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Our favourite episode yet! (Ft. Haneen Radhawi) · After Maghrib 🌙

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Assalam Alaikum, welcome to The Aftermath, a podcast.
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My name is Haneen Ruddaway, and I'm doing this with my dad and
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I'm the host because Ahmed is not here.
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Assalam Alaikum, how are you doing?
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Salaam Baba, I'm the Lam goods, how are you?
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Vienna. Vienna.
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Amazing. It's nice to have you here on
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the podcast. I know you told me you were
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nervous before coming on, but you're doing amazing.
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What do you want to talk about today?
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Tell me. How nice Jenna is and you.
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How nice Jenna is and you? Who's Jenna?
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Tell them they don't know who Jenna my.
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Sister. Tell us, Yella, how nice is
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Jenna? My sister is polite to me and
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that break time at my school she comes to hug me.
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Allah, what else? I play with her at home and
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sometimes she doesn't care but I still like her.
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What do you mean by share? Share.
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She doesn't share. Toys.
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Yeah, somewhere. OK, OK.
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But she said shares some chocolate with me sometimes.
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She says chocolate and who buys the chocolate?
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You and dad, Mommy. Me and mommy.
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Amazing. Amazing.
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Anything else you want to speak about today?
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You. About me?
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What do you want to say about me?
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How much you play with me. How much you learn with me.
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How much you teach me I like how you like you.
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Book me flights. I book your flight.
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OK, OK. And we always celebrate Mubarak
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and you enjoy it like me. OK.
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Does yummy foods and then people comes, they give money, but I
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don't really care about it because like people's more
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important about it. People are more important than
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money. I really love that point.
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What do you mean by that? It's just that the poor people
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in need needs money so they can have a better life.
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That's so amazing. Well done.
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Well done. Mashallah to you.
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Mashallah to you. You said you like Jenna.
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You said you like daddy. Of course, we love mommy as
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well. And now don't ask me some
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questions. OK, I'll ask you some questions.
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So you're not nervous. You're doing amazing.
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I'm feeling nervous that I'm beside you, but yeah.
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What's your favorite colour? Purple and black.
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Purple and black. Black because it's a dark
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colour. I'm not really used to like
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colours, but I like the sun but not by its colour.
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How much it makes me hot. Do you know what?
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Do you know what my favorite colours are?
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Yes, black and green, and yeah, I think your food is blue.
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Black, green and blue. I love green.
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Yeah, and you like a black? I like black because I, I, you
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know, I'm she, I at the end of the day.
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So black is the best form of colour, yeah.
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I like purple because my favorite YouTube is colour OK
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and also the cute colour like by there is also nice colour
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because it matches with purple different type.
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Of purple. Yeah.
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I'm going to ask you another question.
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Because people don't know who you are, OK?
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They know you're my daughter by now, but they don't know much
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about you. So you know your favorite
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colour. We know you love Jenna.
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Your sister, Daddy. Me.
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Of course. Mama as well.
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Yeah, like her. So my final question from the
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Holy Quran. Oh yeah, do you like Nurse?
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Nurse is my favorite. You're asking OK, you like sorta
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to nurse. Do you know how to recite sorta
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to nurse? OK, if you sit straight and
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breathe in, take a deep breath. I.
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Don't need one. OK, tell us whenever you're.
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In I'm Not a Baby. Oh my days.
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She's not like this at home. By the way.
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I promise you, God, recite it for us.
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Wait, what? I start.
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With you said no, what do you what do you say before you
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start? Thank you.
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I feel. I feel.
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I feel Sent you. What does?
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Your everything. Shall we tell you at school?
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Thank you. I sent you.
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Now, as a final thing, I'm free. Baba needs to start the episode.
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OK, So I'm just going to say Shukran.
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Anymore Set. Yeah.
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I want to kiss. I want to kiss.
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I'll be able to. Yeah.
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Let's say bye to everyone on the camera.
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Marcelama. We'll see you when.
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I'm 12. When you're 12.
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I really hope you guys enjoyed that segment with my daughter
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Haneen. I know she was nervous, you
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know, she was hesitant and she well, in the last hour before
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the podcast, she was giving me like an indicator, a barometer
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of how confident she was. So if she's done good, please
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let us know in the comments, you know, give her a thumbs up and
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I'll share that with her. And Charlotte.
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This encourages her more. I don't know to come back on the
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podcast or not, but if you're listening to this episode, you
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haven't heard Ahmed's voice. If you're watching this episode
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beyond Air Libby TV or YouTube, you have yet to see Ahmed on
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this episode. If you're wondering where he is,
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I can guarantee you the rumours that he's in the Cayman Islands
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is false. The allegation that Ahmed is
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skiing in the Swiss Alps is false.
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At the same time, the truth is Ahmed recently underwent
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surgery. He stayed in the hospital for a
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few days and Hamdullah was Shakur.
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He is better, he is recovering, he is at home.
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So we pray for him and Insha'allah, you do as well.
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Pray for a speedy recovery so that we can get him back to the
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sets as soon as possible. Now, today's episode is a bit
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different. Why?
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Because Ahmed may not be here, but he's here in spirit and he's
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definitely here. How does he look?
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Beautiful. Beautiful as always, glowing
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Mashallah Nooran Allah Noor. I told you, Ahmed, I'm not
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having this conversation without you.
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So there you are. I bring a photo of you so that
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we can remember you and I'm going to place on the table in
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front of me. Now today I want to go over a
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few updates that we have on after Mushroom.
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At the same time, I want to explore, you know what our
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audience have been saying in the comments section and the DMS
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that they reach out to us and you know how the feedback has
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been on the previous episodes we've had so shallow.
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We will explore that together. We haven't done that in a very,
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very long time. Now, before I mention the
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engagement of our amazing audience, I just want to say 2
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weeks ago, roughly 2 weeks ago, we finally crossed 10,000
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to speak about the event? Yeah, go.
