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The Purpose Is You – Find Your Own Path to Fulfillment and Success · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: We don't take a second to realize the purpose is
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  Speaker 1: always there. The purpose never leaves us because the very
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  Speaker 1: purpose is you.
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  Speaker 2: You are always the purpose.
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  Speaker 1: There may be another purpose like being a seal or
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  Speaker 1: going to college or whatever, but the main purpose in
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  Speaker 1: life is you.
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  Speaker 3: Your laziness is something that has to do with you.
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  Speaker 3: You're not connected to something deep enough. You don't feel
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  Speaker 3: the necessity. You don't feel the devil at your heels.
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  Speaker 3: You don't feel the fact that you're very well die tomorrow.
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  Speaker 3: It will impel you to get something done. There's no
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  Speaker 3: necessity behind it. And the human animal that we will
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  Speaker 3: create is when we feel pressure, we feel the necessity
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  Speaker 3: to get things done.
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  Speaker 2: We can move mountains. And you're lazy. You know exactly
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  Speaker 2: what to do, exactly what to do.
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  Speaker 1: Because even me, in my state of I can't read
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  Speaker 1: or write, I knew exactly what to do. It just
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  Speaker 1: sucks doing it, sucks to do it.
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  Speaker 4: Most people, the bottom eighty percent, are lazy and they're
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  Speaker 4: looking for an easy way. They're looking for a shortcut
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  Speaker 4: to be successful, and there are not there aren't any.
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  Speaker 4: But if you do something repeatedly over and over, you
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  Speaker 4: develop a habit. So most people are in the habit
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  Speaker 4: of looking for easy ways to get the things they want.
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  Speaker 5: To do anything successfully in life, you've got to want
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  Speaker 5: it as bad as you want to breathe. And if
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  Speaker 5: you want it that bad, if you're willing to give
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  Speaker 5: it that much, in life and dreams do come true,
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  Speaker 5: anything you want can happen and become a reality. I
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  Speaker 5: believe that sincerely, and I'll die on that thought.
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  Speaker 2: If you think.
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  Speaker 1: The price of winning is too high, wait till you
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  Speaker 1: get the bill from regret.
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  Speaker 2: And that bill from regret is generational.
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  Speaker 6: It's just a matter of what's important to you and
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  Speaker 6: what's important to you for whatever reason. You know, I
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  Speaker 6: felt like I didn't feel good about myself if I
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  Speaker 6: wasn't doing everything I could to be the best version
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  Speaker 6: of myself. If I felt like I left anything on
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  Speaker 6: the table, it would eat away at me. I wouldn't
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  Speaker 6: be able to look myself in the mirror. And so
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  Speaker 6: the reason why I can retire now and be completely
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  Speaker 6: comfortable about it because I know that I've done everything
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  Speaker 6: I could to be the best basketball player I could be.
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  Speaker 2: That's where it comes from for me. You can't leave
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  Speaker 2: any stone on turn.
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  Speaker 7: Nobody handed me nothing if you want it, go get it.
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  Speaker 7: Stop telling your visions to other people because they not
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  Speaker 7: going to see it. Why you think you keep imagining
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  Speaker 7: opening a business? Why do you keep imagining buying a house?
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  Speaker 7: Why do you keep imagining driving a really nice car?
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  Speaker 7: Why do you keep imagining getting rich one day? Why
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  Speaker 7: do you keep imagining that? Because God is talking to
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  Speaker 7: you when you something that He has for you.
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  Speaker 8: When I was a kid, I was wondering, kind of
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  Speaker 8: what's the meaning of life?
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  Speaker 2: Like why are we here?
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  Speaker 8: What's it all about? And I came to the conclusion
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  Speaker 8: that what really matters is trying to understand the right
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  Speaker 8: questions to ask.
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  Speaker 9: No more around you want your life to be better.
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  Speaker 9: I can't help you, can't help you your robe and
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  Speaker 9: can't help you all.
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  Speaker 2: We can't help me.
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  Speaker 9: Only you can help you. Grab your fucking ball, get
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  Speaker 9: a notebook and write down what the you're gonna do
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  Speaker 9: this year?
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  Speaker 2: And this is it.
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  Speaker 9: You're not gonna have these problems to drugs, to cigarettes,
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  Speaker 9: it all starts. Can tell you right, no more excuse this,
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  Speaker 9: that's the this is the year of the soldier. We're
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  Speaker 9: getting back what belongs to us, and that's it.
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  Speaker 10: A lot of people want to be successful, but they
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  Speaker 10: want to go to the club on Thursday, on Friday,
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  Speaker 10: on Saturday, on Sunday, and then on Monday. They're getting
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  Speaker 10: out performed by everybody in the office, and they're wondering,
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  Speaker 10: why don't.
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  Speaker 2: I get to raise in the promotion. Shut your hands up.
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  Speaker 2: That's why, man, get to work. Get back to work.
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  Speaker 2: It's time to get back to work.
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  Speaker 1: Stop hearing yourself talk, Get off the podcast, don't be
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  Speaker 1: on social media much.
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  Speaker 2: Cut out all the noise.
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  Speaker 1: Get back to the mental lab because that's where the
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  Speaker 1: knowledge came from.
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  Speaker 7: Expand yourself. Take yourself out your comfort zone. Do not
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  Speaker 7: live in your bubble. Put some more air in your bubble.
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  Speaker 7: If you stay in your comfort zone, that's where you
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  Speaker 7: will fail. You will fail in your comfort zone. Success
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  Speaker 7: is not a comfortable procedure. It is a very uncomfortable
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  Speaker 7: thing to a tim So you gotta get comfortable being
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  Speaker 7: uncomfortable if you ever want to be successful. Look, I
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  Speaker 7: love to sugarcoat this thing for you.
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  Speaker 2: I love to tell you.
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  Speaker 7: Look, you can go out here and get rich, do
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  Speaker 7: a couple of things. Day happen. You gotta get real doggish,
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  Speaker 7: You gotta get downright funk if you want to make
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  Speaker 7: it now, like I was telling you before, if you
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  Speaker 7: want to be on ordinary, you ain't even gotta listen
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  Speaker 7: to me. Just go about your business. If you think
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  Speaker 7: ordinary is cool, ain't no problem. It's some really really
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  Speaker 7: wonderful ordinary people. But if you are sitting in this
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  Speaker 7: room and you have extraordinary aspirations, then you're gonna have.
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  Speaker 2: To do extra.
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  Speaker 7: You put extra on top of exordinary, and you come
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  Speaker 7: up with extraordinary.
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  Speaker 2: It's no other way.
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  Speaker 11: All men are created equal, some work harder in preseason.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna say it again because you might have missed it.
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  Speaker 1: All men are created equal, some work harder in pretheas
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  Speaker 1: my name is said, Niship, what is martial arts?
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  Speaker 2: Give me a focus? I don't know where I would
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  Speaker 2: be whatever Montreal And that's right.
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  Speaker 1: Have to be so authentic and so real about my
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  Speaker 1: own insecurities, my own false This is being a person.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not the best at anything, I'm not gifted. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just driving. And it's all about trying to share that
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  Speaker 1: message with people. It's all about you know, I speak
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  Speaker 1: to a lot of people.
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  Speaker 2: Find you're impossible. What is it you think it's impossible?
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  Speaker 2: You could never quite grasp that's.
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  Speaker 5: What you can that's what you can go after. You
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  Speaker 5: don't have a dream, man, you're dead.
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  Speaker 2: You'll only go as far as your dream I say.
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  Speaker 12: I tell that to comics all the time, though, I
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  Speaker 12: just want to make a living on it, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 12: that's all you'll do.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta dream big. Yeah. I think people say that
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  Speaker 2: because they're trying to be humble. Yeah, but universe doesn't
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  Speaker 2: reward humility.
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  Speaker 7: Man.
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  Speaker 2: You might can be humbled with everybody else, but you
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  Speaker 2: gotta tell the hey.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I want to be bigger than life.
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  Speaker 2: Yup.
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  Speaker 5: If you give up on your dreams, If you give
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  Speaker 5: up on your dreams, what do you have left?
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  Speaker 2: Nothing? I can't live that way.
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  Speaker 14: I wasn't born to be wrapped up in bubble wrapping
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  Speaker 14: a blanket that said on the couch and tremble as
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  Speaker 14: the world goes by outside.
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  Speaker 2: Of my door.
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  Speaker 14: I want the world to tremble when I go by.
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  Speaker 2: In story.
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  Speaker 14: So it's a state of mind, all right. It's a
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  Speaker 14: state of mind to learn, adjust what you can and
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  Speaker 14: and then just embrace the rest of it.
