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- 0:003, 10, 1, 0, ignition, liftoff,
- 0:08Ending small business failure.
- 0:11Welcome to the Small Biz Chat podcast with a number 1 small business expert Melinda Emerson.
- 0:17Bolinda's goal is to end small business failure, and she'll give you the information
- 0:21you need to succeed and live the life you've dream of.
- 0:25Now here's the small biz lady herself.
- 0:29Melinda Everson.
- 0:31Hi, everybody, and welcome to the small biz chat podcast.
- 0:34I'm Belinda Emerson, the small biz lady.
- 0:36America's number one small business expert.
- 0:38I'm so excited to be here with today with my guest, Missy Lamar, Tyler.
- 0:44Let me tell you, I have known Lamar and his wife, Ronnie, for a really long time.
- 0:48Back in the day, I actually met them in person at the Infusionsoft icon conference, which is I
- 0:55know at least 5 or 6 years ago when I met you guys and you know, he has had a tremendous run
- 1:01since then.
- 1:02He believes in the motto, the gatekeepers are gone.
- 1:05He's levered social media to move his website black and married with kids from a small
- 1:11personal blog to an international brand with over 600,000 social media fans and over 35,000
- 1:17customers across 50 states and 40 three countries.
- 1:21He has been recognized for his work He and his wife have been recognized as Eviti magazine
- 1:27Power 100, which is the top 100 movers and shakers in the back community.
- 1:31He's also been selected as a finalist.
- 1:33For the Black Enterprise family business of the year and Infusionsoft's small business icon
- 1:39award, which I think is how I met you.
- 1:41Right?
- 1:41You guys were up for that award.
- 1:43I think the year that I met you.
- 1:45So that was a while ago.
- 1:47But now you run a digital media agency, which helps small businesses with solutions to drive
- 1:53traffic, convert more online sales, increase their profit.
- 1:58Hey.
- 1:58That's what I'm talking about.
- 2:00Profit is how we keep score in business.
- 2:03Right?
- 2:03And ain't about what you make.
- 2:05It is about what you keep.
- 2:07So I am so excited.
- 2:08Lamar, welcome to the small business chat podcast.
- 2:11Good.
- 2:11Thank you.
- 2:11I'm honored to be here.
- 2:13Alright.
- 2:13So tell me, like, how you guys went from, you know, this little blog about, you know, being
- 2:19married with kids.
- 2:21And and and and having everyone empathize with you everywhere to, you know, deciding to teach
- 2:26people how to run their online businesses better.
- 2:28How did you get there?
- 2:30Sure.
- 2:30Well, a lot of what was focusing clarity.
- 2:32Now I'll talk about what that means for a second.
- 2:35You know, we we started a blow up because we were and about showcasing positive examples of
- 2:39images of of couples in the African American community.
- 2:42And as we we did it, right, we said, okay.
- 2:44This is cool.
- 2:45But first thing we wanna do is we wanna run it as if it's a business.
- 2:49Even though it's not a business yet, if it ever takes off, we wanna be in position so that we
- 2:53can capitalize on actually what happens and not trying to go back and then get everything right
- 2:57and everything professional and everything like this.
- 2:59We started like that, and the site quickly took off because there was a need that was avoided.
- 3:03And we were we were the couples that weren't represented, so we knew that.
- 3:06That's why we kinda created it.
- 3:07But as it grew, one of the things that happened, Melinda, is that we initially
- 3:10monetized through advertising.
- 3:12And it was advertising, you know, with, you know, brands from Pampers and Haines and Disney
- 3:18and a lot of other folks.
- 3:19But what happened with those advertising dollars is that We didn't control our own
- 3:23revenue.
- 3:24Meaning, a 1 quarter or 1 year African American community is hot.
- 3:27Everybody's looking for us.
- 3:29Everybody's checking for us.
- 3:30The next quarter, they say, you know what?
- 3:31We wanna reach a Latino community.
- 3:33So Oh.
- 3:34Y'all sit on the sideline for a second.
- 3:36We'll be back.
- 3:38Oh, oh, we had a great corporate connect, right, and they were just beating us working
- 3:42contracts and and gigs.
- 3:43And then they left all of a sudden.
- 3:45Like, we we called and it's like, hey.
- 3:46That person on the level works here.
- 3:48Somebody new in that position, and they had a total different direction for the company.
- 3:51So we said we gotta do something where we control of our own revenue and what we did is
- 3:55start to create our own products.
- 3:57So we started with documentaries.
- 3:59We've done 7 full of documentary films, Absolutely.
- 4:02Yep.
- 4:03Yep.
- 4:03Then Yeah.
- 4:04We we actually that that was the first real product we had.
- 4:06We did documentaries.
- 4:07We would shoot them, create them, myself, and put them put them together.
