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- 0:33Speaker 2: Hey, good afternoon, and welcome to another episode of Wellness Uncensored.
- 0:37Speaker 2: My name is Patty g and I am your host
- 0:40Speaker 2: of this show, and I want to welcome you all.
- 0:43Speaker 2: We're in our third season. We're live here for you
- 0:46Speaker 2: today every Thursday at three pm Eastern and little background
- 0:50Speaker 2: if you're new tuning in. This show kind of came
- 0:52Speaker 2: about because we wanted to have a voice after we
- 0:55Speaker 2: all kind of got shut down, lockdown misinformation and all
- 0:58Speaker 2: that good stuff. We've been driving the show to give
- 1:02Speaker 2: better information to help people make good choices physically, emotionally,
- 1:06Speaker 2: mentally going forward, because there's just a lot of questions
- 1:09Speaker 2: out there like what should I do, what could I do?
- 1:12Speaker 2: What's healthy? What's not healthy? And so we've always got
- 1:15Speaker 2: lots of chock full information and sometimes we have guests
- 1:19Speaker 2: on the show. Today you've got me and if you're
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- 1:30Speaker 2: me at nine oh four three seven seven one nine six.
- 1:34Speaker 2: You're always welcome to text questions or comments or anything
- 1:37Speaker 2: that you might have questions about or things that you'd
- 1:40Speaker 2: like to see on the show. I've got two books
- 1:43Speaker 2: out there and if your new tuning in. The first
- 1:47Speaker 2: book I wrote was about adhesive capsulitis, otherwise known as
- 1:51Speaker 2: frozen shoulder, and frozen shoulder is an interesting phenomenon. We'll
- 1:55Speaker 2: talk a little bit about how you can get frozen shoulder,
- 1:58Speaker 2: I guess a little bit later in the show, but
- 2:00Speaker 2: it can come from autoimmune, history of diabetes, menopause, perimenopause,
- 2:07Speaker 2: and trauma. So if you've had PTSD or traumatic life events,
- 2:11Speaker 2: sometimes rosen shoulder can manifest as a result of those things.
- 2:15Speaker 2: So I wrote the Survival Guide because many people don't
- 2:18Speaker 2: even know what it is, and it just sort of
- 2:21Speaker 2: comes on like a cold or an injury or an
- 2:24Speaker 2: illness in the shoulder, and it just gets progressively more debilitating,
- 2:28Speaker 2: and you think, what have I done in my shoulder
- 2:29Speaker 2: that it hurts so bad, And come to find out
- 2:32Speaker 2: it's really like a pneumonia in your shoulder. It locks down,
- 2:35Speaker 2: you get adhesions. It's terrible. And my other book, they
- 2:38Speaker 2: call Me Harriet, really is a manifestation of what went
- 2:41Speaker 2: on behind the scenes during the pandemic, and it's got
- 2:44Speaker 2: a little bit of my history in there. How I
- 2:47Speaker 2: ended up overcoming the COVID virus, was in the ICU
- 2:52Speaker 2: and really had to rebuild and repair because like many
- 2:55Speaker 2: people out there today who still suffer and struggle with
- 2:58Speaker 2: long haulers, postural hypertension, things like that, I really had
- 3:04Speaker 2: to repair from the ground up and back in twenty twenty,
- 3:07Speaker 2: nobody really knew what was going on, so I needed
- 3:10Speaker 2: to take some fast action to get cardiac and respiratory rehabilitation.
- 3:15Speaker 2: So I took it upon myself to use my brain
- 3:18Speaker 2: and train, and that's exactly what I share with other people.
- 3:21Speaker 2: So today we are going to talk about training the
- 3:24Speaker 2: brain and how to really manifest positive ways to not
- 3:30Speaker 2: have to be dependent on medication. And if you are
- 3:33Speaker 2: on medication, there's hope. Funny enough, you know, there's always
- 3:37Speaker 2: things that are on our bucket list, and I just
- 3:40Speaker 2: recently got back literally touched ground at noon, was on
- 3:43Speaker 2: an overnight flight back home from Hawaii. So I'm a
- 3:47Speaker 2: little sleep deprived, but hey, no worries. When we have
- 3:51Speaker 2: to rally and respond, that's what we're here to do.
- 3:53Speaker 2: So hopefully I will give you some good manifestations of
- 3:57Speaker 2: some of the things that I've learned. I get a
- 3:59Speaker 2: wonderful con difference out in Hawaii and Maui, and it
- 4:03Speaker 2: was really cool place. Getting out there was fun, but
- 4:05Speaker 2: getting back maybe not quite so much. But in any event,
- 4:10Speaker 2: so you can look us up either on the Q
- 4:13Speaker 2: or S code. Our web page is Magnoliabewellness dot com
- 4:18Speaker 2: and you can also look us up under Magnolia cell
- 4:22Speaker 2: patch dot com because we've got some amazing things that
- 4:25Speaker 2: you can use to get off of medications, one of
- 4:28Speaker 2: which is a cell patch. I utilize these for some
- 4:32Speaker 2: of my patients as well as vitamin supplements, IB nutrients,
- 4:36Speaker 2: but the cell patches are wonderful to give lots of energy.
- 4:39Speaker 2: I had one on up through my trip and I'm
- 4:41Speaker 2: thinking that's where I've driven some energy with not getting
- 4:45Speaker 2: too much sleep today. But you know, one of the
- 4:48Speaker 2: quotes that I took back from our conference this week
- 4:50Speaker 2: was brain help. It's the agency to unlock your power,
- 4:56Speaker 2: and I'd be real curious to hear you know how
- 4:58Speaker 2: many of you struggle with what goes on in your life.
- 5:02Speaker 2: You know, our days get so full. And one of
- 5:05Speaker 2: the things I wanted to share, you know how many
- 5:07Speaker 2: of you feel like, Oh, you know, I've read a
- 5:10Speaker 2: lot about EIGHTYHD lately, and I've got all those symptoms.
- 5:15Speaker 2: I have brain fog and I've got cognition issues, and
- 5:19Speaker 2: i can't think, and I can't concentrate, and i can't
- 5:22Speaker 2: focus on anything, all kinds of stuff. And you know,
- 5:27Speaker 2: I was thinking a lot about it out of the
- 5:29Speaker 2: conference this week, and I have so many patients that
- 5:31Speaker 2: are just so overbooked. Just stop and think for a minute,
- 5:36Speaker 2: how much are you doing compared to what perhaps maybe
- 5:40Speaker 2: your parents did, maybe your grandparents did, And think about
- 5:44Speaker 2: your day, think about your sleep, think about if you're
- 5:47Speaker 2: having trouble sleeping, is it because maybe you've gotten your
- 5:50Speaker 2: brain too charged up? And then here's another question we're
- 5:53Speaker 2: going to talk about today. Is it really that you
- 5:55Speaker 2: can't concentrate and focus or might it be that you
- 5:59Speaker 2: just don't really like some of the tasks and the
- 6:02Speaker 2: chores and the things you have to do, and so
- 6:05Speaker 2: you put them off, You procrastinate. But if you could
- 6:08Speaker 2: fill your day with all the things that you enjoyed doing,
- 6:11Speaker 2: would you perhaps be a little bit more focused or
- 6:14Speaker 2: would you get things done if you could push those
- 6:17Speaker 2: things aside of the musters and the have tos that
- 6:20Speaker 2: goes for school classes, laundry, cleaning the house, paying bills,
- 6:26Speaker 2: whatever those things are, they're not enjoyable. It may even
- 6:29Speaker 2: be your current job, like maybe it's not what you love,
- 6:34Speaker 2: but it pays the bills. And do you find that
- 6:36Speaker 2: you're often distracted and that you have trouble meeting deadlines?
