Transcript

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I'm Stephanie.
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I'm Merida.
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And welcome to, this is my circus.
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Hey, how are you doing?
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Oh, how you doing?
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I, it has been a week.
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It's been a busy week.
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sometimes with like the short week.
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It's like so tough with just having Labor Day.
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It's like, things just get crazy.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Like I lost track of what day it was.
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You know, like we were talking about, you know, meeting to record and stuff.
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And you said something about last episode and I was like, Oh my gosh, it's Wednesday.
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I didn't even listen.
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Yeah.
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So just, and I had some drama we can get into.
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Nothing, I mean, not like people drama, just like life drama.
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Yeah.
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So, I'm well versed in that.
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Yeah.
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Well, so, Our friend Linda, whose husband passed away tragically this summer, Adam, she was planning his 60th birthday party.
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So they still had it on Sunday.
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And, it was like a huge event.
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They had a food truck.
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She lives on several acres.
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So they were doing like a skydive thing.
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Like it was a thing.
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Yeah.
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And I got ready and I got in my car to go and got outside and looked at my car and I had a flat tire.
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Oh no, not.
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Like, oh, that's a little out.
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I'm talking like, all the way down.
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Flat, flat.
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And I can change a tire, but that doesn't mean I want to.
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So, Brian was home.
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So, he, plugged it, but it still was iffy.
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So, that was on Sunday.
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It was still not a hundred percent, but it was enough for me to get somewhere for them to fix it officially.
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Well, I don't know.
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You know, Monday was Labor Day, so everything was closed.
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So we had to wait till Tuesday for me to go plug it.
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so I took that and got that done and came home and like the next day.
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Brian and I were going to switch vehicles because I wanted his truck to take some stuff to the dump and, and that kind of thing.
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I like, I like doing that.
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you are, I don't, why?
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I don't know.
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I like driving the truck.
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Let me rephrase that.
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I don't like going to the dump and doing all that.
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Yeah.
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No, I like driving the truck.
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Okay.
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Um, yeah.
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I'm not good at it.
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Like it's way too big, but I like it.
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So, he got in my car to take it to work and the battery was dead.
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Like not a good week for cars.
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Well, it's not a good week.
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And in between that, like I said, just the short weeks for work.
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So like 10 hour days trying to make up the time for having Monday off.
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Just all the things, all the things.
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but enough about me.
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How was your week?
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uneventful, which is always good.
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Yeah.
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But I was like doing taxes and stuff last night, so I, that's why it's not at the game, but I saw the score and way to go Clover.
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So, so glad we beat them.
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I'm so glad we beat them.
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They were talking the most They were talking so much trash.
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So we had never played this school before.
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Let's call them out there right over the bridge, right over it.
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And they were calling it like the, the battle of the bridge.
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And we're like, who was calling it that then?
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Yeah.
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And then, so it just kind of turned into that was what all over the Instagram pages and all that was the battle bridge.
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So, yeah, it was just, you know, they talked a lot and the opening kickoff, we ran it back like, and that just set the tone.
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They played well.
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There were some mistakes, of course, they're kids and they're human.
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But, Jay played well we won by like 30, I think.
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So, I was like, oh my goodness.
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Yeah.
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And it was so funny.
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We looked over at their student section in like the third or fourth quarter and they were gone.
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It was at Clover.
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but we looked over because they were kind of right across from where we sit and it was emptied out.
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Yeah, it's tough for them.
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Well, they do all the trash talking.
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Yeah.
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Did they, they travel well?
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Like, since it was so close?
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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Yeah, they did.
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The, the visitor side was pretty full.
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They brought, I wouldn't think it was all of their band, but they brought some band people and then they had their cheer and, Yeah, that was, it was pretty full.
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Now there, it wasn't like a huge student section.
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It was probably a couple of rows, but still a good amount.
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Yeah.
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next week is at York.
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Okay.
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So, you know, that's a big rivalry.
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Yeah.
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And, and it's so close.
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So there's always a ton of meetings.
3:56
Yes.
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Yeah.
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Yes.
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but there was a fight.
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On the field?
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No.
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Oh.
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Well, there was some chippiness on the field and Breaking up one.
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And I was like, who was that?
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Who are you?
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He was like, I don't even know Mama I was like, okay.
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but there was a fight amongst some of the kids that were not playing.
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Oh.
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And I'll check with them to make sure it's okay.
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We air this before you air it.
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Okay.
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Air it like we're on the radio.
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Well, you know, it's fine.
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It is like stream.
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So, um, so we're sitting there and it's like Brian and some of his work people came and then me, jazz, Olivia Jazz's kid, you know, we're all together.
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Right.
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All of a sudden Olivia jumps up and runs down to, an area where there's tables because some kids had started congregating and you know, it got kind of loud over there.
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So then here goes Isaiah, here goes jazz.
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And I'm like, I'm just gonna stay here'cause I don't know what if they need somebody on this side, like we had at that point had no idea what was going on.
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So Olivia's youngest.
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Jace is in fifth grade.
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A kid that he knew but didn't like know know but pulled his pants down, like pants down.
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So Jace swung on him.
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Well, and so the kid hit him back and the kid was older.
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So Drake, who's in the eighth grade, was like, no, no, no, no, yeah.
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So Drake hit the other kid several times.
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So I mean, I don't know, I, you know, you don't want kids to fight, but.
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That's also life lessons.
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Um, I'm just glad Gabriel wasn't there.
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Yeah.
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What, grade was the other kid in?
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I don't know.
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I don't really know.
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I know him, but I don't know him super well.
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Super great family.
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I mean, but you know, kids are kids.
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It's a stupid thing to do.
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Right.
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You know, like, right.
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You know, that used to be like a real big thing just to go up behind somebody and shoot.
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Yeah.
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but Jace wasn't having it.
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And I don't blame him for being upset.
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He doesn't want to buy C's business.
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I get it.
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But kids are kids, you know, I think everything was okay after that though, but it was like a text there today.
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I was like, how are Rocky and Rambo today?
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But, the kid is older than than than Jace.
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So he.
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You know, really didn't have any business swinging on anybody younger.
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Yeah.
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He was older and bigger.
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Jace is younger and smaller.
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So anyway, that was exciting.
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Then of course, they all came and they sat with us after to make sure that, just stay out of, no repercussions or whatever.
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But they're okay.
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They're fine.
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It was just, you know, like a kid scuffle.
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It is what it is.
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It's like, not a big deal.
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But then, they were going to Waffle House after the game last night.
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And some of the kids, I swear, it makes me laugh.
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They give Jackson such a hard time because he's so young.
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They're like, let's go to the Waffle House.
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Jackson, you going?
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I was like, how's he gonna get there?
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And they're like, Oh, yeah, you know, or whatever.
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And then he was like, no, I'm good.
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I was like, Jackson, you don't go.
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He's like, no, he didn't want to get into anything.
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If the Palisades kids came there and Clover was there cause it's kind of in the middle.
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He was like, I'm tired and I'm sore.
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Let's just go home.
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And I was like, okay.
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He said, but I am starving.
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So, so we went through McDonald's and we're sitting in line.
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And it's like around the building because everybody else is there.
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By the way, if you own a business in Clover, if you own a restaurant, please be open later.
