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Summer House Exclusive! · Reality with The King

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Speaker 1: to Reality with the King. It's me Carlos kings the
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Speaker 1: King of Reality TV and one of the most sought
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Speaker 1: after executive producers in reality television with over ten years
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Speaker 1: of production experience. Twice a week on Reality with the King,
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Speaker 1: we'll sit down with my friends across the entertainment industry,
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Speaker 1: recap our favorite reality shows, and revisit unforgettable moments that
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Speaker 1: we are still talking and tweeting about, Hey rain Drops.
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Speaker 1: On today's episode of Reality the King, I am sitting
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Speaker 1: with the star honey of one of my favorite shows
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Speaker 1: that I really want you guys to watch in tune in.
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Speaker 1: I think y'all are sleeping on it as if you
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Speaker 1: are listening to a calm app and I need y'all
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Speaker 1: to wake the f up. Please give it up for
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Speaker 1: Summer House, Martha's Vineyard's own jazz Man, Hey rain drafts. Hey, Carlos,
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Speaker 1: you got the white collar rain drop jazzmin of course
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Speaker 1: with my.
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Speaker 2: Rain drop, Like, honestly, you break things down. I'm not
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Speaker 2: gonna lie. I was a little nervous because I was like, oh,
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Speaker 2: you can't. Carlos is a scholar when it comes to this. Okay,
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Speaker 2: this is this is nothing like your regular decular. So
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Speaker 2: I'm very honest to be here. I'm very much a
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Speaker 2: rain drop, and I'm gonna say it on what you do.
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Speaker 1: Well, I'm a fan of yours and I thank you
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Speaker 1: for that. Like you said, we're both rain white studious.
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Speaker 1: Yes you know it's giving version.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm born again right.
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Speaker 1: Well, speaking of being born, congratulations on the new Bundle
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Speaker 1: of Joy. You know what we saw in the most
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Speaker 1: recent episode was the beautiful announcement of you surprising the kids.
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Speaker 1: I call you'all kids because I'm like double all age,
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Speaker 1: but I thought your announcement to them with baby Cooper
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Speaker 1: was so funny. But congratulations. How does it feel being
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Speaker 1: a momy?
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Speaker 2: Honestly, to be real with you, I love it here
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Speaker 2: and I have a lot of anxiety entering motherhood. Like
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Speaker 2: I knew I always wanted to be a mom, but
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Speaker 2: I think we hear too much about the trials and
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Speaker 2: tribulations and not enough about like the good stuff. And
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Speaker 2: I'm just pleasantly surprised that it's more good than bad.
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Speaker 2: I think more good than sleepless nights. I'll put it
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Speaker 2: that way.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. And I have been telling the rain
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Speaker 1: Drop since season one that you guys are sleeping on
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Speaker 1: Summer's house Martha's vineyard. And our mutual friend Jasmine Hilly,
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Speaker 1: who's a fan favorite, Hey Jazz, Hey Jazz. We both
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Speaker 1: have such affection for this show. But I want to
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Speaker 1: get to know you because when season one started, I
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Speaker 1: did call you the force multiplier.
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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, listen, let me grab my crowd somewhere,
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Speaker 2: because I said, no, he did not. You know what,
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Speaker 2: let me keep my head down the side. But I
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Speaker 2: get what you mean. As a storyteller, I get what
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Speaker 2: you met.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, you know the thing is this, and you
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Speaker 1: tell me if I'm wrong. So I want to hear
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Speaker 1: the story about how you were cast to be on
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Speaker 1: the show, because for me, I feel like the show
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Speaker 1: was centered around you.
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Speaker 2: I get this question all the time, as the honest
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Speaker 2: answer is, I can't speak to what happened before me,
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Speaker 2: but I know when it was insert jazz in here.
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Speaker 2: I received a call and I thought that I was
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Speaker 2: tasked to educate about the vineyard. I'm a history girly,
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Speaker 2: as y'all know, and I was just excited to talk
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Speaker 2: about this place that not a lot of us black
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Speaker 2: folk know about and haven't been to. But then we
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Speaker 2: started talking about my life and my husband and my
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Speaker 2: friends and the original trip that we took. So originally
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Speaker 2: I went with Stylis and that's the trip that he
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Speaker 2: asked me to be his girlfriend. That was twenty twenty,
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Speaker 2: my first time there. The next year, we took a
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Speaker 2: group of sixteen of our friends and let me just
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Speaker 2: add this disclaimer, only one of them was a couple.
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Speaker 2: Everybody else was single. Okay, we love our friends, our
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Speaker 2: single friends, our married friends, so we always try to
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Speaker 2: get together and have a good time no matter where
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Speaker 2: we're going. But on that trip, Jordan was there, and
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Speaker 2: I don't know the inner workings prior to, but I
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Speaker 2: ended up speaking to someone about just that trip. When
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Speaker 2: do we go? Who was there? And from that you
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Speaker 2: see a lot of the folks that were there, Jason, Mariah, Chanise,
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Speaker 2: Jordan Preston wasn't able to go, but he was invited,
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Speaker 2: and neither was Nick or Alex. Alex was doing his
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Speaker 2: own thing in Brooklyn, but a lot of us were
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Speaker 2: there on that first big group trips and the rest
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Speaker 2: is kind of history. I remember Colin Silas like, Hey,
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Speaker 2: how do you feel about doing reality? And he was
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Speaker 2: just very confused. But yeah, just went through the process,
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Speaker 2: as you know, because you are on both.
