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Episode 30- The Benefits of Being Alone With Yourself To Heal and Recover. · You Minding Your Own Business

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  Speaker 1: I just got finished packing and I am getting ready
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  Speaker 1: to go to Vegas. I am so excited about going
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  Speaker 1: to Vegas. I'm so excited about my birthday which is Saturday,
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  Speaker 1: and going on this trip and I am really, really
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  Speaker 1: really excited about it. But this podcast is gonna be
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  Speaker 1: about the fact of the matter of it being okay
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  Speaker 1: to just be on your own, to just travel by yourself,
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  Speaker 1: to just be doing things without nobody knowing that you're
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  Speaker 1: doing whatever it is that you're doing. The world does
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  Speaker 1: not need to know what you have going on, the
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  Speaker 1: world doesn't have to know what it is that you do.
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  Speaker 1: And the one thing about healing and recovering is getting
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  Speaker 1: to that place where it's okay to just be by
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  Speaker 1: yo soo. It's okay to be alone, it's okay to
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  Speaker 1: not have it together, It's okay if you're not ready
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  Speaker 1: to move forward. And what I mean by that is
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  Speaker 1: far as dating. So let me give an example. Let's
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  Speaker 1: say that you have been you, You're you're now adjusting
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  Speaker 1: to being by yourself, and everybody's pushing you to get married,
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  Speaker 1: but unfortunately you're not ready for that. That's not what
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  Speaker 1: you want to do. You don't wanna get married right now,
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  Speaker 1: you don't wanna be the relationship right now. You just
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  Speaker 1: wanna enjoy your life, enjoy being single. And there's absolutely
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  Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. So the question is, why is
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  Speaker 1: everybody pushing everybody to be with somebody? Why is everybody
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  Speaker 1: pushing people to work. Why is everybody pushing people to
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  Speaker 1: do stuff that realistically they really don't wanna do, or
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  Speaker 1: they know full well that the people that they're trying
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  Speaker 1: to push these people with are not interested. That he
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  Speaker 1: and she's just not into you type of thing. I
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  Speaker 1: want people to to understand that if your instincts are
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  Speaker 1: telling you that the person that your friends and family
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  Speaker 1: are trying to hook you up with you know you
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  Speaker 1: ain't into, then don't do it. I don't care what
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  Speaker 1: your family tell you. The answer should be no. If
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  Speaker 1: that's not what you want to do, then that is
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  Speaker 1: not what you should do. If you don't feel comfortable,
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  Speaker 1: then that's what you shouldn't do. Don't do nothing because
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  Speaker 1: everybody else wants you to do it, because you the
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  Speaker 1: one gonna be miserable. And the crazy part about it
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  Speaker 1: is it happens a lot in a lot of cultures
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  Speaker 1: like India and Africa and even Japan, where a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people are forced to marry people even though that's
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  Speaker 1: not really what they wanna do, especially women in particular.
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  Speaker 1: Even in Saudi Arabia, a lot of girls are not
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  Speaker 1: allowed to just be able to have freedom, to be
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  Speaker 1: able to travel and see the world. They're just automatically
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  Speaker 1: married off as soon as they turn sixteen, some of
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  Speaker 1: them even younger. So it's amazing how a lot of
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  Speaker 1: women are not allowed to be able to be able
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  Speaker 1: to have that freedom. But yet in America in some
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  Speaker 1: other countries, that is something we take for granted. We're
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  Speaker 1: the ones talking about we wanna get married, we wanna
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  Speaker 1: have a family, we wanna have these relationships. But then
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  Speaker 1: there are women that don't even have the freedoms that
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  Speaker 1: we have, and yet they would love to be able
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  Speaker 1: to travel and be able to see the world and
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  Speaker 1: do things they wanna do, to be able to have
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  Speaker 1: a degree and be able to work. And in our culture,
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  Speaker 1: we want to get married, we wanna have a family,
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  Speaker 1: we wanna be in a relationship. Sounds weird, huh. Well,
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  Speaker 1: the way I look at it is kind of a
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  Speaker 1: little bit different. I look at it as being that
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  Speaker 1: I've been single for a number of years. I really
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  Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, I would love to have somebody
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  Speaker 1: in my life, but in reality, I realize that because
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  Speaker 1: people's preferences are what they are, I just choose not
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  Speaker 1: to even entertain it. And it's no offense to anybody.
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  Speaker 1: It's just for some people, they will be alone. There
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  Speaker 1: will be people that are not gonna be in relationships.
