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HOW TO MAKE HIM LOVE YOU!! · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. Come on, don't think I don't
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  Speaker 1: think you know it's not Chris. We're saying it's not.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm not in the moment. How am I supposed
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  Speaker 1: to do it when I'm not in the most I've
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  Speaker 1: tried this before. Actually, you beat me into this every
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  Speaker 1: time I talk about this, and I've done it before.
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  Speaker 1: do it. Go listen to the whole discography of Relatable.
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  Speaker 1: Don't gas you'll hear it. Some like to say, are
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  Speaker 1: you talking about it? Just say it? You have a girl,
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  Speaker 1: I always do it. Yeah, you're the key, I always
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  Speaker 1: do it. You ever go? Are you trying to say
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  Speaker 1: you don't do it? You're the sex icon on the
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  Speaker 1: pod Relatable. The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Audie
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  Speaker 1: Clark aka Mummy, and I'm happy to say my partner
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  Speaker 1: in crime, Jake Craig aka Daddy Let's go. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: happy to say that today because I'm wearing a shirt
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  Speaker 1: with Daddy's face on it. Yeah, look at my shirt.
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  Speaker 1: I got Mummy's face on it. This might be the
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  Speaker 1: best you've ever looked in the pod. I'm slightly gas
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  Speaker 1: on you before this episode, mate, slightly gas, Yeah, lightly gas.
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  Speaker 1: You are let's go looking good? Oh how funny. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what it is about you, but oh yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: let's address the elephant in the room. Yeah, boy, And
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  Speaker 1: it's not the shirt with my face on it. Jake
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  Speaker 1: is starting to grow what would you call it? Oh
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  Speaker 1: call this a very I'd call this a pristine mustache.
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  Speaker 1: You would call it a mustache. It's quite long on
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  Speaker 1: it goes wrapped around the mouth. I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: to shape it. You should get like a little kid
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  Speaker 1: or something. I'm gonna need you because with some TikTok tutorials. Well,
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  Speaker 1: a couple of episodes ago.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if it was on a Patron episode,
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  Speaker 2: if it was a normal episode, but I think we
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  Speaker 2: were talking about something and you were like, why don't
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  Speaker 2: you grow a bit?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: I said that, and then I said, like, I can,
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  Speaker 2: but the mustache isn't very thinking. You're like, oh, sure
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  Speaker 2: you can grow on. So I was just like, well,
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  Speaker 2: fuck it, I'm gonna try. I don't think it's looking good.
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  Speaker 2: Give it another two or three weeks.
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  Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I haven't shared my mustache. It's slightly maybe
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  Speaker 1: too long on the edges.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, I just need to figure out slightly just yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm scared because if I go too far, I
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  Speaker 2: got to shave it all off.
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  Speaker 1: I can't. It's been so long. It's been three weeks
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  Speaker 1: maybe more. That's pretty good. This is actually this has
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  Speaker 1: been like a year and a half mine. It's been
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  Speaker 1: three weeks. Actually, if we could do November, if you
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  Speaker 1: grow yours for men's mental health, and I'll die mind
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  Speaker 1: I've actually got hairy. It's just blonde blonde.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so well here's the thing that though, I may
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  Speaker 2: as well keep it until November, because by by November
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  Speaker 2: it should be good enough.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a couple of months. Good idea, good eyes.
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  Speaker 2: So maybe I'll even like with the norm buzz trimmer,
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  Speaker 2: like on a super long setting, say shave it so
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  Speaker 2: I'm only cutting off barely, barely a millimeter and then
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  Speaker 2: they're all the same length, and then I need to
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  Speaker 2: figure out how to like, I should just go to
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  Speaker 2: the barber.
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  Speaker 1: Actually, we'll go to Ash. The barber's name is Ash.
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  Speaker 1: Just go give me a mate, what do you want done?
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  Speaker 1: Just up? Yeah, actually like little trim and be like
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  Speaker 1: you actually reckon. You could maybe Spruce just get it
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  Speaker 1: nicely shaped and just get him to do that every
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  Speaker 1: fucking week. Do it be a nice panthering SESSI too,
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  Speaker 1: he'd like it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So I actually wanted to start this episode with
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  Speaker 2: so as men, we well, one of the reasons we
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  Speaker 2: started actually the podcast is because we wanted to kind
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  Speaker 2: of normalize guys talking about their feelings a bit more
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  Speaker 2: open stuff. And I think like we do when then
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  Speaker 2: sometimes we like go a little while where.
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  Speaker 1: We don't and we have fun and blah blah blah.
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  Speaker 1: But I wanted to start this episode with some feelings, right,
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  Speaker 1: I love that from you. So as guys, this is
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  Speaker 1: to everyone out there.
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  Speaker 2: Listening and to you and you're going to agree with me,
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  Speaker 2: I assume, and to all the dudes out there everyone.
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  Speaker 2: We don't like when we get in a relationship, we
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  Speaker 2: don't really talk about our relationship.
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean?
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  Speaker 2: So I wouldn't be able to tell you a time
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  Speaker 2: where so because guys like don't ask the questions and
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  Speaker 2: we're not going too that in depth. It's like when
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  Speaker 2: we're talking about our relationship with a friend, it's quite
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  Speaker 2: often about maybe a fight we've had and we want
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  Speaker 2: their opinion or or yeah, like just something like we
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  Speaker 2: don't talk about the good things basically because that's just
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  Speaker 2: not what we talk about.
