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Special Guest in the Building... · Billy & Lisa in the Morning: The After Show

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  Speaker 1: What up after show? Army Welcome in. It is a Monday.
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  Speaker 1: Today is April twentieth for twenty If you acknowledge that holiday,
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  Speaker 1: I know that I used to, but it's not just that.
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  Speaker 1: It's Patriots Day, Marathon Monday. It was a busy show today.
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  Speaker 1: Lots to catch up on the podcast to make sure
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  Speaker 1: you are listening. A lot of funny moments on the
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  Speaker 1: show today. I hope you had a fantastic weekend. I did,
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  Speaker 1: and I have good news. On Friday on the podcast,
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  Speaker 1: I gave a shout out to my girl Sage. It
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  Speaker 1: was her soccer game. I gave a shout out to
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  Speaker 1: her and her friends, and she had not scored a
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  Speaker 1: goal this season, I believe, so I gave her a
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  Speaker 1: shout out and I said, Sage, make sure you score
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  Speaker 1: a goal. And you know what, she did, Thank you,
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  Speaker 1: just dim.
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  Speaker 2: For the show. We want our soccer game. And I
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  Speaker 2: made a goal.
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  Speaker 1: She really did. It was a what she called it.
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  Speaker 1: She was at my house yesterday. It was called like
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  Speaker 1: a light tap, meaning it wasn't a full kick. She
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  Speaker 1: kind of tapped the ball in. But that doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 1: She scored a goal. That's all that matters. So good
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  Speaker 1: for her, and I love that. I played a Sage
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  Speaker 1: song on Friday, and I said to her yesterday, so
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  Speaker 1: let's just think about the song I played that was
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  Speaker 1: about you know your name, and she goes, eh, it
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  Speaker 1: was kind of cheesy. Imagine I did all that work
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  Speaker 1: of pulling the song. She didn't like it, But that's okay.
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  Speaker 1: You're a star Sage, so I'm glad you want to
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  Speaker 1: keep it going and eat lots of oranges, as they say. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: it was a busy show today. We covered the marathon,
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  Speaker 1: we covered Dylan, Billy's son, a lot of great talkbacks,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of great calls, all that stuff.
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  Speaker 2: Make sure you catch up.
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  Speaker 1: But behind the scenes on the Billy and Lisa Show,
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  Speaker 1: there has been somebody sitting in with me. So for
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  Speaker 1: the last couple of weeks Jewles Flavor DJ, Jewles Flava
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  Speaker 1: jam In ninety four to five. If you like to
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  Speaker 1: jump back and forth between radio stations, Jude Jewles works
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  Speaker 1: on Jammin. He's a DJ, he's a personality. You can
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  Speaker 1: hear him. He'll explain it to you in a minute
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  Speaker 1: once I introduce him. But Jules Flava has been sitting
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  Speaker 1: in with me kind of watching shadow. What I do,
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  Speaker 1: because he does a lot of the same stuff on
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  Speaker 1: Jammin kind of wanted, well, let's just call it what
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  Speaker 1: it is. He wanted to come see the king and
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  Speaker 1: see how the king does shit, right, jewels doubt, Yeah, welcome, dude.
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  Speaker 2: What's going on?
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  Speaker 3: What's funny is we used to do this what it's
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  Speaker 3: got to be seventeen years ago? Maybe, yeah, twenty hold on,
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  Speaker 3: like twenty eleven, twenty twelve. Yeah, we were doing this,
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  Speaker 3: except we were both learning yep, you know, on the
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  Speaker 3: same side. Now I'm watching you learning what we were,
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  Speaker 3: what I was supposed to learn.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but the difference, well, so we'll get to that.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, so Juweles and I know each other for
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  Speaker 1: a long time. He was an intern before I was
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  Speaker 1: an intern.
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  Speaker 2: Yep.
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  Speaker 1: So I came two thousand and eleven, the beginning of
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  Speaker 1: twenty eleven. You must have been in twenty ten right
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  Speaker 1: or before, so, so I probably came in, though I
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  Speaker 1: came in like right before you, right before. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So I started in the beginning, like the very beginning,
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  Speaker 1: like January, yeah, eleven. And the way that Santy had
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  Speaker 1: it set up, where was you'd have like a Monday
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  Speaker 1: Wednesday Friday or Tuesday Thursday, So Jules and I would
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  Speaker 1: kind of you know, alternate days. And yeah, we were
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  Speaker 1: in there learning and I think what happened was Jewles
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  Speaker 1: is a DJ, right, DJ Juwles flavor, that's what you
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  Speaker 1: do DJ. And so you have been a DJ on
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  Speaker 1: jam and this whole time pretty much, right, yeah, yep? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So we went different roots in other words, I went
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  Speaker 1: worked on morning shows one after the next, and you
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  Speaker 1: went into more of.
