Latest / Still Caring / 09: What a Lifetime of Knowing - and Managing - A Genetic Disease Can Teach All of us About Our Health
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- 0:03Abby Fox (Intro): Welcome to the Still Caring Podcast,
- 0:05presented by Stillwater Medical.
- 0:07Joe Akin (Intro): Here, community is at the heart of healthcare.
- 0:09Katon Lunsford (Intro): Through honest conversations and shared experiences
- 0:12Abby Fox (Intro): we explore what it means to care for our health—
- 0:14Joe Akin (Intro): and each other.
- 0:15Katon Lunsford (Intro): Because better health takes a village
- 0:17and you're part of ours.
- 0:19Joe Akin (Host): Today's conversation is with someone.
- 0:21A lot of people in Stillwater already know and respect.
- 0:24Steve Iby, founder of Kicker.
- 0:26Good morning Steve.
- 0:27Appreciate you being here.
- 0:28Steve Irby: Good morning, Joe.
- 0:30Glad to be here this morning.
- 0:32Joe Akin (Host): Thanks so much for sharing your health journey.
- 0:34Your story isn't just about business, it's about family, genetics, and
- 0:39a health journey that started long before you knew it would affect you.
- 0:44your grandfather passed away from polycystic kidney disease.
- 0:48your mother passed away from the same disease, and because it's genetic.
- 0:53You knew there was a 50 50 chance that it would be part of your story too.
- 0:58So what followed was years of waiting uncertainty and eventually a, kidney
- 1:03transplant that changed everything.
- 1:06So This is a, conversation, or I should say this conversation isn't
- 1:10about a hospital or a procedure.
- 1:12It's about understanding risk, paying attention to your health And
- 1:16what it looks like to walk through something like this over time.
- 1:21Steve Irby: Right.
- 1:22Joe Akin (Host): I'm Joe Aiken, and I'm glad you're part of this conversation.
- 1:26So for full transparency, I was fortunate enough to start my career working
- 1:30for you, and it was 12 great years that I will absolutely never forget.
- 1:36It was fantastic.
- 1:37So thank you for that.
- 1:38But before we get into the medical side of things, when people in
- 1:43Stillwater hear the name Steve Iby, what do you hope they think of?
- 1:49Steve Irby: that's a good question, Joe.
- 1:50I really had have never pondered that question.
- 1:53as I thought about it a little bit though, I thought maybe, I'm a
- 1:56little bit, uh, like Aretha Franklin.
- 1:58Just like a little respect, You know,
- 2:04you know, that's, all.
- 2:05And I, think that's something that you just, have to earn every day.
- 2:08It's not something that, because of your position or who I am or what I've
- 2:13done, I don't want respect for that.
- 2:15I just want people, I would like respect for the way I treat people
- 2:19and, and act, On a day by day basis.
- 2:21I think to me that would, that's nice.
- 2:23Yeah.
- 2:24Joe Akin (Host): I would say with a level of confidence, you definitely have that.
- 2:28Let's go ahead and, and get medical and I wanna make sure people
- 2:31understand what we're talking about.
- 2:33So, polycystic kidney disease or PKD, I'm gonna say it that
- 2:38way 'cause it's easier for me.
- 2:40it's a genetic condition where fluid fill cysts grow inside the kidneys,
- 2:45and over time, those cysts can get large enough that the kidneys
- 2:48lose their ability to function, which can lead to kidney failure.
- 2:52And there's currently no cure for PKD, but.
- 2:56Thankfully it's treatable as everyone is soon going to hear.
- 3:01So Steve, your grandfather passed away of PKD then tragically, your mother
- 3:06passed away of the same disease in 1971.
- 3:09And at the time of your mother's passing, how much did you
- 3:14understand about what was happening?
- 3:16Steve Irby: probably not a whole lot.
- 3:18I knew that she had that, but frankly, growing up I didn't know that.
- 3:24I didn't know too much about my granddad.
- 3:25I had never met him.
- 3:27but as time went on, I think my mother probably felt that she didn't have to
- 3:32explain everything to me right away.
- 3:35But, as her, disease began to.
- 3:38Progressed when I was in college, we talked about it.
- 3:41And, I think that, I knew that there wasn't a cure for it, but, I always
- 3:47felt like that maybe by the time that my condition worsened, that there would be
- 3:54more medical, knowledge, to deal with it.
