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Viva Tequila Seltzer, the number one hard Seltzer in the world, and the
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official heart Seltzer of Day Drinking with Dog. Ditch them all add tequila Welcome
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Back Day Drinking with Dog. We are back in studio finally, after a
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month on the road. I left crappy Florida for even crappier Connecticut. It
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was Yeah, it was crap. The weather was crap. Worst year I've
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ever had down there, floods, everything. But we're back in studio and
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I got three of my friends returning today for barrels for a cause. We
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had you guys on last year. To my left, Corey Shoe, Tony
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v D Straight Across and Jennifer Paris Paradise without the E. There we go.
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What's going on guys too much? Thanks for having us? Yeah,
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absolutely, thanks for coming back. I love this cause. I love Litchfield
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Bourbon, everything you guys do, the Bethel Center, the Raate Crisis Center,
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and of course your lovely liquor store on the other side of town.
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Also its own community social service, don't you think so? Right? Like
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you play a vital role in people's life. I you know, we definitely
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prioritize being involved in the community. So yes, it's definitely labor of love
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for us. Yeah. Yes, we're happy to do it again for sure.
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And you like bourbon. I love bourbon. Yeah, I'm like yeah,
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So a master is an overstatement, but maybe a professional drinker is a
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better way to put it. Yeah. So the Whiskey Club is a robust
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group of men and women, a little bit over four thousand people now and
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it's just a wonderful community of people who share common interests. And over the
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now decade of doing it, it's been a wonderful experience to meet so many
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new people beyond. So, you know, anything I talk about with whiskey
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is always community, community, community, and the whiskey community will support and
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this is another opportunity for the community to support two very good causes. So
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nice functions, awesome. Unfortunately, a couple of us if offs in the
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room will not be partaking today in this beautiful American single malt whiskeys. Yes,
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yes, it's dry January. Well, you know, I yet I
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was being and Jennifer just talked where she's doing it. I guess you call
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it a damp February. Damp January January, So starting tomorrow, you're back,
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We'll see it's been a good January. I don't know, like I
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feel so much better. I do feel so much better. I'm on like
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day three and I'm like, woke up this morning. I was like,
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all right, let's go. Yeah, I did compliment you on how good.
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Yeah, I know, I dropped like a half a pound three.
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So it is a real thing. People are doing dry January. Yeah,
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there are a long month though, no alcoholic options too, which has been
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where all the growth has been in our world on the retail end, Rashine,
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are you selling any of that, the THHC stuff. Yeah, So
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there's all kinds of confusion about the canning and the legality of it, be
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honest, but uh, we do have plenty of options with the real THHD
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extract in it. And some might believe that Delta non is it not alcoholic?
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Though it is not alcoholic. You're not allowed to combine alcohol and marijuana,
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at least not yet. Yeah, sure that so I don't think we
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need to. It's going to be combining the two were going to fan duel.
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Yeah, So we're we're working through the compliance side of that with the
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State of Connecticut as we speak. But yeah, it is a thing,
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the whole thhd seltzers. It's it's a real category. Now. I was
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at a restaurant Saturday night. I open up the menu and they had four
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choices of KNTHDHC, and ZBD. Interesting, and it was a really exclusive
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restaurant. Really. Yeah, I've never seen it before ever. Yeah,
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so the market is wildly shifting. So whether it's this dry January or thhd
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seltzers, you can look at markets like Colorado have already opened up to legalize
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Maril. I think it's like as a as a bar owner or restaurant owner,
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that could be just beating hyperbole. But like like Jennifer comes in and
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she's not a drinker, but or maybe she is, and she wants to
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switch to well let me try a tech thing to seek can down. Well
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she has two and she's like drooling on her wings in the corner, Like,
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I don't know how this works. Has it been studied? Yeah,
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it's we've recently taken the tips training. Was the last time you've do on
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tips? Uh? This year coming up? I need to do it.
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It's very three years now. Yeah, So is that is that something they
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talk about now? It was I would say tangently touched on. Yeah,
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it's still an areas tangentally. He had his little word of the day coming
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through. So we we spell, we do, we do, we do
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do words day at the shoe house every morning with the kids. So good
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was that today's work? No, today was hubbub hubbub. Yes, it
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is. It is a problem for for us because you know, our job
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and Jeremy's on that side, the other side of the bar and I'm on
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the other side of the counter is to know who you can serve. So
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getting trained on what is being you know, compliant, who you can't serve
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with now weed in the mix basically and alcohol, it makes our jobs a
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little bit more difficult for sure. I don't think there's a solution yet now,
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Tony, I know you're no longer in the police department, but I'm
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sure that's something that's being talked about. You know, how to how to
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see signs of somebody that's just now that it's legal. Well they're all trained
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right in identification and things, but the problem is it's legal, right.
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See. I don't even think people understand this. This is what I think
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the problem is in the state. Is no one understands, Like if people
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smoke weed and it's legal, they think just oh, I'm like they'll list
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smoke weed right outside in the park and the sidewalk before they go into stone
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Bridge. That's not legal. That's not legal. No, no, but
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like there's but they didn't really like it's almost like an open container law,
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right, Like you just really you go walk down the street now and is
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anyone going to body is not He's still in marijuana, right, It's the
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new cologne. It's something We're in a lunch at a local restaurant here and
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we walked in and the people next was like it was while you're still was
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weak. Right. I think it makes like our work, you know,
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in our in our nonprofits more difficult as well, because there's such a culture
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of acceptance and they're such a like kind of excessive culture. And right now,
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because we've had these like breakout kind of banner years for cannabis and alcohol
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has always been a front leader in like substance consumption. The fact that it's
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so accessible, that it's so kind of supported and endorsed in communities, it
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becomes difficult to know when you have a problem and somebody has a problem and
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like being able to manage that and help somebody manage it in a time where
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it is so prevalent, right, and and folks are going through a lot
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in addition to that, so they're like leaning on these like substances for a
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little bit of self soothing, self medicating comfort. And so I think it's
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not only is it like around your work and like where you're going, but
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it also becomes a little bit more difficult for our work too because they have
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it's not just a a no, like just saying no, right, we
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know that that's not right right, right, and so and so a lot
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of like the work that that has done over the years is like how do
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we reduce the barriers to accessing things like shelter services and food every day right,
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like basic needs where sobriety is not necessary, but we understand that people
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are really struggling with how to balance all of these vices in life right are
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accessible. I'm always the conspiracy side of things. I just feel like when
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it comes to anything that becomes legalized over time, it's it's just a money
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thing to me, like like the gambling and you know, it's like I
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was just up at the casino and you know, you can't watch it any
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games or anything without you know, and then there's like any little line on
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the bottom, you know, if you have a problem, you know,
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the dial one eight hundred, you know, blah blah blah blah blah.
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And I just find that, like I always say, follow the money,
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like I just it's it's to me, it's well. And a lot of
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these laws were put into effect with the thought that funding like revenue driven would
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come back to supporting programs that help people who are struggling with addiction. And
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I don't think that we've seen that turnaround with cannabis yet. But the reality
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is that like alcohol consumption and sales, like there's there's just not enough resource
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to support people who are dealing with alcoholism. And who I think it's less
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I was I think twenty two million dollars taxes last year from cannabis sales for
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the state. Yeah, well that's the beginning, right, being right,
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and they're saying how short they supply is like they don't have a lot of
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variation to their products. Well, I know some guys that could get some
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good stuff. Still, they're off somewhere the world gambling. Well, yeah,
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bookie had a bookie? Is that person gambling on the app? Now?