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Speaker 1: Did they reach out to you or did you see
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Speaker 1: like a casting bulletin.
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Speaker 2: I didn't see it, Honestly, I didn't see a casting
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Speaker 2: bulletin at all. I just knew that I have a
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Speaker 2: lot of incredible friends. Like the portion of friends you
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Speaker 2: see on the show is just like a small amount
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Speaker 2: of our friends. And I refer like everybody because I
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Speaker 2: love my friends, think they're great, and most importantly, I
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Speaker 2: feel like they all bring something different. And if we're
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Speaker 2: going to highlight a place like Marcus Vineyard, variety is
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Speaker 2: great too. Like we're not a monolith. We know that.
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Speaker 2: So they gravitated towards who they liked.
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Speaker 1: The producers reach out to you first.
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Speaker 2: No, Jordan put me in contact with someone that I
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Speaker 2: started talking to about the history, and they start asking
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Speaker 2: me more about myself, so I get what it made
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Speaker 2: sense to kind of recreate the trip that Stylace and
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Speaker 2: I put together originally got it.
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Speaker 1: Another lot of makes sense. A lot makes sense. Were
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Speaker 1: you fen of reality television prior to being on this show?
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Speaker 2: Absolutely, I think I'd be here. No, But I was
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Speaker 2: absolutely a fan. I was a Potomac girl. You could
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Speaker 2: not tell me nothing about Potomac From season one. I
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Speaker 2: was like, oh, this is what I love to see
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Speaker 2: because it was Patty drama, it was decorum and the
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Speaker 2: social politics. It was like a fun key. Of course,
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Speaker 2: I've spent most of my life in Atlanta, so of
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Speaker 2: course I watched Atlanta. The list goes on and on,
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Speaker 2: but yes, that was a reality girl.
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Speaker 1: What was the biggest thing that surprised you being on
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Speaker 1: a reality show versus what you thought watching it?
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Speaker 2: Honestly, the listening skills that you need. I think it's
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Speaker 2: easy as we live, like our regular lives to kind
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Speaker 2: of just be in your own little world and have
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Speaker 2: your thoughts and engage with this person and that person.
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Speaker 2: But in this setting, your mind's going a mile a
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Speaker 2: minute because there's so much to keep up with, because
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Speaker 2: there's so many things going at once. And what surprised
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Speaker 2: me was how much I wasn't keeping up with with
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Speaker 2: a lot of us in the house while you were filming. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: I didn't think that that would have to be a
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Speaker 2: ministry listening. I thought it was a great listener. Apparently
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Speaker 2: not so. Yeah, the amount of attention you have to
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Speaker 2: pay to everything going on in front of the camera
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Speaker 2: and behind.
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Speaker 1: You have to especially because listen, well, we know what
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Speaker 1: reality is this there's always a bone collector, hey, Charay.
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Speaker 1: So the thing with a bone collector is they listen
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Speaker 1: to everything and they kind of go back and report
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Speaker 1: to the other folks what was said about them. And
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Speaker 1: then when you get confronted and they said did you
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Speaker 1: say this about me? And you like, wait did?
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Speaker 2: I Like?
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Speaker 1: I don't remember. So one of the qualities of being
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Speaker 1: a reality star, you are right, you have to listen
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Speaker 1: because things can come back to you or things can
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Speaker 1: be said. Is especially if you're friends with somebody and
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Speaker 1: they're like, yo, do you remember this, You're like, child,
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Speaker 1: I was too busy, drunk or thinking about other things.
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Speaker 1: And the difference with your show is it's a house
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Speaker 1: reality show. So you guys are filming around the clock
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Speaker 1: for a few weeks, versus a Potomac right, or a
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Speaker 1: housewife's show where you're filming three to four days a
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Speaker 1: week for four to five months, so it's less intensity.
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Speaker 1: So when the cameras were in your home in the
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Speaker 1: home excuse me, and you were being watched twenty four
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Speaker 1: seven Big Brother Style, was that weird for you at first?
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Speaker 2: Yes, because to be honest, you know, you're the elders
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Speaker 2: start talking to you, especially being in the age group
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Speaker 2: that we're in. Yeah, I heard my mom's voice, my
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Speaker 2: grandma's voice, and I think kind of we all did.
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Speaker 2: Don't you have us looking stupid on this show? I
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Speaker 2: think in the beginning that is going to naturally play
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Speaker 2: a part in how you're processing everything happening around you.
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Speaker 2: And I know for me that was at play for sure,
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Speaker 2: because I love my grandma, like that's my girl, So
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Speaker 2: I would never want to do anything to disappoint her
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Speaker 2: or you know, make someone else look crazy. But at
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Speaker 2: some point I'm brushing my teeth, I'm grabbing my scarf
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Speaker 2: we do on laundry. It immediately just you forget.
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Speaker 1: Well we saw that jazzman because you and your husband
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Speaker 1: forgot that the word cameras in your bed room, and
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Speaker 1: we saw a bunch of humping and bumping and noises
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Speaker 1: being made.
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Speaker 2: The baby is not an immaculate consumption.
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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean y'all got it in almost every day,
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Speaker 1: Jazz main I recall.