- 3:56And so, she was kind of a pioneer in that area,
- 3:59Joe Akin (Host): So at what point or approximately what age did you
- 4:04actually realize and accept this could be something that you had inherited?
- 4:09Steve Irby: Well, actually they started, testing me because they knew
- 4:13that there's a possibility of that.
- 4:15I think when I was, in college, probably 19 or 20, they would inject
- 4:20the dye And then do an x-ray, and they determined that I had some of that.
- 4:25actually it wasn't terribly concerning to me because I knew that it developed
- 4:29very slowly, but I knew that I had it.
- 4:32And so I would say it wasn't a, uh, traumatic experience.
- 4:36It was more like an acceptance of This is kind of the way things are,
- 4:40Joe Akin (Host): So if, I heard you right, you, you never really had any symptoms,
- 4:44but you decided to get tested anyway.
- 4:48So walk us through that decision process for you.
- 4:52'cause many of us have never been there.
- 4:54Steve Irby: Well, I think the decision to get tested was primarily by my doctors
- 4:59because they knew that my mom had it.
- 5:01And so they wanna test the kids, to see.
- 5:05If they have it.
- 5:06And what kind of, preventative measures that you can take as you
- 5:10grow, to, lessen the effects of it.
- 5:13And So, it wasn't really my idea, it was just something they said, you need
- 5:17to do this and get tested and So, It wasn't really my initiative to do that.
- 5:22Joe Akin (Host): So in that moment though, when you heard the results, because I
- 5:26was trying to put myself in your position And what my mind, where it would go.
- 5:31Steve Irby: Yeah.
- 5:31Joe Akin (Host): those moments, what ran through your mind?
- 5:34Steve Irby: I hope that it doesn't, develop very fast.
- 5:39know, I guess that was the main thing my mother and I had talked about this
- 5:43and she said, by the time you have issues with this, there will probably
- 5:47be much better treatments for it.
- 5:50and even kidney transplants.
- 5:52she actually had a kidney transplant.
- 5:54her and another lady had the first ones in Oklahoma.
- 5:57She was kind of a pioneer in that and wanted to do that, rather
- 6:00than be on dialysis, which is, uh.
- 6:02In those days, you had to drive to Oklahoma City three times a
- 6:05week and spend the day down there.
- 6:08And so she liked to do things and be active and I think that was a
- 6:12motivation and, also just to, uh, maybe kind of pave the way if her
- 6:17kids had to deal with this too.
- 6:19Joe Akin (Host): so knowing that you had the same potentially fatal disease,
- 6:23but it sounds like there's a very.
- 6:25Upbeat thought process going through your, you and your family.
- 6:29Did you ever have to deal with or manage any sort of emotional or
- 6:36mental health issues from it, like depression or anything like that?
- 6:41Steve Irby: I think my main mental health issues were.
- 6:44What the heck am I gonna do when I get outta college?
- 6:49And I kind of, it kind of all happened at once and I found out about this that.
- 6:53So, yeah.
- 6:55but it wasn't so much really based upon the physical, issue.
- 7:00It was more just, what am I gonna do with my life?
- 7:02And I've got this condition that's gonna develop, but, I just didn't know exactly.
- 7:08what the heck I was doing, you know?
- 7:09but it wasn't just because of the condition.
- 7:12It was more just, uncertainty about my future.
- 7:15I think
- 7:16really my job, I think.
- 7:18Joe Akin (Host): Yeah.
- 7:19a few years down the road, life is progressing and, you're in it.
- 7:23I mean, you have it, it's starting to take hold.
- 7:26What did you do?
- 7:27Just walk us through that story, through that journey.
- 7:30Steve Irby: Well, I would get, tested every year And that
- 7:34was something that they did.
- 7:35And the other thing is that they want to watch your blood pressure really
- 7:40closely because your blood pressure too high blood pressure can damage.
- 7:45Obviously more than just the kidneys, but internal organs because it's
- 7:50pushing things through too hard.
- 7:52And for someone with polycystic kidney disease, the cysts are
- 7:57starting to squeeze the kidneys.
- 8:00And if you're trying to push higher blood pressure through there, it can
- 8:04actually exacerbate the condition and make it worse because you're putting
- 8:10more, even more pressure that way.
- 8:11So the main thing was.
- 8:14To watch my blood pressure, which, I think in my forties I started on
- 8:18a blood pressure medication, not because it was excessively high,
- 8:22but just to keep it in the normal range without being elevated at all.
