Latest / The Baller Alert Show / Episode 50"The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Prod: iHandlebars
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- 0:02Speaker 1: The tree is real. It's about to go down. Wa
- 0:10Speaker 1: wake up, wake up and turn it down. You know,
- 0:15Speaker 1: if you're gonna shoot, you better shoot straight because also,
- 0:17Speaker 1: who did I don't lose the worst thing you can
- 0:19Speaker 1: deal with tracts. Welcome to the Follower Alert Show featuring
- 0:21Speaker 1: your lifestyle specialists. He Burns Solo and Ferrari Simmons. That
- 0:27Speaker 1: the tree is really like Kenny Burns Simmons, the Queen
- 0:34Speaker 1: of Brunch Solo year old, fifty years old, Happy birthday,
- 0:42Speaker 1: and then Queen of Birch brought us some practice brunch.
- 0:45Speaker 1: I'm excited. It's lunch. It's it's an amazing surprise. I
- 0:49Speaker 1: think you guys are gonna love it. I just wanted
- 0:52Speaker 1: to break bread, you know, literally literally time for you,
- 0:56Speaker 1: Mary J Bob, like it just bang, Mary J Bob.
- 1:02Speaker 1: He called my bank something earlier. She s. I looked
- 1:05Speaker 1: behind my car card this morning. I was like, who
- 1:07Speaker 1: is that with the black hair? You'd be switching up
- 1:09Speaker 1: that head, like shout out to my girl, Joe, Joe.
- 1:14Speaker 1: How was your weekend party? People? It was a lot
- 1:17Speaker 1: of partying with the meges and concert. Officially, yeah, they
- 1:23Speaker 1: ended the tour in Atlanta that was really fun. I
- 1:25Speaker 1: went Friday and Saturday in the um. Energy was crazy.
- 1:30Speaker 1: The whole city was crazy this this weekend. Parties were
- 1:33Speaker 1: going on like everywhere and on top. Yeah was on
- 1:37Speaker 1: stage last night. Yeah, I walked on stage with snow Man.
- 1:39Speaker 1: They put it on the screen, Sees put it on
- 1:41Speaker 1: the screen, Caesar. I walked on stage, super lit crazy.
- 1:45Speaker 1: It was crazy at the back stage with the Snowman.
- 1:48Speaker 1: That's he's one of the specially as he should have
- 1:51Speaker 1: been like I feel like people Jesus. Yeah. I left
- 1:55Speaker 1: by the time Jeezy and Future got over. Yeah, I saw.
- 1:59Speaker 1: I happened. My youngest with me. They had not it
- 2:04Speaker 1: was trust me, I would have stayed. I mean we
- 2:06Speaker 1: had started in our seats because I wanted to see
- 2:08Speaker 1: because you know, the stage actually had the girls swimming
- 2:10Speaker 1: and the whole thing in the stay, so you couldn't
- 2:13Speaker 1: see that from the floor. So we actually sat in
- 2:14Speaker 1: the seat so you could looking. And we went down
- 2:16Speaker 1: the floor and then little baby came out and my
- 2:18Speaker 1: youngest was like, I'm good, I'm good. Anyway, I'm talking
- 2:22Speaker 1: about my you know, Kyle has already turned. But Kenny
- 2:25Speaker 1: was just like I was like, yes, he didn't want
- 2:28Speaker 1: to go any time. Absolutely Jill super basketball mode. He
- 2:34Speaker 1: was something about hey that that yes, yes, but big
- 2:43Speaker 1: shout that everybody there. I you know, it's so crazy.
- 2:45Speaker 1: I literally didn't do none of the backstage, like walking
- 2:48Speaker 1: in the back parking. I went through the whole joint
- 2:51Speaker 1: and the and the love I was getting and for
- 2:54Speaker 1: my kids to see that, like, you know, my youngest
- 2:56Speaker 1: is old older now you tell so it's not like
- 2:59Speaker 1: you know what I mean, But it was like walking
- 3:00Speaker 1: through high five and shaking hands, taking pictures, you know,
- 3:03Speaker 1: just love man, so big shot everybody that was in
- 3:06Speaker 1: the building, and it seemed like they say the best
- 3:08Speaker 1: for last, because I mean literally, toy want Savage came
- 3:11Speaker 1: out with me. You had y'all come out with me, goes,
- 3:14Speaker 1: you had Trey Song. Like with Trey Song, I was like,
- 3:16Speaker 1: oh yeah, oh we got yes, come on, we got
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- 3:53Speaker 1: right we just tied in the truck. We all side
- 3:56Speaker 1: of the picture, the picture that's behind us in the
- 4:00Speaker 1: you know what I mean, that's the truck. So if
- 4:01Speaker 1: you see it, pull up, go ahead, paint. Well We're
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- 5:07Speaker 1: we will see strong black sister, y'all love, give it
- 5:11Speaker 1: up up, Planky, give it up for Panky. Gonna get
- 5:15Speaker 1: some hugs. And now it's time for In case you
- 5:19Speaker 1: missed it, we're gonna get into this slutty vegan smell
- 5:26Speaker 1: like Jesus made it, Ladies and gentlemen. In case you
- 5:30Speaker 1: missed it, Kanye West donates a hundred and fifty thousand
- 5:34Speaker 1: dollars to the slain security guard Jamil Roses family. Um.