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  Speaker 1: There are people that's gonna be single. And it's not
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  Speaker 1: what I mean by single as far as having sex steal.
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  Speaker 1: I mean they're literally not even having sex either. They're
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  Speaker 1: just literally by themselves. And yeah, they have friends. They're
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  Speaker 1: cool with friends that they've known for years, but their
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  Speaker 1: friends don't come see them like that. And as for
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  Speaker 1: their family, yes, they love their family, but their family
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  Speaker 1: just don't rock with them like that, or they don't
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  Speaker 1: rock with they family like that. And there are people
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  Speaker 1: that you to deal with people when they see fit
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  Speaker 1: that that's what they want to do and it's not
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  Speaker 1: something that they want to pressure. So good example of
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  Speaker 1: this would be you have a situation where you may
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  Speaker 1: have a person or person's that like myself. I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to Vegas and I'm going by myself, and that's okay.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it. I'm looking forward to it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna be on a flight and I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be sitting back sleeping probably if I can sleep,
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  Speaker 1: because I got my motion sickness medication ready Hunter and
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  Speaker 1: my motion sickness are on the way back, because the
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  Speaker 1: one thing about getting on a plane is gonna have
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  Speaker 1: motion sickness. So I have not decided what I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: do when I get there. Don't know. I gotta see
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  Speaker 1: where everything is first. But I thought about going to
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  Speaker 1: see the Weekend cause he's gonna be a Vegas and
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  Speaker 1: I might go see Janet while I'm there. So there's
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  Speaker 1: two things I can do and spend my money on
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  Speaker 1: and come back and enjoy and go back to my
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  Speaker 1: normal life. But at least I can say I seen Janet,
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  Speaker 1: you know. So I probably just go see Janet and
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  Speaker 1: then go see the Weekend Friday and Saturday, and then
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  Speaker 1: Sunday I'll be on a plane. Go figure. But what
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  Speaker 1: I will say in these particular situations is it's okay
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  Speaker 1: to go by yourself. But let me give you some
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  Speaker 1: recommendations as a woman, if you're going by yourself. Number one,
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  Speaker 1: don't wear nothing that's gonna scream attention if you buy yourself. So,
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  Speaker 1: if you're gonna be by yourself, make sure that in
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  Speaker 1: all honesty that you understand and that you are by yourself,
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  Speaker 1: make sure somebody knows that you there. That way, if
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  Speaker 1: something happens, you're you'll have somebody content. Make sure that
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  Speaker 1: you know the places you go are places that are safe,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Don't go nowhere where it's not gonna be safe.
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  Speaker 1: Don't go nowhere where it's not gonna be. Where you
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  Speaker 1: might be somewhere you shouldn't be. Talk to the Trump desk,
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  Speaker 1: ask them with their recommendations, and then you can go
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  Speaker 1: ahead and start booking your stuff when you get there,
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  Speaker 1: you know. But you know, I might figure out a
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  Speaker 1: couple of things. But what I would say is, sometimes
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't have to always be about partying. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 1: just want to go just to get away, to say,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I got away for a couple of days.
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  Speaker 1: So I gotta look at the hotel where I'm staying
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  Speaker 1: at and seeing exactly what's the surrounding area around it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Am I gonna gamble? Probably not, because I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna gamble, Mike, take my laptop, might you know. I
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  Speaker 1: will get out and walk around a little bit, you know,
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  Speaker 1: go down, get some breakfast, order some food, and see
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  Speaker 1: what food is around. But I also gotta see what
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  Speaker 1: I can and cannot eat too, And trust me, my
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  Speaker 1: Benadryl is on it. But if you're going somewhere, just
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  Speaker 1: make sure that you're not wearing something that screams sex,
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  Speaker 1: especially if you're by yourself. You wanna you wanna, you
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  Speaker 1: wanna dress nicely, but at the same time, you wanna
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  Speaker 1: be where you're comfortable, you know, making sure you got
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  Speaker 1: some flats, make sure you got some tennis shoes. So
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  Speaker 1: for me, I don't wear heels anyway. I don't recommend
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  Speaker 1: wearing taking heels, especially when you buy yourself, because if
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna be doing a lot of walking, sneakers are
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  Speaker 1: gonna come in to definitely affect you. Definitely want to
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  Speaker 1: make sure that you are wearing something that you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be comfortable in, and make sure you're going places where
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  Speaker 1: you know you're gonna be able to get back. So
