Latest / True Crime and Wine Time / Midday Missing – Damon Bonds & Jennifer Marteliz
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- 0:48Speaker 1: Hello and happy Wednesday everyone. I hope your week is
- 0:53Speaker 1: going well. I've had a crazy but good week. As
- 0:56Speaker 1: I mentioned on Monday, I was in Dallas to do
- 0:59Speaker 1: a special episode with Texas Wine and True Crime, which
- 1:04Speaker 1: turned out to be so much fun we're going to
- 1:07Speaker 1: have to do it again. And Chris Diamond made some
- 1:11Speaker 1: amazing food and we covered a case in Austin that
- 1:15Speaker 1: has shocked everyone that lives in the Austin area. Now
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- 1:36Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Midday Missing, where we shine
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- 3:54Speaker 1: you love. Now today's cases are as always heartbreaking, So
- 4:04Speaker 1: get ready now. One of our cases today is that
- 4:08Speaker 1: of a family searching for answers for over two decades. Okay,
- 4:15Speaker 1: it is the case of Damon Justin Bonds, who is
- 4:18Speaker 1: a thirty one year old man who disappeared under suspicious
- 4:22Speaker 1: circumstances in Anchorage, Alaska, in two thousand and four. Damon
- 4:29Speaker 1: was last seen on March twenty seventh, two thousand and four.
- 4:33Speaker 1: That day he spent times with friends just hanging out
- 4:36Speaker 1: there in Anchorage. And everyone describes Damon as laid back,
- 4:42Speaker 1: kind hearted man who has a deep love for his
- 4:45Speaker 1: family and for his dog. And you know, guys, I'm
- 4:48Speaker 1: a sucker for dogs. So his dog is Scully. And
- 4:52Speaker 1: it's no secret to anyone that knew Damon that he
- 4:55Speaker 1: had a strong connection to those he loved and he
- 4:59Speaker 1: regularly called his family, kept in touch with everybody, and
- 5:03Speaker 1: that includes his infant son. And he never went anywhere
- 5:08Speaker 1: without Scully, who was his Labrador Retriever mix. But guys,
- 5:13Speaker 1: after March twenty seventh, Damon has not been heard from again.
- 5:18Speaker 1: Now four days later, on March thirty first, Damon's truck,
- 5:22Speaker 1: which is a black, gray, black and gray nineteen ninety
- 5:25Speaker 1: five Ford F two fifty XLT was found in a
- 5:29Speaker 1: parking lot near DeLong Lake, which is on the sixty
- 5:34Speaker 1: third hundred block of Jewel Lake Road. Now, I first
- 5:38Speaker 1: thing when I read that, I'm like, why is it
- 5:40Speaker 1: Jewel Lake Road? When he was near DeLong Lake. Shouldn't
- 5:46Speaker 1: it be DeLong Lake or should the Lake road be called?
- 5:49Speaker 1: I don't know. Makes my brain hurt. But the truck
- 5:52Speaker 1: doors were unlocked, his cell phone was left on the
- 5:56Speaker 1: front seat. But most disturbingly, Scully, his dog, was found
- 6:03Speaker 1: in the bed of the truck under the canopy, and
- 6:08Speaker 1: this scene immediately raised red flags for Damon's friends and family.
- 6:13Speaker 1: Damon adored Scully and he would never have left her behind,
- 6:19Speaker 1: let alone in a truck for days. They said. It
- 6:24Speaker 1: wasn't just the dog that anchored him. Damon had an
- 6:27Speaker 1: infant sound that he cherished, and, like I said, he
- 6:31Speaker 1: was recently in regular contact with his family. His family
- 6:36Speaker 1: reported him missing, and soon after a large search effort
- 6:41Speaker 1: was launched. The Anchorage Police Department, along with a cadaver dog,
- 6:46Speaker 1: scoured the area near DeLong Lake where his truck had
- 6:50Speaker 1: been found, but there were no signs of Damon. No clues,
- 6:56Speaker 1: no leads. Guys, I often say people cannot just disappear
- 7:01Speaker 1: without a trace. There's not aliens but a parking lot
- 7:05Speaker 1: near a lake. I'm going to probably go out on
- 7:08Speaker 1: a limb and say they don't have cameras. Now, they
- 7:11Speaker 1: should have cameras because things happen there. So if you're
- 7:17Speaker 1: a part. But to this day, there are more questions
- 7:31Speaker 1: than the answers. Like I said, despite their best efforts,
- 7:36Speaker 1: they have found no evidence regarding what happened to him,
- 7:41Speaker 1: and there is no evidence that he left Anchorage, Alaska,
- 7:45Speaker 1: or at least not by air that they can find.