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So? Yes, So I actually know plenty of bookies and I gamble
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on the app myself. The one thing it's it's it's kind of funny because
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it's it's a little hypocritical, I think. But like, you can't bet
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on Yukon in this state, Okay, but they're aout eight now, so
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I bet on the kids, right, they're allowed to make money, right,
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But you know how far is Yukon from the mass border? Yeah?
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Yes, I mean literally minutes twenty five minutes. The kids can just drive
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up there place the bet in Massachusetts and then drive back and watch the game.
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And then you saw the story of the LSU kid, right the receiver,
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Oh he plays for the Patriots. Yes, of course it did anybody
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I don't know. So this kid, his name is Keysham Butte, and
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he's a wide receiver for LSU. He got drafted by the Patriots last down
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and when he was eighteen and nineteen years old, faked his ID or something
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and made a FanDuel account or draft Kings or whatever it was, and placed
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nine thousand bets over the span of the two years, and some of the
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bets he placed were on his own performance to actually performed, not to like
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you know, like to catch his seven balls in a game and score a
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touchdown. And that game he had like two catches and no touchdowns. So
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at least he's trying. So it got to the point where I mean there
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was like almost a million dollars transferred back and forth. I think, you
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know down I don't remember. I didn't read the whole article, but like
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he's in like jail right now, like for for frog identity theft, like
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all sorts of crazy shit, Like is there anything to prevent you from betting
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on yourself? Like if if all things are legal rules in place, yeah
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that you're not allowed. I don't know anything about this. Yeah there's rules,
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well NFL players, if there's this is I knew this was going to
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happen when the NFL came out with this stuff or they legalized gambling, because
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all these kids through college, including myself, we had a bookie. We
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gambled. It's it's an addiction, just like anything else. And these kids
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come up and now they're in the pros and now they're making money. Now
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they're like, oh shit. So many players have been suspended already, like
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just have your brother do it. I don't know, Like it's just you
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know, and they're gambling on one of the biggest things you can't do is
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gamble on an app at your facility, Like you can't be at the practice
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facility and gamble and all these things are geolocated, so they know exactly where
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you are. So comes back to you know, team personnel, or comes
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back to the NFL that, hey, you know Tony Vedy was gambling at
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Law you know, on the high school game. He's one of their coaches.
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He can't do that, you know, Like it's just that you don't
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just make an example of dumb sh it like that. And it's I think
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it's interesting to bring up the gambling in marijuana with the Howard learning as a
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society how to deal with you know, you said, the impacts what you're
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doing. It's going to impact what you're doing at the Great Crisis. It's
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definitely a new landscape. And you know, I think about it from a
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parent's perspective. You know, I have two little kids, and I have
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nieces and nephews. And this time he came up recently at a family a
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family get together you know, what do you what do you do with a
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thirteen year old boy with a phone in his pocket or girl and they know
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about gambling, so now all of a sudden, that devil is in their
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pocket at all times. So how you know, it's about educating at the
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even younger age. I mean, what what is the solution? It's it's
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definitely a challenge. It's something that we face every day. That's not the
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only devil. I mean, we see it in our prevention programs in the
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schools that these young kids' second grade, first grade, third grade all have
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cell phones and they have access to the internet and to the dark places of
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the internet. Correct, yes, and there's very bad people out there,
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and we go in and do these presentations and it's just you'd be surprised at
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what a third grader's doing on the internet. And parents need to be involved
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in that, and that's what we teach. We teach the children how to
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be safe. We send a packet home to the parents to continue that education.
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But the internet's a really difficult place, not just for my girlfriend's son.
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He's thirteen now, you know, but he's had a phone for three
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years. You know, he'll say He'll send me fucking reels. I'm like,
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what do you want? Like, I think they're funny, but I'm
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forty nine years old, Like why is this? Like there's no filters for
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age content, there's nothing just guess age content filters. That's a that's a
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great point. And every day there's a new app. Right, My staff's
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always online trying to keep up with the apps to share, you know,
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And that's for your program. So when you go into the schools, Yeah,
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we need to educle into each school systems that we service, the seven
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towns of the service, and we teach everything from sexting to body safety,
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to bully in to consent, all age appropriate and we started pre k.
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Yeah. I would also imagine that there's crime happening on these platforms too,
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right, People are being violated, people are being I mean, we had
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a case the other day. So there's there's some synergy between Tony's organization and
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the Bethel Center because sadly we have the same households, you know, meeting
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both services at the same time. We had a case the other day where
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it was a mom who separated from her partner and the partner just blasted social
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media platforms with private information and pictures as retaliation to an important and necessary split,
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right, And it was an immediate like you know, police response and
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immediate because this is I mean, this is criminal activity. But it's so
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hard to prevent, like you're so you have to be so reactive, like
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you have to be on these things. You have to be able to track
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and determine and follow up quickly and and and yeah, it just feels like
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it's it's endless, boundless. You know, do you have a handbook in
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place at the Bethel to handle that stuff or is that something that you're looking
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to develop. Maybe you can develop it in terms of like social media interactions
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and how they can impact what's what's a good coping mechanism or whatever that is.
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Well, I don't we don't have anything specific for social media, but
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we do have a number of things that are to your to your point around
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like uh, autonomy and independence and feeling like, you know, using your
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voice and feeling secure and safe and stable. You know, all of these
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things are related when you're going through trauma or when you've had multiple traumas,
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when you are living in poverty and maybe you have some you know, complicated
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health complications and family issues and things like that. You know, all of
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it kind of connects to a person's sense of belonging, you know. What
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we see and kind of the continuum of folks that we serve at the center.
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We have folks who, like, you know, maybe they lost their
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job and they quickly lost their house because of that, and so they're homeless
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for the first time, but they just they just came out of a twenty
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year career. And we also have folks that have never been employed and have
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had many, many years of homelessness. And it's often like everybody almost starts
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in the same place, but it's just getting further and further marginalized and isolated
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and outside of normal society kind of quote unquote normal society, to the point
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where you know that person that you've passed in the street that you know,
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if we if we or eyes and stigmatize homelessness, we think of that person
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first. I'll be honest. You know, they're the smallest portion of our
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population, they're the most marginalized person in our population, and they're the hardest
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to kind of get back. And the first thing that we have to do
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is make sure that they're like you know, truly coming back to self like
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that they have awareness that they feel safe, they have belonging, and they
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feel like they have value. It's it's called relational poverty. So people have
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economic poverty, and relational poverty is just the deficits of social systems and that's
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what people experiencing homelessness also face. Yeah, we talked about that last time
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you were on. You know that just the stories you don't know, the
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backgrounds, you don't know of these people, you know. I think I
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was mentioning how they all were at across from the post office, the little
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cuby holes and now that's gone, so I don't know where they're you know,
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going to now. But they actually fenced it in before they demolished it.
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And then one of the little cuby holes was one of the guys wheelchairs
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and like it was just there and then one day they demolished it and it
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went into the rubble. Like I couldn't even get it because the fences were
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so high, you know. Just like I'm not that they care. I
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don't think they do. Like you know, the those developers, you got
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a new one home, good, but you know what I mean, it's
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just like I walk by it every day and I'm like, you know,
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we used to give them pizza or whatever. Like I don't know if if
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sometimes they think we're being condescending doing that, like oh thanks, you know,
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Like I don't know, yeah, you know. I mean I've had
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some of them yell at me before because I'm being too loud. I've had
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you know, I actually I have one that I've wanted to bring on the
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show and just just tell your story, you know, Like I love to
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bring somebody on the Yeah, I think that amazing, since it's like having
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that connection, like the trusted space. But I think what we're trying to
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do in kind of the next phase of the work is we do direct service.