- 6:40Speaker 2: So one of the things that we talked about this
- 6:42Speaker 2: week and that I really found very helpful, let's not
- 6:45Speaker 2: be so quick to throw a diagnosis on our symptoms.
- 6:49Speaker 2: Let's get to the root. And I'm always talking to
- 6:52Speaker 2: you guys about the root cause of what goes on
- 6:54Speaker 2: in your life. And let's think about that for a minute.
- 6:57Speaker 2: You're having trouble sleeping. Is it because you're dressed? Is
- 7:01Speaker 2: it because you're overthinking? Is it because you're worried about something?
- 7:06Speaker 2: Or is it because you know that as soon as
- 7:07Speaker 2: you fall asleep, you've got an early day ahead of you.
- 7:10Speaker 2: You've got an over demanding schedule, and beyond the schedule,
- 7:13Speaker 2: you have expectations of everybody that you have to meet
- 7:16Speaker 2: their needs during that day and at the end of
- 7:18Speaker 2: the day, and really when does your day into the
- 7:21Speaker 2: evening end? So perhaps it's not attention deficit, it's sensory overload.
- 7:29Speaker 2: So think about that for a minute. We've got a
- 7:32Speaker 2: great question out there already about what tools are out
- 7:35Speaker 2: there to help us retrain the brain and what are
- 7:38Speaker 2: your thoughts on the muse system. So we're going to
- 7:41Speaker 2: kind of get into a little bit of this about
- 7:43Speaker 2: retraining the brain. And there's a lot of different techniques,
- 7:47Speaker 2: a lot of different patterns or parallels programs. There's a
- 7:50Speaker 2: lot of great books out there. I even heard about
- 7:53Speaker 2: a great book. I just ordered it. It may actually
- 7:56Speaker 2: be showing up at my door because I ordered it
- 7:58Speaker 2: yesterday at the conference. And you've got to love Amazon.
- 8:01Speaker 2: They are the efficient beast on a process, process and
- 8:06Speaker 2: getting it to you efficiently. If only our bodies and
- 8:09Speaker 2: our brains could be as efficient as Amazon, and with
- 8:12Speaker 2: great customer service to our bodies like Amazon, Like we
- 8:16Speaker 2: want you to be happy with what you do. How
- 8:19Speaker 2: often are you happy with what you've done at the
- 8:23Speaker 2: end of the day, or are you stressed and manifesting anxiety?
- 8:28Speaker 2: And so a whole lot, a whole lot we want
- 8:30Speaker 2: to talk about. I did want to share because this
- 8:32Speaker 2: was another kind of bittersweet and sad, if you will,
- 8:37Speaker 2: But just to kind of pay respect, there was a
- 8:40Speaker 2: psychiatrist who's very well known in the study of psychiatry
- 8:45Speaker 2: and was really work on a lot of different things.
- 8:48Speaker 2: Had been one of the folks who had actually I
- 8:53Speaker 2: can't pull it up all here, but he was studying
- 8:56Speaker 2: dose optimization and some different try else. But his name
- 9:02Speaker 2: is Rian Nolan, and I just want to get this
- 9:07Speaker 2: all correct because we were kind of shocked to hear it.
- 9:09Speaker 2: I was out at the psychiatry conference this week, and
- 9:12Speaker 2: he passed away just a few weeks ago, actually probably
- 9:15Speaker 2: a week and a half, two weeks ago. Here. He
- 9:19Speaker 2: was just a well well published young man, husband, father, psychiatrist,
- 9:25Speaker 2: and he had developed the Stanford Accelerated Intelligent Neuromodulation treatment,
- 9:33Speaker 2: and he was very just a brilliant person. He was
- 9:37Speaker 2: a wonderful author and just up and coming a futurist,
- 9:41Speaker 2: if you will. And even for the best most profound
- 9:45Speaker 2: successful people. I learned this week that he took his life.
- 9:49Speaker 2: So again, September was National Suicide Prevention Month, and I
- 9:54Speaker 2: will see, even among the among the ranks of people
- 9:57Speaker 2: well trained in psychiatry, we don't take time to care
- 10:02Speaker 2: for ourself. Self care is by far the most important
- 10:06Speaker 2: thing that you can do. And I take it back
- 10:08Speaker 2: to when you're on a plane and literally just getting
- 10:11Speaker 2: off a plane. You know, they go through the steps
- 10:13Speaker 2: and we were in the emergency exit and they asked
- 10:16Speaker 2: us if we would go through the steps, and you know,
- 10:17Speaker 2: are you prepared to help other people? And if you
- 10:21Speaker 2: can't take care of yourself first, you're not going to
- 10:24Speaker 2: be good for anybody else. And there just comes a point.
- 10:28Speaker 2: Have you ever felt this way when you think about,
- 10:31Speaker 2: I'm just so drained, I can't even help myself. That's
- 10:35Speaker 2: when you know your tank is really, really low. And
- 10:38Speaker 2: I want you all to know you have to have
- 10:41Speaker 2: just a little left in the tank to help you.
- 10:44Speaker 2: And that's kind of where we talk about things like
- 10:47Speaker 2: what can I do for myself? What's good self care?
- 10:50Speaker 2: And when we talk about things like sleep, when we
- 10:52Speaker 2: talk about good you know, just nurturing, nurturing your body,
- 10:58Speaker 2: how do you make time to get good sleep. First
- 11:01Speaker 2: of all, you've got to really look at are you
- 11:03Speaker 2: booked or are you overbooked? And again this kind of
- 11:07Speaker 2: all ties into folks with thoughts of well, I can't
- 11:11Speaker 2: concentrate and I haven't saw me and my brain is
- 11:13Speaker 2: really off and I'm forgetting things. Is it really that
- 11:17Speaker 2: you have developed an adult onset of attention deficit or
- 11:21Speaker 2: could you maybe be just really overbooked for daily living?
- 11:26Speaker 2: It really comes down to a balance. So we're going
- 11:29Speaker 2: to talk about some of those things. And a great
- 11:32Speaker 2: question too, Kelly asked about meditation. Self care really should
- 11:38Speaker 2: be a variety of things that nurture you your mind,
- 11:42Speaker 2: your body, and spirit. And Wayne Dryer d y e
- 11:47Speaker 2: Er was a great kind of a healing expert, if
- 11:52Speaker 2: you will, in the study of psychiatry and healing, and
- 11:56Speaker 2: that was one of the things to get to know
- 11:58Speaker 2: SELFA Hey, she's another one. And when you look these
- 12:03Speaker 2: folks up, there's so many things that they can offer
- 12:06Speaker 2: in terms of breathing, relaxation, saying different versus different mantras.
