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Stuck in Old Money Stories? Ready for a Growth Mindset? · Becoming Financially Confident

• 0:37
  Have
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  you
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  ever
• 0:38
  caught
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  yourself
• 0:38
  saying,
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  I'm
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  just
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  bad
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  with
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  money.
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  I
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  always
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  mess
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  this
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  up.
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  I'm
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  never
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  going
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  to
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  figure
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  this
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  out.
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  You're
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  not
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  alone.
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  A
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  lot
• 0:45
  of
• 0:45
  people
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  carry
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  those
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  same
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  thoughts.
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  But
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  here's
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  a
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  truth
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  we
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  don't
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  always
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  say
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  out
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  loud.
• 0:51
  Fixed
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  thinking
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  freezes
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  progress.
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  And
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  what
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  you
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  speak
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  over
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  yourself
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  often
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  becomes
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  the
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  ceiling
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  you
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  live
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  under.
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  But
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  listen
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  to
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  this.
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  God
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  renews
• 1:00
  minds.
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  And
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  when
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  your
• 1:02
  thinking
• 1:02
  shifts,
• 1:03
  your
• 1:03
  habits
• 1:04
  shift,
• 1:05
  your
• 1:05
  decisions
• 1:06
  shift,
• 1:06
  your
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  outcomes
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  shift,
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  you're
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  not
• 1:08
  stuck.
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  You're
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  just
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  repeating
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  an
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  old
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  story
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  that
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  God
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  is
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  ready
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  to
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  rewrite.
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  Welcome
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  back,
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  friends.
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  My
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  name
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  is
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  Ralph,
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  and
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  if
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  this
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  is
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  your
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  first
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  time,
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  I
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  am
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  so
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  glad
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  you're
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  here.
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  This
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  is
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  financially
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  confident
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  Christian
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  where
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  faith
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  meets
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  wisdom,
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  where
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  hope
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  replaces
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  shame,
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  and
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  where
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  God's
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  renewing
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  work
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  touches
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  every
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  part
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  of
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  your
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  financial
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  life.
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  Today
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  we're
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  going
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  deeper
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  than
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  budgets
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  and
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  bills
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  and
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  banking.
• 1:51
  We're
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  talking
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  about
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  the
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  stories
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  you
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  tell
• 1:52
  yourself
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  about
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  money
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  and
• 1:54
  how
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  God
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  wants
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  to
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  transform
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  them.
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  A
• 1:57
  listener
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  wrote
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  this.
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  Ralph,
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  I
• 1:59
  say
• 1:59
  things
• 1:59
  like,
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  I'm
• 2:00
  just
• 2:00
  bad
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  with
• 2:00
  money.
• 2:01
  I
• 2:01
  feel
• 2:02
  stuck
• 2:02
  in
• 2:02
  the
• 2:02
  same
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  patterns.
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  How
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  do
• 2:04
  I
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  actually
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  change
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  how
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  I
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  think
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  about
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  money?
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  What
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  a
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  great
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  question.
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  And
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  friend.
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  That's
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  honest.
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  That's
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  vulnerability.
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  And
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  it's
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  incredibly
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  common.
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  You
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  would
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  not
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  believe
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  how
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  many
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  people
• 2:16
  send
• 2:17
  me
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  that
• 2:17
  same
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  question.
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  Because
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  long
• 2:20
  before
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  money
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  is
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  ever
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  going
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  to
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  change,
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  our
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  mindsets
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  change.
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  So
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  let's
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  speak
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  to
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  what
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  this
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  is
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  really
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  going
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  on
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  here.
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  This
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  isn't
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  about
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  numbers.
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  It's
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  about
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  identity.
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  Here's
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  what's
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  true.
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  You're
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  not
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  bad
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  with
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  money.
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  You're
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  just
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  tired
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  of
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  being
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  shamed.
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  You're
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  not
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  incapable.
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  You're
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  just
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  inexperienced.
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  And
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  you're
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  not
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  stuck.
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  You're
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  simple,
• 2:42
  repeating
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  a
• 2:43
  story
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  that
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  no
• 2:44
  longer
• 2:44
  serves
• 2:45
  you.