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  Speaker 1: if you're going to dinner, make sure that you're somewhere nearby,
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  Speaker 1: because you're, like me, if you're not gonna be driving,
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  Speaker 1: then you're gonna be taking uber's places. So you know,
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  Speaker 1: like I said, just make sure you're you're near see
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  Speaker 1: what you're nearby because and make sure you know where
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  Speaker 1: your hotel is, and make sure you have a plug
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  Speaker 1: in charger that's gonna be able to charge your your
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  Speaker 1: phone if your phone just happens to die. Make sure
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  Speaker 1: when you get to your hotel room now you check
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  Speaker 1: certain things. For example, if you're like getting dressed or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: make sure you're away from the wind, from the mirror.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of times you never know who or what
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  Speaker 1: is watching you. Make sure you lock your stuff up
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  Speaker 1: that way, it's safe cause you never know who might
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  Speaker 1: go in your room to clean up your room. If
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna be in your room while they're cleaning. You know,
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  Speaker 1: like if you're gonna go downstairs and go to the
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  Speaker 1: coffee shop, take your laptop with you. Just make sure
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  Speaker 1: that like I said, I was the baby, was I
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  Speaker 1: gonna take my laptop? Then I said, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna wanna let me take it because more
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  Speaker 1: than likely I'm gonna be probably doing some writing while
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  Speaker 1: I'm there. So I think it's been the whole weekend
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  Speaker 1: probably writing, and I mean done wrong. I'm gonna get out.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get out, walk around, have great places. I
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  Speaker 1: might find somewhere to go, but I'm not trying to
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  Speaker 1: get too far way. I can't get back and with
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  Speaker 1: my you know, oh yeah, I forgot to tell y'all,
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  Speaker 1: I went to the hospital yesterday, well day for yesterday one,
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  Speaker 1: and they told me I have a system my kidney,
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  Speaker 1: so I won't be doing too much walking, but I
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  Speaker 1: will be doing enough walking. Well I'll be you know,
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  Speaker 1: seeing what's going on and stuff. So you know, I
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  Speaker 1: might take the bus tour. That would be cool, and
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  Speaker 1: that way I can be able to get trying something
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  Speaker 1: to do, because when I get there, I can ask
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  Speaker 1: them what is there to do? You know, I might
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  Speaker 1: be able to go to the movies stuff like that,
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  Speaker 1: you know, but you know, at least I could say,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I've been to Vegas. But I'm excited
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  Speaker 1: about this trip to Vegas. I am. I'm really really
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  Speaker 1: absolutely excited about it. It's definitely gonna be, you know,
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  Speaker 1: a great, great trip. So I'm excited. So I'm definitely
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  Speaker 1: glad that I'm going and I'm gonna have, you know,
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  Speaker 1: a great time. I'm really gonna enjoy myself. So like
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  Speaker 1: but like I said, this is where I'm at in
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  Speaker 1: my own recover though, and even though when I come back,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta go talk to my doctor about getting getting
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  Speaker 1: a surgery, even though I have to get an assets removed.
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting it removed when I get back because tomorrow, tomorrow,
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  Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna make an appointment next week to get
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  Speaker 1: the assets the asset removed. I'm gonna go ahead and
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  Speaker 1: go to the dentist because they said I need to
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  Speaker 1: go to the dentist anyway, and try to get like
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  Speaker 1: three thirty and leave. I probably work. I probably work
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  Speaker 1: a little early more coming early, leave early. But like
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  Speaker 1: I said, there's nothing wrong with you being alone on
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  Speaker 1: certain journeys. And they're gonna be journeys when you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be by yourself, and it's gonna be. And sometimes being
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  Speaker 1: alone gives you a chance to figure a lot of
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  Speaker 1: things out. It gives you a chance to work on you.
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  Speaker 1: It gives you a chance to do things without nobody
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  Speaker 1: telling you that you're wrong for doing it or that
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  Speaker 1: you shouldn't do it, or if you are doing something.
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  Speaker 1: As far as your own business and your own brand,
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  Speaker 1: you're able to stack up money. You ain't gotta worry
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  Speaker 1: about somebody constantly calling you saying, can they borrow twenty dollars?
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  Speaker 1: Can they borrow thirty dollars? Can they borrow this? Can
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  Speaker 1: they borrow that? You ain't got to worry about somebody
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  Speaker 1: telling you, oh, you're not pretty enough, You're not this,
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  Speaker 1: You're not that. You ain't gotta worry about none of that.