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  Speaker 1: You'd almost say, how's your missus gone? You're like good? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like yeah, you're just like good. But like that's then
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  Speaker 1: even if someone says, how's the missus, Like I don't
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  Speaker 1: remember the last time I've said that to anyone, Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like you just assume.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I wanted to come on and basically
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  Speaker 2: it's like because if you think about it, if the
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  Speaker 2: only thing, like if the only reason we ever talked
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  Speaker 2: to one of our friends about our girlfriends or to
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  Speaker 2: each other about girlfriends is because we're having an issue.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, oh, what do you think about this fight
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  Speaker 2: we had? It's like I think, like, fuck, you guys
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  Speaker 2: just fight all the time. Negative, Yeah, it's only negative things.
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  Speaker 2: And so I think I wanted to come on here
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  Speaker 2: and tell you that like Beth is like the the
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  Speaker 2: best girlfriend ever had, right yeah, and like the like
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  Speaker 2: she's made me the happiest of you know, any and
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  Speaker 2: like hopefully forever. Yeah, and like ever since I kind
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  Speaker 2: of I thought that way, I obviously assumed that about
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  Speaker 2: you and Cassie. But I think I want you to
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  Speaker 2: know that just so if I ever do come to
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  Speaker 2: you where it's like Beth.
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  Speaker 1: And I have had an argument. I know, so then
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  Speaker 1: you that's your goal and goal, yeah, that's how you
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  Speaker 1: see the relationship. Yeah, so it's not like all you
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  Speaker 1: hear is bad things like oh, she just seems so naggy.
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  Speaker 1: She just seems like she's so negative. It's like because
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  Speaker 1: maybe one percent of the time that's what happens, and
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  Speaker 1: that's when you have a fight. Yeah, but ninety nine
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  Speaker 1: percent of the time you are right because the only
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  Speaker 1: time I've really talked about Cassie is like I had
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't too bad. It was a negative thing, and
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know how to go about there. And you're
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  Speaker 1: like that's a tricky one. Yeah, I never like come
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  Speaker 1: to and like fuck, well we had the best date ever? No, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like we never do like I like you would in
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  Speaker 1: on Monday, though you did say like I had a
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  Speaker 1: great time. It was a different type of love with Cassie,
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  Speaker 1: blah blah blah, like and I would say, like I
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  Speaker 1: actually had the best time, like two full weeks of
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  Speaker 1: every living second together with Beth and we didn't argue once,
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  Speaker 1: didn't disagree with anything, like I had the best time ever.
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  Speaker 1: And so I think it's just like something that we
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  Speaker 1: probably don't have to elaborate on it every fucking day,
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  Speaker 1: Like we just don't do that. But it's something that
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  Speaker 1: I want you to know just in case future. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because like if Beth does something where I had an
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  Speaker 1: argument with her and it's like, well, and Jake, I
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  Speaker 1: know that you've told me once before, like she's the
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  Speaker 1: happiest you've ever made her, Like give it the benefit
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  Speaker 1: of the doubt in this one. It's sort of like
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  Speaker 1: human nature. It's the same thing like when you get
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  Speaker 1: a cold, like it is I wish I would be
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  Speaker 1: healthy again. It is. It's the same thing like when
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  Speaker 1: your relationship is so good you don't think about talking
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  Speaker 1: about it, but as soon as it gets that little
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  Speaker 1: bit of like badness in it, and you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: fuck a bit to talk to someone about it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but you don't. But I think that's a very good
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  Speaker 1: realization from you. Yeah, And so I kind of thought, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I assume it's the same from you. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like she's like to have you some everyone's ever made
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  Speaker 1: you so it's like whenever you maybe come to me
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  Speaker 1: and it's like, oh, I've had an argument withheh blahlah blah,
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  Speaker 1: it's like.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not just gonna side with you straight away, you know,
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  Speaker 2: because it's like if you and I had an argument,
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  Speaker 2: let's say, and I was talking to Beth about it,
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  Speaker 2: it's like she's gonna side with me straight away because
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  Speaker 2: she's my girlfriend.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like stuff like that. Yeah, it's the same thing,
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  Speaker 1: like you go to your parents are obviously gonna side
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  Speaker 1: with their kid, yeah, exactly, Like that's why parents always
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  Speaker 1: side with their kid when a teacher got mad at Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and it's like, well, I'm obviously gonna side of them.
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  Speaker 1: You're gotta side with the kid. But it's also it's like,
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  Speaker 1: fucking the teacher probably had a reason. Letters teachers don't
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  Speaker 1: just fucking hate kids for no reason exactly. But the
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  Speaker 1: funny you actually bring up love is because we talk
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  Speaker 1: on the podcast all the time. It's probably one of
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  Speaker 1: the most reoccurring themes is that girls fall in love
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  Speaker 1: when they're together, yes, and men fall in love when
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  Speaker 1: they're apart. Yes. But do you know why that is
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  Speaker 1: we say it all the time? No? Yeah, no, we
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  Speaker 1: just know. We know that happened. We know that happened,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't know why that is. And I have
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  Speaker 1: figured out why really. I went did some research for
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  Speaker 1: the pod, watched the whole ted talk on It was
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  Speaker 1: called How We Fall in Love by Dawn Masla. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: comn okay, So we need a little bit of background information.
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  Speaker 1: This is the science behind why we fall in love
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  Speaker 1: like men and women. Yeah okay, and this is so interesting,
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  Speaker 1: but we need a little bit of background info. And
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  Speaker 1: it's going to sound like a bit of sciencey boring stuff.
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  Speaker 1: But if we get through it, we'll get through that
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  Speaker 1: bit the end of its juice. Yeah, okay, cool cook coo.