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You would make so much money if you're open later, especially on a game night because there's nowhere else to go.
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so you're welcome.
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Um, anyway, I feel like I'm doing a lot of talking.
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I'm going to wrap this up.
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So we're sitting in the McDonald's line.
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Brian and Fred, Jackson and Beckham.
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Jackson's just sprawled out, you know, whatever.
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And all of a sudden, some of the other football players come by and they're like, Oh, it's our favorite sophomore.
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And he's like, what's up guys?
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So Long story short, the game was fun.
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A lot of extracurricular activities going on because of just, you know, kids.
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but everything was good.
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Everything's fine.
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Next week is away.
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Come see us at York.
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Dylan, went last night.
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I didn't see him.
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I feel like I didn't see a lot of kids.
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He said that they left, A little bit early because we wanted to get McDonald's smart, smart.
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And so they left a little bit early, but, he was exhausted.
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I mean, like, he's just like between school work and doing all things.
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And I'm like, you look horrible.
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Like go to sleep.
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I love you, but take a nap.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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But he said it was a good game.
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Yeah, it was over.
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It was.
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The only thing was, is it took so long.
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It was one of those, like every play had a flag or a timeout and it just got to the point, like, just sand already.
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Right.
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The dude in front of us was that was with us.
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It's so funny.
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His wife listens.
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Hi, Michelle.
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so his name is Ryan and he was, he works with Brian and he had come to watch and hang out and stuff.
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The ref was terrible.
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And Ryan took his glasses off.
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I was like, do you need mine?
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And like, holding them out to him.
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It was great.
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It was really funny.
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You know, I'm a trash talker to refs.
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Yeah.
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So it might have been good that you weren't there last night.
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Yeah, So how did you like this week's book?
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I didn't like it.
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Well, okay.
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So we were supposed to, yeah, we're supposed to read the glass castle.
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I hated that one.
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And I like, like fantasy, I like that.
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and I like, like the teenager, younger adult stuff, like maze runner and hunger games and divergent and all that kind of stuff.
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Like I like that stuff.
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When I was reading about this book thing, it even referenced like Narnia and I like those movies and I was like, oh, this will be great.
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It was not.
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It's not.
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Did you even start it?
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Okay.
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Um, cause I texted you like a couple of days ago and like, I hate this book and I was like, well, I haven't started it yet.
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So I want to go a different route.
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Yeah.
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Cool.
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That.
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So we did and we still.
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chose a bad route.
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We being me.
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So it's the first book in a series.
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Yes.
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And the book we read was called Low Country Boil, which what?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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And you've got the blurb.
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I do.
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so it was written by Susan Boyer.
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Private Investigator Liz Talbot is a modern Southern Belle.
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She blesses hearts and takes names.
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She carries her Sig 9 in her Kate Spade handbag and her Golden Retriever R.
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I.
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D.
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E.
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shotgun in her hybrid escape.
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When her grandmother is murdered, Liz I tells it back to her South Carolina Island home to find the killer She's fit to be tied when her brother the chief so she opens her own.
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Then her long dead best friend pops in and things really get complicated.
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As more folks turn up dead in this small seaside town, Liz must use more than just her wits and charm to keep the family safe, chase down clues from the Hereafter and catch a psychopath before he catches her.
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You Dun dun, blah.
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Yeah, it was, it was so random.
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This, okay, starting with the title, random.
10:35
Yeah, there was no low country boy.
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No, and all I could think about the whole time was a low country boy.
10:40
Do you eat that?
10:42
Yeah, not you.
10:44
I don't do seafood.
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At all?
10:46
Okay, um, yeah, I eat it.
10:49
No, like, chicken or cow has to fall into the ocean for me to eat it.
10:53
For you to eat it?
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Seafood.
10:54
I think she wrote the southern thing way too hard.
10:56
She did.
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And some of it wasn't really southerny and she tried to make it southerny.
11:00
Yeah.
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Like, even just when you were reading the blurb, like the hybrid escape.
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If you, yeah, yeah.
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Um, and the accents and the, yeah, yeah.
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And I'm some in audio book.
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Yeah.
11:12
Yeah.
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Agreed.
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and we live in the South, we live in South Carolina.
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We're here and I just, I mean, it got on my nerves a little bit.
11:21
Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I understand.
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I don't like it when they do that in movies too.
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And it makes Brian crazy.
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He's like, those make us sound like the dumb, ignorant rednecks.
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And I'm like, I know, babe, what can I do about it?
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Okay, so let's say this.
11:33
It was like a light hearted, it wasn't a suspense.
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It wasn't a thriller.
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It wasn't like twisty turny.
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It was just like your basic who done it.
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Yeah.
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It was a very cute.
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Lighthearted, like you said, not gruesome, not graphic.
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I'm definitely done with this series.
11:52
Stopping at book one.
11:53
Oh yeah.
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There was not a lot of depth to it.
11:56
I feel like it was random in a lot of places, like the whole thing with her.
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Dead best friend, the ghost.
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Like, where did that even, that's just like a totally random, like I thought that was going to go somewhere with this being the first book.
12:11
And she didn't even help out really.
12:12
Right.
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But I thought it was going to introduce like her BNA, is a medium and that's going to help her solve all these crimes.
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And that's what the premise of the whole series was about.
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And that could be, we'll never know.
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Cause we're not going to know.
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But it was just, it didn't feel authentic.
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It just felt like, it almost felt like a.
12:30
Totally separate part of another book thrown into this book.
12:33
Yeah.
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It didn't really go together.
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I also was like the dad being missing on a boat or whatever, and then coming back and he wasn't really missing and having the affair with the grant.
12:44
Like the whole thing was just like all over the place.
12:46
It was, it was totally, totally, it was a mess.
12:49
Yeah.
12:49
I give it a three.
12:51
Oh yeah.
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Yeah.
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And that's being generous.
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Yeah.
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It was, it was a mess.
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of randomness and Boring.
13:00
Yeah, I mean again if I was reading this on the beach I would have just put it away and like a scroll like a nap or something Yeah, but I felt like okay, we already canceled one book we got to go back through it So I think i'm in like a reading rut.
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So I just finished reading a book.
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Okay, it's pretty good.
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And I don't know You If it's like the audio thing, maybe.
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I don't know because I'm trying to, I've been trying to read a book book for like three weeks and I can't get through it either.
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So I'm just in a funk.
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all the little liars.
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By Victoria Selman.
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Okay.
13:34
That was pretty good.
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Well, I'm listening to, Blake Crouch.
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Have you ever read anything by him?
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He is twisted and demented.
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So I'm thinking, okay, if this doesn't like get me jarred to feel some type of way then.
13:49
You know the worst part is like I like look at the titles and I'm like it says I've read it I can't remember what it's about.
13:54
Yeah.
13:55
Yeah.
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I know.
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Well, we'll do that one.
13:57
What was it called again?
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All the little liars Okay, it wasn't the best best but it kept my interest So I'm, yeah, I'm on booktalk.
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My, my TikTok feed is like a lot of books.
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So my project this week is to create Brian, his own TikTok and get him off of my feed.