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Ahead Bismillah. So insha'allah, we have been
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and the previous two or three episodes of ours, in the intro,
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think it will be a phenomenal event.
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Number one, we have amazing speakers coming.
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They're going to add so much, so much of value to the event
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Can we get a sisters only podcast?
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That's true, that's so true, and Insha Allah, this is something
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mentioned some of the updates, I think it's now time to get into
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today's episode where Inshallah wanna look over the comments,
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the feedback, the DMS that we've been receiving from our
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audience. And just before I do that, I
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just want to mention something very quickly actually about
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Syria. You know, I'm, I've been
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noticing something quite worrying and I know many people
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around the world are watching and tuning into, you know, the
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events that are unfolding in Syria.
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Some people are happy, some people are upset, some people
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are confused. The way I see things right now
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is that there's a lot of lot of work going on behind the scenes
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to try to hijack, I think, a genuine cry for help from
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Syrians against Bashar al-Assad. You know what, Hamdallah, I
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would say al Hamdallah that Bashar al-Assad is gone.
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He was someone who was cruel, someone who is evil as a leader
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and no doubt someone who, you know, I would say truly, truly
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trying rest on the rights of, you know, a lot of civilians in
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Syria, no doubt. But the problem is, I want to
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mention is that, yeah, he's gone now, which is good for many
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people. And I think you, you have a
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right to be happy and to be joyous for this.
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But I think you need to be cautious and you need to sort of
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think, you know, what's the bigger picture, what's at play
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here? And the way I see it is, you
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know, you have the Zionist state of Israel expanding itself and
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we see this. Yeah.
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I've been watching the news unfold over the last few days.
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I've seen Israel enter to Syria, grab lots of land and claim it
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for themselves in the name of defending their borders.
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At the same time, we're seeing, you know, different factions
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between themselves not knowing how to rule or how to govern
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over their people. So I will just say something.
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I think one has to be wary. One has to be cautious.
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I, I don't want to make this into, you know, something where
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I don't want to say Syrians should have been happy for what
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happened in Syria. I think just like we did in Iraq
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when we got rid of our dictator, our tyrant, our volume, our
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Mujrin, which is Saddam ECN. And very something I saw very
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shocking is that, you know, the Syrians, not all of them, some
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of them when they were celebrating the downfall of
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Bashar al-Assad, they were raising the pictures of Saddam
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ECN, something that makes sense to me, you know, 1 + 1 is 2.
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But this was this equation was, you know, beyond what, what what
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can work in any mind. And when you hold the picture of
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Saddam celebrating the downfall of asset, why are you
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celebrating, you know, the fall of 1 tyrant and praising a
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different tyrant? But anyhow, I think the point I
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want to say is something that I have noticed.
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There's a lot of chats are online, be on X, which is
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Twitter, be on. I've come across some YouTube
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shorts. I've come across some TikTok
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videos and definitely via Instagram where I've seen this,
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this chatter, this noise of sectarianism.
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You know, we have to be careful of this.
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As a Shia, I will say something from my perspective as a Shia
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Muslim. Surya does worry me in the sense
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of does this mean we may go back to, you know, civil war between
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good and evil, right and wrong, truth and falsehood?
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You pick your side, but ultimately it's going to be the
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Shia. I'm not going to say ultimately,
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but ultimately the Shia will have to defend themselves in the
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event, for example, let's say our rights are stepped on or our
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sanctuaries, you know, our holy mosques, our Muhammad, say the
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Zainab alayhi Salam, say the Rokhi alayhi Salam.
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Like if things happen there, then definitely there may be an
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issue in a rise of sectarian violence.
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But I would say from our side, at least I know and history
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proves it back many, many years ago when there was an uprising
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and a civil war in Syria, the Shia were there defending the
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shrines and defending the people.
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And this is something we are more than happy to do all over
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again. What I want to say is be careful
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not to turn this into something has to do with Sunnifi Shia,
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because I'm already seeing videos.
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And I came across a video yesterday which I uploaded on my
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Instagram and it was a man who calls himself Abu Omar al
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Dhimishkri. So the father of Omar from
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Damascus, he was outside Makam Seidharukai Alayhi Salaam, and
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he was saying things along the lines of, you know, oh, Shia,
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you Shia, you're Awafa, you're rejectionists.
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Look at us, we're back. Benny Ulmenya is back to the
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Mishk. You know, Abu Sufyan is back,
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Mawiya is back and he's talking and he's talking, you know,
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Yushi at this, Yushi at that. When he said something towards
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the I didn't mind, it didn't bother me.
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But he said something at the back at the end of the video
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where he said, well, weren't you the guys who said Lady Zainab
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Alayhi Salaam is not going to be held captive twice?
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And that really, really like it made me boil.
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It made my blood boil. And he had the audacity to say
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that outside Makam said Rukhaya Alayhi Salaam.
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And then he says, what my next video.
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So he he's planning on, you know, still putting sort of salt
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on our wounds, where he will go to the latest aim of trying to
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continue the video. And bye bye Shia and bye bye
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that. And may Allah be pleased with
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Mahawya. May Allah, you know, be pleased
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with Abu Sufyan and things like this.
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What are we doing? Yeah.
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And I don't know if I want to speak more about it, but I'm
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just trying to say what I'm noticing.
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What I'm trying to say is that we need to be careful, Insha
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Allah, not to turn this into a Sunni Shi.
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I think rather have to be sparkle right from wrong and
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truth this falsehood. And a few days ago, I came
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across, actually, I'll mention one more video and I'll move on.
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A few days ago I saw a video of someone who claims to be from
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the Syrian rebels. I can't remember if he was
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actually Syrian or Chechnyan, I don't remember now.
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And he was walking into one of our mosques, one of the Shia
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mosques, one of the Hussein yachts, 1 Shia centre.