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  Speaker 2: The music and the DJ.
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  Speaker 3: That was the only reason why I interned is because
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  Speaker 3: Pop said, Hey, if you want to get on jam
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  Speaker 3: and like this is the way to do it, You've
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  Speaker 3: got to intern. So I was only interning to get
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  Speaker 3: on jam and as a DJ. Yeah, and you know
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  Speaker 3: you had like you said, we had different roots, right, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So how long you've been DJing? Four man? I started
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  Speaker 2: DJing in ninety nine. Wow? Okay, so that was my
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  Speaker 2: senior year of high school.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So you started djaying and then dj' all
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  Speaker 1: through college DJ'd all through college.
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  Speaker 3: Actually started djaying on the radio at UMass Dartmouth while
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  Speaker 3: I was still in high school.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, yeah, no way, yep. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: So then you get it to jam and you become
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  Speaker 1: an intern and then how long until you got like
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  Speaker 1: on jam and DJing pretty quick or.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I was doing guest spots on Jamming before I
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  Speaker 3: started interning, But I would say I started DJing in Jane.
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  Speaker 3: Excuse me, I started interning in January. I believe I
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  Speaker 3: got my my full time spot, not my full time spot,
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  Speaker 3: but like my my uh my spot in May.
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  Speaker 2: It's like a residency kind of thing, right, and you're
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  Speaker 2: still on every weekend.
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  Speaker 3: On jet every Yeah, I'm doing even more now. So
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  Speaker 3: I started off just DJing and now I'm I'm, like
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  Speaker 3: you said, I'm an on air personality, you know, so
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  Speaker 3: you can catch me in the mix just talking.
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  Speaker 2: For the other DJs. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So that's that's one thing I noticed when I got
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  Speaker 1: on jamming is you have a lot of DJs on
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  Speaker 1: the weekends, like the THURID was it?
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  Speaker 2: Friday Night Throwdown and the Saturday night jump Off jump Off?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, is you have a bunch of dj that
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  Speaker 1: are on one after another, but not all of.
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  Speaker 2: Them speak correct.
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  Speaker 1: So then you became the personality that would speak over
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  Speaker 1: the songs.
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  Speaker 2: I see, I see wow.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so now you are over there and you kind
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  Speaker 1: of want to learn more basically about like morning shows,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, so now.
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  Speaker 3: With Santi not being over on the morning show, I
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  Speaker 3: want to be able to help out more help Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: you know, And that's one of the things actually sexual
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  Speaker 3: was like, listen, Justin is the man. You know, Actually
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  Speaker 3: everybody says that, you know, Justin he knows what he's doing,
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  Speaker 3: and I know what I'm doing, but seeing you do
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  Speaker 3: what you do is on a whole other level.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I've just been added a long time, you know.
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  Speaker 1: You know when I say things like I'm the King,
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  Speaker 1: it's obviously I'm making a joke about that. I just
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  Speaker 1: have a passion for what I'm doing, and it's just
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  Speaker 1: it's practice, that's what it is, and just getting good
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  Speaker 1: at it and really taking the time to like focus
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  Speaker 1: on what I'm doing. Like you see it. When you
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  Speaker 1: came in this morning, you came in at five. I
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  Speaker 1: was here at four, right, so I tell you to
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  Speaker 1: commit at five. So when you come in right when
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  Speaker 1: you get here, I'm we're working. Yeah, you're already working
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  Speaker 1: through it all, like there's no breaks, you know, I'm
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  Speaker 1: constantly pulling audio, I'm constantly guiding the show, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing a million things at once and it's stressful. I
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  Speaker 1: make it look easy because I've been doing it a
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  Speaker 1: long time, but I think it's important for you to
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  Speaker 1: watch so you can see like different tips and tricks.
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  Speaker 1: And it was cool too, because even today I forget.
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  Speaker 2: What it was.