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Cause even when I go back in and try to trick my algorithm by like searching, you know, things, it still comes back with, do you want to, you know, Refinance your home or, or, uh, you know, them, one of the political people talk in or whatever, but I did get on the tick talk today and, it must've been such a big thing that it was actually in my feed.
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There's a couple that I follow.
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One of the ladies name is Danae Harris.
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No, that's not right.
14:45
Her, her name is Denae and she's married to a lady named Mandy and Denae played softball for the University of Alabama and they've done like funny skits.
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Denae is like southern, really country, um, she's more masculine, um, You know, cargo pants, and they're both really cute.
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But Mandy is from California, long blonde hair, wears like monochromatic black all the time, and you know, all this stuff.
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Well, they're splitting up.
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Oh, I know.
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I'm devastated.
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So that was actually in my feed today.
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So that sucks.
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It does suck.
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And especially to have all of that on socials.
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Yeah, like 7 million people reading your breakup post.
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I couldn't imagine.
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I could not imagine.
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so I'm trying to get my algorithm back.
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Yeah.
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I searched, football tubes.
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I don't know how I got on this side of tick tock, because it just started coming up on my whatever.
15:37
Yeah.
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But.
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There is a prison talk.
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It's like legit, like all prison stuff.
15:44
Okay.
15:44
So, and how I got on there.
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Right, right.
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They come up in my feed too.
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And I don't know why, but today was a, what is a habit that you have now that you learned in prison?
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And it's like a wife.
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Talking to her husband who's out or whatever.
15:59
No, like there's like a prison talk of like inside prison.
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Yeah.
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I don't know.
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But like they're doing like the dances, like all like the dudes were just shut up.
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Like teach me how to doggie.
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Like, Oh my gosh.
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That's hilarious.
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And I'm like, how is this a thing?
16:15
How is that a thing?
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That's as bad as having a podcast.
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And it just blows my mind.
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And then it popped up on your feed.
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Yeah.
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Like you need to watch this.
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Oh, well then I'm like invested.
16:32
Okay.
16:32
But Steph, we cannot be pen pals with the prisoners that are talking about.
16:35
No, Steph.
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No, they were saying that there's some kind of like website that you sign up to chat with prisoners or whatever.
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And that's like their big scheme in jail is they talk to like 40 different people and all these women send them money to onto their commissary and whatever.
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and then the women's prison does it too.
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It's this big thing.
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And then they're like, I'll be with you when I get out.
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Like, you know, and then it's like, hang up next.
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Oh, I can't wait to talk to you when we're out or whatever.
17:00
Yeah.
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Oh my gosh.
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We're not, no.
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I'm a chicken.
17:06
We could talk to them together.
17:08
No, I'm still a chicken.
17:11
So when I worked at the eye doctor.
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We say clover way too much on our podcast.
17:14
Yeah, you're right.
17:14
Um, when I worked at the eye doctor's office, I worked for an ophthalmology office for a long time and They were pretty, um, it was a broad spectrum.
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Like we saw a lot of patients.
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There were a lot of doctors there and very, very good doctors there.
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But they would bring a lot of inmates there.
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Not a lot, but there was always I mean like I'm talking shackled walking in and it was always like who's who's going to go in there and to do the thing who's gonna who's gonna get them started and you know who's going to work them up for the doctor yeah you do rock paper scissors I don't remember exactly how we did it.
17:56
I think whoever least busy, you know, so everybody's like fake busy, you know, I gotta stack these papers up right here.
18:02
But then you're, you want to talk to, I want to talk to him.
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I'm like, yeah.
18:09
That's what I want to say so last week we had talked about the wedding dress drama.
18:12
Yes.
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The designer that socks, the dress?
18:15
Yes.
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The giant dope dress.
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So she is now trying to save face and posting all these good reviews that she got and all these thank you texts that she got.
18:23
Right.
18:23
Yeah.
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So now people are coming out, other people that have gotten jacked dresses from her.
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And so the one that I saw recently was a prom dress.
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So when he was, the mom had sent her the Ariel, from Little Mermaid, the silver dress that she comes out.
18:38
Yeah.
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Out of the ocean with.
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Yeah.
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There was a song for that.
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And then, so it was based off of that is what they kind of wanted, but a little bit more glamor or whatever.
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And, missed the deadlines, dress was botched.
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I mean, terrible, whatever.
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So, the girl, it was like, get the deposit back.
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So mom goes and ends up I don't know what happened.
18:59
She didn't say what happened, when mom went to go talk to the designer or whatever.
19:03
She comes home with the dress.
19:04
Well, they're showing the dress, right?
19:06
There's still pins in the dress.
19:09
Glued on gems again, like not so I think it should have been.
19:14
I think that solidified that the Rayleigh girl was Mm hmm.
19:19
And the other chick who has her GoFundMe still up and right whatever it is She's better.
19:27
She better get her business together.
19:29
She needs to shut that open a new one.
19:31
Yeah, because that's not brand Cause that's not going to go good.
19:36
No.
19:36
Oh my gosh.
19:37
That's funny.
19:38
Well since we're, we were just talking about weddings, there was this tick tock that I saw and it was this girl named destiny.
19:45
And you know, I love me some like wedding drama.
19:49
Yeah.
19:49
So I like drama period, as long as it's not my own.
19:53
So she is like story time and she says that she's at her wedding and she's Her head, like, I'm not gonna go through it with this.
20:02
And you getting ready with her bridesmaid, and she's telling the bride today, he is like, be ready, be ready.
20:05
Like be ready and not telling'em what nobody like knew.
20:09
Be ready for what?
20:10
Like just be ready.
20:11
Just, she, I guess the, the families didn't get along.
20:15
Okay.
20:15
or she didn't like the husband's family.
20:16
Okay.
20:17
So she was just like, just ready, be ready for whatever.
20:19
Okay.
20:19
Be ready.
20:19
And, I feel like I'm ready all of a sudden.
20:21
Like, I'm ready.
20:22
What are we doing?
20:23
Oh, I'm always ready to go.
20:24
Yeah.
20:26
She said something else, but it's swearing and, Mm-Hmm, So it was, I'm gonna cut this out, but it was like, we about to be on some Oh, okay.
20:36
And didn't say anything else though.
20:38
So they go down, they walk, she walks down the aisle.
20:40
Everybody's in the church.
20:42
Preacher starts doing the ceremony and she's just standing up there like, Oh my God, God, please forgive me.
20:48
You know me, and I know I can't do this.
20:49
Yeah.
20:50
So she was waiting for the preacher to say, like, say I do.
20:55
And she was going to say, I don't.
20:57
She had it premeditated.
20:58
She was ready.
20:59
Like she was ready for it to all go down.
21:01
so, We're getting to the good part.
21:03
Okay.
21:03
So she is standing up there with preachers going on and on and on.
21:06
And he's like, get to the part where does anybody have a reason for these couples to not wed?
21:12
This woman stands up and starts yelling in the church.
21:16
I can't believe you're going to go through with this and start screaming.
21:22
It was his mistress, like side chick.
21:25
Oh, and she crashed the wedding.
21:28
Coming up the aisle saying yeah, I can't believe you're going through with it.
21:32
Blah, blah, blah.
21:34
Well, so the bride's cousin is sitting on the aisle and as the girl walks by she grabs her by the hair and pulls her back.
