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Yoreh De’ah 152:1-153:4. Idolatry: Participating in a Non-Jewish Wedding, Non-Jewish Child Care, Animal Care, Yichud, Traveling With an Armed Non-Jew, Nude Bathhouses · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, all right, good morning. We are serving some Kushnum
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  bays. It's a Michelle Lupas venal
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  bito, a non Jew who is making a wedding for his son or daughter.
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  Also the Salehal sham. It's also for someone Jewish to
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  eat there. I feel awful.
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  Michelo, even, you know, he's very firm.
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  Yeah. And I, of course, also show him
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  he's not going to eat. You know, he eats kosher.
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  It's still ulcer. The reason is, is the the puzzle
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  says the the the Karola Hova Halto music Ho.
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  It says that it says that the Halto music Ho is also to go
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  ahead and eat from his his the some OK, some learns that the
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  zip code means, but the kumara Darsh, the kumara also darshens
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  it to mean that his own his own, you know, his own food, his own
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  like SIM club, because even if you're eating, the point is is
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  that Carlo is that he invites him right.
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  We'll see if he's invited and he eats by the Sootha is a problem.
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  It can eat so that's a shy though that's that's that's that
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  hash does he shouldn't even go but let's see I mean Amos I
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  ulcer one does become ulcer to mishnate.
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  When is it called Azima? You know, an invitation we she
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  asked her the hack in circus to them when they start, you know,
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  you suddenly have the Sarki Sudha La ha, your main Misha la
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  mignon and 30 days after remindership, as Minai Bishvila
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  Hopa says, just come for the you know, he's he's come for the
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  wedding, come for the, you know, ceremony Officer Ajubesh
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  Khydish. It's also for 12 months
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  afterwards. It is it will be it will be
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  permitted. I guess it's I guess they're
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  really it's not 100% clear what the new base footage is.
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  Well, no, I don't. I mean, I get it says like SU
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  business says that's how long it takes them to to prepare for the
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  gives them a year to prepare for the Khasna.
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  But here. If you want him to come, if you
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  just want, if you want him to actually come to the ceremony
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  and stuff into the whole wedding, not just to not just
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  not just as Michelle, but no, I mean, he's making a party
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  celebration, but here he's making inviting to the actual
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  wedding. So until 12 months, it's going
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  to be it's going to be considered that idea of of of
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  inviting him to the Hopa. He can't go after you be
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  Scottish motor. But if it didn't take place,
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  this isn't like inviting someone to the Hopa.
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  Yeah, this is inviting to the Hopa and the Sudan and the Suda,
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  right. Ellen Kane, who other culture,
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  unless he is an other culture, then it's also for him even
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  after you base you base Kydish. So what?
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  What happened? Here, Yeah, OK, so so the thing
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  what's going what's going on is is the the way though the tiles
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  is Masvier and tiles get tried. He tries to explain everything
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  here. He says that he could appear to
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  Shalote Achilles Israel, but there are they has manas of the
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  Kukhovic that was Masvid as Echo Musvino, the Basai.
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  So let's see so Basil, we'll explain everything together.
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  You know it's the one who's making the wedding, basically
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  Basically, you sell it was time a doggy motor.
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  You send some chickens and finish word in the multi Mesa
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  pedino send some kosher food. It's most of the problem.
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  The answer is that he's eating from his food.
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  It's the key of Das it's he's inviting him to the wedding and
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  he's sitting and eating. That's that's the answer.
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  But if he if he even if he invited him, it sent it to the
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  itself. It's not as an on the on the
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  food. It's on the it's on the mouths
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  of of going to the, you know, going and eating the child says.
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  But if if he sends a whole group of people to party at the have a
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  party by the by the Jews house, it's his business partner.
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  Whatever it is, it's also awesome.
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  The point is he shouldn't be at the party party if he's just
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  coming for the ceremony to say congratulations.
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  I don't know if it means I don't know if it's awesome to walk in.
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  The point is sitting down and the and being part of the of
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  the, you know, of the wedding. Yeah, it's I don't know if
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  that's not called Kilo anyway. And the point is sitting down.
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  The point is, you know, if they have Charles and a bar, I don't
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  know. I don't know, but upon him, no,
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  that's that's really the point over here you'd be the other
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  kosher is Taz means is mahogis over here.
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  If he says that the of the kosher is that or it means
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  anyone if he shows up even after 12 months, he invited him like a
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  year and a half before then he shows up and he's going to be
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  happy about it. That's what that's also a
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  problem. One shot is he killed him
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  kosher, but of course he's a what you know it's a meanest
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  concedos. You shouldn't go.