- 8:28And so that was the main thing that really I was encouraged to do
- 8:31and leave it a healthy lifestyle.
- 8:33Joe Akin (Host): You ended up going Mayo for treatment.
- 8:36I, think That is a fantastic story that I think everyone would like to hear.
- 8:41So once you and your, physician determined that you were going to
- 8:44need to get a, a kidney transplant.
- 8:47Could you just take us all on that journey with you?
- 8:51Steve Irby: well, actually going to Mayo was after the kidney transplant
- 8:56because I had, they discovered that.
- 8:59Which we knew that I had a polycystic condition in my liver too, because it
- 9:05tends to, it can be in your kidney, your liver, sometimes even check your
- 9:10brain, I mean, it can show up there.
- 9:12I don't think they check my brain.
- 9:14I guess they thought it was bad enough, you know, but, but That is something, So,
- 9:19it, kind of weird, but it can show up.
- 9:22But generally it's gonna show up in the kidneys.
- 9:24so that was a kind of another story.
- 9:26But what happened was that I was regularly monitored and I, was connected from
- 9:32my doctor here at Stillwell Medical Center, at the physician's clinic to
- 9:36a, a nephrologist in Oklahoma City that I began seeing, 25 years ago, just on
- 9:42a regular basis and checking all my.
- 9:46Blood work.
- 9:46And so, he was the one, he was at the Nadi Transplant Institute
- 9:51at Integris in Oklahoma City.
- 9:54And so he was the one that was monitoring me as to when I
- 9:58might need a kidney transplant.
- 10:01I actually didn't have the transplant until I was 65 years old.
- 10:07So I made it a long way, frankly, without.
- 10:11Any serious side effects, even though I had those cysts, I was still functional.
- 10:16And what they do is that when you're, they measure your kidney production by
- 10:22the measure of creatinine primarily.
- 10:25And so they test that and when it gets to a certain point, which means you
- 10:28have 20% function, then you can put, be put on a kidney transplant list.
- 10:35Joe Akin (Host): 20%
- 10:35Steve Irby: 20% to get a cadaver kidney.
- 10:39Now if you're gonna have a live donor kidney, and I had several people
- 10:44try to donate me a kidney And for various reasons that didn't work out.
- 10:48Interestingly enough, my wife was first going to donate a kidney to me, And in
- 10:55the period of testing, they discovered she had a tumor on one of her kidneys
- 11:00that they thought was cancerous.
- 11:03They removed the kidney.
- 11:05It wasn't cancerous yet, but it was the kind that can turn.
- 11:08So that was kind of a blessing in disguise, really, that,
- 11:12they discovered that with her.
- 11:14then, I had a couple other people that didn't qualify for different
- 11:17reasons but being on the list doesn't mean you get one right away.
- 11:23It's about, it took me three and a half years, so I was on the list just
- 11:28living my life, even at 20%, feeling pretty good, going to the gym and
- 11:32working full time all these things.
- 11:35I got down to, 8% was when I got the kidney transplant, and amazingly
- 11:41enough, I still felt pretty good at 8%.
- 11:44it's kind of crazy, but still functional, still doing everything.
- 11:49so I've been waiting And then trying, as you know, traveling internationally, I
- 11:54kind of stopped traveling internationally.
- 11:57Maybe a couple of years before that.
- 11:59If you get the call for a transplant, you have to be
- 12:03there in a short period of time.
- 12:06I think it's eight hours or something like that, And so I didn't wanna be like
- 12:11too far away, so three and a half years later after being on this, and I ended up
- 12:17being on dialysis for only nine months.
- 12:20The last nine months, and I did that at home.
- 12:23It was peritoneal, which is you do it yourself and they
- 12:26teach you how to do that.
- 12:27And I was still able to fully function with that.
- 12:30I just did it at night.
- 12:31so I got the call on a Saturday morning and they said, we have a kidney for you.
- 12:37And I had a friend that was gonna donate me a kidney that had almost passed all
- 12:41the tests, but it wasn't quite finished.
- 12:44So I had to choose, am I gonna.
- 12:46Wait on this person, or am I gonna take the one that they have for me?
- 12:52And, uh, This is like seven 30 in the morning on a Saturday morning, and
- 12:56you gotta decide right then, 'cause you're gonna, you gotta drive down to
- 12:59Oklahoma City and get the transplant.
