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Inspiring Human Potential You Can Love Unconditionally With Your Flaws and Imperfections · Inspiring Human Potential

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coming from. I am expanding Consciousness.
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Podcast please do that before you keep tuning in just so you
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about. And I'm going to keep this one
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short because you got a lot of nice little topics today and
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begin with the thought that was on my mind as I closed out how
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the mature feminine with their own mature masculine.
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So restored embodied, self, individual will always know
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secure attachment within their own body.
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Cause of disability to be your own differentiate itself with
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the ability to be your own agents, which is you actually
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learning and, or just automatically unconditionally
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loving, who you are with your flaws and Imperfections as a
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human being and Claire's are no Claire's.
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This is the part. We are actually aware that when
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we're picking up intuitively, we don't know.
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All the words today, I do know, all the words it's called mine
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site. Mindfulness, integrated brain
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somatic empath, but Really a body.
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That's always in a physiological state of compassion.
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That would be my ventral vagal system, is engaged mile of
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oxytocin G hormone is on because my body is and it's ventral
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vagal system engagement. This is the isness that said
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grew will not explain because he doesn't know about it yet, but
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he does like to share it with the yogic sciences.
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And the psycho Educators, that's why they use yoga.
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They are seeing how it actually gets your vagus nerve to be put
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into practice Sound Works, because it actually allows you
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To do Vegas toning. It's like a muscle.
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So people don't know this because they're doing trending
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topics FYI, but let me continue. So, compassion the brain insula
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lights up my head and my body, some mathematics mind and body
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head body there. One in fact, from mine site,
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it's an embodied brain. It's not separate from the
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nervous system, the column the spinal column is what
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communicates to it. And that's why in Adventure Bay
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go. State of 5dc person in their
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Lightman still age group. You don't know the same cycle.
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We don't know how not to love, we do know what it's like to
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meet twin flame flame so mates over stole the mature feminine
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and see. Here's why we're not under an
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illusion. When we know what we know what
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we don't recognize is that just because we will have felt seen.
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We will have felt as if we are in the presence of soothing.
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Soothing person that can soothe you in.
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Stress. Just because we will have felt
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that there is that safety eventual Bagel.
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So just because we will be in a state of compassion and love.
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And that ability when people talk about Satori the, you know,
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I love when I have, we can't describe it.
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Oh, I'll describe all of it to you.
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I can describe anything. You want to hear because this is
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where the mature feminine has a freaking amazing relationship
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with our entire body, the intro, specters and external.
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This is where we can feel, you know, sometimes I'll notice like
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when the weather gets cold I've realized, it's my actual blood
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vein, the veins of my blood. Like I can, I know this is off
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topic but I recognize this on one of my last trips because my
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legs been feel a certain way and, you know, because of the
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whole panic attacks and they get triggered by odd Sensations,
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that we feel is why we do have like the hypochondria acting.
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I get it, why people will have said things like that.
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Is this the only way to keep so? For those of us who are Masters
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in ourselves, we know what, we'll keep our mind.
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Our masculine our own brain here in check, because if I'm healthy
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and me being aware, so we know the word empathy for what it
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means as well. So here's where there's a
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heightened sensitivity. So, long story short was trying
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to get at is we will know every single one of the things that is
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taking place in our physiology and all I need to do is look at
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cymatics in Informed and my trauma-informed, courses.
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And I actually have a very great way of explaining a lot of
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things to people who are curious.
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But as trying to get to is our nervous systems, they
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communicate to each other. And so do our mirror neurons.
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And for I and we don't mirror though ourselves with others
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because we have an integrated brain.
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So we're not like, oh you and I are one thing.
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Not when we're perceiving the sense of safety of our
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surroundings because we are in the presence of other human
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beings and we Will perceive that they are safe.
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If they're a physical threat will perceive that.
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I know in my past there are moments where and I was not I
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won't share them but where I picked up on that in a very
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specific way I still again remember them.
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In fact one comes to mind specifically it was a very
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luckily for me, short ride, meaning I got in I got out
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because I couldn't get to the destination and The vibe was
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definitely not in any way shape or form a nice Vibe and so I
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jumped out of that car to say the least.
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I was not with my hand on the handle.
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So you know, stuff like that, we're actually very much, not
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judgmental because we know our bodies give us the actual cues.
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And while other people are wanting to stay vigilant, that's
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because they're not mature feminine with their own mature
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masculine. They're not And they did not
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create a relationship where they learn to sew for me since I was
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a child. I learned to Unconditionally
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Love Who I Am with my flaws and Imperfections and I definitely
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have a bunch of my lovely family members who can share with you
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all stories. But the part about when we pick
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up particularly the whole twin flame stuff experience and why
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it's not an illusion, I wanted to specify that for my
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Enlightenment. So a troop mature feminine
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because you're the ones who are in the same boat, Boat.
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And so you will hear things out there that don't resonate and
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match because you know you don't bullshit yourself.
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Okay. So we we actually already know
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everything we need to know about ourselves and that would be that
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it is an illusion. It's just that you are picking
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up on something that is natural, you feel safe with human beings
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and then you're picking up another stuff.
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So it's not because of an illusion as much as it is,
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because The bodies of those of us who are able to be in a state
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of Love or already and always authentic, we trust and we share
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truth and we like to expand and we don't do power and control.