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  Speaker 2: We're all writing a book.
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  Speaker 15: What's your book look like? What does your book look like?
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  Speaker 15: Like your life is a book. You got a bunch
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  Speaker 15: of chapters in your book. But when they closed that book,
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  Speaker 15: how good was the book?
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  Speaker 2: How good was your book? What was the ending to
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  Speaker 2: your book?
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  Speaker 15: At the ending to my book can be so amazing
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  Speaker 15: because of all that was done.
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  Speaker 1: We all like to take this four lane highway, the
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  Speaker 1: easy highways, has been signs, it has restaurants. We all
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  Speaker 1: love that four lane highway. We always step over the shovel.
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  Speaker 1: And all I did was I picked up that and
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  Speaker 1: shovel and shove. I made my own path. And you
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  Speaker 1: may have big.
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  Speaker 2: Boulders and shit, they may be getting towards the mouths
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  Speaker 2: of the real faster than you.
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  Speaker 1: But going through this path of life, this journey over
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  Speaker 1: here that you make yourself, that's incredibly difficult, but it
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  Speaker 1: comes out to the.
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  Speaker 2: Other end of them. There is some glorious shit that
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  Speaker 2: you can't even explain to people. And we're fright.
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  Speaker 1: Bottom line is most of us, even if people who
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  Speaker 1: have all these theories and shit, it's easier to accept
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  Speaker 1: the fact that I'm just not good enough. I wasn't
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  Speaker 1: made to do that. And yeah, some of us can't
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  Speaker 1: be Lebron James, but I'll tell you right now, man.
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  Speaker 2: We can do a lot of shit.
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  Speaker 1: When it comes to this pure arm, guts and will
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  Speaker 1: power and getting through shit.
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  Speaker 2: We have a lot more, with a lot more than
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  Speaker 2: when we think we have.
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  Speaker 5: From that day forward, I made a promise that I will.
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  Speaker 2: Give it everything I got.
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  Speaker 5: I'm ready to die for what I had to have
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  Speaker 5: to succeed. I have to give it everything I got.
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  Speaker 5: That way, I'm a winner no matter what.
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  Speaker 6: The Mamba mentality simply means trying to be the best
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  Speaker 6: version of yourself. That's what the mentality means. It means
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  Speaker 6: every day you know, you're trying to become better. Every
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  Speaker 6: person has the ability to put one foot in front
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  Speaker 6: of you. What's that by the time, right, So like
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  Speaker 6: if you're saying, Okay, I'm gonna climb Mount Everest, you're
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  Speaker 6: at the bottom of the mountain and you look up.
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  Speaker 2: And you're going, I'm not gonna go.
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  Speaker 7: Right.
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  Speaker 6: But if you break it down into sections, it's just
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  Speaker 6: one foot in front of the other, one step at
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  Speaker 6: a time. Next thing, you know, you at the top
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  Speaker 6: of the mountain.
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  Speaker 2: You can't stop, you can't quit. I want to be
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  Speaker 2: the guy that people looked at.
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  Speaker 1: I don't keep you blacking or again, like I don't care,
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  Speaker 1: but he said, this girl's gonna keep coming after whatever
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  Speaker 1: is in front of them.
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  Speaker 9: Man.
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  Speaker 16: I like the picture God looking down and saying, yeah,
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  Speaker 16: but that boy just won't you just watching? You'll get
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  Speaker 16: back up, and you'll get up swinging, and you'll try again.
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  Speaker 16: You just don't quit, you know. Get out of those stands,
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  Speaker 16: get an arena, get dirty. That's where get bloody, get
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  Speaker 16: knocked down, getting back up, get knocked down again, get
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  Speaker 16: back up, and when people pointed you and laugh at
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  Speaker 16: your failure, say yeah, I'm in the arena with a
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  Speaker 16: sword in my hand and you're setting up inner standing
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  Speaker 16: with a biscuit in yours.
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  Speaker 2: Who's more brown? One time in my life I felt
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  Speaker 2: that what was my purpose?
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  Speaker 17: And sometimes you graduate out of high school, you look
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  Speaker 17: for that job, you look for that career, college.
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  Speaker 9: The degree.
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  Speaker 2: You still question, is this my purpose? I want to
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  Speaker 2: talk to you.
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  Speaker 17: About this. In turn, you're center your purpose. One question
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  Speaker 17: that I always ask myself, even if I would always
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  Speaker 17: ask myself, is your purpose? What's your purpose for living?
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  Speaker 17: Do you know your purpose?
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  Speaker 2: What you're created to do? Do you know what that is?
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  Speaker 17: A lot of people live their entire lives, not knowing,
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  Speaker 17: entire lifetime, not being happy because they feel as though
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  Speaker 17: they're not fulfilling their purpose.
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  Speaker 8: You see that man right there.
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  Speaker 1: So like, for instance, let's say you have no raceis,
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  Speaker 1: let's say you have no classes, no nothing you have
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  Speaker 1: there's no purpose.
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  Speaker 2: In your life.
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  Speaker 1: You know, people need to have purpose to get up,
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  Speaker 1: They need purpose to perform. You need to get to
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  Speaker 1: a point in your life where there's nothing on the docket,
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  Speaker 1: there's no five K, there's no there's no I'm going.
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  Speaker 2: To get into school to be this or that is
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  Speaker 2: still performed to the highest level.
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  Speaker 1: Because what people don't get is one day that thing
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  Speaker 1: is gonna come up. And if you're not constantly performing
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  Speaker 1: without purpose.
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  Speaker 2: You're not going to be ready when a time comes.
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  Speaker 13: We've been around for three and a half billion years.
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  Speaker 13: You know, every single one of your relatives propagated successfully.
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  Speaker 13: And here you are, against all possible odds in this
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  Speaker 13: in this world of hell in some sense and bitterness
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  Speaker 13: and and and tyranny and malevolence, and yet God only
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  Speaker 13: knows what's inside you. This capacity for consciousness, the capacity
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  Speaker 13: to confront potential and to turn it into something good.
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  Speaker 13: That's us Man, that's the Western story.
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  Speaker 2: That's the individual.
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  Speaker 13: As the cornerstone of the state. That's our responsibility, and
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  Speaker 13: it really is who we are. And so we need
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  Speaker 13: to know that, and we need to remember it, and
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  Speaker 13: we need to act it out and then maybe we
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  Speaker 13: can see what we can do about it, you.
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  Speaker 2: Know, and see how good we could make things.
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  Speaker 13: And maybe that would be the purpose of your damn life, right,
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  Speaker 13: not to be happy.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, there's problems to be solved.
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  Speaker 13: Be happy after you get solved the goddamn things.
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  Speaker 1: Right, is this magical thing purpose that we're all looking for.
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  Speaker 1: But what's funny about it all is that we need
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  Speaker 1: these things to perform, but we don't take a second
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  Speaker 1: to realize the purpose is always there. The purpose never
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  Speaker 1: leaves us because the very purpose is you.
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  Speaker 2: You are always the purpose.
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  Speaker 1: There may be another purpose being a seal or going
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  Speaker 1: to college or whatever, but the main purpose in life
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  Speaker 1: is you. So if you wake up in the morning
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  Speaker 1: and you don't want to do something, you don't.
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  Speaker 2: Care enough about yourself.
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  Speaker 1: If that's what you need to really research, is, man,
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  Speaker 1: why am I not doing this for myself? Because that
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  Speaker 1: is the number one purpose in life is to better oneself.
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  Speaker 1: So that's the only purpose I need. So the reason
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  Speaker 1: I get every day even though there's no race or
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  Speaker 1: there's no school, there's nothing in front of me, is
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  Speaker 1: because I have pride in myself.
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  Speaker 13: And it would be so good if we could. People wonder, well,
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  Speaker 13: what's the meaning of life? Like, what's it all about?
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  Speaker 13: What justifies the suffering and the misery and all of that.
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  Speaker 13: It's like, well, that's what justifies it. Is like you
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  Speaker 13: put yourself up against that. You think, okay, all with
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  Speaker 13: all of this pushing against me, how much can I
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  Speaker 13: push back? Could I move the horror and inch back
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  Speaker 13: with all this drink that I have at my disposal?
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  Speaker 2: Man? And answer to that is yeah, you can.
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  Speaker 13: It makes you better with regards to yourself, but it
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  Speaker 13: also makes the world a better place and so well,
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  Speaker 13: so you don't wear that.
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  Speaker 18: It's easy to give up, really easy. It's the easiest
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  Speaker 18: thing in the world to do. All right, I'm done.
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  Speaker 18: I ain't going, I ain't gonna keep going. I feel
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  Speaker 18: like going to work.