- 12:12Speaker 2: Meditation and meditation may look a little bit different for everybody.
- 12:17Speaker 2: Here's a simple way that I like to talk about meditation,
- 12:20Speaker 2: getting grounded and in touch with oneself. Go step outside
- 12:24Speaker 2: if you enjoy nature, or go find For some folks,
- 12:27Speaker 2: it might be your man cave, it might be your
- 12:29Speaker 2: she cave, wherever it is, and you want to get
- 12:32Speaker 2: in touch with all five senses. You know, you want
- 12:35Speaker 2: to be able to breathe, take slow, you know, profound
- 12:39Speaker 2: deep breaths in and out, almost rhythmically right breathe in,
- 12:44Speaker 2: hould it and let it out. And you want to
- 12:47Speaker 2: do that five or ten times. You can draw pictures
- 12:50Speaker 2: with your hand or triangle or square to help you
- 12:53Speaker 2: rhythmically bad. You can do the tapping technique. These are
- 12:56Speaker 2: all good things to help relax your body, relax your mind,
- 13:01Speaker 2: reset your autonomic nervous system, and just tap right over
- 13:06Speaker 2: your chest. You can take two fingers tap over your
- 13:08Speaker 2: heart and this is going to reregulate you. I love
- 13:11Speaker 2: to go outside because you know, if you can step outside,
- 13:14Speaker 2: put your feet in the grass and the dirt and
- 13:17Speaker 2: the sand, you've got those elemental pieces to just really
- 13:23Speaker 2: getting those positive and negative ions back into your body.
- 13:26Speaker 2: So self care can look very different for everybody. You
- 13:29Speaker 2: may even find singing in the shower. How about it
- 13:33Speaker 2: singing in the shower. What is so profound about singing
- 13:36Speaker 2: in the shower. It's the vibration, either singing or humming,
- 13:40Speaker 2: you are resetting your vagus nerve. And again you're going
- 13:45Speaker 2: to hear a lot of different things today, terms and
- 13:48Speaker 2: things if you have questions about them. But the vagus
- 13:50Speaker 2: nerve is the largest nerve that runs through your whole body.
- 13:53Speaker 2: We talked about it a few weeks ago. And while
- 13:55Speaker 2: it innervates out of the brain, the brainstem, through your
- 14:00Speaker 2: body through hits most of the major organs as it
- 14:02Speaker 2: goes all the way down out to the lower part
- 14:05Speaker 2: of your spine, and the vagus nerve controls all these
- 14:09Speaker 2: autonomic functions that can lead to anxiety, stress, physiological symptoms,
- 14:14Speaker 2: symptoms that come out in your body tension, upset, stomach, chills, fatigue.
- 14:21Speaker 2: I was telling rebel Our producer just before we got
- 14:23Speaker 2: on tough light landing in my ears, I feel like
- 14:26Speaker 2: I'm in a boilet bowl and my ears are popping.
- 14:29Speaker 2: So if I found a little funky, that's why. But yeah,
- 14:32Speaker 2: all kinds of things you can do to ground. Some
- 14:35Speaker 2: people like to draw. Maybe it's relaxing for you to
- 14:38Speaker 2: doodle or draw or journal and these are all the
- 14:42Speaker 2: things you can do to kind of really relax the mind,
- 14:45Speaker 2: relax the brain. It could be a hot bath, take
- 14:48Speaker 2: a hot bath, put some aromatherapy in. I don't think
- 14:52Speaker 2: we often enough take the time to do some ebbs
- 14:55Speaker 2: and salts. They got a lot of different flavors of
- 14:57Speaker 2: ebbs and salts that you can put in to the bathtub.
- 15:01Speaker 2: And you know, you smell the aroma, you let it
- 15:04Speaker 2: soak into your joints and into your muscles. It can
- 15:07Speaker 2: be really really beneficial. So those are some of the
- 15:11Speaker 2: things to kind of get into the mindset. And how
- 15:13Speaker 2: often do we do this? You know, you really need
- 15:16Speaker 2: to take five, ten, fifteen minutes a day on a minimum.
- 15:20Speaker 2: Maybe mornings are better for you. I have some patients
- 15:22Speaker 2: that are they're so fortunate they can get up at
- 15:25Speaker 2: the morning and start your day and have some quiet time.
- 15:28Speaker 2: For me, it's usually more at the latter part of
- 15:30Speaker 2: the day. But you've got to find a time that's
- 15:32Speaker 2: really good for you to just be intentional. These intentional
- 15:36Speaker 2: moments are what's really going to help to manifest your
- 15:39Speaker 2: sense of peace of well being. And why do we
- 15:43Speaker 2: do this? You know, our whole point of talking about
- 15:46Speaker 2: retraining your brain because our brain will adapt to the
- 15:51Speaker 2: least common denominator. So if you're in a stressful situation,
- 15:56Speaker 2: your brain is going to get you through that stress.
- 16:00Speaker 2: And for some folks, what does that mean? When you're
- 16:02Speaker 2: going through a stressful situation? Right? You could really be
- 16:06Speaker 2: in that panic mode? How many of you live in
- 16:09Speaker 2: fight or flight? You're always on edge, You're always waiting
- 16:13Speaker 2: for the other shoe to drop. You feel like sometimes
- 16:16Speaker 2: something bad's going to happen. You worry about the what ifs.
- 16:20Speaker 2: How many of you out there do that? I know
- 16:21Speaker 2: you do? What if? What if? What if that? What
- 16:25Speaker 2: if I don't get home in time to do my show?
- 16:28Speaker 2: What if I have a patient that needs to see me?
- 16:30Speaker 2: What if life is truly too short to What if?
- 16:35Speaker 2: You really need to drive your focus to be a
- 16:38Speaker 2: little bit more present in the moment. Things will wait?
- 16:41Speaker 2: But how many of us have gotten so caught up
- 16:44Speaker 2: in the schedule, the overbooking? You can't say no. Everybody
- 16:49Speaker 2: has a demand. You have to reset. What is going
- 16:54Speaker 2: to look like balance for you? How many of you
- 16:58Speaker 2: out there I think you've got attention depis. You must
- 17:01Speaker 2: write because you just can't keep up, you can't focus,
- 17:03Speaker 2: you can't concentrate when you go to bed at night,
- 17:05Speaker 2: your mind's racing. That's clearly these are all symptoms of
- 17:08Speaker 2: attention deficit. Right, I've shared with you guys before, less
- 17:11Speaker 2: than three to four percent of the adult population develops
- 17:14Speaker 2: an adult ADHD or add it might just be because
- 17:21Speaker 2: we are overstimulated by the ease of access of constantly
- 17:26Speaker 2: being busy. So that's one whole thing I wanted to share.
- 17:29Speaker 2: I've got such a chocoal list of really good stuff.
- 17:34Speaker 2: Another great quote regain control of your mind to think, choose,
- 17:41Speaker 2: and act with intention. Think about that. How intentional is
- 17:47Speaker 2: your day to day? Is it being run by you
- 17:50Speaker 2: or is it being run for you? And if it's
- 17:53Speaker 2: being run for you, how many of you really like that?