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We don't do where we're going to play any mind games because we
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don't do games. We're actually again very
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sincere and just spell out things the way they come out and
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in time, of course, this is where the part about how you
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learn to manage your own. Own unconditional love.
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I know I learned very well how to allow myself to be in rooms
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with people who hate life and hate humanity and they're in a
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constant state of human suffering.
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It is very quote on quote uncomfortable to say the least.
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When I'm in environments, with loved ones, where I cannot
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express because of the body of us will naturally begin to
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recalibrate. Because again, We will pick up
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on each other and amateur feminine.
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Doesn't need to be in their business all the time.
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So our body just naturally moves into whatever is of the, it's
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actually something co-regulation is what it's called.
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So the part that we're a differentiated self is why we're
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not mirroring anyone. So if somebody's being
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biologically, rude to me, I will pick up on that and here's where
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the somatics and trauma-informed.
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Ian allows me to now, know what I experienced with my attached
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meant attached cry for. Help my one friend.
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When, whenever they're in their mode, I will feel their actual
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nervous systems agitation when I've been with people around
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them or they've interacted with me and they're in and out
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Behavior gaslighting manipulating ghosting doing
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things that are inconsistent there's an energy always been an
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energy behind it and that's where there's please appease in.
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There's collapse, submit and attach cry.
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Those are three new safety behaviors, besides a fight
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flight, freeze, Bond, freeze, pause, flop, drop.
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And so here's where they're not in a state of love.
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In fact, they're not in a state of he's there in either a
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dysregulated or modulated and body itself.
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They're not aware of it. They're using their charge
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States, they're in defense mode. And so, this is where we will
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not have again been in an illusion of any sort with our
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oversoul. So, it will simply be that those
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who are able to sit in a space of, I'm okay with being
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imperfect from our nervous system because we're a
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differentiated self. That's why we will quote on
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quote, trigger people's charge States, because they're all
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insecure because they're all storing those moments were as
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infants and children. We all have the one attached
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panicky, the 37, shame, submissive the collapse or
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shame. Mr. Excuse me than the freeze of
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all ages. The 11-12 flight and the 14, 15,
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16 fight. So here's where you only hurt
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the ones. You love one of my favorite
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songs, as a teenager where the way I was able to make sense of
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that when I was like, you know it's really true if I think
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about how people, you know, loved ones when were nagging at
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each other, right? So as a kid you're growing up,
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you're like, why do we have these arguments?
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Why are we assuming things? Well, Because it doesn't feel
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freeing. So by your adolescence is where
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you look to your peers to create secure attachment.
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And I was learning this from mine site and I was like wow you
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know, that's fascinating because if I have to pick of course
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they're people. I know they unconditionally
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loved me, but when it comes to what their nervous system
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speaks, it's completely in a different spot to the point of
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where in fact there's more Times that I just refrain from
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sharing. What unconditional love, I have
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for Humanity because they don't love Humanity or life.
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There, they got some shit to say about it.
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And so here's where the contraction, in fact, takes
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place on my end. It's not about security though
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or not? Because of course, I'm safe.
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But I'm not seeing not soothed. If you will and safe.
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Art, of course, this is where actually that's all about
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authenticity. So as long as people are able
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and this is what I love about spits, bats, with family, the
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whole, you know, fuck you, fuck you.
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It's an actual deal for those of us who unkind.
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She loved each other as apples and oranges.
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So we can present our personalities to each other and
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that's why it's not hurtful so that you only hurt the ones you
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love the way that was real aberrated for me was actually,
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you know, it kind of makes sense because you get to learn how to
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be a grown up with other people because to me, family gets You
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do know, you know, life is a billion, people cultures, all
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this stuff, so who better to share and support with you, how
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to become that grown up and so the twin flame stuff that would
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be equal the same thing. But this does not actually, how
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can I say? This isn't something that we
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actually use to say, oh great job because the reality is, it's
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not a great job if you're going to get rigid, and then chaotic
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reactive with your own charge States because you don't know
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how to be Your authentic version because you don't actually
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understand that. A mind that is rigid is an
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adoptive child and that's because these are all new piece
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of information and prior to that apparently is okay too, it
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wasn't about it being. Okay, wasn't known that, that
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reactiveness is a self-preservation mode.
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The weights, explain now. So people have stereotypes and
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they have a lot of other things like songs.
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And in fact, the whole part about how they think love is
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ubiquitous not mad. You know, Stephen porges who
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explains. And with his wife, they wanted
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to write a book about love because you can only be in love
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if you're in your ventral Bagels because otherwise, your love
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oxytocin's, you hormone is Off Your Love.
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Circuitry won't be on when people have co-dependent
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relationships or types that are all in that, that's not actual,
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it's obviously a feeling. We don't want to say, it's not
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love. And actually all humanity is
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love when it comes to The feeling for those of us who are
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here in the enlightenment. So a drupe.
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But when we want to break it down to how your body can
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experience this actual word, there is a way that the lovely
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scientific community and people had, but that's so cold.
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It's actually not when you recognize what it means for your
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body to be in a ventral Vago State and in a state of
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compassion, it's only once you know what it's like to be at
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least in a little portion restored, embodied self.
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That's the Satori moment for those people who talk about this
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twin flame experience. It will be the moment where you
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will have felt safe to the seen so much that you're like,
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looking at this beautiful beautiful.