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Speaker 2: But you know, I didn't think it was that interesting
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Speaker 2: because because that's my that's my African, that's my husband.
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Speaker 2: But okay, I guess go.
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Speaker 1: About Africa, you already drop baby. Yeah, I didn't think.
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Speaker 2: It was gonna be top of I didn't think it
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Speaker 2: was gonna be top of news of the day, you know.
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Speaker 2: But okay, at least you know, at least you don't.
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Speaker 2: We like each other. We're at tracking to each other.
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Speaker 2: This is great and healthy.
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Speaker 1: And listen, these Africans they wanted every day girl.
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Speaker 2: Listen, no comment.
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Speaker 1: But you know what was funny is now I see
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Speaker 1: why Silence is like the person I would tell our
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Speaker 1: mutual friend Jasmine. I'd be like, Silence is more of
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Speaker 1: the guys that I talked to. And now I see
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Speaker 1: why because the thing about him. The first season and
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Speaker 1: your first season of the show, obviously there were tons
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Speaker 1: of concern about your relationship with him. A lot of
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Speaker 1: people felt extremely demanding. They didn't like the way he
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Speaker 1: spoke to you, Jasmine. They didn't like the way he
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Speaker 1: sort of expected you to be this housewife, to be
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Speaker 1: somebody who iron his clothes, picked out his clothes, and
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Speaker 1: fixed him a plate, these things that black men historically
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Speaker 1: look to their wives to do, especially you know, first
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Speaker 1: generation Africans as well. When you saw it play out
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Speaker 1: on the show, and obviously you are new reality stars,
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Speaker 1: so rightfully so you're reading a lot of comments and
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Speaker 1: a lot of people had a lot of judgment on
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Speaker 1: your relationship. Did you have moments where you sort of
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Speaker 1: saw your life play out, saw your marriage play out,
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Speaker 1: saw the dynamic playout. Did you sometimes question like, oh
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Speaker 1: I didn't realize it was like this, or do people
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Speaker 1: have a point and I should be concerned?
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Speaker 2: On one hand, I know that was our first I
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Speaker 2: know that was my first time with him talking to
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Speaker 2: me like that, because a lot of times that we
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Speaker 2: were there in the house, I was like are you good?
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Speaker 2: Are you good? And they didn't always make the cut,
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Speaker 2: but I really was picking up on like what's wrong
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Speaker 2: with you? Like the extra irritable that you have, couple irritability.
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Speaker 2: But that was just like everything was something was being
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Speaker 2: made into something, So that was a first for us.
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Speaker 2: But a year later, when you're watching it play out
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Speaker 2: and people are commenting on it, I absolutely agreed with
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Speaker 2: don't talk to me like that, like that's unacceptable, Like
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Speaker 2: that's just my opinion on it. I don't recommend anybody.
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Speaker 2: That's not how I communicate now hindsight to have other
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Speaker 2: people comment and really deduce him to I don't know,
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Speaker 2: just so old school and ungrateful. That's just that's not him.
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Speaker 2: And the reality is this vacation filmed versus the one
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Speaker 2: we took pride with the big group. He and I
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Speaker 2: did the same stuff, like I still got everyone on
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Speaker 2: the grocery list, coordinated venmos and cash apps, and I
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Speaker 2: operated in the same way, and so did he. The
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Speaker 2: only difference is that he was working this time and
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Speaker 2: we were filmed, and last time those two things weren't true.
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Speaker 2: But it was shocking, just the visceral response, and that's
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Speaker 2: really hard to process. I think anybody you love, especially
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Speaker 2: in partnership, your natural responses to come to their defense.
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Speaker 2: But I think because I'm confident in who he is
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Speaker 2: and what I will and when I accept, and then
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Speaker 2: also where we are it balanced out all the negativity.
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Speaker 2: And the most important thing to me isn't someone making
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Speaker 2: a mistake, as y'all see, like I give a lot
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Speaker 2: of grace to a lot of folks, but only so long,
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Speaker 2: only so much. It's really how someone responds when they've
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Speaker 2: done wrong, That's what That's what matters to me. And
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Speaker 2: he never had any excuse and that took out more
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Speaker 2: than anything to me.
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Speaker 1: How did he feel seeing himself?
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Speaker 2: It was hard, Oh my god, it was so hard,
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Speaker 2: Like he would start to watch, especially towards the end
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Speaker 2: of the season, because we would just watch it together
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Speaker 2: because we know what we went through in terms of filming,
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Speaker 2: but how it comes together that's out of our control.
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Speaker 2: So it was tough. To put it simple. It was
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Speaker 2: really really tough for him because he also didn't recognize
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Speaker 2: him speaking to me that way. It was tough, but
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Speaker 2: he had to. Whether he got through all the episodes,
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Speaker 2: the last episode he has not watched all the way through.
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Speaker 1: If he wasn't deployed, do you think he would have
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Speaker 1: came back for a season two?
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Speaker 2: I think so, because one we're not quitters. That's just
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Speaker 2: what we've been through worse things in life as y'all
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Speaker 2: know than this. And then two, I would have encouraged
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Speaker 2: him to come back just because you got to get
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Speaker 2: back up. People are allowed to have your opinions. I mean, heck,
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Speaker 2: we've watched so many shows on Bravo before even joining
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Speaker 2: the Ravo family and had our opinions, So I think
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Speaker 2: reminding him of that, he definitely would have been open to.