- 7:48Speaker 1: Local airlines have no record of him flying out under
- 7:52Speaker 1: his name. Damon had lived in Anchorage for about five years,
- 7:57Speaker 1: but he was originally from Deer Park, California, and his
- 8:01Speaker 1: family lived in Houston, Texas, and their belief was an
- 8:07Speaker 1: IS firm. Damon would not have left without contacting them.
- 8:13Speaker 1: So what happened to Damon? The circumstances seem strange and
- 8:18Speaker 1: very troubling to me. Some suspect that that foul play
- 8:22Speaker 1: was involved in his disappearance, but to this day there
- 8:26Speaker 1: is no concrete evidence to confirm it. Now, guys, I
- 8:31Speaker 1: want to say, I did not find anything saying he
- 8:35Speaker 1: had ever suffered from mental health issues, not saying he
- 8:38Speaker 1: didn't have a mental break that day. But he would
- 8:42Speaker 1: not have left Skully behind and would not have locked
- 8:45Speaker 1: her in the canopy of the truck. So I am
- 8:49Speaker 1: one of those who suspect foul play. Okay, But Damon's
- 8:54Speaker 1: family has spent the last twenty years searching for answers,
- 8:59Speaker 1: hoping for clothes. Sure, but sadly they continue to live
- 9:04Speaker 1: with the unknown. The investigation has remained open, but as
- 9:10Speaker 1: time passes, we all know it becomes more challenging to
- 9:14Speaker 1: uncover what really happened that day in March. Investigators do
- 9:20Speaker 1: note there were no obvious signs of a struggle around
- 9:24Speaker 1: Damon's truck, and they agreed the presence of his dog,
- 9:28Speaker 1: Scully other complicates the situation. I am in a guess
- 9:33Speaker 1: that Scully was locked in the back of the canopy
- 9:36Speaker 1: because whoever did something to Damon didn't want to deal
- 9:41Speaker 1: with the dog, Because I bet you Scully was pretty
- 9:43Speaker 1: protective of her owner. But guys Maw, could Damon vanished
- 9:48Speaker 1: so completely without leaving behind any trace of what happened
- 9:53Speaker 1: to him? Remember, his cell phone was left behind and
- 9:58Speaker 1: its cases, like Damon's, the are both heartbreaking and baffling.
- 10:03Speaker 1: I do not I just don't know. How does someone
- 10:07Speaker 1: disappear leaving everything behind, their belongings at bet but most
- 10:13Speaker 1: importantly their family and an infant, and this family loved him.
- 10:19Speaker 1: For Damon's loved ones and especially that son who has
- 10:24Speaker 1: had to grow up without their father, this leaves them
- 10:28Speaker 1: with answers. The pain and this uncertainty continues to haunt
- 10:33Speaker 1: them and will haunt them forever or until they get answers.
- 10:39Speaker 1: So if you have any information regarding the disappearance of Damon,
- 10:45Speaker 1: just responds, no matter how small or insignificant it may seem,
- 10:51Speaker 1: even if it's just a rumor, please contact the Elise,
- 10:56Speaker 1: Alaska State Troopers at nine oh seven six nine five
- 11:01Speaker 1: point five one one. Remember, any piece of information could
- 11:08Speaker 1: piece together this decades old puzzle. It is just that
- 11:12Speaker 1: one little tidbit of information that can just solve it
- 11:16Speaker 1: and put it all together. Now, our next haunting case
- 11:22Speaker 1: comes from the city of Tampa, Florida. So for over
- 11:31Speaker 1: forty years, the disappearance of a little girl with a
- 11:35Speaker 1: bright spirit who was affectionately called Firecracker by those who
- 11:41Speaker 1: knew her. Guys, I love that. I love that. I
- 11:45Speaker 1: have never heard anyone I call my granddaughter monkey, but
- 11:49Speaker 1: I love Firecracker tells you a lot about this little girl.