- 17:56Speaker 2: Do you feel like you can't catch up? Do you
- 17:58Speaker 2: feel like there's just you're on somebody else's wheel? That
- 18:02Speaker 2: can't feel too good? So how can you be more intentional?
- 18:06Speaker 2: What does that look like? What does intentional look like?
- 18:09Speaker 2: So to be intentional, it may start with a list
- 18:13Speaker 2: of what you want to do tonight, or perhaps what
- 18:16Speaker 2: you want to do differently tomorrow. And you know, everybody
- 18:19Speaker 2: I talked to about journaling. Oh, I never have time.
- 18:22Speaker 2: You know, some people are really good at it. I
- 18:24Speaker 2: think that's part of being intentional is making the time.
- 18:28Speaker 2: So start with a book, Get a notebook, Get one
- 18:32Speaker 2: of the ready made journals. There's all different kinds. You
- 18:37Speaker 2: can get one that's already kind of pre tabulated out.
- 18:40Speaker 2: They make it so easy. This is kind of what
- 18:44Speaker 2: they look like. And if you're driving and you can't see,
- 18:46Speaker 2: you know, they've got things like, how did you take
- 18:48Speaker 2: care of yourself today? A good thing that happened, something
- 18:52Speaker 2: you're grateful for, and then so far summarize today with
- 18:56Speaker 2: one word, how would you summarize today?
- 18:59Speaker 1: For me?
- 19:01Speaker 2: I would summarize you know, it was chock full. We
- 19:04Speaker 2: were on the go, we were moving, moving, moving, moving,
- 19:07Speaker 2: But I had intention, and my intention was to stay calm,
- 19:13Speaker 2: stay focused. There's really not much I could do but
- 19:16Speaker 2: get from point A to point B. I was at
- 19:19Speaker 2: the mercy of the airlines, and then our connecting play
- 19:24Speaker 2: got delayed. But it's still worked out. It's still worked out,
- 19:29Speaker 2: and so there's a lot of things that aren't in control.
- 19:31Speaker 2: So remember we can only focus on the things we
- 19:34Speaker 2: can control. So try to make a list to start
- 19:38Speaker 2: your intentions. And if you set the list of intentions,
- 19:42Speaker 2: you have to be very careful not to get overwhelmed
- 19:45Speaker 2: by not completing your list. But here's how I kind
- 19:48Speaker 2: of try to describe it. Make a list of no
- 19:51Speaker 2: more than five things with the goal of at least
- 19:54Speaker 2: getting one or two things done. Then take the remaining
- 19:58Speaker 2: three items and start them at the next day, and
- 20:02Speaker 2: if you really feel like you have to, then add
- 20:06Speaker 2: two more things. But with the expectation you're only going
- 20:08Speaker 2: to get one or two things done each day. And
- 20:12Speaker 2: so in doing that, maybe you can start to reset
- 20:16Speaker 2: your expectations to be grateful that you have accomplished things
- 20:21Speaker 2: each day, and you'll feel more satisfied. So how does
- 20:24Speaker 2: this all tie into medication? So let's think about the
- 20:28Speaker 2: use of medication, and again it kind of goes back
- 20:31Speaker 2: to what is it that you feel you need to
- 20:34Speaker 2: be on medication for. And we're kind of talking specifically
- 20:38Speaker 2: about stress, anxiety, low mood, low motivation, just a general
- 20:44Speaker 2: low sad feeling, or maybe self worth, just not feeling
- 20:49Speaker 2: what your value is, underestimating yourself. Maybe you're upset, maybe
- 20:54Speaker 2: something happened in your life, maybe you lost a job,
- 20:57Speaker 2: maybe you lost a loved one, maybe you're not where
- 21:00Speaker 2: you need to be or want to be in your career,
- 21:03Speaker 2: maybe you've had some setbacks. So okay, so now what's
- 21:07Speaker 2: the next solution. Okay, let's just take a pill. How
- 21:10Speaker 2: is that going to solve your problem? And see, that's
- 21:13Speaker 2: the point that I want folks to realize, Well, many
- 21:17Speaker 2: of these medications are going to give you a lift
- 21:19Speaker 2: of some sort or take away some of your symptoms.
- 21:23Speaker 2: It's not going to be lasting unless you put the
- 21:26Speaker 2: work behind it. And if you don't put the work
- 21:30Speaker 2: behind it, after a while, what happens is a lot
- 21:33Speaker 2: of people will need a higher dose or their provider
- 21:37Speaker 2: will say, well, if it's not working, let's go higher,
- 21:40Speaker 2: or let's try another medication. Again. It takes me back
- 21:43Speaker 2: to how is that solving the problem. So see, with psychiatry,
- 21:49Speaker 2: the original method of studying the brain to help heel
- 21:54Speaker 2: the individuals this if you will or issue was to
- 21:59Speaker 2: work behavioral changes. Medication was meant to lift the mood
- 22:06Speaker 2: while we took some time in therapy. Lots of different
- 22:09Speaker 2: types of therapy out there, and all of them have
- 22:12Speaker 2: lots of benefits, but it wasn't meant to just slap
- 22:15Speaker 2: a pill and say, hey, here's the pill. You feel better.
- 22:19Speaker 2: And I can't tell you how many times I have
- 22:21Speaker 2: patients come in, Yeah, you gave me this medication. I
- 22:23Speaker 2: don't feel better, okay, And you know my next question is, well,
- 22:27Speaker 2: what have you been doing? And a lot of times
- 22:30Speaker 2: people will do a really good job because you have
- 22:32Speaker 2: to work on the whole person, the whole being that
- 22:35Speaker 2: talks about sleep and that could be an issue. That
- 22:38Speaker 2: talks about what are you eating, what's getting into your body,
- 22:41Speaker 2: and that talks about movement. And so if you are
- 22:44Speaker 2: not really doing anything in those areas and we give
- 22:48Speaker 2: you a medication, chances are you're not going to feel
- 22:51Speaker 2: so so much better. You may feel a little something.
- 22:54Speaker 2: But here's the whole whole idea, And this is where
- 22:57Speaker 2: I talk about, how can you get off the medication
- 23:00Speaker 2: your wheel? Just try me for like the next two weeks.
- 23:04Speaker 2: Really look at what you're putting into your body. Try
- 23:07Speaker 2: to make sure you're hydrating with some good fluids. It
- 23:10Speaker 2: could be water, it could be some kind of amino
- 23:13Speaker 2: acid or ranch chain amino acid. It could be an
- 23:15Speaker 2: electrolyte drink, protein powder, protein pre made drinks. You want
- 23:20Speaker 2: to really add protein to your diet. Your brain optimizes
- 23:25Speaker 2: and really functions very well when you increase your protein intake.
- 23:29Speaker 2: It functions really well when you add a few other things,
- 23:31Speaker 2: but as far as protein, if you start adding protein
- 23:35Speaker 2: and really good hydration, you're going to start to feel
- 23:38Speaker 2: a little calmer, a little more focused, a little more organized.
- 23:43Speaker 2: Now is it enough to say, oh, I'm feeling great.