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Nobody will ever hurt me kind of thing.
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So, that's the part where it really feels that way because
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there's this, you, you don't have to speak.
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There's a there's a deep knowing from the mind and heart and
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body. And so it's not an illusion as
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much as it is the inability for eventually the individuals who
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would be called the masculine. But really the immature feminine
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as they do their little bit as well.
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But those people they're not in the indictments will age group
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so let me leave them to their relationship.
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Coaches who got them to, you know, basically Chase each other
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down and the reality is they're going to work through.
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Through their own protector lenses.
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So some people they actually are looking to belong, that's their
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drive and to have certainty, that's their drive.
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So drive is actually also physiological and that's where
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everyone's going to naturally follow what they feel at ease
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with, for the enlightenment. So a true pitcher feminine.
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We feel at ease with unconditionally loving with
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flaws and Imperfections. So when we realized that it is
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not safe or you know, Can a place of?
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Yeah. Be who you are apples?
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Oranges, fuck you. Fuck you kind of thing.
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We're kind of like, okay? Then very fascinating indeed but
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we know if you all do have Claire's.
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And so, if you're a mature feminine, you will already know
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what I'm sharing with you, which is no person chooses to have
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dysregulated or modulated embodied self.
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So nobody chooses to be disconnected from.
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From their head and their body has one and so nobody chooses to
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feel unsafe because the reality is every person who's not able
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to be a grown-up and their conversations didn't actually
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learn secure attachment and as peers, once your teenager, this
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is where you started to put into practice your own free will.
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So I gave you an example of my teenage years.
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The way I experienced, what I thought and here's where It's
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how we make up our stories that lead us to become more
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integrated brains, which is where the mature feminine is at.
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And this is why we used our own masculine.
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So here's where we won't be like oh our masculine is outside of
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us will understand that energetically speaking.
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And in our own mind we are masculine and feminine and you
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better bet that no mature feminine who's also mature.
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Masculine is actually looking to people who are immature as
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social anything. If you're immature, it means you
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don't know maturity yet and it will be reflected in the way you
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handle or better. Said, not handle your own
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emotional responses with another human being and so teenagers are
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teenagers and they will create their stories.
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The ones of us who created a very specific story of well
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people that you love will help you to learn how to live in the
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world. Here's where, who better than
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your own loved ones are oversold?
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And hope here's where the 5dc person is at, which is why we
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don't have crap to say about this whole to inflame, except
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for, it's become a trending topic might as well put him with
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the again relationship, coaches, and the mental health
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professionals, who share what it means to have healthy minds and
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healthy relationships. And it's not gender specific.
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It's actually a person who again, is able to stay flexible.
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Adaptive, clear? Energized and stable.
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And so as you experience your own channel, guidance telepathy,
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those of you who do have a twin flame, you're not destabilized
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by it, you know what's happening because you know your body and
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you won't be expecting them to do anything for you or not
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because you share with people about your life experience.
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Then they show you what they want to do with it or not.
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And from that we move into recalibrating again, and again
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again. So, there is not a chaser Runner
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Dynamic going on. There is a adult adult.
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If you're adults, if your teenagers again teenagers,
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there's plenty that I know that are actually a lot more mature
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because they're updated with information.
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So they will know what codependency means and they will
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be seeking up to be in co-dependent relationships.
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They may not use the words effectively yet but they still
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learn how to To be okay with variety.
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Now, while some people are very concerned with individuals being
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confused. This is because they're confused
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because they're defining love and relationships on body based
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stuff versus understanding that. Again, your body can only feel.
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Loved if you learn how to be in a state of restored, embodied
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self, which means learning how to be in a mindfulness brain.
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Learning how to be at ease in this thing and that's where when
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someone has level of trauma memory.
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So their enlarged amygdala shrunken, hippocampus trunk and
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prefrontal cortex. A dysregulated embodied
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individual. And I know that it might not be
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that equation, but I'm equating them, because there's a journey
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for somebody who has that level of trauma before they can even
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be in. In modulated, so it's only once
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to get to modulated, they're sympathetic, they get the fight
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for themselves and they have some chance of moving out of
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their pattern. And here's where all of that is
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not love for those people. They are though in the idea that
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love May mean things and they treat each other in certain ways
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that are not loving or kind. Versus the ones of us who
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actually can. So when we see biological
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rudeness, we don't engage in it and vilify it or cues it.
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We recognize enlarged. Amygdala means you're going to
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be super reactive shrunken. Hippocampus, fragmented, memory,
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furthermore, shrunken. Prefrontal cortex.
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You're not going to be using your thinking cap.
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You're going to be using your over generalized statements and
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your teenage story, and that's where it stands.
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And Again, this twin flame thing for those who are using it now,
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it's because that leads people to do a very specific type of
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personal development Journey, because if you didn't know
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people seek their own family of origin, patterns in their
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partners, and they are mirroring each other for those who are not
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again, mature feminine. And or in there like mental age
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group, mature, masculine plants. They get to their like mental
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age group, I'll no longer be mirroring and you might ask.
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Why the difference? Well, the mature feminine again,
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has a relationship with their physical Sensations, and they do
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not trust anyone, outside of their body, doesn't matter what
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the mind says. You better bet that the mind is
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not in the lead because the body is literally pulling that
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person. It's a very cute game.