- 11:55Speaker 1: So this is the story of Jennifer Sophia Martalz. She's
- 12:00Speaker 1: been missing since November fifteenth, nineteen eighty two. Guys, I
- 12:06Speaker 1: was twelve and I am now fifty four. I want
- 12:10Speaker 1: you to stop and think before I get into this
- 12:13Speaker 1: little girl was seven years old when she vanished. Seven
- 12:18Speaker 1: I was twelve, you know, just five years older. Imagine
- 12:23Speaker 1: looking at me. Her family doesn't know what happened to
- 12:26Speaker 1: their seven year old girl. Her story is one of
- 12:32Speaker 1: pure heartbreak, confusion, and, as we know, all too often
- 12:38Speaker 1: unanswered questions. So today we're going to explore what we know,
- 12:43Speaker 1: who the suspects are, and what investigators believe might have happened.
- 12:50Speaker 1: On the afternoon of November fifteenth, nineteen eighty ten, nineteen
- 12:55Speaker 1: eighty two, Jennifer was walking home from school in Tampa, Florida. Yes, guys,
- 13:00Speaker 1: back in that day, we did that. I walked to school.
- 13:04Speaker 1: Of course, my elementary was right next door to our house,
- 13:08Speaker 1: but kids walked to school. She was a second grader,
- 13:12Speaker 1: at Lassie C. Shaw Elementary School, and she was known
- 13:16Speaker 1: for being well behaved and a good student. Guys, I
- 13:20Speaker 1: was a good student, but I'm not sure I was
- 13:22Speaker 1: well behaved because I got in trouble for talking all
- 13:26Speaker 1: the time, and when the teacher moved me up front
- 13:29Speaker 1: to sit by her, I still got in trouble for
- 13:31Speaker 1: talking to her. I am sure no one watching this
- 13:34Speaker 1: is surprised. Now, at around three point fifty three pm,
- 13:40Speaker 1: Jennifer was last seen just one block away from her
- 13:43Speaker 1: home on fifteenth Street. She was so close, guys, so
- 13:49Speaker 1: close to being in the safety of her home. Jennifer
- 13:54Speaker 1: had asked a friend to keep an eye on her
- 13:56Speaker 1: as she made her way down the block, but her
- 14:00Speaker 1: friend looked away for one moment and Jennifer vanished and
- 14:06Speaker 1: she has never been seen again. Guys, back in nineteen
- 14:10Speaker 1: eighty two, we didn't have ring doorbell cameras, we didn't
- 14:13Speaker 1: have cell phones, We did not have the technology that
- 14:17Speaker 1: we have today now. That day, Jennifer went to school
- 14:21Speaker 1: wearing a pink or orange knee length dress with yellow flowers,
- 14:26Speaker 1: maroon ballet shoes, and a gold necklace. She also was
- 14:30Speaker 1: wearing heart shaped gold post earrings. A comb with ribbons
- 14:34Speaker 1: and flowers in her hair, and silver glitter on her
- 14:38Speaker 1: peach colored fingernail polished so girl, she was a firecracker.
- 14:42Speaker 1: She was also it sounds like a girly girl. I
- 14:45Speaker 1: like her. But most distinctively, Jennifer had moles on her chest, collarbone,
- 14:51Speaker 1: and her face. Her front teeth were crooked and chipped,
- 14:55Speaker 1: and she had a noticeable cleft in her chin. And
- 15:00Speaker 1: she walked pigeon toad and one of her shoulders was
- 15:03Speaker 1: lower than the other, so very distinct appearance. As we
- 15:09Speaker 1: all know, her disappearance totally rocked that community. It sent shockwaves.