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  Speaker 1: But there was like something that I didn't know that
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  Speaker 1: you knew and you were like, oh, you could do
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  Speaker 1: it this way.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: That's the power of you know, collaboration and sitting with somebody.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, what's crazy is like, I like, I just
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  Speaker 3: noticed your brain is always going yeah, like I had
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  Speaker 3: said that I was. I was like, well, why did
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  Speaker 3: you do that right there? Like was it something that
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  Speaker 3: you just thought of and you just you just made
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  Speaker 3: it happen.
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  Speaker 2: You grabbed a clip and you know, you just yeah,
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  Speaker 2: what you're talking about is the Billy Billy idol from Coachella. Yep,
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  Speaker 2: he Hey, he came out for Somber. It wasn't that good.
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  Speaker 1: I had the audio of it, and and there was
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  Speaker 1: a part in it that sounded kind of funny to me.
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  Speaker 1: So when we played it at seventy ten or six forty,
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  Speaker 1: when we played it, I thought to myself, Oh, I
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  Speaker 1: can shorten that or pull that little clip out of
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  Speaker 1: it to play that separately, it would be funny.
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  Speaker 2: So that's what I did.
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  Speaker 1: It just popped into my head, you know, because I'm
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  Speaker 1: always thinking about ways to add to the show, you know,
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  Speaker 1: So I think it's good for you to sit in
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  Speaker 1: and see that definitely, you know, and you know you
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  Speaker 1: can do what I do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it just takes some time, just takes practice.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you know you kind of I feel like you
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  Speaker 3: wire humble a little bit when you retracted your King statement.
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  Speaker 3: But honestly, I don't see anybody doing what you're doing.
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  Speaker 3: Like the way you do it is very impressive.
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  Speaker 1: So I didn't do it today, I don't think, or
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  Speaker 1: last week when you were here. But sometimes when they'll
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  Speaker 1: say something funny, somebody says something funny, like anybody Billy
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  Speaker 1: Li's to anybody on the air, I'll be able to
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  Speaker 1: play it back within like thirty seconds, right, And how
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  Speaker 1: I do I'll tell you how I do it off
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  Speaker 1: the air. It's people want to understand it. It's not
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  Speaker 1: a secret, but it's very technical. But there's a way
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  Speaker 1: that I do it. Okay, So the Boss Dylan a
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  Speaker 1: couple of years ago, came in one day and He's like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: can you tell me how you do that? How you
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  Speaker 1: get the audio so quick to play it back? And
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  Speaker 1: I go no, And you should have saw the look
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  Speaker 1: on his face. He was like, I'm your fucking boss,
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  Speaker 1: what are you talking about? And I said, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to tell you how I do it, because then
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  Speaker 1: that doesn't make me as valuable. And he just paused
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  Speaker 1: and looked at me and he goes, that's a smart move.
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  Speaker 1: I go, you know what that is job security. And
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  Speaker 1: he just smiled and walked out.
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  Speaker 2: I done that. I'll show you how I do. That's
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  Speaker 2: one of the things that they.
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  Speaker 3: Tell me that they're like the way Justin brings in audio,
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  Speaker 3: and that was the main thing.
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  Speaker 2: It was justin.
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  Speaker 3: You know, we asked you to bring in the clip jewels,
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  Speaker 3: and it takes you x amount of time.
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  Speaker 2: If we were to ask Justin to do it, it
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  Speaker 2: would be in there once we asked him. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, it's just it's just you do it
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  Speaker 1: a lot, you get good at it, you get quick,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and I kind of I think I do
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  Speaker 1: a good job of knowing what they want. That's another trick, right.
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  Speaker 1: So if you said thinking with Ashley, okay, good example.
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  Speaker 1: It's jamming, it's hip hop, so you're covering anything hip
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  Speaker 1: hop related. So what's a big hip hop story? Now
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  Speaker 1: Drake's about to drop Iceman, what else does she cover?
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  Speaker 1: Poosh Icedy No, probably that's probably two. I mean even
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  Speaker 1: that Cardi, you know the card Cardi b great example.
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  Speaker 1: So coming into work, I'm already thinking about all the
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  Speaker 1: sound I'm gonna pull. I'm on all the pages on
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  Speaker 1: social media. I'm on Twitter, like I know what's going on.
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  Speaker 1: So I just come right in and I just pull.