- 4:10Oh, so you were doing the whole Tyler Perry.
- 4:12Thank you.
- 4:13We we were doing it.
- 4:14Right?
- 4:14And and I I tell you what's interesting is we were doing it.
- 4:17We were kinda growing the brand and growing our social media at the same time.
- 4:21So what we would do, we wrote these documentaries we would look on our analytics,
- 4:24right, our Google analytics for our blog and for our site and say, alright.
- 4:28Where do we already have a market of people at?
- 4:30And then we will go rent out a private theater in those cities and do our own tours.
- 4:34So for 5 years straight, the 1st 5 years us doing films, We release the film every year.
- 4:40We would do anywhere from 7 to 10 city tour going to different cities where we had
- 4:44audience.
- 4:45We would out these theaters.
- 4:47Sometimes we do multiple theaters in Chicago that gave us a 2 week run at a chain of
- 4:51theaters.
- 4:51We would sell product at the end of it.
- 4:53Right?
- 4:53We got very good at doing this.
- 4:55And from there, it went from documentaries to ebooks, audiobooks, membership sites,
- 5:00workshops, conferences, we've done four cruises with that audience.
- 5:03But the thing is people saw us doing it.
- 5:05And they said, hey.
- 5:06Teach me out.
- 5:07You know, we we we see you kinda growing this brand.
- 5:09We see you making money.
- 5:10We see you building audience.
- 5:11Teach me how to do it.
- 5:12And, eventually, after years, asking us to teach them how to do it, we create a separate
- 5:16brand traffic sales and profit where, like you mentioned before, we teach people how to drive
- 5:20more traffic, convert more sales, and grow the amount of profit in their business.
- 5:24Okay.
- 5:24So but social media's changed a lot.
- 5:27Right?
- 5:27Because I I've been out here in the game a minute.
- 5:30And so I remember getting on Twitter when Twitter was one year old.
- 5:34Right?
- 5:34And so now it's a whole different it's a different game out here, and there's so much
- 5:44content, so many hashtags, and, like, how how how have you seen social media change, and how
- 5:51have you had to sort of, like, pivot your approach to social media that likes how to
- 5:56kinda stay ahead of it?
- 5:57Oh, Milan, we saw the black and red kids.
- 5:59We saw it on my space.
- 6:00You know, what I what I told me is the Belinda like, Myra, what?
- 6:05What are you talking about?
- 6:06Right?
- 6:07You know, we we started on ModSpace.
- 6:09And and there was at the time when my most we had a ModSpace page for the brand.
- 6:13You know, we will post content.
- 6:14We will post pictures of covers.
- 6:15We'll do different things.
- 6:16And that was when most people in my space, they just were coming through and posting flyers,
- 6:20like animated flyers, with sparkles and stuff on it.
- 6:23So we grew with the growth of Facebook.
- 6:26We grew with it, but like you said, things have always changed.
- 6:28So, I mean, just just one big example of change, is, like I said, as we grew this the
- 6:34site, we now were over 500, 7000 people just on the Facebook page for Black and Mary with kids.
- 6:39But at one point, in the beginning, Facebook was wide open, meaning whenever you posted
- 6:44something, everybody that followed you, if they were online and would see it.
- 6:47And, you know, we may well, I mean, we may have, like, a hundred thousand people on the
- 6:50page.
- 6:51Every time we posted something, 25 to 35,000 people would see it.
- 6:55Wow.
- 6:55So to grow the site, all we had to do is create more content.
- 6:58At one point, we had 40 writers writing for Black and married with kids.
- 7:01And all we had was a content machine where literally, we wanted to double the size of
- 7:05traffic, which we did.
- 7:06We said to double the amount content we created, double the amount of times we posted.
- 7:10And and that grew the site, right, we've been doing probably a million, unique visitors every
- 7:15quarter.
- 7:16Mhmm.
- 7:16It's great content, but guess what?
- 7:18One day, we woke up and Facebook flipped the switch.
- 7:21Right.
- 7:21Right.
- 7:21They said we got you.
- 7:22I remember.
- 7:23I remember.
- 7:24Y'all are visiting.
- 7:25We got we got you hooked into the to the ecosystem.
- 7:27Y'all are visiting.
- 7:28It's showing up on your own every day now.
- 7:30So we're gonna flip the switch.
- 7:31And now the only time people really see what you got is when they pay for it.
- 7:35And it changed everything.
- 7:36So like you said, I mean, face, social media in general, right, whether it's Instagram,
- 7:40Twitter, no matter what it is, all of it is always changing.
- 7:42So we always have to be abreast of what's going on.
- 7:45We always have to be on a pulse of what's happening.
- 7:48We always have to have a network of other people so we can reach out to other people just
- 7:51to say, are you seeing the same thing that we see?
