Latest / All About The Joy / What is Art, Culture, and Spirituality? Insights from Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl Show
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- 0:04Carmen Lezeth: Hi everyone, welcome to All About the Joy.
- 0:07Carmen Lezeth: Welcome Alma, mario I'm sorry I'm giggling and Rick, how are you guys doing tonight?
- 0:15Maurio Dawson: Good, good, good to see you.
- 0:17Carmen Lezeth: So I sent you guys the thing I wanted to talk about.
- 0:21Carmen Lezeth: I really want to talk about art and get your ideas on art, but we're doing the jump off because of the Kendrick Lamar halftime show at the Super Bowl.
- 0:31Carmen Lezeth: I know there's been a lot of analysis over it, so I don't know if we need to dive deep back into all that.
- 0:38Carmen Lezeth: But there's a lot of symbolism, a lot of haters out there, a lot of people who didn't get it.
- 0:43Carmen Lezeth: I wanted to get your initial feelings on it first, and maybe I'd start with Mario, then we'll go to Rick and then to Alma.
- 0:51Maurio Dawson: Well, they're not like us.
- 0:52Maurio Dawson: So that's my first comment.
- 0:56Carmen Lezeth: And thank you for joining the show.
- 0:58Carmen Lezeth: We appreciate you.
- 0:59Carmen Lezeth: Hope to see you next week.
- 1:02Maurio Dawson: Have a good week.
- 1:03Rick Costa: Go ahead.
- 1:06Maurio Dawson: No to me.
- 1:07Maurio Dawson: I got it, you know I enjoyed it.
- 1:11Maurio Dawson: I know the songs, so it was easy for me.
- 1:15Maurio Dawson: It was very cool.
- 1:17Maurio Dawson: It actually opened up a conversation for my mother who is, you know, an older woman who does not like rap.
- 1:24Maurio Dawson: So her and her friends they checked out.
- 1:27Maurio Dawson: She's like I don't want to hear that.
- 1:29Maurio Dawson: She's like all I hear was la, la la la la.
- 1:32Maurio Dawson: She's like I didn't understand anything.
- 1:34Maurio Dawson: I said, okay, mom, let me break it down to you.
- 1:36Maurio Dawson: So we had a very in-depth conversation about some of the stuff that was happening and she said you know what?
- 1:46Maurio Dawson: Know, mario, thank you for explaining it to me.
- 1:47Maurio Dawson: She said because it gave her the opportunity to go back and talk to her friends who were just so, just opposed to the rap of it all and not into the show.
- 1:55Maurio Dawson: But then once I explained it, she loved it, she went back and watched it, she appreciated it for what it was and she took the time to really listen and she got it and it opened up her eyes to a lot of subtext that was in the show and I thought it was an amazing show, without saying too much.
- 2:19Carmen Lezeth: Rick, your thoughts.
- 2:21Rick Costa: Yeah, I turned on Tubi when I figured it was going to be on and it was funny because all of a sudden I got a text from Melanie.
- 2:23Rick Costa: It's on now.
- 2:24Rick Costa: I figured it was going to be on and it was funny because all of a sudden I got a text from Melanie.
- 2:27Rick Costa: It's on now.
- 2:28Rick Costa: I didn't ask her to we love Melanie.
- 2:31Rick Costa: Shout out to Melanie yeah, I watched it and was I 100% focused.
- 2:37Rick Costa: I didn't go bye because you know I was like, like I wasn't, but I definitely didn't think it was boring at all.
- 2:44Rick Costa: It was entertaining.
- 2:44Rick Costa: You know it was entertaining.
- 2:45Rick Costa: All the different dancing and everything.
- 2:47Rick Costa: I don't really know the songs that much, little bits and pieces here, that kind of sounds familiar Far, far, far far.
- 2:54Rick Costa: I heard that before, that's from Luther.
- 3:00Rick Costa: Yeah, it was entertaining, but because I wasn't fully paying attention to it, I didn't realize we were supposed to get edumacated too, like oh, yeah, you know.
- 3:11Rick Costa: Yeah, um, samuel jackson.
- 3:12Rick Costa: I was like, okay, that's what made me think okay, this is not just a performance, because, wait, he's saying something.
- 3:16Rick Costa: So that's what made me think, okay, you're not just yay, nice job, no, they're saying something.
- 3:22Rick Costa: So yeah, it was, it was, but it was entertaining too, it was fun, it wasn't boring.
- 3:27Rick Costa: I've seen some that were like ooh, but this one was entertaining, it was good.
- 3:32Carmen Lezeth: Okay, go ahead, girl.
- 3:35Carmen Lezeth: I know it's bubbling inside Go ahead.
- 3:38Alma Dawson: I enjoyed every aspect of it.
- 3:40Alma Dawson: I enjoyed the art of it, the music, the symbolism, going and rewatching and catching the stuff that I didn't catch the first time.
- 3:49Alma Dawson: You know the first run around just seeing all of the sensationalist part of it, but then going back and actually catching all of the little nuances and it was awesome.
- 4:01Alma Dawson: It was really a very he's a genius, honestly he really is just in the ways that he layered it.
- 4:08Alma Dawson: If you want to just surface, you could just have the surface, but if you want to go deeper, there's a lot of layers to it.
- 4:15Alma Dawson: So it was awesome.
- 4:16Maurio Dawson: That's why he's a Pulitzer Prize winner.
- 4:19Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah.
- 4:20Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, he won a Pulitzer.
- 4:22Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, he won a.
- 4:23Maurio Dawson: Pulitzer yeah for sure.
- 4:25Carmen Lezeth: I think that's where I got upset with so many people.
- 4:28Carmen Lezeth: I lashed out a little bit.
- 4:30Carmen Lezeth: I think this is the first time I have seen on a public stage white people not being centered, and what I mean by that, because I know that's a really weird concept to understand.
- 4:45Carmen Lezeth: It's like they were not the focus at all and I think that's what disturbed people.
- 4:52Carmen Lezeth: I can't explain enough how many times in my life, in all of our lives, I'm sure we have walked into a room I can talk about, when I was dancing, performing.
- 5:04Carmen Lezeth: But let me go to even college, walking into a biology class of 300 people my freshman year, and there is not one other person of color, you know.
- 5:13Carmen Lezeth: And always being that person that walks into a place where you are the odd person out, and it was interesting how I'm just speaking for me.
- 5:27Carmen Lezeth: I mean I was kidding with a friend of mine the other day.
- 5:29Carmen Lezeth: I'm like I'm speaking for all black people, I'm just speaking for me.
- 5:39Carmen Lezeth: Oh Lord, to the circumstance I was in and have to find my way in it, appreciate it, or keep my mouth shut or try to understand it or research it.
- 5:52Carmen Lezeth: You do all these things as a person of color, trying to understand the circumstance you're in, but what happened here is people just started lashing out in a really negative, nasty way that it's not art, that it should never be on football halftime, all these horrible things, and it just incensed me and I started thinking about how do we determine what art is?
- 6:21Carmen Lezeth: I guess that's my big question for all of you.
- 6:23Carmen Lezeth: How do you determine, or do you ever determine, what art is?
- 6:24Carmen Lezeth: And I guess that's my big question for all of you how do you determine, or do you ever determine what art is and is not is maybe the first question.
- 6:31Maurio Dawson: I think art is thought provoking.
- 6:33Maurio Dawson: Anything that's going to create a thought or make you go deeper into yourself about what you're feeling.
- 6:40Maurio Dawson: If it evokes an emotion or a visceral response, it's art.
- 6:46Maurio Dawson: Or if you have questions, if you say what does that mean?
- 6:50Maurio Dawson: It's art because it provokes conversation and it gives you more insight into, because sometimes the artist is very upfront about what they're saying, but then other artists let you conceptualize it for what you want it to be.
- 7:05Maurio Dawson: Do you really mean that this?
- 7:07Carmen Lezeth: was art, do we?
- 7:08Carmen Lezeth: I don't know, rick, I'm not sure.
- 7:10Maurio Dawson: I do.
- 7:10Carmen Lezeth: I'm wondering Rick.
- 7:11Alma Dawson: Did you?
- 7:11Carmen Lezeth: mean that this was a piece of art.
- 7:13Maurio Dawson: Absolutely, absolutely, from the symbolism to the American flag with all Black people, based on the fact that he's saying that a lot of America was built on the slaves, on the backs of Black people, on the backs of slaves.
- 7:29Maurio Dawson: Now, a lot of people don't like that statement and they don't like that comment.
- 7:33Carmen Lezeth: Okay, but that's not a statement or a comment.
- 7:35Carmen Lezeth: That's a fact, it is a fact you may not like the truth.
- 7:40Maurio Dawson: Yeah, it's the truth.
- 7:41Maurio Dawson: But the thing is, everyone wants to be mad.
- 7:45Maurio Dawson: Stay mad, that's okay.
- 7:47Carmen Lezeth: Can I just get a?
- 7:47Carmen Lezeth: I just want to.
- 7:48Carmen Lezeth: And, rick, I'm sorry to put you on the spot, but I don't know and I don't want to just assume.
- 7:53Carmen Lezeth: Do you feel this was art?
- 7:56Rick Costa: Yeah, to me music is art, dancing is art.
- 8:00Carmen Lezeth: Even if it doesn't speak to you specifically.