- 23:46Speaker 2: Maybe not, but you got to start somewhere, especially if
- 23:49Speaker 2: you haven't really been taking good care of your health.
- 23:52Speaker 2: The next thing is movement. And we've talked about this
- 23:55Speaker 2: lots of times, but really good movement is essential to
- 24:00Speaker 2: getting all of those fluids moving in your body, your
- 24:02Speaker 2: cardiovascular system, with your blood flow, your lymph system, your
- 24:07Speaker 2: limbic system, all of those things. You know. And your
- 24:09Speaker 2: body is made up of over seventy percent water fluid,
- 24:14Speaker 2: so if you are not hydrating, you're not flushing out
- 24:18Speaker 2: the toxins. Now, on a kind of a fun side note,
- 24:22Speaker 2: you know, we talked about the whole why why is
- 24:25Speaker 2: thilanol not a good thing to take, not just for
- 24:27Speaker 2: pregnant women, but thilanol, especially if you overuse the anti
- 24:31Speaker 2: inflammatories tileanol turns off your glucothione production, which is your
- 24:35Speaker 2: master detoxifier in your body for twenty four hours. So
- 24:39Speaker 2: why do I want you to stay healthy and well
- 24:41Speaker 2: and hydrate and fuel Because if I can optimize the
- 24:45Speaker 2: machine of your brain and your body. Now, if we
- 24:48Speaker 2: add in a medication or you're taking medication, you're going
- 24:50Speaker 2: to feel better. So keep that in mind. You know
- 24:53Speaker 2: the other other little tidbit I learned this week. You know,
- 24:57Speaker 2: brain health really is a human right. You have right
- 25:00Speaker 2: to feel good, and why not gain control over yourself
- 25:03Speaker 2: in being able to do that. Now, a lot of
- 25:06Speaker 2: people struggle in the evening, more people than that. I
- 25:09Speaker 2: find anxiety goes up at night. Some people have anxiety
- 25:12Speaker 2: throughout the day, but at night, when you're trying to
- 25:14Speaker 2: settle down, your anxiety goes up. So this is where
- 25:17Speaker 2: you need to have some kind of movement and activity. Walk,
- 25:21Speaker 2: go to the gym, do some physical weightlifting, journal, do
- 25:26Speaker 2: a project, do a craft, get your mind busy at night.
- 25:30Speaker 2: Make a list in your journal of things that you
- 25:33Speaker 2: want to accomplish during the week, with the goal of
- 25:36Speaker 2: one to do things for the next day and start
- 25:39Speaker 2: acting upon it. Now, sleep is a whole other genre.
- 25:43Speaker 2: The book that I just ordered is called Say good
- 25:47Speaker 2: Night to Insomnia. And I'll pull up the author too,
- 25:50Speaker 2: because I want to make sure you guys have his name.
- 25:54Speaker 2: No disclaimers on it yet, because I haven't read it,
- 25:57Speaker 2: but it came highly regard and I always get people
- 26:02Speaker 2: asking me so often about what book or what can
- 26:06Speaker 2: I do? And here's the here's my author. I have
- 26:12Speaker 2: it here somewhere when you want to look up Amazon,
- 26:15Speaker 2: let's see. Maybe it already, king, Well, I'll be looking
- 26:17Speaker 2: up the author. I think it's Jacob Jacob something. But
- 26:21Speaker 2: the name of the book is stay good Night to Insomnia.
- 26:24Speaker 2: And if I can find it, I never thought it
- 26:28Speaker 2: would be so difficult. Let's see, I'll find it say
- 26:31Speaker 2: good night. Maybe some of you guys have found it already.
- 26:34Speaker 2: Some folks are so quick say good night. Here it
- 26:37Speaker 2: goes Greg Jacobs. So if you're looking, if you're looking
- 26:43Speaker 2: for the book, it's Greg Jacobs. So. Neuro inflammation, that's
- 26:49Speaker 2: the other thing I wanted to talk about. How is
- 26:51Speaker 2: it that we can feel sad, we can feel anxious,
- 26:56Speaker 2: low mood. Did you ever stop to think what causes
- 26:59Speaker 2: some these symptoms of anxiety besides the ones of like
- 27:03Speaker 2: an upcoming deadline, you've got stress in your life, you're
- 27:06Speaker 2: worried about something. Inflammation, So when your body's inflamed, when
- 27:12Speaker 2: you feel like you're not feeling your best self. Many
- 27:15Speaker 2: people can tell when you're feeling inflamed. Sometimes people even
- 27:18Speaker 2: physically your little puffy, your fingers, your legs feel swollen.
- 27:23Speaker 2: You may have different challenges. You may when you breathe,
- 27:26Speaker 2: you may feel a little congested. How about when your
- 27:29Speaker 2: head gets kind of stuffed up, or you get really
- 27:32Speaker 2: stuffed and kind of a runny nose, and it's almost
- 27:34Speaker 2: like if you've ever sneezed a couple times and you
- 27:36Speaker 2: get that little watery, runny feeling. You know that's a precursor.
- 27:40Speaker 2: That's like an inflammatory response. And so when you are
- 27:43Speaker 2: inflamed and your body's inflamed, you're not just inflamed. Oh
- 27:47Speaker 2: thank you. There's the book say good Night to insomn You.
- 27:50Speaker 2: When your body's inflamed, it's not just your body, it's
- 27:54Speaker 2: around your brain. So when your brain is inflamed, that
- 27:58Speaker 2: inflammatory response also sometimes can trigger negative feelings. So this
- 28:04Speaker 2: all goes back to no, I know you can't all
- 28:08Speaker 2: shout out to me, but if you're out there. What
- 28:11Speaker 2: do you think triggers back with that inflammation? What kind
- 28:14Speaker 2: of symptoms and mood and behavior if your brain's inflamed,
- 28:19Speaker 2: How do you feel when you have a really bad headcold?
- 28:21Speaker 2: Kind of lousy, quiet, low, just want to go to bed. Well,
- 28:27Speaker 2: when your brain's inflamed and you don't have a head
- 28:30Speaker 2: cold and you've got those low, sad, anxious feelings, you
- 28:35Speaker 2: may have internal inflammation. And if we can correct the
- 28:39Speaker 2: internal inflammation, think about how that can really affect your symptoms.
- 28:44Speaker 2: So I don't know that folks really spend enough time
- 28:47Speaker 2: thinking about these things. They go and they say, Oh,
- 28:49Speaker 2: I don't feel good, I'm anxious, I'm stressed. I'm depressed.
- 28:52Speaker 2: I've just I can't concentrate, i can't focus, I've got
- 28:54Speaker 2: to work harder. I've got all these demands. I need
- 28:56Speaker 2: something to keep me going. And we get prozac packs, well, mutrie,
- 29:02Speaker 2: adderall you name it? Is it really essential? Can we
- 29:06Speaker 2: not find ways to heal our body first? Now, how
- 29:09Speaker 2: do we get off these medications? Well, that's something that
- 29:12Speaker 2: you want to do with who haven't prescribed it for you,
- 29:14Speaker 2: But it's certainly worth considering tapering down and having a conversation.