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  Speaker 1: So background info is we have certain neurotransmitters in our
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  Speaker 1: brain that turn on receptors that produce different chemical compounds,
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  Speaker 1: and they go up and down when we fall in love. Yep.
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  Speaker 1: So it's called the biochemistry of love. Yes, okay. So
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  Speaker 1: for example, your cholesterol levels go up the stress hormone,
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  Speaker 1: which makes you feel nervous. Butterflies, yes, exactly, like when
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  Speaker 1: you're go on first date and you're like, I'm on,
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  Speaker 1: I got butterflies. Tech Like, we could be nerdy and
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  Speaker 1: be like, my cholesterol levels a rising. You meet your
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  Speaker 1: date first, she's like oh, she's like, I'm so nervous,
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  Speaker 1: and you're like your cholesterol level another second day, another one.
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  Speaker 1: The oxytocin levels increase, making you feel horny. Woman's testosterone
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  Speaker 1: goes up when you fall in love, making you feel aggressive.
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  Speaker 1: So my girl's get a bit aggressive in best bites.
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  Speaker 1: Oh god, and the opposite happens for men, So the
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  Speaker 1: testos stone goes down, making us feel more passive. Bad
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  Speaker 1: for gains girls, it's very very interesting. Soon goes down. Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: and both serotonin levels dropped, causing us to feel more
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  Speaker 1: obsessed with each other. Okay, so basically it's like, so
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  Speaker 1: when you're apart, when you meet someone, you like them,
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  Speaker 1: and then when you're apart, your serotonin levels dropped, so
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  Speaker 1: it's like, I want to be with that. That's exactly
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  Speaker 1: exactly the same thing. Oh my god, my levels are
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  Speaker 1: so low. You should get it for me, man. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: well low for a month. But okay, so here is
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  Speaker 1: where I gets juicy. So we often mentioned on the
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  Speaker 1: potty right, like to wait three days before you sleep
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  Speaker 1: with him and stuff like that. Oh yeah, the little yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But we've always just said that because that's what we're hear.
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  Speaker 1: I just hear it. There's actually science that backs it up.
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  Speaker 1: So when a woman's in love, her oxytocin levels go
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  Speaker 1: up fifty one percent when she finds a man that
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  Speaker 1: she actually likes, and that's her dope. Meine goes up
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  Speaker 1: with that, and so she's in this little love bubble
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  Speaker 1: oxytocin through the roof, don't mean through the roof, and
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  Speaker 1: she's feeling really good. So that so it can be
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  Speaker 1: seen that oxytocin is the love hormone for women, but
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  Speaker 1: it can't be for men because testosterone blocks oxytocin. So
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  Speaker 1: they had to find a similar comp in men that
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  Speaker 1: had the same effect, which is called vasapressin. So the
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  Speaker 1: funny thing about vasapressin is it goes all the way
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  Speaker 1: up when like you're doing four play anything like that,
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  Speaker 1: but as soon as you come vasipressin straight back down.
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  Speaker 1: So interesting, Hey, So we find out that women fall
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  Speaker 1: in love through kissing and cuddling and anything like that
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  Speaker 1: because they're oxytocin rises and oxytotocin climaxes when they come.
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  Speaker 1: So it's through the roof. So as soon as a
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  Speaker 1: girl as sex with someone that it stays up, it
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  Speaker 1: stays up there. However, a men's vasapressin and when they
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  Speaker 1: love hormone, when they're sexually transmitted, they're cuddling everything like
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  Speaker 1: it's gone through the roof as soon as they come
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  Speaker 1: boom straight back down. That's why we get when we
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  Speaker 1: post not clarity, yes, so we're just like bang so.
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  Speaker 1: Well we can take away from this is it means
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  Speaker 1: that the neurotransmitters in the male's brains take time to
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  Speaker 1: produce vasapressin, like when you're with them, everything like that,
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  Speaker 1: and if you don't have sex with them and then
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  Speaker 1: the guy leaves, it's just on a high and it
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  Speaker 1: keeps going. That's why we feel like we're in love
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  Speaker 1: when we're apart, because our vacipressent just keeps rising because
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  Speaker 1: we're not coming orgasmin So girls feel love when we're
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  Speaker 1: together and she has sex and we're together and it's
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  Speaker 1: just in this little love bubble. But we feel it
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  Speaker 1: after when we're apart, and it gives time for those
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  Speaker 1: neurotransmitters to turn on, turn the receptors on, and then
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  Speaker 1: just keep rising. This is some seriously juicy stuff. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's serious. I thought that was so interesting, like hacks
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  Speaker 1: in the system. So here you go. Is this? Why
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  Speaker 1: is it okay?
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes people will give advice like let's say you're single,
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  Speaker 2: some advice that like I reckon we've given to dilemmas
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  Speaker 2: and I've been given is like, before you make any decisions,
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  Speaker 2: have a wank. Yes, you've got to experience that PNC
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  Speaker 2: postal clarity. Yes, But if you do have a wank
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  Speaker 2: and you're like, oh no, no, I still want to,
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  Speaker 2: then maybe there I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: How actually like they actually like well, I think if
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  Speaker 1: you it sounds so derogatory, but if you have a
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  Speaker 1: wank and you still like them, like it's actual, like
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  Speaker 1: really love whether the vasa pressing was just taking over
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  Speaker 1: otherwise and like you just got your hit. I'm done,
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  Speaker 1: So here's a question. Then I assume they mustn't have
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  Speaker 1: touched on it. But so like.
