaker 1: had so much fun doing it. We would love to
23:16
Speaker 1: do our own podcast, So yeah, hopefully it can be
23:19
Speaker 1: a more permanent thing. We would absolutely love that. If
23:22
Speaker 1: people also love that, that would be like our dream job,
23:26
Speaker 1: staying at home and chatting all the time and really
23:28
Speaker 1: just love to talk about everyone since so that would
23:31
Speaker 1: be the perfect job for us. You guys, are you
23:34
Speaker 1: gonna get your mom signed up for The Bachelor Senior
23:37
Speaker 1: edition when that starts up again? Yeah? Is that a
23:43
Speaker 1: real thing? Yeah, it's a real thing. That's definitely on
23:45
Speaker 1: hold right now because they're little backed up. It's like,
23:49
Speaker 1: are they like doing like fifty plus and olders? And
23:52
Speaker 1: we were like, oh wow, I didn't even know about this.
23:55
Speaker 1: I'm on, I heard about it, but I wasn't sure. Yeah,
23:59
Speaker 1: my my mom would be way too good at it.
24:02
Speaker 1: They should just make through the Bachelorette. Yeah, they never
24:05
Speaker 1: really clarified whether it's gonna be like Bachelor in Paradise
24:08
Speaker 1: style or whether it could be like Bachelor or Bachelorette style.
24:11
Speaker 1: But either way, your mom should should be involved. I
24:15
Speaker 1: love that she would love to sign another first Our Screensazing. Hey,
24:22
Speaker 1: last time you came on, you talked about moving, and
24:25
Speaker 1: I know obviously with COVID things have changed a bit.
24:29
Speaker 1: Are you still planning on moving? Have you moved? Where
24:32
Speaker 1: are you at today? Um? So, my boyfriend is currently
24:36
Speaker 1: in Sweden playing hockey, So I am still planning on moving,
24:40
Speaker 1: just as of right now, I can't get really good
24:42
Speaker 1: a visa, so I am trying to get a visa
24:46
Speaker 1: so I can get over there. But as of right now,
24:48
Speaker 1: we're just waiting for the travel band to get lifted. Um.
24:51
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's still the plan. So I'm living with
24:53
Speaker 1: my sister for now until I can get over there.
24:56
Speaker 1: She might be married before me. No, I will not
24:58
Speaker 1: be married before her married. So I was gonna say,
25:03
Speaker 1: that's our next spin off of fiance. There we go.
25:07
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so funny. I'm not gonna lie. I'd
25:09
Speaker 1: be a little pissed if she got married because Haley
25:13
Speaker 1: has been in the relationship for about nine months and
25:16
Speaker 1: then Emily, you've been in the relationship for like three years. Yep, yeah,
25:20
Speaker 1: seven months for me, so still very new. Yeah, after
25:24
Speaker 1: seven months girl to another country. I'm like, I'm so
25:29
Speaker 1: I already know that he's the one. It's weird, high
25:32
Speaker 1: kind of how it happened. I know, I feel like
25:35
Speaker 1: it's I know, people just like it happened so fast,
25:38
Speaker 1: and then there's other people it just doesn't happen, which
25:41
Speaker 1: like there's I think benefits to both, Like if you're
25:43
Speaker 1: older and you know that this person is the one,
25:45
Speaker 1: then just freaking do it. But then also I think
25:47
Speaker 1: it's great to take your time and not rush into
25:50
Speaker 1: things if you're like younger and stuff. So I don't know,
25:54
Speaker 1: I just feel ready. Yeah, I mean I'm ready to
25:57
Speaker 1: be married too. I'm just freaking waiting but he's he's
26:02
Speaker 1: in a Canada right now playing finishing the playoffs, which
26:06
Speaker 1: they're doing really really good there. They just wont like
26:08
Speaker 1: the first seed for like the Western I don't know
26:11
Speaker 1: much about it, but yeah, but yeah, so anyways, they're
26:14
Speaker 1: still playing in the playoffs, and you know, I gotta
26:16
Speaker 1: wait till he comes home to propose me. So he's
26:19
Speaker 1: gonna get a Stanley Cup ring that I'm gonna get
26:21
Speaker 1: an engagement ring. Is gonna finally be the best year ever? Okay,
26:26
Speaker 1: well that's gonna be how it works. I'm gonna have
26:28
Speaker 1: to watch hockey more often so I can watch these
26:31
Speaker 1: the Vegas nights when yes, yeah, you guys should just
26:35
Speaker 1: come to Vegas once COVID isn't a thing anymore and
26:37
Speaker 1: we can all go to a game together. That'd be fun.