- 29:21Speaker 2: Maybe get a therapist. Talk. Therapy is often very underrelated. Ooh, am,
- 29:29Speaker 2: I having trouble. Let's see, can you guys all hear me?
- 29:33Speaker 2: Seems to be my server is not working so good? Interesting,
- 29:40Speaker 2: It's good, Okay, I'm just getting these messages from my
- 29:45Speaker 2: computer saying your audio only. So folks don't underestimate inflammation.
- 29:51Speaker 2: And if you can think about inflammation, like when you're sick,
- 29:55Speaker 2: you can have internal inflammation and not really know. However,
- 30:00Speaker 2: or the symptoms are anxiousness, low mood, lethargy, the te tired, sleepy,
- 30:08Speaker 2: sometimes even insomnia because your brain is inflamed. So that
- 30:13Speaker 2: leads us back to all roads to good eating, good health,
- 30:17Speaker 2: good movement. And I think that's something that a lot
- 30:20Speaker 2: of folks get too busy to do. Nine times out
- 30:23Speaker 2: of ten, I would say, every nine out of ten
- 30:24Speaker 2: patients when I try to get them off to a
- 30:26Speaker 2: good start with the triangle of sleep, activity and nutrition,
- 30:31Speaker 2: the activity, nine out of ten people tell me, well,
- 30:34Speaker 2: you know, I'm just so busy. I get up, I
- 30:36Speaker 2: got to go to work, I take the kids to school,
- 30:37Speaker 2: I get home, I pick the kids up, got to
- 30:39Speaker 2: take the kids here, got to do this got to
- 30:40Speaker 2: do that. I'm in school, My days are full. You
- 30:44Speaker 2: have to be intentional, and if you're not intentional, all
- 30:48Speaker 2: these things to get your brain and your body to
- 30:51Speaker 2: heal are are just not going to work for you.
- 30:55Speaker 2: Now here's one of the cool things. You know, a
- 30:57Speaker 2: lot of these meds can become very neurotoxic, neurotoxic in
- 31:02Speaker 2: a way that over time, if you haven't found a
- 31:06Speaker 2: way to heal emotionally and behaviorally, higher and higher doses.
- 31:10Speaker 2: There's very few meds in the psyche world that don't
- 31:15Speaker 2: cause some type of side effects. There's many side effects.
- 31:18Speaker 2: First of all, you got weaking. How many people like that?
- 31:22Speaker 2: I would say nine out of ten don't like weighting?
- 31:24Speaker 2: And then there's sexual side effects. How many of you
- 31:27Speaker 2: like that? And it comes on and before you know it,
- 31:30Speaker 2: you're like your libido just goes weigh down. And then
- 31:33Speaker 2: you're on these meds and then how do you get off?
- 31:35Speaker 2: There's also other side effects and depending on the medication,
- 31:38Speaker 2: you can have twitches, you can have restless leg you
- 31:42Speaker 2: can have gut issues, GI issues, elimination issues. So for
- 31:47Speaker 2: every action, for every medication action, there's a reaction. So
- 31:53Speaker 2: my question to all of you is why can't we
- 31:56Speaker 2: try to optimize our body and then see what's left
- 32:00Speaker 2: over or lacking and then let's readdress it. And I've
- 32:04Speaker 2: talked several different shows. I don't know where you know,
- 32:07Speaker 2: you may be in your town to yet to find
- 32:11Speaker 2: a place that does TMS transcranial magnetic therapy, but I
- 32:15Speaker 2: will tell you that is one of the single best
- 32:17Speaker 2: ways to help to get off medication, stay off medication,
- 32:22Speaker 2: and optimize your brain. And we'll definitely have to have
- 32:25Speaker 2: another guest back on so we can kind of dialogue
- 32:27Speaker 2: a little bit more about the TMS therapy. That's something
- 32:30Speaker 2: I do at one of the offices out here in
- 32:32Speaker 2: Jacksonville and Pondividri, but we've also got places across the
- 32:36Speaker 2: United States, and TMS is a very healthy way to
- 32:41Speaker 2: stimulate your electrical impulses in the brain. It's not electric
- 32:45Speaker 2: shock therapy, it's magnetic therapy. And it kind of works,
- 32:49Speaker 2: if you will, almost as if you had a charger
- 32:53Speaker 2: to your phone and you had one of those automatic
- 32:56Speaker 2: chargers that you put your phone on top of and
- 32:59Speaker 2: it refills the tank of your charge. It does it
- 33:03Speaker 2: to the brain and it keeps your electrical firing at
- 33:06Speaker 2: its optimum performance, and that is something that we're going
- 33:11Speaker 2: to talk about in the coming weeks because I think
- 33:13Speaker 2: it's just one of the most exciting things out there.
- 33:15Speaker 2: We have treated so many folks and it's been approved
- 33:19Speaker 2: for the FDA probably for about nine little over nine
- 33:22Speaker 2: years now. There's well over four hundred thousand research based
- 33:26Speaker 2: test articles on how it has optimized and helped to heal.
- 33:31Speaker 2: It's been approved for kids down to the age of fifteen,
- 33:35Speaker 2: and we can optimize just about anything from anxiety, depression, overthinking,
- 33:42Speaker 2: memory loss, cognition, dementia, migraines. And the best part of
- 33:48Speaker 2: it is because everybody says, well, that's kind of weird,
- 33:50Speaker 2: it's like sci fi. Is it safe. It's extraordinarily safe
- 33:54Speaker 2: and you don't get the side effects like you do
- 33:57Speaker 2: with medication. And the best benefit is when you do it.
- 34:00Speaker 2: It takes about thirty six sessions to do. It's just
- 34:03Speaker 2: like you go to the gym. You go in each day,
- 34:06Speaker 2: you get your thirty six sessions and you optimize, and
- 34:11Speaker 2: after thirty six sessions you also find you've got optimization
- 34:15Speaker 2: of all your other neurotransmitters into neurotransmitters hormone neurotransmitters, and
- 34:21Speaker 2: you find that your elimination is better, your digestion can
- 34:24Speaker 2: be better, you might not suffer from frequent headaches any longer, pain, neuropathy,
- 34:31Speaker 2: all those things tend to be better. So that's something
- 34:35Speaker 2: that we're going to spend a show just talking about.
- 34:37Speaker 2: But I really want to get you all thinking, and
- 34:39Speaker 2: we've had some great questions. Let's see, oh, are there
- 34:44Speaker 2: better times of the day to do certain things for
- 34:47Speaker 2: better results. Well that's a good question too. You know
- 34:51Speaker 2: what time the day I think has to be what's
- 34:53Speaker 2: best for you. Some people are mourning people, and you're
- 34:56Speaker 2: going to have to test yourself out. You really, let's
- 35:00Speaker 2: just start with sleep. You want to get on the
- 35:02Speaker 2: right circadian rhythm. Now, a lot of folks work nights,
- 35:05Speaker 2: and that's really tough, you know that that circadian rhythm.
- 35:08Speaker 2: You've kind of got to come up with a better
- 35:10Speaker 2: way to balance your night and days. But when you
- 35:13Speaker 2: gotta work, you gotta work night shift. It's really hot hard.