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We do a ton of direct service work, like meeting people's basic needs
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and making sure that they have a pathway to sustainability. But like the other
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work here, like what are the root causes of all of these issues and
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so much of that can only be addressed by people telling their story and like
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tracing that back, you know. So yeah, because everyone has a routine.
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I walk into work the same way every day and just walk by the
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same stuff I look at and you know, put put the old horse blinders
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on and I see my I go there and go on with my work.
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You know, I think a lot of people, especially the people that get
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off the train. You know, those guys don't look at stone Bridge when
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they walk on. Tony's up on the deck with his drinks. Everybody coming
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to it from the train station field. They look like they just went on
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a hike. Like they're wearing like boots, they have a backpack on,
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they've got like hiking poles. I'm like, you're just getting on the train
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to go to the hide, Like what are you doing? I had that
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like extra like fast we got Like that is like herd of paddle the train.
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Anyone's the train person. I'm sorry, but that's what you look like
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when you get off the train. And they all park behind the library mostly
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so they all just like walk right by stone bricks and like no one wants
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a like a post two hour train ride cocktail. They got it on the
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train. Yeah not anymore, didn't have that back They still do some cars,
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Yeah, not rain. Maybe they're not drinking anymore, that's true.
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Tomorrow be wins and w February first, So Jebanuary is over. Everybody,
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you know, there's a lot of these months ruining your business. October January?
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What am I doing something? What's February? You like to do events
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fasting February to get events going, to give people a reason to get out,
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you know. So yeah, it's fun. I love it. It's
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fun, Tony. So, how's the Ripe crisis Centerton? We are very
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busy as always. Yeah. I think last year we saw seven hundred and
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thirty five clients in our seven towns. We reached over fourteen thousand students in
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the classroom teaching prevention, which which I think that is so important that every
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community that we deal with has embraced us into their school systems and we're able
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to give out that message to those kids and give them those tools that they
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need to keep them safe. You know, we have cases where even when
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I was at the police apartment, someone goes on site and the next thing
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they're texting and sending pictures to somebody in Poland. It's just really it's very
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difficult, and educating these young people is very very important. Like what are
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some of the tools to stay ahead of it? Just just pure education,
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poor education, peer and involvement, teachers, involvement, so when we go
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into a classroom, that the classroom teacher stays in the classroom so they participate.
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When they go home, they get a packet of what we talked about
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in the classroom. So we're hoping that Corey and his wife sit down with
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their kids and continue that education. And we do thanks to your program.
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And you know, we have the opportunity for folks to call us and check
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up, you know, call in and see what exactly we're talking to their
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kids before we meet with them. And I think almost every single person that
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calls thanks us for our work and you know what we're doing, you know
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how we're keeping these kids safe. Do you get like pushback from from parents
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like I don't need no, my kids are good kids. So I think
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if we had this conversation when I first started ten years ago at the Great
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Presser Center, I think there's a lot more of that. I think through
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the years we've kind of changed and involved and people speak about it more freely
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now and they're more open to talking about an education And because they see it,
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they see it every day anytime turn the news on. It's on the
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news every single day. So I think people are educating themselves, and the
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biggest thing is really is education because we talk about prevention. We don't talk
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about anything else but prevention. That's our wheelhouse. And once they realized that's
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our wheelhouse, you know, we're fully embraced by schools. And then we
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teach, We go in and we also have a training program for teachers to
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accept that disclosure from that young person who comes in and says, hey,
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this is going on in my life. And then there's a protocol of how
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that goes. And so far we've done every school system in our seven towns,
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given them that education to reduce the trauma of that child if they choose
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that teacher to disclose something too. So you're working with administration, so i'd
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imagine to design these protocols so it's best for the child. And so the
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program that we rolled out several years ago was put together by the Department of
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Education DCF, Department Children Families, the alliances of our mothership, and a
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committee of educators and one of our staff members sat on that committee and they
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came up with the best practices and kind of prevention program and then we updated
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every year to go with what's going on in our area. So it's it
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was well thought out, it's and I think we've seen the reduction in disclosures
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in the classroom. I think when we first started, we were probably seeing
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two dozen disclosures out of out of those twelve fourteen thousand kids, where I
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think last year we had like three or four. So, you know,
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I think that the education is working for the kids. You know, it's
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nice when when my staff is walking through the grocery store until little kids come
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up to them and they recognize them and they talk to them. You know,
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that's that shows that that programs really work in right and the kids that
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are in it, they're in it asking questions and that's a really big part
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of our center right now. Yeah, that's rich. So like, so,
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what so what's new this year with the barrels for a cause? Oh,
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the end doesn't have to vogue. Yeah, So last year we did
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Last year we ended up going up there. I'll explain this a little bit.
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Our intention was to, I would say, replicate what we did last
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year in the sense of two different barrels. One was a poor cast last
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year, remember the wrong cast. So we went up there again and we
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did they were we did the hard work we did of selecting a barrel.
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Yes, and you know, we had a great group again this year.
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I think we had eight people up there total this year picking the barrels with
25:33
the Lichfield team, and so we do all of our tasting. We went
25:37
through I want to say six maybe eight different barrels, So we had a
25:41
tough job. So we sat around the barrel and the barrel and that we're
25:44
gonna split, We're gonna do this this finish and this other finish, and
25:48
we're on our way out and one of us, maybe me, I spot
25:52
this barrel. And I've been around enough rick houses to know that when you
25:55
see a barrel sitting off to the side in an odd spot, that's a
25:59
good barrel all to ask about. And sure enough this this this is the
26:03
case again. So it the barrel that we went with is not a bourbon
26:10
by definition. It's an American single mooll so it's a multi barley and it's
26:15
made right here in Connecticut local grains. So we tasted it and we loved
26:18
it. We thought it was delicious, it was outstanding. This it's got
26:22
tons of flavor. I don't want to bore you with the tasting notes by
26:25
a bottle. Join us at the event to get the bottle. We'll get
26:29
to that. We'll get Yeah, we'll get to that. So, so
26:30
we tasted this barrel and instead of doing the battle of the barrel where we
26:34
rank at the event, which barrel you prefer? Who? Well, that's
26:41
so so, So to finish up this barrel, we we decided that we
26:48
love this barrel so much that we're going to do one barrel and it's a
26:52
unit unity barrel. So this is the view and we have it. Yes,
27:03
we have this this wonderful selection here that has both their organization's beautiful custom
27:10
logo on there. They really did a great job at the graphics they go
27:14
to show up with the people on the on the video. Yeah. So
27:18
to answer your question about what happened last year, it was incredible. Actually,
27:22
so I'm doing the tasting for the barrels. Last year. The great
27:29
crisis, I believe was the portcast. You were the rum cast and you
27:33
were a shary cast. Excuse me, so that they'll have to share it.