21:43
So, all chaos.
21:45
Then it breaks out.
21:47
Because the side chick brought like 10 of her cousins with her, fights, breaks, bridesmaids put their hair up.
21:53
I mean, so then the bride turns around to the groom and she had found out and this is why she said she didn't want to get married.
22:00
She had found out like shortly before this.
22:03
That he had a side chick.
22:04
Yeah.
22:04
And so she takes her bouquet and starts hitting him with the bouquet.
22:11
Oh, this sounds like a movie.
22:13
Oh my gosh.
22:13
I was like, this was amazing.
22:15
Yeah.
22:16
Yeah.
22:16
It's a great video.
22:18
It's a great video.
22:19
There's got to be one.
22:20
I need, I need a video.
22:21
Can you imagine being at that wedding?
22:24
Like, I don't, I'm not picking sides.
22:26
I'm just here to watch everybody.
22:28
I'm picking bride's side.
22:29
But I don't want to fight.
22:32
I'm too old to fight.
22:33
Listen, I, I know you, I know you ready.
22:36
I, I'm ready.
22:37
I, not that I want to, but I can.
22:39
Yes.
22:39
Yes.
22:39
No doubt.
22:40
But if it was like my family member, 1000%, I would be thrown down, but we're just there to watch.
22:47
We're just there.
22:47
If it's just, if I'm just an observer, right.
22:50
Were there become wedding crashers And just go and mic ourselves up and oh my gosh, let me check my calendar good like I want to get dressed up Okay, dress up.
23:05
See what's going on, dude.
23:05
That would be a really fun job.
23:09
I don't think there's a job for that.
23:12
You don't really put that on your resume.
23:13
It's like, um, like the secret shoppers.
23:16
Yes.
23:17
Yes.
23:18
We can write weddings.
23:18
We can.
23:21
And we could like really tell people that we're doing it to review like the vendors and the food and the flowers and the, and the music and all that kind of stuff when really we're just there for the party.
23:30
That'd be a spinoff podcast.
23:32
Yeah.
23:33
That would be amazing.
23:34
That would be pretty funny.
23:35
Yeah.
23:37
That would be pretty funny.
23:38
Yeah, so that was like the crazy one.
23:41
That is, that is super crazy.
23:43
And I was like, oh my god.
23:44
There's got to be a video of that.
23:46
Oh, there is.
23:47
I just feel bad that they, that's a lot of money.
23:50
Well, I think it was like right before, like shortly, I mean, like a day or two.
23:53
Like things had already been done.
23:54
And she was like, you know what, like, there's no going back.
23:57
And people had already made plans to come.
23:59
So it's not like, you know, three months out.
24:02
And they just had to make a fool of him in the church.
24:04
I don't blame her.
24:05
I don't blame her.
24:06
He was going to, after she said, I don't, she was going to turn and say, he has a side chick or he's been cheating on me with so and so.
24:11
I wonder if she knew who she was.
24:13
Yeah.
24:13
I'm sure that there was other videos.
24:14
I didn't dig that deep.
24:15
I just saw that video and I was like, what?
24:17
That's crazy.
24:18
Yeah.
24:19
That's crazy.
24:20
Her name is Destiny.
24:22
Well, Destiny, I hope you went on your honeymoon solo and have a great time.
24:25
I hope you partied your butt off that night and you freed yourself from that.
24:30
And then you went to Fiji or wherever.
24:33
You took one of your friends.
24:34
Yeah.
24:35
Have a great time.
24:36
Yes.
24:37
So, do you see this title?
24:39
No, I mean, I see the title, but I haven't heard of this one in the world.
24:44
Okay.
24:45
So we have not had any P Diddy talk.
24:47
No, we've not recently.
24:48
No.
24:48
He kind of just like disappeared, right?
24:51
He did.
24:52
Well, the cartel did not think he just disappeared.
24:55
Did they disappear him Not yet.
24:57
Okay.
24:57
So cartel, like the cartel.
24:59
Cartel, like, you know, gangster cartel, like Yeah.
25:02
Don't come for me.
25:03
Right, right.
25:04
Allegedly a alleged everything else pot.
25:08
so you've gotta be some like Satan, kind of like low level dirt ball.
25:13
Mm-Hmm.
25:14
for the cartel to sue you.
25:16
Yeah.
25:16
They have to go.
25:17
Make a report.
25:19
Right.
25:19
They need to go get.
25:21
Right.
25:22
I mean, they have to do all the things in law, like.
25:23
Right.
25:24
No criminal wants to go to court for any reason.
25:27
Right.
25:27
Even if you're in the right.
25:28
So you have got to be some kind of low scumbag.
25:32
For them to put themselves out there in the law enforcement world like that.
25:36
Yeah.
25:36
Yeah.
25:37
So this dude from the cartel, Alfredo P.
25:41
Gonzalez, stated that after declining to participate Right.
25:46
And turning down requests for trafficking of minors for P.
25:49
Diddy.
25:50
He was told that his life was going to be made hell because of the power he had in the streets, P.
25:56
Diddy's power in the streets.
25:57
so he was seeking 666, 000.
26:01
What a number, right?
26:04
and damages saying Diddy tarnished his name and reputation, which led to a loss of his New York based drug business.
26:12
What?
26:14
That is insane.
26:16
What?
26:18
So he had to go to, like, make a report and, have somebody I sell drugs, but Diddy's messed up.
26:28
But I drew the line at trafficking.
26:31
Right.
26:31
And he ruined my name.
26:32
Right.
26:33
So my drug business has gone down.
26:35
So I need to sue him to get my drug game.
26:37
But then the, the, the 666, yeah.
26:41
Yeah.
26:41
Like that's the number he chose.
26:43
I'm surprised you even typed it.
26:44
Like I wouldn't even typed it out.
26:46
Have you ever been to a store and they're like, that's 6, 60.
26:49
And you're like, Oh, I needed this pack of gum too.
26:51
Yeah.
26:52
Yeah.
26:52
Yeah.
26:52
Round that up.
26:54
But I thought that was a very, that is.
26:56
Symbolic.
26:56
Yes.
26:57
Number.
26:57
Oh, totally.
26:58
They went for.
26:59
And you're right.
26:59
The fact that the criminals decided to put themselves in that environment to do this to pity.
27:05
Pity.
27:06
Well.
27:07
Yeah.
27:07
Oh, geez.
27:11
Crazy.
27:11
Yeah, that's super crazy.
27:14
That is super crazy.
27:16
Yeah.
27:16
Woo.
27:17
Oh, but you're right.
27:18
P.
27:18
Diddy did just kind of disappear from our radar.
27:21
The all the Olympic stuff and I don't even know all the Snoop Dogg talk.
27:25
Yeah.
27:25
Still love Snoop.
27:26
Yep.
27:26
Me too.
27:27
Still love Snoop.
27:28
So.
27:30
You know, those morning shows on the radio where they call, like a person that didn't call back for a second date, that kind of thing.
27:39
so there was a radio show and I'm not sure exactly what state it was in, but dude calls in, guy named John calls in and said that he met this girl at a speed dating thing.
27:49
They went on a date and, she just, you know, Didn't call him.
27:53
Okay, or you know, like they didn't ever contact each other good.