- 35:16Speaker 2: A lot of folks will just try to stay on
- 35:17Speaker 2: and even night shift and not do nights one day
- 35:20Speaker 2: and wake up and do days the next. But for
- 35:22Speaker 2: the sake of saying if you're on day shift, the
- 35:25Speaker 2: best way to reset your circadian rhythm is to get
- 35:28Speaker 2: up every morning and go look at the sunrise, watch
- 35:32Speaker 2: the light start to lift where the darkness becomes light.
- 35:35Speaker 2: I'm not saying look at the sun, but watch the
- 35:37Speaker 2: sunlight the light of the day. Do that for about
- 35:41Speaker 2: four to five days, and that should really help to reset.
- 35:43Speaker 2: But from there, you know, find what days you feel
- 35:47Speaker 2: your best. If you're a morning person and like to
- 35:50Speaker 2: go for a walk, then get up a little early,
- 35:52Speaker 2: get your walk in, get your fuel, get your protein drink.
- 35:56Speaker 2: Take the protein drink, drink it on your walk. If
- 35:58Speaker 2: you're working out in the morning and you have I
- 36:00Speaker 2: have your workout and have your protein drink when you're done.
- 36:03Speaker 2: Maybe you prefer to walk and work out at night.
- 36:06Speaker 2: It's really up to you. But you've got to find
- 36:09Speaker 2: ways to move, rest, nurture and be active, you know,
- 36:15Speaker 2: and you've got to fit it all in. And a
- 36:17Speaker 2: lot of these things don't take a whole lot of
- 36:19Speaker 2: time either, you know, if you just carve out ten
- 36:23Speaker 2: to fifteen minutes first and make that the time that
- 36:26Speaker 2: you go do some mindset meditation, walk around your property,
- 36:30Speaker 2: go sit somewhere in a quiet room, do some aromatherapy,
- 36:34Speaker 2: and then you take another fifteen minutes. And here's the
- 36:37Speaker 2: thing with exercise. I know some people really hate it.
- 36:40Speaker 2: I have found that it's my best recess ever. And
- 36:43Speaker 2: I don't get my workout in. I get a little crispy.
- 36:48Speaker 2: Make it fun for you. You know, maybe you don't
- 36:50Speaker 2: like to run, but maybe you like to sit on
- 36:53Speaker 2: one of those exercise balls. You can sit on an
- 36:56Speaker 2: exercise ball and literally do curls, abdominal extra sizes. You
- 37:00Speaker 2: can put two free weights in your hand, you can
- 37:02Speaker 2: do free weights, you can do leg lifts, and you
- 37:05Speaker 2: can have fun doing it on an exercise ball. And
- 37:08Speaker 2: everybody I know has YouTube, and I can't tell you
- 37:11Speaker 2: one over the other. But if you google YouTube and
- 37:14Speaker 2: put on exercise videos, pilates videos, stretch videos. You can
- 37:18Speaker 2: even put in chair aerobics. You can do a cardiovascular
- 37:23Speaker 2: workout sitting down, so there's not anybody regardless of your
- 37:27Speaker 2: fitness level, it can't do something physical. And if you
- 37:31Speaker 2: do something physical each and every day without medication, you
- 37:37Speaker 2: are going to release some adorphins that are going to
- 37:40Speaker 2: improve your mood. It may not change your circumstances. But
- 37:44Speaker 2: we need to give your brain and your body the
- 37:47Speaker 2: best chance of success to feel good and create this neuromodulation. Now,
- 37:54Speaker 2: what is neuromodulation because I wanted to throw that word
- 37:56Speaker 2: out at you. It is the optimization of your brain
- 38:00Speaker 2: independently doing the best job it can for itself. It's
- 38:04Speaker 2: just like if you take your car in for a
- 38:06Speaker 2: tune up, or you go and you get your gas,
- 38:09Speaker 2: or you get your oil changed. When you get the car,
- 38:11Speaker 2: doesn't it feel like your car is a little perk here?
- 38:14Speaker 2: Who knows what they do to my vehicle when I
- 38:16Speaker 2: go in for a tune up. But when I pick
- 38:18Speaker 2: it up, I feel like, oh, it must be running better,
- 38:21Speaker 2: and I feel like it drives a little faster. I
- 38:24Speaker 2: feel like I'm saving a little gas. Now, that may
- 38:27Speaker 2: be real, and that may be just in my head,
- 38:29Speaker 2: but when you do it to your body, you're going
- 38:32Speaker 2: to feel a whole lot better. And you know, we
- 38:35Speaker 2: talk about a lot of different things. I'm trying to
- 38:38Speaker 2: see if there's anything else that. Oh, I wanted to
- 38:41Speaker 2: give you this quote from Freud. Sigmund Freud, what is
- 38:45Speaker 2: good mental health? Mental wellness? It's when you have love
- 38:50Speaker 2: and work, and you love what you do in all
- 38:54Speaker 2: aspects of your life. So if you love what you do,
- 38:58Speaker 2: love being with friends, love being with family, love doing
- 39:01Speaker 2: what you do, and you get paid for it, then
- 39:04Speaker 2: you have the best balance in your life. But if
- 39:06Speaker 2: you don't love what you're creating, you're doing, you're going
- 39:10Speaker 2: to have some negative emotions and negative mindset because you're
- 39:13Speaker 2: in that resentment phase. And so we really don't want that.
- 39:18Speaker 2: But in any case, I wanted to share that, and
- 39:21Speaker 2: I also wanted to share, Oh, I want to make
- 39:23Speaker 2: sure I answer all the questions. Yes, so times a day.
- 39:28Speaker 2: We kind of touched on Really, you got to do
- 39:31Speaker 2: what's best for you because, like I said, some people
- 39:33Speaker 2: work nights, but definitely commit to movement every day and
- 39:37Speaker 2: at least start out three times a week. Start out
- 39:39Speaker 2: fueling your body, start out putting good things in. It's
- 39:42Speaker 2: just like your car. How many of you would cut
- 39:45Speaker 2: yourself short and put water in your gas tank. You know,
- 39:49Speaker 2: you're low on cash and you just want to get
- 39:50Speaker 2: that car to run, and you just you're just going
- 39:52Speaker 2: to put water in the gas tank. Will that work? Now?
- 39:55Speaker 2: So then don't put crap in your body. You know,
- 39:58Speaker 2: It's okay to have a little you know, mac and
- 40:01Speaker 2: cheese every now and then. It's okay to have a
- 40:02Speaker 2: little bread every now and then. But if you're not
- 40:05Speaker 2: fueling your body, it is going to show how you feel,
- 40:09Speaker 2: how you move, and in your sleep. Okay. The last
- 40:13Speaker 2: thing I wanted to share with you guys today, This
- 40:16Speaker 2: was a book that we had to read for our
- 40:18Speaker 2: conference this week. And outside of my books which I
- 40:22Speaker 2: think will help you, this is the book from Angela Duckworth.
- 40:24Speaker 2: It's called Grit, The Power of Passion and Perseverance, and
- 40:29Speaker 2: really the word is something that I think you all
- 40:32Speaker 2: need to attain. You got to get some grit in
- 40:35Speaker 2: your life. Nothing you do comes easy, and if it does,
- 40:39Speaker 2: you're blessed. Most of us have to work at things.