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  Speaker 2: With my girlfriend, if we do the deed, yeah, I
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  Speaker 2: actually like like I joke around, I'm like yeah, post
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  Speaker 2: but I actually don't really like like I still want
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  Speaker 2: to cudd all kiss, like I still like doing that
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  Speaker 2: after but I will say like.
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  Speaker 1: I definitely need time, like if there was a round
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  Speaker 1: two involved. But this is need I need time. This
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  Speaker 1: is like how you know you're in love. Okay, So
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  Speaker 1: this is like this initial talking stage that like if
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  Speaker 1: you first have sex with them and then you're like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't really like this and it doesn't go back
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  Speaker 1: to normal and you're apart, I don't love them. Oh
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  Speaker 1: when you have sex, then your vast presson knows down,
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  Speaker 1: but you still want to cuddle on stuff like that
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  Speaker 1: and just keep you rather and then when you leave
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  Speaker 1: oh okay, okay, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 2: So so it's like, let's say you go on a
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  Speaker 2: date with someone, yeah, and through the date, and then
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  Speaker 2: like let's say you're three three dates in all right,
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  Speaker 2: and then on this third date you sleep together and
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  Speaker 2: for those three dates at the vast present.
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  Speaker 1: Yea yeah yeah yeah, through the roof, and then you
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  Speaker 1: find it. So you on the third date, you guys
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  Speaker 1: have sex. Yep.
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  Speaker 2: So after you have sex, your vast person obviously boom,
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  Speaker 2: and if it kind of like goes down and it
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  Speaker 2: stays down and you're like, oh, that means you're not
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  Speaker 2: all that into them, and then also like when you leave,
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  Speaker 2: you're still not like all that into them. Yeah, So
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  Speaker 2: is that like basically a sign where it's like, oh no,
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  Speaker 2: I actually chemically don't like this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm chemically not love, not attracted him. Where as
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  Speaker 1: the girl those three dates, she's been getting that oxytocin
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  Speaker 1: and as soon as she comes from that sex, she's
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  Speaker 1: more in love. So it's kind of hard on the girl.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's that is the So is that way?
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of like I guess, like statistically, yeah, it
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  Speaker 2: is quite often, like some guys do it, but I
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  Speaker 2: think it's more common for a girl to fall in
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  Speaker 2: love quicker.
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  Speaker 1: I think so too, because you do all those stages.
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  Speaker 1: You have to do all those stages first to rise
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  Speaker 1: the oxytocin, and you're cuddling, you're kissing, you're sexually attracted
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  Speaker 1: to each other on dates, you seek you skin you
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  Speaker 1: haven't seen for the first time, which is same for
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  Speaker 1: to do. But as soon as he gets all that hit, boom.
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  Speaker 1: See ya. So that's crazy And is that why here
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  Speaker 1: we go? Okay, that's why you make them wait though,
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  Speaker 1: make them wait? Okay?
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  Speaker 2: But is that why post nut clarity is like a
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: hundred times worse when you watch porn?
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, because you don't there's no love there at all.
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: There's literally nothing there. That's why you feel gross. Especially Yeah,
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: you watch some video and what I'm doing. Yeah yeah, yeah,
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: and like the vast pression just took over. The vaster
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: pression took over my body. You know. You delete the
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: tablets instantly. Yeah, yeah, it doesn't matter if there's five
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: minutes left in the video. You delete the tabit instantly,
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: clear the search history. It is true because you feel disgusted. Yeah.
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: And then and and also when that vaster pressence plummeted,
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: you're like, I'm never doing that. And girls don't get
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: post that clarity because they just want there like oh yeah,
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: that's good, and they want to cut it after and yeah,
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: like they may not want to go again, but they're
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: just like high, yeah yeah they and they needed they
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: need a minute after after they come to like you
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: have ever been like fuck, I just need a second. Yeah.
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: Whereas like we were not to like talk a big game,
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: but it's like, oh my legs are shaking. Oh man.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: It's not about science, about how you use it. Yeah.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: So it's a lot of science terminologies, which this is
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: not a science podcast, but I thought I tried to
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: break it down so I could understand it. And I
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: hope that came across quite well. No, no, I think
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: that's like very dumbed down. Yeah yeah, yah. I watched
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: a video and she was using all these big term
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, I'll use and here so
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: funny how like so like science people, you could like
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: a simple and.
• 15:54
  Speaker 2: In so many senses, but some people will be like,
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: so therefore, yeah.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: Just adding words to an essay. Here you get the
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: eight hundred word counter. Yeah, they like, what are you
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: talking about? Oh, it's ridiculous. Do you remember in high school?
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: I remember the first time I don't know what year
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: we were all in, but it's like you all do
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: the same assignment basically in like history.
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: And I remember the first time we got an assignment
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: in it was history, I believe or something like that
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: where it had to be an eight.
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: Hundred word essay. I remember hated those things. I hated
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: them as well. And I remember, tell you what I did.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: I just put down the bottom. You just put all
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: the words in what Oh? Yeah, I was gonna say
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: the hack. Yeah.
