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Block or Mute? · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and came
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  Speaker 1: Ridge Edge.
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  Speaker 2: We're back Two Teas in a Pod and Sea with
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  Speaker 2: Cynthia Bailey and Cynthia, I gotta warn you what I
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  Speaker 2: am in a mood today.
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  Speaker 1: Oh lord, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: You know when just like one person after another pisses
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  Speaker 2: you off.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, what happened?
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  Speaker 2: Well, it kind of just started with Okay, something that's
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  Speaker 2: like very near and dear to my heart is like
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  Speaker 2: anything that goes on within my business, within all in
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  Speaker 2: ye and you know, when you're managing forty women that
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  Speaker 2: work for you, of course there's going to be drama,
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  Speaker 2: of course. But two there was a drama happening without
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  Speaker 2: anyone alerting me. And I'm like, I'm the boss. I
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  Speaker 2: should have been alerted. I would have handled this in
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  Speaker 2: a way better way. Then I like find out somebody
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  Speaker 2: blocked somebody this, I'm like, oh my god. So I
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  Speaker 2: seriously am in one of those moods where I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: who blocks somebody that's not a housewife at this point?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true, Right, I have to.
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  Speaker 2: Be really fucking pissed to block them.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, this is gonna be a good podcast. Teddy's on
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  Speaker 1: one today.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I have a question for you. Is there anyone
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  Speaker 2: from the housewives world you've blocked?
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  Speaker 1: No, but I have muted a few.
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna have to tell me one, because that's one
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  Speaker 2: of the feedbacks i'd beginning, is that Cynthia will not
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  Speaker 2: share any of the juice. I need to just know
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  Speaker 2: one person.
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  Speaker 1: You've muted?
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  Speaker 2: It? Fine, does it rhyme with finya?
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  Speaker 1: No? No, no, I've never blocked finya.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Not gonna tell you what it is. But they're muted
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  Speaker 1: because they're still mutant, and they don't know that they're mutant.
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  Speaker 2: Are they from real housewives? Are they on Housewives of Atlanta?
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  Speaker 1: They're not currently on Housewives of Atlanta? And that's all
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  Speaker 1: I give you.
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  Speaker 2: They're not currently It's nice.
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  Speaker 1: It's a nice way of not having to see them
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  Speaker 1: on your timeline without blocking them, because what happens when
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  Speaker 1: you block them? You know, the housewive blogs have time
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  Speaker 1: and they're like, oh so they Bailey blocks so and so,
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  Speaker 1: and they make it a thing, and it's not a thing.
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  Speaker 1: It's not a thing. I just don't want to see
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  Speaker 1: them on my page. That's it.
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  Speaker 2: Nothing I know but sometimes I mute people that I
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  Speaker 2: don't even actually have a problem with. I just find
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  Speaker 2: them annoying, like.
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  Speaker 1: Ieople because I'm always like posting, so myself, I could say,
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  Speaker 1: I'm probably muted by a few people. So oh, if
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to see myself, I'll take a mute
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  Speaker 1: then a blog. Just keep following you, Okay, yeah, me too.
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  Speaker 2: We don't need to be losing the followers. Well, I've
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  Speaker 2: now become obsessed with going on Instagram and looking to
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  Speaker 2: see who's just forwarded right through the messages. You know
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  Speaker 2: that you can do that, Like they're too booked up
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  Speaker 2: to even see what you're doing. So like for and
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  Speaker 2: forward four, I'm like seven hundred and forty two forwards.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't even know. Okay, I have to look at
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  Speaker 1: that that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and a back is like a real big compliment,
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  Speaker 2: like they're like bad to go back and watch it again.
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  Speaker 2: They're like, oh, that was that good? That paid post
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  Speaker 2: was that good?
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  Speaker 1: Wow? You know I have to pay more attention. But
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  Speaker 1: you know, well, let's circle back really quick too. What
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  Speaker 1: some of the viewers were saying about me not giving
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  Speaker 1: up my tea, let me be very clear, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: own Housewives. Okay. One of the perps about not being
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  Speaker 1: on the show is I don't really have to tell
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  Speaker 1: my tea. I don't really have to get the smoke.
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  Speaker 1: So I am on here just to give my opinion
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  Speaker 1: about the shows that you guys send me and go
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  Speaker 1: about my happy little life. All right. So don't like
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  Speaker 1: come over here thinking I'm about to like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: be super messy or like super dramatic, because it's like,
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  Speaker 1: that's not my era that I'm in. I'm just having
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  Speaker 1: fun and I can make fun of stuff. I can
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  Speaker 1: make fun of myself, so and that's it. So I'll
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  Speaker 1: give a little bit, but I'll put a sparkler on
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  Speaker 1: the fire, but don't be looking for the whole tree
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  Speaker 1: because it's not coming.
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  Speaker 2: Fine, I'm gonna ask the next one and then you can.
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  Speaker 2: Then I'll leave this be. Okay, does it rhyme with Rorsia?
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  Speaker 1: No? This was texting with Russia? Okay? And also yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: whatever we name that person?
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  Speaker 2: Fine?
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  Speaker 1: Last one, I promise this time.
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  Speaker 2: Does it rhyme with Minie?
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  Speaker 1: Who?
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  Speaker 2: This is why they call me Teddy Walters.
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  Speaker 1: I love that. By the way, that was so cute
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  Speaker 1: that photo of you.
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  Speaker 2: But people kept saying I look like Sally Jesse Raphael
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  Speaker 2: not more Walters, and I kind of agree.
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  Speaker 1: I have to look at it again. Maybe maybe low key,
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  Speaker 1: but it was like I saw where it was going.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was cute. I actually wanted to do
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  Speaker 1: one I wanted to do with Cynthia Walters. But I'm
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  Speaker 1: not really in this world.
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  Speaker 2: Now, who else could we have?
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  Speaker 1: You be? Who else? Like?
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  Speaker 2: Who's an nicer reporting journalist?
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  Speaker 1: Oprah?
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  Speaker 2: Well?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, well they want to do Oprah thing? Can you
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  Speaker 1: guys fix one with my face with Oprah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Cynthia Winfrey or Cynthia Couric, either one work? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Cynthia Curic okay, or you could be Cynthia Seacrest. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: But but he's a guy though.
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  Speaker 2: True, But he is fun. He's very rarely gets.
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  Speaker 1: I love I do.
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  Speaker 2: I'd love to have one of his jobs, So would
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  Speaker 2: I like? Is Vanna White retiring? Can I get in
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  Speaker 2: on that one?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? And I'd like to pullug myself in as well,
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  Speaker 1: because I'm currently unemployeed.
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  Speaker 2: I also thought about something last night when I was
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  Speaker 2: with my friend Maricella, who met you in Ireland. We
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  Speaker 2: are at our one year anniversary of our twenty four
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  Speaker 2: hour Ireland trip.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, did it ever come on?