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  Speaker 1: You just able to just be And sometimes, like I said,
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  Speaker 1: who knows, you might meet some great people. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: when you travel, you might be out in the by,
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  Speaker 1: might be out and about. You might be sitting by yourself.
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  Speaker 1: If somebody may say, can I sit here next? Thing?
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  Speaker 1: You know, y'all having this great conversation, You just never
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  Speaker 1: never know, You never know what may or may not happen.
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  Speaker 1: So what I will say is is that some time
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  Speaker 1: being alone is needed to find you, to find what
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  Speaker 1: you want to find, what you need to not have
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  Speaker 1: to worry about somebody else and what they got going on.
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  Speaker 1: You can just be. You can just be free. It's
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  Speaker 1: just like having your own business versus working for somebody else.
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  Speaker 1: When you have your own business, you can travel anywhere
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  Speaker 1: around the world and you don't have to worry about,
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  Speaker 1: you know, working a regular nine to five job. You're
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  Speaker 1: the CEO of your company. You still get to enjoy
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: life and still do your meetings and stuff. You don't
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: have to go into the office. You can actually, you know,
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  Speaker 1: be right from home, do your meetings, and then enjoy
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  Speaker 1: the rest of your day. You can, you know, package
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  Speaker 1: all the stuff you need a package and send it
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  Speaker 1: off and then you know, the rest of the day
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  Speaker 1: is yours. You have clients as far as being a
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: life coach, and then the rest of the day is yours.
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  Speaker 1: So you don't have to work as hard. You're able
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  Speaker 1: to enjoy holidays and you're able to just you know,
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  Speaker 1: be and do what you want to get the best doctor's,
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  Speaker 1: best foods, best everything, because you got money. So I
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  Speaker 1: tell people, you know that money is not about just
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  Speaker 1: buying all these expensive things. It's more or less about
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  Speaker 1: your health and wellness more so than anything. But it
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  Speaker 1: also gives you a chance to build your self esteem,
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  Speaker 1: self worth, and self value. It gives you the chance
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  Speaker 1: to be able to believe in yourself even when no
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  Speaker 1: one else does. You're able to see what you can do. Plus,
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  Speaker 1: by being by yourself, you gonna make better choices because
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  Speaker 1: of the fact of the consequences, repercussions and karma of
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  Speaker 1: your actions. Behave your choice and decisions. So yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: just think that being by yourself does have its perks.
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  Speaker 1: It really does. It does have benefits. But I would
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  Speaker 1: just tell people that when you're making the decision to
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  Speaker 1: be alone or whether you're making the decision to be
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  Speaker 1: with someone else, either way and go, there are choices
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  Speaker 1: and decisions that you have to make. So I would
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  Speaker 1: just say that when it comes down to minding your
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  Speaker 1: own business, that's just seeing how strong you are, and
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  Speaker 1: then everybody else just adds to your life, adds to
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  Speaker 1: whatever it is that you do, and that's pretty much
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  Speaker 1: how that would work. So all I all I would
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  Speaker 1: say is, you know, we all have our things we
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  Speaker 1: have to deal with, and our heels to climb and
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  Speaker 1: things like that, but it's not about how we fall,
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  Speaker 1: it's about how we rise. And even with I with
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  Speaker 1: health and wellness, you gonna have your shares of ups
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  Speaker 1: and downs. Nobody else knows how you feel but you.
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  Speaker 1: But I woulda thought they woulda did my kidney surgery
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  Speaker 1: at the hospital, but they was like, no, I have
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  Speaker 1: to go back to my doctor. I gotta see a
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  Speaker 1: gastro doctor, which I already have one on deck, and
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  Speaker 1: then I have to see about getting the cysts removed
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  Speaker 1: from my kidneys. So I gotta see a gastro doctor.