- 5:41Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all. You know, is it is? It?
- 5:43Speaker 1: Is it? Well? First of all, amazing gesture. Amazing gesture. Uh,
- 5:49Speaker 1: that's an amazing thing that you're doing for the family,
- 5:51Speaker 1: Kanye West. Um, but let me add this to then
- 5:54Speaker 1: for real in case you missed it, for real Goals
- 5:58Speaker 1: says people in the industry need to stand buy Kanye West,
- 6:01Speaker 1: even with his supporter of Trump. So I want to
- 6:04Speaker 1: kind of put those together just to make it make sense.
- 6:07Speaker 1: You gotta outstanding fearless leader in the community, like for
- 6:11Speaker 1: Royal Williams coming out publicly and saying we need to
- 6:13Speaker 1: support Kanye has been doing several things. Actually since you know,
- 6:17Speaker 1: his Donald Trump. What do you say? Yes, I'll just
- 6:27Speaker 1: just set it up. I'm just framing it since he's announced.
- 6:31Speaker 1: I'm sorry he didn't even announce Trump. Actually, he just
- 6:33Speaker 1: said he's not in a sunken place anymore. He's getting
- 6:35Speaker 1: back to music whatever he said. But he's done a
- 6:37Speaker 1: few things that kind of like whatever do you buy it?
- 6:40Speaker 1: Are you down with? Um? I mean, if you're friends
- 6:45Speaker 1: with I believe, if you're friends with Kanye, you stand
- 6:48Speaker 1: by your friend. You know, I go friends with Kanye,
- 6:51Speaker 1: so make sure to say that we know what justice
- 6:55Speaker 1: sits sue solo. Um. I do think it's important to
- 6:59Speaker 1: support your friends, but I also think it's important to
- 7:01Speaker 1: be very real and make sure that even if you
- 7:04Speaker 1: are supporting them, like publicly behind closed doors, like you're
- 7:08Speaker 1: having real conversations with them and saying, you know, I
- 7:10Speaker 1: really don't agree with this, but you're my friend, so
- 7:12Speaker 1: I had your back. You know, if you're not making
- 7:15Speaker 1: someone aware of what they're doing, then you are an enabler. Okay, yeah, no,
- 7:21Speaker 1: I agree? I agree? Um? Is it too late? As
- 7:25Speaker 1: the question ball the nation? Also, y'all and more positive? Okay,
- 7:30Speaker 1: all right, that's a question. Um, Barack Obama surprises his
- 7:34Speaker 1: beautiful wife Michelle Obama. He surprised us, You're right, no,
- 7:38Speaker 1: but it was just beautiful. Came on stage and d
- 7:39Speaker 1: C bought us some roses put on the screen. I mean,
- 7:42Speaker 1: it's just it's an example of what love can the example.
- 7:46Speaker 1: It is the example example. Yeah, no, and it's it's amazing.
- 7:50Speaker 1: And you know what's so funny about that, y'all? I was, um.
- 7:53Speaker 1: I went to a concert last night. Ronaldo's fiancee. Right,
- 7:57Speaker 1: they just had a baby with parents, and she was
- 8:00Speaker 1: saying from the birthday dinner, she was thoroughly impressed by
- 8:04Speaker 1: you know, in dinner in general, coffee table, et cetera.
- 8:06Speaker 1: But she said she was most impressed with the relationships
- 8:09Speaker 1: or how many black couples there were at the dinner.
- 8:13Speaker 1: And then she was like hearing the testimonies, you know,
- 8:15Speaker 1: because we went around the room and everybody, you know,
- 8:17Speaker 1: I was giving everybody their due and we're talking about
- 8:20Speaker 1: how long people. I said, how long you've been married? Years?
