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- 0:00Speaker 1: A Reddit list is going viral of things that were
- 0:02Speaker 1: socially acceptable in the nineties but not anymore today, right,
- 0:07Speaker 1: So we want to get into that eight seven seven,
- 0:09Speaker 1: ninety three seven one o four seven. I have like
- 0:12Speaker 1: eight things on the list and I'm gonna go over.
- 0:14Speaker 1: But meanwhile, we want to hear from you. Eight seven
- 0:15Speaker 1: seven nine three seven one four seven. What's something that
- 0:18Speaker 1: was socially acceptable back in the day but not today?
- 0:21Speaker 1: Hi Anna, what do you got what's socially acceptable back
- 0:24Speaker 1: in the day but not today?
- 0:26Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Hey John Jay.
- 0:28Speaker 3: So I was thinking, like babysitting at twelve years old.
- 0:32Speaker 3: I mean, I grew up in the nineties and I
- 0:35Speaker 3: babysat at.
- 0:36Speaker 2: Twelve years old.
- 0:37Speaker 3: I watched for hours like a nine month old baby
- 0:41Speaker 3: in the five year old brother.
- 0:43Speaker 4: Two hours relate so much to this, I remember distinctly
- 0:49Speaker 4: at one point while I was babysitting, thinking to myself,
- 0:52Speaker 4: I am in no way qualified to be doing this.
- 0:53Speaker 5: Right now, you know what's funny that's on the list?
- 0:57Speaker 1: It is babysitting at age ten, multiple kids at once,
- 1:01Speaker 1: and one of them is a newborn.
- 1:02Speaker 5: Yea, literally, that's funny. That wouldn't happen out there, and.
- 1:06Speaker 3: My twelve year old mind, I was like, I can
- 1:08Speaker 3: handle this.
- 1:08Speaker 2: I'm like somewhat of an adult.
- 1:11Speaker 3: I know what I'm doing.
- 1:12Speaker 1: Okay, that's pretty good. Anna, thanks a lot for calling
- 1:14Speaker 1: in sharing that you're welcome. Good day eight seven, seven, nine, three,
- 1:18Speaker 1: seven one oh four seven. Shall I go over more?
- 1:20Speaker 6: Yeah?
- 1:21Speaker 5: I want to hear this.
- 1:23Speaker 1: Having no idea where your kids were, they literally had
- 1:25Speaker 1: to make PSA's that said, it's ten pm, do you
- 1:28Speaker 1: know where your children are?
- 1:30Speaker 7: Yeah, that's actually very funny. I saw this real.
- 1:32Speaker 4: It was like I'm raising my kids like it's the
- 1:34Speaker 4: nineties and it's like this mom and she's like, okay,
- 1:37Speaker 4: so like you're outside, you're this is where you live
- 1:40Speaker 4: for the day, and it's like where's your brother?
- 1:42Speaker 7: Because I don't know? She goes perfect. That's just something
- 1:44Speaker 7: I know.
- 1:48Speaker 8: I feel like for us, it was always like as
- 1:50Speaker 8: soon as the street lights on, like you better get
- 1:52Speaker 8: your bother.
- 1:53Speaker 6: That was a more responsible but we used to have
- 1:56Speaker 6: I'm telling you where I grew up, there's so many
- 1:58Speaker 6: kids in our neighborhoods. Our parents would tell us you
- 2:01Speaker 6: are not special. My cousins, my uncle would be like
- 2:05Speaker 6: why would they just say you're not special, You're not special.
- 2:08Speaker 6: You you can be missing, and we've got seven more
- 2:10Speaker 6: kids just like you. Oh that's our generation.
- 2:15Speaker 1: No, well, here's some other things. Mooning people because the
- 2:18Speaker 1: moon anybody else.
- 2:19Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean back in the day recently that.
- 2:22Speaker 1: It was a much more common prank back then, and
- 2:24Speaker 1: people just accepted it.
- 2:25Speaker 5: You do now you could get arrested. That's sad. Moaning
- 2:28Speaker 5: was so much fun. That's hilarious.
- 2:29Speaker 1: Another thing on the list that making plans with someone
- 2:32Speaker 1: multiple days in advance, not talking about it again, and
- 2:34Speaker 1: just showing up without them having to confirm that your
- 2:37Speaker 1: plans are still on.
- 2:38Speaker 5: And you showed up. Things that were socially acceptable than that.