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: And because the teachers like scare you and they go,
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: we have an app on our phone count the words
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: and so yeah, you'd go down and you just like
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: write a whole bunch of random words. You write like
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: ten words in copy and paste it a how.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: Much times but color them why at the bottom of
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: the page, so they teachers count it. But it's like
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: no one got in trouble for it. Oh, no one
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: did know. And you know they have like they definitely
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: don't have it in high school. They can check pleasures.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: I'm like, bullshit, Yeah what and how do they check
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: against chat ChiPT? Yeah, I reckon. I'll tell you. Being
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: in UNI when chat gibt was just coming out like
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: last year would have been a dream. Oh my god.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: And they had no way to do. Yeah.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: And also there's you there's probably ways where you can
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: say to chat GPT, like all right, here's like copy
• 17:08
  Speaker 2: and paste, like here's essays I've done in the past.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Make the one you wrote for me sound like I
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: wrote like chat GPT is literally artificially intelligence. Literally it's
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: so good. There's no way you can call it's better
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: than Google. That's what people. When I was away, I
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: swear Google's becoming obsolete. I agree. I was looking up
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: to find places to eat TikTok, to find and I
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: do that in Sydney to find what I want to know,
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: chat GPT because it takes out a step. Were like,
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: young Google, I don't know how tall is Jake Craig,
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: And it'll be like click a link to find out
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: how Jake Craig how tall? You have to go read
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: an article. Yeah, whereas I go chat major in Jake
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: Craig is five eleven. Yeah, it'll be like, no, I've
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: got it on. I've got it on a shirt right here,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: five eleven and handsome. I could have put five eleven
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: and ugly, but I didn't. I prefer six foot and ugly.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: What do you put on yours? Nothing? Nothing? Nothing? Just
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: speaks to yourself. Mate, don't five seven and unhappy? You're
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: gonna wear that the gym stuff? Why not? Like? Seriously,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: who gives a single ship when anybody thinks about it?
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: Like you? Who gives a single ship where anyone thinks
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: about you? Like we went we were in Pitt Street
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: in Sydney, vlogging yesterday or two days ago or whatever,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: and we were just thinking, like every person out here
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: is like you're never ever ever going to see them again.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: I'm getting that, I'm getting more confident in myself recently.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know what's come over me. I'm just like,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: it's so cliche, but I just don't care what people think.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: I know something. It's you know what it is. We're
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: twenty four, we're both twenty four.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: Now, I'm twenty four and a half your twenty four fresher,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: little baby. But like with this close to a frontal
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: low being developed, oh this is closed, bro, I'm closer
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: than you. But where this close? My vassi pressing ras
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: or your vassa pressing brain must be going ten days
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: away from the missus. That's what I forgot, So bringing
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: it back and then we'll finish. The reason I also
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: thought that that hypothesis was real is because as soon
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: as I left my girlfriend in Bali, she's staying there
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: for an extra ten days. As soon as I jumped
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: in that taxi, I felt something. I felt more horny horned. Yeah,
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: I just got a boner as soon as they got
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: on the tackle, like sorry, making me a second. Yeah, No,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: I honestly I was in the taxi thinking about it,
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: like she gave me this note and I was thinking
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: about that looking back at all the time, and I
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: honestly felt not that I don't love her when we're together,
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: but I felt something more going on inside me. I
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: was in the airport and I was thinking, fuck, that
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: was good. I love this woman, something about missing them. Yeah,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: but when I was with him, like I still think
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: I love her, but I wasn't thinking like funk up?
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: So well, see this is why. But I was thinking
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: that when I was on the flight time, I was like,
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: fucking love this woman.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Damn what Yeah, fucking you get in that. Girls get
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: the rage. That's why they get more aggresive. Your testosterones
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: going on. Yeah you're female.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Maybe hopefully I'll go to the gym after in that rage,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: that love rage. Two questions. One point is that's why
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: I think that you should sleep in separate rooms. More
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: great point, because why do girls? Yeah, what's with this?
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Any girl pops this thing? What's this? When we're asleep,
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: like it's bonding time. We're both asleep, unconscious. You don't
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: even know I'm here until you wake up, Like, let
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: me sleep in another room, Like I like, yeah, Like
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: I don't dislike sleeping with you, but it's like I
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: want my vasa presdent to go up while I'm in
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: the other room. You get you, we'd both get a
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: better sleep. We both like different things. Oh so like
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: well yeah, like what if have you heard, for instance,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: your girlfriend likes waking up with five as Yes, you
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: like to wake up when you wake up? Yes? Okay.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: Second question is.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: This This is off topic, but does it count if
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: you were to have masturbate in a bathroom toilet?
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Are you part of the my high club. It's a
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: very side note. I'm gonna say no. Yeah, I feel
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: like that's like pedal high club. Yeah yeah, no, no
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: for me. But what I was going to say was,
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: have you ever heard of the European bed mass? Scandinavian? Scandinavian?
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Me and bet you do? Do it only where I
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: taught you that. No, I've never heard of it. In
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: Twe went to Bali and it was one of the beds.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what's going on it? I didn't know what
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: to do, like you know, so I didn't teach you that.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: No, Oh, I just we figured it out from TikTok
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: and there's two we do it.
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: So there's two blankets on a bed and you get
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: your own thing. I love it too fair with Cassie's
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: tiny So I don't even notice she's there. Oh, I
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: noticed best there. Not like and not because she's huge,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: She's far from huge. But she's a blanket hog. Bro
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I'm saying it before I say it again. She's a
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: blanket hole. I don't think Cassie does it. She's like
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: a fucking neck. She puts her neck in my shoulder
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: and I wake up and I'm like, get off me,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: like you you know what's funny is like for some reason.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: So if if I woke up and Beth was like
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: next to be touching me, I'd be like, I'd get
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: a roll over and some space.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah. But if I woke up and Henry was like
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: up next to me, like like the dog's doing it?