- 7:54Because it could be just a blip with what we're doing, but, you know, we could be down in the
- 7:58press for 2 months, and I didn't realize that everybody's being impacted by the same thing.
- 8:02So, you know, and we always have to be ready to pivot.
- 8:04That's the main thing.
- 8:05And and if anything, if everybody listening, one of the main things we had to find out
- 8:09really focused on with social is we had to make a decision at one point whether we want to be
- 8:13popular or whether we want to be profitable.
- 8:17Be because for a while, like, in the beginning, we had 100,000
- 8:21people.
- 8:22Man.
- 8:22Like, you have 500,000 friends.
- 8:24You were like, look.
- 8:25We do it.
- 8:26It's it it need to be clear.
- 8:27I I had a friend that asked me one time.
- 8:29He said, you know, he said, you gotta 100,000 people on that page, you gotta be making a
- 8:33dollar for every one.
- 8:34You wish.
- 8:35Right.
- 8:36Right.
- 8:36Yeah.
- 8:36Yeah.
- 8:37So we we had to get real clear about, alright, what are we doing to create these products?
- 8:40How can we get them into the hands of the consumers?
- 8:42How can we get the consumers to spend more?
- 8:44We get them to come back and spend more often, increase the average order value, their
- 8:48lifetime value, things like that, and we became better marketers.
- 8:51And now does we teach other businesses how to do?
- 8:53So when you realize that, is that when you took your business to the next level and then
- 9:00became, like, a finalist for the icon award?
- 9:02Because I remember, I believe that was the 1st Infusionsoft conference I ever went to was the
- 9:09one that you and your wife were finalists.
- 9:11And I remember being so impressed that a black owned business was even recognized in that way
- 9:17because that wasn't typical.
- 9:21And so and I remember being like, what are these people doing?
- 9:25Like, I remember I remember I remember, like, I I I really enjoyed going to sort of like the
- 9:31icon sort of like showcase where all four final has got a chance to, like, tell their story But
- 9:37I guess my question is, so when you guys kind of focused on the whole, yeah, it's cool to
- 9:43have all these followers, but we gotta turn this stuff into cash.
- 9:47Is that when you kinda got tight with your marketing?
- 9:50Is that when you invested in infusions off?
- 9:52Like, Like, how did all of that kinda happen?
- 9:55Yeah.
- 9:55And that's it.
- 9:56All of it kinda happened around the same time.
- 9:57Right?
- 9:57We said, alright.
- 9:58We gotta get real systems in place because at the time, We had one thing taking payments, one
- 10:03thing for events and screening something else.
- 10:05We were selling t shirts on.
- 10:06We had, like, 20 different things, and none of it talked to me.
- 10:08I know somebody listening right now on those what I'm talking about.
- 10:11No.
- 10:11No.
- 10:11Exactly.
- 10:12Wait a minute.
- 10:13I know exactly what you're talking about.
- 10:18We we had to get, like, our systems in place.
- 10:19And once we got the systems in place, like I said, we had to figure out what are we selling
- 10:23and who are we selling it to?
- 10:24Cause even I mentioned the fact that in the beginning, we did most of our revenue around
- 10:28advertising.
- 10:29And at some point, we realized, alright.
- 10:30They're coming to us because they want access to our audience, but we're not even leveraging
- 10:34our audience.
- 10:35As well as we should be.
- 10:37So we really just had to learn a lot and and educate ourselves.
- 10:40And like I said, get clear on not just growing all these social media fans, how do we really
- 10:45monetize it?
- 10:45And and making that shift saved us because a lot of, contemporaries and friends that that
- 10:50kinda came up the same time blogging and just having websites creating content when
- 10:55advertising eventually dried up because nobody was clicking on banner ads.
- 10:58And nobody was, you know, watching the stuff on the website.
- 11:01They used to watch.
- 11:01Because everything kinda transitioned to social.
- 11:04Their sites died.
- 11:05Their revenue shrinks up, and then they had to go back to work.
- 11:09So that's interesting.
- 11:10So you you made that transition.
- 11:12So all those people that were like, mom bloggers and some of that other stuff, they
- 11:16they ended up going away.
- 11:18Yeah.
- 11:18A lot a lot of people went away because at the time, not only was advertising the key, what
- 11:22was one of the big keys and ways of monetization for a lot of bloggers, were
- 11:26advertising display networks, where it wasn't even like you worked directly with Disney and
- 11:31all these companies, and we got the chance to work with them because we were the biggest ones
- 11:34in our niche.
- 11:34But a lot of companies, what they would do is there was a company called Mode Media.
- 11:38You speak Lamb, and they would just sell all of the advertising positions on their site to
- 11:43Lamb.
- 11:43Right, or Mode Media.
- 11:45And then Mode Media will be the one that had the contract with all the Fortune 500, one of
- 11:48the companies.
