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Episode #227: Be Bold in Building Confidence · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to tea time with Amy and Bev
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  Speaker 1: step girl. Take three, takes three, We're right, number three.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right.
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  Speaker 1: Start recordings in one sitting because we have we have life.
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  Speaker 1: We have life, and we got things to do and
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  Speaker 1: places to be and and it's fun and exciting and
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  Speaker 1: all the things. So we are doing multiple recordings in
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  Speaker 1: one sitting. We're keeping our same clothes on. So this
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  Speaker 1: is just the way we're showing up and it's okay,
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  Speaker 1: and we're good with it.
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  Speaker 2: That's right because Amy makes this happen. That's what she does,
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  Speaker 2: and she makes it happen. That's what I'm telling you
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  Speaker 2: right now. I'm telling the truth. Speaking of telling the truth,
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  Speaker 2: that's what I wanted to go into.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, cool, let's do it.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of us don't know how
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  Speaker 2: to be ourselves, and so recently I created uh and
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  Speaker 2: uh kind of like another version of myself or I
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  Speaker 2: we can just called an avatar because I'm not being
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  Speaker 2: present on it. But I'm still speaking my words exactly
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  Speaker 2: how I would speak them, with no judgment, in a
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  Speaker 2: platform that nobody knows who I am. Nothing And so far,
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  Speaker 2: I have one person following but it doesn't matter because
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  Speaker 2: it's like the in the space that I'm at, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not expecting really a whole lot from that. But on
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  Speaker 2: the other side of that, I'm figuring out who I am,
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  Speaker 2: what are my words? Because it's so I feel like
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  Speaker 2: we get so caught up in what and I know
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  Speaker 2: I still do it that we get so caught up
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  Speaker 2: in what others think that we should do, or what
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  Speaker 2: others think about us, or not wanting to offend them
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  Speaker 2: or rock the boat or do all this shit because
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  Speaker 2: I say shit because it's that's just shit, because it's
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  Speaker 2: not true. But I'm getting confidence from doing this and
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  Speaker 2: I'm speaking myself. And you know, there is a game
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  Speaker 2: that we play here at home online with a group
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  Speaker 2: of other people, like fifty or fifteen of us all together,
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  Speaker 2: but we play these games that we get together quite frequently,
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  Speaker 2: and it's like mine was working well. Right, We're in retrograde,
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  Speaker 2: So retrograde means electronic devices and stuff. Stuff's gonna Shit's
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  Speaker 2: gonna happen. That's just how it is. But it opened
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  Speaker 2: the doorway for other things, for other possibilities, and it's
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  Speaker 2: just with that happening, I've just kind of learned to
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  Speaker 2: let go of a lot of stuff. And so even
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  Speaker 2: in that process, I've been contacting the people and they
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  Speaker 2: weren't responding back to me, tell me anything. So when
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  Speaker 2: you start, when you file like a complaint, it keeps
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  Speaker 2: this open conversation, so like it's like you've got just
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  Speaker 2: this message board with this one person and they're not
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  Speaker 2: responding to me ethanday I'm saying, I'm like, Okay, well,
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a reading on you later today. I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna go ahead and do this, and so I this
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  Speaker 2: is what I did, and I and I was so
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  Speaker 2: motivated by this that I did it with a couple
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  Speaker 2: of things. And I'm like, I'm just gonna do a
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  Speaker 2: reading and I'm like, okay, I'm gonna do it one
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  Speaker 2: and then I'm like sending So then I send them
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  Speaker 2: another message, like I'm keeping this constant conversation going. He's
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  Speaker 2: that no one's talking to me. I'm just having the conversation.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm I'm finding that I'm being myself in that
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  Speaker 2: those places because I don't care what do I have
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  Speaker 2: to lose. You're gonna kick me out, You're gonna kick
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  Speaker 2: me out of the game. And I can't blade in more,
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  Speaker 2: or you're you know what I mean, there's these things.
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  Speaker 2: Not to say that what didn't irritate me because I
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  Speaker 2: wanted to play, because I got a team and they
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  Speaker 2: need my backup, you know, I need I help out.