26:40
Speaker 1: That sounds fantastic. You guys are great. Thank you so much.
26:44
Speaker 1: Thank you, guys, And make sure once again to tune
26:47
Speaker 1: into the Help I Second Dating Uh spinoff show with
26:53
Speaker 1: the Ferguson Twins, which is out right now. It's hilarious.
26:57
Speaker 1: They're great at it. Make sure you tune in and listen.
27:00
Speaker 1: And Emily and Haley, you're the best we'll talk to
27:01
Speaker 1: you soon. Thank you, guys. A good friend. She just
27:17
Speaker 1: called us angels when she came on, but I think
27:19
Speaker 1: she actually is is a real life, living, breathing angel.
27:25
Speaker 1: Tanya from the Scrubbing In podcast is joining us right now.
27:30
Speaker 1: Hi Ben Higgins, Hi Ashley. I love you guys. That's
27:33
Speaker 1: so nice. Nice intro. Why do I smile so hard
27:36
Speaker 1: when I see your face? What I love? Are you
27:39
Speaker 1: in bed right now? Yeah? I recorded from bed from
27:43
Speaker 1: bed before. I've never recorded from bed before, but today
27:49
Speaker 1: I decided to do. So what room here for? What
27:53
Speaker 1: really happened was we just told Ashley, hey, you worked
27:56
Speaker 1: so hard on the podcast. You are always you know,
27:59
Speaker 1: your mind is always going. We just need you to relax,
28:01
Speaker 1: So curl up in a blanket, stay in bed all day,
28:03
Speaker 1: just grab your microphone and we'll make magic happen at
28:07
Speaker 1: the almost famous podcast. I think there's honestly there's something
28:11
Speaker 1: to that, because I mean, we like went out. We
28:13
Speaker 1: went to Palm Springs this weekend and we did our
28:15
Speaker 1: podcast at ten pm at night, which you guys know
28:18
Speaker 1: me like I'm asleep at nine o'clock, so it was
28:21
Speaker 1: made for quite some interesting content. Well that's what I
28:24
Speaker 1: want to start with. Yeah, so Tanya, I've heard rumors. Uh,
28:29
Speaker 1: we're obviously here a part of the I Heeart family.
28:33
Speaker 1: The Scrubbing In podcast is our pride and joy. Uh.
28:37
Speaker 1: We we really love you guys. And here's what happened.
28:41
Speaker 1: Here's how okay, So here's how this is set up.
28:43
Speaker 1: And I want to give my backstory to how I
28:45
Speaker 1: even knew you're in Palm Springs other than social media. Uh,
28:49
Speaker 1: my fiance was in town this weekend. She was visiting,
28:51
Speaker 1: so we had a couple of date nights, and uh,
28:54
Speaker 1: on our on our one date night on Friday night,
28:57
Speaker 1: we were talking about, um, just some people in our
29:00
Speaker 1: life who have huge roles or impacts and who have
29:05
Speaker 1: just really like brightened up our day. So obviously I
29:07
Speaker 1: go through like the Ashleys of the world, you know,
29:11
Speaker 1: my podcast co host, and then we stop on Tanya
29:13
Speaker 1: and Becca. We just started talking about you guys because, uh,
29:16
Speaker 1: you were the one of the two first people to
29:19
Speaker 1: to meet Jessica and to make her feel so loved
29:21
Speaker 1: and just kind of welcomed in. And so we decided
29:24
Speaker 1: to to text. We sent out a text to Becca
29:27
Speaker 1: and said, Becca, were just thinking about you. We want
29:30
Speaker 1: to let you know that we love you, and and
29:32
Speaker 1: Becca text us back right away that says, hey, I'm
29:36
Speaker 1: a few spicy marguerite as deep. I don't know if
29:39
Speaker 1: I can respond right now. And that is unlike Becca.