- 13:01So, I didn't know what to do, so I just prayed, you know, ask God, show
- 13:05me which way to go here because.
- 13:08I've got two options and I thought, well, I'll call my kidney doctor,
- 13:12my long-term kidney doctor and just say, what would you do?
- 13:16So I called him up and he said, A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
- 13:20And I go, got my answer.
- 13:22Okay.
- 13:23I'm going to Oklahoma City.
- 13:24And so that was how that worked.
- 13:26and Becky and I drove to Oklahoma City and I think by noon I had the transplant.
- 13:32It's just like, boom, boom, boom.
- 13:34I was in the hospital for three and a half days went home.
- 13:38Joe Akin (Host): one of the things when you and I were talking about this that
- 13:40I thought was absolutely fascinating.
- 13:43I mean, the whole story is, but I was wondering about the actual.
- 13:48Transplant.
- 13:50And told me something that I had no idea about, so I think you know what I'm
- 13:55Steve Irby: Yeah,
- 13:55Joe Akin (Host): would you tell us that?
- 13:57Steve Irby: well, yeah.
- 13:58When you get a transplant these days, they don't remove your other
- 14:03kidneys unless they're causing problems, infection, different things.
- 14:09I had no problems with mine.
- 14:10They just didn't really work very well, And so they don't take those out because.
- 14:17They're way down there, and that's a big operation to take those out.
- 14:21When my mother had the transplant in 1970, they took 'em out and they put
- 14:27the transplant and kidney in that same location, but they've learned
- 14:33since then, that's not necessary.
- 14:36And so what they do is they put the transplanted kidney basically
- 14:40just in the SI side of your abdomen, and it's a fairly simple.
- 14:45Operation is what I understand, much simpler than just taking out a kidney.
- 14:50And the kidney's not very big and it just kind of, it kind of eventually just sort
- 14:53of fits in, it kind of wiggles its way in.
- 14:57And then I think they connect up, they connect up the artery And the
- 15:01vein And the ureter to your bladder.
- 15:06That's it.
- 15:06It's evidently, it's a fairly simple, operation and.
- 15:11Then they sew you back up and you have to recover from that.
- 15:14mine took a little bit, they said it to wake up, you know, when you
- 15:19have a transplant and taken out of a somebody that passed away just right
- 15:26then, really pretty much recently.
- 15:28can take a while for it to get going.
- 15:31So, I was out in about three and a half days, but.
- 15:34It took towards the end of the week before it really started kicking in really well.
- 15:39but it did.
- 15:40so that was probably the whole scenario.
- 15:44Those days were the most, worrisome is this gonna work or is it not gonna work?
- 15:51At that point in time, I'm thinking, I don't know if I can do this again.
- 15:54If you just had a surgery, I mean, I could do it again, but I was like,
- 16:00I really don't wanna do that again.
- 16:02but thank God it worked and, uh, kicked off and got a good match.
- 16:06So I'm almost 13 years in with it now, and they, I haven't
- 16:11had any, Rejection episodes.
- 16:13A lot of people have rejection episodes.
- 16:15Doesn't mean you lose it.
- 16:16They have to up your immunosuppressants and bring it back down again
- 16:20so they can control that.
- 16:23But I never had that.
- 16:24And so, they think it'll lasts for the duration as far as they know.
- 16:29I mean, nobody really knows, but, it's just chugging along like normal.
- 16:34I have a test.
- 16:35about every six months.
- 16:36Joe Akin (Host): So all of this somehow led to you going to the Mayo Clinic and
- 16:42I think anybody listening would love to hear how that came about because when
- 16:47you told me, I was completely surprised.
- 16:51I had no
- 16:52Steve Irby: Yeah.
- 16:53Joe Akin (Host): So walk us through that.
- 16:54If you.
- 16:55Steve Irby: Well, 12 years later.
- 16:57So I started having some issues, with some fluid accumulation.
- 17:04They were trying to figure that out.
- 17:05Is it the kidney?
- 17:06Is it the heart?
- 17:07They tested all that.
- 17:08Nope, it's the liver.
- 17:11And I have, cysts on my liver, but generally, and a lot of people with
- 17:16polycystic kidney disease have cysts on their liver, but it doesn't affect it.
- 17:21It does the kidneys.
- 17:23So you can have cysts on your liver and it still works.
- 17:26Okay.