- 8:04Rick Costa: Doesn't matter.
- 8:04Rick Costa: To me, art is if you can look at whatever it is and have multiple interpretations, that's probably art.
- 8:14Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I just didn't want to assume that he felt the same way.
- 8:16Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I'm sorry.
- 8:19Rick Costa: That's a lot of work.
- 8:20Rick Costa: That's a lot of work.
- 8:20Rick Costa: A lot of people, a lot of organization, choreography, yeah, to put that together, and even the camera work everything.
- 8:27Rick Costa: So that's all.
- 8:29Carmen Lezeth: I think, even like what Alma was saying was just.
- 8:32Carmen Lezeth: I don't want to put words in Alma's mouth or whatever, but I feel like there's this part of him you can watch just the surface part and people were saying like I don't understand.
- 8:42Carmen Lezeth: I don't understand.
- 8:43Carmen Lezeth: You know what?
- 8:43Carmen Lezeth: Google is free, and if you don't understand rap, it's because you're not used to the rhythm of that sound.
- 8:51Carmen Lezeth: You know, it's interesting how these same people can understand Eminem, or they can understand Macklemore, but for some reason they can't understand Kendrick Lamar.
- 9:01Carmen Lezeth: You know what I'm saying?
- 9:02Carmen Lezeth: I am throwing the race card in card in there.
- 9:04Carmen Lezeth: It's like why are you able to defend and fight about eminem but you can't understand kendrick lamar I?
- 9:11Carmen Lezeth: You need to think about that.
- 9:13Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean, and it's for me, art is that there there are pieces of art that I think suck horribly, but you know what?
- 9:21Carmen Lezeth: I keep that inside.
- 9:22Alma Dawson: I just keep my heart shut.
- 9:24Alma Dawson: But you know, it's like there's a sweatshirt that mario has and it says I'm not for everyone.
- 9:30Alma Dawson: Every piece of art is not for everyone in it, but even if it evokes anger or it evokes sadness, whatever it evokes, it still made you feel something, whether you like the way that it made you feel or not, whether you like whatever the artist portraying or what it's saying.
- 9:50Alma Dawson: That's the point.
- 9:51Alma Dawson: It's not for every artist, every genre is not for everyone, but art still exists.
- 10:00Alma Dawson: It's just like y'all were saying it's thought provoking, it's meant to evoke feelings, whether it's something visual, something auditory or something that you're reading, some five words on the page can evoke feelings.
- 10:14Carmen Lezeth: That's right I had a little back and forth with Chris.
- 10:17Carmen Lezeth: We all love Chris and I was mad because he started writing on Facebook Prince is the best Super Bowl Prince and I was like you're missing the point.
- 10:29Carmen Lezeth: This is not a comparison between Prince and Mr Lamar.
- 10:33Carmen Lezeth: And look, I just want to be very clear about something I am now a huge Kendrick Lamar fan.
- 10:41Carmen Lezeth: Welcome to the family.
- 10:43Carmen Lezeth: No, no, but this is what I'm saying.
- 10:44Carmen Lezeth: I liked him.
- 10:44Carmen Lezeth: I listened to family.
- 10:45Carmen Lezeth: No, no, but this is what I'm saying.
- 10:45Carmen Lezeth: I liked him, I listened to him, I knew a few songs.
- 10:48Carmen Lezeth: I did not know the whole Drake part until recently like during the Kamala Harris rallies is when I started understanding more about the Drake thing.
- 10:57Carmen Lezeth: Because there was that young white boy I hate to say it that way, but there was that young man who was white, who worked for the Kamala Harris campaign and they featured him.
- 11:09Carmen Lezeth: Do you remember that?
- 11:10Carmen Lezeth: Because he was singing every word of Not Like Us.
- 11:12Carmen Lezeth: I was like, who is this man?
- 11:15Carmen Lezeth: And he did all these interviews and I was like, what is this Drake stuff?
- 11:19Carmen Lezeth: And that's when I started getting more into.
- 11:21Carmen Lezeth: Oh, I didn't know, I had no idea.
- 11:24Carmen Lezeth: So I'm not trying to come across like you have to be some mega fan of Kendrick Lamar to understand.
- 11:28Carmen Lezeth: You need to be like if anything, I want white people and I'm going to say it this way I know I'm going to get a lot of backlash for this.
- 11:37Carmen Lezeth: White people need to start being a little bit more open-minded.
- 11:40Carmen Lezeth: That everything, like Alma said, is not for them.
- 11:42Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 11:44Carmen Lezeth: And, by the way, the halftime show I saw this comment everywhere.
- 11:47Carmen Lezeth: Oh my God, I don't know if you guys saw this comments everywhere.
- 11:50Carmen Lezeth: The halftime show is for everyone.
- 11:52Carmen Lezeth: It should be something we all understand, Really, Because 54% of the NFL is black.
- 11:59Carmen Lezeth: So I'm confused where you think this is for you.
- 12:03Carmen Lezeth: Well, that's a different conversation that's a whole different conversation, but a whole different conversation.
- 12:08Maurio Dawson: But yeah, I think, since rock nation has taken over, I think it versus pepsi or the other major concerts is rock nation is the company owned by jay-z, so he's now he's the actual official promoter for the NFL.
- 12:24Maurio Dawson: He's been the promoter.
- 12:25Carmen Lezeth: Oh, I had no idea.
- 12:27Maurio Dawson: Yeah, he's been the official promoter.
- 12:29Maurio Dawson: He and Jesse Collins have picked the halftime shows for the last what five years now?
- 12:33Maurio Dawson: So, although the last five halftime shows have been through Roc Nation, which is not only for his production, it's a production company, it's a record company, it's a fashion label.
- 12:44Maurio Dawson: Right, that's a record company, it's a fashion label.
- 12:46Carmen Lezeth: Right, that's so interesting.
- 12:48Rick Costa: One thing though oh go ahead, rick People saying can there be subtitles?
- 12:53Rick Costa: I was like why do you need subtitles?
- 12:56Rick Costa: Because I don't understand a word they're saying I'm like I understand everything he's saying.
- 12:59Rick Costa: What's the problem?
- 13:00Rick Costa: It's called closed caption.
- 13:02Carmen Lezeth: You could do closed caption, you could go again.
- 13:04Carmen Lezeth: I said this on tiktok.
- 13:06Carmen Lezeth: I remember going to my first ballet with rudolf nuriev, and it was don quixote.
- 13:14Carmen Lezeth: I did not understand a mother effing thing, not one thing, but I was forced to go.
- 13:20Carmen Lezeth: I'm glad I went because what it did, even though I left, and it didn't make me like, oh my God, I love ballet and Rudolph Derriff that's not what happened, but what did happen was it made me realize there's a bigger world out there than only the stuff I know.
- 13:35Carmen Lezeth: Yes, and it made me absorb the idea of art and going to museums and going to the orchestra.
- 13:45Alma Dawson: I'm having a tough time today speaking of art and going to museums and going to the orchestra orchestra.
- 13:49Alma Dawson: I'm having a tough time today speaking, but I want to say like, even though we're concentrating just on the halftime, the pre-show and all of that was really very well-rounded.
- 13:58Alma Dawson: Harry Connick Jr and Lady Gaga and just all of the different pre-shows that were on as well, were really well-rounded in my opinion.
- 14:09Alma Dawson: But when you say well-rounded, are we talking about?
- 14:11Alma Dawson: Like I said, Harry Connick Jr was one of the artists that was up there.
- 14:16Maurio Dawson: He's from there, yeah, but he's from there.
- 14:21Alma Dawson: But what I'm saying is it wasn't just only Black artists from Northern being featured.
- 14:27Carmen Lezeth: Here's what I'm going to push back, though.
- 14:28Carmen Lezeth: Why would it matter, right?
- 14:31Maurio Dawson: It shouldn't matter.
- 14:32Maurio Dawson: They gave them a bone too.
- 14:35Carmen Lezeth: Every artist is white in every art.
- 14:37Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 14:37Carmen Lezeth: I am so tired, as a woman of color, making it comfortable for white people to feel comfortable, for you know what I'm saying.
- 14:48Carmen Lezeth: Like, I know what you're saying.
- 14:49Carmen Lezeth: It was well-rounded, but it's never been well-rounded all the time for the rest of our lives.
- 14:53Carmen Lezeth: Oh, no, never, of course, not Never, and I don't want to appease it, I do want to switch it a little bit, but it's the same thing, because I was talking about Marvel movies, cause it's again same thing, because I was talking about Marvel movies, because it's again.
- 15:06Carmen Lezeth: It's this idea of what is art, and I just want to mention a couple things.
- 15:09Carmen Lezeth: So, back in 2019, and it was when the movie Captain Marvel came out Martin Scorsese and Francis Ford Coppola who, if people are listening, don't know who they are, I would be shocked but huge directors.
- 15:24Carmen Lezeth: Martin Scorsese is known for Goodfellas and the Irishman and what else I don't even know.
- 15:30Maurio Dawson: A lot of Leo DiCaprio movies.
- 15:32Carmen Lezeth: And Francis Ford Coppola, of course, the Godfather Acopolis Coppola.
- 15:39Maurio Dawson: No.
- 15:39Carmen Lezeth: Apocalypse Now, francis Ford Coppola?