- 11:49And they would just you put a code on your site, and they would just run the ads on your
- 11:53site.
- 11:53But guess what?
- 11:54One day, Moe goes out of business.
- 11:56Oh, wow.
- 11:56And they they owe some bloggers up to 5 figures worth of revenue Right?
- 12:01Like, they literally wanna hook the money, and guess what?
- 12:03When they went bankrupt, the bloggers were not the people that were 1st in line to get paid.
- 12:07It was all those big advertisers, the nissan, the Ford, You know, all these people have spent
- 12:12their money and said, hey.
- 12:13You know, we're at the lawyer.
- 12:15We won't get there, and we're getting our money back first.
- 12:17So a lot of people got stuff.
- 12:18But by the time, we'd already made a transition to where the bulk and majority of our income,
- 12:23we created ourselves, and we own it.
- 12:25Okay.
- 12:25Okay.
- 12:25So that's that's a very, very key thing.
- 12:28So So let's talk about creating your own customers, right, creating your own business.
- 12:35Now is is organic search, Dave?
- 12:37I mean, is it is it all about paid ads now or what, you know, can content still sell?
- 12:44Cause because I I'm I'm looking at what you talk about on traffic sales and profit.
- 12:48You you're a big fan of Facebook ads.
- 12:50So I I just wanna know, you know, or, you know, how how are you suggesting that people do this
- 12:56thing now?
- 12:57Yeah.
- 12:57What what I think most companies need is they need a a mix.
- 13:00And that's probably just the opposite of what most customers do.
- 13:03I think a lot of people we depend on organic too much.
- 13:06And the reason I say too much is Organic is great.
- 13:09Right?
- 13:09I'll always say those are the your ride to die fans, and and they become your customers.
- 13:14And, you know, they they have seen your journey in you know, it's like the equivalent you
- 13:18digitally going out and shaking hands and kissing babies.
- 13:21So it's wonderful, but most people listen to realize is that organic growth is slow.
- 13:26And it can take months.
- 13:28It can take years of you building communities.
- 13:29If you're building backlinks and traffic to your website, you know, you're building this
- 13:34organic social media page or social media group.
- 13:37What paid traffic, whether it's Facebook ads or it could be Pinterest ads or LinkedIn ads now,
- 13:41no matter what it is, what paid traffic gives us the ability to do is to get our product to
- 13:45service in front of a lot of people in a short period of time.
- 13:49Now in saying that, what I will say is even though you can you can get to them fast in this
- 13:53you know, cutting on the water faucet, right, and all the leads are coming out.
- 13:56You can cut it right back off and they stop.
- 13:58And and in terms of getting that, that's great.
- 14:00But you need to know when you're spending money, who you're spending money on.
- 14:03You gotta be dialed into exactly who is the perfect customer, the perfect lead to me to get
- 14:08in front of.
- 14:09You gotta make sure that you're messaging.
- 14:10Like, once they get there, I gotta have the perfect product for the perfect person at the
- 14:14perfect time.
- 14:15And if any of that is out of alignment, guess what?
- 14:17I'm a be not just spending money, but wasting money.
- 14:19So, you know, that paid you know, traffic is definitely the fastest way to get it, but you
- 14:24just need to be aware of what you're doing.
- 14:26And be aware a lot of times what people don't realize is they think, alright, I'm a put this
- 14:31first little bit of money on, and I expect to see immediate results.
- 14:34And that's that's not how this works.
- 14:36That's always the expectation, but that's not how this works.
- 14:38What they need to realize is that when they're they're putting this in and they're making this
- 14:42investment, the number one thing they're getting back is data.
- 14:45The number one thing they're learning is less than.
- 14:47So even if they're not getting immediate conversions, They're learning about the people
- 14:51that don't convert.
- 14:51They're learning that, okay, this this audience is clicking on my ads.
- 14:55This audience isn't.
- 14:56This audience clicked on my ad and went to the page.
- 14:58But they didn't purchase on the page.
- 15:00And then once we get more data, we can start to dissect.
- 15:02Is the problem with the ad?
- 15:04Is the ad working, but the problem with the page we're sending them to is the problem with
- 15:09the offer, is it some tech glitch, something like that, but we gotta have data that we can
- 15:12begin to learn from begin to increase our perspective on what we're doing throughout
- 15:16That that's really, really good stuff.
- 15:18So but what about things like Lookalike Audiences and retargeting?
- 15:24And is that all a part of the soup you really just need to know who it is, who you really
- 15:28need to be targeting.
- 15:30Yeah.
- 15:30I mean, that's that's definitely part of the suit.
- 15:31What I tell most people before they even dive into this is that they need to either spend a
- 15:36lot of time focusing on it, or they need to just hire somebody to spend a lot of time
- 15:40focusing on it, right, because what most people do is they really don't dive into it enough.