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  But
• 2:46
  here's
• 2:47
  the
• 2:47
  promise
• 2:47
  for
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  today.
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  God
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  is
• 2:49
  ready
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  to
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  renew
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  your
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  mind
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  from
• 2:50
  the
• 2:50
  inside
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  out.
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  So
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  let's
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  get
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  practical
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  for
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  a
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  moment.
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  Because
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  this
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  isn't
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  just
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  emotional.
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  There's
• 2:55
  research
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  behind
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  what
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  I'm
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  going
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  to
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  say
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  about
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  today.
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  Study
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  after
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  study
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  confirms
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  a
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  growth
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  mindset.
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  I'm
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  talking
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  about
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  understanding.
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  Growth
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  creates
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  better
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  learning.
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  It
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  creates
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  better
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  and
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  greater
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  resilience,
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  and
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  it
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  leads
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  to
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  real
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  habit
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  change.
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  I
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  love
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  the
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  simple
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  truth,
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  and
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  I
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  want
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  you
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  to
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  embrace
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  this
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  today.
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  Failures
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  are
• 3:15
  lessons,
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  not
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  labels.
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  You
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  don't
• 3:19
  need
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  perfection.
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  You
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  just
• 3:21
  need
• 3:21
  permission
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  to
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  grow.
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  And
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  let
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  me
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  tell
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  you
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  right
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  now,
• 3:24
  Christ
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  has
• 3:25
  already
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  given
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  you
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  that
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  permission.
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  So
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  let
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  me
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  share
• 3:28
  my
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  own
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  journey,
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  because
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  this
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  is
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  something
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  I've
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  lived.
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  Also,
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  I've
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  watched
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  countless
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  clients
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  rewrite
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  their
• 3:34
  internal
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  money
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  stories,
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  and
• 3:36
  I've
• 3:36
  watched
• 3:36
  the
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  results
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  change.
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  Right
• 3:38
  before
• 3:38
  their
• 3:38
  eyes.
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  And
• 3:40
  I've
• 3:40
  had
• 3:40
  to
• 3:40
  rewrite
• 3:41
  my
• 3:41
  own
• 3:41
  stories.
• 3:43
  I
• 3:43
  felt
• 3:43
  that
• 3:43
  I'm
• 3:44
  overwhelmed
• 3:45
  state.
• 3:46
  I
• 3:46
  felt
• 3:46
  that
• 3:46
  I
• 3:46
  can't
• 3:47
  learn
• 3:47
  this.
• 3:48
  And
• 3:49
  truth
• 3:49
  be
• 3:49
  told,
• 3:50
  I
• 3:50
  felt
• 3:51
  I'll
• 3:51
  never
• 3:51
  get
• 3:51
  ahead.
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  But
• 3:53
  every
• 3:53
  time
• 3:53
  the
• 3:54
  story
• 3:54
  changed,
• 3:55
  the
• 3:55
  steps
• 3:56
  changed.
• 3:57
  And
• 3:58
  I
• 3:58
  want
• 3:58
  to
• 3:58
  encourage
• 3:58
  you
• 3:58
  right
• 3:58
  now,
• 3:59
  God
• 3:59
  can
• 3:59
  do
• 3:59
  the
• 3:59
  same
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  for
• 4:00
  you.
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  Let
• 4:01
  me
• 4:01
  give
• 4:01
  you
• 4:01
  a
• 4:02
  real
• 4:02
  example.
• 4:02
  Something
• 4:03
  simple
• 4:03
  but
• 4:04
  powerful.
• 4:05
  A
• 4:05
  listener
• 4:06
  once
• 4:06
  told
• 4:06
  me
• 4:06
  she
• 4:06
  felt
• 4:07
  hopeless
• 4:07
  about
• 4:07
  money.
• 4:09
  She
• 4:09
  wrote
• 4:10
  down
• 4:10
  a
• 4:10
  new
• 4:10
  belief.
• 4:10
  She
• 4:11
  said,
• 4:11
  ralph,
• 4:11
  here's
• 4:11
  what
• 4:11
  I'm
• 4:11
  going
• 4:11
  to
• 4:11
  write
• 4:12
  down.