27:36
So everybody voted, I'd say roughly seventy five percent people voted, and
27:41
there was one vote that made the difference. It was a one vote difference,
27:45
and everybody tasted these blind, so you couldn't you had no idea what
27:51
you were tasting to choose your organization that you're there to support. So you
27:53
know, mister Tony Vedi comes up and he nails it. He picks his
27:56
own barrel good and comes up. She picks barrel press the center one of
28:07
the Battle of the Barrel by exactly one vote, and it was the president
28:11
of the Bethel Shelters vote that you know, so I'm not I make it
28:15
up. It was incredible. I've never been an organized sports kind of gal
28:19
and so like when it's like a game time shot like or something like that,
28:23
like don't come for me, right, Like, I'm like the middle
28:27
of the pack on this stuff. So the MAAC that I was like the
28:30
last vote and it was tied, and they came and got me. They're
28:33
like, oh, Jen hasn't voted yet, and it was tied. So
28:37
it was a difficult It was a difficult night for for for that one reason
28:42
for Litchfield, though that's great both they're like right down the line. It
28:48
was just it wasn't like there was a significant difference between the tastings of ours,
28:56
and that's why you picked you? You were the rum I was the
29:02
Yeah. I think it's interesting how I don't have a comeback year, so
29:04
I feel like we got to make sure that you do at least one more
29:07
of it. But I think it's your idea for the year. And it
29:10
wasn't it because you don't want a chance to make I'm was it all like
29:17
blind voting and it was all no. What I mean for me to know
29:22
what I mean is like you don't know who voted for what correct until she
29:26
voted because she went last correct. So I was just the worst. It
29:33
was incredible. It was incredible, so cool man, so so real quick
29:38
on this. Uh this this we should have said. I don't want you
29:41
guys to feel bad. I'll let you guys went. I think I did
29:44
say something. This is really really neat this year's Yeah. So there's a
29:49
store of woman named I reading Tan up in Canterbury Liquors in Connecticut. Right,
29:56
She's an incredible purchaser of which and blender of whiskey. And what happened
30:03
with this was the reason the barrel was off the side. She had blended
30:07
her own barrel with Lichfield. So if you go on to their website.
30:11
On Litchfield's website, you'll see this beautiful write up about an American single malt
30:15
whiskey, and what she had done is she took two barrels from their inventory,
30:22
blended them sixty forty percent, and then took that barrel. This was
30:30
the inverse, the leftover of her custom blend. So on top of this
30:34
being a special barrel, it truly is one of one. It's something Lichfield
30:40
will never make again. It's an inverse I like, one of one.
30:44
It's truly unique. Yeah, So yeah, I just wanted to make sure
30:48
everybody understands that this is a wonderful representation of what Lichfield can bring to the
30:53
table. You know, they are a local company. We'd love supporting local.
30:56
It's a big part of what we do and more. And you know,
31:00
I just want to get the word out on this whiskey is a custom
31:04
American single mault whiskey, for the for the whiskey lovers out here to understand
31:10
that this is a special bottle. It is truly one of one. So
31:14
on top of taste being great, it's got that unique factor that anybody how
31:18
many clouds were bottled, it's a two hundred and fourteen bottle yield on that.
31:25
So each of the organizations are tasked with getting rid of roughly one hundred
31:30
and change bottles. But we'll see how we're doing this year. I don't
31:33
know, we haven't checked it on that right, Well, let's get to
31:34
the bones of it. How do we get one? Is there online?
31:37
Can we order them? Like last year twenty event? So so another last
31:41
year, we have our launch event this year it's February eighth, so next
31:45
Thursday at Staff of Vineyard. Beautiful food done by Bridge House and just a
31:52
great night. I mean, we have fantastic it's a it's a great atmosphere,
31:57
it's a great vibe, we have aims. It's you know, you're
32:00
just busy. Your ticket tickets are one hundred dollars, but your ticket gets
32:05
to wind sampling from staffa, gets you the whiskey tasting, gets to your
32:12
own bottle that you're you're going home with the Bridge House food, and you
32:16
have the opportunity to to participate in the raffle prizes. The Raffle prizes are
32:22
phenomenal this year really and a couple door prizes. Yeah, so there's just
32:29
you know and like phenomenal meaning it's like TVs and experiences and tickets to sporting
32:34
events and stuff like that, but also things like three D printers and like
32:37
you know, just like wild stuff. So it's it's a really unique experience.
32:42
And so we would encourage everybody who came last year to come back because
32:45
I think truly it was like such a great such a great night, and
32:50
and you know there's always room for more. So and then on the same
32:53
link the event bright link, people can purchase the bottle. If they're not
32:58
available for that night, they can just purchased the bottle. We'll make sure
33:00
that it gets to them. And this year they don't have to choose,
33:02
and this year they do. There's a lot lessmunity and a shout out to
33:09
Lichfield. Lichfield brings their entire line all they're different premate cocktail, make cocktails
33:16
there, expressing our teams outstanding there, gave spirit correct, I mean,
33:21
and they're just really and you got to taste anything you want and it's all
33:24
night long and we have a blast. It was the laughter was all night
33:30
long. Yeah. We just got to get to get the mic out of
33:34
Tony's hands. I did not This guy sees some microphone I've said seen I've
33:40
experienced that with Yeah, it was probably the Boston Tournament. It was definitely
33:46
a Watson tournament. Remember a year it was, and I think I think,
33:49
I think Dennis was just like enough from ton I love. Yeah,
33:54
it's gonna be a replay last year, but surely a better version. We've
33:59
we've we've taken the time to meet as a group. They're extended teams who
34:04
I mean, shout out to your supports if you want to do it right
34:07
now. They're incredible. Stephanie, my Victims first director, is on points.
34:12
He keeps me in the GEN in line. I told Jen before that
34:15
the Steph has a wish list for Gen to take care of as I do
34:21
every day when I walk in the office. But the entire staff in my
34:23
office all chips in every fundraiser we do. My entire staff is on board
34:30
one hundred percent making flyers, posters, picking up Rapple prizes. So it's
34:35
and next week we're going to be bagging all the bottles. Yeah, so
34:38
you know, kudos to staff and everybody that comes, and it's gonna be
34:44
a fun night. Please come out February eighth, next Thursday, next Thursdays
34:50
day. Yeah, all right, I'm not drinking, but I could always
34:53
come and get the bottle. You said off air, I believe that maybe
34:57
the super Bowl you might break that was that on there? So yeah,
35:00
yeah, a few days before you can come support. You know, I
35:07
think I think I think we could say this collectively in the room that like,
35:09
you know, it's almost like potato chips. Yeah, I might not
35:16
even drink, you just walk around. Yeah, and teams from dried and
35:23
damp. So you know, I got it, Like expectations are easier to
35:29
marriage. And you know when there's twenty nine days in February this year,
35:32
so maybe yeah, raging bonus day, Yeah, bonus day, which is
35:37
how it happens. You start like saying, well, maybe yeah beat less
35:40
February, you get extra day in there. Yeah. How many tickets are
35:45
for sale? Is it? Is it a limited event? Would say?
35:49
Hard, right, we will sell the tickets there. We don't have a
35:52
limit, just well the limited bottles, so well yeah, yeah, two
35:57
hundred fourteen, We're gonna sell two hundred and fourteen. Yeah, yeah,
35:59
I mean I think this is a coming again. Yeah, it's like,
36:05
you know, we want people to feel relaxed. We want people to come
36:07
when they want to leave what they want, you know, so it's not
36:09
just like a beginning, middle end structure time kind of times. Are on
36:14
that event at six o'clock and we're going until whatever. Yeah, last years
36:22
between nine to ten, Yeah, after after the rapple baskets go. I
36:27
think they started a poker game after no no, so I think they're telling
36:32
you tried to pull me that. That's right. Yeah, yeah maybe this
36:36
year's yeah, so now it's going to be a great night. This is
36:39
I look, I'm really looking forward to this. When we started this concept,
36:43
uh we called eighteen months ago, maybe even longer, I was really
36:46
excited for it to get it going. And I know, selfishly, I'm
36:51
very proud of the work to be able to help to community organizations like yours.