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  Speaker 2: Done. Y. It's easy, It's very easy.
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  Speaker 18: But what's hard is going.
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  Speaker 9: Yo.
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  Speaker 18: Yesterday I got nothing from working as hard as I could.
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  Speaker 18: Nothing happened from that I'm gonna do the same thing
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  Speaker 18: again to day, but I'm gonna try to go harder.
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  Speaker 18: That's the hardest thing in the world to get up
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  Speaker 18: every day and give one hundred percent and and be
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  Speaker 18: in the same position that you were each day. But
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  Speaker 18: mentally know that you're trying and trying and trying. That's
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  Speaker 18: that's a real that's a real grind.
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  Speaker 2: We don't want to suffer, we don't want to feel discomfort.
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  Speaker 1: So the whole time we're living our lives in a
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  Speaker 1: very comfortable area, there's no growth in that. So for me,
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  Speaker 1: I realized that the reason I became two or ninety.
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  Speaker 2: Seven pounds is because that was comfortable.
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  Speaker 1: What was very uncomfortable was running, was very uncomfortable. Was
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  Speaker 1: being on a diet, was very uncomfortable. Was trying to
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  Speaker 1: face things that I didn't want to face. And I
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  Speaker 1: also realized when I was really big, I had no growth,
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  Speaker 1: why because I was living comfortable.
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  Speaker 2: So I realized for me to find.
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  Speaker 1: Growth, I had to face all these different things that
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  Speaker 1: made me very very uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 2: One thing I faced was running.
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  Speaker 1: I absolutely hated running, but I knew for me to grow,
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  Speaker 1: I had to do this thing every single day.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to start callousing my mind. I wanted to
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  Speaker 2: start becoming a better person.
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  Speaker 1: And how you become a better person, how you gain
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  Speaker 1: mental toughness, how you become a person you want to
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  Speaker 1: be is constantly facing the things that you don't want
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  Speaker 1: to face. If you constantly run away from things that
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to face, how is their growth?
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  Speaker 2: How is their mental toughness. I can give you a
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  Speaker 2: class all.
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  Speaker 1: Day long about self talk, visualization, eat an elephant.
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  Speaker 2: One by at a time.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're never putting yourself in a situation to
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  Speaker 1: actually practice these things, you're never going to grow. I
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  Speaker 1: can't put you out there in a We're all going
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  Speaker 1: through a battle in our mind.
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  Speaker 2: A warrior is not a person that carries a gun.
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  Speaker 1: The biggest warrior ever go through is wipe between your
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  Speaker 1: own ears.
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  Speaker 2: It's in your mind.
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  Speaker 1: We're all going through a war in our mind, and
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  Speaker 1: we have to calosh our mind to fight that.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: War and to win that war.
• 17:46
  Speaker 19: You know, the one that you have to really fight
• 17:48
  Speaker 19: is the war against yourself. You have to fight the
• 17:52
  Speaker 19: war against yourself. And now it's not easy to look
• 17:56
  Speaker 19: in the mirror and to change your own life. It's
• 17:59
  Speaker 19: hot as hell. You have to take responsibility, you have
• 18:02
  Speaker 19: to learn new things. You have to feel uncomfortable good
• 18:06
  Speaker 19: because discomfort is how we grow, That's how we become strong.
• 18:11
  Speaker 19: If you run away from discomfort and resistance your whole life,
• 18:14
  Speaker 19: you will always be weak. Just think about the gym,
• 18:17
  Speaker 19: for instance. But that's where I learned most of my lessons.
• 18:19
  Speaker 9: Right.
• 18:20
  Speaker 19: The muscles only grows from resistance. You have to struggle.
• 18:24
  Speaker 19: You have to build strength. The more I've was my
• 18:28
  Speaker 19: hands against it steel bar, the bigger the bicyles getting,
• 18:31
  Speaker 19: the stronger they get. And I was trying to squat
• 18:34
  Speaker 19: six hundred pounds and bench press five hundred pounds and
• 18:37
  Speaker 19: dead lifts seven hundred. It didn't feel like a walk
• 18:40
  Speaker 19: in the park. It wasn't easy. No, I was uncomfortable.
• 18:45
  Speaker 19: It was painful. I mean, look at those photos. I
• 18:49
  Speaker 19: was struggling. I was crying out loud than pain. I
• 18:54
  Speaker 19: don't want you to be loser. I don't want you
• 18:57
  Speaker 19: to be weak. See, I've spent most of my life
• 19:03
  Speaker 19: helping people find their strength. This is when the actually strength.
• 19:08
  Speaker 19: And despite all of the things that we may disagree about.
• 19:11
  Speaker 19: All my friends who might say I don't talk to
• 19:14
  Speaker 19: those people it's unworth it. I don't get what they say.
• 19:18
  Speaker 19: I care about you. I thank you birth it.
• 19:24
  Speaker 20: Sometimes you need to get knocked down before you can
• 19:28
  Speaker 20: really figure out what your fight is and how you
• 19:32
  Speaker 20: need to fight it. Sometimes you need to feel the
• 19:35
  Speaker 20: pain and sting of defeat to activate the real passion
• 19:39
  Speaker 20: and purpose that God predestined inside of you. I don't
• 19:51
  Speaker 20: know what your future is, but if you are willing
• 19:55
  Speaker 20: to take the heart away, the more complicated one, the
• 19:59
  Speaker 20: one with more failures at first that successes, the one
• 20:03
  Speaker 20: that has ultimately proven to have more meeting, more victory,
• 20:07
  Speaker 20: more glory, then you will not regret it.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: Now this is your time. The younger generation quits, not everybody,
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: So I got I gotta put that. People get the
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: butt hurt, so not everybody. Most of this.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Generation quits the second they get talk to you.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: You did this wrong, you did this wrong, or they
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: get yoed at.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: It's so easy say to be great nowadays because everybody
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: else is.
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: Most people are weak. This is a softened generation. So
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: if you have.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: Any mental toughness, any any ability, do you have any
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: fraction of self discipline, the ability to not want to
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: do it but still do it.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: People have a hard thing to understand. I hate to
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: run and it makes me so crazy. It doesn't need
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: more people, Well, why do you run if you hate it?
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: What are you talking about? I don't want to take
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: showers and eat either. I hate that too, the whole.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: That's a life, man, And it wasn't until I changed
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: that mentality I became somebody I hated going to school,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: So guess what I was dumb as shit. That's what
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: one plus one is too. But if you can get
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: through to doing things that you hate to do, on
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: the other side is greatness.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: That's what people a understanding by me running. I am
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: callous in my mind. I'm not training for a race.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: I'm training for life.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: I'm training for the time when I get that two
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning call that my mom is dead or.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: Something happens tragic in life. I don't fall apart.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: I'm training my mind and my body and my spirit,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: so it's all one so I can handle what life
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: is gonna throw me because I've lived it. There was
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: a whole bunch at you. And if you're not physically
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: immensely prepared for that, you're.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Just gonna crumble and you're good for nobody.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: Going back to who I am, how I became who
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I am today, and it comes back from hard work,
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: It comes back from having that very minimalistic mindset.
• 22:33
  Speaker 13: The first step taken towards the domination of chaos and
• 22:37
  Speaker 13: its transformation into order is a cardinal and difficult step.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: And so you can make it small and that's fine.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: It will still work.
• 22:45
  Speaker 13: So I might say, well, just just move the vacuum
• 22:47
  Speaker 13: cleaner inside your room, And then I would also say
• 22:49
  Speaker 13: to someone in that situation, don't do more than that.
• 22:54
  Speaker 13: If the agreement that you've made with me and with
• 22:57
  Speaker 13: yourself is that that's abide by the contract that you've
• 23:03
  Speaker 13: written with yourself and allow yourself to be grateful for
• 23:09
  Speaker 13: the fact that you had the courage to take even
• 23:11
  Speaker 13: a single step forward, and don't push your bloody luck,
• 23:16
  Speaker 13: because maybe you'll have a brief fit and vacuum the
• 23:20
  Speaker 13: whole rug, and then you'll be so annoyed at how
• 23:23
  Speaker 13: you've destabilized your entire life that you'll redouble your attempts
• 23:27
  Speaker 13: to make a mess, and the place will be more
• 23:29
  Speaker 13: like hell than ever.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: For two months.
