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If you think you are on your last nerve and you are about to toss in the towel - you may want to have some hard truth. · Connor with Honor: AI, Real Estate and Real Life

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  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to give it to you straight.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm going to give it to you because I care.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I think I've negotiated negotiated, navigated a lot of BS in my life.
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  SPEAKER_00: So here's how it really is: the truth, the absolute hardcore truth.
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  SPEAKER_00: If you're going some through something painful, through something you couldn't even imagine going through, I would say, why don't you enjoy it?
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  SPEAKER_00: Try to come to terms with it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Try to accept it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because ultimately nobody is going to help you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You might find those momentary friends or people that feel sorry for you and your circumstance, but ultimately it's going to be you that has to go through it.
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  SPEAKER_00: A person can kind of be attached or even close to you in a relationship, but for them to really get it, they're not going to get it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because it all comes to you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And having it come to you means you have a choice.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can choose how to respond.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, of course, I'm not going to say you can play Superman with your feelings and totally detach yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: That would make you somebody that might have some kind of a psychological disorder.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if that's the way you are, then you might want to seek help.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if you're just a normal, regular garden mill, run-of-the-run of variety human, then maybe this is something you should attend to.
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  SPEAKER_00: If something negative comes in, understand that out of the most negative, most painful, most ridiculous situations come some of the greatest and most magnificent and wonderful blessings ever.
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  SPEAKER_00: Fantastic things come out of pain and hardship and destruction.
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  SPEAKER_00: And if you look at those people in life that kind of have it okay, they just have enough pain to really keep them going on that same path.
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  SPEAKER_00: That's not who you want to be.
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  SPEAKER_00: You want to be that person that hits bottom dramatically and pushes off, and realizing your basement has a basement of its own, and you push off the bottom of that swimming pool, just when you don't think you can breathe or you can get it ever get another breath of air, and you push up and you get up there and you survive.
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  SPEAKER_00: And out of those tragic circumstances, the most painful things in the world are the biggest blessings and the most wonder and most excitement.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe what you need is a paradigm shift, not to feel sorry for yourself, but to actually start looking at things a little differently.
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  SPEAKER_00: Be well.
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  SPEAKER_00: I wish you well on your journey.
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  SPEAKER_00: I truly do.