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- 0:02Welcome to Next Level Play Therapy.
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- 0:48Hey there.
- 0:49Welcome to this week's episode of Next Level Play Therapy, and today I wanna talk about a topic that comes up a lot.
- 1:02And I remember struggling with this topic when I was brand new to the mental health profession and play therapy.
- 1:13It's one that comes up a lot in my consultation program and my brand new membership I am comes up there too, which is how do I talk to parents about difficult conversations without resulting in them pulling their child from treatment.
- 1:39Because one of the reasons I find play therapists avoid having difficult conversations is that they're afraid to make parents mad, and then the parents will get mad and then they'll pull their child from treatment.
- 1:57And that's, that's a possibility.
- 2:00I don't wanna say that it isn't.
- 2:03I will say that there are some things that you can do to reduce the likelihood that will happen.
- 2:13And also increase the likelihood that you'll be able to help parents make the shifts that you need them to make for their child.
- 2:26And when I say you need them to make, what I mean by that is you've done your clinical case conceptualization.
- 2:35Looked at your play therapy model and you've gathered all the information.
- 2:40So based on all of these factors and how you are putting all the pieces together in the puzzle, AKA, your case conceptualization, then you'll have a clinical recommendation and you'll back it and you'll be able to back it up.
- 2:59So.
- 3:00Your job then becomes kind of a leadership role, I would say, in helping parents know what's gonna help their child to get better.
- 3:15And that's, that's your clinical expertise.
- 3:19So here's the thing, whether or not you feel like you have clinical expertise as a play therapist, you do have clinical expertise from a, from a parent standpoint, right?
- 3:34You are the one that went to graduate school.
- 3:36You are the one that accomplish all of the tasks in order to graduate from graduate school.
- 3:43You are the one that's now working in a place, an agency, or or even private practice.
- 3:53You are the one doing those things.
- 3:55This is your day to day experience.
- 3:58It's not theirs.
- 4:00This is not their day-to-day experience.
- 4:03So whether or not you feel like you are an expert.
- 4:06You are an expert.
- 4:08Our, and we can all continue to learn, right?
- 4:12We're all lifeline, lifelong learners.
- 4:16So what's the reason then that you avoid having difficult conversations?
- 4:25It's usually because imposter syndrome has gotten activated.
- 4:30Imposter syndrome being, inside you're, you're convinced any day now parents are, or caregivers.
- 4:41I use those terms interchangeably.
- 4:44'Cause not all children live with their biological parents or adopted parents.
- 4:49So their caregivers, right?
- 4:51Not all.
- 4:53Um, oh my goodness.
- 4:55I just lost my train of thought.
- 4:58Alrighty.
- 4:59Back on track.
- 5:00So, um.
- 5:04The imposter syndrome has everything to do with your fear that the parents or caregivers are gonna figure out you don't know what you're talking about, and they're that you're a big giant fraud and they're gonna pull their, their child from, from play therapy.
- 5:20Or, you know, people pleasing tendencies.
- 5:25I consider myself an ongoing, uh, person who is recovering from people pleasing deep roots, right?
- 5:33Deep roots takes.
- 5:35But um, we get into the helping profession 'cause we wanna help and we want things to go, um, get better.
- 5:43And that means we wanna help people and we like to get along and we, we don't like conflict.
- 5:49Those, those are all the positive things about the roots.
- 5:54Well, not the roots, but the, the people pleasing is that we wanna get along.
- 5:58The problem is it's just gonna make things worse.
- 6:02We, we can't make people happy all the time.
- 6:05And, you're the expert.
- 6:08So sometimes you have to say things that parents or caregivers are not going to enjoy hearing and, and a fear of feeling like you're too much or you're not enough, right?
- 6:21All of these insecurities that crop up when we have to have difficult conversations with parents or caregivers.