• 23:32
  Speaker 13: You have to start as low as you are, useless
• 23:35
  Speaker 13: and that's low. So once you take the first step,
• 23:39
  Speaker 13: the probability that you'll take a slightly larger second step increases,
• 23:44
  Speaker 13: and that increases nonlinearly.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: But as I was there for so long, I got
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: a really good chance to sit back because now the
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: cold waters is water. Now it's not a cold anymore.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: Your mind starts to change. They say, get in the water.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Most people think about it. For you, it became my life.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: So I started learning that if you start to change
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: your mindset versus it being like, oh my god, this sucks.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: I became a professional bud student, so I wasn't gonna
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: leave until I graduated. So I started realizing, if this
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: is my home, this is what I am. I had
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: to always reset the bar. I had to reset my
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: new norm. There always had to be a new norm.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: So one thing we don't do is we don't have
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: a new norm. My new norm is you get up
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: every fucking morning at four o'clock and you suffer. This
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: is your new norm. That became my new fucking life.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Most people want to get out of me. I said, no, motherfucker,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: this is your new life. This is who you are.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Your new norm is you wake up and you suffer.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: I started realizing, if that's my mentality.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: This shit ain't hard anymore. You're fucking new normals.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: You wake up, you get in the fucking cold water,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: You're gonna be here to this shit's fucking done.
• 24:55
  Speaker 21: Whenever they say you're out, you get out. So my
• 24:58
  Speaker 21: new norm so I do that now to to day.
• 25:00
  Speaker 21: My new norm now is if I'm doing the chorice
• 25:02
  Speaker 21: of my run. Your new norm now, man, is you
• 25:04
  Speaker 21: fucking are doing? You aren't fucking mobs.
• 25:07
  Speaker 22: If the lion is the king of the jungle, how
• 25:09
  Speaker 22: can he be the king of the jungle.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: If he's not the biggest.
• 25:14
  Speaker 22: The elephant is probably one of the biggest. He can't
• 25:17
  Speaker 22: be the fastest because that's a cheat. He can't be
• 25:20
  Speaker 22: the smartest, So he's not the biggest, the fastest, or
• 25:24
  Speaker 22: the smartest.
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: So how does the lion.
• 25:28
  Speaker 22: Become the king of the jungle.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: It's mentality.
• 25:33
  Speaker 22: That's the only difference of a lion and the elephant.
• 25:38
  Speaker 22: When the lion walks up and sees an elephant, he
• 25:40
  Speaker 22: thinks lunch. An elephant, thanks, run, And it's all mentality.
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: Because when a.
• 25:51
  Speaker 22: Male lion walks up, he may be out numbered by
• 25:53
  Speaker 22: a pack of hyenas. But I'm king of my jungle,
• 26:00
  Speaker 22: all of my mentality.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: Uh you know, so have regroup.
• 26:09
  Speaker 6: Like I said, next season starts right now, and uh you.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: Know, come back next season.
• 26:14
  Speaker 16: How much harder will you work in this off season
• 26:16
  Speaker 16: now to get back to the championship.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: Uh, I'll push myself to acknowledgement. Everyone does a few reps.
• 26:25
  Speaker 23: When the burns starts and they stop, no one goes
• 26:28
  Speaker 23: the extra model.
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: It keeps going like no one's been here right now?
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: Why cause this Saturday evening and was one forty. No
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: one's in here. It's me, you know.
• 26:37
  Speaker 23: No one goes the extra made the thing about traffic jams, Guys.
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: There are no traffic jams in the last model of this.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: It's just you and the shadow.
• 26:49
  Speaker 23: In the beginning, everybody's there, all the pretenders and the contenders.
• 26:54
  Speaker 23: They're all there for the last yard of life, last
• 27:00
  Speaker 23: mile a journey.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: Hey, nobody but you in the shadow. Trapping jams don't
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: exist that far? Does everyone else start giving up?
• 27:08
  Speaker 23: That's what I like too, the mental concept.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: I'm going far.
• 27:11
  Speaker 23: I love the physical high of the burn being released.
• 27:15
  Speaker 23: I love the mental high that has improved myself. I
• 27:18
  Speaker 23: love the mentality that I'm beating my competitors silently.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Well, they don't even know it.
• 27:23
  Speaker 23: They're out partying. I'm out here getting ahead.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Vinci fucking man. Yeah.
• 27:32
  Speaker 13: And one of the things I recommend to young people,
• 27:34
  Speaker 13: especially true for people in your twenties, is that you
• 27:37
  Speaker 13: should push yourself beyond your limits of tolerance in your
• 27:40
  Speaker 13: twenties to find out where it is how much can
• 27:43
  Speaker 13: you work? How discipline can you become? Like can you
• 27:46
  Speaker 13: work twelve hours a day? Can you work eight hours
• 27:48
  Speaker 13: a day? Can you work three hours a day?
• 27:49
  Speaker 6: Like?
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: Flat out, where's your limit? And how much? How much
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: work can you do?
• 27:54
  Speaker 13: And how much socialization?
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: You should find out push yourself.
• 27:58
  Speaker 13: Past and then back off to that point where it's
• 28:00
  Speaker 13: optimally sustainable.
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: It's good to think about that as a goal.
• 28:04
  Speaker 13: It's like you're trying to discover what your limitations are
• 28:06
  Speaker 13: when you're when you're in your twenties, so that you
• 28:08
  Speaker 13: can hit that edge, so that you can sustain yourself
• 28:11
  Speaker 13: across the decades.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: And so Yeah, because you don't you don't.
• 28:14
  Speaker 13: Want to don't want to have too much fun, right,
• 28:17
  Speaker 13: too much fun takes you out. You don't want to
• 28:19
  Speaker 13: be the oldest guy at the disco. You know, it's
• 28:21
  Speaker 13: not it's not fun being the forty year old at
• 28:23
  Speaker 13: the singles bar, precisely. So you want to make sure
• 28:27
  Speaker 13: that what you're doing is age appropriate, and you want
• 28:29
  Speaker 13: to push yourself in every direction that you can, but
• 28:31
  Speaker 13: you should be doing that with an aim in minds,
• 28:33
  Speaker 13: like you're trying to make yourself and do a better
• 28:35
  Speaker 13: and more competent person. And so some discipline along with
• 28:38
  Speaker 13: the fund is a good idea.
• 28:40
  Speaker 6: No, you're you're you're out running on a track, working out,
• 28:44
  Speaker 6: and you start talking to yourself saying, man, my knee
• 28:47
  Speaker 6: is really sowre right now, maybe I'm maybe I'm doing
• 28:51
  Speaker 6: too much, may need to back off, you know, Man,
• 28:55
  Speaker 6: my lungs are burning, and maybe I can just slow
• 28:58
  Speaker 6: down here.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: I'll do like an extra two sets tomorrow.
• 29:01
  Speaker 6: You know it'll be okay, right that sort of stuff, yes,
• 29:04
  Speaker 6: Like that stuff's dangerous and that's you just got to say,
• 29:07
  Speaker 6: you know what, I'm not negotiating this and the deal
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: was already made. Deal with me when I set out
• 29:13
  Speaker 6: at the beginning of the summer and said this is
• 29:14
  Speaker 6: the training plan I was doing.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: I signed that contract with myself. I'm doing you.
• 29:20
  Speaker 6: Know, throughout that process you'll start talking yourself like, man,
• 29:23
  Speaker 6: I gotta I think I need to maybe if we know.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: It was not negotiait. Yeah, the bike got easier. I
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: was able to run more.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: I went from like one mile one mile is a
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: great accomplishment, two miles and then from two to three
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: was a big magin. I went from three to six
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: and then like they have a warning order that they
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: get people to get ready for butts. And the whole
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: thing was running six miles five days a week, and
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: that was my goal. And so I just kept I failed,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: I'll go back to scratch. I use some positive motivation.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: I have, like one day I'd like fucking defeat. But
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I started realizing this is part of the process. That's
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: the part of the journey. I had to realize this
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: is part of my process versus just saying like I
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: used to, I'm just not good enough. If I'm not
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: good enough, we always say that shit, I must not
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: good enough, and then me try something else. I'm gonna
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: fucking make myself good enough. And that became my mentality.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna make myself good enough. And so I'm
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: misunderstood a lot, but That's all it came down to.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: I made myself good enough, and the days I couldn't
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: run that far, the next week I would do two
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: with days. So on the running, if I ran a
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: quarter a mile, I wait a fucking a couple of hours.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: It haunted me. Bother me. I try to run a
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: half a mile the next time, same day. You can
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: do more than this. If I had to walk, I
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: had to walk.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: It just became just a process of grinding and grinding
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: and grindings not.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: Even a good word for it.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: It's not even a good word for it, and just
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: just going further and further.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: And then when I got through running, I go through
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: the bike. I go to the pool.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: If I got tired somewhere my lads were tired, I
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: go to the gym. And I developed this crazy workout
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: where I was doing volume, like two three hundred rips
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: of like very lightweight. People say, you know, how come
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: you don't have any like loose skin. My workout routine
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: in the gym became sick.