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And he was walking in with his shoes, no respect whatsoever
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with his shoes on top of our symbols, our banners, our
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posters, our calligraphy, our flags, you know, photos of
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symbolic Shia personalities. And he's walking on there
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holding a book in his hand. And he's saying, look, this is
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the book of the Shia. These are your Shia books.
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These are the Shia books. Little does he know the book he
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was holding was actually Mafati Hajjinan, which is a book
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dedicated to supplications, EDA art, you know, duas to Allah,
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subhanahu Ta'ala. The thing is, he didn't open it.
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But something that struck me when I saw that video is that
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there was a Quran there and I really wished he picked up that
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Quran and he said, look, I've got the sheet out Quran.
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The problem is I think he already opened it and he saw,
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you know, it's the same Quran. So it's not going to fit in his
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narrative. But we just need to be careful
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inshallah not to turn this on a Sunni sheet, I think.
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But for any shit out there who tells you no, don't mention it,
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don't talk about it. No, let us, let us says, oh,
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alright, honey, these the ehl bait mean the world to us,
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right? So if we feel upset, if we feel
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angry, if we feel some form of, you know, rage, I think is only
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natural. And the fact that exists, I
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think it's a blessing from Allah Sopana, what's Allah that we can
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feel this from people who hate the EHL bait from people.
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Who support those who did wrong to the Helen bait, to those who
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oppressed them, angered them, killed them, butchered them and
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the list can go on. So if we feel a sense of being
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upset or sense of being angry, in my opinion, this is
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absolutely normal. Just how we channel it is very
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important and not to make it as Sunni Shia thing.
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And we need to distinguish between who's a takfiri, who's a
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Salafi, who's a Wahhabi, and who's your normal Muslim,
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average Muslim, inshallah. Anyhow, enough of Surya.
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Let's dive into today. OK, so guys, you know, I don't
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think luck worked with us today. Instagram sort of is bugging
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out. It's not allowing me to load a
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number of messages and a number of things before I even came on
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the podcast today. So I said, you know, just in
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case, let me take some screenshots.
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And it seems like Instagram is still doing this.
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So bear with me if not everything is up to date and
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it's only to a minimum. I'm going to come to actually,
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I'm going to wait for Instagram. I may reload it in a bit if it
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works. I'm let me go to YouTube very
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quickly because I remember seeing some comments, some
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interesting comments from you amazing people.
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Let me go to this recent one. OK, so this is an episode with
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Doctor Seid Musaf Al Kazwini, someone who joined us on an
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episode where we discussed narcissism.
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Narcissism, Am I pronouncing that right?
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Narcissism. That's a tongue twister for me
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right now, but you get the point.
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And we spoke about, I think toxic relationships between
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parents and their children. I think we elaborated and
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explored many things like when it comes to, for example, even
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anxiety and depression. So there's a lot of things we
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covered in that episode and there's some comments that have
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come in. So I'm going to share some one
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person has said I've been a silent watcher of these podcasts
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for a while. Marshall, our great podcast.
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I've often had discussions with my family that being depressed
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doesn't mean that a person isn't a believer.
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And it's nice to see justification for their
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arguments. Thank you for what you are
22:29
doing. Love the variety of speakers.
22:32
I definitely agree with this. And I, I, I think I was the one
22:35
who rang up this point not to take credit.
22:36
I remember I was telling saying Mustafa, you know, a lot of
22:39
people say if they are suffering from anxiety or the suffering
22:43
from depression, that, for example, they lack spirituality
22:48
with Allah, they lack a relationship with God, a
22:50
connection with Allah Azzawajal. And I think that's absolutely
22:53
wrong. And, and the says there's
22:54
something very nice when he said just like Allah, for example,
22:57
you know, he's, he's, he's the doctor of the heart.
23:02
Allah Azawajal also wants us, you know, to seek professional
23:04
medical help at the same time as well, be it for your, whether
23:07
you're suffering from any mental ill health or physical health.
23:11
You can't just say, for example, Allah is going to cure me.
23:15
You say, you know, I'll be cured by the will of will of Allah and
23:18
Shah Allah by also at the same time have to seek medical
23:21
professional assistance to alleviate any pain, any
23:24
suffering. And that was a very nice point
23:26
because it goes against that thought process of if you're
23:31
suffering anything from let's say mental ill health or
23:35
depression or anxiety, that you lack spirituality.
23:39
And he said something actually, he said a very nice point.
23:41
He gave an example where he said Allah Spano at Allah says in the
23:46
Quran, he gives the example of the honey, you know, Fihi shifan
23:54
that there is cure, there is a cure in the honey, which was a
23:59
very nice thing, which was a very nice point that Allah spano
24:01
at Allah saying, you know, even honey has its benefits.
24:04
And you know, Subhan Allah, today we look at medicine and we
24:06
look at science and we see it's proven that honey from the honey
24:10
bees, not the fake honey you find in some dodgy stores here
24:13
in London around the world, actual genuine, real pure honey
24:17
has a lot of benefits for a human being.
24:20
Inshallah I'm going to go over some more comments.
24:24
Someone said, oh, this one, this one is OK.
24:29
So in the same episode somebody said I feel this topic should be
24:35
readdressed as abuse and forgiveness.
24:40
Whilst the host intended on talking about narcissistic
24:43
behaviour, the talk veers towards the abused invited to
24:47
forgive. And while the learner Sheikh
24:51
referring to say Mustafa gives good reasons and examples for
24:54
the Prophet's times for doing this, I feel he equally
24:58
dismisses the impact of abuse on a person.
25:00
Furthermore, and on one hand, the chef clearly admonishes the
25:04
act of domestic violence, which is really helpful, but the
25:08
advice not to proceed to tell authorities in cases because of
25:12
children are taken away or separated is very unhelpful
25:16
because it lends to the lack of understanding of the dangerous
25:19
impact third party abuse can have on children.