29:42
Speaker 1: That is not a Becca character. That is not a
29:44
Speaker 1: text I would expect from Becca. But I knew something
29:48
Speaker 1: was up, So please Tanya, you're in Palm Springs with
29:52
Speaker 1: your co host Becca Tilly. What was going on was
29:56
Speaker 1: that Friday night? She sent that her Saturday, I think
29:58
Speaker 1: it was Friday. Oh, okay, okay, so Saturday was really
30:01
Speaker 1: the debauchery one oh one. But I think what happened
30:07
Speaker 1: is like we've all been super quarantined and we haven't
30:11
Speaker 1: really like I mean, we've seen each other and we
30:12
Speaker 1: hang out with each other, but I mean Becca hasn't
30:14
Speaker 1: really drank much all of quarantine, and it's like we
30:17
Speaker 1: kind of felt like we were on I mean we
30:19
Speaker 1: were we were on vacation, and so you go and
30:23
Speaker 1: you drink like what you normally when normally drink spicy
30:25
Speaker 1: margaritas when we go out, but it was a hundred
30:28
Speaker 1: and nine degrees, and we also hadn't really eaten much
30:33
Speaker 1: like we had like a croissant and like some pistachios
30:35
Speaker 1: and maybe some chips and salsa all day like we
30:37
Speaker 1: hadn't and we just kind of kept drinking. I paced
30:41
Speaker 1: myself just because I have been in the desert recently,
30:45
Speaker 1: and I just I know he does to me. But
30:48
Speaker 1: it really just like went from like stage one to
30:51
Speaker 1: like stage a hundred. Really really like when you say
30:56
Speaker 1: stage a hundred, you don't have any food in your belly.
30:58
Speaker 1: It's degree Becca Tilly is let loose. And then you
31:06
Speaker 1: have to record a podcast. So you're here there to
31:08
Speaker 1: record a podcast. So at ten o'clock at night, you're
31:11
Speaker 1: recording this podcast. After this this time that goes on
31:15
Speaker 1: during the day where you guys are just like out
31:17
Speaker 1: of your mind. No, you guys, we we were supposed
31:20
Speaker 1: to record at five pm, So mind you, I'm like
31:23
Speaker 1: a little I'm actually feeling good, like I'm like drunk
31:25
Speaker 1: loose um. But Becca was just like gone. And so
31:29
Speaker 1: we had an interview with Sabrina Carpenter at five o'clock
31:32
Speaker 1: and so we're doing an interview on Zoom like this,
31:34
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, halfway through the interview, Becca
31:37
Speaker 1: just slowly goes out of the frame and like falls
31:41
Speaker 1: to start yacking and start seeing beca growing up on
31:49
Speaker 1: the mike babically no, no, no, you can't hear it.
31:52
Speaker 1: I haven't listened back. I don't think you can hear it.
31:56
Speaker 1: But you just see her like slowly just fall out
31:58
Speaker 1: of the frame. And then I'm like, I'm like still
32:02
Speaker 1: doing the interview with Sabrina and I'm kicking my boyfriend
32:04
Speaker 1: under the table and like pointing to like have him
32:07
Speaker 1: like help her. Do you know what I mean, Like
32:08
Speaker 1: I can't do anything. So you can see it's so
32:12
Speaker 1: fun like it's actually very unprofessional, not funny, but like
32:16
Speaker 1: when you like if you have a sense of humor
32:18
Speaker 1: and you can look back at it, like it was
32:20
Speaker 1: just so wild. So this happens at five o'clock and
32:23
Speaker 1: then she she gets better, she pizza and we like
32:27
Speaker 1: get her, get her back, and um, we get her back.