• 4:12
  I'm
• 4:12
  going
• 4:12
  to
• 4:12
  take
• 4:12
  what
• 4:13
  you
• 4:13
  said.
• 4:13
  I
• 4:13
  can
• 4:13
  learn
• 4:14
  this.
• 4:15
  That
• 4:15
  was
• 4:15
  it,
• 4:16
  just
• 4:16
  one
• 4:16
  sentence.
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  Then
• 4:18
  she
• 4:18
  began
• 4:18
  a
• 4:18
  weekly
• 4:19
  money
• 4:19
  hour,
• 4:19
  she
• 4:20
  called
• 4:20
  it,
• 4:20
  where
• 4:21
  every
• 4:21
  hour,
• 4:21
  weekly.
• 4:22
  She
• 4:22
  reviewed
• 4:23
  her
• 4:23
  accounts,
• 4:23
  she
• 4:24
  updated
• 4:24
  the
• 4:24
  categories,
• 4:25
  she
• 4:25
  started
• 4:25
  forecasting
• 4:26
  her
• 4:26
  next
• 4:27
  steps.
• 4:28
  She
• 4:29
  wasn't
• 4:29
  confident
• 4:29
  at
• 4:30
  first.
• 4:30
  A
• 4:30
  lot
• 4:30
  of
• 4:30
  this
• 4:31
  was
• 4:31
  mind
• 4:31
  games
• 4:32
  with
• 4:32
  herself.
• 4:33
  But
• 4:33
  she
• 4:34
  sure
• 4:34
  was
• 4:34
  consistent.
• 4:35
  And
• 4:36
  a
• 4:36
  couple
• 4:36
  months
• 4:36
  later,
• 4:37
  she
• 4:37
  was
• 4:37
  forecasting
• 4:38
  like
• 4:38
  a
• 4:38
  pro.
• 4:40
  Now,
• 4:40
  none
• 4:40
  of
• 4:40
  this
• 4:41
  happened
• 4:41
  because
• 4:41
  she
• 4:41
  suddenly
• 4:42
  became
• 4:42
  gifted.
• 4:43
  Because
• 4:44
  she
• 4:44
  stopped
• 4:45
  calling
• 4:45
  herself
• 4:46
  incapable.
• 4:48
  Because
• 4:48
  your
• 4:48
  story
• 4:49
  matters.
• 4:51
  So
• 4:51
  how
• 4:51
  do
• 4:51
  you
• 4:51
  change
• 4:51
  the
• 4:52
  story?
• 4:52
  Here's
• 4:53
  how
• 4:53
  you
• 4:53
  start
• 4:53
  by
• 4:54
  doing
• 4:54
  it.
• 4:54
  Number
• 4:54
  one
• 4:54
  thing,
• 4:55
  you
• 4:55
  got
• 4:56
  to
• 4:56
  identify
• 4:56
  the
• 4:57
  lie.
• 4:57
  You
• 4:57
  got
• 4:57
  to
• 4:57
  go
• 4:57
  and
• 4:58
  look
• 4:58
  at
• 4:58
  that.
• 4:58
  I
• 4:58
  can't
• 4:59
  statement.
• 5:00
  The
• 5:00
  biggest
• 5:00
  obstacles
• 5:01
  are
• 5:01
  usually
• 5:01
  the
• 5:02
  thoughts
• 5:02
  we
• 5:02
  never
• 5:02
  say
• 5:03
  out
• 5:03
  loud.
• 5:03
  It's
• 5:03
  that
• 5:03
  self
• 5:04
  talk.
• 5:05
  They
• 5:05
  sound
• 5:05
  like
• 5:06
  this,
• 5:06
  I'm
• 5:06
  bad
• 5:07
  with
• 5:07
  money,
• 5:08
  Ralph.
• 5:08
  I
• 5:08
  always
• 5:09
  mess
• 5:09
  this
• 5:09
  up.
• 5:10
  I'm
• 5:10
  just
• 5:10
  not
• 5:11
  a
• 5:11
  numbers
• 5:11
  person.
• 5:13
  That's
• 5:14
  the
• 5:14
  lies
• 5:14
  that
• 5:14
  we
• 5:15
  tell
• 5:15
  ourselves.