- 6:32And so today what I wanna talk about is, what can you do to have difficult conversations with parents and increase the likelihood that it's actually gonna move the needle, so to speak, to create some needed shifts in the child's environment that'll kind of unblock things and allow progress to be made.
- 7:02So that is what we are talking about today.
- 7:06I'm gonna share some tips, actually, I'm gonna share four tips with you today about how to have those difficult conversations and have them be therapeutic in nature so that you are going to increase the likelihood that parents will keep their child in treatment and they'll actually partner with you and, and, and, and then you won't feel like you have to avoid conversations or feel like you're always kind of at odds with each other and feeling, and you are constantly feeling frustrated, overwhelmed, and anxious about what to do and kind of wishing you had chosen a different profession.
- 7:54Right.
- 7:56So here's the thing, you got into this profession 'cause you wanna make a difference.
- 8:02You want to help children heal.
- 8:05And you matter.
- 8:07Your voice, your version of play therapist is needed.
- 8:14So the goal of today is to give you some support to be your best version of play therapist and help you have those difficult conversations.
- 8:27Alrighty, so let's get started.
- 8:30Oh, and I forgot to say for those of you who are joining me live today, I would love to know who's here, what population are you working with?
- 8:40Uh, what play therapy model are you using?
- 8:43'Cause we're gonna talk a little bit about that today.
- 8:46And, um, what are your struggles working with children?
- 8:52So I, I'm Cathi Spooner.
- 8:54I go live every week and talk about all things play therapy.
- 8:59I'm a licensed clinical social worker and a registered play therapist here in the United States, currently living on the West Coast.
- 9:08So go ahead and post your name in the comments if you're watching the replay.
- 9:14I would still love to hear with from you post your name, post your comments, where are you from, population, all the things, your struggles.
- 9:24And then for those of you who are listening on the podcast episode, feel free to send me a, a message on Instagram at Renewing Hearts training.
- 9:36I would love to hear from you.
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- 9:45I still would love to hear a few from you.
- 9:47I love getting the, the messages and having conversations about play therapy.
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- 10:12All right, so point.
- 10:15Today we are talking about how to talk to parents about difficult issues in play therapy.
- 10:23I would add, help them stay engaged and make the shifts that you need them to make.
- 10:29So here on Instagram, we have Katie from Ireland.
- 10:32Hey, welcome.
- 10:34I'm working with children ages four to 12.
- 10:38I work three days in a community project, social work, referrals, and community.
- 10:42Uh, that's awesome.
- 10:45That's awesome.
- 10:46Thanks.
- 10:47Um, all righty.
- 10:50Katie says, non-directive play therapy.
- 10:53Yeah.
- 10:53I use child-centered play therapy too.
- 10:55As pro I would say my, my foundation for the younger kids.
- 11:00I've had to get honest myself recently and say that I'm probably more of an integrative play therapist 'cause I don't, strictly use child-centered play therapy when they're older.
- 11:14I like shifting over a little bit.
- 11:17Um, but I love child-centered play therapy for the little ones.
- 11:22All right.
- 11:23And this comes up a lot with, um, especially with the Child-Centered Play Therapy model.
- 11:31How do you have those conversations?
- 11:34Um, and that's gonna, and and the how, what you say and how you integrate that or kind of conceptualize their role it's gonna be a little different based on your play therapy model, and that's what we're gonna talk about a little bit today.
- 11:50But the first thing that needs to happen is you have to identify what your expectations are.
- 12:04This is such a game changer.
- 12:09What, what are your expectations for how parents will be involved?
- 12:17And what I find is most of us don't really figure this out until we're frustrated and wishing we could only work with the child, and we're avoiding having conversations predominantly because I think you haven't first identified what your expectations are.
- 12:43What is that gonna look like?
- 12:46Uh, how are you going to work with the child?
- 12:50How often are you gonna see the child?
- 12:53How long are your sessions?
- 12:54Why are you choosing the frequency that you're choosing?