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  Speaker 2: They said September? But like, did September pass or they
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  Speaker 2: mean this upcoming September.
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  Speaker 1: No, I feel like it's been too long. I feel
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  Speaker 1: like they couldn't something because I'm looking for that episode
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  Speaker 1: for it was the only thing I've ever won. I
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  Speaker 1: barely beat you, but I'm proud to say, by the
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  Speaker 1: grace of God, I actually did win something because.
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  Speaker 2: Your question was in the rundown that we already did cheating.
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  Speaker 1: I know. Can I have my one win? Teddy? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: stop it?
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  Speaker 2: But I was the first one out on Big Brother too.
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  Speaker 2: I think I'm the one that's ready for a win.
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  Speaker 2: And a shocking turn of events, apparently we were fired
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  Speaker 2: again from a show we don't.
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  Speaker 1: Know the way the name of listen, I know, stop it. No,
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  Speaker 1: for unfortunately for you, the good people on Big Brother
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  Speaker 1: have to go first, the ones that could actually win. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: I'm ones who suck at it like myself, you know,
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  Speaker 1: get they make it to the final three because I
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  Speaker 1: was never a threat at any point in that house.
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  Speaker 2: So my god, there you go. All right. So there's
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  Speaker 2: been a couple Little Housewife headlines that have come up.
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  Speaker 2: One which I can't tell is a joke, Like maybe
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  Speaker 2: I'm not in on the joke. Okay, So PK you know,
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  Speaker 2: you know, did you ever when you filmed Beverly Hills?
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  Speaker 2: Was PK ever on it?
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  Speaker 1: No? I never met PK. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So he did a post and it's a picture of
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  Speaker 2: this woman Lulu, who I guess is his new client
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  Speaker 2: like his and it says job opportunity. Okay, So in
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  Speaker 2: the world where everyone uses social media, I've decided to
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  Speaker 2: use it to find an assistant to work with Lulu
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  Speaker 2: and me as we embark in an exciting new journey.
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  Speaker 2: The right candidate will be organized, efficient, not afraid of
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  Speaker 2: hard work, and we'll need to know the way around
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  Speaker 2: social media. All this sounds about right, and it says
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  Speaker 2: they would need to be reporting directly to me. They
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  Speaker 2: would need to be based in London and a l
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  Speaker 2: for Lulu twenty four. If you think you have what
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  Speaker 2: it takes to get into entertainment world, please email via
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  Speaker 2: a Jody at ni xxi dot com. I'll be interviewing
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  Speaker 2: in London next week. I need to know is this
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  Speaker 2: a joke or is this real? Because you can no
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  Speaker 2: longer have somebody work for.
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  Speaker 1: I mean that's what roles in London. Yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: It felt like it was serious, but I don't know
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  Speaker 1: his personality, maybe because I don't know him, so maybe
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  Speaker 1: maybe he's joking, Like I don't know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Between that and I mean, they better be paying five
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  Speaker 2: hundred thousand dollars a year if you have to be
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  Speaker 2: available twenty even housewives are not available twenty four to seven.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need more than five hundred k a year
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  Speaker 1: if I have to be available twenty four seven. Basically,
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  Speaker 1: so I can't I don't get to have a life.
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  Speaker 1: I can't have man, I can't like I just have
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  Speaker 1: to pick up the phone every time you guys call and.
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  Speaker 2: Be well, I can't say this. One of my first
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  Speaker 2: jobs in Hollywood was an assistant to this high end
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  Speaker 2: woman that was a talent agent and I remember my
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  Speaker 2: phone ringing at ten pm and she's like, Hey, is
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  Speaker 2: there any way you could come over? And I was like,
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  Speaker 2: this is ten pm. I'm at work already from seven
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  Speaker 2: am to eight pm.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm in bed. What do you need?
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  Speaker 2: And she's like, I can't figure out how to change
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  Speaker 2: the batteries and my vibrator, and I.
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  Speaker 1: Was like, oh, I'm twenty years old.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't gotten to the vibrator era of my life yet.
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  Speaker 2: I'm the best person for.
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  Speaker 1: This an I'm making this up. That is not true.
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  Speaker 1: That is not a true story.
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  Speaker 2: On my life. I don't do the do it on
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  Speaker 2: my kid's life because I feel like whenever people say that,
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  Speaker 2: they're actually lying.
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  Speaker 1: No on my life.
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  Speaker 2: That phone call, there was also multiple other ones like
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  Speaker 2: what night was, it's lightning?
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  Speaker 1: Can you come over? I feel scared?
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  Speaker 2: Oh that is the things they're called roommates. What's the
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  Speaker 2: craziest thing you ever asked.
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  Speaker 1: On a job? Okay, on a job. Well, first of all,
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  Speaker 1: I've never been an assistant, but just to put it
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  Speaker 1: out there, I would be an excellent assistant because I've
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  Speaker 1: had many and I know what I require, so I
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  Speaker 1: would know what to do for someone and I actually
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  Speaker 1: know how to, you know, change the batteries on a vibrator.
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  Speaker 1: So I would have been able to you know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: do that. You know, it was a little late for
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  Speaker 1: the phone call, but there's no limits that I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: do to be a good assistant for the right amount.
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  Speaker 2: Of You're like again, to get somebody in the oh,
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  Speaker 2: I really need to.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, if I've been asked to do, I don't know, Like,
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  Speaker 1: there's got to be something crazy.
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  Speaker 2: You were asked to do modeling or something in Housewives
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  Speaker 2: or on one of your movies that you've done.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know the Okay, movies. Let's think craziest
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  Speaker 1: thing I've been asked to do. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: think about myself. Come back, come back to me. I'll
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  Speaker 1: think of something.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Okay, we'll jump into the We'll jump into Orange County.
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  Speaker 2: It starts out where Tamra says Gin should be scared
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  Speaker 2: of Ryan's past since he is a cheater and has
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  Speaker 2: never been faithful to anybody. Tamras says, a girl she
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  Speaker 2: knows slept with Ryan while he was on a break
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  Speaker 2: with Jen and it is a girl he used.
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  Speaker 1: To sleep with.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, do we think he is currently a cheater? And
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  Speaker 2: when you are on a break with someone, is it
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  Speaker 2: okay to sleep with someone else?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna go for the break thing first, because
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  Speaker 1: I don't believe in breaks. I don't think they were
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a break girl. Are we doing it? Are
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  Speaker 1: we not doing it? I'm a breaker? Upper. I break
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  Speaker 1: up if I don't want to be with you. Breaker upper. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a breaker upper person. If we're not an get
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  Speaker 1: space and it's mutual, it's like, let's just let's just
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  Speaker 1: break up and then we can do whatever we want.
