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Where Did We Go Wrong · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back. What's up, y'all?
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
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  Speaker 2: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you niggas and
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  Speaker 2: these hoes.
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  Speaker 1: It's your co-host, Adrienne. Dreamers and chasers.
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  Speaker 2: Now, when I was saying dreamers and chasers, you was like,
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  Speaker 2: these niggas and these hoes.
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  Speaker 1: What you want, bitch? What you want? I'm always going
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  Speaker 1: to shout out the opposite of whatever you say. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all take note of that, please.
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  Speaker 2: Take note that my co-host be intentionally disagreeing with me.
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  Speaker 1: That's not a disagreement. So bitch, you want to always
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  Speaker 1: be the opposite, bitch.
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  Speaker 3: Why?
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  Speaker 1: It's not leaving anyone out.
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  Speaker 3: So if you say dreamers and chasers, I'm going to
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  Speaker 3: shout out the niggas and hoes. If you say niggas
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  Speaker 3: and hoes, I'm going to shout out the dreamers and chasers.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Which can be one in the same. Honestly, it is. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you want to get rich, go to the
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  Speaker 2: strip club and get you a stripper bitch. Like, she
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  Speaker 2: might give you some type of inspiration to get that bag.
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  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 1: All right, y'all. How was your weekend, Ted? What we
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  Speaker 1: did this weekend, girl? Girl, we was with that OYO crew.
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  Speaker 2: Hey.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all, Drake, his It's All A Blur tour came to Charlotte.
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  Speaker 3: And we was in the building with our good friend
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  Speaker 3: from the show, Zoba Martin. And we had such a
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  Speaker 3: good time. How'd you enjoy it?
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  Speaker 1: It was good.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I don't really like concerts like that, girl,
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  Speaker 2: because the way my mind's set up.
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  Speaker 1: But it was a good time.
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  Speaker 2: My fucking feet was screaming the whole time because these
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  Speaker 2: bitches showed up in sneakers, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: And left me looking stupid with heels on. I told you.
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  Speaker 1: I told you I was wearing sneakers. You did not. Girl,
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  Speaker 1: I did. I learned my lesson at Lil Baby concert.
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  Speaker 2: You did not tell me you was wearing sneakers, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: My feet probably still at the motherfucking Spectrum Center, okay?
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  Speaker 1: Like, where are my feet? Tell everybody what you said
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  Speaker 1: to Drake Daniels. No. Please.
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  Speaker 3: Please tell them what you said to Drake Daniels.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all, Drake Daddy got so fucking mad at me, all right?
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  Speaker 2: And listen, I don't ever mean to offend. I don't
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  Speaker 2: think anybody ever purposely means to offend. But anyway, he
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  Speaker 2: just was, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, outside.
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  Speaker 2: Like, he's like a prop for the show, I think.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, everybody know Drake Daddy gonna be there. So
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  Speaker 2: they looking for Drake Daddy. So here he go.
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  Speaker 3: Drake Daddy wasn't a prop for the show because he
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  Speaker 3: just stayed in the VIP.
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  Speaker 2: Don't even do that. He was all around. Like, when
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  Speaker 2: I first saw him, he was walking. He was like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out where I'm going. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: what's up, Dad? When I first saw him, when he
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  Speaker 2: first walked past in the VIP.
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  Speaker 1: That was still in the VIP. It was always in
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  Speaker 1: the VIP.
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  Speaker 2: He was leaving out of VIP, walking down that ramp.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: With his Indiana Jones outfit on.
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  Speaker 1: No, that was Jumanji. That was the hunter from Jumanji outfit.
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  Speaker 2: That nigga definitely looked like he was about to go
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  Speaker 2: look for some dinosaurs after the show.
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  Speaker 1: So we was like in.
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  Speaker 2: A little, I guess it's like a little after, supposedly
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  Speaker 2: like a little after party area. We thought Drake was
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  Speaker 2: going to come in that area. He never did. But
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  Speaker 2: some of the Canadian crew was over there. And they
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  Speaker 2: just like us, actually. I don't know what I was
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  Speaker 2: expecting Canadian niggas to look like.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Because I've never been to Canada. Me too. I never, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I never met any Canadian niggas. But it's the same niggas, bitch.
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  Speaker 1: Same niggas. Okay. Right.
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  Speaker 2: So he came over by us and I was like...
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  Speaker 2: You ain't sleepy?
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  Speaker 1: Ask that man, was he sleepy? It's his birthday, y'all.
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  Speaker 3: Hold on, it's his birthday. We just took a birthday
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  Speaker 3: shot for his birthday. And this is what the bitch
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  Speaker 3: gonna ask him.
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  Speaker 1: His birthday was not that night.
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  Speaker 2: It was like two days prior. So it was his
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  Speaker 2: birthday weekend. But I was like, you ain't sleepy?
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  Speaker 1: He was like, why the fuck you ask me if
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  Speaker 1: I ain't sleepy? If I'm sleepy. I was like, shit,
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  Speaker 1: because I am.
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  Speaker 2: He was like, well, take your motherfucking ass to sleep then.
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  Speaker 3: Girl, that man was so mad. He was mad, right?
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  Speaker 3: Because you basically said he was too old to still
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  Speaker 3: be outside.
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  Speaker 1: That's what you said.
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  Speaker 2: Don't check your blood pressure or something. Zobo was like, ooh,
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  Speaker 2: he didn't like that.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: He was like, oh, no. Yeah, I didn't mean to
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  Speaker 2: offend Drake Daddy, y'all. Okay, it's my bad.
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  Speaker 1: Mr. Dennis. Mr. Dennis.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, nice guy, though.
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  Speaker 1: Nice guy. Let's get into stupid internet news.
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  Speaker 2: Child, Tory Lanez's ass is in the motherfucking state prison mad.
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  Speaker 2: Talk about he fair for his life. So was Meg
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  Speaker 2: Thee Stallion on that dreadful evening in what, 2020 now
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  Speaker 2: at this point?
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  Speaker 1: Man, I seen the after. I feel bad for him.
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  Speaker 3: I know a lot of people don't have no sympathy
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  Speaker 3: for him, but for some reason, when I seen that picture,
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  Speaker 3: he looked like Eddie Cain Jr.
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  Speaker 1: When he was standing outside that gate. I got nothing
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  Speaker 1: but love for you, baby. Them hair plugs coming out. Ooh,
• 5:12
  Speaker 1: they look bad. Y'all, Tory Lanez look like he already
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  Speaker 1: did 10 years. Let's be honest. He look like he
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  Speaker 1: about to come home. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like,
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  Speaker 1: time served. He look like he been through it. He
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  Speaker 1: been through the trenches.
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  Speaker 3: Listen, I don't wish yelling. They probably in there saying, dance, bitch.
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  Speaker 1: Dance, bitch. And making that nigga pretend to be Usher.
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  Speaker 1: And that motherfucker.
