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My Ex The Deadbeat Dad - Yvonne Jegede Breaks Her Silence · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to my channel.
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  My name is Lorenzo who differ and this is bouncing Florencia.
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  How are you all doing? I hope you're doing great for
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  today's episode, we're going to be talking about Nollywood
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  actress Yvonne jaggedy. Now, if you don't know you want
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  to get there, I don't know. Haven't you heard of African
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  Queen in? Eckstein even said she was
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  getting marriageable to engage to Nollywood Are Not only would
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  actor our bounced foul early. She has always been friends with
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  abounds, but they never dated. They were just very good friends
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  because she said he has like, he's very good advice.
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  I like he can look Beyond everything to tell you the
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  truth. And that was why she liked him,
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  she liked him very much as a friend.
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  She said, Was hardly a relationship.
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  He was dating people, she was dating people ball.
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  They were like best friends fast forward, even and for Lady, Gaga
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  marriage. And the Hardison in fact during
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  the pregnancy was shared, her pregnancy shoots and a bounce
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  holds. No way in those pictures,
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  peoples are speculating. That something is happening
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  before. You could say Jack.
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  Avoid yanked foul lie. Out of her social media handles,
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  she was now if she was back to even jaggedy people at that
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  point knew that something definitely was happening.
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  Even went to America, give birth family, was no way in those
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  pictures. He was, he was just upset.
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  I was when they were like, okay, this marriage.
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  Something definitely happened between these two people, and
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  they are not talking, so when he won't go back from the US with a
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  brand new baby here, maybe announcements on She media
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  follow was not saying anything. The first interview that she
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  granted after she got back. She talked about how because
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  they were asking her, are you still married?
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  Because you're no longer, it won't check out their foul early
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  that is no longer on your social media handle what is going on.
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  She opened up and talked about how they got married.
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  Like they were best of friends. They got married yesterday.
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  Got married about approached her and told her that Was it dr.
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  Friend who helps another friend, and they got pregnant, and they
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  had a child that they should go and visit the doctor even was
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  like, okay, you know, no problem.
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  So they went to the doctor after three visits Yvonne said she got
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  pregnant. She said, she was actually in
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  Dubai when she found out that she has missed her period, She
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  called her husband to say, you know, it has happened.
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  Oh boy, I'm going to come back for us to take the test together
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  and then call the doctor together or visit the doctor
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  too. Thank him for his help.
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  She said, after she got back, they did you test.
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  It was happy, they were happy. They went to the doctors and she
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  said, when you go back was when things changed like a bounce
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  changed and the interview was like, you know, what happened?
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  Like something was of happened and she said well what happened
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  was he was listening to somebody like a family friend that she
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  introduced him to people thoughts you.
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  This may Maybe they were just get over his once he is able to
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  bond with his son because she gave birth to his son.
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  Ladies and gentlemen, this man did not impose this child and
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  peoples are speculating that maybe Yvonne cheated, maybe the
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  Sun, the child doesn't even belong to him because after the
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  birth of that child, he never posted that child.
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  He never claimed that child. He never even took
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  responsibility of anything. So people started speculating
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  that Yvonne was Cheated like the child, maybe the child is naive,
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  when he is. So people didn't even know that
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  they had to go through seek medical help for her to get
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  pregnant and have that child. They were just thinking she run
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  off to Dubai, go pregnant, but the pregnancy and Ito had added
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  to the husband. And I was why he was angry, and
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  that was why he ended the relationship.
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  He was just a speculation. It won't actually did one or two
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  interviews where she tried to set the record straight about
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  her marriage that She never cheated it was never about
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  infidelity. That Abbas had never told her
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  what really happened in our relationship.
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  But people will like, you know, she's worried, she going to say
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  is you're going to go out on him.
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  Anyway, when the child was always one years old.
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  Even said she called a bounce to tell him that.
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  If you don't come and claim this child that she's going to yank
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  Folly out of his name. Because when she gave birth, she
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  said Sponsored the trip to go to America, to have a child.
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  So, she insisted that the child Bears, Xavier jaggedy Fowley.
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  So when he hasn't even seen the child for almost 6 months, or
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  claim, the child, or when all those things was people were
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  laying on these allegations on ha and he never said anything.
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  So she said she called him and said, if you don't claim this
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  child, I am literally going to go and change.
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  JH. Remove your name from this
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  child's birth certificate was when a bounce posted his son on
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  social media. So people were like, okay, since
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  he has posted this boy, then it must be his son.