25:25
That's a very interesting one saying which of all right, if I
25:29
can be honest and I can be real. Firstly, I think I would say we
25:34
tried our best to address this point.
25:37
At the same time, we were limited in time.
25:39
And I, and I think more importantly, I think when we,
25:43
when they say they bring up the, the example of, you know,
25:47
Ayadabullah, a father sexually abusing their daughter for many
25:52
years. And this went on and there was a
25:54
pattern of abuse that's happening.
25:57
See, Islam will always encourage you to seek forgiveness, not
26:02
just in the case of what was happening between this father
26:05
and daughter, but from anything, you know, the fact we only think
26:08
in this from Allah, Subhanawat Allah.
26:10
So the best Islamic advice is that, and you have to note down
26:14
something when they say it was speaking, was that the abuse
26:17
wasn't still going on. He was referring to a subject
26:21
that was happening at the time. And then later on he spoke to
26:24
the sister, is there a way where we can find forgiveness between
26:27
yourself and your father? And he gave us some Islamic
26:29
examples, which is what we learned from from Rasulallah
26:32
Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam.
26:36
And she chose that approach. This was a choice, a choice she
26:39
made. I don't think they say it
26:41
persuaded her or told her. That's the choice you need to
26:44
take. He gave the best advice you can
26:46
give at that time. And as you mentioned, this was
26:48
something he's never heard before happening in in the
26:51
community. And this was a shock to him and
26:54
it was a reality check. Like you, I think rightfully
26:57
mentioned that we need to elaborate on this discussion,
27:01
Insha'allah. I don't want to add anything
27:02
more because I don't want to say anything wrong because it's a
27:04
very, very sensitive point. But I would say one thing, if
27:11
there is, you know, abuse happening, anyone out there is,
27:15
I think facing any form of abuse, be it physically or
27:20
emotionally, I think you have to speak with someone.
27:24
Of course, first speak to our last Pano Matala, but speak with
27:27
someone in sha Allah, they can give you the right advice.
27:29
I, I, I personally would say when you speak, let's say to a
27:33
Maulana, don't just speak to a Maulana, only speak to someone
27:36
who deals in this field professionally.
27:38
So for example, if you have to speak to someone who's, I don't
27:42
know, a mental mental health professional consultant, speak
27:49
with them, not just with a say it or just with a share.
27:51
Speak with both of them so you get the best advice from both on
27:55
how to move forward. And I think after the podcast,
27:59
I'll be very honest, me and Ahmed, who is not here today
28:03
whilst photos on the table, if you're watching, we'll, I, I
28:06
think we, we discussed between ourselves that we definitely
28:09
need to retouch and reopen this, this topic once more because
28:16
there were a lot of things we could not explore deeper.
28:19
But we try to take as much as we can from a say in within a very
28:22
small limited time. So do forgive us if we didn't
28:26
elaborate and expand and explore a lot of back and forth Q&A's
28:31
with the say it and ourselves. Well, Sharla, definitely we are
28:34
going to approach this topic and we do have someone in mind who's
28:38
actually geared for a discussion, in particular when
28:42
it comes to, for example, abuse and narcissism and things like
28:46
that. So inshallah, hopefully I can't
28:49
tell you when, but inshallah, God willing, it will happen.
28:52
What do you think is too much information?
28:54
Huh. You're leaking too much
28:55
information. I'm leaking too much
28:56
information. Say it, I've got a comment.
28:58
Ya sattar, not a comment. Actually a screenshot from one
29:03
of our chats. Our chats as I mean from you, ya
29:07
sattar. It's from you, it says I might
29:11
move. To be honest I'm considering
29:12
many options but I have too much on my plate to consider.
29:15
Does this mean you're you're leaving the podcast?
29:18
One second once. Can you say that one more time?
29:20
It's it's from you it says I might move.
29:22
To be honest, I'm considering my options but I have too much on
29:25
my plate to consider. Are you leaving the podcast?
29:30
Say it. You're trying to cause problems,
29:34
Yeah. No, I'm trying to squeeze you
29:35
into a corner. I I think look, would you?
29:38
Ever leave the podcast? Would I ever leave after Mahreb?
29:41
I think the only way I will ever leave after Mahreb is even if I
29:45
move abroad. That's number one.
29:47
Number two, if if said Mustaba and the team here.
29:51
We'll move abroad with you. A lot.
29:53
I like that, I like that. But I don't think I'll ever
29:55
leave after Mahreb. It's become a part of me.
29:59
Say it. You'll take it with you.
30:00
I'll be honest, I was saying the other day, right?
30:02
I was was I telling you or the entire WhatsApp group that we
30:05
have, God forbid this, this WhatsApp group gets leaked, but
30:09
I was telling it's where. We planned the pot.
30:11
Please no one. No one.
30:12
Hacked the WhatsApp group, so we discussed like topics and who we
30:15
should bring on and stuff. Yeah yeah.
30:17
But sometimes the the discussions go overboard.
30:20
But I was, I was telling say, Mushaba and the boys in the
30:22
group that, you know, when I make a decision, something
30:26
somehow after Magleb always comes back.
30:27
So I'll also put after Magleb as a priority when I think of doing
30:31
something or anything. But I would say something and
30:33
after Magleb, when I say it's become a part of me, it has
30:36
genuinely become a part of me. Say it.
30:40
I wake up, we have to discuss after Magleb, I'm at work.
30:47
By the way, Ahmed, the way it says if we want to add a member
30:49
to the podcast. They have to love it as much as
30:52
we do. If they don't, it's not the
30:53
same. It's a very good point.
30:54
And that's what I think. That's what's beautiful about
30:56
our team. Inshallah.
30:57
And I, and I think I'm right when I say this, is that even if
30:59
one of us is like feeling low or a bit lost or demotivated or
31:03
something, there's always someone in the group saying,
31:06
supporting and pushing us back in.