32:32
Speaker 1: He's really term we owned it, Like I was like,
32:38
Speaker 1: I was like, we can't, like we just need to
32:40
Speaker 1: own it and say we started doing this at five.
32:41
Speaker 1: We have to tell the story, you know. I was like,
32:43
Speaker 1: I think we need to own this whole situation. I
32:45
Speaker 1: think it turned out really funny because people are responding
32:47
Speaker 1: like people are messaging me that they're like paying their pants. Well,
32:50
Speaker 1: because here's the thing. The scrubbing In like almost famous.
32:54
Speaker 1: We have a great following and it's like a terrific
32:56
Speaker 1: group of people. But the scrubbing In we've always talked
32:58
Speaker 1: about has like this your family esque following where they're
33:02
Speaker 1: super supportive of each other. They really love you too,
33:05
Speaker 1: and so you share your sisterhood. Yeah, like it's your
33:09
Speaker 1: most intimate moments, and so if you're not going to
33:11
Speaker 1: share it during the scrubbing In podcast, it feels very appropriate, honestly,
33:15
Speaker 1: Like it feels unprofessional. It feels I'm sad for Becca,
33:18
Speaker 1: like that, I love Becca. I know this is something
33:22
Speaker 1: that she probably hates just and laughs about, Like she's
33:25
Speaker 1: just one of my favorite people in the world. But
33:28
Speaker 1: just like you would have through sorority sisters or your
33:30
Speaker 1: aratornity brothers, you share those moments like you have to. Yeah,
33:34
Speaker 1: And I think also everybody can relate, you know what
33:36
Speaker 1: I mean, Like we've all been there, Like we've all
33:39
Speaker 1: been there, So it's just super super something that like
33:42
Speaker 1: everybody can kind of relate to. You know, Mark is
33:44
Speaker 1: their footage of this, There is footage of this and
33:48
Speaker 1: then think it's being negotiated as to whether or that
33:50
Speaker 1: will be released. I know, it's so funny, you guys,
33:55
Speaker 1: Like literally we all watched I think I've watched it
33:58
Speaker 1: like ten times. It's so freaking funny. And I even said,
34:01
Speaker 1: I was like, we don't need to put Sabrina in it.
34:03
Speaker 1: It's even funnier, Like I just need to see the
34:06
Speaker 1: two of us. And then all of a sudden, she
34:07
Speaker 1: just goes down, but then her like arm comes up,
34:09
Speaker 1: like you see the microphone pop up. Becca, And by
34:15
Speaker 1: the way, t it is audible. You have to listen
34:18
Speaker 1: very closely, but it's in there. Oh you can hear her.
34:22
Speaker 1: The best part. Everybody was kind of on listen like
34:27
Speaker 1: did everybody was like really, Like even my boyfriend was like,
34:29
Speaker 1: I think something happened, Like there's no way we all
34:32
Speaker 1: got this drunk. And I was like, you guys a
34:34
Speaker 1: hundred and fifteen degrees and we're drinking tequila all day, Like, yes,
34:38
Speaker 1: this is what happens. Quarantine he tequila. It's a mixture.
34:43
Speaker 1: So before we move on, because we did bring you
34:45
Speaker 1: on to talk about the Jason Mesnick season, which I
34:48
Speaker 1: know you're a big fan of um Speak for your
34:52
Speaker 1: best friend. How is Becca handling this? And how is
34:54
Speaker 1: she doing now? I mean, she doesn't want to drink ever,
34:59
Speaker 1: I get it, And honestly, like she gets these Like
35:02
Speaker 1: the last time I ever saw her like this was
35:04
Speaker 1: in two thousand sixteen at the iHeart Festival. Do you
35:06
Speaker 1: guys remember my bathroom floor? And so it really doesn't
35:12
Speaker 1: happen to her very often where she gets like this.