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  Speaker 2: Well, apparently, per TMZ, he is administrative segregation because he
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  Speaker 2: is a public figure. So that means he gets like
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  Speaker 2: a few little extra perks. He gets escorted to the
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  Speaker 2: showers by himself. He spends time outside by himself. It's
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  Speaker 2: like they're secluded. I don't think that's, like, that's not
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  Speaker 2: going to be rehabilitation for anybody to not be able
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  Speaker 2: to be around people. And I don't know how they're
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  Speaker 2: supposed to keep up with that for 10 years also.
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  Speaker 1: Is jail really rehabilitation? Never. It never is. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like most of the.
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  Speaker 3: People I know from jail came out better criminals than
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  Speaker 3: they left.
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  Speaker 1: Especially being the feds, bitch.
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  Speaker 2: They done picked up all the fucking, they went in
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  Speaker 2: there for drugs, now they coming out scamming because they
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  Speaker 2: done got all the things.
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  Speaker 1: Information. Yes. Mm-hmm. I think if you want to go
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  Speaker 1: to prison, go to the feds first.
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  Speaker 2: Do some shit so you can end up in the feds.
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  Speaker 2: State time is like a different planet.
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  Speaker 1: Or don't commit crimes. Perhaps.
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure you and I both have done something.
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  Speaker 1: That we could go to jail for. I ain't did shit.
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  Speaker 2: Bitch, what about them taxes, bitch? You been paying your
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  Speaker 2: taxes on time?
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  Speaker 1: Paid.
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  Speaker 2: Look, why you looking like that?
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  Speaker 1: Girl, it's something.
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  Speaker 2: It's so many different things that you could go to
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  Speaker 2: prison for in America.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a law-abiding citizen in this great country, if anybody
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  Speaker 3: from the IRS.
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  Speaker 1: I bet you can't say you a tax-paying citizen, bitch. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I pay my taxes on time most years. Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 3: They're I ain't did shit wrong since I stole them
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  Speaker 3: socks out of the hair store when I was a
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  Speaker 3: little kid with the balls on the back.
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  Speaker 1: No, you're not stealing the ball socks. Yeah. Hood rat,
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  Speaker 1: hood rat, hoochie bop.
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  Speaker 2: I used to wear them with the crisp.
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  Speaker 1: Reebok classics. No, Reebok classic, girl.
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  Speaker 2: A crisp pair of white Reebok classics and no fucking
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  Speaker 2: ball socks.
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  Speaker 1: Bitch, you ain't telling me nothing, okay?
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  Speaker 2: With a lime green swoop, with a microwave ponytail and match, okay?
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  Speaker 1: Ooh.
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  Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I used to microwave my ponytail
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  Speaker 3: in different colors to match my outfit for school every day.
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  Speaker 1: Don't play with me. Bapping it. Bapping it on. Boo yeah, bitch.
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  Speaker 1: But no, hold on, hold on, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, Terry, if you listening, we love you, but nigga,
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  Speaker 2: Terry mama, Terry mama used to show up to fucking
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  Speaker 2: school with leggings with the weave to match.
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  Speaker 1: Period. Head and toe. Don't play with her.
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  Speaker 2: Head and toe from elementary to high.
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  Speaker 1: School, bitch, okay? Don't play with her at all.
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  Speaker 2: And speaking of Drake, Drake and Charlamagne, they are currently
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  Speaker 2: having light skin on dark skin violence right now.
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  Speaker 3: It's dark skin on light skin violence because Charlamagne started it.
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  Speaker 1: He did not.
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  Speaker 2: All he did was critique the music.
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  Speaker 1: What is the problem? I'm confused.
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  Speaker 4: Drake put out a song last Friday and nobody cared.
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  Speaker 1: What was the song?
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  Speaker 4: The Drake and SZA record.
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  Speaker 1: No, people, that's just dropping. People do like it. It
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  Speaker 1: came out last Friday.
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  Speaker 4: And it came out last Friday and people just started
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  Speaker 4: talking about the lyrics yesterday. Because I saw people, I'm
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  Speaker 4: in the group chat and I'm like, damn, Drake put
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  Speaker 4: out this record Friday and people just get into the
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  Speaker 4: lyrics on a Monday?
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  Speaker 1: I mean.
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  Speaker 4: That's not Drake like, he's going to be fine regardless.
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  Speaker 4: I just think that, you know, it's also when you
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  Speaker 4: think about, you look at the album cover and you
• 9:05
  Speaker 4: hear the title for All My Dogs, I think we
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  Speaker 4: was looking for something a little bit more harder. A
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  Speaker 4: little bit more aggressive.
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  Speaker 1: Let's see what happens.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, because I feel like he was saying
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  Speaker 3: he gay.
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  Speaker 2: That is not what was said, and that is an
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  Speaker 2: old clip that Drake put on his story.
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  Speaker 1: He always coming for Drake.
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  Speaker 3: I can remember a lot of things where he came
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  Speaker 3: from Drake. Like Marvin's room.
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  Speaker 1: He was like, if my nigga, if a nigga, that's
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  Speaker 1: a weak ass shit for a nigga.
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  Speaker 2: He comes for everybody. Like that is his fucking job.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 2: Not saying that Drake can't clap back because the fucking
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  Speaker 2: clap backs were superb.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: And Drake's story, even the breakfast club posted him calling
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  Speaker 2: that boy, what do you call him?
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  Speaker 1: A low budget or something. A knockoff. I don't see
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  Speaker 1: anything wrong. Cause all Charlamagne said was, listen, it's not
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  Speaker 1: very Drake like.
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  Speaker 2: For this song with SZA, Sliming You Out to have
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  Speaker 2: come out and nobody talked about it until several days
• 10:02
  Speaker 2: later that's all he said really.
• 10:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah we've talked more about Holly Berry.
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  Speaker 3: Being upset with the photo than we did the actual
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  Speaker 3: song you're right like I didn't I you know I
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  Speaker 3: was upset with him with how he started this song
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  Speaker 3: he was like Y'all don't want love. You want to
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  Speaker 3: learn how to use a fork and all kind of
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  Speaker 3: shit like that. I was like, wait, who are you
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  Speaker 3: talking about?
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  Speaker 1: What does that mean?
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  Speaker 3: Women don't know the right fork to use.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, and then he talked about slavery and whipping also?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So I don't know the right fork to use.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody taught you? So shit. I'm going to grab the
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  Speaker 1: one right there next to me.
• 10:39
  Speaker 2: Well, you have a salad fork and then you have
• 10:41
  Speaker 2: a dinner fork.
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  Speaker 1: I know, but I can't tell which one is which.
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  Speaker 1: They look alike. One got four prongs, one got three, right?
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  Speaker 2: Well, no, because the salad fork is the shorter fork, right?
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but sometimes they have less prongs.
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  Speaker 2: I think the three-prong is more for appetizers, maybe. Girl,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe we need a fucking etiquette. Who gives a fuck?