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  Speaker 1: But if we do take a break, which I would
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  Speaker 1: never do, I think you should be able to do
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  Speaker 1: what you want to do on the break because you're
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  Speaker 1: on a break and you're not gonna be like hanging
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  Speaker 1: out with the other person that you're on a break from.
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  Speaker 1: So no breaks for me. Let's just break up that. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not a big break person, but I do. I
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  Speaker 2: am curious. Sometimes people will call it a break because
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  Speaker 2: there was an argument and they weren't around each other
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  Speaker 2: for two days. I don't consider that a break.
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  Speaker 1: That's not a break.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not a break. Like we we got an argument.
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  Speaker 2: If you it's over, you're not really over, you know
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  Speaker 2: this is just some kind of toxic thing back and forth.
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  Speaker 1: Then that's not a break.
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  Speaker 2: An actual break is the stuff no longer is in
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  Speaker 2: each other's homes. We were decided this is not working
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  Speaker 2: anymore and we are separating. Yeah, it's a clean break.
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  Speaker 1: It's a clean break. When you think about we'll just.
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  Speaker 2: Break up, like what I don't I don't, I know,
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  Speaker 2: And then all the people that end up getting back
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  Speaker 2: together and it's more like, are you getting back together
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  Speaker 2: because you miss the person? Or are you getting back
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  Speaker 2: together because you're lonely?
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  Speaker 1: But I don't know, I don't know. I don't like it.
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  Speaker 1: But the whole like once a cheater, always a cheeter thing,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like in my heart, I want to believe
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  Speaker 1: that people can change. I do. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: just stamp that on someone because they cheated once. I
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  Speaker 1: just don't want to do that. However, I don't know
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  Speaker 1: because I'm not a cheater person. Yeah, Like again, I'm
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  Speaker 1: a breaker upper, So I just would just leave you
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  Speaker 1: before I would cheat. But what do you think, well.
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  Speaker 2: He said, you know, Jen has admitted that Ryan is
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  Speaker 2: a cheater. He can't stay faithful and goes after married women.
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  Speaker 2: Are we supposed to believe that a guy like that
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  Speaker 2: would just have a six month emotional affair with a
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  Speaker 2: woman who has five kids, and a woman with five
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  Speaker 2: kids would leave their husband if nothing physical is going.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, When you break it down like that, it just
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  Speaker 1: sounds like a mess. Even the whole thing, like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: he's a cheater, he goes after married women and then
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  Speaker 1: the kids. I'm like, I mean, if Red Flag was
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  Speaker 1: a person, I mean, I don't you know. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: all for connection because she talks a lot about like
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  Speaker 1: she feels so connected to him and she didn't have
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  Speaker 1: that connection with her her past guy. But I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: it just seems like a slippery slope to me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I don't think Ryan the Cougar Hunter
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  Speaker 2: is going to change his spots anytime soon. That being said,
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  Speaker 2: if they were just saying, listen, we are so sexually
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  Speaker 2: attracted to each other, we are having fun. I was
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  Speaker 2: in a non intimate marriage for a long time. We
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  Speaker 2: had five kids. My life revolved around you know, having kids,
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  Speaker 2: adopting kids, like all you know said that, and then
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  Speaker 2: finally there's a guy who makes me feel sexy and
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  Speaker 2: have fun, and I'm just having fun with it right now,
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  Speaker 2: I'd be like, you know what, I don't need any
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  Speaker 2: more explanation.
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  Speaker 1: Right, No, I get it. I would I would have
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  Speaker 1: to agree with that, but I do. I do kind
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  Speaker 1: of like them, though, I don't know. She just seems
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  Speaker 1: like so happy with them. They're really cute together. But again,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if this is anything long term, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to, like, you know, cut them down
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  Speaker 1: at their knees either with their little happy thing they
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  Speaker 1: go on. I'm God, give them some grace, but you know.
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  Speaker 2: And I also think sometimes when you see couples on
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  Speaker 2: Housewives try to do anything physical or kissy, it makes
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  Speaker 2: me really uncomfortable. Like I'm like, this seems so fake
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  Speaker 2: and forced. It didn't seem that way. You can clearly tell.
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  Speaker 2: Like when I see Drew and Ralph try to like
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  Speaker 2: kiss or do anything, I'm like, oh no, no, it's
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  Speaker 2: not yea, they were trying to pull, you know, water
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  Speaker 2: from a stone. This isn't happening like the crazy because.
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  Speaker 1: There's such two good looking people, you would think we
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  Speaker 1: would want to see that. But at the same time,
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  Speaker 1: because of the you know what, you know, ups and
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  Speaker 1: downs we've seen in a relationship, we just don't we
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  Speaker 1: don't feel that that chemistry and that attraction through the screen.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying that you know where you
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  Speaker 1: just you know, I get what you're seeing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so we have to keep going. But I do
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  Speaker 2: have to agree, I really do, like Jen, I don't
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  Speaker 2: know that. I fully still like Gina is still trying
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  Speaker 2: to dig in and get more information about what's happening
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  Speaker 2: and what's the past. I'm like, Gina, why don't we
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  Speaker 2: start sharing a little bit about yourself?
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  Speaker 1: How about that? How about that? I agree, Like it
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: kind of like bothered me when, like I think she
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: even said on the trip, like how she was so
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: triggered by the whole infidelity thing. And first of all,
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: the word trigger is about to get on my nerves. Okay,
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: every everybody's true by everything. Okay, this is not her life.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: I understand that she had some stuff in her past,
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: but I don't know. I just feel like all those
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: women are entitled to their opinion, you know what I'm saying.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: But it's time. It's like, okay, so now you need
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: to actually almost go see your therapist about this whole
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: other lady's you know, in Fidel, Like it's just kind.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: Of a lot because truthfully, I think we could be
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: digging into what's going on, Like I actually want to
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: understand a little bit more about Gina and her current
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: relationship that I think they have collectively five children they're
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: all raising together. They have the one ax that you know,
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: there was the domestic violence alleged event. Then the other
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: ax is putting stuff in social media and you know,
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: saying that he doesn't have a job. There's a lot
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: of smoke and mirrors. Who knows what's true? Who doesn't? Right,
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: we could be learning about that relationship because I think
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: that's actually interesting, Like how do you go and mesh
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: two families together so seamlessly? Or is it seamless or
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: is it actually really hard because you're not telling us anything.