36:57
It's you know, I talk about it all the time when I'm talking
37:00
to people and we're doing stuff and within the community with the business, and
37:06
you impact directly the people who are left and right both your organizations, you
37:09
know. And I'm not saying that it makes it better than any other organization
37:15
that may be bigger and have layers and layers of payroll to be honest when
37:20
given the choice. You know, we want to help direct and that's what
37:23
both of these organizations do. So it is an honor really to work beside
37:29
you on this event and now second year in a row. So we'll just
37:31
keep it rolling. But just to go on from that, you know Corey's
37:36
you know, it doesn't like the applause, but this guy, he goes
37:39
out. It not only takes care of ourt to organization, but I think
37:43
he helps out a majority of the other twenty four nonprofits in this town.
37:45
All right, So you know, kudos to your and your staff and all
37:49
the work that you guys do. I think you guys just gave a rare
37:52
bottle of was the tequila of Yeah, we did tequila. We do these
37:59
rare bottle unicor horn bottle raffles where we pick a local charity to be the
38:02
benefactor and you know that person who buys the bottle makes a direct contribution to
38:07
that charity. So we did tequila and bourbon. So thirty five hundred went
38:12
to uh the team over at the Boys and Girls clubs with Megan. So
38:17
do you say a unicorn bottle A true one of one rare? Yeah?
38:21
This year is a Pappy van Winkle. No, yeah, Pappy van Winkle
38:24
twenty year bourbon, and then the tequila was one of the super rare for
38:30
De Lays. The last time I was at your shop right before Christmas,
38:34
Eve answered the phone and it was like something like yeah, you guys,
38:37
got any pappy down there? And you're just like yeah, yeah, no,
38:39
and then you look at him like like I don't even know this fucking
38:42
guy. He thinks he's going to get the bottle three. Yeah, it's
38:47
it's an interesting landscape, the bourbon landscape, because there simply isn't enough with
38:52
the pay though. Was that real the heist? Yes? Yeah, the
38:57
legend of that that story, do you believe it? Or was a market
39:00
well, I mean, like ever since you can't get it. Yeah,
39:05
So it's just it's just so rare because when when whiskey lays down in the
39:09
barrel, or any spirit for that reason, for twenty years, you have
39:13
an angel share and an evaporation rate, right, so you just have such
39:15
a small amount of liquid left in those barrels after twenty years that it's going
39:21
to be expensive. So it is truly rare. There's no way to speed
39:24
up the aging process. Right at times and time. So it's rare and
39:30
they're delicious. You are they worth thirty five hundred dollars? You know that's
39:35
for you decide how to spend your money. But you know that's why we
39:37
find it nice to take those very rare bottles and attach a charity to them
39:42
so at least we could do some good with them. Yeah, I mean
39:44
I think that you should. I mean there is a place for everybody to
39:46
be involved. I mean we talk to people all day every day. They're
39:50
like, I want to get involved, how do I help? And like
39:52
there's just a way for everyone to have a space in making their community better.
39:59
And Corey, I'm so glad you lifted that up because you have been
40:00
so creative and thinking about how do I use what I do well and what
40:05
we do well in our platform to help organizations in the community too. And
40:08
I you know, there's there, it's it's unique and it's special and people
40:13
should be doing you know, there should be looking to you to say how
40:15
does the business community support nonprofits and and and in ways that also get back
40:22
right, Like I don't think you know, you talk about charities in a
40:24
way that's like respectful truly. I mean in this like, we're working hard,
40:29
we're doing everything we can to improve the conditions for people who live in
40:32
our community. And you see that, you see like an investment in our
40:37
in our in our organizations come back tenfold, right like, And so yeah,
40:42
just just naming that there's a place for everybody who wants to get involved
40:45
in making a difference in their community. And usually that starts with understanding the
40:50
thing that you're good at in your platform and your voice. And we have
40:54
so many local businesses and and companies that really support many, many many nonprofits
41:05
and there's really no way for us to do the work that we do with
41:09
without all the suppers from every single person in our community. I say it
41:13
all the time, especially with this town. Yes, yes, I don't
41:15
know. I've had I've probably had twenty different charities or organizations on this podcast
41:22
and I'm probably not even halfway there. And it's not even registered organizations.
41:25
Think about what you as Stonebridge just did for our good friend Steve. Yes,
41:30
that's not a registered five round three, but that was how many thousands?
41:35
You know, It's an incredible, incredible way. It's just there's something
41:38
special about this town. You know, especially the restaurant community as a whole.
41:44
You know, everyone can yeah, you know the go funding pages that
41:50
go out, There was one who just went out the other day and you
41:52
know, helping someone in the restaurant business actually, and it's there's many many
41:58
and many many donations. You know, I wonder quite often, and you
42:00
two are in different towns. Is this a unique town with that level of
42:06
engagement to support the profits? I think so yeah, I mean, and
42:13
so we serve thirteen municipalities at FL. Most of them are along the shoreline
42:17
kind of east and west of New Haven in the lower Naugatuck Valley area.
42:22
And the you know, the work around solving homelessness, like Bethel is an
42:28
organization that has the structure for the services that help to address the need,
42:32
but the broader thing around this is like homelessness is a housing issue and it
42:37
requires a community response and so just the willingness to get together to have conversations
42:45
to say I can bring this to the table, but I need this,
42:47
this and this, like just that type of collaboration and that spirit. I
42:51
mean six years ago now, Bethel started an interagency collaborative called Human It's the
42:59
whole almost unsheltered multi agency network and it basically right. I have no part
43:06
in that. I think it's a sergeant I think I make get that wrong.
43:10
But Sergeant Garon DEMONTI, in the middle of the night it was,
43:14
you know, texted me saying, I think our group should be human.
43:15
We were the Unsheltered Task Force before that. But you know, the point
43:20
being that, you know, six years ago we started to meet knowing that
43:24
we were better together than we were kind of individually separately, and Bethel really
43:29
wanted to make sure that everybody was taking advantage of our resources. And it's
43:31
it's every month, still going coming back to the table, even though problems
43:36
are hard, even though we didn't solve this issue overnight. In other communities,
43:39
you know, they struggle to even understand what is a what, who
43:44
has what resources, how to connect pieces together not get frustrated in the process,
43:50
and so like letting that divide people like you just find that there there's
43:54
a little bit more distance between people. And yeah, so I do think
44:00
it's unique, and I think, you know, the beauty about us is
44:05
like we can say, hey, you know to surrounding towns or other you
44:08
know who are struggling to say, where do we start, how do we
44:10
start? We need help. We can look to Milford and say, well,
44:14
Milford's been doing this for a number of years and then we've been really
44:15
successful there and I personally need some help from Milford. This was a tragic
44:21
accident that happened right around Christmas. One of our own at Stonebridge. Corey
44:24
Wilkerson's her name. She was kind of a once a week, you know
44:30
person, and she got a new job working as a nurse in Cheshire at
44:35
the prison and was just coming home from work one night and came upon a
44:39
three car accident with already medical response teams there, police were there, and
44:45
she got out of the car to help and got hit by a fourth car.