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  But the task says even if he's not a even if he's not, you know
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  a or something. If it's anyone who in his eye in
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  the in the Nagi's eyes is Khashog and he shouldn't show he
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  shouldn't show up because he gives him he would start with
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  the extra simpler he gives to the to the to the to the father
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  of the bride. Whatever is you know, is means
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  he's beshtative and he shouldn't he shouldn't show up.
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  The Taz asks, well, what's the difference between that?
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  And we've mentioned before that he could be Samarthan by the ha.
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  He can Samarthan mine. It's Khalifa and he says Adrisha
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  says it is stopping. The Taz says I don't understand
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  what the Suffolk is. It's partial that this is going
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  to be ulcer because he says that he said over here, the whole
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  point of this whole pulse, like it's clear the time of the crowd
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  says straight is he shouldn't mix, you know, assimilate and
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  mix with the going right. So if you're going to sit down
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  by the sit down and and sit down and celebrate with them, that's
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  going to that that's a problem. That's not matter Ava for care.
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  The whole pulsick is telling you, Ava, don't get involved
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  with them. It doesn't make a difference if
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  they're insulted. You can't.
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  It's better that they're a little bit insulted to separate.
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  That's what he says. The Ava's OK in this situation.
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  He says the lomatsuna is important and Lomatsuno has to
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  be sure Ava Ava's only mitzvah mishim Devarakar, you could go,
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  you know the mishim, it's a allele.
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  There's a the answer is not, you know, being misarriage with
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  them. So then you have to be conscious
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  Ava. You know, there's a very
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  problem. But if the point is to go ahead
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  and not the whole point is not to be mid side.
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  The whole point is created a little bit of Ava.
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  So then Ava, how are you going to matter?
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  That's what the town says that right.
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  So that's that's the basic gist of this of this of this Simmons
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  a little bit confusing, but that's basically it.
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  Obviously. Now listen, nowadays I don't
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  know, you know, again and again that person he's oh, come up.
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  So you say congratulations, but he's to find an excuse not to go
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  for the whole thing to celebrate with him.
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  Is is is isn't it? Is it could be.
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  It's a child of Viva Darisa. It's a clear.
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  Invitation to the whole wedding into the next 12 months you have
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  this problem. Yeah, that's listen, but but but
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  in the secular world, they plan these things out for like a
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  year, 2 years, like they these things go on.
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  This isn't when you're you're after.
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  And if not, I understood it's from the from the time of the,
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  of the Hasmana, the time I, I thought I understood it from the
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  time of the Nazvana. I'll, I'll, I'll take, no, I'll
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  take a look, explain. I'll look, I'll look it up in
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  the Kamara since I, I thought, you know, it says a little
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  clearer what the, what, what was the exact case six months
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  before? The wedding, then it's he can't
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  he goes to six months after the. Wedding it could be I don't know
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  if he shows up a year after the wedding like then people
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  remember. I don't know.
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  Maybe it's different back then. I didn't think like that.
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  I thought the shot is if he invited him.
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  You know he you know he invited him.
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  Maybe you're right. Maybe it's afterwards and I'll
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  call sure if he comes, he's going to be murdered to I don't
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  know. I'll I'll just try to be moved
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  over there on that on that Makuta fine.
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  Khusdin Gimel ain't my median behaved up from the culture of
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  the Kukhovian. You shouldn't stable your your
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  animals in the stables, you know, in the Inns or whatever of
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  of going above the Kukhovian, A moisting Bahamian, Leroy
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  Shalahan shoot him all over here, because they're we're
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  hosting them on Rivia on on bestiality.
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  We'll call shooting BA nowadays basically the other of a machi
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  motor. There are laws against such
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  things. Then it's motor, right?
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  OK, you're right, you know, But even if there's could be, even
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  if on the law books, you know, the and there's and there's
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  there is a law, there would be caught.
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  There would be a problem. I don't know, you know, you
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  know, Then yeah, there could be, you know, I don't know.
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  But Tasha think it could be. You could.
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  I don't think it has to be Hush. Tasha's nowadays you have to be
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  hushes for hush for this anymore.
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  New York City. Parks I don't know, you know,
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  the the feel of it serious. I mean, nowadays nowadays the
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  morality is has gone. You know is is is tanked.
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  So I I can't really don't know the with the with the Taz.
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  The Shila is we have the shila here.
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  Can you discussion? Can you eat an animal which is
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  been which has been done a very has been done to the town says
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  says he brings Who is he bringing?
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  So he says it's also but he says so I'm shooting.
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  He holds that that's only in it's it's only brought in the
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  Gemara that that's even that you know that sure in this skull or
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  by something which is never which is which is which was
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  which was for you know for not never which was for the base of
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  mitos for the carbanos. But he says that see that the
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  pashes is no, there's no problem of there's no problem other
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  craniums save. However, if it's something which
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  is going to be a cool a chef, you know, if this animal like
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  everyone knows something happened to it and why the
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  juiciness disgusting. They shouldn't be.