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, the whole blended family thing is always you know, interesting,
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: and it's always you know interesting to see how people
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: actually navigate that because it's not easy. It's not it's
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: not always easy. So yeah, we need to jump into
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: a Gina's tea a little bit more and uh, you know,
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: give old girl a little bit of grace because I
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: get it, you don't You're not I'm not saying, hey,
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: go out and cheat. I've made it very clear that
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: I'm not a cheater. But at the same time, you know,
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: once I say that I'm moving on, okay.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: I mean I guess, I guess. I can't actually say
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: it was alleged with Gina's X because.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: We then see in the scene.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: Uh, that Gina is helping her ex Matt get his
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: record expunged.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I did see that.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: Taylor tells Tamar about Heather calling her cute for offering
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: her a role for the movie in Oklahoma. Tamra says,
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: Heather can belittle you when talking to you. Taylor thinks
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: Heather maybe just doesn't want to be in a movie
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: with Taylor or thinks it's a honky tonk movie since
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: it's in Oklahoma. They pull up Heather's IMDb and Tamra says,
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: every thing us from the nineteen hundreds. Do you think
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: they were like intentionally trying to be shady about how
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: there's career here.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: I think that some of the things that they pointed
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: out definitely came off shady one hundred percent, even though
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: it was true because they were actually looking at, you
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: know her, you know, her track record or whatever. But
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: I think that soon as I feel like Taylor really
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: wanted her to be a part of the movie, and
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: I really felt like she was really genuine when she
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: approached her and she was like, Hey, you know I'm
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: doing this movie. You know you should be in it.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: I know you're an actress, and I think in like
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: these circles, the housewife circles, like when you have anything
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: in common or whatever, you kind of like, oh my god,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: you have a headline. I have a headline. We should
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: do a pop up together. It's just one of those things.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: And I like Dayla was like really excited about her
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: being a part of it, and I think her feelings
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: were just her teddy they her feelings would just her
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: that she.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Could tell i'mrty about to disagree with you.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: I know that's my that's my But I felt like
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: Taylor was coming from an honest, nice place to just
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: offer it. And when I look at it now, I
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: think that I think maybe Heather really, like you know,
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: she just send us kids off the college and just
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: was like, maybe she's not really focused on it right now,
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: but she is talking about her next chapter and like,
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: you know, you know, not of the kids are gone,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: so this actually could have been a great opportunity for
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: her to get on back out there.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Well. I think Taylor's main concern was she wanted Heather
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: to be in it, because if two housewives go and
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: do something, most likely they will film it. That's my prediction,
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: because one person going off and doing a work thing.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: They're not going to to it in another state. They're
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: not going to send a crew unless it's like a
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: major like you're catching someone an affair or like some
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: shit's really going down.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: But nobody's gonna.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Film you doing a work thing, and like why always
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: better than one that's rue. So that's my guess. Do
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: I think that Heather was being condescending, Yes, like, oh,
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: that's so cute, that's adorable for you.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: Why do you think she didn't want to do it?
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: I think she truthfully was like I'm better than this, okay.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: And and here's the thing, like if somebody asks I'm
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: not great at many things, but I'm pretty good at
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: riding horses, Like that's my thing. And if somebody asked
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: me to go show and do something that was way
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: below my expertise or my level or whatever it was,
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: and I didn't want to do it right and they
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: were doing it, I wouldn't say to them, that's so
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: cute that you're doing it. But no, I would say,
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: oh my gosh, I'm totally not interested in doing it myself.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: I'm thrilled you're doing it, but it's not something that
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do Okay, there's a way to do it
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: without making the other person feel less than right.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: Right right, Well, okay, she could have come up a
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: little condescending. But I also will say in Heather's defense
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Teddy that Taylor could have done a better job of
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: just presenting it. You can't be like, hey, you should
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: be in this movie and then I don't get like
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: nobody calls me and say, hey, you know, this is
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: where this is what the movie is, this is the script,
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: these are the days that we would need you, this
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: is the money you're going to get. Like, there is
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: a certain amount of you know, next steps and professionalism
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: that needs to help write something like that. It seemed
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: like that may be one of the reasons why Heather
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: just didn't take it seriously. It's like, yeah, girl, yeah.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: Whatever, yeah, I mean even when we talk about you
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: coming on this podcast. We discussed it a year ago
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: when we were in in Ireland.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Yes, but at that point nothing's really real.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: It's just us having a drink being like it would
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: be so fun if we did this together. However, when
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: it got real, my heart reached out to your representatives.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, they.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: Come up with an agreement and then they book you.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: It's not me, like, what's up?
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: Girl?
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: No?
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, and it is. You know, I'm
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: very big on professionalism, Like I am like, what are
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: we doing? Like I'm all like, hey, we're just having fun.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: It's like, okay, we're talking about a job and some money. Okay,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: Like you know, run it, run it to me correctly.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: So I will say that. But I don't know. I
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: just think Taylor is excited and I get the whole
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: like two housewives is better than one thing. But I
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: don't know. I just think she's just happy to be
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: in a movie. Like I didn't even know she was acting,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Like I didn't know she was bisexual either, But we'll
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: get to that as well.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Either way, I do feel like IMDb is like, why
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: did I have to get involved in this? We'll leave
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: us out of it, like where is my well? Are
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: you gonna pay me extra for being a part of this?
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: Exactly?
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: Okay, then we'll get into Tamor tells Jen and Taylor
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: to tell them something they don't know. Taylor says she's
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: a bisexual and had a full blown relationship for five
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: years with a woman and prior to Russell, So did
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: you watch Beverly Hills back in the day, like when
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Taylor was originally on.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And then Jen shares that she was a flight
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: attendant and met her ex husband on a flight. And
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: at this point this is the only time now that
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: Gina perks up towards Jen.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Right, she likes it because they have that in common.
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so she liked that first question. At this point,
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: have you realized that Emily is not on the trip?
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Are you missing her?
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: I was very sad when Emily popped up on the
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: screen and said that she had COVID for sure, But
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: I was looking for Emily, which you know is one
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: of my faves. So I did miss her on the trip.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: By the way, this really shows true friendship, true housewife friendship.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: When Shannon gets up to leave the table and immediately
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: every housewife starts talking bad way around.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: I know, it's so true. Ruled number one as a housewife,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: don't leave the table because as soon as you do,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: it's like the red dot is all your fore head.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: They're coming for you. They're gonna like you know, it's
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: fair game as soon as you get up.
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: But even but even leading up to this, did you
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: think that Shannon until you know, she does everything that
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: she does when she leaves the table, do you think
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: that she was seeming a little bit miss like a
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: little miserable.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Oh you know what, since I've been like following it
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: with you, it just seems like Shannon is not like
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: the big like you know, she doesn't seem like super
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: excited about like the stuff that's happening with the women
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: that much. So that I see, she's always kind of like, Okay,
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: what are we doing? You know? As episode one, I
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: was excited to see her, you know, perk up towards
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: the end, but I haven't seen like and I don't know,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: as everyone has pointed out, I don't know a lot
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: of the history of Orange County. Maybe she was like
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: the fun girl in the group before, but she always
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: just kind of gave me like oh, which is interesting
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: why her and Tama were really friends as well, because
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: Tamra's like everything, you know, she's like fun.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I think maybe once she has a couple of
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: beverages in her that's when like it starts to do
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: a little shift.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Would you have ridden the bull? I wrote a bull?