- 2:42Speaker 5: He's been out today. Smoking in a restaurant.
- 2:45Speaker 1: Even if Burger King had smoking sections, every bar smelled
- 2:48Speaker 1: like an ashtray.
- 2:49Speaker 5: When I was in eighth grade, I worked for my
- 2:51Speaker 5: dad in a restaurant. It was the grossest thing was
- 2:52Speaker 5: that all you keep a fake called King's table.
- 2:54Speaker 1: My dad would make me work for free, not even
- 2:57Speaker 1: pay me, and I remember I had to, like all
- 3:00Speaker 1: the old people sitting there, get all their leftover food,
- 3:02Speaker 1: and I remember it'd be like a cigarette button in
- 3:04Speaker 1: the mashed potatoes.
- 3:05Speaker 5: It was like, oh god, it's so gross, so gross.
- 3:08Speaker 5: This is a big one.
- 3:11Speaker 1: Leaving your kids in the car while you went grocery shopping,
- 3:14Speaker 1: whether it was raining, I mean it was one hundred
- 3:16Speaker 1: and twenty degree. People you know, supposed to have by,
- 3:18Speaker 1: They always left your kid in there, not being reachable
- 3:20Speaker 1: at all times if someone wasn't home.
- 3:21Speaker 5: Back then, you just waited.
- 3:24Speaker 1: And the number one thing, it's so funny, this is
- 3:27Speaker 1: the number one thing that was socially acceptable in the
- 3:29Speaker 1: nineties but not today, is showing up with someone's house
- 3:31Speaker 1: unannounced to hang out.
- 3:33Speaker 8: My gosh, that happens actually on the weekly basis. At
- 3:37Speaker 8: my grandma's house. They have this little group they call
- 3:40Speaker 8: themselves the Honeys, and they're all like eighty between like
- 3:43Speaker 8: eighty and nineties years old. They're just these old ladies
- 3:46Speaker 8: that hang out and they come and they knock on
- 3:47Speaker 8: each other's doors with pie uninvited, and they use and
- 3:52Speaker 8: they chat and.
- 3:52Speaker 5: Have teeth, have fun.
- 3:54Speaker 7: I want that at eighty I don't want that right now.
- 3:57Speaker 5: You know.
- 3:58Speaker 1: My friend Kevin Roll from Arnon Row is in my
- 4:00Speaker 1: neighborhood and he comes by my house every once in
- 4:02Speaker 1: a while with his family and he came by.
- 4:04Speaker 5: I was at home text because hey, came by your hash.
- 4:06Speaker 5: I went home. I go, why did you do? Why?
- 4:08Speaker 1: But understand, here's what. We're just riding bikes were comeing around.
- 4:10Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, give me heads up, like, hey, we're
- 4:15Speaker 1: gonna be by. He's trying to bring back the honey.
- 4:17Speaker 1: He wanted one of the honey whoa Hey, like, you
- 4:20Speaker 1: gotta give it. You can't just come by my house.
- 4:21Speaker 1: Who doesn't Another thing also just calling somebody like I'm
- 4:26Speaker 1: gonna be like, hey, you got a second, you text them?
- 4:28Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna call you now. And now if
- 4:30Speaker 1: I do happen to call someone just because I'm like, hey, sorry,
- 4:32Speaker 1: I didn't text ahead of time, Right, I'm sorry.
- 4:34Speaker 5: I'm just not just calling you.
- 4:35Speaker 7: That's what I Sorry I didn't text, but I'm driving
- 4:38Speaker 7: or whatever.
- 4:39Speaker 1: Yeah, So what are some other ones? Eight seven seven
- 4:41Speaker 1: ninety three seven one o four seven What was socially
- 4:43Speaker 1: acceptable back in the day but not today? We'll talk
- 4:46Speaker 1: to you next, John Jay and Rich.
- 4:50Speaker 5: Jelly you Hi, good morning? Who's this Hi? What's going on?
- 5:02Speaker 9: So things in the nineties that aren't acceptable now is
- 5:05Speaker 9: My mom used to send.
- 5:06Speaker 2: Me into the Sword to buy her cigarettes and she
- 5:08Speaker 2: would wait to the deli owner and I would hand
- 5:11Speaker 2: him the cash and he would hand me the.
- 5:13Speaker 9: Pack of cigarettes at like six seven years old, and
- 5:15Speaker 9: I'd walk out.
