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Game Episode: Intuitive Medium Jennifer Shaffer Plays Spirit Speed Round · The Iconic Midlife with Roxy Manning

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  The sign from a loved one people miss most often is blank pennies, pennies.
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  Everyone's afraid to pick up a penny now.
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  People don't want to pick up pennies,.
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  So we should be picking those things.
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  Up because it also signals to the universe that you want money too.
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  But if you say no, then you're saying no to money.
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  A lot of dogs I've seen were horses before.
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  They're sentient beings.
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  They mimic our troubles, our pain.
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  They absorb.
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  People don't even know that cats occurring kills your bones.
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  The one thing people should stop being afraid of is dying.
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  Wake up in the morning and tell yourself, I'm awesome.
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  And I'm telling you, that's like liquid medicine.
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  Welcome to the iconic midlife.
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  Jennifer, how are you today?
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  I am fabulous.
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  Thank you for inviting me.
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  Oh, I'm so excited you're here.
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  And happy belated birthday.
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  Thank you.
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  You mentioned a game and we always like to play a game with our guests if you are up for.
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  All right.
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  All right, let's do it.
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  So this is called the Spirit Speed Round.
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  We always have to have a catchy name.
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  So I'm going to say a sentence and you just finish with whatever comes to mind, which I'm sure for you will.
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  It'll be amazing.
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  The biggest misconception about intuitives is blank,.
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  That they're not normal.
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  That's a good point.
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  That's a good point.
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  The sign from a loved one people miss most often is blank pennies, pennies.
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  So pennies on the ground.
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  So that is truly a sign.
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  But everyone's afraid to pick up a penny now, like, people don't want to pick up pennies, but that's just pennies and feathers.
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  It's true.
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  So we should be picking those things.
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  Up because it also signals to the universe that you want money too.
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  But if you say no, then you're saying no to money.
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  It doesn't matter what size of, you.
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  Know, right denomination of money it is and everything.
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  Pick up that penny and that feather.
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  Well, the butterfly is more.
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  It's known.
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  Right.
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  But the penny, people don't talk about that.
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  There's pennies from heaven.
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  Make a mental note to pick up those pennies.
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  The first thing I tell someone who's grieving is blank.
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  Give yourself some grace.
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  Allow it to come and go.
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  Some days you'll be better prepared for it and other days you won't.
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  And just it.
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  Grief has no appointments, it just comes in.
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  And you're going to go through stages and phases, but allow yourself give, but give yourself grace.
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  Don't ever try to get over it.
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  And that's the biggest thing.
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  Trying to get over it is just going to make it worse.
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  What you.
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  No one's ever going to get over the loss of a child, ever.
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  But you'll learn to coexist with it.
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  Yeah.
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  What is.
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  I mean, just let it come.
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  Let it go and let it come and let it pass and honor it.
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  Honor it.
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  Because if you have grief over someone, that's because you loved well and honor that, you know?
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  And the other thing is nobody from the other side is mad at you because you weren't there at their death or you weren't there.
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  They get to go when they arrive, when they take their first breath in a different place.
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  They get to feel all the love you've ever given them your whole life all at once.
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  They don't care about the last day or the last two weeks.
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  It's about who you were all along that they get to feel and what they get.
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  What a.
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  What an amazing thing that they go through when they reach, you know, that place.
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  Yeah.
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  Wow.
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  What about dogs?
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  They're the best.
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  What about our dogs?
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  Do they go right?
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  Do they all.
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  Do they.
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  Are we going to be reunited?
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  They come in the forms of whatever we can handle.
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  A lot of dogs I've seen were horses before.
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  Like, they just.
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  They're our companions.
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  They're sentient beings.
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  They mimic our troubles, our pain.
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  They absorb.
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  Like, people don't even know that cats purring heals your bones.
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  They've done the frequency.
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  They've tested cats with frequencies.
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  And they.