27:56
Okay, so they're like, all right Let's see, you know if we can get Trisha on the phone.
28:00
So They call this girl and he's hiding on the other line, right?
28:05
Yes.
28:05
I don't know Yeah, and they're like, hey, we're so and so from whatever radio station.
28:09
We've got John on the other line and he was, you know, curious as to why he didn't get a second date.
28:13
And she's like, I don't know what you're talking about.
28:15
And she's like, who's John?
28:16
And the dude's like, he said that you guys went on a date.
28:20
And she's like, I mean, I've not been on a date recently.
28:24
And, I'm really don't know what you're talking about.
28:25
Like, no, he's like, well, let's get John on the line and see if we can straighten this out.
28:31
So they pulled John on the phone and they're like, she doesn't recall a date with you.
28:35
Can you like clear this up?
28:37
You know, when was the date?
28:38
And he was like, well, two Thursdays ago.
28:40
And they're like, well, where did you go on this date?
28:43
And she's like, well, I went to a speed dating thing, but like I haven't been on a date.
28:46
And he's like, yeah, like the speed.
28:48
Yeah.
28:48
That's not like, On Thursday and he was counting that as his date.
28:53
Okay.
28:54
So there, everybody was like, what?
28:56
And the radio people are like, so you didn't go on a date with her.
29:02
He's like, it says speed dating.
29:03
Like dating isn't that yet.
29:04
We went on a date and she was like, how did you get my phone number?
29:10
And he said, I run the speed dating event and you put it on your application.
29:16
So I just pulled it off of that.
29:17
And she's like, that seems like an abuse of like your position.
29:20
And this is really creepy.
29:22
And, uh, lose my number.
29:24
So the radio people were like, Trisha, we're going to let you go.
29:27
Yeah.
29:28
We are so sorry.
29:29
We did not know that this was what it was.
29:31
Yeah.
29:32
So they hang up and then John's still on the phone.
29:33
They're like, so we feel misled in this situation.
29:37
And he's like, yeah, well, thanks.
29:37
Thanks guys for trying to let, you know, help me get a second shot at her.
29:40
But you know, like totally and they're like, well, but you, she didn't show you any interest and you took her number.
29:49
Like they're trying to make this guy realize this dude's like, well, yeah, I think, you know, thanks.
29:54
Really appreciate you guys helping me out on this one.
29:57
Like, dude is He has no clue, yeah.
30:00
He had no clue what happened.
30:02
Can you imagine if he turns out to be one of these crazy serial killers?
30:05
Oh god, I hope not.
30:07
I hope not.
30:08
But how creepy is that that you go to speed dating and the event person Yeah.
30:12
Is in there.
30:13
Yeah.
30:14
Takes your phone number.
30:14
Takes all your information.
30:16
He's gotta have her address.
30:17
He's gotta have everything.
30:18
Oh jeez.
30:19
I like listening to those radio things like that, though.
30:21
There's a local radio channel, station, whatever they're called, and they do War of the Roses, and I love that one.
30:28
Yeah.
30:28
That's so much fun.
30:29
So, yeah.
30:30
Premise of that is they're trying to figure out if somebody quote wins roses, would they send them to their real person or their, don't you think that this is so well known now though?
30:39
I would think so.
30:41
And that's not really a thing anymore, that you get a phone call for something like that.
30:44
Uhuh, or I would think it was spam.
30:47
Yeah.
30:47
Or fishing or whatever.
30:48
I would've just hung up yeah, that's what I do to all phone calls Right.
30:52
I just don't answer that.
30:53
Yeah.
30:54
But if I do happen to answer, I'm like, yeah, thanks.
30:57
Yeah.
30:58
Nope.
30:58
Not interested.
30:59
Don't you want to lower your note?
31:00
I like them.
31:01
Hi Whatever Wow that yeah, that's crazy.
31:11
That was it.
31:12
That was it.
31:13
That was it.
31:14
That's a good one, too.
31:16
Yeah Dylan know, like everywhere.
31:19
Oh, same Jackson does.
31:20
Jackson likes that one a lot too.
31:21
Oh.
31:21
Have you ever seen Nina Pool on TikTok?
31:24
That name sounds really familiar.
31:25
Tell me about her.
31:26
So she, she's freaking awesome.
31:27
Like I am obsessed.
31:29
What does she do?
31:29
she is on the spectrum.
31:31
Uhhuh and she finds dupes for expensive products.
31:36
Oh, yes, yes, yes.
31:37
And she like researches.
31:38
She finds the ingredients.
31:39
Yes.
31:39
She makes sure it is a dupe and she gives yes.
31:43
All the info.
31:44
Yes.
31:45
She is awesome.
31:45
So if y'all don't follow her, go follow her on, she's on Instagram and TikTok.
31:49
Yeah.
31:49
Nina pool.
31:50
Yes.
31:50
but I adore her.
31:52
Yeah.
31:52
She is so funny.
31:53
So when she was doing, one of her videos, she's like, why are you going to spend 60 on this product?
31:58
You can go to Walmart and get this product for like 3.
32:01
And then she pauses and she's like, this is why I'll never get a brand deal.
32:07
That's really cute.
32:09
She's like, but I'm here for that.
32:10
I'm here for you.
32:11
Right?
32:13
Right.
32:13
She had to talk herself into it.
32:15
That's okay.
32:16
That's cute.
32:16
Yeah.
32:16
I've seen her.
32:17
I knew that name sounded familiar.
32:19
I'm fascinated with people that do that kind of stuff.
32:21
And I really like watching the people that do makeup, like some of the transformations and I show Jackson like there before and after I'm like, this is why you can't trust people.
32:30
Well, so Brandon, when Dylan was like nine, like younger, told Dylan, On a first date, take them to a waterpark.
32:39
Not because you want to see them in a bathing suit, because you want to make sure that their face matches what you think it does.
32:45
Yeah.
32:46
You can contour.
32:47
The ones that make themselves look like celebrities.
32:50
Listen, I can't hardly get foundation on.
32:52
Right.
32:52
My right eyes bother me so much.
32:54
Cause I wore, mascara or eyeliner last night and I'm my right eye feels like it's about to just die.
33:01
I can't imagine being able to do all that.
33:03
Yeah.
33:03
Yeah.
33:04
I mean talent, like, Oh, yeah, I do good to get moisturizer on every day.
33:09
And I have to do moisturizer now because I'm that person that when I go to fill out something online and I've tried to do my age, I have to go, it's like the fricking wheel of fortune wheel.
33:20
It is just like that.
33:23
And I had to do something today.
33:25
And, well, I was doing like one of those stupid quizzes or whatever.
33:27
And it was like, what age group are you in?
33:30
And I'm 46.
33:31
And it was like 46 to 55.
33:33
And I was like, Oh my God, you went up an age group.
33:36
I went, I still, I did the four, it's like, Oh my, I'm in the group with almost 60 year olds.
33:43
So Dylan today said something.
33:45
Wait, I'm not over it.
33:48
Okay, go ahead.
33:49
He said something about like, He said I was like 38 or 39 and I was like, oh, I'll take it.
33:54
And he's like, what do you mean?
33:55
I'm like, I'm 42 and he's like, I thought dad was 42.