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: You want it? Yeah, he's fluffy, yeah, like I want
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: to be. And also do you run cold when you
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: get a better hot? I run hot. I mean to
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: be so hot, whereas girls they lay it up. It
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: was hot in Boling. She's got a doner and I'm
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: out here in and just sweating. Yeah that's crazy. And
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: I was just like and then she was a cuddle.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you got thirty seconds pooking around the only
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: thing I yeah. In BALI if the air con was good.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: I'd pump it and use a blanket because like you
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: get cozy. That's what I was having on six yenegrees
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: and then when I better went to night.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like sometimes it's I am more comfortable sleeping in
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Bali than my own house.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: The only thing I feel like air con air does
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: something to your sinuses after a while.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: You're right, it's proven like it makes you sick. Yeah,
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: from like humid to non humid because it dries out
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: your room as well.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, it's like not as hell because it's
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: it's just like fake air, is it, Like it's got
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: to be something like how do they make that's old
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: version of the Like surely that goes through some chemical
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: process and filtered as well. It's probably better. I don't reckon.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: I feel like my nose was always blocked when I
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: woke up in Ballet, but he is like fresh, yeah weird.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Alrighty guys.
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: Next, I just wanted to touch on something about two
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: or three episodes ago. We had a dilemma, and in
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: this dilemma, I explained that the creepiest dudes are actually
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: the ones that I ask you to come back to
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: their place and you say no, and then if they
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: think to themselves that if they can get you back
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: there and get you to like give consent, that they're
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: doing the right thing and getting consent. I just want
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: you to know that that's the wrong thing. By no means,
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: do we think that's the right thing, or do I
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: think that's the right thing. That's actually coercive consent. We
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: had a listener point that out to us, which we
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: really appreciate, and I just wanted to apologize that we
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: did that. I did not know that, and that we
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: have now educated ourselves and that is coercive consent, which
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: is the wrong thing, and we want to preach that
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: by no means do we think that that's right at all.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: We didn't think it was right.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: We learned that it's illegal and that no means no
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: from the start, and we just want everyone to.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: Know that no means no. No means no.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sorry about that, and that's up to us
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: to educate ourselves.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: And yeah, let's get back into it, all right, guys.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: It's dilemmas time. Hey, guys, love the pod. I have
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: a dilemma for you. I have always been generally insecure
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: in the bedroom, but once I'm a little bit more
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: comfortable with the person I like. I like to switch
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: things up lowell like positions, and that my current boyfriend
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: and I tend to have spicy converos when we aren't
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: together because we're long distance because of his work, but
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: have only really done it in Missionary, and when I
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: try to switch things up or suggest something else, it
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: just never happens. I always hint towards trying other things
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: and tell him he can literally do whatever he wants. Yeah,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: but he still does the same thing every time his
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: friend's old joke and say it's me who's vanilla, when
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: I definitely feel like I have a sexier and higher
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: sex drive and want to try more things. Sorry if
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: it's long, but I just don't know what it means
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: or what to do. Help a girl out. Love you guys.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Hey, I gotta say Missionary is the fucking best, and
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: I like, some dudes are just very vanilla.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah they are. Some dudes are boring.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: I honestly think I'm one of them. Really, like I
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: reckon eighty percent of the time.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: My preference is boring. Yeah, my preference. And then like
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: every now and then, you know, if we're both in
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: the mood, Yeah, spice it up. I was gonna say,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: why are dudes so boring? It's actually a great question
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: because I do feel like girls are like they want
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: to do more stuff. It's in I'm thinking for him,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: maybe just because he's away for work and he comes
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: home and he just wants to missionary missionary, missionary. But
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: he should be listening to his part, Like if my
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: girlfriend came to me and said, hey, I want to
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: try some new position, let's do it, Like, yeah, like
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I try new positions if but he but he also
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: like he's the thing is like he actually might just
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: be very vanilla. I think the easiest thing to do
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: here is but the ounds of it, you haven't actually
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: sat down and talked to him. Oh yeah, you do
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: it over text like spicy message, yeah, which is completely different,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: or you hint it when things are about to get sexual,
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: like oh yeah, maybe throw me around or like do
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: whatever you want. Like if I heard do whatever you want,
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: and then I'm about to have get lost in the moment.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: So maybe when there's no sexual text textion sexual tension
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: over text, or in the moment just sitting down having dinner,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: but just be like, hey, you know how we have
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: sex like we just did mission early time, Like I
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: love that, but I also I kind of want to
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: try some new things. I kind of need that, which
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: can be keen.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Like here's a question that she doesn't say it in this,
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: but while you guys are actually having sex, do you
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: ever take charge a bit?
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: Sometimes? Like some girl might need you to take charge
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: because he's scared to do it. Some girls don't like
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: to take charge that they like to be the passive one.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, but I can. I don't know
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: what it's just said. I don't know the percentages, but
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: I feel like a lot more girls like the guys
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: to be in control.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: I think that's probably a pretty common leader, just a llead.