- 8:25Speaker 1: And it was so big. Shout to the rock and Michelle,
- 8:30Speaker 1: beacons of love, beacons of light, beacons of family structure
- 8:34Speaker 1: and working to make it. I got something to say
- 8:36Speaker 1: about you couldn't noticed that the good relationships to happy relationships,
- 8:41Speaker 1: they never really because I guess it's not juicy, it's
- 8:44Speaker 1: not drama, it's not issues because if you yeah, they
- 8:49Speaker 1: never but they never highlight because it's it's a lot
- 8:53Speaker 1: of them. Yeah, it's a lot of happy relationships. But
- 8:55Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys remember remember when the
- 8:57Speaker 1: Tip and Tiny had the family hustle was like very nice,
- 9:01Speaker 1: very like urban Huxtable. Right, no, but fuck the ratings,
- 9:07Speaker 1: funk all that ship he listen, hold on and rest
- 9:09Speaker 1: in piece of kim Porter. I just want to say
- 9:11Speaker 1: that I don't want to start or in this or
- 9:12Speaker 1: make this about that because I get emotional. But you
- 9:15Speaker 1: know that's the problem. Fuck people in their opinions and
- 9:20Speaker 1: what they think. If you're in a relationship that's yours.
- 9:22Speaker 1: That's why everybody goes through ship. Everybody in relationship goes
- 9:27Speaker 1: through ship. But once you make a problem, you invite
- 9:30Speaker 1: the bullshit in, you invite the opinions in, and then
- 9:33Speaker 1: this ship, you you know what I mean, might be
- 9:35Speaker 1: slightly thinking and if you get enough for the people side,
- 9:38Speaker 1: and when did you double down on it? And that
- 9:39Speaker 1: affects your versus this is what I'm this is what
- 9:42Speaker 1: I'm signed up for, this is who I'm with, this
- 9:44Speaker 1: one I'm ryan with. This is a moment, this too
- 9:46Speaker 1: shall passed. And I think that's you know, that's what
- 9:48Speaker 1: people get get a twist, how they don't highlight more
- 9:51Speaker 1: of the right and they won't and they won't ever
- 9:54Speaker 1: because it doesn't sell tabloid. I think that shows the
- 9:57Speaker 1: problem in the people, right, the consumer. It's like if
- 10:01Speaker 1: if they're not watching good relationships enough or good content enough,
- 10:05Speaker 1: then the the networks are going to turn you know
- 10:08Speaker 1: what I mean, They're they're gonna they're gonna give you
- 10:09Speaker 1: what you're looking for. So so there's really something wrong
- 10:12Speaker 1: with the consumer. I think that's where it starts. People
- 10:14Speaker 1: gotta look at relationships like church. You know how you
- 10:17Speaker 1: go to church to get the word and that's a
- 10:20Speaker 1: it's a it's a double down on your beliefs. It's
- 10:24Speaker 1: it's reiterating what you already believe. If we would celebrate
- 10:27Speaker 1: relationships like that and put the messages in the positivity,
- 10:31Speaker 1: it could be like religion. It should be religion. Um,
- 10:34Speaker 1: speaking of this bullshit and this celebrity fame. Uh, I
- 10:40Speaker 1: just think celebrity and fame takes you out of here.
- 10:42Speaker 1: And mail B says she thought about committing suicide. Um
- 10:46Speaker 1: and her new book Brutally Honest, and I just think
- 10:48Speaker 1: that this is a it's a pattern, like if you
- 10:50Speaker 1: look at like fame and tragedy go together. Fame and
- 10:55Speaker 1: tragedy go together. And let mean look at Bastion at
- 11:00Speaker 1: the like. They I didn't even I didn't go to
- 11:02Speaker 1: the social death cans. They said he came out playing
- 11:04Speaker 1: the thing he put on his Instagram about the girl.
- 11:06Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I made you, I could,
- 11:07Speaker 1: I bet you made. I can get another. And I'm
- 11:09Speaker 1: thinking to myself, like why would you play that at
- 11:12Speaker 1: State Farm Arena? You know what I'm saying. In front
- 11:14Speaker 1: of the said everybody was kind of stuck. But I'm
- 11:16Speaker 1: thinking about but fame. People are asking why. It's like
- 11:19Speaker 1: fame people got to have it once they get it,
- 11:23Speaker 1: and it's you know, these these these opinions and this love,
- 11:26Speaker 1: this fake love, and it's fake attention because it's all temporary.
- 11:30Speaker 1: It's all temporary. Speaking of temporary, which is not gonna
- 11:33Speaker 1: be temporary for six nine, he just got a conspiracy
- 11:37Speaker 1: charge put on him now mind you you can't shake
- 11:41Speaker 1: I don't know many people to have shaker conspiracy? What what? What? Racketeering?