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  Speaker 2: I can. I'm a contributor. Yeah, but it's all these things.
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  Speaker 2: But it's just realizing that all these things were platforms
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  Speaker 2: because I'm I'm just I'm just a name on a
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  Speaker 2: game that's not even real. I'm just a name on
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  Speaker 2: a platform that I can practice to learn how to
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  Speaker 2: be myself and who is myself and what do I
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  Speaker 2: believe in? And I don't know until I start putting
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  Speaker 2: these things out there because I don't have these conversations.
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  Speaker 2: I mean I have them with you, I have them
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  Speaker 2: with several people, but I'm not having them or I'm
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  Speaker 2: being aware of what I'm writing, what I'm saying like
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  Speaker 2: the whole time. So it's kind of changed things and
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  Speaker 2: it's really making me, like I feel more confident. I'm
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  Speaker 2: letting things go. I'm just different now. I'm in a
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  Speaker 2: different space. I'm in the space where I'm not just saying, hey, hey, guys,
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  Speaker 2: have faith, listen to the guidance and you know, I'm
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  Speaker 2: in the space, I'm having faith, I'm listening to the guidance,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm seeing what comes of it. Oh okay, so
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  Speaker 2: you said I'm not going to be working anything more. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So the next dream I had the following night was
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  Speaker 2: I'm looking at medications or what vitamins and the vitamin
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  Speaker 2: that would normally be twenty five dollars. I'm shocked because
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  Speaker 2: it's five dollars and I'm like, oh, what's going on?
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  Speaker 2: And I start looking through and I start the information
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  Speaker 2: in the dream was prices. We're dropping. So it was like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: well that's interesting too, but I'm not going to hold
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  Speaker 2: on to it. I'm not going to hold onto the outcome,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm going to see how it happens, and I'm
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  Speaker 2: going to remember that, Hey, I did have a dream
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  Speaker 2: and this is what happened from that space. And I
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  Speaker 2: don't know how long that's.
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  Speaker 1: Going to take.
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  Speaker 2: Like I said before, the other one said, August does
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  Speaker 2: that mean August of this year? August of twenty twenty eight?
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  Speaker 2: You know what does that mean? I don't know, and
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  Speaker 2: I don't care because I don't have an attachment to
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  Speaker 2: an outcome, because what I'm attached to now, which is
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  Speaker 2: not even an attachment, is just learning how to be
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  Speaker 2: right now, even to the time, even to the space
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  Speaker 2: of if I'm in a ship mood and I'm in
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  Speaker 2: my head and I'm listening to the craft that I'm
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  Speaker 2: saying because it's that crap that I'm not that I
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  Speaker 2: normally don't listen to, and I just kind of right
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  Speaker 2: along the wave or being angry. I started listening to you,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm like, what it's if I all of a
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  Speaker 2: sudden split with myself, I'd be looking at myself being like,
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  Speaker 2: what the hell is your deal? Like, dude, hey, come
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  Speaker 2: on over here. Let me give you a hug. You
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean, because let me just give you
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  Speaker 2: a huge because that's what it feels like. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: because that's sometime when I hear myself, when I'm paying
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  Speaker 2: attention to that crap talk, I'm like, who are you?