• 5:16
  But
• 5:17
  here's
• 5:17
  the
• 5:17
  gentle
• 5:18
  truth.
• 5:19
  You
• 5:19
  can't
• 5:19
  defeat
• 5:20
  what
• 5:20
  you
• 5:20
  won't
• 5:20
  acknowledge.
• 5:22
  So
• 5:22
  when
• 5:22
  you
• 5:23
  name
• 5:23
  that
• 5:23
  lie,
• 5:23
  guess
• 5:23
  what
• 5:24
  it
• 5:24
  does?
• 5:24
  It
• 5:24
  removes
• 5:25
  its
• 5:25
  authority.
• 5:27
  Once
• 5:27
  you
• 5:27
  remove
• 5:27
  the
• 5:27
  authority,
• 5:28
  replace
• 5:28
  it
• 5:29
  with
• 5:29
  truth.
• 5:29
  I'm
• 5:29
  going
• 5:29
  to
• 5:30
  call
• 5:30
  this
• 5:30
  scripture
• 5:30
  in
• 5:31
  skill.
• 5:32
  Scripture
• 5:33
  has
• 5:33
  the
• 5:33
  capacity
• 5:34
  to
• 5:34
  rewrite
• 5:34
  our
• 5:35
  identity.
• 5:36
  And
• 5:36
  that
• 5:36
  practice
• 5:37
  builds
• 5:37
  confidence.
• 5:38
  Let
• 5:38
  me
• 5:38
  give
• 5:38
  an
• 5:38
  example.
• 5:40
  Maybe
• 5:40
  a
• 5:40
  lie
• 5:40
  you
• 5:41
  hear
• 5:41
  is,
• 5:41
  I
• 5:41
  can't
• 5:41
  learn
• 5:42
  this.
• 5:42
  I've
• 5:43
  been
• 5:43
  in
• 5:43
  that
• 5:43
  same
• 5:43
  lie
• 5:44
  before.
• 5:45
  But
• 5:45
  what's
• 5:46
  God's
• 5:46
  truth
• 5:46
  say?
• 5:46
  Look
• 5:47
  at
• 5:47
  Romans
• 5:47
  12
• 5:47
  to
• 5:47
  we'll
• 5:48
  cover
• 5:48
  this
• 5:48
  today
• 5:48
  in
• 5:48
  our
• 5:49
  scripture.
• 5:49
  God
• 5:49
  renews
• 5:50
  my
• 5:50
  mind
• 5:52
  and
• 5:52
  we
• 5:52
  add
• 5:53
  to
• 5:53
  that
• 5:53
  the
• 5:53
  skill
• 5:53
  I
• 5:54
  can
• 5:54
  learn
• 5:54
  in
• 5:54
  small
• 5:55
  steps.
• 5:57
  That
• 5:57
  truth
• 5:57
  has
• 5:57
  to
• 5:57
  be
• 5:57
  repeated
• 5:58
  until
• 5:58
  it
• 5:58
  becomes
• 5:58
  familiar.
• 5:59
  That
• 5:59
  consistency
• 6:00
  and
• 6:00
  that
• 6:00
  truth
• 6:01
  leads
• 6:01
  to
• 6:01
  action
• 6:01
  and
• 6:02
  that
• 6:02
  action
• 6:02
  reinforces
• 6:03
  truth.
• 6:05
  Well,
• 6:05
  how
• 6:05
  do
• 6:05
  you
• 6:05
  do
• 6:05
  it,
• 6:05
  Ralph?
• 6:07
  Practice
• 6:07
  small
• 6:07
  weekly
• 6:08
  reps.
• 6:09
  Growth
• 6:10
  is
• 6:10
  never
• 6:10
  going
• 6:11
  to
• 6:11
  be
• 6:11
  on
• 6:11
  intensity.
• 6:13
  It's
• 6:13
  built
• 6:13
  on
• 6:13
  repetition.
• 6:14
  I'll
• 6:14
  give
• 6:14
  you
• 6:14
  a
• 6:14
  great
• 6:14
  example.
• 6:15
  I
• 6:15
  was
• 6:15
  down
• 6:15
  in
• 6:15
  the
• 6:15
  gym
• 6:16
  this
• 6:16
  morning.