44:50
She's still in the hospital. She was induced in a coma for a
44:52
while. She is awake now, but her road to recovery is going to
44:58
be insane. She had a great go fundme page that the whole state of
45:04
Connecticut actually does something called payda park. You may know about this. So
45:09
if you work for a state, municipality or something, they pick one day
45:14
and you pay five dollars to park and all that money goes to somebody that
45:16
suffered a tragedy such as Corey. So she's getting all that and of course
45:20
you know that stone Bridge and can't be and myself or could be doing something
45:24
probably in the spring when she's out of the hospital and needs the extra you
45:28
know, money for rehab and all that stuff. But yeah, if you
45:35
look at her GoFundMe page, it kind of I don't even want to talk
45:37
about it, but it describes everything that happened to her injury wise, and
45:42
it's amazing. She's alive, to be honest with you, and she's young,
45:44
she's vibrant, a great girl. And I will be obviously announcing in
45:49
the future when we when we land and doing something down a stone bridge and
45:53
everyone's looking at the time. No, no me, sir, see here
46:00
all day and I'll talk all day, could I? Yeah? And thank
46:08
you for sharing that building. I would love to talk about our new building
46:14
when we're going to bring up this wonderful project. What's new? I bet
46:17
that the birth thing I'd like to do is just really think we have in
46:22
addition to Litchfield Distillery, in addition to to Corey Shop and his team,
46:28
we also have two phenomenal sponsors at the event, Milford Bank, and Trinity
46:34
Point Wealth and you know, talking about communities coming together and and then just
46:39
like figuring out what they can do to help. These are organizations, these
46:43
are businesses and that support so many agencies, and we're thankful that they're coming
46:49
onto this project. Both of them were with us last year again and they're
46:52
back. We see those two businesses everywhere in town donating and no different than
46:59
a Stonebridge you are, honestly, but Trinity Point and the Milford Bank are
47:02
just everywhere. They really are very great. It's a tremendous community in Milford
47:08
and even you know the area of towns, but I've never been in a
47:10
town like this where it's just everyone gets together and rallies together and businesses without
47:16
are very generous. And I mean last week that you know, the mayor
47:20
walked in and sat down and just introduced himself and talked and see how everything
47:23
was going. I mean, that's just you know, it's yeah, yeah,
47:27
Tony Gah. I mean the t I personally thanked me for winning.
47:35
He said, thank you. We're getting about one hundred and fifty thousands an
47:39
episode now for day drinking with me. Yeah, we're getting up there.
47:44
That should sway the vote. Yeah, well I don't want to, you
47:46
know, do that, but uh, all right, well let's talk about
47:51
our So first of all, web, do you guys have a website?
47:54
Let's talk that how do we buy a ticket? And if he can't go,
47:58
how do we get the bottle? Just so everyone knows. So I
48:00
would direct and we'll make sure that the link for the event is attached to
48:05
this episode and Instagrams and stuff like that, but all of it is based
48:07
on the event, right U R L. And so that's that's the main
48:13
platform for that. And you can also either one of yeah, I search
48:17
Barrels for a Cause event right just recently and it will show so you can't
48:22
purchase them right there, or you can go on to Bethel Milford dot org
48:27
or Great Crisis Center at websites. They're both on there. It's all out
48:31
on social media Facebook, Instagram. We try to post it at least once
48:37
a day. Yeah, it's working. I'm just seeing if it pops up
48:42
on my event, right, Barrels for a Cause? Would it be Barrels
48:45
for a Cause? If you haven't, we'll just call one of our offices
48:50
and one of our staff members will help you out Teddy Bear talk support.
48:54
That's not it that came first competition about I don't know what that is in
49:02
the power of talking out loud. There it is tho, it's right underneath
49:06
that. So do not go to Teddy Paris. You're only out a little
49:09
bit. Oh yeah, So seventy one dollars would be the bottle and one
49:16
await it would be the ticket for everything. Yeah right, okay, it
49:20
just one wait is to cover the fees the whole thing, right yeah,
49:24
So if you feel generous to cover the fees, please do. These are
49:28
charity organizations we're supporting here. Yeah, spend the extra money. People come
49:31
on well, and you're getting I mean, you're hitting an event, you
49:37
know. And so it's it's not just a bottle. It's not just like
49:39
a you know, sampling or tasting. It's like all of these things combined
49:44
together. So it's it's really going to be a great night. And Bridgehouses
49:46
is donating most of the food. They're bringing in many, many different items
49:52
for everybody to enjoy. So we'll have plenty of food, plenty of drinking.
49:59
I think being genera to make the desserts, I say, we're getting
50:01
homemade deserts. I was asking. I was thinking about though. Last year
50:05
we had homemade dessert from gen Bourbon cheesecake. I did not just to be
50:09
clear, I did not make that a cheesecake. But I mean, you
50:15
know what's better with some bourbon than more bourbon? I think, right?
50:19
Is that? Yeah? But let me talk about the new building. I
50:23
building. So you know, the center has been in our current location for
50:28
about thirty five years. I mean we have as as we know. We've
50:31
talked about it before. So many folks call us the Bethel Shelter, but
50:35
we provide a continuum of services for people who are experiencing housing instability, food
50:40
insecurity, hunger, and homelessness. So there's a bigger, a bigger breath.
50:45
You know. Last year we served three hundred and seventy two households and
50:50
homeless prevention services alone in the area. So that's preventing folks from needing our
50:54
shelter services in the first place. We served about five hundred people in our
50:59
shelter programs, and we served about fifty thousand meals in our community kitchen.
51:02
And the reality is that we we just need more space. We need more
51:07
space. We've learned a lot in the past forty years since the organization has
51:12
been around that of how to address homelessness and how to do it in a
51:15
way that preserves dignity and respect for the people who are going through that system,
51:21
and in a way that helps the community as a whole. Because nothing
51:23
is worse than you know, well I shouldn't say this, but when you
51:27
when you have these services, like the goal is to have them open,
51:30
operating and being able to receive anybody at any time. So the new building,
51:36
our new a new operations center is focused on twenty four hour services.
51:39
Twenty four hour, twenty four to seven. That's it. That's been my
51:45
days and a week. I think I get eight days in a week.
51:51
But and so, you know, basically an open front door for folks who
51:54
are unhaused, unsheltered in the in the area. That puts a lot of
51:59
relief on you know, our emergency response services, our police department, our
52:02
library, and it provides better quality services for specific people that need that.