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  Speaker 2: Like you've been You've been a beast that's been running
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  Speaker 2: free for years and years and years, and I see
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  Speaker 2: you and it's okay for you to be a beast,
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  Speaker 2: but I love you. Let's go over here and play.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we don't have to stay in that space anymore.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I uh, interesting enough because this always happens with
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  Speaker 1: us and I love it. Over the weekend, this past weekend,
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  Speaker 1: I went to a leadership training and there was a
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  Speaker 1: team building exercise that we did. It was so Friday
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  Speaker 1: night was kind of a fun night, and then Saturday
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  Speaker 1: was our workshop. So Friday night we did a team
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  Speaker 1: building exercise. It was quite interesting and you had to
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  Speaker 1: well you didn't have to, but it was beneficial if
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  Speaker 1: there was a lead communicator. Now, for those who don't
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  Speaker 1: know me, let's just set a premise here that back
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  Speaker 1: in the day, I mean I naturally have an introverted
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  Speaker 1: back personality, which means I can just pull back and
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  Speaker 1: be very quiet, not want to be seen, not be
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  Speaker 1: the star of the show, not be in front of everybody,
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  Speaker 1: like just the back of the crowd. Low key. That's
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  Speaker 1: my m since I was little, because of my upbringing
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  Speaker 1: and no desire to be a well I can't say
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  Speaker 1: that desire to be a leader, not confident enough to
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  Speaker 1: do it. So there's that. So I go to this
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  Speaker 1: this leadership and so our facilitator for our group said,
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  Speaker 1: she said, it would be of your best interest to
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  Speaker 1: have somebody who is leading the group, and I am
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  Speaker 1: the youngest at the table, okay first of all. So
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  Speaker 1: so I'm just sitting there. My natural instinct is to
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  Speaker 1: just be quiet, just see what happens. And there are
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  Speaker 1: like seven of us at this table, and every one
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  Speaker 1: of them said, no, I don't want to do it. No,
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  Speaker 1: you you know what, you know, I don't want it,
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  Speaker 1: and they're just going back and forth, and then all
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden they look at me and they're like, Amy,
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  Speaker 1: can do it. I was like, okay, I got this right.
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  Speaker 1: So there was two rounds to this thing that we
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  Speaker 1: were doing, and so we did the first one and
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  Speaker 1: you had to display your work on the wall, and
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  Speaker 1: then we did the second round, and of course that
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  Speaker 1: has to go up on the wall, and then there
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  Speaker 1: were some judges to There was five, five groups, and
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  Speaker 1: so we got our stuff on the wall and then
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  Speaker 1: there's judges right there. They're trying to decide whose work
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  Speaker 1: was the best. And all that well, it ended up
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  Speaker 1: no kidding, loved it. It was so fun. We got
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  Speaker 1: overall nice and they were all like, oh my gosh, Ami,
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  Speaker 1: you were so good at this, and you were so
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  Speaker 1: good at that and doing this and talking to us
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  Speaker 1: and like all these kudos, and it was just one
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  Speaker 1: of those, you know, proud moments for myself to recognize
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  Speaker 1: how far I've come. And then the in this organization
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  Speaker 1: I'm in that brought me to this leadership program. In
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  Speaker 1: traveling with the with another lady, she was complimenting me
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  Speaker 1: on how I run our meetings, Like right now I'm
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  Speaker 1: in charge of a committee meeting, and I'm just like,
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  Speaker 1: stay on focus, let's get this done. You know, everybody
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  Speaker 1: has a life. I have a life. I got things
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  Speaker 1: to do. I don't want to sit here and be
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  Speaker 1: talking about Mars and Jupiter or anything else, because we
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  Speaker 1: got to get this done so I can move on
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  Speaker 1: to my next right. I just have a kind of
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  Speaker 1: a tight schedule with all the things I've got going
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  Speaker 1: on right now. And she goes she was just compliment
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  Speaker 1: She's like, I like the right way you run meetings,
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  Speaker 1: You stay focused, you get to the point, get things done,
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  Speaker 1: and blah bla lah. I'm just like, damn girl, look
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  Speaker 1: at me. Go that's right, so exciting. So I ageat
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  Speaker 1: you know, you're talking about building your confidence in this way,
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  Speaker 1: which is great to me. It is like, do what
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  Speaker 1: you need to do to start to not start, but
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  Speaker 1: to continue a path of building your confidence in a
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  Speaker 1: way that eventually, because right now this is kind of
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  Speaker 1: a mask, right but eventually you just step out and
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  Speaker 1: say this is me and this is what I.
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  Speaker 2: Ever said.
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  Speaker 1: Said.
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  Speaker 2: But it's like I don't know until I practice, until
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  Speaker 2: I get into the space. And it's like, as I'm going,
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  Speaker 2: I'm finding what I like and what I want to do,
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  Speaker 2: and you know, and I don't know right now what's
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  Speaker 2: what all that means. But I just know that I
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  Speaker 2: just am doing the same thing I said before. We
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  Speaker 2: got to go with what feels good. So I pay
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  Speaker 2: attention to what feels good. And it feels like someone
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  Speaker 2: it feels like I let go of everything or I
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  Speaker 2: remove the dam and now the water is just flowing.