- 15:16Speaker 1: A little girl, only one block away from her home,
- 15:21Speaker 1: simply gone in the blink of an eye. Her friend
- 15:25Speaker 1: looked away for just a moment, and Jennifer was gone.
- 15:31Speaker 1: Jennifer's parents were divorced in nineteen eighty two, and she
- 15:35Speaker 1: lived with her father and her stepmother. Though her mother,
- 15:40Speaker 1: Catherine Longo, had legal custody, she did live with her
- 15:44Speaker 1: dad and her stepmom, and according to reports, Jennifer did
- 15:49Speaker 1: not have a good relationship with her stepmother, and tension
- 15:54Speaker 1: between the father's and the mother's side of the family
- 15:57Speaker 1: were hot. I mean it would be divorced families. I
- 16:03Speaker 1: was not a child of divorce, but my children were.
- 16:06Speaker 1: It's complicated, and if the adults cannot adult and put
- 16:12Speaker 1: the best interests of the child first, it can be complicated.
- 16:17Speaker 1: So members of her mother's family even considered removing Jennifer
- 16:23Speaker 1: from her father's home before she disappeared. Don't know more
- 16:27Speaker 1: about that. It could just be that Jennifer didn't get
- 16:30Speaker 1: along with her stepmother. Both sides of the family initially
- 16:35Speaker 1: pointed fingers at each other, each suspecting the other of
- 16:39Speaker 1: hiding Jennifer. Guys, that sounds far fetched, but it happens
- 16:45Speaker 1: all of the time. There was just recently an amber
- 16:48Speaker 1: alert in Texas where a non custodial dad took the
- 16:53Speaker 1: child and was trying to hide the child because the
- 16:56Speaker 1: mom got remarried. It happens, So don't think that that's
- 17:02Speaker 1: uncommon that you each point the finger at each other.
- 17:06Speaker 1: But as the investigation continued, law enforcement ruled out all
- 17:12Speaker 1: of her relatives as suspects. That means her mom's family
- 17:17Speaker 1: and her dad's family were not involved. And for police
- 17:21Speaker 1: to come out and say that you know, they know
- 17:25Speaker 1: without a shadow of a doubt, but instead attention shifted
- 17:31Speaker 1: towards a family friend, someone with a very dark and
- 17:36Speaker 1: troubled past. His name was Thomas Peter Well Nikki and
- 17:42Speaker 1: Thomas had a long criminal history, including charges for theft,
- 17:47Speaker 1: drug possession, and assault. Investigators became interested in him when
- 17:53Speaker 1: he made a chilling claim. He said he had a
- 17:57Speaker 1: psychic vision about Jennifer's abduction and murder. Now, if you
- 18:04Speaker 1: follow true crime for a while, you know that a
- 18:08Speaker 1: lot of time the perpetrators put themselves into the investigation
- 18:13Speaker 1: that raises the red flags for law enforcement. Now, he said,
- 18:18Speaker 1: in this vision, he claimed that Jennifer had been kidnapped
- 18:21Speaker 1: by two men. He said one of the men was
- 18:24Speaker 1: in his forties with the criminal history, the other was
- 18:28Speaker 1: a blonde man in his mid twenties, and that it
- 18:31Speaker 1: was someone Jennifer knew and trusted. Now, Well Niki went
- 18:37Speaker 1: on to say that the younger man had been deeply
- 18:40Speaker 1: troubled by guilt after the child's death. Guys, what's eerie?
- 18:47Speaker 1: Well nick himself bore a resemblance to the description of
- 18:53Speaker 1: the blonde man he described. Okay, guys, little sus right.
- 18:59Speaker 1: Police begin to suspect Well Nikki's so called vision might
- 19:03Speaker 1: have actually been a confession. They gave him a polygraph test,
- 19:08Speaker 1: which he failed, and we all know polygraph tests cannot
- 19:13Speaker 1: be used in a court of law. They are not
- 19:16Speaker 1: a one hundred percent reliable However, they do give you
- 19:20Speaker 1: some indications of people's honesty. However, well, Nick, you argued
- 19:27Speaker 1: that his failure of the polygraph test was due to
- 19:31Speaker 1: the medication he was taking for seizures, which I find
- 19:35Speaker 1: interesting because most seizure medicine slows you down, kind of
- 19:42Speaker 1: like a xanax of valuum. It sues you to try
- 19:46Speaker 1: to keep your body calm. Maybe there are some other
- 19:49Speaker 1: seizure medications that make you more anxious. But I had
- 19:53Speaker 1: a friend in school who took medication and her seizure
- 19:57Speaker 1: medication calmed her, So I don't know what he's thinking there.