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If you will like never forget and still to this day my body
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will pull me and tell me and I hear her.
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It's her eye. There that is that my pronouns
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your. So yeah, you better bet and that
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pool is at the heart and so when were met with what we thought
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could be a safe space. The heart definitely will note
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in the mind and the body. We are able to allow ourselves
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to bring what we're always in. I'm kind of show love with flaws
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and Imperfections in the Forefront.
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We don't make accusations even though obviously, we'll all have
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Emotions. So we can be just as angry as
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anybody else, but you know, how to have productive conversations
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in our brain because we don't do the inner critic, outer critic,
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and we don't deny our emotions. We don't blame people either for
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them and we don't withdraw, we were very much aware of if we
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need to recalibrate so much that we will ask under make very well
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aware when we are not very well in the sense that we're going
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through something very important.
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To those people that we would expect kids to support.
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And then this is the part though that doesn't always work out,
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right? Because you can only support
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someone if you're safe in your own body, if you are soothed in
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your own body, if you are secure in your own body, if you are
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seeing in your own body and this is where the mature masculine
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actually does not necessarily have that let alone, the
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immature masculine, let alone, the immature feminine, they
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don't actually present Unconditional love to people
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with flaws and Imperfections. They present their conditions to
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people, they presents what flaws and Imperfections, they like, or
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dislike. They present all of the actual
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parameters that a protector lens.
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The person who's seeking out to be taken care of, and or
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validated by that parent that they didn't get at home to those
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who they seek outside. So peers, become the same types
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of figures. That you would want to have had,
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but your story is yours to choose.
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And so this is where the part of how one handles rejection.
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And again, if you're in a space of unsafety, so you're already
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numbing and suppressing your own emotions because there's Trauma
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from abuse or neglect. This is not something that is in
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a plane of love in and of itself.
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So until there are eyes to see one's own.
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Hearts one's own body and one's own mind.
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That person can't actually be in a state of love with themselves
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or others because they don't know compassionate what they do
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know is human suffering. Once their environment becomes
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safe enough for them to realize that's when the Mind might have
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some breathing room and through mindfulness and time they can.
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Okay. Now I can see clearly I can see
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clearly now. The rain has gone and so people
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will begin to make their way towards what.
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It means to be fulfilled from the body and that's when they
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begin their own. So here's where the mature
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masculine or immature becomes connected to their body, too
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feminine for the immature feminine.
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They actually realize that just because you may have intuition
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through their own ways, they'll learn how that's actually not
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meaning, you know, everything at all.
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You may have whatever you want, as intuition, doesn't mean shit
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to another person's bodies experience or their own
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thoughts. Are For motion.
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So, this is where they get a reality check of how their
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assumptions are, not actually correct, just because they have
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Claire's. And in all of this, here's where
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when people can unconditional love each other with flaws and
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Imperfections, no matter what their differences are.
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It's always something. Very beautiful.
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So this is what makes all of our oversoul real relationship
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specialist. Is that we are accepting of our
25:50
limited States Of Consciousness. We are accepting of those
25:54
different ways of emotional expressions and we're always
25:58
open for conversation. The ones who are that is the
26:03
ones who move from rigidity and Chaos into the more open and
26:09
healthy integrated brain. So, from trauma, people can be
26:14
moved here, but it takes Community to create a conscious
26:19
Society unconditionally loving each other with flaws.
26:23
And Imperfections is a first step and that's where the mature
26:27
feminine is in the lead because we don't know how not to be in a
26:32
state of love. Because even when You're hurt
26:36
quote on quote, by our loved ones, we will not take that
26:41
action as oh my God, you intended to hurt me?
26:45
Because we will know what's behind is something that
26:52
although, they have free, will will be able to pick up the
26:59
one-year-old attached panicky in one way, shape, or form, doesn't
27:04
matter how small, All of the hint of it is because sometimes
27:07
so small for the actions that some people will have taken
27:11
throughout your lifetime. Those of you who are again in
27:14
the enlightenment still age group, with a mature feminine,
27:17
you will know what I'm talking about because you will have the
27:20
same awareness of a person's nervous system and these actual
27:26
safety behaviors. That the trauma experts in the
27:28
somatic, informed experts I've learned from.
27:32
This is where you will know this because you have a relationship.
27:35
That is with physical Sensations.
27:37
So intense is something you will know in energy form.
27:42
You don't need it to be explained to you, you will know
27:45
that you've never met intent to actively hurt to you.
27:50
That intent doesn't exist in our lifetime of now might have
27:54
existed in other times or not in other times when 2023.
27:58
So I'm talking, this is the physical Sensation that a person
28:02
who has the same level of connectedness.
28:05
To their masculine and feminine of their own body will know.
28:10
Not everybody knows this but I can tell you my 43 years of
28:14
life. I have never met the intense
28:17
expects one time I met in 10th through the form of I intend to
28:21
do this and in fact that actually served me as a lesson
28:24
because I had had the hunch, the very specific hunts with a very
28:29
specific individual that ended up doing what they did.
28:32
My first interaction with this human being.