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  Speaker 1: We just don't eat. Nigga. And I might not even
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  Speaker 1: use a fork depending on what we eating. Right, and
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  Speaker 1: here's the thing.
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  Speaker 3: If I'm sitting with someone and they're, like, critiquing which
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  Speaker 3: fork I use, we are not compatible.
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  Speaker 1: Because you ain't using no fork when you eat this ass, Drake. Like,
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  Speaker 1: what is the problem? You know he, like, makes stupid booties, okay?
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  Speaker 1: Use your hands and your mouth. That's it.
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  Speaker 3: But, you know, any confrontation is actually good for his album,
• 11:30
  Speaker 3: you know? Any conversation about it is always good.
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: You know, a little beef. Remember his beef with, um...
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  Speaker 1: Meek Mills, that was good for his music. This is
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  Speaker 1: good for his music too.
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  Speaker 2: And Charlamagne kind of alluded to that. Yeah, he did say,
• 11:43
  Speaker 2: he said, I'm lying, but you know, me and Drake,
• 11:46
  Speaker 2: we do this every time his album's coming out. You know,
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  Speaker 2: I critique it. He called me a hater. We just
• 11:51
  Speaker 2: do this every time. I'm lying, but that's what we do.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if people listen to I'm lying or
• 11:57
  Speaker 2: maybe it's not a lie. It could, they could very
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  Speaker 2: well be doing this.
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  Speaker 1: Who knows? Who knows? It's all fun. Right.
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  Speaker 3: I can't wait for the album to come out October 6th.
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  Speaker 3: It was supposed to come out on the 22nd, the
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  Speaker 3: day of the concert. And I was hoping that it
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  Speaker 3: did so I could know all the songs before I
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  Speaker 3: got there.
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  Speaker 1: But it is what it is. How was the second
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  Speaker 1: show when you went? Hot. Baby, it was double the
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  Speaker 1: people there. Really? It was double the people.
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  Speaker 3: That VIP was so packed. It was so packed. I
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  Speaker 3: was sweating like a hooker in church. And Drake Daddy
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  Speaker 3: was in there looking like.
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  Speaker 1: Matrix. He had on a Matrix outfit that night.
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  Speaker 3: It was like a long black vest with holes in
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  Speaker 3: it and shit.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, okay. McDonough. Y'all tell me love Drake ass.
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  Speaker 1: I don't see it. I don't understand why. I do. Why?
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to go to Nashville on Sunday to see
• 12:49
  Speaker 3: him again.
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: You going where, bitch? Nashville. Interesting. What's next in stupid
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: internet news? Joe Biden is stupid.
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  Speaker 2: Your body's so stupid.
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  Speaker 1: Like, is there going to be a law against this shit?
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: Why is the old.
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  Speaker 2: Ass people right in the country making decisions for us
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  Speaker 2: they're not going to be around for to deal with?
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  Speaker 1: Right. But you know what?
• 13:17
  Speaker 3: I say that about when they had announced that James
• 13:20
  Speaker 3: Earl Jones was going to voice Mufasa on The Lion King.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, he ain't going to be around then.
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: But he made it. He did. He did that shit.
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: He did make it. Simba.
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  Speaker 2: Simba.
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  Speaker 1: Remember who you are. I was like, damn, James.
• 13:35
  Speaker 2: Like, we do be having a lot of health issues. Like,
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: dementia is, like, running rampant right now in the black community.
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  Speaker 2: But black people usually keep they fucking mind, bitch. We
• 13:44
  Speaker 2: be a hundred around here acting stupid. So I expect
• 13:47
  Speaker 2: black people to have a little bit more, like, their
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: mind left.
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: The shit that we are seeing with these white politics
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  Speaker 2: is unprecedented. Like, what the fuck is happening and why
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: are they still in control? Joe Biden called LL Cool J,
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: LL J Cool.
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  Speaker 1: And then went on to call him a boy.
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  Speaker 2: Now that's the part. That's the, fuck the name, slip up.
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  Speaker 2: I can understand that. But when a white man- He said,
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  Speaker 2: by the way, that.
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  Speaker 3: Boy, that boy's got biceps bigger than my thighs.
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  Speaker 1: Now are we at the slave marketplace? Right. Where you saying,
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  Speaker 1: this is a big strong, look at his ox, look
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  Speaker 1: at his back. Look at this boy. Right.
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  Speaker 2: When a white man says boy, it just screams racism.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Pertaining to another black man. Exactly. Because if it
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  Speaker 1: was like two little boys, then okay. But you talking
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: about another man and he 50. That is not a boy.
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  Speaker 1: So that's different. Yeah. It's giving. Yeah. It's giving what
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: you said it gave.
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  Speaker 2: And he was actually delivering a speech at the Congressional
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  Speaker 2: Black Caucus when he did this.
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  Speaker 3: And don't even know the nigga name. And it ain't
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  Speaker 3: but three letters and one word.
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  Speaker 1: Not even didn't know the nigga name.
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  Speaker 2: Let's refrain from saying nigga while we talk about this
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  Speaker 2: nigga calling the nigga a boy.
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  Speaker 3: He didn't even know that black man, that black king's name.
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: LL Cool James. Cool James. Ladies love Cool James for
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  Speaker 3: y'all who didn't know what that stood for.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's terrible. I don't know, man. Y'all voted for
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  Speaker 1: that nigga. All right, let's move on. Ari Fletcher.
• 15:33
  Speaker 2: So Ari Fletcher was on Carisha, please. You know, one
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: of the top rated podcast slash TV shows of all
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: time somehow.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: But anyway. Yeah. So she did get all the good guests. Right. Exactly.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: So she she interviewed Ari Fletcher. And, you know, I
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: didn't watch the whole thing. I watched the clips.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: I really don't.
• 15:58
  Speaker 2: Tuning to this stuff too much. But during a sit
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: down with Young Miami, the city girl rapper asks Fletcher
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: if her child's father still tries to be intimate with
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: her when they interact for the sake of their son.
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: And she basically insinuating like, mm-hmm, yeah, he be doing that.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: But you know, she just be like, boy, whatever. Go
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: ahead about your business. I know Moneybaggio don't like that shit.
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: But they ain't never around each other for anything they
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: ever like. For him to take it too far.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: And just be Just him saying little slick shit. Which
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: we know that baby daddies always think they got access
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: to their baby mama. That's why I don't be liking
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: niggas with kids. Because I don't want to have to
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: slap you, them churn, and the mama.
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: And that's what be happening. Not the children and the mama. Girl,
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: let me tell you something.
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you.
• 16:45
  Speaker 3: I seen the video and it made me think of
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: you because you always talking about spanking these kids and
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: not spanking these kids. I seen a cat beat the
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: shit out of his baby.
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: Kicking him down the hill?
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: No, it was a cat that ran away from the
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: group of kittens. And the mama came and found them.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: And she was like, meow, meow, meow, meow.