- 15:44Now 3, 4 years ago in the earlier days of Facebook ads, when it weren't as many people on
- 15:50it, you literally could just put up an ad and send them to a page and people would buy.
- 15:53But now you need new audiences.
- 15:55So what, you know, the custom audience we're talking about is the ability for you to upload
- 16:00a customer list in the Facebook Facebook can talk not only target those people, but then you
- 16:04can say, alright.
- 16:04Go out and find me a million people just like these people.
- 16:08You can put a a snippet of Facebook code on your website.
- 16:11Right, called the Facebook Pixel.
- 16:12And then you can say, alright.
- 16:13You know, I wanna segment people that land on this specific page.
- 16:16So for black and married with kids, for example, We have pages split out by the pain
- 16:20points couples have communication, infidelity, intimacy, money.
- 16:25Right?
- 16:25That could be a pain point.
- 16:26And when you land on that page, we build custom audiences around whatever that pain point is.
- 16:31So then if we have a product around money and finances, we could target people that read a
- 16:36money and finance article on our website.
- 16:38But not only that, then we can create a look alike audience of a million other people that
- 16:42look just like these people that had this issue.
- 16:45And then, like you said, we can retarget those people, meaning that only on average, right,
- 16:49like 3% of people are landing inside and ready to buy the first time they get there.
- 16:53Mhmm.
- 16:54Most of us, what we do is we let the other 97% walk straight out the door Right?
- 16:59We tell them, buy a do see you later.
- 17:00Oh, we we had a great time visiting, but but that's the end of it.
- 17:03And we all know the fortune is in what, the follow-up.
- 17:06Right.
- 17:06So we can do it retargeting is for the 3% that rate divided is great for the other 97%.
- 17:11We keep putting our offers in front of.
- 17:13And for the people listening, that's why when you go in your shopping, you're looking at
- 17:17those shoes, you're looking at that suit or that dress, and it's following you around
- 17:21everywhere.
- 17:21You go on every website.
- 17:22It's in your apps.
- 17:23You're trying to play scrabble.
- 17:24On your phone, and then that ad pops up.
- 17:26And you're like, what are they doing?
- 17:28Like, it's the the reason this time, Linda, is amazing.
- 17:32Is because all of these tools and resources that were set aside for the big boys, we got
- 17:37access to them now.
- 17:38Right.
- 17:39The thing is we have to take the time to learn them.
- 17:41We have to invest in them, but we do have access to them.
- 17:43And that's what's amazing about this time we live in right now.
- 17:46I I couldn't agree more.
- 17:48I mean, that's kinda what social media did for us.
- 17:50Remember when you used to have to call these gatekeepers and be calling and calling and
- 17:53calling
- 17:53is And
- 17:54he had to be nice to the secretary and hoping that they would put the call through, like, you
- 17:57know, and so that's what social media did.
- 17:59It sort of, like, eliminated the need for that.
- 18:01They was online.
- 18:01You can find them.
- 18:03But now with social media, it's sort of like the same thing.
- 18:05It's like the landing experience that all important landing page is really important.
- 18:10I wanted to ask you about sales copy, whether it's sales funnel copy or landing page copy.
- 18:17Is that something somebody that writes blog should write for themselves, or should they
- 18:22hire a professional?
- 18:23It's different.
- 18:24What I'm saying is definitely different.
- 18:25So writing for your blog is not writing persuasive sales copy to get somebody to
- 18:29actually take action and buy something.
- 18:31But, you know, what's interesting, if if I can say, wait a minute.
- 18:34I think it's a huge opportunity for people that love to write and it loved to blow to actually
- 18:39look at careers in creating sales copy.
- 18:42Because one of the biggest needs I see for small business owners is actually they are
- 18:46always looking for people that can write copy form, that can write persuasive sales emails,
- 18:51deck and write landing page copy, a sales page copy, or, you know, funnel copy like you're
- 18:55talking about or even copy in their Facebook ads or different ad creative like that.
- 18:59So it definitely is a different skill set.
- 19:01It definitely be something you need to, you know, train yourself study on and work on
- 19:05because it's not, you know, telling your story about what happened, you know, over the past
- 19:09weekend that just retreat your tenant is not the same as getting somebody to say, okay.
- 19:13These are the the the emotional tone they're feeling right now.
- 19:16Here are the pain points that they're facing, and here and it's how my practice service helps
- 19:20them overcome that challenge and gives them a transformation totally different conversation,
- 19:24but one that a skilled writer could possibly make the transition to if they put the work in.
- 19:28I couldn't agree with you more.
- 19:31So tell me what are some of your favorite tech tools?
- 19:36Sure.
- 19:36Some of my favorite tech tools.
- 19:38For 1, so I'm I'm super basic.
- 19:40So I just like the Google suite.