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't say I know any statistics, but I'm thinking, like,
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: but I'm not even I just need help the first
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: couple of times true, and then he'd be here.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: You can be like, okay, to be fair, how this
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: is for you? To be fair? If like a girl
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: is there and she's like all right, let me just
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: get on top of you now, like it's hot, oh
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: my god. Yeah. Guys also like to just be told
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: what to do or like just hit it from the back,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: like yeah, like slap my ass. Yeah, like just maybe
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: that's what you wanted to do. You might want not
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: want that, but you might just be like do it
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: from behind. We've learned it on the pod that like
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: initially it's gonna sound awkward and you're gonna feel like
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I don't want to say that, or like I don't
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: want to do that. But as soon as you start
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: like practicing and doing it more than once, you should
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: be in a comfortable position with your boyfriend where you
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: can try new things and not feel embarrassed.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: This situation could benefit with baby steps. So first step,
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: I'm I'm glad you said steps. Going to say babies,
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: this could benefit with from baby steps. Right, so you
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: could say to him over dinner, like you were saying,
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: like I would really like it if you started to
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: talk dirty maybe and talking dirty we have found out
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: it's not all that hard, Like it's kind of just
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: like maybe a bit of groaning, like a bit of
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: like oh fuck, like fuck yeah, I don't just like
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: say you probably would love for him to be like
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: even while in missionary like him just be like, oh
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: you're so fucking hot, give us one like.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: You're in sexes. Come on, don't you know it's not Chris,
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: but saying it's not. But I'm not in the moment.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: How am I supposed to do it when I'm not
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: in the most I've tried this before. Actually, you babe
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: me into this every time I talk about this, and
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: I've done it before. Just think about if you guys
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: want to hear me do it. Go listen to the
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: whole discography of relatable don't gas. You'll hear it. Some
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: say talking about it. Just say it. You have a girl,
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: I always do it. You're the king, I always do it.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: You ever go? Are you trying to say you don't
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: do it? You're the sex icon on the pod. Let
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: me just hear what you would try and do. No,
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: that's what you would say. She would say, talk to it.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: You go, no, I'm done. Oh man. Sometimes I will
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: say this sex icons back. I will say this.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes it's like I forget to do dirty talk
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  Speaker 2: and then and then I'll be like, oh, it's been
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: like I don't know I'm in it. It's been like
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: I know, it's been a couple of minutes and I
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: haven't made a noise.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: So then I try and make up for the noise.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: I haven't made.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: Fuck, so basically, okay, I reckon, there's I'm sure if
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: you're the type of person that wasn't trying to positions
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: Gili spicy, then I'm sure you want to hear some
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: nice dirty talk, so start with that, and then you
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: reacting positively to said dirty talk is going to give
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: him even more confidence.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: That's my experience.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: I think that's the only thing I can say about it,
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: because that's that's the only way I feel like.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: The only other thing it could be is he's not
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: confident enough to try other positions. To be fair, when
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: I was like eighteen ninety and I'd only done Missionary,
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: I was scared to go and doggy because you finished
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: straight away. No, I didn't even like I'm afraid, Like, honestly,
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: to god, I've thought I didn't know where the holes
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: like when you slip them around who I want to
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: know who scared us as kids and said it's hard
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: to find. Yeah, that's a misconceptions maybe, but maybe I
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: was shitting myself for sex. I was like, what if
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: I can't find the whole? Yeah? I was like what,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: I'm like, well, how do you mean? No, I've never
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: seen one before. A supposed to know where that is. Yeah,
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: and then also you're never going to miss and put
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: it in the barn. I just want to give anybody
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: like there's no way wear a dilemma ones really but
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: maybe if like that's I feel like, I don't know, Yeah,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know. You've got to be keen and really thrusty.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, So I reckon dirty talk is the start,
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: all right, and then like come back to us, I
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: dare say, he's not very confident and you just got
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: to build his confidence up little step by step. Jump
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: on the so try and get him to do dirty talk,
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: and then jump on the Facebook group and do a
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: post and we approve it, right, Like, we'll prove the
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: post and just go update on this dirty talk will
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: have a name on it. You can't do that, Oh.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I wonder if you can do anonymous posts in it.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: Maybe possible, we'll Yeah. Unfortunately, if you want to message
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: ute it, you have to join Patreon. That's how you
• 31:06
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• 31:09
  Speaker 1: this new Facebook group. Legal be in this description of
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: this video for anything updates on dilemmas or if you
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: think we're saying something dumb yeah, give.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: Us updates on episodes, what you thought of it, and like,
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: like everyone can talk to everyone.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: You got some advice, very like my boyfriend was the
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: same and I needed to fucking buy dildo to do it. Like,
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: if you're not afraid to put a dilemma and let
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: that put it in, we'll prove that shit straight away,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: build that community up.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but so dirty talks were it that I'd say, Okay,
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: my dilemma is Hello, guys. I'm a fifty year old
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: woman and have been single for almost five years, about
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: three and a half of that was during COVID. I'm
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: very independent, confident, smart, and I dare say cute. Oh yeah,
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: I don't look my age and often people are very
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: surprised when they find out how old I am. Anyways,
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: I met a guy at work recently and we connected instantly.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: We have a lot of the same interest, same sense
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: of humor, and it's really easy to talk to him.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: It's been a long time since I've felt so comfortable
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: talking and getting to know someone this way. It's obvious
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: we are both attracted to each other. We spend at
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: least thirty minutes talking well after work is done and
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: after everyone else has left the office, which is when
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: we got to know each other. So when we get
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: to know each other, but he is twenty six and
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: plot twist, I'm his boss.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: Oh didn't see that coming. I didn't hire him.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: I came into the job as a new manager. I
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: don't know what I'm asking. I just really feel conflicted.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: Help, okay, okay, okay. Firstly, I wanted to say, oh,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: I absolutely love that we got a fifty year old
• 32:45
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• 32:49
  Speaker 1: just a fifth year old baddie. Yeah yeah, yeah, same thing.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: She knows what I mean. Yeah, hold up, if you're
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: if you're fifty and you're a baddie and you don't
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: have kids, you're still just a milk. Yeah. I don't know.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: Maybe we're wrong, But so first things first, thank you
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: very much for listening. But I also wanted to say
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: love does not change. Love does not change the dilemmas
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: we get from a en year old girls, twenty five
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: year old girls, thirty year old thing. But she's fifty. Yeah,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: same thing, which is a good point. Good point, that's
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, it's the same thing. Okay, Well, we're
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: twenty four we're close to his age, so I gotta
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: love knows no bound this is this is a single
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: man's dream. His boss who's hot has a crush on him.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Fuck like being as like we try to be as
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: mature as possible in this pod. Still, any male would
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: love to admit that this.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Is their DREAMT Yeah, we do try to be mature
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: as possible with that one hundred percent true.