• 31:16
  Speaker 11: But I remember we were playing against the Lakers time
• 31:18
  Speaker 11: and we're out here in LA and you know, like
• 31:22
  Speaker 11: I always try to outwork people, right, That's just how
• 31:24
  Speaker 11: I made my mark.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: So the game was at seven.
• 31:27
  Speaker 11: It's like, you know what, I'm going to come to
• 31:28
  Speaker 11: the Stables Center because we're playing. This is when the
• 31:30
  Speaker 11: Lakers had Kobe in shock. Okay, this is this is
• 31:33
  Speaker 11: like the championship Lakers. So I mean, I'm gonna get
• 31:35
  Speaker 11: there at three o'clock. I want to make sure I
• 31:37
  Speaker 11: make four hundred maid shots before I go back into
• 31:40
  Speaker 11: the room.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: And then I say, in this on and I get
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: ready for the.
• 31:42
  Speaker 11: Gig, so, you know, get in the car, get to
• 31:46
  Speaker 11: the gym, get there. And as I'm walking onto the court,
• 31:49
  Speaker 11: who do I say? I see Kobe Bryant already work now.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, it's kind of cool. It's Kobe.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: It's up Kobe, you know. And uh, you know.
• 31:59
  Speaker 11: So I put my sneakers on, and you ever get
• 32:01
  Speaker 11: lost in what you do where you end up like, wait,
• 32:03
  Speaker 11: it's been an hour and a half.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: I'm just I'm here. I'm in it.
• 32:07
  Speaker 11: So once I set my foot across that line, I
• 32:09
  Speaker 11: started working out. And so I worked out for a
• 32:11
  Speaker 11: good hour hour and a half. And when I came off,
• 32:14
  Speaker 11: after I was done, I sat down, and of course
• 32:17
  Speaker 11: I still hear the ball bounce. I look down, I'm like,
• 32:19
  Speaker 11: this guy's this guy's still working out. So he was
• 32:22
  Speaker 11: working out like it looks like he was in a
• 32:24
  Speaker 11: dead sweat when I got here, and he's still going
• 32:26
  Speaker 11: and it's not like his moves are nonchalant or lazy.
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: He's doing like game moves.
• 32:32
  Speaker 7: You know.
• 32:33
  Speaker 11: I sit there and unlaced my shoes. I'm like, oh,
• 32:35
  Speaker 11: want to see how long this goes? I said, out there,
• 32:37
  Speaker 11: watch twenty five minutes and he got done. I said, Okay,
• 32:41
  Speaker 11: I think I've seen it up. Go play, you know,
• 32:43
  Speaker 11: come back, get in the sauna, get ready for the game.
• 32:45
  Speaker 11: That game, he drops forty on us. Okay, And after
• 32:49
  Speaker 11: the game is over, I'm like, I have to ask
• 32:50
  Speaker 11: this guy, like I have to understand, like why why
• 32:55
  Speaker 11: he works off that right? So after the games, I'm like, hey, Cobe, like,
• 32:59
  Speaker 11: why were you in Jim for so long? It's like
• 33:01
  Speaker 11: because I saw you come in and I wanted you
• 33:05
  Speaker 11: to know that it doesn't matter how hard you work,
• 33:08
  Speaker 11: that I'm willing to work harder than you.
• 33:10
  Speaker 24: Wow, I'm able to just extract dopamine, the good dopamine
• 33:23
  Speaker 24: whenever I want.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Man, I've trained ninety nine percent of my life alone.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: No one had me on the back.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: I did all of the work alone.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: And while I'm still hard on myself, I know what
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: I did. So whenever times get bad, people.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: All this, who's your carry of the boats? And look,
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: that's real.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: I hate that people know me for that guy, because
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: that guy is not every fucking day like when they
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: see me, they want that energy that's.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: Not me every day. I can extract it immediately when
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: I need you. Because when you.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Train alone, and I lived alone for so many years
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: in this misery, and you're able to get out by yourself,
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: I can take myself to such a level of real,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: real passion and purpose and like, the feeling I get
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: is something I can't even explain by myself.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: I don't need anyone why.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: That's why people come to me to motivate them. No
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: one can motivate me.
• 34:25
  Speaker 25: The bottom line is, no one's coming, no one. No
• 34:31
  Speaker 25: one's coming to push you. No one's coming to tell
• 34:33
  Speaker 25: you to turn the TV off. No one's coming to
• 34:36
  Speaker 25: tell you to get out the door and exercise. Nobody's
• 34:39
  Speaker 25: coming to tell you to apply for that job that
• 34:42
  Speaker 25: you've always dreamt about. Nobody's coming to write a business
• 34:45
  Speaker 25: plan for you.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: It's up to you.
• 34:48
  Speaker 25: And because you're only ever going to do the things
• 34:51
  Speaker 25: that you feel like doing right now or that feel
• 34:54
  Speaker 25: good right now, unless you understand that you've got to
• 35:00
  Speaker 25: parrot yourself. You gotta push yourself. You're not gonna make
• 35:03
  Speaker 25: your dreams come true.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: You're just not.
• 35:05
  Speaker 25: We're not wired that way. You weren't born that way.
• 35:08
  Speaker 25: You weren't that way when you were growing up, and
• 35:10
  Speaker 25: you're certainly not that way as an adult.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: I did it alone.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: There was no fucking trophy on the fucking wall, the mantle,
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: that trophy in my fucking brain.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: No one helped me get. They don't gonna pay my
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: fucking bills. No one did shit for me. No one
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: ran was fucking mid West. That fucking look. I suffered
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: on my own and to built this man who said
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: that's who I am. Man a very competitive, ultra competitive
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: due that taking what you want.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: Man, the military, you're gonna be the suck of.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: That run most of the time, and you're just starting
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: your points on the way back. I started seeing.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: People getting happy and shit because.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: The end was near. But there was some asshole instructors
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: that were here.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: The happiness and go right off past the endpoint. When
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: that happened, everybody stopped talking, heads just stopped dropping, and
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: I start taking fucking souls.
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: At that time, I knew what happened in their minds.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Man, They were living up the hope factors. They hope
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: the instructions will stop running.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: They hope the water was never cold, they hope the
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: weather was fucking good. I don't live up that hope shit.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: I wish the water was cold. I wish the motherfucking
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: instructions keep off fucking running. I wish the fucking way.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: But the idiot is unknown, and the distance is unknown.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: Not you know who the fuck you are, stay hard.
• 36:33
  Speaker 26: But all these things that people are trying very hard
• 36:36
  Speaker 26: to get rid of it from their brains, I don't
• 36:39
  Speaker 26: see why they need to leave. I will argue the
• 36:41
  Speaker 26: point that if I feel anxious and pressured and stressed
• 36:44
  Speaker 26: and fearful, I will get more.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: Done than if I was happy.
• 36:47
  Speaker 26: I think if I was happy, I'll just be heading
• 36:49
  Speaker 26: a stick and just wasting my time. I think that
• 36:50
  Speaker 26: you get a whole bunch done with these negative connotations
• 36:53
  Speaker 26: and negative emotions, and I think that life is suffering
• 36:55
  Speaker 26: and pain, and you're here to go through it and
• 36:57
  Speaker 26: you're and that sooner you get used to the taste,
• 37:00
  Speaker 26: the more successful you're going to be. I have no
• 37:01
  Speaker 26: interest in trying to change the flavor of my friend.
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: The flavor of life is pain, and I will eat
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: all of it.
• 37:06
  Speaker 26: And it doesn't matter if they put me back in
• 37:07
  Speaker 26: jail or not. I'm not sitting there going how can
• 37:10
  Speaker 26: I be happy in jail.
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: I will sit in jail and say, yes, this sucks.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: It's supposed to suck. Yes, I'm not enjoying this.
• 37:15
  Speaker 26: Yes I'm anxious and paranoid, and yes that guy might
• 37:17
  Speaker 26: stab me, and yes I can't sleep and I miss
• 37:18
  Speaker 26: my family. And this is what's supposed to happen to me.
• 37:20
  Speaker 26: And this is how I become the best man I
• 37:21
  Speaker 26: can possibly be. And I'm going to succeed regard.
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: And when I was in going through Navy seal Trainer's
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: one thing I told myself I wanted to quit every
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: single day. But many dreams die while suffering, and many
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: of us out here have suffered. And when you're suffering,
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: I'm not talking about this physically. I talked about emotionally. Spiritually.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: It could be a relationship when you're suffering you give
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: up on the very things that you wanted the most.