- 19:42Right?
- 19:42It's like, like, my Google calendar, my Gmail, like, all that stuff.
- 19:46We used to kinda, like, enterprise corporate level.
- 19:49All that stuff is my favorite stuff.
- 19:50For Instagram, we use later, which is pretty popular.
- 19:53Right?
- 19:54Later later, late or later, allows us to kind of schedule and and pre post, you know,
- 19:59Instagram content that we get out when we push out.
- 20:02For people, hey.
- 20:02How about this?
- 20:03For people doing Facebook ads since we talked about earlier.
- 20:06A neat tool they may wanna check out is add espresso if they're doing their own ads.
- 20:10Add add espresso, like the kind of coffee, add add a d espresso, allows you to actually go in
- 20:15and create Facebook ads, but then you can create multiple test variations up to 250
- 20:21different variations.
- 20:22Oh, wow.
- 20:22A one at right in a software, and it'll actually run the test, and then it'll show you
- 20:27what the winners are.
- 20:28So you can have and the things you could test, you could test, different subject lines,
- 20:32different body copy of it, different images of different videos in it, and it'll actually
- 20:37bring you back all the data even different audiences as well.
- 20:39So to say this audience performs, you know, 60% better than this one.
- 20:43This image is not performing well, and you literally could just, you know, click yes.
- 20:47I want this.
- 20:47No.
- 20:47I don't want that until you really get it down to the perfect audience.
- 20:51And then like we said, once you know that perfect audience is, we can try to duplicate
- 20:54that.
- 20:54And find more people just like them.
- 20:56Okay.
- 20:57Now a quick question about about Instagram.
- 20:59Is that is that the best converting platform?
- 21:02For us, it's still Facebook.
- 21:04Okay.
- 21:05So for us, it's still Facebook.
- 21:06But when we look at on a social landscape and and always tell people right depends on again,
- 21:11who you're selling, who you're selling to.
- 21:12So we always keep coming back to you have to know who that avatar is, who you're speaking
- 21:16to, and different people live on different platforms.
- 21:18But for us, Facebook is still number 1.
- 21:20Even though that the landscape has changed, it's still number 1 for us.
- 21:23We'd go pretty heavy into Instagram.
- 21:26And then our number 3 that we're looking to grow into a number 2, and maybe eventually a
- 21:30number 1 is gonna be YouTube.
- 21:32Okay.
- 21:32That's interesting.
- 21:33So my mine are different from yours.
- 21:35So what what what are y'all's?
- 21:37I'm curious.
- 21:37So I am definitely still pretty influential on Twitter.
- 21:42And then Facebook and then LinkedIn for me.
- 21:45Like, LinkedIn is huge for me, but I'm but I do b to b.
- 21:48So so I don't really do
- 21:49a lot of
- 21:50b to c.
- 21:50So So LinkedIn link LinkedIn's probably even maybe even a tad bit more effective than
- 21:56Facebook for me.
- 21:57So, yeah, see it again.
- 21:58Right?
- 21:58It's like that proves it.
- 21:59It's all about who you're talking to.
- 22:01Sure.
- 22:01Sure.
- 22:01Knowing where those people are at.
- 22:02So the LinkedIn, we actually are doing more testing because we wanna do some testing on a
- 22:07track sales and profit side there to see if our customer and our avatar is there and what we
- 22:12can do because they haven't advertised us when we wanna run ads and get in front of them quick
- 22:15to see what happens.
- 22:16But it's interesting too, right, knowing what the objectives are.
- 22:18So for us, safe for Black and Mary with kids, we have a nice size following on Twitter.
- 22:24Right?
- 22:24It's probably 30, 40, 50,000 people over there, but we can't get them to click on anything.
- 22:29It's like, they they're engaged.
- 22:30They like stuff.
- 22:31They retweeted.
- 22:32Like, come on, y'all.
- 22:33The party's over here at my house.
- 22:35They will not come back to our house.
- 22:38Right.
- 22:39I I as someone with 300,000 followers or Twitter.
- 22:42I can tell you even more about that.
- 22:44So what about online courses?
- 22:45Do you run online courses and what platform do you run it off of?
- 22:49Yeah.
- 22:49We run online courses.
- 22:51Our courses are integrated through a platform called memberium because we use Infusion
- 22:55Software back end.
- 22:56So we we look for programs that kinda integrate directly with it.
- 22:59So we use, and bearing for that, which is a WordPress plugin.
- 23:02It kinda between it's kinda like a marriage between, WordPress, and then learn dash as a
- 23:08company management system.
- 23:09Got it.
- 23:10And then the next question I have for you is Tell me about your this traffic sales and
- 23:15profit conference that you have.
- 23:17Isn't it like what you do once or twice a year?
- 23:19Tell me about that.
- 23:21Sure.