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: It looked like she was talking shit. And then she
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: smacked that cat. She literally took her paw, smacked the cat,
• 17:07
  Speaker 3: and then grabbed it.
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: I see that. I was like, see? Everybody pop their kids.
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: Man, keep your hands off little people, man. These adults
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: need their ass whooped.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Okay? My kid's getting pop-pop.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: I wonder what a money bag you'll think about this conversation.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: Cause I know I'll be like side eyeing. I know
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: he got plenty of baby mamas who probably be trying
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: to get on that dick. She just got one baby daddy.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: He got to worry about, but men can't handle this
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: type of shit. Like just knowing that your girl, baby daddy,
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: still be trying to get that coochie.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: I know it's a problem. And she probably was tipsy.
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: I know she probably regret even opening that can of
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: worms because she You know, y'all got a co-parent.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: Now, I don't know if he's still with... I don't know.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: I think he gave that... Oh, I think they broke up. Yeah.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: I think so, too. I think so, too. I'm not sure.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: I'm not in, like.
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: Maybe that's why she felt like it was okay to
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: release that little tidbit of information.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure... What's the girl? What's the other baby mama? Tiana?
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: Tiani or something?
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure she know that. I'm pretty sure she
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: know his ass be being slick with Ari. That might
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: be one of the reasons they're not together.
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: If they aren't together.
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: I feel like Ari and Carisha look alike. I was
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: kind of tipsy watching that shit. I was like, which
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: bitches which?
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: You can keep up. All the bitches look alike. No,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I love them girls, man.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: You saw Yellow Amy was talking about how married men
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: be the biggest tricks. Now that right there is the
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: fucking truth. That's why I'm like, man, I'm going to
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: have to be my own girl.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: Well, they don't have a choice. What else do they
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: have to offer? That's hush money, and this is all
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: I can.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Give you, money.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: Niggas really be trying not to even do that and
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: still be married or in relationships. And you just want
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: somebody else to play with you.
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, talking about I want love. Nigga, get in that home.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? I'm not cooking over here.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: It ain't nothing but pussy over here. Okay? And jokes.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: Pussy and jokes. And you bring the smoke and money. Like,
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: that's just nothing else. Over here, I'm not cooking, bitch.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: I might hang out with you occasionally if you take
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: me out of town somewhere.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: I'm not.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: Now, listen, I don't just sign up to be Zy Bitch, okay?
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: I don't just sign up to be fucking with somebody's husband.
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: Absolutely not, because I don't want that type of karma.
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: But I'm not going to say I've never done it.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: I want a boyfriend. I like somebody right now, too.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: Who you like, bitch? Who you like? Who you like?
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: He's so smart, this one. What happened to all the
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: other ones? How about this one? This your first smart man? No,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: this ain't my first smart man, but this one is
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: like super smart. Like he's so intelligent. My pussy go.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: Say another big word. What is the word for that?
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: When somebody is in love, like when that's what they like,
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: they like intelligence in the person.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Like that's what it was. It is sapiosexual. Okay, yeah.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: I didn't realize I was that until last year when.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: We went to that summit in Nashville.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: That you were attracted to smart men? Yeah, I like nerds.
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely like nerds. I like niggas who wear
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: glasses all the time. Not to say all people who
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: wear glasses be nerds, but usually niggas and women who
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: wear glasses be fucking nerds. Anyway, y'all, listen, when we
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: get back, listen, we want to talk about how the
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: motherfucking prisoners are running to prison right now. When we
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: get back after this break, we'll explain what that means
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: in a minute.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Tune in. Right. Not the literal prison, just the prison
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: of your mind. All right.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: So, y'all, we back and. You know what I want
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: to talk about? Because we are women of a nice
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: ripe age, right? Pretty seasoned. You start like your brain
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: just starts being a little bit different. You start seeing
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: things a little bit different. Like I mentioned earlier, I
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: used to wear the microwave ponytail, lime green, hot.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Pink, all of that shit. Right. Did you grow out
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: of it?
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: But it seems like now like that is not just
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: the hair thing. It's not just about hair. But just
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: the representation of black women right now in media, in
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: the music, on TV, it fucking sucks. And I don't
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: know what we can do as regular black women to
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: combat it. Because I think at the top of the spectrum,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: you have brilliant black women, right? Who are so brilliant
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: and in positions of power that are being used by
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: white men, by white supremacy, as far as I'm concerned,
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: like some of the black people we have in politics,
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: you have that spectrum, right? And on the other end
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: of the spectrum, it's motherfucking sexy red. It's sexy red.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: It's Sukihana.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: But there's a million people in between there. That's what
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: I know though. But we, the million people in between,
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: we have no representation hardly. And the representation that we
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: do have is not what's being put on a forefront
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: to show the rest of the world this is who
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: black women actually are, right? The rest of the world
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: sees us as sexy red. How does that make you feel? That,
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: you know, our stars is often who's representing us. Even
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: when they talk about politics, like why would Joe Biden
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: be sitting down with Cardi B ever?
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: They would never.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: Go into Asian community and get You know, Japan got
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: fucking hardcore rappers and shit. You know, they wouldn't go
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: over there to use it to represent Japan.
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: Because Cardi B has huge influence in our community. Let's
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: be clear, you know, despite what we think of these
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: white people, we support these artists, you know. We support
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: the Cardi B's. Look at Sexy Red. We support Sexy Red.
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: We was all this summer.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: My pussy pink. My booty whole brown. All over the country.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: Singing that shit. So when we say we, we talk
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: about the collective. When we say we. Yeah. Yeah. The collective.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: And I mean, it's deplorable, right? Those lyrics. But we
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: were singing it. We didn't. Nobody was like, oh, that
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: is awful. And we need to censor this.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: And we came together as this huge group and was like,
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: we need a censor.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: No, we had fun with it.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: The only way a white woman would be able to
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: come out with lyrics in that way is if she
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: were to establish herself as a hip hop artist. She
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: would never be able to come out like a Taylor
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Swift talking about my pussy pink, my booty hole brown.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: They wouldn't allow it. These people are loud.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: They make music about drinking blood and shit like that.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: And I see one white girl piss on somebody on stage.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: I did. I remember that.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: I remember that shit. I don't know what the hell
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: that was about.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: She pulled her pants down and pissed on somebody's face.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: Who was that? Who was that? I can't remember.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: But I was like, yeah, they got that shit. It's
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: just we not in tune to it.
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: I don't think they got that shit as much as
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: we got that shit.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: They got their satanic music, cult music. Yeah, I'm just
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: not concerned with their shit. I'm just concerned with ours.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: As we should be.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: So, there is no representation for the trillion of black
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: women that's in the middle.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Hardly.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: There is, we just don't support it.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: So, give me, like, what are we not supporting? Because,
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: I mean, we support our R & B singers, right?