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  They really are these little magicians.
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  As much as I want to, okay, so they do.
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  And they will be waiting for us.
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  When we come through with feelings and thoughts and everything.
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  They come through like, because they don't talk like this.
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  They project their feelings and thoughts.
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  But why they're with you talk to them.
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  Like, they give you answers.
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  You just can't judge it.
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  If you judge it or if you, like, don't believe that you could talk to them, then you can't.
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  And then do they send us all.
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  The time as well?
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  Like, are they.
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  Do they.
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  What's.
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  What's like.
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  Aside from our dog, probably another dog.
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  It's like a revolving door at our house.
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  Another dog.
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  Or it's.
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  It's another noise or it's some food.
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  Like you'll hear pitter patter.
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  Like you'll hear that.
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  Their energy.
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  That's that little clicks of the nails,.
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  The breathing that puts you to sleep, you know, with dogs, you'll Hear that and you'll wake up.
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  That's them.
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  Wow.
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  Okay.
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  That's so good to hear.
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  Because just for some reason, with animals passing.
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  Yeah.
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  And know that they know that.
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  They know their purpose.
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  They know when they.
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  When they're supposed to leave.
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  They know they know their purpose.
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  We don't.
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  Right.
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  They do.
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  They do.
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  And that can be the hardest decision to have to make that decision, you know?
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  But they.
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  It's.
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  They're.
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  They usually are.
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  Like, they've made it a month prior.
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  It's usually.
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  We try to keep them more, like, stay longer.
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  Okay.
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  So they're okay with that when you have to make that decision.
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  And it's so painful.
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  I've never had any dog say no.
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  Like, they're just like.
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  I'm like, really?
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  You have to take me.
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  You have to lift me up.
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  Take me to the bathroom.
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  Like, come on, dude.
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  Yeah, let me be free.
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  Free of the thing.
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  Right.
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  Okay.
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  The.
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  Okay.
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  The one question every client asks me.
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  Me is blank.
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  That's interesting.
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  They don't say this, but they want to know.
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  It's usually because they want to know their own mortality.
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  As if I'm going to say something.
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  Right.
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  So what if by them not wanting to know it, I can feel it, but they want to know it?
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  Like, I would never say anything unless I.
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  I've had three people tell me they've thought about death a lot.
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  And.
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  And I did feel something, but then again, I don't know when.
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  Like, it's not something that.
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  It's not like a calendar date.
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  You can say.
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  Okay.
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  No.
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  And I do tell if somebody's in hospice and, like, do I get on that flight to New York?
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  I'm like, I can tell them, yes, get on that flight.
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  Okay.
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  You need to see.
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  And sure enough, their parent, you know, might have passed away as soon as I got there.
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  Okay.
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  Kind of thing.
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  But no, I don't.
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  Yeah, you can't.
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  Yeah.
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  It's not like, okay, this is going to happen on this date or what have you.
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  Dies.
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  And so that's the other thing.
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  Oh, interesting.
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  Because their energy lives on.
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  Is that okay?
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  Yeah.
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  People that have dementia, like, they're already over there.
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  They're having the time of their life, really having so much fun.
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  I only feel bad for the caregivers.
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  They're having so much fun.
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  So their mind, their spirit people, they have a blast.
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  They're with their first boyfriends while they're still married here.
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  Like, I've seen everything.
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  They're having so much fun.
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  People that have dementia and Alzheimer's It's.
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  We're the ones that have taken care of them.
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  Have you ever noticed that they usually live longer?
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  Right.
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  Right.
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  They're not telling their bodies, oh, I'm fat, I have cancer, I have this, I have that.
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  So they live longer.
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  Right.
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  I'm like, we need to do that while we have our cognitive brains.
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  That's such a good point.
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  That's.
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  It just shows you how powerful the mind is.
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  You know, it's everything.
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  God.
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  Okay.
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  That I'm, like, taking notes.