- 15:41Carmen Lezeth: Apocalypse Now, is that how you say it?
- 15:44Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, yeah, I don't know I'm having issues.
- 15:47Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I swear to God there's water in here.
- 15:51Carmen Lezeth: So, back in 2019, martin Scorsese said about Marvel movies and this pissed me off, cause, again, it's what is the definition of art?
- 16:01Carmen Lezeth: He said I don't see them.
- 16:02Carmen Lezeth: I tried, you know, but that's not cinema.
- 16:05Carmen Lezeth: Honestly, the closest I can think of them as well, made as they are, with actors doing the best they can under the circumstances is theme.
- 16:15Carmen Lezeth: It isn't the cinema of human beings trying to convey emotional, psychological experiences to another human being.
- 16:23Carmen Lezeth: Fuck you, martin Scorsese.
- 16:25Carmen Lezeth: Let me quote Francis Ford Coppola.
- 16:27Carmen Lezeth: I lost so much respect for these two men.
- 16:29Carmen Lezeth: Now I'm going to quote Francis Ford Coppola.
- 16:31Carmen Lezeth: So Francis Ford Coppola said well, you know, because of the lack of risk in the production.
- 16:38Carmen Lezeth: Martin Scorsese says that the Marvel picture is not cinema.
- 16:42Carmen Lezeth: He's right, because we expect to learn something from cinema.
- 16:45Carmen Lezeth: We expect to gain some enlightenment, some knowledge, some inspirations.
- 16:49Carmen Lezeth: Arguably, I don't know that anyone gets anything out of seeing the same movie over and over again, which is Marvel movies, a thing that has no risk to it.
- 17:00Carmen Lezeth: I've said before, making a film without risk is like making a baby without sex.
- 17:06Carmen Lezeth: That was Francis Ford Coppola film.
- 17:09Carmen Lezeth: Director of the Godfather and Apocalypse.
- 17:14Alma Dawson: Now, like in other movies, but just throwing that out there to you guys shows their age, um, and I think that they're just maybe I don't want to say they're not visionaries, because that's not true, they are, they were in their time, but exactly, but I think that they're not able to see the value in the marble movies, not because there isn't any, but just because they're not able to.
- 17:42Alma Dawson: And I'm going to attribute it to their generation, to their age, where their generation is, like every film, everything had to have a message.
- 17:52Alma Dawson: Because of the times, because of the times that they were coming up in, that they were adulting.
- 17:57Carmen Lezeth: I think Marvel movies all have a message.
- 18:00Alma Dawson: I agree with you.
- 18:02Carmen Lezeth: They all have a message.
- 18:03Carmen Lezeth: I can see where you're going with this to try to give them a pass.
- 18:06Carmen Lezeth: But here's the thing that we may not remember, because you know I did research on this.
- 18:10Carmen Lezeth: That's why I'm so angry with them.
- 18:11Carmen Lezeth: When they came out with their movies both of them they got so much flack for the mafia-esque, the violence, the whatever.
- 18:19Carmen Lezeth: So again you would think they would be more sensitive, more understanding of what art is, even if they don't understand it or like it.
- 18:30Maurio Dawson: I think they're telling their stories from their point of view.
- 18:33Maurio Dawson: You have to remember Scorsese he's a New Yorker, like he's the mob, the mafia.
- 18:36Maurio Dawson: That's all a part of his time when he was, very prevalent.
- 18:38Maurio Dawson: That was his focus.
- 18:38Maurio Dawson: That's what he enjoyed studying.
- 18:39Maurio Dawson: That's what he enjoyed writing.
- 18:40Maurio Dawson: That's all a part of his time when he would.
- 18:43Maurio Dawson: That was very prevalent.
- 18:44Maurio Dawson: That was his focus.
- 18:45Maurio Dawson: That's what he enjoyed studying.
- 18:47Maurio Dawson: That's what he enjoyed writing.
- 18:48Maurio Dawson: That's all great, but you have a new era of artists, of young directors and storytellers who want to sell different stories.
- 18:56Maurio Dawson: I think comic books are still stories, marvel are there's still.
- 19:00Maurio Dawson: It's still storytelling.
- 19:01Maurio Dawson: Oh, I agree it's still storytelling.
- 19:02Maurio Dawson: Oh.
- 19:03Alma Dawson: I agree.
- 19:04Maurio Dawson: So the thing is, I respectfully have several seats and do you over there and take your time and produce what it is that you love and you will have.
- 19:17Maurio Dawson: Your audience will come to you, but everyone has a space out here for what they love and you can't tell me that even the storytelling of the battles, even with Black Panther, and the subtext that was going on through all of that film, that was artistry, not just visually, but historically.
- 19:41Maurio Dawson: It was thought-provoking.
- 19:43Maurio Dawson: You asked questions and it took you back to history.
- 19:47Maurio Dawson: It was all great.
- 19:48Maurio Dawson: So, yeah, everything has a story.
- 19:50Maurio Dawson: Marvel definitely has a place in art, not just visually storytelling.
- 19:51Maurio Dawson: I was all great.
- 19:51Maurio Dawson: So, yeah, everything has a story.
- 19:52Maurio Dawson: Marvel definitely has a place in art, not just visually storytelling.
- 19:55Maurio Dawson: I got an issue with Francis Ford Coppola.
- 19:58Rick Costa: Right, that was the second one.
- 19:59Rick Costa: He says you didn't learn nothing.
- 20:03Rick Costa: I'm like listen.
- 20:04Rick Costa: When I watched Deadpool and Wolverine, I didn't learn nothing either, but I laughed my butt off the whole break Entertained.
- 20:10Rick Costa: I enjoyed it.
- 20:11Rick Costa: I would watch it again.
- 20:12Rick Costa: I don't have to learn something.
- 20:15Rick Costa: That's your opinion.
- 20:16Rick Costa: Yeah, you can't tell me that I shouldn't like something because you don't like it.
- 20:21Rick Costa: That's ridiculous.
- 20:22Rick Costa: It's the whole thing I said a long time ago when somebody said god don't like this kind of music.
- 20:28Rick Costa: No, you don't like that kind of music.
- 20:30Rick Costa: You don't like this kind of music.
- 20:31Rick Costa: No, you don't like that kind of music.
- 20:32Maurio Dawson: You don't speak for God, right, right, that's it.
- 20:34Carmen Lezeth: I think it's interesting because I think Marvel movies I've said this a million times I have not felt the feeling I felt when I watched Endgame.
- 20:44Carmen Lezeth: I hadn't felt that in a theater, when you're with people, that camaraderie, that part know, like that part where robert downey jr's character um, just, I am iron man, like in it and you know because of the movies from before the first movie, when he ends it, you know because you have followed the trajectory of it yeah, and it breaks your heart because he's gonna to die and he dies.
- 21:12Maurio Dawson: Spoiler alert for those who haven't watched it.
- 21:13Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah, right.
- 21:16Rick Costa: I literally just saw somebody today that they did like a reaction video and this girl had never watched it and she was like he was telling the story, like she cried several times, but then, right before Iron man dies, she started yelling wait, he ain't going to die, is he?
- 21:34Carmen Lezeth: He dies, he dies.
- 21:36Carmen Lezeth: Sorry, spoiler alert.
- 21:38Carmen Lezeth: Look at this point.
- 21:38Carmen Lezeth: If you haven't seen it, I can't help you.
- 21:40Carmen Lezeth: It's an old movie now.
- 21:41Carmen Lezeth: But that's my point is like, again, it's this weird.
- 21:44Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if it's elitism, because I don't know if it's that, but I don't know how you don't learn from your own experience.
- 21:50Carmen Lezeth: And that's what angers me about these two men.
- 21:53Carmen Lezeth: They had such a hard time when they started their careers, doing the movies that they loved, that were so violent, so painful.
- 22:01Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean that people were like oh my god, no, like yeah, and people were dismissing it or whatever.
- 22:08Carmen Lezeth: And then, you know, it's kind of that thing too, like I, I got, I didn't get mad at Chris.
- 22:12Carmen Lezeth: I love Chris, he wants to be on the show again and you know Chris Gales, I'm talking about.
- 22:19Carmen Lezeth: I think he's an amazing person and I love him and everything, but it's the same thing.
- 22:22Carmen Lezeth: Everybody elevates Prince now because he's dead, but we forget that people didn't like Prince.
- 22:30Carmen Lezeth: People talked about Prince.
- 22:31Carmen Lezeth: They were like he's gay, he's androgynous, he's too female, he's so weird.
- 22:36Carmen Lezeth: People did not.
- 22:38Carmen Lezeth: I don't care how much you thought he was a genius.
- 22:40Carmen Lezeth: It's weird how we revise our thought process when someone passes away.
- 22:46Maurio Dawson: Well, some of us.
- 22:48Carmen Lezeth: You know what?
- 22:49Carmen Lezeth: I apologize.
- 22:50Carmen Lezeth: You're absolutely right.
- 22:51Carmen Lezeth: You're absolutely right Because I was in love with that man.
- 22:54Carmen Lezeth: I don't know what it was.
- 22:57Maurio Dawson: I've been rocking with him since 1978, 1979.
- 23:01Carmen Lezeth: He was the only man that was like what 5'4"?
- 23:03Carmen Lezeth: I think he was 5'4".