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  You know, they shouldn't be. They shouldn't be shouldn't be
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  eating it. You know, it's still I mean
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  there's other ideas of not being since they are hulking, you
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  know, of course you can't avoid it.
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  Obviously, it's probably it's, you know, probably better, but
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  there's big Karan. There's no there's no there's no
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  issue. The aim Mason, the hand, Tina
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  Lolando Safair Orlando Unos, the muscular laminos and you should
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  not give over now the kid to to you know, to teach them to teach
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  them or to teach them like an apprenticeship because they're
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  going to bring them to Minos. They're going to bring them to
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  to Fira or to Schmad or whatever it is.
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  And that's that's that's an issue again, what does it apply
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  to nowadays? Obviously nowadays, especially
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  sending him to sending him to school, it's something at the
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  public school, things like that is definitely going to be
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  emotional. You know, there are people who
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  think, well, I know they're they're working.
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  I don't know, whatever. And you still you send half day
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  and you send I don't know these things.
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  You know these things don't you know there aren't you know
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  they're not recommended cold chicane.
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  You know giving them over to to all the common in the out on
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  social media would be could probably be over their sister
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  also because also the beam maids for him to be taught a bunch of
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  still a bunch of even worse than that.
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  The the tiles of the place to give me the tile says that
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  Gemara adds one more one more thing saying that that the
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  Shakhar left out is a merchant to Bishko Zahar that you know,
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  the worst is Mishko Zahor. So the person can say nowadays
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  we're not Haishi Shrir. It's a it's a Guevara and it's a
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  it's a Shahar passage in Evaneser nowadays, meaning at
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  the time when Shahar was written time of the Vishay name.
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  However, nowadays you said it's, you know, sending your kids to
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  to secular schools. They are most of them to Mishko
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  Zahar. They messed their heads up.
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  I didn't know if I know with all sorts of all sorts of problems
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  making them, you know, making, you know, Yeah, yeah.
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  Mishkov soccer, Caputo or you are a guy, you're a man, you're
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  a girl. I don't know Caputo.
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  So yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a you know, and or, or even
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  without that, it may messy up their minds, you know, from all
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  the station and all these types of things, right.
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  Mishkov soccer is great. The more so you're closest
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  they're going to go ahead and molest them.
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  So, you know, and there's what you know what is what to talk
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  about in in Ezra just got you know, you might just you know,
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  here's talking about, you know, talking about, you know, but you
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  know anyone you could have a shash for you know, fortunately
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  you have cases, but it's not it's not there a club in the
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  schools nowadays, I don't know, days don't miyape you swell with
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  with with with with because they're questioned all FIFA's
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  dummy, which is a shy Now again nowadays, Is it true or not?
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  And if it's a possibility, then yeah, you should be careful.
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  If you punish that, you're going to go into, you know, you could
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  with, you know, with a with a potential terrorist, which, you
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  know, the Kanowski said that and it used to be hushish for that.
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  Any, you know, any air in the street might be a road if
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  because he might decide, you know, snap or might be, you
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  know, hunting you or I don't know what you know.
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  So then, yeah, I mean, you should be hushish for you.
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  You said if you're concerned about it.
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  Hey, it's straight, but the police can say that now
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  nowadays, meaning throughout the whatever.
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  I mean, we shouldn't could be, but nowadays we're not Koshish.
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  No more places you're not Koshish.
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  You go to New York City that unless you go to certain, you
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  know, bad areas, OK, whatever. But in general, you're not
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  Koshish for this thing. Gimel in his domino, but they're
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  Ovikhovim Khogor. Sigh.
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  If if you happen to be walking down the street and he's and
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  he's and he's wearing a sword TOEFL amino, he should go to his
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  right side 'cause he you know, in case he, you know, he, he
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  pulls out his sword. He can't, you know, he can't, he
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  can't, he can't go to a good swing.
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  Hayao because macho. The other toefl is small,
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  though, if he has a macho because a sword is is put on the
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  opposite side so they can go ahead and pull it out easy.
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  But a stick is just in the straight side.
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  So he should go to the other side.
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  Are you ordering by Leah? They're going going up a hill or
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  whatever, or stairs or you already be your reader.
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  Ladies, sell the Mata. He shouldn't be in the Mata, but
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  I can call it in the mouth 'cause maybe he'll kick him down
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  and we come back on tofu. Sassy amino.
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  Still, it's better to be by the right side more Lo Yishka had
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  the fun of Olam and should never, ever bow down in front of
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  him like we have by Yoav and Abner and Yoav, you know, don't
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  because yeah, it just it could be dangerous.