- 12:57Especially when you're doing, your expectation is weekly play therapy sessions, which I'm a firm believer when you're working with children and adolescents because of developmental issues, the sessions need to be weekly.
- 13:14So why is that?
- 13:15Especially when parents maybe are pushing back.
- 13:18And they just wanna do every other week, especially from the beginning.
- 13:23And you're working with a 6-year-old or a 7-year-old, or even a 10-year-old.
- 13:29I would even say, uh, um, an adolescent.
- 13:34So how, how are you gonna have that conversations about why you are gonna hold firm on weekly sessions.
- 13:43What are your expectations about meeting with parents?
- 13:47How often are you gonna meet with them?
- 13:51This, these are all the things that are gonna be important to figure out from the beginning, I, I what I figured this out, like I'm gonna tell a little story on myself so I remember.
- 14:06Okay.
- 14:07First, before I tell a story on myself, I have to be, um, full disclosure here.
- 14:13So my dog Luna, is now in the office with me.
- 14:19'Cause my husband has gone off to work and she likes to be with her parents.
- 14:24And so Luna is now in my office and she is on the floor making all kinds of moaning, moaning sounds.
- 14:32She's probably gonna roll around in the background a little bit, so if you hear any really strange noises in the background, it's just my dog, Luna.
- 14:42She's in the office with me here.
- 14:44If you've listened to any of my past livestream episodes.
- 14:49You know, l Luna is a frequent visitor.
- 14:52Every once in a while you'll see her little tail in the background.
- 14:56If you're watching on YouTube, Facebook or LinkedIn, sometimes you'll see her little black and white tail in the background.
- 15:05I call those Luna sightings.
- 15:08So here's, here's a story, and this to me is where I got crystal clear about what I'm gonna say, and I call this, I had to get honest with myself.
- 15:19So I, you know, as play therapists, we, we wanna be helpful and we, we wanna help parents and be supportive.
- 15:27So we accommodate.
- 15:30So, I, I can't tell you how many times this happened to me early on, and I, I remember a. Uh, situation.
- 15:39Years and years and years ago there was, um, a little kid coming in.
- 15:46I think he was like six maybe, and parent worked full time, so another family member was helping out, and so the other family member would bring the, the child every week, and then I would, I would try and contact the parent.
- 16:04Hey, we need to schedule a parent session, and I could never get them.
- 16:09I felt like I was chasing them down and they would say, yeah, I'll call you back, and I would never get a call back.
- 16:16How many of this, how does this sound familiar to anybody?
- 16:20Right.
- 16:21So I remember, getting frustrated.
- 16:24And so the family member bringing the child in, I said, Hey, I need to talk to parent.
- 16:30And can you let them know they need to gimme a call back?
- 16:34And you know, family member's like, yeah, so busy.
- 16:37They're, they're, you know, working full time and what's going on and, and I had evening and weekends hours, like, how much more accommodating can I make things And, that was my thought, right?
- 16:52Uh, me being a little snarky in my head, I kept it inside my head 'cause I didn't wanna be rude with my snarkiness.
- 17:01Um, and then it just wasn't, I, it just wasn't happening.
- 17:06And then we were kind of stalling out in play therapy.
- 17:11There were some things going on and I really needed parent to come in.
- 17:16And I got the parent to come in once and I, you know, did my best rapport building and then came time I needed to schedule again.
- 17:27Same thing.
- 17:28I feel like I'm chasing them down and they're avoiding my calls and not returning calls.
- 17:34Or I get them in their busy and they're busy and they say they'll call me back and never call me back.
- 17:39I found myself getting so irritated and so frustrated.
- 17:46And I, I and I, you know, and then we, we think, oh, this parent doesn't care.
- 17:51And they just, they just wanna do drop off.
- 17:54They want me to fix their kid.
- 17:55All the things we say right when we're frustrated.
- 17:58And I thought to myself, well, you know what, hold on here, Cathi Spooner.