28:35
I'll never Got it because I said to myself, they're not
28:38
trustworthy, my body spoke. This is not a trusting and then
28:43
they did things because my Academia have taught me
28:46
philosophy certain aspects. When it comes to politics, I was
28:50
like, well, they're doing this, so they taught me, this, it's
28:52
Academia, you know, and here's where I learned in fact, what I
28:57
learned never. And I had already learned that
29:01
before, but this one gave me. And so for me, it's a positive,
29:04
not the Never, I will never be entrusted.
29:07
This is where people are avoiding.
29:08
No, I'm saying those who trust their body.
29:11
This way, we will know our entire life, how our body knows
29:15
exactly how to keep a safe. We have no shadow of a duct,
29:21
doesn't matter who comes down our body knows what's what now,
29:24
some people they, again, they try to say, well, what can you
29:27
leave me alone? You know, like it's more like,
29:29
can you do your life and I'll do mine, what do we think?
29:32
We think that's okay. So, long story short, We'll have
29:36
a relationship with energy, so we will not know the intense to
29:39
do hurt on purpose. We will note the one-year-old
29:44
attached panicky, so we will note.
29:46
The trauma will note the trauma memory, and their energy field
29:52
and it's not evil, It's actually an infant and then we'll if they
29:57
get those teenager who's an asshole because the teenager
30:00
with the infant who wasn't safe, you know, teenagers get pissy
30:03
with their adult figures there always.
30:05
Talking not all of them but I mean I was a teenager, I didn't
30:09
do it but I saw the how the kids would talk about their parents.
30:12
It's like why are you saying that your parent loves you?
30:14
They just trying to make you an adult.
30:16
Like, I don't understand, I wouldn't understand why these
30:19
kids would talk about parents like that again to me what they
30:22
were doing, was pretty stupid. They're adults knew what they
30:25
were talking about. So when you meet the teenager,
30:29
yeah, that energy is unique as well.
30:31
But still, this is not intense because the mind is Word with
30:36
cortisol, a stress hormone, they're all sympathetic.
30:38
They're all in their little anger theme.
30:40
So it's little because this is where it's a mind that is clear.
30:44
When we pick up on what anger is your mind, is not in the
30:49
clarity, your body's not in the clarity, your entire presence is
30:55
not present you become very very small.
30:58
You become very you know this energy becomes in a specific
31:03
vibration. And so long story short though,
31:05
Though, all of these equate, the same thing Trauma from abuse and
31:10
neglect. It's an infant to then grew up
31:14
and the part about not knowing how to love will.
31:17
Of course, how would they? They don't even love in their
31:20
own body. They don't know it.
31:22
Let alone, can they create a safe environment and help anyone
31:28
feel soothed secure seeing? They don't even see that.
31:32
They don't feel that way and that they're pointing a finger.
31:35
And seeing no, it's you or it's Humanity or its life or it's the
31:39
government or its this sorts that they don't even see that
31:42
they're just pointing their finger and saying, everything
31:44
outside of me is actually to blame, you know, what's funny.
31:48
Is it trending topics of Enlightenment?
31:49
Can you got a lot of people were talking always about, I'm My Own
31:53
Creator. I'm My Own this.
31:55
I don't see them talking very great about.
31:57
We're removing, I mean, again, I know there's a lot of things
32:00
that aren't really set yet, but we're moving towards more.
32:05
Standing, we're moving towards more compassion.
32:10
The ones were yelling. They're not doing a great job at
32:12
Sharon compassion, but they're all still modulated.
32:15
Their external is not safe. What's external?
32:17
In this case, we don't have all the entire world on board.
32:21
So we're trying to get the entire world to come into a more
32:28
modernized version of itself. This is what 5D by the way is
32:32
and yeah, 3D 4D. They don't like it.
32:34
They keep bringing up the same. Old stories, evil the devil, you
32:38
know, I mean I there's plenty of stories out there.
32:42
So while people are yelling that's for us, try to be loving
32:48
and let us remember to unconsciously love with flaws.
32:51
And Imperfections is actually to understand that nobody chooses
32:55
to be in a dysregulated or a modulated embodied.
32:59
Self doesn't mean we have to be around anyone, but it does mean
33:03
being able to be Curious, open accepting, and loving.
33:08
And so, when people present, even if it's in their limited
33:13
Consciousness, to be able and try to maintain your own
33:18
expansion in those moments, because we all again, a reason
33:24
for why will stay within our safe space and while for the
33:28
mature feminine, it's a bit more challenging to accept.
33:31
I will admit that because we usually don't find it.
33:36
Very hard to tend to our emotions.
33:40
This is where to be objective. Of course, we don't, we have a
33:44
restored in body, so it's, of course, I don't know what it's
33:47
like to be in this thing called human suffering.
33:50
Because I don't know it from my physiology, and by being able to
33:55
acknowledge that, I don't know, something like that.
33:58
And to, then be able to have experiences like the little bit
34:00
of trauma memory that I told you came up in one of my practice
34:04
sessions. This is where even without that
34:07
are already had compassion, but with that experience, I even
34:11
have the actual energetic experience of what it means and
34:16
it was a sliver of trauma, memory, compared to what I hear
34:21
you trauma experts, when they work with people who have shame
34:24
cycles. And so again when we think for
34:30
those of us were in the enlightenment still age group,
34:32
or were those of you who want to move into the Forum, it's about
34:37
moving beyond all of what our community right now is fighting
34:41
about It's about being able to learn how to use your words.
34:47
To use your own knowledge and your own presence.