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  Speaker 2: So now like there's a natural flow that's going on
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  Speaker 2: instead of me trying to row the water or block
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  Speaker 2: the water so it doesn't get down here. Now I
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  Speaker 2: need that natural flow and that's adding it's adding that
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  Speaker 2: to me, which is giving me confidence and it's letting
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  Speaker 2: me just be whatever I'm going to be. Not I
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  Speaker 2: don't apologetically because I find that a lot of times
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  Speaker 2: I'm apologetic about stuff like that, Like if I had
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  Speaker 2: all the If I had everything that didn't match my
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  Speaker 2: dishes and having something out, I probably would have been like,
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  Speaker 2: oh god, I'm sorry, or you know whatever. And I
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  Speaker 2: loved how she just I loved everything, like I'm going
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  Speaker 2: back to the house thing again. I loved how everything
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  Speaker 2: was just the way it was. I love the simple
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  Speaker 2: back continuer that you can walk in and it has
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  Speaker 2: it doesn't matter if it's dark. It's got a green
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  Speaker 2: laser on it and allow Dyson. But anyways, it's like
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  Speaker 2: it's going around and it's it's electric so you don't
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  Speaker 2: have to worry. It's battery operated right, so you don't
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  Speaker 2: have to worry about plugging it in or anything like that.
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  Speaker 2: And when it when it needs to charge, you charge
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  Speaker 2: it and it charges quickly. It lets you know how
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  Speaker 2: much you're pulling in. But it's just it makes it fun.
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  Speaker 2: And just as I was telling my granddaughter that's here,
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  Speaker 2: I was telling her, she says, we were cleaning the
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  Speaker 2: stinks and she said, this is so much fun. I said, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: cleaning is so much fun, I said it. But it
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  Speaker 2: just depends on you know, it's more fun than I think.
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  Speaker 2: When we go make the decision to do it instead
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  Speaker 2: of someone else telling us.
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  Speaker 1: To do it. Yep. And I just want to hit
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  Speaker 1: on because I think this is important for the audience.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people, well we know this for a fact,
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  Speaker 1: so that a lot of people will use social media
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  Speaker 1: or platforms two be confident in certain ways, whatever way
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  Speaker 1: that might be, because it's.
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  Speaker 2: Easier to do that.
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  Speaker 1: The thing is is they stay with that that because
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  Speaker 1: then that becomes their persona or their identity and that
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  Speaker 1: they're being there because they're confident in that way that
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  Speaker 1: they can they know they're being seen and her or
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  Speaker 1: not seen, but being heard and validated. Where what I've
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  Speaker 1: done for myself in my journey is because I have
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  Speaker 1: a mentor and she's like, you got to feel the
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  Speaker 1: fear and do it anyway and do exposure therapy. So
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  Speaker 1: I have put myself out there in front of people
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  Speaker 1: to practice and do the things and just keep building
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  Speaker 1: myself up in my confidence. So you know, whatever platform
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  Speaker 1: you choose and whatever direction or way you choose to
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  Speaker 1: do that, that's you go and do it. Just be
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  Speaker 1: aware that whatever you can do in behind the scenes,
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  Speaker 1: you're capable of doing in front of the scene. Like centership. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So it's it's give yourself permission to do what feels
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  Speaker 1: good for now and evolve into something more with that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and really I did. The idea of it initially
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  Speaker 2: was to create for money, but as I was doing it,
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  Speaker 2: and it's like this has been a bonus on top
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  Speaker 2: of it. As I was doing it, I was like, no,
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  Speaker 2: I'm just going to put I'm putting out my positive messages.
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  Speaker 1: That's me.
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  Speaker 2: What's my downfall? I see, what's my downfall is. I'm
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  Speaker 2: no matter what, I'm gonna see things as positive. I'm
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  Speaker 2: always going to find a nugget and things that's me.