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Speaker 1: Coming back when it comes to your marriage now, because
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Speaker 1: the thing that I thought was so interesting was the
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Speaker 1: fact that you two were still getting to know each
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Speaker 1: other in a sense right because everything again, it's my
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Speaker 1: match's point. Watching the show, I felt like everything moved fast,
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Speaker 1: at accelerated pace, and that you guys were essentially milliweds,
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Speaker 1: and I know what it's like to be in a
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Speaker 1: relationship with somebody and then the moment you live together,
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Speaker 1: it's like, oh, this is how you are, and it's
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Speaker 1: not like this person has changed. It's more so like
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Speaker 1: I have to adapt in this new role of us
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Speaker 1: coexisting in the same space. And I felt like watching
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Speaker 1: you guys, I felt you guys represented a lot of
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Speaker 1: young married couples in the sense of we're kind of
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Speaker 1: milliweds and we're also you guys are watching us trying
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Speaker 1: to get to know each other on a different level.
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Speaker 1: And Michelle Obama spoke about this too, where she said like, oh, yeah,
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Speaker 1: there'll be days you like them and there'll be days
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Speaker 1: you don't. There'll be moments where you like, you walk
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Speaker 1: in a house and you be like, damn.
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Speaker 2: You still here?
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Speaker 1: Shit, you forget that we live together, okay, because ooh,
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Speaker 1: so people have this assumption that marriage is a fairy tale.
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Speaker 1: And the one thing I wanted to express to you
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Speaker 1: and to him is I applaud the two of you
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Speaker 1: for showcasing what another side of black love looks like,
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Speaker 1: because you know, when we hear black love, people think
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Speaker 1: it's like a lot of people thought it was Barack
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Speaker 1: and Michelle until Michelle said, we ain't a couple of goals, baby,
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Speaker 1: let me tell you how it really is, and she
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Speaker 1: allowed her and Barack to be seen on a very
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Speaker 1: relatable stage. And I felt like for you two as
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Speaker 1: young couples, I feel like you two represented that as well.
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Speaker 1: But do you feel like people forgot that fact that
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Speaker 1: you two were like kind of nearly as in figuring
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Speaker 1: this shit out too.
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Speaker 2: I think you touch on something that's actually so one
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Speaker 2: of the biggest reasons why he would have come back
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Speaker 2: is because I can't look around and see a lot
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Speaker 2: of black young couples on reality television, let alone television period.
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Speaker 2: So that's an honor in and of itself. And I
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Speaker 2: do think there is this idea that they just wake
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Speaker 2: up with their planners out, are always on the same page,
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Speaker 2: getting their coffee looking at each other. No, absolutely not.
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Speaker 2: So I always appreciate our former first lady for being
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Speaker 2: real about that, because we do put them on a pedestal.
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Speaker 2: But even those two were a couple before we knew them. So, yeah,
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Speaker 2: you're gonna have your ups and downs, But keep in mind,
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Speaker 2: we met in twenty twenty, got engaged very top of
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Speaker 2: twenty twenty one, moved in a couple months after, and
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Speaker 2: he went away from his corporate job to start military
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Speaker 2: training for six months. Right after that was our wedding,
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Speaker 2: So it's not really more so that we got to
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Speaker 2: get used to each other living in each other's space.
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Speaker 2: We actually are really good teammates in that regard. But
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Speaker 2: this big thing that happened was him going away in
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Speaker 2: this completely different military environment and coming back and having
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Speaker 2: this wedding and then joining a show I think because
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Speaker 2: no matter how many times people hear that, I don't
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Speaker 2: think that if people put themselves in that scenario they
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Speaker 2: can even know how they would navigate that. I think
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Speaker 2: that's what's easy to forget that that's just not normal.
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Speaker 1: Martha's Vineyard is a town that I've heard about for
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Speaker 1: years where it was the top designation for you know,
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Speaker 1: upper echelon black folks to you know, partake in the
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Speaker 1: surroundings in the summer. Yeah, and it's very high esteemed.
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Speaker 3: Very talented, tempt Yes, exactly exactly was the toime receptive
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Speaker 3: to you guys being there because it's you know, it
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Speaker 3: has a lot of higher up echelon people who are
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Speaker 3: a part of it is their legacy as well.
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Speaker 2: Well. To be honest, I still don't know. What I've
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Speaker 2: heard from my older mentors, who are very much connected
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Speaker 2: with other women that do summer on the vineyard is
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Speaker 2: they don't mind that we're getting this opportunity. That's fine,
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Speaker 2: but they got their limits and their boundaries. What those
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Speaker 2: are I don't know. But one thing I had to
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Speaker 2: remind myself is it should be allowed for however we are,
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Speaker 2: as young black folks, to just exist in vacation so
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Speaker 2: all that pressure that I can't speak for everybody else
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Speaker 2: on the show, but I can speak for me, all
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Speaker 2: that pressure of who am I Jasmine Minister Marie's grand
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Speaker 2: baby from Saint Louis to represent this community. I had
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Speaker 2: to let that go because I'm allowed to live my life.
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Speaker 2: I know the amount of integrity that I come with,
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Speaker 2: and as a group, we're allowed to just have a
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Speaker 2: good time. Like it's called Summerhouse, it's a vacation. Things happen,
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Speaker 2: So yeah, I have nothing but respect for them, But
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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe they can join two.