34:51
If you're somebody who can make a difference in any way shape or
34:53
form, it doesn't mean not to express our feelings, it doesn't
34:58
mean that we can't have. No I'm saying when it comes to
35:01
very important topics we want to always and we always will have
35:06
exchanges but to get our actual entire Globe to move in specific
35:11
directions and some talking big scale.
35:13
I'm talking small scale. This is found.
35:15
The conversation is Not for a one-on-one one-on-one.
35:18
You're going to have plenty of that right now.
35:20
I'm seeing if you actually do want to see the world move some
35:24
place than it is about saying, okay, people get it together.
35:29
Sorry, that some people think technology is evil, it's going
35:32
to take over, I don't know that all these conspiracy theory
35:35
people, it's not about it being true or not.
35:37
True, we totally got it. All, I can follow any persons
35:40
line that they've got. I've gotten plenty, I mean, I
35:42
still have people telling me about the vaccines I've gotten
35:45
four of them. I'm like, what do you Me to die.
35:47
You want me to freak out? I don't know which one is it?
35:50
I mean, even though they're obviously sharing because they
35:52
care. It's not because they want to
35:54
make you afraid, but it's more like, you know, I got four of
35:59
them, right? And I did get covid to.
36:01
So there you go. I was happy when I got I think
36:04
hey, yes, I got the original one.
36:06
I don't have to have the vaccine but long story short, I'm trying
36:10
to get at is moving beyond what separates is very important at
36:14
this time and that is where There's a community of us that
36:17
wants to do this and it's more than just people who are in
36:22
specific roles. In fact, some of those people
36:25
are not doing a great job, having us talk because if they
36:29
were they would bring up, they would bring up all sides.
36:35
Excluding sides is always going to lead to exclude exclusion
36:40
versus all inclusion. And I don't want to use too many
36:43
specifics because there. There's no need to actually but
36:50
in the future. So in the meantime, when you can
36:52
unconditional love who you are which laws and Imperfections, it
36:55
means that you can easily do that and you will have done that
36:58
with your loved ones. So the whole twin flame so mates
37:02
over. So, you know, it's different
37:04
than what you hear out there. For those of us who actually are
37:08
aware of what it means to have free will And so it doesn't
37:15
matter what you will think or assume of some other person.
37:20
If you don't actually allow communication, you will have
37:24
made a choice that equals power and control.
37:27
Not one of trust, therefore not one of authenticity and not one
37:31
of transparency and not one where you give an opportunity.
37:36
To anything except for whatever you assumes To Be Your Truth.
37:40
This is called rigid thinking. This is called adoptive child.
37:46
Now, here's where when we choose the right silence.
37:50
Because there are times where I will be having a conversation
37:53
and as people begin to get agitated, I learned to redirect
37:58
and people who are conscious. I love that having, you know,
38:02
again, Divine masculine in the making Consciousness, in the
38:05
making Even the divine feminine xand people, that are actual
38:09
colleague, so resonating on more than just one level allows me to
38:14
share. What I already know we all read
38:17
each other because we are all nervous systems and so here's
38:21
where we will still have chosen the right silence because we
38:25
will have noticed the person getting agitated, not because of
38:29
our mind, our body, the minute you begin to get agitated is the
38:34
minute that I know you're under stress and I'm Going to look to
38:37
Sue that because that's the Instinct of immature feminine
38:41
body because we're not actually feeling that we are threatened.
38:45
And so we are seeing the agitation, we are sensing the
38:49
distress and we are sensing the lack of safety.
38:53
So we will recalibrate and we will mold are words that that
38:59
digital thinking that 201. We will also immediately address
39:04
with our body. Eyes again, the whole nonverbal
39:09
people who come with their tainted glasses of their
39:13
protector lenses from their teenage years from there being
39:17
in there. I know everything and they don't
39:20
actually know that their assumptions.
39:23
So they cannot say to another human being, what they're
39:26
thinking or feeling is why all the masculine, including the
39:29
immature, feminine Czar in that boat.
39:32
Because what they don't do is recognize differentiation Do not
39:37
they say I know what's going on. And here's the story and here's
39:41
why what I think and feel is true versus what versus let me
39:47
talk about it versus let me not make assumptions, versus let me
39:53
be curious, okay? So all people who are not
39:57
conscious in the making, do not, let me get curious, what they do
40:02
is I think, I know I assume eyes.
40:06
State. I condemn, I judge I've done it.
40:09
I'm right. And you know here's where it
40:13
will not be right because they will have not been right?
40:18
Because what they do is like what every other person.
40:20
So here's where separation Consciousness lies.
40:23
And this is where people think they're being smart asses
40:25
because this is the part, they may have read a body, they may
40:28
have read whatever but the fact is they did not open the
40:31
conversation. Why?
40:33
Because Juan most people actually aren't even that aware
40:36
of them. Elves to be like, they don't
40:38
even know this is going on there just poof, I know.
40:41
And so here's where the person who has unresolved trauma.
40:45
As an adult from dysregulated, they overgeneralize, they
40:49
vilify, they have their narrative, they actually think
40:52
in their brain. How anything?
40:54
And everything is going to go before it even happened.
40:56
So they're in, they're stressing themselves out before they even
40:58
speak. Once they get it wrong, there.