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  Speaker 2: You know, like it or leave it. I don't really
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  Speaker 2: care if this is where I'm at and this is
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  Speaker 2: how I'm always going to see things. When I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to give you a spin on something, so you can
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  Speaker 2: tell me something that's negative and I'll try to get
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  Speaker 2: a spin on it and turn it into a positive.
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  Speaker 2: So for me, I'm in a space of what my
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  Speaker 2: intentions were initially, but also just being able to put
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  Speaker 2: out words in a space that people don't normally talk
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  Speaker 2: like that. So and it's not being because there's a
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  Speaker 2: lot of different varieties that go on, but it's like
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  Speaker 2: there but I'm not being a party to all that
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  Speaker 2: because I've got to also stand in my own power
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  Speaker 2: of what feels good for me right, and some things
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  Speaker 2: feel good for me and some things just don't feel
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  Speaker 2: right for me. So I'm only going to do the
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  Speaker 2: things that feel good for me. But in the process
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  Speaker 2: of all that, for myself, I have gained confidence because
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  Speaker 2: I don't care. I'm saying my positivity without being worried
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  Speaker 2: that someone's gonna judge it, or they're gonna or I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna sound stupid or whatever, because there's no one that knows.
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  Speaker 2: There's nobody that knows me, So if I sound stupid,
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  Speaker 2: who cares? So it's for me. It's kind of getting
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  Speaker 2: a feel for things without being in that environment. But
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  Speaker 2: it's still still At the same time, I've changed my
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  Speaker 2: photo and stuff on YouTube, so it's like I'm that's
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  Speaker 2: helping me to realize that I'm just going to start
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  Speaker 2: whatever comes into that I decide to record or write
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  Speaker 2: down or type out or whatever it is, it'll go
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  Speaker 2: on there. It's because that's just part of We're not
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  Speaker 2: meant to keep all the stuff withinside of us. We're
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  Speaker 2: meant to share because when we share these experiences with
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  Speaker 2: others and they recognize that they're not losing their mind,
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  Speaker 2: especially right now, because I think that there's so many
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  Speaker 2: people that are awakening, so many and they don't even
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  Speaker 2: have any freaking clue what's going on, and it's like
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  Speaker 2: a foreign world to them. But we've been delving in it.
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  Speaker 2: We've been walking through it, experimenting, like feeling what feels
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  Speaker 2: good for us and what doesn't feel good for us.
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  Speaker 2: So like we've gone, We've gone a long way in
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  Speaker 2: this journey. I have not all the way, So I've
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  Speaker 2: always got my own that I'm looking towards, But most
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  Speaker 2: of my stuff that I'm guided towards now, it's just
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  Speaker 2: that intuitive guidance that I have with inside that's, to me,
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  Speaker 2: is the most valuable relationship I can have, is the
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  Speaker 2: one that I have with my soul. That is the
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  Speaker 2: most important relationship ever. And when I value that, then
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  Speaker 2: I don't look at myself and judge my body. But
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  Speaker 2: although I still do look in the mirror, I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: who the hell is that? Like you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 2: Like who are you that you're not even the same
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  Speaker 2: person that you were a year ago? It's like, what
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  Speaker 2: is going on? With you, and it's I like it
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  Speaker 2: because that's this is the human experience. It's not to
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  Speaker 2: be the attached to these vessels that we're in. But
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: I'm going to have fun with it as long as
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: I can move around as good as I can, as
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: long as I can.
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: And here's the thing, We're all going to leave this planet. Yeah,
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: like we're all going to leave this planet, right, So
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: why am I giving so much into what your opinion
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: of me is, or your judgments of me, or you know,
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: how you're criticized. Why am I giving so much value
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: to that when I we're both go, we leave in
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: the planet is whenever, So so who cares? I mean,
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: it's like live live more fully. If you're not living fully,
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: live a little more into it if you're not. If
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: you're if you're having the fear, yeah, to do it anyway.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I love the universe has been walking us along, honestly,
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: because that's how I feel a lot of times too.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: I just feel like I'm being guided. It's just like
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: a journey on things, and it's like nothing's good or bad.