- 11:47Speaker 1: Soeteering and conspiracy. All they gotta do is prove that
- 11:51Speaker 1: you were involved or that you knew the people involved.
- 11:54Speaker 1: These people don't play fair. The FBI picked him up,
- 11:59Speaker 1: not the police and Homeland Security. Like that's what I'm saying.
- 12:05Speaker 1: He that's all that. I can do what I want
- 12:08Speaker 1: and nobody can do this or that, like there's somebody
- 12:10Speaker 1: that can touch you when there was definitely look at
- 12:14Speaker 1: Bill Cosby, and I keep calling young Octavia Burns justice
- 12:19Speaker 1: because she got the poetic justice braids. Put the Janet
- 12:23Speaker 1: jacks Put the Janet Jackson side by side her first.
- 12:30Speaker 1: She don't want to look at the camera. That's fine,
- 12:33Speaker 1: We're gonna put the side by side, you know. Yeah.
- 12:36Speaker 1: But anyway, so six nine is out of here, y'all um,
- 12:39Speaker 1: And now he's gonna be in jail. I think he's
- 12:40Speaker 1: out of here. Listen, he already was. He was walking
- 12:44Speaker 1: in the line, right, He was all slutty being in toast.
- 12:46Speaker 1: He was already walking in the line right. Because they
- 12:50Speaker 1: got out of there. She told him, you can't talk
- 12:52Speaker 1: about trade Way and all this other ship. So yeah,
- 12:54Speaker 1: you've been kind of bugging out because you went to
- 12:57Speaker 1: complex con. You got that whole little thing. Nothing happened
- 13:00Speaker 1: in you know what I'm saying. Then last week you
- 13:02Speaker 1: denounced your management, your book, and they see all these
- 13:05Speaker 1: things cons exactly actually said he's already been through like
- 13:09Speaker 1: five teams this year. But well he had the manager,
- 13:14Speaker 1: which was the Trade Way. Dude, right, I don't know
- 13:16Speaker 1: his business, but anyway, he got rid of whatever he
- 13:19Speaker 1: was announcing. He said they were stealing from him, um,
- 13:22Speaker 1: which they said, which we reported three point six million,
- 13:26Speaker 1: as he said, but then we also reported that the
- 13:28Speaker 1: book and agent said it was a lie. But dog
- 13:30Speaker 1: ain't no coming back from this one. And then you
- 13:33Speaker 1: in jail. Now you're in jail now. I bet he's
- 13:36Speaker 1: cutting his hair off as we speak. I bet he's
- 13:39Speaker 1: cutting all the rainbow out because you're in jail now.
- 13:42Speaker 1: You got six nine all over your face. You are
- 13:44Speaker 1: professed blood and now what you're about to be in there?
- 13:48Speaker 1: You are four ft nine. You're about to be in
- 13:51Speaker 1: there with real gang banging killers, security and rapists. They're right,
- 13:59Speaker 1: huh like that children children out there. It's not worth it,
- 14:05Speaker 1: not for likes, not for likes, It's not worth it,
- 14:10Speaker 1: and now it's time for baller mail. That's whoa whoa
- 14:14Speaker 1: whoa woh woh woh woh boller mail. Oh. Stop staying
- 14:25Speaker 1: in relationships just because you've been together for a long time.
- 14:30Speaker 1: Have you found yourself in a relationship and realize you've
- 14:34Speaker 1: only stuck around because of how long you've been together.
- 14:38Speaker 1: All relationships are going to have their ups and downs,
- 14:41Speaker 1: but when you seem to have more downs than ups,
- 14:44Speaker 1: than it's time to rethink your current situation. Oftentimes, we
- 14:48Speaker 1: think about the time that's put into the relationship rather
- 14:51Speaker 1: than one's happiness. Regardless of how long you've been in
- 14:56Speaker 1: a relationship, your happiness is your sanity. Staying in a
- 15:00Speaker 1: relationship that brings nothing but anger, frustration, and bitterness, it's
- 15:06Speaker 1: not worth it. Be with someone that wants you to
- 15:11Speaker 1: be happy, someone that would be there for you, and
- 15:15Speaker 1: vice versa someone that would be there for you. Life
- 15:20Speaker 1: is too short to stay in an other happy. Lord,
- 15:24Speaker 1: set your damn wastion s you find happiness within yourself first,
- 15:33Speaker 1: so that you know what's what real love feels like.
- 15:37Speaker 1: Time shouldn't be wasted on someone that you don't want period.