- 20:02Speaker 1: But despite law enforcement suspicions, authorities were never able to
- 20:09Speaker 1: gather enough evidence to formally charge him in connection with
- 20:14Speaker 1: her disappearance. Her case has remained unsolved for over four
- 20:21Speaker 1: decades now. Her mother, Catherine, never stop searching for her daughter,
- 20:27Speaker 1: and in twenty eleven she published a book titled Jennifer,
- 20:32Speaker 1: Where Are You, detailing her personal journey through the agony
- 20:37Speaker 1: of not knowing what happened to her little girl. Guys,
- 20:41Speaker 1: I want you if you want to support her mom
- 20:45Speaker 1: and want to know more of what families go through,
- 20:48Speaker 1: I'm going to recommend you read the book. Go to
- 20:50Speaker 1: the library see if they have it, Go on Amazon,
- 20:53Speaker 1: go to used books, read it because one thing I
- 20:57Speaker 1: have learned with talking to these families one just yesterday,
- 21:02Speaker 1: that the agony of not knowing is pure hell and
- 21:08Speaker 1: something those of us who haven't gone through it truly
- 21:12Speaker 1: can't understand. I like to think that I understand maybe
- 21:17Speaker 1: two percent of what it would feel like after getting
- 21:20Speaker 1: so close to chase this family. But guys, two percent
- 21:24Speaker 1: is nothing. So authorities have continued to pursue leads over
- 21:32Speaker 1: the years, but none have brought them any closer to answers.
- 21:37Speaker 1: Jennifer would be forty nine years old today and her
- 21:41Speaker 1: disappearance remains classified as a non family abduction. Guys, the
- 21:47Speaker 1: thing we're learning about missing person cases, we have so
- 21:50Speaker 1: many more questions than we do answers now. Like I said,
- 21:55Speaker 1: Jennifer was a bright, bubbly child named Firecracker because she
- 21:59Speaker 1: had a lively personality. She deserved to grow up and
- 22:04Speaker 1: to experience life. And to be with her family. Yet
- 22:08Speaker 1: all of that was taken from her in an instant.
- 22:12Speaker 1: And what I want you also to remember, it's not
- 22:15Speaker 1: just Jennifer who suffers, it is every member of her family,
- 22:21Speaker 1: the community, and her classmates. Think of the friend who
- 22:26Speaker 1: she asked to watch her while she walked home. What
- 22:30Speaker 1: does she live with every day? The guilt? What about
- 22:33Speaker 1: her classmates who now see an empty desk every day
- 22:36Speaker 1: in the classroom And they had to graduate high school,
- 22:41Speaker 1: go off to college, get married, and their friend has
- 22:45Speaker 1: never been found. So I don't want you to think
- 22:48Speaker 1: the missing person is the only one that this effects.
- 22:54Speaker 1: And I want you to remember this case and all
- 22:59Speaker 1: that we call our chilling reminder that even the most
- 23:04Speaker 1: innocent can be touched by darkness. If you have any
- 23:09Speaker 1: information about Jennifer Sophia Martaliz or her whereabouts, no matter
- 23:16Speaker 1: how small, please contact the Tampa Police Department at eight
- 23:20Speaker 1: one three two seven three zero seven seven zero. And
- 23:25Speaker 1: remember you can make an anonymous report to FBAI dot
- 23:31Speaker 1: gov slash tips even if they are not looking into
- 23:36Speaker 1: the case. A lot of people don't know that you
- 23:39Speaker 1: can still put in an anonymous tip. You know, if
- 23:44Speaker 1: you are a friend or daughter, a family member of
- 23:48Speaker 1: a person who is always interested in what happened to
- 23:51Speaker 1: Jennifer and you kind of always have this little gut feeling.