- 23:05Maurio Dawson: Yeah.
- 23:06Carmen Lezeth: And he attracted both men and women and we don't understand why we don't.
- 23:09Carmen Lezeth: I don't understand why I was so attracted to that beautiful man.
- 23:14Rick Costa: I remember my pastor saying cause again, he's a pastor, so he's done a lot of funerals he goes.
- 23:18Rick Costa: It never ceases to amaze me how, all of a sudden no matter how down dirty dog you are everybody when they die is a good person.
- 23:28Maurio Dawson: Yeah.
- 23:30Carmen Lezeth: Well, let me just say this, though, just to back that up though Prince was a genius from day one for his fan base that knew that even some of us who are clouded by our love, but his music I think the thing I remember about Prince's music so much was that I remember dancing in the clubs and I was underage.
- 23:50Carmen Lezeth: But I was in the clubs dancing on stages, and that music was funky, grinding, awesome, great.
- 23:56Carmen Lezeth: And I remember I was like, oh, I'm doing something so bad, not compared to the other people who are out there doing drugs.
- 24:04Carmen Lezeth: I was just dancing, but that's what I remember of my Prince life back in the day.
- 24:11Maurio Dawson: I remember dancing to erotic city when I didn't know what I was dancing to.
- 24:14Maurio Dawson: Come on now.
- 24:16Carmen Lezeth: Me neither.
- 24:16Carmen Lezeth: My mother was like do you know what he's singing?
- 24:19Carmen Lezeth: And my whole creamy thighs and everything my creamy thighs.
- 24:23Maurio Dawson: No, I was growing, I was singing a lot of the cream.
- 24:25Maurio Dawson: I knew what I was singing then.
- 24:26Maurio Dawson: Wow.
- 24:26Maurio Dawson: Yeah, I didn't know what I was saying no, I knew what I was saying when I was saying green this little Latina girl did not know what she was singing, she just knew it sounded good.
- 24:34Alma Dawson: That's it.
- 24:37Rick Costa: It's just like now, with the churches having the nerve to sing Like a Prayer from Madonna.
- 24:42Rick Costa: I'm like, do you?
- 24:44Maurio Dawson: even know what you're singing.
- 24:45Maurio Dawson: Come on now, really.
- 24:49Carmen Lezeth: I don't know how they're justifying that, but they've ran with it.
- 24:52Carmen Lezeth: Let's use the Googler please Googler I like that.
- 24:56Maurio Dawson: She's quoting my mother, because that's what my mother said.
- 24:58Carmen Lezeth: The Googler I'm going to use that I love that oh my.
- 25:02Maurio Dawson: God.
- 25:03Rick Costa: I'm going to use the Googler.
- 25:04Rick Costa: There's a funny video with an Italian lady.
- 25:07Rick Costa: They're trying to teach her to say hey, Google, and she's like okay, try it, try it, Google, google.
- 25:16Carmen Lezeth: The thing is, you have to say the hey first, right.
- 25:19Rick Costa: Right.
- 25:20Carmen Lezeth: Mm-hmm.
- 25:21Carmen Lezeth: So funny Can you think of an example where art well and this might be too much, I don't know.
- 25:27Carmen Lezeth: I don't know.
- 25:28Carmen Lezeth: This is a goofy question, but I was just wondering if you can think of a time when art turns into a political message or a purpose.
- 25:37Carmen Lezeth: Of course, I think the Kendrick Lamar thing is a great example of how social message, but I was wondering I couldn't think of other pieces of art that do that, but there must be so many of them.
- 25:50Carmen Lezeth: I mean, martin Luther King's speech became that right, that beautiful.
- 25:55Carmen Lezeth: I have a dream speech, but I couldn't remember other people.
- 25:59Maurio Dawson: You know, one that comes to the front.
- 26:02Carmen Lezeth: Rhythm Nation Janet Jack.
- 26:04Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead, I'm sorry.
- 26:07Maurio Dawson: Just on a political side.
- 26:08Maurio Dawson: I'm thinking about Obama's campaign, when they created the posters, the tricolor posters that said hope.
- 26:15Maurio Dawson: Those are beautiful pieces of art, right?
- 26:17Maurio Dawson: Yes and so, but it was also a political statement.
- 26:23Maurio Dawson: It was.
- 26:23Maurio Dawson: He was that, those three colors, that red, white and blue.
- 26:27Maurio Dawson: I still see it vividly in my head.
- 26:29Maurio Dawson: I'm looking at the visual posters.
- 26:31Maurio Dawson: You saw him everywhere.
- 26:32Maurio Dawson: He had hope.
- 26:33Maurio Dawson: That was the main one, right?
- 26:36Maurio Dawson: that was the main one that's one that definitely comes to my brain right away.
- 26:42Maurio Dawson: What's the other man, the Latino man?
- 26:46Maurio Dawson: He has a star, he's everywhere.
- 26:49Alma Dawson: Che Guevara that's great, of course.
- 26:52Carmen Lezeth: Oh, that's great, of course, you're right.
- 26:54Carmen Lezeth: What?
- 26:55Maurio Dawson: was I thinking.
- 26:56Carmen Lezeth: You know what I was going down the whole rabbit hole of trying to think of musicians, right.
- 27:01Alma Dawson: I have a music one, nina Simone, strange Fruit.
- 27:07Carmen Lezeth: Oh.
- 27:08Alma Dawson: Yeah, and if you don't know about Strange Fruit.
- 27:10Maurio Dawson: Use the Googler it's heavy and then.
- 27:14Alma Dawson: Maya Angelou a lot of her poetry Phila Rai.
- 27:17Alma Dawson: Phenomenal Woman, phila Rai is a good one, rick do you have any to share.
- 27:27Carmen Lezeth: I know from the religious point of view it would probably be more religious-y as opposed to politically the only thing I can think of is not be more religious-y as opposed to politically.
- 27:35Rick Costa: The only thing I can think of is not a nice one.
- 27:37Carmen Lezeth: I don't want to say it.
- 27:37Carmen Lezeth: What are you going to?
- 27:38Rick Costa: say the redhead woman comedian.
- 27:40Rick Costa: That didn't she do like a Kathy, oh Kathy.
- 27:44Carmen Lezeth: Griffin right.
- 27:45Carmen Lezeth: She cut off the head of something and said it was somebody.
- 27:48Carmen Lezeth: Well, that's where art goes wrong, I mean okay.
- 27:53Carmen Lezeth: So that's interesting because for some people they thought that was justified and made sense.
- 27:58Carmen Lezeth: That's a great point, a lot of us again just speaking for myself but I thought that was a little crass for me and inappropriate and so, even though I respect her viewpoint and I thought it was wrong for her to lose she lost her CNN, she lost a lot of work, everything.
- 28:16Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, she lost a lot of stuff, because she was doing like the CNN New Year's Eve thing.
- 28:20Carmen Lezeth: That's when I remember her most, with Anderson Cooper or something.
- 28:23Maurio Dawson: She did a reality show also.
- 28:25Maurio Dawson: Oh, she did.
- 28:26Maurio Dawson: Yeah, it was called the D-List.
- 28:28Maurio Dawson: Yeah, it was on ETV.
- 28:29Maurio Dawson: What's the D-List?
- 28:30Maurio Dawson: Yeah?
- 28:30Carmen Lezeth: it was on ETV.
- 28:31Carmen Lezeth: What's the D-List?
- 28:32Maurio Dawson: That was the name of her show.
- 28:33Maurio Dawson: She called herself a D-List artist.
- 28:37Rick Costa: Oh my God, that's hilarious yeah.
- 28:40Alma Dawson: It was funny.
- 28:41Alma Dawson: She had her mom on there too, it was funny.
- 28:45Maurio Dawson: Yeah, she lost all of that.
- 28:48Maurio Dawson: But then she also suffered cancer at the same time and lost her voice, and her voice is not the same.
- 28:57Carmen Lezeth: But she's okay.
- 28:57Carmen Lezeth: Now though, right, she's better now.
- 28:59Maurio Dawson: Yes, but that goes into.
- 29:02Maurio Dawson: Some comedians are artists.
- 29:05Carmen Lezeth: Oh, absolutely.
- 29:06Maurio Dawson: Think about it.
- 29:07Maurio Dawson: We're talking about Kathy Griffin being.
- 29:09Maurio Dawson: She's a comedian, but she's also Using art.
- 29:12Maurio Dawson: That went too far For some people.
- 29:14Maurio Dawson: But then if you look at AD Murphy, who is a genius, his, his Acting, his stand up Is just bar none.
- 29:25Maurio Dawson: You know, it still holds up.
- 29:27Maurio Dawson: Delirious, still holds up.
- 29:29Carmen Lezeth: Yes, it does.
- 29:31Maurio Dawson: If it's something that still stands the test of time and you can still go back to it and reference it, it's art I would say comedians are art.
- 29:39Carmen Lezeth: I have never thought of it that way, mario.
- 29:41Carmen Lezeth: But when you just said that comedians take a big risk because they go up there, talk about religion, politics, everything and they're trying to make you laugh, but but they're making that undercut statement, I never thought about it that way.
- 29:56Carmen Lezeth: But I would absolutely say that's art, I agree.
- 29:59Maurio Dawson: It's an art form, because everybody can't do it, everyone can't paint, everyone can't sing, so it's definitely an art form.