- 40:42Speaker 2: And if you are not feeling your best and feeling
- 40:45Speaker 2: that you are where you want to be, your body
- 40:50Speaker 2: is not where it wants to be, your mindset is
- 40:53Speaker 2: not where it wants to be, then you need to
- 40:55Speaker 2: get a little blood, sweat and tears, get some grit
- 40:59Speaker 2: and work through what you want. But put some energy
- 41:05Speaker 2: and focus into what you're doing. If you want to
- 41:08Speaker 2: lose ten pounds, do you think you're going to get
- 41:10Speaker 2: there by sitting there reading a book. Now, get a
- 41:13Speaker 2: walk pad and read your book while you're on the walkpad.
- 41:17Speaker 2: If you like to read, or get audible and listen
- 41:21Speaker 2: to a book while you're walking or are on an elliptical. Okay,
- 41:27Speaker 2: any goals you set, you have to put a little
- 41:29Speaker 2: grit into it. And I had read this book years ago,
- 41:33Speaker 2: But the whole idea behind it is to really just
- 41:36Speaker 2: question yourself and challenge yourself with some of the things
- 41:40Speaker 2: that you really want to do. You're not going to
- 41:43Speaker 2: get there without without a little effort, blood, sweat and
- 41:45Speaker 2: tears and work and if it's really worth doing. Her
- 41:49Speaker 2: little buzzword is how gritty are you? And when you
- 41:52Speaker 2: talk about things, especially in life and in leadership and
- 41:56Speaker 2: driving yourself with goals, like you know, new ideas and
- 41:59Speaker 2: projects sometimes distract me. Setbacks don't discourage me. I don't
- 42:03Speaker 2: give up easily. I often set a goal, but I
- 42:06Speaker 2: later choose to pursue a different one. I'm a hard worker.
- 42:09Speaker 2: I finish what I begin. My interests change from year
- 42:12Speaker 2: to year. I'm diligent. I never give up. I've been
- 42:15Speaker 2: obsessed with a certain idea for a short time, but
- 42:18Speaker 2: I've lost interest. I have to overcome setbacks to conquer
- 42:21Speaker 2: a challenge, and so on the scale from one to five.
- 42:26Speaker 2: If it's not at all like you or very much
- 42:28Speaker 2: like you, it tells you how gritty you are. So
- 42:31Speaker 2: for today, what I want you all to know is
- 42:35Speaker 2: medications are only meant to be a lift, a source
- 42:41Speaker 2: to help you get the behavioral changes that you need.
- 42:45Speaker 2: We really don't want to have you on them forever.
- 42:48Speaker 2: And if you're on them and you're not feeling and
- 42:51Speaker 2: doing your best, you've got to start working on you
- 42:55Speaker 2: fuel your body, work on decreasing your inflammation, and focus
- 43:02Speaker 2: on ways to improve your mood. And then if sleep
- 43:06Speaker 2: is still something you're struggling with, it should improve as
- 43:09Speaker 2: you fuel your body and you get more activity and
- 43:11Speaker 2: you focus on priorities of things that you like. But
- 43:14Speaker 2: overworking and over booking are not ways to find a
- 43:19Speaker 2: pill to solve the problem. Oh and I do let
- 43:23Speaker 2: me add this. Thanks so much for putting that in there.
- 43:25Speaker 2: But it's true. Having grit means possessing a combination of
- 43:29Speaker 2: passion and perseverance for achieving your long term goals, even
- 43:33Speaker 2: when facing adversity, your setbacks and it does. It involves stamina,
- 43:37Speaker 2: consistent effort in a chosen direction, and it's a steadfast
- 43:41Speaker 2: commitment to your ultimate concern that organizes and gives meaning
- 43:46Speaker 2: to your actions over extended period such as years or
- 43:50Speaker 2: even over a lifetime. And that's where we are, folks.
- 43:53Speaker 2: We're on a journey. Our journey is to optimize ourselves
- 43:57Speaker 2: and hear, the things that we talk about on Wellness
- 43:59Speaker 2: and Sense sort are to try to bring some optimism,
- 44:03Speaker 2: some relatability, some real down to earth tips and tools.
- 44:09Speaker 2: Nothing that's out there is going to be so hard
- 44:12Speaker 2: and so difficult. Get some energy patches. These x forty
- 44:16Speaker 2: nine and X thirty nine. These were one of the
- 44:18Speaker 2: tools that I used when I was recovering from COVID.
- 44:22Speaker 2: I've talked about all kinds of supplements and things like
- 44:25Speaker 2: ned and ANAC. But pop on to the QRS code.
- 44:30Speaker 2: That's a quick way to get my link to my website.
- 44:34Speaker 2: And also if you're interested in the information we talked
- 44:36Speaker 2: about today. But I really appreciate you taking the time
- 44:40Speaker 2: to listen in. You know, when we talk about things
- 44:43Speaker 2: to optimize, these are things you can do with yourself,
- 44:47Speaker 2: by yourself, for yourself. But if you want to grow.
- 44:52Speaker 2: It's never a bad idea to reach out to someone
- 44:54Speaker 2: who wants to help you holistically mind, body, spirit. We
- 44:58Speaker 2: do that at Magnoia Behavior Real Wellness and help you
- 45:01Speaker 2: all do that throughout the country if you need recommendations
- 45:04Speaker 2: or suggestions of where to go in your area, but
- 45:07Speaker 2: get a good coach, get a good therapist, get a
- 45:10Speaker 2: good provider, somebody that's going to be open to help
- 45:14Speaker 2: you on your journey and to not keep you locked
- 45:17Speaker 2: on medications forever. And look into TMS. If you have
- 45:21Speaker 2: questions about that, feel free to reach out. I can
- 45:23Speaker 2: also direct you around the country as well to get
- 45:26Speaker 2: more information. But I want to see you all be
- 45:30Speaker 2: your best self. That's through optimization of mind, body and spirit,
- 45:34Speaker 2: through great nutrition, great sleep, great activity or exercise, and
- 45:39Speaker 2: hopefully a little bit of what we shared today is
- 45:42Speaker 2: something that's going to help all of you. I did
- 45:44Speaker 2: want to give a shout out again. We are part
- 45:46Speaker 2: of the movement to recognize, remember, and grow Charlie Kirk's
- 45:52Speaker 2: mission at Turning Point. So thanks to everybody who's tuned in.
- 45:56Speaker 2: We will have some riveting guests in the coming weeks,
- 45:59Speaker 2: and if you have questions, don't hesitate to reach out
- 46:01Speaker 2: to nine oh four three seven seven. I hope you
- 46:05Speaker 2: guys have a wonderful weekend and look forward to seeing
- 46:08Speaker 2: you again soon At Wellness Uncensored the shows that we have.
- 46:12Speaker 2: If you missed it today, you can always pick it
- 46:13Speaker 2: up on iHeartRadio under Wellness Uncensored with Patty G. Have
- 46:17Speaker 2: a great rest of your week. You guys be blessed
- 46:20Speaker 2: and we'll see you next Thursday. Take care,