- 15:41Speaker 1: Once you found that love within, then you can accept
- 15:44Speaker 1: what real love, and then you can accept real love
- 15:47Speaker 1: when the approaches. Remember, the longer you wait the harder,
- 15:50Speaker 1: the harder it is to actually move on. The longer
- 15:53Speaker 1: you wait in the relationship, because you get stuck in
- 15:56Speaker 1: your ways, you get used to it, You find reasons
- 16:00Speaker 1: why versus reasons to leave. That happened to me just
- 16:03Speaker 1: like two years ago. Did it. That wasn't a relationship,
- 16:09Speaker 1: that was that was a situation? Was no, No, But
- 16:17Speaker 1: I actually had a boyfriend that was with for like
- 16:19Speaker 1: a year, and I don't even know how we lasted
- 16:21Speaker 1: a year, honestly, Like I knew at like four months
- 16:24Speaker 1: that it wasn't working out. He was really insecure about
- 16:26Speaker 1: like my job, my career. He was insecure by all
- 16:31Speaker 1: of it, like being out. Like one day he was
- 16:33Speaker 1: going through my Instagram. He was like, oh, you drink
- 16:35Speaker 1: out of bottles. I was like, yeah, drink out of bottles.
- 16:41Speaker 1: I was like yeah, And um I found reasons to
- 16:45Speaker 1: be with him, and I was like, oh, this is
- 16:47Speaker 1: a good normal guy. Like he doesn't you know what
- 16:50Speaker 1: I mean, he doesn't do what we do. He's not
- 16:52Speaker 1: out in the streets like and it just didn't work,
- 16:57Speaker 1: and like a six months, I was like, you know,
- 16:58Speaker 1: it's just six months. I was like, let's see, you know,
- 17:01Speaker 1: let's go see what another month to do or eight months,
- 17:03Speaker 1: and I just I literally talked myself into a year relationship.
- 17:07Speaker 1: I don't know how it went on for twelve months. Well,
- 17:11Speaker 1: you know, the wintertime makes people act tight. It was
- 17:16Speaker 1: it was, it was hot. He must have been digging
- 17:19Speaker 1: you down it. I'm sorry, believe oops. That can make
- 17:28Speaker 1: you stay a little while. But I think I think
- 17:31Speaker 1: though real talk, real talk, it's comfortability at a certain point,
- 17:36Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, especially if now we
- 17:39Speaker 1: talked about this last week, if it's if it's volatile
- 17:44Speaker 1: and there's a whole lot of ships round, but if
- 17:47Speaker 1: it's just like they get on my nerves half the
- 17:51Speaker 1: time and the the other halftime they're good, that's a balance,
- 17:58Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. You might want to think about,
- 17:59Speaker 1: because what ain't gonna get on your nerves Every day
- 18:02Speaker 1: you leave a house, you're dealing with a coworker, friends,
- 18:05Speaker 1: stranger at the game, somebody fend to get on your nerves.
- 18:09Speaker 1: But so no you' no, but no, I'm just saying,
- 18:12Speaker 1: don't forget the good sex part with that. But imagine
- 18:16Speaker 1: if it's great sex, that'll stretch your relationship for a
- 18:18Speaker 1: long time, especially if it's continuously. That's a great point
- 18:22Speaker 1: that's happened to me. I don't think that has happened
- 18:25Speaker 1: to me yet where it was because of the sex. Well,
- 18:27Speaker 1: in real in real relationships, I would jump out there
- 18:29Speaker 1: to say that sex doesn't matter as much after it
- 18:34Speaker 1: will it will prolong it just longer than I mean,
- 18:37Speaker 1: you know that Tierra Marie thing, the whole Tierra Marie situation,
- 18:41Speaker 1: Like she was saying that the dick was really good.
- 18:43Speaker 1: She kept saying, oh my god, his dick is so good,
- 18:45Speaker 1: Like I mean, seeing the VIDEOO, I was like before
- 18:54Speaker 1: you you said you've been there, you know. I'm just saying,
- 18:57Speaker 1: like she that's what she said. Judging from that, that
- 19:01Speaker 1: is exactly what she said. She said it on the
- 19:03Speaker 1: on Love and Hip Hop multiple times. The thing is good,
- 19:05Speaker 1: the dick is good. Oh my god, I went back
- 19:06Speaker 1: for the dick. I went to go have sex. I
- 19:07Speaker 1: just want to go talk to him. No, I want
- 19:09Speaker 1: to fuck. It'll do it. That's why I stay with
- 19:13Speaker 1: the Dick was too good to make me feel good
- 19:16Speaker 1: for Temple Rebby Loon, you watch the Temple, Yeah, it'll
- 19:24Speaker 1: definitely do it sometimes. But again, I just I just
- 19:26Speaker 1: dared to say to the people out there in relationships
- 19:28Speaker 1: where it's fifty good fifty bullshit, you might just want
- 19:32Speaker 1: to walk the line and find scary though. Well that's no.