- 30:08Carmen Lezeth: Absolutely I feel bad about Kathy Griffin.
- 30:11Carmen Lezeth: I mean, I'll be honest with you, I never really liked her myself, like she's not my kind of flavor.
- 30:16Carmen Lezeth: And what I mean by that is I don't like kind of the slappy, sticky type of, you know, like the Jim Carrey.
- 30:22Carmen Lezeth: I respect Jim Carrey but I don't want to watch him.
- 30:24Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean.
- 30:25Carmen Lezeth: I don't want to watch the kind of that kind of thing, like Steve Martin, I respect him.
- 30:36Alma Dawson: I don't want to watch that kind of thing.
- 30:37Alma Dawson: Like steve martin, I respect him.
- 30:38Carmen Lezeth: I don't want to watch that kind of.
- 30:38Carmen Lezeth: Does that make sense, like whatever?
- 30:39Carmen Lezeth: Well, back in the day, yeah, like I like, like I was trying to think oh, there's this new guy.
- 30:41Carmen Lezeth: I forget his name, he's so good.
- 30:43Carmen Lezeth: He's a young black man, oh my god, I don't know what his name, but he's so good.
- 30:47Carmen Lezeth: But.
- 30:47Maurio Dawson: I like people.
- 30:47Maurio Dawson: Is he Aaron Pierre?
- 30:49Carmen Lezeth: What.
- 30:50Maurio Dawson: Is he Aaron Pierre?
- 30:52Carmen Lezeth: No, I don't think so.
- 30:54Maurio Dawson: What I'm just?
- 30:54Maurio Dawson: I'm just messing with you.
- 30:55Maurio Dawson: Not yet.
- 30:56Maurio Dawson: He's a Googler, he's a beautiful man we love him, he's an actor, the Googler.
- 31:00Carmen Lezeth: Google you know okay, I can find out who this guy is because I follow him now on YouTube.
- 31:05Carmen Lezeth: Chris Rock, to me, is hysterically funny I'm trying to think of, if you listen to old school Richard Pryor funny as all you know.
- 31:16Carmen Lezeth: George Carlin, I could take.
- 31:19Carmen Lezeth: I could you know and I know people get upset when I say this about George Carlin I some of the stuff he says I think he's wrong.
- 31:27Carmen Lezeth: I just think he's wrong, you know, and.
- 31:28Carmen Lezeth: But people, no matter what.
- 31:30Carmen Lezeth: Again I'm going to get backlash for so many things on this episode, but I'm not a big.
- 31:34Carmen Lezeth: Garland fan.
- 31:35Carmen Lezeth: I don't think he's right all the time.
- 31:37Alma Dawson: But it's thought provoking and that's the whole point.
- 31:39Alma Dawson: Sensationalist, it's thought provoking.
- 31:42Alma Dawson: And then you were.
- 31:45Alma Dawson: You touched on the religion thing To me, for the religion part of it.
- 31:48Alma Dawson: Some preachers are artists, the way that they're able to deliver the word, the way that they're able to make you think about God's word and be insightful.
- 31:57Alma Dawson: It can be anyone.
- 31:58Alma Dawson: You can go to any church.
- 32:01Alma Dawson: I really am very universal as to who I listen to.
- 32:05Alma Dawson: If they have a good word to preach and I'm learning from them and they're making me want to go to my Bible and read it, that's to me as someone who you know.
- 32:14Alma Dawson: I love that because I'm always seeking to learn?
- 32:18Carmen Lezeth: Is it the oratory skills?
- 32:18Alma Dawson: Is it the oratory skills.
- 32:20Maurio Dawson: Yes, the rise and the fall.
- 32:24Alma Dawson: Yes, and all of that also is the music, the worship part for me.
- 32:28Alma Dawson: The music, that is a very big component for me.
- 32:32Alma Dawson: I can go somewhere and they have great worship that takes me to a place where I feel like I'm closer to heaven.
- 32:39Alma Dawson: I'll say it that way, so even that, even in the lyrics of the music, and it doesn't have to be necessarily gospel, no, I appreciate you saying this because it's so funny, because I was like oh, but here's what I'll say.
- 32:57Carmen Lezeth: I know that whenever I listen to, jesus loves me, when whitney houston's singing it, or sissy houston or whatever I am like, or if I'm listening to anything from sister act two, I'm sorry I'm being very ghetto, but I'm like.
- 33:12Carmen Lezeth: But you, I'm sorry, I'm sorry For the people who are not religious, but I think you're right because you're listening to music that moves you and takes you somewhere.
- 33:25Carmen Lezeth: And it makes you and I have always said this takes you somewhere and it makes you and I have always said this I am jealous of people, especially the women, who go to church on Sunday and they all dressed up and they you know, and and the belief and the love and the commitment, and I think you're right.
- 33:44Alma Dawson: It there's an art to that.
- 33:53Alma Dawson: There is an art, yes, yeah, but I'm also of the belief that church isn't just the four walls, so you don't have to be in a church to practice the kindness and to practice the love that God tells us to practice with everyone.
- 34:01Alma Dawson: It's just been all in you how you wish to express yourself and your love and your faith with others.
- 34:09Alma Dawson: But, like I said, yeah, there's definitely an art form in that, in practicing.
- 34:14Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I'm going to throw this out at you and Rick Mario, you too, but because I think I already know what you're going to say.
- 34:22Carmen Lezeth: That's why I think I know I could be wrong.
- 34:25Carmen Lezeth: But so is it okay that there are atheists and agnostics in your world or in this world that you can appreciate?
- 34:35Carmen Lezeth: If they don't, they might see what you think about art, but may not consider that art or something they believe in.
- 34:47Alma Dawson: I'm always of the thought that I'm never going to force my beliefs or my thoughts on anyone else.
- 34:55Alma Dawson: I can only lead by example or show you by how I live my life and how I treat others or how I you know, because it's always it's examine me, examine my life, and if you can take something from that, then that's what you know.
- 35:12Alma Dawson: I feel like that's what my faith calls me to do.
- 35:15Alma Dawson: I have to lead a life that can be exemplary or where someone can find some light and you're okay, though you embrace agnostics and atheists.
- 35:25Carmen Lezeth: I love them too.
- 35:26Alma Dawson: God says love everyone.
- 35:27Alma Dawson: God says to love everyone and pray for everyone.
- 35:29Alma Dawson: Whether they believe in the prayer that I'm believing, it doesn't matter.
- 35:33Alma Dawson: I believe in the prayer that I'm saying for you, for your safety, for your health, for your deliverance.
- 35:39Alma Dawson: I believe.
- 35:40Carmen Lezeth: How do you deal with?
- 35:41Carmen Lezeth: And, rick, I want you to chime in too.
- 35:43Carmen Lezeth: Mario, you can chime in too.
- 35:44Carmen Lezeth: I'm sorry, but this is fascinating that we've gone.
- 35:46Carmen Lezeth: This I was not.
- 35:47Carmen Lezeth: This is people.
- 35:49Alma Dawson: This is not on the list and I'm going to tell you, even prayer can be an art form.
- 35:53Alma Dawson: Some people can pray and you feel nothing.
- 35:55Alma Dawson: It's a flat line.
- 35:56Alma Dawson: Other people can pray and they move you.
- 35:59Carmen Lezeth: Prayer changes things.
- 36:01Carmen Lezeth: Do you get offended if people are like I don't need you to pray for me because I don't believe in that?
- 36:07Alma Dawson: No, I feel like no, because I'm going to pray no matter what.
- 36:12Alma Dawson: I'm not the person who's going to say oh, let me.
- 36:15Alma Dawson: You know, some people come in and say I'm going to lay my hands on you and I'm not that type.
- 36:20Alma Dawson: If I see a need, I will.
- 36:23Alma Dawson: I will pray for them.
- 36:25Carmen Lezeth: They don't need to know that I'm praying because Rick on your show sorry, rick Costa has a show every day at 3 pm, monday through Friday.
- 36:38Carmen Lezeth: Sunday through Friday at 3 pm Pacific time.
- 36:42Carmen Lezeth: Pacific time See Okay Saturdays at 11 Eastern 1130 Eastern 1130, eastern 830.
- 36:51Carmen Lezeth: Your time.
- 36:51Carmen Lezeth: Go to rickcostacom to check it out.
- 36:53Carmen Lezeth: Okay, so I just gave you a little plug there and now I'm going to beat you up.
- 36:56Maurio Dawson: So here, no, we're not going to beat you up.
- 36:59Maurio Dawson: No, we're not going to beat you up.
- 37:01Carmen Lezeth: I love Rick.
- 37:02Carmen Lezeth: I'm just kidding.
- 37:03Carmen Lezeth: What are your thoughts on what we're talking about?
- 37:05Carmen Lezeth: What are your thoughts?
- 37:07Rick Costa: I was just thinking about this guy that has come up on my YouTube in a while.
- 37:10Rick Costa: I guess the algorithm he hidden it.
- 37:12Rick Costa: But this guy that's not a Christian.
- 37:14Rick Costa: I don't know if he's an atheist, but he's definitely not a Christian.
- 37:19Rick Costa: But he's a musician.
- 37:19Rick Costa: But he'll listen to Christian songs and say, wow, that was amazing, wow, the lyrics were good, wow, that was moving.