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I wrote my first and only mechanical bull on Housewives.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, so for me, it's a huge housewife beaux pas.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: When there's an activity at uh something and people refuse
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: to do it, it really bothers me. I don't know why,
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: like it really because if I if this is even
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: a non housewife thing, and you're like, Teddy, will you
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: come with me to blah blah blah, and you're like,
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: the first thing we're gonna do is you know, I
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: don't know, whatever your favorite thing may be, I'm gonna
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: say yes because I'm going on your trip. And if
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna agree to go, I'm gonna go and try
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: to experience all the things.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: I have this issue on every franchise, Like I had it.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: On Potomac when they all go and they're in I
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: think they're in Mexico. They go to the Aztec or whatever,
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: and like half the women won't even stick their feet
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: in the water. Like I'm like, come on, guys, like.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Dig in well, I'll say this. I'll say this. I'm not,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: as you may have realized from doing Big Brother with me,
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: the most adventurous person with stuff like I'm not like
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't swim so any water stuff I'm
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: not really trying.
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: To do so would you stick your feet in? Absolutely
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: you could at least be a part of it. But
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: I have a drink and I to stick your feet in.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: I will meet you have way as much as I can.
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: But am I going to go white water rafting on
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: the trip.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: Absolutely not because there are a possibility that I will
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: fall out.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, like.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: On Girls' Frip, we rode horses. I love the idea
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: of riding horses, but I'm a little afraid of horses.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: But I got my butt on the horse and I
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: rode it all along the beach, all through the water
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: and all that stuff, and I was terrified the whole time,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: but I did it.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you want to live life and like have
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: the experiences. So I don't love them, like you know,
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: everyone's making these little jokes also, all of them continuing
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: to be like I'm not nature girls, I'm not like clearly,
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: but like this is something different. I don't need to
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: see you guys shopping at Swirl again in Orange County, like,
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: just do something else.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's nice to see, you know, people get out
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: of a comfort zone. And one of the things I
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: can say is great, that was great for me about
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: being a part of the Housewives for eleven years. Is
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: I did a lot of stuff that I would normally
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: do in real life. Like I was like the last
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: season that I was on, I was like strapped into
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: a sex wing. I now own a sex wing like
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: I would have never done that.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: Did you say I now own a sex wing.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: It's around it somewhere. I'm here like Bailey now like, yeah,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: they gave it cold? Can you have me a little bit?
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: But yeah, how many years did you have it? You
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: haven't used to It's been like two years, but I've
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: been busy.
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: Hold on, if I'm going to hold your accountable the
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: next time you have sex, I want you to use
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: the swing. And if you're not going to take advantage
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: of it, this is my address. Ship it on out
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: and I'll let you know how it goes.
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, well, first of all, I have to find it.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: I have to find it. It's around here somewhere. But
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: my point was, I do so many things on the
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: show that was never really in my will house or
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: something that I would just normally be interested in doing.
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: So I love that I was pushed to kind of
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: try things and just put myself out there. So that's good.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: But I wanted to ask you really quickly, what is
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: it you were talking about? Like the ladies talking about
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: stuff that we don't that we don't know about them?
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: What is something that I don't know about you? And
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: I'll take you.
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: Don't know about me.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Because you're very miss I think.
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: I think that I haven't shared. I feel like I
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: share a lot. I would say the biggest thing that
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: people don't know about me is I don't really remember
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: any of my childhood. I've gone to like years of
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: therapy trying to figure out why I have no memory.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: Like my sister has memories, I don't. I don't know
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: if that's because of trauma. I don't know if it's
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: because I have a bad memory. But the more I
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: try to dig into it, the more I can't remember.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: So that's like a personal thing. That's though, Like I
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: that is so interesting to me.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I can remember if somebody shows me a picture,
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: I can pretend to remember it, but before eighth grade,
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: I have zero recollection of anything that happened, So who knows.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: And then other than that, I think people think I
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: am very Oh I don't like to see people's feet.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: You don't, no, I do?
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: I think that the majority of people's feet are disgusting,
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: and if it's a man's feet, especially and they're wearing
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: like mandls and I can see hair.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, I like.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: Ingrown toenail like I or like you have to understand
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: celebrity Big Big Brother put me in a bad place,
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: even worse with people's feet. Remember when Lamar asked me
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: to clip his toenails. That was my worst than I there.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: That allows to have cured you of that phobia? That
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: is crazy, Well I have. This is like a weird
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: thing that people don't know about me, and they probably
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: don't need to know this about me. But I don't
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: like and that this is almost selfish. I hate to
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: even say it, but I don't like when people use
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: my bathroom, Like when they have to go and use
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: my bathroom, oh like in your house, yes, like I
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: have Like like I'm always like I feel like every
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: time someone comes over, they're like, oh, it's your bathroom,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: Like why does everyone wait until they get all time?
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Any bathroom in your house are just in your.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Master bedroom, definitely not my personal one. Like that one's
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: definitely of limits, And I like somehow pass it down
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: to no weel like, Noel won't even let me use
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: her bathroom.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: Like, oh so if somebody tous at your house, you
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: want them to pan a bottle? Wants the alternative, I
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: get the one in your bedroom, But like the bathroom,
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: I just feel.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know, It's just it's like I can't
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: believe like you had all this time you use the bathroom,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: you had to wait to use it, and it's like
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: and it's always like number two, Like I know we're
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: saying too much no, And I'm like, I'm.
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: Sorry, somebody's shitting in your bathroom if they're not sleeping
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: there and there's no other option that's inappropriate.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: Thing I already said. I know people are going to
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: be like, how could you? How awful is that of
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: you not to want people to relieve themselves when they
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: come to your house.
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: I You're like, there's a gas station just by right
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: down the street, a lock and key, going joy yourself.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: If I thought that my Homeowner's Association wouldn't kill me here, okay,
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: let them just go in on that. I don't know
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: why that bothers me. It just says and I purposely
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: don't use the bathroom of people's houses. I mean, if
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I use the bathroom at your house, it is.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: Like a emergency, right that means that you have diarrhea,
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: and like, shit's really hitting the fan if you have
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: to use emergency setting. Well this all tracks because you
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: were a little bits were crazy, but you were a
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: little bit on it. In the bathroom situation a brother house, I.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: It was like I went crazy. Remember, I had to
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: give us some ground rules, like I will clean, but
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: you guys have to keep it clean. I got it
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: every morning I put my gloves on. I could not
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: take it. Like the fact that twenty people I had
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: to use the same toilet almost took me out.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: But the same the fact that three people took so
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: many poops a day really made me reconsider who I
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: am as a human.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: And just to be clear, me poop more than women do.
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: They like and they don't even mind that they're in
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: there forever.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: They literally eat a cashew and they're like, oh, you
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: gotta go poop.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: It out now, and then they they don't clean up properly.