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: But they don't have, they're not getting the big machines
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: behind them.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: They're not opening for Drake. Rhapsody is not selling out
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: an arena. Yeah.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: But that's because no one's putting her there, though. The
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: machine isn't putting her there. These people, sexy red lyrics
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: did not get her where the fuck she's at. There's
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: a machine behind these people. It's social engineering is what
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: I believe. Just like we can go back to the
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: black exploitation films, which was created by African-Americans, right? Just
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: like rap and everything else, the different music genres was
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: definitely created by African-Americans because we didn't have a place.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: So we started our own shit. And all these different
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: things is just representation of how people actually live in
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: day-to-day life, right? They just rap about it. We put
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: it in the music. But when you have adults making
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: music and imagery for the young minds, right, that aren't developed,
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: who don't know how to differentiate between real and fake,
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: But they might be living this life. They might be
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: living exactly like, I know a lot of sexy reds, bitch.
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: I'm from Charleston, South Carolina. It's a lot of bitches
• 26:04
  Speaker 2: that look like sexy red here.
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: She from St.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: Louis.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: I used to live in St.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Louis.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: There's a lot of them. So they exist.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying that they shouldn't.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: Do they not deserve representation? They do.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: They do deserve representation.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: But they should not be put on the pedestal that
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: they are on. They are using the worst of us
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: to represent the majority of us. And it's fucked up.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, nobody wants to see a bad black
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: bitch reading books.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Nobody wants to see that. It's not fun. It gets
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: the people going. It's not fun. It's not fun for
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: whatever reason. Nobody's entertained by that.
• 26:42
  Speaker 3: But, you know, we talk about the music and its
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: influence and things like that. But what about we don't
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: treat movie stars or we don't hold them to that
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: same regard? Like, it's a lot of black people in
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: movies that killing each other up in movies.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: And doing all these things. And nobody's batting an eye.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: You know, nobody's batting an eye at them. And they're like,
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I'm an actor. I'm a thespian.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: I don't like how Tyler Derry represents black women in
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: his movies. I don't like how he makes, it's a
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: certain type of black woman in all his movies. A
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: couple different kinds, right? So you got the big mama,
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: which is your grandma who cussing and yelling at you
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: all day long, just being rowdy ass old lady. And
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: then you got the rich black woman who gets finessed
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: by a young black man or got to settle.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: The same shit he just put out a whole interview
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: about the other day. Like black woman having to come down, right,
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: to meet her mate. So that's the other person. Then
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: you got the fucking Ratchets. That's what he puts in
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: his films to represent us. And that's just a couple different.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: They clone Tyrone. On They Clone Tyrone, who were the
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: main characters? Like, what were they in life?
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: A drug dealer, a prostitute, and a pimp.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: That's what we have. And even in that movie, if
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: y'all haven't seen They Clone Tyrone, it's what the fuck
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: we talking about right now, right?
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Remember the part, hold on, hold on.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: Remember the part where they came out the club, right?
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: They came out the club and he, like, the white
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: guy said some, like, little magic spell type shit and
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: had all the black people chasing them. And then once
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: they stopped at the car, he let the whole cat
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: out the bag about how this is a project. All
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: this stuff, the music derives from project living, right? But
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: listen to the word that they're using to represent where
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: we're living at. It's a fucking project. It's social engineering. Literally,
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: it's a damn experiment, right? you know what I'm saying
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: so when are we going to realize that we are
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: being experimented on in more than one way.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah because you know what as much as I enjoyed
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: that Drake concert I left to get and everybody loves
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: 21 Savage when he came out in his basketball shorts
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: everybody went crazy you know they was.
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: Like 21 can you do something for me it was
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: like what they said murder gang shit murder gang shit
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Murder gang.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: And they chanting that. And that just made my spirit
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: feel like, I don't like that. I'm going to get
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: drunk with these rich niggas at the bar. That's how
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: you transmute that energy. Let me go get some spirits. Yeah,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: that's how I do it. And it brought me.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: Back that motherfucking Patron bitch that had me sick until today.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: You asked for tequila. That's what they had. No, you
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: didn't tell me it was Patron, though.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: That shit needs to be banned from liquor stores.
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: Nobody should be drinking that.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: It should be 899387 and Patron. Right. Because, baby, that shit.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: You can definitely use it as gas if shit get
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: crazy out here, for real. Yeah, for real.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: But, yeah, so, like, even in a– and that's why
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: I don't like concerts.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: Because y'all know I'm big on energy, right? So just
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: like you said, they in there chanting murder gang shit.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: When you chant stuff, you got to be careful what
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: words you use. Like spelling, it's called spelling for a reason.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: As you write, as you speak, you're creating a reality
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: for yourself. So imagine if you get six, seven, 800,
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: I don't know, thousand people in one dome, right? chanting
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: these things, also chanting it to this big figure. It
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: was like y'all worshiping at this point, that fucking big
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: ass statue of Virgil Abloh. Like that was fucking weird
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: as hell to me too.
• 30:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: But you gotta be careful what you letting into your body. Yeah.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: What you consume, not just food. Right. But so even like,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: I just feel like.
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: We are the only race of people that I can
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: think about that makes music about killing each other. I mean,
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: Eminem did make some songs about killing his baby mama
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: and shit like that.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: But for the most part, it's black people. If I
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: was Will Smith, I would hit you with a stick.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: He said he would shot Chris Rock. But he's rapping it.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about how Drake sings it. The way you
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: make me.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: Feel these days. He talk about murder niggas too. I'll
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: slide for you. Yeah, I know.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: It's all bad. Drop him like a... Wipe him like
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: he's snotty for you, baby girl.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: It's just, I guess, because he's singing it, it sounds... No!
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: But it is bad. It's all bad. And they had
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: on like... They had like that fucking Grim Reaper holding
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: the knife floating in the air. Like, what is happening?
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: Drake came out with Butcher's outfit on with the knives
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: and blood all over it.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Like, what are we doing? It said free sex. Free
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: sex on the top. But... What are we doing?
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: Sexy Red opened for Drake. Why wouldn't Drake have Rhapsody
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: open for him? Or somebody who speaks more positively. I mean,
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: that's his genre. The ratchet shit is Drake's genre. He
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: just sings it. But it's definitely his genre. Yeah.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: I miss the grassy Drake.
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we are not... We don't have any representation. And
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: it's disgusting. I don't know what regular black women can do.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: Somebody, I remember it was a video like maybe two
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: weeks ago, this girl came out and she was talking
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: about sexy red in particular. Like this shit is fucking disgusting.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: It's low vibrational because it is. You know what I'm saying?
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: Like I'm not saying these women can't exist. They should
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: absolutely be able to exist. There's a reason they're the
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: way they are, right? But they should not be put
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: on a pedestal for the rest of the world to
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: think that. Because that's just, we can't do anything about that, right?
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: We can't help. how people see us.
• 32:55
  Speaker 3: I can't agree with that because I just feel like
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: everybody deserves to shine and be themselves and be authentic
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: to who they are and to be celebrated, right?