- 23:55Speaker 1: Call in a tip, do it anonymously. Every tip, every
- 24:01Speaker 1: clue brings us one step closer to bring in Jennifer
- 24:06Speaker 1: home and giving her family the answers that they deserve.
- 24:12Speaker 1: Also going to ask you please share the missing person
- 24:16Speaker 1: flyers from our social media for Damon and Jennifer. Just
- 24:21Speaker 1: sharing them and asking your followers to share them help
- 24:26Speaker 1: gets the word out, So please be sure to do that. Now.
- 24:33Speaker 1: I don't have a story for you today to end with.
- 24:38Speaker 1: I thought I would do something a little different. Okay,
- 24:41Speaker 1: so it's nothing cute, no tips. So if you have
- 24:45Speaker 1: followed me for even a short amount of time, you
- 24:48Speaker 1: know that I love the color pink, and one of
- 24:52Speaker 1: my life quotes is I believe in pink. I believe
- 24:56Speaker 1: that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in
- 25:00Speaker 1: kissing and kissing a lot. I believe in being strong
- 25:04Speaker 1: when everything seems to be going wrong. Guys, when I
- 25:09Speaker 1: found this quote from Audrey Hepburn, I fell in love
- 25:12Speaker 1: with it. Why because it spoke volumes about who I
- 25:17Speaker 1: am and what I believe, And if I wote wrote
- 25:21Speaker 1: a life quote, that's what it would That's what it
- 25:23Speaker 1: would be. So people often ask me if I like
- 25:28Speaker 1: the color pink, and I say no, I am pink
- 25:32Speaker 1: and I believe pink is the only color. So and
- 25:36Speaker 1: if you google what does the color pink mean? You
- 25:40Speaker 1: will see that it means love, romance, femininity, pink, trust,
- 25:46Speaker 1: and happiness, and all of which are words that I
- 25:52Speaker 1: hope can describe me and my personality. I fell in
- 25:56Speaker 1: love with the color pink when I was a little girl,
- 25:59Speaker 1: and I remember the day my parents agreed that I
- 26:02Speaker 1: could have my childhood bedroom pink. Guys, it was pink
- 26:07Speaker 1: up until my mom my bear passed away. My nephew
- 26:13Speaker 1: and his family now lives in it. I don't know
- 26:15Speaker 1: if the walls are still pink. But pink became even
- 26:19Speaker 1: more to me when I was diagnosed with breast cancer,
- 26:23Speaker 1: and as a survivor, I embraced the color pink even more.
- 26:28Speaker 1: And I have had the honor of walking in three
- 26:32Speaker 1: different Susan Coleman sixty miles in three days. All three
- 26:36Speaker 1: of them I walked with one of my besties, and
- 26:39Speaker 1: in one year I walked with my son, my bestie
- 26:43Speaker 1: and what we called Terry's Tata Tribe, and we did
- 26:47Speaker 1: it in San Francisco that year. And I will tell
- 26:51Speaker 1: you my son, Jeffa, learned you do not want to
- 26:55Speaker 1: do sixty miles in flip flops because in San Francisco
- 27:00Speaker 1: we had to walk up hills, down hills, and he
- 27:05Speaker 1: learned a lesson. But I believe that by surviving cancer
- 27:10Speaker 1: three times that I've learned how to be stronger, kinder,
- 27:14Speaker 1: and more grateful. And I've also learned that feeling sorry
- 27:18Speaker 1: for yourself does happen, and that is okay. It is
- 27:22Speaker 1: okay to have a pity party for yourself every now
- 27:24Speaker 1: and then, but you can't let it consume you because
- 27:28Speaker 1: each day that we wake up is another day that
- 27:31Speaker 1: we get to live life, and we get to be
- 27:35Speaker 1: with our loved ones. We get to tell them that
- 27:37Speaker 1: we love them. That is a miracle. So it's okay
- 27:43Speaker 1: to feel sorry for yourself sometimes absolutely, And anyone tells
- 27:47Speaker 1: you it's not, tell him. Terry True Crime said, go
- 27:51Speaker 1: flat kite. Now it is October and it's that time
- 27:55Speaker 1: of the year for cozy sweaters, falling leaves, except in
- 27:59Speaker 1: Texas where it's going to be ninety two degrees today, okay,
- 28:03Speaker 1: And of course everything pumpkin spice, from lattes to candles.