20:05
Speaker 1: Are they invited? Because we don't want them to be
20:07
Speaker 1: kicked out the way y'all did Phil and Mariah.
20:09
Speaker 2: This is not Survivor. This is not Summer House Survivor.
20:12
Speaker 2: I promise it's not. But yes, they're invited. Everybody's invites
20:15
Speaker 2: you to cook out. It's a vineyard when you go,
20:18
Speaker 2: you know, it's a very welcoming energy. So we have that.
20:22
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna tell you what my eyeball saw, honey.
20:25
Speaker 1: Season two is everything. We're loving season two and obviously
20:29
Speaker 1: in the most recent episode, you know, we saw Phil
20:32
Speaker 1: talk to Preston and there's conversation Maria and Phil coming back.
20:37
Speaker 1: I was not happy when Mariah and Phil Werson home, right,
20:43
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you why. I think me and
20:45
Speaker 1: you and our white shirts with Africans are going to
20:47
Speaker 1: think the same thing too, child. So I felt like, okay,
20:51
Speaker 1: what's wrong with them being there? Like, let's not divide
20:56
Speaker 1: the sort of social circles of black people in that space.
21:00
Speaker 1: And although one may not be, not my words, a
21:04
Speaker 1: lot of people the most polished, right, doesn't mean they
21:08
Speaker 1: can't coexist in our science. Because I'm from Detroit and
21:11
Speaker 1: like I said, I grew up not with a silver spoon, honey,
21:14
Speaker 1: it was definitely a plastic fork and again humble beginnings
21:19
Speaker 1: with a bougie mine. And the reason why I think
21:23
Speaker 1: a lot of people people were so triggered by Phil
21:27
Speaker 1: and Mariah being sent home because it felt like, what's
21:31
Speaker 1: wrong with them? Like we're not agreeing with Phil taking
21:35
Speaker 1: a dump and not flushing no toilet, but worst things
21:38
Speaker 1: have happened, like we got Bria with her dog honey
21:42
Speaker 1: do dooing on the carpet, the grass, the pool. But
21:46
Speaker 1: I think all of us felt like not all of us,
21:48
Speaker 1: A lot of us felt that, which.
21:49
Speaker 2: Is which is these are not like the other, Like,
21:52
Speaker 2: if we're gonna speak on it, let's speak on it.
21:54
Speaker 2: Are they uncouth? Is there an aesthetic? Like? What's wrong
21:58
Speaker 2: with what's what's different? What's the is? Are there undertones
22:01
Speaker 2: to this? You know what I mean? And the reality
22:04
Speaker 2: is no, I was there, so there wasn't. But I
22:08
Speaker 2: can completely understand how you get a side eye from that,
22:13
Speaker 2: because one, we didn't think anybody was gonna be voted home.
22:17
Speaker 2: That was gonna happen, period. And two why them that's valid?
22:23
Speaker 1: Was upsetting to you like it was to me and
22:25
Speaker 1: my homegirls.
22:26
Speaker 2: You upsetting me and my homegirls. I'll be honest, Phil,
22:31
Speaker 2: I didn't really know like that. So sorry to that man.
22:35
Speaker 2: I didn't know him. I never knew him like that. Mariah,
22:37
Speaker 2: that's my girl. That is my girl. So I'm the
22:42
Speaker 2: type of person and this can be a good thing
22:44
Speaker 2: and a bad things. I can be very diplomatic, I
22:47
Speaker 2: can be very maybe it's the capricorn to me, I'm
22:49
Speaker 2: very black and white. And so if we're setting a
22:52
Speaker 2: precedent of okay, this is a boundary. Now. Granted I
22:55
Speaker 2: never saw what happened until I watched with y'all so yes,
23:00
Speaker 2: I was frazzled with this position that I'm put in,
23:04
Speaker 2: which happened a lot. I feel like season one is
23:06
Speaker 2: that Stilas and Ira put to his parental roles before
23:09
Speaker 2: we've even became parents. But I did not feel like
23:13
Speaker 2: it was fair for Mariah or not speak her piece,
23:15
Speaker 2: at least because I had every intention as a peacemaker
23:18
Speaker 2: that I am to sit those two girls down, even
23:21
Speaker 2: though I was shading Bria all season one. I was
23:23
Speaker 2: never going to not have them sit down and talk
23:25
Speaker 2: about like we're grown, what is this, this is a
23:27
Speaker 2: big thing or not. But I didn't like coming across
23:30
Speaker 2: as like a not a good friend. And although Mariah's
23:34
Speaker 2: my best friend, I'm friends with everybody in the house.
23:37
Speaker 2: So imagine being in that situation where you truly are
23:39
Speaker 2: you have a relationship with everybody and then looking at
23:42
Speaker 2: you like get your homegirl. That's a lot of pressure.
23:45
Speaker 2: That is a lot of pressure.
23:46
Speaker 1: How did Mariah feel after she got sent home?
23:49
Speaker 2: She definitely felt she definitely felt betrayed, betrayed by me,
23:52
Speaker 2: but then also by some of the girls that were
23:55
Speaker 2: all on my Bachelor trip Bachelorett trip months before. So yeah,
24:01
Speaker 2: she definitely felt like, did I really know y'all? Like
24:05
Speaker 2: why me? And I get it because I can live
24:08
Speaker 2: with the news to her, but no.