41:00
They're freaking going crazy with a gray area but their
41:04
story. They're sticking to it, and
41:06
there you You go. Nope, I must be right.
41:08
In fact, they turn to vilification because here's
41:11
where that shame blame fault Revenge cycle.
41:14
Is there because people stay in rigidity, which is dominated by
41:20
chaos and they don't notice, you know, what I actually made a
41:23
completely judgmental call all on my own and didn't give a
41:27
human being or a group of people, the audacity to share
41:29
with me their opinion. And the reason will be getting
41:33
cuz I know what's true or not? True.
41:35
Okay, then there you go. There's no other thing.
41:38
They're free will is I know the truth about some other person or
41:42
some other group is not something that is loving in
41:44
fact, completely control. And that's exactly why for
41:49
amateur feminine. This whole words gaslighting,
41:52
manipulate they don't mean anything to us because we will
41:54
know one when it's happening to when you're making assumptions.
41:57
Will in fact also try to make sure that no no You know what,
42:02
we'll do our best again, we learn to be polite, so let me
42:06
give the example, I was going to keep it short but we're on a
42:10
full-blown episode at this point.
42:14
So Consciousness in the making notices and presents what I
42:19
already instinctively know as we all read each other and in fact
42:22
it is thanks to the open communication that I get
42:26
confirmation. Again again again of what I
42:28
already knew which is that people think they a know who I
42:32
am. Like they think they can know
42:34
all others. The sad part is this is that
42:37
people story about humanity and life is very different from
42:40
those of us who actually love Humanity in life.
42:43
They think everybody's out to get them very straightforward.
42:47
And so you know at the end of the day when somebody actually
42:49
has the audacity to accuse people of certain things that
42:54
really it's just because you are obviously a teenager who's now
42:59
grown up. And again That's where people
43:02
who are in dysregulated and modulated in body cells are
43:06
they're still not safe in their environment.
43:09
They're not soothed, they're not seeing they're not validated,
43:13
they're not accepted and they are going to make sure that they
43:16
get to be in either group to belong or they're going to find
43:20
their certainty. And, you know, here's where they
43:23
won't even have the audacity the ones who don't move into their
43:26
Enlightenment, the ones who do this is, why once they move into
43:29
their Enlightenment or like shit, III, seriously fucked up
43:32
here. I made judgment calls, I did
43:36
this. I did that.
43:36
I assumed all of these things and none of them were true and I
43:40
actually, you know, is pretty shitty about.
43:43
So it's very interesting for the.
43:47
So, for the mature feminine, we actually don't handle and deal
43:50
with any of these types of relationships.
43:53
FYI, the few ones that are, in fact, this is where it's really
43:57
seriously, not even all of the twin flames, if you will, or
44:01
Oversold, because we're pretty smart at picking up things and
44:04
not using our time in areas that are unnecessary.
44:07
So, the minute there's rigidity, is the minute that obviously,
44:09
there's distance, we don't need to talk about anything.
44:12
In fact, we don't have the conversation going on.
44:14
Let me have, or basically one person, and, or more thinking,
44:20
they know everything. So, we just stand back and let
44:23
them leave the show because they're know where it's headed.
44:27
And on that note, we work with the The one thing that we know
44:32
we want to work with which is okay, let me bring in my
44:36
recalibration tool and let me work through the unconditional.
44:40
Love that is here for the people that are involved and let me
44:44
allow myself to allow the flaws and Imperfections to, you know,
44:48
be embraced and tended to and understood.
44:51
And what am I learning? So we get to actually allow
44:55
again. Those lovely loved ones.
44:57
They don't hurt us. They expand us.
45:01
Mature, feminine grows, more compassionate, and loving to
45:04
this day, you can better bet that with Humanity.
45:08
I cry, when I note more and more in some moments the human
45:13
suffering because it is unnecessary, we will always know
45:17
how they can actually be in Oneness Consciousness.
45:20
It's just kind of like the deal is that we won't be able to Say
45:28
anything that makes their rigid. Teenager mind think they know
45:32
any other is you don't, you know, I know a couple of
45:36
teenagers and I remember being 12.
45:38
So yeah, you can tell me what to do like dude, what are you
45:41
talking about? I know everything and that's
45:43
where with curiosity. We move into this space with
45:47
love. In fact as a teenager it shows
45:49
love and and it was in one of those equations where well my
45:53
loved ones they're teaching me how to be able and be a Grown up
45:57
with people and it's really, really beautiful.
46:00
So, of course, we don't like, again, if, if it were for me,
46:05
no, human would suffer. But I am not a masculine without
46:10
a feminine. I have a masculine and a
46:13
feminine and they're both mature.
46:14
And I have a restored in body itself, you know.
46:17
So here's where the enlightenment Soldier person is
46:19
here, some of them have Claire's because they actually have been
46:25
on the same Ascension. As I and I look forward to
46:28
meeting more of them and some of them are in the making the ones
46:33
who choose other, Soul age groups.
46:34
Here's where they might show certain traits other traits but
46:40
we're still all on the same page of being able to create
46:43
conversations. And so again this twin flame is
46:47
not Runner or chaser, it's two people that definitely there's
46:51
something specific the ones who know, no, the ones who might
46:55
think of it or not. Just look at it as a very,
46:59
beautiful important relationship.