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: No, we can't keep celebrating fuck shit. We can't keep
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: celebrating the worst shit. We can't keep celebrating murder. We
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: can't keep celebrating baby mamas.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: No, okay, I agree with murder. Murder is not good.
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: Baby mama culture. We can't keep celebrating that. We can't
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: keep celebrating being drug addicts.
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: No, I don't agree with that either. But I mean,
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: what are we supposed to do? If you're a baby mama,
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: you shouldn't be celebrating?
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: I feel like there needs to be... Listen, first of all,
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: let me say this.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: Fuck adults.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: Fuck adults. We got to start with the kids. But
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: these people are having children, and they actually have kids
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: at a higher rate than regular black people, right? Who
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: try to do it the right way. You know what
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: I'm saying?
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: They are regular black people. Are they? I feel like
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: I'm on another planet. Where are we? Where are we?
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: Where did it go wrong? Where did we go wrong?
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: What happened? I don't know, girl.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying they aren't regular, but they were created
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: out of bad situations.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: Circumstance.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: That black people were put in.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: So we can go back to the beginning of hip-hop,
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: starting with N.W.A. and Luke and them. You know what
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: I mean? Yeah, two live crews. Two live crews talking
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: about fucking the bitches.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, they were the first ones to start with
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: the vulgar, obscene rap lyrics.
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, N.W.A. was talking about fucking on bitches and murder.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Right? And they called it freedom of speech. You know,
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: people were trying to stop it. People were trying to
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: stop it from happening. But, you know... they were allowed
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: because it was a freedom of speech, a violation against
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: their freedom of speech, you know?
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: And this is how they actually live. Right. So they just,
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: through the music, it's a form of art allegedly, but
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: I got to, we have to agree the regular black people.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: And I'm not saying like, they just, they're not a
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: part of the community, but we, it gotta be something.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: Something has to happen. Because other communities don't allow the
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: worst of them to be represented like that. They don't
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: allow it. Why do we allow it? Even with the
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: black exploitation films. We put out all the ratchet shit
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: that happens in the... That's what gets the funding. They
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: are funding these things for a reason. It's social engineering.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: It's psychological control at this point. You add in a
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: bad diet with it, motherfuckers is not thinking clear you
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: adding a bad air and.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: I do think the music is gotten out of control
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: but when we were 20 the music was out of
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: control you know it's just getting.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: Worse and worse i know that's what i'm saying so
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: maybe we just getting older and it's almost like.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: This ain't the world we're turning into our parents i
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: know that's all because i i can remember arguing with
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: my mom about rap Like.
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: Turn that rap crap off. Or she would be like,
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: turn that shit off. How you telling me to turn
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: that shit off? Cussing, telling me to turn off the cussing. Right.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: Cussing at me about the cussing. Right.
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: But I remember, you know, not understanding why adults were
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: so mad about the music. You know, it's just music.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: I know the difference, but there are a lot of
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: people who don't know the difference and this is actually
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: their reality. So it's reinforcing the bad behavior. It's reinforcing
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: all the ratchet shit.
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: These young males, the music is definitely making them feel
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: like it's okay. They don't value each other's life.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they look up to the big homie in the
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: neighborhood who don't own shit. Y'all don't own the projects.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: Y'all don't own y'all block. Y'all don't own nothing. Y'all
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: barely own the guns y'all got. Y'all be fucking swapping
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: guns out. You got to borrow a gun to go
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: do a goddamn drive-by. You don't even got your own gun, nigga.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: You don't have... Well, I wouldn't want to drive by
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: with my own gun. Right?
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: I mean, but they don't own the guns. It's stolen shit,
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: you know, anyway. But y'all don't even have enough guns.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: If we actually had to go... Like, I feel like
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: gang members are our military.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: If we really needed to, like.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: If black people really needed to do some shit, they
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: are just the misguided military. Because they ready to crash out.
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: Why we cannot... Why can't we not transmute that energy?
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: and put it into something more positive.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: Like how the Black Panthers were.
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: Even with that, Black Panther definitely started out. That's what
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: it was about.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: Not even Black Panther.
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about the gangs. The gangs actually started out
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: on some Black Panther shit, like doing shit for the community.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: Police in their own communities. They were infiltrated by the CIA.
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: They weren't always what it is today. They were doing
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: stuff for the community. They did free lunch and feeding
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: the kids and stuff like that. now it's just everybody
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: is so fucking rogue it's so rogue and I feel
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: like this is these are the type of things more
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: platforms need to be talking about because we gotta figure
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: out what we can do what can we do as
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: black people to help.
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: But I feel like this has been the conversation for
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: the last 30 years what can we do what can
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: we do what can we do what can we do
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: that has been the conversation nobody I'm sorry to.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: Say nobody has the answer yet I haven't heard any
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: answer that was like sustainable.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: I heard one, but the black community really, the one
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: I heard was from Ice Cube, right? When Ice Cube
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: came up with his plan for black America that he
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: wanted to present to the Republicans and the Democrats during
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: the last election, he took that plan first to Trump.
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: I mean, first to Biden. Biden told him to wait
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: until after the election because he was just so sure
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: he was.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: Going to win, right?
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: And he took it to Trump also. Trump was ready
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: to sit down. but we deterred all of that. The
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: black collective.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: So what was it?
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: We was trying to shit on. It was a plan for,
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: we need money, right? It's not that black people are broke.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: We mismanaged money. So even if we were to get reparations,
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: niggas ain't gonna know what to do with that fucking money.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: I know what type of education too.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: Yes. You need financial, uh, financial literacy, all that stuff.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: All of that education is always a key to success.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: But if we, only have the Cardi B's and these
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: people telling us we don't even got it you don't
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: need no education just go pop your pussy at the
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: strip club you know what I'm saying like that's not
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: okay that is and once the women once we see
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: women being like this a part of any culture It's
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: just downhill from there. You know what I'm saying? You're
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: only as good as your women. Any nation is only
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: as good as the women.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: But I think there are more Michelle Obamas than there
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: are Cardi B's in our culture. You think so? Yeah,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: I just think they're not being highlighted. There are more everyday, hardworking.
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: Good black women moving around in this country than there are.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: No shade to Cardi B because I think Cardi B
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: is awesome. Me too. I think so too.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: But that stereotype of what all black women are. I
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: think there's more of us.
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: I don't even think Cardi considers herself a black woman,
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: but she's lumped in with us.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: Oh, okay. Well, we won't even use her then. We'll
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: say they're Sukianas. And I think, you know, Sukiana right now,
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: who she is, we'll see a lot of growth from
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: her as she gets older because of a grown woman.
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: Because how old is she? 30. She's still in her 20s.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: She is 30 with four kids. Okay.
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: Well, as she gets older, you know, some people move
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: a little slower. But as she gets older, I think
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: we'll see a lot of growth from that woman. You know,
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: she's not no dummy.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: No, she's absolutely.
