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23: Attachment Is a Safety Strategy, Not a Personality Trait

Attachment isn’t your personality.

It’s your nervous system’s learned strategy for staying safe in connection.

In this episode of (re)Parenting Radio, Lisa breaks attachment out of labels like anxious and avoidant and reframes it as something far more accurate—and far more freeing.

If you’ve ever wondered why you can lead teams, handle pressure, and make big decisions…

yet feel completely undone in romantic or family relationships—this episode explains why.

It’s not inconsistency.

It’s context.

Lisa explores:

What attachment actually is “under the hood”

Why attachment patterns show up most in…

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