52:08
We also have, you know, shelters were built to put as many people
52:15
in the smallest amount of space as possible, and that does is very poor
52:19
for the population that we serve now, which is mostly over the age of
52:22
fifty five who need things like adaptive equipment. So anyway, so we're building
52:27
space that allows for more individualized beds, prices beds. We call it micro
52:32
shelter. So think about it like hotel rooms versus like twelve men in a
52:37
room. You'll be in a room with one person. And we have an
52:39
incredible supportive housing program. Not many people know about it, but supportive housing
52:45
is for folks who need long term financial assistance and case management to maintain their
52:50
housing. And that program has been open for thirteen years. We have a
52:54
one hundred percent success right, nobody who's gone through that program has returned to
52:58
homelessness in thirteen years. And the goal of our new building is to provide
53:05
as much supportive housing as possible. So we're still working. You know,
53:07
you tweak these things, Tony JS. You guys, when you build a
53:10
building, you tweak everything until the very very end. So we're still moving
53:14
parts around. But this was really about thinking forward and knowing that you know,
53:21
at some point, the crisis response you know, kind of needs to
53:24
take the prevention needs to take the place of crisis responses. So we're doing
53:30
so much more by way of prevention now out of necessity. I mean,
53:32
we have hundreds of people on our wait list. So it's sad. I
53:37
know, I know it takes about at this point, like two day takes
53:40
it over thirty days for you to get a shelter bed and so in the
53:45
Greater Milford area. And so you know, we have staff that are working
53:50
with people way before they get into that shelter bed, right since the day
53:53
that we meet each other, because we know it's far more efficient to work
53:59
on permanent houses than working to get to a shelter. Then you're in the
54:01
shelter and work to get to housing. It's more efficient, it's more cost
54:05
effective, all those things. So you have you found a big uptick just
54:08
with the housing costs now, I mean, is it all like kind of
54:14
works itself together? Oh yeah, I mean, you know, we're in
54:19
an interesting place. I mean, so home prices have raised about sixty percent,
54:24
So those folks who are shopping and that cannot shop in the home purchasing
54:30
market are shopping in the rental market, so rental increases have raised about forty
54:34
percent. Because of that, The folks who are experiencing homelessness are people who,
54:39
because of their health conditions are because of their fixed incomes or whatever the
54:44
case may be, or sometimes a combination of all those things. Are people
54:47
that can't compete in the housing market. So housing costs are up sixty percent,
54:52
rentals are up forty percent, homelessness is up thirteen percent. And so
54:54
you just see that very clearly. You add inflation and everything cost living.
55:00
It's I got to stop it. Shot for like three days is eighty dollars.
55:08
It's real. It's it's definitely. So that's just, you know,
55:12
further emphasizes the need for everyone that's listening to get out there and buy some
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tickets. Yeah, and support you get this beautiful bottle bourbon. Yeah,
55:20
fancy incredible, right, it's incredible that laughs. It really is a fun
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night. I had a last one of the best best nights of the year
55:28
last year for me. We got so many compliments from from them, and
55:32
it's great to hear from people that I'm the support. Is that one gentleman
55:37
was in the nonprofit business for probably what forty five years? Oh yeah,
55:39
and he sent us an email saying it was the best one he'd ever met.
55:43
I mentioned to you. He said the same to me. Yeah,
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he was ahead of I want to say the United Way. Yes, believe
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me, I'm on him. David Kennedy, if you're listening, actually I
55:52
think I don't ticket sales already or yeah, he just committed to fifty tickets.
55:57
I heard, all right, sorry, and he's a Kennedy, he
56:04
knows all right. Well, Jennifer, I know you got to run.
56:09
So we're gonna wrap this up' gonna wrap it up in a little different note.
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Obviously everything they'd heard so far. You guys are awesome. Everything you
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guys do. I'm glad to be a part of this every year, for
56:19
you guys to to put it out there. Thank you, thank you.
56:21
Uh you know you ever want me to join? And I could pick a
56:23
bourbon if we want to go back down that road. You can have the
56:30
shop and tasting and I'll see how your palate is. What did you say?
56:35
You can have my vote? Tony's figure out how does this work for
56:38
me? Because every time I looked, your glass was empty. So by
56:45
the time she went to vote, she did. It's great. This is
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me. That's very of all the things that you know for me that I
56:54
do in the in my day that work. You know, Bourbon is what
56:58
I love. Whiskey is what I love. And this is why this this
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communal, this laughter, this is real and it happens all the time over
57:06
whiskey. I just want to share that. It's it's just so wonderful for
57:10
me because I do you always talk about community. If you're on my email
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list, it says bourbon equals love and community, which sounds I don't know,
57:17
but I mean it. And right over your left shoulder up stare.
57:21
Nope, the little sticker, little copper cat. Is that what that is?
57:25
Yeah, that's MGP liquid. Yeah, I got a palette. I
57:29
got a palette. Yeah, it's a nice burnt brown sugar's on there.
57:31
He's got a little bit. But no, I mean, it's a lot
57:34
of fun and we're looking forward to having another really really fun night and we're
57:38
gonna make a ton of money. That's damp in my February, is what
57:43
it seems like. That's what sounds like. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
57:45
it's gonna be a damp. I don't want it to rain. But all
57:49
right, well it's officially Super Bowl, so I'm just gonna go around the
57:52
room. I just want some picks, and I guess it picks from everybody
57:53
else. Uh, Corey, I'll start with you and then we'll wrap this
57:58
up. First off, and second only. Is the Taylor Swift thing all
58:01
a big scam or is it actually a true romance? Oh that's such a
58:06
lot of questions. I haven't Okay, So I have I have an eight
58:10
year old daughter who is a newly newly I guess reform swifty or she's all
58:16
in now just recently. So she is a Kansas City fan and shockey because
58:23
as my Bills lost to the Chiefs, I'm gonna pull for the Chiefs so
58:28
we keep it in the in the AFC. So I'm gonna go Chiefs thirty
58:31
one, twenty three, all right, numbers too. No, I just
58:37
want to say winner. The game is so close, it's only one and
58:38
a half. Well, I don't get to put predictions out off and then
58:42
they're meant to So you think. So you think the Kelsey relationship is just
58:47
they're going to get married and have kids. I think it's not that she's
58:52
going to demand a portion of the revenue from the Chiefs. Gis That's what
58:55
I think. Are reported that the NFL has made three hundred million dollars for
59:00
her being got games, incremental coverage because of her. So it's real.
59:04
I am experiencing it. Kelsey just got her a ten thousand dollars with my
59:08
daughters. Swifty, this whole Swift, it's like magical. It turned on
59:12
like a switch. I thought it was. I don't know what it's like
59:15
to be her. Whole career is breakup songs, though, so I just
59:20
feel the end his leader. I don't want to go through it was the
59:27
last. I just do a lot of Tarrant Swift songs now, and uh,
59:32
there's some good ones in there. All right. So you got chief
59:38
said you're a trior Swifty. Now, all right, tell him what do
59:40
you got? I want to go. I want to say the Lions,
59:44
but they're staying home again. Yeah, Detroit fan, I wanted. I
59:47
wanted to see the Lions go. They went to sleep in the second dumb
59:52
Ass is an interesting choice that coach stayed true to what he did or he
59:55
did, Yeah, solid didn't. He he wrote did, But like at
1:00:00
some point you gotta be like, all right, the fucking Super Bowls on
1:00:01
the line. I might want to tie the game here, I might want
1:00:04
to kick a field goal enough seven But but but let's say let's say that
1:00:07
you know it, he did do that and he's still lost. You get
1:00:12
you'd be banging in for not being consistent with his coaching launch No, not
1:00:15
me. No, I think there's certain points where you literally need to take
1:00:19
the points. Yeah, I'm with you if you go ahead, three scores
1:00:22
any time, have three scores. Yeah, but he did stay consistent to
1:00:25
what he did all year. But but situation you know, they did the
1:00:30
analytics, but situationally and you you don't get it, which they didn't like.