35:14
Speaker 1: I mean, but yeah, and she's she's struggling. Well, we
35:18
Speaker 1: love her, hey, send our send our support. Beck Attilly
35:20
Speaker 1: is the one of our favorite people. He actually here.
35:22
Speaker 1: Let's take a break. When we come back, we're gonna
35:24
Speaker 1: break down Jason Mesnick season with Tanya. Alright, We're back
35:35
Speaker 1: with Tanya rat to talk about Jason Mesnicks season. Um,
35:40
Speaker 1: this is the first time I saw the season. I U,
35:46
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like it was the exact
35:47
Speaker 1: same thing as Oris, right, I mean, like could not
35:50
Speaker 1: be more parallel. Really, Yeah, did you watch Aris? Uh?
35:57
Speaker 1: Yeah I did, And honestly I haven't. I mean I watched.
36:00
Speaker 1: I was just so obsessed with Jason Mesnick. You guys,
36:03
Speaker 1: like I was literally so I was. I was in college,
36:08
Speaker 1: I was a senior in college and my college sisters,
36:12
Speaker 1: like my stority sisters signed me up for when he
36:15
Speaker 1: was the Bachelor because I loved him so much. I
36:18
Speaker 1: love that he was like I knew that he was
36:20
Speaker 1: committed to it. Does that make sense? Like I knew
36:22
Speaker 1: he would watch in It the season before, correct, I
36:27
Speaker 1: knew that he was like super in it. I love
36:28
Speaker 1: that he was a dad. I just loved everything about him.
36:31
Speaker 1: He just literally felt like such a stand up guy.
36:33
Speaker 1: I didn't even care about the entertainment value. I was
36:36
Speaker 1: just like, I want to date this man. And I
36:37
Speaker 1: was like twenty one at the time. Step I remember
36:43
Speaker 1: like not having ever seen his season, so like, you know,
36:47
Speaker 1: like twenty four hours ago and be like Jason is
36:50
Speaker 1: like what a weird Bachelor pick? Like he's like cutesie,
36:53
Speaker 1: but he's not like a stud. And then okay, and
36:57
Speaker 1: then I watched the season and I was like, yeah,
37:00
Speaker 1: Jason Zick, Now he's a cutie and look at him,
37:03
Speaker 1: and he and Molly are still together, like expanding their family,
37:07
Speaker 1: doing great. So I feel like my gut instinct on
37:09
Speaker 1: this man was very accurate. Yeah, no, he he seems
37:13
Speaker 1: like a real good one. I I just really got
37:16
Speaker 1: cringe e watching feeling for Molly while I watched him
37:23
Speaker 1: propose to Melissa, and like, of all of the seasons
37:28
Speaker 1: that have reaired, this is the only one I feel
37:31
Speaker 1: like genuinely bad about re airing because I was like,
37:34
Speaker 1: let's not put this woman through this again. This is
37:36
Speaker 1: just like so hurtful. I know, and you know what
37:42
Speaker 1: those sometimes guys like, sometimes men don't get it right
37:44
Speaker 1: at first, and that's okay. I'm married to one. Like
37:50
Speaker 1: We've had similar ish situations, which is why I feel
37:54
Speaker 1: like I was putting myself in molly shoes even more
37:57
Speaker 1: yesterday watching it, and yeah, it's just like, oh um, yeah,
38:03
Speaker 1: sometimes guys like really need to sit back and and
38:07
Speaker 1: think about things. So Jason Mesnick is announced as a bachelor.
38:15
Speaker 1: I think it was a great choice. I think he is.
38:18
Speaker 1: I get it, Like when you meet Jason, you love
38:21
Speaker 1: him more. Tanya, looking back now, as we start to
38:25
Speaker 1: break down this episode, do you really believe that you
38:28
Speaker 1: and Jason could have been a good match? For sure?