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: And that's why I always, and I always say this,
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: I be struggling, man, because I want so much more
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: for her. Like, yeah, you're getting the money, you're getting
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: the check, but you're selling your soul for it.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: And I feel like that's what we need to be
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: thinking about more so than what's going on in this
• 41:12
  Speaker 2: current life. If you believe in an afterlife, if you
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: believe in something else other than this, what's your soul?
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: How's your soul? What's the condition of your soul right now?
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: Is it still intact?
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: Do you have it? Because that's the real currency. What
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: did Jeezy say? When I get to hell, Lord knows
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: I'm going to fry. Remember? Who said that? Young Jeezy. Goddamn.
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: And I know he still don't believe that. I understand
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: it takes time. Everybody has to evolve. GZ and Gucci
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: Mane have done the biggest evolution, but they also was
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: detrimental to the black community. The music they made that
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: their children aren't growing up listening to. They might listen
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: to it, but they don't have to grow up in
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: the way that the kids that this thing is affecting
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: are having to grow up. So at some point, Motherfuckers
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: gotta have some social responsibility, man. You can't just say, oh,
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: I'm just getting to the bag. Fuck that bag when
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: you ruining a whole generation of people. Because we talked
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: about drugs. We talked about selling drugs. Now the kids
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: are on drugs. These 20-year-olds. These motherfuckers born in the
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: 90s and the 2000s. Like, they on drugs. They not
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: living long. Yeah.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It is a different thing.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: They did talk about, our generation talked about moving to work,
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: and now these kids is doing it. But, I mean,
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: you was moving to work to their parents, so they
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: wasn't home raising their kids.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: So now their kids is on drugs, too. It's so bad.
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: It's so bad, man. Who you thought was taking the
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: work that you was moving?
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: I mean, these niggas rap about how they was selling
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: drugs to their old mama. Mm-hmm.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: Rather get it for me than so she going to
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: get it. I might as well get that money.
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: If she going to get the drugs, I might as
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: well get that money instead of letting somebody else get it.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: Your mom out here is sucking dick for it. Sucking
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: dick for money. No, for the drugs. Man, listen. The
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: 80s and 90s was very hard for black people. And
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: this is just... Residual effect. Yeah, of what our people
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: have gone through.
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: So.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: So that's why we talked about this earlier when we
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: were trying to plan for the show too. And I
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: was saying how, you know, we can keep, we can't
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: really keep blaming the past.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: It does shape the future, but at some point we
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: got to take accountability collectively to make it, to make
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: a change. Like when is, I feel like.
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: I'm just, I feel like a broken record saying the
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: same shit though, over and over and over again, you know?
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: Well, all right, let's say we take accountability. Then what?
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: Then what? What are we doing?
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: Oh, so what I was saying about Ice Cube having
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: his plan for black America, that's basically to put money, education.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: It's a big ass. So what happened to the plan?
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: It was discarded because we didn't support him. Black people
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: did not support Ice Cube because he was presenting it
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: to whoever would listen. He wasn't choosing sides, say, old
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: Democratic or Republican. It's whoever would help Black America, right?
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: But Black people were so blinded by hate for Trump, right?
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: The shit just went to the wayside because Biden was
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: never trying to hear that shit. He told him to
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: wait until after the election. Now nothing after the election.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: He didn't sit down with Trump because Black people was
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: fighting him about possibly sitting down with Trump. Any Black
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: person you see In the White House.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: I just can't. I can't support Trump just because of how.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: It's not about support. Trump is using these people to
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: get what the fuck we need.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: Right, right. But, right, I agree.
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: But what I saw from him was a country more
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: divided than ever.
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: How?
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: Where are we at right now?
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: So I don't want to get into a political conversation,
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: but I was just talking about that package. The thing,
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: the plan that somebody had for black people that was
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: discarded because we didn't support it.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: We have to support people. I never heard anything about
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: it to support. No. It was all over.
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: During the election, it was all over social media, for sure.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: Our listeners, if y'all, if anybody, let me give you
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: guys exactly what Ice Cube planned for Black America.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: I wonder if we can get Ice Cube on to
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: go ahead.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: And talk about this.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: I messaged him.
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: I messaged Ice Cube, girl. I definitely want Ice Cube.
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: I love Ice Cube. He's a Gemini. Dope.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: He's one of the elders in our community as far
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: as I'm concerned. He had put a message up. a
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: couple months ago saying that he was going to go
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: to anybody's platform who wanted to talk, right? Because he
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: wanted to talk about what he's going through.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: So we talked back. He responded. He responds.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: A contract with black America is the name of it.
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: And you could find it on ice cube.com.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Right. This is what he.
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: Was trying to present to whoever would listen to put
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: these initiatives forward. We can't keep just asking for reparations, right?
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: We got to ask for real deliverables. And I've said
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: this before. I know what I want in a reparations package.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: I don't just want money because I know black people
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: don't know what the fuck to do with money. You
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: got to have the education like we said, right? I
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: want whole life insurance because people can withdraw to that
• 46:28
  Speaker 2: and start a business. You know, you got resources to
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: do some shit other than be the working class in America.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: We are old something in this country. We are old
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: more than sexy red. We old more than pink pussy
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: and brown booty holes.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. So when are we going to
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: demand more? Well, we already got that. So we can't
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: be old. So we came with. Everybody should ain't pink.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I heard some of the coochie was brown,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: like in their side. Wait, what? Yes. Now, you ain't
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: never seen no brown coochies on that. And that's why
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: this show is so good.
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: Because we could be talking about, you know, economic reform
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: for black people and then jump straight into black booty
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: holes and pink coochies.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: It's all necessary. It's all necessary. Balance. And that's the thing.
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: It's about balance. Because I think the sexy reds are necessary.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: I think they.
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: are a part of our culture that exists and needs representation.
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: But I do also think that the women who are
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: Michelle Obama-esque need more representation as well.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 47:39
  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: More representation.
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: Because I think it's a little sexy red in Michelle,
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: and it's a little Michelle in sexy red.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: You know?
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: What Charlamagne always say, righteousness and ratchetness.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: Yes. Both need it. Combination. But we definitely....
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: Have to have a better balance. Right now, the scales
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: are just not even.
• 48:05
  Speaker 3: Y'all, if y'all listen to our show, y'all know Ice Cube.
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: Tell him we want him to come on and talk
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: about the contract with Black America created in 2020.
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: We want to get into that. It looks good. Absolutely.
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but we didn't support the black man, man. And
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: this is a nigga who's been around. This is somebody
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: who rapped Ratchet. For a long time. But he even
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: got away from that a long time ago.
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but he also 50 years old. He 50. Even
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: when he was younger.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: Even when he was younger, he got away from it.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? That's why he split up
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: from NWA. Yeah. Because he realized what it was doing
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: to the communities. At some point, you got to have
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: social responsibility for.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: Your people, man.
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: You can't get all this money out your community and
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: then do nothing for it. Because we are the ones
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: supporting you. We are the reason they even who they are.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Yeah, I agree. Well, this
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: was a good conversation. I think so today. Yeah.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: Do we have a, do we have a dumb bitch story?