31:08
So handle that. We have a good bunch.
31:10
Or like when you wake up and Ahmed sent a screenshot of like
31:13
an e-mail we've received or a comment, and then it just shows
31:16
like, people are affected by the work you do and it wants you to
31:20
carry on doing. Bigger things, you know, say
31:21
just I think just a final point on that.
31:25
Would I ever leave after Maghrib?
31:28
I don't think so, and that's the truth.
31:31
If I get cancelled or I or I die or move abroad, hopefully I
31:35
haven't said anything that I guess we cancelled or kicked
31:37
out, but the amount of messages say it and you know this the
31:43
amount of. People you see day-to-day.
31:46
People that reach out to after Maghrib and say how of the
31:51
Muslim has changed their life like I was telling Ahmed 2-3
31:55
weeks ago and this is all in the group.
31:58
Like honestly by the way, I'm going through the comments now
31:59
trying to find something to tell you but it's all just people
32:02
thanking you for your work. Yeah, yeah, I did.
32:03
What I want to say is that we, I generally feel like there is a
32:07
movement, There is something where we are insha'allah guiding
32:13
people towards something. That's right.
32:15
We're giving an alternative to people from, you know, as I said
32:19
early on in the episode, you know, we are like an alternative
32:22
to the nonsense on Netflix, for example.
32:25
But in the reality when, when I get a message, I say, do you
32:29
know this? And how long we got a message?
32:31
Someone said they're in hospital and there were suicidal and they
32:35
were thinking of ending their life.
32:38
Say, do you remember this? They haven't actually told this
32:40
no. No, Say he's in a group, maybe
32:43
you were asleep. I didn't see him And, and, and
32:45
we, the person was like, I was in hospital and I was going, you
32:49
know, through different channels.
32:50
And he came across Edinburgh TV and he came across after Maghrib
32:54
was playing after Maghrib. And.
32:56
And he messaged, I don't know if it was a boy or a girl now, but
33:00
they messaged and they said they explained the situation and they
33:03
said they're very suicidal. They were thinking of, you know,
33:05
ending their life. And somehow they came across,
33:09
they were Shia Muslim at the same time, by the way.
33:10
And they came across Island Bay TV and they came across the
33:13
podcast and we were speaking about forgiveness and Muharram.
33:17
And we were talking about the example of horror.
33:20
Imagine say it. And because this person said to
33:23
themselves, you know, I've done so much wrong in my life.
33:27
You know, I've done so much bad, so many things that I don't
33:31
think God will ever forgive me. And I think when I get comments
33:36
like that, and why would I stop this?
33:39
Why would I leave what I think Allah has blessed me with?
33:42
And it is a blessing because it's something that keeps me in
33:45
check. I gain so much, especially when
33:48
we have amazing, wonderful guests that come on and share
33:51
their words of wisdom and knowledge and experience and
33:55
expertise in the discussions that we have.
33:56
This, this is something I can't get anywhere else.
33:59
If I go to the mosque, Al Hamdallah, I'm going to learn
34:02
something about religion. I'm going to mourn or celebrate
34:05
the Helvet al Ahim Salam. I'm dragging you to the studio
34:07
every. Week but coming something to do,
34:09
but coming to the studio every single week and learning
34:11
something new and reflecting on it and and the conversation can
34:15
go. Even though sometimes we may
34:17
have similar discussions, there is so, so much that we haven't
34:20
discussed. So there is a never end to
34:22
knowledge and Islamic conversations.
34:25
You know, the other day someone told me, they called me.
34:28
What was it? They emailed me actually.
34:30
And they, and they invited me say, to give lectures.
34:34
And I was like, I'm not a speaker.
34:35
They're like, so you think on the podcast I was like, Habibi,
34:39
I'm just having conversations. They're like here, but you're
34:41
preaching Islam. I said, no, we're having Islamic
34:43
discussions. We're having Islamic
34:46
conversations. And I think, I think it's very
34:47
important just to make clear, I'm no scholar, man.
34:51
I I, we learned from you law and we look up to you law and you
34:54
know, you're the ones that. Inspire us, have the
34:56
conversations that you guys are having at home.
34:58
Yeah, which which which is amazing.
34:59
And this was an actual centre by the way.
35:02
So if if they're tuning in and benefiting from this, I I think
35:08
this is this is a last part. I was saying, you know what,
35:10
you're on the right track, I would say.
35:12
And just lastly, just very, very lastly, just on this point, I've
35:16
explored expanded too much, but I would say, no, I don't think
35:25
I'm going to say it. Shall I say it?
35:31
Go and say it shall. I say it OK someone told me do I
35:37
get paid for after my group and I told them I said custom
35:43
umbrella. I've never until today received
35:47
a single pound dirhem dollar pence, cent dinar for any show
35:55
or for any work that we do here. And this is collective.
35:58
A lot of us put a lot of effort here and we see what's
36:01
happening. We've seen, you know, the impact
36:04
it's having. We're seeing an audience that's
36:08
being built of people who are living in the 21st century
36:13
facing the challenges that they do.
36:15
But they see us as a platform and a part of them that helps
36:20
them every single week to stay in check.
36:25
I don't know if I should be, you know, thinking about money when
36:30
these are the first things that can affect me positively
36:34
spiritually and, you know, help me grow my knowledge together as
36:37
a community globally. No, I don't think I'm ever going
36:41
to leave. Even if we never make money.
36:43
And it's not about monetary, Have we?
36:45
Have we ever, you know, put money something?
36:47
No, if we ask for money, it's not because it's coming to us.
36:50
Well, are they coming to our pockets?
36:52
I swear by Allah everything. Production goes back into
36:55
production. It goes straight back into
36:56
production. While you're talking now,
36:58
someone's become a monthly partner with After Margaret.
37:01
Sallah, Muhammad Ali Muhammad, if you're wondering, keeps.