- 17:27And mine was working okay, but the cysts were kind of squeezing the liver And
- 17:35the vessels and especially the big, big return vein that comes up, back to the
- 17:40heart and through the liver and delivers that blood back was getting squeezed.
- 17:45I went, my doctor, eventually we came to the conclusion, go to the Mayo
- 17:49Clinic and see if they can diagnose why you're kind of accumulating fluid.
- 17:53'cause things aren't they're getting restricted trying to go
- 17:56back and So, it kind of accumulates.
- 17:59And so, amazingly enough, it's easy to get into the Mayo Clinic.
- 18:03You don't even have to have a doctor's recommendation.
- 18:05You just get on their website, tell 'em your problem, they'll
- 18:08call you, they'll interview you.
- 18:10And, I was totally surprised.
- 18:12and it's covered with your regular health insurance and So, It all
- 18:17worked so smoothly and ended up going to Rochester in Minnesota up there.
- 18:23And, uh, they do a lot of tests on you.
- 18:27In fact, they did 'em all even the same-day.
- 18:30They did the MRI, the blood test, the uh, doctor consultation all before noon.
- 18:36I was done.
- 18:37And then you wait, for their team of doctors.
- 18:39'cause it's not just one doctor.
- 18:41And the team of doctors, they're primarily diagnostic hospital and
- 18:46they diagnose what's going on.
- 18:49And so, They say you should probably stay about five days.
- 18:52It's a beautiful place.
- 18:53We had a great time up there.
- 18:54Kind of made a vacation out of it, but uh, you're waiting for them to
- 18:58get back to you, you know, and, so they got back on Friday, we got, went
- 19:03up on Tuesday and they said, went back in and met with the doctors.
- 19:08We're sorry, we don't think there's anything that we can do for you.
- 19:11I kind of suspected that.
- 19:14and was kind of ready to accept that, but I thought, let's give it a try.
- 19:19So we go back And then on Tuesday morning I get a call.
- 19:21Well, one doctor hadn't reported back and he thought he could do something.
- 19:25So we go back to Rochester it was an interventional radiologist who, they
- 19:32put stents in your veins and arteries and, they worked through the vascular
- 19:36system Anyway, he ended up putting a stint in my, inferior Vena Caba, the
- 19:42IVC, the big one that comes up and opened that up because they measured
- 19:47the pressure And the pressure going in was high and coming out was low.
- 19:52It was supposed to be equal, and I was awake through the whole process
- 19:57and they were measuring, they could measure the pressure inside.
- 20:00They say, well, it still needs more.
- 20:01And they put another stint in.
- 20:03They kind of.
- 20:04Lined a couple of them up and opened it up, and they go, yeah, now the pressure's
- 20:08equal on the bottom, going in and on the top coming out, and you're just
- 20:15listening to all this while they're doing it halfway sedated, but really not you.
- 20:19I knew what was going on they're going through your vein in your neck.
- 20:23And that was done.
- 20:24And, uh.
- 20:25You wait around a couple hours and get dressed and leave and you're done.
- 20:28And that was it.
- 20:29so, but that helped a lot and made a big difference.
- 20:34And then they changed my medication a little bit And so we're able
- 20:37to more or less control that.
- 20:39But, yeah, they were, it's an amazing place.
- 20:42It's like a nice hotel.
- 20:44I mean, the customer service is unbelievable.
- 20:48I mean, it's just, it's a beautiful place and.
- 20:50Totally all about the patient.
- 20:54Their, their total focus is on the patient, nothing else.
- 20:58And you really feel that when you go there and, uh,
- 21:01Joe Akin (Host): Yeah.
- 21:02Steve Irby: experience.
- 21:02I'd love to go back just for fun, but we enjoyed it.
- 21:07But, uh, yeah, great people and, uh, hospital.
- 21:11Yeah.
- 21:11So
- 21:12Joe Akin (Host): Yeah.
- 21:12So y your story, I mean your health journey is incredible.
- 21:18Steve Irby: yeah.
- 21:19Joe Akin (Host): So you've gone through this, you're still living it.
- 21:22all of this changed anything about your perspective on life?
- 21:26Steve Irby: not really actually.
- 21:29It's just something I've kind of accepted as, the way things are.
- 21:32I haven't had to do a whole lot of processing with it.
- 21:35I'm just like dealing with, it's just like life.
- 21:38You got a problem that comes up, you deal with it, what do you do next?