- 37:23Rick Costa: Sometimes I'd be like yo, that made me cry.
- 37:25Rick Costa: Like you know, it's doesn't matter can still be affected by music.
- 37:30Rick Costa: I've always said two plus two is four.
- 37:33Rick Costa: No matter what anybody who says it, it's still the truth.
- 37:37Carmen Lezeth: But if somebody says to you I don't want you to pray for me.
- 37:39Carmen Lezeth: I don't believe in that stuff.
- 37:43Carmen Lezeth: Does that bother you?
- 37:44Carmen Lezeth: How does that make you feel?
- 37:45Carmen Lezeth: Or what does that do to you as a Christian, If someone is an atheist and agnostic and you try to comfort them by saying I'm going to pray for you?
- 37:56Rick Costa: It doesn't matter what they say.
- 37:57Rick Costa: They can't make me do nothing, so I'm still going to do it anyway.
- 38:00Rick Costa: Probably won't do it even harder now, because you said that, right, I'm not going to say it to their faith.
- 38:05Rick Costa: I'm not going to say it to their faith, I'm going to respect them.
- 38:08Rick Costa: No, yeah.
- 38:09Carmen Lezeth: I think that's an interesting thing, because I think what I have I have definitely moved away from Catholicism and Christianity in a huge way.
- 38:18Carmen Lezeth: There's no question about it, and I can't say that I'm an atheist by any means.
- 38:23Carmen Lezeth: I do believe in something bigger, but I am I'm not sure I'm agnostic.
- 38:27Carmen Lezeth: I don't know where I'm at.
- 38:28Carmen Lezeth: I have my issues with God.
- 38:30Carmen Lezeth: I keep being like if there's a God, you need to.
- 38:32Carmen Lezeth: I need some proof now, because this is not working.
- 38:34Carmen Lezeth: Everything that I'm asking for is not working.
- 38:36Carmen Lezeth: And then my time, we now at like I'm in my fifties.
- 38:44Carmen Lezeth: We still having the same conversation my Lord, you need to move some mountains here, but I'm just kidding, but I'm not.
- 38:50Carmen Lezeth: In a way, I feel like I've really moved away from the thought process of a God.
- 38:54Carmen Lezeth: I do love gospel music.
- 38:56Carmen Lezeth: I do love music that moves me, and so it doesn't almost matter sometimes If you're talking about hurting and killing people.
- 39:05Carmen Lezeth: Sometimes I hear lyrics that throw me and I'm like, okay, I can't listen to that.
- 39:09Carmen Lezeth: I heard a song the other day by Tupac and I was like wait, oh no, it was Biggie, it was Biggie.
- 39:12Carmen Lezeth: And I was like wait, oh no, it was Biggie, it was Biggie.
- 39:14Carmen Lezeth: And I was like, oh he nasty, I'm not listening to this.
- 39:17Carmen Lezeth: I've been listening to that song forever.
- 39:19Carmen Lezeth: I'm like he is nasty.
- 39:20Carmen Lezeth: I was like I just got the word finally.
- 39:25Carmen Lezeth: You know what I mean, because Biggie was a little nasty.
- 39:28Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah, tupac wasn't that crass.
- 39:32Maurio Dawson: Yes, he was.
- 39:33Maurio Dawson: You have not gone into his catalog.
- 39:36Carmen Lezeth: I have gone into his catalog.
- 39:38Carmen Lezeth: Maybe I'm just more biased to Tupac.
- 39:41Maurio Dawson: Okay.
- 39:44Alma Dawson: So even if there was, I can quote Wait, why do you have to look away from me?
- 39:47Maurio Dawson: We're talking about music and art.
- 39:48Maurio Dawson: I can quote to you right off the top of my dome where Tupac's told Biggie I effed your wife and I did this.
- 39:58Carmen Lezeth: I know what song you're talking about.
- 40:00Carmen Lezeth: That don't bother me as much as I know I know.
- 40:04Carmen Lezeth: I know that don't bother me as much as the way in which Biggie is talking about women and what he's doing to them in the moment against their will.
- 40:16Carmen Lezeth: You see the difference, Because I feel like Tupac fighting and saying not lies, but saying like instigating whatever, and that is bad.
- 40:26Carmen Lezeth: That's bad, but that I expect in rap.
- 40:28Carmen Lezeth: But what I'm talking about is the misogyny that is so bad that you're like raping people on music.
- 40:38Carmen Lezeth: You know what?
- 40:38Carmen Lezeth: I'm saying that's where I'm like.
- 40:39Carmen Lezeth: Oh, I cannot, and I was like, and I'll tell you off what the song is, and I'm like, oh, I can't, I had to delete Biggie off my.
- 40:46Carmen Lezeth: I'm like I did not know, I did not, I had to delete Biggie.
- 40:49Carmen Lezeth: I don't know why Biggie was on my playlist anyways.
- 40:52Carmen Lezeth: I'm just going to say that right now.
- 40:53Carmen Lezeth: I don't know why.
- 40:54Maurio Dawson: You know why he was on your playlist.
- 40:55Carmen Lezeth: I know why.
- 40:56Carmen Lezeth: But okay, going back to Rick for a moment, I just feel like for me sometimes, especially when I watch your show because you're on every night and sometimes I'll try to catch you out in the afternoon here during my lunch break, and you pray for the same things over and over again and a part of me is you praying for the same thing and it's not getting nowhere.
- 41:19Carmen Lezeth: What does that do for you?
- 41:20Carmen Lezeth: Or what do you feel when I say something like that sounds or seems dismissive, which I'm still trying to be respectful, but that's my question.
- 41:29Carmen Lezeth: Like I, I get sad because I used to believe and I don't anymore.
- 41:40Rick Costa: Yeah, so there's a story that Jesus tells about a woman who goes to this judge's house and keeps on knocking on the door over and over and over and finally he just relents.
- 41:45Rick Costa: He's like she keeps doing the same thing over and over again until, like he just can't stand it anymore, he gets out of bed because he does it like in middle of the night and he finally gives her what she wants.
- 41:54Rick Costa: And I think Jesus is saying it's okay to keep on praying over and over and over again.
- 42:01Carmen Lezeth: So I have to wear him down.
- 42:03Carmen Lezeth: That's what it is.
- 42:04Carmen Lezeth: I have to keep asking every day.
- 42:08Rick Costa: I do that with people sometimes too.
- 42:12Maurio Dawson: You got to take your ticket and get in line just like everybody else.
- 42:17Alma Dawson: I'm just saying okay okay, can I jump in here?
- 42:20Alma Dawson: Can I jump in here?
- 42:23Rick Costa: But I also want to say that what I do during the whole thing it actually brings comfort to a lot of people and that's really the main reason why I do it, and like when I call out your name and I know your issue specifically and I say lovely that they feel comfort from that.
- 42:41Rick Costa: Now it's taking up a big chunk of time yes, it does but because you know, they makes them feel special.
- 42:49Carmen Lezeth: I mean now I could do it, because I've memorized this so much.
- 42:52Carmen Lezeth: I could come on the list with you, and I don't watch you daily, but I do watch you and I get it, because in Catholicism the priest is Jesus, basically, and so it's that same thing, right, it's that you all rolled your eyes.
- 43:09Carmen Lezeth: I'm just saying that's the problem with Catholicism.
- 43:12Carmen Lezeth: But that's the idea is you're talking to the priest asking for forgiveness.
- 43:15Carmen Lezeth: He is God, it's blah, blah, blah, and so what ends up happening is you do feel comforted when he calls your name out at the altar or at the you know.
- 43:24Carmen Lezeth: So I get it, but I love how you all rolled your eyes.
- 43:30Rick Costa: The Mass is literally the exact same thing every time, Except, you know, the reading is different, the homily is different, but everything else is literally.
- 43:39Rick Costa: Stand up, sit down same response, exactly the same.
- 43:44Carmen Lezeth: Oh yeah, I hadn't been to church in 15 years, and then I became a godmother for the fifth time or something, and I went into the church and it was like I left, they had not changed a damn thing and it was a different state.
- 43:58Carmen Lezeth: Okay, it was a different state.
- 44:00Carmen Lezeth: I was like what is?
- 44:02Maurio Dawson: happening.
- 44:02Maurio Dawson: You jumped right in and picked it right up, didn't you?
- 44:05Carmen Lezeth: it's kind of like an old song you hadn't heard in a long time.
- 44:07Carmen Lezeth: You just know the words like yeah, that's why, in a way, it is art.
- 44:11Carmen Lezeth: I don don't know, I don't know.
- 44:13Carmen Lezeth: It's weird, but you know, repeating stuff is good too.
- 44:17Carmen Lezeth: That's not a bad thing.
- 44:17Carmen Lezeth: You repeat on your show, rick.
- 44:19Carmen Lezeth: You do a lot of the same thing.
- 44:20Carmen Lezeth: It's to comfort people.
- 44:22Carmen Lezeth: People like to feel like they know and understand something.
- 44:25Carmen Lezeth: Alma's I can feel when Alma has something to say.
- 44:27Carmen Lezeth: Go ahead, girl.
- 44:35Alma Dawson: You sound a little bit of spirit, go ahead, I can feel the spirit coming through the screen.