- 23:21We do it twice a year.
- 23:22It's always here in Atlanta.
- 23:24The next one is the last weekend in June.
- 23:26Right?
- 23:27So it's a a VIP day and 2 main days.
- 23:29So 24th, 25th, in 26th June.
- 23:32And really what it is is is a gathering, a homecoming, a intensive, it's a boot camp.
- 23:39We if it's thing we call a 2 day hands on sales and marketing boot camp where, essentially, we
- 23:43go from 8 or 9 AM to 10 o'clock at night, bringing in some of the the top African
- 23:49American sales and marketing experts that really dive deep into specific strategies that
- 23:54these business owners can use.
- 23:55And, I mean, to to talk about the influence and the growth of it, we did the first one in June
- 24:00of 2016.
- 24:01There were forty seven people in the room.
- 24:03And here, June of 2020, we'll have just over 700.
- 24:06So it's it's amazing.
- 24:07Everybody wants information, you can go to www.tsp like traffic sales and profit,
- 24:12tsplivetickets.com, but we've been able to do is really, you know, I'm speaking a lot of
- 24:17places like you, Linda.
- 24:18Right?
- 24:18So what we do you've been to a lot of conference and events.
- 24:21And you said, just don't work.
- 24:23Or, you know, you've been there and say, I hate it when they do this.
- 24:25Right?
- 24:25So what I did is I kinda reverse engineered.
- 24:28All the things I didn't like about conferences and events I went to.
- 24:32As as a speaker, even as attendee, I didn't like when you go somewhere and they give
- 24:36somebody 30 minutes to because I can't I can't learn anything in 30.
- 24:40You can't teach me anything in 30 minutes because I need you to take 5 minutes just
- 24:43telling me who you are.
- 24:44Right?
- 24:45And then if we go through 30 minutes, most of the It's no time for I hate going places, and
- 24:49you can't get your questions answered.
- 24:51So we do longer sessions, every session that we do, We never do a session about Q And A, so
- 24:56it's always a chance for you to get your questions answered.
- 24:58I tell people you should not leave wondering anything.
- 25:01Get your questions answered.
- 25:02Most of our speakers, the majority of them, they hang around all conference.
- 25:05So they don't just come in and then dip out.
- 25:07They hang around all conference.
- 25:09They're in the lobby all night.
- 25:10Talking and working with people.
- 25:11They're connected and that, you know, so they're not like a looping missing somewhere,
- 25:15but but it's just a different environment for African American entrepreneurs.
- 25:18Where they get top level education and and information that's sitting next to next to next
- 25:22to 6, 7, 8 figure business owners that have been where they are and that are willing to
- 25:27actually share the progress and the story as well.
- 25:30That sounds really awesome.
- 25:31I would love to come and chat at your conference, so we gotta talk about that.
- 25:35So tell me about the best business advice that someone gave you?
- 25:41That's a good question.
- 25:42The best advice someone gave me.
- 25:44Alright.
- 25:44So I'll do 2 things.
- 25:45Like like, I gotta I have one quote that I normally use, and I'll keep it in my head all
- 25:49the time.
- 25:50And it's from Jim Rome.
- 25:51He didn't give it directly to me, but I I read it somewhere, and I loved it.
- 25:54Right?
- 25:54This it's been one of my principles for one of the things most favorite posts I got from him
- 25:58is not what your work is what you negotiate.
- 26:00So I always keep that in mind.
- 26:02And and even when I work corporate, I kept it in mind when I went in to ask for arrays or
- 26:06salary adjustment.
- 26:07Right?
- 26:08And even in business now, because so much of our business, we're negotiating different
- 26:11things every day of every week.
- 26:13Right?
- 26:14So, like, I'm always kinda keeping that in my mind.
- 26:16Hey.
- 26:16It's it's nothing for me to get bent out of shape about feeling this way that way.
- 26:20It's not what I'm worth.
- 26:20It's what I actually negotiate each situation.
- 26:23And then talking about specifically advice someone gave me.
- 26:27Like like I said, that that popular versus profitable thing probably was one of the
- 26:30biggest things that really hit home.
- 26:33That conversation I had, like I said, one of my mentors years ago, and he he he asked that,
- 26:37hey.
- 26:37You should have a dollar for every person, and I and I said no, right, and he kinda set that
- 26:42goal for me.
- 26:43And then from that day on that path, I was was after it, which, you know, we we got there
- 26:48quickly, and we you know, quickly surpass that way, way beyond.
- 26:52But it really put things in a perspective for me.
- 26:54And is that probably, like, the top advice that you folks, like, when they come to TSP, you're
- 26:59like, look, this traffic is one thing, but profit is the goal.
- 27:02Right?
- 27:03So is that really, like, I
- 27:04mean, it's definitely one of one of the main things.