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: It's disgusted. That was the most disgusting. It's a big
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: hole you aim it. It's not like a small hole
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: the toilet.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Like aim it in there and then take notice if
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: things go awry. Yes, yeah, we also had people pooping
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: their pants there, so I can you know who knows?
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: Okay? Then we get the.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: Shannon tamer and I always get off track, but I
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: think this is this is life. You know, you got
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: to talk about it. Are you comfortable with people shit
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: in your house or not?
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: All right? Then Shannon gets up.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: From the table. Everybody's all revved up because they're like,
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: why wouldn't John.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: Be taking care of Shannon's kids if she's out of town?
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: If they're in a serious.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: Relationship, which first had me think about before, even though
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: we end up finding out this isn't true. If you
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: were dating a guy and he wasn't your husband, would
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: you want him taking care of your seventeen year old
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: girls when you're out of town. I'm crazy.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know that I would do it. You know,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: it wouldn't have to depend on the relationship, to be honest,
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: but I wouldn't expect him to do that, Like, it
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be like, oh, I'm going out of town. You
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: automatically have to take this on. You know what I'm saying.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: If my kids are like, oh, hey, you know, can
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: so and so stay with us? You know, could he
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: check on us or whatever? Whatever? It would have to
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: depend on a relationship.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like a little crazy. I don't know, don't
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: I guess at eighteen that's different. But like if I
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: broke up with Edwin tomorrow and I started dating a guy,
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: I would not let him stay at the house with
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: Slate and Dove and do. I'm like, no, whats The.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: Big question is do they even need Like what's the
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: rule legally? How what age you laying your children? If
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: you leave and go somewhere. If they're like, isn't it
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: like eighteen nineteen, Like that's like, well, all.
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: I know is that you can officially, because Bella did this,
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: you can officially become like a licensed babysitter at fourteen.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: That being said, I love Bella, but I've never left
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: her in charge of the whole household. Like, yeah, she
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: got her CPR, she did all the things, And I'm like,
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: if other people want.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: To hire you, awesome, I'll hire you.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: Or I'm taking a shower getting organized, but like, IM
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: leaving you fully in charge here Exactly I did myself
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: at fourteen, and I wasn't doing right by anybody.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: There is there is more to this because I remember, like,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: you know, because I travel a lot. And then Noel
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: got to the point where she's like, I can be
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: here by myself. You don't have to leave anyone with me,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: and I think she was. And then I had to
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: research with what's like if I'm gone like more than
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: like three days, like what legally works, because if something happens,
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be arrested because they're like, well,
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: you left your child at home for a week, you
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: know what I mean?
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: Like that, I feel like seventeen, you're considered in a
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: I mean, Emily, did I know we're jumping around. But
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: Emily said in this episode, and this is something that
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: kind of resonated with me when she was talking about
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: her parents, yes, and she said she didn't realize that,
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: you know, like your mom woke up and gave you
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: breakfast and I realized, shit't me either, Yeah, like it was.
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it was really a different time
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: or like, but no, we would get up, get ourselves together,
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: pack our lunch, ride ourselves to school, or like try
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: to steal five dollars from her bedside table so that
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: we can you know, get our pretzels that we dip
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: into cream cheese for lunch.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: Like that.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: There wasn't this like I don't even know this idealistic family.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: We literally defend for ourselves. My mom was like, you
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: have a roof over your head, you have running water
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: working out. We we we like we're our own nannies.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: Like we cooked, we clean, we you know, we drift,
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: we get everything. Yeah, if it was walkable, they droves.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: If it wasn't, you know, and if.
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: They weren't, if we didn't walk and they drove, they
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: were for sure smoking cigarettes the whole time with the
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: windows up.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: I'm blowing the smoker in our face that they felt
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: like it.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: We weren't in car.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: Seats, oh car seat No, absolutely not. Okay.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: So anyways we get back to Shannon going inside. We
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: think it's a drama, but really it's just her changing
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: into wash, she changing into you.
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: Love our made like sexy costume. Than Okay, did you
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: like it?
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: Did you like how it all went down? Did you
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: think it was funny? Did you think it was I
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: like that.
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: I liked that she was leaving the table for a reason,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: and it was like usually in housewife world that usually
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: is a reason unless they you know whatever. So I
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: was like, okay, so that's why she left, and it's
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I just thought it was like fun
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: for her to actually play that position. And I again,
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: I'm still getting to know Shannon on the show, so
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: I just thought that she just was like, hey, yay,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: here you go drinks, you know, Like, I don't know,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: I just I liked it.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: It was her trying thank you. And then Shannon says,
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: it feels like the two and a half years didn't exist.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: So now we're starting to see the bond of Tamar
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: and Shannon coming back together. I love that.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: I literally lose sleep over their relationship. I just want
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: them to be back together, and I think, like fast
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: forward they are now, but like me just watching it
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: play out, I it's just, you know, it's like so
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: hard to find like real friendships and real connections in
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: the circle where you actually just want to be friends
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: outside of the circle. So when you do, I really
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: do think in real life and in housewife life that
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: it's special when you really just connect. And I like them.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I like them. They're like, you know, the odd couple
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: a little bit. They're like kind of you know, different personalities,
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: but I like their friendship. I'm invested.
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: Do you think Heather is happy about this reconciliation or
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: she's jealous and worried what it means for her in
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: the future, because before you kind of see how they
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: connecting with Tamra, like they're kind of talking about Shannon,
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: like Heather says something along the lines of like just
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: kind of vents about her like, oh, she's never HAPPI
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: or Bob, you know, whatever it may be. Do you
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: think she's worried, like she's like, no, no, I need
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: Tamra with me.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Well, I don't really, I don't. I don't know. I
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: feel like Heather has enough stuff going on, you know,
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: between getting those kids up to school and you know,
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: than this whole next chapter in her life. Hopefully that
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: won't be a big thing for her. But I know,
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: like in my own, you know, relationships, like when you
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: know two people break off and you, like I become
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: friends with one of them and then they get back together,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: you do kind of feel a little displaced, Like, Okay, now,
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: how do I feel in this whole thing? Because I've
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: been holding you down while you were mad at her
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: for three years, you know, now like, Okay, so now
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: we're like, uh, threesome here like work because I'm I'm
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: still here, you.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: Know, I know, I feel like that we're the dose
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: amigos are back together, but three is feeling like a crowd.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Then Heather tells Taylor that there was no contract or
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: there's like all this like mumbling around. You know, you
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: can you can you can sense dramas affrem Yeah, at
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: this point I think that Taylor's probably had a couple
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: of beverages because like her her tonality has changed, right,
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: Like she always seems pretty easy going and cool, but
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: you can tell now she's on one.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: I'm like someone may have had that extra shot.