33:58
I'm like, yeah, I don't It's 43, he'll be 44 in January and he's like, dude, he's old.
34:05
And I'm like, I'm just a year and a half younger than him.
34:08
Like a lot, a lot younger stuff, a lot younger, a lot.
34:13
Yeah.
34:13
But he was like 30.
34:14
I was like, I'll take it.
34:15
Yeah.
34:15
Thank you.
34:16
I know.
34:17
Geez.
34:17
It goes so fast.
34:19
Okay.
34:19
So fast.
34:19
Facebook?
34:21
Yes.
34:22
Oh, that was the chipmunk times.
34:24
Oh my gosh, they were so little.
34:26
Yes.
34:27
So, so, so don't blink.
34:28
Yes.
34:29
Don't blink.
34:30
you want to do that?
34:31
Am I the a hole?
34:32
Yes.
34:32
Okay.
34:33
I found out my sister slept with my fiance and I'm not sorry about what I did after.
34:38
30 year old woman here.
34:39
I have a sister who's just a year older than me.
34:41
We've always had such a good relationship, so finding out about this one hurt.
34:46
She might as well have stabbed me in my heart.
34:48
On top of that, I've been with my fiancé since high school, and we've always been with each other through thick and thin.
34:53
We were going to get married in a few months.
34:56
I have no idea on earth why they did this to me.
34:58
What's even worse was that our mom knew and out of fear of getting involved.
35:01
My sister apparently begged her not to say a word.
35:04
She didn't tell me anything.
35:06
Thankfully my dad wasn't having it and he spilled the beans to me.
35:09
I've never been so angry in my life.
35:11
Not only did I kick my fiance out and throw out all of his stuff, some of it in the trash, but outta decided to hurt my sister in another way.
35:18
Why not do the same for my fiancé?
35:20
Simple, she's my sister.
35:22
We've always had a good relationship until she decided to ruin it months before my big day, which I allowed her to be a bridesmaid in.
35:29
You don't do that to anyone, let alone your sister, your blood.
35:32
My sister's big on gardening, so when she lost her dog, she made a garden for him.
35:36
I knocked on her door, she didn't know that I knew, and of course I played nice.
35:40
I moved on to what she did with my fiancé, and I slightly damaged her garden.
35:45
I honestly just crushed a couple flowers.
35:47
Am I sorry?
35:47
No.
35:49
Her excuse sent me over the edge.
35:51
It just happened isn't a reason.
35:53
Sleeping with my fiancé just happened like that, I guess.
35:56
I told her I didn't want her speaking to me anymore and that I also didn't want our mom to speak to me.
36:02
My fiancé won't say a word since I threatened to call the police if he ever went near me again.
36:07
Yeah, I made my sister cry and scream at me but I genuinely feel like she should be the one crying.
36:11
She knew how important getting married was to me and now I can't experience that.
36:15
Pair that with the fact that I had to hear this from my dad you Not my bum excuse of a sister or fiancé.
36:21
Heck, even my own mother didn't say a word to me.
36:23
It's like she let my sister run her.
36:26
F you, Tia.
36:27
F you, Logan.
36:28
If they ever see this, I'd be absolutely delighted.
36:32
Oh.
36:33
Okay, timeout.
36:34
First of all, you notice she never says how much she loves him.
36:37
She just talks about getting married.
36:39
She's like, she knew I wanted to get married.
36:41
Well, they've been together since teenagers.
36:43
Yeah, that's a long time.
36:44
It's a very long time.
36:45
All right, edit.
36:46
Edit.
36:46
Since many people keep bringing this up, I'm upset I lost the relationship I've always put 100 percent into.
36:51
I was excited to get married, of course, but then this news came out.
36:54
It really hurt me.
36:55
I didn't want to believe it at first.
36:56
I almost thought my dad was pulling my leg.
36:58
Later, it turned out to be true.
37:00
I swear I have trust issues now.
37:02
Well, there we go.
37:02
That's what I was saying.
37:03
Edit two.
37:04
Thanks again for all the suggestions, y'all.
37:06
It's helping me feel more confident in exposing them.
37:09
I'm just a bundle of nerves right now because I know stuff's gonna hit the fan again.
37:13
When I do so, I'll try my best to come up with an update.
37:16
I mean, it's the least y'all deserve.
37:18
Ha ha.
37:19
Last edit.
37:20
When I say I decided to hurt her, it's because I kind of ruined something so meaningful to her.
37:25
I feel like for most people, besides on here, that would be a bit far.
37:29
That's just how I feel though.
37:30
I understand it's not what you guys wanted, lol.
37:33
Clearly worked a bit though since she thought I was so psychotic for that.
37:37
Like I said, I don't feel sorry about hurting her that way.
37:40
Edited for the thousandth time because people still can't effing read when the words are bolded.
37:46
Forgive my terrible mood.
37:47
I definitely plan on exposing them sometime today.
37:50
So, um, I'm guessing other people commented the same thing.
37:53
It sounds like, like, well, did you even like love him?
37:57
But she has to be so freaking angry and like furious.
38:00
I wouldn't be saying I loved him in this post if I were.
38:04
No, I wouldn't either.
38:05
You're probably right.
38:06
I probably wouldn't either.
38:07
I would just be like what the heck.
38:08
I don't even think I'd be cognizant enough to get my thoughts that much together.
38:13
Yeah.
38:13
Okay.
38:14
Let's go to update number one.
38:16
Okay.
38:17
This was just, like a week ago.
38:18
Yeah.
38:19
Oh, well, that was the original one.
38:21
Well, This is this just okay.
38:23
So that first one was from August 27th and this night is from August 28th I found out my sister slept with my fiance.
38:29
I'm so tired.
38:30
I'm sorry.
38:31
Hey everyone, seems like my other post has been deleted.
38:33
Thanks again for the comments and support.
38:35
I found out quite a bit.
38:36
To start off, I did expose her and my ex on my story.
38:40
I unblocked them both to tag them.
38:42
Shout out to one of the commenters who wrote down what I should say.
38:45
I saved it and wrote it, but added some other words of my own.
38:47
My ex actually blocked me after he saw my story.
38:50
I sent my Reddit post to my sister after.
38:53
At the time she didn't see it, but I got a call from my ex's mom.
38:55
She was furious about everything, but she asked me how I was holding up and if I've heard the news.
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My heart sank a little because I honestly couldn't bear to hear any more bad news.
39:05
I asked her what she was talking about.
39:06
She said, so you haven't.
39:07
I said no.
39:08
And I started to tell me, Oh my gosh, I don't know.
39:11
My sister's pregnant.
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Oh my gosh.
39:15
Apparently Logan told her an attempt to make her chill out on my sister.
39:19
I didn't want to hear any more.
39:21
So I told her I needed to hang up.
39:22
Thankfully she accepted because I literally burst into tears.
39:26
Two seconds later, after five minutes of crying, my sister responded to my story and text with the Reddit post link.
39:31
She was texting me in all caps, begging me to take it down.
39:35
If I wasn't so upset, I would have laughed a little, but I sat there watching her blow up my phone.
39:39
I got even angrier when she said, I'm coming over and I'm telling mom, you're spreading my business online.
39:45
All right, you big baby.
39:46
Well, you shouldn't have spread your legs.