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  Speaker 1: And a lot of the audio that I pull we
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  Speaker 1: don't use, you know, but I just pull it. I
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  Speaker 1: get it nice and early, and I pull it so
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  Speaker 1: then you know, by chance, if she says, oh I
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  Speaker 1: want this, you might already have it. If you don't,
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  Speaker 1: you go get it, you know what I mean. But
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  Speaker 1: that's part of producing is just being prepared.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Billy keeps a list of stuff he wants. I have
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  Speaker 1: my you've seen this morning. I had my screenshots.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I do.
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  Speaker 1: I screenshot everything, and then I come in and I
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  Speaker 1: just pull poll poll, pull, pull, and then Billy has
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  Speaker 1: his stuff. We kind of collaborate, and that's how it
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  Speaker 1: could work.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean with ash? You know that's interesting. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you just uh, you just want to be productive.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, you know what my fear is, Jules,
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  Speaker 1: my fear is Okay, So there's two fears. The first
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  Speaker 1: one that has to do with work is that someone
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  Speaker 1: someone labels you as lazy or doesn't do their job
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  Speaker 1: correctly or is not dependable. Right, I want to always
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  Speaker 1: be When my name is thrown into the mix, it's
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  Speaker 1: he's a solid guy. And that goes back to like
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  Speaker 1: even my previous life of being a solid guy on
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  Speaker 1: the street. Right when I was growing up, that was
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  Speaker 1: everything was your street credentials, right, Like, he's not a rat,
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  Speaker 1: you know, he's solid guy, you know, stand up guy. Ye,
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  Speaker 1: same thing here, Okay. And then the other fear that
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  Speaker 1: I have is I never ever ever, And I was
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  Speaker 1: talking about this this weekend. I never want to be
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  Speaker 1: in a marriage right where my wife complains about me
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  Speaker 1: to other people.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: You ever meet these people, these couples, right, and they're like,
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  Speaker 1: my husband's a fucking loser. Yeah, you know, he's a lump.
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  Speaker 1: He doesn't do shit, you know what I mean. It's
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  Speaker 1: like when when that's not happened. That happens. That's like
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  Speaker 1: a sign that there's trouble there.
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  Speaker 2: Not always.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean if talking trash about just don't like that, man.
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  Speaker 1: My wife and I have a rule we don't do that,
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  Speaker 1: and we also don't post our ship on social media,
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  Speaker 1: even subliminals. Oh no, nothing. Yeah, that's the worst. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's the worst, absolute worst. So you have a child.
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  Speaker 2: You have a kid. How old is he? Ten? He's ten? Wow,
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  Speaker 2: I have a nine year old. He's in sports. I
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  Speaker 2: think he told me this.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, he does boxing, he does baseball and basketball right now,
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  Speaker 3: but he also snowboards, so he's.
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  Speaker 2: He's active, very active. That's good, that's good. I have
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  Speaker 2: a nine year old.
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  Speaker 1: He plays all the same. He doesn't do boxing yet,
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  Speaker 1: he wants to do boxing, but he does baseball. You
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  Speaker 1: like being a dad? I love being a dad.
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  Speaker 3: I always tell people being a parent is the best
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  Speaker 3: and worst thing that you could ever do, because the
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  Speaker 3: stress of being.
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  Speaker 2: A parent is crazy. There really is.
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  Speaker 3: You know, there are times where I wake up in
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  Speaker 3: the morning because I bring my son to school every day,
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  Speaker 3: so not today, learning today, but you know, I wake
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  Speaker 3: up every day bring my son to school, and sometimes
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  Speaker 3: I'm like I can't wait to see my son, and
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  Speaker 3: sometimes he's just an asshole. Right, this is not what
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  Speaker 3: I woke up for. Like I wanted to see you.
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  Speaker 3: I missed you, and he's just like he's just on
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  Speaker 3: one right.
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  Speaker 2: But you know, molding, you know, I'll say molding.
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  Speaker 3: But like, you know, trying to teach him how to
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  Speaker 3: be a great human being is something that I never
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  Speaker 3: had as a as.
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  Speaker 2: A kid, you know, for my father. My father was
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  Speaker 2: a deadbeat. He left when I was five years old.
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  Speaker 3: And my you know, my fear actually, you know we
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  Speaker 3: were talking when you were talking about fears. My fear was,
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  Speaker 3: you know, being that not having my son be like,
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  Speaker 3: that's the best.