- 27:06Just getting them to focus on.
- 27:08We have to be able to drive revenue.
- 27:09We have to be able to sustain profits in our business.
- 27:12And and since I, you know, speak directly to African American Entrepreneurs, there's some
- 27:16community based things that I really impress upon.
- 27:19Like, I want us to grow businesses that employ other people.
- 27:21Know, majority of our companies are are, solar panelships, which is cool except for the fact
- 27:26that our community is underemployed.
- 27:28Right?
- 27:28And and we're always unemployed in the reason that is, most people hire other people that
- 27:32look like them.
- 27:33So if all of us that a business owner's aren't hiring anybody, right, we can't kinda fix that.
- 27:38And one of the other things always impress upon our community is the fact that we are the ones
- 27:42we've been looking for.
- 27:43So we can't expect or wait for somebody to save us or to change economic condition.
- 27:47We need to do that ourselves.
- 27:49We need to, like I said, build these massive companies.
- 27:52We need to be able to bring other people in and and provide opportunities for them.
- 27:56And we need to work together in order to leverage the different things that we're
- 27:59growing individually.
- 28:01Love it.
- 28:01Love it.
- 28:01Alright.
- 28:02So everyone that comes on the small business chat podcast are asked the same 2 final
- 28:07questions.
- 28:08So what is your favorite business app and what is your favorite business book.
- 28:16Okay.
- 28:16So my favorite I don't know if this qualifies as a business app, but it would be LastPass.
- 28:22L a s c p a s s, which is a tool that actually keeps your passwords together.
- 28:29So a lot of business owners, right, once you get into it and you work with different people,
- 28:33you got somebody developing your website.
- 28:35You got somebody creating emails.
- 28:36You got somebody doing all these things.
- 28:38But half of these software tools don't give you multiple user accounts.
- 28:42So every time you're working with somebody, they're like, hey.
- 28:45I need your admin password.
- 28:48And and if it doesn't scare a death out of you, I'm letting you know that I should scare a
- 28:51death out of you.
- 28:52So last pass is a great way for entrepreneurs to be able to set up a password to give
- 28:56somebody access to the account without actually giving them the actual password.
- 29:00Alright?
- 29:01And I'm sorry.
- 29:01What was the second question?
- 29:03What is your favorite business book?
- 29:05Okay.
- 29:05Wow.
- 29:05I got a I got a lot of I'm a I'm a book head.
- 29:07So I would say succeeding against the odds, right, which is the story of Johnny Johnson and
- 29:13Johnson Publishing Ebony, Jet Magazine, fashion fit cosmetics.
- 29:17It's it's his biography, but when I read it, it just just put a fire inside me.
- 29:23He said if he accomplished everything that he accomplished, being born on the banks of the
- 29:27Mississippi, right, in a community that that was so poor, they didn't have a high school.
- 29:32Like, in order to stay out of trouble, and once he graduated 8th grade, it was gonna be a year
- 29:36gap before him and his mom moved to Chicago.
- 29:39So he took a break again.
- 29:41Like, just to stay out of trouble.
- 29:42Right?
- 29:43They didn't have a high school, but for him to come from a community like that, to be one of
- 29:47richest men in America.
- 29:48And a black man at at that time, you know, we talk about all the ways that that, you know,
- 29:52society and the community and all these things are doing is wrong now.
- 29:55But can you imagine doing it did 40 years ago.
- 29:59No, sir.
- 30:00No, sir.
- 30:01No, my parents are from Alabama and Mississippi.
- 30:03No, I cannot.
- 30:04And I'm really glad I can't because It is amazing what our folk endured without question.
- 30:11Listen, Lamar, thank you so much for coming on.
- 30:14And can you please remind my audience again how they can get more information about you and
- 30:19Ronnie and traffic sales and profit.
- 30:21Sure.
- 30:21Like I said, if you want information on our event, that's www.tsp livetickets.com.
- 30:28More information about the community itself.
- 30:30You can visit the website traffic sales and profit.com, or If you're on Facebook, the hub
- 30:35of the whole community is really in a Facebook group.
- 30:37You're searching traffic sales and profit with Lamar Tyler.
- 30:40You'll find us.
- 30:41It's totally free.
- 30:42We'll invite you in We'll give you all types of nuggets and great information to help you grow
- 30:45your business.
- 30:46You can drive more traffic, convert more sales, and grow the amount of profit, and your
- 30:50business
- 30:51Awesome sauce.
- 30:51Well, listen.
- 30:52I'm Melinda Emerson, the small biz lady, and I wanna leave you with this.
- 30:56You never lose in business, either you win or you learn.
- 30:59Alright.
- 30:59I'll talk to you next time.
- 31:01Bye bye.
- 31:03Thank you for listening to the small biz chat podcast with Melinda Emerson.
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