• 6:16
  Now,
• 6:17
  I
• 6:17
  could
• 6:17
  have
• 6:17
  went
• 6:17
  down
• 6:17
  there
• 6:17
  and
• 6:18
  lifted
• 6:18
  one
• 6:18
  heavy
• 6:18
  weight.
• 6:19
  One
• 6:19
  Time.
• 6:20
  And
• 6:20
  I
• 6:20
  would
• 6:20
  have
• 6:21
  gotten
• 6:21
  zero
• 6:21
  growth
• 6:21
  from
• 6:22
  that.
• 6:23
  But
• 6:23
  what
• 6:23
  I've
• 6:23
  learned
• 6:23
  over
• 6:23
  the
• 6:24
  last
• 6:24
  10
• 6:24
  months
• 6:24
  of
• 6:25
  doing
• 6:25
  weightlifting
• 6:26
  exercise
• 6:27
  is
• 6:27
  that
• 6:28
  repetition,
• 6:28
  that
• 6:29
  continuous.
• 6:30
  And
• 6:30
  I
• 6:30
  can
• 6:30
  see
• 6:31
  myself
• 6:31
  getting
• 6:31
  stronger
• 6:32
  every
• 6:32
  week.
• 6:33
  Weekly
• 6:34
  money
• 6:34
  hour
• 6:34
  that
• 6:34
  my
• 6:34
  client
• 6:35
  did
• 6:35
  becomes
• 6:35
  a
• 6:35
  training
• 6:36
  time.
• 6:36
  It
• 6:36
  becomes
• 6:37
  a
• 6:37
  training
• 6:37
  time
• 6:38
  for
• 6:38
  your
• 6:38
  financial
• 6:39
  mind.
• 6:40
  And
• 6:40
  that
• 6:41
  consistency
• 6:41
  beats
• 6:42
  motivation
• 6:42
  every
• 6:42
  day
• 6:42
  because
• 6:43
  you
• 6:43
  will
• 6:43
  grow
• 6:43
  tired
• 6:44
  and
• 6:44
  you
• 6:44
  will
• 6:44
  lose
• 6:45
  your
• 6:45
  motivation.
• 6:45
  But
• 6:46
  if
• 6:46
  you
• 6:46
  can
• 6:46
  be
• 6:46
  consistent,
• 6:47
  if
• 6:47
  you
• 6:47
  can
• 6:48
  have
• 6:48
  those
• 6:48
  reps,
• 6:49
  it's
• 6:49
  going
• 6:49
  to
• 6:50
  beat
• 6:50
  back
• 6:50
  that
• 6:50
  fear.
• 6:51
  Those
• 6:51
  small
• 6:51
  reps
• 6:52
  create
• 6:52
  big
• 6:53
  results.
• 6:55
  And
• 6:55
  finally
• 6:55
  listen
• 6:56
  to
• 6:56
  me
• 6:56
  track
• 6:57
  your
• 6:57
  progress,
• 6:57
  not
• 6:58
  perfection.
• 6:59
  Don't
• 7:00
  judge
• 7:00
  yourself
• 7:00
  by
• 7:01
  one
• 7:01
  day.
• 7:02
  There
• 7:02
  are
• 7:02
  days
• 7:02
  when
• 7:03
  I'm
• 7:03
  trying
• 7:03
  to
• 7:03
  lose
• 7:04
  weight
• 7:04
  and
• 7:04
  I'm
• 7:04
  really
• 7:04
  doing
• 7:04
  good
• 7:05
  at
• 7:05
  it.
• 7:05
  But
• 7:05
  man,
• 7:05
  there
• 7:05
  are
• 7:05
  days
• 7:06
  that
• 7:06
  are
• 7:06
  setback
• 7:06
  days.
• 7:07
  And
• 7:08
  if
• 7:08
  I
• 7:08
  just
• 7:08
  judged
• 7:09
  myself
• 7:09
  on
• 7:09
  that
• 7:09
  one
• 7:10
  day,
• 7:10
  man,
• 7:10
  I
• 7:10
  would
• 7:10
  just
• 7:11
  stop.
