160 - Resentment, Choice, and What You Actually Want

You Are Your Greatest Gift · Sep 8, 2026 · 6m

“Using the words ‘I can't’ felt really shitty.”

Carmen finds a 28-day healing course in South America and immediately thinks: I can't do that.

But when she notices the resentment and disappointment underneath those words, she asks a different question: If I could, would I actually want to?

🪶 Noticing what “I can't” creates inside you

🪶 Separating your circumstances from what you actually want

🪶 Using a better question to uncover what's true

🪶 Moving from resentment into choice

🪶 Letting something be a hell yes—and still not be right for right now

Thank you for being here. And remembering that…