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  Speaker 2: Dad in the world, right, you know, right when you're
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  Speaker 2: breaking the cycle.
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  Speaker 3: I listen, That is the most important thing in this
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  Speaker 3: world to me is making sure that that cycle is
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  Speaker 3: broken and making sure that my son doesn't do that,
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  Speaker 3: you know, because there are times I feel like if
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  Speaker 3: maybe if I would have had a son at twenty
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  Speaker 3: years old, I was so wrapped up in my career,
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  Speaker 3: worrying about djaying that maybe I would have dropped the
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  Speaker 3: ball a lot, you know, But right now, that is
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  Speaker 3: the most important thing.
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  Speaker 2: That's an interesting thing you brought up.
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  Speaker 1: There is a benefit to waiting till later in life
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  Speaker 1: because same for me, you know, we waited to have kids,
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  Speaker 1: you know, because the different stages of life.
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  Speaker 2: You're right.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine same thing with me twenty years old, if I
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  Speaker 1: had a kid, Yeah, I was fucked up, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: So that is there is a benefit to that.
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  Speaker 1: I was talking to my friend last week who he's
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  Speaker 1: cancer and it's doing better. He's doing better now that
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  Speaker 1: the tietment's working. And so, you know, we were talking
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  Speaker 1: about you know, death essentially right because the doctors were
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  Speaker 1: kind of talking numbers to him, you know, like maybe
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  Speaker 1: three to five years you have to lift to live,
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  Speaker 1: and I was saying to him that, you know, having
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  Speaker 1: children one of the biggest things that taught me was
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  Speaker 1: it basically made dying, the thought of dying easier. And
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  Speaker 1: what that means is before I had kids, obviously no
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  Speaker 1: one wants to die, right, so the thought of dying
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  Speaker 1: is like, that's scary, even though I hope it's maybe
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  Speaker 1: years away. It's scary. But when you have children, it
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  Speaker 1: gives you a purpose. So now when I don't think
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  Speaker 1: about death in the same way, because now I know
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  Speaker 1: what my purpose in life is. My purpose is to
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: be a good father and to raise my children and
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: give everything I have to them so they can grow
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: up and have a good life. And I can teach
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: them all the valuable lessons and be there for them.
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: And if I can do that when it is my time,
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: I feel like my job is done right.
• 14:29
  Speaker 3: You know What's funny, my thought is a little different
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: because I'm afraid that if I passed too early, like
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: if you know, God forbid I don't make it home today,
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't have been able to teach him what I
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: needed to teach him, you know, Like I want to
• 14:47
  Speaker 3: be there for him when he gets married, right, and
• 14:50
  Speaker 3: when he's got questions about you know, relationships and all
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: these things.
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: Right, Like, that's my thing. I want to make sure
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: that I'm there for him.
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I'm forty three years old and
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: I still go to my mother and ask her question,
• 15:05
  Speaker 3: like what do you think about this? I mean, you know,
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: so I want to be that person for my son. Yeah,
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: but that's also something you're powerless over, right. You can't
• 15:15
  Speaker 3: control that, But you're not powerless over how you can
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: raise your children. You know, you have all the power
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: in the world and control to be able to do
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: that or not. So you know, yeah, interesting. Interesting? Then
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: what this is a couple of dads. Yeah, a couple
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: of dads yucking it up well, you know, to kind
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: of break down the seriousness. I'm mad that I've never
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: had a daughter because the one thing I always wanted
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: to teach her was to never go out and be
• 15:38
  Speaker 3: barefoot in public.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: Really, yes, when women, I'm sorry ladies, but when women
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: go out. Yeah, when women go out in public and
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: take their shoes off. Let's say a wedding or you know,
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: any type of event and they take their shoes off
• 15:51
  Speaker 2: and walk around barefoot. Yeah, I'm like, what are you doing?
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: You don't like that? Oh? I hate it? He drives
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: me nuts.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: I was going my first question was going to be, way,
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: do you see barefoo for women? But I see what
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: you mean at weddings and stuff, even like you know
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: in the inside that that freaks you out, even on
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: the inside the venue.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: That that's what freaks me out the most, is the inside.
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: If you were walking.