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Thanks.
39:51
Still never responded though.
39:53
I felt frozen.
39:54
30 minutes later, she's trying to break my door down, so I opened it in a fit of rage, and I started screaming all kinds of stuff at her.
40:00
She kept screaming at me to take it down, and I told her that's gonna stay up for as long as I want it to.
40:05
She kept telling me she didn't deserve online hate, and she even tried telling me that she's always been there for me through everything, and she would have forgiven me if it was the other way around.
40:15
That's when I punched I'm gonna pull my hair back for this.
40:21
A small part of me felt guilty.
40:22
I'm not the fighting type and that was probably evident in my last post.
40:26
Haha.
40:26
But she retaliated by saying, it's not my fault, Logan was tired of you and that's when I told her I hope she ends up like her dog and she deserves every bit of hate she's getting for ruining my relationship.
40:39
I even apologized for not ruining her entire garden and her stupid face at first.
40:44
I know I'm wrong for saying this, but the entire time she was playing the victim.
40:48
She called me evil and told me to rot in hell.
40:50
She kept saying I was.
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punishing her over a mistake.
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I said you have no idea what you've put me through and I know you would have done the same thing if you were the victim.
40:58
She kept crying and insulting me because all she's ever done was support me through everything and I had the nerve to punch her in the face and allow strangers to bash her on the internet.
41:07
I told her she deserved it and I don't want her talking to me ever again.
41:11
And if she comes near me, I'm calling the police.
41:14
She kept saying I was being extremely unfair and that she was sorry in her texts, but I wasn't having it.
41:19
I told her to tell mom I'm not talking to her again either.
41:23
She asked me if I was really going to cut her off like that.
41:25
And I just wished her good luck with her.
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unwanted child and told her to go home.
41:29
That was the last time she walked off my porch.
41:33
Anyway, I had to clean up my favorite veins, but it doesn't matter.
41:36
At least they're out of my life.
41:37
However, it's weird how sad I feel now.
41:40
It's for my own good, but gosh, I'll never experience the bond we had again.
41:44
On the bright side, seems like I've dodged two bullets.
41:46
Thanks again, maybe I do need therapy.
41:48
Oh my gosh.
41:50
Last edit to say my dad called not too long ago asking me to take every post down because according to my mother, my B sister is bawling her eyes out over mean people on the internet as if I'm taking anything down.
42:01
My dad's pissed about her pregnancy, but my mom continues to defend her by saying we need to chill out on her a little bit.
42:07
This is why I'm not talking to her.
42:08
Thanks again, though, everyone.
42:09
I'm exhausted and I need to worry about other things.
42:12
Okay, so we have another update from August 31st.
42:15
I've officially decided to go LC with my dad today.
42:19
Something to contact?
42:20
Low contact maybe?
42:21
Maybe.
42:22
Surprisingly, he wasn't that upset about it.
42:24
However, he's still on team take down the post and that's why I made my decision.
42:29
My mom wants nothing to do with me because if I wasn't going to respect the family, there's no point in trying to get to you.
42:36
Wow, it's almost like that's what I wanted.
42:38
I'm so sad.
42:40
This is sad.
42:42
But I mean, it's, it's angry.
42:44
And like this poor girl.
42:46
Okay.
42:47
My cousin and ex assister have been supporting me.
42:49
Apparently my sister has had a meltdown after meltdown because more people are slowly finding out about the affair, not only in person, but on the internet.
42:58
She actually got into it with my cousin online.
43:00
And according to my cousin, my sister keeps asking her to tell me to take down the post because she's sorry.
43:04
and she felt pressured into doing what she did.
43:07
Last I even heard about my ex was from his sister.
43:10
She told me they did speak, and although he's not ready for a child, he doesn't feel comfortable leaving my pregnant sister on her own.
43:16
He also wants me to stop what I'm doing, but oh well, they're made for each other.
43:20
Anyway, I've surprisingly been feeling a bit better thanks to my cousin and my new sister.
43:25
Like to call my ex a sister now.
43:27
Haha.
43:28
I've actually gotten some good sleep still considering therapy, too A very tiny part of me feels pretty bad for exposing my sister And ex and i'll always miss the relationship i've had with them Even despite my last encounter with my sister, but they hurt me And it's what they deserve.
43:42
If they're not taking it well, that's their problem.
43:45
Thanks everyone again.
43:46
Wow.
43:47
That is a lot for this poor girl.
43:51
That family is terrible.
43:52
Yeah.
43:54
I just, okay.
43:55
That mom not wanting anything or saying that it's for the family, taking it out for the family.
44:01
What about the girl who's sleeping with the fiance?
44:04
And then for her to say she's pressured into it when right before that, she was saying that she, the dude was sick of her.
44:11
Right.
44:12
What?
44:13
Oh my god.
44:13
I saw some backpedaling.
44:15
Right.
44:16
You made that bed, now you gotta sleep in it.
44:17
It doesn't even sound like she, well, she, I mean, okay, so for the dog thing, she, she crushed some flowers.
44:23
I thought it was gonna be worse.
44:24
I did too.
44:24
I would have done so much worse.
44:25
I was expecting worse.
44:26
So I don't think she's really in a hole for that.
44:28
No.
44:29
and we're dog people.
44:30
Yeah, we get it.
44:31
But no, I don't think she's, I mean, I thought it was going to set stuff on fire.
44:36
Yeah.
44:37
But I mean even posting stuff online, I don't, I mean, there might be a way to handle it.
44:42
That's less visible, but do what you need to get through it.
44:45
I guess.
44:46
I cannot believe she's pregnant.
44:48
It makes me wonder how long.
44:50
Okay.
44:50
First of all, This wasn't the first time he did.
44:52
He slept with somebody else.
44:54
Was this really the first time he was with her?
44:56
No.
44:57
It's just, I wonder how she found out.
44:58
Did we read that in a length of time?
45:00
Dad.
45:00
Dad.
45:01
But how did dad not, how did dad not?
45:03
Mom found out and then told dad.
45:06
Yeah.
45:06
How did mom find out?
45:07
Probably because that ho sister told mom and mom thought it would be cool to know.
45:11
So I guess the sister said told mom.
45:13
I've got to tell you something.
45:14
Probably because she's pregnant.
45:15
So she probably told mom because she's pregnant is what I would assume.
45:18
Oh my god.
45:20
Mom was probably like, oh great baby.
45:22
Yeah.
45:23
Oh my gosh.
45:24
That's so crazy.
45:25
Well, yeah, that whole family dynamic is ugly.
45:29
Yeah, I feel bad for everybody involved there.
45:32
I don't feel bad for that sister.
45:33
I do.
45:34
I don't.
45:35
I mean, she should have kept Herb.
45:37
I feel bad.
45:39
I feel bad for, I guess maybe the baby.
45:42
Well, yeah, but I don't feel bad for the sister.
45:44
No, I don't think I do either.
45:46
I, I just, it's all just, it's sad.
45:48
I don't feel bad for the parents.
45:50
No, because they're buttheads.
45:52
They could've very easily like, yeah, I don't feel okay.
45:55
You're right.
45:55
I don't feel bad for the sister.
45:56
I don't feel bad for the parents.
45:58
I feel bad for her.
