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When He Asks You to Go Away w Him · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  So when that guy you just started dating, he's wealthy,
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  he's successful, he's handsome, you're excited.
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  But you've started dating him and it's early days.
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  And then he asks you to go away with him on a trip and you're
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  not sure what to do because you haven't even slept together yet.
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  So hang on, let's talk about it. OK?
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  What do you do? You don't want to say no because
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  you don't want to piss him off. You don't want to disappoint
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  him. You don't want him to not be
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  interested in you. But the truth of the matter is,
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  if this guy is truly interested in you more than just, you know,
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  ball chicka, Bow Wow, let's get down.
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  Then when you assert your boundary, which is to say it in
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  the nicest way possible, but you do it like this, I would love to
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  go away with you. This sounds so exciting and fun,
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  and I'm sure you wouldn't mind getting me my own room, right?
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  Question mark. What's he going to say?
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  Then My guys say, sure, I'll get your own room.
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  Majority of guys, I'm sure if they have the money and and
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  they're sincerely interested in you for the long term, they have
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  no problem getting you your own room.
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  In fact, let's say you are sleeping with him.
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  It's still early days, but do you really want to share one
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  bathroom? Even if it's a suite, it's still
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  close proximity. So I think you should always ask
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  for your own room in the early days of dating, if you're going
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  to go away with a guy and just just tell him.
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  Ask him or tell him just say, hey, I'd prefer my own room.
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  Or you don't mind giving me getting me my own room, do you?
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  I just would feel more comfortable.
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  I like my own space somewhere where I can get ready and get
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  dressed. Whatever you want to say.
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  OK, but tell him how you feel. Because if he doesn't like you
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  after you tell him how you feel again, in the nicest, sweetest,
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  kindest way, then he wasn't that interested in you anyway.
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  That is the truth. OK, OK, hope it helps.