38:33
Speaker 1: For sure? On, I still think everything I thought about
38:36
Speaker 1: that man was like super super spot on. And I
38:39
Speaker 1: mean I don't think it was in the cards. I
38:41
Speaker 1: don't think we were meant to be because he is
38:43
Speaker 1: he is where he is meant to be. But it
38:45
Speaker 1: really made me feel like my discernment on people is
38:48
Speaker 1: is very spot on at an early age. At twenty one.
38:50
Speaker 1: Do you remember the girl Stephanie from his season with
38:53
Speaker 1: a child? She had a four year old I can't
38:56
Speaker 1: say that I do. Oh really Okay, Well, Harrison interviews
38:59
Speaker 1: her in this Goat episode and she seemed like the
39:03
Speaker 1: sweetest person. She was so motherly. They had her daughter
39:09
Speaker 1: on as part of a date, and then during the
39:12
Speaker 1: interview they don't ask if she's married or she had
39:17
Speaker 1: any more kids, and it really really irked me because
39:20
Speaker 1: I wanted to know where this woman stands in her
39:22
Speaker 1: love life. I guess I know, But do you think
39:27
Speaker 1: that that means that she's like single? And that's why
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Speaker 1: they didn't ask? Possibly, um no, because why would it
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Speaker 1: matter if she was single? Because I've noticed a pattern
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Speaker 1: they only as I've only they've He's only asked people
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Speaker 1: when they are like, oh, and happily ever after, here's
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Speaker 1: my spouse. That's very interesting because you know what, sometimes
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Speaker 1: happily ever after doesn't mean that you have a spouse.
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Speaker 1: You don't need to have a spouse. You do not
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Speaker 1: need too. But at least they're in that is That's right.
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Speaker 1: But but as this is the Bachelor, I am still curious.
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Speaker 1: That's interesting if Chris does that, well, I think they
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Speaker 1: just don't keep it in. They don't keep it like
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Speaker 1: it's like edited out when he asked about their private life. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I don't know if anybody knows the update on Stephanie's
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Speaker 1: private life, I'd love to know. Um. Also, can we
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Speaker 1: talk about the fashion two thousand nine, because all these
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Speaker 1: Goat episodes, I'm like, holy, I thought that we had
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Speaker 1: our stuff together by this decade or like by this year,
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Speaker 1: and we apparently did not. Like these girls are like
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Speaker 1: wearing the cheapest looking dresses at the final Rows ceremony.
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Speaker 1: They look like I know, but that's like how it
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Speaker 1: was back in the day, you know what I mean,
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Speaker 1: Like it's like back in the day, Like I know
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Speaker 1: it was eleven years ago, but two thousand nine, you know,
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Speaker 1: I had a beautiful, what I thought was a beautiful
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Speaker 1: prom dress. Yeah, take a look back at your promtress
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Speaker 1: and see how beautiful beautiful it really is now? I know, right,
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Speaker 1: it's just so crazy. And then like all these girls
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Speaker 1: are like wearing these baby doll dresses. I'm like, I
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Speaker 1: can't believe this is what we chose to wear on TV,
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Speaker 1: Like this was our hottest outfits. I know, but it's
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Speaker 1: also like before Instagram and like all that stuff was
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Speaker 1: a thing. So people I feel like just didn't I
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Speaker 1: don't want to say I didn't care, but it was
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Speaker 1: just like you know, different time. Yeah, time before we
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Speaker 1: let you go here and a few if I gave
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Speaker 1: you like a minute now as we close to try
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Speaker 1: to convince our listeners that they should watch Jason Mesnick's
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Speaker 1: go An episode, how would you sell them? Okay, if
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Speaker 1: you are just a true romantic at heart and you
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Speaker 1: love love, and you believe and you have faith in
41:46
Speaker 1: great men. If you just want to see a great
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Speaker 1: man who was in a situation he is a single
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Speaker 1: father wanting to remarry and create another family and just
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Speaker 1: have a hopeful heart, that is this is the man
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