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: Around barefoot outside like in the grass, cool, if you're
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: walking down the street barefoot, weird? Yeah, yeah, interesting but
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: being inside and walking around barefoot in a public.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: Place is crazy to me. Are you a foot guy
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: or no? It's not a foot thing. It's not a
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: foot fetish. I don't have a foot fetish, but that
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: just I'm like, why are you walking around barefoot? Yeah?
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: That's just crazy.
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: You know what, this would be a good topic for like,
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: you know, red flags, you know.
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: I would. I would. That is the ultimate red flag.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: It would be done right there. So there's somebody that
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: used to work here.
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: I won't call them out, but there's somebody that used
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: to work here and they would take their shoes off
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: and be barefoot walking around the studio.
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: So that's a no for you. That's crazy. Yeah, that
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: is crazy. Well there's someone running the ball the marathon today,
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: Tampa Terrence. Tampa Terrence is wild. That's wild. Yeah.
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: Well, Jewels and I were watching his instagram earlier. In
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: some of the training that he's doing, which.
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: Involves kicking a dumbell to move it with his bare feet.
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: Those are one of the things that you watch and
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: you're like, ah, like it just it hits you the
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: wrong way.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: Crazy, crazy, crazy, all right, Julels, So what's the plan
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: for today now? Are you leaving and you're staying at
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: the work on jamming.
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: So I'm leaving. I actually have a four to twenty event.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: I'll be DJ and at the discuss No way, yep, yep, yep.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: They're having a DJ event and at four twenty. But
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: yeah at wow yep, no shit, yeah it is four twenty.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: Did you used to celebrate four twenty? Never younger?
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: I've never I've never smoked weed. No, I would say,
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: you know, it's crazy.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: I went to Jamaica when I was like twenty two
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: ish and no, I had to be older than that,
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: but like, you know, like in my early twenties, and
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: I had never smoked weed. And I was like, you
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: know what, I'm gonna go to Jamaican and smoke. And
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: I caught this crazy cough when I went out there,
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: not from smoking, not from smoking. It was just like
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: a cough that I could not shake. And I'm like,
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: I'm not smoking.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: You know, I'm not smoking while I have a cough.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: That's crazy. So you've never smoked weed, never smoked weed?
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: Have you had any drugs? Never? You drink? Drink? Yes,
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: you drink, Yeah, but it's been a long time since
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: I've drank. Did you get sober for a reason or
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: it was just one of those things. It was so
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: So I've got Crones disease and has that, yes, ye, yeah,
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: so me and Gianna talk about that, you know, every
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: time I see her, you know, we kind of update
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: each other.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like people that have crones
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: have an instant bond because you understand what the other
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: person goes exactly.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was the crone. Sorry to cut you off.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so it was the crones. The crones when you're
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: when you're drinking alcohol isn't good. Even though I'm in remission,
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: I still have issues with my liver due to the
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: Crones disease. So it's like, is it really worth it?
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 18:52
  Speaker 3: So I had stopped drinking for ten years and I started.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: I had started drinking again after me my son's mother
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: split up, just kind of like to be more social
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: and stuff. And then having conversation with my doctor, I
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: just cut it again.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, is it? Is it? Any type of alcohol does
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: some do better than others, like beer versus hard liquor.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: They just don't want me drinking because of my just
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: because of my my my liver.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: So oh so any alcohol. Yeah, So the crones affects
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: the liver, so the inflammation.
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: So it's it's all about because because crones is a
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: an autoimmune disease, and sometimes you get different you get
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: inflammation in different places. So like I get inflammation in
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: my in my lower back, I also have inflammation in
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: my liver. It's it's crazy, you know, the different things
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: that come along with that that people don't understand. How
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: long have you had it for? So I officially got
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: diagnosed in two thousand and twelve, but I had it
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: since probably two thousand and one.
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: And you didn't know it. I know it. I'm sure you.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: They just didn't die.
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: So what's crazy is when I went to a doctor
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: and they were like, oh, you just have hemorrhoids, and
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm pretty sure I don't. And then
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: I just got so bad where I had to, you know,
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: I had to. So I live an hour away from Boston.
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: So my friend was like, you need to go to
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: Boston and just go to the doctors out there because
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: the guys that you see and they're like, they're not
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: doing it.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: The best doctors in boss. So do you have to
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: watch everything that you eat? I like taco bell. Yeah,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Gianna's wild, Gianna's wild with it. I don't watch what
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: I eat necessarily, so I told you, I just I
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: went to New York. So one thing I did was
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: I ate very small portions and didn't.