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: Heather tells Taylor that there was no contract or deal
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: sent to her to show the understanding of the role
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: that Taylor offered her. Taylor says the director this was shady.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: Taylor says the director.
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: Now wanted to see a casting tape, and Heather asked
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: if her IMDb wasn't good enough. Taymor chimes in saying
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: Taylor didn't find Heather's IMDb impressive.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: Okay, so let me just I'm all over this one
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: as a up and coming actress. So here's the thing.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: I do think it's a little offensive. I'm not saying,
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: you know, Heather is Meryl Street, but the woman has
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: some experience obviously. Okay, so it's like me getting an
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: offer to do a movie and them asking Viola Davis
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: to do a self tape for the movie.
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know that we could really use Viola Davis.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: Can we maybe take this down in a couple of notches.
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: Like you have to go to Viola Davis. Let's go
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: all right, let's.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I mean, if you have no experience
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: and the next person has.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: Some, but I think that Viola Dasas has a lot.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: I know she got it.
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: Somebody else that has a medium amount.
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing. You can't offer someone who literally
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: this is their first thing.
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: We could say and then you could we could say
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: you enjoy it?
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: Right, that's like okay, So that's like giving me this
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: offer to be a lead on a movie and then
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: making Drew Sidora, who's been acting her whole life, audition
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: for like a supporting room that doesn't make with a tank.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: Yes, they can't just pull from one of her twenty
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: past television shows she's done.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: Exactly, They give me the part straight out and then
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: she has to audition and do a chemistry test as well.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: I do think that both women had valid points here,
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: but even when Heather is right, she's so condescending that
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: it takes away from her being right. Yeah, yeah, I'm like,
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: you just and I don't know if that's the way
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: that she handles being insecure, Like when I'm insecure, I
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: just make fun of myself. Like I'm like, I'm gonna
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: double down on being self deprecating, and then that's gonna
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: be how we're going to get through this where I
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: think Heather doubles down by like talking down to you, yeah,
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: and making sure that you know that you're less than her, right,
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: which I don't love, but I agree. I actually think
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: she's more in the right here. I do think that
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: Tamra and Taylor were obviously talking shit, right, so she
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: has reason to have her feelings hurt if she thinks
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: that she's at this level and they're making fun of
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: her on a national television show. But then she's so condescending.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: I'm likeugh, now you ruined it. I'm trying to have
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: your back.
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: No, it's true, And she said a bunch of stuff
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: like you're just being anti female, Like she just kind
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: of put a lot on it. I'm like, girl, if
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: you don't want to do the part, just don't do
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: damn part. It's like, like, it's just too much. I
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: thought she definitely overreacted. I thought the whole like you
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: and man was too much. I don't I wouldn't say
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: that they can leep that part up, but this is
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: too much. I was like, wait, they just don't do
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: the part like and just say, hey, you know that
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: is a little offensive for you to like make fun
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: of mine, you know, dB, when you just like hadn't
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: done anything yet.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: But also, this is a moment where Heather could have
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: been vulnerable and saying, hey, guys, I know you're kind
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: of teasing around about the nineteen hundreds or what my
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: last shows are the pilots or whatever. But recently, because
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: you have to imagine she hasn't talked to the other
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: women about what she's talked to Terry about, she could
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: say recently, I've wanted to get back into acting. Well
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: maybe maybe I'm a little sensitive right now because this
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: is where my head's leaning now that I'm about to
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: be an empty nester and this is my focus and
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: I always love doing it. I got a little lost
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: away from it and now that's what I want to do.
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: So you guys making it a joke hurt me.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: She was triggered. If anyone was triggered on this episode,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: it wasn't Gina, it was Heather because that conversation, like,
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: you know, she's you know, she gave up all this
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: to raise the children and all of that is great,
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: and now she wants to reclaim a life back and
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: like kind of get back into her thing. So when
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: you know, you know, when they were kind of poking
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: fun at her, I am dB. I you know, it
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: was like maybe it was like a little trigger for her.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: And I just want to point out that although though
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: Taylor definitely took the hit for the making fun of
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: the light shade, Tammor definitely threw in a couple of
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: sparklers that was going down. And I love the way
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: I love how Tammar either just like all that is
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: like I'm the bad guy did it? I was well whatever, whatever,
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: or she just is like let me just throw this
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: overhand and sit back and watch.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: Oh She's like no, you actually said that. The last
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: thing she did was from the nineteen hundreds and tailors,
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: like you actually said that.
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, bit you said it too. You were
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: like right there laughing, uh bit over like dying as
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: well when we were talking.
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: About But I can say i'milarious. I do think this
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: episode was the best so far.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was good. Well it was almost the best.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: I needed my Emily Steell in it, I know, like
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: she would have brought some really good, uh you know,
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: some good perspective to everything that was going on. But
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: it was a fun episode. I enjoyed it.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: I thought it was fun. I think we're starting to
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: get to what we need to do to figure out.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: Then we have the other fan thoughts we kind of
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: already knew. But one thing that people are not loving,
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: which you've said, is people are not loving the jabs
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: at Jen's relationship.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: Like okay, like it is what it is. And I
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: think Jen's really taking it well with the group. She's
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: not defensive, because at this point I would be really
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: defensive like yourself, like.
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: None of you've never done anything inappropriate in your relationships
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: or your marriages or your whatever, or like most of
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: you been married a couple times. I think you know
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying, including us on this podcast.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: I think Jen has been really kind of like sweet
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: about it, like just kind of taking it like okay,
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: well really okay, Well you know, this is just what
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: I was at, where I was at, and this is
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: what happened. Like I don't know, I'm ready for them
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: to leave her alone there.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm more what I have appreciated though,
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: is I was kind of scared that why the fact
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: that I can't remember his name.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: Maybe it's Ryan.
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: That Ryan hasn't turned into like the Louis yet, which
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: I thought was going to happen, like all of a sudden,
• 48:56
  Speaker 2: we were going to see him as the villain. But
• 48:58
  Speaker 2: I still don't. I'm still holding out out hope because
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: he's so like loving but it doesn't seem fake that
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: like maybe he is a good guy.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know.
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: I'm still holding I get speak on it because I
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: have been around lou and Teresa and I am seeing them.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: And I don't be on the show. I've seen them
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: in real life. Don't go there with me, Teddy. I
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: love Teresa Louis and it just is what it is.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I know it's unpopular opinion, but I've hung out with
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: him personally and I hope, I hope things are good
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: with him.