- 5:16Speaker 5: The store.
- 5:20Speaker 6: Acceptable.
- 5:26Speaker 5: Gross. All right, thanks for calling it, thank you.
- 5:28Speaker 9: Yeah, I have a good one.
- 5:31Speaker 5: Hi, Kerry, you're on the air.
- 5:34Speaker 10: Hi.
- 5:34Speaker 9: I am so excited to talk to Kyle about Him
- 5:37Speaker 9: and Her? Is that not the best though you've bought
- 5:40Speaker 9: so far?
- 5:41Speaker 7: His and Hers? It's the number one show on Netflix
- 5:43Speaker 7: right now.
- 5:43Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm sorry, it's a twist. Have you gotten to
- 5:49Speaker 9: the end yet, because until you get to the very
- 5:51Speaker 9: last five minutes, you'd think it's somebody else.
- 5:54Speaker 7: Yes, that's the roomy for a loop.
- 5:56Speaker 4: And I literally said that I was okay with the
- 6:00Speaker 4: ending that I thought was the ending, but when the
- 6:03Speaker 4: twist came in, I was like, Okay, Now I'm one
- 6:06Speaker 4: hundred percent in on the show, because before I was
- 6:07Speaker 4: like okay.
- 6:08Speaker 9: I know, because yeah, I thought, okay, it's the other girl,
- 6:12Speaker 9: you know, the one they never talked about. But oh
- 6:14Speaker 9: my god, oh my god, So John Jay, you got
- 6:16Speaker 9: to watch it if you haven't, and carry I'm so
- 6:20Speaker 9: this is Carrie, and I'm one of your fans, and
- 6:21Speaker 9: I just wanted to make sure that you you were
- 6:24Speaker 9: in love with this show as much as I was.
- 6:26Speaker 9: And I hope there's some kind of sequel or twist
- 6:28Speaker 9: because that was great. I mean, another twist that they could.
- 6:31Speaker 5: Put in there.
- 6:31Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 6:32Speaker 5: Carry, I watched it and I finished it yesterday.
- 6:35Speaker 1: Oh you did.
- 6:36Speaker 5: Yeah, and the twist is crazy.
- 6:37Speaker 1: I was telling Kyle, I woke up in the middle
- 6:39Speaker 1: of the night thinking about the twist, thinking about how
- 6:42Speaker 1: dark that is, especially especially there's a murder in the
- 6:45Speaker 1: bathtub and when they show that murder, Yeah, it's so disturbing.
- 6:49Speaker 1: Even though it's only for a second, right, that is
- 6:51Speaker 1: so disturbing. There's so many I know.
- 6:54Speaker 9: I was watching it and we were gonna go to bed.
- 6:56Speaker 9: I'm like, no, let's just keep walking. We literally stayed
- 6:59Speaker 9: up to finish the whole and it was amazing because
- 7:02Speaker 9: I did not see the end.
- 7:03Speaker 8: I did not.
- 7:04Speaker 9: My other half said, yeah, I think that's who it is, Like,
- 7:06Speaker 9: no way, uh huh, And.
- 7:08Speaker 5: Yep, what a twist. Man.
- 7:10Speaker 1: That shows a great twist. Thanks Carry for listening, appreciate you.
- 7:14Speaker 9: Are you watching the following yet?
- 7:16Speaker 5: I saw that a long time ago with Kenn Bacon.
- 7:18Speaker 9: Oh yeah, I guess I'm behind.
- 7:21Speaker 1: Just put that on a note. So many people have
- 7:23Speaker 1: told me about it. Actually, they put that out a
- 7:25Speaker 1: couple of months ago. What they just put out was
- 7:27Speaker 1: the nineteen sixty three the JFK.
- 7:30Speaker 5: One with Yeah, with the Franco brother.
- 7:34Speaker 7: That's like a it's called eleven sixty three. I started
- 7:37Speaker 7: watching it. I was on the third episode.
- 7:38Speaker 8: Do you like it?
- 7:39Speaker 7: I don't know.
- 7:40Speaker 8: I feel like I watched one episode and I was like,
- 7:43Speaker 8: this isn't given what.
- 7:43Speaker 5: I thought it was.
- 7:44Speaker 9: I yeah.