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is like everybody's dream. So what can she do?
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: But like, here's the thing that's tough, is like there's
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: policies in place where it's like you're the boss, you're
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: definitely not allowed to have a relationship.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Is it all? Like, is there any like job places
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: that don't care if you I don't know.
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: I think there's places where you can go and you
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: can say like, oh, we would like to start a relationship.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: We want you to know that we have finished each
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: o blah blah blah blah, and then I think that
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: I think the company can be like, yeah, that's cool,
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: you get to keep your jobs, or they can be like,
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: if you want to do this, one of yours is gone.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know if that's how they do it, that
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: could be right, surely if you go to him and
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: say like, hey, we went on a couple of days
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: and we really like each other. I want to take
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: this further. Is that okay? And they surely they're be
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: like sure, like you just don't matter, let it affect
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: your work work like balance, but I think I feel
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: like they work better twenty six Yeah right, he's got
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: plenty of years for a career ahead of he can
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: quit if he loves you. Yeah, if he wants this,
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: he'll quit.
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't need to be but because like here's
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: the thing as well, Like I have I have done
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: shifts at so Beth manages a cafe Sydney, and I've
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: done shifts when she needs help and she doesn't boss
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: me around or anything by any means. But for some
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: reason I had to start like like if they if
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: she's desperate, like I'll obviously help her. But she says
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: like I can just have shifts if I want them,
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: just for extra cash. Yeah, but like I just am.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Like, you know what, no, because when you're there, you're
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: my boss, and it's just I just don't like the feeling.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: So maybe not like yeah, like by no means that
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: she bossed me round it or anything, but like it's
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: just I just don't really maybe the dynamic it's just
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: not there, Like you can't, yeah, like you can't be
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: in a relationship. You know, you're a woman in power,
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: fucking good on you and then he's half your age
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: and you're his boss. I think, like this will work.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: There's no reason. There's no reason why I work, but
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: he I think one of yourself. I wish she said
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: what job it was, if like if he can find
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: like if you're like a base manager at like some
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know, high up train and then he's just
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: like some basic and you can go anywhere else like
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: this switch like that, Yeah, why transfer? Yeah, yeah we
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: figured it out. You transfer him close enough, like with
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: in half an hour, yeah, and then go on dates. Sam.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: He hasn't actually really said anything about like them having
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: gone on dates, on planning to go on dates, like
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: she just like so she's basically saying she has a
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: crush on him. She never felt connection like this for
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: a long time, and it sucks that she's fifty, he's
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: twenty six, and she's his boss.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: The mature answer is don't do it. Yeah, you know better, Yeah,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: love knows no binds. Yeah, but my life short girl.
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Well he's actually he figure something out?
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: You could it's probably not the I don't know if
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: there's anything wrong with this. Could you secretly go on
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: a few dates? Like could you hint? Like I'd love
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: to take you on a date? And if he says no,
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: he says no, it is what it is.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: But I also don't I don't like, why do jobs
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: get to choose who falls in love? I don't know.
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: I think it's just so I do of like she's
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: the boss and if they're dating, like, oh, is it like.
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: She's got a favor him obviously? How could you not? Yeah? No,
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: she's gonna look at him through gold lenses. Yeah right,
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: he'll be untouchable. How about why don't we his mature
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: and appropriate strategy? Why don't you see if there's actually
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: a connection there? Ask him, Hey, I think there are,
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: like you, maybe I don't, Maybe don't say that, Hey,
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: do you want to go on a date with me?
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: If he says yes, one date under the company's radar, Yeah,
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: who gives a fuck? Yeah, life like you can she's
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: just a job. At the end of exactly, I was
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: gonna say that before, Yeah, take him on one day?
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: And then if the connections were fighting for like you
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: think it is, let's talk and quit. He can quit,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: he can quit. And if he's not open acquitting, talk
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: to your bosses. And I dare say, if they're human,
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: they won't give a fuck. Actually a good point.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if they're human, then like they're either going to
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: be like look, it's actually not okay for him to
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: be in your department.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but he can move to departments. Let's just yeah,
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: make sure the connections there first. Let's not just like
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: live in to Lulu Land. Yeah, don't go getting broken
• 37:30
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• 37:32
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• 37:35
  Speaker 1: but like it does get complicated if they start dating
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: and then you break up, you've got to like fucking
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: see him every day and shit. Yeah, so that's kind
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: of you just got to think about those things. It
• 37:41
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• 37:43
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• 37:45
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• 37:48
  Speaker 2: I don't like being a w downer, but what is
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: the likelihood of a twenty six year old and a fifty.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Year old work long term? But who knows. That's the
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: thing is that she said she an't either one of them.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: She said she looks young. She could look thirty, she
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: could thirty. It's like, seriously, should look thirty? Good luck
• 38:03
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• 38:08
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• 38:44
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