- 18:03And so I had a little chit chat with myself and I, I call it my, getting honest with myself.
- 18:11And I, I kind of took a step back and I thought, well, why is this person avoiding me?
- 18:19Like, why are they not coming in?
- 18:21And then I, I realized, you know what?
- 18:25I never communicated what my expectations were.
- 18:31I never said, hey, this is how it works.
- 18:35And, here's why it works.
- 18:40And so I thought, well, I have to own some of this because I never communicated it.
- 18:46I never said what my expectations were.
- 18:50I just expected them to naturally figure it out, read my mind possibly to know what, what, how this was gonna work.
- 19:02And so I, you know, and I thought about it and I thought, you know what?
- 19:05This is, another analogy that I use to kind of explain this a little bit and kind of highlight my point is for those of you who have ever been married or in a long-term relationship living together, and you're with your partner and you know it's all awesome, in the beginning, you're so excited, and then at some point in time you find yourself getting irritated and you're like, what the heck is going on?
- 19:33Why is this person doing that?
- 19:35Or why is this person not doing that?
- 19:38Oh, they don't care.
- 19:39They're just, you know, selfish or you know, all the things we say.
- 19:45And then we, you know, take a step back and realize, oh, you know what, I, we never really talked about this and I haven't had this conversation with my partner.
- 19:57I'm just expecting my partner to read my mind.
- 20:01And then, uh, but I, I'm kind of being unfair.
- 20:05If I don't have the conversation.
- 20:07The situation may not change, but you won't know unless you have the conversation.
- 20:12And that's, that's in my mind, that's true also with the therapeutic relationship.
- 20:19It might not change in the case that I'm talking about, it didn't.
- 20:24And w when I had the hard conversation with compassion and kindness, but also backing it up with some boundaries around, yeah, it's not gonna work.
- 20:37Here's why.
- 20:38And spelling out well, like, we're not making progress.
- 20:41Here's what's going on.
- 20:43Here's what needs to happen.
- 20:45Your role is really important.
- 20:47Um, my job is to support you as my, you know, all the things.
- 20:53They stopped coming, right?
- 20:55Sometimes that happens.
- 20:58I would say over my experience over the last 30, 30 plus years, when I've had that conversation from the get-go about, here are the expectations.
- 21:14Here's how I work.
- 21:16Here's your role, here's my role.
- 21:20From the very first phone call and then I re reiterate it and go over it even more in depth in that very first phone call than what I find as parents now they understand.
- 21:34And so now we can work on that partnership building that partnership for the child with, with parents and myself or caregivers and myself kind of working collaboratively together and having hard conversations.
- 21:53Sometimes I get feedback, right?
- 21:56And I think, oh, okay, yeah, you're right about that.
- 21:59And we do the repair work, right?
- 22:01Sometimes I have to challenge them a little bit and it's hard, right?
- 22:05And we, we do that repair work, so it's not gonna happen.
- 22:11If you don't identify your expectations.
- 22:15You have to be very clear with yourself first about what your expectations are and why, and then what I tell myself when things happen later on down the road, and I have to hold boundaries around that, when I have to put my big girl pants on.
- 22:35That's what I say to myself and do my job with compassion.
- 22:39Also, also clinical reasoning, right?
- 22:44I can lay it out the reason for it.
- 22:49Then at least I will have laid the groundwork about why things are the way they are.
- 22:55What are the expectations?
- 22:56What's their role?
- 22:58What is the parent's role in the play therapy process?
- 23:03So, oops, I, the second thing is you have to communicate that you wanna communicate that to parents or caregivers from that very first phone call.
- 23:15And then again, in that very first session.
- 23:19You wanna explain what your expectations are for how often you'll meet with the child.
- 23:25Length of, you know, how long the sessions last, how often are you gonna meet with parents?
- 23:31I never recommend those five minute check-ins at the end.