- 7:45Speaker 4: So basically, like James Franco's like friend, his older man
- 7:50Speaker 4: has discovered a like time travel closet Telly, and his
- 7:56Speaker 4: older man friend wants to go back and stop the
- 7:58Speaker 4: assassination of JFK, and somehow convinces James Franco to do
- 8:03Speaker 4: it because he's dying and James Franco is like still
- 8:06Speaker 4: young and vibrant, and so he goes back in time
- 8:09Speaker 4: and the mission goes from trying to do that, trying.
- 8:13Speaker 7: To stop the assassination of JFK, to trying.
- 8:15Speaker 4: To stop a murder that he knows about from somebody
- 8:19Speaker 4: he really respects him.
- 8:21Speaker 7: Like cares about but.
- 8:22Speaker 6: Time doesn't want you to change it, so it pushes
- 8:24Speaker 6: back on you. So the bigger the thing you try
- 8:26Speaker 6: to stop in time, the more the time pushes back.
- 8:29Speaker 1: That's top ten on Netflix too, But that came out
- 8:31Speaker 1: on Apple TV ten years ago.
- 8:33Speaker 5: That's yeah, yeah, yes, Oh.
- 8:35Speaker 7: I didn't see That's so funny.
- 8:37Speaker 1: It was weekly. It feels new, I know, and it
- 8:39Speaker 1: was weekly, so I remember watching it. I remember really
- 8:41Speaker 1: liking it so far.
- 8:42Speaker 7: I don't know.
- 8:43Speaker 4: I'm just kind of like, I'm kind of hooked, but
- 8:46Speaker 4: I don't know if I'm like ready to be like
- 8:47Speaker 4: Gus shall watch this.
- 8:49Speaker 6: Remember it's Stephen King book.
- 8:51Speaker 5: Caro Weird, thanks for calling in, have a great day.
- 8:55Speaker 9: Great you guys as well.
- 8:56Speaker 1: Thanks. Okay, let's get back to things that were that
- 8:59Speaker 1: are table the nineties but not today.
- 9:01Speaker 2: Mary Anne, Hey, guys, so mine's opposite. Let's talk about
- 9:07Speaker 2: the mustache and how it has peto vibes back in
- 9:10Speaker 2: the day but apparently it's acceptable now.
- 9:14Speaker 5: Yeah, mine's acceptible, but it still looks pet up.
- 9:17Speaker 2: It's like there's no way around it. You can't unsee it,
- 9:20Speaker 2: all right, if you're in your forty other plus.
- 9:24Speaker 5: That's so funny. Thanks Verry, thanks for holding that was
- 9:26Speaker 5: a great glow.
- 9:27Speaker 1: Good morning, Hey guys.
- 9:31Speaker 2: Okay, so back in the.
- 9:33Speaker 11: Day day I used to like go to the airport and.
- 9:37Speaker 10: Like watch my dad leave on his plane and like, oh, yeah,
- 9:40Speaker 10: that's actually him, but it really wasn't.
- 9:42Speaker 11: But you know, I believe we watched.
- 9:43Speaker 3: In the window and now this is not happening, not happening.
- 9:47Speaker 5: Yeah, it used to be before nine to eleven.
- 9:48Speaker 1: You used to be able to go all the way
- 9:50Speaker 1: to the gate until they got on the plane, right.
- 9:52Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, great movies have a gate airplane gate scene.
- 9:58Speaker 5: Now that doesn't fly at all. Dumb and dumb is
- 10:00Speaker 5: the best. Thanks. Cool, that's a good one.
- 10:05Speaker 9: All right, bye y'all.
- 10:07Speaker 1: Hey Roxy, what was what's acceptable the nineties but not
- 10:10Speaker 1: acceptable today?
- 10:13Speaker 5: Roxy?
- 10:15Speaker 4: Yes?
- 10:16Speaker 11: Yeah, Now, I mean it used to be acceptable so
- 10:19Speaker 11: much thinking you could swap your kids and act up
- 10:22Speaker 11: in the store and you would like swap them. It's
- 10:25Speaker 11: like stop that, and now if you do that, you're
- 10:27Speaker 11: gonna call it already.
- 10:29Speaker 6: I like how Roxy misses that you could sweatch your kids.
- 10:33Speaker 6: It was a glorious time.
- 10:36Speaker 1: You know.
- 10:38Speaker 6: If you gotta give him something, my mom would just
- 10:40Speaker 6: be like, wait, toll we get home, mom?
- 10:43Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah.