- 44:37Alma Dawson: I, just when you know you said if you were, if he was offended by you, saying that you hear him praying for the same thing and nothing is happening.
- 44:46Alma Dawson: No, I'm going to say no, not offended, but the thing is that maybe even for myself, I pray for the same things, but they get manifested in my life in different ways.
- 44:59Alma Dawson: So I think it's all in your perspective, really, truly.
- 45:05Alma Dawson: I just really feel that it's in your perspective, but it's also, it's your.
- 45:09Alma Dawson: Like Rick said, he's praying and it comforts people.
- 45:12Alma Dawson: I feel like prayer definitely is, definitely is a conversation between you, between you and God.
- 45:19Alma Dawson: That's your own personal, your personal relationship, your personal language with him.
- 45:23Alma Dawson: Sometimes God doesn't change the thing that you want him to change, but is he changing your heart?
- 45:29Alma Dawson: And see, sometimes it's about maybe that thing you're asking for is not really the thing that you need to be praying for change for.
- 45:37Carmen Lezeth: And this is possible if I push back and say isn't that also just a way of explaining what's not happening, right?
- 45:45Alma Dawson: I mean, this is the problem with a lot of people, and then that's what I'm saying it's all about.
- 45:50Alma Dawson: It's all about, I feel like faith, prayer, religion.
- 45:53Alma Dawson: It's all also about making you think you know what I'm saying.
- 45:57Alma Dawson: They can't just all be like it's like art.
- 46:00Maurio Dawson: Yes.
- 46:01Carmen Lezeth: That's why you were saying it's like art.
- 46:02Alma Dawson: I got you.
- 46:03Alma Dawson: It's to make you think, it's to make you reflect, it's to make you look at it from different perspectives, when it's different for everyone.
- 46:10Alma Dawson: The prayer that I pray is specific, maybe for the things that are happening in my life, but it may speak into something different, into someone else's life, which I may not know what it's about.
- 46:21Alma Dawson: But my prayer, even as generic as it may sound or may be perceived as generic, is actually speaking into someone's life in a different way that I may not know.
- 46:33Carmen Lezeth: Let me be clear.
- 46:34Carmen Lezeth: I'm okay with everyone praying for me.
- 46:36Carmen Lezeth: Pray for me as much as you want.
- 46:38Carmen Lezeth: I will take all prayers.
- 46:41Carmen Lezeth: I am not against it at all.
- 46:42Carmen Lezeth: I am not one of those people.
- 46:43Carmen Lezeth: I don't care what religion you're in or what you believe.
- 46:47Carmen Lezeth: If you're praying for me, I'm all for it.
- 46:49Alma Dawson: Go for it, I don't care If I have a question.
- 46:50Alma Dawson: I want to throw a question out there.
- 46:52Alma Dawson: Yes, of course, something when you were little that you didn't think you were going to like, but you went and you did it and you loved it.
- 47:00Alma Dawson: Are you asking me a question?
- 47:02Alma Dawson: All of us, everyone.
- 47:03Alma Dawson: Okay, say it again.
- 47:05Alma Dawson: So something that you did as a child that was art related, that you love and you still, it's still something that you do now as an adult.
- 47:19Carmen Lezeth: I thought I would hate going to see Bizette's Carmen is the opera.
- 47:24Carmen Lezeth: And now I mean I love opera and I now say it's not true.
- 47:32Carmen Lezeth: But I always say that I was named after the opera Carmen, like that's-.
- 47:38Alma Dawson: Yeah, you stole mine.
- 47:39Alma Dawson: You stole mine.
- 47:40Alma Dawson: Oh really, it's opera for me.
- 47:42Alma Dawson: I went to see an elementary school.
- 47:45Alma Dawson: It was a school field trip.
- 47:47Alma Dawson: La Opera has this great program where elementary school teachers go to a class and then they give their kids a free trip to the opera and they get to go see the dress rehearsal.
- 47:55Alma Dawson: So my first opera was with Placido Domingo.
- 48:00Alma Dawson: And I completely fell in love and I've loved it ever since and I introduced Marissa to it and she loves it.
- 48:09Alma Dawson: She did a whole thing, so yeah so.
- 48:12Alma Dawson: So that was mine.
- 48:13Alma Dawson: I didn't steal yours.
- 48:14Carmen Lezeth: We just share the same.
- 48:15Carmen Lezeth: That's kind of cool, oh my god.
- 48:18Carmen Lezeth: Oh, that's kind of so cool.
- 48:21Carmen Lezeth: I love that we'll have to go on a date.
- 48:23Carmen Lezeth: Yes, just me and you, though let's leave it there no, we'll leave it there.
- 48:27Maurio Dawson: Leave me, I'm fine with it that's a nap opportunity for him.
- 48:31Alma Dawson: He naps, oh really okay let's do it.
- 48:35Carmen Lezeth: I would love to do it.
- 48:36Carmen Lezeth: Okay, rick, I'm sorry.
- 48:36Carmen Lezeth: What about you?
- 48:38Rick Costa: Naps are life.
- 48:41Carmen Lezeth: We thought we were going to talk about being in the orchestra.
- 48:43Carmen Lezeth: I thought you were going to say something about the opera, but go ahead.
- 48:50Rick Costa: It's like art related.
- 48:52Maurio Dawson: I don't know Anything that you can think it's okay, she should throw one out there.
- 48:57Carmen Lezeth: That took a little time to think about.
- 48:58Carmen Lezeth: Okay, anything related, whatever works for you.
- 49:02Rick Costa: I remember when, as a kid I loved to go to the beach all the time.
- 49:06Rick Costa: So not art related, but and I never really did learn how to swim.
- 49:10Rick Costa: I could doggy paddle, but at first I I never thought I would even like that, but then I started.
- 49:14Rick Costa: Oh no, this is fun.
- 49:15Rick Costa: Go in the water, splash each other, try swimming, try not to die, try not to die Do you still?
- 49:22Carmen Lezeth: not know how to swim now.
- 49:24Rick Costa: Doggy paddle.
- 49:25Rick Costa: That's it, and I can float.
- 49:26Rick Costa: I'm like okay.
- 49:27Rick Costa: Okay.
- 49:31Carmen Lezeth: Here's another question Totally off tangent, would okay.
- 49:35Rick Costa: Here's another question totally off tangent would you go on a cruise on a boat I have on my honeymoon?
- 49:38Carmen Lezeth: oh, really see, I would think it'd be hard to go on a boat or a cruise if you didn't know how to swim.
- 49:43Carmen Lezeth: I don't know why that would.
- 49:44Carmen Lezeth: I did it yeah you don't know how to swim either I do now I can survive now, yeah, but back, no.
- 49:52Maurio Dawson: not on my first cruise.
- 49:54Maurio Dawson: It was horrible, oh that's so funny, oh, but to answer Elma's question, my childhood experience was that I got to be in my first play at five years old oh, actor, and so I've been in love with theater ever since.
- 50:12Maurio Dawson: So that's where my affection for music, musicals, plays, art, any type of concert, that's where that comes from, that five-year-old performance and it was a fundraiser and performance for Kaiser Permanente, believe it or not, and it was at the Wilshire E Bell Theater here in LA.
- 50:31Maurio Dawson: I love it and I had my debut at five years old.
- 50:35Carmen Lezeth: I love it yeah.
- 50:38Maurio Dawson: Isn't that the?
- 50:38Carmen Lezeth: coolest thing, don't you love those little things that happen when you're a kid?
- 50:42Carmen Lezeth: And then they, I don't know, they change your life, but you remember them forever.
- 50:45Carmen Lezeth: There are certain things I cannot remember when I was five, six, seven, eight years old, but there were those little moments like what you just talked about.
- 50:51Carmen Lezeth: Oh, now I remember clear as day.
- 50:54Maurio Dawson: It's a thread.
- 50:55Maurio Dawson: It's a long thread that runs through our life, through our lifespan Did you guys go see Janet Jackson?
- 51:01Carmen Lezeth: Is that where you were in Las Vegas?
- 51:03Maurio Dawson: We did.
- 51:04Carmen Lezeth: I knew you were there.
- 51:06Maurio Dawson: I knew you did At Resort World.
- 51:09Carmen Lezeth: Oh, I knew that's where you were.
- 51:11Carmen Lezeth: Okay, that's art right there.
- 51:13Alma Dawson: Oh yeah, she still got it.
- 51:15Alma Dawson: She still got it.
- 51:17Maurio Dawson: She was dropping it low, bringing it up slow, popping it, dropping it.
- 51:20Maurio Dawson: Flames were flying, they were.
- 51:22Maurio Dawson: It was nice, it was incredible.
- 51:24Maurio Dawson: She changed costumes.
- 51:25Maurio Dawson: What?
- 51:26Maurio Dawson: Six times?
- 51:27Maurio Dawson: Five or six times, six times.
- 51:29Alma Dawson: Yes, oh yeah, it was great she had risers.
- 51:32Maurio Dawson: She was on a little pole that rolls up in the middle of the stage, laser lights all around.
- 51:37Maurio Dawson: She gave a show, yeah it was good.
- 51:40Maurio Dawson: She gave a show Two hours and six minutes.
- 51:43Maurio Dawson: Really, yeah, just her, nobody else.
- 51:47Maurio Dawson: It's a great show.