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  Yeah. This is one that used to have
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  swords now and nowadays, you know, if you're closer, should
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  they have guns? I don't know.
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  Shall low the Haitian Atta holy. He asked them where are you
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  going to in my like like it says by Yakov and ASA that he's if
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  he's asked where is he going? And this is also good.
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  It's a Gemara. Madras just says that the what's
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  that told them told them I'm going there and they waited for
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  there and then, although they're all waited for him there to to
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  attack him and you know, he did you know, he got out of it.
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  So that's what you should you should do.
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  I've got the Malcolm Shinagu Leilak Bamerica.
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  It's in a place where where they can go ahead and the same in a
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  place where they go to the bath house without wearing pants and
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  they go without clothes. Also they also to go to that
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  where the where the is bathing a room in.
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  You know, they get out of our e-mail you smell, but if he
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  smells in in the miracles already you both it's a caller
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  intercalotes then he doesn't have to leave.
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  Now the the basis of this is Pyrcata Velozer and the Pyrcata
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  velozer seems to be Mashva and this is the shock was with that
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  it's talking about two men to Hira Rama dark emotion says I
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  don't I don't really understand what you know was we don't do
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  two men to Hira nowadays. So he says so what's so so so he
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  says we're talking about so it used to be that people will that
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  people will wear bathing suits. They go to the bath house.
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  They want to walk around naked and the tile pushes this and he
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  says for him, the tile says during shooting during shooting
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  that that it's this Geely era that people walking around naked
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  that it's also to go ahead and be there because you people look
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  and it's glory. I'm here for it's Goran here or
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  people. It's something that the town
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  says the town says in Venezer also that people don't realize
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  people walk around. I don't know listen, Dominican
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  Mcvolis, the car is to be Mako, but you heard of the of the Jew
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  of the Jew. So what's the difference between
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  There isn't a difference. The town says it's all
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  completely austere Jew or Gori. People are walking around naked.
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  He says it's he says it's a person has to be Khashish for
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  here or and it's also unfortunate there the
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  assumption. Isn't the Jew is not.
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  Right. Or if he is, they're both naked
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  or if they're both naked, they're both naked.
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  It's a problem. According to the tiles, the
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  person goes to mikvah. He should cover himself up until
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  he gets into the mikvah. Or you know, he said that his
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  mother was showing him they, they did it because they didn't
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  work. But they weren't with Stock
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  Hill. They they were not.
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  These are those are Stock Hill. But now he says that.
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  So if you if you read that carefully, people read it wrong.
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  It says when, when he says only when he goes into the river,
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  then he should unclothe himself. When he walks out of the river,
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  he should cover himself. He shouldn't be boogalooing
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  because it sneeze. The only thing it says is that a
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  person when he's walking into he's going with his back with
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  his back turned, then he shouldn't go ahead.
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  He shouldn't be embarrassed, but it says you should.
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  But he should cover himself when he comes out says it look it up.
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  It says it pretty straight. People make a mistake and people
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  try to oh, you're embarrassed, whatever.
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  I don't know, but it's the tiles is pretty clear.
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  They're hoping on the tiles. They say nowadays we're not
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  hushes for Michigan soccer. So therefore, therefore it's OK
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  nowadays, meaning. There's no reason that you
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  should go in with the with the with your underwear.
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  You know with boxes. This is based on the.
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  Toss. Well, no, Never.
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  This is based on the toss. It's based on the toss.
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  It's whatever. And unfortunately the the
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  Shilohs are unfortunately there've been problems, there've
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  been problems, there have been problems.
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  Nowadays, now there's such a rule of of everything the the
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  the time is and I don't know what it's it's there've been
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  there's been issues. It's you know, I'll tell you to
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  go into the makeup with a with a with bathing suit.
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  I don't know. But but you know, nowadays you
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  have people have to be more. You know, this is the task.
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  People have to be more than than they are the tiles and they're
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  all dialect. Just do a dialect.
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  The Seattle. He should not the the the the.
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  The problem is of you could of you could like in like Euclid in
• 22:25
  like like in Evan and Azer, and that's since and since going up
• 22:29
  prutsim. So even if they're wiser with
• 22:31
  them, but nowadays, if they're wiser with them, we're not
• 22:34
  Koshish anymore and it's OK. But prutsim, even Robin, they
• 22:38
  have to be Koshish. Robin doesn't mean doesn't mean
• 22:41
  you walk into a into, you know, the street in Manhattan.
• 22:44
  You have to be worried. It means Robin means you have
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  56710 whatever in a, in a closed room, that there's what it wants
• 22:51
  to be closure to a Robin doesn't mean you walk into a square
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  square. But and that's, you know, the
• 22:59
  OK, that's totally whatever. But that's what seems to come
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  out. We'll stop here.