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: I do, but it's my own. So I ain't telling it.
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: I don't have no reason. Dumb bitch story. I'm so
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: single y'all. I'm so fucking single.
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: I'm so single I done started deleting motherfuckers out my
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: phone deleting people on social media.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I'm just.
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah what I am learning though is to get the
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: fuck on early and soon yes I'm no longer staying.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: Well maybe you're not being patient though.
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: How much patience you want bitch I don't got a
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: year for nobody no more to realize this ain't it.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: I don't have it. Yeah. But sometimes you got to
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: give grace. Ain't that your favorite word?
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: That is my favorite word. I feel like three months
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: of grace is enough.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah. Three months is good. Yeah. Like that's enough.
• 49:57
  Speaker 2: Like in 12 months I can have four relationships.
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, I guess.
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: A new relationship every three months until they get, like,
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: I like new shit. So I'm going to keep trying.
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: I'm going to keep trying, man. I wish I had
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: more of that. I don't never claim a nigga. I
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: don't have no, 12 months, no relationship.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: None. I'm a commitment folk. I know that about myself.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: I don't claim nobody. Who? I'm sorry to this man.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: I do not know this man. What happened?
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: I just read this headline that said, my husband turns
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: 37 tonight.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: Guess I gotta fuck. Wait, why 37? Was you not
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: fucking on 36 or 35? I don't know, but it's
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: a three minute read.
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: Like, can we do this right? I don't know what
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: it's going to say. I want to read it right quick.
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: We getting the fuck up out of here. All right,
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: go ahead. So it says, my husband turns 37 tonight.
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: Guess I gotta fuck. I get very confused about gender
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: dynamics and relationship dynamics almost constantly, which shouldn't be that
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: surprising if you consider that I am divorced and remarried.
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: And like most 40-something males, oh, this is a guy.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: I don't have a ton of friends swirling around me.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: I have no idea what I'm doing in most relationships,
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: which might explain why I write about relationships and friendships constantly.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: How the fuck you write about the shit you don't
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: know about?
• 51:25
  Speaker 2: Anyway. It's an effort to explain some of the stuff
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: I cannot seem to grasp.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: I just.
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: Psychoanalyze myself. Should I now bill myself $ 200 for this hour?
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: About two years ago, I was at some social event.
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: I think it was related to horses because of where
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: I live. About five feet over from me, there was
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: a table of women in their 30s. I knew two
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: of the seven and maybe four of the seven's husbands.
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: I am not really friends with any one of them.
• 51:58
  Speaker 2: They mostly come from this community described here. One lady
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: gets up and loudly announces to her girlfriends slash mom friends, well, come,
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: my husband turns 37 tonight. Guess I got to go
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: home and fuck.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: I do.
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: Adamantly this is one statement by one woman in one
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: town at one moment in history but it was still
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: kind of impactful to me for a few reasons if
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: it was his birthday that day and in this specific
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: case i do know they have children why was she
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: at this thing and not spending time with him and
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: their kids why is he why is having sex with
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: her husband a chore i know for many it is
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: why is it a prerequisite on a birthday Why was
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: it said with such resignation and eye roll and unenlisted
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: laughter from the other ladies there?
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: I guess this.
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: Moment resides at the intersection of two themes. The first
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: is the quiet quitting of marriages.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Quiet quitting.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: Anyway, I don't ever want to be married to somebody
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: where I feel like sucking his.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: Dick is a chore.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: Well, I kind of already feel like sucking dick is
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: a chore. But I would hate to be married to
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: somebody And not want to have sex with them.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: I love it. That's sad to me. I love, like,
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: when we locked in, you come through the door. I'll
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: be like, pull that dick out.
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: Huh? Oh, pull that dick out.
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: But we also have never been married. And we've also
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: not been fucking, like, living in a bed with somebody
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: for a very long time. Like, sleeping next to them
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: every night. Then you add kids on top of that.
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: And then you add work on top of that. Like,
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: we have not lived that life yet. And this is
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: probably why a lot of single women be like, man.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: I mean, excuse me, and this is why a lot
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: of divorced women or married women be like, fuck this shit. Yeah.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: It's easier to be by yourself.
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I couldn't imagine, like, doing homework and getting
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: mad at Junior because he don't know what, he keeps saying,
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: three plus five is seven, even though I done taught
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: him that it was eight seven times, and now here
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: you come with your dick?
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: Get! Get!
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: That's my favorite word, get.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: Leave me. Yes. Yeah, I can't. Man, we don't know
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: until we get there. But I hope that I... But
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: I like to hope that I still would have the
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: desire to... What is it? Is it fellatio my husband?
• 54:30
  Speaker 2: Guess I gotta fuck tonight.
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: It's his nigga birthday.
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: I don't ever want to feel that way about my mate.
• 54:38
  Speaker 2: And I've actually been in a relationship before.
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: That's usually like.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: When you're not, like, sex to me is a form
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: of communication. So if we're not communicating, like, sexually, like,
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: I am really tapping out for real, for real. It's
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: like your mind go first for women and then your
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: body oftentimes. So I've definitely got fucked from the side
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: many times and I didn't feel like it. So I
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: can only imagine adding all these other things in.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Anyway, that was all. I've only lived with a
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: guy one time, and that's the only thing that was like.
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: Keeping you all together?
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah, even at the end, I still wanted to fuck him,
• 55:18
  Speaker 3: but I just didn't want to talk to him. Like,
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: put a pillow over your head, bitch.
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: Take this pussy and shut the fuck up. Pussy asshole. Shame. Shame.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all, listen. I don't know. I don't know
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: what we're going to do.
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: Maybe next episode we'll talk about some actual actionable items.
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: I don't know. What we could do with black people.
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: I just don't know. Right.
• 55:50
  Speaker 3: All right, we're going to make a post, and y'all
• 55:53
  Speaker 3: can tell us what y'all think is some actionable items
• 55:56
  Speaker 3: that we could share with the rest of everyone.
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: Let's come together on this shit as a community. It's stressful.
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all, listen. So if you enjoyed this episode,
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: tune in.
• 56:08
  Speaker 2: Every Thursday on the iHeartRadio app or wherever the fuck
• 56:10
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• 56:13
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• 56:17
  Speaker 2: you want to get on, kick it, Tam.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: Y'all, it's me, Official Tam Bam. I love y'all so
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: much and I appreciate y'all. And, you know, I want
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: to make another post, you know, here on our Instagram.
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: We Talk Back podcast because we want to know what
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: y'all would like to see and hear from us. So, yeah,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: let's get some information from y'all. We've been doing this
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: for two years, two plus years. Yes. And we want
• 56:42
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• 56:44
  Speaker 1: So let us know what you want to see and hear.
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: I know they hear the fucking sirens. Time to get
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: the fuck out of here, boy.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all remember to speak now. And never hold
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: your meat. Hold your meat.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: Bye.