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  Speaker 1: And then I gotta see a throat doctor, or here's
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  Speaker 1: no stroat doctor. And that's pretty much it. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't wanna make this this podcast too too long
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  Speaker 1: today because I will be in Vegas, and while I'm
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  Speaker 1: in Vegas, I'm gonna be enjoying myself and just having
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  Speaker 1: a great time. So I just wanted to come on
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  Speaker 1: here and just make this short, simple and sweet, and
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  Speaker 1: just say it's okay being by yourself. You need a
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  Speaker 1: time to recuperate, you need a time to heal, you
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  Speaker 1: need a time to grow, you need time to elevate,
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  Speaker 1: you need a time to evolve. And by being by yourself,
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  Speaker 1: nobody's standing in the way of you doing that. Nobody
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  Speaker 1: is standing in the way of you being the best
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  Speaker 1: version of yourself. Nobody's standing in the way of anything
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  Speaker 1: that you're doing. You have nobody standing in the way
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  Speaker 1: of anything you're just doing, just being, just becoming. And
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  Speaker 1: then when people finally find out what you do, it's
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  Speaker 1: already too late. It's already done, and you gonna have
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  Speaker 1: people mad because they'ma be like, why didn't you tell
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  Speaker 1: me that you were doing this? Why you didn't tell
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  Speaker 1: me you were doing it? Why would I tell you anything.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't believe me anyway, so why would I tell
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  Speaker 1: you anything. So, yeah, there's nothing wrong with you just saying,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, i'm'a do what makes me happy. I'm'a
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  Speaker 1: do what brings me joy. I'm'a do what brings me peace.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody j everybody else just adds to your situation. They
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  Speaker 1: just add to your life. So I have two things
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  Speaker 1: that I would like to read the y'all before I go.
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  Speaker 1: And this is my women's prayer book that I have,
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  Speaker 1: and so we're gonna read, and I d I'm getting
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  Speaker 1: into reading it every day. But this one is for
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  Speaker 1: today is the twenty first, but I gotta do the ninth.
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  Speaker 1: Think I do the nineteenth and the twentieth. No I didn't,
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  Speaker 1: So let us do the nineteenth and the twentieth, and
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  Speaker 1: then the twenty first. And my birthdays on the twentieth
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  Speaker 1: was Saturday, so I'm excited about that. And it says
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  Speaker 1: whatever you do in the in the in word or deed,
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  Speaker 1: do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving
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  Speaker 1: thanks to the fat to God the Father through him.
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  Speaker 1: And then it's is Colossums three seventeen, looking at almost
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  Speaker 1: any product in the store shoppers can find some kind
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  Speaker 1: of indication of where the item was manufactured. Made in
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  Speaker 1: Tijuana or a product of Canada, or hand crafted in
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  Speaker 1: India are just a few of the designated out there
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  Speaker 1: in consumer land. Some countries are known for high quality
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  Speaker 1: materials and craftsmanship, while others are known for taking any
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  Speaker 1: short cut to offer lower prices. Similarly, similarities. Wherever whatever
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  Speaker 1: cor Christians say and do, go into the world and
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  Speaker 1: stample with Jesus' name on it, what kind of reputation
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  Speaker 1: will our contribution to his name build in our corners
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  Speaker 1: of the world today? We should make sure we work.
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  Speaker 1: Our work follows the example he set up for us.
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  Speaker 1: Let us endure, endev let us indepth my Thoro hurts.
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  Speaker 1: Let us endeavor so to live that when we come
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  Speaker 1: to die e even the undertaker will be sorry. Mark
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  Speaker 1: Twain m And it says, Lord, the Lord is your keeper.
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  Speaker 1: The Lord is your shade at the right hand of
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  Speaker 1: your right hand. The sun shall not strike you by
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  Speaker 1: day in the moon, nor the moon by the night.
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  Speaker 1: Lord fear has ran his ugly, ugly head again and
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  Speaker 1: is trying to make me far away from you. Hold
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  Speaker 1: me close, Lord, even though I have monumental loss my
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  Speaker 1: footing in this world. Please do not let fear steer
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  Speaker 1: the peace. Still, the peace I find in You give
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  Speaker 1: me strength to turn away from fear and stand tall
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  Speaker 1: a in the knowledge that I am never lone. Fear
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  Speaker 1: knocks at door. At the door faith answers, no one
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  Speaker 1: lives here. So yeah, we're gonna have times where we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna feel very scared for multiple different reasons. But again,
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  Speaker 1: it's not how you fall us how you rise your
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  Speaker 1: faith in God, no matter what. She never should never waver,
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  Speaker 1: no matter what. And without faith, it is impossible to
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  Speaker 1: please God. For whoever would approach him must believe that
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  Speaker 1: he exists, that He's been rew rewards those who seek him.