• 7:11
  I
• 7:11
  would
• 7:11
  give
• 7:11
  up.
• 7:13
  So
• 7:13
  don't
• 7:13
  do
• 7:13
  that.
• 7:14
  Watch
• 7:14
  your
• 7:14
  trend
• 7:15
  line.
• 7:15
  Celebrate
• 7:16
  the
• 7:16
  micro
• 7:16
  wins.
• 7:17
  We
• 7:17
  talked
• 7:17
  about
• 7:18
  this
• 7:18
  a
• 7:18
  couple
• 7:18
  days
• 7:18
  ago.
• 7:19
  The
• 7:19
  those
• 7:19
  micro
• 7:20
  wins
• 7:20
  might
• 7:20
  be
• 7:20
  one
• 7:20
  bill
• 7:21
  paid
• 7:21
  on
• 7:21
  time,
• 7:22
  one
• 7:22
  week
• 7:22
  attracting
• 7:23
  one
• 7:23
  balanced
• 7:23
  category
• 7:24
  in
• 7:24
  your
• 7:24
  budget.
• 7:26
  But
• 7:26
  you
• 7:26
  got
• 7:26
  to
• 7:26
  realize
• 7:27
  growth
• 7:27
  is
• 7:27
  messy
• 7:29
  the
• 7:29
  day
• 7:29
  in
• 7:29
  and
• 7:30
  the
• 7:30
  day
• 7:30
  out.
• 7:30
  The
• 7:30
  hour
• 7:30
  by
• 7:31
  hour
• 7:31
  things
• 7:31
  are
• 7:31
  messy.
• 7:33
  But
• 7:33
  that
• 7:33
  movement
• 7:33
  you're
• 7:34
  putting
• 7:34
  together
• 7:35
  is
• 7:35
  beautiful.
• 7:36
  And
• 7:37
  that
• 7:37
  progress
• 7:37
  is
• 7:37
  going
• 7:38
  to
• 7:38
  build
• 7:38
  confidence
• 7:39
  and
• 7:39
  that
• 7:39
  confidence
• 7:40
  is
• 7:40
  going
• 7:40
  to
• 7:41
  build
• 7:41
  momentum.
• 7:42
  Well,
• 7:42
  let's
• 7:43
  root
• 7:43
  this
• 7:43
  in
• 7:43
  scripture
• 7:43
  because
• 7:44
  the
• 7:44
  mindset
• 7:44
  work
• 7:44
  is
• 7:45
  deeply
• 7:45
  biblical.
• 7:45
  As
• 7:46
  we
• 7:46
  spoke
• 7:46
  about
• 7:46
  earlier,
• 7:47
  Romans
• 7:47
  12:2
• 7:48
  says,
• 7:48
  Be
• 7:49
  transformed
• 7:50
  by
• 7:50
  the
• 7:50
  renewing
• 7:50
  of
• 7:51
  your
• 7:51
  mind.
• 7:53
  Transformation
• 7:54
  isn't
• 7:54
  instant.
• 7:55
  A
• 7:55
  lot
• 7:55
  of
• 7:55
  people
• 7:56
  think,
• 7:56
  well
• 7:56
  if
• 7:56
  something
• 7:56
  magic
• 7:57
  is
• 7:57
  going
• 7:57
  to
• 7:57
  happen,
• 7:57
  I'm
• 7:57
  going
• 7:57
  to
• 7:57
  be
• 7:58
  transformed.
• 7:58
  It's
• 7:58
  not
• 7:58
  instant.
• 7:59
  It's
• 7:59
  a
• 7:59
  process,
• 8:00
  it's
• 8:01
  a
• 8:01
  journey.
• 8:01
  It's
• 8:02
  a
• 8:02
  daily
• 8:02
  decision.
• 8:03
  It's
• 8:03
  a
• 8:03
  daily
• 8:04
  renewal.
• 8:04
  God
• 8:05
  grows
• 8:05
  you
• 8:05
  step
• 8:06
  by
• 8:07
  step.
• 8:08
  How
• 8:08
  about
• 8:09
  we
• 8:09
  pray
• 8:09
  together
• 8:09
  right
• 8:10
  now?