- 23:34They're never five minutes and they really don't move the needle.
- 23:39Maybe with the easy parents, but they're not gonna move the needle, so to speak, to get parents to engage in a deeper way that they're partnering with you.
- 23:51For, especially with parents who are, have some more challenges that they have to overcome.
- 24:02Um, so you, you wanna be real clear about that.
- 24:06You wanna explain your play therapy model and how it works.
- 24:10You wanna explain what play therapy's gonna look like, including confidentiality, privacy.
- 24:18You're gonna explain all those things.
- 24:20You're not gonna do that if you are not really clear first.
- 24:26The next thing you wanna do is think about your case conceptualization.
- 24:33So this is point number three.
- 24:36Um, what, what theoretical model are you using for play therapy, because that's gonna influence your case conceptualization, which is a really fancy word, term for, um, identifying or making sense of what's at the root of the behavior, what's underlying the problem that's going on, and what are the patterns for the child that are sustaining it?
- 25:09What are the patterns going on in the child's system, including family system?
- 25:15What are those family relationship interaction patterns?
- 25:19What are the attachment qualities, right?
- 25:22But also what, what's going on in their environment overall?
- 25:26School, um, places of worship, religious traditions, all, you know, out any sports or different things.
- 25:36All of these things are part of the child's life.
- 25:40These are all part of the child's day-to-day environment.
- 25:45So you want to be very clear first on understanding and identifying what are at the roots of the problem.
- 25:55What are the beha, what's sustaining it?
- 25:57And part of that means you're gonna look at the role of parents in maybe unknowingly sustaining or.
- 26:07Maintaining same word, um, the problem and, and, you need to look at that.
- 26:14That's part of your case conceptualization.
- 26:17You're gonna formulate that from the very first diagnostic intake, psychosocial assessment process.
- 26:26You're gonna gather all the details.
- 26:29All the history, and then you're gonna formulate your case conceptualization.
- 26:34That's going to be influenced by your play therapy model.
- 26:39That's gonna help you figure out, get your initial working hypothesis right, AKA case conceptualization.
- 26:48Then the first 90 days, you're gonna get a little more clear on that as you get to know clients and parents, and then that's gonna adjust throughout the treatment process.
- 27:00It is gonna help you under identify the role of the parent in the change process.
- 27:08Also, that's going to be influenced by your play therapy model.
- 27:12Child-Centered Play Therapy is going to integrate parents differently than other play therapy models like Adlerian Play Therapy, Gestalt Play Therapy, Integrative play therapy.
- 27:26I have an attachment based family play therapy model that I use.
- 27:31All of these models are going to influence how parents are involved and why?
- 27:37And what that's gonna look like at each stage of the change process.
- 27:42These are all things you're gonna kind of be explaining to parents, but it's also where you're gonna get your clinical reasoning for why you're making the recommendations that you're making.
- 27:56So you wanna be clear about those things.
- 28:00I use, this is point number four I, I love using neuroscience and attachment theory.
- 28:07I feel like you can use neuroscience and attachment theory to kind of make sense of all, all of the play therapy models.
- 28:17You can look at it that way, kind of integrate that in there.
- 28:21I see child-centered play therapy as a heavily attachment based model between the therapist and the child, and then Filial or child-parent relationship therapy.
- 28:33They're both kind of the same thing, um, as a version, that model would then integrate the parents into the session, right?
- 28:41But it's gonna do certain things.
- 28:43It's gonna teach them skills.
- 28:45So from a neuroscience and attachment lens, parents are what I call that therapeutic agents of change for their child.
- 28:55Parents are the ones that are in their day-to-day life.
- 28:58You are only with that child.
- 29:02Maybe 45 to 60 minutes a week.
- 29:06The rest, all those other hours, it's the parent or the caregiver.
- 29:12It's the parent.
- 29:13You are not the one going to the school having to talk.
- 29:16Well, maybe, maybe you are, especially if you're in the school.