37:04
Happening more and more. And if you're wondering what is
37:06
how do you, how do I become a partner?
37:08
Keep listening because I'm going to touch on that before I end
37:10
today's episode, OK? Before you move on, a comment to
37:14
add on to what you're saying is someone commented I've I've I
37:17
watch aftermarket every time I see you guys post a new episode
37:20
and you made my choice of becoming a Shia and reverting a
37:23
lot easier. Thank you.
37:24
Thanks to you and activate TV. Because of you I'm able to learn
37:28
any time I I want about our faith.
37:31
I'm also from Ohio. Ohio so Marshall Lavro Love
37:36
Salah Hamad Wali Mohammed. So this person you're saying we
37:43
saw after Mushrab. I'm not going to say me after
37:46
Mushrab as a whole. I think collectively we've
37:49
helped them choose the school of albeit this is this is Wallah.
37:53
This is this is a blessing from the last point of time.
37:55
It's not us. This is, you know, God is the
37:58
one who has changed your heart and allowed you to pick the the
38:01
Saratha Mustaqrim, which is the path of wilaya, no doubt.
38:05
Look, when you say this right now, I'm thinking to myself,
38:08
going back to your first point, I ain't leaving enough for now,
38:10
brother. Why would I?
38:13
Why would I wonder? We're impacting lives.
38:15
We're changing lives. Why should we leave?
38:18
Impossible. Impossible.
38:19
May Allah bless that individual and inshallah you continue to
38:22
benefit from the discussions that we have here.
38:26
Yeah, that's nice. Very nice.
38:28
Thank you to them. Thanks for sharing that, Zien.
38:31
Next point, should I go over more comments?
38:33
Yeah, go Zien. OK, so this is an episode with
38:43
brother Sadiq Dimani, who loves his books, bless him.
38:47
And you know, I reached out to Sadiq the other day, maybe two
38:50
or three weeks back because we tried to have another episode
38:53
with him. It just didn't work.
38:54
You know, we plan and our last The Best of planners versus
38:58
Inshallah. We are those trying to
39:01
facilitate Part 2 to the discussion they had.
39:05
And what was nice and unique about Sadek Tammani's discussion
39:08
was that it's all in everyone's minds, but no one's really
39:12
discussed it before, right. It's that I've been my 20s I'm
39:16
lost. What's my direction?
39:18
What's my goal in life like? What's my head F where should
39:21
my, you know, my my North Point on the compens be directing
39:25
towards where? And that was such an important
39:27
conversation. And this comment said look how
39:30
close I was to Allah Subhana with Ta'ala and the Ehel Bates.
39:35
And as my college started everything started to fall.
39:38
I go into mixed gatherings and I lost my essence of faith.
39:42
This podcast referring to the episode of brother Sadiq.
39:44
The money has really helped me and I've taken notes and I'm
39:48
only 19 and I pray to Allah Spanawatahallah that I get back
39:53
on track and become God fearing and have a loving spouse and
39:57
make the best out of this life for this world.
39:59
And the Archer, how beautiful is that?
40:02
Like this is the impact the discussions we have.
40:05
We don't know this is one person that shares this.
40:08
You know, there are 10s of thousands of streams that happen
40:10
across Apple and Spotify. People are listening in.
40:13
This is one example say push the one to everyone watching and
40:17
listening of the importance of these discussions.
40:20
So keep you keep listening if you want to become a monthly
40:24
partner. I'm going to mention more about
40:25
that towards the end. By the way, that episode is
40:28
called lost in my 20s and that was episode 105.
40:33
OK, I, I think we spent a bit too much time on those comments.
40:35
I wish they went a bit quicker so I can go through some more.
40:38
But I do want to go through some messages that we get on
40:41
Aftermath Reb and these came in in particular today someone says
40:46
as a Shia, as a Shia Muslim living in Dubai, it can be quite
40:51
lonely. How do you cope feeling like a
40:53
black sheep? I'm not sure what black sheep
40:57
means. Do you know what I'm saying?
40:58
I've never heard that term before.
40:59
I think in a group of white sheep like you're the one who
41:02
stands out. I become like, but no, this is
41:06
the best example. But you feel like you, you, you
41:09
stand out from the crowd, right? Like you're alone or something.
41:11
Oh, you're. Different to everyone else.
41:13
Look, you're on Dubai, go to Mecca and Medina brother.
41:17
But no, in reality, you can never be alone.
41:22
You can never truly, truly be alone if you have Allah as they
41:25
were just Pano wata. And I think loneliness is is
41:32
it's a property of topic. Let me let me read that all the
41:35
time. As you're living in the bike, it
41:36
can be quite lonely. How do you cope with the feeling
41:38
like a black? Well, look, I'm, I'm going to,
41:41
I'm going to give you the best answer.
41:43
You can live anywhere in the world.
41:45
You can live, I don't know, in, in Mumbai you can live, I don't
41:48
know, in Kirkuk and Iraq, somewhere you can live, I don't
41:52
know, on the outskirts of Mississippi.
41:55
I'm trying to find, I'm trying to show off my geography skills.
42:00
But wherever you are in the world, be at Dubai or be at
42:03
London or the Swiss Alps or the Swiss Alps where they say Ahmed
42:06
was skiing over the last few days.
42:11
Even if you are in Karbala, even I think if you are in your
42:15
community here in the UK, in London, like we're blessed
42:18
Mashallah to have so many centres and community centres
42:21
and like a huge number of Shia Muslims in particular, everyone
42:26
can feel a sense of being alone. In particular, if you do feel
42:30
alone in your case where I think you're trying to speak about
42:34
spiritual loneliness, where I don't think you are getting your
42:38
spiritual continuous nourishment of, you know, words of wisdom or
42:43
inspiration or motivation or knowledge or seeking a helm,
42:46
etcetera. This is where after backlog
42:48
comes in. In reality, you know, you have
42:52
to watch. I think the content we produce
42:56
and other platforms similar to us, you know, there are many,
42:58
many out there. I would give some shout outs,
43:02
but I don't want to leave anyone out.