- 51:49Carmen Lezeth: It's interesting, though right, how art can move us.
- 51:52Carmen Lezeth: I wasn't even there, but I knew.
- 51:55Carmen Lezeth: I knew when you were like, oh, we're going to be in Las Vegas.
- 51:57Carmen Lezeth: I'm like he's going to go see Janet Jackson.
- 51:58Maurio Dawson: Yep, so did I.
- 52:00Carmen Lezeth: I knew where you guys were going.
- 52:01Carmen Lezeth: I wasn't even there and I'm not going to see her, but it's like I know that what she did was art, not even a question.
- 52:16Rick Costa: She even the question she's in a few clips.
- 52:17Rick Costa: She'll be like oh my god, yeah, yeah, I wonder if there's a part of, there's a little part of her that says michael's not here, so let me try to.
- 52:22Alma Dawson: She honors him on her show honors him.
- 52:24Maurio Dawson: Yeah, she's saying scream, does she?
- 52:27Carmen Lezeth: scream with him still, yeah, in the background yeah I mean, remember janet?
- 52:32Carmen Lezeth: Janet Jackson was an artist in her own right, regardless of Michael.
- 52:37Carmen Lezeth: I'm not trying to be rude, but I loved Nasty and Control.
- 52:43Carmen Lezeth: Control was first right.
- 52:44Carmen Lezeth: Control was her first album.
- 52:46Maurio Dawson: No, it's Young Love.
- 52:48Carmen Lezeth: What was it?
- 52:49Maurio Dawson: Her first album was Young Love.
- 52:50Carmen Lezeth: Okay, what was Pleasure Principle?
- 52:51Carmen Lezeth: I knew that whole song, that's the Control Love.
- 52:52Carmen Lezeth: Okay, what was Pleasure?
- 52:53Maurio Dawson: Principle.
- 52:53Maurio Dawson: I knew that whole song, that's the Control album.
- 52:54Carmen Lezeth: Okay, I knew that I could do that dance right now for you all.
- 52:56Carmen Lezeth: I could do it right now.
- 52:57Carmen Lezeth: Get on that chair, I could do the champion and I could do the backflip back in the day you just better do it.
- 53:03Carmen Lezeth: And she didn't really.
- 53:05Carmen Lezeth: Let me just tell you she did not do the backflip.
- 53:11Carmen Lezeth: I did the backflip because I was all in that, but she was an artist in her own right, and so the only reason I push back on that is because I'm sure she misses her brother.
- 53:20Carmen Lezeth: But those are two different geniuses right there.
- 53:23Maurio Dawson: Yeah.
- 53:24Carmen Lezeth: In the same family Crazy.
- 53:25Maurio Dawson: I saw a clip, though, where Michael said that Janet stole his military stuff from Rhythm Nation.
- 53:33Carmen Lezeth: Was he being funny?
- 53:35Maurio Dawson: No, he was upset.
- 53:36Maurio Dawson: He was like no, he was already doing this, his story thing, his story album.
- 53:41Maurio Dawson: He needed to stop.
- 53:41Maurio Dawson: No, he said it started with Captain EO when he was doing the we Are the Change of the World.
- 53:47Maurio Dawson: He was doing the militant moves and she saw Captain EO and she's like Michael, can I kind of borrow that?
- 53:53Maurio Dawson: And she's like Michael, can I borrow that?
- 53:54Maurio Dawson: And he's like whatever, because he's like I was about to go into that whole military type dance.
- 53:58Maurio Dawson: He said Janice stole that Shay.
- 54:03Carmen Lezeth: You know what I'm just saying?
- 54:05Carmen Lezeth: I don't know if I believe him and he's not here.
- 54:08Carmen Lezeth: May he rest in peace.
- 54:09Carmen Lezeth: But no, he needs to leave her alone.
- 54:12Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, but you know that's still in love, but no, he needs to leave her alone yeah yeah, better anyways
- 54:19Rick Costa: because that was a rhythm nation is a great album.
- 54:20Carmen Lezeth: Yeah, another layered thing that people did 18, 14.
- 54:23Carmen Lezeth: People did not understand all of these things.
- 54:26Carmen Lezeth: It was so, yeah, people angry about that album too.
- 54:29Carmen Lezeth: Remember when that came out yeah I don't know why?
- 54:34Rick Costa: Wasn't she an actress too on Good Times as a little girl?
- 54:36Rick Costa: Oh yeah, that was Penny.
- 54:39Carmen Lezeth: That was Penny.
- 54:40Carmen Lezeth: That was a sad storyline, though I hate it.
- 54:42Alma Dawson: Yeah, it was.
- 54:42Alma Dawson: I was sure you were going to say the comic books were your art thing.
- 54:49Carmen Lezeth: What comic books?
- 54:50Carmen Lezeth: Well, that's true.
- 54:54Alma Dawson: You read comic books.
- 54:56Rick Costa: I didn't read comic books.
- 55:00Carmen Lezeth: I don't know you're looking back that's not comic books, that's Marvel shit, but it comes from comic books.
- 55:07Carmen Lezeth: But I didn't know some people.
- 55:09Carmen Lezeth: I'm just saying some people love Marvel but are not comic book fans.
- 55:14Carmen Lezeth: I've never heard Rick talk about reading comic books.
- 55:17Carmen Lezeth: I didn't know.
- 55:18Rick Costa: I didn't know.
- 55:19Rick Costa: It was until I was like 14, I think it was whenever that Fox X-Men cartoon came out.
- 55:26Carmen Lezeth: Then I was like dope.
- 55:27Carmen Lezeth: Do you have some that we can sell and invest in?
- 55:31Carmen Lezeth: The podcast live stream.
- 55:33Rick Costa: You know what a long box is.
- 55:34Rick Costa: A long box is a specific box made for comics.
- 55:37Rick Costa: I don't even know how many long boxes I have full of comics Wow, we do.
- 55:44Alma Dawson: That's an art collection.
- 55:46Rick Costa: I told my son.
- 55:47Rick Costa: I said, if I die, you better sell these things, make some money.
- 55:49Rick Costa: Why don't you?
- 55:50Carmen Lezeth: sell them now and make some money.
- 55:53Maurio Dawson: Yeah, the older they are, the make some money.
- 55:55Maurio Dawson: Why don't you tell them now?
- 55:55Maurio Dawson: And make some money.
- 55:56Maurio Dawson: Yeah, the older they are, the more they enjoy.
- 55:57Carmen Lezeth: I'm just saying leave that stupid job.
- 56:01Carmen Lezeth: I mean not the stupid job.
- 56:03Maurio Dawson: It's a great job.
- 56:03Maurio Dawson: It's not stupid, it's income.
- 56:06Maurio Dawson: We love our jobs.
- 56:09Carmen Lezeth: We do, and with that at the hour mark before we go down, a horrible you know what.
- 56:16Carmen Lezeth: I had a worse day today at work and yesterday was a horrible day and then it was raining all day and I hate how people drive in LA.
- 56:24Carmen Lezeth: So yeah, I'm just saying if you sold the comic books and they were worth millions of dollars, I mean, are comic books worth?
- 56:33Carmen Lezeth: They're worth a lot of money it can be, yeah you like cynthia, you don't want to spend your money.
- 56:41Rick Costa: You got money, you got investments, but you don't want to spend it well, like there's also this digital comic thing called vvve and it's all digital comics.
- 56:52Rick Costa: And I took a chance one day and there was like a really old, old, old Hulk one.
- 56:57Rick Costa: I was like let me take a chance.
- 56:59Rick Costa: It was like 20 bucks.
- 57:00Rick Costa: I was like, Ooh, that's a lot, Cause usually most of them are six 99.
- 57:03Rick Costa: I was like maybe it's worth something that I did, a little bit of research and you.
- 57:09Rick Costa: There's five possibilities.
- 57:10Rick Costa: You can get Just normal blah, blah, blah until super rare.
- 57:14Rick Costa: I got the super rare and that thing cost $1,000.
- 57:19Carmen Lezeth: Wait, you bought it for $20 and now it's $1,000?
- 57:22Carmen Lezeth: .
- 57:22Maurio Dawson: It's worth $1,000.
- 57:24Carmen Lezeth: It's a digital thing.
- 57:25Carmen Lezeth: It's digital and you don't want to sell that.
- 57:29Carmen Lezeth: You never know it could go more later.
- 57:32Carmen Lezeth: I'm just saying you know what?
- 57:36Carmen Lezeth: I'm not that kind of investor.
- 57:37Carmen Lezeth: I'm not that kind of investor.
- 57:39Carmen Lezeth: I don't invest like that.
- 57:40Carmen Lezeth: I'm not going to be hurting in pain while I have investments that could make me feel happy.
- 57:46Carmen Lezeth: I'm not that person.
- 57:47Carmen Lezeth: But that's why I guess I work for other people, because I don't wait the long gate.
- 57:51Carmen Lezeth: All right With that, I am going to end the show.
- 57:53Carmen Lezeth: Thank, guess I work for other people because I don't wait the long gate.
- 57:58Carmen Lezeth: But all right with that, I am going to end the show.
- 57:59Carmen Lezeth: Thank you so much for stopping by.
- 58:00Carmen Lezeth: You guys are awesome.
- 58:00Carmen Lezeth: We have so much fun in these private lounges.
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