- 29:20But traditionally, you know, typically not traditionally, but typically, the parent's role is kind of to advocate for their child, right?
- 29:29And as play therapists, we want to empower them to advocate for their child in the school system.
- 29:37We can, you know, we can support them with that.
- 29:39School guidance counselors are perfect for that.
- 29:42If you can partner up with school guidance counselors, they or school social workers, they can do an amazing job helping to take the skills that the child is learning and play therapy sessions into their everyday lives.
- 29:58But parents need to be critical in that role because parents or caregivers are gonna be with that child the rest of that child's life.
- 30:08And so that's why we're looking at parents as the therapeutic agent of change.
- 30:15And when you look at it that way, then you conceptualize the role of parents as much, much more critical for long and deep healing for the child.
- 30:28Because you are not going to be with that child for the rest of that child's life.
- 30:33Their family members are, their caregivers, their parents are gonna be there.
- 30:37So when we can conceptualize the role of parents, then now we, we elevate it to a much higher level of importance, which means we are gonna, um, focus on helping parents engage and becoming your partner in the change process.
- 31:00The thing is, when you've communicated all of this, or a version of this, hi Katie, um, Katie's logging off.
- 31:10Um, when you've communicated all of this, then you can, when you have to go and hold boundaries, you would've already have had the conversation.
- 31:22And these are, I always look at neuroscience and attachment as a good way to use that lens for my role.
- 31:32My role for supporting parents, I'm gonna come alongside of them and support them.
- 31:38Parenting is hard.
- 31:40I did not have easy kids.
- 31:43I had the neuro, you know, I had some neurotypical kids.
- 31:45We had some back.
- 31:47Back then we didn't talk about it as much as we did now.
- 31:50Also, generational histories of blah that my husband and I had to come over.
- 31:56That's my official, that's my official clinical term.
- 32:00Generational histories of bleh, uh, attachment, all the things, right?
- 32:06So, so it's hard being a parent.
- 32:09And being, being able to support parents I think is key.
- 32:15And we can do that and still have difficult conversations because we're gonna come at it from using kind of that neuroscience and attachment lens of the way in which we approach parents all and all of these things, right?
- 32:35And that's one of the things, I think that's a skill we don't talk about very much in play therapy.
- 32:43Like most of the courses focus on, uh, individual play therapy.
- 32:49We don't focus a lot on working with parents, which is one of the reasons I came up with a course, which I'm gonna talk a little bit about.
- 32:58It's called Getting Grounded Partnering with Parents in Play Therapy.
- 33:03It is very comprehensive, uses a neuroscience and attachment lens to conceptualize what's going on and why parents are, are important and how to kind of look at things clinically, especially when you're working with challenging parents.
- 33:20Like there's a whole couple of modules on you know, how to work with some of the challenging parents, what to do, what do you need to do when you're working with parents in high conflict, divorced family situations.
- 33:35So.
- 33:36I think neuroscience and attachment has is a great way to be able to conceptualize that role, and then it's gonna help us figure out what strategies we're gonna use.
- 33:47So that is it for today's episode.
- 33:51Today we're talking about how to talk to parents about difficult issues in play therapy.
- 33:57I'm gonna do a quick recap.
- 34:00First thing is you have we have to get honest with yourself.
- 34:07Take a step back.
- 34:09I call this brutal honesty, self-honesty time, and maybe a little bit of courage, but figure out what are your expectations and why?
- 34:19Because this is also where you're gonna look at your theory model to kind of conceptualize why you're expecting parents to participate the way that you're expecting them to participate.
- 34:33And then you, second thing is you need to communicate that to parents from day one from that first phone call when they are calling to schedule an appointment or, and also at that very first diagnostic intake with the psychosocial assessment where you're gathering all the information and now you're also going to be explaining, here are the ex, here are my expectations.
- 34:58Here's, here's the reason for those, here's how it's gonna help your child.