24:09
Speaker 1: So this season is so good, Jasmine, and it's nice
24:14
Speaker 1: to see the gang back together, and obviously we have
24:18
Speaker 1: some new additions as well. When it comes to a
24:21
Speaker 1: second season of any show, when people see themselves on
24:26
Speaker 1: season one, one or two things happen, or sometimes both.
24:30
Speaker 1: You get the well, I'm the star, and I mean
24:35
Speaker 1: I'm the fan favorite, so like whatever, So that happens,
24:39
Speaker 1: the ego starts to form, right because being a reality start,
24:43
Speaker 1: you're famous overnight, literally overnight.
24:46
Speaker 2: Yeah.
24:46
Speaker 1: Right. The other thing that happens is people start to
24:51
Speaker 1: censor themselves because they saw how the audience responded to
24:55
Speaker 1: them season one, and they come second season they're not
24:59
Speaker 1: as vocal or they act different because they're like, no,
25:03
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that because I don't want people to
25:04
Speaker 1: say this, or no I'm not doing I'm not gonna
25:07
Speaker 1: say all of that because if I say that, they're
25:09
Speaker 1: gonna take it this way, right, blah blah blah. Did
25:11
Speaker 1: you see some of those things happening coming into season two?
25:14
Speaker 2: I wasn't really hanging out with everybody like that, so
25:16
Speaker 2: I wasn't even in the mix prior to walking back
25:19
Speaker 2: into the house, to be honest, so I can only
25:21
Speaker 2: speak for me. I feel like for myself and Alex
25:25
Speaker 2: and Nice, what I'm proud of us for individually is
25:29
Speaker 2: opening up and being more vocal about just who we
25:32
Speaker 2: are and how we feel about things. That was the
25:34
Speaker 2: musk for me, because season one was it was cool,
25:37
Speaker 2: then it was humbling. That was the musk for me
25:39
Speaker 2: going into for other people, I'm not gonna lie. I
25:43
Speaker 2: kind of feel like everybody's more of themselves, if like
25:47
Speaker 2: more of what we saw season one, Like I don't
25:49
Speaker 2: really see any one eighties for real.
25:52
Speaker 1: Did anybody develop an ego?
25:55
Speaker 2: Yeah? Those swelled up, those swoll up, I feel for
26:01
Speaker 2: some people, for some people, and it's not even like
26:05
Speaker 2: an ego and a bad thing. It's kind of a
26:07
Speaker 2: I think it's a little bit to do with kind
26:09
Speaker 2: of where we are society wise, and we're very individualistic
26:13
Speaker 2: and it's very like I gotta do this, me, me, me,
26:16
Speaker 2: Like what am I doing? I gotta get to where
26:18
Speaker 2: I want to go. Like, I think it's more so
26:20
Speaker 2: from that and culmination to probably feedback, but the fact
26:26
Speaker 2: that we haven't seen anybody go completely like one like
26:29
Speaker 2: who is this person? Speaks to the fact that no
26:33
Speaker 2: one really thought of them thought more of themselves in
26:36
Speaker 2: that way, if that makes sense.
26:37
Speaker 1: Who would you say developed the biggest ego.
26:39
Speaker 2: Jamaica crew the Jamaica crew less stay heard? Amen?
26:46
Speaker 1: So for those who may not know, can you explain
26:49
Speaker 1: who the crew is? For those who may not know?
26:51
Speaker 2: Yeah, so some are put together a trip to Jamaica
26:55
Speaker 2: prior to filming, and that included I don't recall all
27:00
Speaker 2: was invited initially, but that included who actually went summer herself, Preston,
27:06
Speaker 2: Jordan and Shinis. They went to Jamaica, had a good
27:10
Speaker 2: old time, a good old key and you know, they
27:14
Speaker 2: enjoyed themselves to the fullest.
27:17
Speaker 1: Are they still enjoying themselves to the fullest?
27:20
Speaker 2: I mean, there's definitely trouble in paradise the Jamaica crew is.
27:24
Speaker 2: They're not exactly where they were when we started the season.
27:27
Speaker 2: So I can't win them all.
27:29
Speaker 1: I guess, well, no, you can't win them all and
27:32
Speaker 1: the one so I don't have favorites, but I because
27:36
Speaker 1: I love the cast. One of the ones who I
27:40
Speaker 1: just think is great television because I've never seen anything
27:43
Speaker 1: liking on TV before. I really do like Nick.
27:46
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, tell me Moore.
27:49
Speaker 1: Nick is a He's a quiet hit. And what that
27:54
Speaker 1: means is it's not every day on reality TV you
27:58
Speaker 1: see a black man who is not only very much
28:04
Speaker 1: into the esthetic, like into the fascists, into their looks
28:07
Speaker 1: and their parents, and who isn't hyper masculine. And you know, like,
28:16
Speaker 1: what I love about him is I feel like he's
28:19
Speaker 1: so authentically him, you know, and he lives in his
28:23
Speaker 1: own skin and as a black man in this space
28:28
Speaker 1: and always being around black men my whole life, right,
28:31
Speaker 1: I know that sometimes as a black man, and I'll
28:34
Speaker 1: speak for black men as a black man, when you're
28:36
Speaker 1: around other black men, sometimes you feel the need to
28:40
Speaker 1: sort of like be this tough guy or like be
28:43
Speaker 1: a hyper masculine.