- 19:38Speaker 1: But I will say this, you're just managing your expectations.
- 19:41Speaker 1: If someone fulfills your needs like by eight percent, don't like,
- 19:46Speaker 1: don't try to go catch that somewhere else, because then
- 19:48Speaker 1: you end up risking the eighty That sounds like what
- 19:50Speaker 1: women tell men. I think men, women, you think women
- 19:53Speaker 1: tell me? Now, I mean I'm saying, I think that's
- 19:56Speaker 1: the psyche you want us to believe. I mean that's
- 20:00Speaker 1: I think. Yeah. I mean we've had we've had a
- 20:04Speaker 1: lot of topics back to back that definitely need to
- 20:06Speaker 1: be on that panel. We should do it. But I
- 20:08Speaker 1: just think you're saying though, like as in, I don't
- 20:10Speaker 1: think anybody's going to fulfill your hunt personally, I don't
- 20:13Speaker 1: know if there's one person that if you're not filling
- 20:16Speaker 1: for sure. There are multiple factors to what I'm about
- 20:18Speaker 1: to say, so please don't like you know she Yeah,
- 20:23Speaker 1: I just I don't know if there's ever one person
- 20:25Speaker 1: that's going to fulfill you. Just like going back to
- 20:27Speaker 1: saying like, oh, if that person gets on your nerves
- 20:29Speaker 1: every now and then, like oh if that person uses
- 20:31Speaker 1: too much toilet tissue, like but that's what I'm saying,
- 20:34Speaker 1: getting that, But that's the dumb That's what I mean,
- 20:37Speaker 1: because if you really think about the ship to get
- 20:39Speaker 1: on your nerves, it's ship with you. Yeah, that's exactly,
- 20:44Speaker 1: that's it with you. That's what I'm saying, is like,
- 20:47Speaker 1: you know what, I'm good really because I don't like
- 20:51Speaker 1: it's ship. I could get over if I just peeled
- 20:53Speaker 1: my ship back and be like, you know what, she
- 20:55Speaker 1: just leaves toilet paper like bunched up on the counter.
- 20:59Speaker 1: Or I'm just saying like, no, I feel it, but
- 21:01Speaker 1: that's throwing away hair in the saint it is. But
- 21:06Speaker 1: you up, Just y'all need to grow up to you
- 21:10Speaker 1: just turn the water on and just let me ask
- 21:12Speaker 1: you both this, what's some of the things y'all hate?
- 21:14Speaker 1: Since we're on the subject about just pet peeves stuff
- 21:17Speaker 1: that y'all can't stand. Um, I think men have a
- 21:20Speaker 1: thing about leaving all their fucking shoes at the front door,
- 21:23Speaker 1: she said, So you know that's just so fucking annoying,
- 21:26Speaker 1: Like I'm sure there's a coat closet. Just put the
- 21:30Speaker 1: ship in the coat closet, Like why why do I
- 21:32Speaker 1: got to open the door? And it's like I don't
- 21:33Speaker 1: want to step on stuff when I'm walking. What else
- 21:35Speaker 1: that's really annoying? Um, I hate seeing boxers like turned
- 21:40Speaker 1: inside out, like like like like and it's so patty,
- 21:44Speaker 1: it's so dumb, but I do hate it, Like you
- 21:47Speaker 1: know how like people you like, people even wear boxers anymore,
- 21:51Speaker 1: like draw whatever the hell you whatever it is, box
- 21:54Speaker 1: of breefe, whatever your under garments. But you know how
- 21:57Speaker 1: like when y'all get addressed, you take them off and
- 21:59Speaker 1: like they're just they're on the ground. It looks like
- 22:01Speaker 1: you just like stepped out of them. I don't like
- 22:03Speaker 1: seeing that, and I know it's so childish, but I
- 22:08Speaker 1: really don't know. I literally like kick it over with
- 22:12Speaker 1: told me like I hate when not like that, just
- 22:17Speaker 1: just to turn it over so I don't got to
- 22:19Speaker 1: see the class. It's time to decide what we're gonna eat,
- 22:22Speaker 1: and we don't know what's Hey, bro, I said, you
- 22:25Speaker 1: decide where you want to go? No, where you want
- 22:27Speaker 1: to go? All right, Well, I'll just let you know.
- 22:29Speaker 1: We eat anything. No, no, no, we find food anywhere.