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: Okay, just to be clear, my mouth being again for
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: that long. My thing was not frozen. I love Teresa.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: For the record, I think Teresa is incredible. Every time
• 49:41
  Speaker 2: I've been around with her, around her, including Andy's baby shower,
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: I've had a blast with her. But if you watch Jersey,
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: the way that Louie talks to her and everyone else
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: gives me the eck right, Well.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: I honestly haven't watched it. I saw some bits and
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: pieces of the reunion, but nothing where I was just like,
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: you know, I had like a big, strong opinion about Louis.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: I just am only basing off this on what I've
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: seen the man in person their wedding. So we'll we'll
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: leave it right there.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: We'll leave it right there. Well, while we're on uncomfortable topics,
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: let's say about you doing the podcast with me every week,
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: because that's like, because I guess you were Sutton this weekend,
• 50:26
  Speaker 2: so everybody's like, oh my gosh, burn Cynthia's out to
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: get you because I'm.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: Like, they were friends the same way we're friends.
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: And do you guys honestly think I care? Oh my god,
• 50:38
  Speaker 2: Anthia hangs out with and vice versa.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: You guys, people just take things way too seriously, like honestly, Well,
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: first of all, I love Sutton. We had the best time.
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: We had the best best time at the Gala Belly
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: Gala in New York, and then we hung out in
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: the Hampton's and you know, we met at Bravo Con.
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: I met her Bravo Con. It just was like we're
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: getting like, hey, we did a panel together.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: And have like I just gone on any double dates?
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: Well, no, I haven't gone on a double date yet.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: I have to get a date to go.
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: If you guys were in the Hamptons, well I didn't.
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: I could have worked some magic. I mean I listen
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: to me and Sucker may have some such but I
• 51:19
  Speaker 2: know people.
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: Well, I was definitely again, you know, single, I'm ready
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: to mingle, but I didn't. I didn't meet anyone that
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: you know caught my eye.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: All right, your three in closing, your three number one
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: things you're looking for in a man.
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: He has to have a therapist. I'm dead no, no,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: because his mental wellness is important. I don't want to
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: be with someone and then convince me that I'm crazy,
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: like we don't want to be gasol. Yes, no, I
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: don't want any of that stuff, like, don't bring that
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: over here. Like I want someone who's like mentally healthy.
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: I do. It's like, you know, we never thought about
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: that back in the day. But it's a thing. Okay,
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: all right. Number two, I definitely want someone who it's
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: financially secure. You know. I would love for them to
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: be rich if I can just keep it honest, but
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: you know, just have more than I have, which is
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: not hard.
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: Hold on, I have to ask you, did you watch
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: Atlanta this week where the entire time all that Marlowe
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: was talking about was how the guys have to be rich,
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: rich rich? I know, but Marlow's always said that that
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: is she joking or is she being serious when she's
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: I get that, you like, listen, I don't want. As
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: Marilyn Monroe said, it's just as easy to fall in
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: love with a rich man as a poor man. I
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: do get it. I don't want to be with somebody
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: without a purpose, without working hard, without some financial but
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: rich rich rich is I mean to me? Looks and personality.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: Topic, Well, that can't be the only thing, because if
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: that was the thing, I would have been I would
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: have married Rich a long time ago. Like I have
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: to actually be able to want to stick my tongue
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: in your mouth and.
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: Or let them stick their penis and your.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all of that. Like, so it's not enough private
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: planes in the world. Okay, if these lips don't want
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: to kiss your lips, I don't care how much money
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: you got. I just don't like and I'm gonna kiss.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: I just want to put that out there for any
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: men that may be watching the podcast. Okay, yeah, and
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: think that we are.
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna guess this. I would have a feeling
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: that any men that listen to the podcast have zero
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: interest in making out with you or me.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: Just just to gamble one. I always need one and
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: slide in. Okay, we just need one. And what's my
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: third thing? Well again, like for me and Marlin's always
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: talked about life money. She's always been like she likes,
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: you know, a lifestyle and all that stuff. So anyway,
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: so that's her thing. Me just have some money, okay,
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: like meet me halfway, like let's be able to split stuff,
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: you know, but Rich, if you have more than I do,
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: that would be great. And then my third thing is
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: you know there has to be someone. Three is not
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: enough like that. I can go on and on on,
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: but like I will only get to think, Okay, well,
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: you have to be we have to have connection like
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: we have to you know, you have to be emotionally available.
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: You have to be wanting to connect with me and
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: be around me and hold my hand and you know,
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: be nurturing and stuff like that. Like I never pray
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: for a nurturing person before. I was always the nurturererm.
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: But I actually want you to massage my feet sometimes
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: or just without me asking you to do it, just
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: we not talk about feet, but anything else. Okay, should
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: my shoulders? Okay, so that's it, like someone like that.
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: But I really feel like three is not enough because
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: it makes it feel There's so many other important things
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: that I would want that I can't say in just
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: you know, three shots.
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: But but I think those are three important things. So
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: you guys, if you are the one straight man listening
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: to this podcast, now there's your chance to slide into
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: Cynthia's DMS may take her manage to get back because
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: she has what is it, four point eight million followers
• 55:04
  Speaker 2: when I've been stuck at one point one for sixteen.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: You know almost, I'm almost at four million. You know,
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: once you get to that point when I say it's
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: taken me a year, Like I don't just get four
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: million already? Well, somebody whoever watching this, will you guys
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: follow me already? I'm like literally this close. If I
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: wasn't close, I wouldn't care. But I'm just hovering right
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: at Like I literally need one hundred followers to hit
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: a million, So just help me.
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: Well, should we both just do it?
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: Four million?
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: Do us a favor? Follow our girls? I want to
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: know how much we have to start bribing people, like
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: one hundred dollars list for every.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: Follow and you know, it's like it just again. If
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: I was like at the lower end of it, I
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: wouldn't care, But you're just so close. I'm like, I
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: just need twenty people to hit four million. Throw me
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: a bone here.
• 55:49
  Speaker 2: You know what, Yeah, throw me a bone. You're at
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: four million. I'm at one point one, which is probably
• 55:57
  Speaker 2: got removed after I kissed somebody off this week.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: Stop it, stop it. Oh my gosh.
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: Well, I love you, Cynthia. And next week, you guys,
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: it is the fourth of July, it is my birthday.
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  Speaker 2: It's all the things, so I will not be we
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  Speaker 2: will not be back until next Friday recapping Orange County
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  Speaker 2: because there's no what landa next week. So me and
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  Speaker 2: Tamara are taking Monday slash Tuesday off and then I'll
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: be back with Cynthia to talk all things Orange County.
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: And maybe we'll just do a recap episode two where
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: we talk about we could we should do an episode
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: where we bring Tamar on and we just recap everything
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: the three of us.
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: Oh, I would love that. I would love that, all right.
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: So let's do that. That should be the plan. Maybe
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: we'll get a good guest. And thanks you guys. I
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  Speaker 2: I know you need to send me more peach bollini
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  Speaker 2: because that's my favorite.
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  Speaker 1: I will for sure.
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  Speaker 2: So pretty much what we're saying is either go all
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• 57:57
  Speaker 1: Thanks Aynthia,