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: If you step out on your left foot or your
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: right foot, it doesn't matter. Yeah, Differently, the next time.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's to me, that's just part of the
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: whole process, not to do, not to be so autopilot.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, And and be mentioned at the beginning of
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: this that I was one that highly encouraged her to
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: do these do this podcast And if it wasn't for
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: my journey, I would have never done that. I would
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: not be sitting here with her, We would not be
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: doing this. But because I chose a journey of learning
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: to be confident and make changes in my life. I
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: knew because well from my perspective, and the way I
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: learned was exposure therapy. You step in there and you
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: do it, and you mess it up, you mess it up,
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: but you keep going and then be proud of yourself
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: that you did it. So I knew that worked for me,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: and I knew that could work for Bev, And so
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: I just kept asking her, iver you want to do podcasts, Mabbe,
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: you want to hop on YouTube? Bebb you want to
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: do Facebook live? Bebbe, you want to And eventually she
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: said yes. Because here we are four years later, and
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: how has it been.
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: It's true now you can't shove me up.
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: She does most of the talking. Now, I think it's great.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: It's crazy.
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: I when you get on a roll and you started
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: just talking and talking, I'm just like, this is so
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: cool because I remember when, right, I remember.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: When I'm glad you think it's cool because it's sometimes
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: it's like, well I just don't have there. It just
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: is right. It just comes paper.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: I take notes while you're while you're talking, so I
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: remember to come back around or whatever it is that
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: you know popped in my head. It's not a big deal.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: But anyway, where we were and where we are is
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: such been it's such a great journey. And in that journey,
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: but both of us have built even more confidence in
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: showing up and doing this and having conversations and being vulnerable.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: And that's a celebration. That's exciting. And have we always
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: gotten right? No? Have we always gotten wrong? No? But
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: we show up. We show up in the way the
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: best way we can in those moments. So I would
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: highly encourage those that are listening to just just go
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: do it. Just go do it, Go mess it up,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: go go fail, so to speak. We don't fail as
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: long as we learn, but just do it anyway.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, be like a scientist, right and just try. You
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: sometimes have to do the same thing over and over
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: and over and over again. Yeah, it's like, oh that
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: makes sense.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Like, oh, now I get it. After the five thousand
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: and seven hundred and.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: Now one thousand people are happier when you were yesterday. Right,
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: that's right, that's.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: The stuff that matters. There's there's a at least that
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: one person who's who's going to watch you and learn
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: from you, and you're going to inspire them and then
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: they're gonna go do their things. So there's always I know,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: you know, this isn't always a great thought when you're
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: in the process of building confidence, but there's always somebody
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: watching you. Yeah, not in a stocker way, but there's
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: somebody I was watching you, watching your growth, watching how
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: you're moving and changing and shifting, and you're inspiring them.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: And you may never know who that person is, So
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: just keep going.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, an you find a word before we wrap it up.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear the story. So we're gonna
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: hear have fun, right, yeah, just talking to me every
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: time it'll be I mean, we're we did three shorts,
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: so that means we're gonna have some a little bit
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: of break in between and then more life's gonna happen,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: and that's the exciting part that we get to come share.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: And I would love if people would come share their
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: experiences with us too.
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, leaving your questions and comments or stories it
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: helps us. We come back to them when we can.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: It's not just no, it's not an immediate response, not
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: most times, because we're living life too, and this is
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: this is what we do now because we struggled for
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: so long and now that we're living life, we have
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: life to live so and we're excited about that. So
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: we will come back to your questions and comments at
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: our earliest convenience. But I do watch them on a
• 22:35
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• 22:40
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• 22:44
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• 22:49
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• 22:53
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• 22:58
  Speaker 1: are on YouTube, face Book, Instagram, iHeartRadio, Google podcast, podcast Addict,
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• 23:09
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• 23:12
  Speaker 1: and BEV Community is our channel. So with that, thanks
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: for hanging out with us. We appreciate your time and energy,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: and as always, I appreciate Bev and her time and
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I always enjoy our conversation. So thanks for hanging out
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: and we'll see you next time.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Let's see you later.