28:45
Speaker 2: No, none of, none of. Honestly, my favorite part of
28:49
Speaker 2: our show are the men, and I could honestly say
28:53
Speaker 2: that has never happened amongst them ever last season. This season,
28:57
Speaker 2: they have this great camaraderie that I just wish you
29:01
Speaker 2: could see more of. To be honest, They're my favorite
29:05
Speaker 2: part of our show, hands down, because they're all so different,
29:09
Speaker 2: each and every one of them has had such a
29:11
Speaker 2: tender moment, an authentic moment, an honest moment, a goofy moment,
29:16
Speaker 2: and they really do let each other just be and
29:19
Speaker 2: support each other, like the brotherhood is real, and I
29:22
Speaker 2: personally love to see it and I would love to
29:24
Speaker 2: see more of it. But it's interesting you mentioned Nick
29:27
Speaker 2: because Nick and I weren't the closest, not in terms
29:32
Speaker 2: of any friction. We just, I guess, gravitated towards other
29:35
Speaker 2: sides of the group, and we realize that after filming
29:39
Speaker 2: this season. But I agree with you and that there
29:45
Speaker 2: is a delicate nature to how he wants to be
29:51
Speaker 2: soft with how he's presented himself in a good way,
29:55
Speaker 2: like what she sees, what you get. You're gonna get
29:57
Speaker 2: this purple label, but what she sees what you get.
30:00
Speaker 2: And I do think every one of them have are
30:04
Speaker 2: really just I can't even find the word for it,
30:07
Speaker 2: which is shocking.
30:08
Speaker 1: No, I think they're all just refreshingly themselves and as
30:11
Speaker 1: nice as seems. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, it's refreshing. And
30:15
Speaker 1: I felt I want to I want to get your
30:17
Speaker 1: thoughts on it, because when the conversation came up amongst
30:20
Speaker 1: the group, that Nick was handsy. How did you feel
30:23
Speaker 1: about that?
30:24
Speaker 2: Honestly, I was like quietly on pins and needles, because
30:32
Speaker 2: here's what happened off season. To my knowledge, Jordan's summer
30:37
Speaker 2: pressing and Nick were like a square. They were all
30:41
Speaker 2: very close. And so when it started to be talked
30:44
Speaker 2: about from Jordan in summer, I'm like, well, am I
30:47
Speaker 2: missing something? Because y'all did get really close, Like it's comfortable,
30:50
Speaker 2: Like you said, it's comfortability. How it comes across on
30:52
Speaker 2: screen is how it is in real life. And I
30:57
Speaker 2: was nervous for him to be honest, because are we
31:02
Speaker 2: going somewhere that we can't walk back. Let's be very
31:05
Speaker 2: specific and how we speak about this and what questions
31:07
Speaker 2: we ask and how we bring it up in this setting.
31:11
Speaker 2: So when it got to a point where he just
31:14
Speaker 2: went upstairs to talk to Jordan in summer, watching that,
31:19
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, so you did just
31:21
Speaker 2: go to dem and talks to him. Okay, cool, you
31:24
Speaker 2: can hash it out. I felt so relieved, And I
31:27
Speaker 2: honestly felt like, I don't know if we've seen this
31:29
Speaker 2: on TV where someone was like validated so quickly and
31:34
Speaker 2: something that really could have gone left. I felt very
31:38
Speaker 2: happy for him because I know he has the best intentions.
31:42
Speaker 2: I know that, and even if it's hard to read
31:46
Speaker 2: sometimes he's always a person that's happy to talk about it.
31:50
Speaker 2: So yeah, I was nervous, but I was very happy
31:53
Speaker 2: that everyone was like, no, this makes sense, not to
31:56
Speaker 2: invalidate jordan in Summer's feelings or any of the other girls,
32:00
Speaker 2: but it really didn't come up to being more like
32:03
Speaker 2: when you're drunk, you just get real like life of
32:06
Speaker 2: the party. Hey, y'all, da da da da, you know
32:08
Speaker 2: what I mean?
32:09
Speaker 1: So yeah, no, and I thought, listen, I'll give everyone
32:13
Speaker 1: credit involved for having the conversation. I give Nick the
32:19
Speaker 1: credit for immediately confronting a hit on, like, hey, I
32:23
Speaker 1: want to talk about this, like do y'all think it's
32:25
Speaker 1: about me? And I appreciate the women for feeling safe
32:29
Speaker 1: enough to say, well, y'all, we feel this way, and
32:31
Speaker 1: well we don't think it's that, but we're just you
32:33
Speaker 1: know whatever. So I thought it was a very mature conversation.
32:37
Speaker 2: But I can see how Nick might be like, so,
32:39
Speaker 2: if y'all did feel that way, then what do we
32:41
Speaker 2: talk about? I can tell he was still processing that
32:44
Speaker 2: for sure, and I understood because I'm just like, should
32:48
Speaker 2: I change how I'm interacting with the if I were him?
32:50
Speaker 2: Should I change HOWM interacting with the women? Or is
32:52
Speaker 2: it was it just a one off? That's what's unclear.