• 8:11
  Lord,
• 8:11
  renew
• 8:12
  my
• 8:12
  thinking.
• 8:13
  Give
• 8:13
  me
• 8:13
  courage
• 8:13
  to
• 8:14
  learn.
• 8:14
  Even
• 8:14
  when
• 8:14
  it
• 8:15
  feels
• 8:15
  slow,
• 8:15
  even
• 8:16
  when
• 8:16
  it
• 8:16
  feels
• 8:16
  like
• 8:16
  I'm
• 8:16
  not
• 8:17
  getting
• 8:17
  anywhere.
• 8:17
  Lord,
• 8:18
  help
• 8:18
  me
• 8:18
  be
• 8:18
  patient
• 8:20
  as
• 8:20
  you
• 8:20
  grow
• 8:20
  me
• 8:21
  step
• 8:21
  by
• 8:21
  step,
• 8:22
  Lord.
• 8:23
  And
• 8:23
  show
• 8:23
  me
• 8:23
  the
• 8:24
  sign
• 8:24
  for
• 8:24
  that.
• 8:24
  Show
• 8:24
  me
• 8:25
  how
• 8:25
  to
• 8:25
  do
• 8:25
  that,
• 8:25
  Lord.
• 8:25
  And
• 8:26
  I
• 8:26
  ask
• 8:26
  this
• 8:26
  in
• 8:26
  the
• 8:26
  confidence
• 8:27
  in
• 8:27
  Jesus
• 8:28
  name,
• 8:29
  Amen.
• 8:30
  So
• 8:31
  here's
• 8:31
  your
• 8:31
  one
• 8:31
  action
• 8:32
  step
• 8:32
  for
• 8:32
  today.
• 8:33
  I
• 8:33
  want
• 8:33
  you
• 8:34
  to
• 8:34
  just
• 8:34
  write
• 8:34
  down
• 8:34
  one
• 8:35
  financial
• 8:35
  lie
• 8:36
  you
• 8:36
  believed.
• 8:36
  We've
• 8:37
  talked
• 8:37
  about
• 8:37
  a
• 8:37
  lot
• 8:37
  of
• 8:37
  those
• 8:37
  today.
• 8:38
  I
• 8:38
  can't
• 8:39
  do
• 8:39
  this.
• 8:39
  I'm
• 8:39
  not
• 8:39
  a
• 8:40
  numbers
• 8:40
  person.
• 8:41
  I'm
• 8:41
  not
• 8:41
  good
• 8:41
  at
• 8:41
  this.
• 8:42
  Ralph,
• 8:43
  just
• 8:43
  write
• 8:43
  that
• 8:43
  one
• 8:44
  financial
• 8:44
  lie
• 8:44
  that
• 8:45
  you've
• 8:45
  believed.
• 8:45
  Maybe
• 8:46
  you
• 8:46
  believe
• 8:46
  this
• 8:46
  your
• 8:46
  entire
• 8:47
  life.
• 8:47
  Maybe
• 8:47
  this
• 8:48
  came
• 8:48
  from
• 8:48
  your
• 8:48
  parents
• 8:49
  belief.
• 8:50
  Just
• 8:50
  write
• 8:50
  it
• 8:51
  down.
• 8:52
  Show
• 8:53
  its
• 8:53
  face.
• 8:54
  And
• 8:54
  then
• 8:54
  I
• 8:54
  want
• 8:55
  you
• 8:55
  to
• 8:55
  go
• 8:55
  find
• 8:55
  the
• 8:55
  scripture
• 8:56
  truth
• 8:56
  replacing
• 8:57
  it.
• 8:58
  And
• 8:58
  once
• 8:59
  you
• 8:59
  do
• 8:59
  that,
• 8:59
  I
• 8:59
  love
• 8:59
  what
• 9:00
  my
• 9:00
  clients
• 9:00
  do
• 9:00
  in
• 9:00
  here.
• 9:01
  Schedule
• 9:01
  your
• 9:01
  weekly
• 9:02
  money
• 9:02
  hour.
• 9:03
  Pick
• 9:03
  a
• 9:03
  day,
• 9:03
  a
• 9:03
  time
• 9:04
  of
• 9:04
  practice,
• 9:04
  and
• 9:04
  just
• 9:04
  do
• 9:04
  it.