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  I was how according to Yvonne people stopped asking her, who
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  is the father of us on. Like she said that was all broke
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  our hearts. Like the fact that people were
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  coming to our DM's to ask her, who is the father of your child,
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  a couple of days. Go.
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  She was invited to message on since cooking show and Messy
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  actor. You know what really happened in
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  your marriage to event opened up.
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  And she said that abundance Foley is a deadbeat dad that the
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  son just turned 4 years old and he never since.
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  Then he has never even tried to see his son.
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  They don't speak that. She has tried to communicate
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  with him. To tell him, who is he?
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  Your child like you have a, you have a presence in my house.
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  Even if we're not talking come and see your child and he was
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  never like she said, they were best of friends before even
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  starting a relationship before. Even getting married, they
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  talked about everything but after the marriage or after she
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  got pregnant because they were married for about a year before
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  they started trying to have a child.
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  She said that was when everything.
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  Changed that she was telling him that even if something happened,
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  we were friends. This marriage has ended, but we
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  could be friends when the sun tone for and started asking
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  about his father. She said she contacted the elder
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  brother and said una Peking he's asking about is that do you
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  push? You do something.
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  Please tell your brother to come and see his son that he's
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  getting to that age. I swear, he knows that, you
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  know, he goes to school and people talk about their dad and
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  then he's now asking who his dad is.
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  So she said she waited two days before the elder brother
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  contacted and said, well you know, you just have to continue
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  the way you are, because our brother is not responding to the
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  messages that we've been sending to him regarding his son.
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  He won't said, even when the Did Father's Day in school that had
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  our own father xevious Granddad was one that represented him?
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  She said up broken heart because this boy has been asking for his
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  father and he is not like it's not even about the money.
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  It's not even about the money. It was about just being present,
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  if the boy was not asking for his father.
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  I would have been a different story but this child is asking
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  for his dad and I bounce I was not even like, very cute boy and
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  eyeballs. Listen, I've been listening to
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  this whole thing. I just thought sometimes fun.
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  It's not, it's not good to, it's good to date somebody like,
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  Okay, meet somebody, they are attracted to them, dates them
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  and that person become your best friend or your very good friend
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  with a very good partner. And then Get married.
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  It is a different ball game for you to have a best friend
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  because There are certain things you tell your best friend that
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  you not necessarily Telly lover. If that makes sense to have a
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  best friend, and I am in relationship and things are
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  happening in that relationship, I will be venting to my best
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  friend, whether male or female, I'll be saying there are things
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  that I would do maybe two, let's say we're having fun.
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  I'm having a fight with my boyfriend or partner the time.
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  And there are certain things I'm doing to get back as him or ha.
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  I'll be saying these things to my best.
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  Best friend saying, okay this is, you know, I am doing this or
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  I'm doing that all this is happening, things that are will
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  not necessarily tell you lover or a partner.
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  I'll be comfortable to tell a best friend, whether male or
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  female. Now, if that best friend, now,
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  decide you not decided to get into a romantic relationship
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  with that person. You may walk.
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  Amin own work but at the same time that person knows where all
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  your skeletons are buried and that's person can use that
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  against you. Don't beat that best friend that
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  you told things that would come back and bite.
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  You don't taste a personal. Don't even marry that person.
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  I wish you want to get all the best.
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  I mean from what she says, she's been through a lot.
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  It's not just about hard, it's not just about him.
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  Emotions. It's also about the emotion of
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  her son, which is heartbreaking. Just imagine a child asking for
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  their dad button below. Female asking for their father,
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  and the father is just refusing to be present refusing.
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  Not because they don't know that this is their child.
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  Regardless of what must have happened.
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  You divorced, your wife. You did not divorce your child.
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  He was he was not even I think he never connected to that child
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  because the marriage ended when she was pregnant.
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  So there was no that bonding was never there.
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  And I don't think he feels that he has its own by the end of the
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  day. There's a human being here.
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  With feelings, with emotions about carry your face, and one
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  car your son. Rach are you also claim your
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  child claim your child? Yes, you posted his picture of
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  will be there for your son because one day you're going to
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  answer that question. One day, you're going to explain
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  to him. Why you abandoned him one day?
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  It's not about money, just be there, be there.
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  Take responsibility. Thank you very much for watching
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  today's episode. Please like like, like and share
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  and thank you very much for bye.