32:56
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, congratulations, it's been announced that you guys are
33:00
Speaker 1: getting a reunion. When it comes to reunion, we know
33:04
Speaker 1: the importance of having first chair, right, I've heard who
33:10
Speaker 1: should have the first seat next to Andy at the reunion?
33:15
Speaker 1: There's two first seats.
33:16
Speaker 2: I know. I'm just gonna preface by saying this, this
33:19
Speaker 2: is so hard, and I've also been like, I've seen
33:22
Speaker 2: it on social media, the conversation, and I see what
33:25
Speaker 2: the folks are saying. But we kind of touch it
33:29
Speaker 2: on two seasons, and there is no clear one villain
33:35
Speaker 2: this season. It's a couple of them. So are we
33:38
Speaker 2: going who's the villain? Or we're going with story. I
33:42
Speaker 2: don't know if we're going with Sorry, I just feel
33:45
Speaker 2: like one of those shares should be mine. I mean
33:50
Speaker 2: left or right. I mean I'm not hard to please. Okay, No,
33:58
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be very honest with you. This goes without saying.
34:01
Speaker 2: It's not to diminish anybody else, but the rate in
34:04
Speaker 2: which my life has been shared and what I have
34:07
Speaker 2: openly let everybody into. I think that is of note.
34:12
Speaker 1: So who's if you and the first seat, who should
34:15
Speaker 1: be opposite of you?
34:16
Speaker 2: I'm going to go with who I think I will
34:18
Speaker 2: have fun being opposite in me. I have to say, Preston,
34:21
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just feel like I just feel
34:24
Speaker 2: like we took my answer.
34:26
Speaker 1: I was thinking you and Preston as well.
34:30
Speaker 2: I just feel like, because let me tell you why, Preston,
34:34
Speaker 2: We're not exactly the same, right, But I feel like
34:38
Speaker 2: he also He's I don't want to sound ageus, but
34:42
Speaker 2: he and Nick are the oldest, and I do feel
34:45
Speaker 2: like Preston has this elderly statesman era to him, but
34:49
Speaker 2: he knows how to give a good read. So you're
34:53
Speaker 2: thinking about in terms of where my head wants to
34:55
Speaker 2: turn to, I just want to look across.
34:57
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So my prediction is it's you and
35:01
Speaker 1: Preston as well. That's so funny.
35:02
Speaker 2: Dang, I'm kind of sad we're in think I wanted
35:05
Speaker 2: like a different.
35:06
Speaker 1: Oh no, because the thing is this. Listen Carlos King's
35:09
Speaker 1: prediction and low key hope for the first chair at
35:14
Speaker 1: the Summerhouse, Martha's Vineyard Reunion is Jasmine and Preston should
35:20
Speaker 1: have first chair because you two are the force multipliers
35:24
Speaker 1: of the show. And although Bria is a great Villainy
35:28
Speaker 1: and Bria, that's a compliment. That's a compliment, by the way,
35:31
Speaker 1: don't take you you know, it's a huge one. It's
35:35
Speaker 1: a huge one. Although Bria is a villain, I think
35:39
Speaker 1: Preston will give a good o funny shade read moment.
35:44
Speaker 1: I think Andy is going to live for all the
35:46
Speaker 1: Preston's commentary. And I think you you have a way
35:51
Speaker 1: of explanation and decorum and your whimsical but you're also,
35:58
Speaker 1: like you said, you have a lot of story. And listen,
36:00
Speaker 1: dare I say, I think in terms of the women,
36:04
Speaker 1: to me, you're the face of the show. So thank you.
36:08
Speaker 1: It has to be you, and that's why you're talking
36:12
Speaker 1: to me first while I'm talking to you. Although I
36:16
Speaker 1: love all the girls and the.
36:17
Speaker 2: Guys, extremely humble love that for you. No, I mean,
36:23
Speaker 2: here's the thing. It's what I do love about this season, honestly,
36:28
Speaker 2: is that, like I said, there's no clear villain. Everyone
36:31
Speaker 2: has a moment and some of the girls are rubbing
36:37
Speaker 2: people the wrong way. That's why I said there's not
36:40
Speaker 2: one villain, there's actually like three because everyone has a
36:44
Speaker 2: different point of friction that is unsettling the group, so
36:50
Speaker 2: you can't. But that's why I didn't go with one
36:53
Speaker 2: person for a chair, because it's like there's three, especially
36:58
Speaker 2: if you look at social media right now and if
36:59
Speaker 2: you just watch as the episodes are playing out. Like
37:02
Speaker 2: I said, it's not black and white, it's very gray.
37:05
Speaker 1: Let the rain drops know, honey, what they can expect
37:09
Speaker 1: from the rest of the season of Summer House Martha's
37:12
Speaker 1: Vineyard that y'all can catch every Sunday at nine o'clock
37:16
Speaker 1: a Central on bra Yes.
37:18
Speaker 2: And Mondays on Peacock. I think this last episode I
37:23
Speaker 2: announced it I'm Pregnant, was a nice holid cleanser. But
37:28
Speaker 2: the rest of the season you're going to really see
37:33
Speaker 2: why this group specifically has so many layers, like we're
37:38
Speaker 2: all onions and with the significant others coming and you know,
37:44
Speaker 2: Mariah and Phil making a little though as you saw
37:47
Speaker 2: on the previews, it is a recipe for hopefully a
37:53
Speaker 2: greenlit season three. That's what I will say.
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