43:04
But there is a lot of you know, the digital world is full of so
43:08
much nonsense, but there's so much good there at the same
43:11
time. You know, if you tune into, for
43:13
example, let's say our weekly podcasts, shout out to us our
43:19
previous Juma nice episodes with the amazing brother Ahmed Ali
43:24
Okera, who I've always said and will continue to say is an
43:27
amazing great asset to after Maghrib.
43:29
You almost cancelled him today. We almost cancelled him.
43:32
That's why I said inshallah our WhatsApp group never get sleep
43:35
just. Playing with your mind.
43:37
Yeah, but my point is, if you're alone or you feel secluded and
43:41
you want that spiritual nourishment, just turn online.
43:44
There is so much good, great content out there.
43:46
I would suggest something else. So if you're in a secluded
43:50
community where you don't, you think you don't have much people
43:53
around you? Yeah, you can always start with
43:56
likeholdingweekly.com mail with you and one of your family
43:59
members, for example. Yeah.
44:02
And then you'll find over over over time.
44:04
It builds right? It builds.
44:06
You'll meet once who's like you came across at work once and
44:10
then he'll join you and then he'll find a friend, especially
44:13
in somewhere like Dubai. In the past year or so, I know
44:16
at least six or seven people have moved there.
44:19
And it's, it's, it's a community that you can build wherever you
44:22
are in the world. You can by, I think why he
44:25
mentioned Dubai in particular. You know, Dubai doesn't have the
44:28
best relationship, I think, when it comes to Shia, you know, Shia
44:32
Muslim activities, right? Yeah, but yeah.
44:35
But you can always hold private. Stuff, yeah, you can hold things
44:38
in private and there are a lot of Shia in Dubai.
44:41
By the way, the UAE is filled with people who are from the
44:45
school of you know what's crazy? Some of the largest, like top
44:49
ten businesses in Dubai are Shia.
44:50
Shia owned. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
44:52
And it's like unbelievable when you find out.
44:55
Let's let's make sure they're paying their homes and OK, let
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me go to this one. What?
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OK, We do not have a similar platform similar to yours.
45:06
That is for the woman audience. We mentioned a bit early on.
45:10
This is another reason why we need to start this.
45:13
And we did say we want to have a sister's podcast exclusive for
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the sisters. I'm not involved.
45:19
Ahmed is not involved. And this is just two sisters
45:22
having similar conversations to what we have, but I think more
45:24
relatable and approachable to our sisters.
45:27
And Sha Allah, I think this is something so important.
45:31
Yeah, I look forward to it. I.
45:32
Think last year we were on the verge of starting one.
45:34
We were, and then we had. And then we had issues with the
45:37
studios, with the studio we were in at the time.
45:39
So everything had to be on hold. Although we managed to carry on
45:41
the podcast and we had a presenter ID and everything.
45:45
Although now I think the ideas have changed and we're we're
45:48
looking at other presenters possibly.
45:51
So it's all, it's all in the works and it shall like it
45:54
happens very soon. Yep, got another message purpose
45:58
of life and what to do when feeling lost.
46:01
One of these these questions are they require half an hour
46:03
answers. If you ask me, the purpose of
46:08
life is simple, loss is. Subscribed to Aftermath.
46:11
The purpose of life If you want to live a good life, you
46:13
subscribe to the podcast or to the aftermath.
46:16
And you attend the event in January.
46:18
If you are in London, make sure you attend the event.
46:20
Yes much about. Tell them, tell them in their
46:22
face nicely by the way. But if you ask me like what's
46:26
the purpose of life? The purpose of life is simple.
46:30
If you are a Muslim, if you are someone who believes in a lost
46:35
panel or Tahallah, if you are someone who takes Allah as your
46:38
one true God, he tells us, I think.
46:41
You're going to say one true love.
46:43
And one true love? Why not?
46:45
Why not brother? But your whole purpose of life?
46:48
But then what about your wife? Allah Tahallah, you finished my
46:51
fight at last final. I think he says it so
46:55
beautifully. You know, I did not create you
46:59
other than what the reason to worship me.
47:02
I didn't create mankind nor the jinn except that they worship
47:05
me. And if we worship gods, we know
47:09
that's what we have to do. We abide by his laws.
47:12
We we, we listen to what pleases him and say far away from what
47:16
he tells us to start. Stay away, far away from.
47:19
That's the purpose of life. Of course you live your life at
47:22
the same time. I think that's why a lot of
47:23
people who lose. Purpose and life tend to find
47:25
Islam. They sense one way you mentioned
47:29
something very very. Very good it gives you.
47:32
Purpose because when we see Subhan Allah, the number of
47:35
reverts and converts that come towards Islam, even Muslims who
47:40
left Islam one day come back, right?
47:43
And they tell you know what, I was lost without Allah, I had no
47:46
meaning in life. I don't know what purpose I'm
47:48
serving in this dunya. I don't know you know what,
47:51
where I should be headed. But once you find Islam, once
47:54
you fall in love with Islam, and once you have Allah in your
47:56
heart, Allah Mukhala, by the end of the day, once you have God in
48:01
your heart and you know my purpose is you.
48:04
You wake up every day. You have a routine.
48:08
You abide by His laws. Do your daily prayers, you do
48:11
your RG bags must have, but if we're lucky, have an opportunity
48:15
to. That's your purpose in life.
48:16
But what I mean by that, the purpose of this life, it's a
48:19
bridge for the next life because this life was last temporary.
48:23
Mushtaq Banos, may Allah bless, bless your grandfather.
48:26
He originally passed away. I've lost a father.
48:28
Many of you listening out there. I'm sure you've lost a loved
48:30
one, be your young age or recently, God forbid.