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  I'm, like, doing everything different now.
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  I know I'm receiving a message.
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  When blank.
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  When you feel good.
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  Okay.
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  When your heart gets lifted before your mind comes to and says, oh, no, that's not a message, or, oh, no, they wouldn't.
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  Your heart feels it.
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  You might have the chills.
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  The chills are a huge, huge, huge.
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  That's the energy.
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  So when they come into your energy field, your heart rate will go up and.
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  And so instead of panicking, a lot of that has to do with people that are your loved ones that are around you.
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  Wow.
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  And that's the energy you're feeling.
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  That's the energy.
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  And when they give you the chills, those are chill hugs.
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  I call it glitter now.
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  Oh, I like it.
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  Glitter hugs.
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  Because I think that's more fun.
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  Yeah.
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  It's more visual, too.
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  I'm like, I like the glitter.
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  Yeah.
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  Glitter chills.
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  Yes.
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  Okay.
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  This is so good to know.
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  The one thing people should stop being afraid of is blank dying.
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  I mean, obviously I also have that fear.
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  So be afraid of not living.
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  Okay.
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  I think that when we get to the other part of one of the things that we get asked, probably the only thing is, did you love.
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  Well, did you love yourself well enough to do that thing?
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  Or did you live your life because you thought you should because of somebody telling you to a certain way?
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  Like, be worried about not living.
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  Okay, but not death.
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  Not death.
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  What about the process of dying?
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  Like, is that something that we should fear?
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  Like the actual.
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  When your body shuts down and.
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  No, no, no, no.
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  It's a peaceful.
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  Usually passing.
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  Okay.
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  It's the body itself might look more abrupt, but they're usually okay.
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  They're always out of their body, like two days prior.
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  They're just waiting for everybody to come let them go.
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  Their body is still going, so.
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  So it sounds that death rattle that people hear for can't.
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  They're not feeling it.
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  They're already out.
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  They're on the.
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  They're tied to their body, but they're out.
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  So they're watching all of us.
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  That just, like, gives me an Alzheimer to think about.
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  That's why the room's cold.
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  That's why they're looking at their relatives and saying things.
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  Yeah, everyone's there.
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  Oh.
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  That's why they have that look and they can see.
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  Okay.
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  That's.
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  Wow.
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  Wow.
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  If everyone trusted their intuition a little more, they would.
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  They clinder people would be more compassionate.
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  They would realize how connected they are to everything and how their feelings affect others.
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  Such a good lesson.
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  The one thing I hope everyone listening remembers after today's conversation how fabulous they are.
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  Be fabulous.
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  Ruminate over being wonderful.
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  Like, wake up in the morning and tell yourself, I'm fucking awesome.
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  And I'm telling you, that's like liquid medicine.
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  And it just before your mind comes to, just say every day.
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  I'm like, I can handle everything.
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  I can handle everything.
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  You're fucking awesome.
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  Whatever, xyz.
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  You don't have to say the F word.
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  It just totally.
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  We love the F bomb, though.
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  Totally.
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  And what can I do that's going to be better?
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  What can I do?
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  Just be better.
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  Just be better.
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  Love harder.
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  Love more.
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  Love harder.
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  Love your.
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  If you want love, Love yourself.
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  Like, take yourself out.
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  What would you do?
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  Okay, I'm gonna go take myself to the beach.
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  I'm gonna take myself to the movie.
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  I'm gonna read that fabulous book.
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  I'm gonna write that book.
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  I'm gonna.
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  I'm gonna reach out to the friend that I've been thinking about but haven't done that yet.
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  I'm gonna let that other friend go.
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  You know, we're on a train.
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  Some.
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  I heard this.
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  Some people get off the train, let them go.
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  Their stop was there.
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  It's okay.
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  And maybe they stay for two extra stops.
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  And you're like.
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  You're like, go to the back.
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  You lost your place.
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  You've lost it.