• 9:05
  Because
• 9:05
  that
• 9:05
  rhythm
• 9:05
  becomes
• 9:06
  the
• 9:06
  beginning
• 9:06
  of
• 9:07
  your
• 9:07
  transformation.
• 9:09
  No,
• 9:09
  it's
• 9:09
  not
• 9:09
  going
• 9:09
  to
• 9:09
  happen
• 9:10
  overnight.
• 9:11
  But
• 9:11
  with
• 9:11
  that
• 9:12
  consistency
• 9:12
  with
• 9:12
  doing
• 9:12
  those
• 9:13
  reps,
• 9:13
  it
• 9:14
  will
• 9:14
  happen.
• 9:14
  And
• 9:14
  the
• 9:15
  beauty
• 9:15
  of
• 9:15
  that
• 9:16
  will
• 9:16
  be
• 9:17
  astonishing
• 9:17
  to
• 9:17
  you.
• 9:19
  And
• 9:19
  if
• 9:19
  you're
• 9:20
  like
• 9:20
  most
• 9:20
  people,
• 9:20
  you
• 9:20
  need
• 9:21
  support,
• 9:21
  you
• 9:21
  need
• 9:21
  encouragement,
• 9:22
  you
• 9:23
  need
• 9:23
  people
• 9:23
  who
• 9:23
  celebrate
• 9:24
  every
• 9:24
  step.
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  I
• 9:24
  want
• 9:25
  to
• 9:25
  encourage
• 9:25
  you
• 9:25
  to
• 9:25
  join
• 9:25
  us
• 9:26
  inside
• 9:26
  the
• 9:26
  financially
• 9:26
  confident
• 9:27
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• 9:27
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• 9:28
  You
• 9:28
  get
• 9:28
  to
• 9:29
  that
• 9:29
  by
• 9:29
  going
• 9:29
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• 9:29
  financiallyconfidentchristian.com/join
• 9:33
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• 9:33
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• 9:34
  financiallyconfidentchristian.com/Join
• 9:37
  because
• 9:38
  you
• 9:38
  don't
• 9:38
  have
• 9:38
  to
• 9:38
  do
• 9:38
  this
• 9:38
  alone.
• 9:40
  Friend,
• 9:41
  I
• 9:41
  want
• 9:41
  to
• 9:41
  say
• 9:41
  something
• 9:41
  right
• 9:42
  now.
• 9:42
  You're
• 9:42
  not
• 9:42
  stuck.
• 9:43
  You
• 9:43
  are
• 9:44
  growing.
• 9:44
  Your
• 9:45
  story
• 9:45
  can
• 9:45
  change,
• 9:46
  your
• 9:46
  habits
• 9:46
  can
• 9:47
  change,
• 9:47
  your
• 9:47
  mindset
• 9:48
  can
• 9:48
  change
• 9:50
  because
• 9:50
  God
• 9:51
  is
• 9:51
  renewing
• 9:51
  you
• 9:51
  from
• 9:52
  the
• 9:52
  inside
• 9:52
  out.
• 9:54
  So
• 9:54
  I
• 9:54
  want
• 9:54
  to
• 9:54
  encourage
• 9:54
  today,
• 9:55
  go
• 9:55
  out
• 9:55
  there
• 9:55
  and
• 9:55
  be
• 9:55
  the
• 9:56
  financially
• 9:56
  confident
• 9:57
  Christian
• 9:57
  that
• 9:57
  I
• 9:57
  know
• 9:57
  you
• 9:58
  can
• 9:58
  be.
• 9:59
  Have
• 9:59
  some
• 9:59
  confidence
• 10:00
  in
• 10:00
  yourself.
• 10:00
  I
• 10:01
  know
• 10:01
  you
• 10:01
  can
• 10:01
  do
• 10:01
  this.
• 10:02
  Stay
• 10:02
  financially
• 10:03
  savvy.
• 10:03
  God
• 10:04
  bless
• 10:04
  you.
• 10:04
  And
• 10:04
  you
• 10:05
  have
• 10:05
  a
• 10:05
  great
• 10:05
  day
• 10:05
  today.