1:00:36
That just motivates the other team more like, Okay, you gave us
1:00:38
a fucking opening. Yeah, the dumb asses you talked about when it would
1:00:42
have been a forty seven is shared field goal, Yeah, that would have
1:00:45
put him up seventeen. Yeah. Now they went down and score, then
1:00:46
they got the fumble and scored Allsode's tig game. It's fucking It's just crazy
1:00:51
how quick it happened, you know. Yeah, yeah, all right,
1:00:53
So to who you got, I'm going Chiefs by nine, Chiefs by nine,
1:00:57
no score, I like it. That's the And are you a swifty
1:01:01
now or were you a swifty before? I think I go on with you
1:01:07
Jim. I think a lot of it's uh yeah, a little made for
1:01:09
TV TV. Yeah, I'm swifty. I like it. All right,
1:01:14
Jen, you have the floor. I know you got to go. So
1:01:15
first of all, who's your team? I think I'm going for the Chiefs
1:01:19
to kind of just name that. Like, I there's something that happened this
1:01:22
year that I was like, oh, football, Like this is Swift one.
1:01:29
No, truly, like even before that, right, Like you can
1:01:30
ask my wife, She's like, like, why do you care what's happening
1:01:34
on the television. All of a sudden, I'm like, oh, like
1:01:36
Sunday, we're watching football, right, So I don't there's something like I
1:01:38
definitely was not a like I'm not like a sports person, but there's something
1:01:43
going on that's like interesting for me. You're making my point for me unfortunately,
1:01:51
right, Yeah, I don't. I don't think it was Taylor Swift.
1:01:55
What I will say is I am a swiftye. You know, we
1:01:59
listen the Taylor Switch all the time. I I I just want to leave
1:02:02
the girl alone. I mean, like she has an amazing platform she has
1:02:07
like she she she there's nothing that she can do that she could, you
1:02:10
know, decide that she's going to take a nap and they're like, oh
1:02:13
my god, what did that nap mean? You know? And it's just
1:02:15
I just feel like I don't really care that much. I wanted to live
1:02:19
her life. I'm glad people are making money. I'm glad the conspiracy theorists
1:02:22
got something to wet their appetite. And I think I just like want a
1:02:25
good game. And that's what I have to say about that. I cannot
1:02:30
believe that I have an opinion about football, Like that's the weird thing in
1:02:32
my life album. I told, yeah, yeah, no, it's it's
1:02:44
fun, right, it's fun. I'm sad for that. Nobody here wants
1:02:46
the forty nine ers to win like you did. Okay, tell me,
1:02:51
okay, because I don't want my home to get another super Bowl because I'm
1:02:53
a pretty you know guy. Okay. I still don't think if he wins
1:02:57
this series anywhere close. I mean, it's such a long career that Bratty
1:02:59
had that it's I don't think I think is a better athlete than Kelsey.
1:03:02
He has suppressed Gronkin greatness. Yeah not really. He's wide open every fucking
1:03:07
play and he doesn't block. He sucks excellent So here's my here's my last
1:03:14
point is they're getting used to He's yet, he's Jeremy's getting ready for a
1:03:17
good decade to twenty years of sucking again. Everybody else, he's just he's
1:03:24
into it. I had twenty or eight years. Now it's back to the
1:03:28
eighties and nineties. Sorry, I had twenty great years. Yeah, yeah,
1:03:30
I was in my prime those whole years too. It's good. One
1:03:34
last point in the Swifty stuff, and I'll go through from a media standpoint
1:03:38
when this first started, right, So, Kelsey, do you know how
1:03:42
they started dating? He has his own podcast, and he goes, oh,
1:03:45
I wish I got Swifty's phone number or something like that whatever, and
1:03:50
all of a sudden it manifests into they go out on a date. She's
1:03:53
asking for her phone over right now. Swifty. Yeah no, I would
1:03:58
never step on Kelsey's toest. Come on. So in the beginning, when
1:04:02
this started happening, the media was kind of like the way I'm acting right
1:04:08
now, oh blah blah blah bah blah. But then if you watch media
1:04:11
enough, it starts to turn to where just yesterday, all the media is
1:04:15
like all you people that don't like Taylor Swift and Kelsey. You've never been
1:04:19
in a relationship before. You don't know what true? This is what the
1:04:23
ship they're telling me on Arizona Taylor Swift's problem, and is that Travis Kelcey's
1:04:30
problem? Right, Like whatever's going on with them is like what's going on
1:04:33
with them? Like that sounds like to me a way that I would meet
1:04:36
a person. Right, Somebody says, Oh, they want to meet me
1:04:39
on a podcast, and I think they're cute, Like hey, like I'm
1:04:41
going to hit you up, Like that's all I'm saying. That's how you
1:04:45
met your wife. No, like that actually sounds like right, But like
1:04:54
what I'm saying is like that kind of sounds like for two famous people,
1:04:57
like a way that they would kind of naturally like fall into each other's orbit.
1:05:00
Like there, it's practical, it's like a reasonable explanation. And whatever
1:05:04
the media does with it. I think that that's like the big problem is
1:05:06
like this like added layer of like that's what I feel that pocracy comes in.
1:05:12
When we first started all the all the NFL, you know, media
1:05:15
people were like, oh, get Swift out of here, and then and
1:05:17
then and then you know, the President's coming down like, wait a second,
1:05:19
we have an opportunity here, We have a big opportunity to make money.
1:05:24
And if, like I said in the beginning of the show, follow
1:05:25
the fucking money, because that's what's happening. And it just came out,
1:05:29
three hundred million dollars more of the NFL made, and they're just the cash
1:05:30
cow. And I could see a whole big wedding in the off season.
1:05:33
I could see them winning the Super Bowl and proposing to her on the field
1:05:36
with the glo R. It'd be so happy for everybody. And then three
1:05:46
years they break up, and tree years they break up, and she comes
1:05:49
out with the biggest album ever about breaking up with Travis. All right,
1:05:56
enough that, well, how passionate Jen is about other Swift? I didn't
1:06:01
know, I did not know. I love it. I went to so
1:06:06
I know, I got I'm the one that fift So I went to the
1:06:15
first show at a Lette stadium. Ship he had three days. It was
1:06:17
three and a half hours of pouring rain, the famous rain, the famous
1:06:21
range. Yeah, a couple of years ago. It was last year,
1:06:25
last year, and I have to tell you, it was like the one
1:06:29
of the highlights of my adult life. So there is like, it's like,
1:06:30
whatever it is, I don't care. It's making me happy. Right,
1:06:34
So it's like me and millions of other women in death. I actually
1:06:40
don't mind. I don't mind her. I just think the parade of in
1:06:43
the charade of all this is just like, Okay, when the season's over,
1:06:47
we don't have to see less of it. Oh but if the Chiefs
1:06:50
win, it's just, oh, you're going be a good month. Yeah,
1:06:55
at least theyre going to start doing commercials together. You know. For
1:06:58
what's he doing? Uh? Every commercial state does state. Yeah, he's
1:07:01
actual whole lunch but everywhere. Yeah, he's ever Yeah, it does all
1:07:06
sorts of yeah, yeah, he does everything these guys are getting. He
1:07:09
gets. He makes more money off of that than his actual football contract,
1:07:13
which is crazy. All right, Jen, I know you gotta go Beryl's
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for a cause, Bethel Center, Rape Crisis Center. Of course, Corey
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from Wins and Moore always go visit him. He gives you, what is
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it, fifty percent off if you mentioned day drinking with dog awesome in the
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books. Thanks so much, guys, Thank you to make the event.
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You're not gonna enjoy it. I'm definitely buying a bottle regardless. Uh.
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And I'll talk to you guys next week.