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407 Testimonio matrimonial de José y Yasmith Ordóñez. · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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  From this 19th of August to the 23rd we will have the opportunity to do
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  our fourth workshop for marriages. Five days, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday,
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  Thursday, Friday, from seven o' clock at night, time of Colombia
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  through Zoom every day, three hours, two hours taking a class, and
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  the last hour in counseling rooms, where I will have the opportunity to answer
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  any questions you have about any counseling and we will have in the fourth workshop
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  for marriages all the topics. We' ll talk about sexuality, we'
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  ll talk about economics, we' ll talk about extended family, yes,
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  mother- in- law, father- in- law, brother- in
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  - law, sister- in- law, and there we' ll especially
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  touch the importance of independence. We' ll be talking about how bad parenting
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  affects a good marriage. Anyway, we' re gonna have all the themes.
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  If you want more information, go right now to José Ordonez Cristiano,
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  where it says fourth workshop for marriages. You also click on the more information
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  button. You will find all the classes, the themes, the information on
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  how you can separate it, how to take advantage of the discount. Until
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  August 1st will be 15 hours in total where you and I will have the
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  opportunity to work to improve marriage. And if you know a couple who are
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  going through times of complication, don' t hesitate to share this information with
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  them. Fourth workshop of marriages with José Ordonez. We will transmit it in
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  a virtual way through Zoom, that is, no matter where on the planet
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  you are there. You can take this fourth version of a workshop that has
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  helped hundreds of marriages around the world. Now yes, podcast number four hundred
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  and seven. Precisely speaking of infidelity, in this small testimony of the last
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  podcast, Jasmid and I are telling you some aside from what happened in the
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  painful fractionation of our marriage when we were separated. And today, in this
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  podcast, Jazmith is going to tell you what he did just broke up with
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  me, what I saw the experience I lived after that painful separation settle in
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  very well and enjoy today' s podcast. Welcome, when the friends came
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  and when the family came, they always told me to come. You have
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  to do the same. You' re young get yourself, another get yourself,
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  another get yourself, but I didn' t mean to. And you
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  know, girls, when you' re going through a sad moment, for
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  a vulnerable moment in life, you' re very susceptible to failure, very
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  susceptible to error. If you' re going through a conflict, if you
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  ' re going through pain, if you' re suffering be careful be alert,
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  stop deciding a priori, because people, and many women, what they
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  do is find shelter in a new relationship, as if a nail pulls out
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  another nail. And it' s even worse, because bad decisions are difficult,
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  hard and lasting. Then I had to stop on the road. Do
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  not let him follow me there and God worked in his heart, two things
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  that happened to me at that time. I had known the Gospel, my
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  grandmother Bernarda had taken me after the separation of my father and my mother at
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  the age of sixteen, had taken me to a church for the first time.
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  I met Jesus at the age of sixteen, at a very difficult time,
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  I learned Bible with the Baptists and there was a foundation there, deep
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  in my heart. No infidel could find happiness. You can tell me that
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  being unfaithful is one of the best things. Or that he feels rich because
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  it' s just an illusion, a passage that anyone who is committing infidelity
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  says, that he feels when he puts his head on the pillow and his
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  own conscience accuses him of what he is doing. You don' t live
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  in peace, you don' t eat in peace all the time. Your
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  conscience. In the case of Christians, the holy spirit and I could not.
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  I don' t know why. In the midst of all my experience
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  in the show, I could see people who were apparently happy, but I
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  couldn' t find that happiness. The second thing that happened is that every
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  time I visited Jasmith, well I visited my children, I came to the
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  house and found her more beautiful, cleaner, more well- dressed. She
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  knew Jasmid and her eyes shone brighter, she dressed in color, dyed her
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  hair, spoke with property, stood idlely, showed that I had not been
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  able to take her dignity and that she was still willing to live. He
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  enrolled in college and began the first of his professional careers. He set up
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  a store to sell baby clothes. When I visited her, I found her
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  blooming. I don' t know what was going on deep inside her,
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  but she showed me a face like saying you can' t take my dignity.
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  As a child of God, I have the right to be happy without
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  you, but I felt that this one also disgusted me with the image that
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  his life continued with all that joy to live. I ate the fact in
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  my heart and in my mind that there would be no other woman for Yasmith,
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  for me that Jasmith, recently, a journalist in the United States told
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  me her milky story is beautiful. But if you had the world at your
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  feet, you would have been able to rebuild your life afterwards. Why did
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  you run and ask Jasmit so many times for forgiveness and I answered him because
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  Jasmith is only one listener, there is only one for you, one that
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  is next to you. It' s unique. God made it to your
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  measure. God gave her that wonderful woman, because only she has the ability
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  to love him. As she truly loves a woman. Everything else is just
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  vanity and, as the proverb says, only a man is a bird that
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  chases a woman. It compares it to a bird and says in the end
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  the bird will be caught in the net and SAETA will go through its life.
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  I knew deep down that I could not afford to lose it, despite
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  burning the crest of success. And in the next podcast we' ll be
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  talking about what you should do when you want to get out of infidelity.
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  And we will testify to you how Jesus healed Yasmith' s heart and mine
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  and gave us two more sons. And here we are twenty- eight years
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  after that reconciliation, celebrating our thirty- five years of marriage. But I
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  ' ll tell you a lot more and I' ll be able to contribute
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  to your marriage this August nineteen, when we' ll start our fourth marriage
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  workshop from the 19th to the 23rd. Through suom will be fifteen hours in
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  total. Every day we will work three, two in classes and one in
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  virtual counseling rooms. If you want more reports, go right now to Jose
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  Ordonez Cristiano. Eat for now I wish you a nice day and I hope
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  you never have to go through the painful experience of having to heal an infidelity
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  and if you need to, remember that the arms of Jesus are waiting for
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  you that God bless you