- 22:36Speaker 1: I'm not ring. This is the three. Then when we
- 22:39Speaker 1: get there, I said, hey, you know what I'm saying.
- 22:40Speaker 1: Let's make sure we order by times you get here
- 22:42Speaker 1: because I'm starving because you have me. Wait, we had
- 22:44Speaker 1: to take the side for I'm hungry, huggy. So we
- 22:49Speaker 1: get the babe, look at the menu. Are we sitting
- 22:51Speaker 1: down right? So you can immediately want you to get there?
- 22:56Speaker 1: I know what I want you still over here in
- 22:59Speaker 1: the side, you go first, You go first? Okay, I
- 23:02Speaker 1: have a middle woman that don't act like that man
- 23:04Speaker 1: I want. I have not either. That is so trill like.
- 23:12Speaker 1: Maybe what you want to eat? You know, you're the
- 23:13Speaker 1: picky one. That's what we at, that's what we like.
- 23:16Speaker 1: You don't have a text message from Kenny Burns asking
- 23:20Speaker 1: me what are you feeding us? You know I'm picky.
- 23:24Speaker 1: You know I'm with you. I mean, but I'm just saying,
- 23:27Speaker 1: after that long you just say what it is. But
- 23:28Speaker 1: my point, you right, is right, You're dead right, but
- 23:31Speaker 1: then sometimes you even make a suggestion and they'd be like, well, no,
- 23:33Speaker 1: what about I'm like what, I just asked you what
- 23:36Speaker 1: you wanted to eat? But your suggestion inspired a thought,
- 23:40Speaker 1: that's all. Yeah, that's that's outside of like outside of
- 23:48Speaker 1: women in media that are very prompt. All time is late.
- 23:54Speaker 1: Oh my wife cannot be on time. It's not in
- 23:58Speaker 1: her make. And therefore my youngest child, her twin, is
- 24:02Speaker 1: always And then y'all take these hot showers, like yeah,
- 24:05Speaker 1: I like a hot shower. I'm sorry, I'm not trying
- 24:08Speaker 1: to my skin color like in the in the tub,
- 24:12Speaker 1: in the shower, like I don't agree with that. I
- 24:14Speaker 1: like that. I knowiced some fellas out there like hot shower.
- 24:17Speaker 1: I like you not boiling water, and I know, I
- 24:20Speaker 1: know you guys that can take it. I need to
- 24:23Speaker 1: have it as hot so I can see steam. Come on, jesus, Yeah,
- 24:27Speaker 1: you scrab your but how borders a whole. It's a therapy.
- 24:33Speaker 1: How water is a therapy, So I know I know
- 24:37Speaker 1: what she means. Though I had an ex he would
- 24:39Speaker 1: not take showers with me. Enough's time for coming creeping, creep, creep, creep.
- 24:48Speaker 1: Since it's our fiftieth birthday. I just wanted to share
- 24:52Speaker 1: this post that Will Smith made to his baby mama,
- 24:57Speaker 1: Happy be Day, best hashtag best baby mama ever. I
- 25:02Speaker 1: Love you, reread and Chris Rock responds, Wow, you have
- 25:05Speaker 1: a very understanding wife, which is something we already know.
- 25:08Speaker 1: We have been learning that they are the best co
- 25:11Speaker 1: parents ever in life. I knew you were gonna say it.
- 25:13Speaker 1: That's why I didn't even say because that is the
- 25:15Speaker 1: topic of the day, because Real posted the most beautiful
- 25:18Speaker 1: picture of his baby mama too. I'm talking about she
- 25:21Speaker 1: finding Why are you hear me? If I would have
- 25:23Speaker 1: did some ship like that, Jessice would have shot me
- 25:26Speaker 1: in the back of the head. But but you know what, though,
- 25:31Speaker 1: they do all have a great relationships, the best ever.
- 25:34Speaker 1: But I guarantee what ball the nation got to say
- 25:38Speaker 1: that that and then he said, baby mama, like you
- 25:41Speaker 1: know what I'm big. Will you know what I'm talking about?
- 25:43Speaker 1: You can see what I got over here, You see
- 25:45Speaker 1: what I got over there? And I want to Richard
- 25:47Speaker 1: in the business. But at the at the end of
- 25:49Speaker 1: the day, though, how long have they been doing that?
- 25:53Speaker 1: Very comfortable? Like their kids grown? Yeah, you know what
- 25:56Speaker 1: I'm saying, But they are the way they are because
- 26:00Speaker 1: how they were raised. For the most part, I think
- 26:01Speaker 1: the foundation that it was perfect though in the beginning. No, no,
- 26:07Speaker 1: they say that a very honest about the ending game.