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: When I was going through Pair of Rescue, I wanted
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: to be a pair of rescuement so bad, but that
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: water haunted me. So when the suffering got too much,
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: my dream died, and pretty.
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: Much I almost died with it.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: If I didn't find navy seals and getting past that
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: hump and overcoming my demons and facing my demons every day,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: I would have never been up here today. You can't
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: outrun your demons. They'll always know where you're hiding. Trust
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: me at that, And I'm in with this. Don't stop
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: when you're tired, stop when you're done. I want to
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: see that guy who immersed himself in fucking hell and
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: he thought about quitting and leaving and his wife and
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: his kids, And why am I here?
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: Is Is it worth it? All this crazy shit is
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: still said. I found out a way to get through it.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: So basically, that's the bottom line of it all.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: We all want to read about how we can quickly
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: get somewhere. That's why they're six minute abs and all
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: sort of shits so powerful you make it some results
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: from it, They're not permanent. The permanent result comes from
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: you fucking I say it all the time. You have
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: to suffering. You have to make that a tattoo on
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: your fucking brain. So when that hard time comes again,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: you don't forget it. You may forget it for a second,
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: but you can go back in the cookie jar.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: I call it. It's a it's something that we've all endured.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: I call it the cookie jar, and we often forget
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: how hard we are.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: But you gotta reflect back, take a couple of sad
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: reflect I've been through this, I've been through that, and
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: then remind yourself I'm a bad motherfucker, and then you
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: can get through that shit. But if you don't believe
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: it you have it endured shit, you're just blowing smoke, man,
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: and you're not gonna get through anything.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: But my experience so far as being that.
• 39:49
  Speaker 13: When you see people bear their suffering, no believe there's
• 39:53
  Speaker 13: nothing in that but good, that's something.
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: And then when you.
• 39:58
  Speaker 13: See people take on more responsibility and decide that they're
• 40:01
  Speaker 13: going to aim up and confront their suffering honestly and forthrightly,
• 40:07
  Speaker 13: that their lives get better and the lives of people
• 40:09
  Speaker 13: around them get better too. And so that's very strange
• 40:14
  Speaker 13: as well. Because it also means that the pathway to
• 40:17
  Speaker 13: less suffering is through suffering, right, And that's kind of
• 40:22
  Speaker 13: that would be hopeful if the world was constituted that way.
• 40:25
  Speaker 13: It's like, well, they're suffering, how do you make it worse?
• 40:28
  Speaker 13: Run away? How do you make it better? Confront it? Yeah,
• 40:32
  Speaker 13: but it's suffering. It's like, yeah, but it's there, there,
• 40:36
  Speaker 13: it is, it's right there. It's a precondition for existence
• 40:39
  Speaker 13: or something like that. And it's like, you have something
• 40:41
  Speaker 13: important to do as well, and you confront it, and
• 40:44
  Speaker 13: that's the pathway to transcending it.
• 40:53
  Speaker 12: Like I promise you, every single person who wants to
• 40:56
  Speaker 12: do something with their life and has done something with
• 40:58
  Speaker 12: their life has gone through the exact chapter that you're
• 41:01
  Speaker 12: going through.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: And it's the lonely chapter.
• 41:03
  Speaker 12: It's the chapter where you don't fit in with your
• 41:06
  Speaker 12: own friends, but you don't have the outcomes yet to
• 41:08
  Speaker 12: fit into a new group of friends.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: And you're doing this thing. You're consuming content on the internet.
• 41:12
  Speaker 12: You're doing these fruit tutorials online to try and figure
• 41:15
  Speaker 12: out how to set up a podcast and where do
• 41:16
  Speaker 12: I host this thing? And then and you're going through
• 41:19
  Speaker 12: this and you're like, am I is this even worth
• 41:21
  Speaker 12: it because you have no signs of success. Right But
• 41:24
  Speaker 12: if there's anything that you can take away from what
• 41:25
  Speaker 12: we're saying right now, is that the sign of success
• 41:28
  Speaker 12: is the hate that you get along the way. And
• 41:31
  Speaker 12: what you can't do is bend the knee to their
• 41:33
  Speaker 12: hate and fit back into the conforming because it's comfortable
• 41:36
  Speaker 12: and it's warm. Because like in the Matrix, when Trinity
• 41:40
  Speaker 12: opens the door when Neil's about to go take the
• 41:42
  Speaker 12: red Pill and he wants to get out of the car,
• 41:44
  Speaker 12: she says, Neil, You've been down that road and you
• 41:47
  Speaker 12: know exactly where it leads, and I know that's not
• 41:49
  Speaker 12: where you want to be, and then he closes the door,
• 41:53
  Speaker 12: Like right now, this moment that you're going through is
• 41:56
  Speaker 12: Trinity opening the door and being like, you could go back,
• 41:59
  Speaker 12: but then you'd have to remember exactly what the reason
• 42:01
  Speaker 12: was that you decided not to go out to begin with.
• 42:03
  Speaker 12: Just because you've listened to this podcast and you consume
• 42:05
  Speaker 12: this concent you're like, I can fucking do more than this,
• 42:07
  Speaker 12: Like because you are starting to live in some of
• 42:09
  Speaker 12: that hell where you look in the mirror and you're like,
• 42:11
  Speaker 12: I can do more, and you start to see the
• 42:12
  Speaker 12: person that you could be, and you're like, this does
• 42:14
  Speaker 12: start to feel like hell.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: So whenever sick gets nasty, David Gagnas goes, you had
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: nobody anyway, motherfucker. So see how I'm talking myself for now,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: that's me. That shit fires me the fuck up. That
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: shit makes me fucking nuts.
• 42:30
  Speaker 2: You had nobody anyway, motherfucker. Look around you. There was
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: no fucking team. There was you.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: There was no weight loss programmer, mom and dad waking
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: you up, saying you can do it, you can be better,
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: trying to build belief. You build belief when you had
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: nothing rock bottom.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: You did that. So as times get hard for me,
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: the truth comes out.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: And my truth is powerful as fuck, it's real, it's handible,
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: it comes out of my brain as I speak about it.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: I'm reliving every single dark moment of my life to
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: be here.
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: So that is what people don't get.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: That is what motivates David Goggins is the unseen work.
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: But everybody needs that path on the back.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: They need that training partner, they need that accountability coach.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah shit, and need to do they But it's
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: what we've trained ourselves to believe that we need.
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: If you want to be great, You want to be
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: a bad motherfucker.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Ever at what you do, you can be misunderstood by
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: everybody because you're gonna be so fucking obsessed and so
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: driven to get there.
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: And that's what it takes, That's the truth. It takes
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: every second of your fucking life.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: Anybody says balance, Yeah, balance is important for a lot
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: of fucking people.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: It is.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: But if you want to fucking go to that edge
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: where people do not like you, don't understand you question
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: everything you fucking do. You've arrived when you are misunderstood
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: to the point where fucking people think you're psycho and
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: you're nuts, and you're this and that. Why are you
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: in the fucking gym at one o'clock in the fucking morning.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: He's got to doing an ah for fucking thirteen fourteen
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: hours after ranger school man at the gym?
• 44:16
  Speaker 2: What was wrong? You will never understand what is wrong
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: with me?
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: And that's why I'm so fucking glad you don't, because
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: I'm in the right fucking spot. When people don't understand
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: you anymore. You're in that spot of obsession and drive
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: where people are like, what the fuck is wrong with
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: this guy? I don't want to talk to you, man,
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: because you're not gonna get it. You're not gonna get it.
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: Boom that wants you to get it, Yeah, don want
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: you to get it.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: People only root for people who don't need it.
• 44:47
  Speaker 12: Like the amount of times when I was on my
• 44:51
  Speaker 12: lonely path where I was too different from the friends
• 44:54
  Speaker 12: that I had, but not successful enough to be friends
• 44:57
  Speaker 12: with the people that I wanted to be friends with.
• 45:03
  Speaker 12: That's when you want people to root for you. That's
• 45:06
  Speaker 12: when you want people to support you once you've already won.
• 45:10
  Speaker 12: People are like, he's amazing, He's so good, But like,
• 45:13
  Speaker 12: that's the time when you need it the least.
• 45:16
  Speaker 7: And so.
• 45:18
  Speaker 12: You always have to be the person who roots for
• 45:20
  Speaker 12: you before everyone else does. And it's usually a single
• 45:24
  Speaker 12: clap in the auditorium for a very long period of time.
• 45:29
  Speaker 12: It is a slow clap that's just you rooting for you.