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: Really eat a lot, like like throughout the.
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: Day because one of the things is you got to
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: go to the bathroom a lot, so you know, you.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: Put less food in. That means less frequent trips exactly.
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: And I don't eat because spicy, icy, spicy messes me up. Okay,
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: so what about like clean versus non clean foods? Does
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: that make a difference?
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I felt and rice versus McDonald's.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: So McDonald's would actually make you feel better? What? Yes? Yes,
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: why dirty eating is actually better?
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, okay, this is I never I thought
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: it was the opposite.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: No.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: When I was in the hospital, I wanted like a
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: stir fry, right, like you know, with the vegetables and
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: all this stuff. They were like, you can't eat that,
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: but you could have this pizza. Really, yes, But one
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: thing I noticed was I did keto for a little
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: while and I felt so great.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: My body just felt amazing affect. I think it's the
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: carbs and the sugar and the sugar.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: But when I tell you it's hard to maintain, you know,
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: the ketos, it's it's tough. You've got to be disciplined.
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: And I did it during the pandemic. So I was
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: home more I was. I mean, I was home oh day,
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: so you know, yeah, it's it was. It definitely made
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: me feel different.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: So if you eat a big meal, right, it doesn't
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: matter what it is, just the quantity of the food
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: it can mess you up.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Oh it's not gonna mess me up, but I'm gonna
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: have to go to the bathroom. Okay.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so this is interesting. So so why is it
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: called crones Is that was that named after somebody?
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: Do? You don't even know why? I have no idea.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: So I actually got diagnosed with all sort of colitis. First, Now,
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: all sort of colitis. The difference is crones is inflammation
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: of your gi track, so it can affect everything from
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: your throat to your tianus, you know where all sort
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: of coalitis is just your large intestine and it's all
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: sorts in your large intestine. So if so, if I
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: had inflammation or ulcers in my small intestine, I wouldn't
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: have gotten diagnosed with with chromes. It would have just
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: been Yeah, it would it would have been if I
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: if I just got diagnosed with crones. It's because I
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: got diagnosed with combs because I was just seeing inflammation
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: in my large intestine.
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: So yeah, so when you say you're in remission, what
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: does that mean? So I'm not having like flare ups.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: So you know, one of one of the things with
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: these diseases is you'll you'll get like a crazy flare
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: up and you'll have to you know, it's urgency. You'll
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: be like bloody stool. It's it's pretty intense. So you're
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: you're fine, You're in remission, You're normal. Yeah.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Do you still go to the bathroom more than other people?
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Like I, I go to the bathroom more than most
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: people pee in a day. Really, yeah, And there's no cure,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: no cure, nope.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: So the cure for people all sort of colitis is
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: to remove your large intestine, which they did to me.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: And then you know, wow, so you got like a
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: double whammy. Yeah, you got both essentially, right.
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so now I have So now I you know,
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: like I said, they they moved it, they changed the
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: diagnosis to crones because now I have the inflammation of
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: my smallertestine.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: So how many colonoscopies have you had? I've had?
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: When I was in the hospital, they were doing like
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: one a day. Wow, Like, yeah, I've had so many colonoscopies. Honestly,
• 24:17
  Speaker 3: it's probably been I would say over thirty. Wow, over thirty.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I don't know if you've seen this, but
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: there's like my friend I mentioned has cancer.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: It's colon cancer. Yeah, and he's forty three.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: There's been this huge rise in colon cancer with young
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: men like forty to fifty years old. So I want
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: to start getting it done, you know, but they won't
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: do it unless you have a family history, gotcha, you know.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: But they told him that he got diagnosed last year.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: It was in his body for like eight to ten years.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So if he had gone and really pushed for it,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: they would have, you know it, given it to him earlier.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. Medical stuff is tough, man, it is, it
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: really is. But all right, Well, I'm glad you're doing
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: good your remission. Thank you, Thank you me to absolutely well.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Are you gonna come back and sit in again? Anything? Definitely?
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: All right? Anytime. You just let me know. I appreciate it.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: All right, Apps Show Army.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: If you have any comments or questions for Jules, you
• 25:09
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• 25:11
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• 25:14
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• 25:16
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• 25:17
  Speaker 2: All right, see you tomorrow.