45:59
I feel bad for, I feel bad for everybody that's dealing with the sister.
46:03
'cause she sounds like she's a.
46:04
She does.
46:05
We have a lot of dynamics between families and this and these things.
46:10
yeah, I don't put that for her Yeah, that was messy.
46:13
Not that I condone like punching a pregnant person, but I do love that.
46:16
She did it.
46:17
So have you thought about a costume yet for a spooky episode?
46:19
I've thought a lot about a costume, but I haven't set her on anything.
46:22
What are you thinking?
46:24
I mean just like random thoughts in my head about what's what's easy What would be good to just like because I mean it's not from the bottom down.
46:30
It's only from like here up maybe That's all we see, or they see, the people see, right?
46:36
Have you thought about anything?
46:38
I don't know yet.
46:39
I'm not sure.
46:39
Okay.
46:40
Do we want to do like a, like a theme?
46:42
Yeah.
46:43
Like Mario and Luigi.
46:45
That'd be cute.
46:46
I do have a Luigi costume.
46:47
Do you?
46:48
I don't know if it still fits.
46:49
It's from like a long time ago.
46:50
Probably fits and it's baggy.
46:52
Or, we can do, minions.
46:55
Oh, that's cute.
46:57
We did that for our office, Halloween one year.
47:00
My boss was Gru, he had, like, the, the bald head cap thingy, and the rest of us We could put that on Retch.
47:07
The rest of us were minions.
47:09
That's cute.
47:09
That's cute.
47:10
Yeah, I mean, just, you know, the first things that start popping up in my mind are like, You know, the cat, the easy, the ladybug, or the bumblebee, or whatever, all those things.
47:17
But I'm up for whatever.
47:19
I have some cute Halloween costumes that Brian and I were going to be one year for Halloween.
47:23
Multiple for one Halloween?
47:24
Well, one for Brian and one for me, for a Halloween party.
47:27
And then I think that was the year COVID, like that fall of 2020 and everything was still kind of up in the air and when happened.
47:35
Yes.
47:36
And I was so excited to be these things.
47:38
I'm not going to say it because we might do it.
47:40
And I want everybody to be amazed.
47:41
They're probably rotten now.
47:43
I we were flappers and mobsters one year.
47:45
Oh, I was a mobster one year.
47:47
Were you?
47:48
and Jackson was like three years old.
47:49
See, Brandon is, was never a dress up person.
47:52
So he would never do the costume.
47:55
And so the year that I was a mobster, he just had on like a gorilla mask.
48:01
Yeah.
48:03
He found, a necklace that had like bananas.
48:07
That was it.
48:08
That's cute.
48:09
Um, Brian's not huge on it, but he'll do it.
48:13
But he wants it to be something relatively comfortable, of course, that, like, once, like, the pictures and stuff are over, he can Hey, listen, I'm not opposed to, like, those onesies, like, the character onesies.
48:22
Oh, yeah, with the hats.
48:24
With the hats.
48:24
I'm down for some comfort, too.
48:26
With some hats.
48:27
Um, we were the Flintstones one year.
48:29
Were you?
48:30
And Jackson was Bam Bam.
48:32
That was really cute.
48:33
So we were Betty and Barney and Bam Bam.
48:35
We never dressed up like going to trick or treating or anything with him, but, the one year he wanted to be, he was two and he wanted to be silly so bad.
48:43
And I ordered the costume lost in the mail.
48:45
Like it was, and it was so close to Halloween.
48:48
And so the only relatable costume I could get was Mike Wazowski.
48:52
Okay.
48:52
And he was the cutest freaking Michael Wazowski.
48:56
But he was.
48:58
Like he opened, his like pouch was like the mouth.
49:00
Oh, that was where the candy went?
49:01
Uh huh.
49:02
Oh, that's really cute.
49:04
That's really cute.
49:05
Did you ever get the costume?
49:07
No, it was gone, yeah.
49:09
Oh gosh, that's that.
49:11
Um, but the costume that we originally, I originally ordered was the super expensive, fuzzy one, like the whole like monster costume, you know?
49:18
Yeah.
49:18
And this one was not, it was like more like not fancy.
49:21
Yeah.
49:21
But it, he was the cutest little monster.
49:23
Oh, I'm sure he was.
49:25
What was he his first?
49:26
Okay.
49:26
So his birthday's in November.
49:28
So his first Halloween, he would have been almost one.
49:31
He was a monkey.
49:31
He was a monkey.
49:32
And then Mo was a banana.
49:34
Oh, cute.
49:37
That's cute.
49:39
And so like, he'd be in pictures of him walking the banana.
49:41
Yeah.
49:42
So Jackson was born in July.
49:44
His first Halloween, he was, um, a pea in a pea pod.
49:48
Cause, you know, they really can't, he was like three or four months old.
49:52
Yeah.
49:52
So he just, you know, they just lay there.
49:54
And it was like a big costume and his face was one of the peas.
49:57
Oh, I love looking at his little costumes when he was little.
50:00
They were so little.
50:01
Little squishy faces.
50:02
So yeah, we need something.
50:04
We'll figure that out.
50:05
Okay, and I saw some people have responded with some ghost stories.
50:07
Yes How you have you dug into them?
50:09
Have you looked at?
50:10
Okay, cuz I haven't gone in there I didn't want to mess up the inbox.
50:13
Yeah, So we got another couple stories so exciting and then we gotta, we gotta brainstorm our Halloween episode.
50:21
Yeah, that'll be here soon.
50:24
You're going out of town in October a little bit, aren't you?
50:26
Just for one weekend, yeah.
50:27
Okay.
50:28
Yeah.
50:28
Okay.
50:29
On the first weekend of October.
50:30
Okay.
50:30
Yay.
50:31
Exciting.
50:32
Very exciting.
50:33
I'm excited for that for you.
50:33
If there's anybody that wants to come on and be a guest, please people, if you've got a good ghost story, you can, you can.
50:40
Come on.
50:41
You don't have to even come see us if you don't want to.
50:43
If you're out of town, you, we can zoom you in.
50:46
Oh, I do.
50:46
We do have a friend who wants to do some kind of collab.
50:49
Mm-Hmm.
50:50
Her name is Tracy.
50:51
And, she has a big following on TikTok.
50:54
Mm-Hmm.
50:54
and wants to just have a little.
50:56
Discuss, I guess, and talk and chat and whatever.
50:59
So we'll hook that up.
51:00
Awesome.
51:01
I love talking to people sometimes.
51:03
I know, I do.
51:05
Right.
51:06
In a controlled environment.
51:08
Yeah.
51:09
And when you're ready, you're ready to talk to people.
51:11
Well, when I'm prepared to talk to people, because otherwise, like if you just leave me out, like Meredith wants you to Come talk to me.
51:18
Meredith wants you to talk to her on me.
51:20
I'm like, leave me alone.
51:21
Yeah, talk to me.
51:22
Don't talk to Stephanie.
51:23
I see somebody I know like, you go the other way.
51:26
Like you?
51:26
No, I get it.
51:27
I get it.
51:28
I'm like, oh god, I'm in like my pajamas.
51:30
Some days I do too.
51:31
I am, I am like the pajama walmart version.
51:33
Oh yeah, yeah.
51:34
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