47:01
So, the experience of Satori is really this part of your body,
47:05
being able to experience a full state of compassion, and that's
47:11
where you are in the Embrace of secure attachment.
47:14
And so you will have a very specific feeling that takes
47:18
place why they talk about Runner Chasers because one they say is
47:24
open to personal development, other is not one is There's
47:27
others not but the reality is people don't learn how to
47:31
actually just be grownups and talk to each other.
47:33
They rather use the movies and do what they do
47:36
passive-aggressive. And now, you know, call each
47:38
other names again or just make assumptions.
47:40
So, the reality is to me, when I look at the whole Saga, it's
47:44
nothing more than what I saw when I was growing up with
47:46
teenagers before. I really feel like sometimes
47:50
like wow, okay this is and nothing is really ever that I'm
47:56
not going to speak. Seek the the words I was going
47:57
to say, but all I can share is that we learn how to make use of
48:03
that time because that's the point.
48:05
We got 24 hours. We understand that every person
48:09
is their own Island, and we are an island.
48:11
And so we share this beautiful ocean doesn't matter, which one
48:15
Flame or so many. We're going to do what we can to
48:18
allow love to be there. And in fact in time, here's
48:22
where the mature feminine. In the enlightenment still a
48:26
gerbil. Not actually think that they
48:29
could bring certain things into specific energetic Spectrum, but
48:35
actually, it happens. And you know, here's where
48:39
there's a realization and awareness of how sad that is.
48:44
But there's also realize a realization and awareness.
48:47
So for those of you who are again inclined to be in the
48:49
Amendments of age group, you will know that this was and is
48:54
something that is actually expansion.
48:59
It's very interesting there. Still is never any need to
49:03
suffer that part. We can always look at every area
49:08
that can be handled with care and love but that's because we
49:11
know how to use our words. But that's because we also don't
49:15
care about being rejected or not.
49:18
That's because we're not afraid of love that's because we're not
49:21
afraid of taking a risk. And that's because even if we're
49:24
not seeing heard validated or accepted by our loved ones,
49:27
we're still standing. And we're not trying to attach
49:30
to you were actually very safe in our own body standing in
49:34
front of you. And we're wondering, why are you
49:37
so scared? Even though again, we won't
49:40
speak of it because that wouldn't be nice.
49:43
And then when you learn about trauma, here's where it's not
49:45
just this word fear, this. This this thing is not just a
49:50
word, okay? That's what I'm trying to also
49:52
have, you understand? We will understand this and no
49:56
matter what, obviously, it doesn't cancel things, but it
50:00
does allow you to know the word fear with Chama.
50:05
And so again, I repeat a person who does not know their own
50:09
Security and their body will not be able to maintain.
50:14
In fact, anything in the functional adult Arena, which is
50:20
unconditionally loving forgiving, no one's learns new
50:24
skills, learns and knows, actually how to communicate
50:28
knows how to handle their own temperament knows how to handle
50:31
everything. And actually enjoys grown-up
50:34
conversation, the ones who are moving in this spectrum.
50:38
I've met some of them, they're amazing food, Consciousness and
50:41
talk about the ones who are here.
50:43
Also amazing, the ones who are not, we learn how to work with
50:46
them. The first thing that we need to
50:48
try and create four more people is the external so that they may
50:52
be safe. This is why there are many
50:54
different topics will look at throughout the year and years
50:57
and it will involve some. I just need to figure out the
51:00
best modality because we are focused on personal development,
51:03
but each one of us can make a difference in the life of other
51:07
people. If we can be the On to
51:09
unconditionally love them with flaws and Imperfections.
51:11
Like my one friend, I got one friend of mine, back home, who I
51:15
hope to be able and figure out if they're serious about their
51:17
Journey or not. I really hope they are.
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I don't know if they will be, but I do know that I want to
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inform them and share with them, the knowledge of what it means
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to have a dysregulated embodied self.
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What it means for their Journey because it's not one year.
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We're talking three, four, we don't know.
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There is talking neuroplasticity hasn't even been.
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I made and we can't even go there because their body is the
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first place that needs to be secure in their environment is
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not really the best environment but they're also person who's
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not needing so. And so this is just one example.
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But what I'm saying is, most people around this person, they
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actually just accept and some don't, and they're rejected.
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And every time they rejected this doesn't have, like, there's
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just a whole bunch of different things that we Load that we want
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to support if again. So here's where the person that
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comes to mind is because they made a specific request, but in
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general, when we can just learn to be conscious of being loving
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and aware of others. And that when we feel triggered
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that if, so if you're in the indictments will age, you could
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means you already know this like, when I've been around
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again. Any type of nervous system at
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this point? I know, and I'm thankful for my
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loving, my, the soul mate that I got To have an interaction with
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and my other over. So my lovely attachment style
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friend to be able and help me to say, okay.
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Now I know what what, you know, attached cry or a reaction from
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a trauma memory is. And so, this is where in both
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cases and it was three actually was able to maintain mental
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Vegas states, that a compassion, continue conversing and allow
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myself to unconscious all of the individuals at hand with their
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flaws and Imperfections and they me as well.
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And so in fact is where recalibration naturally happens
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for those who continue to want to expand together.
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Let us be patient. Let us be compassionate.
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Let us be loving to inflame. So mates, oversoul, the entire
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humanity. And I look forward to being back
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with you again. Have a wonderful day.