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  Speaker 1: Hebrews eleven six, and it says there are plenty of
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  Speaker 1: evidence for the existence of God, but if we could
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  Speaker 1: absolutely prove it, faith wouldn't be necessary. Even with all
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  Speaker 1: the evidence of creations and the souls, God left room
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  Speaker 1: for us to be free beings. Freedom is what brings
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  Speaker 1: such creativity innovation in an interesting world. Understanding is the
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  Speaker 1: reward of faith. Do not seek to understand in order
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  Speaker 1: to believe, but believe so you may understand. I agree
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  Speaker 1: with that to be honest, I think that understanding should
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  Speaker 1: be more so about belief. So when whatever you believe
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  Speaker 1: in should be something that you understand. That's what I
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  Speaker 1: will say now. But the next and the next book
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  Speaker 1: that I am reading, and I need to get back
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  Speaker 1: and reading this every day, and I'm on day nine
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  Speaker 1: it says, and this is a book called Healing Waters
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  Speaker 1: for the Soul by Miss JB. Cowman, And it says
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  Speaker 1: God heard their groaning, and he remembered his covenant with Abraham,
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  Speaker 1: with Isaiah and with Jacob Exodus two twenty four. God
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  Speaker 1: always hears, and he never forgets. His silence does not
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  Speaker 1: mean that he's not listening and is not planning. It
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  Speaker 1: probably means that the best times for deliverance hasn't came
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  Speaker 1: yet and yet yet, and that he patiently waiting for
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  Speaker 1: the moment to arrive when he may prove his love
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  Speaker 1: and his power. Crambin said to his soldiers just before
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  Speaker 1: the Great Battle, Know, ye, soldiers all, that God always
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  Speaker 1: comes to man's help in the nicked time. Yes, God
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  Speaker 1: always on the nic on time, never behind, Never had
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  Speaker 1: happy men who learns to wait as he prays and
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  Speaker 1: never loses patience with God. Men who pray. There is
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  Speaker 1: a set time for putting into the furnace and a
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  Speaker 1: set time for taking out the furnace. There is a
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  Speaker 1: time four hundred years. Hold on that mean, sorry, I
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  Speaker 1: was watching a movie. It says there was a time
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  Speaker 1: for pruning the branches on a vine. And there is
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  Speaker 1: a time when a husband h husbandman lays aside the
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  Speaker 1: pruning book pruning hook. Let us wait his time that
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  Speaker 1: believes shall not make haste Isaiah twenty six sixteen. God's
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  Speaker 1: time is the best time. But shall we come out
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  Speaker 1: the same as we went in? I know we will
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  Speaker 1: come forth as gold Job twenty three ten. We shall
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  Speaker 1: become pure vessels to hold the sweet smelling incense of
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  Speaker 1: praise and prayer. We shall become a holy golden vessel
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  Speaker 1: for the Master's use in time and in eternity. When
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  Speaker 1: the great issues is the balance of the path of
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  Speaker 1: of cuse. Wait, but with waiting shrinks not the work
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  Speaker 1: the lines before thee for in the task. Maybe the
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  Speaker 1: solution to thy problem God will justify you before the
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  Speaker 1: universe in his own time. So yeah, instead of y'all
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  Speaker 1: trying to rush and trying to basically you know, rush things,
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  Speaker 1: take the time let God. Let God move in his time.
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  Speaker 1: Just be patient and while y while you're being patient,
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  Speaker 1: do to work that it's gonna take to get God
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  Speaker 1: to answer the prayer. God ain't gonna move until God
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  Speaker 1: feels you're ready. God ain't gonna move do he see
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  Speaker 1: you do the work. Once you do the work, then
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  Speaker 1: God will intervene. When you come to God and ask
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  Speaker 1: for help, God gonna make sure you really need help. So,
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  Speaker 1: like I said, we all have our battles to face,
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  Speaker 1: we all have our things to do, but in the end,
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  Speaker 1: it's nothing about how we fall. It's about how we rise,
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  Speaker 1: and that is what's important. So that being said, I
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  Speaker 1: think that's it for today. I will see y'all on
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  Speaker 1: Monday and Tuesday. I get back on Sunday, so I'll
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  Speaker 1: be back in time to get back to podcasting. But
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: I love y'all, I appreciate y'all. Without y'all, there is
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  Speaker 1: no me. I'll be nothing without y'all. So with that
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: being said, next next week I have two interviews on
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  Speaker 1: June fourth and June fifth that I can't wait to
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  Speaker 1: tell you about when I get back. Until next time,
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  Speaker 1: thank you all for joining me for this episode. I'm
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: your host goott is Ashamiriyama. I appreciate y'all and I'll
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  Speaker 1: see y'all next week. Bye.