- 21:41And to me, I kind of see it that way.
- 21:44So I haven't had any, massive revelations, other than just, make
- 21:48the most with what you've got, And that, I think that's the message is.
- 21:52Don't complain that everything isn't just perfect in your life and your
- 21:55body the way you'd like it to be.
- 21:58But, don't let that hold you back, from enjoying in life and do the
- 22:01things that, that you wanna do.
- 22:03So, yeah, no, it's not like, oh my gosh, I'm living on borrowed time, or,
- 22:08I've only got so many years left or.
- 22:11You think about that because you're getting older, you
- 22:15know, a certain degree you need
- 22:17to make some planning for your estate and, stuff like that.
- 22:21But, as far as, no, not, not too much different.
- 22:25And that may just be because of the way I was raised you know, just kind
- 22:30of deal with it and just move on.
- 22:32but I realized some things are much more.
- 22:34Serious than that.
- 22:36And,
- 22:36they're pervasive and all encompassing.
- 22:40I've been fortunate to kind of make it through some of those
- 22:44things, but I know it's not going to, it's not gonna last forever.
- 22:49But This is my experience.
- 22:51I'll say.
- 22:52I don't know that, that it's gonna be everybody's experience.
- 22:55I know.
- 22:56some diseases are just.
- 22:57Worse.
- 22:58Much worse.
- 22:58I'm fortunate
- 22:59that This is all I've got, I think.
- 23:01Really?
- 23:02Joe Akin (Host): Yeah.
- 23:04Well, Steve, thank you so much for being so open about your personal journey in
- 23:10telling our health stories will help other people And in and around our community,
- 23:15and hopefully it gets people talking and thinking about their own health.
- 23:20We always end with what we call a challenge to care, And we ask our
- 23:25guests to challenge all of us to take, one step to take better care
- 23:29of ourselves or someone around us.
- 23:32So if someone's listening right now and they've heard your story, what's one
- 23:37thing you would challenge them to do differently when it comes to their health
- 23:41or the health of someone they love?
- 23:44Steve Irby: I'm sure this has been beaten into everybody's head, but regular.
- 23:47Doctor checkups, at least once a year, to see what's going on.
- 23:51And, of course they're gonna test your blood pressure, but you can
- 23:56test your blood pressure at home.
- 23:57I mean, I've got a blood pressure monitor or you can have it test it any
- 24:02place, but so many different diseases are made worse by high blood pressure.
- 24:08And so I would say.
- 24:11Regular doctor's visits and know what your blood pressure is.
- 24:16Don't ignore it.
- 24:16Don't think it's because you can't feel it.
- 24:19Don't think that it's not there.
- 24:21another thing that I have not experienced myself, but is having a, I mean, I've
- 24:27had a colonoscopy, but nobody likes that.
- 24:31But, you don't want colon cancer, And so, and that's very preventable.
- 24:35With a colonoscopy.
- 24:37And I have friends that have gotten colon cancer and didn't have a colonoscopy
- 24:42just 'cause they didn't want to.
- 24:44Yeah.
- 24:44And, and could have prevented it.
- 24:46not the case for everyone.
- 24:48But, don't ignore your health.
- 24:50Sometimes you think it's just gonna go away.
- 24:53the other thing is that sometimes, some people don't really trust doctors.
- 24:57They say, well, I'm not gonna go to a doctor.
- 25:00I don't really trust them.
- 25:01And, you have to remember, doctors are not perfect, but they're there to help you.
- 25:06And so my philosophy has been maybe you want to change doctors, maybe you wanna
- 25:12find one that you can relate to better.
- 25:15But when you settle on that, then work with them.
- 25:19And what do what they say, And listen to 'em
- 25:22Joe Akin (Host): Yeah, I
- 25:23Steve Irby: them.
- 25:24Joe Akin (Host): So that's the challenge to care.
- 25:26It's, You know, take one step, start one conversation, pay attention to
- 25:31something you've been putting off, because stories like yours, they don't
- 25:35start the day, you get the call, they
- 25:37start years earlier.
- 25:39And
- 25:39the more we talk about it, the more we take care of each other.
- 25:44So thank you, Steve for being part of this, and thank you to our listeners
- 25:47for being part of our conversation.
- 25:49We appreciate it.
- 25:50Steve Irby: Glad to be here, Joe.
- 25:51Thank you.
- 25:52Good to see you again.