- 10:44Speaker 8: My mom would embarrassas from everyone in the grocery store.
- 10:46Speaker 9: And then we gave home.
- 10:49Speaker 11: And I have a black mama, so you know she's
- 10:52Speaker 11: gonna she's gonna do it right there. There's no waiting
- 10:55Speaker 11: to get home.
- 10:55Speaker 2: Get you right here.
- 10:57Speaker 1: One time I had a dark and I shot a
- 10:58Speaker 1: dart through a straw and it hit my mom in
- 11:01Speaker 1: the butt in the grocery store, and she took the
- 11:03Speaker 1: dart out of her butt and chased me around the
- 11:05Speaker 1: grocery store.
- 11:05Speaker 5: Do you want to know what? He's going up and
- 11:10Speaker 5: down the aisle with a dart in her hand.
- 11:12Speaker 1: And I was like, hey, Roxy, have a great day, guys.
- 11:19Speaker 1: I mean, if you saw that today, a woman chasing
- 11:21Speaker 1: the kid of the dark in prison, Christopher, good morning.
- 11:26Speaker 4: Good morning. How are you doing?
- 11:27Speaker 10: Man?
- 11:28Speaker 5: What was acceptable in the nineties but not today?
- 11:30Speaker 3: Do you know what's crazy? The lady before Roxie took
- 11:33Speaker 3: my was getting a whooping in the middle of the store.
- 11:37Speaker 10: Because my mom.
- 11:38Speaker 2: My mom didn't care.
- 11:39Speaker 3: She'd like she was like hey, she look at people
- 11:41Speaker 3: and be like, hey, I'm goa whoop my child. Now
- 11:43Speaker 3: you whoop your child. They want to call.
- 11:44Speaker 5: The police and you just you know, it's that you
- 11:46Speaker 5: can't do that nowadays.
- 11:48Speaker 1: Yeah, true man. Thanks Christopher Kelly, good morning. What was
- 11:51Speaker 1: acceptable the nineties but now today? Kelly Kelly, this isn't Kelly,
- 12:01Speaker 1: says Kelly.
- 12:03Speaker 5: What's your neighbor? Yeah?
- 12:09Speaker 10: So anyway, I was telling my sister about how my
- 12:12Speaker 10: son has turned our porch to a gathering with all
- 12:15Speaker 10: the neighbors and a smudge, and she told me that
- 12:18Speaker 10: they're building homes these days without porches because neighbors don't gather.
- 12:23Speaker 5: Oh that's sad.
- 12:25Speaker 6: They're building homes without porches because nobody wants to gather
- 12:28Speaker 6: on the porch anymore.
- 12:29Speaker 5: With a neighborhood, right.
- 12:33Speaker 10: Don't, together with your neighbor, bring back the porch.
- 12:36Speaker 7: Yes, I love the porch, but I don't know if
- 12:39Speaker 7: I want to gather.
- 12:44Speaker 1: There's this trend in my neighborhood where people are building
- 12:47Speaker 1: their houses and then they'll put like a firepit out
- 12:49Speaker 1: the front, and I'm like, what's that about?
- 12:51Speaker 5: They go with then everyone, No people are going to
- 12:54Speaker 5: come by.
- 12:55Speaker 7: That is actually pretty cool, like a social pity.
- 12:58Speaker 1: My friend Shane, he has a green light and he
- 13:02Speaker 1: turns on the green light and when the green light
- 13:04Speaker 1: is on, it means he wants people to come over,
- 13:05Speaker 1: and people come over.
- 13:06Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, it's like the crispy cream, hot and ready.
- 13:08Speaker 5: Right.
- 13:14Speaker 1: I put that in my house, I would take out
- 13:15Speaker 1: the light bulbs and smash it.
- 13:19Speaker 7: I would be confused.
- 13:20Speaker 8: If it was right, I would think there's s freshed
- 13:21Speaker 8: out for sure.
- 13:22Speaker 1: Here's a text right here that this is very much
- 13:25Speaker 1: growing up Mexican. This is rubbing tequila and kids gums
- 13:27Speaker 1: when they're teething. I suggested for my niece's nephews all
- 13:30Speaker 1: the time, and everyone looks at me like I'm crazy.
- 13:32Speaker 1: Start all the time.
- 13:33Speaker 6: I was toddy for a sore throat for a little
- 13:35Speaker 6: kid too. A little whiskey and carry your sore throat.