- 26:11Speaker 1: If you were to be in a situation like that,
- 26:13Speaker 1: you ideally want okay, yeah, I want to communicate. I
- 26:17Speaker 1: think the beauty of it though, is like they're so
- 26:19Speaker 1: open about where they are now that for someone like
- 26:21Speaker 1: someone like us, we can take that information and try
- 26:24Speaker 1: to imply that into our lives. Now, they had to
- 26:26Speaker 1: go through it, but at least they're sharing that that
- 26:30Speaker 1: that's great with a boyfriend and everything. Yes, I love it.
- 26:33Speaker 1: That should cool. List I don't know, pressure that's good,
- 26:39Speaker 1: that's that's a beautiful thing. I just think that. And
- 26:42Speaker 1: then that kind of got a hold of it. It
- 26:44Speaker 1: was like she finds a mom. You know, you know
- 26:46Speaker 1: how people girls like she looked good. You gotta be
- 26:49Speaker 1: the wife home, you know all that crazy knocked out,
- 26:56Speaker 1: you know, a candid photo. He caught a good one.
- 26:58Speaker 1: But see that's the thing too. I think that's what it's.
- 27:01Speaker 1: The celebrity thing, this relationship thing don't mix you know
- 27:03Speaker 1: what I'm saying, It just really don't mix it takes
- 27:05Speaker 1: a special person to be able to It takes a
- 27:08Speaker 1: very and I want to say this about Kim Porter
- 27:10Speaker 1: before I get into Confucius says, I had to try
- 27:12Speaker 1: to go to show. I'm not gonna get emotional, but
- 27:14Speaker 1: the fact that she was able to maintain in all
- 27:18Speaker 1: of that chaos, that is Sean Combs. You know, that's
- 27:22Speaker 1: why I upset me with Well, I'm talking about matriarch.
- 27:28Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about style and grace and
- 27:31Speaker 1: and and for a lot of people that didn't know her,
- 27:33Speaker 1: you know, the people who did really appreciate the love
- 27:37Speaker 1: and and you know the point of affection socially, you know.
- 27:41Speaker 1: But what y'all really need to know is that she
- 27:43Speaker 1: really was the glue. She really was the the one
- 27:47Speaker 1: that you know, she would have conversations with all of us, like, man,
- 27:49Speaker 1: don't worry about that. Man, get your money, do what
- 27:51Speaker 1: you came to do. You know your gifts, you know,
- 27:53Speaker 1: you're special, Like she was that person you know what
- 27:55Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Mind you, she ain't on the payroll,
- 27:58Speaker 1: like she's not working for the you know. Mean, so
- 28:00Speaker 1: I just I just want people to know, man, like
- 28:03Speaker 1: you know, this business is unforgiving to relationships and family.
- 28:07Speaker 1: But she was one of the best to do it,
- 28:10Speaker 1: one of the best I've seen do it, you know,
- 28:12Speaker 1: like Will Smith and his co paring the situation with
- 28:15Speaker 1: his his baby mom's and Jay like I just and
- 28:17Speaker 1: I just want to put that out there about her.
- 28:19Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get emotional. It's time for kids, says uh. So,
- 28:27Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Uh There's a lot of energy in
- 28:31Speaker 1: this universe that could be put to better use. And
- 28:35Speaker 1: what I need you to understand ball the nation is
- 28:38Speaker 1: that what is meant for you is for you and
- 28:41Speaker 1: can't nobody but God keep you from it. Now, there's
- 28:44Speaker 1: gonna be some adjustments. There's gonna be a thought you
- 28:47Speaker 1: have in your twenties it ain't the same thought in
- 28:49Speaker 1: your thirties. But if you stick to the process, you
- 28:52Speaker 1: will achieve your goals. And I know there's people around
- 28:57Speaker 1: you that work less than you, don't try as hard
- 29:01Speaker 1: as you, and they seemingly being being blessed, they seemingly
- 29:05Speaker 1: have the gifts that you're thinking for you. And I
- 29:07Speaker 1: also know to that a lot of times that you
- 29:10Speaker 1: are promised things. People tell you they're gonna do something
- 29:13Speaker 1: and do not honor their word. But that can't be you,
- 29:17Speaker 1: polling nation, that can't be you. And you have to
- 29:20Speaker 1: be honest with your process. And I want to say this, pollination,
- 29:24Speaker 1: give freely, give often, and when your day comes, give
- 29:31Speaker 1: them the middle fings. Talk them. That's that's at the time. Okay, hey,
- 29:39Speaker 1: happy birthday. Guys, about to elody being and I'm hungry.
- 29:44Speaker 1: I've been waiting. It's real