- 28:08Speaker 1: If you're a pumpkin spice lover, I am not. But
- 28:13Speaker 1: October is more than just ball flavors. It's also breast
- 28:17Speaker 1: cancer Awareness month. And like I said, this month is
- 28:20Speaker 1: very especially close to my heart. And like I said,
- 28:25Speaker 1: fan of Pink since childhood, but now it means even
- 28:28Speaker 1: more to me. So while we're enjoying the pumpkin spice
- 28:33Speaker 1: and everything fall, let's take a moment to reflect and
- 28:37Speaker 1: support those impacted by breast cancer. We're Pink spread awareness. Yes,
- 28:44Speaker 1: happy girls are the prettiest girls. You're absolutely right, Sammy.
- 28:50Speaker 1: And if you haven't already done so, schedule that checkup. Okay.
- 28:55Speaker 1: It's all part of making a real difference. And guys,
- 28:59Speaker 1: it's not just females who need to get a breast
- 29:03Speaker 1: cancer check. Okay. Men get breast cancer. Every human being
- 29:09Speaker 1: has breast fatty tissue. Breast tissue can get cancer cells,
- 29:15Speaker 1: doesn't matter male, female, You need to get checked okay now,
- 29:21Speaker 1: And for the horror fans, let's not forget that. Today.
- 29:25Speaker 1: October twenty third the day this is live is National
- 29:28Speaker 1: Horror Movie Day, Okay, So it's the perfect excuse to
- 29:32Speaker 1: grab your favorite scary flicks and enjoy the chills of
- 29:36Speaker 1: the season. Now, I have to tell y'all, I saw
- 29:40Speaker 1: the movie Smile when it came out, and it was
- 29:42Speaker 1: the first horror movie ever that has stayed with me.
- 29:47Speaker 1: It truly freaked me out. Every now and then, I'll
- 29:51Speaker 1: look at DOUBLEH and go. If you haven't seen Smile,
- 29:58Speaker 1: you'll understand once you see it. Now, I will say bravely,
- 30:01Speaker 1: I will be watching the sequel soon with Double H.
- 30:05Speaker 1: So whether you're streaming a classic or finding a new fright,
- 30:09Speaker 1: there's no better time for a spooky movie marathon. So
- 30:14Speaker 1: as you sip that pumpkin spice latte or in my case,
- 30:18Speaker 1: a glass of wine or maybe a dirty martini, watch
- 30:22Speaker 1: your horror movie and rock your pink. Let's honor the
- 30:26Speaker 1: importance of breast cancer awareness this month. It's a season
- 30:30Speaker 1: for fun, scares and meaningful support. So let's make it count. Okay,
- 30:37Speaker 1: And I want to thank you all for joining me today.
- 30:40Speaker 1: I hope to see you again next Monday for another
- 30:42Speaker 1: episode of Midday Missing. Now I will be joining the
- 30:47Speaker 1: hey host show on Friday night because I need to
- 30:52Speaker 1: be a part of that absolute craziness that JT Lama
- 30:58Speaker 1: and Rude Boy, and they have asked me to join them,
- 31:02Speaker 1: and I have to say I'm kind of looking forward
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- 31:23Speaker 1: me under Teary True Crime on all the platforms in
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- 31:45Speaker 1: Crime and Wine Time special I did will drop today,
- 31:49Speaker 1: so please go give it a listen. Would love to
- 31:52Speaker 1: know your thoughts on it. And as always, guys, until
- 31:56Speaker 1: next time, stay safe, watch out for crime, and enjoy
- 32:02Speaker 1: your wine time, especially because it's Wine Wednesday. Bye guys,
- 32:07Speaker 1: I'll see you soon.