- 35:03All the things you want to make sure that you're communicating those.
- 35:07And then part of what you need to be thinking about is what does your case conceptualization say that's gonna be influenced by your theory model because when you go to, uh, explain your clinical reasons for why your expectations are there, you're looking at your case conceptualization and then especially down the road, if you're kind of having to challenge a little bit, then you wanna be able to think about your case conceptualization and the role of parents in this process so that you can lay out your clinical information, your clinical facts.
- 35:46I don't know if I like that word, but it's good for now about why you are making the recommendations that you're making.
- 35:56And then I like to help with that case conceptualization.
- 36:01I like to look at things from a neuroscience and attachment lens, um, because that's gonna help me really, really conceptualize the role of parents as critical therapeutic agents of change for their, for their child.
- 36:19Like they, they are key for making this change happen, and they're all, that's also gonna help me use that lens for building that therapeutic rapport with parents and why I need to do that and what is that gonna look like in the sessions?
- 36:38So that is it for today.
- 36:42And um, I did wanna let you know I have a course, it's an online self-paced course.
- 36:49You can take it in your time zone when it's convenient for you.
- 36:53There are several modules in there of prerecorded videos.
- 36:58There's some guides and some kind of checklists and workbooks so you can take the information you're learning and figure out how you're gonna apply that.
- 37:09Um, it uses a neuroscience and attachment lens.
- 37:12I, I go over all the things in this course.
- 37:18We do the case conceptualization, we go over the practical things to help you figure out what are your expectations and why.
- 37:28We talk about what do you do when you have really challenging parents and you really want to try to engage them and help them make the shifts that that their child needs them to make.
- 37:45And then also, I included in there some practical suggestions and tips.
- 37:52What are some things you most definitely have to do?
- 37:55All the mistakes I see play therapists make when they're working with children in high conflict, divorced family situations, like I see these over and over and over and over and over.
- 38:10So I put a whole module in there, don't do this and here's why.
- 38:14Do this instead.
- 38:16Make sure you do this instead.
- 38:17So.
- 38:19It right now, I'm, I, I have a, um, a discount for the course for a very short period of time.
- 38:27If you purchase the course now, you can get, get it for 40, do, uh, $40 off.
- 38:32So you will definitely want to register and enroll in the course, while you can get it, I figure we're heading back into, back, back to school time and your, your caseloads are gonna start getting full again.
- 38:47Might as well start the school year off prepared and with some, um, skills in your toolbox to help you work more effectively with parents and caregivers.
- 39:02So it is $40 off now.
- 39:04You're definitely gonna wanna register for it.
- 39:08While you can get it at this price.
- 39:10You're gonna want to hop over to my website at rh play therapy training.com.
- 39:18That's RH play therapy training.com.
- 39:22Renewing Hearts Play Therapy Training.
- 39:24Um, it, the course is called Getting Grounded Partnering with Parents in Play Therapy.
- 39:31So that's Getting Grounded Partnering with Parents in Play Therapy.
- 39:36Hop over to my website at rh play therapy training.com and register today.
- 39:45And I will see you next week.
- 39:47Bye for now.
- 39:50Thank you for joining me on this episode of Next Level Play Therapy.
- 39:55I hope you found the discussion valuable and gain new insights and ideas to support your work helping children, adolescents, and families heal.
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- 40:15Remember, play therapy is a powerful tool for healing and growth.
- 40:20Whether you're a new play therapist or experienced, I encourage you to continue your learning journey to unlock the potential of play in your own work in relationships.
- 40:31If you have any questions or topics, suggestions for future episodes, I'd love to hear from you.
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- 40:41And visit my website at Renewing Hearts Play Therapy Training to stay updated on upcoming episodes, trainings, and resources.
- 40:51Thank you once again for listening to Next Level Play Therapy.
- 40:54Until next time, keep playing, learning and growing.