• 45:35
  Speaker 12: And that visual, I think is one that you can
• 45:37
  Speaker 12: kind of take because it is People struggle to do
• 45:42
  Speaker 12: things a lot, and the path of the exceptional person
• 45:48
  Speaker 12: is one of an exception, which means that you are
• 45:50
  Speaker 12: not with other people, and rather than fighting that or
• 45:55
  Speaker 12: bemoaning it, see it as an indicator that you're on
• 45:59
  Speaker 12: the right path, because if everyone else were cheering you on,
• 46:03
  Speaker 12: then it means you're not in the right place, because
• 46:05
  Speaker 12: it means you're just like everyone else, and that's not
• 46:06
  Speaker 12: where you want to be.
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: The one thing that made me who I am today
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: is being vulnerable.
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: It's breaking myself down to that absolute rock bottom and
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: being able to tell people who I am.
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: And that's how I fixed it. Literally, you know, life
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: created this person me.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: Life created me to be this fucked up person that
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: was back in the day, and I had to realize, Man,
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: that's okay, man, it's not my fault. Now you're gonna
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: go back and fix this shit though, So a lot
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: of this isn't your fault. Why you do some things
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: you do, why you feel the way you feel, But
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: no one's coming back to save your ass.
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: You have to go back to where this shit started.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: Whoever that place is for everybody, and had the courage
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: to go back there and start fixing what broke you broke.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: It's funny, man, people want to know how I'm always motivated.
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: It's the unseen work.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: I'm out running at two o'clock in the morning, one
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning in the gym, long sessions by myself.
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: That's real. I'm able to extract dopamine, the good dopamine,
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: and eever I want.
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: Man, I've trained ninety nine percent of my life alone.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: No one pat me on the back.
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: I did all of the work alone. While I'm still
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: hard on myself, I know what I did. So whenever
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: times get bad, all this who's your carry of the boats?
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: Look, that's real. I can extract it immediately when I
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: need you.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: Because I lived alone for so many years in this misery,
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: and you're able to get out by yourself. I can
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: take myself to such a level of real, real passion
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: and purpose and like the feeling I get is something
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: I can't even expect by myself.
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: I don't need anyone. That's why.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: That's why people come to me to motivate them. No
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: one can motivate me. I have a resume full of
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: fucking motivation that whenever I'm down like, oh, hang on, motherfucker.
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: Oh you know you know the truth. You know that
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: you you know the darkness of the fucking dungeons and.
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: The fucking demons that fly, you know, And then from
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: there it's like, okay, you were there.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: You know this, There was no one there to.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: Pick up the rucksack, to pick up the boat, to
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: pick up the log, to go that It was you.
• 48:28
  Speaker 7: It was you.
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: There wasn't no.
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: Pattern the fucking back at three hundred and at two
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: seventy five, two fifty, No, that was you. So those
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: things that come out of me, that extract from me
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: in the darkness, people are.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: Looking for that pound the back. Where is it? Oh?
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: I don't need it because what I've done is in
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: the fucking unseen work I've built Frankenstarn. So whenever shit
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: gets nasty, David Goddess goes. We had nobody anyway, motherfucker.
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: So see how tall myself or now that's me. That
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: shit fires me to fuck up, That shit makes me
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: fucking nuts. You had nobody anyway, motherfucker. Look around you.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: There was no fucking team. It was you.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: There was no weight loss programmer, Mom and Dad waking
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: you up, saying you can do it, you can be better.
• 49:17
  Speaker 2: Trying to build belief. You build belief when you had
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: nothing rock bottom. You did that.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: So as times get hard for me, the truth comes out,
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: and my truth is powerful as a fuck. It's real,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: it's tangible. I feel it. It comes out of my
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: brain as I speak about it. I'm reliving every single
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: dark moment of my life to be here.
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: So that is what people don't get. That is what
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: motivates David Goggins. It's the unseen work.
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: Everybody needs that pat on the back, They need that
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: training partner, they need that accountability coach.
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that shit, they need to do that.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: It's what we've trained ourselves to believe that we need that.
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: There's no fucking hack, bro, there's no fucking hack. Yeah
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: you made this and that and saunas and all this
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: shit that they Yeah, it's great.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: There is no fucking life hack to grow that thing.
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: How do you grow it? Do it and do it
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: and do it and do it. That's the hack. The
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: hack is gonna fucking suck.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: And that's what I realized. That's what I realized life.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: That's why I wanted to come on here today. I
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: didn't wanna come on here on top about no fucking
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: passion and purpose and how to get the fuck out
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: of bed, how to hit a fucking alarm clock and
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: all this catchphrase bullshit, because that wasn't how I lived,
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: but how I lived I lived.
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: I woke up like every human being does and goes, fuck, man,
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: I'm a fucking piece of shit today. How the hell
• 50:51
  Speaker 2: is this gonna work out for me? And you fight that,
• 50:54
  Speaker 2: and you fight that, you don't override it. It's no
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: overriding button. It's the conversation in your fucking in your head.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: So how you do that?
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: We don't have enough of these conversations about the real
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: conversation that every human being is.
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: Having and they have no idea how to get out
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: of it, but they do. It's that shit right there. Man.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: You gotta build your will.
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: So now you know why there's so many people that
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: fail in this world to figure out their purpose, their
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: purpose and life.
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: Where do I go? Because to grow that don't look fun,
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: don't look fun. So it's a choice that people have
• 51:33
  Speaker 2: to make in life.
• 51:36
  Speaker 27: Talk about performance without a purpose?
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: What's up?
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: So, for instance, let's say you have no races, Let's
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: say you have no classes, no nothing, you have there's no.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: Purpose in your life.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: You know, people need to have purpose to get up,
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: they need purpose to perform.
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: You need to get to a point.
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: In your life where there's nothing on the docket, there's
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: no five k there's no I'm gonna getting to school
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  Speaker 1: to be this or that is still.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: Perform to the highest level.
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: Because what people don't get is one day that thing
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: is gonna come up, and if you're not constantly performing
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: without purpose.
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: You're not gonna be ready when the time comes.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: It's this magical thing purpose that we're all looking for.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: But what's funny about it all is that.
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: We need these things to perform.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: But we don't take a second to realize the purpose
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: is always there. The purpose never leaves us because the
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: very purpose is you.
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: You are always the purpose.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: There may be another purpose like being a seal or
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: going to college or whatever, but the main purpose in
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: life is you. So if you wake up in the
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: morning and you don't want to do something, you don't
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: care enough about yourself, and that's what you need to
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: really research, is Man, why am I not doing this
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: for myself? Because that is the number one purpose in
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: life is to better once.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: So that's the only purpose I fucking need. So the
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: reason I get every.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Day you know, there's no racist, there's no school, there's
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: nothing in front of me.
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: Is because I have pride in myself.
• 53:11
  Speaker 27: Well, when do you go to you wake up on
• 53:13
  Speaker 27: the morning, or it's cold, it's wet, it's dark, you've
• 53:16
  Speaker 27: got no cottilage in your knave, you've got shitty shorts,
• 53:20
  Speaker 27: whatever it is, that's the issue today. It's warm on
• 53:21
  Speaker 27: the couch, you miss say staying bad. It's comfy, that's cozy.
• 53:26
  Speaker 27: You've got work later on. You had an argument last night.
• 53:28
  Speaker 27: You're slight young over.
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: Can I know every motherfucker I ain't gonna do. I'm
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: gonna do. So this is how you level loone. That's
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: how you level loone.
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: I know there's a whole bunch of people with that
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: right there that fires me up, That makes me fucking
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: happy with you just said. That brings Jordan in my
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: life right there, because I know there's so.
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: Many people that have the.
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: Ability and just refuse to get off that couch, refuse
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: to study a few more hours, refuse to go deeper.
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: You go further, and that that's where I gained the advantage.
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: It's so easy to.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: Be great nowadays, my friend, because most people are weak.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: Most people don't want to go to that extra mile.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: Most people don't want to find that extra because it sucks,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: it's miserable, it's lonely.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: You talk about that you were kind of, you know,
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: lonely by yourself. I was the same way and that
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: used to hurt me growing up.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: Now I fucking thrive and that shit, that's the only
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: place to be a lot of people, you know, wonder.
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: How did you become this? How you become so vulnerable?
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: How how are you doing a podcast now?
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: When you were this kid, you overcame things, you fought them,
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: and now this is what happens. This is on the
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: other side of overcoming, it becomes you become very, very
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: powerful when you overcome yourself.