48:34
Upcoming. I won't say coming soon.
48:36
That's the worst thing to say. May Allah, you know, prolong the
48:39
lives of your loved ones. But this is reality of life.
48:42
Voila, we're going to die. And the true purpose of life is
48:45
Acura. We work for it in this world.
48:47
And Inshallah, as my daughter says, is gender Infinity.
48:51
Yes, paradise is infinite. And Inshallah we have the
48:54
blessings of being there. Can I do one more?
48:59
One more? Keep it short, please.
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Keep it short. Yeah.
49:05
Oh my God, There's a lot. Now there is a lot.
49:08
OK. Instagram suddenly started
49:09
working. Yeah, it was working sayings.
49:12
Should we make a party, Please do some more content aimed at 12
49:17
plus children and teen years. They need guidance.
49:20
I so agree. I so agree that we need content
49:24
like this, but I don't know if we're the right outlet for it.
49:27
But I think something that we can look into possibly, maybe we
49:31
can work with people who are experts in this field and
49:34
create. Someone commented one saying I
49:37
enjoy episodes that you put that I can put on the car for my kids
49:41
to listen on the way to school. I remember this but not all
49:43
episodes I can do that with. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
49:46
That's very true. I remember.
49:47
That so maybe we can hopefully one day find someone who's who
49:51
can talk well to children, who can do regular episodes for
49:54
children. Sharla, Sharla, we'll look into
49:58
it. Sisters podcast, a children
50:00
segment. It's.
50:02
Too much in our play. Already too much going on,
50:03
right? But more importantly, we can't
50:06
do any of this. Look, I, I, I promise you we
50:09
can't do any of this without your support and your do ours
50:13
and your financial contribution. I did say if you were listening
50:16
to all that honestly. We we've even taken out the
50:18
studio and if he's a really loud, we don't know if we can
50:20
afford to stay there for how long.
50:22
At the moment I said which number says we've taken the
50:25
lease and we believe. That with with the work that we
50:28
can produce there, that people in Shallah support us.
50:31
Law and Shallah Wallah Wallah say this look, if if you enjoy
50:35
our content, if you benefit from our content, if you find value
50:41
in our content, if you support our journey, support our
50:44
mission, find goods in the work that we do and would love for it
50:50
to grow and benefit other people and for us to continue doing so.
50:55
We need a bit more than your duas Volla hella.
50:57
Then we need of course, we put our trust in Allah.
50:59
So panel what's the Allah? He's the best of planners and he
51:02
looks after us. But you are that Wasila that
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You know you know your coffee money, but please, please,
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Of course we'll remember you. Don't forget us and God won't
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UK, perhaps you're up north or you're in Manchester, you're in
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Leeds, you're in Birmingham. We don't saw father, No.
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Somewhere in Brighton, somewhere in Wales, Newquay, Devon was
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saying the right eurography. Yeah, OK.
53:25
You've got Bradford. Bradford Bradford's a big one,
53:28
but if you are in the UK, especially, in particular you
53:30
are in London on Saturday the 11th of January, we are having
53:35
our. First of the annual.
53:38
Our first of the annual say you've got too much fresh hello.
53:41
This happened every year. Inshallah you never know.
53:44
But we are having our first ever official live after Maghrib
53:48
event where we are going to be having numerous discussion
53:51
panels, a live podcast. There's going to be some great
53:55
spoken poetry, amazing recitations.
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We're going to have I think test our talks.
54:00
If I'm not mistaken, we're going to have molid clapping
54:04
celebration. There's going to be an
54:05
opportunity to explore Muslim stalls there on the day.
54:08
At the same time, network and meet like minded individuals
54:12
like yourselves, like your friends and of course, like say,
54:14
wish them behind the scenes. And at the same time and meet
54:17
all the amazing speakers we're going to have who want Sharla
54:19
going to share a lot of wisdom and a lot of knowledge and a lot
54:23
of expertise in the field when it comes to the topic of
54:26
discussion. The best thing about the event
54:28
is you're going to, it's going to be all the people who take
54:31
part in projects like this in one place.
54:33
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you're gonna meet all those
54:35
favorite people you see day-to-day on social media on
54:39
the one roof. Amazing.
54:42
It's amazing. Yeah, you said it nicely.
54:44
And of course, a lot of our guests I think have featured on
54:47
the podcast before, so you'll get the opportunity to meet them
54:50
in person and speak about. And a lot of the people who have
54:53
come on the podcast will be there attending as well, so even
54:56
if they're not on the guest list, you'll still get to meet.
54:58
Them sense so the majority of our guests that live here in
55:02
London will be there in Charlotte on the day and you
55:05
have an opportunity to meet them and greet them and take a selfie
55:09
we hope. The likes of Abdullah Naheb and
55:12
Ahmed Siddiq can also make. It you never know.
55:14
You never know, say Abdullah Naheb, a gem.
55:17
A gem unlike any other brother. Ahmad Sadiq Mullah Ahmad Sadiq
55:21
Shah. Ahmad Sadiq.
55:23
He's he's something else as well.
55:25
We've had two episodes with him. I can't wait for episode 3
55:28
because when you speak to him, you're in the seven heavens.
55:31
So there's a lot we don't want to miss out on that day,
55:33
inshallah. OK.
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And you can all do this by going on www.aftermaghred.com/book.
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There's an option, adult tickets, there's an option
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students where you get, of course, you pay a different
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55:48
However, for everyone, there is also the option to have 20% of
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your tickets. Just use the code AM family and
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AM family and Charlotte, we'll see you there.
55:57
I want to see you there. Be there so that we can talk, we
56:01
can interact, we can network and grow together.
56:03
Be an Allahu Assalamu alaikum or Ahmed Allahi or Barakatu.
56:08
On behalf of me and my Co host Ahmed, much love.
56:13
Yeah, Ali Madad.