• 54:50
  Speaker 27: Let's say that someone listening who resonates with what you're
• 54:53
  Speaker 27: talking about. You know, they've been through trauma, they've been
• 54:56
  Speaker 27: through hord times, but they keep breaking promises to themselves
• 54:59
  Speaker 27: and that's struggle to get off the couch and the
• 55:01
  Speaker 27: having a pity party. How can they stop feeling sorry
• 55:04
  Speaker 27: for themselves?
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: That's a difficult one because you have to want it,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: You have to want to be better, and it starts
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: off with you have to have pride in yourself. You
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: you have to have pride of yourself.
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: You have to have there's something about you, whether it's
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: your last name, whether it's just.
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: The smallest thing. You have to be proud of yourself.
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: And if you have no pride of yourself, I can't give.
• 55:28
  Speaker 27: It to you because you're always going to compromise, You're always.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: Going to volt always. I'm very proud of us. That's
• 55:32
  Speaker 2: why when people said.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: You know what you can do better than can't hurt Roger,
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: Dad will fucking see.
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: It's that pride that wakes you up.
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: Now that it's about bad pride, the attention to detail
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: for the human being I want to do.
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: I call this think like I want to be the standard.
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: Every place I went to.
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: The military, there was this ethos about how this place is,
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: how we're going to live, how we're going to represent ourselves.
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: And I walked around and I saw that most people
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: didn't live up to that ethos.
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: Like if you go to whatever company, they had this
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: mission statement on how we want to run our company.
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: I may want for myself on how I want to be.
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: And that is why if people can make up a
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: mission statement and ethos and which they want to live by,
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: and every morning you wake up, you hold yourself accountable
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: to that mission not a company.
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: As your own.
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: Make up your own mission statement. What do you want
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: to be in life. And once you do that, now
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: you can work with somebody to get better. You can
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: work with yourself to get better. But until you know
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: what you want to stand.
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: For, you will always just be sitting down. You'll never
• 56:49
  Speaker 2: stand for anything. The most powerful weapon in.
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: The world we walk around with it so mine, so
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: brain able to go into a very dark place in
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: your mind and figure who you are, go back to
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: what you want to do, what's your purpose? We can't
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: figure our purpose out, or why we're here, or why
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: we're even born or whatever because it's so loud in
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: our mind. We don't have any quiet time for ourselves
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: to sit back and say what do I really want?
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: There's so many different dialogues in our head that we
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: can't think. So my biggest thing is you have to
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: be alone in a very dark place in your mind
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: to think about what is important to you.
• 57:32
  Speaker 12: Really.
• 57:32
  Speaker 28: The two things I want to say are got to
• 57:35
  Speaker 28: be the hardest workers in the room and don't fuck
• 57:39
  Speaker 28: the opportunity out.
• 57:41
  Speaker 13: If you investigate what people mean when they say they
• 57:44
  Speaker 13: want to be happy, they say I just want to
• 57:46
  Speaker 13: be happy.
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: It's a very funny phrase, is what do you mean?
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: Just there isn't anything harder than that. So you can't
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: just say just I just that's all you want. You
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: just want to be happy all the time.
• 58:01
  Speaker 29: Or take the question of worth. It is relying on
• 58:06
  Speaker 29: an outcome. We don't make these things for an outcome.
• 58:11
  Speaker 29: It's it's it's not the mindset to make something great.
• 58:17
  Speaker 29: The outcome happens. You're making the best thing you can make.
• 58:22
  Speaker 29: It's a it's a devotional practice.
• 58:25
  Speaker 6: Those times when you get up early and you work hard,
• 58:28
  Speaker 6: those times when you stay up late and you work hard,
• 58:30
  Speaker 6: those times when you don't feel like working, you're too tired,
• 58:33
  Speaker 6: you don't want to push yourself, but you're doing anyway.
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: That is actually the dream. That's the dream. It's not
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: the destination. It's the journey.
• 58:43
  Speaker 6: And if you guys, if you guys can understand that,
• 58:47
  Speaker 6: then what you'll see happen is that you won't accomplish
• 58:50
  Speaker 6: your dreams. Your dreams won't come true. Something greater will.
• 58:55
  Speaker 6: And if you guys can understand that, and I'm doing
• 58:58
  Speaker 6: my job as a father.
• 58:59
  Speaker 28: The first I just want to say is this idea
• 59:02
  Speaker 28: and this notion that you can be anything you want,
• 59:04
  Speaker 28: you can accomplish anything you want. Right, we hear that.
• 59:07
  Speaker 28: You've heard that from the time you were little boys.
• 59:10
  Speaker 2: You hear that.
• 59:10
  Speaker 28: Now you're already incredibly accomplished. You can win an NBA Championship,
• 59:15
  Speaker 28: MVP of the league. You could become president, you can
• 59:18
  Speaker 28: become governor, you can have you could be in and
• 59:23
  Speaker 28: you could be in entertainment. You could do.
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: Charles or you could do Shack. You can do that.
• 59:29
  Speaker 28: You could do whatever you want to do. You guys
• 59:31
  Speaker 28: know that the thing that has worked for me is
• 59:35
  Speaker 28: to remember.
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: The hard times.
• 59:40
  Speaker 29: Whatever happens after that happens, and that part that happens
• 59:46
  Speaker 29: after it is completely out of your control. Putting any
• 59:50
  Speaker 29: energy into that part that's out of your controls wasted time.
• 59:54
  Speaker 29: All it is. All it does is undermine your work.
• 59:57
  Speaker 29: Your work is to make the best thing you can,
• 59:59
  Speaker 29: so any thought you have about outcome undermines the whole thing.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: Fail big, that's right, fail big.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: Today's the beginning of the rest of your life, and
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: it means to be very frightened.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: It's a world out there. To meet world out there.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: You only live once, so do what you feel passionate.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 30: One of the most important things never ever quit, Never quit.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's an ability or if you
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: have it, just you can't quit.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 30: And I've seen people quitting and if they would have
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 30: held out longer, they would have been successful.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: I've seen it so much.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 30: I've seen some of the most brilliant people in the
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 30: world that never made it because they were quitters.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: They were just quitters. They would quit.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 30: They just couldn't take it, They couldn't whatever. One of
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 30: the things about loving what you do is that it's
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 30: not work, and therefore you don't quit automatically.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: It's a lot easier not to quit, but you can
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: never give up.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 31: That's the only way you ever get where you want
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 31: to go. You have to take a path. It's dangerous,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 31: and most people want to take the safe path, and
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 31: the safe path leaves you stuck in quiet desperation almost
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 31: every time.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: It's hell.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 32: The thing is with me is I don't give a fuck.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 32: I don't give a fuck. You give a shit when
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 32: anybody says or what anybody thinks. I have this mindset.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 32: I know exactly who the fuck I am. I have
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 32: my circle of people that I hang around with who
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 32: know me and know what I'm about and whatever, and uh,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 32: anybody else who doesn't like it or doesn't want them.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 33: That a person's strengths are often their biggest weaknesses, and
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 33: so that also means that their weaknesses can be their strengths.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 13: The emptiness in your life isn't because you don't have
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 13: enough rights. You have all the rights to are, you
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 13: have more than you should, And isn't because you lack
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 13: consumerist options. You have Amazon and pornography mat you can
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 13: get whatever you want whenever you want it. And if
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 13: that's still not working, well, what are you missing? Well,
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 13: maybe you're missing the opposite of that, a little bit
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 13: of restraint, a little bit of sacrifice, some responsibility.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 31: The way you can change is you have to put
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 31: us out enough money to give yourself a window, and
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 31: then you have to have a plan, and you have
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 31: to spend all your waking hours outside of whatever shit
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 31: job you do planning your escape. And you have to
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 31: come to the realization very clearly that you fucked up
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 31: and you got yourself stuck. So whatever you're doing, you
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 31: have to do it like your life depends on it.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 34: This is actually pretty simple, and I said it the
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 34: other day, And you have to realize, you have to know,
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 34: you have to accept that all your excuses are lies.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 34: They are lies, all of them. Think about the things
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 34: that you tell yourself, the lies you use to rationalize
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 34: taking the easy road.
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 32: My advice I would give is, don't listen to anyone.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 32: Don't everybody tells you right.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 2: Don't listen to me, don't listen to anybody.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 32: Don't listen to anyone. Everybody's full of shit. Nobody knows
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 32: you or what you're capable of doing. And here's the reality.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 32: When the hardest thing in life is figuring out who
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 32: you are and what you want to do for the
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 32: rest of your life. It's a big decision. I'm very
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 32: blessed and lucky. I always knew who I wasn't exactly
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 32: what I.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 7: Wanted to do.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 32: And once you figure that out, you wake up every
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 32: day and you work toward it. That's what you do.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: It's impossible.